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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Alicia is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: She's been married to her husband Edward for three years,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can.

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Speaker 1: Help her out.

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Speaker 2: Sorry about that, Alicia, what's going on? Why do you

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Speaker 2: think that your husband Edward's cheating?

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Speaker 3: Hi, Well, I mean it's kind of a it's kind

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Speaker 3: of a bit of a story.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Well, we work for the same company, but we work

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Speaker 3: in at different departments, so we've never really had to

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Speaker 3: interact that much. I have a different boss in my

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Speaker 3: department and my husband, Edward is the boss in his department,

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Speaker 3: And you know, we're both very professional at work, and

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Speaker 3: we're very by the book. So when we come home,

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Speaker 3: we don't really talk very much about work, and it's

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Speaker 3: been good for us in the relationship, but sometimes it

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Speaker 3: can be a little a little boring. But you know,

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Speaker 3: we just don't really talk about our days, I guess

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Speaker 3: when we get home until about until about a month ago,

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Speaker 3: some things have just gotten sort of rocky in.

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Speaker 4: The past month, and my husband and I.

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Speaker 5: Have been going to therapy.

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Speaker 3: Trying to work with a therapist and then trying to

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Speaker 3: talk things. But it doesn't really feel like things are

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Speaker 3: getting better. It just feels like everything is sort of

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Speaker 3: plateaued and they've not gotten worse. And I just feel

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Speaker 3: like Edward, I don't know, he seems he's very detached.

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Speaker 3: He feels he seems like he's bored, like he just

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Speaker 3: wants to not come home or not really like talk

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Speaker 3: to me. And I feel like I've tried everything I

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Speaker 3: could think of to like spice things up and keep

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Speaker 3: him interested.

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Speaker 5: Are you bored? No, you know, I mean I've been we've.

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Speaker 4: Been married for a while while, you know, well not

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Speaker 5: But three years. So it's a long time to be married.

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Speaker 3: And you know, it's comfortable now, So I'm not really bored.

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Speaker 4: But I mean there are.

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Speaker 3: Times when things have gotten sort of complacent, but that

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Speaker 3: I think that's just life.

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Speaker 6: Sure, do you think that he's actually cheating on you

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Speaker 6: or do you think that because he's bored that he might.

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Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing is we you know, we both

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Speaker 3: take separate cars to work, even though we're going the

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Speaker 3: same place, but we both get home.

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Speaker 5: He usually gets home a little later. But now he's

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Speaker 5: been getting home, like a few hours later than he

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Speaker 3: And he's also been getting text from his secretary Lizzy

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Speaker 3: right before we go to bed at ten.

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Speaker 5: Eleven, which is pretty late for us.

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Speaker 3: And I've asked him, like, why does your secretary keep

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Speaker 5: What does she need to talk to you about? Like

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Speaker 5: eleven o'clock at night? And he says, oh, it's just work,

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Speaker 5: and he's right.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'll say, just stop talk, like, stop.

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Speaker 3: Being like that, like you're being crazy right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's very like he.

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Speaker 3: Just has like these prepared answers to kind of shoot

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Speaker 3: where I don't feel.

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Speaker 5: Comfortable talking about it.

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Speaker 3: But I don't think that's appropriate or that she probably

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Speaker 3: needs to text him that late.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I think you're I think you're right.

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Speaker 1: Does Lizzie know you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she knows me.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 6: I mean, coworkers don't need to be texting that late

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Speaker 6: unless you're working on a special project and it's like

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Speaker 6: a one time thing, but that's like not an everyday thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I mean, could he be working on a special project.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so, But it's I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: I think work is just normal as it's always been.

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Speaker 5: I don't think they have anything special going on right now.

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Speaker 3: But it's also just like the way he responds in

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Speaker 3: his tone whenever I ask him about it, he gets

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not a good defensive and this is usually not

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Speaker 2: a good sign when it comes to that.

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store you guys are

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Speaker 2: rewards card members at, So we'll call pretend to be

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Speaker 2: from the grocery store and say that every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that they want, and we'll see if

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Speaker 2: he sends us to here or somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, thank you, play a song.

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Speaker 2: Come back and get your to catch teeter next right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of you to catch a teter if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us. Alicia is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she thinks that her husband of three years, Edward, might

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Speaker 2: be cheating. So we're about to call him and pretend

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Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards

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Speaker 2: member at, and tell him that every single month, we

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Speaker 2: choose one Lucky Rewards member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends

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Speaker 2: those to his wife, Alicia or to somebody else. But first, Alicia,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh our memory of your situation?

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Speaker 4: My husband and I.

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Speaker 3: Have been having problems lately, has been going to therapy and.

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Speaker 5: Thanks, it's gotten worse that they haven't really gotten better.

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Speaker 5: And lately he hasn't.

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Speaker 3: Been coming home from work right away, and he's been

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Speaker 3: getting checks from his secretary pretty late at night and

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Speaker 3: won't tell me what they're about, and gets pretty defensive

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Speaker 3: when I ask him, Oh, just wondering what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, see if we can find out for you.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is corrible calling from SO. I was

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Speaker 2: looking for a Rewards Card member named Edward.

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Speaker 1: Yes speaking Hi Edward.

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congrats here this month's big winner.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I must be Uh must be my lucky day.

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Speaker 1: I win the flowers.

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Lucky Rewards Card member

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Speaker 2: at random to say thank you very much for being

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Speaker 2: a customer and chopping with us. You've won thirty six

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Speaker 2: long stim red roses, a box of candy or chocolate,

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Speaker 2: and a card to be delivered to anybody that you

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Speaker 2: want within the fifty United States. It's a three hundred

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Speaker 2: and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 7: Actually wow okay, yeah, no, thank you, thank you. I'm

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Speaker 7: in Yeah. Can I tell you who to make it

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Speaker 7: up to?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Let me get my form pulled up then, and okay,

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Speaker 2: first thing I'll need is the first and last name

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Speaker 2: of the person you want to send them to.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, make it.

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Speaker 5: Up to Lizzy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great, I will do that.

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Speaker 2: And is there anything you would like to put on

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Speaker 2: a card before I get the address and stuff?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, put Alicia.

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Speaker 7: I listened to the show too, and Lizzy is my

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Speaker 7: free pass.

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Speaker 1: Okay, whoa, what.

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Speaker 7: Are you serious right now? Putting me on the show?

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Speaker 7: Putting me on blast? You know I listened to the show.

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Speaker 7: I know your voice, buddy.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you for this show. Yeah, thank you for

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Speaker 1: listening to the show. Obviously.

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Speaker 2: Then you know your wife is on the phone, Alicia

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Speaker 2: and suspects that you might be messing around, so you

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Speaker 2: are yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I'm cheating on you with Lizzy. I'm cheating

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Speaker 7: on with you with Lizzia and don't mean anything.

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Speaker 5: All right, listen, it's just my It was cool.

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Speaker 7: But guess what, she's my past because you cheated first,

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Speaker 7: and you know this.

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Speaker 5: Did did she tell you that? Did she tell you

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Speaker 5: that she's a cheater? Did she tell.

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Speaker 1: You let them know?

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Speaker 5: Lisha?

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Speaker 3: Do you want Selmer shut that Alicia had sex with her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Two months ago. Do you know how I found out?

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Speaker 5: We drive separate.

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Speaker 7: So one day I came home, I found a condom

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Speaker 7: wrapper in the waste basket next to the bed in

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Speaker 7: my back.

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Speaker 1: All right, do you think we use condoms?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So then I'm ashamed.

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Speaker 7: I felt being being cuckled by my my, your boss.

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Speaker 1: Her boss.

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Speaker 3: So the way you deal with it is to cheat

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Speaker 3: on me with your secretary.

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Speaker 4: That's the way I deal with it, your secretary.

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Speaker 5: That's so cliche. Yeah, that's the way that you deal

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Speaker 3: To get back at me.

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Speaker 7: Oh, give me a break, Like we haven't gone to therapy,

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Speaker 7: Like we haven't gone through this that you owe me.

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Speaker 7: You admitted that we talked about having a free past.

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Speaker 7: Guess what Lizzie is mine. I tried to be a

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Speaker 7: little bit doubt it. Yeah, I was kind of, But

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Speaker 7: for you to get mad about it, let alone go

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Speaker 7: on the radio and call it out.

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Speaker 5: Are you kidding me? Alicia?

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Speaker 1: You hypocrite?

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Speaker 6: So you lied about it, and it kind of doesn't

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Speaker 6: make it better that you just didn't see it.

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Speaker 1: But Alicia, you don't know. I mean, it.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like you know you guys obviously have a lot

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Speaker 2: to talk about or to not talk about it anymore.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you should just try to make it

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Speaker 3: an eye for an eye and get back at me

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Speaker 3: sleeping with your secretary and then lying to me about it.

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Speaker 7: You were fine with an eye for an eye. You

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Speaker 7: said you owed me all right, Do I have a

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Speaker 7: free pass or not?

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Speaker 6: Well, you should have just told her that you have,

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Speaker 6: that you were taking advantage of the past. I mean

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Speaker 6: at that point, no.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry if I made you so humiliated or called

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Speaker 3: you out.

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Speaker 5: That was not what I wanted to do.

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Speaker 3: I just felt like you weren't talking to me and

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Speaker 3: you couldn't tell me what.

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Speaker 5: Was going on.

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Speaker 3: If you wanted a free pass, why didn't you have

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Speaker 3: this conversation with me?

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Speaker 1: Did you have a conversation with me before you cheated.

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Speaker 5: Do you think I wanted any of this?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Alicia, you know you got your answer.

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Speaker 3: I just talk about this off the year when we

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Speaker 3: go home. I mean, I love you.

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Speaker 5: And I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to keep fighting with you.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys want to be together.

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Speaker 7: I didn't enjoy being with Lizzie. It was a one

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Speaker 7: time thing, and i'm i'm, i'm, I'm calling it off.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do it again.

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Speaker 7: I only did it because I felt like I had

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Speaker 7: to gain some kind of control all right back in

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Speaker 1: But no, you're who I want to be with and

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Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate everything about it.

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Speaker 5: I love you.

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Speaker 4: I love you too.

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Speaker 2: We wouldn't give up on the Yeah, it's really good.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you guys have something to talk about

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Speaker 2: now in therapy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, okay, good luck. I hope you work it out.

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Speaker 1: I do me too. I'm glad you guys have love there.

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Speaker 5: Cool.

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Speaker 1: Thanks Lockez, appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I love you. Accord. You will shows to

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Speaker 5: catch a cheater.