WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Mr.Postman

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jew bulls second day. Let's face it, there is

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<v Speaker 1>no sexier job out there than a mail man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm always ordering stuff from the postal service.

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<v Speaker 1>From the show up at my door and I answer

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<v Speaker 1>it in my neglishame just oh hello, miss the postman?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that for me? For a little loone? Me? I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot there's gonna be a package delivering today. Look at me,

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<v Speaker 1>just dressed like this. Oh, I wonder what's in the box?

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<v Speaker 1>Could it be another neglishe? Would you like to come

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<v Speaker 1>in and try some sweet tea while I try this

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<v Speaker 1>one on you? Cad? I bet you would? Will come

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<v Speaker 1>on in? And how are you a Southern damsel when

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<v Speaker 1>they show up? How you have to be? That's what

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<v Speaker 1>the post people like. Okay, isn't that right, James? That's right?

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<v Speaker 1>We do like this othern one. James is a postal employee.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how James apparently met the girl that he

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<v Speaker 1>went out with the girl that's not calling him back now.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's her name, James? Her name is Sharon. I

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<v Speaker 1>bet she was attracted by your awesome calf muscles. Always

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<v Speaker 1>have great calf muscles. I'll walk it up and downstairs

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<v Speaker 1>to your email said that you met the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call today while you were working. How'd

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<v Speaker 1>that go down? Well, I just started a new route

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of months ago, and I think actually the

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<v Speaker 1>very first day on the new route, I delivered to

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<v Speaker 1>this house, just a routine delivery, and this beautiful woman answered. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's a redhead, which I like, great smile,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty eyes, and I was just speechless when I saw her.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't this a hands like some sort of rule though,

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't date people that you're delivering mail to,

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<v Speaker 1>or you shouldn't know somebody's address before you ask him out,

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<v Speaker 1>or something. We'll call it maybe an unwritten rule. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>So what'd you do when you were speechless when she

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<v Speaker 1>came to the door. You just stand there with your

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<v Speaker 1>clipboard and not say a word. That's creepy, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think actually I just started pushing the package at her.

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<v Speaker 1>Take package, hot woman, That's cute. It sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>smooth move. So yeah, actually, um, she offered me a

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<v Speaker 1>glass of water that day. It was a very very

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<v Speaker 1>hot day. Um, I loosened up my tongue a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to chat a little bit after that. So

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<v Speaker 1>did she invite you in? No, no, no, she just

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<v Speaker 1>brought it out to the door. Oh okay, go a

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<v Speaker 1>little too forward. Yeah. I was like, man, I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>some movies that started like that, but I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that was an actual thing. That's a big package you

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<v Speaker 1>got there. So how did you go from that to

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<v Speaker 1>asking her out on a date? Well after that day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'd still see her from time to time

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<v Speaker 1>every few days to deliver to her, and sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>come to the door and we chat. Again. You just

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<v Speaker 1>get the wrong address, like all the time, Oh this

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<v Speaker 1>is for your neighbor. So sorry, I did it again.

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<v Speaker 1>Pieces of mail. You get a little suspicious, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So when did you finally ask her out? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been interested in her for a while and always

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward to delivering to her. Always made my day

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<v Speaker 1>if I got to see her. Um, So I finally said,

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<v Speaker 1>I just had to work up the courage to ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out. And uh, you guys are going to make

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<v Speaker 1>fun of me. This is a little lame, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I wrote her a note and I put

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<v Speaker 1>it in a postal service envelope to deliver it too.

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<v Speaker 1>I put for Sharon's eyes only, on it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>went up to deliver it to her and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, hey, this is a very important message. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you should open her right now. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>was your heart beating out of your chest? Was nervous?

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't her. But she opened it and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a note inside and said, hey, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it'd be cool to go out and get some

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<v Speaker 1>drinks or something, just get to know each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>she read it. She kind of laughed a little, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think she thought it was cute and U and

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<v Speaker 1>she said that she would go out with me. You

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<v Speaker 1>just stood there in front of her while she opened

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<v Speaker 1>the package. Yeah, that's a risk. I had to know though,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I couldn't wait to get the message back

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<v Speaker 1>in the mail. She obviously agreed, because you got went out,

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<v Speaker 1>so would you do. I just let her know that

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<v Speaker 1>I could swing back around after I finished my route

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<v Speaker 1>in a couple of hours, and she said that'd be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I came back around and picked her up. We

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<v Speaker 1>just went out to a bar, had a few drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>It was nice. It was kind of the first time

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<v Speaker 1>we had like a real kind of in depth conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>so pretty casual. Nothing deep or anything, but just a

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<v Speaker 1>real conversation like you would have her other than just

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of minutes on a stoop. So you, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she's gorgeous, You're incredibly attracted to her, and you really

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy talking to her. Yeah, she's got a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>but too Okay, don't forget about that. Sorry. You know

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<v Speaker 1>how a mailman are. So why do you think miss

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<v Speaker 1>nice booty's not calling you back? You know, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>not sure. I thought everything went well. After we went out,

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<v Speaker 1>I walked her home. She gave me a little kiss

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<v Speaker 1>on the cheek when we got back to her place,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she went inside. So I've been texting her

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<v Speaker 1>since then. I haven't heard anything from her. Even when

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<v Speaker 1>I go by her house now and I'm making my deliveries,

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<v Speaker 1>the blinds are always shut. Um, she's either she's not

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<v Speaker 1>home or she's just not coming to the door. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's hiding in her back bedroom as soon as she

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<v Speaker 1>sees the postal service. I hope not. I hope not.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything that you can think of why she

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<v Speaker 1>would just completely not want anything to do with you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>unless she was just maybe a little freaked out by

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<v Speaker 1>the thought of dating the mailman. Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems kind of convenient every day. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be by every day he visits. Hello, Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. Come back, call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. Okay, all right, thanks guys. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hang up brooking jubil in the morning second date. Right

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second day update, and if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in, James is on the phone today.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to call a girl named Sharon. He's a

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<v Speaker 1>postal delivery worker, a mailman, and he actually asked out

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<v Speaker 1>one of the people on his route, and that would

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<v Speaker 1>be Sharon in a really cute way. Yeah. He walked

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<v Speaker 1>up to her with an envelope and said, here's a

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<v Speaker 1>special delivery for you. She opened it up and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a letter asking her out. They went out for drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>Right after that. He walked her back to the place,

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<v Speaker 1>got a hug, and now he hasn't heard from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only that, but she doesn't answer her door anymore

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<v Speaker 1>and her blinds are closed, so it's pretty apparent that

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<v Speaker 1>she does not want to see him again. Before we

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<v Speaker 1>start the second date update, James and give her a call.

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<v Speaker 1>I have kind of an off topic question for you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where do you get those sweet shorts? Questions? I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say anything about that, man, postal service secrets,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, because I was gonna say we could trade. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do the second up for you if I can

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<v Speaker 1>get a pair of those shorts. No, man, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I can't do it. All right, Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>do the second date update anyway. You're ready to give

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<v Speaker 1>Sharon a call? Yeah, and your goal is to really

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her again, right, because you seem really

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<v Speaker 1>smitten by this woman. I wouldn't be on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with you guys right now if I didn't really like her.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's a good point. Yeah, I emailed the

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<v Speaker 1>radio station to do a second day update. Nah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really care. Hey, some people just want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what they did wrong. Okay, I'm saying you want more

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<v Speaker 1>than that. Yeah, I would just really like to see

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<v Speaker 1>her again. I thought we had a lot in common,

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<v Speaker 1>and you never know what can happen in the future.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is open. I get another chance to explore that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where we go. I'm dialing her front of her right now?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Hello, can I speak to Sharon. This is Sharon.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Sharon, how are you. This is Jewil from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. Oh not interested? Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>don't hang up. This is not a telemarketing phone call. Okay, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>then what is it? This is Jewil from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still mining shifted. We're not trying to sell you anything

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<v Speaker 1>or do a survey or anything like that. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>am calling you because somebody that you know emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>and asked us to call you. What. Yeah, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of crazy. His name is James oh m. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming you know who James is. Yes, I know who

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<v Speaker 1>James is. He's the mailman with a heart of gold. Hunt.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't sound like you agree with that statement there, shared

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<v Speaker 1>So James emailed us because he wanted us to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. He told us how he asked you out

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<v Speaker 1>and you went out on a date with him and

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<v Speaker 1>he really liked you. But for some reason, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him. And now when he goes to your house,

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<v Speaker 1>your blinds are closed and you don't answer the door.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was hoping maybe we could find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh listen, I'd rather not talk about it. Is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything that you can tell us? No, I mean, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't want to embarrass him, and it's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of private information. So if it's embarrassing for him,

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to know, right, And you got put yourself

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<v Speaker 1>in his shoes. I mean, this guy likes you. He

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<v Speaker 1>spent weeks working up the courage to ask you out.

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<v Speaker 1>He finally does it. You always go out and now

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<v Speaker 1>you won't even answer your door. So you guys just

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<v Speaker 1>want to know why I've been avoiding him. Well, he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to know too. We all want to know. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>wants to't okay, I mean I wouldn't have you even

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<v Speaker 1>really gone out with him? Honestly that he wrote this

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet letter and it kind of put his heart

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<v Speaker 1>out there, and so I said yes, And I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been fine if he hadn't really just

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<v Speaker 1>crossed the line. Wait, why wouldn't you have gone out

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<v Speaker 1>with him prior to that letter? I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the mail guy, you know, so you just don't think

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<v Speaker 1>of him at an option. Maybe yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that kind of weird to day you're mailman? Because

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<v Speaker 1>then they're still coming to your house. Yeah. More importantly,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what you mean by he crossed

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<v Speaker 1>the line. Yeah, what did you do? Well? We went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date and after that everything was fine. But

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<v Speaker 1>a couple days later I found this note in my

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<v Speaker 1>mailbox and he had opened my utility bill and saw

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<v Speaker 1>that it was late, and so he paid it for me. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, sweet, you don't like that, you guys, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a federal crime. Yeah, that's what I thought. I was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I thought, and I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty I think this might be illegal for him to

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<v Speaker 1>do this. This is his job. You know. I can

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<v Speaker 1>see how he thought that that might be a sweet gesture.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you said, it's illegal for him to open

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<v Speaker 1>my rail. Well, and how did you I mean, did

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<v Speaker 1>he leave a note? There's how you realize he paid

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Yeah. He was basically like, hey, Sharon, saw

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<v Speaker 1>that your bill was late, and I paid it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the bill. Don't pay it man. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>this guy was my mailman. Pay all my late payments.

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<v Speaker 1>That'd be great. It's not faller at all. It's intrusive,

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<v Speaker 1>even creepy. What other male is he reading? That's my

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<v Speaker 1>problem exactly. I'm not reading any other male. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only thing that I looked at. Great, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on, Sharon. That's James. He's on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding me? James? Now listen, I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little unfair what you're saying. I really just was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do a nice thing for you. I saw that

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<v Speaker 1>your bill was late. I thought I would help you out.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to freak you out or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>get too involved with your life or anything. I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought that that's something I could do to help you.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I feel like I'm being punished for it. Now. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's creepy. Don't you see how that's creepy if

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<v Speaker 1>you say that it is at the time, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think of it that way. You know, it says right

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<v Speaker 1>on the outside of the bill payment pass due. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't rifling through the mail or anything. It's really just

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<v Speaker 1>this one bill that I saw, and I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>it would just be a nice thing I could do

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<v Speaker 1>to help you out. I wasn't trying to go through

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<v Speaker 1>your mettle or anything. You don't even you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what my financial situation is. You didn't. Maybe I just

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<v Speaker 1>forgot to pay it, you know, I it's all very intrusive. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>regardless of you know, whether or not you could pay

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<v Speaker 1>it yourself. I just paid it for you. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that's a nice thing to do. You never thank me

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<v Speaker 1>for that or anything, No, thank you, nothing, man, James,

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you tell us about this when we first

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<v Speaker 1>talked to you? I would have been able to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you right there. That's probably why she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just didn't. You know, it wasn't part

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<v Speaker 1>of the date, so I didn't think I needed to

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<v Speaker 1>mention it. Yeah, that's a pretty big thing to leave out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just how much was the bill?

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred and seventy two dollars? That's nice even even

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<v Speaker 1>took you out to dinner on a date. He's probably

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<v Speaker 1>not dropping one hundred and seventy two dollars. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want any man up in my financial business, period, let

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<v Speaker 1>alone some guy that I just went to drinks with once.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Hey, I thought you guys were supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be helping me out here. I'm sorry you creeped me out, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not paying your bill only Sharon. Only Sharon gets

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<v Speaker 1>her bills paid. I understand now how you may have

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would be a sweet gesture, but it just

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<v Speaker 1>really preached me out. I mean, who's the guy that's

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<v Speaker 1>going through my mail and paying my bills for me?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Well? Yeah, really, there's no hidden agenda here

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. I was really just trying to do a

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<v Speaker 1>nice thing. Maybe I went about it the wrong way,

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<v Speaker 1>but my intentions were certainly good. All right, Well, Sharon,

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<v Speaker 1>can you at least see what he was trying to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's a little misguided, but he's trying to be nice,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, so it's just it's weird. Yeah, I'll agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you on that. But Sharon, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with James again on a second date? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it so that James doesn't have to and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to worry about where the money came from.

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<v Speaker 1>Sharon doesn't have to pay for anything these days. Sharon's

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<v Speaker 1>gone it good. Well, and let me just I'm I

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<v Speaker 1>clearly have overstepped my bounds. It's not something I intended

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I just thought that you were such a

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<v Speaker 1>kind person to me, such a genuine person, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that you were someone i'd like to get to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought that maybe I could pay that back

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit um, do something kind for you. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's really it. I just you know, I didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>through any of your other bills. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>pay any of that trying to help you out. At

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<v Speaker 1>one time, I thought you seemed like a great person.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to get to know you more. Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that was pretty sweet. I'll give you that. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think one, even though it's a weird move, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with him again? A weird

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<v Speaker 1>illegal move. I want to give you a second chance.

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<v Speaker 1>But can we just forget that this whole thing happened

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<v Speaker 1>and you never pay any of my bills ever again? Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>we could take it a step further. You could just

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<v Speaker 1>pay me back one hundred and seventy two dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>then what the sleep clean? You want to do that, Sharon?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to reimburse him? I mean, we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to go back. Well, James, congratulations, you got your second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. How you managed to pull that off? That

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<v Speaker 1>was impressive, James, No more. Everybody likes the mail right.

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<v Speaker 1>No more going through people's mail at all. Okay, even

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<v Speaker 1>if it's in a way to help them out. Bo

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<v Speaker 1>when Christmas comes around, I'm not even going to pick

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<v Speaker 1>out the Santa Claus letter. Isn't good, Let's throw them

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<v Speaker 1>all on the drag. But perfect even better in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people texting in at seven, eight, five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two right now they would like to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with James. Yeah, from the second date on

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<v Speaker 1>date if you miss it. James as a postman, he

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<v Speaker 1>actually asked one of the women on his route out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. Her name was Sharon. They went out.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't calling him back. As a matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 1>every time he'd show up at her house, like her

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<v Speaker 1>blinds were drawn. She wasn't answering the door, wasn't talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him anymore. So he knew he had done something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>When we got her on the phone, we found out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that she didn't want to see him again

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<v Speaker 1>or talk to him was because he actually opened up

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of her mail. It was a bill I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that was overdue, and he paid the bill for

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<v Speaker 1>her and left her a note like, hey, I took

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<v Speaker 1>care of this for you. Saw it was late and

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<v Speaker 1>that creeped her out one because it's a crime to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, and he was going through her mail, but

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<v Speaker 1>his intentions were good. He just wanted to help her

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<v Speaker 1>pay a bill that was late that she might not

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<v Speaker 1>have known about. And apparently I'm the only one that

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that that is crossing a line. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>really nice. He's texted him that they want to date

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<v Speaker 1>this guy. Yeah, if somebody would just pay my bills

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<v Speaker 1>for me on time, I'd appreciate that. I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>who you are. Any other piece of mail though, that

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<v Speaker 1>is super creepy, all right, I'm just saying, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like personal stuff. It is your personal stuff, your financial

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a bill she didn't pay. He was helping

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<v Speaker 1>her out a lot. Credit is very important, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was just looking out for a credit score. He actually

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<v Speaker 1>was able to score another date with her, though she

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the conversation thought what he did

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<v Speaker 1>was actually kind of sweet, little misguided, but kind of sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>So she agreed to go out with him when time. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second date update, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back. Ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five