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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Travis, Yes, Travis, good morning, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the show. Waiting by the phone, trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: if you've been ghosted by this woman Amy. So we

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Speaker 1: got to know everything. Tell us about any dates that

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Speaker 1: you've been on and sort of how those wins and

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Speaker 1: what's happening now and how we can help.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So we went on like one date was pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: We just want to go out and get drinks. I

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Speaker 2: don't really liked her.

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Speaker 1: I had a good time, so I'm not really sure

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Speaker 1: why she hasn't been responding to me.

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Speaker 2: It sounds pretty simple.

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Speaker 1: So you you guys had good conversation and you have

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Speaker 1: the chemistry was there. I mean I asked all the

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Speaker 1: same questions all the time, but I mean you really

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Speaker 1: you were vibing, and you left this date thinking there's

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Speaker 1: something here, like I'm gonna call her again. I'm a texter,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go out again with somethings developing here. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, it's been a while since I've

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Speaker 1: had something to feel that good, so I kind of

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Speaker 1: don't want to just let it go, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean you know you can't when it feels that good,

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Speaker 1: you can't. You cannot, Travis, you cannot.

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Speaker 2: Let that go. Excuse me, friend, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: No, it is all jokes aside. I mean, I feel

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Speaker 1: like people are dating in mass quantities. I mean people

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Speaker 1: who are trying to find someone. It's a numbers game.

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Speaker 1: They're matched with lots of people. They're going on lots

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Speaker 1: of dates. It's a lot of work now because there's

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Speaker 1: this illusion of competition, the paradox of choice.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Okay, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like when you can't make a decision because you got

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Speaker 1: too many choices, you know what I mean. Like it's

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Speaker 1: like there's just too many options out there.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know all about that life, don't you. I

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Speaker 2: certainly do.

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Speaker 1: No, When you finally connect with someone, at least on

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Speaker 1: your end, you're like, this is great. I hope this

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Speaker 1: works out. But you now you can't get a hold

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Speaker 1: of Amy. So we're gonna play a song, come back

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Speaker 1: and call her. You'll be on the phone, Travis, and

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Speaker 1: hopefully we can figure out what's going on. Set you

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Speaker 1: guys up on another date and pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, Travis, Yes, sir, Hi, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 2: call this woman. Amy.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you went on a date. You thought the

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Speaker 1: date went really well. Everything was, the conversation was flowing,

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Speaker 1: the chemistry was there. You were into her, you it

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Speaker 1: felt good, you said the date, and so you were

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Speaker 1: hoping to see her again. And you've reached out. She's

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Speaker 1: not responding to you. She hasn't reached out to you,

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Speaker 1: of course, and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I mean, I think if you guys can

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Speaker 2: help mean a lot, because I don't want to just

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Speaker 2: let this fall to the wayside. That's sweet, but mean

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Speaker 2: a lot to him.

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Speaker 1: So you know, I think we should let's do it,

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Speaker 1: as opposed to what I was going to do, which

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Speaker 1: is to say I'm not doing it and hang out

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Speaker 1: on you. Yeah, I play a song and then just

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Speaker 1: be done with it. Let's call Amy now, good luck, Travis,

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Speaker 1: thank you.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi' is the Samy. Yeah, this is Amy. Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show of the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can wichat for just a second?

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Speaker 1: You can hang up any time, won't take too long.

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Speaker 3: Oh, gosh, yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, thank you very much. You're excited now, I

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Speaker 1: will see right, we're calling on behalf of a dude

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Speaker 1: named Travis who reached out to us. I guess you

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Speaker 1: guys went on a day recently. Do you remember going

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Speaker 3: I didn't realize that's why you were calling.

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Speaker 1: Well, that he reached out to us and Amy. He

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Speaker 1: had nice things to say about you. He said that

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Speaker 1: Says he's reached out and that you're ignoring him. He's

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Speaker 2: Why is it that you're not calling him back.

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Speaker 3: It's really just like the dumbest thing. I mean, first,

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Speaker 3: if she didn't even want to know where I live,

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Speaker 3: like so that he could come and pick me up.

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Speaker 3: He didn't care to find out, which I already thought

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Speaker 3: was a red flag. I mean usually guys asked. But

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Speaker 3: then I just decided to give him another chance, so

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Speaker 3: I did. I showed up.

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Speaker 2: To the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, by the time I got there, he had already

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Speaker 3: bought himself a drink and he closed his tab. So

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Speaker 3: he never even offered to buy me a drink or anything.

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Speaker 2: Now the up, maybe I could nderstand because I actually haven't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I have not been asked to pick anybody up, nor

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Speaker 1: long time, because of like privacy and a lot of

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Speaker 1: people don't necessarily want to there. People don't only want

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Speaker 1: to get up. They don't give their phone numbers out

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Speaker 2: So that part okay. But you're on a date with

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Speaker 2: this man.

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Speaker 1: He's already ordered a drink, which okay, fine, he was

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Speaker 1: there before you. Maybe he doesn't wait, depending on how

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Speaker 1: late you were whatever, how early he was. But then

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Speaker 1: he's not even offering to buy you a drink.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just the whole thing rubbed me the wrong way.

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Speaker 2: So I just drank water the whole time.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even care. I was just like, this guy

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Speaker 3: clearly doesn't. This is something off about him. Remis stayed

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Speaker 3: there and then he just proceeded to ask me to

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Speaker 2: About an hour.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I see, So he doesn't buy you a drink,

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Speaker 1: He doesn't offer to buy you a drink, and then

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Speaker 2: House food to help.

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Speaker 1: Right, wow, let me yeah, that Travis is here. I'm

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Speaker 1: very forgetful. I'm sorry, I get caught up in the story.

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Speaker 1: I forget Travis. What are you doing? You invite someone

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Speaker 1: on a date? What part of this felt good? I

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Speaker 2: I mean I thought it was going well. I mean,

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Speaker 2: why did you offer to buyral drink?

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Speaker 1: Like a gentleman? You asked her on a date, offer

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Speaker 1: to buy a drink? Why did you buy your Why

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Speaker 1: are you having a drink? And at no point when

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Speaker 1: I mean we kind of got caught up in conversation.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to go. I mean I guess so.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I I thought things were moving from No.

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Speaker 3: They were not. They were not moving pretty fast, okay,

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Speaker 3: like I was. I was already like pissed, like it

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Speaker 3: was red flag after red flag, and I told you, like,

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Speaker 3: absolutely not, I'm not coming over to your place. Oh man,

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Speaker 3: you just kept like trying over and over again, told

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Speaker 3: me you were super hungry, and then we should just

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Speaker 3: go and at your plate.

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Speaker 2: You're a kidding, but I was.

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Speaker 1: I was joking, Like Travis, you you got to make

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Speaker 1: somebody feel special on a date, especially if you think

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Speaker 1: anything's gonna happen afterwards, like you don't. You can't just

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Speaker 1: show up and order yourself, you know, dinner, and then

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Speaker 1: when she watches you eat it, and then it's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: To my house and hook up? Like where does that work?

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Maybe this drinks hit a

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Speaker 2: little harder than I thought, But I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: thought we were having a great time. I thought we

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Speaker 2: were getting to know each other. Are you hearing us?

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are you clueless?

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Speaker 1: Like it's a date, like you you had expectations on

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Speaker 1: a date that you didn't even participate in really like

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Speaker 1: it was you didn't. I don't know, Amy. Look, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna ask the question. I know the answer it rhetorical.

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Speaker 1: Would you let's go out with Travis again? We'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it this.

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Speaker 2: Time, right, you can get a drink advertizer.

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Speaker 1: Because we're giving it. Well, I'll give you the money

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Speaker 1: so that we it's sure to happen. Otherwise you'll probably

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Speaker 1: just order for himself. But would you go out with

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Speaker 1: him again?

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Speaker 3: I would never go out with this guy again. Never, never,

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Speaker 3: not even if you paid me.

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Speaker 2: You know, that's okay because I like independent women anyway. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you do. Okay, Yeah, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Amy, thank you for your time, best of luck

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Speaker 1: to you, Travis.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, just stop, yeah,