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Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser Podcast. Glaser's Nikki. Hello, it's me,

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Speaker 1: It's Nicky. I'm Nikki. It's Nicky Glaser Podcast. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the show. Forgot what I said the show and I

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Speaker 1: don't want to do it again. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited for the show today. Brian is still away.

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Speaker 1: Brian frangie is. He got married this past weekend. We'll

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Speaker 1: talk about that. He's not on the show because this

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Speaker 1: is like kind of his post wedding hard week off. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: postpartum week off, and so in not in his place,

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Speaker 1: but just here with us today in studio in Saint

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Speaker 1: Louis with me is backed by popular demand. Taylor mcraw hey, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: train Jumpin' klepto have other qualities besides crime, but are

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Speaker 1: fascinated in John Benney, like leading expert in John Benet

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Speaker 1: probably with one hundred radio insects.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, screen replacing thrift shopping.

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Speaker 1: Screen, car painting. Yeah, and what you have a degree too?

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Speaker 1: Though you actually like things that you could say after

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Speaker 1: your name. Besides, these things were just like attributing to you.

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Speaker 1: What do you what?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: What's your degree in?

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Speaker 3: I'm an m A. I could be Taylor McGrath a

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Speaker 3: guess in what psychology?

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Speaker 1: But what's an A stand for arts?

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Speaker 2: Let me CV, like, Taylor, tell me how close I am.

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Speaker 2: Taylor McGrath has worked in emergency rooms, working with high

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Speaker 2: risk patients who have experienced a schizophrenia and serious mental illness.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sure, that's great.

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Speaker 1: That's really good. And I like the worst use of CV.

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Speaker 1: That's very European.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't even know it is.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that?

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Speaker 1: Is that really it? It's like you're it's a resume,

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Speaker 1: correct CV, It's more the same thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, basically it's more bullet point I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and I call it a resume.

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Speaker 2: She's also a writer and illustrator.

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Speaker 1: You have so many facets. I'm fast sitting there facets

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Speaker 1: to I actually thought of you today because on the

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Speaker 1: street it says never wait, never stop improving on these

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Speaker 1: signs that are like construction signs for the hospital near

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Speaker 1: me and Taylor one day was like you could read

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Speaker 1: that has never stopped improving, Like they're always just like

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Speaker 1: a freewheeling it in there, like what.

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Speaker 3: Are we going to do this time?

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Speaker 2: Yes, anding each other by the way I want, I want,

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Speaker 2: stated a guy Nikki knows what I'm talking about who

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Speaker 2: seems like he just learned the phrase yes ending, And

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Speaker 2: if you don't know what that is, it's just what

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Speaker 2: they do. And improv where someone suggests you need to.

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Speaker 3: Start improving if you don't.

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Speaker 2: Someone like suggests an idea, and the good improv actor

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Speaker 2: or sketch person will say yes and to that, meaning

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Speaker 2: they won't like poo poo the idea and switch the

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Speaker 2: track or like the subject.

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Speaker 1: You should always be like to keep the flow going.

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Speaker 1: Do you know that about improv?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's also therapists.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 2: If someone's like, so I want to kill my brother?

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Speaker 1: Are butts ever good?

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Speaker 3: How about your mom?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 1: And then so the guy what about this guy?

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Speaker 2: He just would use this phrase constantly and he was

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Speaker 2: kind of he would always use it in a metaphor.

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Speaker 2: He'd be like, I was at this Broadway show and

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Speaker 2: it was just so wonderful to meet all these people

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Speaker 2: there because.

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Speaker 1: Everyone like you, guys, can probably figure out who this

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Speaker 1: is from her impression. It's someone you would recognize by

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Speaker 1: their voice. Wait say it again, do it again?

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Speaker 2: Be like, you know, with a sign of a good

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Speaker 2: friend to someone who's yes ending a lot you know,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, you're using this phrase constantly, like you

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Speaker 2: should not be using yes and thrice.

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Speaker 1: It's like when everyone learned the word wheelhouse and everyone

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Speaker 1: started using too much a rapping.

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Speaker 3: I wear many hats.

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Speaker 1: I really think of them as wearing. You say that

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Speaker 1: if you wear lots ofs, and then if you do,

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Speaker 1: I don't normally know you. If you're cop hat fighter Stenson,

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Speaker 1: I wear any It's really grosses me out. But actual

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Speaker 1: hat joke that I made in a SETH Meyers late

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Speaker 1: night said that Taylor Swift actually put in a song.

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Speaker 1: So she has this new song, which one is it?

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Speaker 1: I cried over a hat? Oh yeah, okay, so it's

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Speaker 1: in the the new song. Uh, I think it's your

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Speaker 1: losing me. No, it's what's the It hits different. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so when the bridge it hits different. She goes. I

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Speaker 1: find the artifacts, cried over a hat. Curse the space

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Speaker 1: that I needed, but cried over a hat. I did

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Speaker 1: a joke that I was like, when you're going through

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Speaker 1: a breakup, you'll cry about any You'll cry at the

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Speaker 1: drop of a hat. You'll be like, you wore hats,

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Speaker 1: and I'd chase a hat down the Street, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, that's kind of the same thing, Like, was

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Speaker 1: she maybe going for the because she's talking about a breakup.

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Speaker 1: I find the artifacts cried over a hat.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if she if she did that many,

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Speaker 3: but it made.

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Speaker 1: Me excited that I was on the same path. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess she just is meaning that I find the artifacts, oh,

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Speaker 1: like of her relationship. And she finds an old hate Penie.

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Speaker 2: Definitely skater Seattle skater boy.

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Speaker 1: She finds a beretank. God, he's gone.

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Speaker 2: Thank god you broke up with that one Beret guy

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Speaker 2: Nikki pl So Taylor and I.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to explain the new show that Anya

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Speaker 1: and I are watching to you with Ultimatum. I really

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Speaker 1: think besties need to get board with it. It's queer

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Speaker 1: ultimatum and it's all women or I guess none of

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Speaker 1: them are non binary. I think there was one girl

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Speaker 1: where they were tossing around them for a bit, but

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Speaker 1: then they went to she and then it was like,

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Speaker 1: no problem. So I don't know, you caught that too, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I think they all identify as what women, who

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Speaker 1: gives a shit? It's just it's queer ultimatum, not who

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Speaker 1: gives a shit, like I don't care what you go as,

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Speaker 1: but who gives a shit for me telling you that? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So queer ultimatum is awesome because ultimatum, if you don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's all these couples where one person is like, I

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Speaker 1: want to get married and the other person is like,

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Speaker 1: I like how things are the other person does. It's

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Speaker 1: not like a couple that wants to break up. They

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Speaker 1: with the status quo and one is like, I need

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Speaker 1: And then they all get put in a mix. So

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Speaker 1: it's five couples that all get thrown in together and

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Speaker 1: they all meet each other and the gist is and

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Speaker 1: they all sign up for this. They break up in quotes,

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Speaker 1: and then they all go live with another person they

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Speaker 1: choose after they mingle over like overkit choose them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So they meet and they all date each other.

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Speaker 3: But if nobody chooses someone, they just stick the last

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Speaker 1: You can tell that. Producers are just like, well you guys,

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Speaker 1: just like try, but it ends up everyone kind of

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Speaker 1: agrees on it, like people gravitate towards and they all

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Speaker 1: gravitate because it's a queer edition, they all gravitate towards

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Speaker 1: each other's partner. So they're like mostly swapping because it's

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Speaker 1: like the same kind of person or the same kind

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Speaker 1: of dynamic. One person doesn't want to get married, the

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Speaker 1: other person does. One person's avoidant, one person is secure,

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Speaker 2: Securely, attached, anxious?

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Speaker 1: Anxious. Yes, so there's that, Ma, and so so gonna

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Speaker 1: help to help me out, mama, because there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of that going on in here. So then they all

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Speaker 1: with this new partner, and they don't talk to their

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Speaker 1: exes at all. They are completely like doing this experiment

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Speaker 1: they're acting like they're married, which is a new kind

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Speaker 1: of concept. There was an ultimatum that wasn't queer, that

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Speaker 1: already happened, and I was telling Taylor. The biggest difference,

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Speaker 1: and this isn't spoiler, is that no one be fucking no, no,

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Speaker 1: none of these women some of them, I'm not saying who,

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Speaker 1: but some will go the entire time of those three

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Speaker 1: I go, what are we doing here? Like this isn't

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Speaker 1: But I thought, yeah, what episode are you on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, they don't have fun in the dark.

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Speaker 1: And there's one couple, one couple.

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Speaker 2: That's the game is on the blonde with the huge bazoon.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and there's so much better than that, but I

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Speaker 1: can't think of a single thing. And now, yes, she's

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Speaker 2: Four right together and start like cuddling the film.

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Speaker 1: No, but there we don't see any kissing from them.

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Speaker 2: I can you imagine doing that break up with the

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Speaker 1: But I'm telling I understand. The next night, I give

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Speaker 1: turns out, which the ultimatum did not tell us is

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Speaker 1: up that they wouldn't do anything physical with each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now this is such a woman thing. I really. I

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Speaker 1: And I was like, is because they're women and they

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Speaker 1: most men are territorial as well. So I don't know

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Speaker 1: why this, Why is this happening on this show? More

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Speaker 1: than and the only people that hook up betray that promise,

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Speaker 2: Way, right, So there is a spoiler here, and if

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Speaker 2: you got here, here's a belated No.

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Speaker 1: There's no spoiler. You're not gonna know, you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: know who did it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but you're if you're watching on F one hoping

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Speaker 2: that somebody fucking on F two you just found out

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Speaker 2: they're not.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, no one's watching it to see if they fuck.

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Speaker 1: I'm just telling so, yes, that's the spoiler. Well, I

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Speaker 1: guess what you should be mad about it then too,

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Speaker 1: aren't they fucking well? Did you notice this as well,

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Speaker 1: that no one is being intimate until like the last

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Speaker 1: second where it's like, come.

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Speaker 2: On, I just assumed they were. I had a different response.

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Speaker 2: I was like, these fucking hard they weren't showing it

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Speaker 2: to spooning on like the afternoon of breaking up with someone.

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Speaker 1: You don't think a reality show if they had footage

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Speaker 1: of these two kissing, would show it. You think they're

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Speaker 1: sitting on that footage but then we gotta watch. But

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Speaker 2: Related because it was a spicy Latine. It was like,

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00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 2: you don't like my fucking talk, We're gonna talk now,

438
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 2: And Ozzie's.

439
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, not with this tone.

440
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,640
Speaker 2: I'm afraid I'm gonna go outside and walk the dog

441
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 2: for the third time.

442
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 1: With the first time, the tone was a little much.

443
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 1: But this girl eventually just wants to have a conversation

444
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 1: and it's guess what, It's gonna be a little heated

445
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,119
Speaker 1: because it's about they're criticizing each other, you know, So

446
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 1: it's gonna so Aussie literally goes.

447
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 3: Her name is Aussie.

448
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

449
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not running. Why I'm not running away?

450
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,919
Speaker 1: And she's putting on running shi. She's like, I'm leaving,

451
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 1: but I'm not running why She's like lacing up these

452
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: nikes is so funny. But then and then she like,

453
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,719
Speaker 1: so we're spoiling this whole thing. But anyway, it's a

454
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 1: fascinating little trip into lesbian culture that I quite enjoy.

455
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 1: And then so uh, other things I want to talk about.

456
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: Went to Brian Francie's wedding. We'll do a better recap

457
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 1: on that when he is here. But it was so

458
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 1: pretty and lovely. We went out to Colorado Grand Lake.

459
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: You have to Land, Denver and then drive like two

460
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: and a half hours up to this beautiful little town,

461
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: so picturesque, so mountainous, and it like hailed minutes before

462
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: his ceremony, So it was like insane that like we

463
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: all and you just walk from your cabin to the

464
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,239
Speaker 1: little nuptial knoll, which I was like, that was the

465
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,719
Speaker 1: only knoll I've heard of besides the grassy one.

466
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 3: There's another null.

467
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's one other noose, the nuptial nol. It's like, yeah,

468
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: that's probably where the ultimatum, like they do the final

469
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 1: elimination rounds the nuptialnal. So yeah, it was so beautiful

470
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 1: and it like was crazy weather right before the ceremony

471
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: and then the sun came out and it was beautiful

472
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: and Brian was His vows were so funny. He has

473
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 1: a copy of them. He's going to read them for

474
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: us when he comes back next week. He'll be back

475
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: on the show next Wednesday.

476
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: So I haven't even started them.

477
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: He wrote his in the morning. The thing is the

478
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: bar is so low. I'm not saying Brian were funny,

479
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: but they were just and no, it wasn't about the

480
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: yes he is, but it wasn't about the writing. It

481
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 1: was just he was just honest, you know, like you

482
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: know what Brian is. He just like the way he

483
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 1: talks is funny, and it was. It was a grouping

484
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 1: of everyone who knows and loves Brian, and Brian is

485
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: a interesting character. He had like twelve close personal friends

486
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: from high school there, all of their wives. Everyone's like no,

487
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: Brian has like a cast, a wide net of friends.

488
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 1: It was really fun. Adam Conover was there from Adam Ruins.

489
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 1: Everything amazing reception with great dancing. Some critiques there, but

490
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: well not about his dancing, but about the music. We'll

491
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 1: get into that.

492
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 2: Brian a good dancer.

493
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 3: I heard a little bit.

494
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: Taylor Swiws song finally came on and Brian came out

495
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: to me and I'll just say this. He just goes,

496
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: is this acceptable? And I said absolutely not. And that's

497
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: that's where I'll leave that, because it was just the

498
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: way it was so but it was so funny that

499
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:52,679
Speaker 1: it wasn't. It was better than if it would have

500
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 1: been good. But otherwise we I mean, we had so

501
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: much fun dancing and just seeing Brian so happy. But

502
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 1: his his vows were incredible, her vows were incredible. And

503
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 1: then the speeches were really really funny as well, and

504
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: Brian apparently didn't get any sleep before his wedding day,

505
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: did not sleep one wink throughout the whole night, which

506
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: I think he put on the Instagram. That's where I

507
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 1: saw that exact stat because he was so One of

508
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: the reasons was he was so nervous about his best

509
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: man's speech. Who he ended up the best man. I'll

510
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 1: just say the last light of the best man's speech,

511
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,159
Speaker 1: he said something he's just like giving him shit the

512
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 1: whole time, and he goes and and like Ali loves you. Brian,

513
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: despite being this and this and also being on strike

514
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 1: from a job you don't have. That was so funny.

515
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 1: So shout out to Adam I think his last name's

516
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: uh Steinman, Adam Steinman who does it? And Long Island

517
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: and long on Long Beach, Long Beach, Long Island, is

518
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: that a place? Very funny guy and had one of

519
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: the funniest speeches even though he was up against comedians

520
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: on it. And then yeah it was it was a

521
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: great time. Favorite part, uh watch watching Brian walk down

522
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: the aisle like you know you like I know, mental walking.

523
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 5: Was he wearing his Cota Pacsi No, he.

524
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: Wore it at every other thing, and yes, he did

525
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 1: wear it at the reception right away. He just wanted

526
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: to be comfortable. And he was also wearing his fanning

527
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: pack the night before, like the intro dinner, was that

528
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: your favorite part? Because he looked so happy. I was

529
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:28,959
Speaker 1: just like, I started crying as soon as I saw him,

530
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: because I guess he's someone that I don't see like

531
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: a lot of what I do. What you're saying, he's

532
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 1: not emotional, and I'm like, no, I see an emotion

533
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 1: from him all the time. I don't know. I was

534
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: just so happy for him, I think, and then you

535
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: just like hearing there he was so you well, we'll

536
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 1: talk about it. The reason is all locked inside his

537
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: vows because the way he started his vows, the way

538
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: he kind of talks us through his life before he

539
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: met Ali, and then what Ali brought to his life.

540
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 1: And he said one thing that really was so sweet

541
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: that I'll share it was like because I remember it.

542
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: He's like, they say marriage is about compromise, but I

543
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: don't have to compromise anything with this woman. And I

544
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: was like, that's not fair, really okay, But I was like, actually,

545
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: like I think it's true kind of God, damn it,

546
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 1: head role. She's just so cool, like he really, I

547
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 1: do believe. It makes me believe in true love. That's

548
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: what I wrote in their little guest book. I was like,

549
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 1: and their love makes me believe in true love and

550
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: like how someone has like a soulmate kind of or

551
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 1: like the world like rewarded this man who was so

552
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: looking for someone in his life to like share life with,

553
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: and it was just you'll see when he reads his vows.

554
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: I'm so happy he agreed to do that when he

555
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: comes back. So since last episode, I've been to a

556
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: Flaming Lips concert, which was awesome. I you know, I

557
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: went and saw the beautiful musical. I'm doing things every

558
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: fucking night of my life. Tonight, I'm going to Matchbox

559
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: twenty bucket tailor Chris, Chris's parents, my parents, my sisters

560
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: Matt Green and Courtney Landrum from her show, and her

561
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 1: boyfriend Nick. So it's twelve of us. I asked Rob

562
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: Thomas for twelve tickets because I know Rob Thomas and

563
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: imbed him and said, yes, Rob, I am asking you

564
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: for comps. I am so sorry you encouraged me to

565
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 1: do it on you I wouldn't have done it if

566
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: Anya wouldn't have told me in the girl's chat that

567
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: it's okay. No, it's not your fault. I got them people.

568
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: You didn't tell me that I could do it, right,

569
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: You said it.

570
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 2: I said, I pay.

571
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: For any that I can't. Did you? Yeah? Yeah, I said,

572
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: I did exactly what you said.

573
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: But did he make you pay? No?

574
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 3: Nice?

575
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 5: No, he probably doesn't have any friends in Saint Louis.

576
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: He said, we have no guests. It should be fine.

577
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so embarrassed to ask for this number.

578
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: I cast a wide net because I thought people like

579
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: would have kids and like got to get up early.

580
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: But I was like, everyone's a huge fan and wants

581
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: to go, and so my I have twelve people want

582
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: to go. I'll pay for whatever you don't want to

583
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: give me. I'll pay for all of them. I'm so

584
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: embarrassed by this. And he said I can't get everyone

585
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: has to COVID test before to go backstage. I was like,

586
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: I would never bring eleven people backstage to meet you,

587
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: and I want anyone who's ever coming to my show

588
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: to know that too. If you have a big group,

589
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: I will grant you them maybe if you're my friend,

590
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: do not bring your whole fucking family backstage. That's too many.

591
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: So I was like horrified that he thought I was

592
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: going to try to bring twelve backstage to meet him,

593
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: but he gave me five backstages. So Taylor's going with

594
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: me backstage, my brother, my sister.

595
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: True Taylor, are you a big fan?

596
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: Like we were talking about how he was kind of

597
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 1: a heart throb. I mean he was one of my

598
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: first that I was like, that's like a kind of

599
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: a man that I think is really cute. It's the

600
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: first man he reminded me of pasty And you didn't

601
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 1: agree with that from Dawson's Creek I had, Like I

602
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: just like he's like my type of face, and like

603
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 1: and the curls like that that nineties haircut where it

604
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: kind of Taylor is saying, it comes out from under

605
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: the ears a little bit.

606
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 3: It's like a miniature Jennifer anis dancing.

607
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: And and he kind of even had Jenniferans and at

608
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: the top, like it's just kind of like, yeah, oh no,

609
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: it was kind of more spiky.

610
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 3: I don't really remember it like it was Dona.

611
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: It's like it was done up so Donnuts. If you

612
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: don't know it's I think we've covered it on the show,

613
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: but it would be impossible to go back and find it.

614
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: We called guys in high school that were like hot

615
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: in this certain way that they listened to fish. They

616
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: like probably like Dave Matthews. They like liked hokashell necklaces,

617
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: they like drove.

618
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 3: Vans, like the heel of their pant was shredded all

619
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 3: the times.

620
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: Du h h, yeah, Donna. So it comes from the

621
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: guy that was the quintessential donnut, that was so hot.

622
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: He had curly, moppy hair, he had like those like

623
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: kind of corduroy like thin corduroy pants. Yeah, talk like this,

624
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: and he had like he just was a He liked grateful,

625
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: dead and fish. His name is Ryan Wilson, and so

626
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: there's a fish song called Wilson and it's Donna, Donna.

627
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 5: Don't know.

628
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: It's like this bass note. So Dunna comes from Brian Wilson,

629
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: who represents what that thing is. And we were like, oh,

630
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: and so whenever we would see him, we would go Wilson, don'na.

631
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: We called them. One day we agreed to call them.

632
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: Do these guys always have marijuana on them.

633
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, someone around them will have it.

634
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 3: Oh, hackey sack one hundred billion.

635
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: They've got a frisbee on hand, hacky sack. Maybe those

636
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: they've definitely in college in the early two thousands tribe

637
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: that game where it's like those strings run like in

638
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: the courtyard of college where there's like those rubber bands

639
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: between trees and they're like balancing on it.

640
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 3: Slack line.

641
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: Slack line. They were stylines.

642
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 3: They had volvos okay, yes, everything, Oh yeah, far from

643
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 3: pooping what they have v Yeah, that's what Wilson did.

644
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: Ryan Wilson had that. It was like, because I was

645
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: in love with him secretly his like said v vevy there.

646
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 2: You remember.

647
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: Remembers we were saying it just last me. I don't

648
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: know why I said er vevy there, but that's.

649
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,719
Speaker 3: Like those like we are everywhere.

650
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it said ver vevy like I don't even

651
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: it might have said we're everywhere and there was like

652
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: maybe a little bit of it rubbed off the w

653
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Speaker 1: owners ver. Maybe it was oh my god, oh it

654
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: was so stupid. But anyway, Yeah, so I just want

655
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: to go through how many Matchbox twenty songs everyone knows

656
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: because people please ask my mom to go with me.

657
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: You're I know they have.

658
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: Besides the Santana one, which I loved.

659
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, that's just Rob Thomas solo and I've checked

660
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: their set lists for tonight because it's pretty static throughout

661
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: their tour and he's not doing any of his solo stuff,

662
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: which is also stuff that I really love, but bashs

663
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: twenty themselves. Okay, Taylor, we can all complete this. I'm

664
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: just gonna should I can I play just seconds of

665
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: the song.

666
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 5: As long as it's less than ten Oh?

667
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 3: Great?

668
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, that's three am? Is three am? Almost

669
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: be only?

670
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 6: That's Oh?

671
00:32:52,240 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: That one is nove My Hamless touch me? You know

672
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: that I won' want to push you around?

673
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 2: Will Yes?

674
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: Yep, Okay, here we go.

675
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 3: Oh this is a good one. Yeah, this one.

676
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 5: We used to play these songs all the time on

677
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 5: radio and in supermarkets and everything.

678
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 1: That's the thing it was to anytime you would go

679
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: into a supermarket, a gas station, Panera, anywhere. I'm not crazy,

680
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: I'm just a little well.

681
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 3: I know right now, I can't tell.

682
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 2: I forgot I'll these iconic guitar for sure.

683
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: I guess I've already lost you. I'll guess you're already gone.

684
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: I think I'm found. You think I'm right.

685
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 3: I think you're wrong.

686
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: Yes, So that one's I think you're so mean. I

687
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: think we're gonna try. Think this is.

688
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 3: My life friend. I think I'm scared.

689
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: Do I talk to mush? That's a problem I'm feeling.

690
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: If you're gone, it's time to comb home. Okay, we

691
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: have to just get to the calm home.

692
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 2: Like Adam Durts will do that.

693
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 3: The calm.

694
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: It was a nineties inflection of Jammy and he's you know,

695
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: it's who he is. This one's a newer one. Okay,

696
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: I know that one. Let's see how far we've come.

697
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: Let's see how far we've go.

698
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 2: For me, Rob Thomas really transitioned from like a guy

699
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 2: that I wouldn't really look at to like, holy ship,

700
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 2: he's hot when he cut his hair. When he cut

701
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 2: off that hair, you guys are proving over my I.

702
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: Was, I don't remember when he cut it. Let me

703
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: see when he cut it.

704
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 2: I remember he was like on Howard Stern and maybe

705
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: the early Ots or something or late probably, and I

706
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, he cut his hair and

707
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 2: he changed his step.

708
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,800
Speaker 1: When he shaved it when he buzzed.

709
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 2: It was.

710
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 1: See, I'm so bad. This is airing after I meet.

711
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 2: It, and he was wearing ray bands, like cool ray bands.

712
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: Buzz head like Chris had after mohaw, Mama.

713
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 3: That looks like I think you should leave?

714
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh guy, he kind of does look like Tim Robinson

715
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: from I Think You Should Leave. Oh yeah, yeah, I

716
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: like you better with curls. I'd like you to make

717
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: that hair curls. Yeah. No, it's showing us pictures, that

718
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: one in the red red shirt.

719
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 2: Can you google Rob Thomas aviators because I feel like

720
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 2: there was an aviator thing? Yeah, because I remember I

721
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: was like, what the fu? Look at that one on

722
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: the still to that top left is my type right there.

723
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: And he loves his wife so much. It's like so sweet.

724
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 2: Okay, he's almost Christian Bale, Like.

725
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:12,760
Speaker 1: There's a lot.

726
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, short haired, one of those.

727
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: I want to see it blown up.

728
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 3: Short short hair aviators real specific with our this is

729
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 3: it's not.

730
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: A tab for Rob Thomas. Short hair.

731
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 4: I hope he.

732
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: Believe it doesn't just fill in for you. No, there's

733
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: no short hair there he is. I mean that's a

734
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: short Yeah, he's he's cute he's hot, it's very exciting.

735
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: He's so nice, and he's giving me twelve tickets to

736
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: night So we're going to that tonight and then tomorrow

737
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: for my birthday, Chris got me tickets to go see

738
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 1: Tea and In Sarah. So I'm like, yeah, I'm going

739
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: to give him the ultimatum there, I'm gonna jump in.

740
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 1: I'm going to say.

741
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 3: You either one of you gets Tea and I want

742
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: to gets there.

743
00:36:55,600 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 2: I love them so much and so adventurous, you're so.

744
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 1: Up to I love well, you know, Flaming Lips was

745
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: an I'm not saying yes to any concert. By the way,

746
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: these just so happens to be like bands. I really

747
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 1: care about Fight Tests. By the Flaming Lips, they were

748
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: playing Yoshimi Battles the Pink Robots that whole album like first,

749
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: and then they were doing more So.

750
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 5: Is that Holla's favorite album?

751
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she named her dog after Yoshimi. So, but that

752
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 1: first song, fight Test, off that album. I had to

753
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: be there right away because the first song of Fight

754
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: Test is in my top five favorite songs of all time.

755
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: It's one of my fits. It was so good. I know,

756
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: it's such a cry. I love that because I'm a man,

757
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: I don't know it's not a boy and there are

758
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 1: she can't a boy. You have to take it when

759
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: you're not prepared. I don't even know why I like

760
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: it so much, but I think it's because whatever key

761
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 1: that's in whatever, there's some elements of that song that

762
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 1: make my perfect song because it's it is like when

763
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: there's like a pleading in a song, like there's this

764
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: new tailors of the song You're losing Me, and she's

765
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: just like she's telling the guy like it's it tells

766
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: us a window into her recent breakup, not with Maddie

767
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: Heally but with Joe Allen, and she's like in it,

768
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: she's like, you're losing me, and she just like keeps

769
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: screaming it, but it's almost like begging, like try to

770
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: like get me back, but also like sorry, Like at

771
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: the beginning, she's kind of like, I love the sorry.

772
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do a little swifty song analysis right now,

773
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: but I think they're twelve percent of our listeners care

774
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 1: the song You're Losing Me. It starts out it's so good.

775
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 1: She's like, you say you don't understand, You say you

776
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: don't understand, and I say I, no, you don't. And

777
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: it's so good because it's like you know that someone's

778
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: like I don't understand, and she's like, I know you don't,

779
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 1: but it's just and it's but there's kind of like

780
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: a little bit of in the first verse, there's a

781
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: little bit of her being like I gave you, like

782
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm letting you maybe try to win me back. And

783
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: then by the second verse, she's like, I gave you

784
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: so many signs. I bit my nails all the time,

785
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: like you, my face was my skin was gray, but

786
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: you wouldn't admit we were sick. These are some of

787
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 1: the lyrics of just like you should have known that,

788
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: Like how do you say you love someone you can't

789
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 1: see is dying? Like this relationship has been fucked. I've

790
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: been like miserable in it. You don't even notice this

791
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: is coming out of nowhere for you. I've been miserable

792
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: for months and maybe I didn't say it out right,

793
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: but like you should have Like it's not it's weird

794
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't notice. I'm I don't like you anymore.

795
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: So then by the but then by the third verse,

796
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: it's over and you could tell he's by the bridge,

797
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: he's running down the hall She's like, now you're running

798
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: down the hallway, and you know they all say, you

799
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: don't know what you lost until it's gone. You don't

800
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: know what you got until it's gone. So then you

801
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: can tell he's trieding to like fighting back. And then

802
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: the I love the way she changes the chorus in

803
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: the last In the last chorus, she like is like sorry,

804
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: like stop, you're losing me, Like this is you're embarrassing yourself,

805
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: like I'm gone, And I love a song that like

806
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: takes you on a try rip like that as well.

807
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 5: Is there anything in your past relationships that was like

808
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 5: the indicator that it's over?

809
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: Like what is it for all of you?

810
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 7: Oh?

811
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point where it's an indicator that

812
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: it's over, Like how.

813
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 3: Do you know having too many like white chunks in

814
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 3: the corner of your lips.

815
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: Like you don't find those charming anymore?

816
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 3: Would never date anyone that ever?

817
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 5: No?

818
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: No, I mean like if so, are you talking about

819
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 1: show up during a relationship suddenly they got it and

820
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: you were like at no, but I'm saying in the past,

821
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: do you think, but what has happened in the past

822
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: where someone I think what I'm predicting is going to

823
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: be said, because I've heard this before, is that when

824
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: you're disgusted.

825
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say, when you get

826
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: or whatever it's called, yeah.

827
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 3: The which you would get from the white stuff in

828
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 3: the corners before yeah, or if they get like sloppy,

829
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 3: like if they get like so drunk and you're embarrassed.

830
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 3: Were like, so you.

831
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: Love someone you could put up with, you get disgusted

832
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: by their physicality. Their physicality doesn't have to change that much,

833
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 1: and you can be disgusted by them when you finally

834
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 1: are like not in love with them anymore, I think,

835
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: and like cognitively, like we were talking about, like as

836
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: a woman, like if the emotional bond is broken, they

837
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: can become kind of disgusting physically, whether they get the

838
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: white things on their mouth or not. Like they could

839
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: have a clean mouth and you could still be like,

840
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: I don't even though I liked you a month ago,

841
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: and you've looked like this right now, I'm repulsed.

842
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 3: Don't you think that's because you made them much hotter

843
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 3: by loving them? Like when you first meet something, you're like,

844
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 3: they're pretty cute, but sometimes you're like I didn't even

845
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 3: notice that guy the first ten times, and now he's

846
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 3: the hottest man ever. Didn that happen? Happens?

847
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,720
Speaker 1: It happens to one of the people on the ultimatum. Actually,

848
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: there's this girl that starts out like fine, and she

849
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: gets so fucking pretty the more she is loved by

850
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: this person, She's finally like in a relationship where she's

851
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: getting showered with love, like real intimate love, and she

852
00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 1: turns into a glowing Princess's watching to see who you

853
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: think it is. But yeah, no, I think I think

854
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: people love it. Definitely. It's like talking to a plant

855
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: and being like I love you. When the plant like grows,

856
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm realizing I'm trying to think of other things.

857
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 2: Relationships. You know how they always say like they always

858
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: come back. Just wait, they always come back for me,

859
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 2: like they've never come back, always.

860
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: Like they're gonna come back someday.

861
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 2: And all my breakups have been like violently like traumatic

862
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 2: or not violent, but like like you're cheating on me

863
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 2: and you do drugs. It's always like, what, like you've

864
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: cheated on me every day for the last six years

865
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 2: and you're a cocaine addict.

866
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 1: Was there any part of those people because I'm just

867
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 1: playing their side of things, which is literally the devil's advocate.

868
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: I if I was cheating on someone so much and

869
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: also doing drugs behind their back and all these things,

870
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: I would kind of think they knew a little bit,

871
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: and so I would.

872
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 7: Be even thought was diarrhea for the last six years

873
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 7: as the cheater the key in the lock, I'd be like,

874
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 7: that would go.

875
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: You have to have known, like was there any part?

876
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 1: Were you not that? I think that is a right

877
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: thing to assume, like if someone's just cheating to like

878
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: slowly get you to notice that they're cheating, and then

879
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: you eventually call them on it, Like not none of

880
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 1: it's cool. But I do feel like even in Taylor

881
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: Swift song, she's like I sent you signals and bit

882
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: my nails down to the quick. I don't know what

883
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: the quick means, but it didn't. I'm like you you

884
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: expect him to figure out that, like, well, she's like

885
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: gnawing on her cuticles and it's like bleeding. I could

886
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: see that happening. I did, but I could see him

887
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: being like why would I? Sometimes I don't notice those things,

888
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 1: Like sometimes I get mad at Chris because you won't

889
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: notice like something that I've been so like, so I

890
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: think I'm being so pissy and like obvious about my feelings,

891
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: but it's just he's not even he doesn't see it

892
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,399
Speaker 1: at all, and I'm like, how could not? But it's

893
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: like he's just not in tune with the same things

894
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: I would be in tune with. I forget what my

895
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: original question.

896
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 2: Was, but it was I did not know that he

897
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: was cheated?

898
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: Did your boyfriend ever? Go like, come on, you had to.

899
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 2: Know because he was a different breed of a person,

900
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,879
Speaker 2: like he was on the witness stand many times being

901
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: interrogated by me, and every time like for a perfect liar,

902
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 2: like I don't know what you're talking about, babe, you

903
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,959
Speaker 2: really need to get some therapy, Like so.

904
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 1: What did he say in response when you hadn't then

905
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: the proof and you went back and said, all of

906
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: those times, how could you lie to me? Did he

907
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: have any response to that?

908
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 2: He left?

909
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: He left, but he never he never had to responding, ran.

910
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 2: Away, he disappeared, and I was like, no response, which,

911
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: by the way, is a response, ladies and gentlemen, if

912
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 2: you feel crazy in a relationship, get out, Like if

913
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 2: you're constantly like why do I feel insane? And the

914
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 2: person and you're like, maybe I'm crazy, You're not. Your

915
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 2: gut is trying to tell you said some people are.

916
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 2: I mean some people are. But yeah, he just left

917
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 2: in shame and like I think, Like weeks later, I

918
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 2: was like trying to piece together some stuff and he

919
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: was just like, it doesn't matter. I was like, but no,

920
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 2: I need to, like, what about that one weekend where

921
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 2: you swore that you didn't like, did you actually camember

922
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 2: my friend? Who I She told me that you cheated

923
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 2: with her friend? Remember, and then I didn't speak to

924
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 2: her for a year because you told me that friend

925
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: was crazy?

926
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: Did you cheat?

927
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 2: And he was like does it matter? I'm like, okay,

928
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 2: that's a yes. Like he would never give me a yes.

929
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 2: It was maddening.

930
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this guy.

931
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,479
Speaker 3: Oh I hate I had the same guy. But also

932
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 3: when I just was it on my grandpa's funeral and

933
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 3: he's like, it doesn't mean you don't need to go

934
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 3: through all.

935
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Like the past is the past. That's a

936
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 1: very common f boy Island phrase. What happened in the

937
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: past is the past. That means I cheat all the time, Yeah, chronically,

938
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: and I and you know it's about the future. We're

939
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 1: moving forward. I'm also going to cheat.

940
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: The audio book for Prince Harry's book. I listened to

941
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 2: the forward because he says in the very beginning he goes,

942
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 2: what's past is post? He goes, it's past a post

943
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 2: and the post is in the post.

944
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: And I listened to him so many times that made

945
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 1: me laugh. I wish he could play it. Could I

946
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,800
Speaker 1: play him seconds of it? Yeah?

947
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 3: No matter what content?

948
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 2: Okay, oh no, it's finely going to be the acknowledgments.

949
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 2: I'll find it, like after the commercial.

950
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's post is? We'll play it? Well, Annie will

951
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 1: find it. We'll put it right here.

952
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 5: The post is never dead.

953
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: It's not even post.

954
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 3: William Faulkner.

955
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: Oh, wasn't that fun. We didn't hear it yet, but

956
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: you guys did. Yeah. I everyone's mad at Prince Harry

957
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,280
Speaker 1: again and Megan Markle. They just can't get a break

958
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: because they only gave thirteen episodes to Spotify for their

959
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: like fifty billion dollar deal, fifty million dollars deal they

960
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: got it Spotify to do a podcast and she only

961
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: turned in like twelve episodes them like a titled brats.

962
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: I love them and they can do no like I

963
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 1: will defend them to the death. Now, I'm really working

964
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: on this friendship that I'm gonna have with them. I

965
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: think cool. I want to hang out with them, I

966
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: really do. I love him. I'm gonna get in there

967
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna They're gonna see me on something defending them.

968
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: I get. I get their side of things. Someone was

969
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: just calling him a little winging wind winging. Oh, they

970
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: love to use winging. It was someone that I really

971
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: liked too, and I was like, I can't even watch

972
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: this because this person has it so wrong about them

973
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: about like all he does is wine. Oh, I'm a

974
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: royal and my life sucked. It's like people that have

975
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: great lives on the outside are allowed to have deep pain,

976
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: especially when you're never allowed to grieve the death of

977
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: your mother that was public and you had to walk

978
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: behind her casket and have a and your dad didn't

979
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:58,720
Speaker 1: do any Your dad, Charles, you never got one hug

980
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 1: from except one when you're a what eleven year old

981
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: boy and you just lost your mom. No one hugs you,

982
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: not your dad, and you never get to cry. You

983
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: think you're gonna turn out okay, no matter what you

984
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 1: gotta feel sorry for that person and maybe have a

985
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: little empathy for them as an adult, as I would you.

986
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: And whatever fucked up shit happened to you person online

987
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: who's being mean to.

988
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 3: Them, Yeah, oh bad.

989
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 2: Good was when he's like, wait, Mommy's gone forever, He's like,

990
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 2: puts his hand on his back and goes, I'm afraid

991
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 2: so dear Lily and walks out, no, Charlie.

992
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: And he wakes him up in the middle of the

993
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: night to tell him and then just leaves him in

994
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: the middle of night. So from like three in the

995
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: morning until they had to get up for breakfast at

996
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: eight o'clock, you know, and their servants came in to

997
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: like dress them, and of course everyone's like, oh they

998
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: had servants. They had it so good. You would have

999
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: been fucking miserable in his shoes too. Just everyone have

1000
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:48,760
Speaker 1: a little idea, okay, empathy.

1001
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 5: So just like the other perspective of that, where like

1002
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 5: I don't I don't really know them that well, so

1003
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 5: I'm not here nor there. But I guess the issue

1004
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 5: that I have with people who have a lot.

1005
00:48:59,920 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: Of money behind them and all that.

1006
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 5: Is that they have access to the best kind of

1007
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 5: therapy to get over that trauma and to rise up

1008
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 5: from it and stuff like like and just thinking about

1009
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 5: like what I had to do to afford therapy and

1010
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 5: how like crazy that was like why don't they take

1011
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 5: advantage of.

1012
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: Because they do. They do. He goes to tons of therapy.

1013
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: He was going like five days a week, like he

1014
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: does all of that. So it's like who knows if

1015
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: it's working or what modalities he's trying, Like he was

1016
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: doing mushrooms for a while to do stuff with it. WHOA,

1017
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: did you guys just hear? This is so fascinating. So

1018
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 1: they were doing an experiment with MDMA on a bunch

1019
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: of like trial people that were just trying to make

1020
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: some money. This is so cool. So they were doing

1021
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: a trial of you know however many people, and one

1022
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 1: of the people in the trial said wrote into the

1023
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: experiment people and said, I am google my name, you'll

1024
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: know who I am. I realize something big and I

1025
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: all he wrote was google my name. I experienced something

1026
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: during this experiment that made me realize I have to

1027
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: do something big. And then they googled his name and

1028
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: he's a white supremacist that was fired from his job

1029
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: and he was all over the news because he was

1030
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 1: one of the people that was photographed at that tiki

1031
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: torch rally thing. You know, there's Trump said there's good

1032
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: people on both sides. That bullshit they like pretty much

1033
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:26,240
Speaker 1: a Nazi rally, a march that they did forget where

1034
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 1: killing in North Carolina. Yeah, So he was photographed there,

1035
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:32,959
Speaker 1: lost his job because of it, all over the news.

1036
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 1: So these people in the study google this guy's name

1037
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: and they go, oh my god, he's gonna do something big.

1038
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: That's all he says in is like cryptic email, and

1039
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: so they contact him to be like, what's going on, dude,

1040
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 1: And he's like, I just while on MDMA, I realized

1041
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: how ridiculous this all is, and I love everyone, and

1042
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to be a white supremacist anymore. And

1043
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,720
Speaker 1: like had a fucking epiphany. And so they think MDMA

1044
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 1: can like kill racism, Yes, because it opens your heart

1045
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 1: in a way that you can't hate eat.

1046
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean that's pretty cool.

1047
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: It's so I want to do MDMA.

1048
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 3: You should be forced in jail if you do, like

1049
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 3: a hate crime to do MDMA until you have How do.

1050
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: I get MDMA and do it? And how am I?

1051
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 1: Will someone please reach out to me about like mushroom therapy,

1052
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 1: MDMA therapy, No in a healthy way where it's like.

1053
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 5: You have a friend who does that on a record,

1054
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 5: my friend's sister who's coming to town.

1055
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Neil Brennan. But I want I don't know. I

1056
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: just want to know all of my options about how

1057
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: to do this, like clinically, so that I can have

1058
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: some like fucking epiphanies about life and my place in it,

1059
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:39,439
Speaker 1: because I do. I really believe in all of these things,

1060
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 1: and I want to start learning how to do it

1061
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: that it isn't just some guy who gives me a

1062
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: baggy of stuff.

1063
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 2: What kind of therapies of U seen really work for

1064
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 2: people with severe mental illness and blocks like in your people.

1065
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:58,280
Speaker 3: Do like peyot and mushrooms and MDMA and like basically

1066
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 3: anything d MT anything you've seen it. There's all kinds

1067
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 3: of drug assisted therapy. Not like I haven't like personally

1068
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 3: met anyone that you know, seen them before and after,

1069
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 3: but like my friends have done it and they're like

1070
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 3: it was great, but not like I haven't seen it.

1071
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to come on races that is whatever that

1072
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: has worked for Neil Brennan is not depressed anymore because

1073
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 1: of d MT. I've shared this before, but he did

1074
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: say that he would never recommend DMT to anyone or

1075
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: he couldn't pay him a billion dollars to do it again,

1076
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 1: Like he would never ever do it again. But he

1077
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: doesn't have depression anymore, and he suffered with it his

1078
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: whole life, which is even the reason why he was

1079
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 1: doing Like why would you go that far? He'd tried

1080
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 1: every kind of thing and uh and yeah, so that's interesting. Okay,

1081
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to break and come back and talk

1082
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: about something else. We're back another popular topic on the

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Speaker 1: Girls Chat and get one on your bingo card. Thank

1084
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: you to Nicki Glazer Nikki pod memes. I think it's

1085
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 1: called for making a bingo card of all the topics

1086
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,959
Speaker 1: I talk about every time when it's on the show.

1087
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: See if I've hit how many a pod memes? Nicki

1088
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:01,240
Speaker 1: pod memes?

1089
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 3: What's that Instagram?

1090
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, so let's see on the on the bingo

1091
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 1: chart he made talks about succession, haven't done it yet?

1092
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 1: This doesn't count.

1093
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 5: I have to talk about a TV show? Should just

1094
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 5: be a TV show that you're watching.

1095
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: I think six, I like six, No, because that's like

1096
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: every pod. Yeah, it has to be I think it

1097
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 1: has to be more specific. I think he nailed it

1098
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: or she I have no so I have no kids

1099
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: so I can spend money on. I didn't mention anything

1100
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,240
Speaker 1: of that. Yeah, I don't think I mentioned Taylor Swift. Okay,

1101
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: so you got one saying someone saying okay, I said it. Okay,

1102
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,720
Speaker 1: Kobs said Nikki Trash talking certain instant accounts.

1103
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 2: You almost got there.

1104
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we will, we will.

1105
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get there. Nikki complaining about her previous, present

1106
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: and future voice. No, I haven't done that yet.

1107
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 3: This person.

1108
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: Someone jokes about Apple rankings, didn't even talk about Apple

1109
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: rankings dot com. Niki talks about no free will. I

1110
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: haven't touched on that yet, but I don't know.

1111
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 4: I'm not.

1112
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 1: No, I think I still do this stuff, and then

1113
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: mentioned the girls chat. So we have we have two? Wait,

1114
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: we have three been we'll see, we'll see if we

1115
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: had any more of those. You let everyone be on

1116
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: a lookout for those other ones, because I want to

1117
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: see if we get because right now we have the

1118
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: upper right hand corner, the bottom right hand corner, and

1119
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 1: the left middle side, So we are we don't even

1120
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: have close to bingo right now or TikTok toe okay,

1121
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: so oh no, we could get to okay, but I

1122
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,280
Speaker 1: went to happen naturally, So I'm gonna try to reset

1123
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: from my mind on the girl's chat. So that's why

1124
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: I thought of this Anya. Anya always has genital questions,

1125
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 1: general genital.

1126
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 3: Question, genital She came up with.

1127
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: One the other day. I don't even know what spurred it.

1128
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: Will you tell us the genesis of it?

1129
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 2: I don't know what it has been like eating at me,

1130
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 2: I guess. And I was just maybe somebody was talking

1131
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 2: about they're I don't know, I can't remember, but I

1132
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 2: was like, I'm sick of seeing women wipe or people

1133
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 2: talk about wiping, like obviously you wipe front to back, right,

1134
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, of course of course, Like I have

1135
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 2: a ut I, oh, you're wiping front bragging about that.

1136
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: They're all bragging about it.

1137
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 3: Get what I know.

1138
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 2: And you'll see a European film and a woman sitting

1139
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 2: on the toilet and then she pulls one of these. Okay,

1140
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it. She does this.

1141
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: So Anya's taking her hand behind her backside.

1142
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 2: After pee and wipes, so she'll just do that, and

1143
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 2: it's like all the American audiences will gasp because we

1144
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 2: don't wipe that way. In the States, we wipe like this, so.

1145
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 1: We should You should just go like that. You should

1146
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: do claw really hard to that's the best way. The

1147
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: European way is to start at the vagina from the back.

1148
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 3: But don't you do two separate wipes front and back.

1149
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 2: If I'm just paying, you take the pe and follow.

1150
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 2: But in European films, a woman peace and then she

1151
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:05,879
Speaker 2: reaches around her butt. Okay, And I'm saying I'm sick

1152
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 2: of this posing. I think a lot of women are

1153
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 2: wiping front to back. They're just not grabbing their butthole

1154
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 2: and wiping. They're just wiping their vagina.

1155
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 1: They're urethra. I wipe back to front from the front,

1156
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 1: like you're not supposed to, like you're like everyone thinks

1157
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,959
Speaker 1: you're bringing ship up into your vagina. But I don't

1158
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: even get near I don't even get near my tink.

1159
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: It's just my vagina. I wipe, just my vagina to

1160
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: the front, and I don't get I don't get East infections,

1161
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 1: I don't get ut I s except from sex. So

1162
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: I'm not going to change the way I do it.

1163
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 3: I think the worrying about it is during poop and

1164
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 3: p I don't think anybody's worrying that when you didn't poop,

1165
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 3: there's still going to be some poop.

1166
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's stuff.

1167
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 2: People worry.

1168
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 3: I thought it was just poop and pe I was like,

1169
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 3: who into the vagina?

1170
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,439
Speaker 2: So yeah, I was just taking a pole to see

1171
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 2: because I thought like, maybe I'm the only woman that

1172
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 2: wipes back to front, but you said dab, but really

1173
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 2: I'll just wipe technically back to front. But it's not

1174
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 2: like Nikki said, it's not past the perineum.

1175
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, your taint gives you a good quarter to a

1176
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: half an inch before you're eating in the asshole region

1177
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: to play with and you can't play with it.

1178
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 5: Something disgusting that. I Yeah, sometimes if I'm doing both right,

1179
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 5: sure I will take my pee because I go from

1180
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 5: front to back and I'll use the wet I've never

1181
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 5: heard of that.

1182
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, what the.

1183
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 3: Fuck you if you're far from the sink, because I

1184
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 3: also get a blob what Yeah, I have never, But

1185
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 3: sometimes I do the under the sink with the pea

1186
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 3: because there's not very much to use.

1187
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: Your own pee as a wet wipe.

1188
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 3: Or said spit on it.

1189
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I done that for some reason. That

1190
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: grosses me up.

1191
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 2: There's like food on food in your mouth, but I

1192
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:07,959
Speaker 2: have thought about it. I'm like, why is my butt

1193
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 2: hole mint tea? And I'm like, oh, I just brush

1194
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 2: my teeth.

1195
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: Have you ever used your.

1196
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 3: Sounds nice?

1197
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: We never used your period blood as lube because they

1198
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: don't know you're on your period yet of course, and

1199
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: you're in the dark and you're they're like, they think

1200
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 1: you're super. Sometimes I'm just like I didn't and I

1201
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just like I guess I am. And

1202
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you got it out of me.

1203
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I say. Made it start.

1204
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, But even though it's been going for tamp on it,

1205
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: I think I had that joke actually in my ec Okay,

1206
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: so we covered that. I went to the pool yesterday

1207
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: with my niece and neph the public pool. I have

1208
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 1: never I haven't been to a public pool since we

1209
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: were kids. That's where me and Taylor film love was

1210
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: the Tree Court public pool where it we'd spend every

1211
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 1: single day of every summer between seventh.

1212
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 3: But it was private.

1213
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 1: It was private. Yeah, it felt public.

1214
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 3: To be a membo.

1215
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 1: But I mean, like I still had to at the

1216
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: YMCA yesterday, I still had to like, yeah, that's I

1217
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 1: didn't feel that public. I paid thirty two dollars. Well

1218
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 1: maybe it was thirteen, but then plus the kids and stuff. Anyway,

1219
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 1: went with three kids, three kids under the age of six,

1220
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 1: just swimming in a pool and my sister. How are

1221
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: not more kids under around it all the time at

1222
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: these pools? Because there is a lazy river there, there's

1223
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: a current flowing through that thing that is rough.

1224
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 3: There's a lazy lifeguard there.

1225
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: There's lifeguard. A pool runs through a lazy river.

1226
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 3: Around the pools there is the webster goes through what's

1227
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 3: a lazy river? It pushes you.

1228
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: I am confused at your question. You don't know what

1229
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 1: a lazy river is.

1230
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 2: I've never heard this phrase in my life. Shots, I

1231
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 2: guarantee what listeners are with me?

1232
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: Have you guys ever heard of a Maggie river.

1233
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 5: I'm just imagining like just blowing water.

1234
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: No, but like, do you know, like if someone's like, oh,

1235
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: this water park is a lazy river, do you know

1236
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 1: what that is?

1237
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 2: No?

1238
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: I think I can assume what it is. I don't

1239
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 1: know what is it?

1240
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1241
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: What is it?

1242
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 5: I I just imagine like a moat basically, and the

1243
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 5: water is just like slowly.

1244
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 1: Yes, it's a river through like a river where the

1245
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 1: water is flowing, so like if you sit on a raft,

1246
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 1: it'll just take you through it and around and around

1247
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 1: and around and you could go forever around around.

1248
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1249
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: No, it's not actually yes, it's man made and it's

1250
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: they're they're very common at water. I guess you've never

1251
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: been to a water park in your life. I'm just

1252
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: guessing because they're literally.

1253
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 2: Asking one once what the lazy river? Thirteen year old

1254
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 2: just slapped me right across my face. Why because he

1255
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 2: and all his friends cut in front of me. He

1256
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: cut in front of my little sister and all our

1257
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 2: friends at their birthday. And I was like, hey, you

1258
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 2: can't do that anyway, and he slapped me across my face.

1259
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: How old were you?

1260
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 2: I was like seventeen.

1261
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to get stay after. I just knew you

1262
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 1: were seventeen or eighteen, oh my.

1263
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 2: God, maybe twenty even slapped I must have been twenty

1264
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 2: if my I know, my sister was like eight nine.

1265
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 3: But you look young, so he probably thought you were

1266
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 3: like his same age what did you do?

1267
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 2: Rounded all the kids up and was like, we're getting

1268
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 2: out of here. I was like very shaken up.

1269
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: Oh my, And how old was he?

1270
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 2: Probably my like probably fourteen.

1271
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 1: He was and you were twenty. I would have been like, kid,

1272
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 1: what are you doing?

1273
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 2: He was like mine? It was I remember, Oh fuck,

1274
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 2: hit me hard. It's okay. But anyway, there was no

1275
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 2: lazy river there.

1276
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 3: He slapped the knowledge of the lazy.

1277
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:52,720
Speaker 1: We'd have got to it if a kid didn't slap

1278
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:53,480
Speaker 1: the shit out of you.

1279
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 2: Water rides and water slides, though, but.

1280
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: Every water park has a lazy river. But it doesn't matter.

1281
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: Do you know what a lazy using?

1282
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 3: Yes?

1283
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 1: Okay, good, But do you know what a dumb anya is?

1284
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 1: I couldn't think of anything that was like more specific

1285
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: to not knowing what a lazy river was, but I

1286
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: didn't mean dumb uh, So yeah it was. The lazy

1287
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: river was so fun. But I gave Poppy this like

1288
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 1: little unicorn that you put in water and it will

1289
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 1: grow warm water, you know, and I and she loves unicorns.

1290
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 3: Like a sponge.

1291
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a not sponge, but it's like it's like

1292
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 1: a no, it actually a hill. No, not a pill. Sponge.

1293
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 1: Those are fun though, but she so it wouldn't go,

1294
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 1: it wouldn't get bigger in the cold water. I was like,

1295
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: you have to put in hot water, babe, because it's

1296
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: like not growing at all. And so at the end

1297
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: of the day she was like, I just so I

1298
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: want next time, I want it to be pink and

1299
01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to grow very big in the cold water.

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01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: And I was like, you got it, So pink grows

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01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: big and cold water. I'm on it. I will find it.

1302
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 2: And she's she.

1303
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: Was so excited about there's no such thing. It has

1304
01:02:58,200 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 1: to be in hot water. Anyway, she locked. She was

1305
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: holding in her hand the whole day. I gave it

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01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,479
Speaker 1: to her before we went to the pool. I didn't

1307
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 1: even know we're going to the pool. I just went

1308
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 1: over there to give them some gifts and they were like,

1309
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: we're going to the pool, and I was like, I'm free.

1310
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: There's no excuse not to let's go. So she lost

1311
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: it at one point and was like crying, and I

1312
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: was like, I will find it, and so I went

1313
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 1: and she lost in the lazy rivers and so in

1314
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 1: all those like she lost it right here. I'm like, buddy,

1315
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: it's flows so it's gonna get taken. I gotta go

1316
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 1: further because he was like, just look right here, and

1317
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 1: I had to explain physics to the things. And I

1318
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: was like, at least you've heard of a lazy river.

1319
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: You know, we are starting from a place that I

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01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 1: can get on board with. But no, he he. And

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01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: so then I was I had to borrow goggles from

1322
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 1: this little girl. So I was wearing the tiniest little

1323
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:43,919
Speaker 1: goggles and I was like, oh, back in five minutes,

1324
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to look for this thing. And so I

1325
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: went and I found it. I went all the way

1326
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 1: around the lazy river, and it was disgusting what was

1327
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 1: going on in there, because any piece of debris, I

1328
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 1: was like, is that band aids? It was band aids,

1329
01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 1: hair ties with like tons of hair all over them

1330
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: and like tissue paper, lifeguard. It was so gross, syrench.

1331
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: I honestly, I would not have been surprised. And so

1332
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: I get all the way through the lazer of where

1333
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: I couldn't find it. But then there's this little part

1334
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: that like kind of you goes off and turns into

1335
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 1: a whirlpool, so it's like a little yet eddie and

1336
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 1: you just go around and around and it was swirl around.

1337
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe I found this tiny little white unicorn

1338
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 1: in this white, you know, painted pool and and I

1339
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 1: like heroically was like got it, and she just like

1340
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: took it from me. And I'm like, are you not

1341
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: gonna be like excited that I was. She's like, I

1342
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 1: don't know how I dropped it. I was holding and

1343
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh, that's interesting. It wasn't but

1344
01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 1: she so I felt like, you know, a book. After

1345
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: an hour being there, I was just like we gotta go,

1346
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: like can we ditch these kids like and like go

1347
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: talk or something like? Its just it never stops. It

1348
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: never ends. And my sister just said, it never ends.

1349
01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: It doesn't ever end because they're into everything and they

1350
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: could all drown at any second because they're not all

1351
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:00,440
Speaker 1: that strong of stummers. It was just a lot.

1352
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 2: I was a woman who lives across the street. She

1353
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 2: has a beautiful young mom and she just had her

1354
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 2: second kid, and I see I think that she's pregnant

1355
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 2: with her third, and every time I look out the window,

1356
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 2: she's parenting. Like there's always a child on a driveway

1357
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 2: in a wagon rushing towards traffic. She's stopping it. I'm

1358
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 2: just like, this is like twenty four to seven.

1359
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: Hypervigilants aren't dying all time. I was saying this to

1360
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: Emma this weekend, Chris's sister in law, because she's a

1361
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 1: young kid's like like a toddle. You know, they're toddling everywhere.

1362
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, how did kids when they were like

1363
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 1: fire open fires and like sticks and shit, like, how

1364
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: were kids not just being impaled and burned constantly? And

1365
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 1: I think they probably were, or they treated them like

1366
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: a dugger and they did the blanket.

1367
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 2: With what's wrong with a leash?

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01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: By the way, kid? If the kid would go off

1369
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: the blanket and the duggers would like hit the kid

1370
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: a baby until it to be docile and not go

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01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 1: off the blank You haven't watched kids like it?

1372
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:04,919
Speaker 2: I don't.

1373
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:07,760
Speaker 3: Did you watch it?

1374
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 1: I tried to watch. I watched two parts and I

1375
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 1: was just like, it's too slow. I need things to

1376
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: have two times to speed. That's why I love the

1377
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: Girls chat. I can zip through it. That's why I

1378
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: love podcasts. Stop YouTube, I can two times to speed.

1379
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:20,720
Speaker 1: I can't do it.

1380
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 5: I think that's bad for us, though, ye because it

1381
01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 5: it I think it likehibits us from uh retaining attention.

1382
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 5: I almost lost track of my thoughts.

1383
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 1: But but it's for people with a d D. Like

1384
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 1: all the a d D chats on Reddit where people

1385
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 1: actually for their kids are like, you know, I'm my

1386
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: kids having trouble in school, and they're like, try to

1387
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: get lessons. To do the lessons the teacher sends and

1388
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 1: do them two times to speed because my kid can

1389
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 1: then follow it. Because there's there's a lull, the kid

1390
01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 1: will look at something else.

1391
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 5: I had to stop listening because I would do like

1392
01:06:57,720 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 5: one point five times on the Girls Chat, and then

1393
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 5: I realized, like, I think everyone's voice is this fast

1394
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 5: and everyone sounds like kind of cheery, and then when

1395
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 5: I listen to it out one speed, it's complete, like

1396
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 5: the tone is completely different, characterizing everyone.

1397
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 2: Part of the podcast on one point five.

1398
01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: It's it's so true because I will listen to, like,

1399
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 1: you know, someone crying and they'll like actually sound and

1400
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm really sad about it and you know, my dad died,

1401
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 1: and it does it does change everything when you listen.

1402
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 3: To We're always crying on that by the way.

1403
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does create bad habits. I do think there's

1404
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 2: something nice about listening to things on regular speed or

1405
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 2: not being not multitask all the time. I was on

1406
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 2: a Zoom meeting the other day and someone said something

1407
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 2: and it was really interesting and I missed it and

1408
01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,320
Speaker 2: my first thought was I'll just rewind, and then I'm like, fuck,

1409
01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 2: this is real time.

1410
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: I can't rewind. I've been taking some like voice lessons

1411
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 1: online doing this like course, and yeah, I constantly because

1412
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 1: she isn't talking two times the speed. She loses me

1413
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 1: all the time because I have too much time to

1414
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:17,840
Speaker 1: venture away. I think for me, it helps my focus

1415
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 1: to keep things moving. I can't like movies and TV shows.

1416
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: I rewind hundreds of times in any TV show, hundreds

1417
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: because I get distracted so much because it's so slow.

1418
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: Do you guys not have that trouble?

1419
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 2: I would never I have that too.

1420
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 5: And it's I think it's it's my phone that's created

1421
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 5: this problem, because as you're talking, I'm like, okay, it's

1422
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 5: like which came first, a chicken or the egg?

1423
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: Was it your.

1424
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 5: Focus that was inhibited first? Or was it because of

1425
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:49,759
Speaker 5: like all these Oh I was not like this in school.

1426
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 1: I did not suffer add in high school, like like

1427
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: this I mean, I was disorganized. I had many of

1428
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 1: the signs of it, but I was not like my

1429
01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 1: attention was. It was not hard for me to like,

1430
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: I was really good. Now that I'm in like a

1431
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: class again, it's the first time I've been like learning

1432
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 1: and in a zoom it's a zoom class. But I

1433
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: do these like once a week, and I realized, like

1434
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:11,600
Speaker 1: what a little good student I was, because I was

1435
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 1: always like nodding along with the teachers so they'd know

1436
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 1: that I got it. Like I wouldn't do it just

1437
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:17,880
Speaker 1: like out of nothing, because then they'd call on me

1438
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't know. But I was always like, you

1439
01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 1: want to give them feedback of like I got it.

1440
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: Like I was like, man, I was a really good student,

1441
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 1: and now I'm really suffering keeping up with the work,

1442
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,840
Speaker 1: keeping up with the lecture, taking notes, like I just

1443
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 1: it's so out of.

1444
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:35,799
Speaker 5: My real.

1445
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: It's perview, that's all right. I just feel like I'm

1446
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: wearing too many hats. I'm trying to be a good student.

1447
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be a good thing.

1448
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:53,440
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, it is Oh yeah.

1449
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 1: That is true. I mean, it all does come down

1450
01:09:55,439 --> 01:10:00,200
Speaker 1: to that. Have you guys taken any classes recently. Have

1451
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: you like taken like school classes where you have like

1452
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,560
Speaker 1: a curriculum and like a syllabus.

1453
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 2: No, but i'd be down.

1454
01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 3: I just graduated two years ago.

1455
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 1: God, it was truly.

1456
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 3: I didn't go for ten years or something.

1457
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: It was hell getting back into it.

1458
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, to go back to school again for three years?

1459
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, hell hav to. I just remember that

1460
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 1: last paper I ever turned in, How grateful I was.

1461
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm never gonna have a paper due

1462
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:26,000
Speaker 1: the rest of my fucking.

1463
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 3: I still have nightmares about papers.

1464
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:30,600
Speaker 1: Me too, But you had pt papers up until.

1465
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 3: You've got minor like high school still or like I

1466
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 3: forgot my locker combo style.

1467
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a popular one. Do you ever lose

1468
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,760
Speaker 1: your teeth in your dreams? No, that's another one that

1469
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 1: happened still out in my nightmares. I never get I've

1470
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 1: never naked in my dreams.

1471
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 3: I'm always trying to masturbate, but I can't get alone.

1472
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 3: Interesting like every night.

1473
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:56,720
Speaker 1: WHOA isn't that weird? Well, another weird thing happened to

1474
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 1: you right now that you shared on the g GC.

1475
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 1: It is yes, string, Oh.

1476
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 3: I have a string there? Did you know about it

1477
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 3: you guys did on the.

1478
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 1: GC, so I never had there's someone I want you

1479
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 1: to share because I'm sure there's someone out there.

1480
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 3: This is for my friend Hannah, So it's I never

1481
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 3: describe it. I described it to my friend Hannah. It's

1482
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 3: like your belly button kind of hurts, but it feels

1483
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 3: like there's a rubber band going from your belly button

1484
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 3: to your vagina. And we googled it and apparently only

1485
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:33,560
Speaker 3: women can have it because some part of your umbilical

1486
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 3: cord could still be in there, like the inner part,

1487
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 3: and that's where it would kind of connect. And so

1488
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 3: right now I have it, I can't straighten up all

1489
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 3: the way or it feels like the rubber band will

1490
01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 3: snap and it pulls both my belly button and my.

1491
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:49,920
Speaker 1: So there's got to be something in there connecting that.

1492
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 3: There's a there's the strings.

1493
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 2: Or is it an actual physiological part?

1494
01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 3: Well, what we that it's actual physio logical part. Perhaps

1495
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 3: this is just somebody like when we were it's really

1496
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 3: hard to google that and the.

1497
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 1: Doctor they'll be like, I've never heard of that. Look

1498
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 1: it up and you're like, I've already done that, and

1499
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 1: you're not gonna find anything I didn't find.

1500
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 3: So it could be ambillcle is still up in this.

1501
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 1: War.

1502
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 3: Someone like it. I guess it feels like I Or

1503
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 3: it could be maybe I've never had any, but it

1504
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:27,680
Speaker 3: could feel kind of like you got like maybe you

1505
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 3: got a pee, but.

1506
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 1: Necklaces like wrapped up in each other. So what if

1507
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 1: there's two different chords that go like that intertwined to

1508
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: sometimes they got to get on and that's why they snag.

1509
01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:43,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's a nerve, Taylor, I don't know.

1510
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: I had a weird guy as a kid that was

1511
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:48,320
Speaker 1: like a phenomenon that you used top into me and

1512
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 1: my sister where everything would just go speaking of two

1513
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 1: times as speed. Everything would go really fast and seem

1514
01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 1: really loud, and my mom like would talk and we'd

1515
01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: be and I'd like, I can't don't talk anymore, Please

1516
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:04,760
Speaker 1: don't talk anymore, because you're really fast and you're really loud.

1517
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 1: It's like it was like this weird thing that would

1518
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 1: come on. I would feel it coming on and I'd

1519
01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:11,759
Speaker 1: go like oh no, no, no, no no. It would sometimes

1520
01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 1: happen when it would be very quiet, like during a test,

1521
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, the pen, the pen

1522
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:19,560
Speaker 1: sounds would be like booming loud, like not actually I

1523
01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:22,639
Speaker 1: knew they weren't actually loud, but I like and then

1524
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:25,800
Speaker 1: but also very fast and also like slow mo. It

1525
01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 1: was like this weird distortion of reality. And my sister

1526
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 1: was the only person who had it too, and it

1527
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: didn't it stopped happening after childhood, and then if you

1528
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:40,639
Speaker 1: google it, final thought, if you google it things speeding

1529
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 1: up very fast and getting loud. It is a phenomenon

1530
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:46,360
Speaker 1: that happens to a lot of kids, and it tapers

1531
01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 1: off after adolescents. But it used to happen all the time,

1532
01:13:49,120 --> 01:13:50,640
Speaker 1: and my sister and I would always just go it's

1533
01:13:50,680 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 1: getting loud and slow and fast, and all like it's

1534
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:55,720
Speaker 1: slow and fast. It doesn't even make any sense. But

1535
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:57,720
Speaker 1: my mom would have to just stop talking and I

1536
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: would just have to like like kind of like burrow

1537
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: myself in bed and like cut out all the sounds

1538
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,040
Speaker 1: to make it go away. So if anyone else had that,

1539
01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 1: that is a thing that happens to all of us.

1540
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 1: And also the thing that I think happens to all

1541
01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:12,000
Speaker 1: of us is that like thing where you like have

1542
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 1: I guess it's heartburn, where you like feel if you

1543
01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: like breathe in too much, it'll like hurt again, like

1544
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:21,240
Speaker 1: when your heart has like a sting feeling still.

1545
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 3: You know what when you when you're esophaguesses two of

1546
01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:26,559
Speaker 3: them for some reason?

1547
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,679
Speaker 1: What get twist?

1548
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:32,400
Speaker 3: Really? I know, but it feels like that I got

1549
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 3: so many strings and stuffe I hear.

1550
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 1: That the esopha guy would never be used unless you

1551
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: were like collecting esophaguses, Like why would anything? Like I

1552
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:46,120
Speaker 1: don't know the esophagus twist I do.

1553
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 3: Have sometimes it feels like it twists.

1554
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:51,479
Speaker 2: I have a thing sometimes like I'm sure people get this,

1555
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 2: like a weird pulled muscle in between your ribs and

1556
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 2: it feels like you're having a heart attack, Like it

1557
01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 2: happened the other day in bed and I was like, babe,

1558
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 2: I might die if I die in my sleep.

1559
01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm having a heart attack if I die. I'm just

1560
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,240
Speaker 1: something weird's happening right now. And it's like it's three

1561
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:05,840
Speaker 1: in the morning.

1562
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,120
Speaker 2: That's like, what is going on. I'm like, there's a

1563
01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 2: spasm in my heart and I don't know if I'm

1564
01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 2: dying or if it's a rib muscle then it.

1565
01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 1: Was just is that the feeling I'm talking about where

1566
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 1: if you move it'll or breathe too much, it'll come back,

1567
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 1: like you feel it for a second. Noah, do you

1568
01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:21,640
Speaker 1: ever have that? I can't believe you guys don't have this.

1569
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: I have not had so it just all of a sudden,

1570
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 1: there's a stinging. And then you're like, I have to

1571
01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:30,040
Speaker 1: stay frozen because I'm the stinging almost felt brought on

1572
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 1: by my breath in my heart. Oh my god, that's

1573
01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: another commonation. That does not mean you're dolmost if you

1574
01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 1: do get that, it does not mean you're dying.

1575
01:15:36,880 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 2: Do you guys know? And then like I was bit

1576
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:41,720
Speaker 2: by spiders, so many spiders, and it only happens at night.

1577
01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:44,920
Speaker 3: I used to see spiders going to.

1578
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm really just kidding.

1579
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 3: Spider is symbolic of the mother. I learned that, what really, Yeah,

1580
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 3: I'm afraid of spiders and I would have dream spider dreams,

1581
01:15:56,560 --> 01:15:58,519
Speaker 3: and my therapist is like, that means mother.

1582
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:01,879
Speaker 1: Spider means mother a Russian therapist.

1583
01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 3: Yes, my mom's also afraid of spiders.

1584
01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:08,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not scared of spiders at all. Centipedes, I

1585
01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:12,400
Speaker 1: would rather, I mean, I would rather a thousand spiders

1586
01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 1: in a room with me than to centipedes.

1587
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 3: Which way would you wipe with a centipede if you

1588
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 3: had a.

1589
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 2: Sipede connecting your belly button clip.

1590
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 3: And it just went.

1591
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 1: I can now look at videos and pictures of centipede,

1592
01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:25,679
Speaker 1: but as a kid, I wouldn't even look. I couldn't

1593
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 1: touch pictures if it was on my phone or something.

1594
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 1: They like house centipedes.

1595
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:33,959
Speaker 3: I remember that broom one I had.

1596
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 1: The one that was you know, that was a millipede.

1597
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 1: It was just crawling across the floor. It looked like

1598
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 1: a sharpie. That was just it was rich on the

1599
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: other No, millipedes are like have like the boldest body,

1600
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:50,599
Speaker 1: and centipedes are the ones that are like like they

1601
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:55,120
Speaker 1: move like that sound like and they go all different ways.

1602
01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:58,320
Speaker 1: Silver Fish are like kind of centipede dish like, but

1603
01:16:58,320 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 1: they are not centipedes, but a pizza or anything with

1604
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 1: like that many legs all lined up together. Spiders have

1605
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: them more like, oh, daddy, long legs, daddy. I used

1606
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: to I don't mind them if they're like traps and

1607
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 1: along and like their legs, but I don't like when

1608
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: they go up on the wall and they go flat.

1609
01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 3: I hate when they just clinking, clinking flat in the

1610
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:24,040
Speaker 3: shower they go, don't they do?

1611
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of cool. I don't. I don't

1612
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 1: want them to be flat.

1613
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 2: I feel bad actually about killing any animal in the house,

1614
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 2: except that scary looking silverfish, house centipede, whatever it is.

1615
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 1: It looks like. I don't think I could kill one

1616
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 1: because I loves But I do understand what you're saying.

1617
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:45,599
Speaker 1: I yeah that, first of all, the too scary to catch,

1618
01:17:45,680 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 1: even if you like get a bowl over them and

1619
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 1: you slide a like piece of paper underneath. I don't

1620
01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 1: want to touch the paper that might be.

1621
01:17:50,960 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 3: And they get flatty. They are so flat that they could.

1622
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, those things get they daddy long, like they don't

1623
01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 1: know where they're going.

1624
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 2: A mouse so fucking flat. I saw a mouse come out.

1625
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 2: I saw a mouse come out of a hole that

1626
01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 2: was like you could barely fit a silver.

1627
01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:13,800
Speaker 1: Dog or like OCTOPI. They're just like a rare Esha guy.

1628
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 3: A rat came out of my floor in San Francisco,

1629
01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 3: the size of a quarter.

1630
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:21,559
Speaker 1: Yeh, never creep me out.

1631
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:26,840
Speaker 3: And when the unicorn and a lazy when they bust

1632
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:28,280
Speaker 3: through your floor, he'll be scared.

1633
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:33,760
Speaker 1: But some are like naturally scared scared, like in a

1634
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:34,720
Speaker 1: way like spiders.

1635
01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,799
Speaker 3: I think people are scared of the fastness.

1636
01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: But some people like it's almost like, okay, let me,

1637
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 1: let's do a ranking right now. Snakes, spider, mouse, mouse

1638
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:46,200
Speaker 1: number one all.

1639
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:49,799
Speaker 5: I like spiders and I like snakes. For me, the

1640
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 5: the rat represents disease, and I'm scared it's gonna bite me.

1641
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:56,000
Speaker 1: And you have a disease. Oh, you're thinking long term

1642
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 1: with this thing. I don't think I think about short

1643
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:01,880
Speaker 1: term with all of these things. But you're right, that's

1644
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:06,559
Speaker 1: that's probably smarter. Oh you're thinking about their lineage as well. Okay,

1645
01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:08,880
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't even. I didn't know it was

1646
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:09,800
Speaker 1: just twenty three and me.

1647
01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:12,880
Speaker 3: FIGHTERS would never even though my grandma one time said,

1648
01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 3: I asked why I couldn't borrow a car, and she

1649
01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 3: said the spot and his WAF had babies in there

1650
01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:21,759
Speaker 3: because they couldn't have sex unless they were married.

1651
01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and that's why I couldn't bother and they

1652
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 1: could live together. I mean, this would be in sin.

1653
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:32,559
Speaker 1: That's so funny. I would. I've never mice. I think

1654
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 1: are always cute. I don't mind them. Even if one

1655
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 1: was in my house, I would not try to kill it.

1656
01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:37,519
Speaker 1: I wouldn't get a mouse trap.

1657
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 4: I don't.

1658
01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 1: I just never came mouse, mice and rats. She's just

1659
01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 1: a bigger mouse to me. Doesn't doesn't matter, I don't.

1660
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:45,799
Speaker 1: It just didn't get to me. The black plague stories

1661
01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 1: of how rats spread that I just did.

1662
01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 3: There was the fleas that snacked on them.

1663
01:19:49,520 --> 01:19:51,360
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so it wasn't even the rats, all right.

1664
01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:56,240
Speaker 1: And I would say Number one is snake. I would

1665
01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:57,840
Speaker 1: be the most scared because those can bite the shit

1666
01:19:57,880 --> 01:19:59,919
Speaker 1: out of you, and they're just like it too slitherly.

1667
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 1: They also don't know where they're going. Spiders, and they

1668
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 1: have more of a plan. The spiderstick to like a

1669
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 1: straight line, you know. Centipedes are going every which way,

1670
01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:11,680
Speaker 1: there's zig zagging. They don't know. Spiders tend to go

1671
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 1: in one straight line like you can kind of trace them.

1672
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:16,679
Speaker 1: And they're easier to like pick up and flick.

1673
01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 3: If you can get flat spidersh's so flat, but found.

1674
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:25,759
Speaker 1: I'm saying in your bed, in your bed, a tarantula, snake,

1675
01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 1: a snake that can't bite you, let's say, and a

1676
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 1: rat that has no teeth.

1677
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 3: I would welcome this name.

1678
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 1: A rat that has no teeth and its claws, and

1679
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:37,719
Speaker 1: I've been checked and his claws can't scratch and claw,

1680
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 1: which is so mean, a gummy rage grandpa.

1681
01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 2: Because he wants to snuggle, He's gonna want to burrow

1682
01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:48,799
Speaker 2: with him snuggling.

1683
01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: He can't hurt you. He's just a little he's he's sick. Okay,

1684
01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 1: what if they've been tested for sickness and the.

1685
01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:00,240
Speaker 2: Neighbors pet rat that escape.

1686
01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 3: With them, they're gonna I don't want to be in

1687
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:05,639
Speaker 3: with any of them. You're making me.

1688
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 1: Okay, you have to be in a bed with red

1689
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 1: under your doubt. And this rat has no diseas, has

1690
01:21:11,520 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 1: been checked, no disease, is a pad and it has

1691
01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 1: and it has, but you don't but and and no teeth. Okay.

1692
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 1: Then there's a spider that cannot not disease, can't give

1693
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 1: you disease, and has no fangs, will not bite you.

1694
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:29,320
Speaker 1: And then there's also a snake has no fangs, and

1695
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 1: it's a medium sized snake, and it also has no

1696
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 1: fangs and won't even try to But you won't even

1697
01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:36,040
Speaker 1: bite you with a skin. What are you gonna do?

1698
01:21:37,280 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 3: Definitely, I love the snake the best.

1699
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 1: To say two minutes in a bed.

1700
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, and your Oh, I love it.

1701
01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 1: I would hold my legs really well. Yeah, I wouldn't

1702
01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:48,600
Speaker 1: want it.

1703
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 3: I don't want it.

1704
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 1: Dildo in Oh my God, trying to go in back

1705
01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:52,719
Speaker 1: in its nest.

1706
01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think i'd like to snake the mice too.

1707
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:56,439
Speaker 3: He's cute.

1708
01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:00,200
Speaker 1: I would like the rat. Spider get the fuck out

1709
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 1: of there. I'm gonna squish you. I'm gonna hurt you.

1710
01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 2: I feel like it has nothing to do with me. He'll

1711
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 2: be fine, he'll just crawl away.

1712
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 1: But you're blindfolded and you don't know it's in the dark.

1713
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 3: He's gonna put all eight in and bust into your

1714
01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:15,840
Speaker 3: bee hole. I'm just protecting my bee He's going to

1715
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 3: go feet first.

1716
01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 5: And I was gonna say, if I'm if I'm wearing underwear,

1717
01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:25,960
Speaker 5: it's the spider. If I'm not wearing underwear, I guess

1718
01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:26,840
Speaker 5: it would be the rat.

1719
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:32,040
Speaker 3: The rat just wants to get in your crack and

1720
01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:33,920
Speaker 3: warm up. He does not. He can't fit.

1721
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want that. That spider could fit in

1722
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 1: your asshole, and you've got to consider that places.

1723
01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:41,599
Speaker 5: He would go right up in my vagina.

1724
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't know that spiders are looking

1725
01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 1: for warmth. They're always in caves and ship so I

1726
01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:49,880
Speaker 1: want to take your vagin. Okay, well, I'm glad we

1727
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 1: have this discussion. I feel so much because people are

1728
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:56,080
Speaker 1: either snake, spider or mice. People like there's that fear.

1729
01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 1: And I would probably say I'm most scared of spiders

1730
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 1: out of bulldos because they just don't they're just too

1731
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:04,519
Speaker 1: their legs, they go too fast.

1732
01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:06,840
Speaker 2: I didn't know this about you really.

1733
01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 1: But snakes. But there are certain people that if you

1734
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:12,519
Speaker 1: even talk about snakes or like have a snake, I think,

1735
01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 1: what's Kim Kardashian Ellen, That's one way she tortured her

1736
01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:19,719
Speaker 1: on her show. It was spiders. Actually with Kim Kardashian,

1737
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 1: she was terrified of it. It was like on that

1738
01:23:21,479 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 1: Mory episode where the girls scared of cotton cutting. That

1739
01:23:24,520 --> 01:23:26,240
Speaker 1: was so crazy that he did that to her.

1740
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 3: I know, but it was the highlight of my life.

1741
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:30,840
Speaker 1: This girl was scared of cotton and they dressed a

1742
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:34,200
Speaker 1: man up. I can't even say it. They had to

1743
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 1: then go and get the cotton and like put glue

1744
01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 1: on it or something, and it was just scared.

1745
01:23:40,720 --> 01:23:43,120
Speaker 2: You guys both have this phobia of cotton where you

1746
01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:44,920
Speaker 2: can't talk about cotton without your mouth.

1747
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:48,759
Speaker 4: I do, but I do, But Taylor, I'm just talking

1748
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:50,640
Speaker 4: when she's just supporting me.

1749
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:52,600
Speaker 3: When we were kids, I would put a sock in

1750
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:53,240
Speaker 3: my mouth.

1751
01:23:55,200 --> 01:24:01,640
Speaker 4: And don't want I can't. There was another thing this

1752
01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 4: weekend that I was like disgusted. There was oh, oh,

1753
01:24:04,760 --> 01:24:07,000
Speaker 4: those motorcycles and that thing we talked about that.

1754
01:24:07,360 --> 01:24:09,720
Speaker 1: Oh. Another fear of mine as a kid used to

1755
01:24:09,760 --> 01:24:13,959
Speaker 1: be semi trucks going under going under bridges and getting

1756
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:19,479
Speaker 1: stuck and just being like and like screaming off the top.

1757
01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 1: I used to have fucking there was a semi truck

1758
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:23,400
Speaker 1: and there was like a bridge coming up. I'd be like,

1759
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:26,760
Speaker 1: it's not gonna make it. If you ever look, there's

1760
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 1: like two inches to play with them.

1761
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:31,760
Speaker 2: It's nuts they're driving.

1762
01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Those people. They I don't know. I can't even imagine it.

1763
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 3: You're afraid because then it would smash you, or it

1764
01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:39,679
Speaker 3: just would just.

1765
01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,800
Speaker 1: Cause so much mayhem on a highway with people going

1766
01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: seventy miles an hour and then all of a sudden,

1767
01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:45,800
Speaker 1: this thing it would either knock out the bridge and

1768
01:24:45,840 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 1: be so big and like a huge catastrophe. But I

1769
01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 1: just don't want to see people dying everywhere. Uh uh,

1770
01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:53,880
Speaker 1: and it would cause people to go, my pair is

1771
01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:55,360
Speaker 1: dying everywhere. There you go.

1772
01:24:55,640 --> 01:24:57,080
Speaker 2: Do you have empathy, Nikki?

1773
01:24:58,000 --> 01:24:59,559
Speaker 1: I don't because I don't want to see people dying.

1774
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:02,719
Speaker 2: Because you're meeting yourself a question if I have empathy?

1775
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,960
Speaker 2: Oh I thought you. I thought you had, or a

1776
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 2: therapist had. You're always like, I don't know if I'm

1777
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:10,719
Speaker 2: that empathetic. You've definitely said that before.

1778
01:25:11,600 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: Donna used to say I didn't, But I definitely think

1779
01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:15,599
Speaker 1: I'm empathetic. Okay, I definitely.

1780
01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:16,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have animals.

1781
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't be vegan unless you're empathetic. It's there's

1782
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 1: no other reason to do it. So yeah, I think

1783
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 1: I passed that test.

1784
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:24,719
Speaker 3: What I don't like humans as much as animals?

1785
01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 1: I know it really is because humans you can explain

1786
01:25:27,439 --> 01:25:29,959
Speaker 1: what's going on, and animals are just like, what's happening?

1787
01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:33,040
Speaker 1: That's my thing. It's like, if you could talk to animals,

1788
01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, let's kill them.

1789
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:37,160
Speaker 3: It's fine, this is what's gonna go with that.

1790
01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:39,280
Speaker 1: So we'll put them on factory farms. I don't give

1791
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:41,040
Speaker 1: a ship, but at least we can explain to them,

1792
01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:43,920
Speaker 1: like you we look at you as lesser beings because

1793
01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 1: you are happened to be a different species, and so

1794
01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:47,519
Speaker 1: we get to eat you and torture you. Do you

1795
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:49,799
Speaker 1: understand it? Oh you do? Okay, that makes it easier

1796
01:25:49,840 --> 01:25:51,880
Speaker 1: for me to do. But if you don't, if you're

1797
01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:53,400
Speaker 1: just like the whole time, your whole life, you're just

1798
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:56,160
Speaker 1: like what should have been a part of the bingo card,

1799
01:25:56,200 --> 01:26:00,000
Speaker 1: Buddy Vegan. Okay, yeah, we gotta go tomorrow on the show.

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01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 1: Oh my mom will be here, Franngie will still be

1801
01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 1: on his honeymoon, but we will talk about so many things,

1802
01:26:04,280 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 1: including the Matchbox twenty concert we're going to Christy.

1803
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:09,920
Speaker 2: Run.

1804
01:26:10,880 --> 01:26:13,479
Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you for listening. Don't be cut

1805
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:15,880
Speaker 1: and just use your pe