WEBVTT - Quench that Thirst 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:04.360 This is How Men Think with Births like and Gavin 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:08.680 de Grab and I hear radio podcasts. Welcome to another 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:12.280 episode of How Men Think podcast. My name is Brooks 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:14.680 Like and I will be your host for today. And 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:19.120 I'm super excited about today because today is a completely 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:23.520 different show than we've ever done usually on this show, 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:27.200 and honestly, actually every time I try and do this podcast, 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.400 and I signed on to do this podcast because I 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:32.159 wanted to add value to you guys, to the listeners. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:36.320 That's my mission with doing this podcast is how much 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:38.960 value can I add to your lives while you're listening 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:42.879 to this show today. You're not gonna get any of that. 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:45.720 You are not going to get any value that's going 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:49.640 to positively impact your life, but you are hopefully going 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:54.400 to get entertained as we enter the wild and crazy 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:59.280 realm of thirst traps first trap photos, and we have 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:04.360 with us produce Sir Danielle and producer Easton and or sorry, 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:07.960 producer Tory and producer Easton and Tor is already smiling 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:11.319 because two weeks ago Tori put me onto this term. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:14.840 I had never heard the term first trap in my 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.920 life until two shows ago when we did a show 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:22.119 with Eric Winters. Um Tori tell us what thirst trap 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:25.880 is all about. Well, it's funny because again, this term 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:28.120 has been around for a while. We even have easton 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:33.400 East and you're thirty what held thirty three? And do 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:37.160 you know the word like the term thirst trap? I do? 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.120 I do. So I feel like I'm the only one, 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:42.320 like because I put this out on my social media 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:45.240 like asking our community to submit the best thirst trappers, 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:48.120 which we have a list of everybody that you guys submitted, 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:52.200 and we have two amazing thirst trappers, a guy and 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:54.320 a girl coming on this show and we'll get to 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:56.760 that in a sect, but stay tuned for that. Um. 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.320 But I feel like I'm the only person in the 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.400 world that had never heard of this term for trap? 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:02.800 Am I just like am I just from outer space? 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:06.080 Why if there is anyone that doesn't know what it is? 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:09.800 Urban Dictionary always gives you the best way to describe it. 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:12.440 So I pulled it and it's a sexy photograph or 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:15.920 florry message posted on social media for the intent of 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:21.320 causing others to profess their attention their attraction, sorry, causing 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:24.960 others to profess their attraction. So basically, it's like you're 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.600 posting it, but somebody will engage with you on that 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:32.040 photo saying you're hot. Basically okay, So somebody posts a 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:37.360 sexy photograph or provocative photograph just hoping that people are 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:40.240 gonna double tap it, like it comments slide into their 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:42.800 d m s. They're set in bait, really is what 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:47.160 they're doing. So that's called a thirst trap. Correct. Oh man, 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:51.119 if you think fire emoji, you're thinking thirst trap. Oh, 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:55.040 fire emoji and god, all that probably go with this. 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.240 So thirst trap. So thirst trapping has been around. I 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.720 just asked my buddy about this right before we started 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:03.360 the show this episode. He said he was using the 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:08.080 term in he was using the term thirst trap. So 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.320 I have no idea, guys, how I missed this boat. Um, 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:13.680 I've had a lot of our how men think messager 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:18.360 listeners send me photos from my own Instagram profile, just 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.200 repeated photos. Boom, this is a thirsdt trap. Boom, this 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:23.200 is a thirst trap. Boom, this is the thirst trap. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:26.360 So maybe I've been doing it, but my photos have 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:29.240 actually been like at the completion of a workout, like 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.080 something that's actually I've actually really done our thirst trap 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:38.000 photos more just poser like pretending to do something photos, Brooks, 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:41.520 if you're showing off your muscles in a photo, you 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:46.000 were thirst trapping. So if you're like, hey, here's my 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:49.200 cross fit, you're not wearing a turtleneck. You're gonna show 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.800 off your body and your muscles, and you're gonna say 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:55.839 I look good while also kind of promoting your your 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:59.080 healthy lifestyle. But it's for the intent to be like, wow, Brooks, 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:03.320 you look great. What's your program that's engaging in a conversation. Yeah, 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.720 so so My how I look at thirst trap though, 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:08.960 is like this is how I perceive it from my 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:13.720 my recent like knowledge of it the past days. Over 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:18.240 the past days, I've interpreted it as just an over 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:22.320 the top, just ridiculous, why are you doing that photo? 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:24.400 Like when I work out, a lot of the times 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:26.320 I'll have a shirt off because it's so hot. The 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:29.080 workout will run twenty So I did you work out yesterday? 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:32.279 It ran thirty nine minutes, So like you just get hot, 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:36.320 so sometimes you peel the shirt. Um, so it's actually 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:40.039 functional and actually like real life. My view on thirst traps, 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:43.599 they're not real life. They're poser shots that you're just 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:47.800 casting out bait for double clicks In your profile Eastern 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:51.320 What do you think I mean that that that sounds 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:56.920 like it's me. Uh, I've never posted one because uh, 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:59.280 in the whole since Instagram has been a thing, I've 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:02.440 been an event married man. You know, So, Um, I 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:04.440 have to you know, I'm only I'm only trying to 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:07.800 trap the thirst of one person. And uh and uh 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:10.520 you know that this has been quenched long ago. Let 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:13.640 me tell you so how about this though, So both 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.720 of our thirst trappers, one is married and one is 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.960 in a relationship right now. So we have two people 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:23.520 that are notorious and that our how men think community 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.680 wanted us to get on, that are notorious for thirst trapping, 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:30.640 and they're both in committed relationships. But here's the thing. 0:05:30.680 --> 0:05:32.880 You don't have to be single to post a thirst trap. 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:36.520 Like you could still post a photo being like, yeah, 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:38.839 I'm hot, I feel good about myself. It's not to 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:42.159 necessarily get slides into your d m s, but like 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:43.919 you feel good when you post a picture and it 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:48.040 gets a lot of likes, you can't say that it doesn't. Okay, Okay, 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.680 So well, we have a specialist. We have a really 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:56.560 special guest. You guys requested her. Um, she is a. 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:01.000 She also has a I Heart Radio podcast. She is 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:06.920 page Renee Paige. How are you, how are you doing? 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.200 Thank you for coming on this show. I'm so excited 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:14.120 one great to see you again. Um, I'm I'm just 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.760 over the top with the show. I cannot wait for 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:20.039 this show. So page Renee for our listeners or the 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.120 people on in our community that don't listen to her 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.880 podcast or don't know who she is, was a professional golfer. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.799 I'm gonna call you professional golf. You still are because 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:30.400 you can kick everybody's good. Um. But also you are 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:37.000 the most uh socially followed golfer in the world. Correct crazy, 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:41.719 but yes, you have the biggest social community digital community 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.159 of any golfer in the world, and you do some 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:47.480 amazing things with your platform. We'll get into those value 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.000 add things later, but this show is not about value. 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:53.640 This show today is all about entertainment. Um. And so 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:57.160 we are going to get to thirst trapping. Page. This 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.360 is a new term for me. I don't know if Tori, 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.880 but I just found out about thirst trapping two weeks ago. 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:09.000 So how did you not know about thirst traps? It's everywhere? 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:11.400 So how did you find out about it? Because Tori 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:13.560 just told me about it on an episode two weeks ago. 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.040 How did you find out about the term thirst trap? 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:20.640 My whole social media platform is built on a thirst trap. 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:24.880 But who told you that? The term? Like you just 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:30.280 probably like four years ago. It's just when you throw 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:32.760 up a picture and people like, oh, it's a thirst trap, 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:37.000 or they'll put like the water emoji, or they'll say like, 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:40.080 do you need a gatorade because you look dehydrated? Are 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:44.120 you thirsty? Like? There's just so many terms for it. Um, 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:46.480 but I think thirst traps get a bad rap, but 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:49.600 they're actually a really great thing and you need to 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:52.200 there's certain things you need to do to get a 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:54.880 really good thirst trap. Okay, so I have so many 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.640 questions for you. Let's start with that for our listeners. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.960 So pages of female. So let's we have a male 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:04.360 coming on the show later. Um, but let's let's attack 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:07.680 it from a female perspective. If you're gonna do a 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:11.600 thirst trap photo as a female, give us like your 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:14.560 top three pointers page. Well, the first thing is you 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:17.120 need to know your audience, because the thirst trap is 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:20.120 going to be different for if you have more of 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:22.840 a male audience, If you have more of a female audience, 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:25.040 or if you have like a food account, you can 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:27.440 either make a food thirst trap. There's so many ways 0:08:27.440 --> 0:08:29.920 you can go about it. But for me, since I 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:33.160 have a strong male demographic and they like sports, a 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:36.520 thirst trap is just me hitting a golf ball. That 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:39.600 is the thirst trap for me. Some people, when you 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:42.560 hear thirst trap, you think it's just like you know, 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:46.040 booms out, ass out, you know, just like showing everything 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:47.960 up and that's They think that's a thirst trap, but 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.720 it's really not. It's just whatever your audience really likes. 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.760 So like a thirst trap for a food account could 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.800 be like this gooey gooey mac and cheese and people 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:58.920 are like, yes, I love that, I want that. Or 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.800 for like you, all you have to do of jealous 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:04.440 is like pose with a cute dog. Like guys have 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:08.040 the easiest thirst traps ever, it is the simplest thing 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.839 girls have to actually put onto it because if you're 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.480 a girl and you have a female audience, you all 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.440 you have to do is have like a designer bag 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:18.560 or a baby, or like a really nice outfit. So 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:22.960 it's totally different for everyone whoa Okay, you're blowing my 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:27.440 mind here because so in my context of a thirst trap, 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:31.840 it's just like a butt picture, a boom picture, ab picture. Like, 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.600 it's just that's how I see a thirst trap. But 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:37.480 you're saying that a thirst trap can be a dog, 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:39.960 Like I post photos my dog all the time. I 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.320 love my dog, he's my boy. I love him. But 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:44.480 I never thought that that would be a thirst trap. 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:48.960 Oh yeah, So let's just say you have a more 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:54.480 female dominated audience. I have more female than male. Perfect. Okay, 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:57.920 So all you have to do is post a picture 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:01.720 with like a dog and you're good to go. Or 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.000 I mean, you can definitely do the shirtless picture. I 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:07.160 don't think anyone is complaining about that one bit. But 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:09.080 it's so much easier for you. You just have to 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:12.720 do something where a girl goes, oh, it's so cute. 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.720 That is a thirst trap for a female. It's anything 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:18.880 that kind of gets like there, oh, that's so adorable. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:23.199 I didn't know that, okay, I like, I thought a 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:26.480 thirst trap was you're setting out some bait with the 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.560 intention of trying to get people to slide into your 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:31.760 d MS a thousand percent. But for you that that's 0:10:31.760 --> 0:10:34.800 definitely like, oh, he's so cute with his dog and 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.480 o like, oh he cooks, like I love that. Girls 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.560 are just gonna be like yep, I'm slide and right 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:43.920 and wait, Brooks you I'm sorry to interrupt, but Brooks 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:47.080 knows this because he hasn't realized. But he's been posting 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:51.360 these pictures for a long time. And you posted a 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:53.680 picture of your dog and a girl was like, page, 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:55.360 get this and let me know what your thoughts are. 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:57.400 He posts a picture of his dog and if somebody 0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:01.240 swipes up, sorry, someone d m saying, oh my gosh, 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.000 I would love for our dogs to do a play 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:10.280 date together. What is she saying? I want to sleep 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:14.560 with you? Do you think so? A thousand per cent? 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:17.400 That's just like the easiest way to like slide in. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:20.439 Girls are not as direct as guys. But that is 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:23.280 a hundred percent exactly what she was going for, Like 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.920 I want to go on a date, I want to 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.720 sleep with you. I'm in love with you. I'm so 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:31.400 behind on like the whole social media gang game and 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:35.400 just like intent on it, Like I use my platform 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:37.120 to try and add value. That's why I do this show. 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:38.880 That's why I use my platform, and then I show 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:42.640 things I love you know, um, but I never I 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:46.040 never played. I never had social media until I was 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:49.200 in a relationship. I've never ever in my life been 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:52.800 single and had social media, So I've never played that 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:55.360 kind of a game with social media. Mine was always 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:58.240 to engage with people and see how I could add 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:01.400 value to their lives you and bring bring attention to 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:03.840 good causes and charities and things that a lot of 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.560 what you do as well with yours. Um, But how 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.880 can we make a positive impact in the world with 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:12.320 the platform that we've built through our sport? So I 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:14.880 always looked at social media like that. I never looked 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.960 at it like we're just chum and water here trying 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:21.320 to just get the sharks to circle. So, um, what 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:25.560 other ways give? Like Okay, let's so for a woman, 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.960 for a woman, know your audience, so any like, even 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:32.560 you swing in a golf club, guys are gonna just 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:34.560 double tap on it because guys are sports fans, and 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:37.719 guys are fans of you're a very beautiful woman. So 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.880 but then how do you supercharge that? Because that's the 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.040 like I looked at your profile page, I follow you, 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:50.320 and and that's not all your posting. No, I think 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:53.000 you definitely have to Like you were saying like, I'm 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:56.200 not just throwing thirst traps out every single day trying 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:58.560 just to get attention, and guys despide in my dms. 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:00.960 That's not We want to use our platforms for good, 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:03.439 but you do sometimes need a thirst rap to kind 0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:06.080 of get the engagement going. And so for me, that's 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:10.520 usually like a bathing suit picture or a selfie or 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:14.520 you know, just a more sexualized picture. But one thing 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:16.679 I always trying to do with my first traps and 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:19.319 not show the whole thing. So just give them like 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.040 a little bit of a taste, so I'll kind of 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:25.000 crop it up or just show like either I'll focus 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.520 on one part of my body. But it's really strategic 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.360 on how I do it. But I mean, it really 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:32.080 does help kind of getting that engagement, getting that traffic, 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:35.200 because you still, if you don't have anyone looking at 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.280 your page, then it's for nothing that you can't promote 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:40.400 any of the good causes or get your voice out there. 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:43.840 No one's following you. So I use it for good 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:47.160 or for bad. People disagree or I think it's maybe 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:48.640 not the best way to do it, but I like 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.720 to throw out a good thirst trap because I also 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:52.480 I like the way I look at the picture. I'm 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:54.200 not just doing it for attention. I was like, yeah, 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:56.040 I look good in that picture. I'm gonna throw it up. 0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:02.040 That's awesome. UM. I also think, um, there's a thing 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:04.960 like what you just said that sometimes you'll do that 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:08.199 as a way of keeping there's a termine in digital 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:13.160 media called attention currency. So having people's attention I want that. 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.480 That's the currency in digital media is do I have 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:18.240 your attention? Are you coming back to my platform, to 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:22.160 my profile and engaging with me? Um? And if sometimes 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:26.080 you need to do that to then parlay that attention 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:30.440 currency into some sort of philanthropic adventure or something you're 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:34.080 doing there, then I I totally understand the reason to 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:37.000 do it. I think there's uh, some people do it 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.400 out of vanity of just like throwing out like they 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:42.120 just they want to be maybe an insecurity. They'll throw 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:44.240 it out to try and get themselves fed up or 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:47.200 filled up. UM. I don't see that. I know you page, 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:49.760 so that's not who you are. UM, it's not how 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.960 you use your platform. But I do see what you're saying. 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:57.160 I will admit, like sometimes I'll post a an aggressive 0:14:57.160 --> 0:15:00.040 workout picture or if I'm shirtless doing a workout that 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:04.440 will get more attraction to the workout program that I'm doing, 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:09.240 which I designed to help people to help benefit people's lives. Yeah, 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:12.040 it's the same thing, And I don't think it's a 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:15.760 bad thing if you do do it because you just 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:18.800 want some validation or just a little bit of like, hey, 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:21.360 you know, like that does make me feel good, especially 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.800 if you have taken that time to you know, diet 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:27.680 and exercise and you're proud of your body. And I 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:29.280 feel like a lot of women get a lot of 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.080 hate for that because they'll pose in a bikini and 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:35.560 they're like, I've worked so hard for this, and people 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:37.240 tend to take it as a bad way. They're like, oh, 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:39.480 you just want attention, you want people look at your body. 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:42.960 But then a guy will pose shirtless and there they're 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:45.400 only noticed for all of their hard work that they've done. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.360 So I feel like first traps kind of have a 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:50.520 negative connotation when it comes to women, and then with guys, 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:54.480 you guys can post whatever you want and women don't 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:57.400 say anything, but say I pose a bikini, they will 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:59.000 turn around and call me a slat. So I think 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:01.520 there's definitely like a double standard there. And when it 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:05.360 comes to golf being very conservative, sometimes I definitely push 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:08.960 the limit and be a little more sexualized because golf 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:12.480 is so conservative and it's okay to where would I 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.920 want to wear and look the way I do and 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:16.280 still be a complete badass in golf, And so it's 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:19.160 kind of almost breaking that standard or that mold of 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:21.760 what people think of golfer should be. So there's a 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:23.880 reason why I take it maybe a little bit over 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:27.760 the top. Sometimes there's always a meaning behind it, um 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.320 or sometimes I just felt good I wanted to post it. 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.480 Amen to that and good to have the confidence and 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:35.960 just the like, you know what, it's your life, it's 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:39.320 your platform, and like people can unfollow you. You're not 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:42.080 forcing this, You are not physically forcing that in front 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.760 of anybody. They choose to follow you, and so they 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:48.920 choose to see the photographs um that that you post. 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:54.440 What has been like, undoubtedly you've had more positive interaction 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:58.840 and engagement with traditional thirst trapp E type. Have you 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:02.360 ever had some really negative engagement or interaction where you've 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:05.720 really thought, are reconsidered, like do I really want to 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:10.320 be posting this out? Also, you're married, yes, you know 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:13.040 you're not single looking for people to slide into your 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.720 d ms like crazy? Like, how does how does your husband, 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.640 who's a gem and I can't wait to see him again, 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:21.760 tell him some work out? Um? How does he react 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:28.399 to his wife posting what would be first trappy photos? Um? 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:30.959 I I never feel like I've crossed the line. I 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:34.080 feel like everything that I've done has always been very appropriate, 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:36.960 and I always judge it off of my parents. Actually, 0:17:37.040 --> 0:17:39.800 so if I could post a picture and I know 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:42.800 that my parents aren't disappointed in what I'm posting, then 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.720 it should be fine, Like they're still proud of the 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:51.000 person I am, and I think I do. Sometimes I'll 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:54.239 look at women on Instagram and they'll be posting in 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:57.720 like a normal bikini top and it's all positive comments. 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:00.760 But since I have a larger chest, it then all 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:02.879 of a sudden is turned to be vulgar. So I 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:06.800 sometimes feel it's unfair that I have to wear certain 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:10.120 things to get a different reaction when some girls are 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:12.919 praised for wearing the exact same thing I'm wearing. So 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:14.920 I never want to change who I am, but I'm 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:17.760 never posting it in the intention of I want so 0:18:17.760 --> 0:18:19.760 many guys to tell me I'm good looking today. You know, 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:22.200 I never do that. It's more just kind of like 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:24.359 I feel good about it. I want to post this, 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:26.720 and I don't feel like I should be afraid or 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:30.119 ashamed in what I'm doing. And it's funny because I 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:34.560 actually get probably more unfollowed when I post a thirst 0:18:34.600 --> 0:18:36.920 trap than if I post like a normal golf video. 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.960 So it's it's sometimes it doesn't actually help my engagement. 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.000 It hurts it because they don't even really want to 0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:45.520 see that. It's more for myself and feeling confident, feeling 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:49.440 sexy and not being afraid to do that. Um and 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.120 when it comes to like my personal life again, he's 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:55.920 very secure with who he is and he knew kind 0:18:55.920 --> 0:18:58.960 of what he was getting himself into. And I don't 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:01.160 think I could ever be with a man who told 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:03.800 me you can't post that because I don't want other 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:05.720 guys looking at you. I would rather be with a 0:19:05.760 --> 0:19:09.000 guy who is like, hell, yeah, that is my wife. 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:12.760 She's sexy and other guys want her, but she's mine. 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:15.239 And I think that's like the the coolest thing. If 0:19:15.240 --> 0:19:18.360 a guy can be so confident and secure with themselves 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:21.920 that they don't need to make their significant other look worse, 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:25.400 so guys don't like them. I never understood that. Yeah, yeah, 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:28.800 well good for you. I really appreciate your perspective on it. 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:32.080 And obviously you guys have that communication within your relationship, 0:19:32.119 --> 0:19:34.399 and the relationship is strong enough, and both of you 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:37.919 as individuals are strong enough, UM to understand the purpose 0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:40.760 of what's going on. UM. And I always find it 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:46.119 really interesting. I think the Internet and social media is 0:19:46.240 --> 0:19:48.920 I think it does so much good truly in the world. 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:52.240 It brings awareness and impact and inspiration to so many people. 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:54.960 And then I think it's also on the other side 0:19:54.960 --> 0:20:01.040 of things are really toxic environment her judgment for opinion 0:20:02.080 --> 0:20:09.119 for UM conflict, like people like if somebody chooses to 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:12.840 follow you page and digest your content to then offer 0:20:12.880 --> 0:20:17.960 their opinion and and negative opinions, I've never understood how 0:20:18.000 --> 0:20:22.920 offering negativity serves the world, you know, Like, how why 0:20:22.960 --> 0:20:25.160 do people take the time to offer that. I've never 0:20:25.240 --> 0:20:28.760 understood that. So I actually I love your I think 0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:31.600 you're very brave, you know, because I know you've done 0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:35.200 a lot with anti bullying, which has come from UM 0:20:35.320 --> 0:20:39.440 social media engagement. I'm sure, but UM, changing that narrative 0:20:39.600 --> 0:20:42.600 empowering women to be confident and strong with their bodies. 0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:44.919 And also just the fact I appreciate this. And the 0:20:44.960 --> 0:20:49.840 reason I agreed to do three thirst trap photos today 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:52.320 is because this is an area of my life I'm 0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:55.240 trying to work on. I always try. I'm sometimes a 0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:57.439 very serious guy, and I always try and add value, 0:20:57.880 --> 0:21:00.520 and I just want to go over the top, goof 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:03.760 off and just do something so outside of what I 0:21:03.800 --> 0:21:07.040 would normally do. So for your so, what are what 0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:10.120 are the three that you're gonna go with? So three 0:21:10.160 --> 0:21:12.280 that you have to do, I'll give you one. The 0:21:12.320 --> 0:21:15.239 best advice is if you do a thirst trap, you 0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:18.360 own the thirst trap. There's nothing worse than someone doing 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:21.480 a thirst trap like their booties out and it's like 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:24.800 a gone quote. It's like no, no, no, you own 0:21:24.920 --> 0:21:28.159 up to it. You're doing the thirst trap and own it. 0:21:28.320 --> 0:21:30.640 So in your caption you just have to be like, 0:21:31.080 --> 0:21:36.520 this is my thirst trap. Appreciate it so Page, because 0:21:36.560 --> 0:21:38.760