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<v Speaker 1>you're out in the dating world to try new things,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's a new restaurant or some new foods, or

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<v Speaker 1>find a new safe word. One of the longest words

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<v Speaker 1>in the English Dictionary, flossinas in the hill of hilification.

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<v Speaker 1>Try to use that as a safe word. You screw

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<v Speaker 1>up one syllable. It's going to take a long time

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<v Speaker 1>for things to stop. And Dan is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now for a second date update. He tried something

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<v Speaker 1>new for his first date, but now he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. What's up, Dan? What's up? Hey? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm cool? Man? All right, well, not

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<v Speaker 1>totally all right, because you're not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 1>from a girl you really want to go out with again.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get into your actual date, what's her name? Amanda? Amanda?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? And where did you meet Amanda? You've heard

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<v Speaker 1>that thing called tender. Yeah you're a funny guy too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>never heard, never heard of it. I don't know. We

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<v Speaker 1>do these second at updates all the time. First time

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<v Speaker 1>anybody's ever mentioned tender. Someone just told me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, you know, I'll get up there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm more of a match dot com guy. But they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, tender is really the way to go? And wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so are you serious? You didn't really you hadn't really

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<v Speaker 1>heard of tender before. I mean I had heard people

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it, and I was like, uh, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so to actually try it? All right? So you met her,

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. It's a whole new world. It's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>different than match, isn't it a lot of different than match? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, we is all the swiping stuff and like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like we matched and there's that moment

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<v Speaker 1>or oh my god, maybe this and we were like

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<v Speaker 1>chatting like I don't know, two weeks or whatever. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to Yeah, it is a while, but like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I asked like the five questions, like you know, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite with your favorite tackle, what's your favorite sports team?

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<v Speaker 1>And you're not short on details, You're not short on details, Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I like about you. You make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you get everything in. Let's just get to the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Not to rush you along, but we we you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're up against the clock here. Yeah yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're excited about tender, but let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>what you guys actually did. Your email said that you

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<v Speaker 1>did something that you haven't done before with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>And what exactly was that? If you can say it

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio, Well, she said, hey, you might if

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<v Speaker 1>I pick a place, and I was like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool, and she goes, yeah, there's this great bar.

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<v Speaker 1>The drinks are like a little on the cheaper side,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's it's really casual, and they've gotten music. And like,

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<v Speaker 1>again with the details, did what did you do you

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you get you like sold it? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like yeah, okay, fine, And we get to the

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<v Speaker 1>place and there was a rainbow flag out fry. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a gay bar. Yeah. She was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's she brought me to a gay bar

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, whoa, I've never been to a

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<v Speaker 1>gay bar, but what rock are you living? Understand? I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that you could just sort of like go

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<v Speaker 1>to a gay bar to hang out if you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>gay and check, yeah they're not. Yeah. They're actually one

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<v Speaker 1>of the groups in America that's pretty inclusive, like pretty

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<v Speaker 1>understanding of people that want to like hang out. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they've had a lot of people tell them

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<v Speaker 1>they can't go places, so they're pretty cool with anybody

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<v Speaker 1>showing up. Yeah I know that. Now. Did that freak

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<v Speaker 1>you out? No, it didn't freak me out at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like, I'm not gay, so I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>like if I had to act a certain way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we got that. Yeah, you can just go be yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you? Yourself? Is the reason you're not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back because you were all weird. I actually I

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<v Speaker 1>felt freer than I'd ever saw them in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like really cool, like we were dancing, but then

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<v Speaker 1>um we decided to like sit down and talk for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. And people kept coming up to her and

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, who's this tall drink of water And

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard that before. I was like, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>drink of water, Like, I've never never heard that before either. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a pretty common thing people say, Oh, so Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>did you act mystified the entire time you were there,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would say that would be a turn off

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<v Speaker 1>for me. And no, I wasn't mystified. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>and I was smiling a lot, like it was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I was having a good time. So like, eventually the

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<v Speaker 1>bar was getting a little rowdy, a little too loud

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<v Speaker 1>and crowded and so um, we just decided to just

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<v Speaker 1>head out and we were walking back to her car,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, I was just like, it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt pretty free and I kissed her her okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh nice, Yeah, did she enjoy it? Yeah? She kissed

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<v Speaker 1>me back, and I was like, hey, I've had the

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<v Speaker 1>best time tonight. You want to do this again? And

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<v Speaker 1>she said yeah, like resounding yes. And I reached out

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<v Speaker 1>the next day and I was like, hey, I had

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time. I even put like a little

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<v Speaker 1>gay flag emoji on the text. I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool because we were at a gay bar.

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<v Speaker 1>But whatever, and then nothing, and uh, like the blue

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<v Speaker 1>bubbles went to green bubbles and I was like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I got like blocked. Wait she blocked your number. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know how sometimes here give your

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<v Speaker 1>blue bubbles turned to Green Bubbles. Does that mean you

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<v Speaker 1>got blocked? I've never been. I just thought it went

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<v Speaker 1>off I message. Yeah, I don't know. We well, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got so much information here to work with now, Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want to get into all that, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but we do know that she's ignored you since your date. Please,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like to use the word ignored, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's been ignoring me. And Okay, honestly, I had like

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<v Speaker 1>a much better time than I expect that I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to at at a gay bar. It was pretty cool. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll give it a shot. Let's try. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna play a song and then we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back and call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, cool? Okay brooking jubil in the morning up

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<v Speaker 1>right in the middle of a second date update. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just joining us, Dan is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and the world is basically a whole new place for

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<v Speaker 1>Dan all the time. It sounds like, if you miss

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<v Speaker 1>the first part, Dan met a girl on tender. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the first time he's really used tender and they went

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<v Speaker 1>out to a gay bar. Was her choice, but he

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<v Speaker 1>was just surprised because he'd never been to a gay

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<v Speaker 1>bar before. I didn't have any judgment. Just the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing was very interesting to him and it would open

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<v Speaker 1>up his eyes to that lifestyle and how they have

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<v Speaker 1>bars just like normal people. I know he was freaking

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<v Speaker 1>out about it. But anyway, they hung out there then left.

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<v Speaker 1>He had end up kissing her before she got in

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<v Speaker 1>the car and went home. But now she's not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him at all. We're gonna see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>find out what went wrong. And you can't think of

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<v Speaker 1>like any awkward moments, Dan, That's the thing. During this

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting period, I was like, did I did I say

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<v Speaker 1>something weird? Did my breath smell? Did I smell like?

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't think of anything, and I'm just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weirded out by it all, you know. All Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her phone number right now, right on. Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Amanda? Yeah? Hi? Who's this? Hey Amanda?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Kay. Are you familiar

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<v Speaker 1>at all? I think I've heard of it before, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't listen to radio very much. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. That's how we like it. We like people

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<v Speaker 1>who have just heard of it and not listened, so

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't really know how to judge us, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. We prefer people just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>know of us, but don't really actually actively listen to

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<v Speaker 1>our show. So it's nice to meet you, Amanda m

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you too. Can I ask why you're calling me? No, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course you can. Yeah, that's all. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to see if you're familiar at all with us. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you because we got an email about you

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<v Speaker 1>from somebody who listens to our show. Oh really, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>his name is and oh okay, yeah, yeah, you went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with Dan h. But now you're not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him and he's wondering why. Um, is this

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<v Speaker 1>like a normal thing you guys do. Yeah, yeah it is.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment our so called the Second Date Updates,

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<v Speaker 1>where if you go out on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and then blow them off, they can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>call you and figure out what happened. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>Dan emailed us. All right, did he maybe come across

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<v Speaker 1>as ignorant? I guess you would say, he seemed really

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<v Speaker 1>baffled by a lot of things like Tinder and gay bars,

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<v Speaker 1>and like maybe he said something that he shouldn't have. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a good time. He's a great guy. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>really Okay, so you had a good time. He was

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<v Speaker 1>a great guy, but you don't want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>him anymore? Yeah, why come on? That doesn't give us

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. I mean, it's kind of weird to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you guys about it. Can you and not even us?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell us so that we can tell him,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's the one that's really curious. I mean, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather you not tell him. Why is it something that

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<v Speaker 1>he did? Kind of all right, I'll just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how much he told you guys. But we went

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<v Speaker 1>to a gay bar and some of my friends were there,

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<v Speaker 1>a few gay friends, and they're one hundred percent sure

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<v Speaker 1>he's not straight. Oh really, Like all of them collectively

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<v Speaker 1>thought that, yeah, yeah, and they're never wrong about this stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't want to go out with him on

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<v Speaker 1>another date because you think that he's not interested in you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I mean women in general. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed interested, and at the time I didn't actually

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<v Speaker 1>think so, But the more I have been thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it since then, the more I agree with them, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's probably gay. I feel like, if he

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<v Speaker 1>is gay, he doesn't even know he's gay yet, because, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he seems pretty oblivious to most things in life. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's what they were saying, is that he probably

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<v Speaker 1>has no idea, but he he was just way too comfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he said it was the first time he's been

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<v Speaker 1>to a gay bar, but he was like singing and dancing,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, don't you think maybe he was just cutting loose,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't dance in normal bars, but anytime I've

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<v Speaker 1>been to a gay bar, for some reason, the dancing

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<v Speaker 1>takes over and I'll get hammered to dance. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why. And he did say that he had felt

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<v Speaker 1>more open and comfortable there than he has Yeah. Maybe ever, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, I just thought he was having fun

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<v Speaker 1>and like we were having a fun time together. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, my friends pointed out like he was in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom grooming his hair and like just being really

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<v Speaker 1>meticulous about it. Obviously I didn't see that, but they

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<v Speaker 1>were telling me about it, and they were saying, like

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<v Speaker 1>his mannerisms are like kind of typically gay or a

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<v Speaker 1>feminine you know, yeah, but does I mean it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like they're even playing into the gay stereotype at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, I know it sounds like stereotyping, but

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<v Speaker 1>like they were very insistent that they are all in agreement.

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<v Speaker 1>He is not straight. Every single one of your gay

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<v Speaker 1>friends thinks that's dude is gay? Gang. Yeah, they were

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<v Speaker 1>like five of my friends there, five gay guys I

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<v Speaker 1>know who all agree. Why wouldn't you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>another day with them and just I don't know, find

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<v Speaker 1>out the water. I just don't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's like discovering something about himself, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to complicate that anymore than it already is. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked to him, and he did sound like he

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<v Speaker 1>was discovering a lot of things, Like he was the

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<v Speaker 1>way that he even talked about being that he was

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<v Speaker 1>like I felt the most free. So, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I can necessarily argue with you, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he is, but you don't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again just in case he's all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 1>realizing that he might be gay. He's a great guy

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<v Speaker 1>and we could be friends, but I just don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get romantically involved with him right now. You know, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you can talk to him about being his friend,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's actually on the phone right now listening and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. And oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry, Dan, I did not know you were listening. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little confused here. Um, I think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's the whole point of the phone called Dan. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Amanda, I don't know how to say this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm I'm not gay, Amanda. I think your friends

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<v Speaker 1>are mistaken. I think they're the ones that are a

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<v Speaker 1>little confused because I'm I'm super straight, like like super

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<v Speaker 1>duper Look, Dan, I'm really sorry. I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>call you out or out you on the radio, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just am going by what my friend said. Your

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<v Speaker 1>friends were so cool, like I would trust them also,

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<v Speaker 1>but not about this, Like we like totally hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean if I was gay, would we have

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<v Speaker 1>like that kiss? Was that? That? Kids kind of rocks, right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean but bang eyes can kiss well too. That

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't doesn't mean anything, but but they usually kiss guys well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I will say I don't think that you're

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<v Speaker 1>being fair. Like he's saying he is attracted to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's all that matters. Do you know what I'm saying? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>even if, even if down the road, he's attracted to me,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, he's attracted to you. Wait, I'm sorry, hang on,

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, I'm not attracted to men, so I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna like become attracted to men. Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>what about my friend with the tattoo. You're like holding

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<v Speaker 1>his arm like admiring his tattoo for I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like five full minutes. WHOA. The ink work on his

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<v Speaker 1>arm is spectacular. The shadowing is amazing. I've been wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to get like a really rad tribal for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>and Charlie's work was really rad tribal. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's gay, Amanda. You had a good time with him,

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<v Speaker 1>You had fun. You guys shared a great kiss. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're letting your friends ruin something that could

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<v Speaker 1>be really cool. Ye. Like I said, he's saying he's

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to you and he likes tattoos. One of them said, Seante,

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<v Speaker 1>you stay and look. I don't know what that means,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like, I'm cool. I'm gonna hang out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what I don't know. I have no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>you just said, Dan, or we're even trying to explain.

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<v Speaker 1>But Amanda, will you go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Dan? We will pay for it. He's telling you

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<v Speaker 1>that he's not gay, even though your friends say he is.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gay. I'm not gay. I guess if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are paying for it, I'd be open into that

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<v Speaker 1>we can hang out. But I feel like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>need some convincing that you're actually not gay. I am

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<v Speaker 1>so down to convince you that I don't should be

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<v Speaker 1>with a man, but I want to like hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Yeah, I'm not convinced, but hopefully, Amanda, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be convinced. Congratulations, Dan, you got a second day. Seantey

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<v Speaker 1>you stay y, Yes, Shantell you stay. Congratulations Broken Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,