Speaker 1: What's up. It's Angela, it's lip service. I'm Stephanie Santiago,
Speaker 1: I'm G G McGuire. Okay, and we have a very
Speaker 1: special guest with us today, Natalie de Donato, not d
Speaker 1: right from my wives from Philly. Hey, girl, what's up?
Speaker 1: You don't know each other from Philly? Because I know
Speaker 1: G knows everybody in Philly. We know a few of
Speaker 1: the same people in Philly, and we recently connected on
Speaker 1: some business ship. So okay, I ended up with her
Speaker 1: coming to chill with us today. Are we allowed to
Speaker 1: know what kind of business this is? Well? I am
Speaker 1: part of a booking and branding or booking company, booking
Speaker 1: agency and branding brand management company called Interletics and um
Speaker 1: that is one of our prospective clients. Okay, yes, oh, alright,
Speaker 1: so much money for us. So we work our way
Speaker 1: up to the Angela break it yet, but we will wait. Now,
Speaker 1: hold on a second. I have no problem with that.
Speaker 1: I want to get down with this antletics and Atletics.
Speaker 1: We talk about that later, all right. Now, we started
Speaker 1: a flip service at the tip of the day always,
Speaker 1: So today's tip is what is the appropriate amount of
Speaker 1: time that you should wait before you publicly move on
Speaker 1: with somebody. Okay, you know you've been dating somebody publicly,
Speaker 1: and sometimes you jump right into another relationship and then
Speaker 1: everybody has things to say. What do you think it's
Speaker 1: the right amount of time to wait before you move
Speaker 1: on when you feel the need, right, I think everybody
Speaker 1: has their own timing. I think at least you do
Speaker 1: a month, though, don't be jumping the gun quick with it,
Speaker 1: because you know, sometimes you speak too fast and then
Speaker 1: things don't work out. You're like what, and then you
Speaker 1: feel stupid. Man. I was with my son's father for
Speaker 1: seven and a half years and we were broken up
Speaker 1: for two months and he was already in a serious
Speaker 1: relationship with somebody else promoting it though. Yeah, they were
Speaker 1: all over the internet. I was like really, I was like,
Speaker 1: it's all good because my side nigga that became my
Speaker 1: main nigga, was all right, he was, yeah, And I
Speaker 1: for you, what was the best time period for you? Though,
Speaker 1: like from me, it would have to be at least
Speaker 1: a month. You really don't get to know somebody so
Speaker 1: full year if you think about it, you know, right.
Speaker 1: I also think sometimes girls had to move on quick
Speaker 1: because they see their man moved on quick, so they
Speaker 1: see him at with somebody. And I do believe that
Speaker 1: men do things and they don't get judged obviously the
Speaker 1: same way that we do, right, But there's nothing like
Speaker 1: a female that can stand on our own and don't
Speaker 1: even need to split anybody like you just sometimes some
Speaker 1: things are better left, you know, I personally am more
Speaker 1: when it comes to my personal life. I don't put
Speaker 1: all that stuff on social media. I feel like there's
Speaker 1: always like bitches that hate so bad and always try
Speaker 1: and bring you down. So I trying to keep myself
Speaker 1: like more. In the in the cut, I say this,
Speaker 1: I waited, Um, I waited two and a half years
Speaker 1: before I went public. I was in a serious relationship
Speaker 1: before my last serious relationship with somebody else that wasn't
Speaker 1: my son's father, and I didn't go public with that
Speaker 1: relationship because I felt like it was too soon. But
Speaker 1: I was publicly in another relationship two and a half
Speaker 1: years later. Okay, with two and half years that really bad,
Speaker 1: so bad, because like even if you look at say
Speaker 1: Kylie Jennet right out right, her and Tiger broke up
Speaker 1: and then she was with a party next door like
Speaker 1: immediately after and we're like, damn, maybe you should wait
Speaker 1: a second, you know what I mean? But did we
Speaker 1: look at party next door and said you was just
Speaker 1: with Kalani? I feel like you do what you want
Speaker 1: to do when you feel like the time is right
Speaker 1: for you, and you really shouldn't worried about worry about
Speaker 1: what other people have to say about it, especially those
Speaker 1: random people that are in your comments business. Now, have
Speaker 1: any of you ever dated a guy who wears a
Speaker 1: suit to work every day? I was just thinking about
Speaker 1: this because I was outside his hat out and there's
Speaker 1: a lot of guys walking around wearing suits, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't know if I've ever dated
Speaker 1: a guy who had to wear a suit to work
Speaker 1: every day? Yes? I have? You have, so, yeah, you
Speaker 1: might be the only one in the room. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: dated a guy that had to wear a suit to court.
Speaker 1: My guy has to wear a suit to work sometimes
Speaker 1: when he has to go to a lot. I think
Speaker 1: he looks really good when he were to suit Grammys,
Speaker 1: So once the year, his tucks. When he goes to
Speaker 1: the Grammys or to like an important like you know,
Speaker 1: event or dinner, he'll have to get dressed up in
Speaker 1: the suit, and I think it's sexy. You think it
Speaker 1: sexy if you could switch up. I like a little
Speaker 1: bit of a thug and somebody that's like tight and
Speaker 1: proper as well, Like there's nothing sexy. I mean, I
Speaker 1: mean I put on it a Zeppie shoo, Gucci shoe on,
Speaker 1: Hugo ball suit like unfitted European suit. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think that's sexy sex when a guy was a cheap,
Speaker 1: ill fitting suit like suck up him suit, ye anywhere period.
Speaker 1: Stephanie was your man hat when he had on the
Speaker 1: suit in court? Um the last time I saw him
Speaker 1: in the suit? If it him kind of big, look
Speaker 1: that's bad. Yeah, remember Lebron many years ago, but he
Speaker 1: had so did um Carmelo on the red carpet with
Speaker 1: none of that. I mean, I kind of like my
Speaker 1: last boyfriend what I had, and you know, like a
Speaker 1: white tea on and Timber lambots. I don't he looked
Speaker 1: weird like his I didn't like the way he looked
Speaker 1: like he was going to jail. But then you are,
Speaker 1: do you really want a guy that like, I don't
Speaker 1: want my boyfriend walking around wearing no wife beater and
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Either I like when I like when
Speaker 1: guys how to dress. I like you guys, but I
Speaker 1: like a man that takes pride and he's like the
Speaker 1: way he dressed me like someone got my fly. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: I like it and dressed up. Take some pride in
Speaker 1: your appearance. Guy, Absolutely don't be wearing like white beaters,
Speaker 1: some sweatpants or sneakers like even that I looked at
Speaker 1: like dick sneakers like terrible, like dirty sneaker. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: or choked out like no, I can't. I'm a strange.
Speaker 1: I like one. I like to see um, I like
Speaker 1: to see my favorite boyfriend and his basketball favorite person
Speaker 1: or and I like like I like when I can
Speaker 1: see my guys like yeah, I like when I'm in
Speaker 1: his home saying he's like he's like walking around. I'll
Speaker 1: be like, oh, bib can give me some water, and
Speaker 1: he's like gets some to go get the water. And
Speaker 1: I could see like his dick friend showing through his
Speaker 1: sweats when he's coming back, Like that's like that's like
Speaker 1: their camel too, right, Yeah, that's the man's version of baby.
Speaker 1: What about guys with a little but you like guys
Speaker 1: that have like a little rustled by body. I don't
Speaker 1: like a guy with a flat ass that's like a
Speaker 1: flat back and matches his button what. I don't like it.
Speaker 1: It reminds me of like, how about being bed guy
Speaker 1: with himps? Yea, you ever had a guy with hips?
Speaker 1: I haven't eaten what I like. I've seen a few
Speaker 1: guys they had hips, like yo, that nigga guy hip
Speaker 1: before hips to me and hold on to I like
Speaker 1: a guy with a muscle. But yeah, because it's fair
Speaker 1: that the muscle. Have any of you ever been engaged before?
Speaker 1: We were talking about engagements? Yeah you have? How many times?
Speaker 1: I was engaged? Three times? Saying wow, yeah, yeah, three
Speaker 1: different rings too. We got married. I was with him
Speaker 1: for twelve years. It was like a night Mary. We
Speaker 1: killed each other, like rand each other over, like yeah,
Speaker 1: like it was crazy, ran each other. Oh I ran
Speaker 1: him over? Yeah? And then yeah, let's go back a
Speaker 1: little bit. So first engagement, why did y'all call Why
Speaker 1: did you call it? We were young? He was my
Speaker 1: high school sweetheart, so I was young. I was like
Speaker 1: the first time, like, he tried to step it up
Speaker 1: so much. It was like a four It was a
Speaker 1: four carrot ring and I was twenty three years old.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, and then um, I just
Speaker 1: it was too intense. The second time he got called
Speaker 1: cheat and like going to a Gisha house. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I called wash the happy ending is that in Philly?
Speaker 1: The house in New York Like okay, okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you pay to get your dick socked. They called it
Speaker 1: the washing and Philly. Most men they do do that
Speaker 1: ship And you can girls cold to the Washy Washy
Speaker 1: and Philly. I mean you can go to Yeah, we
Speaker 1: should go here. I mean I don't want to go.
Speaker 1: They ain't got no you know what I'm saying. This
Speaker 1: is another woman. Yeah, so what she massage pussy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't the right amount of money or play with
Speaker 1: you and stuff like that. But is that something you're
Speaker 1: able to forgive a guy just paying on women for
Speaker 1: a service like that? Yeah, I got over it. I mean,
Speaker 1: for the most part, we were young. He was young.
Speaker 1: I mean we were We've been through a lot. So
Speaker 1: I got over that. And then um, back back to that,
Speaker 1: what if he just gets a hand job, That's what
Speaker 1: he said he was getting. And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: sure you were whatever. They nobody getting no hand job.
Speaker 1: Come on with that bullshit. And that's what you got.
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you need to feel the need
Speaker 1: to go pay for some pussy, we can just role
Speaker 1: play and you can pay me. That's some fucking look me,
Speaker 1: it's Harvard me and roll play. I'll put on whatever
Speaker 1: little costume, I'll dress up with whoever you want me
Speaker 1: to be, and if you feel like paying for some pussy,
Speaker 1: we can role play. But the thing is is like
Speaker 1: I'm not even trying to like drain his balls like
Speaker 1: four times a week. So it's like how much you
Speaker 1: want to funk? Like you know, how many more? How
Speaker 1: many more? Like damn? What then are you going to?
Speaker 1: But you know what, men and women are different when
Speaker 1: it comes to things like that, because I do feel
Speaker 1: like men like variety more than we did, Like they
Speaker 1: ran the pussy like men most men do, and they
Speaker 1: don't give a pussy has no face. A lot of
Speaker 1: guys say, like, I've worked with a lot of guys
Speaker 1: and every one of them, unfortunately all gonna kill me
Speaker 1: if you hear the ship. But they they're all been like, yo,
Speaker 1: ain't got the face. I'm like, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Does that mean you're fucking five or four? You know
Speaker 1: what that means, you know, look at Holly Berry. She
Speaker 1: was a bad she's a bad bit, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and she doesn't buy the best of them. Right.
Speaker 1: But listen, everybody, I think it don't even matter as
Speaker 1: a woman, how great you are. I felt a man.
Speaker 1: I was destroyed over Distraught would be a better word.
Speaker 1: I was distraught over it. But you know, with time
Speaker 1: and we got back, we got mad. Would you have
Speaker 1: to feel better if he was honest and was like okay,
Speaker 1: instead of just saying you gotta hands up, if he
Speaker 1: was like I'm gonna be I don't think anybody could
Speaker 1: prepare for something like that. Either way, it's harsh news,
Speaker 1: like it's your man, like, I'm very like I don't
Speaker 1: want to share in my dick, like if I love
Speaker 1: somebody that's sucking not even like no, it's because we
Speaker 1: say we say we wouldn't know the truth. Do we
Speaker 1: really want to know the truth. I think some things
Speaker 1: you can't prepare for, you know, because I know, like
Speaker 1: a lot of us have been through some things here
Speaker 1: like geez, I'm sure you guys, you and your relationship
Speaker 1: breaking again back together, you'll both have to come clean
Speaker 1: about a lot of things. Do you feel like you'd
Speaker 1: have been better off not knowing certain things? Um, I'm
Speaker 1: glad I know everything that I know, and I'm sure
Speaker 1: there's some stuff that happened that I don't know about.
Speaker 1: But guess what was done in the dark will always
Speaker 1: come in to light and it's gonna come full circle
Speaker 1: soon or later, because that's a hard thing to figure
Speaker 1: out if you do something right. Because what's hard about
Speaker 1: that is if you do something sucked up right and
Speaker 1: you cheat and you get caught, do you then have
Speaker 1: to tell everything and just kind of cleanse yourself and
Speaker 1: tell it all? Or do you not tell everything I
Speaker 1: don't know about tell everything that wasn't me. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know about admitting anything. I mean only what they
Speaker 1: want you to like. Whatever they know, I will play
Speaker 1: that out. I just think that some things are I
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I feel like, um, you should tell
Speaker 1: things that they're gonna find out about things. You know
Speaker 1: that something you don't know if they're going to find exactly.
Speaker 1: And then if you get into a situation where there's
Speaker 1: something you didn't something but he's about to find out,
Speaker 1: tell him then. But I don't feel like you should
Speaker 1: dave his face, like, so you just feel embarrassment for him, Like, um, like,
Speaker 1: have you ever dated somebody and they're like, oh, how
Speaker 1: many guys have you had sex with? No, because that's
Speaker 1: a stupid ass question. I mean I've done I've dated
Speaker 1: some people that have left. I would never how many
Speaker 1: sex I had a guy. I had a guy that
Speaker 1: I was just talking to. I never even slept with
Speaker 1: this guy, and he was, um, he was an athlete.
Speaker 1: I never even slept with him. And he went down
Speaker 1: the list of all the like famous people he'd been with.
Speaker 1: Why what do you think? He definitely is insecure. I
Speaker 1: was that the fucking shut it up glow. That's a
Speaker 1: whack motherfucker right there. You're gonna have some issues with that.
Speaker 1: That's a name dropper. I was like, I'm never gonna
Speaker 1: And that's so corny because then he's gonna tell everybody
Speaker 1: after Bragger And he wasn't even like he was kind
Speaker 1: of corny. But you know a lot of these athletic
Speaker 1: sites to be corny there. Let me tell you. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you something, just because you have an athletic
Speaker 1: talent and you make it to the pros because not
Speaker 1: and you have a lot of money that does not
Speaker 1: take away your lameness that you can still be a
Speaker 1: lame ass fuck boy digging a booty ask nigga. You
Speaker 1: guys with a lot of money and very talents, and
Speaker 1: it also could because you never developed your social skills
Speaker 1: so much exactly because you were playing your sport all
Speaker 1: the time and you were in school. You know you
Speaker 1: counted or not. Whatever reason. Just know that just because
Speaker 1: you have a contract and a lot of money don't
Speaker 1: make you a real nigga. Just be a lame There's
Speaker 1: a lot of them out there, trust me and like,
Speaker 1: and you'd be surprised, like a lot of like football players.
Speaker 1: Football is my favorite sport, is the only sport I
Speaker 1: really follow, and you know, like it's an intense sport.
Speaker 1: They're really killing each other the whole time. And you'll
Speaker 1: be surprised that some of these guys are pussy off
Speaker 1: the field, like they're scary, like they're scared to come out.
Speaker 1: They like like I like, I'm like, I'm I'm friends
Speaker 1: like I have like this is the guy, Like the
Speaker 1: guy that I'm I'm friends with. He he really impresses
Speaker 1: me because like he fights. He will fund somebody up
Speaker 1: on site anywhere you know what I mean, and everybody
Speaker 1: looks at him. She's a pretty boy and he's scary,
Speaker 1: but he really fights, you know, But I don't like
Speaker 1: that all the time. Now he don't fight all the time,
Speaker 1: but he won't let nobody you know him, Like you
Speaker 1: don't let people punking out. Sometimes people be having too
Speaker 1: quick of a temper and they could just easily avoid
Speaker 1: a situation, right they could get don't like, don't don't
Speaker 1: basically put me in those situations. I don't want to
Speaker 1: subject me, right. But I remember one time I was
Speaker 1: in where it was. I was in Tampa. One of
Speaker 1: my home girls, she was dating one of the one
Speaker 1: of the Bucks, one of the guys from the Bucks,
Speaker 1: and he um, we went out and this guy like
Speaker 1: really suck at him like he was scared. He's big
Speaker 1: as football player and he was like scared of the fans.
Speaker 1: So when we were all like what the hell is
Speaker 1: going on here? It was kind of weird. It's like
Speaker 1: you you like, he's like no, He's like, no, be fighting.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, ship were not, Natalie, Let's talk
Speaker 1: about how you got over because you said all right,
Speaker 1: So the second time then you guys ended up getting
Speaker 1: married so you forgave him because you figured you guys
Speaker 1: were both young. I'm not no angel I the ship
Speaker 1: to you know what I'm saying, Like, um, you know
Speaker 1: it wasn't like tip for tap, but after a while,
Speaker 1: you know, you know eventually you're just gonna go out
Speaker 1: and do your things. Was it harder for him to
Speaker 1: get over it? Yeah? Because I was like, man, it's plightful,
Speaker 1: you know, not like I would never do the friend thing.
Speaker 1: I don't do that. There's there's like bialy sans and
Speaker 1: certain code you don't break. And just for me as
Speaker 1: a person, I have my own rules. But would you say,
Speaker 1: are the rules like you should never go with like
Speaker 1: your man's friend, Like you don't do the crew at
Speaker 1: a street smart move, that's law, and yeah, you just don't.
Speaker 1: And even acquaintances like that should whack like it is
Speaker 1: or enemies it is even worse for sure. Yeah about that,
Speaker 1: like yourself, you look bad. And my son's father slept
Speaker 1: with one of my friends while we were on a breakup,
Speaker 1: and you know, he's like, what are you gonna do
Speaker 1: now one of my friends? And I'm like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna suk one of your friends. One I went
Speaker 1: and do that. I wouldn't disrespect my own pussy like that.
Speaker 1: And so all your friends are cornballs. I don't want
Speaker 1: to give none of them. Get one out of all
Speaker 1: your corny gass friends. And anything you don't do when
Speaker 1: you break up with somebody is tell their business to
Speaker 1: other people. Well, it shows the lack of yourself, like
Speaker 1: you look like you have leaking to the mouth, like
Speaker 1: you don't know loyalty, saying like I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just think that you have to have your own rules.
Speaker 1: But for him, it was harder because some guys, it
Speaker 1: feels though, especially I hate to say this, but predominantly
Speaker 1: Italian men are very controlling and some of them really
Speaker 1: feel like that woman should be in the house clucking
Speaker 1: their their food, you know, waiting for them to go
Speaker 1: coming from work, and you know, ship happens, you're supposed
Speaker 1: to just kind of eat it. It's sad, but I
Speaker 1: have to say most of Italian guys are really like that,
Speaker 1: especially once from South Philly. Those South Philly Italians is
Speaker 1: a whole different breed of the chime. Yeah I had.
Speaker 1: I've had my fair share of them in my past,
Speaker 1: and they don't work around. I had this one Italian.
Speaker 1: He was a piece of work. What does that mean?
Speaker 1: He was? He was just he was like really bossy,
Speaker 1: and he was kind of like intimidating. And I was
Speaker 1: really young, and I was just like, you know, this
Speaker 1: is when I thought I was white, So I was yeah,
Speaker 1: so I was going through my whole white girl phase
Speaker 1: and I was just really happy to have a white boyfriend.
Speaker 1: But do you think it's a turn on that one
Speaker 1: guys kind of a powerful and buss he liked that
Speaker 1: and take charge. I think that there are some situations
Speaker 1: where the man has to be the man, and I
Speaker 1: definitely don't want a bitch, Like I don't want to
Speaker 1: dude where I gotta run you and tell you how
Speaker 1: to fund me or I tell you how to be
Speaker 1: like a man. I like a man that has a lineup,
Speaker 1: Like if you want to take me out, he knows
Speaker 1: what to do, how to do it, And that to
Speaker 1: me is just like, you know, it's kind of like
Speaker 1: a turnal and like there has to be bad though,
Speaker 1: I don't want to orchestrate everything, like nothing's better that
Speaker 1: guy knows how to pick a restaurant, right, Ben, we're
Speaker 1: gonna go, where do you want to go? What do
Speaker 1: you want to do? Like, I can't see a guy
Speaker 1: that You could be like I want to eat it,
Speaker 1: and he would like, let's do it. Like anything you said,
Speaker 1: he'd be like, oh, I love that too. Issues And
Speaker 1: it could be you could be on a straight up
Speaker 1: stretch and this dude has no personality. You could just
Speaker 1: tell anything you say. It's like, I don't know, that's funny.
Speaker 1: We were just talking about that um in the other
Speaker 1: room while we were waiting to get started. We were saying,
Speaker 1: if you meet a guy and you're like okay, and
Speaker 1: he's like, what do you want to do? And you
Speaker 1: tell him I want you to take me out to NOBU?
Speaker 1: Does that mean that? And this is your first date
Speaker 1: and you tell him that's where you want to go,
Speaker 1: do you expect him to pay for you? Or did
Speaker 1: you ask him out and now you got to pay
Speaker 1: for him? I think, as a man and a gentleman,
Speaker 1: I think that it's a no brainer for him to
Speaker 1: go in his pocket. I mean, you know, you, being
Speaker 1: a woman of your stature, you should always have some
Speaker 1: bright on you just in case, so don't show yourself short.
Speaker 1: But for the most part, I think if you were
Speaker 1: to pull out I think he should take the lead
Speaker 1: to be like, I got this. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's it's a it's a couple of dollars for some food.
Speaker 1: Like you, you pull out some money just to see
Speaker 1: what he's gonna do. Some guys offer, some guys. Some guys.
Speaker 1: I know a few guys that rather we're dating or not,
Speaker 1: we just won't let me go on my pocket number, right,
Speaker 1: I try to stay away from people the other other way,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, but yeah, but doesn't let anybody
Speaker 1: pay for anything? No, never ever, Ever, when I think
Speaker 1: that shows up everybody's everything. I think that shows such
Speaker 1: a strong like from a good upbringing to like just
Speaker 1: or or just being gathered like I don't know, I
Speaker 1: just think that's a very strong move and it's a
Speaker 1: good impression. Leave. I don't know the money is everything,
Speaker 1: but I just think it's a it's a clay. It's
Speaker 1: a classy move like it is. Does he have to
Speaker 1: pay for your friends to know? But if he wanted
Speaker 1: to and he just did, that's it goes a long way.
Speaker 1: I mean, my friends will pay their own way for sure,
Speaker 1: but I mean me personally, you're my boyfriends X husband like,
Speaker 1: I don't know any other way, Like I just that's
Speaker 1: the way it's always been. One of my friends was
Speaker 1: mad that her friends she took her boyfriend out, and
Speaker 1: her friends were mad that her boyfriend didn't pay for them.
Speaker 1: It was him and like two of her friends, and
Speaker 1: he paid for him and her I didn't pay for her.
Speaker 1: She was I mean, I don't think he knew them
Speaker 1: that well, but they felt like it was wrong for
Speaker 1: him to know. It depends on the position he is
Speaker 1: financially not he might not ahead. I mean, you can't.
Speaker 1: Some people really don't put then want to put on
Speaker 1: that front and what the right? What about when your
Speaker 1: friends have a birthday dinner, they invite you to your
Speaker 1: birthday dinner, shauld you drop three hundred and fifty dollars?
Speaker 1: I think that's extreme. I don't think anybody should have
Speaker 1: a birthday party like you have. If you invite your
Speaker 1: friends to a birthday dinner, let's say, um, that's something
Speaker 1: basic for and everybody. The split comes out to three
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars a person. See, I feel as
Speaker 1: though children some people have kids, though, like I think
Speaker 1: that could be a little expensive. But I think you
Speaker 1: let people know in advance is what's important. You tell them, Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a dinner, and you do a prefix
Speaker 1: and you say it's gonna be this amount of person
Speaker 1: and drinks. If you buy drinks, you know that's something
Speaker 1: you But you have to let people know. Now, y'all know,
Speaker 1: if you come to dinner for me and it's my birthday,
Speaker 1: nobody's paying. Nobody's paying for anything. But I wouldn't invite
Speaker 1: anybody to my birthday dinner if they had to pay.
Speaker 1: But everybody doesn't have it like that. Everybody doesn't don't
Speaker 1: talk about you. Yeah, some they're gonna be some bitches
Speaker 1: you know, are your friends. They're gonna make sure you
Speaker 1: believe that that stuff. She thinks she just ship shed
Speaker 1: three right, and I do think and they're going to
Speaker 1: do it. It's kind of really sometimes to do that
Speaker 1: to people if they can't afford it, don't have a
Speaker 1: dinner that's really expensive. If you know some of your
Speaker 1: friends don't have it like that, definitely awkward because one
Speaker 1: time my friend, um, she invited did us to dinner.
Speaker 1: It was me and my last boyfriend, and you already
Speaker 1: know that's what the guy all boyfriend and you know,
Speaker 1: the bill came back and it was three hundred and
Speaker 1: fifty dollars for each of us, and I paid for it.
Speaker 1: I ended up paying for it. He gave me back
Speaker 1: the money, but I ended up paying for it. That night.
Speaker 1: He did give me back the money. He gave me
Speaker 1: back the full amount of money. In a situation like that,
Speaker 1: you feel obligated. Yeah, yeah, and it was my friend
Speaker 1: and no, I wasn't gonna he forced me to take
Speaker 1: back the money. I didn't even want to take back
Speaker 1: the money, you know, because I invited him, but he
Speaker 1: like he we had an argument and he put the
Speaker 1: money in my drawer and made and left. We were arguing,
Speaker 1: like he came up to two pages exactly so, but
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, um, he's like who invites
Speaker 1: people to a birthday thenner and then got to pay
Speaker 1: for it? Like he was kind of he was like
Speaker 1: taking it back, while you're like, I mean, it happens,
Speaker 1: but I think you just have to be conscious of
Speaker 1: who you're inviting. Like, if I have a bunch of
Speaker 1: friends and everybody gotta pay for himself, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: go someplace really expensive. Now if the dinner is paid
Speaker 1: for sky's the limit, you know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure everybody's good, but be aware. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to talk about well because he was
Speaker 1: just thinking about that dinner and you know, I just
Speaker 1: he was thinking about it. Now. It didn't bother me.
Speaker 1: I I didn't end up, but it made me feel
Speaker 1: bad that what if your boyfriend embarrassed money from you, like,
Speaker 1: oh you can you just give me this right now
Speaker 1: just because he doesn't have it on him or whatever,
Speaker 1: and then never brings it up again. It doesn't pay
Speaker 1: you that super gross like that throw up in my
Speaker 1: mouth and eat it again, and I'm I'm so terrible,
Speaker 1: Like it's one thing. It would really irk I offer
Speaker 1: if I offer to give you something that's different, like
Speaker 1: if I'm like, oh here I have it, take this,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But if you ask me
Speaker 1: to borrow something like I am a real crazy mega
Speaker 1: bit you know what I mean. As soon as you
Speaker 1: do something, I guess on my nerves. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: can you do me a favor? And but this flight
Speaker 1: for me, he's you know, ready for this. I'm dating
Speaker 1: this guy. We're dating like two months. It's intense, so
Speaker 1: he just long story short, I wind up getting my
Speaker 1: car stopped. I had had a booking in d C.
Speaker 1: My car, brand new car never stopped. I don't know
Speaker 1: what stopped the middlefucking parkway. Long story short, I needed
Speaker 1: something went on with the engine. Will they get the car?
Speaker 1: Told it costs like two thousand dollars, like from DC
Speaker 1: to Philly he paid for willingly, Fine, you got that.
Speaker 1: We go to the Catalect dealership where he gets his
Speaker 1: car done. He's like, oh, they gotta steal my car.
Speaker 1: He's like, I left my will at home. You got
Speaker 1: five Hunter on you. I'm like, yeah, all day, I
Speaker 1: got it, no problem, Like go my bag, given the
Speaker 1: five Hunter. All right. Two days go by, dude, don't
Speaker 1: say nothing about the five Hunter, And like three days
Speaker 1: go by, a whole week goes by, two weeks goes by.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, what's up with that five Hunter. I
Speaker 1: don't need to be a dick or not them, but like,
Speaker 1: you know, like I took it up my bank account
Speaker 1: and gave it to you, you know, And he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: he's like I just thought, you know. I was like
Speaker 1: you thought what? Because you you you got me on
Speaker 1: the two thousand that like I owe you money, like
Speaker 1: I just want to know, like did you do a
Speaker 1: favor for a favor? And I made it like motherfucker,
Speaker 1: I'll kill you like I want that five hunter. And
Speaker 1: I got that five hunter because the steam was coming
Speaker 1: out of every hole in my body and I was like,
Speaker 1: you'd better die, like I want that five hunter because
Speaker 1: that's sucking sucked up. And he he was basically burning.
Speaker 1: He had like alligator arms giving it back, like his
Speaker 1: arms are like this. I was like, yeah, I felt
Speaker 1: some type of way though at that moment, I was
Speaker 1: convinced that this dude's the sucker, like I see, I
Speaker 1: just wantn't feeling that I hate asking people for money
Speaker 1: back like I don't. It's it's the fun out of yours,
Speaker 1: because I'd be I'll be mad, but I won't say
Speaker 1: that's enough for you for you to go out of
Speaker 1: your way and lend it to put somebody in a
Speaker 1: position to be able to be in that position. But
Speaker 1: it's their obligation to give it back to you. And
Speaker 1: you sure that mentioned shit about getting back. That's a
Speaker 1: disrespectful tactic towards you some people, because some people might
Speaker 1: just forget no if it's a you're not forgetting because
Speaker 1: I have that's a major favor. She's one of my
Speaker 1: best fans, and she always borrows money and forgets about it.
Speaker 1: And she don't do it on purpose. I know she doesn't.
Speaker 1: She'd be playing because she's the type of person that
Speaker 1: will give you anything, and she is forgetful like that.
Speaker 1: So she might be like, oh my god, you know,
Speaker 1: can you dad? And you give it to her, but
Speaker 1: I don't, like, I would never even ask her for
Speaker 1: it back. But I feel like she really does forget.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's hoping you forget because you don't really like that. Now,
Speaker 1: what about guys who don't tip? Well, you ever went
Speaker 1: out with somebody? Yeah? Where I want to go to
Speaker 1: funk home right now? I want to die, like because
Speaker 1: I don't like cheat people allergic absolutely, And that's one
Speaker 1: of the moms when you get on your phone and
Speaker 1: be like can you call right now? And one time
Speaker 1: I went out with this guy to lunch and he
Speaker 1: left a two dollar tip And how much was the bill?
Speaker 1: I think it wasn't even that much. It might have
Speaker 1: been like fifty dollars a girl, because it was like
Speaker 1: lunch we had, like people were burgers two dollar tip
Speaker 1: as well, not like the time, like that's an insult.
Speaker 1: I never went out with him again because of that.
Speaker 1: And let me tell you, I am very adamant about
Speaker 1: like when we get a bill, because I think sometimes
Speaker 1: people don't really last how much they should be leaving.
Speaker 1: I'm a calculator forever, but I don't know it's place
Speaker 1: is eighteen, but it's twenty all day. Yeah, So I
Speaker 1: always say, do you want me to get the tips?
Speaker 1: Like if somebody takes me out, I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you want me to leave because I want to make
Speaker 1: sure we leave a good tip to right, So it's
Speaker 1: I feel as though it's a real man'll be like, girl,
Speaker 1: what you're doing looking at this bill? You know? I
Speaker 1: got this ship? But then I'd be like, how much
Speaker 1: you leaving? Because I need to know? And then a
Speaker 1: man that is about his ship will say more than enough.
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta worry about it over here, Like for
Speaker 1: for all that is just terrible. I came out a
Speaker 1: good tipper because I've worked for tips in my life,
Speaker 1: so I know that struggle. I know, like I give
Speaker 1: the person that bags my bags at the groceries five
Speaker 1: dollars you know what I'm saying. But if it's service
Speaker 1: is bad, you get. If services bad, I'll still leave.
Speaker 1: You still happen, and it might not have been their fault,
Speaker 1: like it could have been a problem in the kitchen.
Speaker 1: Back up your food to come out wrong, and you
Speaker 1: can't take it out on the they have a don't
Speaker 1: shoot the messenger. Um worst. But I really feel like
Speaker 1: tipping is very, very important and for those of you
Speaker 1: out there listening who don't tip well, this should be
Speaker 1: your lesson that you need to tip well. You need
Speaker 1: to tip according to your service, and if you had
Speaker 1: a good service, then you definitely need to tip approximately appropriately,
Speaker 1: and especially if it's in place you frequent often. Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't want I went to a nail salon and
Speaker 1: Philly not too long ago, and I got a service.
Speaker 1: I think I just got like a manicure and the
Speaker 1: eyebrow wax or something. Anyway, it was like twenty two dollars, right,
Speaker 1: So I was giving her um a tip. I was
Speaker 1: giving her um I think it was like a seven
Speaker 1: dollar tip. So I give her the money and then
Speaker 1: she gives it back and she's like, oh no, only
Speaker 1: twenty two And I'm like, no, the rest of it
Speaker 1: is for you. And I'm like, what people don't tip
Speaker 1: around here? And she was just like so happy for
Speaker 1: the little seven dollar tip, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: I give her. I give my nail person, because they
Speaker 1: do my and my hands. I give them. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: usually do, like if it's good service, I usually do
Speaker 1: like five dollars of service. Yeah. And he says a
Speaker 1: lot about you who you are as a person, like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not always rolling, but what I am like,
Speaker 1: you know, my services. I make sure regardless, I don't
Speaker 1: go and treat myself if I'm not rolling, but I
Speaker 1: make sure that I leave. You know, when people to
Speaker 1: be like all that pitched on tip and then and
Speaker 1: then when you tip go when you're known as a
Speaker 1: good tipper in the nail shop, they like make room
Speaker 1: for you if you go somewhere free, if you visit
Speaker 1: a place frequently, no matter what type of service it is,
Speaker 1: and you visit them frequently and you tipped well, they
Speaker 1: know that trust that, they know that they know when
Speaker 1: you're not but they appreciate you tip it well and
Speaker 1: they will take care of you. In response, you have
Speaker 1: to take care of happy to see because they will
Speaker 1: when I like when I worked at the Strip club,
Speaker 1: I was like Ginger and Casino. I was welcome around
Speaker 1: tipping everybody. And guess what, they all took care of
Speaker 1: me because I tipped. Well, like, that's just what you
Speaker 1: have to do. Yeah, I was a trip. I was
Speaker 1: a real good tipper. I used to top the DJ,
Speaker 1: real good. I used to set the bounce. I didn't
Speaker 1: know that. And the house man, I started to sept
Speaker 1: the house to the DJ. You have to you have
Speaker 1: to pay a house fee. You have to. Um. I
Speaker 1: didn't pay a house fee so much because, yeah, the
Speaker 1: house for a while, you know, you know those days
Speaker 1: when you got a house, but his house a lot
Speaker 1: of money. I got tail. Yeah it turns out to
Speaker 1: like a hundred dollars. It depends, but you definitely put
Speaker 1: out a lot of money before your money. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: then I used to tip the bouncers. I used to
Speaker 1: set the guy in the front. I used to barres articulates.
Speaker 1: I didn't know used to tip that many people. When
Speaker 1: you come in, they treat you like a queen. They
Speaker 1: let out the red carpet for us. Tip the bouncing.
Speaker 1: It depends, I used to give. It depends on Yeah,
Speaker 1: like if m if he was holding me down all night,
Speaker 1: I'll give him like fifty bucks forty how much I made,
Speaker 1: you know what I so, I made a lot of money,
Speaker 1: and and then the bactors came and cleaned my money
Speaker 1: up for me. I'm giving my hundred me to my
Speaker 1: car with my trash bag then, you know, Yeah, if
Speaker 1: I made on a regular night, you give them like
Speaker 1: anywhere from twenty to forty dollars and then like on
Speaker 1: a good night, you're giving them a hundred. But they
Speaker 1: love you for that, you know. They never forget to
Speaker 1: listen one thing certain two things for sure. I always
Speaker 1: took care of the DJH always, Yeah, the DJ, and
Speaker 1: the DJ is the most important person and the most
Speaker 1: important because the house mom is gonna hold you down
Speaker 1: watching stuff and all night, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: outfits for you. So they do that in New York too,
Speaker 1: because like m VB DJ and all the ship clause
Speaker 1: do do they don't tip him? I don't know they
Speaker 1: have a house DJ to tip. That's a special. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a special get paid to show up. Yeah, he just
Speaker 1: get paid. Don't they make their money off of it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: exactly so, and that's important to tip the DJ when
Speaker 1: you're a stripper, because they pay your music, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, vibe. They might slidge you an extra
Speaker 1: songs too when ain't nobody paying attention or this is
Speaker 1: what they used to do when there was a lot
Speaker 1: of money. They would stall on the next song and
Speaker 1: like ring running back. So you can continue to make
Speaker 1: that money. I gotta take care of it. But the
Speaker 1: girls who don't sit, they you gotta the wacky song.
Speaker 1: I don't nobody want to hear. And Natalie, before you
Speaker 1: got here, we were talking about tantric sex. What's up now?
Speaker 1: Tantric sex. We were trying to figure this out. This
Speaker 1: has when you guys like you meditate, meditate staring to
Speaker 1: each other's eyes for like ten minutes like a soulful.
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be like the connection. No, um, I
Speaker 1: wanna I wanna learn. I remember didn he said he
Speaker 1: has sex for like two days tantric sex he did?
Speaker 1: You don't remember when he was talking about that. I
Speaker 1: can't even I remember seeing tantric sex on sex in
Speaker 1: the city. Remember that? Oh yes, he would You be
Speaker 1: supposed to be like become one ship like yeah, like
Speaker 1: beside because they have like different jobs and massaging and stuff.
Speaker 1: It's like a deeper said that you have to look
Speaker 1: into each other's eyes. Look in each other. I feel
Speaker 1: like breathing. Like just after like fifteen seconds of staring
Speaker 1: into my favorite boyfriends, alright, you're ready to me? Right?
Speaker 1: You ready to put? And they said, can you help
Speaker 1: me my mouth? Now? Look at this they do like, um,
Speaker 1: yoga poses or something together. I like to do my
Speaker 1: own thing like but if to each his own, like
Speaker 1: whatever you're into that works for you. You know, they
Speaker 1: want to reinvent yourself as a couple. She gets old.
Speaker 1: I know, motherfucker's have been together for like ten twenty years.
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes you gotta step it up or try
Speaker 1: some of that ship. I guess, is there anything that
Speaker 1: you do that you feel like it's a little different
Speaker 1: or weird that no one else does? In the bedroom,
Speaker 1: I feel like, um, I do some porno ship, like
Speaker 1: I always want a motherfuck can remember me? Like, I
Speaker 1: want to be in your dreams and ship right on
Speaker 1: your dick whatever they love that ship smacked the deck
Speaker 1: on your face. I was with this one guy. I
Speaker 1: was with this one guy and I'm like spinning on
Speaker 1: his zick and I felt like I was giving him
Speaker 1: the best blow job in the world, and he was like,
Speaker 1: stop spinning. I was king was killing like what. I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I'm not wasting my space. I'll take
Speaker 1: that way. Was like just like what okay, he says,
Speaker 1: just like the really clean blow job, all right? And
Speaker 1: you know what, It's interesting because different people like different things, right,
Speaker 1: I thought most guys like it really messy, messy to please.
Speaker 1: I have another another guy. I'm I know, I was
Speaker 1: giving him the best blow job ever, but I'm like
Speaker 1: sucking him, sucking him, sucking him and I threw up
Speaker 1: like and I swallowed him back up and he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: do that again. I'm not gonna throw up again. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna again. I don't remember that stop, you know.
Speaker 1: He he liked that gag sensation at your throat made
Speaker 1: when you threw up and started and they really slimy
Speaker 1: and it was real warm. Probably it was like he
Speaker 1: was like, I'll do that again. I was like, no, no,
Speaker 1: I I just started laughing. Do you like you guys
Speaker 1: spin on your pussy? No. I like when they suck
Speaker 1: it like like like a past it like a binky.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I don't like a messy or sex
Speaker 1: either on me, Like I don't like for the whole
Speaker 1: wed and it needs me to be wet, and I'm
Speaker 1: like sitting in a wet battle. I'm always in a
Speaker 1: wet spot. Did you ever heard anybody like everythinger is
Speaker 1: in you while they performed like they do like that,
Speaker 1: like some dude this thing like with his fingers like
Speaker 1: went like this and like went and I was like,
Speaker 1: whoa that make it square? That does it make you sweat? Definitely?
Speaker 1: That's it? Bubble. It was crazy? Is that the only time?
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, I think that if you are
Speaker 1: a real sexual person and you like into like being sensual,
Speaker 1: kissing bite and not really biting too much, but like
Speaker 1: you know all my spots and you sexy and ship,
Speaker 1: that could definitely happen. I see, this is what I think.
Speaker 1: I hate when guys if you're getting if he's giving
Speaker 1: you head, I guess I want to feel like the
Speaker 1: girl I want to feel. I think girls get face.
Speaker 1: I think it's bad when I'm about to come and
Speaker 1: then he like switches it up so annoying, like you
Speaker 1: sucked it up. Now we gotta go. You got to
Speaker 1: push the cross but right if you just turn back
Speaker 1: there at the time they do something like if I'm
Speaker 1: about to come, you can't stick your finger in right,
Speaker 1: then that's what you're gonna like, I'm about to calm,
Speaker 1: and then they can't suck that shut up because they
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. They don't stop hard to do
Speaker 1: the same thing. They might they might try to you
Speaker 1: some other extra ship and then suck it up. I
Speaker 1: like it. I like to come quietly and you come
Speaker 1: like this is how you come. Answer, But I well,
Speaker 1: like my legs was shaking, said yo, no, but when
Speaker 1: I get away, for me, touch me. Yeah, if it's
Speaker 1: a really intense orgasm, get away. Okay. So you're Natalie.
Speaker 1: Some noise before, like I'm a heavens could hear, but
Speaker 1: pretty up there we know. Yeah, I talk. I'm talking
Speaker 1: the whole time, and you're like being slapped in stuff.
Speaker 1: I like being slapped and choked like you we were
Speaker 1: talking about what is its hand truck? It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: sound slow and sensual. I like the opposite. It's like
Speaker 1: I call it masaki sta sexs like, but you never
Speaker 1: tried the other way. I have tried the other way.
Speaker 1: I've had like yeah, left like, nah, I've had the
Speaker 1: slow passionate. It's nice. You thought you'd be surprised. Some
Speaker 1: guys wanted like that. That's what they want. They got
Speaker 1: to beg you to do that. Yeah. For me, it's
Speaker 1: like us, you know me, am I am I? Why
Speaker 1: are you kissing me now? With my last boyfriend like that?
Speaker 1: You know, because he was going away, So the last
Speaker 1: few times we got sex, he wanted us to be
Speaker 1: like real slow and passionate, and I'm just like, man,
Speaker 1: I'm just good. Put me over, like I'll hear that.
Speaker 1: I want to hear that without your hands even touch
Speaker 1: it exactly. Yeah, I do want to. I want to
Speaker 1: come on. But you know, I just I come. I
Speaker 1: have rough sex makes me come, you know, like I
Speaker 1: come from having insecurts from dick, and like I come
Speaker 1: from getting pounded. Say it sounds like a baggate. I
Speaker 1: come from getting come from that founded. Can you pound?
Speaker 1: You found this pound for pounds? He's the best. That
Speaker 1: would you be mad if you were dating a guy
Speaker 1: and he gave another woman a woman crush Wednesday? But
Speaker 1: say she was like a celebrity, you know, I mean
Speaker 1: if a celebrity, No, but I mean, we're together, we're
Speaker 1: in a relationship. I don't know why you would go
Speaker 1: public and do something like that, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: know if what if he gave Black Rosa Parks of
Speaker 1: Women Crush Wednesday? Come on, come on, I'm bitchy. Gave
Speaker 1: Oprah a woman crush her, love her, I'll be like,
Speaker 1: go head dad woman crush Wednesday and said things. I
Speaker 1: would understand it. You know what I'm saying. But now,
Speaker 1: what if he gave somebody y'all grew up with women
Speaker 1: crush Winday? What if he gave Sharona from seventeen Street
Speaker 1: whack because he's up to He's probably on the cover
Speaker 1: to Nigga Go tell sar Ronzo to wash your drawls
Speaker 1: I with a woman crush Onesday, I don't care if
Speaker 1: it's Iria, I'll never do it. No, Nope, I'll be
Speaker 1: like a word Rihanna Yo, woman crush Wednesday, go find it. Bit,
Speaker 1: I'm changing my number right now. Sucks you just like
Speaker 1: I suck you goodbye. I'm not having it. It's it
Speaker 1: root for a guy to talk about other women he
Speaker 1: finds attractive, like in front of you, or if you're
Speaker 1: watching TV together and not if she's not that, he's like, damn,
Speaker 1: she's just watching a movie and she's bad as ship.
Speaker 1: Like let's say it's j Lo and he's like, damn, big,
Speaker 1: you think she's bad. She looks good. I'd be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: she looks good as she That's a different way he
Speaker 1: asked you first, like what's you think about? Right? But
Speaker 1: he's talking about that has and fort. But if I'm
Speaker 1: sitting in front of the TV and it's like, damn,
Speaker 1: that's a bad bitch, I would be like, I'm sitting
Speaker 1: right here, Hello, what's the that's the next guy that
Speaker 1: comes on? That's bad? You do it right back to
Speaker 1: m Z the exactly way I gotta call. I gotta
Speaker 1: call I'm watching this show. You gotta call your friends, bitch.
Speaker 1: Turn to a girl, baby, you understand before the same thing. Now,
Speaker 1: have you ever been jealous of your boyfriend's friends, Like
Speaker 1: he hangs out with his boys too much? And you're like, damn,
Speaker 1: how come I can't come? What about me? Y'all gotta
Speaker 1: go on these boys trips from dudes like that? Like
Speaker 1: that's like babies, Like you're still doing that, like hang
Speaker 1: out with your homies. But I don't know like I
Speaker 1: feel as if your girl can't be there, like I'm
Speaker 1: cool ship. If I can't be around once in a
Speaker 1: while or go on trips with y'all, then that ain't
Speaker 1: from me. Like I don't want somebody like that. What's
Speaker 1: the secretive ship y'all doing? That's one thing about dating
Speaker 1: guys and always got a cruel niggers around them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but what if it's like a bad and he's going
Speaker 1: with his book like a lot of guys in the thirties, Well,
Speaker 1: the bachelor party look like some guys guys I grew
Speaker 1: up with like that on my age are nightmares, the ucking,
Speaker 1: fat and bold most of them. I'm gonna do either,
Speaker 1: like I work out, I'll go to the Like I said,
Speaker 1: I would like to take pride of myself, like I
Speaker 1: want somebody that's on that level. But you if you
Speaker 1: used to be you, like thirty five, like looking at
Speaker 1: mess I don't want to be too superficial, and you
Speaker 1: know there's people that like you know there's but I
Speaker 1: think it doesn't take care of themselves. Is unattractive and
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like the guys who were
Speaker 1: hot when I was a kid, they're just not hot.
Speaker 1: There used to be for sure, like I'm dead serious,
Speaker 1: like I'm like I took care of myself, and it's
Speaker 1: harder for a woman, like, well, what's up with y'all?
Speaker 1: But even a lot of game. As we know that
Speaker 1: we grew up with all of the girls from high
Speaker 1: school that was thick with it, it's fat with it.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna look around looking like them. Oh the
Speaker 1: school with this girl, she was like the hottest scraper
Speaker 1: she is. Oh man, she looks like a great auntie,
Speaker 1: like she's terrible, now terrible. She a happy though, No
Speaker 1: man kids around do drugs. That's why she looked like that.
Speaker 1: That's what bitches that do drugs and ship looking like
Speaker 1: they got a bad paper out. Now we now we
Speaker 1: gotta come back to you now. Then you said the
Speaker 1: third time, y'all got back together, Yeah, the third time.
Speaker 1: Then we just got married. You got to Jersey, bought
Speaker 1: the big house on the golf course. Um, that life
Speaker 1: was good. We both were hustlers who both make a
Speaker 1: lot of money. We lived the good life, went on
Speaker 1: vacation three times a year. Our families were like one.
Speaker 1: But um, a lot of stuff happened, and I just
Speaker 1: I wasn't with it no more. And it took me
Speaker 1: a long time to get out of it. Just abusive
Speaker 1: like verbally, and then it would get physical because I
Speaker 1: don't let nobody, like anybody calls me out, you getting
Speaker 1: beat the funk up, Like that's just the way I am.
Speaker 1: You got a rap for me, you want to break
Speaker 1: me down verbally, and you keep doing it, you keep
Speaker 1: doing it eventually. I'm a physical person and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm proud of that, but I will,
Speaker 1: you know, take it to you just for sure. And
Speaker 1: people always ask, I don't you just leave and they
Speaker 1: don't realize how heart it is sometimes when yeah, because
Speaker 1: I loved him so much. But see I'm a sweetheart,
Speaker 1: Like I've never started, no problems with nobody. People will
Speaker 1: normally funk with me, like and then I got to
Speaker 1: beat them the funk up. And that's just like, you know,
Speaker 1: after a while, like him and I would have like
Speaker 1: we would have a beautiful home and then by like
Speaker 1: I don't know, like two weeks later, like the house
Speaker 1: we destroyed were spackling sand, sanding like holes in the wall,
Speaker 1: I don't know, throwing vases at each other. I was
Speaker 1: just very hactic it was either like the highs and
Speaker 1: the lowers were crazy. There was no middle and no
Speaker 1: other worst relationships because it's hard. They're gonna go place
Speaker 1: with somebody that like it, doesn't know how to turn
Speaker 1: it off, very jealous like oh you're wearing that? Are
Speaker 1: you crazy? Like cut my ship up? Like damn wanted
Speaker 1: me like proper all the time. Yeah, was it difficult
Speaker 1: for you to do? My wives then knowing that you
Speaker 1: had like a lot of turmoil and everything because him
Speaker 1: and I have been broken up. I've been divorced now
Speaker 1: for seven years. We were seeing each other like three
Speaker 1: years ago. We started seeing each other again, but I
Speaker 1: cut that off and I actually I don't have anything
Speaker 1: say about him because he got remarried. I'm happy he's
Speaker 1: in a good place, and I wish I'm not with
Speaker 1: the best. But um, there wasn't nobody could really control
Speaker 1: me and make me feel like there's anything hard or
Speaker 1: difficult for me to do, because I'm the type person
Speaker 1: that like, if my mind, like I want to do something,
Speaker 1: my mind's made up, You're gonna give your opinion, but
Speaker 1: I'm still going to do what I want to do.
Speaker 1: So no, it wasn't hard for me, you feel like
Speaker 1: you were addicted to him, Yeah, I actually was. I
Speaker 1: actually experienced that though on another level with somebody else,
Speaker 1: a boyfriend that I was with for five years, where
Speaker 1: we were so addicted. The sex was crazy and it
Speaker 1: was just like he's like I really like I couldn't
Speaker 1: no matter what he did, Like it was crazy. Had
Speaker 1: he was like this way about him, And I think
Speaker 1: that everybody gets got once in one relationship, and he
Speaker 1: really did get the best of me, this dude. Like
Speaker 1: it was crazy. And eventually I came out of it.
Speaker 1: The smoke cleared, and I was done with them. But
Speaker 1: I know what it feels like to definitely feel like
Speaker 1: somebody's addicted or addictive, because sometimes it's hard because you
Speaker 1: also don't want that person to be with anybody else. Well,
Speaker 1: sometimes when you grow up with somebody though it's been
Speaker 1: a twelve year relationship, it's all you know, Like you know,
Speaker 1: he was like we went through so many things together,
Speaker 1: Like he was like I was a kid when I
Speaker 1: started seeing him and we were friends for five years,
Speaker 1: and he would be like listen, he opened my first
Speaker 1: bank account, like you know, this is gonna stack money,
Speaker 1: and he showed me so many things that like opened
Speaker 1: me up to the streets, but also we're beneficial to
Speaker 1: me and like just being like work ethics and just
Speaker 1: certain things. And but he always was like a protector
Speaker 1: of me. So no matter what, he was the only
Speaker 1: one that can hurt me. Nobody else could. So I
Speaker 1: know that sounds, you know, because sometimes you know your
Speaker 1: relationship is bad if and I think there's a few
Speaker 1: things that are like clues, like if none of your
Speaker 1: friends like that person, right, did your friends like him?
Speaker 1: They love them? Because I mean, he was one of us.
Speaker 1: We just killed each other. But did they feel like
Speaker 1: this is not healthy? Because sometimes for sure. But the
Speaker 1: boyfriend that I was with for five years, he was
Speaker 1: locked up and I held it down for him for
Speaker 1: a year and a half. He was a scumbag, and
Speaker 1: my friends saw me right from the rep red flags,
Speaker 1: red flags run. He's no good And I should have listened.
Speaker 1: But I'm the type of person that now I listened,
Speaker 1: but um, you know, I had to be drunk to
Speaker 1: the mud. And you know, sometimes it makes it worse too,
Speaker 1: when your friends don't like somebody and they keep telling you,
Speaker 1: because it makes you not want to tell them stuff,
Speaker 1: and it makes you want to prove them wrong. I
Speaker 1: don't think you shoul tell your friends everything anyway. I
Speaker 1: think you should have your own secrets because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, when you make up with them,
Speaker 1: you make up with your move, they're gonna remember and
Speaker 1: you're gonna forget. What then are you doing, like he
Speaker 1: just beat your ass or he didn't cheat on you,
Speaker 1: and you like, you know what I'm saying, look a
Speaker 1: weak link, but they don't know what you got. So
Speaker 1: it's I just think that you should tell your friends
Speaker 1: will be a quarter or what goes on, because I
Speaker 1: do think that you should have your own secrets, and
Speaker 1: privacy is important to someone, but it's also important to
Speaker 1: have somebody to talk to when you're going through something.
Speaker 1: If you have one friend or a family man no
Speaker 1: longer a secret though. When you open your mouth and
Speaker 1: you just you you disclose information. At that moment, it's
Speaker 1: no longer personal. It's not even though you said please
Speaker 1: stuff whatever you do, don't tell you know nobody. I'm
Speaker 1: confiding right, there's that slim possibility. Girls could be out
Speaker 1: over some drinks be like, damn, you know, gotta do
Speaker 1: an different mesure with this bit. She's tripping you know,
Speaker 1: like the dick is that good? Like you know, cause
Speaker 1: it has to be hard to not have anybody that
Speaker 1: you can talk to you when you go and through
Speaker 1: some ship though too that you're gonna do it. It's terrible.
Speaker 1: Like I'm the friend that all my friends they tell
Speaker 1: me all their business and I don't be telling them nothing,
Speaker 1: Like I just keep just the only obvious things. I
Speaker 1: only tell my friends with my obvious problems and my relationship,
Speaker 1: like the things that I just can't but like personal things,
Speaker 1: I just feel like you shouldn't tell everything to anyone,
Speaker 1: right because it's true. Some things you just can't take back. Man,
Speaker 1: I feel like I lost. I grew up with ten girls,
Speaker 1: and um, I've been friends with them for years, the
Speaker 1: same girls. Um, I'm only friends of like five of
Speaker 1: them now because of learning that you can't confide I had.
Speaker 1: I had one of my girlfriends. She actually broke my
Speaker 1: heart because I love my friends and she was like
Speaker 1: we just don't. She's like, not listen, I love you
Speaker 1: to death. But like I'm married and I have kids.
Speaker 1: We're living two different lives and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: are you breaking out with me? Like like you you
Speaker 1: that like telling like we can't be friends because you
Speaker 1: know the life that you live and maybe maybe like
Speaker 1: maybe I'm abandoned, Bunce, is that what you're trying to
Speaker 1: say or you know? And it kind of like sucked
Speaker 1: me up. And then after she kind of spoke her peace,
Speaker 1: I never felt the same way and I just stop
Speaker 1: sucking whatever because I felt like she was a eight
Speaker 1: or on the low. For me, I could never say
Speaker 1: something no matter if you, no matter the highs the
Speaker 1: lows you at the bottom, I'm gonna love you regardless
Speaker 1: to be your friend. For you, it just made me
Speaker 1: feel like we're no longer on an eye level. The
Speaker 1: things I told her, her and a few other people,
Speaker 1: they used against me because I was forgiving. But come
Speaker 1: to find out after a period of time, who got
Speaker 1: divorced then ship went out for this one. I would
Speaker 1: always be there for them regardless. But they're the same
Speaker 1: motherfucker's that judge me and look at the ship you
Speaker 1: went through, Like that's why you always say be careful
Speaker 1: about the things. I'm not saying you should be held
Speaker 1: accountable for everything you say. But the people that tend
Speaker 1: to judge the most and talk are the ones that
Speaker 1: always doing ship extra the same ones that to tell you,
Speaker 1: oh yeah man nay ship da dada da, right, or
Speaker 1: they haven't been faced with the situation is that you
Speaker 1: were you we're faced with at the time, and then
Speaker 1: when they go through it, it's like they go through
Speaker 1: maybe times maybe like ten times worse and go and
Speaker 1: do some dumb ship and you're like, damn, where the
Speaker 1: bitch that was gonna be? This whole fucking like, you know,
Speaker 1: this whole speel about how what I was doing wasn't
Speaker 1: the right, Like I just don't judge nobody. I made,
Speaker 1: not a judgmental person. And for me, it was just
Speaker 1: like now I have my file five solid friends, it's
Speaker 1: all I need. And I learned less is more with
Speaker 1: bitches I did and that's right. No, And I just
Speaker 1: feel like you should only tell when you're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: You should just tell the things that you don't care
Speaker 1: about everybody knowing, even if you don't, even if you're
Speaker 1: not telling everybody, but just in case you know what happens.
Speaker 1: Women are emotional. We're very emotional people, not all of us,
Speaker 1: but some of us. And we get heated and we
Speaker 1: get upset and in the moment lose track of what
Speaker 1: Higgs precedents, and then that gets used against us down
Speaker 1: the road, and it's just all around is hurtful. But
Speaker 1: you know, most of the time you've been in is
Speaker 1: when you're looking upset or like you need a shoulder
Speaker 1: to cry on, and then when somebody goes and use
Speaker 1: that against you, like you know, they don't say anything
Speaker 1: or they're like, oh, you're gonna take them back again
Speaker 1: or whatever. I just feel like a friend should be
Speaker 1: there regardless, even they don't prove of it. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think I feel like a lot of my friends confided
Speaker 1: me all the time, though, Yeah, because I'm not a
Speaker 1: very judgmental person. The only time I really had to
Speaker 1: make my friend break up with somebody was he did
Speaker 1: something really crazy. I actually had to take her to
Speaker 1: the police station and make her get a restraining order
Speaker 1: because they had kids together and he was abusive. She
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna leave him alone, so it was her Like,
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to tell her what to do
Speaker 1: because I don't want her to not tell me stuff.
Speaker 1: So I never want to be like, Okay, you know,
Speaker 1: you stupid you doing this, you're doing that, because I
Speaker 1: don't want you to feel like Damn. I can't even
Speaker 1: tell Angela because I don't want her to judge my situation.
Speaker 1: But he sent naked pictures of her to her boss,
Speaker 1: to her, her parents, her brother. That's terrible. Actually had
Speaker 1: an ex boyfriend and threatened me and uh, he sent
Speaker 1: a naked picture of me out to everybody in his phone. WHOA, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got around little hole softly. It was on the internet.
Speaker 1: I didn't have a lawyer, paid for a lawyer to
Speaker 1: take it down, but I look good as fucking picture
Speaker 1: because I didn't. But that's it was upsetting in the beginning.
Speaker 1: But everybody like real, recognized real, and that's a scumbag
Speaker 1: fucking move. So everybody was like, damn, dude, even with
Speaker 1: this girl, she was good to you, you had a
Speaker 1: fallen out with her, and this is like a ship.
Speaker 1: It made him look crazy because yeah, he looks crazy
Speaker 1: because who does that number one? Of course, we expect
Speaker 1: your man to have naked pictures of you, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: that's nothing crazy about that. And it wasn't like I
Speaker 1: had no ship hanging out at me like a dildo
Speaker 1: or not. Like it was like I like, not the lord,
Speaker 1: but definitely some of those exists challenging. It was another
Speaker 1: hurdle I have to get over in life. And I
Speaker 1: got through it, so, you know, and I told you,
Speaker 1: I said, listen, y'all have kids together. He's threatening you,
Speaker 1: he's doing this. He sent it to your boss. I
Speaker 1: didn't get to that level though somebody like you, like
Speaker 1: a friend, I did to get involved for sure. I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm coming with you and I'm taking you.
Speaker 1: And she was so stressed out. She her nails were
Speaker 1: all messed up. She was peeling back her nails because
Speaker 1: she was so stressed out. But sometimes you do got
Speaker 1: to step in, you know, for your friends and loving
Speaker 1: way as as possible. And it's not good to be
Speaker 1: a hater or to be judgmental if you call yourself
Speaker 1: a friend. I hate being that single friend that tells
Speaker 1: a girl tell us her girlfriends, like, girl, you need
Speaker 1: to leave the right people would leave somebody when they're
Speaker 1: ready to do it right right, Yeah, you'll be ready
Speaker 1: when you're ready. Because sometimes I think as women, we
Speaker 1: know we want to leave somebody and we're gonna do
Speaker 1: it eventually, but it takes some time to get to them.
Speaker 1: But let me go through some more ship and eventually
Speaker 1: I'll get tired of it, right, My girl's always been
Speaker 1: into me. And I always start with a disclaimer, like,
Speaker 1: you know I'm single, so you know my advice might
Speaker 1: not be the best one, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: don't you don't want to be living lonely like me?
Speaker 1: And they'll be like, well, your life is great, and
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm just saying I'm single, but nothing
Speaker 1: like new dick to get over that old dick sometimes too,
Speaker 1: you know, Oh I agree, Please remember I'll stressed out.
Speaker 1: I was in my last relationship when I'm one of
Speaker 1: my last relationship gold ronning to have sex for six
Speaker 1: weeks and then when you do. Once I did, I
Speaker 1: was like, what relationship? I got somebody to text and
Speaker 1: talk to and go out with. But when you try
Speaker 1: to get over that old dick a new dick and
Speaker 1: it was a waste of time too, the time, that's
Speaker 1: the funk that you wish you could take back and
Speaker 1: make you miss your I wish, yeah, there's nothing worse.
Speaker 1: And then um, then having like the new dick be bad.
Speaker 1: The new sex is just bad and it makes you
Speaker 1: think about your acts. How great he wasn't bad? But
Speaker 1: I didn't go through that, yeah, for your Unfortunately that
Speaker 1: never happened to me. Happened. Is there anything a guy
Speaker 1: ever asked you to do when you had to tell
Speaker 1: them now not doing that? Like in bed? Yeah? Actually, um,
Speaker 1: someone I was with was really pressuring me to have
Speaker 1: a three song with a guy, and I was like,
Speaker 1: are you but that guy? Yeah? It got weird. It
Speaker 1: was no, it was I swear to God, I can't
Speaker 1: and make it up. I'm dead serious. Like a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of ship came along with it, like my mother
Speaker 1: and my sister family on Craigslist with like my head
Speaker 1: chopped off, and like the Lingrey outfit that I was
Speaker 1: in a magazine and he was promoting me like, you know,
Speaker 1: my bitch is exotic, she wants a bit a guy
Speaker 1: that matches her to our care gave a whole fucking
Speaker 1: ad okay, and was like when I found it, my
Speaker 1: mom was like, you noted this. It's him right when
Speaker 1: you get on the phone with him, And all of
Speaker 1: a sudden the ad disappears, And sure enough, soon as
Speaker 1: I got on the phone with him, that ship was
Speaker 1: taken off of Craigslist and I knew it was him.
Speaker 1: I was devastated. I was like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: Because it was quite identical and coincidental to what he
Speaker 1: was saying to me when he was in the ad anyway,
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, you know how you want
Speaker 1: to have a fucking three someone to do because you
Speaker 1: want to run to the back and suck this dude
Speaker 1: or maybe getting dick sucked from and you gay And
Speaker 1: it definitely I feel because I would be riding him
Speaker 1: and he'd be like He'd be like, he would be like,
Speaker 1: show me how you would show me how you would
Speaker 1: ride another dick, Show me how you would suck another dick,
Speaker 1: and he would do the gesture why would be on
Speaker 1: top of he would be like yeah, he would like
Speaker 1: show me, and I would be like this, this is
Speaker 1: the this is a dude that like it was so
Speaker 1: manly and like his sex was like the best. It
Speaker 1: was so great, and I was like I just couldn't
Speaker 1: believe it. Like I think I think I was like
Speaker 1: super I think for people around when I get around people,
Speaker 1: they could be themselves. And I just felt like he
Speaker 1: got so comfortable that something extra came out of it together.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I was like, this is a joke,
Speaker 1: because like that's not a three song, that's a train.
Speaker 1: I was like, you want to get it, you want
Speaker 1: to ride a train like you want to? I was like, I,
Speaker 1: first of all, I could barely take one dick. I
Speaker 1: was like, you wanted me to take two dicks? Like
Speaker 1: that's just it was he wanted to take a dick
Speaker 1: like eat his asshole or nothing like that, or he's
Speaker 1: never asked me, but I think he would be about it,
Speaker 1: like you know, I mean, it was never surprising. It
Speaker 1: was so surprising because it was just like we were
Speaker 1: really sexual. We had said a lot of sex, so
Speaker 1: I just think that it was like another notch something else.
Speaker 1: And when I was like, I would like sex was
Speaker 1: a gateway drug? Are you in? Like are you you
Speaker 1: need fucking help? You know? Um? Needless to say, we
Speaker 1: kind of broke up over that, But you think three
Speaker 1: women though, you'd have been okay with that. Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I've been there and done that. I've had
Speaker 1: a three one a girl before. I was all right.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I just wouldn't let my man
Speaker 1: put his penis another girl, Like you know, she couldn't
Speaker 1: hook him up and he could do the same. But
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, and there has to
Speaker 1: be rules that they gotta be mine and I laid
Speaker 1: down there that is definitely the rules to a three simple.
Speaker 1: Other guys out there, if you want to have have a
Speaker 1: three sing with your women, she has to make all
Speaker 1: the rules. So whatever she's not comfortable with you cannot do.
Speaker 1: She has to pick the woman. Also, that's one of
Speaker 1: the rules you have to tick. I mean, if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go with a girl, she has to be bad
Speaker 1: like exotic, you know. But for the most part, I'm
Speaker 1: not really into that. It's just something that happened. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be like, oh, for my next relationship, threesomes are sucking.
Speaker 1: It has to be threesomes all in the relationship. Otherwise,
Speaker 1: you know, it has to be relationship material. Like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm saying three some material now that wouldn't be Now,
Speaker 1: have you ever dated somebody who said racist things? Oh
Speaker 1: for sure, he's like absolutely, I have a lot of
Speaker 1: black friends, a lot of Spanish friends, and if I
Speaker 1: have a few times dating Italian guys that absolutely have
Speaker 1: a problem with that, absolutely, And would you check them
Speaker 1: on it or oh battle yes, like a check like
Speaker 1: it would be like oh my god, yeah, like we
Speaker 1: would go heavy at it because my best friend is
Speaker 1: she's black in Italian. My godchildren are mixed and I
Speaker 1: don't see color. And growing up I was me. I
Speaker 1: was like the Italian girls who black girlfriends. So for me,
Speaker 1: I always watched them go through terrible things growing up,
Speaker 1: like have to sit on the stet, not be allowed
Speaker 1: in people's houses, watch them cry, me cry we were
Speaker 1: little girls, like how could you do that? Predominantly the
Speaker 1: fathers would always give them problems. So for me, it's
Speaker 1: a race is a horrible thing when I to go
Speaker 1: through that or be called like certain names like why
Speaker 1: you want to hang out with you know what I mean? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it would be absolutely I would not tolerate that. Ship
Speaker 1: to the day, I don't tolerate that ship. Was dating
Speaker 1: an Italian guy and he used to meet like um
Speaker 1: black cyber marks and I had to like, you know,
Speaker 1: give him the whole conversation and teach him like you know,
Speaker 1: you're Italian, I'm a Puerto Rican. You know there's a
Speaker 1: lot I'm black, so like get it together. I'm I'm
Speaker 1: part of African, I'm part of Spanish, um part to
Speaker 1: you know, Indian, Like you can't make these comments just
Speaker 1: because my skin is olive, you know, just because of
Speaker 1: my skin is light. You know, you're talking about my
Speaker 1: own people in my face. So I had to like
Speaker 1: drop the whole conscious lecture on him, like teach him
Speaker 1: about himself, teach him about me. This girl Linda did
Speaker 1: this polish guy. She was black and he was Polish,
Speaker 1: and he would make her pretend to be a slave
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. But she did it. Hell fucking crazy.
Speaker 1: And I have another friend who dated a white guy
Speaker 1: and she told me that the same thing. That's so
Speaker 1: belittle whatever. I don't even know have happy women in
Speaker 1: this world. That ship. I would kick him in his face.
Speaker 1: He died that Natalie, are you enjoying being single now? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the first time in my life I had a relationship.
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship since I was fourteen, So
Speaker 1: I like it. I wake up every day with no drama.
Speaker 1: I'm chill and I'm cool, Like I don't need a man,
Speaker 1: Like if anything, I want a man, but I'm already.
Speaker 1: I'm going to my own two right now, and whatever
Speaker 1: happens happens. But I had enough love for a lifetime.
Speaker 1: I'm good, Like if if I don't have kids, I
Speaker 1: don't get married again. I want that. I want that
Speaker 1: for myself. I'm not but I'm alright if it don't
Speaker 1: happen either, Like I live that life. I'm cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I hate when people be like, oh, yes, single,
Speaker 1: you can't find a man. It's not that you can't
Speaker 1: find I choose to be single. I mean I can
Speaker 1: date and find a man. I just want to make
Speaker 1: sure that I'm sucking him and I and you know,
Speaker 1: not settling for some bumbas dude. So funny, I'm out.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm a I'm a rebound all star. Like
Speaker 1: usually I jumped from relationships and relationship this time, know
Speaker 1: like I have, I have great guys that want to
Speaker 1: be in serious relationships with me, and I'm just not sure.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't. I don't want to settle. I
Speaker 1: know what I want and I want to I'm gonna
Speaker 1: wait till I get that. Sometimes it's really good though,
Speaker 1: I'm really noticing, like to really figure out who you are.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you need to be alone, because who
Speaker 1: the funk wants to be alone? That does? It sounds good?
Speaker 1: But yeah, because I feel like I'm single, but I'm
Speaker 1: not very lonely right, I'm single. I just feel like
Speaker 1: sometimes it's good to figure out who you are, the
Speaker 1: choices and decisions you want to make on your own,
Speaker 1: and then due time you'll figure it out. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: feel like you've got to clear your slate to allow
Speaker 1: somebody good to come into your life. Also, because you know,
Speaker 1: we have all these people that clutter our lives and
Speaker 1: it's a waste of time. It's not somebody that you
Speaker 1: want to be with, and you're really blocking something great
Speaker 1: from happening. And if pomy have anybody to waste your
Speaker 1: time or to spurn time, but imagine finding somebody that's
Speaker 1: on your level that's worth given your time to, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like even on a friendship type
Speaker 1: understanding thing. You know. So all right, Well, we appreciate
Speaker 1: you so much for coming through and kicking it with
Speaker 1: us about you. I love the show. I think it's dope.
Speaker 1: Nobody has ever asked me to have a nobody's actually
Speaker 1: have three somebody another man, yes, no, no, no, But
Speaker 1: nobody have actually put a finger in ass yes, yes,
Speaker 1: come on, I've never had somebody asked me yes. The
Speaker 1: guys that I'm not singing my girlfriend. She was telling
Speaker 1: me about this glove situation. She was like, this dude
Speaker 1: was adamant about getting this as she was like, you
Speaker 1: have a glove. His mom happened to be a nurse.
Speaker 1: Always weird shopping on a latex glove and fucking this
Speaker 1: dude in the ass. I was like, what I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't mind putting fingers in a guy's ass. I
Speaker 1: think it's fun. I think I think I think it's
Speaker 1: so gross. I'm not about it. I'd be amazed at
Speaker 1: the fact that they like like they like it, amazing
Speaker 1: the fact they're letting me do it. And then I'll
Speaker 1: be at the fact that how much they like it
Speaker 1: exactly so you just like doing that. I think you
Speaker 1: got something to hold over their here like wish you
Speaker 1: would not there. And then there's levels. There's levels of
Speaker 1: fingers in the eyes. It's like one finger, okay, two fingers.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about you. I'm gonna be calling stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell your friends that your friends. No, I'm
Speaker 1: not tell my friends. I know why you guys are laughing.
Speaker 1: I would never sell any of your life friends not
Speaker 1: and the guy eat your ask can they kiss you after? Yeah?
Speaker 1: My house is sweet clean. You said, yeah, sweet, I'm great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I ain't sucking stinky like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure I'm on point. Honestly, I like
Speaker 1: when a guy is eating my pussy and he comes
Speaker 1: up to kiss me. I like you get back to you.
Speaker 1: I like my flavor. You know what. I'm serious? Because
Speaker 1: you know you can't have anal sex and then have
Speaker 1: BA can't after that because you could get it. Actually,
Speaker 1: you bringing all the unless you switch the condom right,
Speaker 1: just putting it out there for all of you out there,
Speaker 1: just so because I use if you're not using a condom,
Speaker 1: wash your dick before you go back back door to
Speaker 1: the front door. Okay, leave the package in the back.
Speaker 1: Theage