Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with Births like and Gavin
Speaker 1: de Grab and I hear radio podcasts. Welcome to another
Speaker 1: episode of How Men Think podcast. My name is Brooks
Speaker 1: Like and I will be your host for today. And
Speaker 1: I'm super excited about today because today is a completely
Speaker 1: different show than we've ever done usually on this show,
Speaker 1: and honestly, actually every time I try and do this podcast,
Speaker 1: and I signed on to do this podcast because I
Speaker 1: wanted to add value to you guys, to the listeners.
Speaker 1: That's my mission with doing this podcast is how much
Speaker 1: value can I add to your lives while you're listening
Speaker 1: to this show today. You're not gonna get any of that.
Speaker 1: You are not going to get any value that's going
Speaker 1: to positively impact your life, but you are hopefully going
Speaker 1: to get entertained as we enter the wild and crazy
Speaker 1: realm of thirst traps first trap photos, and we have
Speaker 1: with us produce Sir Danielle and producer Easton and or sorry,
Speaker 1: producer Tory and producer Easton and Tor is already smiling
Speaker 1: because two weeks ago Tori put me onto this term.
Speaker 1: I had never heard the term first trap in my
Speaker 1: life until two shows ago when we did a show
Speaker 1: with Eric Winters. Um Tori tell us what thirst trap
Speaker 1: is all about. Well, it's funny because again, this term
Speaker 1: has been around for a while. We even have easton
Speaker 1: East and you're thirty what held thirty three? And do
Speaker 1: you know the word like the term thirst trap? I do?
Speaker 1: I do. So I feel like I'm the only one,
Speaker 1: like because I put this out on my social media
Speaker 1: like asking our community to submit the best thirst trappers,
Speaker 1: which we have a list of everybody that you guys submitted,
Speaker 1: and we have two amazing thirst trappers, a guy and
Speaker 1: a girl coming on this show and we'll get to
Speaker 1: that in a sect, but stay tuned for that. Um.
Speaker 1: But I feel like I'm the only person in the
Speaker 1: world that had never heard of this term for trap?
Speaker 1: Am I just like am I just from outer space?
Speaker 1: Why if there is anyone that doesn't know what it is?
Speaker 1: Urban Dictionary always gives you the best way to describe it.
Speaker 1: So I pulled it and it's a sexy photograph or
Speaker 1: florry message posted on social media for the intent of
Speaker 1: causing others to profess their attention their attraction, sorry, causing
Speaker 1: others to profess their attraction. So basically, it's like you're
Speaker 1: posting it, but somebody will engage with you on that
Speaker 1: photo saying you're hot. Basically okay, So somebody posts a
Speaker 1: sexy photograph or provocative photograph just hoping that people are
Speaker 1: gonna double tap it, like it comments slide into their
Speaker 1: d m s. They're set in bait, really is what
Speaker 1: they're doing. So that's called a thirst trap. Correct. Oh man,
Speaker 1: if you think fire emoji, you're thinking thirst trap. Oh,
Speaker 1: fire emoji and god, all that probably go with this.
Speaker 1: So thirst trap. So thirst trapping has been around. I
Speaker 1: just asked my buddy about this right before we started
Speaker 1: the show this episode. He said he was using the
Speaker 1: term in he was using the term thirst trap. So
Speaker 1: I have no idea, guys, how I missed this boat. Um,
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of our how men think messager
Speaker 1: listeners send me photos from my own Instagram profile, just
Speaker 1: repeated photos. Boom, this is a thirsdt trap. Boom, this
Speaker 1: is a thirst trap. Boom, this is the thirst trap.
Speaker 1: So maybe I've been doing it, but my photos have
Speaker 1: actually been like at the completion of a workout, like
Speaker 1: something that's actually I've actually really done our thirst trap
Speaker 1: photos more just poser like pretending to do something photos, Brooks,
Speaker 1: if you're showing off your muscles in a photo, you
Speaker 1: were thirst trapping. So if you're like, hey, here's my
Speaker 1: cross fit, you're not wearing a turtleneck. You're gonna show
Speaker 1: off your body and your muscles, and you're gonna say
Speaker 1: I look good while also kind of promoting your your
Speaker 1: healthy lifestyle. But it's for the intent to be like, wow, Brooks,
Speaker 1: you look great. What's your program that's engaging in a conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so so My how I look at thirst trap though,
Speaker 1: is like this is how I perceive it from my
Speaker 1: my recent like knowledge of it the past days. Over
Speaker 1: the past days, I've interpreted it as just an over
Speaker 1: the top, just ridiculous, why are you doing that photo?
Speaker 1: Like when I work out, a lot of the times
Speaker 1: I'll have a shirt off because it's so hot. The
Speaker 1: workout will run twenty So I did you work out yesterday?
Speaker 1: It ran thirty nine minutes, So like you just get hot,
Speaker 1: so sometimes you peel the shirt. Um, so it's actually
Speaker 1: functional and actually like real life. My view on thirst traps,
Speaker 1: they're not real life. They're poser shots that you're just
Speaker 1: casting out bait for double clicks In your profile Eastern
Speaker 1: What do you think I mean that that that sounds
Speaker 1: like it's me. Uh, I've never posted one because uh,
Speaker 1: in the whole since Instagram has been a thing, I've
Speaker 1: been an event married man. You know, So, Um, I
Speaker 1: have to you know, I'm only I'm only trying to
Speaker 1: trap the thirst of one person. And uh and uh
Speaker 1: you know that this has been quenched long ago. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you so how about this though, So both
Speaker 1: of our thirst trappers, one is married and one is
Speaker 1: in a relationship right now. So we have two people
Speaker 1: that are notorious and that our how men think community
Speaker 1: wanted us to get on, that are notorious for thirst trapping,
Speaker 1: and they're both in committed relationships. But here's the thing.
Speaker 1: You don't have to be single to post a thirst trap.
Speaker 1: Like you could still post a photo being like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm hot, I feel good about myself. It's not to
Speaker 1: necessarily get slides into your d m s, but like
Speaker 1: you feel good when you post a picture and it
Speaker 1: gets a lot of likes, you can't say that it doesn't. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So well, we have a specialist. We have a really
Speaker 1: special guest. You guys requested her. Um, she is a.
Speaker 1: She also has a I Heart Radio podcast. She is
Speaker 1: page Renee Paige. How are you, how are you doing?
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on this show. I'm so excited
Speaker 1: one great to see you again. Um, I'm I'm just
Speaker 1: over the top with the show. I cannot wait for
Speaker 1: this show. So page Renee for our listeners or the
Speaker 1: people on in our community that don't listen to her
Speaker 1: podcast or don't know who she is, was a professional golfer.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you professional golf. You still are because
Speaker 1: you can kick everybody's good. Um. But also you are
Speaker 1: the most uh socially followed golfer in the world. Correct crazy,
Speaker 1: but yes, you have the biggest social community digital community
Speaker 1: of any golfer in the world, and you do some
Speaker 1: amazing things with your platform. We'll get into those value
Speaker 1: add things later, but this show is not about value.
Speaker 1: This show today is all about entertainment. Um. And so
Speaker 1: we are going to get to thirst trapping. Page. This
Speaker 1: is a new term for me. I don't know if Tori,
Speaker 1: but I just found out about thirst trapping two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: So how did you not know about thirst traps? It's everywhere?
Speaker 1: So how did you find out about it? Because Tori
Speaker 1: just told me about it on an episode two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: How did you find out about the term thirst trap?
Speaker 1: My whole social media platform is built on a thirst trap.
Speaker 1: But who told you that? The term? Like you just
Speaker 1: probably like four years ago. It's just when you throw
Speaker 1: up a picture and people like, oh, it's a thirst trap,
Speaker 1: or they'll put like the water emoji, or they'll say like,
Speaker 1: do you need a gatorade because you look dehydrated? Are
Speaker 1: you thirsty? Like? There's just so many terms for it. Um,
Speaker 1: but I think thirst traps get a bad rap, but
Speaker 1: they're actually a really great thing and you need to
Speaker 1: there's certain things you need to do to get a
Speaker 1: really good thirst trap. Okay, so I have so many
Speaker 1: questions for you. Let's start with that for our listeners.
Speaker 1: So pages of female. So let's we have a male
Speaker 1: coming on the show later. Um, but let's let's attack
Speaker 1: it from a female perspective. If you're gonna do a
Speaker 1: thirst trap photo as a female, give us like your
Speaker 1: top three pointers page. Well, the first thing is you
Speaker 1: need to know your audience, because the thirst trap is
Speaker 1: going to be different for if you have more of
Speaker 1: a male audience, If you have more of a female audience,
Speaker 1: or if you have like a food account, you can
Speaker 1: either make a food thirst trap. There's so many ways
Speaker 1: you can go about it. But for me, since I
Speaker 1: have a strong male demographic and they like sports, a
Speaker 1: thirst trap is just me hitting a golf ball. That
Speaker 1: is the thirst trap for me. Some people, when you
Speaker 1: hear thirst trap, you think it's just like you know,
Speaker 1: booms out, ass out, you know, just like showing everything
Speaker 1: up and that's They think that's a thirst trap, but
Speaker 1: it's really not. It's just whatever your audience really likes.
Speaker 1: So like a thirst trap for a food account could
Speaker 1: be like this gooey gooey mac and cheese and people
Speaker 1: are like, yes, I love that, I want that. Or
Speaker 1: for like you, all you have to do of jealous
Speaker 1: is like pose with a cute dog. Like guys have
Speaker 1: the easiest thirst traps ever, it is the simplest thing
Speaker 1: girls have to actually put onto it because if you're
Speaker 1: a girl and you have a female audience, you all
Speaker 1: you have to do is have like a designer bag
Speaker 1: or a baby, or like a really nice outfit. So
Speaker 1: it's totally different for everyone whoa Okay, you're blowing my
Speaker 1: mind here because so in my context of a thirst trap,
Speaker 1: it's just like a butt picture, a boom picture, ab picture. Like,
Speaker 1: it's just that's how I see a thirst trap. But
Speaker 1: you're saying that a thirst trap can be a dog,
Speaker 1: Like I post photos my dog all the time. I
Speaker 1: love my dog, he's my boy. I love him. But
Speaker 1: I never thought that that would be a thirst trap.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So let's just say you have a more
Speaker 1: female dominated audience. I have more female than male. Perfect. Okay,
Speaker 1: So all you have to do is post a picture
Speaker 1: with like a dog and you're good to go. Or
Speaker 1: I mean, you can definitely do the shirtless picture. I
Speaker 1: don't think anyone is complaining about that one bit. But
Speaker 1: it's so much easier for you. You just have to
Speaker 1: do something where a girl goes, oh, it's so cute.
Speaker 1: That is a thirst trap for a female. It's anything
Speaker 1: that kind of gets like there, oh, that's so adorable.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, okay, I like, I thought a
Speaker 1: thirst trap was you're setting out some bait with the
Speaker 1: intention of trying to get people to slide into your
Speaker 1: d MS a thousand percent. But for you that that's
Speaker 1: definitely like, oh, he's so cute with his dog and
Speaker 1: o like, oh he cooks, like I love that. Girls
Speaker 1: are just gonna be like yep, I'm slide and right
Speaker 1: and wait, Brooks you I'm sorry to interrupt, but Brooks
Speaker 1: knows this because he hasn't realized. But he's been posting
Speaker 1: these pictures for a long time. And you posted a
Speaker 1: picture of your dog and a girl was like, page,
Speaker 1: get this and let me know what your thoughts are.
Speaker 1: He posts a picture of his dog and if somebody
Speaker 1: swipes up, sorry, someone d m saying, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I would love for our dogs to do a play
Speaker 1: date together. What is she saying? I want to sleep
Speaker 1: with you? Do you think so? A thousand per cent?
Speaker 1: That's just like the easiest way to like slide in.
Speaker 1: Girls are not as direct as guys. But that is
Speaker 1: a hundred percent exactly what she was going for, Like
Speaker 1: I want to go on a date, I want to
Speaker 1: sleep with you. I'm in love with you. I'm so
Speaker 1: behind on like the whole social media gang game and
Speaker 1: just like intent on it, Like I use my platform
Speaker 1: to try and add value. That's why I do this show.
Speaker 1: That's why I use my platform, and then I show
Speaker 1: things I love you know, um, but I never I
Speaker 1: never played. I never had social media until I was
Speaker 1: in a relationship. I've never ever in my life been
Speaker 1: single and had social media, So I've never played that
Speaker 1: kind of a game with social media. Mine was always
Speaker 1: to engage with people and see how I could add
Speaker 1: value to their lives you and bring bring attention to
Speaker 1: good causes and charities and things that a lot of
Speaker 1: what you do as well with yours. Um, But how
Speaker 1: can we make a positive impact in the world with
Speaker 1: the platform that we've built through our sport? So I
Speaker 1: always looked at social media like that. I never looked
Speaker 1: at it like we're just chum and water here trying
Speaker 1: to just get the sharks to circle. So, um, what
Speaker 1: other ways give? Like Okay, let's so for a woman,
Speaker 1: for a woman, know your audience, so any like, even
Speaker 1: you swing in a golf club, guys are gonna just
Speaker 1: double tap on it because guys are sports fans, and
Speaker 1: guys are fans of you're a very beautiful woman. So
Speaker 1: but then how do you supercharge that? Because that's the
Speaker 1: like I looked at your profile page, I follow you,
Speaker 1: and and that's not all your posting. No, I think
Speaker 1: you definitely have to Like you were saying like, I'm
Speaker 1: not just throwing thirst traps out every single day trying
Speaker 1: just to get attention, and guys despide in my dms.
Speaker 1: That's not We want to use our platforms for good,
Speaker 1: but you do sometimes need a thirst rap to kind
Speaker 1: of get the engagement going. And so for me, that's
Speaker 1: usually like a bathing suit picture or a selfie or
Speaker 1: you know, just a more sexualized picture. But one thing
Speaker 1: I always trying to do with my first traps and
Speaker 1: not show the whole thing. So just give them like
Speaker 1: a little bit of a taste, so I'll kind of
Speaker 1: crop it up or just show like either I'll focus
Speaker 1: on one part of my body. But it's really strategic
Speaker 1: on how I do it. But I mean, it really
Speaker 1: does help kind of getting that engagement, getting that traffic,
Speaker 1: because you still, if you don't have anyone looking at
Speaker 1: your page, then it's for nothing that you can't promote
Speaker 1: any of the good causes or get your voice out there.
Speaker 1: No one's following you. So I use it for good
Speaker 1: or for bad. People disagree or I think it's maybe
Speaker 1: not the best way to do it, but I like
Speaker 1: to throw out a good thirst trap because I also
Speaker 1: I like the way I look at the picture. I'm
Speaker 1: not just doing it for attention. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I look good in that picture. I'm gonna throw it up.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. UM. I also think, um, there's a thing
Speaker 1: like what you just said that sometimes you'll do that
Speaker 1: as a way of keeping there's a termine in digital
Speaker 1: media called attention currency. So having people's attention I want that.
Speaker 1: That's the currency in digital media is do I have
Speaker 1: your attention? Are you coming back to my platform, to
Speaker 1: my profile and engaging with me? Um? And if sometimes
Speaker 1: you need to do that to then parlay that attention
Speaker 1: currency into some sort of philanthropic adventure or something you're
Speaker 1: doing there, then I I totally understand the reason to
Speaker 1: do it. I think there's uh, some people do it
Speaker 1: out of vanity of just like throwing out like they
Speaker 1: just they want to be maybe an insecurity. They'll throw
Speaker 1: it out to try and get themselves fed up or
Speaker 1: filled up. UM. I don't see that. I know you page,
Speaker 1: so that's not who you are. UM, it's not how
Speaker 1: you use your platform. But I do see what you're saying.
Speaker 1: I will admit, like sometimes I'll post a an aggressive
Speaker 1: workout picture or if I'm shirtless doing a workout that
Speaker 1: will get more attraction to the workout program that I'm doing,
Speaker 1: which I designed to help people to help benefit people's lives. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the same thing, And I don't think it's a
Speaker 1: bad thing if you do do it because you just
Speaker 1: want some validation or just a little bit of like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, like that does make me feel good, especially
Speaker 1: if you have taken that time to you know, diet
Speaker 1: and exercise and you're proud of your body. And I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of women get a lot of
Speaker 1: hate for that because they'll pose in a bikini and
Speaker 1: they're like, I've worked so hard for this, and people
Speaker 1: tend to take it as a bad way. They're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you just want attention, you want people look at your body.
Speaker 1: But then a guy will pose shirtless and there they're
Speaker 1: only noticed for all of their hard work that they've done.
Speaker 1: So I feel like first traps kind of have a
Speaker 1: negative connotation when it comes to women, and then with guys,
Speaker 1: you guys can post whatever you want and women don't
Speaker 1: say anything, but say I pose a bikini, they will
Speaker 1: turn around and call me a slat. So I think
Speaker 1: there's definitely like a double standard there. And when it
Speaker 1: comes to golf being very conservative, sometimes I definitely push
Speaker 1: the limit and be a little more sexualized because golf
Speaker 1: is so conservative and it's okay to where would I
Speaker 1: want to wear and look the way I do and
Speaker 1: still be a complete badass in golf, And so it's
Speaker 1: kind of almost breaking that standard or that mold of
Speaker 1: what people think of golfer should be. So there's a
Speaker 1: reason why I take it maybe a little bit over
Speaker 1: the top. Sometimes there's always a meaning behind it, um
Speaker 1: or sometimes I just felt good I wanted to post it.
Speaker 1: Amen to that and good to have the confidence and
Speaker 1: just the like, you know what, it's your life, it's
Speaker 1: your platform, and like people can unfollow you. You're not
Speaker 1: forcing this, You are not physically forcing that in front
Speaker 1: of anybody. They choose to follow you, and so they
Speaker 1: choose to see the photographs um that that you post.
Speaker 1: What has been like, undoubtedly you've had more positive interaction
Speaker 1: and engagement with traditional thirst trapp E type. Have you
Speaker 1: ever had some really negative engagement or interaction where you've
Speaker 1: really thought, are reconsidered, like do I really want to
Speaker 1: be posting this out? Also, you're married, yes, you know
Speaker 1: you're not single looking for people to slide into your
Speaker 1: d ms like crazy? Like, how does how does your husband,
Speaker 1: who's a gem and I can't wait to see him again,
Speaker 1: tell him some work out? Um? How does he react
Speaker 1: to his wife posting what would be first trappy photos? Um?
Speaker 1: I I never feel like I've crossed the line. I
Speaker 1: feel like everything that I've done has always been very appropriate,
Speaker 1: and I always judge it off of my parents. Actually,
Speaker 1: so if I could post a picture and I know
Speaker 1: that my parents aren't disappointed in what I'm posting, then
Speaker 1: it should be fine, Like they're still proud of the
Speaker 1: person I am, and I think I do. Sometimes I'll
Speaker 1: look at women on Instagram and they'll be posting in
Speaker 1: like a normal bikini top and it's all positive comments.
Speaker 1: But since I have a larger chest, it then all
Speaker 1: of a sudden is turned to be vulgar. So I
Speaker 1: sometimes feel it's unfair that I have to wear certain
Speaker 1: things to get a different reaction when some girls are
Speaker 1: praised for wearing the exact same thing I'm wearing. So
Speaker 1: I never want to change who I am, but I'm
Speaker 1: never posting it in the intention of I want so
Speaker 1: many guys to tell me I'm good looking today. You know,
Speaker 1: I never do that. It's more just kind of like
Speaker 1: I feel good about it. I want to post this,
Speaker 1: and I don't feel like I should be afraid or
Speaker 1: ashamed in what I'm doing. And it's funny because I
Speaker 1: actually get probably more unfollowed when I post a thirst
Speaker 1: trap than if I post like a normal golf video.
Speaker 1: So it's it's sometimes it doesn't actually help my engagement.
Speaker 1: It hurts it because they don't even really want to
Speaker 1: see that. It's more for myself and feeling confident, feeling
Speaker 1: sexy and not being afraid to do that. Um and
Speaker 1: when it comes to like my personal life again, he's
Speaker 1: very secure with who he is and he knew kind
Speaker 1: of what he was getting himself into. And I don't
Speaker 1: think I could ever be with a man who told
Speaker 1: me you can't post that because I don't want other
Speaker 1: guys looking at you. I would rather be with a
Speaker 1: guy who is like, hell, yeah, that is my wife.
Speaker 1: She's sexy and other guys want her, but she's mine.
Speaker 1: And I think that's like the the coolest thing. If
Speaker 1: a guy can be so confident and secure with themselves
Speaker 1: that they don't need to make their significant other look worse,
Speaker 1: so guys don't like them. I never understood that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: well good for you. I really appreciate your perspective on it.
Speaker 1: And obviously you guys have that communication within your relationship,
Speaker 1: and the relationship is strong enough, and both of you
Speaker 1: as individuals are strong enough, UM to understand the purpose
Speaker 1: of what's going on. UM. And I always find it
Speaker 1: really interesting. I think the Internet and social media is
Speaker 1: I think it does so much good truly in the world.
Speaker 1: It brings awareness and impact and inspiration to so many people.
Speaker 1: And then I think it's also on the other side
Speaker 1: of things are really toxic environment her judgment for opinion
Speaker 1: for UM conflict, like people like if somebody chooses to
Speaker 1: follow you page and digest your content to then offer
Speaker 1: their opinion and and negative opinions, I've never understood how
Speaker 1: offering negativity serves the world, you know, Like, how why
Speaker 1: do people take the time to offer that. I've never
Speaker 1: understood that. So I actually I love your I think
Speaker 1: you're very brave, you know, because I know you've done
Speaker 1: a lot with anti bullying, which has come from UM
Speaker 1: social media engagement. I'm sure, but UM, changing that narrative
Speaker 1: empowering women to be confident and strong with their bodies.
Speaker 1: And also just the fact I appreciate this. And the
Speaker 1: reason I agreed to do three thirst trap photos today
Speaker 1: is because this is an area of my life I'm
Speaker 1: trying to work on. I always try. I'm sometimes a
Speaker 1: very serious guy, and I always try and add value,
Speaker 1: and I just want to go over the top, goof
Speaker 1: off and just do something so outside of what I
Speaker 1: would normally do. So for your so, what are what
Speaker 1: are the three that you're gonna go with? So three
Speaker 1: that you have to do, I'll give you one. The
Speaker 1: best advice is if you do a thirst trap, you
Speaker 1: own the thirst trap. There's nothing worse than someone doing
Speaker 1: a thirst trap like their booties out and it's like
Speaker 1: a gone quote. It's like no, no, no, you own
Speaker 1: up to it. You're doing the thirst trap and own it.
Speaker 1: So in your caption you just have to be like,
Speaker 1: this is my thirst trap. Appreciate it so Page, because
Speaker 1: I appreciate you so much coming on to talk about this.
Speaker 1: Tory challenged me to do a thirst trap last week,
Speaker 1: and so I have done three. I had seven photos
Speaker 1: to choose from, and I have three that I think
Speaker 1: are the winners, and I want to run them by
Speaker 1: you too and ask you what do you think of
Speaker 1: my thirst trapping abilities. I shot these photos this morning
Speaker 1: where it is so we're on Tory. Just put thirst
Speaker 1: trap number one up on the screen. So well, it's
Speaker 1: perfect tell us who we're looking at Brooks. Okay, so people,
Speaker 1: people that are listening, you can go to my Instagram
Speaker 1: and I'll put this on my Instagram at Brooks. Like
Speaker 1: so I wanted to do. Okay, we're doing thirst traps right.
Speaker 1: So I always say anything worth doing is worth overdoing.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do the most trappy of trappy photos.
Speaker 1: So here I am. My dog is in the foreground.
Speaker 1: I'm out in the water with a pair of work
Speaker 1: pants on. I have no shirt on. And then here's
Speaker 1: the best part of it. I have a hatchet on
Speaker 1: my belt, I have a hammer on my belt. I
Speaker 1: have a knife on my belt, I have a chainsaw
Speaker 1: in one hand. I have an axe and a sledge
Speaker 1: hammer in another hand. No shirt on. But the best
Speaker 1: part is I'm in the water. You would never use
Speaker 1: any of this stuff in the water. So that is
Speaker 1: first trap number one. Page Break it down. How was
Speaker 1: my first thirst trap I'm blown away. You need to
Speaker 1: teach me a thing or two about thirst traps, and
Speaker 1: I love it because with a thirst trap you can
Speaker 1: do whatever you want. So the fact that you're holding
Speaker 1: like all of these tools you would never use in
Speaker 1: that situation make it absolutely perfect. And then the dog
Speaker 1: just like kind of in the in the you know,
Speaker 1: right there, it kind of looks like the dog took
Speaker 1: the picture like gazing at you. You know, there's just
Speaker 1: so much going on, but I'm just looking at your abs.
Speaker 1: So it accomplished what it needs to be accomplished. Also, also,
Speaker 1: my buddy, my buddy, Hebert Cannon, took this photo for me. Um,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm gonna ask that's like, does that like
Speaker 1: self timer? Like how did you? Um? He gave me
Speaker 1: his sunglasses. They're blender sunglasses. Just look at my sunglasses.
Speaker 1: They're like party sunglasses too. So when you really zoom
Speaker 1: in on, like look at that, they just got reflective
Speaker 1: things like party sunglasses. I hate to break it to you,
Speaker 1: but no one's gonna be looking at the sunglasses. So
Speaker 1: here I am in the water with all these tools.
Speaker 1: By all those tools are my own tools, and I
Speaker 1: use those to clean my yard. So it's a authentic
Speaker 1: in that way, but the fact you would never be
Speaker 1: in the water with any of those tools. So so
Speaker 1: for the caption, you should be Do you want to
Speaker 1: come to my tool shed? Okay, Tory, can you put
Speaker 1: up third craft picture number two for page? Uh? And
Speaker 1: please coach me on this page, like, tell me what
Speaker 1: I'm doing, want to tell me what I could do better?
Speaker 1: Here's it's a very bay Watch moment. I'm kind of
Speaker 1: living for this. Just that kind of slow run out
Speaker 1: of the water and you're still holding the tools, which
Speaker 1: makes even better. Yeah, I got all the tools, I'm
Speaker 1: walking out of the water. This is just a little
Speaker 1: more in motion. Um, this one I think is just
Speaker 1: absolutely hilarious. Maybe I'll use this as like my swipe
Speaker 1: up one or something because this is this one is
Speaker 1: just so funny. I think I like the first one
Speaker 1: better just because I like the dog. It mean, you
Speaker 1: hit everything that you had to possibly hit in the
Speaker 1: first one. But this is still good. I like that
Speaker 1: kind of movement shot you have going. But again, no
Speaker 1: one's gonna be looking. You could be holding the most
Speaker 1: outrageous thing and you're even holding like a birthday cake
Speaker 1: in one hand, and like something else, another hand, and
Speaker 1: no one's gonna be looking at anything. They're just looking
Speaker 1: straight at your abs. Okay, so this one, this one
Speaker 1: actually looks like um, looks like I'm kind of doing work.
Speaker 1: So for this one, I think I might post on
Speaker 1: my on my Instagram and just put um, just finished
Speaker 1: up another week's worth t G I F because it's
Speaker 1: it's so cheesy, like you can never use those in
Speaker 1: the water. I don't. I'm walking in water with a
Speaker 1: chainsaw and and a hatchet like its um. So first
Speaker 1: trap number three, please, Tory just might be my my
Speaker 1: star Thurst trap. Get ready page. I'm excited. I honestly
Speaker 1: have no idea what to expect. Oh okay, okay, you
Speaker 1: have a little hip hop going, so look off into
Speaker 1: the distance. This I'm just standing there. This is a
Speaker 1: total poser photo, saying all the tools, shirtless in the
Speaker 1: water up to my knees, just pretending like I'm doing work,
Speaker 1: but there's absolutely no work to be done because I'm
Speaker 1: in the lake up to my knees. How how long
Speaker 1: did it take to shoot all these pictures? I talk
Speaker 1: about four minutes total. How's it jealous? I grabbed a
Speaker 1: bunch of tools out of my grade stuff that I've
Speaker 1: been used lately. I'm like Hebrew, We're like, I'm in
Speaker 1: North side of Hoole. We're gonna do my I've grown
Speaker 1: my beard for like four months, so the beard playing
Speaker 1: well in these photos. Um. I put on my work gloves,
Speaker 1: I grabbed my tools, and I'm just like, we're gonna
Speaker 1: do the dumbest thing ever, stand in the water with
Speaker 1: all these tools, and then we're gonna just trap it.
Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna be interested in how these pictures do
Speaker 1: you compare to what you normally post, because obviously this
Speaker 1: is very different than your normal type of content. So
Speaker 1: it would be interesting to see the engagement, the likes
Speaker 1: in the comments, if it does increase, or if it's
Speaker 1: kind of like me, where this is not what they
Speaker 1: want and they're like, give me, give me more dog
Speaker 1: pictures of workout stuff for you know, it'll be interesting.
Speaker 1: Got you? So you're saying I potentially might have missed
Speaker 1: the mark here with this thirst trap. No, No, I
Speaker 1: think you hit it. You did a good job. We'll see.
Speaker 1: So out of the three pictures, UM, page, which picture
Speaker 1: do you think is my number one? First trap? I
Speaker 1: like number one the best number one. Yes, I think
Speaker 1: number one was the best. Tori is shaking her head. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The dog just really makes it like a Brooks like
Speaker 1: thirst trap, which is why I like it East. You know,
Speaker 1: I like the last one best, where you're like knee
Speaker 1: deep in the water. I don't I don't know that
Speaker 1: that one really did it for me. The sun's hitting
Speaker 1: you in a really special way. Page. So you think
Speaker 1: number one, I think, yeah, number one. I think it's
Speaker 1: the ultimate thirst trap because it had everything that you
Speaker 1: need for a successful picture all in one. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're shirtless, you have tools, you have a dog, You're
Speaker 1: what I mean, what else could Okay? Okay, so um,
Speaker 1: oh my god. So these photos as of this podcast,
Speaker 1: when this releases, these photos will be out there. And
Speaker 1: I always tell that's the best one. Yeah, I always
Speaker 1: tell this to friends. I'm like, just remember that the
Speaker 1: Internet is forever. The Internet is forever. And I kept
Speaker 1: reminding Hebrew that when we were shooting these this morning.
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, that's my famous line to tell people
Speaker 1: the Internet is forever. And here I am doing this
Speaker 1: right here. So Tori, You're welcome. I love you. This
Speaker 1: is for you. Page. You're also welcome. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: level up to page level we need. We need to
Speaker 1: get Tori to do a thirst trap. I've been trying
Speaker 1: to convince her for a while now so that that
Speaker 1: should be the next thing you guys have to do, right,
Speaker 1: not challenge you to do one. Let's just your mind. Anyways,
Speaker 1: onto the next um any before we let you go,
Speaker 1: any last advice for women or men out there looking
Speaker 1: to thirst trap, anything you want to say, any any tips, tricks,
Speaker 1: anything you want that can that can help our community.
Speaker 1: Just trap. Yeah, if you're a guy, definitely just do
Speaker 1: some push ups before you take the picture, try to
Speaker 1: pump up a little bit, maybe run around, get like
Speaker 1: a nice little listen and then for a girl, I
Speaker 1: mean it's it depends again. If you have a male audience,
Speaker 1: just wear a nice low gut or if you have
Speaker 1: a nice fruity or some good leggings. Um, and if
Speaker 1: you have more female audience, just look nice. I'm so
Speaker 1: envious of women with female audiences because they're just gonna
Speaker 1: look like so posh and perfect and I'm just like
Speaker 1: in like a baseball cap all the time, just like, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's go play some golf. So but no, just have
Speaker 1: fun with it. I think own it. Owning it is
Speaker 1: the most important thing because what is the most sexiest
Speaker 1: thing ever, and that's confident. So if you have confidence,
Speaker 1: it's going to turn out great. And I'm happy you
Speaker 1: finally learned what a thirst trap is. It's a big
Speaker 1: part of my life, so I'm glad we're sharing that
Speaker 1: to everyone else right now. I'm so excited about it too,
Speaker 1: because this is a new ventum for me. I've posted
Speaker 1: these on my Instagram and it's like me stepping out
Speaker 1: and doing something and it's just completely ridiculous, funny and
Speaker 1: lighthearted and I just I can't wait to see what
Speaker 1: people engage with. And if people on follow me, they
Speaker 1: follow me. I'm having a rad time. UM page, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. UM. Where can people find your value
Speaker 1: but also your thirst trappy photos? You can follow me.
Speaker 1: It's Paige Rene on Instagram. And then I have a
Speaker 1: podcast with my heart and it's called Playing a Round,
Speaker 1: So we have a lot of fun there, so please
Speaker 1: check us out. Yes, can't wait. Can't wait to see
Speaker 1: you again and your man again. Um, when this whole
Speaker 1: thing dies down and you guys come to l A,
Speaker 1: let's link up pardon the pun. Definitely. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for having me today, and I'll make sure to
Speaker 1: like and comment your thirst trap. Oh yes, I can't
Speaker 1: wait for what that comment is gonna be. Um. Also, also,
Speaker 1: I think I feel like there's there's an episode two
Speaker 1: coming on about this thirst trappiness. I think the community
Speaker 1: is gonna go wild over this. I think they're gonna engage.
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna go like hot fire. So I
Speaker 1: think we'll have to do like a follow up to
Speaker 1: this page where we really dive into, um, like more
Speaker 1: of the first trap. So I'd love to do that
Speaker 1: with you. I love your mission, girl, I love that
Speaker 1: you're doing a podcast with my heart. Uh and I
Speaker 1: can't wait to see you uh and JR Man your
Speaker 1: lovely man again to thank you so much by guys.
Speaker 1: Thanks page. All right, we have the notorious. The ladies
Speaker 1: of the community have been waiting for him. He is
Speaker 1: so to t this up for you, my man. Look
Speaker 1: at he's just looking fantastic here on this zoom call
Speaker 1: already see him up here sec the our how men
Speaker 1: think listeners. We have a large female community and they
Speaker 1: voted you as the most first trappy man Instagram Harry,
Speaker 1: how are you? That is my favorite title. I'm so
Speaker 1: proud of that. Thank you guys so much. Buddy, you
Speaker 1: are welcome. I must say I watched every single episode
Speaker 1: of Too Hot to Handle? You are you? Landed a
Speaker 1: beautiful Canadian girl. I'm a Canadian, so my heart goes
Speaker 1: to you. Man, you pick one of my fellow Canadians.
Speaker 1: I love it. Um, but Harry, give us a little.
Speaker 1: So the conversation today is about thirst traps. Give a
Speaker 1: little like context on your life prior to Too Hot
Speaker 1: to Handle and now your life post Too Hot to
Speaker 1: Handle and how your thirst traps are just going viral
Speaker 1: all over Instagram. I honestly think I've toned my thirst
Speaker 1: traps down so much. When I had ten thousand followers,
Speaker 1: like I was in my yes in the mirror getting
Speaker 1: them meet out, just begging for a pension. And now
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm way more wholesome, way more well rounded.
Speaker 1: Like the photo of Francesca, I like, it took me
Speaker 1: so long to convince to let me post that, and
Speaker 1: I was like, it looks it's gonna do amazing, Like
Speaker 1: let's try to break the internet today, like come on, um,
Speaker 1: and I was like you look like insane in it. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: one where your heads laying on her bosom on her butt.
Speaker 1: That Yeah. Yeah, that was a good day. That was
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. Yeah, man, So so tell me
Speaker 1: about this. So before Too Hot to Handle, you were
Speaker 1: at what how many followers? I was at like one
Speaker 1: one before, so obviously you were. You were stirring up
Speaker 1: some some fire on social media prior to Too Hot
Speaker 1: to Handle, and then after Too Hot to Handle came
Speaker 1: out on Netflix, the explosion just started. Half. Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was crazy. I think my biggest day that I
Speaker 1: grew it was like five hundred dozen followers in one day,
Speaker 1: and the next day it was like three hundred dozen.
Speaker 1: And that was when I posted the video with Francesca,
Speaker 1: and that's got like twenty six million views, which is
Speaker 1: like it just doesn't feel real, Like I look at
Speaker 1: it and I'm like, I don't know if I should
Speaker 1: be proud or like, wait it out that like banging
Speaker 1: people like seeing this like I don't know how to feel. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how do you deal with So it's interesting to me
Speaker 1: that you've toned down the thirst trappiness after the show.
Speaker 1: Is it because you're now in a relationship and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to I want to approach this differently where
Speaker 1: you single before and You're like, I'm just throwing this
Speaker 1: out there. That's gonna get like some clicks and d
Speaker 1: ms like crazy. Well I think, um, like me and
Speaker 1: Francesco boats both like you said, just go crazy with
Speaker 1: those traps, and I think now she's like she got
Speaker 1: mad at me for posting like a shower like a
Speaker 1: towel selfie like I was like, I look good. She's
Speaker 1: like that shouldn't be on the internet. And like Francesca
Speaker 1: like she's like, we're way more wholesome, Like it's weird.
Speaker 1: So when I'm scrolling your program or your profile, I
Speaker 1: know the photo you're talking about. You post it. You
Speaker 1: put thirst trap Thursday, right, yeah, yeah, so I know it.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, brother has been doing it here.
Speaker 1: Do you find that those do you find that those
Speaker 1: just get like the most engagement, the most clicks, the
Speaker 1: most like like what is is it just that you
Speaker 1: feel confident with your body and you want to share
Speaker 1: it and inspire people? Like what do you are? You
Speaker 1: just goofing off like this is this is Instagram. I'm
Speaker 1: just messing around to it. Um, like There was a
Speaker 1: lot of thought that went into that photo. Like I
Speaker 1: picked up the mirror from the living room, I brought
Speaker 1: it into the show. I made sure that once I
Speaker 1: was in the shower, I didn't drive myself off. So
Speaker 1: I was a little bit wet um. There was a
Speaker 1: lot that went into that, like I tested the lighting everything.
Speaker 1: But when I post, like when I post these photos,
Speaker 1: I just like, I don't like, I always feel good
Speaker 1: like it. I don't know, it is a bit like
Speaker 1: attention seeking, but I always find that like when I
Speaker 1: get that validation from people saying like, oh you look good,
Speaker 1: or Francesco saying you look amazing, like, it makes me
Speaker 1: want to keep going and like keeping my journey. It's
Speaker 1: always it's always good to feel good, especially from millions
Speaker 1: of strangers on the internet. You know under that my
Speaker 1: man um do you have do you currently have? Well?
Speaker 1: First off, I want to ask this question first for
Speaker 1: our guys that are listening to the show that want
Speaker 1: to be better. First trappers want to drive that engagement
Speaker 1: and just get maybe get the attention of ladies or
Speaker 1: a man or whatever. What are your like top three
Speaker 1: tips for a thirst trap. As a man, I always
Speaker 1: think that if you feel confident, like if you feel
Speaker 1: amazing about yourself, just do it. Like who cares what
Speaker 1: anyone says, Like just like no matter what you look like,
Speaker 1: you're someone's perfect person. So like get your shirt off,
Speaker 1: your pants off, maybe you keep them on. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you've got only fans, do whatever. But like
Speaker 1: I always think that just if you feel confident and
Speaker 1: you feel happy, you look happy, there's should be nothing
Speaker 1: stopping you from doing whatever the whatever the hell you want.
Speaker 1: Like my my my biggest tip as well, when like
Speaker 1: if you're dude and you're taking a photo like in
Speaker 1: the mirror, I always like have my phone up a
Speaker 1: little bit and tilted forward so much like it's illusion
Speaker 1: so my chest looks bigger, like I'm skinny, so that
Speaker 1: when you do that, your chest looks bigger, you get
Speaker 1: more of what people are after. But like, don't go
Speaker 1: too crazy, don't crop your head out of it. People
Speaker 1: want the full experience. It's just like when sending nudes,
Speaker 1: like people just want to see the full experience. You
Speaker 1: don't just go bang on the on the long like
Speaker 1: you want to do the whole everyone's hit for the
Speaker 1: the whole journey, right, I will I will agree with
Speaker 1: you that I like because sometimes bathrooms have a mirror
Speaker 1: not mounted flush on the wall. It's mounted with a
Speaker 1: little angle forward. Just it gives a little different perspective.
Speaker 1: And sometimes you can look in that mirror you're like, damn,
Speaker 1: I'm jack, I'm looking good today. It's just it's given
Speaker 1: you a little it's like a nice little wind that's
Speaker 1: your back. Yeah, it's so, it's the science of the
Speaker 1: science of first traps. So did you so? Okay? So
Speaker 1: that's one. Be confident to hold it up a little
Speaker 1: bit tilted forward, a little bit in the mirror. So
Speaker 1: that makes you your six pack, your chest, makes everything
Speaker 1: look better. Um. What's your third one? What's one other one?
Speaker 1: That maybe if guys are sitting there in the bathroom
Speaker 1: or wherever they're trying to self bee um or is
Speaker 1: it just like a thirst trap doesn't have to be
Speaker 1: yourselfie in the bathroom in a tower. I don't know,
Speaker 1: it doesn't. It honestly doesn't need to be like you
Speaker 1: could you could be anywhere. You could be in your
Speaker 1: in your car, on your couch. But I always think, like,
Speaker 1: if you like what I said, So Christian usually takes
Speaker 1: my shirt this little takes all my Instagram photos. So
Speaker 1: I always say to him, like, you just have to
Speaker 1: be a little bit gay for me, like tell me
Speaker 1: what looks hot like if you were if because our
Speaker 1: romance is probably right on the line, right. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: you need to tell me what will get you going
Speaker 1: if you would get and he's just like, perfect, Okay,
Speaker 1: so this is what you need to do. So get
Speaker 1: a friend like that. If you're not comfortable with your
Speaker 1: friends in that sense, then whatever, Like um, but I
Speaker 1: always think that having like a third party or someone
Speaker 1: who can like push you along the way. But if
Speaker 1: you're also taking mirror selfie and you're not feeling that confident,
Speaker 1: maybe like put a toothbrush in your mouth, like making
Speaker 1: a bit of fun, like do a weird bace or
Speaker 1: just like maybe just from it. But in the caption,
Speaker 1: never take away, like never be like like I was like,
Speaker 1: I've got a rather large left nipple, like, don't distract
Speaker 1: people from your thirst trap, Like always make it like
Speaker 1: something fun and keep it fun and be confident. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. It's so page. We
Speaker 1: had paigeren A on who is the world's most followed
Speaker 1: golfer on social media, beautiful woman, she's married, um, professional athlete,
Speaker 1: professional golfer, And that's what she said too. She said,
Speaker 1: be confident and own it, don't You don't put it
Speaker 1: up there with any hesitance to be like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: doing this, whether it's like I look good today, I
Speaker 1: feel good today, or just like hey guys, I'm goofing
Speaker 1: around and I did a stupid shot and this is
Speaker 1: the caption for it. Yeah, have you ever gone too
Speaker 1: far with a third trap where you've put it up
Speaker 1: on the internet and you're like, oh, dear god, that
Speaker 1: was that was maybe a little far I'm showing too Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, like borderline, my cat's gotta be taking down
Speaker 1: like I've gone full on, like side small under so
Speaker 1: you can see everything every vein. I was like eighteen.
Speaker 1: They're like this is kinda like I'm gonna go viral here,
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, look like it's vulgar, Harrison, like
Speaker 1: it's it's been taking down three times, like it shouldn't
Speaker 1: be on the internet. And I don't know where the
Speaker 1: photo is, but it's probably around. Have you have you
Speaker 1: seen a lot of this stuff resurfacing since you're too
Speaker 1: hard to handle? Theme? Yeah, like, all right, so I
Speaker 1: haven I did my first ever photo shoot. I think
Speaker 1: I was like eighteen nineteen. I was trying to figure
Speaker 1: out like modeling right, and um, I don't know what
Speaker 1: was normal. I don't know what was going on. So
Speaker 1: it was like like the guy was just like, yes,
Speaker 1: you close, like let's go. So like his photo with
Speaker 1: me with a rose and my bomb in the back,
Speaker 1: just Harry, you gotta say this to men. It's honestly
Speaker 1: like it's he just reposted it on his Instagram and
Speaker 1: like my my new friends in our just the screenshot
Speaker 1: and they keeps sending it and I'm like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: get it, Like I don't know what was going on.
Speaker 1: I was just getting my cheeks out, like it's okay.
Speaker 1: What is the what is the question for you? Because
Speaker 1: you're now in a in a committed relationship with Francesca,
Speaker 1: what do you think of her thirst trapped photos? If
Speaker 1: she's a very beautiful woman as well, when she posts
Speaker 1: a photo that's very sexy or very attractive, what do
Speaker 1: you feel when she posts that? And what does she
Speaker 1: feel when you post one that you know is going
Speaker 1: to get some heat? Um? So I think me and
Speaker 1: here a little bit different like but both very like
Speaker 1: massively supportive. But now that I've got like a few
Speaker 1: more followers and a lot more attention, like the photo
Speaker 1: of me uh in the town of my Instagram, she
Speaker 1: was furious and a bit of an argument. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you, like I'm gonna post this ship
Speaker 1: iss you off, so like that was like like I
Speaker 1: was just being toxic. But when I don't care, like
Speaker 1: she so hot, like go like get those thirst trips
Speaker 1: that get those lacks, get those comments, like let's go
Speaker 1: like she looks lit like I couldn't be She'll send
Speaker 1: me a photo and I'm like, fucking post that yesterday,
Speaker 1: like come on, get it on the internet. He looks
Speaker 1: so good. Um, yeah, I'm gonna be more supportive. Like
Speaker 1: I don't get like I understand that guys being insecure
Speaker 1: or people being insecure about stuff like this, but if
Speaker 1: they're your partner or your best friend or like in
Speaker 1: a relationship with you, they should just be like that
Speaker 1: is my girl, Like come on, though, you're looking lit, like,
Speaker 1: let's show it off, Like who cares what anyone thinks? Um,
Speaker 1: You're on fire? So yeah, I love it, man, I
Speaker 1: love it so much, So Harry. One of the first
Speaker 1: reasons why this whole topic came up is because I
Speaker 1: had I was asking Brooks the best way to d
Speaker 1: M a guy to get the attention without feeling like
Speaker 1: I'm feeding into the thirst but also grasping a man's attention.
Speaker 1: So what's the best way to respond? You post a picture,
Speaker 1: you know, I told Brooks, there's like the fiery emoji,
Speaker 1: but you want to stand out? So how can girls
Speaker 1: stand out? On like sliding into the dns? So I have.
Speaker 1: So I've been hit with one real recently which was
Speaker 1: really good. Um, like obviously I can't reply it, but like, um,
Speaker 1: she sent me the post and then like answered the
Speaker 1: question or like said something about it, which I thought
Speaker 1: was hilarious and I was like, too bad, sill you
Speaker 1: go along, d end um, But I like always a
Speaker 1: winner is like so everyone's like everyone is so self absorbed,
Speaker 1: like everyone loves himself, right, So the best thing to
Speaker 1: do is like asking a question about themselves, or like
Speaker 1: reply to a story and be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like how do I sit on that face? You know,
Speaker 1: something like sorry? But like I always find if you
Speaker 1: ask a question about them or something like that, or
Speaker 1: like if you're me and you're super weird. Like I
Speaker 1: always be like hello, my little butter chicken or hollo,
Speaker 1: your national treasure. UM, always work. Harry the girl saying it,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you said it to me. This
Speaker 1: takes on phone like I'm reply, dude, I love you, man,
Speaker 1: I love you you on. I knew you had trust this.
Speaker 1: I love watching you in the show you have you.
Speaker 1: I will say this, you are brazen. You are bold.
Speaker 1: I have a huge admiration for that. Um. From a
Speaker 1: guy's perspective, Let's say a girl, our producer, Tori, is
Speaker 1: currently single. Let's say Tori is going to like throw
Speaker 1: out a thirst trap. What are you looking forward flashback
Speaker 1: to your single days, because you're not looking at thirst
Speaker 1: traps the way you do now or now the way
Speaker 1: you did then. Now you're in a relationship. But um,
Speaker 1: when you were single, what was like, who if a
Speaker 1: girl do it through a thirst trap like this? What
Speaker 1: are like some of the that's things that you saw
Speaker 1: that you were looking for as a guy. Oh that's good.
Speaker 1: I always feel like if it's like well lit um,
Speaker 1: you know, like sometimes you can be like a little
Speaker 1: bit too sultreat um, which is completely fine, but by
Speaker 1: all means, but you want to make it like a
Speaker 1: fun first trap, you know, don't be like popping titties
Speaker 1: out or anything like that. Maybe if you wanted to
Speaker 1: like Julia Rose, I mean, if you've seen her Instagram,
Speaker 1: she's like constantly thirst traps, like she's crazy, Like she's like,
Speaker 1: we'll be on a plane with just like fingers over
Speaker 1: her nipples. Like that's probably I reckon go on her
Speaker 1: Instagram and then work back from that. But like this
Speaker 1: chicks the extreme, Like she's probably gonna get banned on
Speaker 1: Instagram and we're gonna work backwards. So we'll go Julia Rose,
Speaker 1: fingers over nipples. Okay, what can we do? Maybe we'll
Speaker 1: go whole hands over titties. Yeah, there we go. See
Speaker 1: I'm on your Instagram. That's very trappy. I've never heard of, uh,
Speaker 1: this woman before, but very trappy. Yeah, like she's she's everywhere,
Speaker 1: like she's going up. But I think the biggest goal
Speaker 1: would be to get that work back from there. Um.
Speaker 1: But I would also like send it to your friends
Speaker 1: for approval, like if you've got really good friends, like
Speaker 1: a lot of people have friends, Like I always send
Speaker 1: my stuff to Christian and like yo, like all the boys,
Speaker 1: like the boys group chat like is it is this?
Speaker 1: What's up? Like is this? Is this the source? And
Speaker 1: then they'll just be like yeah, we're on, like it's
Speaker 1: game time. So I think like especially girls, like girls
Speaker 1: are way more comfortable. So you just Um, so I've
Speaker 1: had a coffee. I'm really excited, Harry, Harry, you can
Speaker 1: send me those thirst traps. I'll help you approve those.
Speaker 1: You'll never get a note for me. I'm like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: put that net out there, run that yeah. Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: be your biggest advocate. Bro. If you ever like insecure?
Speaker 1: Does this look good? Oh yeah, Harry, just run that
Speaker 1: out there, get it out there, let's go. Let's go.
Speaker 1: People what they want every time, every time. I think
Speaker 1: confidence is everything really, like if you if you're glowing,
Speaker 1: like people can tell like when you're glowing, and like
Speaker 1: when you're feeling good. So like go ahead and get
Speaker 1: a bit of a tan, bronze up, a bit good
Speaker 1: for a run, feel fantastic, and then just get those
Speaker 1: kiddies out on the ground. Oh oh man, Um, what
Speaker 1: other have what other advice do you have? Um? Because
Speaker 1: like I told Page previously told us, like as a
Speaker 1: woman seeking a man's thirst trap. She's like, she wanted
Speaker 1: to see like your dog. She wanted to see something
Speaker 1: that made her go oh like like huh, like a
Speaker 1: scent more sensitive side of him versus just a guy
Speaker 1: with big muscles. In the sixth Paths married, He's Page
Speaker 1: is married, She's like, don't listen to page. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: Page is married, so don't listen to page. So the
Speaker 1: single game is different from the married gates. So the
Speaker 1: single game is just put the smoke in the fire
Speaker 1: out there now. Well, like I understand Paige's perspective because
Speaker 1: she's married, and that's what she wants. You wants to
Speaker 1: see a man with a dog, maybe you know, out
Speaker 1: the front outside of a really nice house with this
Speaker 1: shut off. That's probably her idea of a thirst trap.
Speaker 1: Whereas like, if you're in your twenties and your single,
Speaker 1: you're not really wanted to settle Downd. You just want
Speaker 1: to you know, get on, get on someone and climb
Speaker 1: them like a tree. Then you know, lads like honestly
Speaker 1: like jim Sel coffee Jims like in in the bed,
Speaker 1: you know, like I used to have a fold, like
Speaker 1: I get my one of my good friends is um
Speaker 1: gad like, bro, send me everything, like, send me what
Speaker 1: I need to do, Like if if you're ladding, you've
Speaker 1: got a gay best friend, the best secret weapon you
Speaker 1: could ever have, the thirst traps. Honestly, like bom, I've
Speaker 1: got like an army of gay friends and I just
Speaker 1: go look, find me everything and I'll do it. And
Speaker 1: that's how sad insture. I love you. I love this.
Speaker 1: This is awesome, so fun. Oh man, Uh, I also
Speaker 1: want to ask you, like how hard was too hard
Speaker 1: to handle? Like you and Francesco were like just dying
Speaker 1: to bite at each other. You know, we're watching this thing.
Speaker 1: How hard was it to keep your hands off of
Speaker 1: each other during that? Whoa Like honestly, like it was
Speaker 1: like I was very hard and it was. It was
Speaker 1: such a such a really hard experience, um with Francesca
Speaker 1: until we finally did the date and I was so
Speaker 1: relieved and like it was it was crazy because I've
Speaker 1: never met a woman that gorgeous and a woman that's
Speaker 1: actually like tripped me up, Like when I first saw
Speaker 1: her and she came down like this wasn't in, this
Speaker 1: was cut out. I'm probably get in trouble talking about it.
Speaker 1: But when she came down like I couldn't talk to it,
Speaker 1: like she was just like I was shaking, like I
Speaker 1: legitimately I was like or the first thing. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're nervous, and she's like no, and I'm like cool,
Speaker 1: just walk away like I was trying to get away
Speaker 1: from it. She was just way too like she was
Speaker 1: She's a like incredible and I would like to, oh,
Speaker 1: do you wanna do you want a drink? And she's
Speaker 1: like sure. I was shaking so much I couldn't pour
Speaker 1: her drink, so I gave it to Shrine. I was like,
Speaker 1: get her a drink, bro, like she's thirsty, come on,
Speaker 1: Like I just couldn't. I couldn't talk to her, and
Speaker 1: I just kept trying to go to the other table
Speaker 1: because it was just it was crazy. So then once
Speaker 1: I found out that she was interested in me and
Speaker 1: that like I'm not the ugly duff thing, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: like I was so taken back, and then you know,
Speaker 1: things are a little bit he did, and at that
Speaker 1: point I was just seeing red. I was like, I
Speaker 1: need we need to have sex to know how we feel, Francesco,
Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't know if that's how that works.
Speaker 1: I was like, it is a fact. And then the
Speaker 1: Book of Facts, open it up, page forty four. He
Speaker 1: how we do it up in Canada? Brother? Yeah I was,
Speaker 1: I was said back, and I was like, man, I
Speaker 1: was such a let's see it red wow. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: that the whole format of the show Man. It was
Speaker 1: fun to watch. It was great. It was great entertainment
Speaker 1: to watch. Um. I'm happy you guys are doing well,
Speaker 1: my man. Um, thank you so much for Sharon. I
Speaker 1: think we gotta have you back on. Like I oh, Tori,
Speaker 1: So one one thing, Harry. Today I did my first
Speaker 1: ever thirst trap? Did I did? I just heard the
Speaker 1: concept two weeks ago. Tori told me about it two
Speaker 1: weeks ago. I'd never heard of it. So I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm going to do a thirst trap. I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: over the top on this thirst trap. Do you want
Speaker 1: to see it? Yeah? That's good, out and everything. Let's
Speaker 1: do the top two that page picks. We'll do the
Speaker 1: one that Easton liked and the one that page like. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's two thirst traps. I just shot these. This is
Speaker 1: my connotation of what I believe it all right, already
Speaker 1: throwing up on the screen, maybe maybe time, I'll just
Speaker 1: text it to you, Harry. Oh, that's exactly what I
Speaker 1: was thinking that. I was like, if you don't have
Speaker 1: in my head of like, if this guy isn't holding
Speaker 1: an axe, I'm gonna be sad. So I don't know
Speaker 1: if I can swear it, but that's exactly what I envisioned.
Speaker 1: I was like, my boy's gonna have an axe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's let's go and post it. I'm gonna come in
Speaker 1: so ax, I've got an axe, sledgehammer, I've got a
Speaker 1: knife on my belt, a hammer on my belt, a
Speaker 1: hatchet on my belt, and a chainsaw. Look. I can
Speaker 1: imagine women are got to be looking at that be
Speaker 1: like this guy, I can't chop my tree down any
Speaker 1: day in a week. Here's my dog in the foreground
Speaker 1: and the same thing. The funny thing is, I got
Speaker 1: all these tools and I'm standing in water, So you
Speaker 1: would never use these tools in water. That's the contradiction
Speaker 1: of Like, that's why I think it's such a good
Speaker 1: thirst trap, because it's just a desperate photo. It just
Speaker 1: really this thing is it doesn't have to make sense.
Speaker 1: It doesn't like I see it. Really, it really does
Speaker 1: not have to make sense. If you're getting your kid off. Um,
Speaker 1: you know you could capture that that Both of those
Speaker 1: photos need to be on the interday. I think you
Speaker 1: know the caption for I actually don't. Actually I don't
Speaker 1: know when to capture it, but it should be something funny,
Speaker 1: like you capture Harry if I'm running this out one
Speaker 1: of Um, has anyone got to knock? I was just
Speaker 1: thinking of, like just something ridiculous, like, um, just completed
Speaker 1: another hard day's work, you know t V I F
Speaker 1: because it's like it didn't work. But you need to, um,
Speaker 1: you need to ask a question, be like, ah, this
Speaker 1: is bad, be like, um, has anyone seen my log?
Speaker 1: Or should I lose? Did I lose it? In you?
Speaker 1: Um so vulgar, you're probably gonna get banned off today.
Speaker 1: This is why I would be a social media manager.
Speaker 1: But I think you definitely need to ask a question. Um,
Speaker 1: but I just don't know what it is, right, So, UM, okay,
Speaker 1: you definitely think I should throw those out there, But
Speaker 1: like aga, instant carousel bright the way, Yeah, instant carousel,
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna put three on there. So, um,
Speaker 1: we have one other one there that was voted number three.
Speaker 1: But those were the top two choices. Um, Harry, my man,
Speaker 1: I appreciate it for our listeners that. Um, if you
Speaker 1: haven't seen Harry on Too Hot to Handle on Netflix,
Speaker 1: you gotta watch it. You and francesc are stars of
Speaker 1: the show. I loved your journey. Um, absolutely loved you
Speaker 1: on there. But where do you hang out on social media?
Speaker 1: Where can they catch your Thursday thirst traps? Um? It
Speaker 1: is honestly just Harry Jazzy everywhere. So my last name
Speaker 1: is a little bit weird's j O W s e
Speaker 1: y Um. So yeah, well you can find me probably
Speaker 1: on a provocative website where the old traps candy found
Speaker 1: probably meant that somewhere. How are you like in l
Speaker 1: A my brother. It's it's good, It's really good. I
Speaker 1: really want Francesca. It is amazing people. Um that everyone school,
Speaker 1: just everyone is so much fun. Everyone And the coolest
Speaker 1: thing is like everyone I've met here is doing something
Speaker 1: in some way, shape or form, which is really cool.
Speaker 1: Which is really inspiring because back from my hometown, like
Speaker 1: everyone kind of just graduate high school, go to university
Speaker 1: and it goes goes back to the hometown does whatever.
Speaker 1: So like coming here and there's like you'll meet a singer.
Speaker 1: It is. It is massively successful YouTuber porn star. You
Speaker 1: don't know. Everyone's different, So it's great. L A is.
Speaker 1: L A is a place of opportunity. You can literally
Speaker 1: make circumstances in the world. There's so many inspiring, energetic, empowering,
Speaker 1: entrepreneurial people. Um. And so I'm in Idaho right now.
Speaker 1: L A is home for me. I'm up in my
Speaker 1: lake house up in Idaho. But I'll be back in
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. My man, when Francesca comes down,
Speaker 1: let her know she's got a Canadian friend down to
Speaker 1: come say hi. I'd love to actually meet you guys
Speaker 1: in person. Just huge fans of you from the show. Uh,
Speaker 1: and welcome to l A. My brother, your life never
Speaker 1: get to the same. It's I love it. I think
Speaker 1: it's let you traps um. Oh yeah, can we go
Speaker 1: Harry and Brooks thirst trap? Oh man, I don't. I don't, dude,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can hang with you yet.
Speaker 1: I just started. I'm just a rookie at this. You've
Speaker 1: been doing this break into Harry and Brooks break the
Speaker 1: Internet trap. Oh dear God, So I trying to get
Speaker 1: my dat out we'll get it like a couple of
Speaker 1: axes and stuff and and maybe hit a tree. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe hit a tree. Brother, Thank you so much, Harry.
Speaker 1: I appreciate your time. Man. Let's link up when I'm
Speaker 1: back in l a uh and let me know, however,
Speaker 1: if I can ever serve your first trap mission, my brother,
Speaker 1: you have a green light, a permanent green light from
Speaker 1: me right here. Thank you so much, guys. I really
Speaker 1: appreciate Harry the man. I love you so much. Fun cheers.
Speaker 1: That was so much fun. He's so good. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: look at these guys. Look at this. So guys, welcome back.
Speaker 1: We have Dmitri, we got Rick, and we got Ryan
Speaker 1: with us, and we just had a conversation of about
Speaker 1: thirst trapping. And I can't be staring at three more
Speaker 1: thirst trap worthy. Yeah. I know, I almost did this
Speaker 1: with my shirt off, but I figured that'd be too
Speaker 1: tough for Ryan. You like, so we got Dmitri, We've
Speaker 1: got Ryan, and we got Rick. Ryan, you look like
Speaker 1: you're in the garage. You're doing a workout out there.
Speaker 1: I am in the garage. I have the two and
Speaker 1: a half year old taking a napp right now, so
Speaker 1: this is my safe place. Oh, I thought maybe you
Speaker 1: were doing your push ups out there, ready to just
Speaker 1: show off of the packs on this thirst trap edition
Speaker 1: of How Men Think m M. I got my working
Speaker 1: on this morning, Brooks. Thank you, though, I appreciate it. Rick,
Speaker 1: What about you? Rick? How are you doing? Brother? Like Rick?
Speaker 1: Rick doesn't look like he knows that we're on a
Speaker 1: live call right now. No, I think he's I don't
Speaker 1: think he's got his headphones plugged in. He's got wireless headphones,
Speaker 1: but they're actually they still need to wait, Rick, you
Speaker 1: got me? I think? Okay, dude, done it? What's up?
Speaker 1: Good sirs? Um. So we just had a conversation about
Speaker 1: thirst traps, Tori producer. Tori just told me this concept
Speaker 1: two weeks ago, Dmitri, I feel like you've known about
Speaker 1: this concept for like years. I've known about this concept
Speaker 1: because I followed your Instagram. What do you mean, what
Speaker 1: do you mean you've just found out about it? You've
Speaker 1: doing it forever. So that's apparently that's what I found
Speaker 1: out too, is apparently I've been thirst trap in Foreveruar.
Speaker 1: But have you guys heard the exact specific term thirst
Speaker 1: trap prior to this conversation right now? Yes, yes, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's my man Rick. He hasn't heard heard any So
Speaker 1: Ryan and Dmitri, you have heard about thirst traps? When
Speaker 1: did you hear about it? And how did you hear
Speaker 1: about it? Um? I guess I heard about it probably
Speaker 1: like last summer when people started posting like kind of
Speaker 1: over the top shelfies thirst traps basically, and somebody said
Speaker 1: and people will start to comment like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: just the thirst trap. Oh, you're looking for attention. And
Speaker 1: so obviously when I hear a term I don't know,
Speaker 1: I go straight to the Urban Dictionary and I read
Speaker 1: up on it. Yeah, Ryan, when did you hear thirst trap?
Speaker 1: I think? Correct me if I'm wrong. There's a trend
Speaker 1: on Instagram which is like thirsty Thursday, when it's that's
Speaker 1: the safe day of the week where you can post
Speaker 1: a thirst trap and not be ridiculed for it. I
Speaker 1: think that's when I first heard about it. Oh, dear God,
Speaker 1: we think I've never heard of that's just when you drink,
Speaker 1: do I have heard? Yeah, and Thursday. I've heard a
Speaker 1: Thursty Thursday, but not a Thurst trap. Oh, Tori, have
Speaker 1: you heard get it? Yeah? Thursty Thursty Thursdays like when
Speaker 1: you post a Thurst trap, but you don't really have
Speaker 1: a caption for it, but you're kind of calling yourself
Speaker 1: out for posting it. But you're just kind of like, alright,
Speaker 1: a morning at Thursty Thursday. But now Thurst traps are
Speaker 1: like seven days a week, so it's Thursty Thursday. Is
Speaker 1: kind of it's just a green light for somebody who
Speaker 1: throw out a provocative and sexy pick, for instance, saying
Speaker 1: you're doing box jumps in your driveway right and you
Speaker 1: got your shirt off, and then you wanted to stop
Speaker 1: and post the video saying I want to work out.
Speaker 1: I'm having a contest that that's a that's a NonStop
Speaker 1: there's trap. It's so so I did some thirst trap
Speaker 1: shots this morning. Gents, I did look at Ryan. He's like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm like that the are you acting as if that's
Speaker 1: the first time over the weekend you did your thing
Speaker 1: with your buddy where your shirtless going into the really
Speaker 1: cold water. Oh here we go, my shirts off, my abs.
Speaker 1: That was actually we just crushed the workout that would
Speaker 1: bury you. And then we went into the lake that
Speaker 1: you came the toe into workout that would crush Ryan.
Speaker 1: Come on, So for you guys, have you ever done
Speaker 1: a thirst trap? Do you do you think you've ever
Speaker 1: like done a thirst trap? Or if you were to
Speaker 1: do a thirst trap, what would you do? Well, I've
Speaker 1: got a high powered fan on me right now to
Speaker 1: kind of give me a wind blow and look is
Speaker 1: it working. Yeah, the hair looks great. The hair is
Speaker 1: slowing right. It's high depth screen I got here. I
Speaker 1: just could just see a little bit of it. Ryan,
Speaker 1: what would you go with for your thirst trap photo? Well,
Speaker 1: I did I due diligence as you would expect from me,
Speaker 1: and I went through your Instagram Brooks, and I rather
Speaker 1: take this time to talk about some of the pitfalls
Speaker 1: that you've personally encountered in the thirst trap space. The
Speaker 1: first of which is the candid shot, when you act
Speaker 1: as if it's completely candid and you're just looking off
Speaker 1: into the distance and someone just so happened to take
Speaker 1: this photo of you your bent over, dripping in sweat
Speaker 1: the sun and the light is glistening off your completely
Speaker 1: shirtless body. You do that a lot. That's a thirst trap,
Speaker 1: like big time. The other one is like you'll post
Speaker 1: something where you're shirtless and then coda, your dog is
Speaker 1: in the front in the picture, and you do a
Speaker 1: caption as if you're posting this to say I just
Speaker 1: love Khoda, and it's like, there you go, that's great.
Speaker 1: Well do you have a you have a trainsaw in
Speaker 1: the lake? There's no tree. Site's screensaver. I love them.
Speaker 1: I love that Ryan's in his garage right now looking
Speaker 1: like a hostage, because he's clearly a hostage in the
Speaker 1: shadow of Brooks. So you want to know that what's
Speaker 1: that knife thing attached your belt? That thing is pretty hardcore.
Speaker 1: So here's thirst trap number one photo from today. I
Speaker 1: just took it this morning. My buddy Hebrew took this morning.
Speaker 1: So um Tory just put it up on the screen
Speaker 1: first to see Look at Ryan, he's studying it. He's
Speaker 1: just like, oh man, damn, that's that's gonna be my
Speaker 1: new background. He's touching a screen like it's brail, Like
Speaker 1: he's trying to feel your raps. Hey, So what So
Speaker 1: what would you say about this picture? Like, obviously you
Speaker 1: did this as a as a thirst trap intent, yes,
Speaker 1: but if you were to try and play it off
Speaker 1: like it's not what would you say is happening in
Speaker 1: this photo? Just another day of work? Right? I couldn't.
Speaker 1: I couldn't guess what your job is if that's a
Speaker 1: day at work. That's the beauty of standing in the
Speaker 1: water with the chainsaw, hatch and I have a a
Speaker 1: knife and axe and the sled, Brooks something earnest that's like,
Speaker 1: I just love getting outdoors and connecting with nature or
Speaker 1: something like that. You're like, oh, and you had to
Speaker 1: be shirtless for that. I have a question. I have
Speaker 1: a question. What is the point of a thirst chap photo?
Speaker 1: I mean, is it is it to attract somebody something?
Speaker 1: What's get people to realize that you look good and
Speaker 1: to also get a complement. So you're kind of but
Speaker 1: it isn't that what social networks doing anyway? You would
Speaker 1: post something on there anyway, right? I mean here's my question, Brooks,
Speaker 1: Like you do you when you post things typically like
Speaker 1: how how much are you? You're wearing long pants in
Speaker 1: a lake? Jean saw barefoot man Osha would be not
Speaker 1: proud of you. No, no shirt with long pants. I
Speaker 1: have no idea what the weather is like? That broke um?
Speaker 1: I know it's story. Did you put the other one
Speaker 1: up on the screen? I'm trying to get my screen
Speaker 1: back here. We did we are on the one of
Speaker 1: you and the water. Nice little toe point at the
Speaker 1: end of it. It actually looks like you're walking on water.
Speaker 1: I'm walking out of the water. That one, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: so action shot. You just did some underwater chainsaw and
Speaker 1: the third one right now, See that's just like just
Speaker 1: complete another hard weeks of work. T G. I f
Speaker 1: run that driftwood totally. Yeah, there's definitely would in this.
Speaker 1: Let's think of a name that we can actually where's
Speaker 1: the wood? We need a tagline? Dude, how about this
Speaker 1: cutting somewhood. There's not a single piece of wood that
Speaker 1: I could chop down. Um. So this was my over
Speaker 1: the top first troup. This is how I viewed thirst
Speaker 1: traps anyway. Yeah, I challenge you men. I challenge Rick,
Speaker 1: Dmitri and Ryan to do your best first trap. I
Speaker 1: challenge you. I sacrifice myself. I'm a sacrificial lamb here
Speaker 1: for this show. For the how many podcast? Rick, I
Speaker 1: knew you'd be in speeding. Let's go speed over whatever
Speaker 1: speed alright, alright a man, Yes, Dmitri and then Ryan.
Speaker 1: I I envisioned Ryan. I can't wait to see what
Speaker 1: you do, but I envision you going like more more
Speaker 1: of like ron Burgundy with a glass of scot I agree,
Speaker 1: except I think it's gonna be like a drink with
Speaker 1: an umbrella as opposed to Scotch. How much time when
Speaker 1: you post everything on Instagram? I mean you're the You're
Speaker 1: the king of posting your workout stuff. How much time
Speaker 1: do you spend looking at your body and deciding, oh,
Speaker 1: I you know, I don't think I look good enough
Speaker 1: in this one? And and this follow up question to
Speaker 1: that is, are you familiar with face tune? And do
Speaker 1: you ever touch up your own photos before you put
Speaker 1: them up on Instagram? So to touch on both of those, one,
Speaker 1: I am familiar with face tune. Two, I have never
Speaker 1: downloaded it or ever used it. But I do love
Speaker 1: editing photos. Everybody knows that I love photography. It's a
Speaker 1: huge passion of mine. So any photo that you see
Speaker 1: on Instagram has probably been edited by me. Just make
Speaker 1: brighter or change something like this. These photos here, these
Speaker 1: third strap photos are super edited. They aren't just coming
Speaker 1: out of the camera like that. They're super so. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I added like an extra pack on the apps or
Speaker 1: something like that. Yeah, turn the extra out, the contrast up.
Speaker 1: You can do certain things within light room to like
Speaker 1: make things just boom, like jump off the screen. Um,
Speaker 1: but I've never used face tune. Um. And then the
Speaker 1: first part like sometimes um, if we're doing a workout,
Speaker 1: like a lot of times I'll have a can intent
Speaker 1: person there because we'll be filming something for YouTube, or
Speaker 1: a buddy will be over working out. My buddy Corey
Speaker 1: comes and work out. He's a professional, his career is
Speaker 1: an adventure photographer. So he'll just when I'm working out,
Speaker 1: take some snaps and then we'll just look at like
Speaker 1: he'll just go and then we'll pick one of seven
Speaker 1: shots that he took, um, and then just post the
Speaker 1: workout with it. So honestly, to answer your question, honestly, Ryan,
Speaker 1: like twenty to thirty seconds of just looking through about
Speaker 1: five to six pictures, picked the one, and I like
Speaker 1: take a minute to edit it and then it's up there.
Speaker 1: I still want to get back to what the purposes
Speaker 1: of posting a splash hit or whatever it's called splash
Speaker 1: pick pick what is it? Trap? So you got a
Speaker 1: thirst trap right here underneath my arm? So Rick, here
Speaker 1: is here is the Urban Dictionary definition of a thirst trap,
Speaker 1: set photograph or flirty message posted on social media for
Speaker 1: the intent of causing others to profess their attraction. And
Speaker 1: the thirst trap is set when these crushes post a
Speaker 1: suggestive photo or video and wait for you to engage
Speaker 1: with it. So you're chumming the water, my man, You're
Speaker 1: like hey, So then they post another one on there
Speaker 1: and then that starts to dialogue hopefully. No, No, you're young.
Speaker 1: Let's rewind like two or three years, Rick and your centuries.
Speaker 1: You're young. It's just a couple of years back. Right.
Speaker 1: You're you're on the water polo team. You're crushing your
Speaker 1: water polo captain, look good in the speedo and you're
Speaker 1: just like boom, you know, just finished practice today, just
Speaker 1: in my speed Or here's a shot. You're just fishing,
Speaker 1: your trolling for bites. Here you're just like date for
Speaker 1: this weekend. I'm gonna put this out there and women
Speaker 1: or men are gonna like comment and like on it
Speaker 1: and slide into your d M. That's my text trap.
Speaker 1: And it can also be it's wanting praise without acknowledging
Speaker 1: that you're wanting praise and for people to tell you
Speaker 1: that you're amazing and you're hot and you're all of
Speaker 1: these things. And suddenly just putting it out there as
Speaker 1: if you're not seeking any validation in return. So again
Speaker 1: I would reference Brooks's Instagram. I mean, I see this Brooks.
Speaker 1: Is the beard a thirst trap in a way, like
Speaker 1: did you grow that out? Hoping people would say, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you look so amazing with the beard. I
Speaker 1: love the beard, keep the beer. No, I grew it.
Speaker 1: It was probably I agrew it for like maybe two months,
Speaker 1: two and a half, three months, and then it was
Speaker 1: the longest I've ever had it, and then the quarantine
Speaker 1: then the whole social distancing fit thing hit. So then, um,
Speaker 1: then I came up to Idaho and I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: social distancing. This is the longest I've ever had my beard.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of just curious to see how long it
Speaker 1: will go and how it feels, and just out of curiosity.
Speaker 1: So I've actually trimmed my beard. Um, but I just
Speaker 1: I only have it because it's the longest I've ever
Speaker 1: had it. It just ends up playing really well in
Speaker 1: this photo. Okay, one follow up question, the photos that
Speaker 1: you have been known to put out on your Instagram
Speaker 1: of you shirt list, shirtless after a workout or what
Speaker 1: have you do you after it's posted, get satisfaction looking
Speaker 1: into the amount of likes that you're getting and the
Speaker 1: comments to see people saying, oh my god, you you
Speaker 1: have such a great body, or oh you're so hot. No,
Speaker 1: it's not really, because I know I do so it's
Speaker 1: only when Gavin comments. I gotta tell you, I I
Speaker 1: thought these pictures work because I find myself without even realizing,
Speaker 1: I started writing a comment to brooksman like, man, you're
Speaker 1: so hot, and wait, what am I doing? I have
Speaker 1: an idea because Brooks challenge us to all do our
Speaker 1: wet picks or whatever they're called, sorry, thirst track, But
Speaker 1: then we do our separate ones, and then Brooks does
Speaker 1: want of them. We try to make it the exact same.
Speaker 1: I don't have that or how men think podcast web.
Speaker 1: You don't have a chainsaw. I don't have anything that
Speaker 1: can get me close to Brooks's photo. I don't have
Speaker 1: two axes. I don't have a chainsaw. I don't have
Speaker 1: a giant lake. I don't have a twelve pack. I
Speaker 1: mean so, so we had page are We had page
Speaker 1: Rena on earlier who who executes thirst traps amazingly well?
Speaker 1: She said, guys don't have to post pictures of their
Speaker 1: abs um or their butt or their biceps to thirst
Speaker 1: trap a woman. Um, she said, you can post a
Speaker 1: picture of your dog. You can post a picture of
Speaker 1: you cooking or baking something that makes her go. But
Speaker 1: the one you want of us. You want us to
Speaker 1: be in it, obviously because you want to be able
Speaker 1: to see us. Yeah, I want you to be in it.
Speaker 1: But however you view a thirst trap, I want you
Speaker 1: to shoot a thirst trap how you view it, Like
Speaker 1: I could I could see Gavin doing like a purple
Speaker 1: turtleneck playing the piano with a glass of Scotch on
Speaker 1: the piano, Like that could be a thirst trap. You know,
Speaker 1: however you view a thirst trap, I want you to
Speaker 1: do your best thirst trap and then we'll put them
Speaker 1: out to the how men think listeners and let them
Speaker 1: vote on them. It sounds like I will say that Brooks.
Speaker 1: When Danielle did a takeover of Brooks's thirst trap photos.
Speaker 1: It has the most number of likes on your guys
Speaker 1: Instagram page. So thirst trap works really So to answer
Speaker 1: your question from earlier, Ryan, any any like shirtless pictures
Speaker 1: or workout stuff doesn't get really hardly any engagement. Um,
Speaker 1: if I just post a picture of my dog five
Speaker 1: times more engagement, just my dog, like it's just it's
Speaker 1: just But I don't but I think you're not. It's
Speaker 1: not rare to see you without a shirt on on
Speaker 1: your Instagram. So it's not like a novelty where someone's
Speaker 1: gonna be like, whoa look at this, like and this
Speaker 1: is I know it's gonna sound like a dig, but
Speaker 1: it's not. You work out a lot, and you work
Speaker 1: out without your shirt and so you post that. So
Speaker 1: I think people have seen your abs and everything funny.
Speaker 1: So it's not like someone's gonna overreact and be a
Speaker 1: comment just because you're without a shirt. So I think
Speaker 1: when they see something different from you, I think I
Speaker 1: think a chainsaw on a lake. You know that brings
Speaker 1: up some comments, maybe not all good ones, but my god,
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see. I'm so excited to see
Speaker 1: what you guys do for thirst traps. All three of
Speaker 1: you guys are married. I can't wait to see. You've
Speaker 1: probably never participated in the thirst trap game because when
Speaker 1: social media came around, you're already married or in relationships.
Speaker 1: So um, I can't wait to see what you come
Speaker 1: up with for a thirst trap. Ryan Rick Dmitri Eastern Tory.
Speaker 1: I love you all. You have one week from today
Speaker 1: to execute your thirst trap photo, and we are putting
Speaker 1: it out to the how men Think listeners and also
Speaker 1: from the how men Think community. We want to hear
Speaker 1: from you. Name some other thirst thirst trappers. Send us
Speaker 1: an email, let us know, comment on our Instagram at
Speaker 1: how Men Think podcast, Let us know other thirst trappers.
Speaker 1: You want us to get on here and then we
Speaker 1: can't wait for you guys to weigh in on who
Speaker 1: thirst traps the best out of the how men Think?
Speaker 1: Uh group, the engineers, the producers, the host, the co host,
Speaker 1: you name it. I can't wait to dads there all right, awesome,
Speaker 1: you have one week, good sirs, one week and we
Speaker 1: will be I don't even know what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the one week you guys have turn around we need.
Speaker 1: I'll give you seventy two hours. You got seventy hours.
Speaker 1: You can't rush greatness, guys, you cannot rush greatness. Great
Speaker 1: Greatness also rises to a challenge presented to it. Ryan,
Speaker 1: So you have guys will have something by the end
Speaker 1: of the day. Don't worry. I think Greg's gonna win this.
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like he's just gonna love as
Speaker 1: soon as the zoo Man's He's just gonna rip off
Speaker 1: the sleeves of his of his planet. Button. Should we
Speaker 1: just start right now? Okay, that's it. That's it for
Speaker 1: this one. There's trapped Thursday,