WEBVTT - Battle of the Doctors ( Dr. Steve Perry) 0:00:01.160 --> 0:00:04.600 This is your week of Halla. Woke up Breakfast Club 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:07.000 to show you love to hate from the East to 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:10.960 the West, Coat d J Envieli, Cholo Migne. The rule 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.040 is show on the planet. This is why I respect 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:15.800 this show because this is a voice of society. Schames 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:18.880 in the game. Guys are the coveted morning show, but 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:22.120 y'all earning it impacting the culture. Week in the morning 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.880 in ash day, want to hear that descript the world's 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:40.599 most dangerous morning show. Good morning in the USA. Yo 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:42.239 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:43.920 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:45.680 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:48.320 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:54.120 Good morning angela Ye, good Morning's damby Cholo Migne. The 0:00:54.200 --> 0:01:00.000 guy peace through the planet is Thursday. It was happening. 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:05.160 Yes it's Thursday. Good morning. Yeah, it's definitely Thursday. Man. 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.720 I want to tell you this is this is how 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:11.880 you figure that you're getting getting old, right, and I 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:15.280 hate having these conversations. You're putting gorilla blue on it. 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:19.240 You're putting shoe polace. Shout the Kalid shout to callis 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:22.240 and hard shout the rip rod shout the debty. But anyway, 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:24.240 so you know, this is one of the if you're 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:26.160 in a relationship, right and you get a text like this, 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:29.640 your heart starts, it almost drops. So I wake up 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:31.840 this morning, I get this text. It is twelve thirty 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:34.080 two am, and I just felt the need to text you. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.319 I'm like, oh boy, you you're laying next to me 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.200 in bed. So when you get this text, you like, 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:41.840 oh boy, right me, I'm clean. I mean I'm clean too, 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:47.039 but you just never know. Yes, right, So she says, uh, 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:48.960 I feel the need I need to text you because 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.120 I don't want to wake you up. I wanted to 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:53.400 let you know that you are absolutely lightening the room 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.200 up with your button odor that I'm suffering through. It's 0:01:56.240 --> 0:02:00.800 almost impossible to bear. My daughter cook last night and 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:04.400 she cooked vegetables and keenwa and everything healthy. And you 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.960 know when you eat that sometimes you little Gussie a 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.359 lot of fiber. Yeah, so I guess last night I 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.000 told him bed room up and my wife couldn't sleep. 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:19.280 Anything else you'd like to share this morning? Any any 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.120 any other oversharing you want to. You know, I'm not 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:24.600 in this fine Thursday morning, and no I'm not flirting 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:26.320 with you. I'm just telling you that the question. You're 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:28.000 not flirting with me because you didn't fart around me. 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:29.920 You always say that, And when a man farts around 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:31.800 another man, you know what I mean, it's flirting because 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.400 why would you want me? Why would you want why 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:34.720 would you want me to know how your butch mouths? 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:37.720 You know? But you know clearly you was letting those 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:40.760 pheromones off for your wife last night, trying to make 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:44.960 another one. Huh, yeah, she did just kind of him mane. 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:48.760 She didn't appreciate it. She didn't appreciate said getting farted 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.800 on either, because you under the covers. That's that Dutch 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.840 oven farting't got nowhere to go. You act like I 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:56.600 know I was sleeping. Your wife got fart all over 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.520 her skin this morning because of she gonna wake up. 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:01.160 One of the kid is gonna smell something funny and 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.040 not want to be around mom. And it's all Daddy's 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:07.800 fau pretty much. Jesus christ Man, Good morn morning, Good morning, 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:14.480 everybody show you're a little gassy. I'm glad to go today. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.400 I don't care. I don't have any issues dramas you 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:19.280 little gassy anything. I'm feeling all right? All right, okay, 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.760 just put it out there. You know, you guys not 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:23.239 the only ones that are a little gassy when you 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:28.360 go to sleep. I am too. Who are you talking to? Right? 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:33.079 Who are you? Just? Whoo's you guys? You guys? You 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:36.760 r you guys. Sounds like you need a more steady 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:43.200 diet of fiber. Who show today? That is a good question. 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:46.960 Who's on the show? I think the doctor stopped the doctor. Yeah, 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:53.760 Steve Perry. Stry to Steve Perry, Doctor Steve Perry, now Monday, 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:57.280 Oh what's going on? We're done? Usually get a run down. 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:58.640 I didn't get a run down this morning. I don't 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.680 know if you guys did, but yeah, doctors Perry will 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:04.440 be joining us. A couple days ago, a doctor call 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:07.360 Hart was on the program. And doctor Carl Hart is 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:10.840 he is, I don't want to go. He's not an addict, 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:14.800 but he talks about drug use and how he uses drugs. 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:16.440 You you said he was an addict when I spoke 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.000 to you, But anyway, he talks about how he uses 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:21.240 drug use. He's a professor at Columbia Universe American Neuroscientists. Yes, 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:25.880 professor at Columbia University who researched his drugs Professor neuroscience 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:28.320 and psychology, by the way, so he researched his drug 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:32.000 abuse and drug addiction. Right, So he actually uses the 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:34.920 drugs to proclaimed Harry when used it to be able 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:36.440 to write about it and talk about it and speak 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:38.520 about it. So he used it helps his work life balance. 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:41.320 It makes him happy, he says. He says, okay, yes, yeah. 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:43.560 So we had a conversation with him earlier in the weekend. 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:46.440 A couple of doctors wanted to talk about it, and 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.800 doctor Steve Perry's one of the doctors that called up. 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:50.520 He's been on the Breakfast Club before and wanted to 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:52.679 talk about some of the things he heard during that interview. 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:55.960 A lot of people have mixed emotions. Some people were 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:58.160 very upset that we had the doctor on, and some 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.159 people said that Charlemagne and I we're very close minded 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.640 when it came to that interview. Well, I mean, I 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:06.160 don't think there's one right answer, but we've talked to 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:08.479 doctor Steve Perry's warning correct and let's get the show 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.320 cracking front page news. What we're talking about, Well, everybody 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.560 wants to know where their stimulus texts are. We'll give 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:15.640 you an update on one that next round of fourteen 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:19.159 hundred dollars stimulus texts are coming and who is eligible 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.960 because now there's a new proposal and some people are 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.560 getting cut out. About seven million fewer families will get 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.960 that partial payment. All right, we'll get into that next. 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:31.400 Keep a lot this to breakfast club. Go morning is 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.240 your time to get it off your chests, whether you're 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:35.919 man or blast, So we better have the same. We 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:39.080 want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello this, 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:46.880 what's what's up? Trial? Hey? So what happened to you? Like? 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:50.520 You don't like you? Like that? Her lips a movement? 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:52.400 But again which you don't like you like that? Trap? 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:59.840 What's up? Says how you? I'm doing good? He fixed? 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:06.239 They yea someone the m one. Sorry, listen, your book 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:09.960 is fourteen dollars. Not wanting everybody call up there begging 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:11.480 for your book and you just be giving it two them. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:13.360 They didn't go buy. Yeah, but I sell a lot 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.360 of books, so why can't I give some away as well? 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.560 Because everybody calling their begging for a book, not everybody. 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.880 You're gonna get everybody. Hey man, it's all good man. 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:22.680 I just want people to get the information. I'm a 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:26.159 New York Times best selling offer, national bestseller. I've been blessed. 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:30.560 Hey man, ye also they calling that called in yesterday, Um, 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:34.640 the woman who was messed with the man that likes 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.440 trans women and like to, you know, mess with other 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:41.920 men getting noural. I told you I start telling these 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:45.159 women leave. Don't type of man you know doing. Nobody 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:48.800 want no man who want a man like Nobody wants 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:52.000 a man that's cheating period. Nobody wants a man who 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:54.680 I hear messed with other men and other trans women 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:58.960 like ladies. Leave them alone. You don't have to settle, Okay, 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:01.840 you do not have to say yes, yes, yes, sir. 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.280 But that's all I wanted, all right, traff call of 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:08.120 him messing up people weekend? Nobody called him and tell 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:11.160 you who you can sleep with? Somebody somebody somebody said 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:16.240 I'm breaking up happy homes yesterday. Hello. Who's this y'all? 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:19.120 This is Nick from Michigan. Nick, Michigan. You know if 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:21.360 he chest bro man. I just wanted to get on 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:23.880 here and uh shoot out shout out two of my 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:28.480 artists from my city, man A Jack Stacks a j 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:33.320 A X Stacks on our social media platform. He just 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:36.920 dropped a new video and then I gotta shout out 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:42.160 dost d O U g A f KI both of 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:47.520 am I making major moves? And uh, can you what 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:50.640 can I rap for y'all real quick? I mean sure? 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:58.320 The first? All right, Sharma, you know my name? But 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.680 did you know my pay? Heavy? You should the vibe? 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.000 But does it see the same? Yeah? I only ask 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:07.840 because he's blames and they keep talking about they net 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:10.600 like they run the game, and well, I've been the man. 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:12.960 This ain't nothing changed. I got that crack. I bring 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:15.920 it back like a boomerang. Look I'm hot boy. I 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.320 feel like Little Wayne. And people claim in that they 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:21.520 made me. That's a little strength because the fact is 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:25.320 this is God's blueprint. I've been. There's no artum. I 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:28.720 don't see no compliment compliments. I packed my money to 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.760 the seeler and that's comments. You got to feel that right, 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:36.120 your realist back. These knicks whacked slow nuts, get off 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:40.640 my I said, where you often black come? Not talking apps? 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:44.240 When I tell you that I often. Now, Yeah, listen, 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.520 if you got any more than that gas from last night, 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:48.120 you got a little bit. I got a little bit. 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:49.679 I don't think you're bad. Let Menna take that. I 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:52.320 don't think you're bad. You got like one of them 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:54.240 work room flows, like when you're on break and you 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:55.720 know you kind of boyd and you kind of passed. 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:57.320 The day after it, you're like, yo, s pitch something, 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:59.360 you know what I mean, But not like let's go 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:01.480 to the studio and you know he'll stop it. But 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:03.920 keep working, keep working, bro, it ain't even it ain't 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.200 even about me. Man, look up some other two artists 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:09.079 and just enjoy your day. I sent y'all some day 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:13.080 videos to your inbox. My Instagram is married with children 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.960 with two hours and just look it up. Man, check 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:19.280 your inbox. I sent you a few things too, all right. 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:21.480 Can I like your energy though, I like the fact 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.319 that you're supporting other people, all right, bro, get it 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.840 off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one oh 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:28.720 five one. If you need to vent, hit us up 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:31.839 right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:40.079 I'm telling, I'm telling what's doing yo. If this is 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.080 your time to get it off your chest, whether you're 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:45.320 mad or blessed, eight hundred five eight five one five one. 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:47.959 We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello, 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:54.320 who's this? Good morning? And the man good morning and King. Yeah, man, 0:09:54.600 --> 0:09:56.439 I'm going to do it. I called you guys to 0:09:56.480 --> 0:10:00.760 get guys on my little avenue events. Yo, I was parked. 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:03.160 I parked my car, went out with Whitey on Saturday 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:06.400 night and early Sunday morning, somebody crashed into my car 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:09.120 and told it to bro. While it was a part, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:14.199 that's horrible, yeah bro, And now I'm it's a car. 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:17.400 I'm I'm personal. I've tried to lose different endeavors in there. 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:19.800 It was a car was drinking out for uber or whatever. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.120 So now my loose source has been coming is gone 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.040 and I got to go back to my nine to 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:26.719 five ground. But the crazy thing about it is I 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.839 asked my neighbor to let me see the cameras and 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:32.480 he told me no. And the camera's appointed like right 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:34.959 towards my car, and he said his camera's are not 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:39.160 for for everybody to set my hand about that. I 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:41.079 don't think he hit me. He's a cop actually, and 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.000 he's a college is set up like support you. He 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.040 got like seven cameras outside of his house and I 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:46.720 asked him, I say, yo, I know your cameras are 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.920 pointing towards for my college. Box cannot see the cameras, 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.600 he said, no, he same cameras is not for the community. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:56.240 Cameras is just for him. I'm a business. Yeah, damn it, 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:58.120 it's exactly right. I don't know how to feel about that. 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:02.640 I'm pretty good. That's something pretty. That is very But 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:05.240 oh he's protecting himself and protecting a friend. To hit 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:07.360 your car, it's probably that's probably what it is. He's 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:10.199 probably protecting a friend. Think so what happened ground look 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:11.959 like they dragged race a lot. A lot of the 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:13.959 kids be doing crazy stuff at night. I don't think 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:16.520 that's going on. So yeah, but he would have gave 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:17.839 that up to you know what I mean, if you 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.480 want to help a neighbor, you'd be like, oh yeah, 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:20.760 I help you, bro. But if they had something to 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:28.559 do with him, he ain't helping. If the cameras, he's 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:30.959 cameras the rail He got like seven cameras outside his house. 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:33.439 He's just being sofy. When I ring the fowl, he's like, 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:35.720 what do you want? Like an old dunky, old man, 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.560 He's like, what do you want? Oh, yeah, he gonna 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:40.160 need he gonna need you for something. One day and 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:42.240 I ain't gon front. That's how old people do. How 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:45.040 old is he? He's pretty old? Yah, so that's how 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:47.320 old people do too, Like, that's that's something my dad 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:50.319 would do. I can see my dad. Hey, but what 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:52.040 do you want? And like y'all want to use your camera? 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:53.679 Go get your own, like I can see my dad 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:55.400 doing that at this age. Yeah, he didn't even come 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:57.360 to the door. He talked to me through the ring camera. 0:11:57.480 --> 0:12:00.240 He's like, what do you want? I'm like, man, so 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:03.200 is he white and black? I need to help black? 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.360 I live, I live on the floor. I don't know 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:18.720 what that is. Yeah, that is you know what's all right? 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:22.079 I'm a going brother luck? All right? Hello? Who is 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:25.880 this yo? Danny man? Danny Man? What up? Make it 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:28.920 off at chair? So I found out there my homeboy, 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:33.000 which is my room man? Right? He had a faithful 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:35.920 in the course with it came end though, So I 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.520 don't know how I feel him going back home? What 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:40.640 I got to do with you? Yeah? Why does that 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:46.520 affect you? Unless you'all date then? Which is that? Like? 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:48.439 What did he thought to? Like? Pull it? Move on? 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:53.800 We got clearly he don't want you, sir, You're not 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:55.920 a transgender woman, So why would he want you? Why 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:57.960 would he be attracted to you? Sir? I man ain't 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:01.160 that kind of don't damn it on that mean? Keep day? No? 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:04.800 First of all, does every woman right who has heterosexual? 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:09.439 Won't you right? So just somebody's why are you worried 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:12.040 about that? Bro't want you to have to do it anything? 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.880 I don't don't make me feel kind of opery, like 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:19.320 I don't know. Question. He might not even be. Yeah, 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:21.160 he's probably not even attracted to you. He has he 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:22.839 ever made you feel like he was hitting on you 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.319 or something, but like the crazy so you don't he 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:29.480 don't know if that I'm closed? I found out, Well, 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:33.040 mind your goddamn business. Sound like you would be upset? 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:34.640 Would you be upset if you didn't know? How? Let 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:37.559 you that's what It sounds like a little jealous maybe yep, 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:46.000 not really hey, like real business man jealous? Okay, let 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.959 that man live all right. I appreciate the man. I 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:51.960 love I love you too, King, But damn that man 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:55.719 don't be because he das trans women either he wants you? 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:58.520 What does he have to do it anything? It was 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.079 just kind of weird. Wanted to get that out keep 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:04.400 probably finding where when you bring chicks back. Never, I 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.079 ain't never asked you about none of the chicks you 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:09.679 bring to the room because you ain't got none. You 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:14.760 call no. Are we just talking the truth? Man? You 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:20.760 know it. You know you know that phone dry you 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:29.880 know them DMM. Come on now, man, Requiet Man, been 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.600 a rough few months and you need to call Kevin 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:36.960 Samuel figure out why you ain't got no ladies. Man, Hey, man, 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:39.960 I love y'all. I love you too, brother, all right, 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.320 get it off your chest. Eight hundred five, ain't five 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:44.360 one o five one. We got roomors on the way. Yes, 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:49.360 And I'm excited about this Janet Jackson documentary in the works. 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:51.640 All right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. 0:14:51.720 --> 0:15:00.200 Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Why's this? It is the 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:05.920 rumor report with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. Well, 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.960 Janet Jackson is getting a two night documentary event and 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:10.840 that is going to be on Lifetime in A and E. 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:13.360 That should be really, really dope. I can't wait to 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:15.680 see that. They said. This filming on Janet has been 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:18.000 underway for three years. It's going to follow Janet as 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:19.680 her family is going through the laws of her father, 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:22.800 who was the patriarch of the Jackson dynasty. He passed 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:26.600 in twenty eighteen. She got she gave the producer's exclusive 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:29.960 access to archival footage and never before seeing home videos. 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.280 I know Lifetime in and under the same umbrella, but 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.800 I just feel like Janet Janet Jackson doc seemed like 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:37.040 it should be bigger than that. Yeah, I think so too, 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.240 well to two night, four hour documentary events. So I'm 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:43.600 excited to see it two night for our documentary. Yeah, 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.520 I mean, listen, I'm here for that. I don't know, 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.360 I feel like it should be bigger, but whatever, I'm 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:51.200 my watch, all right. In addition to that, Janet, let's 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:53.760 talk about Janet that was on The Fresh Prince of 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:56.720 bel Air Now. She recently did an interview with Chris 0:15:56.840 --> 0:16:01.000 Witherspoon's Pop Viewers, and she shared that she consider taking 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:04.200 her life after exiting from The Fresh Prince of bel Air. 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:06.440 Here's what she had to say. So, I not only 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:09.480 had a house, a mortgage, a husband who wasn't working 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.800 at the time, but I also had a business and 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:18.040 a baby, an indifant who needed me desperately. He saved 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:20.720 me my son because I knew I had to take 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:22.640 care of that little boy, and fresh Prince had not 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:26.160 gone into syndication. Yet. It was hard. There were moments 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:30.000 where I felt so broken. There were moments where I 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:36.080 wanted to die. He never complayed suicide. Absolutely, you know. 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:38.880 I saw that yesterday, and I saw folks in the 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:41.240 comments telling her to move on, telling her to get 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:44.000 over it. That's not how trauma works, people, all right. 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:46.760 Healing is healing is not a linear process. You could 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.120 be fine in some cases and then something triggers you, 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:52.000 you know, years down the line, months down the line, 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:53.440 and you have to let it go all over again. 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:56.680 So let that woman vent. Man. Plus, I felt like 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.440 for so long nobody was even bothering to listen. That's 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:04.159 very true. And just recently even Will Smith had to 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:05.919 sit down with her. So I'm sure that brought her 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:09.040 some type of okay for the moment, and yeah, for 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:12.200 the moment, but I'm sure that also renewed people being like, Okay, 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:14.879 maybe this is something we should pay attention to now 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:18.520 because they really weren't before. Yeah, all right now, Tiger Woods, 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:21.280 the search warrant of his car is based on possible 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:24.560 evidence of reckless driving. They did get a search warrant 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.600 to get the black box it's in the vehicle. A 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:29.320 judge believed there is probable cause that a crime may 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.200 have been committed, and they said the possible offense is 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:36.359 misdemeanor reckless driving. There's a black boxing cause too. I 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:38.440 guess they knew a cause my dad. I asked my 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:40.000 dad that yesterday. I didn't know that, but he was like, 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:42.520 getting certain cause. Did he tell you how aggressive you drive, 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:46.000 if you aggressively you know, accelerate aggressively, break, or how 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.760 fast it you're going you know, if you Yeah, I 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:50.959 do remember hearing something like that. Something they can tell, 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:52.720 like if you get into an accident and you was texting, 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:54.840 they can tell if you was texting beforehand. I thought 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:56.159 they were just looking at your phone and see that 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:57.639 you let a tweet fire. Now, I don't think they 0:17:57.640 --> 0:17:59.479 can see if you're texting, but I'm sure they got 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:01.119 to look on your phone to see if the accident 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:02.879 happened the same time you were texting it. Your call 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:05.080 can't tell you, hey, he's texting right now unless you, 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:07.000 you know, connected the bluetooth. So all no, bro, the'm 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.359 new calls different. Remember how night Rider used to seem 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.880 so advanced now, Kits seemed like a goddamn gold cart. 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:19.160 Turbo boots can't happen right now. Yes you could turbo 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:22.240 boos right now. You could jump over things. You can't 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:24.040 jump over things, but you could think got caused with 0:18:24.119 --> 0:18:25.840 all types of turbot with it, all types of trying 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:29.200 to tell you, I don't know, bro, They do have 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:33.359 cards to dry themselves like Kit used to do all 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:36.159 right now. Mariah Carey's brother is now to wing her 0:18:36.200 --> 0:18:39.040 for defamation. That's over claims that were made in her memoir. 0:18:39.200 --> 0:18:42.320 He says that his reputation was damaged when Mariah wrote 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:44.120 up an alleged fight that he had with his father 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:46.680 and that she hinted that he was violent towards their mother, 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:49.560 and he also highlighted a passage in the book that says, 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.080 it took twelve cops to pull my brother and father apart. 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:55.320 The big bodies of men all entangled like a swirling hurricane, 0:18:55.400 --> 0:18:57.720 crashed loudly into the living room. I was a little 0:18:57.760 --> 0:18:59.520 girl with very few memories of a big brother who 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:02.200 protected me. More often I felt I had to protect 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:05.320 myself from him, and sometimes I would find myself protecting 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:07.199 my mother from him too. Yeah. I don't know if 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:09.480 your reputation was damage, sir, but if it makes you 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:11.239 feel any better, I don't even know Mariah Carey had 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:14.320 a brother until just now. Yeah, me, neither. Didn't even 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.919 hear about this, But I'm hearing so many of brothers 0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:20.920 and sisters suing their brother, suing their parents. I can. 0:19:21.040 --> 0:19:23.000 I could never imagine mabe because I'm an only child, 0:19:23.080 --> 0:19:25.320 But I couldn't sue my brother. Well, you guys got 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:27.840 brothers and sisters. You did get brother will sue you, 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:29.680 A sister will sue you. Yeah, especially if you ain't 0:19:29.960 --> 0:19:33.440 if you ain't never gating him nothing, if you ain't 0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:34.879 never kicked no money out to them, or if you 0:19:34.920 --> 0:19:36.399 did kick out some money and they don't feel like 0:19:36.440 --> 0:19:38.400 it was enough, but they see you out here bawling, 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:42.600 of course they would. Well, according to Maria's a strange brother, Morgan, 0:19:42.680 --> 0:19:44.800 he says that that made him sound like a violent person. 0:19:44.880 --> 0:19:46.719 He said he never fought with his dad when Mariah 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:49.040 was a kid, and there's no way a dozen cops 0:19:49.040 --> 0:19:52.479 will be handling a domestic violent situation anyway. In addition 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:56.200 for damages for defamation, he's also suing for intentional infliction 0:19:56.320 --> 0:20:01.400 of emotional distress. Now you know her sisters also suing her. Yeah, 0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:04.159 Alice Mariah Thine like the only job I got to 0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:08.240 read this book. So now her sister and this happened, 0:20:08.440 --> 0:20:10.200 you know, a couple of months ago. But she's seeking 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:13.359 one point two five million in damages for the infliction 0:20:13.480 --> 0:20:18.560 of immense emotional distress caused by defendant's heartless, vicious, vindictive, despicable, 0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:23.200 and totally unnecessary public humiliation of a defendants already profoundly 0:20:23.280 --> 0:20:28.040 damaged older sister. You can sue for defamation. I'm suing 0:20:28.119 --> 0:20:30.119 Charlemagne because he does all that that you said in 0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:32.879 that whole little sentence he does to me. According to 0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:35.880 Mariah Carey, in her book, she said that her sister 0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:38.360 drugged her, put her in vulnerable situations with older men, 0:20:38.680 --> 0:20:40.760 and threw boiling hot tea on her when she was 0:20:40.840 --> 0:20:46.639 only twelve years old. Jesus. She did accuse her of 0:20:46.920 --> 0:20:49.639 attempted sex trafficking as well, and her sister, Alison is 0:20:49.680 --> 0:20:53.960 eight years older than her. Neok, m h, I'm gonna 0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:57.760 read this book. I think, all right, well that is 0:20:57.920 --> 0:20:59.920 your rumor report. I did not know she had sibling. 0:21:00.320 --> 0:21:03.359 You can't even right, I don't act like the only job. Yeah, 0:21:03.440 --> 0:21:06.679 I mean she does well, she's a strange from them, 0:21:06.760 --> 0:21:08.760 so I don't think she's very close with them. Clearly 0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:11.720 I was a Debbie down a damn all right, I 0:21:11.840 --> 0:21:13.800 get it. Well you're gonna get the book. Yeah, just 0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:15.720 because your family. Don't mean that your family, you know 0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:18.000 what I'm saying, Like, like, it's not always about blood, 0:21:18.040 --> 0:21:21.159 like sometimes it's about principles and energy and spirit. And 0:21:21.200 --> 0:21:22.960 you know if your principles, an energy and spirit don't 0:21:22.960 --> 0:21:25.320 aligne with a person, even if that's your blood. Hey man, 0:21:25.400 --> 0:21:28.520 it is what it is. Your family. They always you 0:21:28.520 --> 0:21:30.320 can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family. 0:21:30.400 --> 0:21:33.520 That's a fact. All right. Well, we got front page 0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:35.560 news when we come back, when we're talking about now 0:21:35.640 --> 0:21:38.720 York Governor Andrew Cuomo says he is not planning to resign, 0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:41.080 even though some people are calling for him to resign, 0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:44.280 and he has answered these allegations from women who are 0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:46.760 accusing him of sexual harassment. All Right, we'll get to 0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:49.440 that next. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody 0:21:49.480 --> 0:21:52.880 is sej Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are 0:21:52.920 --> 0:21:57.520 to breakfast club's getting some front page news where we're 0:21:57.520 --> 0:22:01.440 starting easy well. Governor Andrew Cuomo in New York has 0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:04.080 said that he did not know that he was making 0:22:04.280 --> 0:22:08.960 women uncomfortable, and he's explaining himself after at least three 0:22:09.040 --> 0:22:12.520 women so far have come forward with allegations of sexual harassment. 0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:17.920 I now understand that I acted in a way that 0:22:18.320 --> 0:22:24.360 made people feel uncomfortable. It was unintentional, and I truly 0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:32.200 and deeply apologize for it. I never touched anyone inappropriately. 0:22:32.760 --> 0:22:36.719 I never knew at the time that I was making 0:22:37.400 --> 0:22:44.760 anyone feel uncomfortable, and I certainly never ever meant to 0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:52.159 offend anyone or cause anyone any pain. Now, as far 0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:54.320 as whether or not he plans to step down, as 0:22:54.359 --> 0:22:56.600 some people are calling for, here's what he had to say. 0:22:56.800 --> 0:22:59.359 I'm not going to resign. I work for the people 0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:01.680 in a state of New York. They elected me, and 0:23:01.880 --> 0:23:03.399 I'm going to serve the people of the state of 0:23:03.480 --> 0:23:05.720 New York. And by the way, we have a full plate. 0:23:05.960 --> 0:23:09.480 We have COVID, we have rebuilding, we have to do vaccines. 0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:13.600 So no, I'm going to do the job the people 0:23:13.640 --> 0:23:16.840 of the state elected me to do. Yeah, I really 0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:19.280 want to know how they decide who they want to 0:23:19.440 --> 0:23:21.520 resign and not, Like it's very hard to call for 0:23:21.600 --> 0:23:24.919 Andrew Cuomo to resign if you voted and supported Joe Biden, 0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:28.000 like I voted for Joe Biden. You know, President Biden 0:23:28.080 --> 0:23:30.520 had more serious accusations leveled against him in Cuomo. When 0:23:30.520 --> 0:23:32.200 it was people telling Joe Biden to drop out of 0:23:32.200 --> 0:23:35.480 the race, he didn't. He apologized, and he pledged to 0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:39.119 respect women's personal space. He denied the rape allegations, and 0:23:39.119 --> 0:23:40.840 he kept in movements. I just want to know what's 0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:42.800 the difference with Cuomo, Like why is Cuomo being after 0:23:42.840 --> 0:23:46.320 resign And it's interesting that right now there's a mayor 0:23:46.440 --> 0:23:48.600 or race going on in New York City, and so 0:23:48.920 --> 0:23:51.919 some mayors have aligned themselves with the governor and now 0:23:52.000 --> 0:23:54.280 they're having to kind of step back and not do 0:23:54.440 --> 0:23:58.520 that at this time. So that play about the nursing 0:23:58.640 --> 0:24:01.320 home story with Cuomo, that just went away. It's like 0:24:01.440 --> 0:24:03.359 in the media forgot about those old people to wake 0:24:03.400 --> 0:24:06.280 Cuomo did. Oh yeah, And that's something that's still under 0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:10.600 investigation too. They're doing an independent investigation on that as well. 0:24:10.640 --> 0:24:13.280 It's just not being talked about as much right now. Now, 0:24:13.400 --> 0:24:16.080 as far as the woman that there was the picture 0:24:16.160 --> 0:24:18.359 of him like grabbing her face, and she says that 0:24:18.520 --> 0:24:22.280 he kissed her on the cheek and he made an 0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:24.680 unwanted advance toward her, Anna Rutch. That was in twenty 0:24:24.800 --> 0:24:28.000 nineteen at a wedding. Cuomo did say that it's a 0:24:28.080 --> 0:24:30.920 customary way of greeting for him, you know, where you 0:24:31.000 --> 0:24:34.119 kiss people on the cheek, and he did apologize for 0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.080 that as well, but he said he's not ashamed of 0:24:36.119 --> 0:24:37.920 anything he's done in public life. He said, you can 0:24:38.240 --> 0:24:40.479 find hundreds of pictures of me making the same gesture 0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:42.600 with hundreds of people and women, men and children, etc. 0:24:45.520 --> 0:24:48.920 So we'll see how this all plays out. That is 0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:51.520 h Yeah, I mean, you know, some people do do that, 0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:53.680 like they kiss you on both cheeks. And I felt like, 0:24:53.920 --> 0:24:58.680 you know Italians. Yeah, so I don't know, I don't 0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:00.560 but it could be awkward. So now I'm sure I'm 0:25:00.600 --> 0:25:03.720 moving forward. People got to think twice about doing things 0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:06.800 like that, all right. Now, let's talk about the Toronto Raptors. 0:25:06.880 --> 0:25:09.760 They had to face the Detroit Pistons last night and 0:25:10.600 --> 0:25:13.800 unfortunately for them, they had a skeleton of roster. Apparently 0:25:13.880 --> 0:25:16.119 there was a COVID nineteen outbreak, and they said that 0:25:16.200 --> 0:25:20.320 was caused by the coaches bad mask etiquette. So apparently 0:25:20.480 --> 0:25:23.000 some of them, some of the positive tests of the 0:25:23.080 --> 0:25:24.920 last week, they said it was an internal spread of 0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:28.159 the virus and that's from inconsistent mask wearing from the 0:25:28.240 --> 0:25:30.680 coaching staff members. And he couldn't find anybody to feel 0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:37.000 th roster spots. Drake didn't want to suit up. Ran 0:25:37.040 --> 0:25:39.520 a couple minutes with the Raptors. Beeple plays a little basketball. 0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:42.080 Yeah don't yeah, I don't think people stings in Toronto though. 0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:45.119 All right, well a lot of those people who were 0:25:45.160 --> 0:25:47.680 sideline yesterday will not be expected back for the next 0:25:47.760 --> 0:25:52.280 game against the Boston Celtics. And that is your front 0:25:52.280 --> 0:25:55.440 page news. All right, thank you, miss ye. Now, earlier 0:25:55.520 --> 0:25:58.680 this week we had doctor Carhart. Last week last it 0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:01.040 was last week we had the call hard On and 0:26:01.560 --> 0:26:03.399 doctor call hard What what is his profession? I know 0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:05.879 he's a doctor, he's a professor at Columbia University, but 0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:12.440 a neuroscientist. He is UM he's a neuroscientist and psychologist 0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:17.480 and he studies the behavior uh in neuro pharmaological effects 0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:20.280 of psychoactive drugs and humans that's correct. So he's there 0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:24.399 at Columbia University. Yeah, Now he just doesn't talk about it. 0:26:24.520 --> 0:26:28.600 He actually uses the drugs, I guess to be thorough 0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:31.879 with his investigations and thorough with his reports. He's a 0:26:31.960 --> 0:26:34.399 research scientist. So, but he also said he does it 0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:36.680 for his work life balance. He said, right, there's nothing 0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:38.959 he enjoys more than sitting by the fireplace and doing 0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:41.960 a line of heroin. That's right. Well, doctor Steve Perry 0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:44.000 will be joining us this morning. He heard that interview 0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:46.479 and uh has some things to say about it, all right, 0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:48.160 So we're gonna talk to him when we come back, 0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:50.399 So don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, The 0:26:50.600 --> 0:26:57.960 Breakfast Club back the world's most dangerous morning show. Morning. 0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:01.719 Everybody is t j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomine the guy. 0:27:01.840 --> 0:27:03.880 We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest 0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:06.359 on the line this morning. Yes, indeed, the brother, doctor 0:27:06.400 --> 0:27:09.480 Steve Perry. Welcome, Hey blood, how y'all been We're doing 0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:11.680 pretty good? Man? How you been bro having time in 0:27:11.760 --> 0:27:14.240 my life? Hey, doctor Steve. For anybody who you know 0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:16.520 may not know who you are, tell them who you 0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:20.080 are for real quick. Well, I think What's most important 0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:22.840 is that I'm the cat who runs schools, starts schools 0:27:22.880 --> 0:27:26.360 in the hood, been doing that for twenty years. Many 0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:28.879 of them know me quite frankly because of the interview 0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:31.480 I did on Breakfast Club, but buff who we start 0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:34.879 schools together now in New York and most specifically in 0:27:35.000 --> 0:27:37.120 Harlem and the Bronx. We just opened up a new 0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:39.280 school in co Op City and the Bronx super excited 0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:42.320 about that. Absolutely. You know, I wanted to talk to you, Steve, 0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:46.440 because we spoke last week, you know, after doctor Carhart 0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:48.200 was up here to good brother, doctor Carl Hart, and 0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:52.359 you had a perspective. You wanted to share another another side, 0:27:52.480 --> 0:27:54.520 so to speak. And you know, for those of us, 0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:56.560 but those of you who don't know who Carhart is. 0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:59.760 He's a doctor who wants to decriminalize drugs, as we 0:27:59.840 --> 0:28:02.280 all do, because people shouldn't go to jail for addiction. 0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:04.959 And he's also a person who chooses to do heroin 0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:08.080 recreationally and says that we all can do that too, 0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:11.800 if done safely. What do you think about that, Doctor Perry? 0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:16.200 So context is everything right? First of all, the interview 0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:20.200 that you guys did was breathtaking, like much respect to you. 0:28:20.320 --> 0:28:24.399 That was just so compelling. That's really why Charlotte and 0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:26.840 I ever spoke. I just just dropped him lines said 0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:31.600 that was amazing. He's clearly deeply credentialed and much respected 0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:33.800 in this field. He talks about how he grew up 0:28:33.840 --> 0:28:37.200 in Miami and the liking that's cool, true, and growing 0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:39.760 up poor and being black seems like they go together 0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:43.800 like ham and eggs. So that all is there. But 0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:48.440 the context that he operates it is a overwomanly, wealthy, white, 0:28:49.080 --> 0:28:52.960 highly educated environment. For me, I work and live in 0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:55.400 the hood. I run schools, our start schools. You don't 0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:57.600 go to the career Resource center to start schools in 0:28:57.640 --> 0:28:59.720 the hood. To run schools in the hood. And then 0:29:00.040 --> 0:29:04.320 our context, what he's saying simply doesn't it doesn't equate 0:29:04.400 --> 0:29:07.560 to reality. We have a school in Bridgeport and elementary 0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:11.040 school in Bridgeport. A hundred yards away from our school 0:29:11.600 --> 0:29:15.320 is a meth clinic one hundred yards one hundred yards 0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:18.560 to every single morning, like right now, acause I'm in 0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:22.600 Bridgeport today, I can see the line forming in freezing 0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:26.000 cold outside for people trying to deal with their addiction. 0:29:26.200 --> 0:29:30.760 When he speaks of moralistic impressions of drugs. I get 0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:33.200 where he's trying to go, and again, much respect to 0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:35.960 him for having a perspective, but he's speaking to a 0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:39.880 different audience. He's speaking to a wealthy, upper middle class, 0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:44.440 white and other group of people who have access to healthcare, 0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:47.800 mental health care supports, as well as a family structure, 0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:50.360 unlike many of the children and families that I work 0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:53.360 with who don't get to try heroin, who don't get 0:29:53.400 --> 0:29:55.760 to do it in a controlled environment. It's not just 0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:58.800 a moralistic difference that he and I see, it's a 0:29:58.960 --> 0:30:02.080 functional difference. They're parts of the conversation that are left 0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:05.240 out when he's talking about the difference between the way 0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:06.800 we look at drugs and the way we look at 0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:11.920 illegal drugs. For instance, in order for a child to 0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:15.160 be put on any sort of riddling and the like, 0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:19.080 there's an entire evaluation process that begins at the school level, 0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:22.240 with observing the child's behavior, having meetings with the parents, 0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:27.040 having meeting with social working psychiatrist, psychologyist, and then the physician, 0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:30.680 and then after that it's monitored and then that drug 0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:34.560 that he uses has been created in a laboratory under 0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:37.760 the most controlled conditions that we know under the greatest 0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:40.640 umbrella of science that we're aware of. It's not creating 0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:42.880 a crack account by high school dropout who didn't do 0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:45.920 well in chemistry, who's put anything that she or he 0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:48.160 can into this drug to make more money, to make 0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:52.000 it more addictive. So to compare the two is to 0:30:52.160 --> 0:30:56.800 me contextually off and therefore doesn't make sense in its 0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:00.360 real application. And so I want to say this because 0:31:00.480 --> 0:31:02.640 I was trying to have an open mind, and I 0:31:02.800 --> 0:31:05.800 have seen him on the documentary on Netflix, Crack, and 0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:08.840 then I also read a lot of his book. I 0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:11.160 don't think he's saying, yes, he use drugs, it's good 0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:14.400 for you. I think what he's saying is that people 0:31:14.440 --> 0:31:16.560 are using drugs. It's thirty million people in this world 0:31:16.560 --> 0:31:18.520 that use drugs. As much as we've done this, drugs 0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:21.880 are bad. We know that we've heard that so much. Right, 0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:24.200 people are still doing it. So how do you make 0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:27.640 sure that they're not embarrassed to come out and say, yes, 0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:29.960 this is what I'm doing and I need to seek 0:31:30.000 --> 0:31:31.760 help if they need to seek help for that, That's 0:31:31.800 --> 0:31:34.080 how some of the message that I was getting from 0:31:34.200 --> 0:31:38.200 him was. And I don't hear him saying use drugs, 0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.560 and quite frankly, I don't think anybody has that kind 0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:41.920 of juice that they can get on a radio and 0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:44.120 tell people to do something. They just all start changing 0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:46.560 their life to do it. That's not what I'm talking about. 0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:50.920 What I'm saying is drugs aren't bad. And one of 0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:53.520 the reasons why we work so hard to control these 0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:57.840 substances is because we understand the implications of them when 0:31:57.880 --> 0:32:02.000 they are uncontrolled. We understand how they run. They ravage 0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:04.160 not just the body of a person, but the body 0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:06.320 of a community. And when you do what I do, 0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:09.760 which is worked among some of the poor children in 0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:14.600 the country, you don't have the time to talk about 0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:18.560 the intricacies of the nuances of if you just use 0:32:18.680 --> 0:32:22.000 shrooms versus using some other form of stukey. I mean, 0:32:22.080 --> 0:32:23.720 this is all we have when I'm talking to to 0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:26.040 my kids. I'm when I'm in the BRONX. If I 0:32:26.120 --> 0:32:27.920 would standing in front of my parents and say, okay, 0:32:27.920 --> 0:32:29.760 I want to talk to y'all about how you can 0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:32.880 use drugs effectively, they conduct you. They look at me 0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:37.600 like I lost. They also compared to like prohibition right 0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:41.400 when liquor was illegal, and how harmful that was because 0:32:41.400 --> 0:32:43.880 then it was toxic. The people are bootleggers or making anything, 0:32:43.920 --> 0:32:46.760 and people were actually dying from drinking liquors. So they 0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:50.360 ended up having to regulate it because people were drinking 0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:53.120 and liquors not good for you either. You know, that's 0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:55.480 a joke. I think what he's talking about is regulating 0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:58.920 things so that less people are dying from toxic sebstances, 0:32:58.920 --> 0:33:02.720 because most people are over because they've taken something that 0:33:02.800 --> 0:33:04.600 they don't know what it is. The majority of people 0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:07.360 or it's also a combination, right, they've taken these drugs 0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:09.720 and mix them with other said it is now doctor 0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:11.640 all true. Let me ask you a question, doctor. You 0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.000 heard the interview. I believe you heard the interview in full. 0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:18.160 He didn't say do drugs. He didn't say I want 0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:20.360 you to go out there and do drugs. My problem 0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:22.840 was he was comparing it and making it seem like 0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:26.040 the drug use was okay. You know, he compared it 0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:29.840 to having an orgasm, right, which which is wild. Then 0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:33.200 he compared it to how do you put it? Oh, yeah, No, 0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:36.120 I know a lot of people that use heroin his 0:33:36.200 --> 0:33:39.240 recreation or you know, every once in a while. But 0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:42.200 my whole purpose is yeah, even though you're not saying 0:33:42.880 --> 0:33:46.200 go use drugs, but in my opinion, you're making it 0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:49.960 seem like it's okay. Again, this is not a nuanced conversation. 0:33:50.040 --> 0:33:53.200 It's a context conversation. He can have a conversation at 0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:56.320 Columbia University with wealthy white and Asian kids from all 0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:59.200 over the world about how they should or think could 0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:02.600 think about rug use, and he can have that conversation there. 0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:05.040 I spent the lion share of my career, with the 0:34:05.080 --> 0:34:09.600 exception ten months that I did at Ye's College, working 0:34:09.760 --> 0:34:14.000 in the Paris communities and so most specifically running a 0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:19.239 homeless shelter, and I see firsthand what happens when we 0:34:19.440 --> 0:34:21.840 do allow drugs to be used. And one of the 0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:25.839 things that's super important is there's a certain laziness if 0:34:25.880 --> 0:34:28.720 we're going to be really frank about going to drugs 0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:32.640 instead of going to counseling, instead of going to create 0:34:32.719 --> 0:34:35.920 an opportunity for yourself. And I say laziness not as 0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:40.759 an indictment, but as an honest expression of there are 0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:43.200 other ways for us to address some of the issues 0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:46.560 that the underpinnings that we're having. I'm not going to 0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:48.840 give him that much credit or power to say that 0:34:48.960 --> 0:34:51.560 he can make people get on or off drugs. But 0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:54.320 what I can say, and I can also say that 0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:58.920 the argument, for instance, around prohibition that because it was prohibited, 0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:01.399 more people we'll use it. I don't know if that's true, 0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:03.880 but I do know this how people die, not that 0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:07.160 more people are using. More people died. And one could 0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:10.400 argue that again, I don't know. I don't know that, 0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:12.799 but what I do know is this, there are more 0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:17.279 people die of alcoholism then opior addiction. I do know that, 0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:20.959 and alcohol is legal. And I can go one step 0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:24.560 further that during COVID, when everything was shut down, the 0:35:24.680 --> 0:35:26.799 package stores were open because it was seen as an 0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:29.880 essential service. So I am not going to sit here 0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:32.200 and suggest that there is not something to be said 0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.920 about the way in which we treat substances. I well, 0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:36.839 don't move. We got more with doctor Steve Perry. When 0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:40.160 we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning to 0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:45.320 shoot Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the 0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:47.680 guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it 0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:51.680 with doctor Steve Perry. Yee. Suggestion wise right, because people 0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.759 are still using drugs that are illegal how do you 0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:58.200 prevent that from happening, and how do you prevent people 0:35:58.280 --> 0:36:00.399 from dying from that? And how do you prevent people 0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:03.400 from buying drugs off the street? Very big question. I 0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:05.560 think you know, one of the many reasons why I'm 0:36:05.760 --> 0:36:08.239 a huge fan of work that you guys do. There's 0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:10.880 no simple answers to that. No one person knows that, 0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:13.920 including me, what I do, So can I just answer 0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:18.040 what I do? What I do is create academic experiences 0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:21.200 that respect Black and Latin people in our communities and 0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:23.600 show them that they're beautiful and powerful and they don't 0:36:23.640 --> 0:36:25.560 need to go that route. I show them that there's 0:36:25.600 --> 0:36:28.319 a future for them beyond these circumstances and they don't 0:36:28.320 --> 0:36:31.520 have to allow the unearned disadvantages that they have to 0:36:31.680 --> 0:36:36.959 be compounded by adding additional disadvantages of drugs to their life. 0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:40.399 I show them that there's something more powerful in their 0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:43.319 brain that they can develop then putting something in their 0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:45.759 body to take them to an altered state. That's what 0:36:46.200 --> 0:36:49.279 That's my contribution to the conversation. In additions that we 0:36:49.440 --> 0:36:52.680 create schools within which we understand that mental health is 0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:55.440 not something that is separate and apart, but embedded in 0:36:55.560 --> 0:36:58.799 the academic experience that we understand that growing up black 0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:02.840 and poor is the most traumatic social experience that we 0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:05.319 have in the United States of America. That is only 0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:09.120 worsened by other traumas, but at its base is itself 0:37:09.160 --> 0:37:12.720 a trauma. So what we do is that other people. 0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:14.839 When I was running the homeless shelter, what I might 0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:17.279 have said is that I want mental health support in 0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:21.120 context where people can gain access to it earlier and cheaper. 0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:23.960 If I were working in another setting, if I were 0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:26.080 working in a hospital setting, I might want to put 0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:29.000 in place some sort of detox opportunity. So depending upon 0:37:29.080 --> 0:37:32.680 what someone does in my lane, in my context, what 0:37:32.880 --> 0:37:36.560 I do, it means putting myself out there in our 0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:40.239 community with our team of mainly black and Latin people, 0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:43.279 to start our own schools, to start the revolution that 0:37:43.440 --> 0:37:45.319 needs to happen, the power that needs to happen, because 0:37:45.320 --> 0:37:47.600 at the root of every revolution is education. For me, 0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:50.160 what do you think, doctor Perry, What do you think 0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:55.400 about doctor car Hearts comments that we have exaggerated the 0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:58.799 impact of hard drugs in America. I think he's wrong, 0:37:59.280 --> 0:38:02.360 and its fundament mentally think he's wrong. I don't you 0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:05.600 don't need one hundred percent of your hood to be slinging. 0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:08.640 In order for your entire community to be jacked up, 0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:11.919 you just need like five or six dudes on one 0:38:12.120 --> 0:38:16.520 block terrorizing the entirety of the community as they try 0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:19.360 to run the block. You don't need everybody to be 0:38:19.960 --> 0:38:25.120 in that space. The threat that they offer in their 0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.840 attempt to address whatever it is that they're dealing with 0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:35.440 is actual. It's real. And so again, at Columbia University, 0:38:35.960 --> 0:38:38.840 maybe it's not that big a deal. Maybe it's not. 0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:42.880 But in Harlem, where I work, he works at Columbia, 0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:45.840 I work at Harlem. They're in the same place, but 0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:48.919 they might as well be on different planets. But I work, 0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:53.520 drugs are really a big deal, and they're the reason why, 0:38:53.760 --> 0:38:56.160 in so many cases, some of my teachers can't walk 0:38:56.239 --> 0:38:59.439 to their cars without somebody following them. It's the reason 0:38:59.560 --> 0:39:02.359 why some of my kids are afraid. I can't tell 0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:05.480 you how many kids we're supposed to have as a 0:39:05.680 --> 0:39:08.040 New York as a public school in New York, charter 0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:10.640 schools in public schools, as a podle school in New York, 0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:12.120 was supposed to have zero taling. So if the kid 0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.520 brings a knife into the school, I'm bringing some other 0:39:14.560 --> 0:39:16.400 weapon into the school. I'm supposed to expel them, like, 0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:19.200 just straight up. It's just the whole story. I can't 0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:20.879 tell you how many times I have to work through 0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:24.279 that in my own conscious when I when I have 0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:26.319 a child who I know has a weapon on them. 0:39:26.680 --> 0:39:28.880 They're not bringing it to school to cause harm to 0:39:29.000 --> 0:39:31.400 the school. They're just trying to get to school. And 0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:34.200 I have to ask myself when I carried a weapon, 0:39:35.040 --> 0:39:36.759 was I carrying it to hurt somebody in school? Was 0:39:36.800 --> 0:39:39.840 I just carrying just get from my house to my school? 0:39:40.880 --> 0:39:44.759 So what student in between me and my school were 0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:49.040 not poppy seeds? It was crack. When he's talking about that, 0:39:49.560 --> 0:39:53.480 the crack epidemic was overblown, Come on, bro over by 0:39:53.560 --> 0:39:56.520 who like? What's over over them? What? Like? What does 0:39:56.600 --> 0:40:00.239 that mean? I don't know how what he saw. Again, 0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.440 I can't speak to what he saw in his context. 0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:04.200 I can only talk about what I saw when I 0:40:04.239 --> 0:40:06.320 was in Philadelphia, when I was working out in Philadelphia, 0:40:06.320 --> 0:40:09.960 in North Philly, and when I was in the Bottoms 0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:12.560 in Philly called the Bottoms, and what it looked like. 0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:15.239 And I can tell them what it was this morning 0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:17.719 when I went to visit our elementary school, and it 0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:20.239 looks like zombies walking by. I don't know what he 0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:24.080 sees where he goes to his job. I just know 0:40:24.239 --> 0:40:26.680 what I see when I go to my job. And 0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:29.760 I don't want people using drugs call me a square. 0:40:29.840 --> 0:40:31.480 I'll be a square all day. I'm cool with that. 0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:35.000 I'll be your square. Just to talk about how he 0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:39.160 explained it, though, I think what doctor Carhart was saying 0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:43.560 was that the issue it is deeper than drugs, right. 0:40:44.080 --> 0:40:47.480 It is the community is the people that are underemployed 0:40:47.680 --> 0:40:51.200 or unemployed. People are dealing with anxiety and with depression, 0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:54.480 and then they're buying drugs off the street to try 0:40:54.520 --> 0:40:57.400 to treat that, not knowing what's in these drugs. Also, 0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:00.479 and then also I think a difference and how people 0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:03.040 look at white people who use drugs and how they 0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:05.239 look at black people who use drugs, because white people 0:41:05.400 --> 0:41:07.520 use drugs too, right, And people who are the true 0:41:07.960 --> 0:41:11.600 and wealthy use drugs also, but they're not looked at 0:41:11.680 --> 0:41:15.399 the same way as criminals and as addicts the way 0:41:15.440 --> 0:41:19.000 that black people are all true and there is nothing 0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:21.680 that black people do other than make music and play 0:41:21.840 --> 0:41:24.759 on play games. Where when we do it, people think 0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:26.840 we're cooler at it. Like, let's just call that what 0:41:26.960 --> 0:41:28.719 it is, right, let's just name that for what it is. 0:41:29.400 --> 0:41:33.040 But that's okay with me. I don't. I'm cool with 0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:36.600 the fact that I don't want African Americans and Latin 0:41:36.719 --> 0:41:40.960 people to be elevated in our drug use. I'm okay 0:41:41.120 --> 0:41:43.080 with that. Like, I'm okay that that's not a thing. 0:41:43.640 --> 0:41:47.040 Every issue that we face is compounded by drug use. 0:41:47.160 --> 0:41:51.320 Every issue. If racism is an issue, add drugs to it. 0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:54.480 It is possible to say both are true, meaning that 0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:58.200 there is racism and we should not be doing anything 0:41:58.719 --> 0:42:01.640 to in any way just by drug use. I mean, 0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:04.880 I'm not a fan of Nancy Reagan either or her husband. 0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:06.800 Let's just call it what it is. During when I 0:42:06.920 --> 0:42:10.520 was growing up, he said the ketch up was a vegetable, right, 0:42:10.560 --> 0:42:12.880 So I'm not okay with that, And I actually impacted 0:42:12.960 --> 0:42:15.120 me because I was one of those poor I was 0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:18.800 one of those poor kids whose lunches got diminished because 0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:22.000 I had free lunch. So my lunch, my vegetable, was 0:42:22.080 --> 0:42:25.560 a packet of ketchup. I got that. I'm all there 0:42:25.680 --> 0:42:28.600 for that, But what I also want to make it 0:42:28.760 --> 0:42:31.640 clear is that I'm not going to draw false equivalence. 0:42:31.640 --> 0:42:34.080 And Charlomagne made this point, you can't keep drawing these 0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:37.640 false equivalents, like it's not the same, it is different. 0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:40.080 Here's one of the many places that he and I 0:42:40.160 --> 0:42:44.000 can completely violently agree. It's different to be black, even 0:42:44.120 --> 0:42:46.880 light skin with curly hair black, it's different. I well, 0:42:46.920 --> 0:42:48.839 don't move. We got moved with doctor Steve Perry. When 0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:51.240 we come back, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, DJ 0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:55.399 Envy Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club, 0:42:55.520 --> 0:42:57.960 was still kicking it with doctor Steve Perry. For somebody 0:42:58.000 --> 0:43:02.200 who's seeing close, up close and personal, somebody who has 0:43:02.320 --> 0:43:05.440 odd and died. You know, two people in my family 0:43:05.840 --> 0:43:08.040 when I go to these homes and I purchased these 0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:10.880 these fed up cribs, and I see heroin addicts in 0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:13.640 the house and strung out, and I have these conversations 0:43:13.640 --> 0:43:15.120 because you got to ask them to leave, you know, 0:43:15.719 --> 0:43:17.640 And I asked them, you know how, And and like 0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:20.120 you said, a lot of them come from wealthy families 0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:23.040 and they can't kick it. And they tried it one 0:43:23.080 --> 0:43:25.400 time and they're stuck. And it's not like okay, I 0:43:25.440 --> 0:43:27.920 can give up. No, it's they need that hit. And 0:43:28.040 --> 0:43:30.080 when he was talking about the orgasm is the same, 0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.919 I'm like, I ain't never seen nobody pulling a TV 0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:35.279 for some sex, you know what I mean. I've never 0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:38.160 seen nobody, you know, rob their grandmama's purse for for 0:43:38.239 --> 0:43:41.520 some sex, or hurt somebody for some some some vagina. 0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:45.000 I never, But I've seen it all the time for 0:43:45.120 --> 0:43:48.600 heroin and crack and coke and all a lot of 0:43:48.640 --> 0:43:51.120 other these things that people are strung off of. So 0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:54.080 I just think they want to say that it's okay 0:43:54.160 --> 0:43:56.400 and that you can do it recreational like that is 0:43:56.480 --> 0:43:59.239 just crazy to me. I just think that conversation is 0:43:59.280 --> 0:44:01.680 interesting because a lot of things we've tried to haven't worked, 0:44:02.320 --> 0:44:05.719 and so I'm open minded to because he's done like 0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:08.359 twenty five years of research on this right and has 0:44:08.480 --> 0:44:11.040 changed his own viewpoint based on the research that he's 0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:14.000 done and not saying yes, it's okay to do drugs, 0:44:14.080 --> 0:44:16.680 but like, for instance, and this is for adults, not 0:44:16.760 --> 0:44:18.600 for kids, by the way, and he always stresses that 0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:21.640 he's not saying that kids can make these determinations, but 0:44:21.719 --> 0:44:25.759 he's saying that responsible adults who are you know, take 0:44:25.800 --> 0:44:29.040 care of all their responsibilities. Know, like for instance, if 0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:31.919 I do shrooms, I'm not going to do a huge 0:44:32.000 --> 0:44:34.319 bag of shrooms, I know, just take a little bit. 0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:35.799 Or if you do edibles, you know, I'm not going 0:44:35.840 --> 0:44:39.680 to eat twenty edibles. Think you're going to have a 0:44:39.760 --> 0:44:41.480 little bit. So what he's saying is people can make 0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:43.480 that because he did the micro dosing or whatever. He 0:44:43.640 --> 0:44:46.040 and listen, I'm never trying her. I can tell you that, 0:44:46.200 --> 0:44:51.520 like that's not going right, and he has and he 0:44:51.600 --> 0:44:53.200 has tried it. But what he's saying is there's more 0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:56.560 people that don't get addicted than do, which is not true. 0:44:56.840 --> 0:44:58.960 But I'm just I'm just telling you what what his 0:44:59.160 --> 0:45:01.120 argument is because I I don't know, I haven't studied 0:45:01.160 --> 0:45:03.840 it to have my own firsthand information and just because 0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:05.759 I was reading it. So I try to look at 0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:07.839 it from both sides. Right, it hasn't worked to say 0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:10.839 just say no to drugs. It hasn't worked to say well, 0:45:10.880 --> 0:45:12.200 you need to go to rehab and you need to 0:45:12.239 --> 0:45:14.120 get treatment. So he wants to make sure that people 0:45:14.200 --> 0:45:16.799 will still be alive if that's the choice that they're 0:45:16.880 --> 0:45:18.680 making to do it. How do you do it in 0:45:18.840 --> 0:45:20.960 a more responsible way so you don't die, just like 0:45:21.040 --> 0:45:23.440 people have the needle exchange program where they trade in 0:45:23.480 --> 0:45:26.279 their dirty needles to get clean ones. I don't know. 0:45:26.680 --> 0:45:28.560 I don't know what the real answer is, but I'm 0:45:28.600 --> 0:45:31.279 just looking at it like a lot of things haven't worked. 0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:33.640 I agree with all that, but you know I would 0:45:33.680 --> 0:45:35.759 push back and say, we haven't tried hard enough. You 0:45:35.800 --> 0:45:38.040 know what I mean, because we still send people with 0:45:38.239 --> 0:45:42.560 addiction the prison instead of getting them rehabilitation. So so 0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:44.560 I would ask you, doctor Parry, do you think we'll 0:45:44.640 --> 0:45:47.279 ever get to that point in this country where we'll 0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:50.120 move the complete rehabilitation instead of prison when it comes 0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:53.920 to non violent drug offenses as long as the offenders 0:45:53.960 --> 0:45:57.120 are black and Latin and poor. Now, this short answer 0:45:57.160 --> 0:46:02.040 to that is the people who generationally have enslaved us 0:46:02.080 --> 0:46:04.920 are likely not going to change their wicked ways if 0:46:04.920 --> 0:46:06.920 we're just going to be frank about that. But that 0:46:07.000 --> 0:46:09.080 doesn't mean that we can't do something. I go back 0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:11.960 to what MB was just saying. If you've never visited 0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:16.200 a house that is a crack den, that is a 0:46:16.280 --> 0:46:20.879 place where people are living as squatters. If you've never 0:46:21.040 --> 0:46:25.640 walked into experience that stench, and it is a stench. 0:46:25.719 --> 0:46:29.000 It's a vomit inducing stench. If you've never seen that, 0:46:29.440 --> 0:46:31.799 then I can completely understand why you might be able 0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:34.200 to have an esoteric conversation about it, like you might 0:46:34.239 --> 0:46:37.320 be able to talk about changing things around the edges. 0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:40.080 I get that. I completely get that. But once you 0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:42.600 have done that, and you've gone in there and seeing 0:46:42.719 --> 0:46:45.400 not just stray dogs in there, but children who are 0:46:45.480 --> 0:46:48.200 being treated no differently than a stray dog, then you 0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:50.320 start to see, you know what, this this thing that 0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:52.759 we thought was a victimless crime is actually not a 0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:55.800 victimless crime. Actually, people really are dying from this in 0:46:56.160 --> 0:46:58.960 a real way. So what that means to me? Charlemagne 0:46:59.000 --> 0:47:00.680 and I go back to when he asked me the question, 0:47:00.840 --> 0:47:02.640 I think, it's a fantastic question. What do I think? 0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:05.680 I think from my place, we have to create avenues 0:47:05.719 --> 0:47:09.080 where we are, So you, through your meetings, through your means, 0:47:09.120 --> 0:47:11.520 and me through mine, we have to create our own 0:47:11.800 --> 0:47:13.759 I'm not asking anybody to come in and solve the 0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:16.000 problems in my community. I just want everybody to be 0:47:16.160 --> 0:47:18.319 really crystal clear on that. Unless you hear anything other 0:47:18.400 --> 0:47:21.080 coming out of my mouth, I'm saying, as a black 0:47:21.160 --> 0:47:23.560 man in my community, I'm not asking anybody to come 0:47:23.600 --> 0:47:26.200 in and solve this problem for me. I'm not doing that. 0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:27.759 What I want to do is I want to put 0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:30.399 as many buzz and sisters together and allies to believe 0:47:30.480 --> 0:47:32.120 in what we believe, to come in and get the 0:47:32.200 --> 0:47:34.880 work done. Even though we didn't get here by ourselves, 0:47:35.200 --> 0:47:38.080 we ain't gonna get out by asking somebody to come 0:47:38.120 --> 0:47:41.120 in and undig this ditch. Should they put us in, 0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:43.719 That's not gonna happen. I agree with you, and I 0:47:43.800 --> 0:47:45.800 agree with doctor Carl Hard when he says we should 0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:49.560 decriminalize drugs because I refuse to accept the fact that 0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:51.480 people should go to prison for addiction. But I just 0:47:51.880 --> 0:47:55.080 I just can't encourage people to do cracking heroin recreationally. 0:47:55.080 --> 0:47:57.480 I don't think the black black people are in any 0:47:57.560 --> 0:48:00.480 position to allow that type of rhetoric to go and 0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:03.200 and I don't think we should attempt to create safe 0:48:03.239 --> 0:48:05.520 spaces for folks to do hard drugs. To your point, 0:48:05.719 --> 0:48:08.279 let's get them help. Let's provide them with jobs and opportunities, 0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:11.440 Let's get let's provide them with better mental health resources. 0:48:11.480 --> 0:48:13.799 You know, let's teach them with trade so they can 0:48:13.920 --> 0:48:16.799 be more productive citizens. Because a lot of people, man, 0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:20.080 they turned to drugs because they're trying to escape their trauma. 0:48:20.640 --> 0:48:24.240 Yeah literally, I mean they'll tell you. Just just ask. 0:48:25.000 --> 0:48:27.319 I'm sure envy when you're in those houses and you say, man, 0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:29.839 how did you get here? I'll tell you really quick story. 0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:33.200 There was a cat who at the shelter that I 0:48:33.840 --> 0:48:38.120 was at, that was working at and you know, regular 0:48:38.200 --> 0:48:40.440 looking white guy right like you know, like you just 0:48:40.520 --> 0:48:43.560 see like regular looking white guy like whatever, not that 0:48:43.760 --> 0:48:47.520 anyone not losing hadn't lost ant. He lost everything because 0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:50.200 of drugs, And so I asked him, how did you 0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:52.840 lose everything like it? He said, well, you know, it 0:48:52.920 --> 0:48:55.279 just became a thing over time. I worked to get high, 0:48:55.680 --> 0:48:57.719 like I worked to get high, and I add a 0:48:57.760 --> 0:48:59.960 small business. What have you? As I said to him, 0:49:00.080 --> 0:49:03.480 if I took you to Alaska and dropped you off 0:49:03.800 --> 0:49:07.440 away from everybody, would that be what you need? He 0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:09.799 said no, he said, I'd find a way to cole. 0:49:10.480 --> 0:49:13.520 He lost his kids, he lost his business, he lost 0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:17.560 his spouse, he lost his house. That doesn't happen to 0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:22.480 your point earlier, Charlemagne, because you're trying to take some tale. 0:49:22.760 --> 0:49:28.759 Ain't nobody losing everything because they're trying to get you. 0:49:28.840 --> 0:49:31.120 Ain't you ain't getting just because you're trying to get 0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:35.560 some behind you. Ain't losing everything behind that mess. I don't. 0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:38.560 I don't think we can deny that drugs are really 0:49:38.680 --> 0:49:41.120 harmful and for a lot of people. But do you 0:49:41.200 --> 0:49:43.520 think there are people who use drugs that can still 0:49:44.000 --> 0:49:49.560 function in society and work and be responsible. Absolutely, there 0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:53.200 are people who do things. I mean, look, Willie Nelson 0:49:53.239 --> 0:49:56.879 has been high since we were kids, right, we right, 0:49:57.440 --> 0:49:59.799 So let's just stay there. But he's functioning on age 0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:03.320 to the question of just a basic question, can you 0:50:03.440 --> 0:50:06.520 be yet? Absolutely? But the question becomes what is the 0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:10.319 quality of life when that substance is controlling your movement? Right? 0:50:10.920 --> 0:50:16.719 It's fantastically different when you do something and it is recreational, right, 0:50:17.000 --> 0:50:19.000 and you do it and you leave it and you're 0:50:19.040 --> 0:50:24.719 going back to it, that's fine. But for me, I 0:50:24.920 --> 0:50:30.000 watched the Tiger King and I watched them playing with 0:50:30.120 --> 0:50:33.160 those big cats, and then I watched the one person 0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:37.399 lose her arm. That's one arm for one person too 0:50:37.480 --> 0:50:41.319 many for me. That's good enough for me too. Yeah, 0:50:41.440 --> 0:50:44.200 Lets say I think so if there. Can you do something? 0:50:44.280 --> 0:50:48.040 Can you do judgs recreationally without being addicted? I can't 0:50:48.680 --> 0:50:51.480 because I've had substance I've had substance abuse in my family. 0:50:51.719 --> 0:50:53.960 I'm not that guy. I'm not testing faith. I don't 0:50:54.000 --> 0:50:57.080 agree with him when he suggests that substance abuse doesn't 0:50:57.160 --> 0:50:59.520 run in the family. There's too much research that actually 0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:03.719 counter his point. And again, he is highly credential, highly respected. 0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:07.800 I'm not questioning his credentials or his opinion, but I 0:51:08.040 --> 0:51:10.400 also have an opinion as someone who works in this 0:51:10.520 --> 0:51:13.400 space on the other side, and on the other side, 0:51:13.640 --> 0:51:18.080 it is often the case, whether it's whether it's nature 0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:21.600 or nurture, I can't make the distinction. And honestly, I 0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:23.560 don't care. I don't care if the reason why this 0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:26.080 child is trying drugs because drugs are in his house, 0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:29.920 or if he's trying drugs because that's somehow it's predispositioned 0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:32.640 to do. So for me, it doesn't it doesn't matter 0:51:33.200 --> 0:51:35.240 at all. And the thing that's crazy, like you mentioned, 0:51:35.280 --> 0:51:37.600 like he said, I'm a functioning attict, right, but then 0:51:37.680 --> 0:51:40.360 he said he's not addicted, So what is the definition 0:51:40.400 --> 0:51:43.240 of an addict? According to what I know? And working 0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:45.600 in the field. An attic is someone who needs this, 0:51:45.960 --> 0:51:49.880 who needs this thing. That doesn't mean that they miss activities. 0:51:50.080 --> 0:51:53.799 They may be very much at these activities. She may 0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:57.520 be dropping her children off in the volvo at school 0:51:57.640 --> 0:52:00.279 every day. She may do that every day, and soon 0:52:00.400 --> 0:52:02.960 she gets home, she goes and she uses a pill, 0:52:03.360 --> 0:52:07.040 or she uses this struggle, she ships to alcohol. Once 0:52:07.080 --> 0:52:09.840 it's part of your life and it's part of your coping, 0:52:10.280 --> 0:52:12.920 then it's an addiction. Not every person has to lose 0:52:13.000 --> 0:52:14.640 their teeth, Not every person has to lose their job, 0:52:14.760 --> 0:52:16.920 not every person has to lose their family, but you 0:52:17.080 --> 0:52:20.120 do lose your freedom, and that's an attic. An attic 0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:23.440 loses their freedom to determine whether or not they're going 0:52:23.680 --> 0:52:26.880 to use that substance or going to engage in that behavior. 0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:30.520 That's when you're addicted. Doctor Steve Perry, where can they 0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:38.400 find you? They go see Perry on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram. 0:52:38.800 --> 0:52:42.560 But the most important thing is John's extreme segue. Right now, 0:52:42.640 --> 0:52:45.320 our schools are open and we're super excited about that. 0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:48.279 We are accepting applications. 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That's not gonna stop just because, uh, 0:53:19.239 --> 0:53:21.080 the system keeps pushing it and making it hard of 0:53:21.200 --> 0:53:22.839 us to do. So, thank you so much. I love 0:53:24.680 --> 0:53:31.520 Steve Ferry. It's the breakfast club. Go on, listen, gott 0:53:33.960 --> 0:53:39.960 It's the rule of report breakfast Club. So Farrell was 0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:43.120 on Naomi Campbell's web series No Filter with Naomi and 0:53:43.360 --> 0:53:46.080 he shared with her that she was kind of the 0:53:46.160 --> 0:53:51.440 inspiration of this song by Gwen Stefani halleback girl around 0:53:51.520 --> 0:54:00.319 that text stopping because there ain't no I ain't all right. 0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:02.200 That song was produced by the Neptunes and it was 0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:04.680 a number one song. And here's what he said happened. 0:54:05.160 --> 0:54:08.480 Gwen and I had a song called hollow Back, and 0:54:09.320 --> 0:54:12.880 that chorus came from a conversation you were telling. You 0:54:12.920 --> 0:54:15.400 were telling somebody you ain't know hollow back girl, because 0:54:15.640 --> 0:54:17.759 of the song that we had with Fabulous at the 0:54:18.040 --> 0:54:21.200 time called hollow Back. You told somebody somebody was like 0:54:21.280 --> 0:54:23.160 trying to speak to you whatever. He was like, I'm sorry, 0:54:23.200 --> 0:54:25.440 I have a name, like I'm not no hollow back girl, 0:54:26.040 --> 0:54:29.000 and I thought that was so amazing. Okay, So he 0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:34.520 took Naomi's response to somebody and combined fabulous fabulous, is 0:54:34.640 --> 0:54:42.719 uh halleback? Yep, yeah, because Nammy got that from the Yeah. Wow, 0:54:42.840 --> 0:54:47.120 No you're not if you right, at some point, you 0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:50.800 do hollow back, right, she might not ever at some 0:54:51.160 --> 0:54:53.040 come on, now, at some point somebody made it seem 0:54:53.120 --> 0:54:54.919 like that dude was a peasant, because I know hollow 0:54:54.960 --> 0:54:56.920 back curl a little peasant. But I'm saying, at some 0:54:57.040 --> 0:54:59.160 point some man hollid and she did hollow back. So 0:54:59.280 --> 0:55:01.080 when you do hollow back, does that make you a 0:55:01.160 --> 0:55:03.200 holliback girl? Are you just not a holliback girl in 0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:05.440 the moment? Are you just not a holliback girl? Period? 0:55:05.480 --> 0:55:07.440 Which one The more I feel like Halliback is like 0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:09.160 when you won the street and somebody high at you, 0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:13.200 it's not necessarily the most respectful way. Oh well, that's 0:55:13.239 --> 0:55:17.640 different all right. Now. Kim Kardashian, they're saying, we'll reportedly 0:55:17.719 --> 0:55:20.640 get that Hidden Hills and mansion when her and Kanye 0:55:20.719 --> 0:55:23.440 West are divorced and she has that house. She's been 0:55:23.480 --> 0:55:25.759 living there with their four children. You know, he's been 0:55:25.800 --> 0:55:29.720 in Wyoming, so I'm sure even though Kanye designed the mansion, 0:55:29.880 --> 0:55:32.560 other than that, he's not really that super connected to it. 0:55:32.640 --> 0:55:34.960 And most of her family members live less than a 0:55:35.000 --> 0:55:39.239 block away in the same neighborhood, so makes sense, right 0:55:39.320 --> 0:55:40.960 as they try to figure out these things, they have 0:55:41.000 --> 0:55:43.239 a lot of things to split up, but they both 0:55:43.280 --> 0:55:45.879 have a lot of money, so I'm sure financially it'll 0:55:45.880 --> 0:55:49.000 be okay, all right. Megan Nastallion, she's in a new 0:55:49.080 --> 0:55:51.680 Calvin Clyde ad campaign. She looks amazing by the way, 0:55:52.239 --> 0:55:54.520 and she posted a hottie and my Calvin's the hot 0:55:54.600 --> 0:55:57.960 girl for Calvin Kleine Spring twenty twenty one. Mario Sorrenti 0:55:58.080 --> 0:56:00.560 she captured the post like that, did y'all see it? Yeah? 0:56:00.680 --> 0:56:03.600 I did. It's amazing, I said Partisan, Ye, she looks good, 0:56:04.080 --> 0:56:08.120 Partisan wrote Partisan wrote luckiest man alive under the picture 0:56:08.320 --> 0:56:10.520 dropping a clue Martha Parties and Fontaine. I'm proud of you, 0:56:11.760 --> 0:56:14.560 both of them. I'm glad they're happy. Man. Well, yeah, 0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:18.040 they're a very good looking couple. I'm proud of you. Partisan. 0:56:19.480 --> 0:56:22.320 In addition to that, Magna Stallion also just was featured 0:56:22.360 --> 0:56:24.600 on a My Room five song. They just put that 0:56:24.719 --> 0:56:36.840 out and the song is called Beautiful Mistakes because I 0:56:36.960 --> 0:56:39.680 let you Usually I like my situal worships, Ben Official, 0:56:39.880 --> 0:56:42.560 you want something different, I mean looking stupid. The only 0:56:42.600 --> 0:56:45.160 way I'm coming back to do was me dreaming. Lucy. 0:56:47.200 --> 0:56:49.759 Who's more? Room five? They do the Room five? As 0:56:49.760 --> 0:56:52.279 you stop it. They've did a big deal, right, Yes, 0:56:52.440 --> 0:56:56.200 they're a big deal. Did a song with who Wait, 0:56:56.280 --> 0:56:58.319 no it wasn't. Was it the party that Chris Markin? 0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:00.799 She did? Chris Martin is the lead sing Room five? Right, 0:57:01.560 --> 0:57:03.399 I rock with you? Yeah, I will say yeah yeah 0:57:03.440 --> 0:57:05.880 Chris Martin. Yeah, yeah, I heard it him. Chris Martin, 0:57:05.960 --> 0:57:09.920 he's the guy he runs the Room five. Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, 0:57:09.960 --> 0:57:14.600 yeah it's Chris Martin. All right. Now, now let's talk 0:57:14.640 --> 0:57:17.200 about Page Kennedy He's been on The Breakfast Club before. 0:57:17.200 --> 0:57:18.840 He has a new album out called Page and he's 0:57:18.840 --> 0:57:21.120 also on the Netflix series The Meg in an upcoming 0:57:21.240 --> 0:57:25.360 series called The Upshaws with Mike Epps. And he was 0:57:25.400 --> 0:57:28.160 on lip Service recently. And I didn't know that you 0:57:28.280 --> 0:57:30.760 can get an STD without even having sex. Here's what 0:57:30.840 --> 0:57:32.800 he said happened to him. But the first time I 0:57:32.880 --> 0:57:37.280 got hurt, I didn't even have sex. I literally was 0:57:37.440 --> 0:57:40.600 just basically draw humping his girls. She had her panties on, 0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:44.640 she will let me I have my draws on, And 0:57:44.920 --> 0:57:49.760 I guess her secretion through her panties and through my 0:57:49.920 --> 0:57:53.360 draws is what caused it. And the sad thing about 0:57:53.400 --> 0:57:57.240 it is that's not even the only time that that happened. Um, 0:57:57.960 --> 0:58:00.680 I don't want to everybody be said fout there. I'm 0:58:00.720 --> 0:58:02.200 not gonna call him a liar. I'm not gonna call 0:58:02.240 --> 0:58:05.320 him a liar. But you are a liar and always 0:58:05.360 --> 0:58:07.640 said a liar. Why don't you believe you call him 0:58:07.640 --> 0:58:10.160 a liar? I'm gonna say I'm not the highest grade 0:58:10.200 --> 0:58:13.320 of weed in the dispensary. I'm not the strong, strongest avenger. 0:58:13.760 --> 0:58:15.760 If any doctor strangers are out there, I would like 0:58:15.800 --> 0:58:17.480 to comment on my page and let me know if 0:58:17.520 --> 0:58:19.400 this guy is telling the true. Can you actually catch 0:58:19.400 --> 0:58:22.320 your STD without having sex? Bro, please inform me. He 0:58:22.400 --> 0:58:24.920 said it twice? He said he called it twice. He 0:58:25.080 --> 0:58:26.480 just said it's not the only time. I don't know 0:58:26.560 --> 0:58:30.080 how many I thought sexually transmitted diseases had to be 0:58:30.200 --> 0:58:36.400 transmitted through sex. If there's some crancretions, if there's some secretions. Right, 0:58:36.480 --> 0:58:38.720 listening to ya, y'all not doctors, you can still if 0:58:39.040 --> 0:58:43.680 her secretions hole you guys have sound like he's just 0:58:43.720 --> 0:58:45.680 making content for the podcast. I'm not listening to y'all. 0:58:45.680 --> 0:58:48.680 I need to talk to the doctor. Doctor, doctor, paging doctors, 0:58:48.760 --> 0:58:50.520 I need to talk to you. Let me sounds crazy 0:58:50.520 --> 0:58:52.360 if that's true. I just want to know. Be careful. 0:58:52.400 --> 0:58:54.600 Everybody out there drive up and thinking they're doing something 0:58:55.040 --> 0:58:59.280 nothing really it could maybe happen. I don't know. All right, 0:58:59.360 --> 0:59:02.720 Well that is a report, all right, almost bet money 0:59:02.800 --> 0:59:05.680 nobody's ever gotten to STD from dry house he did. 0:59:07.160 --> 0:59:10.640 All right, No way, I'm gonna tell all that. I'm 0:59:10.640 --> 0:59:13.120 gonna tell ye Bridge in Brooklyn soon. Bro, watch give 0:59:13.120 --> 0:59:19.880 me a minute. Will you give it a doggy? Too bad? 0:59:20.160 --> 0:59:23.080 Four after the hour. We need Greg McDermott, the head 0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:26.160 coach for the Creighton University. UM, I don't know what 0:59:26.240 --> 0:59:27.560 their basket is. We need them to come to the 0:59:27.600 --> 0:59:28.840 front of the congregation. We'd like to have a word 0:59:28.880 --> 0:59:31.040 with him. It's a teachable moment for white people. All right, 0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:32.960 we'll get to that. Next is to Breakfast Club. Go morning. 0:59:33.240 --> 0:59:34.960 Let's don't be a dust because right now you want 0:59:35.000 --> 0:59:39.600 some real It's time for Donkey of the day. So 0:59:39.680 --> 0:59:41.120 if we ever feel I need to be a dog 0:59:41.360 --> 0:59:45.240 man with the heat, did she get get the name? Please? 0:59:46.040 --> 0:59:51.680 I had become Donkey of the Dead the Breakfast Club bitches. Yeah, 0:59:51.760 --> 0:59:54.440 Donkey today for Thursday, March fourth gold. God damn it, 0:59:54.520 --> 0:59:57.040 it's much already. It's March fourth, Floord, have mercy. Donkey 0:59:57.120 --> 0:59:59.880 today for Thursday, March fourth Gold to Greg McDermott. Now, 1:00:00.000 --> 1:00:02.800 who is Greg McDermott. He is the head basketball coach 1:00:02.880 --> 1:00:05.440 at Creighton University. He's coached there for eleven years and 1:00:05.520 --> 1:00:08.520 if I'm not mistaken, he's the reigning Big East Culture 1:00:08.520 --> 1:00:11.720 of the Year. Now, for the past few years, we've 1:00:11.760 --> 1:00:13.920 been in a reckoning in this country. Okay, the always 1:00:13.960 --> 1:00:15.840 of this world don't serve us anymore. I mean, they 1:00:15.960 --> 1:00:17.960 never did, but the power structure was such that none 1:00:18.000 --> 1:00:21.680 of this stuff was truly challenged. Therefore it was never changed. Okay. 1:00:21.800 --> 1:00:24.720 Women are holding men accountable for, you know, their sexism 1:00:24.800 --> 1:00:28.240 and misogyny. And LGBT community is holding people accountable for, 1:00:28.560 --> 1:00:31.440 you know, their homophobia and transphobia. And black people are 1:00:31.480 --> 1:00:36.439 holding America accountable for white supremacy. Beautiful things, okay, and listen, 1:00:36.520 --> 1:00:38.000 things have been one way for so long that a 1:00:38.040 --> 1:00:41.840 lot of our behaviors come from our unconscious mind. Unconscious mind, 1:00:41.880 --> 1:00:45.560 as far as I know, stem from Sigmund Freud's psychoanalytic 1:00:45.600 --> 1:00:48.280 theory of personality, and the unconscious mind is defined as 1:00:48.320 --> 1:00:51.760 a reservoir feelings, okay, thoughts, urges, and memories that are 1:00:52.040 --> 1:00:55.840 outside of conscious awareness. Okay. Sigmund Freud believed that the 1:00:56.040 --> 1:01:01.880 unconscious continues to influence behavior even though people are unaware 1:01:02.000 --> 1:01:06.040 of their underlying influences. So America has been one way 1:01:06.080 --> 1:01:08.040 for so long, and we've been influenced by this, whether 1:01:08.080 --> 1:01:10.040 we know it or not. To our language of behavior, 1:01:10.320 --> 1:01:13.600 it's usually a reflection of the systems that we have 1:01:13.640 --> 1:01:15.919 been a part of. And if you're honest with yourself, man, 1:01:16.080 --> 1:01:19.240 old man, have we been taught wrong? Okay? So we 1:01:19.320 --> 1:01:21.160 have all had to unlearn certain things, and that's great. 1:01:21.520 --> 1:01:24.080 It's great. We all make mistakes. It's how you respond 1:01:24.200 --> 1:01:27.280 to the correction that shows the level of your character. 1:01:27.400 --> 1:01:29.080 There is a reason why you do what you do, 1:01:29.160 --> 1:01:31.600 and it's an important day in your life experience when 1:01:31.680 --> 1:01:33.919 you discover that reason. I'm bringing all this up because 1:01:33.960 --> 1:01:37.200 Greg McDermott made a mistake, a mistake made because of 1:01:37.360 --> 1:01:39.800 years of conditioning. He's fifty six years old, fifty six 1:01:39.920 --> 1:01:42.080 year old white man coaching an NC Double A Division 1:01:42.160 --> 1:01:46.959 one basketball team with about seven seven black basketball players. Okay, 1:01:47.040 --> 1:01:49.240 one black assistant head coach. Might even be more black 1:01:49.280 --> 1:01:51.040 players on the team. A lot of them look real 1:01:51.120 --> 1:01:52.840 miscellaneous in the face. So I don't know. I'm not 1:01:52.920 --> 1:01:54.960 throwing him any bail at all, because he should absolutely 1:01:55.080 --> 1:01:58.480 know better. But I believe his unconscious mind told him 1:01:59.080 --> 1:02:01.400 to save this. Let's go to Keyshawn, Jay Will and 1:02:01.480 --> 1:02:03.480 zub and show on e FBN for the report Police 1:02:03.640 --> 1:02:07.000 Credon's head coach Greg mcdermot's fielding some questions about some 1:02:07.160 --> 1:02:11.640 comments that he made following a loss to Xavier last Saturday, 1:02:11.760 --> 1:02:15.840 this is McDermott telling the team quote, guys, we got 1:02:15.960 --> 1:02:18.720 to stick together. We need both feed in. I need 1:02:18.800 --> 1:02:21.800 everybody to stay on the plantation. I can't have anybody 1:02:21.960 --> 1:02:26.720 leave the plantation. McDermott did say he quote immediately after 1:02:26.840 --> 1:02:30.800 saying those words, immediately recognized my egregious mistake and quickly 1:02:30.840 --> 1:02:34.280 addressed my use of such insensitive words with my team. 1:02:34.360 --> 1:02:37.240 The university put out a statement saying that their basketball 1:02:37.320 --> 1:02:40.680 coach used a term that was quote deplorable and if 1:02:40.720 --> 1:02:44.280 you're wondering for one member of the team, Terrence Rencher, 1:02:44.480 --> 1:02:46.640 who was a black assistant coach, said he was quote 1:02:46.680 --> 1:02:52.080 deeply hurt by McDermott's words. Do we have homo? We 1:02:52.080 --> 1:02:56.280 don't have homer when you need now, if dad, the 1:02:56.360 --> 1:02:58.400 top three things not to say to black people one 1:02:58.480 --> 1:03:02.200 being the N word, okay, three anything negative about beyond stay. 1:03:02.240 --> 1:03:05.600 Then two got to be any reference to slavery. Okay, 1:03:05.680 --> 1:03:08.040 the plantation. You be in our mathet. I shouldn't even 1:03:08.080 --> 1:03:10.960 have to explain to you the generational trauma attached the 1:03:11.400 --> 1:03:14.920 plantation references. But what I like even more about this situation. 1:03:15.160 --> 1:03:17.440 But what I like about this situation is that it 1:03:17.560 --> 1:03:19.840 is a teachable moment. Okay, the teachable moment for all 1:03:19.880 --> 1:03:22.680 white people. Of course, you know not to say this now, 1:03:22.960 --> 1:03:25.240 or maybe you don't, but remember what I said earlier 1:03:25.280 --> 1:03:27.440 about how we all make mistakes and how you respond 1:03:27.480 --> 1:03:30.800 to correction. That shows the level of your character. Listen 1:03:30.840 --> 1:03:34.200 to Greg McDermott apologize. I made an awful mistake. And 1:03:34.320 --> 1:03:37.480 when you make a mistake sometimes you're not only disappointed 1:03:37.520 --> 1:03:41.400 in yourself, but the pain that I caused our players 1:03:41.800 --> 1:03:44.760 who look to me as a mentor and as a leader, 1:03:45.200 --> 1:03:48.040 the pain that I saw in their eyes was I meant, 1:03:48.560 --> 1:03:52.720 that's where my disappointment is in myself. Is that what 1:03:52.880 --> 1:03:56.440 I've done to some young people that I love very much. 1:03:57.080 --> 1:03:59.720 So that's a cross that I'm going to have to bear. 1:04:00.080 --> 1:04:02.800 I'm going to come out of this a better person 1:04:02.960 --> 1:04:06.000 because of it, but it's it's going to be a process. 1:04:06.600 --> 1:04:10.160 Have some more conversations which we need to have so 1:04:10.320 --> 1:04:12.880 that I can help them and they can help me. Now, 1:04:12.920 --> 1:04:15.080 you know, you know what that's real because he isn't 1:04:15.120 --> 1:04:17.840 being threatened. He didn't lose anything. There's no threat of 1:04:17.880 --> 1:04:21.720 losing anything. Okay, he apologized, all right, now, I'm sure 1:04:21.760 --> 1:04:24.320 they asked him to apologize, but that seems very sincere. 1:04:24.760 --> 1:04:28.440 And self correction is important. Okay, see self correction. Some 1:04:28.600 --> 1:04:31.440 of y'all white people fighting the changes. Okay, y'all still 1:04:31.480 --> 1:04:33.080 trying to hold onto the old way of doing things. 1:04:33.320 --> 1:04:35.800 Greig didn't make any excuses. He didn't start that silly 1:04:35.800 --> 1:04:38.440 white victimhood nonsense. He didn't say white people are being targeted. 1:04:38.640 --> 1:04:41.880 He acknowledged he did something wrong and he corrected himself. 1:04:42.280 --> 1:04:44.000 That is how you make the world a better place. 1:04:44.200 --> 1:04:46.280 Michael Joseph Jackson said, if you want to make the 1:04:46.320 --> 1:04:48.360 world a better place, take a look at yourself and 1:04:48.520 --> 1:04:51.000 make that change. So when someone calls you on your behavior, 1:04:51.400 --> 1:04:53.720 tells you that something you are doing isn't right, don't 1:04:53.760 --> 1:04:58.200 fight it. Just make that damn change. Okay. Self correction 1:04:58.440 --> 1:05:02.320 is the biggest sou social service. Also, this man, Greg 1:05:02.400 --> 1:05:07.800 McDermott offered to resign. Okay, he offered to resign, and 1:05:07.880 --> 1:05:09.840 his players say, no, we don't want him to resign. 1:05:10.040 --> 1:05:11.959 He made a mistake. I don't don't think he should 1:05:11.960 --> 1:05:13.520 resign either. He just made a mistake. He should be 1:05:13.520 --> 1:05:15.840 held accountable and he should change, and he should use 1:05:15.880 --> 1:05:19.120 his privilege moving forward to correct other Caucasians. I want 1:05:19.200 --> 1:05:22.720 someone of his character being the master of other white folks. 1:05:23.040 --> 1:05:24.920 And he has a great lesson to teach his players. 1:05:25.000 --> 1:05:28.600 Now See, everybody thinks mistakes are the first steps to success, 1:05:28.680 --> 1:05:33.560 but the real fact is the correction of mistakes is 1:05:33.600 --> 1:05:36.720 the first steps to success. Learn that you will manifest 1:05:36.800 --> 1:05:40.720 a better life for yourself and others. Please give Greg 1:05:40.840 --> 1:05:43.680 McDermott the sweet side of the Hamiltones. Oh no, you 1:05:43.840 --> 1:05:56.400 are doge of the day, the Doge oh the day. Ye. 1:05:56.800 --> 1:06:03.440 All right, all right, well, thank you for that dunkey today. Yes, 1:06:03.560 --> 1:06:07.400 man up next ask ye eight hundred five eight five 1:06:07.480 --> 1:06:09.520 one five one. If you need relationship advice and any 1:06:09.520 --> 1:06:11.680 type if advice, call ye now was the breakfast club? 1:06:11.760 --> 1:06:20.480 Good morning the breakfast club. These relationship advice, need personal advice, 1:06:20.960 --> 1:06:25.520 just need real advice. Haul up now for ask ye. Hey, 1:06:25.560 --> 1:06:27.040 it's two of y'all on the line right now. This 1:06:27.120 --> 1:06:30.440 is for asking you. Guys have similar problems. So Ye's 1:06:30.440 --> 1:06:32.000 gonna try to bust it both down for both of 1:06:32.080 --> 1:06:34.400 y'all life. Okay, Okay, so who's going first? I guess 1:06:34.440 --> 1:06:38.760 I'll go first. Let's have a conversation. Okay, So this 1:06:38.920 --> 1:06:42.840 is where I'm at me and my boyfriend. We've been together. 1:06:43.240 --> 1:06:45.880 I'm twenty eight, um, and we've been together since I 1:06:46.000 --> 1:06:49.160 was thirteen years old. We have three children together. Um. 1:06:50.160 --> 1:06:52.200 But he has a drinking problem. And this drinking problem 1:06:52.280 --> 1:06:54.920 has developed, you know, maybe about seven years ago. And 1:06:55.120 --> 1:06:57.280 at that time, you know our son. You know, he 1:06:57.600 --> 1:06:59.800 was injured in a car accident due to and he 1:06:59.840 --> 1:07:02.800 has chromatic brain injury, and of course those type of 1:07:02.840 --> 1:07:04.959 won't take a long time to heal. I'm still dealing 1:07:05.000 --> 1:07:07.360 with it myself, and you know, for the most part, 1:07:07.480 --> 1:07:10.360 you know, he's been It was bad, then it got good, 1:07:10.520 --> 1:07:12.400 then it got bad again, and now it's like really 1:07:12.480 --> 1:07:16.479 bad again. So my question is, you know, at this point, 1:07:16.600 --> 1:07:18.480 you know, and it got so bad to the point, well, 1:07:18.520 --> 1:07:19.800 let me back up and say, it got so bad 1:07:19.800 --> 1:07:21.760 to the point that he wrote me in to become 1:07:21.800 --> 1:07:24.800 an alcoholic as well. But last year I took it 1:07:24.920 --> 1:07:27.640 upon myself to change my life. I don't drink anymore, 1:07:28.000 --> 1:07:30.480 you know, I don't. I used to smoke cigarettes, nasty habit, 1:07:30.600 --> 1:07:32.760 you know, but I don't been a year since I 1:07:32.880 --> 1:07:35.400 smoked cigarette. The years since I've drank liquor or whatever. 1:07:35.440 --> 1:07:37.360 And I realized you know that we were going down 1:07:37.880 --> 1:07:40.400 a dark path. So now I've been trying to leave 1:07:40.440 --> 1:07:44.320 you by example, you know, So basically, what now that 1:07:44.640 --> 1:07:47.760 I've changed and he doesn't want to change, I'm at 1:07:47.840 --> 1:07:50.920 this place where I'm like, do I leave him? You know, 1:07:51.120 --> 1:07:56.640 to um so he's not taking me back or you know, 1:07:56.960 --> 1:07:59.320 because I've always been, you know, a hustler. You know, 1:07:59.480 --> 1:08:01.320 I am the read winner of the family, you know, 1:08:01.400 --> 1:08:03.680 and I never let him know that or anything like that, 1:08:03.880 --> 1:08:06.160 but you know, I feel like with him, you know, 1:08:06.760 --> 1:08:11.160 having this problem, he's dragging me down. Yeah, that's well, 1:08:11.600 --> 1:08:14.600 my situation is pretty much the same either. I'm just 1:08:14.760 --> 1:08:17.679 not a drinker myself, but my husband, he's been drinking 1:08:17.680 --> 1:08:20.840 in and out the hospital for pancreatis for like three 1:08:20.920 --> 1:08:24.120 or four times. Different doctors over like maybe five different 1:08:24.160 --> 1:08:26.479 doctors sell him to stop drinking, but he'll stop drinking 1:08:26.920 --> 1:08:30.240 when he lives a hospital, but he'll eventually start back drinking. 1:08:30.520 --> 1:08:31.920 And I'm like, you know, you don't supposed to be 1:08:32.000 --> 1:08:34.679 drinking or having that, and he's like, I'm gonna be okay, 1:08:35.200 --> 1:08:37.200 but it scares me. And when he drinks, he's like 1:08:37.240 --> 1:08:41.080 a whole different, dreadsive person. He's not drinking. He's like 1:08:41.280 --> 1:08:44.679 super sweet, so charming, so, you know, just a great 1:08:44.720 --> 1:08:47.880 person overall. But I'm just in the process of now 1:08:47.920 --> 1:08:49.479 it's like he's kind of wearing me down because I'm 1:08:49.560 --> 1:08:52.000 kind of getting overwhelmed with it and I'm like really 1:08:52.080 --> 1:08:54.360 ready to leave me and my kids, you know, ready 1:08:54.439 --> 1:08:56.800 to go because it's like I'm just every day come 1:08:56.880 --> 1:09:00.240 home for a drink, beer in his hand, drink and drink, drinking. Done. Stop. 1:09:00.479 --> 1:09:03.800 So and ladies, first of all, I want to say, 1:09:03.800 --> 1:09:05.640 I'm so sorry to hear that both of y'all have 1:09:05.720 --> 1:09:08.400 to go through this, And I commend our first caller 1:09:08.479 --> 1:09:11.120 for actually getting the help that she needed and being 1:09:11.200 --> 1:09:13.800 cleaned for a year. That's a huge accomplishment. You know, 1:09:13.840 --> 1:09:17.840 alcoholism is a disease too, so that is an addiction 1:09:18.000 --> 1:09:20.600 that somebody has to want to get help. And like 1:09:20.720 --> 1:09:22.760 you guys have both stated, it doesn't seem like these 1:09:22.840 --> 1:09:24.400 men are trying to seek the help that they so 1:09:24.720 --> 1:09:27.000 desperately need. Have I that one of you ever tried 1:09:27.040 --> 1:09:30.479 to do an intervention? Yes, I actually go to my counseling. Um, 1:09:31.800 --> 1:09:35.160 my counselor referred me to someone who I can actually 1:09:35.280 --> 1:09:37.760 have him to go see our schedule the appointment or 1:09:37.840 --> 1:09:40.280 the day of the appointment. It's like, Oh, I don't 1:09:40.280 --> 1:09:42.320 need counseling it. I don't need to go to rehab. 1:09:42.360 --> 1:09:44.120 I'm good. I can do it on my own. I 1:09:44.160 --> 1:09:46.799 could software. He just speaks like he's not an alcoholic basically, 1:09:47.000 --> 1:09:50.000 but all alcoholics seem they're not alcoholics, right. The first 1:09:50.040 --> 1:09:53.519 step is admitting it, exactly. That's exactly how I feel. 1:09:53.920 --> 1:09:56.120 You know, I've come to him and I told him, 1:09:56.200 --> 1:09:59.400 you know that, you know you're an alcoholic. You know 1:09:59.680 --> 1:10:01.439 you need help. You know, look what you're doing to 1:10:01.600 --> 1:10:03.599 me and the kids, you know, and I'm here. It's 1:10:03.600 --> 1:10:05.920 the same thing, you know, where he's like, you know, 1:10:06.640 --> 1:10:09.320 very nice, he's himself when he's sober, But when he's 1:10:09.320 --> 1:10:13.040 an alcoholic, you shift. It's so different. And I would 1:10:13.160 --> 1:10:16.000 highly recommend getting an expert that can actually help you 1:10:16.080 --> 1:10:18.519 set up a real intervention right where you have family 1:10:18.600 --> 1:10:21.680 members close people that can actually sit down in the 1:10:21.840 --> 1:10:24.960 room and help be supportive, but also talk to this person, 1:10:25.160 --> 1:10:28.519 talk to him your husband about how this is tearing 1:10:28.600 --> 1:10:31.080 in the family apart. Because again, they have to know 1:10:31.200 --> 1:10:32.920 that they have a problem, and they have to want 1:10:32.960 --> 1:10:35.400 to seek help. And again, it is a disease. So 1:10:35.600 --> 1:10:38.080 while you do have to be supportive, you also can't 1:10:38.120 --> 1:10:41.160 cover up his problems for him. Do you guys still 1:10:41.200 --> 1:10:44.200 have liquor in the house. No, I don't think if 1:10:44.280 --> 1:10:45.960 I don't carry any of that in my home. But 1:10:46.160 --> 1:10:49.720 he'll go back for all day to about the way 1:10:49.760 --> 1:10:51.360 he wants. Yeah, and it's to the point that he 1:10:51.400 --> 1:10:53.120 will get on the bike. I don't because he don't 1:10:53.120 --> 1:10:54.840 even have a car, no mode, because he got a 1:10:55.040 --> 1:10:57.680 duf and he'll get on the bike and I you're 1:10:57.720 --> 1:10:59.519 not dropping my car. And if he's to ask him 1:10:59.520 --> 1:11:03.320 to some of the all right, well listen. I want 1:11:03.360 --> 1:11:07.240 to direct you guys to American Addiction Center Centers dot 1:11:07.400 --> 1:11:10.200 org and they'll actually have a lot of resources on there. 1:11:10.240 --> 1:11:13.400 You can even chat online with somebody that is confidential 1:11:13.640 --> 1:11:15.559 so that they can help you figure out what type 1:11:15.560 --> 1:11:18.559 of help you guys specifically need. But I do think, 1:11:18.760 --> 1:11:20.760 you know, maybe set up an intervention not just with 1:11:20.840 --> 1:11:23.400 the pastor, but with family members. Maybe the pastor also 1:11:23.600 --> 1:11:26.400 can come in a therapist, somebody that can actually leave 1:11:26.439 --> 1:11:29.559 this conversation an expert. Like I said, it's not easy, 1:11:29.960 --> 1:11:31.960 and this is a disease and it's something that they 1:11:32.040 --> 1:11:34.400 have to want to say, Okay, I'm gonna take and 1:11:34.640 --> 1:11:36.439 you know it could happen at anytime. That's why you 1:11:36.560 --> 1:11:39.120 have to be optimistic and have to keep on and 1:11:39.240 --> 1:11:42.000 greening this message into someone's head until they finally hear it, 1:11:42.560 --> 1:11:46.120 because it could end someone's life, you know. And again 1:11:46.600 --> 1:11:48.479 for yourself, I don't want you guys, this is a 1:11:48.560 --> 1:11:52.439 heavy burden on you as well, and I don't want 1:11:52.479 --> 1:11:54.439 to tell you. I can't tell you to leave somebody 1:11:54.520 --> 1:11:56.639 or what not to do because I think the guilt 1:11:56.680 --> 1:11:59.120 that you might feel if you did. But again you cannot, 1:11:59.760 --> 1:12:02.400 you know, make excuses for him. But I do feel 1:12:02.439 --> 1:12:04.000 like you need to get that professional help. You can 1:12:04.000 --> 1:12:06.559 call eight eight eight nine nine eight two six oh five. 1:12:06.720 --> 1:12:09.680 You can go online to American Addiction Centers dot org 1:12:09.880 --> 1:12:12.559 again get that treatment that you need and figure out 1:12:12.920 --> 1:12:15.200 what it is that you can do, some actionable steps 1:12:15.240 --> 1:12:17.600 that you can take. Because it is a disease, so 1:12:17.840 --> 1:12:19.920 help is available. You can speak to somebody for free 1:12:20.520 --> 1:12:22.360 and then find out what you need to do, and 1:12:22.400 --> 1:12:25.560 it's all confidential and they have public health agencies that 1:12:25.720 --> 1:12:28.760 deal with this. Also. You can also call one eight 1:12:28.880 --> 1:12:31.560 hundred and six six two four three five seven, and 1:12:31.840 --> 1:12:34.080 you can get some substant abuse treatment. But this is 1:12:34.120 --> 1:12:36.640 a serious issue. So that's why I want you to 1:12:36.720 --> 1:12:39.880 talk to somebody that's an expert in dealing with this. Yes, Meta, 1:12:39.880 --> 1:12:42.080 while I appreciate your advice there, you know, to the 1:12:42.160 --> 1:12:44.080 other bluddy just prying getting there, you know, I'm here 1:12:44.120 --> 1:12:47.680 with you experience, definitely, thank you, Thank you Angela here, 1:12:47.680 --> 1:12:50.680 I appreciate it. Thank you, ladies. I'm praying for them. 1:12:50.880 --> 1:12:53.200 I ask ye eight hundred five eight five one oh 1:12:53.240 --> 1:12:55.479 five one if you need relationship advices to breakfast club, 1:12:55.520 --> 1:13:01.400 good morning. I'm keep for some real advice, ask ye. 1:13:02.000 --> 1:13:06.320 Wanting everybody's dj envy Angela yee. Charlomine the guy we 1:13:06.400 --> 1:13:08.920 are the breakfast club with in the middle of asking ye, Hello, 1:13:09.000 --> 1:13:13.200 who's this Astley Askeley, what's your question for ye? I've 1:13:13.240 --> 1:13:17.800 been with someone for years and my children have known 1:13:17.960 --> 1:13:21.600 him also for years, and they was like three and 1:13:21.920 --> 1:13:25.360 time they're older now and they're to the point where 1:13:25.360 --> 1:13:30.800 they're calling him dad, and their father, who just got 1:13:30.920 --> 1:13:34.760 in their life because of court purposes, feel as though 1:13:35.080 --> 1:13:37.320 they shouldn't be calling him dad now and that they 1:13:37.360 --> 1:13:41.839 should shop stop. How are your children now? Um? Nine? 1:13:43.400 --> 1:13:53.599 How old are yours? That's the bigger problem. Sure, that's yours. Yes, Lord, 1:13:54.120 --> 1:13:56.519 I'd be doing the same thing though, but I'm a dad. 1:13:56.640 --> 1:13:58.160 Dad can do that. I don't think mother should be 1:13:58.160 --> 1:13:59.800 allowed to do that. One of us got to know 1:13:59.840 --> 1:14:04.240 how the goddamn well, we know, we talked to charity numbers, birthdays, 1:14:04.320 --> 1:14:07.120 all the stuff. The numbers are flying all over to place. Yeah, 1:14:07.240 --> 1:14:09.120 so it's like sixty years. You've been with this man 1:14:09.200 --> 1:14:13.479 for six years? Yeah, okay, And so the children are 1:14:13.520 --> 1:14:16.320 comfortable calling him dad, and they've done that on their own, Yes, 1:14:16.520 --> 1:14:18.840 on their own. We sat down and talk with them, 1:14:20.040 --> 1:14:22.200 see how they're feeling. But me and him both talked 1:14:22.320 --> 1:14:26.080 by ourselves when my daughter first started calling him dad, 1:14:26.640 --> 1:14:29.240 and then he said, well, we're gonna wait and see 1:14:29.240 --> 1:14:31.320 if she's gonna continue to do it, and then we 1:14:31.479 --> 1:14:33.160 just want to see how it's gonna go from there. 1:14:33.680 --> 1:14:35.640 And then we just you know, sat it down and 1:14:35.760 --> 1:14:38.120 started talking with her and then she felt it though, 1:14:38.120 --> 1:14:41.400 it's okay, and we kind of start and said of 1:14:41.479 --> 1:14:44.559 some boundaries in our house because he also has children, 1:14:44.680 --> 1:14:47.200 and we bring our children together so that no one 1:14:47.320 --> 1:14:51.520 feel like a black sheet, because that's a big generational 1:14:51.640 --> 1:14:54.360 thing that seems to be in family. So we don't 1:14:54.400 --> 1:14:57.479 want none of our children feeling uncomfortable. But they don't, 1:14:58.479 --> 1:15:02.599 thank God, because we're bringing them together. And I will say, 1:15:02.720 --> 1:15:06.599 just based on other families I know that are blended families, 1:15:07.280 --> 1:15:09.320 you kind of have to let the kids lead the 1:15:09.360 --> 1:15:11.800 way and they feel most comfortable in these situations if 1:15:11.880 --> 1:15:14.639 that's what they're comfortable doing, and you guys are okay 1:15:14.720 --> 1:15:17.040 with it, But I do think it's important that they 1:15:17.160 --> 1:15:20.360 know what the relationship is, right. They do know they 1:15:20.479 --> 1:15:23.880 have a father, a biological dad, but he's been raising 1:15:24.000 --> 1:15:26.880 them as he should if he's with you, like they're 1:15:26.960 --> 1:15:29.719 his children too, because when you're with somebody that has kids, 1:15:30.080 --> 1:15:31.680 that's like those are your kids too, and you never 1:15:31.760 --> 1:15:35.880 want them to feel different than his biological children, right. 1:15:36.320 --> 1:15:39.640 And this is the thing that just really bothered me 1:15:39.880 --> 1:15:43.280 is that their biological dad, when I go to him 1:15:43.400 --> 1:15:47.000 for things for the children, he feelings though that my 1:15:47.120 --> 1:15:49.639 fiance ought to be doing it because he's the one 1:15:49.680 --> 1:15:52.840 that's there, but he doesn't want them now to be 1:15:52.960 --> 1:15:56.320 calling him dead. And I'm just like, well, how you 1:15:56.320 --> 1:15:58.360 don't want them to call him dad? But you don't 1:15:58.360 --> 1:16:01.160 want to do nothing for him. Yeah, Unfortunately, it's not 1:16:01.280 --> 1:16:03.800 even up to him at this point. You know, this 1:16:03.960 --> 1:16:06.200 man has been doing a great job and the kids 1:16:06.240 --> 1:16:09.839 feel comfortable calling him dad, and he's planning, I assume 1:16:09.920 --> 1:16:11.960 to be in their life, right. You guys are planning 1:16:12.000 --> 1:16:15.680 to be together for the long haul, yes, and so 1:16:16.040 --> 1:16:18.360 that's what they're comfortable with. And unfortunately for him, he 1:16:18.439 --> 1:16:21.559 hasn't been there and he still can be their father. Also, 1:16:21.680 --> 1:16:25.320 he is their father, and he should still act appointingly anything. 1:16:26.000 --> 1:16:30.560 I'm we're adults and everybody have been married before and 1:16:31.280 --> 1:16:34.439 dealt the this time thing and as a as parents 1:16:34.479 --> 1:16:37.360 and co parents and everybody should respect each other's wishes 1:16:37.400 --> 1:16:41.479 and boundaries and everything and don't discredit the other parents. 1:16:42.000 --> 1:16:44.600 It's just a lot with him, and we try to 1:16:44.880 --> 1:16:49.320 make sure everything is mature, but it's always Yea, it 1:16:49.439 --> 1:16:51.519 sounds like you guys might need to do some he 1:16:51.640 --> 1:16:54.200 might need some individual counseling, and then maybe there's some 1:16:54.320 --> 1:16:57.639 type of parenting counseling that you guys can do together 1:16:57.760 --> 1:17:01.000 so that y'all can function when we want to court. 1:17:01.120 --> 1:17:04.680 The judge seems what was going on and seeing how 1:17:04.800 --> 1:17:07.479 he was reacting and he sent us to cool parents 1:17:07.560 --> 1:17:12.240 and classes right to help and no not on his end, 1:17:12.280 --> 1:17:15.680 no right, So well, listen, I would say this, it 1:17:15.720 --> 1:17:17.840 would probably be hurtful to the children if you try 1:17:17.880 --> 1:17:19.320 to go to them and say, oh, you can't call 1:17:19.760 --> 1:17:21.639 the person who you look at as a father figure 1:17:21.720 --> 1:17:24.240 dad anymore, especially if he's okay with it, you're okay 1:17:24.280 --> 1:17:27.240 with it. And at some point you know their biological 1:17:27.320 --> 1:17:29.679 father is gonna have to step up and he's there's 1:17:29.720 --> 1:17:31.920 nothing he could really do about it, and he should 1:17:31.920 --> 1:17:34.600 be grateful that somebody has done a great job and 1:17:35.200 --> 1:17:39.200 that you're with somebody that treats these children so well. Absolutely, 1:17:39.320 --> 1:17:42.200 and I feel the same way, and I just I 1:17:42.360 --> 1:17:45.720 always try to let him know that no one discredits 1:17:45.800 --> 1:17:49.960 him on no one takes who he is from our children. 1:17:50.240 --> 1:17:53.120 And it did something more denoccause I just wanted to 1:17:53.160 --> 1:17:56.320 make sure as a woman that I was doing the 1:17:56.479 --> 1:17:59.720 right thing. And I just sometimes as a female, we 1:17:59.760 --> 1:18:03.400 don't we don't see a man's side or understand his feelings. 1:18:03.520 --> 1:18:05.840 So it's okay. I feel as though it's okay for 1:18:06.000 --> 1:18:09.280 females who act another female or a guy. Just make 1:18:09.360 --> 1:18:11.880 sure that you're not out of line. Now you've done 1:18:11.920 --> 1:18:14.640 everything that you can do, and you're respectful to him 1:18:14.680 --> 1:18:16.760 as a dad. You're not denying him any of the 1:18:16.880 --> 1:18:20.519 privileges that he has as their biological father. But whatever 1:18:20.600 --> 1:18:22.320 it is best for the kids is what should be 1:18:22.360 --> 1:18:25.200 best in this situation. It's not about how he feels 1:18:25.400 --> 1:18:29.720 and hit and we take that into consideration, but it's 1:18:29.760 --> 1:18:33.320 bigger than him. It's about the kids. Yeah. Absolutely, I 1:18:33.400 --> 1:18:35.760 appreciate y'all. I just want to let y'all know me 1:18:35.840 --> 1:18:38.800 and my kids listen to y'all every morning all our 1:18:38.880 --> 1:18:41.400 way to school, the words, so do you call your 1:18:41.439 --> 1:18:44.080 man daddy? Do you call your man daddy? Y'all? Soo 1:18:46.320 --> 1:18:49.240 do not? Just wondering the only reason you're letting these 1:18:49.360 --> 1:18:51.240 kids listen to this adult programming because you don't know 1:18:51.280 --> 1:18:56.080 how old he is. My kids are very pure for 1:18:56.200 --> 1:19:00.960 their age, and it's so weird, but they my daughter, 1:19:01.360 --> 1:19:05.920 he loves the guests. What race it is? That's funny 1:19:08.840 --> 1:19:11.800 me stuff that goes on to school and she goes, mom, 1:19:11.880 --> 1:19:17.439 that's what happened to school today? And let's see. I 1:19:17.560 --> 1:19:22.320 love it. I love it, thank you very much, all right? 1:19:22.800 --> 1:19:25.680 Ask eight hundred five eight five one five one. We 1:19:25.720 --> 1:19:28.360 got rumors on the way. Vanessa Brian, she is talking 1:19:28.400 --> 1:19:31.920 about finding strength after Kobe and Gianna's tragic deaths. Will 1:19:31.960 --> 1:19:34.480 tell you what she had to say and this exclusive 1:19:34.560 --> 1:19:37.000 People interview. All right, we'll get into what next is 1:19:37.000 --> 1:19:43.280 the Breakfast Club? Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is 1:19:43.360 --> 1:19:53.680 the rumor report with Angela and Lord. Drake has confirmed 1:19:53.760 --> 1:19:56.400 some new music coming and that music will be coming out. 1:19:56.439 --> 1:20:00.320 What's the day, the fourth, the fifth, tomorrow? Tomorrow? Yes, 1:20:00.439 --> 1:20:03.320 he put Friday Midnight and he shared some artwork for 1:20:03.439 --> 1:20:10.080 Scary Hours too, Certified Lover Boys coming soon. Feeling like 1:20:10.760 --> 1:20:16.200 I do. Like when Aubreya says Scary Hours, why I 1:20:16.320 --> 1:20:18.320 just do. That's when he puts out his best work. 1:20:18.520 --> 1:20:22.160 That's that's when somebody's pissed him off. All right, I 1:20:22.240 --> 1:20:25.519 can't wait to have some new Drake music. All right. Well, 1:20:25.600 --> 1:20:28.320 Vanessa Brian is on the cover of People magazine. She's 1:20:28.320 --> 1:20:31.760 featured on the magazines Women Changing the World cover, and 1:20:31.920 --> 1:20:34.280 she talks about how her daughters have helped her cope 1:20:34.320 --> 1:20:36.799 with the family tragedy. They've gone through a lot together 1:20:37.439 --> 1:20:39.920 and she said the pain is unimaginable. You have to 1:20:39.960 --> 1:20:42.200 get up and push forward. Lying in bed crying isn't 1:20:42.200 --> 1:20:44.000 going to change the fact that my family will never 1:20:44.080 --> 1:20:46.000 be the same again. But getting out of bed and 1:20:46.080 --> 1:20:47.680 pushing forward is going to make the day better for 1:20:47.760 --> 1:20:51.320 my girls and for me. So that's what I do. Okay, 1:20:52.040 --> 1:20:54.120 always send them prayers and love to Vanessa. That has 1:20:54.120 --> 1:20:56.160 to be one of them. I couldn't even imagine that 1:20:56.240 --> 1:20:59.000 type of pain, her daughter, her husband, but she does 1:20:59.080 --> 1:21:01.280 have her girls that give her the strength that she needs. 1:21:01.320 --> 1:21:04.639 So make sure you pick up that People magazine all right. Now, 1:21:04.760 --> 1:21:08.360 Square has acquired a majority steak in jay Z's Title 1:21:08.840 --> 1:21:11.560 for two hundred and ninety seven million dollars. Jay Z 1:21:11.680 --> 1:21:14.280 will retain his steak in the music streaming business, but 1:21:14.400 --> 1:21:16.920 he'll also join squares board of directors as part of 1:21:17.000 --> 1:21:21.080 the deal. So through this deal, jay Z and Titles 1:21:21.120 --> 1:21:24.800 are the shareholders, which include Beyonce, Madonna, Rihanna. Are you know, 1:21:24.840 --> 1:21:27.120 a lot of different artists will continue to own their 1:21:27.160 --> 1:21:30.280 piece of the business, but that business will operate as 1:21:30.400 --> 1:21:33.640 an independent division within Square. Yeah. I mean, it's a 1:21:33.680 --> 1:21:36.720 lot of different things that are impressive about this deal. 1:21:36.840 --> 1:21:38.720 But you know the fact that the artists who were 1:21:38.800 --> 1:21:41.439 now would title from the beginning are the second largest 1:21:41.760 --> 1:21:44.240 you know shareholders of this deal. Man drove on a 1:21:44.280 --> 1:21:47.280 clues bombs, big ball teams, you know, hold had a 1:21:47.320 --> 1:21:50.400 good couple of weeks and where is by the way, 1:21:50.720 --> 1:21:54.120 they have cash app there, you know, so for that 1:21:54.320 --> 1:21:57.559 type of money services. And it seems like this has 1:21:57.600 --> 1:21:59.760 been some years in the making. He's been jay Z 1:22:00.200 --> 1:22:02.880 Jack Dorsey had been talking for quite some time. It's 1:22:02.960 --> 1:22:06.320 actually started a few months ago, and those talks progressed 1:22:06.360 --> 1:22:09.479 after they discovered the shared purpose between them that was 1:22:09.520 --> 1:22:12.160 to build things and empowered others to be more successful 1:22:12.200 --> 1:22:15.200 in their own work. So going to what's next for 1:22:15.280 --> 1:22:17.479 Hope though, like because you know, he always thinks five 1:22:17.560 --> 1:22:19.920 steps ahead, Like see, that's what's wrong with y'all needs. 1:22:19.960 --> 1:22:21.800 I'm just curious. I love the way his mind thinks. 1:22:21.880 --> 1:22:24.200 I'm just curious, Like what how he thinks? Can we 1:22:24.280 --> 1:22:26.240 can we stay here for a second? Can we stay 1:22:26.280 --> 1:22:28.599 with the title in the spoi space? And it's great, 1:22:28.760 --> 1:22:31.600 the Champagne less you know, that's great, But I'm just 1:22:31.680 --> 1:22:33.880 curious to what's next, Like what's on his agenda? Like 1:22:34.040 --> 1:22:36.599 is it to what's next? I just love the way 1:22:36.640 --> 1:22:38.600 he thinks. So he always told us stay low and 1:22:38.720 --> 1:22:41.679 keep firing. And he hasn't looked back since that's his model, 1:22:41.720 --> 1:22:44.120 stay low and keep firing. It's really only two ways 1:22:44.160 --> 1:22:47.560 to do business right, good and bad. And Hope historically 1:22:47.640 --> 1:22:50.160 does does good business. And he's sitting on the board 1:22:50.320 --> 1:22:52.720 of Square now, so he's like, over cash app, what 1:22:52.800 --> 1:22:55.120 else Square, guy, I'm only got cash happing something else? Well, oh, 1:22:55.240 --> 1:22:56.800 since you on the board. There's a lot of people 1:22:56.840 --> 1:22:59.200 that's been DM and me. They send people wrong people 1:22:59.200 --> 1:23:00.800 a cash app and they how to get their money back, 1:23:00.840 --> 1:23:02.519 and they say, there's no number for cash app. Can 1:23:02.560 --> 1:23:04.519 you get a number of for you? Send that money 1:23:04.520 --> 1:23:06.360 out on cash app? You can't get it back? Yeah, 1:23:06.360 --> 1:23:07.720 can you fix that hole? You send it to the 1:23:07.760 --> 1:23:09.719 wrong person. Yeah, you know what I was thinking about 1:23:09.800 --> 1:23:12.439 this morning too, And this is so random. I was thinking. 1:23:12.479 --> 1:23:15.280 I was thinking about the last deal with LVM MAT 1:23:15.320 --> 1:23:17.080 and I was thinking about how George Clooney gave all 1:23:17.160 --> 1:23:19.280 his close friends a million dollars. I'm like, I wonder 1:23:19.320 --> 1:23:21.479 if Jay does stuff like that. Probably does that all 1:23:21.520 --> 1:23:24.040 the time. This, here's a million for you, Emory, here's 1:23:24.040 --> 1:23:29.200 a million for you, TA for you. Be high. But 1:23:29.320 --> 1:23:32.639 those are not just his friends they worked also, Yeah, 1:23:32.840 --> 1:23:35.000 and they also work with him. George Clooneys was just 1:23:35.040 --> 1:23:37.080 like his boys from school, you know, but those are 1:23:37.120 --> 1:23:39.080 boys from school. He gave his boys from school jobs 1:23:39.080 --> 1:23:41.400 and they didn't go to school. But I'm just saying 1:23:41.439 --> 1:23:43.760 they also work with him, so they're kind of went 1:23:43.800 --> 1:23:45.880 to the school. A hard knock shot. Yeah, they didn't 1:23:45.880 --> 1:23:47.680 go to school. Come on all right, now, the real 1:23:47.720 --> 1:23:50.559 house is Atlanta. According to the Jasmine Brand is looking 1:23:50.640 --> 1:23:54.000 to cast a female comedian in Atlanta, so they've been 1:23:54.000 --> 1:23:56.519 putting out some fillers to see who might potentially be 1:23:56.640 --> 1:23:58.439 a good fit. They haven't made a decision yet about 1:23:58.439 --> 1:24:01.519 who's returning for the upcoming scene. But I also saw 1:24:01.680 --> 1:24:04.840 that my girl Jasmine Brand didn't exclusive with Kenya Moore 1:24:05.200 --> 1:24:07.840 about whether or not she broke girl code for accusing 1:24:08.560 --> 1:24:10.280 one of the women to have hooked up with a 1:24:10.400 --> 1:24:13.680 male stripper at Cynthia Billy's bachelorette party. We sell the 1:24:13.800 --> 1:24:16.560 video footage now and here's what she said. Do you 1:24:16.680 --> 1:24:19.280 think you broke girl colde? No, I don't think I 1:24:19.360 --> 1:24:22.799 broke girl code because that implies that I am somehow 1:24:23.040 --> 1:24:27.160 snaching on my friends and we already know who the 1:24:27.280 --> 1:24:31.200 people are involved, and Portrait clearly said I'm not her friend. 1:24:31.560 --> 1:24:34.360 So a girl called if I'm not your girl? No, 1:24:34.640 --> 1:24:38.599 she broke girl code. Vy was so into this, That's 1:24:38.640 --> 1:24:41.519 why I was like, So, if you don't know what happened, 1:24:41.520 --> 1:24:44.320 it was a stripper party. They turned the cameras off, 1:24:44.640 --> 1:24:48.120 they made production leave, they covered the cameras. Whatever happened 1:24:48.160 --> 1:24:50.160 after that is whatever happens after that. You're not supposed 1:24:50.160 --> 1:24:51.479 to tell that the same thing as god code. We 1:24:51.520 --> 1:24:53.800 all go to a strip club, right and everybody in 1:24:54.320 --> 1:24:57.160 the cameras leave and everything, and your man does something crazy, 1:24:57.280 --> 1:25:00.439 you tell them, girl go come on. It sounds like 1:25:00.560 --> 1:25:03.680 dumb coode and I break dumb code. It's stupid enough 1:25:04.000 --> 1:25:06.360 to go to a bachelor party knowing you getting married 1:25:06.400 --> 1:25:08.640 and you do something and somebody tells and you do 1:25:08.760 --> 1:25:10.639 something in front of all these people, but the person 1:25:10.680 --> 1:25:12.760 getting married and do anything. Cynthia didn't do anything. It 1:25:12.760 --> 1:25:14.519 was just somebody else. Yeah, not Cynthia. I thought you 1:25:14.520 --> 1:25:16.679 said about your boys going out. But if your boys 1:25:16.720 --> 1:25:18.240 go to the club, I mean, Charloman and you've been 1:25:18.240 --> 1:25:19.479 to the strip club with one of your peoples, did 1:25:19.560 --> 1:25:21.280 something stupid you just laugh about it. You keep it 1:25:21.320 --> 1:25:23.000 in your group chatting. That's it. You don't go tell 1:25:23.040 --> 1:25:24.640 the world. I don't know nothing. I don't know what 1:25:24.680 --> 1:25:28.479 you're talking about. Spluf I. The cameras were rolling. Nah, 1:25:28.560 --> 1:25:32.080 they turn the cameras off. I saw some video footage. 1:25:32.280 --> 1:25:33.960 Now they turned the cameras off. And it was supposed 1:25:33.960 --> 1:25:37.000 to be just the girls, girls, girls, Relax, it's not 1:25:37.120 --> 1:25:40.120 that serious. Sorry, I'm sorry, don't know what. There's definitely 1:25:40.200 --> 1:25:43.760 some footage out there. Nay, they turned the cameras off. 1:25:44.040 --> 1:25:45.439 You don't let that bitch talk to you like that. 1:25:45.640 --> 1:25:48.519 You what you just call them? Now? Listen, listen. You 1:25:48.800 --> 1:25:51.320 know more about the Bachelor, sir. But if you look 1:25:51.400 --> 1:25:53.720 on the jazz band, you can see video footage of 1:25:54.040 --> 1:25:55.680 and you know you're in a placement this. Can you 1:25:55.720 --> 1:25:58.720 have mics on? Come on? They cut the cameras off. 1:25:58.800 --> 1:26:01.600 The cameras supposed to be cut off. Supposed to be 1:26:03.640 --> 1:26:07.000 chatty horn. Ralph Lauren has launched a new clothing rental service, 1:26:07.200 --> 1:26:09.800 and that's for Lauren Ralph Lauren. So it's kind of 1:26:09.840 --> 1:26:12.639 like rent the Runaway where you pay a monthly membership 1:26:12.680 --> 1:26:16.080 and then you can get unlimited swaps and complimentary shipping. 1:26:16.120 --> 1:26:18.200 So if you want to just rent some clothes, you 1:26:18.280 --> 1:26:20.200 have this monthly membership fee and then you can just 1:26:20.800 --> 1:26:23.360 pick whatever you want from these six hundred different pieces 1:26:23.479 --> 1:26:25.840 and then send it back get something new. And then 1:26:26.360 --> 1:26:29.240 once you use something like a few times, they retire 1:26:29.280 --> 1:26:31.639 it and they actually donate them to Delivering Good, which 1:26:31.680 --> 1:26:34.640 is a nonprofit benefiting at risk families and children. I 1:26:34.680 --> 1:26:36.679 mean it's smart because you know, he know the screechs 1:26:36.680 --> 1:26:39.120 about to open back up this summer. You know, people, 1:26:39.360 --> 1:26:40.960 people money, a little lord, he might need to rent 1:26:40.960 --> 1:26:42.519 a little outfit to be out here in these streets 1:26:42.520 --> 1:26:46.679 for the summer. All right, Well that is your rumor report. 1:26:47.240 --> 1:26:50.000 All right, well let's get to the mix Revolt. We'll 1:26:50.000 --> 1:26:52.360 see you tomorrow. Everybody else, let's go. I saw some 1:26:52.520 --> 1:26:54.560 video footage now they turned the cameras off and it 1:26:54.600 --> 1:26:58.120 was supposed to be rebody is j Envy, Angela Yee 1:26:58.240 --> 1:27:00.719 Charlowe the guy we all to Breakfast? Club is Women's 1:27:00.760 --> 1:27:02.479 History Month. With what we doing you? Well, today we 1:27:02.520 --> 1:27:05.240 are celebrating Clarissa Shields. You know she has an MMA 1:27:05.360 --> 1:27:07.960 fight coming up this summer, but tomorrow she will be fighting. 1:27:08.040 --> 1:27:09.519 She's been trying to get a fight for a while. 1:27:09.640 --> 1:27:12.240 Like I said, she's ten and oh and she is 1:27:12.840 --> 1:27:15.760 the fastest boxer in history to win titles in three 1:27:15.840 --> 1:27:18.600 weight divisions. But for some reason, people weren't trying to 1:27:18.640 --> 1:27:21.799 show her fight. Well, now she's headlining in all women's 1:27:21.800 --> 1:27:24.160 pay per view on Fight TV and that's going to 1:27:24.240 --> 1:27:27.200 be tomorrow. It's called Superwoman because she was tired of 1:27:27.240 --> 1:27:29.680 waiting for people who are the powers that be in 1:27:29.800 --> 1:27:32.240 boxing to come around to her way of thinking. Here 1:27:32.400 --> 1:27:38.120 is Clarissa Shields. Girls. It's Women's History Month, and we're 1:27:38.120 --> 1:27:40.760 celebrating the most influential women in his check out this 1:27:40.840 --> 1:27:46.160 phenomenal woman. When we're talking about the minute around, women 1:27:46.240 --> 1:27:48.840 boxing didn't put those rules down for us to fight 1:27:48.920 --> 1:27:51.559 two minutes. The men did that so and I feel 1:27:51.600 --> 1:27:53.840 like they did that to keep us at our pay 1:27:53.880 --> 1:27:55.559 wages to where we don't make as much of them 1:27:55.600 --> 1:27:57.800 because we don't fight the same time. So what I'm 1:27:57.800 --> 1:27:59.720 saying is not that we're not worth the same thing, 1:28:00.479 --> 1:28:02.840 but we are willing to fight three minute rounds for 1:28:03.000 --> 1:28:06.960 twelve for twelve rounds to even the playing field to 1:28:07.000 --> 1:28:09.360 where when we say we want equal pay for also 1:28:09.439 --> 1:28:11.160 putting in an equal work. I just don't think that 1:28:11.240 --> 1:28:14.000 two minutes is enough. And that's where they look at 1:28:14.040 --> 1:28:15.960 the lack of women's boxing and say, oh yeah, like 1:28:16.160 --> 1:28:18.040 y're they're boxing, but they're not as great as than men, 1:28:18.080 --> 1:28:19.640 and we are as great as than men. I know 1:28:19.800 --> 1:28:22.160 for a fact that I am. Women's boxing is on 1:28:22.280 --> 1:28:25.599 the forefront, you know, like we're not in the shadows anymore. 1:28:25.640 --> 1:28:27.439 We need to have our faith out there to where 1:28:27.800 --> 1:28:29.960 people can, like, like the young girls can see like 1:28:30.040 --> 1:28:37.760 we have things coming up. And that was another phenomenal 1:28:37.800 --> 1:28:40.720 woman in history. All right, but let's make sure we 1:28:40.840 --> 1:28:43.000 all purchased that pay per view tomorrow night and show 1:28:43.080 --> 1:28:45.880 some love and support for Clarissa Shields. At just twenty 1:28:45.920 --> 1:28:50.160 five years old, she is already legendary. All right. Shout 1:28:50.160 --> 1:28:52.200 out to Clarissa Shields. Now when we come back, we 1:28:52.280 --> 1:28:54.360 got the positive notes. Don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. 1:28:54.439 --> 1:29:00.920 Good morning. I'm wanting everybody is Stej and v Angela, yee, 1:29:01.040 --> 1:29:04.200 Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club now, um, 1:29:04.680 --> 1:29:07.439 shout to everybody that's heading out to Atlanta this weekend. 1:29:07.479 --> 1:29:09.400 I'm gonna be out there for all stars. I'm gonna 1:29:09.400 --> 1:29:11.439 be all over the place. Shout out to my family 1:29:11.479 --> 1:29:13.920 at b QE, which is probably one of my favorite 1:29:13.960 --> 1:29:18.200 restaurants out there. Um also shout to Monticello. Shouting to 1:29:18.360 --> 1:29:20.640 Sweet and Slush Louns. I'm gonna be all over the 1:29:20.680 --> 1:29:22.479 city and Rose Bar, so hopefully I get to see 1:29:22.520 --> 1:29:26.160 some of you guys socially distancing of course, I said, yeah, 1:29:26.200 --> 1:29:29.800 boy opened a restaurant toast on Lennox. Oh, Chef Harper, Yeah, 1:29:29.920 --> 1:29:31.639 shout to Chef Harper. He's probably one of the most 1:29:31.680 --> 1:29:34.960 amazing chefs that I've I've ever you know, any restaurant 1:29:34.960 --> 1:29:37.160 that I've ever ate at. He started b Que, then 1:29:37.200 --> 1:29:40.280 he started Rock Coop Cuisines, and now he's doing his 1:29:40.360 --> 1:29:42.400 own restaurant. He's just a dope chef. He puts together 1:29:42.560 --> 1:29:46.040 amazing menu. So shout to us Chef Harper, and flew 1:29:46.080 --> 1:29:48.400 to my guy Kobe Man. Kobe gonna be hosting like 1:29:48.520 --> 1:29:52.719 every single party in atlanted this weekend. Yeah, Kobe, Kobe, 1:29:53.040 --> 1:29:55.200 Young Kobe, he gonna be at every single event. You 1:29:55.240 --> 1:29:57.360 know what I'm saying. He's only nineteen, so he can't drink, 1:29:57.720 --> 1:29:59.439 but you know he's gonna be up in there with 1:29:59.560 --> 1:30:01.439 your or you know, they said that the Super Bowl 1:30:01.600 --> 1:30:04.599 wasn't a super spreader like everybody said it was going 1:30:04.680 --> 1:30:06.560 to be. It wasn't a super spreader at all. So 1:30:06.680 --> 1:30:09.120 hopefully this would be the same in Atlanta. Kobe was there. 1:30:09.280 --> 1:30:11.400 Hopefully Kobe was in the Super Bowl too. Kobe be 1:30:11.439 --> 1:30:13.439 all over the place. Don't don't, don't get it twisted. 1:30:13.479 --> 1:30:17.080 The only nineteen, but his mind is old. Okay, well 1:30:17.120 --> 1:30:19.120 I just have to along those lines. I also let 1:30:19.120 --> 1:30:21.519 you guys know, the Black Coalition Against COVID nineteen is 1:30:21.560 --> 1:30:24.879 hosting another making a Plaintown Hall tonight that's a seven Eastern, 1:30:25.360 --> 1:30:27.920 So they're gonna have expert panel discussions on protecting the 1:30:27.960 --> 1:30:30.840 lives of our Black community elders from COVID because, as 1:30:30.880 --> 1:30:33.000 you know, our elders are the pillars of our communities 1:30:33.040 --> 1:30:35.400 and protecting them is our priorities. So they'll be panelists 1:30:35.400 --> 1:30:38.519 like doctor Lestean McIvor from the Centers from from Medicare 1:30:38.560 --> 1:30:41.120 and Medicaid Services, and doctor Amanda Cone from the CDC. 1:30:41.680 --> 1:30:45.360 So tonight's event is dedicated to people working in aging services. 1:30:45.439 --> 1:30:48.479 You can tune in at seven pm Eastern on Facebook 1:30:48.520 --> 1:30:51.640 dot com, forward slash Black Doctor dot org, or you 1:30:51.680 --> 1:30:54.400 can go to YouTube dot com forwards Last Black Doctor Org. 1:30:54.760 --> 1:30:57.040 All right, now you got a positive note. I do 1:30:57.240 --> 1:30:59.840 man the positive note. During Donkey today, I was talking 1:31:00.160 --> 1:31:04.000 self correction. Just know that self correction makes you check 1:31:04.120 --> 1:31:06.720 the rules of your life against the yardstick of your 1:31:06.760 --> 1:31:09.720 inner voice. Okay, when you acknowledge when you don't measure up. 1:31:09.920 --> 1:31:12.960 Self correction is an ongoing process. If done often enough, 1:31:13.280 --> 1:31:17.479 it can stop yourself from screen off your path. Breakfast club, 1:31:18.320 --> 1:31:19.439 y'all finish or y'all done.