WEBVTT - Good Luck to You, Leo Grande: Vulnerable & Mars Bar 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:14.720 Toss Popcorn is a production of iHeartRadio. We are back Baby. Hello. 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:21.280 Hello, I'm Leanna Holsten, I'm Sianna Jacole, and welcome back 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:25.800 to Toss Popcorn, the podcast where two idiots watched every 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.240 film on the AFI's one hundred Greatest American Movies of 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:33.120 All Time, the very slightly less racist tenth Anniversary edition, 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:36.400 and are now watching films directed by went In. 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:44.640 Yes, I forgot I have to talk next. I was like, 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:49.720 she's really taking this time for emphasis. It's awesome. This 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:53.960 podcast is a safe hotel room for people who don't 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:58.880 know anything about movies. Today we're watching good Luck to 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:03.360 You Leo Grant number three. We do a sixty nine, 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:06.920 if that's what it's still called. I don't know for 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:10.760 me on Top five talky style, is that right? 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:15.199 M I don't know if you can say I saw 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:19.319 your titles on your documents and I loved them. 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:24.440 I got all the words. Okay, uh warning, there will 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:29.240 be spoilers about this this recent this recent movie I 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:36.280 just can't wait to talk about. I don't okay, what 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:37.120 do we do now? 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:38.080 Predictions? 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:42.839 I'm sorry, it's been so long. I've been all across 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:46.240 all over the world, of Western I've seen so many 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:48.360 things that's really changed me and. 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:51.960 Oh my god, well can't talk about that yet. Sienna, 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:56.000 could please hear your prediction for and what did you think? 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:56.280 It was? 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:59.520 Called? Good Luck? Leo Grande? 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:08.440 Hi, Leanna, this is Sienna, welcome back, thank you of us. 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:14.720 I'm about to watch good Luck Leo Grand Leo Grande. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.560 I don't know what this is about, but I did 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:23.639 while looking it up see that it's uh, it is 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:27.519 Emma Thompson and then the guy from the young Guy 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:32.399 from Bad Sisters are together in a movie and they're 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.400 sitting in front of a bed. So I wonder if 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:37.000 it's gonna be like a what do they call it? 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:41.679 A winter, a winter spring relationship? 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:45.560 I didn't know what it was winter winter, two seasons 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:46.480 right after each other. 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:54.320 So anyway, I'll be interested in how that is. I 0:02:54.400 --> 0:03:00.680 love you, goodbye. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:07.720 Great Well, here's my prediction. What so I'm April in 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:13.640 your March. That's fine. I don't get it. I don't 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:21.240 understand it's regular. Okay, ready mm hmmm, hello Sienna, Leanna 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:26.760 remember me. Yes, I'm about good luck to you, Leo 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:32.440 grand Grand. I don't know anything about this besides Emma 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.960 Thompson and a little young hobby are in it, and 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:39.800 I assume they bang and good for her. Yeah, it 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:45.320 must be nice. Jealous, I predict. Oh, I hope I 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:56.760 have a fun time. Love you bye. I. 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.000 I guess I'm not talking about it yet. We have 0:03:59.040 --> 0:03:59.360 to wait. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.520 Mm hmm, all right. 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:07.160 I just want to know your general vibe, your general 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:09.680 vibe before we get into it in a bit. 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.520 My general vibe is I have a lot of appreciation 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:22.200 and time for this film, and I think I'm severely 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:27.800 sexually repressed, and you. 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:34.359 I definitely I was waiting for it to become less 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:40.359 lame at certain times. There's a lot of things I 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:41.720 really liked for what they were going for, But when 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:42.919 it got to the very end and then they were 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:45.120 having a really fun time like doing it, I was like, 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.159 this is what I thought we were going to be 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:52.240 doing more of the time. So so anyway, I just 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.240 wanted her to be I wanted her to be getting down. 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:56.800 That's kind of the whole point is that she's talking 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:58.080 about it for a long time, which I also think 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:01.000 is great, like the we'll talk about all the conversation 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.880 and stuff I thought were very real, very lovely there 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.440 were certain things that went kind of came back around 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:07.720 to being not appropriate. 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:09.480 Uh huh. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:14.560 Anyway, all right, all right, general vibes, okay. 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:21.160 Uh huh, much to discuss my firsty girl, Hey girl, 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:22.880 welcome back. 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:27.479 Thanks, welcome back from your grande tour by grande tour 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.799 across the real grande. 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:35.159 Ooh, oh my god god. And we haven't really spoken. 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:37.719 No, I've spoken. 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:41.919 We've handled a few tax things. Oh my god. You 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:43.720 had coffee with my parents. 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:44.160 I had. 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:46.200 You were in my parents'. 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:49.640 Home with your parents and they're listening right now. Hello, 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.799 Hello to JB and Ann. Thank you so much again 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.760 for hosting me. Your father picked me up and brought 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:58.440 me back home. It was okay. You've been in my 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:01.240 dad's car. I've been in your dad's car. I've been 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:04.600 in that Ford vehicle. I guess not your childhood home 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:06.400 because you know they're later. 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:09.000 But I've been all around. 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:09.800 I've seen all the art. 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:13.520 Oh yeah, what were your takeaways? 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.400 First impressions, last impressions. 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:17.120 Let's hear see. 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:20.440 Some of the color scheme really was very Leanna, and 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:21.960 I thought that was so cute. There was like a 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:24.240 boy's edge mm hmm. 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:26.039 That was nice. Yeah. 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:31.400 Really that cool kinetic art piece in the bathroom that 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.800 was like a little wooden Oh yeah, did you like 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:38.720 that guy going like, eh, I loved it. I loved 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:39.520 that guy. 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:40.080 Great. 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:43.200 There was some gorgeous art. There was the the the 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:47.360 these western landscapes with these little foxes downstairs. 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:51.400 Oh yeah, loved I think might even be a coyote. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:55.360 Coyote makes more sense, coyote. 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:56.960 Oh how fun. 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.200 Yeah, I had a delightful time. 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:00.480 There is a lot of art. 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:03.000 Yeah, you're right, you guys have a lot of art. Yeah, geez, 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:05.040 it was amazing. It was everything I dreamed. 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:08.680 Oh my god, that's so how fun. Cianna was passing 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.920 through Denver, Colorado on tour and she went to my parents' house. Yeah, 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:12.760 I love that. 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:13.560 It was awesome. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:17.320 Can I get something? We need hours to really digest 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:19.880 the tour. But are there any like big bullet points, 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:24.560 big highlights? Well, we talked, so everybody survived. 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:28.640 We survived. To be honest, that like surviving health wise, 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:30.640 being in the car spending that much time together actually 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.800 went fine. We were in the. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:37.760 Car for so long that we tried to learn telepathy. Okay, 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:45.120 and weirdly like that's the first I've heard of that happening. 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:47.600 That's not like a like, you know, if a human's 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:49.040 in a car for a long time. I don't know 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:52.280 that everybody jumps straight to well time to learn. It's 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:52.960 been enough hours. 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:57.080 I can probably podcast going around about kids who are 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:59.520 like literally telepathic, and we just had all these hours 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:00.960 to listen to and then we were just sitting in 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:03.200 the car, so we were trying to do telepathy on ourselves. 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:07.040 But honestly, it was it was a fun way to 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:11.240 spend our time. It was very goofy, and I feel 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:15.920 that I'm leaving the tour much more spiritual, really get ready. 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.840 Oh yeah, well yeah, I just had time. Desert will 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.160 do that to you as well. So it was really 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:25.400 nice to be in other places. And it was the 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:28.080 context of what I was doing, Like it was very clear, 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:31.640 very structured, and we had a very obvious stuff to 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.040 do every day. So I was just focused on the 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:37.360 show we're going to put on. But uh, there's like 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:42.840 the urgency. The feeling of urgency in Los Angeles is unparalleled. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:46.000 I didn't experience it anywhere else. I'm not saying they 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:47.920 don't have their own stuff other places, but they like 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.000 must make my things happen now, must figure out what 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.600 they are, must sell myself, must tell everybody. It just 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:55.480 wasn't the same vibe. People were just coming to our 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:56.480 shows to have a good time. 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:59.520 Yes, oh hell nice. 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:01.520 Yeah. And on the very first day that I went 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:04.280 to these I was at one of these shows because 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:06.280 we played there was like three musicians before us, and 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:10.120 then we performed with a musician during his entire show. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.120 I realized that I had, in order to survive for 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:17.400 this month, I had to become extremely zen at live 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.320 music events because normally I'm just waiting till I can 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:20.839 go home. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:24.760 Yes, yes, I understand, but I think. 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:26.320 This is what I mean about being spiritual is I 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:29.640 learned that I am more powerful than I think. I 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:32.800 can sit there for longer than I think I can 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.079 survive sitting in a car for more than I think, 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:38.400 like a more elastic Wow. I give myself credit for 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:40.679 so oh my gosh, Yeah, it was actually a really 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:42.520 good experience to have at this moment of my life. 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:48.000 Gosh, how very revelatory. Yeah, well I get that anyway. 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:50.679 So those are some takeaways. Thank you very much for listening. 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.120 We're gonna have to break war down, but to be honest, 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.400 survived better than you would think. The survival. 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:58.320 I'm so glad to hear it. 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.800 Yeah, I used to being squeezed into small spaces and stuff. 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:03.800 Just yea, a tall middle child. 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:10.040 Oh that's just pictured that as the cover of a 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:13.679 children's book. Just now, that's a tall little child. 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:15.840 The tall middle child. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:19.000 And you're always on a road trip in the back 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:21.280 of like a subaru, a mid sized sedan of some sort. 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:27.280 Hey girl, hey girl, Okay, this girl got her visa. 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.480 Yeah, that girl crazy. 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:34.199 I got my visa this week. We signed a two 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:37.360 year lease on our of our We renewed our our 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.280 lease on our flat for two more years. 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:41.560 Right because Eliza also got it right. 0:10:41.960 --> 0:10:46.000 Yes, my flatmate got there visa and thank god it's 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:51.560 We feel such relief. And I've been experiencing joy over 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:52.959 the past like three. 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:56.240 Weeks, which is very odd. 0:10:56.320 --> 0:11:00.560 Feels anachronistic in these times and selfish and also necessary. 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:01.560 I get it. 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.520 It's confusing, and also you got to take the winds 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:07.880 where you get them. It's also British summertime. 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:08.320 Now. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:13.240 We did daylight saving this past weekend, so the sun 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.040 is out, the. 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:16.480 Sun isn't here. 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:20.600 Oh my goodness, it's crazy. There's something very like ft 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:26.880 about living in a place that has really dark gray winters. Yeah, 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.960 there's something really eft about how much I like that 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:33.400 because of the stark relief that it throws the spring 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:35.720 and summer into when they finally happen. 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:38.040 I get it. I was thinking the other day about 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:41.800 how much my life revolves around relief. I love the 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:42.640 feeling of relief. 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.000 Hey, speaking of can I check in about how the 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:47.360 fiber coordination went on the tour? 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:50.120 When I saw my dad, he was like, your listeners 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:54.280 want to know where you stopped up? Yeah, and the 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:58.480 coordination was successful. Yes, I had no issues, which, honest, 0:11:58.520 --> 0:11:59.560 my god, I can't. 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:01.760 That's amazing. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:03.600 I really set my mind to it. I got in 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:05.120 that car the very first day and I was like, 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:07.520 I just can't let myself become miserable. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:12.120 But yeah, I'm just like, well, and oh, right now, currently, 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:18.560 what's happening? Currently? Right now? I finally allowed myself to 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:24.600 order hair products online. Wow, instead of making myself go 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:28.920 to a specific store that would have this specific product 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:31.760 because in my head, I'm like, well it's more carbon whatever, 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:36.320 take the bus somewhere whatever, and it's a less wasteful packaging. 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:41.240 Something I ordered this Thursday night. There was a promo 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:43.880 code on the website that gave you free delivery, so 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:47.960 I picked one day delivery. It arrived this afternoon and 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:51.040 it's in my hair now, and I was like, huh, 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:58.000 that really was beneficial. My life has benefited from that greatly, 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:01.839 And that's that's interesting going. These are the products that 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:04.680 I used to use in La. So I'm having a 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:08.680 lot of olfactory memory because my hair smells now like 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:11.400 it did when I lived in La. Wow, Like I 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:12.839 was ready for us to do a walk around the 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.280 block in West Hollywood to warm up for the pot. 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:19.000 You know, I might re enter a slut era, which 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:21.040 I wasn't in in La but I was hoping to 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:23.880 be at a time when you smelled that you thought 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:30.400 I'm about to be a slut Yes, genuinely, yes. So 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:31.240 let's see. 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:34.439 Let's see that mixed with this movie. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:39.240 Mm hmmm. Honestly, I think the two in combo in 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:43.199 concert with one another, putting them in a dialogue with 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:48.480 one another. The film and my hair product. It's going 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.960 to launch you, Oh my god. Okay, let's get into it. 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:54.360 Let's launch into Sienna. Could you please give us a 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:58.640 synopsis of good luck to you, Leo Grand Grand. 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:04.280 Yes, good luck to you, Leo Grant. Emma Thompson hires 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:07.880 a sex worker to learn what more life has to 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:13.200 offer sexually. She ends up learning a lot more than 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:16.719 that the end. 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:24.280 Yeah, okay, the movie takes place pretty much just in 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:25.040 a hotel room. 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:27.400 Almost the whole time. The only two characters are these 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:30.080 guys until sort of the last scene. We don't see 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:33.200 we're talking to anyone else about anything. They're just having conversations, 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:36.120 some of which are really interesting and some of which 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:41.480 I'd say they toggle between interesting and important and preachy 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:42.760 and a. 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:44.880 Kind of lame. 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:45.480 That's what. 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:52.600 Okay, hmm, it's a very gorgeous Irish man in your 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:53.440 bed right now. 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:58.240 You've got three minutes to enjoy that. We'll be right back. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:07.040 But okay, let's take Emma Thompson. They could put her 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:11.360 in anything. Oh, let's do our phone, let's do well, everybody, 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:13.040 let's talk about the movie. 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:17.640 If you may remember our podcast Toss Popcorn from Notes, 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:19.640 this is where we talk about the notes we took 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:21.200 on our phones while watching the film. 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:26.200 MMMM, and the film that Sienna in your voice recording 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:26.960 you called good. 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:32.200 Luckily, Luckily, O good luck and I love. On a 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:35.360 great note, you've said, I'm sorry, but a man humming 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:36.240 is unsettling. 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:40.600 The film opens in darkness with a man humming quietly 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:48.120 to himself, and I said, oh, a serial killer. Hmmmmmmmmmmm, yeah, 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.920 that's I don't Why are you humming? It did not 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:52.640 come up again as a man. 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.680 Why are you humming what you have to hum about 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:58.640 as a man? Why would you be humming? 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:01.920 Yeah? I have a big thing about that with as 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:05.200 a man. Why are you five foot nine? We can't 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:07.920 be the same height, be something else, be. 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:13.240 Any other height. I of course disagree, but I can't 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:17.000 say don't I disagree with that, but of course disagree. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:21.280 I think five eight is the perfect height for man 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.040 I want. And I'm happy for you that that's how 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.480 you feel. There are parts of this movie where I 0:16:26.520 --> 0:16:29.160 was just I was. I found myself being disappointed at 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:31.400 certain things, which I'll comment on your next note. Actually 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:34.720 that you've said this walked so baby girl could run, 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:37.320 and I just I was waiting for this movie to 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.280 be more daring. I know that's not what it was, 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:41.400 but just even a little bit, just a little bit 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:44.080 more like you know, they don't they show her naked 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:46.560 at the very last second, and if it's like as 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:48.880 if it's like a big prize that we all want, 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:50.600 when I'm like, just show her naked, like, just let 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:51.560 her be naked. 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:55.680 But I get this, it's interesting. I get this is Yeah. 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:59.360 But I will say I loved how Emma Thompson played 0:16:59.400 --> 0:17:01.680 everything because though I think if this had been the 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:03.360 script had been given to somebody else, it might have 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:09.040 been quite flat. She she is just such a good actress. 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:13.080 I really also like her being scared and nervous and 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:14.959 all the things like that was all very real and 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:20.919 very like. Yeah, she she portrays those like human The 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:23.080 stress of wanting to do something but not wanting to 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:26.800 was like the whole thing. So I did love that. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:31.080 Yeah, yeah, I see Ia. You noted. Oh they're sitting 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:31.600 and talking. 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:33.400 Hmm. 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:34.879 I guess this is gonna be the movie. 0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:37.760 You know what? 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:38.960 Did you think it was just gonna be like a 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:41.000 two hour fuck fest? Was that what you were thinking? 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:42.879 I guess I thought it would be. I didn't think much. 0:17:42.920 --> 0:17:44.960 I thought there would be okay, certain scenes I could 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:46.879 have imagined in this, and I don't want, like, this 0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:48.600 is what it was, so I'm not saying it should 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:50.360 have done this instead. I just when I was expecting 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:54.400 it would be more of like, you know, she experiences 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:56.560 something tastefully, we don't have to see it, but then 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.840 it's her with her girlfriends being like, have you ever 0:17:59.880 --> 0:18:03.680 been eating out before? You wanted it to be sex 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:07.439 In the city, She and her three other friends are 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:09.959 sitting at brunch, their normal brunch spot where they meet 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:12.760 up every episode. They say, have you ever been eaten 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:14.840 up before? And they all discuss it. One of them 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:17.000 is roprude about it, yeah, the other does it all 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:17.399 the time. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:21.600 That's what I wanted. And the fourth one's a lesbian. 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:23.719 Yeah right. 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.280 I literally think that is kind of what I was imagining. 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:30.520 But I just I guess I'm a little bit. I 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:34.080 really love what's happening culturally about us, like showing older 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:37.679 women and talking about what it's like to age and 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:43.679 still he experienced sexuality, Like how do we show that? 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:48.960 But like showing it in movies and just the way 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:50.800 like society treats you, blah blah blah, all this stuff. 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:56.240 I'm glad that we're we're uh, we are reckoning with 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.639 it now in movies. Yeah, but I just was like, 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:01.960 it's Emma Thompson. Let her be brave, let her just 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:07.000 boldly bone, let us see all the like nudity we 0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:09.679 see with older women too. Are that I've been and 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:12.040 I need to, I haven't. I don't watch I don't 0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:14.040 watch that many nude movies, so maybe I don't know. 0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:18.320 But you know the genre nude movie, they're like they 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:20.640 only ever showed them where they like look as young 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.359 as possible and stuff. Yeah, I mean when it's like 0:19:23.480 --> 0:19:26.240 Nicole Kidman yeaheah, it's like, okay. 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:28.560 Great, we've made sure to bring a person who, like 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:31.080 their entire career, they have to look as young as possible. 0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:33.840 So since she like just looks a little bit more 0:19:33.920 --> 0:19:35.520 her age, and that was like sort of the point, 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:41.040 just like a little bit episode. Yeah, I'm like, yeah, 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:44.520 get down to it. But that's like a separate thing 0:19:44.560 --> 0:19:48.320 from who her character is, which is like totally easing in. 0:19:48.680 --> 0:19:51.240 So I was conflicted about that point. I just I 0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:53.320 guess I got bothered when it felt like the movie 0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:58.160 felt whoever put the movie out, like Disney plus felt 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.720 like really proud of itself. You know. That was like, 0:20:02.200 --> 0:20:03.840 let this woman get fingered. 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:08.040 Oh, my god, that is really interesting. I didn't feel 0:20:08.080 --> 0:20:11.520 any of that at all, really, I really yeah, well, 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:14.600 I hm. For a lot of it, I was like, oh, 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:20.280 this is my autobiography, and then watching a biopic like 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:22.919 looking in the mirror, So I think all of her 0:20:22.960 --> 0:20:32.440 feelings of like fear and shame and not like cowardice, 0:20:32.520 --> 0:20:34.679 but like feeling like she is a coward, and then 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.439 judging herself for that. All of that stuff I was 0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:41.320 really resonating with. Yeah, and just that concept of like 0:20:41.440 --> 0:20:45.040 this thing that you've wanted for so long, but having 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:51.000 so much fear around it and not even knowing what 0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:53.679 it is that you really want from it, or like 0:20:53.760 --> 0:20:57.640 what aspects of it are the ones that you want. Yeah, 0:20:57.680 --> 0:21:00.199 all of that and so like as a result all 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:04.280 of the scenes being like nothing actually really happening until 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:05.600 kind of like the third meeting. 0:21:06.400 --> 0:21:13.760 I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think her behavior 0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:19.800 felt until I would say the third meeting, I think 0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:20.360 her behavior. 0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:22.560 I was like, yes, I think this is exactly what 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:25.320 I would be doing. Also, particularly when she was like 0:21:25.359 --> 0:21:29.119 my son is so boring. I love that. I love 0:21:29.200 --> 0:21:33.560 how she hated her kids. I was like, man, that 0:21:33.720 --> 0:21:36.520 is how I would feel because I'd be damn sure 0:21:36.600 --> 0:21:40.800 to raise a boy who is not a murderer, Like 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:43.840 it's just not evil, not an evil man. But as 0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:45.960 a result, he would probably turn out to be pretty boring. 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:48.600 She's like, I just don't think he's that cool. I 0:21:48.640 --> 0:21:53.200 don't know. Yeah, yeah, there are a lot of things 0:21:53.200 --> 0:21:55.000 like I liked him. I feel like that's a good 0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:59.040 example too, of how that generation got kind of screwed uncertain, 0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:03.119 like she like had to. She might not have wanted 0:22:03.119 --> 0:22:05.760 to be a mom that bad. She doesn't live, you know. 0:22:05.800 --> 0:22:07.159 But she's like, yeah, this is what I was supposed 0:22:07.160 --> 0:22:08.600 to do. I'm supposed to get married, I'm supposed to 0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:10.679 just like be with this man. He got to decide 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:13.600 what sex was for us. I never really got to 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:17.480 feel comfortable or safe like exploring anything. I felt like 0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:18.880 that was all really beautiful and real. 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:20.960