1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to share my 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: vacation home with my in laws for six months after 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: they sold their house? Six months of having your in 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: laws six months? Do you want your in laws here 5 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: for six months? 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: No? What do you guys want your in laws for? 7 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: Sixty six Months's a while, dude, That's that's a pretty 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 2: long time. 9 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: That's I mean, are they paying rent? I don't know, 10 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: but this is actually this comes from Mountain Cash fifty 11 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: eight to fifty. My husband, thirty five male, and I 12 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: thirty three female, have been married for five years. We 13 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: own a beautiful vacation home on the beach that we 14 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 1: built ourselves and used throughout the year. My in laws 15 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: sixties have always been welcome guests, visiting for a few 16 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: weeks here and there, and contributing financially towards maintenance costs. 17 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 1: So they're contributing. The in laws are contributing to I 18 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: mean cost good. 19 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: That's a good thing to know. 20 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, last month, my in laws suddenly announced they 21 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: were selling their house to downsize and move into a 22 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: tiny condo. Apparently they've been secretly harboring this idea for months, 23 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 1: never mentioning to me or my husband they plan to 24 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: close on the sale in two weeks and then move 25 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: into our vacation home for six months while they figure 26 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: things out. All right, so far, what do you think? 27 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 2: So basically we have the two homes two homes right, 28 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 2: both owned by op basically, but the in laws are 29 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: paying for maintenance. The maintenance of the vacation home. Well, 30 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: I mean while renovations I guess could be in tens 31 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 2: of thousands of dollars. I mean that is rent for 32 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 2: six months. Man, I'm really I'm really going back and forth. 33 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: Here are they are they pay? Are they paying? They're paying? 34 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: Are they paying? They're paying? And let's let's say it's 35 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: a couple tens of thousands of dollars, was it? 36 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: They say maintenance, Well, they they're paying for maintenance, but 37 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: they don't they're not saying they're necessarily paying ope, any 38 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: kind of rent. They're going to move into there for 39 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: a couple of months or six months while they figure things. 40 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: I was saying, if they're paying tens of thousands of 41 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: dollars for maintenance slash renovations, that essentially is kind of 42 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: like an Yeah, I don't like rent, like what they 43 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 2: would be charging. So would you do it. Would you 44 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: let them? I mean, would you like probably would I 45 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 2: would probably roll over. 46 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: And breaking John always what would you guys do? Would 47 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: you guys roll over? I feel like if it's a 48 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: vacation home, I'm fine with it. It was my home home, 49 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: that might be too much. 50 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, but didn't they say they were living 51 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: there at the vacation home at the time. No, oh, oh, okay, 52 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I thought they were in the vacation 53 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: home now and they're oh, yeah, let them live in 54 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 2: the vacation. 55 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 1: We own a beautiful vacation home on the beach that 56 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: we built ourselves and used throughout the year, So they 57 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: use it throughout the year, used throughout that it's not 58 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: it's they don't live in it. 59 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 2: I completely switch they They should totally let them stay there, 60 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 2: especially if they're paying maintence, especially if they're paying maintenance. 61 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 2: I think even without the maintenance fees. Like, as long 62 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 2: again as we're assuming they're like good parents and in laws, 63 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: then yes. 64 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well let's keep going and see what 65 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: actually happened. So I was fored this house is our sanctuary, 66 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: not a retirement home. 67 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: Extens down to fee. That's pretty rough. 68 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: We use it frequently, have friends and family booked to 69 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: visit throughout the year, and rely on the income it 70 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: generates during keeek season. That is okay if you rely 71 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: on the income, right, But maybe you can work out 72 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: something with the parents where they pay a little bit. 73 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, how big is education is? 74 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: So I don't know. Probably, I don't know. I'm imagining big. 75 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: My in laws, on the other hand, haven't lifted a 76 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: finger on the property themselves and contributed minimally. Okay, My husband, 77 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: bless his sweetheart, is for understanding. He feels bad for 78 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: his parents and believes we can make it work. His 79 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: in laws, sensing my resistance, are now guilt tripping us, 80 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: claiming they have nowhere else to go, and offering to 81 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: pay significantly more than their usual contribution. 82 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: That seems like. 83 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: Okay, now we're now we're talking. I am by the 84 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: ale for refusing to let them move in. On one hand, 85 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: I feel obligated help family need. But on the other 86 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: this feels like an outrageous imposition on our personal space 87 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: and finances. And there are some relevant comments and some updates, 88 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: But what do you guys think? Put your answer to 89 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: the comments a whole or not The a whole, that's right, 90 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: what do you think? 91 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: So? Also, this is Op's in laws, right, not Opie's parents, 92 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 2: this is Ope's in laws. Yeah. I think I think 93 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: Op's being the a hole right here, Like you're not 94 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: living in this place. There's maintenance. I don't know, especially 95 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: now that they're offering to pay more to kind of 96 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: like make up for it. I think that they should 97 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: do it. I don't know the exact specifics. How much 98 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: are they depending on. 99 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: This If it's going to break the bank or like 100 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: they're going to be financially unstable, then then don't do that. 101 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: Doesn't make sense if that's like their business, right, like, oh, 102 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 2: we've like built this in the airbnb. Yeah. But the 103 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: fact that they called it the vacation. 104 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: House, dude, they got they got some if they said, 105 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,799 Speaker 1: oh god, because then they would say our rental property. 106 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 2: That to me, because they didn't say rental property, that 107 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 2: means they don't need to rely on it and they're 108 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 2: not like doing that as their main form of income. 109 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 2: They just get It's just like I feel like OPI 110 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 2: is over exaggerate, like, oh, the contribution is just so 111 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 2: miniculean minuscule, Oh my god, we rely on that money. 112 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: It goes into a bank account. It's like, bro, you 113 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 2: just get money and they don't pay as much as 114 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: you like. That's dude. 115 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I would say let them live there, but 116 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: like charge them red. 117 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, they offered. 118 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: That's a good that's a good thing. That seems like 119 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: a sweet deal. We're reaching a good place. 120 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's only six months. And it's only six months. 121 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 2: Low key. They might like like Airbnb usually make more, 122 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: but it's more like volatile, so it's like less secure. 123 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 2: They probably will like just have more security exactly exactly. 124 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: Come on, but before we go in, well, we'll read 125 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: some of the comments. So Evana Bonkova says, of course, 126 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 1: Opie is the a hole. The Raven says it's so 127 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: hard to get family out once they are in. 128 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: That's a good that's a good point. So maybe a 129 00:05:58,680 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: good point, Raven. 130 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: I imagine a hotel doing that, saying three sixty nine. 131 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: Giselle Sandoval says, I think this is fair. They should 132 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: have asked first. 133 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 134 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: Scarlet Wood says, yeah, ohp sounds pretty rich. Hard to 135 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: sympathize with them. Mikela Roussove nine to six five says 136 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,559 Speaker 1: they will never leave that's yeah, that is that is what. Yeah, 137 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: the possibility of them just staying forever, because does six 138 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: months turn into a year totally? 139 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: You know, and what are you gonna do? A victor 140 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 2: your parents, a victory in laws, Like that's crazy. I mean, 141 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: it happens. We've had many stories. But like, if you 142 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 2: have a healthy relationship, I know it would be it 143 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: would be pretty rough. It would be pretty like maybe 144 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: maybe just say, hey, we're happy for you to live 145 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 2: here for like six months, but we're signing a lease 146 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 2: and we're gonna have other tenants come in afterwards or something, 147 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 2: so like they have to leave, like so there is 148 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 2: a deadline. I mean even just a lease in general, 149 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: I feel like a lease is like, well, we'll write 150 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 2: a police and like we'll get it all. 151 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, like squared away, squared away. I feel like that's 152 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: pretty you know. I don't let us know what you 153 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: would do. Put your hands in the comments, Janelle says, 154 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:06,119 Speaker 1: sign a contract. And also to anyone who was asking, yes, 155 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: this is a Harry Potter lego set, and someone said, oh, yeah, 156 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: I know John built those, but this. 157 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: Is mine mine. 158 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: I expect blood, sweat tears on this lego set I'm 159 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: a lego nerd Harry Potter, and I'm not a nerd. 160 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 2: I just kidding. 161 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're both little nerdy. Are you ready to get 162 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: into the rest of the story. Let's do it all right, 163 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: So relevant comments more on relationship with in laws. So 164 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: my relationship with them is strained because this is not 165 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: the first time they have grossly overstepped hmmm. This has 166 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: led many a fight between my husband and me. My 167 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: husband sees no wrong in their behavior and thinks we 168 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: should just help them. I mean, but I obviously if 169 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: they're his parents, you know he's going to think that more. 170 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. So, And like, I don't know if they've done 171 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 2: anything wrong yet. Yeah, we'll see. 172 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: Every time they're at the vacation home, they've commented on 173 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: how much they love it and would love to live 174 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:10,239 Speaker 1: in this place when they retire at retirement. That gives 175 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: more credibility. That gives more credibility to saying they're never 176 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: gonna leave. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah tough. So I feel 177 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: this was a very intentional move on their part. Not 178 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: letting them stay will create conflict in my marriage. But 179 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: I'm pretty positive that they will never leave if we 180 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: let them move in. Someone else asks what else have 181 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: they done? On our first marriage anniversary, they gifted us 182 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: at chicken. Nice we lived in an apartment at the time. 183 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: That's such a fun live chicken. 184 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 2: I thought it was like a chicken roast, like, hey, 185 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 2: the live chicken. Oh my god, that's kind of lit though. 186 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, as a real fans of the podcast will know, 187 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 1: I raised a baby duck into adulthood when I lived 188 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 1: in Australia. One of the great joys of my young 189 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: adulthood is raising. 190 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 2: That as and as many fans know, I brutally murdered 191 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: a chicken. 192 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, they did opposite opposite size of his size. See 193 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: John is the evil murder one and I am the 194 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: loving nurturing one of the podcast. On Valentine's Day the 195 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: second year, they showed up at our house mid afternoon 196 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: because they thought it would be special to spend the 197 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: night with us. 198 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 2: What every Valentine's Day needs. 199 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, wait, John, how would you feel if 200 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 3: I like just hopped into your and Naima's like Valentine's 201 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 3: Days coming up, I just like hung out with you guys, 202 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 3: stayed at your place for the night, you know all 203 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: that stuff. 204 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: I would be like Riley I love you so much, 205 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: You're my Valentine. But this is not our Valentine's state. 206 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 2: What what? What are your plans for Valentine's stage And 207 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 2: we are working on it right now, we actually are. 208 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 2: We're looking at a couple places to book with our 209 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 2: like yearly credit that we get yearly credit. What's what 210 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: do you mean non sponsor named card that you have baby? Oh? 211 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 2: Exactly redacted sponsor that's sick. That's sick. So is Riley 212 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 2: going to help you out with that? Not at all? Hey? Oh. 213 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: On the birth of our daughter, my mother in law 214 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: refused to leave the livery room until I had the 215 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 1: nurse drag her out, and then she sobbed obnoxiously allowed 216 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: in the hallway outside of the room. 217 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 218 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: When COVID happened, she ordered us cases and cases of 219 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: beans and other canned food to help us prep for 220 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: the apocalypse, and then set us a bill. 221 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 2: So rob d I mean she got she got them beans. 222 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 2: You know what if they ran out beans a free Yeah, exactly, 223 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 2: it's expensive. 224 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: My mother in law demands all holidays with them and 225 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: shows up unannounced to my parents, who are four hours away. 226 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: Each holiday we spend with them, and forces us out 227 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,959 Speaker 1: of my bedroom and we sleep on the pullout sofa 228 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 1: the whole visit. 229 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, they're just getting worse and worse. 230 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: Wow, they really encroached, I can understand. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 231 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: this is this is not good. Has this at all 232 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: changed your opinion? Because so I saw some people saying 233 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: that OPI was the a hole initially, So especially people 234 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: that said OPI was the A hole, have you changed 235 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: your mind? My mother in law demanded my husband go 236 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: to her house last year to fix something on our 237 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: daughter's birthday and then kept him there till after the 238 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: birthday party was over, and then had a birthday party 239 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: she planned for my daughter at her house the next day. 240 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: Wait did you did you get that? No? 241 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: Okay, So my mother in law demanded my husband go 242 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: to her house last year to fix something on our 243 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: daughter's birthday. So, hey, I know it's your daughter's birthday, 244 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,079 Speaker 1: but my lamp doesn't turn on for. 245 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 2: The op's celebration for her daughter. Yes, right, yeah. 246 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 1: And then kept him there till after the birthday party 247 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: was over, and then had a birthday party she planned 248 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: for my daughter at her house the next day. 249 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 2: So that to me is basically like you do not 250 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 2: celebrate my granddaughters with me. I do it. I do it. 251 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: I do it by way with lamps that work. Wow. 252 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: Our second daughter's birth was similar, when she sobbed and 253 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: instantly FaceTime my husband since I refuse to let her 254 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: in my delivery room, Honey, can you go over and 255 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: take a video of her crowned and get a better shot? 256 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 2: I want a leg I need to see. 257 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: She sent a mixed nuts package to my parents at 258 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: Christmas this last year, knowing my dad is deathly allergic 259 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: to tree nuts. 260 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 2: I could go on and on and on, and. 261 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: This post does go on and on because we have 262 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 1: a juicy, juicy update two days later from the original post. Wow, 263 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: but I want to know. Do you think OPI is 264 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: the A hole? So Giselle Sandoval says, Opie deaf not 265 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: the a hole. My mind has totally changed my mind too. 266 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: Imagine John's as well. 267 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: Same. 268 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 1: Kim Quant says this lady is so controlling. Dang straight 269 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 1: she is, Yeah, super controlling lady. H says I really 270 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: want to know if John still thinks that don't fly. 271 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 2: Of course they don't. Of course the duck ducks don't fly. 272 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 1: Sky Neckle says this mother in law is psychotic. Well, 273 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: Janelle says, have them sign a contract. Fawn says, that's 274 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 1: not what I expected Riley to look like. That is 275 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 1: what he looks like. Riley put you in the middle 276 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: of Oh yeah, let's get ok that's smolder. 277 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. 278 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: Natalie Melancon says, what the heck lady needs to go 279 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: somewhere else. That's stepping on boundaries. Dang straight. And then 280 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: Lily Ortiz says, not the a whole. Yeah, I'm kind 281 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: of on not the a hole side. But let's see 282 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: if this new update changes anyone's mind. We'll give a 283 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: quick update while I wait for the kids to get 284 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: from school and answer a few questions to stop pop up. 285 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 1: So we co own the beach house with whom? Is 286 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 1: it with the parent? 287 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 2: It can't be. Don't tell me. 288 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: Don't tell because that might change it again. You're right, 289 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 1: don't tell me. We bought it in twenty twenty when 290 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: interest rates were super low, before houses skyrocketing. Okay, the 291 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: in laws have helped us with projects and pay for 292 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: a few things, but so do my parents. Okay, so 293 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: we have never thought of their contribution as anything but 294 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 1: help from parents. They had their annual old Farts Christmas 295 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 1: party there were It's not Mine there this past December, 296 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: and had the place for a week free of charge 297 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: for them and all their guests. So they definitely have 298 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: gotten plenty of use out of it. Okay, so it 299 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: seems like it's kind of co owned between the whole family. 300 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 2: Well, like people have paid money into it, but it doesn't. 301 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: We're at least not hearing any like actual like legitimate 302 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: documentation of Like I know. 303 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: We don't have a legitimate documentation, but we do have 304 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: like like I don't know, illegitimate money put in. 305 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 2: That sounds weird, but. 306 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: Like like there is a paper trail. 307 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 2: They're not buying equity in the home. No, no, no, it 308 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 2: doesn't seem like actual co owners. 309 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: So we had a come to Jesus moment yesterday and 310 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: I was the asshole to my husband. I told them 311 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: I was done and I wasn't even entertaining them staying 312 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: there as it's our business and this is bad business. 313 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: I basically told them I was over his mom. And 314 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 1: it was at this point, I'm about to peace out 315 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: because I can't handle her shit anymore. Previous to this, 316 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: I was no contact with her and would entertain them 317 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: when they come for a visit. They never stayed at 318 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: their house as we live relatively close to them. He 319 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: still has no clue if they're truly selling their house, 320 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: if they're up, if they're upside on bills, or they're 321 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: just assholes, But I honestly don't care. My parents are 322 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: immigrant and own a restaurant and have worked their asses 323 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: off to create a fantastic life for me and my siblings. 324 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 1: They also taught us the value of money and working 325 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: hard for the things we have. The vacation home was 326 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: bought cheap, but ninety percent of the renovations were done 327 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: by me during my free time. Renovations are my true love, 328 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 1: not my husband. I guess nursing pays the bills. I 329 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: love it too, but it doesn't fill the creative cup. 330 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: I told him he'd lose the house to his parents 331 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: over my dead body, and if he feels the need 332 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: to financial set them up, he can do so with 333 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 1: extra money he earns from picking up shifts also a nurse. Basically, 334 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 1: I told him their failure was not an emergency on 335 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: my parts. They've always kept up the joneses and spent exorbitantly, 336 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: so they might be broke, and again I don't care. 337 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: I barely tolerate his mom for the past few years. 338 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: I'll be cordial because I was raised well, but I'm 339 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: not tolerating their nonsense. 340 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 2: There we go. 341 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: I will say, he does see all this trap she pulls, 342 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: but he was raised that mom knows best. He's Puerto Rican, 343 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: so this is partially cultural. And he put Ricans in 344 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: the chat. Is that true? 345 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 2: I'm done. 346 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: I worked yesterday and busted my ass and then drove 347 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: the kids to the beach house last night and picked 348 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: up dinner, and we are there and I just thought, 349 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: f no holding down the fort. So time will tell. 350 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: But he called his parents and on speakerphone told them 351 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: they couldn't stay. But the offer to the condo hunt 352 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: is still open, but he needs to know the price 353 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: range and all that jazz. His mom cried and I 354 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: flipped the phone off. That's at this moment, it's not happening. 355 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: I also told him if it's a problem, he can 356 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: quit claim. He can quit claim deed the beach house, 357 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: and I'll cover the expense and manage it myself because 358 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 1: Mama don't play. 359 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: Oie's energy is amazing y, just like I am around done, 360 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 2: was done? OPI was done? Wow? I don't know. 361 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: So what do you think did op he make the 362 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 1: right move with these parents? 363 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so now that we got all the 364 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 2: context on how insane they are. Yes, do not let 365 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 2: them in because they'll probably pull some crazy crap. It 366 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 2: sounds like the mother in law specifically is the one 367 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 2: that's like pulling the craft, pulling the crap. So yeah, 368 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 2: don't let them in. And and like you said, like, hey, 369 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 2: let's offer, hey, you know, husband, offer to help pay 370 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 2: rent for them if they need help on rent, Like 371 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 2: there's there's other ways to accomplish the goal, but it 372 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 2: seems like they just want the the vacation house. Yeah, 373 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 2: so it's like, we won't give you that because you 374 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: haven't you know, paid for Although they should have denied 375 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 2: them to help pay to avoid the situation, denied them 376 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: too because they were like, hey, hey, we'll help pitch 377 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 2: in for maintenance and all this stuff, and it's like no, we. 378 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: Right, because that gave them entail aim right because they 379 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: feel ownership exactly. Yeah, they shouldn't have taken the money because. 380 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 2: That's where it's awkward, where they're like, well, they have 381 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 2: actually contributed money to it. I wonder if they just 382 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 2: give them money back. I almost like buy them out. 383 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: Oh if they buy them out of the property and 384 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 1: say like, hey, we wanted to like reimburse you because 385 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: give that got it. 386 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Over the next year, We're we're gonna help you 387 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: out with your housing situation. Over the next year, we're 388 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 2: going to take some of the revenue and pay you 389 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,400 Speaker 2: back one hundred percent of what. 390 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: You've given us, and maybe even with interest. 391 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,239 Speaker 2: Maybe even with interest. And then and then husband is 392 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 2: going to you know, pick up some extra shifts and 393 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 2: then help your rent's probably covered at that point or like, 394 00:18:58,160 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 2: you know, getting we're getting there. 395 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but definitely a tricky situation that they have financially contributed. 396 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: I think that's what makes it a little wonky. But 397 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 1: Angel Angelica Gallan says, give them back their money. 398 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: Garbage. 399 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: GM says, I'm also a Mexican, but my old manager 400 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 1: was married to a Puerto Rican and it was very 401 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: similar culture wise. Amy twelve says nobody nobody, no no, yeah, no, 402 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 1: no no. 403 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 2: But you know what I always say yes to? What 404 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 2: do you say yes to? 405 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: I say guests to. This next story's also before we 406 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: get into this This Whole Live is going to go 407 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: private after the stream is done, So if you want 408 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: this Whole Live to be accessible to you, make sure 409 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: to support us on our membership feed on YouTube because 410 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: that that helps help the show keep running. But also 411 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: all these episodes will be live eventually. If you just 412 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: want the raw, uncut version and want it now, you 413 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 1: can go support our memberships. But eventually all these episodes 414 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: will be live. 415 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 2: Check it out, ladies and gentlemen. Let's get into this. 416 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for streaming on OnlyFans kick 417 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 2: and twitch while my son is being teased at school? 418 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 3: Yikes, this is okay o. 419 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 2: Yep, yep. And this is okayop living up to its 420 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 2: name because you read the craziest true stories. 421 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's saying a lot of roads or 422 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: someone Sam. 423 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 2: This is Choice Evidence nineteen eighty three. 424 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: Oh okay, goodness, okay that that oh man, like. 425 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:31,239 Speaker 2: Gut take what do we do? 426 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: What if it could be her? Her livelihood? You know, 427 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 1: only fans, only fans. It makes money, move schools because 428 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: it's already live. 429 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: People already know. So even if you stop, it's not 430 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 2: gonna it's not gonna stop these kids. 431 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, just move dude, just embrace it. Say yeah, my 432 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 1: mom does that? Your mom felt? 433 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 2: Got it like that? Why are you shaming sex workers? Yeah? 434 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 1: Bam boom, Mike drop, dude, Mike drop. Also, someone asks 435 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: where we go they can get this heady go to 436 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: Okay dot show if you want to support the merch job. 437 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: I think we only have a couple of days left. 438 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 2: That's right. Time is running out, y'all, just like it's 439 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 2: running out to when I start reading this three two one. 440 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: I am a single mom. I've been using platforms like 441 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 2: only fans, Kick and Twitch for income. This work has 442 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: been a major financial support to us, netting way more 443 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 2: than I have ever earned in a job. 444 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, f money crazy. We should say, 445 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: oh f just so we don't get maybe we should. 446 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:34,360 Speaker 1: This is crucial for our living expenses and my son's education. However, 447 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: it's led to an unexpected and troubling issue more. 448 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: Subscribers my son's bread. So is this is this marketing? 449 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 2: Is this marketing? Is this marketing? You know how we 450 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,679 Speaker 2: say like, oh, people plug the book, and people we 451 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 2: should we should totally check if this person we should right? 452 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 2: We should be telling me right? Right? 453 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: If this Reddit user has some some steamy pics. 454 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 2: I think Riley is too excited about this research product. 455 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 2: Oh all right, let's get going. So my son, who 456 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 2: is fourteen, recently opened up about being teased by his 457 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 2: classmates because of my online activities. He shared a painful 458 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 2: incident from last week where he was ridiculed during lunch, 459 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 2: leaving him feeling humiliated and alone. Oh that is so tough. 460 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 2: That is that is tough. 461 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 1: I mean, but again, like, get the whole school subscribed. 462 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: You're getting a free vacation. That's listen, you're got a 463 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,120 Speaker 1: free vacation. Forget free vacation. How about free Harvard? Yeah, free, 464 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: that's what I'm free Harvard, Free Harvard. 465 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 466 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 1: They may make me be making fun now, but they 467 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 1: are literally. 468 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 2: Paying for your Harvard education. And then you write, you 469 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 2: write a book the story of of my life. 470 00:22:56,000 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: Oh oh that's fire, dude, Actually so fire. 471 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 2: Then you become a writer, and then you're chilling. Oh 472 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,640 Speaker 2: that's so fine, I'm saying. Anyways, so good, Oh. 473 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: My goodness, gracious, sant ignacious, holy walk bully. 474 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 2: Well, let's see, As a single parent struggling financially, I 475 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 2: saw it as a way to provide stability in a 476 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 2: comfortable life for us, but now I'm deeply concerned about 477 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 2: its impact on my son's social life and mental health. 478 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:27,360 Speaker 2: I should know that I do not stream naked Oh 479 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:32,160 Speaker 2: it's slightly risque, but I do not create NSFW content. 480 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: Oh so it's safe for schools, safe for schools. 481 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 2: Can't it past the school servers? We got everything past 482 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 2: our school service. But I digress, despite knows, Despite this, 483 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 2: I still earn arout eight times what I used to 484 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: at my last job. What was her last job? 485 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: Let's just say, like like she's making like even like 486 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 1: thirty K. Yeah, like I mean like a low medium wage. Yeah, 487 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 1: like like like let's say thirty K year eight? 488 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 2: Dude, how much is that? 489 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,159 Speaker 1: It's two hundred and forty K. And let's say she 490 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 1: was making fifty too, like four hundred K only Oh 491 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: these girls are making Hey wait, is anyone doing of 492 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 1: in the chat? Has anyone done it before? I would 493 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: love to know your experiences. 494 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 2: Riley and Sam are very curious, No, not that curious. 495 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 2: This is her research for research. Should not just wear 496 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 2: the cat Riley Ley? Right, Look, they're supporting us. We 497 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: can't support our fans, right, Why can't we fansy, why 498 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: can't we support our fans? 499 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: Sam, come on, all right, that's true. Pickled Munchkin says 500 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,640 Speaker 1: I do it for extra income. 501 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 2: Not okof, Oh no, oh no, it's too perfect. 502 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, too genius. 503 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 2: Burning rows, my goodness, gracious, Oh wow. 504 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: Lords Marquez says I have made one k in just 505 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: subscriptions first two weeks. What I used to do it 506 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 1: in made twenty k a month, Isabella to Reno, you're 507 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: joking twenty k a month? 508 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 2: How can you? 509 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: Isabella, tell us more about your experience of how that happened. 510 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 1: That's crazy. Also, in future Lives, we're working on this 511 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: right now, but in future Live yes, I am blushing 512 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 1: Sky Nicholson, But in Future Lives we should totally. We're 513 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna bring people on and interview them, so we'll 514 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: be able to interview you guys on the show. We're 515 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 1: figuring it out, but let us know in the chat. Actually, 516 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: if you would want to be interviewed on the show. 517 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 2: First couple minutes, drop it down. Yeah, shall we get 518 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,199 Speaker 2: back to this crazy story? Boys? Oh my goodness, is 519 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 2: I said my It seems that images of me have 520 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 2: made it to my son's social circle. Yikes. I am 521 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 2: torn between the need to maintain our financial security and 522 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 2: the negative effects in my career is having on my son. 523 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 2: I strive to be a good mother and provider, but 524 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 2: I'm questioning if I'm failing him in other ways? Am 525 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 2: I the ahole for continuing this work despite the emotional 526 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 2: cost it is having to my son? And there are 527 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 2: some relevant comments and updates. 528 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: Okay, I have some thoughts. I want to I want 529 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 1: to know what you guys think, is op the a 530 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: hole or not put your answers in the chat right now? 531 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean, like, one, sex work is 532 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: real work, right, So. 533 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 2: This isn't even sex work, it's risk It's like what's 534 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: burlesque show? 535 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, so your mom's a model? Your mom's a model. 536 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:42,880 Speaker 2: There we go. Yeah. 537 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: Like and also the thing is, even if your mom 538 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: wasn't doing like risk a content on the internet, people 539 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: who have hot moms were just made fun of, even 540 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: like in in just in military school and high school. 541 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 1: Like it's just like you're gonna be You're gonna be 542 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 1: made fun of regardless. And so I mean, like I think, like, 543 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: obviously this is getting fuel for for the kids to 544 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: some jet fuel. But I think maybe just like talk 545 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 1: with your son about ways to navigate the the bullies 546 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: and such. Yeah, I don't, like, I don't know what 547 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:17,439 Speaker 1: would you do. 548 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 2: I was gonna, I was like, okay, do you move schools? 549 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 2: But then the problem is just gonna follow you wherever 550 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 2: you go. 551 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: Also, if you stop, you know, it's the internet. Things 552 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 1: exist forever exactly. 553 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, like like almost there's almost no point in stopping 554 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 2: because again you you will never be able to stomp 555 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 2: it out. 556 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: And you know, kids, yeah, kids shots they're putting in 557 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:37,400 Speaker 1: the group chats, like. 558 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 2: We're talking about whether you're like high school or something 559 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 2: like that game over. 560 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I mean like it's gonna happen regardless. So 561 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: what would you do by do the okay op Patreon 562 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: subscribers have to see you so naked all the. 563 00:27:51,680 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 2: Time that they tastefully risque or whatever. There go. Yeah, 564 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,640 Speaker 2: it's just it's just so I mean, I mean, if 565 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 2: it's me, I'm probably gonna just try to find another 566 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 2: way to make a living. 567 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: And there's just like not only but no, you're you're 568 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: making You're making Isabella money. I'm twenty k of months. 569 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: I'm okay, I'm making twenty k a month. I may 570 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: no p shoes. You're putting food on the table. I'm 571 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: putting food on my as well as your ass. I am, 572 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: I am, I. I am my son's only provider. You're 573 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 1: your son's only provide. I am here to give him 574 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 1: the best. You are blessed to some thick cheeks. My 575 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: cheeks are as big as my bank account and your supple. 576 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,239 Speaker 2: I guess you. Maybe you keep going, but maybe you 577 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 2: do move, move schools and and wow so many Honestly, 578 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 2: someone's trying to start our ROF career. 579 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: Oh Sobrina sire you so much for the donation. If 580 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: you want to donate the help the show, you can 581 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: on YouTube. 582 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 2: If we raise a million dollars, we'll launching no F. 583 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I dare you, I dare I feel like you're 584 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 1: a fun stream thing. If like we hit the we 585 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: probably wouldn't do this. But if we released like like 586 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: a sexy calendar, if we reached like a thousand dollars. 587 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 2: We can do a fun silly like not too you know, 588 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 2: not too risque. John, you're showing you shame. Oh no, 589 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 2: oh god, don't look the shame. The shame. 590 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: You should have to have a talk about bullying. 591 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely sit him down. 592 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and just make him like sick, Teach him how 593 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 1: to fight, teach him how to fight. Yeah, get him 594 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 1: in judo and like and just like also make him 595 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 1: cool as fuck. 596 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 2: Have sick house parties at the giant mansion you buy 597 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 2: and then start uninviting and like icing out all of them. 598 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: Oh dude, become my social hub that everyone wants to 599 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,719 Speaker 1: be invited to. Yes, that's actually low key. 600 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: Give bags with Nintendo switches. Yeah, oh you didn't get 601 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 2: invited because you were bullying, bob. 602 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: Oh oh no, Nintendo switch for you. 603 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 2: Get out of here. It's become the most popular in school. 604 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 2: Buy them. 605 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: Yeah all right, but oh yeah OnlyFans. Takes a page 606 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: from market Flier. Uh yeah, I think Mark Plier like 607 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: released like his nudes after he got like like a 608 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: couple one hundred thousand likes on Oh my gosh, lady, hyeah, 609 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: I may have seen Sam shirtless, so ok o f 610 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: would just rake it in. Oh no, dude, my steamy 611 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: picks are freaking being posted everywhere. It's not sexy calendar 612 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: and it's just John's luscious haires burning grows. That would 613 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: be funny. Let us know if you want a sexy calendar. Yeah, 614 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 1: maybe we can put some kind of like stream goal 615 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: to make that happen for y'all. 616 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 2: My girlfriend will murder me. It's for her, it's for you. 617 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Oh my goodness. Spot guys, what if 618 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 2: she but it's for your lively. You're right, I'm putting 619 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 2: I'm put food on the table for us. I'm putting 620 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 2: food on the table baby. 621 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you like the best Valentine's Day ever. 622 00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 2: That's a great for the money that we're That's a 623 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 2: great pitch when you go and can then and pitch 624 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 2: that to her in convincer. You're doing a great job. 625 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: Here's the hesitation. Oh my goodness, ladies suggest we do 626 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 2: have some relevant comments. 627 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 1: So I totally want to do a sexy calendar. 628 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 2: Now there's definitely some we could do something. We could 629 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 2: do something for sure, mofo dot no, bro, that's great. 630 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 2: What exactly do you mean by slightly risquee all had? 631 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 2: I went to a high school with a kid whose 632 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 2: parents were swingers. They went on MTV. I know I'm 633 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 2: old to go to be on a show about it. 634 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 2: After the show aired, I watched this kid's life turn 635 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 2: into a living hell as the immature d bags at 636 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 2: our school ridiculed him. Oh god, he got into drugs 637 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 2: and become an and became an h addict. He has 638 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 2: passed away from an overdose. Oh my god, MTV literally cooled. 639 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 2: That's insanity. I can't say it definitely wouldn't have happened 640 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 2: if the episode didn't trigger massive bullying. But it didn't 641 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 2: help for sure. Somebody replies, a no Op, I believe 642 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 2: you're the a hole for saying this was unexpected. I'm 643 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 2: not going to say that you're wrong for doing it. 644 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 2: It is honest work. However, you had to know that 645 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 2: this would happen. So they're addressing Op with this, saying like, look, 646 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 2: you had to know, yeah that there was there's gonna 647 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: be yeah. 648 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,239 Speaker 1: I mean like like if you're doing that kind of 649 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 1: kind of work, just I mean there are there can 650 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 1: be some ramification people like not everyone is as accepting 651 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: and you know, understanding, especially not teenage boys. 652 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 2: That is true. Student loan slave number one. He's never 653 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 2: going to hear the end of it. Doesn't matter if 654 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 2: you stop. Once they found out, his fate. 655 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: Is sealed, the damn his fad is sealed. 656 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 2: And the last relevant comment little Lion, you need to 657 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 2: ask yourself do you want to have a relationship with 658 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 2: your son when he turns eighteen? Man, people are just. 659 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 1: Croo wheels like kind of crazy. I think I like 660 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: your idea of switching schools. I think that can be it. 661 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: Maybe he changes his last name. How are people finding it? 662 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 2: Maybe? How are people finding it? That's what I wonder. 663 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 2: Come on, these are high school boys. 664 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: Especially if she's making good money, then she's probably pretty popular. 665 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: It's yeah, she's she's The thing is if you switches schools, 666 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: it's just gonna happen again. 667 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 2: I know that's at least like to try it once. Yeah, 668 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 2: see if maybe she wants to switch school what does 669 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 2: he want? Maybe switch schools? And like, is there a 670 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 2: way to keep it more low key? I mean, I 671 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 2: don't know, but try a few things. It probably won't work, 672 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 2: but maybe give it a shot, just to see, just 673 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: to see to you it's so rough. And then Opie 674 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 2: responds to this is the final list In a string 675 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 2: of relevant comments, Opie says, of course I do. Saying 676 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 2: that she wants to know her son when she's eighteen, 677 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 2: we get on really well. I just don't know how 678 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 2: to give up the income at this point. Yeah, because 679 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 2: they're now like living in a new lifestyle. Yes, I mean, 680 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 2: and like they're kind of maybe you reach a stopping 681 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 2: point and you stop. I don't know. 682 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 1: Also, Isabelle Toarno says, I could tell you some crazy, 683 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: safer work things. I was paid hundreds four on OnlyFans 684 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 1: as an example, five hundred dollars to honk my car 685 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,959 Speaker 1: horn for ten minutes and record it and act frustrated. 686 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 2: Dude, that's crazy. Now on our Patreon for five hundred dollars, 687 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,879 Speaker 2: we can honk our horns very frustrated and you can 688 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 2: get it. Wow, donate now video if we raise five 689 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 2: You know what, here's a promise. If we raise five 690 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 2: hundred dollars today on the stream, guys, we're gonna honk 691 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 2: our horn for you. We're gonna do it. 692 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: We will do literally, we will. We will take you 693 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,040 Speaker 1: into our car the horn. 694 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 2: We will do that. So you know what to do. 695 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 2: But you know what, Sam, I know what to do. 696 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,799 Speaker 2: Oh what you want us to hit this next story? Yep, 697 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 2: bring this next update. Read this next update. 698 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 1: So, Isabelle Torino, you can if you want to submit 699 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 1: more stories. You can go to our subreddit and submit 700 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 1: them there. We would love to read it. And also 701 00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: we are again we are planning to have people interviewed 702 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: on the show like that is something we are working 703 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,240 Speaker 1: on right now, and so well we're gonna interview people 704 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,839 Speaker 1: pretty soon. So yeah, we're going to get into it. 705 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 2: This is three days later. Hello Reddit, It's been a 706 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 2: few days since I last posted about my situation where 707 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 2: I was torn between continuing my work on of Kick 708 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 2: and Twitch and the impact that it had on my 709 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 2: son being teased at school. I wanted to give you 710 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,720 Speaker 2: an update and thank everyone for their thoughts and advice. Firstly, 711 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,839 Speaker 2: I took your feedback seriously and I had a heart 712 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 2: to heart conversation with my son, which is something, as 713 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 2: Sam said many times. We discussed the situation and he 714 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:41,280 Speaker 2: expressed his feelings more openly. Understanding his perspective was crucial 715 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 2: for me. Based on that, I have made some significant changes. 716 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,879 Speaker 2: I decided to rebrand and shift my online presence. I'm 717 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 2: still on Kick and Twitch, focusing on gaming and less 718 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 2: risque content. Okay, that's smart. I've also started a Patreon 719 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 2: where I offer digital art and personal blogging. Again, I'm 720 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 2: I think this is marketing. But that's okay, We're gonna 721 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 2: keep going. It's brilliant. It's brilliant moving away from the 722 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 2: content that was causing the issues. I have disabled my 723 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 2: of account and will slowly be refunding my members. That's 724 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 2: a cold move. Yeah. For my son, we looked into 725 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 2: counseling to help him deal with the bullying and its impacts. 726 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,760 Speaker 2: I have also decided to be more involved in his school, 727 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 2: advocating for better anti bullying measures and supporting him and 728 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 2: finding a social circle where he feels accepted and validated. 729 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: I wonder if, like a mom, becoming more involved in 730 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 1: the school just like makes it worse. 731 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't make it worse. I could see that like 732 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,319 Speaker 2: the purist, the purest of intentions. I think you just 733 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 2: got to make him sick. He's got to make him sick. Yeah. Yeah. 734 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 2: And I feel like like if you're if you're a 735 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,720 Speaker 2: mom that would like go on like of and whatnot. 736 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,319 Speaker 2: I feel like you would like, all right, you would 737 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:58,920 Speaker 2: kind of get like, all right, here's how it can 738 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 2: make my kid cool. Yeah, you know what I mean. 739 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 1: It's probably like a decently good looking kid. 740 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 2: You know, you know exactly, it's got his does an 741 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,760 Speaker 2: Apple doesn't fall far from the stream? Yeah, dude, apple 742 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 2: bottom jeans boots with the firm. 743 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think i'd be like, I feel like he 744 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: just needs like a like a popular grow up, you know, 745 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: like you want to be. 746 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he starts streaming, bro this man is oh no, no, no, no. 747 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,280 Speaker 2: I mean like he becomes like a gamer like HDB 748 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 2: tech reviews, like mister Beast. Yeah that could be cool. Yeah, 749 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 2: help him, help him my family business with his content career. 750 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, goodness. 751 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 1: Gracious, that was that was the family business. 752 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: Hold on old. We are also moving schools and or 753 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 2: homeschooling over the next few months. Time will tell what 754 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 2: we decide. Finally, I've been exploring additional income streams that 755 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 2: align with my skills and passions, which has been both 756 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 2: challenging and rewarding. I also sat down with a financial 757 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 2: play her over the weekend and have modeled how I 758 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 2: can save and invest to eventually make money from my money. So, 759 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 2: I mean, it seems like Opie's doing everything she possibly 760 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:15,680 Speaker 2: can to move away from this, which is great. This 761 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 2: is super smart. Then I know the damage cannot be 762 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 2: fully undone, but we're in a much healthier place now, 763 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 2: both emotionally and financially. My son sounds like he's doing better, 764 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 2: and I feel like I'm making choices that are right 765 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 2: for the both of us. Again, thank you for the 766 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 2: support and advice. It's been a tough journey, but I 767 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: am hopeful for the future. Okay. Is that where it ends? 768 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 2: That's where it ends. 769 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 1: I want to know if she has stuff on her 770 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:45,280 Speaker 1: profile and this is all an elaborate advertising scheme, Riley, 771 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:46,399 Speaker 1: do we find out? 772 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 2: Yes, emberglar it is live? Yeah, do we know. 773 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 3: We I could not find a link I searched very. 774 00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,320 Speaker 1: Which boats bodes well for it being not being organic 775 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: or yeah. 776 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:07,840 Speaker 2: It's almost like okay, age, oh it's right here, pinned 777 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 2: to the comments, okay, okay. 778 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: So yeah, it seems like she did exactly what was 779 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,520 Speaker 1: best for her son, which is what we what we wanted. 780 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 2: Like she's keeping it seems like she's keeping as much 781 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 2: of the income while still mitigating all of the potential 782 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 2: damage as she's trying to hit that perfect equilibrium. Which, yeah, 783 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 2: it's good. 784 00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: What a tricky situation though, super tricky. 785 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can only imagine, but you know what I 786 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 2: like to imagine. 787 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:41,319 Speaker 1: What do you like to imagine not that this next story, Oh, 788 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 1: let's do it.