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Speaker 1: you're out in the dating world to try new things,

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Speaker 1: whether it's a new restaurant or some new foods, or

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Speaker 1: find a new safe word. One of the longest words

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Speaker 1: in the English Dictionary, flossinas in the hill of hilification.

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Speaker 1: Try to use that as a safe word. You screw

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Speaker 1: up one syllable. It's going to take a long time

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Speaker 1: for things to stop. And Dan is on the phone

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Speaker 1: right now for a second date update. He tried something

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Speaker 1: new for his first date, but now he's not getting

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Speaker 1: a call back. What's up, Dan? What's up? Hey? Guys?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm cool? Man? All right, well, not

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Speaker 1: totally all right, because you're not getting a call back

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Speaker 1: from a girl you really want to go out with again.

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Speaker 1: But before we get into your actual date, what's her name? Amanda? Amanda?

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Speaker 1: All right? And where did you meet Amanda? You've heard

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Speaker 1: that thing called tender. Yeah you're a funny guy too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: never heard, never heard of it. I don't know. We

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Speaker 1: do these second at updates all the time. First time

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Speaker 1: anybody's ever mentioned tender. Someone just told me about it.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, you know, I'll get up there.

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Speaker 1: I'm more of a match dot com guy. But they

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Speaker 1: were like, tender is really the way to go? And wait,

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Speaker 1: so are you serious? You didn't really you hadn't really

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Speaker 1: so to actually try it? All right? So you met her,

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Speaker 1: no idea. It's a whole new world. It's a lot

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Speaker 1: different than match, isn't it a lot of different than match? Right?

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Speaker 1: But yeah, we is all the swiping stuff and like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like we matched and there's that moment

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Speaker 1: chatting like I don't know, two weeks or whatever. We're

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Speaker 1: trying to Yeah, it is a while, but like you know,

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Speaker 1: I asked like the five questions, like you know, what's

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Speaker 1: And you're not short on details, You're not short on details, Dan,

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Speaker 1: and that's what I like about you. You make sure

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Speaker 1: you get everything in. Let's just get to the date.

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Speaker 1: Not to rush you along, but we we you know,

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Speaker 1: we're up against the clock here. Yeah yeah, I know,

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Speaker 1: I know you're excited about tender, but let's get to

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Speaker 1: what you guys actually did. Your email said that you

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Speaker 1: did something that you haven't done before with a girl.

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Speaker 1: And what exactly was that? If you can say it

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Speaker 1: on the radio, Well, she said, hey, you might if

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Speaker 1: that's cool, and she goes, yeah, there's this great bar.

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Speaker 1: The drinks are like a little on the cheaper side,

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Speaker 1: so it's it's really casual, and they've gotten music. And like,

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Speaker 1: again with the details, did what did you do you

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Speaker 1: so it's a gay bar. Yeah. She was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: it's a it's she brought me to a gay bar

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Speaker 1: gay and check, yeah they're not. Yeah. They're actually one

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Speaker 1: we got that. Yeah, you can just go be yourself.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you know how sometimes here give your

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Speaker 1: we've got so much information here to work with now, Dan,

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to get into all that, sure,

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Speaker 1: but we do know that she's ignored you since your date. Please,

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Speaker 1: I don't like to use the word ignored, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: All right, cool? Okay brooking jubil in the morning up

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Speaker 1: right in the middle of a second date update. And

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Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Dan is on the phone

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Speaker 1: and the world is basically a whole new place for

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Speaker 1: Dan all the time. It sounds like, if you miss

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Speaker 1: the first part, Dan met a girl on tender. It's

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Speaker 1: out about it. But anyway, they hung out there then left.

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Speaker 1: He had end up kissing her before she got in

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Speaker 1: the car and went home. But now she's not talking

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Speaker 1: find out what went wrong. And you can't think of

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Speaker 1: like any awkward moments, Dan, That's the thing. During this

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial her phone number right now, right on. Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Amanda? Yeah? Hi? Who's this? Hey Amanda?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Kay. Are you familiar

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Speaker 1: at all? I think I've heard of it before, but

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Speaker 1: I don't listen to radio very much. To be honest,

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we got an email about you

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Speaker 1: from somebody who listens to our show. Oh really, yeah

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Speaker 1: his name is and oh okay, yeah, yeah, you went

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Speaker 1: and like maybe he said something that he shouldn't have. No,

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Speaker 1: we had a good time. He's a great guy. Actually

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Speaker 1: he's not straight. Oh really, Like all of them collectively

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Speaker 1: So you don't want to go out with him on

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Speaker 1: I think he's probably gay. I feel like, if he

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Speaker 1: I mean, Amanda, I don't know how to say this,

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Speaker 1: duper Look, Dan, I'm really sorry. I'm not trying to

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Speaker 1: he's gay, Amanda. You had a good time with him,

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Speaker 1: so what I don't know. I have no idea what

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Speaker 1: But Amanda, will you go out on a second date

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Speaker 1: with Dan? We will pay for it. He's telling you

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Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, I'm not convinced, but hopefully, Amanda, you'll

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Speaker 1: be convinced. Congratulations, Dan, you got a second day. Seantey

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Speaker 1: you stay y, Yes, Shantell you stay. Congratulations Broken Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the morning,