1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, Sophia Bush here. Welcome to Work in Progress, 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: where I talked to people who inspire me about how 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: they got to where they are and where they think 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: they're still going. I'm so thrilled to have Alexei ash 5 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: Meyers on the podcast today. She is a badass attorney 6 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: with Sanctuary for Families, the co chair of the New 7 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: York State Anti Trafficking Coalition, and a founding member of 8 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: New Yorkers for the Equality Model, which you'll learn about 9 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: on this episode. Bills did decriminalized prostitution are popping up 10 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: across the country, but Alexei and other advocates believe that 11 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: there is a better solution to actually support the people 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: in the sex trade. This was a really interesting discussion 13 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: because there's a lot of misinformation about this topic. I 14 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: learned a lot from Alexey that I didn't know, and 15 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: it's certainly made me feel more invested in this debate 16 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: eight and how we move forward to better protect people 17 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: and make sure that we're not opening up loopholes for exploitation. 18 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: So I hope you'll share what you've heard after listening 19 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: and check out our Instagram page for more resources. Alexi, 20 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: thank you so much. For coming on. I'm really excited 21 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 1: to have you on the pod. Thank you for having me. Yeah, 22 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: I want to I want to jump into your work, 23 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: but I always like to start with people and kind 24 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: of rewind because I find that we're always having conversations 25 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: when someone's in the middle of a huge initiative or 26 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: or some great, big accomplishment, and I'm I'm always curious 27 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: how you got here. And I like to ask everyone 28 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: what you were like is a kid and give you 29 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: flashback to yourself around you know, eight or ten were 30 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: you were you a tiny social justice warrior at that 31 00:01:55,920 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: age already I was, so I'd say that at human 32 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: rights issues really come buy me. Honestly, my grandparents are 33 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: Holocaust survivors, so that was a topic that was in 34 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: my house from as early as I could talk. Um, 35 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: I always knew their story. I was always proud of 36 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: their story. They came and spoke in my classrooms. We 37 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: went and saw them speak. And so yeah, when I 38 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: was probably ten, I played Anne Frank or I read 39 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 1: An Frank passages at the opening of the and Frank 40 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: exhibit in Albuquerque, New Mexico, which is where I grew up. 41 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 1: And so yeah, human rights abuses were just something that 42 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: I was always on my radar. I was also very argumentative, 43 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: and everyone always said they knew I would be a lawyer, 44 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: and so I I also, it's so funny. I'll go 45 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: back sometimes and find high school essays I wrote, or 46 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: like you know, personal essays for applications to things, and 47 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: I can't believe how true to myself I still am. 48 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: And it's almost embarrassing, like I'm just kind of a 49 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: cliche of myself. That's sort of me. Think that my 50 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: my dad many times a year likes to say to me, 51 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: I just can't believe you didn't become a lawyer. And 52 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I take that as a compliment, sir. I know, 53 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: I think people sometimes mean in a backwards compliment maybe, 54 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: But I think when you really can be researched and 55 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: and also passionate enough to defend whether or not the 56 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: defense is popular or the subject matter is fun, right, 57 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: is a great quality. Yeah, I think it's pretty cool. 58 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: What was growing up in Albuquerque? Like I asked, because 59 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: I god, maybe ten years ago I got to be 60 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: out there for five weeks. I was in Albuquerque and 61 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: working on a movie and it was amazing. But I 62 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: didn't really live there, and I'm just curious. I probably 63 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: didn't appreciate it as much as I should have, but 64 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: no one ever does when you're in it. I love 65 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: to visit there. There's no blue or sky or cleaner 66 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: air or more beautiful landscapes. But also it was really 67 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: culturally rich. I went to a high school that was 68 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: incredibly diverse, while also to this day being the best 69 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: education I got of all the schools I went to. 70 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: I wish my kids could go there. But I really 71 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: love New Mexico and I feel a deep sense of 72 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: connection to that culture. Yeah. It's spent a lot of 73 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 1: time just marveling at that sky. Yeah, this guy is beautiful. 74 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: We grew up in the out in the middle of 75 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: nowhere between Santa Fe and Albuquerque, and so like weekend 76 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: activities were dirt biking and biking and looking for pottery 77 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: shards and you know, as kids do. That's so cool. 78 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: I've always been sort of I have that feeling of 79 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: romantic nostalgia. I guess you could say because Georgia O'Keeffe 80 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: visiting her property and visiting a museum in Santa Fe 81 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: and it's amazing. Oh my god, I just think like, yeah, 82 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: my sister got married there last year. Really, that's amazing. Yeah. Wow. 83 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: So when you were little, you know, you mentioned reading 84 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: and Frank's Diary. What what are the things were you 85 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: reading as a kid that you think may have shaped 86 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: this in you? They were probably all Holocaust books. It 87 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: was All Night and Number the Stars and all of 88 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: those and Nancy Drew, of course, Nancy Drew's a classic. Yeah. Yeah, 89 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: I was always into really serious things as a kid. 90 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: My favorite show was Murphy Brown and all my parents 91 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: friends thought that that was weird, but I loved it too. 92 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, wasn't it the best? She was? She 93 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: was and is my my icon of icons. But I 94 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: was also a nerd and went deep, Like we went 95 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: to Rome on a family trip and so then I 96 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: read The Agony and the Ecstasy. It also probably ten 97 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: years old, which was like my mom kept telling me, 98 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: you don't have to finish that, but yeah, I wanted to. 99 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: But when you're a good student, you started booking to 100 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: finish it. I totally get that. And when you were 101 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: little and diving into all of that subject matter and 102 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: you know, mostly serious with the side of Nancy Drew, 103 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: did you think about becoming a lawyer or did you 104 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: have other ideas of what you wanted to be when 105 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: you grew up. Um, No, I do think I thought 106 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: I would be a lawyer after like real childhood fantasies 107 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: of astronaut and firefighter and stuff. So you mentioned your family, 108 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: and when I was doing some research, I learned that 109 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: your mom is a social worker and an activist. And 110 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,679 Speaker 1: I'm curious what growing up with a parent who works 111 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: in a space like that teaches you and what you 112 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: think you learned from her. Yeah, my mom is really incredible. 113 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: I mean it's because of her, the her, it's her 114 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: parents who were the Holocaust survivors, and it's and it 115 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: was through her lens and filter really that I learned 116 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 1: about it. So it was the way in which she 117 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: chose to pass that legacy on to her children and 118 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: the way in which she showed us what was important. 119 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: She also then started a nonprofit where she writes curriculum 120 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: to movies that teach cross cultural understanding and use his 121 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: film as a way to teach children and reach children 122 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 1: on so many different levels. So I watched that as 123 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: I grew up, and watched her start this from an 124 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: idea she had one day that she really turned into 125 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: something huge, and then it just doesn't quite fit in 126 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: in the same realm. But another thing that my family 127 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: did when when I was eight, as we adopted my 128 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: brother from Russia he was five, and we again I 129 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: went full in and learned everything I could about Russia 130 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: and Siberia where he was from, and wrote a whole 131 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: report on it. And and that at such a young 132 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: age just brought into my world to know that there 133 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: was so much more out there than what you just 134 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: would learn in a classroom. So my parents gave us 135 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: a really rich childhood in that sense. That's amazing. What 136 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: was it like, having eight years old having a sibling 137 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: show up who wasn't a baby, you know, he was 138 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: already five. It was actually really exciting. I didn't have 139 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: to deal with like, why is the baby crying? I 140 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: just got to have a play made immediately. I was 141 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: so proud of him. We went to the same school 142 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: and I would walk down the hall and check on 143 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: him every a couple of times a day. And he 144 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: spoke Russian and people would come to me and say, like, 145 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: Tolly is saying this in Russian? What does it mean? 146 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: And I would translate and I just it was fun. 147 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: It was immediately fun. He's the best. And now my sister, 148 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: brother and I all transplanted to New York and live 149 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: within two blocks of each other. No, so you guys 150 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: get to see each other all the time. Yeah, until 151 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: we are too overbearing and overwhelmed him and he disappears 152 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: and it's like, back off his big sisters get on 153 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: his nerves. That's fair. Yeah, that's fair. My my cousin. 154 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: I grew up with my three cousins who are like 155 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: my siblings, and Jenna's the oldest, and there were times 156 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: where she'd look at me and the boys and be like, 157 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: get away from me, and we'd go, Okay, we've done it. 158 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 1: We've pushed over, We're going to the backyard. Yeah, it 159 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: was really really fun. So you you go through your 160 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: childhood in New Mexico and then you went west for 161 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: Occidental College, Right, that's so cool. I grew up in Pasadena, 162 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: was like Accidental. It's so great. We did We did 163 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: one huge production of a musical that I worked on 164 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: in high school and we got to do it at 165 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: the Ocidal Theater and it was the biggest deal. Yes, 166 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 1: I know, it's the set of so many movies too. 167 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: It's the most beautiful campus. It's so beautiful. How did 168 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: you just had you wanted to go there? There was 169 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: actually a weird pipeline between my high school and Oxy. 170 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: I think they were like thirteen people from my graduating 171 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: class going who went there, and both really small schools, 172 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: so it was kind of nice. And also you just 173 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 1: visit it and want to be there. Also, Obama went 174 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: there casual. You're pretty cool. Yeah, you know, like I 175 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: could do that. I got to talk to him about 176 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: that once. So cool. Yeah, And what did you study? 177 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: Their politics? And I thought I wanted to work in 178 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: local politics, So I went to the City Attorney's office 179 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: after graduating and worked there. But I was in the 180 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: family violence unit and learned about, you know the intersection 181 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: between domestic violence and family violence and child abuse. And 182 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: I was also doing a lot of work in l 183 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: a u s D and gang prevention through different programs 184 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: we created, and so that really then cemented that I 185 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: wanted to go to law school. What do you think 186 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: that was looking at, as you said, all the intersections 187 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: of violence and how it affects families and communities, what 188 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: do you feel like illuminated for you? I think seeing 189 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: people's vulnerabilities and and wanting to use whatever tools I 190 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: could to help change it. When I see the state 191 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: of things so many times and talk to people about 192 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: how depressed they are, and I at least feel like 193 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm doing something. I don't know if I'm making a difference, 194 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: but I'm at least doing something, and in activity would 195 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: just feel too depressing. Yeah. The thing that motivates me 196 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: a lot is thinking, no one of us is going 197 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 1: to be able to fix it, but if we're living 198 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: in service to the solution, then we're doing something right. So, 199 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: while at Occidental, you were working in the city office. Yeah, 200 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: and and then after law school for a few years, 201 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: and then I went through law school. Can I ask 202 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: you a question before we get into law school? What 203 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: do you actually because I'm sure some people are listening 204 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: to you talk about what you were seeing, but I'm 205 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: curious if you can explain to listeners and honestly to 206 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: me as well, what you were doing when you were 207 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: working there. What what is your day in and day out? 208 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: So the unit I was in was actually really unique, 209 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 1: and it was a crime prevention unit, which out of 210 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: Prosecutor's office is amazing because so much of what prosecutors 211 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: do is after crime happens. So we worked with you 212 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: a l A u s D and with local precincts, 213 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: and we had different presentations. One was called no Secrets 214 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: and it was for children about how to prevent sexual abuse, 215 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: and that was with a retired l ap D officer 216 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: and it was a curriculum that we had written. And 217 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 1: another one was a truancy prevention program. So we went 218 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: in and really educated about how truancy at school down 219 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: the line leads to gang involvement and how to really 220 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,719 Speaker 1: keep kids out of gangs. So that was largely my day, 221 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: going around to different schools, and then we would host 222 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: conferences to learn that other jurisdictions were doing and educate 223 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: them about our programs. You know, there were things that 224 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: as a non lawyer I couldn't do, Like, right, there's 225 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: something called a U visa that victims and survivors of 226 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: domestic violence can get if they show that they've complied 227 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: with law enforcement. And so I would help like with 228 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: the initial process of that, but couldn't actually write the 229 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: u VSA application. And what do they get when they 230 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 1: get a u visa? What does that mean? It's a 231 00:12:55,800 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: it's a visa that allows them to stay here. Okay, yeah, wow, 232 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah, and so was it realizing that there 233 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: were certain barriers to your work by more or I 234 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: wanted to do more? And so then wow did law 235 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: school happened? So I just went down the street from 236 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: where I from where I was working, where I was living, 237 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: and kind of plowed through law school in two years. 238 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: I spent a summer in the Hague studying at the 239 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: international criminal courts and all the tribunals and learning about 240 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: war crimes. And I really loved that and wanted sort 241 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: of a job in that area. But what really when 242 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: hearing about war crimes, it was always the women and 243 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: children's stories that really got to me, which somehow led 244 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: me to trafficking. And so then I interned at My 245 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: final internship was at the Smalley Mom Foundation, and everyone 246 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 1: else in my law school was so much more traditional. 247 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: They were at firms. I felt a little bit like 248 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: the impostor syndrome working at a non profit, but it 249 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: felt right and I and I didn't want to, you know, 250 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: push like a square hole and whatever the saying is, 251 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: I just didn't I didn't fit it a firm, it's 252 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 1: not I knew I didn't want to go that route. 253 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: So I really loved working at the Smalley Mom Foundation. 254 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:18,959 Speaker 1: And when you're an intern, you do a lot of 255 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: research and a lot of reading. And what I was 256 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: learning about was how much trafficking actually occurs here and 257 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 1: that it was really it's really important to also to 258 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: work abroad, but that if while I was looking for 259 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: my next step in New York, there was so much 260 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: to be done right here and that I wanted to 261 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: be part of that. I think it's so interesting that 262 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: we hear about these global issues, whether it's sex trafficking 263 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: or period poverty or inhibitors to education access, and we 264 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: assume they happen everywhere else, and then you start looking 265 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: at the numbers and you realize it's literally happening all 266 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: around us, and then we've probably seen it. And how 267 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: do you begin to help people make sense of that 268 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: through the work. How do you educate people about what's 269 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: happening in their community. Yeah, I think there's a lot 270 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 1: more awareness of human trafficking as a domestic issue now 271 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: than there was even five years ago. But I just, 272 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I talk about it everywhere I can at 273 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: every I'm asked about it, so um, at any dinner party, 274 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: any social gathering, at social media, just talk about it 275 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: and spread the word. But also correct people's misconceptions that 276 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: sex trafficking happens in Southeast Asia and in Eastern Europe 277 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: and not here, and what what it means, because I 278 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: think a lot of people think that sex trafficking means 279 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: you have to cross borders, you have to be kidnapped. 280 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: You know, it looks like the movie Taken, when in 281 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: reality it's so prevalent and domestic sex trafficking looks really 282 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: really different than that. Can you tell us what it 283 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: does look like? Well, there's there's different kinds. What I 284 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: saw in my work as a prosecutor of human trafficking 285 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: cases is that communities tend to who traffic their own communities. 286 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: So for American born exploiters and pimps, they traffic the 287 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: girls right out of their their high school, is out 288 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: of the corner store. They know them through their cousin 289 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 1: or through a friend, They meet them on social media, 290 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: and they prey upon them in different ways. They use 291 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 1: different techniques, but more common than than what you see 292 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: in movies. Is like the protector Romeo pimp who uses 293 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: seduction and and more subtle coursive tactics to exploit the 294 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: person that they are praying upon. And pimps really intentionally 295 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: recruit people when they're at their most vulnerable, when they're young, 296 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: when they're homeless, addicted, living in poverty. They primarily target 297 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: women and girls of color, people in the LGBTQ community, 298 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: youthan foster care. We work really closely with Covenant House 299 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: here in New York, and the director of the Human 300 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: Trafficking Initiative AIR talks about how pimps wait outside Covenant House. 301 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: They put ads out if you live at Covenant House 302 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: and want to make money, contact me, Oh my god. 303 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 1: So they really prey upon those vulnerabilities. And I think 304 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 1: that the point you're making about the sort of protector 305 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:21,199 Speaker 1: or even romantic coercion is really interesting because we do 306 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: often see these relationships or or or these situations represented 307 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 1: in ways that are you know, hyper realized for entertainment, 308 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: and they're represented as though they're this, like you said, 309 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 1: someone's being kidnapped or abuse, and usually doesn't start that way, 310 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 1: you know, they start in these smaller sort of microaggressions 311 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 1: and micro actions of violence against women, and then they snowball, 312 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 1: and by the time a woman is has been trafficked 313 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: in is being abused, she's been in this system for 314 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 1: a really long time. And I'm curious, what would you 315 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: tell people are some of the ways that it begins, 316 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: because I don't think a lot of people understand how 317 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 1: it starts, how the actual exploitation starts. If there's an 318 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: example of someone whose story perhaps you've heard, that might 319 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: explain it. Sometimes it starts with with a real romantic 320 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 1: seduction and I'm your boyfriend and we're going to have 321 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: a great life together and we're gonna live in this apartment, 322 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: but we just need a little bit of money to 323 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 1: do it and help us out. And I'll only ask 324 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 1: you to do this once. And you're doing this for us, 325 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 1: and I love you and I'm so sorry you have 326 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 1: to do this, but I need you to. You know, 327 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: my guy is going to pick you up, and you 328 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: need to go with him and do what he says, 329 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: and we'll get money for it and you'll never have 330 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: to do it again. And then other ways it starts 331 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 1: is that they do prey on someone who's incredibly vulnerable 332 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: and who's in absolute survival mode and needs money to survive, 333 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: and this is the only way to get it. And 334 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: the common denominator in all of the cases of trafficking 335 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: is vulnerability. And one thing that I think really gets 336 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: ignored in this conversation is that you can be exploited 337 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: at any age. It can happen. An eighteenth birthday. Doesn't 338 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 1: change you from a victim to someone who's in it. Consensually, 339 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: what happens on an eighteenth birthday that that all of 340 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: a sudden makes you not vulnerable to exploitation, which that 341 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: sort of leads me to what I'm working on. Now, 342 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: should we go there? Okay, So there's a huge campaign 343 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: in New York, it's also happening in Washington, d C. 344 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: And it's coming up nationally to decriminalize the sex trade. 345 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: And the language on this issue is really misleading and 346 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:39,679 Speaker 1: important to note because a lot of people are asked, 347 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: and this is coming up in the presidential campaign a 348 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 1: lot with candidates, are you do support decriminalization of the 349 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: sex trade? Now, your knee jerk reaction is yes, women 350 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 1: should never and I say women, but actually it's there 351 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: are boys in the sex trade and l g pt 352 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 1: Q women, but survivors and victims should never be arrested 353 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: for what they're doing. So reaction is to say, decriminalize 354 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: the sex rade. But what's really misleading is what that 355 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 1: actually means to decriminalize the sex rade, and that includes, 356 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 1: and what these bills include are legalizing or decriminalizing sex 357 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,679 Speaker 1: buying and pimping. The bill in New York that was 358 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 1: introduced strips any penalties away from brothel keeping, from sex tourism, 359 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: and from pimping someone who's over eighteen years old. That 360 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: makes my stomach drop. And it's being pushed as progressive 361 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: and feminist and empowering, and there's a huge misinformation campaign 362 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: about what it what it means well, and I think 363 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: a huge just a huge error in portrayal and perception, 364 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 1: because yes, there are some people out there advocating. There 365 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: are some adults. There's a woman who I actually got 366 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 1: to speak with a couple of months ago, who is 367 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: a sex worker and who was like, this is my job, 368 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:59,919 Speaker 1: and I choose this, and you know, she likes her life. 369 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: But she's a very rare person in an industry. I mean, 370 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,919 Speaker 1: we were looking at stats and we were saying earlier 371 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,679 Speaker 1: that it's so upsetting how hard it is to find 372 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: stats how underreported these issues are. But but one of 373 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: the statistics that we found is that of women in 374 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: the sex trade report being subjected to physical violence, including 375 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: being raped, shots, strangled, burned, beaten, stabbed, or punched. So 376 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: those are not women who should be punished. Nor should 377 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: the small percentage of women who are involved in the 378 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: sex trade, who are there by choice and who like 379 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: their life be punished. But people who do that to 380 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: of women, men who buy women and children, men who 381 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 1: sell women and children as though they are commodities, should 382 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: not escape legal punishment. How do we as a constituency 383 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: change that. How do we say, don't criminalize workers and victims, 384 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: but criminalized perpetrators and victimizers. What's our So, what everyone 385 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: in our movement, on both sides of the table agree on, 386 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 1: is that the women who are bought and sold in 387 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 1: the sex trade should never be criminalized. So right now, 388 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: in all fifty states, the legal framework is criminalization. The 389 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: people in prostitution are arrested, the sex buyers are arrested. 390 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: So we're moving to change that, and in practice, many 391 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 1: of the states have already enacted that. In Seattle, Washington, 392 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: women aren't the I keep saying women, but women aren't 393 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: arrested for prostitution. In New York, NYPD has really stopped 394 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: arresting the people in prostitution. So where we differ is 395 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: on the issue of sex buyers. And you just read 396 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: and on exploiters. But I'll get there. What you just 397 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 1: read that statistic about the violence that happens in the 398 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 1: sex trade. And again many people probably think that this 399 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: happens at the hands of exploiters. That is at the 400 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 1: hands of the sex buyers. The sex buyers inflict the 401 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 1: violence the sex buyers. I was at a hearing yesterday 402 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: in um d c and because there's a bill to 403 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: decriminalize the sex right there, and one advocate spoke about 404 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: a legal sex shop in Amsterdam where it's legal. Because 405 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: it's legal there, there's regulations, and one of the regulation 406 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: was that pillows need to be in the brothel rooms. 407 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: And the sex shop owner said, why would you put 408 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: pillows in there? That's a murder weapon. So it's just 409 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: really important to remember that the buyers, they're not clients, 410 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: they're not just harmlessly purchasing sex. They're buying access to 411 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: a woman's body, and once they have that access, they 412 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,479 Speaker 1: report in that they feel that they have the right 413 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 1: to do whatever they want once they've paid, and they 414 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: fuel this industry. So if you strip away any penalties 415 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 1: for sex buying, if you normalize it, the it works 416 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: like any other you know, market, where the demand will 417 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 1: increase and the violence that the violence will increase, and 418 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 1: the supply will have to increase to meet that demand. 419 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: And that's where trafficking happens. There aren't enough people in 420 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: the sex trade consentually to meet that legalized demand, So 421 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: then who fills it? Again, our most marginalized members of 422 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 1: society are trafficked in to fill it, women and women 423 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: of color and lgbt Q women and exactly. And for 424 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: the more decriminalization and legalizing brothels, that leads to more brothels. 425 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 1: More brothels leads to more demand. Again, you have to 426 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: fill that supply. So it's just yeah, and it is 427 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 1: curious to me why we have this idea that there 428 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 1: are respectful the clients are respectful of these women, right. 429 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 1: You know, another point I heard yesterday at the hearing 430 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 1: from so many survivors. Buyers don't care and they don't know, 431 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 1: they don't know if you're in this consentually they don't 432 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 1: know if you're trafficked, would they check I DA s 433 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 1: is that? Do you have an idea that says I 434 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,360 Speaker 1: want to be doing this? And so many survivors talked 435 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: about how when asked, and this goes back to your 436 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: your question about numbers and reporting, when people who are 437 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 1: under the control of a pimp or exploitter are asked, 438 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: are you doing this consensually, They're not going to tell 439 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: the truth. They're terrified for their lives. There have complete PTSD, 440 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,439 Speaker 1: they're likely addicted to drugs to cope with the trauma 441 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: that they're dealing with, and so they're not going to 442 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 1: tell you the truth, and it might even be years 443 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: before they understand that reality. Well, so many people don't 444 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: get to process their trauma until they're out of a 445 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: traumatic situation because our brains are literally wired to shut 446 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,360 Speaker 1: us down so that we can survive. And when you're 447 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 1: in survival mode, you're not exactly in your most psychologically 448 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: open and and self, you know, comprehensive state to discuss 449 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 1: what's happening to you. I think that's so strange that 450 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: we expect people to feel that way. And when you 451 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: think about even you know, if we get out of 452 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 1: the sex trade. When we talk about sexual violence, think 453 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: about how long it can take a girl. And you know, 454 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: the stat is that nearly one in four girls in 455 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: the US will be sexually assaulted or raped by the 456 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 1: time she's twenty two. Think about how long it takes 457 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,160 Speaker 1: a girl to tell her parents if she ever tells, 458 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: when it's held against them. While you didn't report it, 459 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,399 Speaker 1: why didn't you tell anyone that? The fact that that 460 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 1: goes to issues of credibility makes it incredibly hard. Yeah, 461 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,199 Speaker 1: and so I just when I when I put it 462 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: under that lens, I can't imagine how a woman or 463 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: a person in this position, while to your point, under 464 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: the control of someone else who is exploiting their personhood, 465 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: is going to be like, hey, guys, guess what this 466 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,479 Speaker 1: is exactly what's happening to me. And this person might 467 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: help me for telling you, but obviously I'm gonna tell 468 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 1: you because you told me I should. That's insane. And really, 469 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 1: when you start to do your own research into this 470 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:59,439 Speaker 1: issue and look online, and you'll see very vocal women 471 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: who say I want to be doing this. I'm a 472 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 1: sex worker, this is my choice, and you wonder where 473 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: are the voices of the survivors, But you really have 474 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: to consider they're dealing with so much trauma, and sometimes 475 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: it's hard enough to get out of bed and brush 476 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: your teeth, let alone go and talk in a soapbox 477 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: about your traumatic your most horrible traumatic experiences. We work 478 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: really hard not to re traumatize our survivors and and 479 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,640 Speaker 1: put them out to speak about their experiences before they're ready. 480 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 1: So there's a few survivors who we work with who 481 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 1: have done so much work to get to a place 482 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: where they can talk about it, and even for them, 483 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 1: it's it's hard. After a day like yesterday, it's triggering, 484 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 1: and you're being spoken down to by white men council 485 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 1: members who are trying to decide that your body should 486 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: be for sale, and it's really hard to sit in 487 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: that room and not actually see like, this is white 488 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 1: privilege at its worst. This is this isn't protecting women 489 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: of color and girls of color. This is protecting white 490 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: men who want to buy them this law, and it's 491 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 1: protecting Epstein and it's disgusting. That's so awful. Yeah, in 492 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,479 Speaker 1: looking at your work, one of the things that you 493 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: talk about being an alternative to this is the equality model. 494 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,160 Speaker 1: And I'm wondering if you can just explain to people 495 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 1: what that is, because I do think it's really helpful 496 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: to not only educate listeners on signs and and facts 497 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: and the problem, but to give people the verbage to 498 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: then go out and advocate and have these conversations in 499 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 1: their own community, because maybe they'll hear someone say we 500 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: should decriminalize, you know, the sex trade, and it's like, well, 501 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 1: actually not all of it, so exactly we have a solution. 502 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, there's an alternative to full decriminalization and to 503 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: the status quo, and that's called the equality model. It's 504 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 1: also known as the Nordic model. It was pioneered in 505 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: Sweden and since adopted by seven other countries, including Canada, France, Israel, Ireland. 506 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: South Africa is considering it right now, Spain is considering it, 507 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: and nowhere in the United States has officially passed it. 508 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: Some already operate Some states already operate in that under 509 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 1: the equality model. But what at first and foremost does 510 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 1: is decriminalize the sex trade for people in prostitution. So 511 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: another thing you can call it is partial decriminalization, because, 512 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: like I said, people who are bought and sold in 513 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: the sex trade should never be arrested for their being 514 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: victims or being there by choice. However you proceed or 515 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: however you've gotten into the sex trade. It should be decriminalized. 516 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:38,239 Speaker 1: Though where it differs from the fall decriminalization model is 517 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: that there's a very heavy focus on demand. Like I said, 518 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 1: the buyers are the economic engine of this industry. If 519 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: you deter buyers, you can shrink the industry. This is 520 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: a multibillion dollar industry. I read it's a hundred and 521 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: fifty billion dollars a year globally. But we know about yes, 522 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: and so if you think about that, yeah, and then 523 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: when you do the math and you think about that 524 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: at maybe a hundred dollars, which is on the high 525 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: end per sex act, how many rapes that is per 526 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: year globally, and versus the amount of prosecutions that happened, 527 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: maybe a handful of those people get prosecuted buyers and exploiters. 528 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: So then the equality model really shifts the stigma away 529 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: from the people who are in prostitution to the sex buyers. 530 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 1: There's a huge public awareness campaign about the harms of 531 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: buying sex, that it's not a victimless crime, that that 532 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: we just have a zero tolerance policy for buying sex. 533 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: And we've already started that conversation with the Me too 534 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 1: movement and saying no, men can't use their positions of 535 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: power and privilege and to course, you know women below them, 536 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: So then why would we legalize that? But I digress. 537 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 1: So then the third prong of the equality model is 538 00:30:56,240 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: to provide really robust services to the women who are leaving, 539 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: who choose to leave the sex trade. Those services include legal, medical, clinical, economic, empowerment, housing, 540 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: and we're already doing that in New York. We have 541 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 1: working we've been working with City Council and we have 542 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: something called the empower Clinic, and it's a place where 543 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: women can seek all of these services. And it's an 544 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,959 Speaker 1: alternative because what happens now is women aren't there are 545 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: still arrested for prostitution, but they are, rather than prosecuted, 546 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: sent through human trafficking intervention courts, and that's a way 547 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,719 Speaker 1: to connect them with services. This takes law enforcement out 548 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: of it completely, so that if someone chooses to exit 549 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: the sex trade or to seek these services, it really 550 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: is their choice. That's amazing. Yeah, So we fully support 551 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: the equality model. We're writing our legislation right now, we 552 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 1: have incredible sponsors in the Assembly and the Senate and 553 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: who really really understand that decriminalizing the sex trade would 554 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: be in illibly dangerous path for the most marginalized women 555 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 1: in our society, and that this is a way to 556 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: create equality. That's so cool. Thank you so much for 557 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: explaining it. It's also so special. I'm having this moment 558 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: watching you talk about it. As soon as you got 559 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: into speaking about what's happening in New York and the 560 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: Empowerment Clinic and the bill, You're right like you are, 561 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: your whole face lit up and you have this like beatings. 562 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: But I wish that people listening could see you, because 563 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: I think it's such a wonderful thing when you get 564 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: to see someone just be lit up from within because 565 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: they're doing what they're called to do or to do, 566 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 1: or however you want to say it. And it's it's 567 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 1: awesome that in in such a serious sort of arena 568 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: where the subject matter is heavy and has real consequences, 569 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: you find like your ultimate joy in your advocacy, And 570 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: I can see it on your face, and it's it's 571 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: just cool. I get excited. I'm just like you're changing 572 00:32:50,840 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: the world. Thank you when we're talking about where the 573 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: equality model has been instituted, talk to me about Amsterdam. 574 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 1: Does it Does it actually work there? So Amsterdam is 575 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: a regime that's where prostitution is legalized. It's fully fully decriminalized. 576 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 1: Well there's there's a small distinction. Regimes that fully decriminalized 577 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: strip all penalties away from the crimes and it's sort 578 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: of a free for all. So New Zealand has decriminalized 579 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: the industry, and that's what the proposing in New York. 580 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: In Germany and in Amsterdam, it's legalized. So brothels are legal, 581 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 1: there are ordinances about them, there are rules, you know, 582 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 1: in those rules, like I gave the pillow example, what's 583 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: happened in Amsterdam and in Germany is that the legalized 584 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: sex trades end up being run by organized crime. So 585 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: the purported uh, you know, health care benefits that people 586 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 1: in the sex trade get, or or the empowerment or 587 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 1: the autonomy that the people in the sex trades supposedly get, 588 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 1: actually isn't a reality. Over ninety son of the people 589 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 1: who fill legalized brothels in Germany are trafficked from Eastern 590 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 1: Europe and Western Africa. They're not legal they're not seeking 591 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 1: those benefits. Something that happened in Amsterdam is that they've 592 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: started to roll back their red light districts and close 593 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: them because the Mayor of Amsterdam has said that you 594 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: actually can't create a legal, safe sex straight It's just 595 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: not possible. There are pimps who work, you know, as 596 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: security guards, who stand outside the legal brothels to keep 597 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 1: the women supposedly safe. But what happens when people go 598 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: around to check on conditions, like a welfare checked by 599 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,360 Speaker 1: someone from the state, right, the women aren't fully able 600 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 1: to They're not able to tell the truth. They can't 601 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 1: say no, the conditions are horrible, and no one being 602 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: exploited because their pimp is standing there is their security guard. 603 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: And you can talk all all you want about anecdotes, 604 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: but when you look at the data of those countries 605 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,840 Speaker 1: about the increase in violence increase and abuse increase and 606 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: organized crime, it speaks for itself. So in a way, 607 00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 1: our desire to think that we could would create policies 608 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 1: that would create a legal and safe sex trade is 609 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 1: disproven by the data. Is what you're saying exactly, Like, 610 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 1: we have this idea that if we just legalize it, 611 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: people can get tested and people will be protected and 612 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 1: people won't be burned or beaten or strangled or shot 613 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 1: by the people who are purchasing access to their bodies 614 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: for sex. But the data shows otherwise in the countries 615 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: that have tried. Last year, in Germany, the owners of 616 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 1: one of the biggest legal brothels, like the brothel you 617 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: read about that you hear about in in any conversation 618 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:34,840 Speaker 1: about this was arrested for trafficking. Wow, and it's a 619 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:39,440 Speaker 1: it's legal, legal brothel. And what happens when brothels are legal? 620 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: And what what would happen in New York? Are these 621 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 1: mega brothels are erected, so in Germany they're they're like 622 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 1: seven story tall mega brothels with a different fetish on 623 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,279 Speaker 1: every floor. If you want sex with a pregnant woman, 624 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: if you want to take all your friends and have 625 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 1: a gang bang, and there are there are like Yelp 626 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 1: reviews of these And on opening weekend of this one 627 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 1: mega brothel in Germany, seven hundred men lined up around 628 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,800 Speaker 1: the block to go into the brothel and wrote reviews afterwards, 629 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: like by the end of the day, the women retired, 630 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,919 Speaker 1: they felt used up and complained wanted their money back, 631 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 1: wanted their money back because these women had been quote 632 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 1: used up, yeah, and didn't seem into it. Yeah. Wow. 633 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: And then we come to find out that a lot 634 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:23,399 Speaker 1: of those women were actually trafficked, right. And then we 635 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 1: were we were talking and you said something to me 636 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: that was so disturbing about New Zealand. So in New Zealand, 637 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 1: where it's decriminalized, law enforcement don't really have any grounds 638 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: to to go in and regulated at all because it's 639 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 1: not regulated, it's decriminalized. So yesterday again at the hearing, 640 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 1: I heard someone tell a story about child in New 641 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 1: Zealand being raped and reporting to law enforcement, and law 642 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 1: enforcement have a really hands off approach, you know, it's 643 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 1: it's not our you know, we can't do anything. It's 644 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 1: there's no regulations. Who says that that can't happen. And 645 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 1: so crime and violence and abuse against people in the 646 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: sex rade there goes really on prosecuted. That's something that 647 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 1: really upsets me that we hear a lot, and I 648 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: don't understand how we don't have harder lines with children, 649 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 1: especially like when when Centuria Brown's case sort of gained 650 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 1: all of this public awareness and they were speaking about 651 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 1: her and they were saying, well, a sixteen year old prostitute, 652 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 1: and it's like a sixteen year old can't be a prostitute. 653 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 1: Sixteen year old is a child who is a victim 654 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: of sex trafficking, who's being raped. She's a child. And 655 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 1: to your point, nothing changes at eighteen. A victim is 656 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 1: a victim. Um. But it's it's a strange. There's no 657 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: child process. There's no such thing as child prostitution. That 658 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 1: is not a thing. It is a term we should 659 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: never ever ever use. And and by the way, the 660 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: legal definition is that if you're under eighteen year per 661 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 1: se victim of trafficking. The example you give about New 662 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,880 Speaker 1: Zealand is so crazy to me because the idea that 663 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 1: law enforcement would say, well, sex acts are all decriminalized here, 664 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 1: and who's to say that that wasn't part when they're 665 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,800 Speaker 1: paid for right, when there's a when it's a commercial 666 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,680 Speaker 1: sexual So the idea that someone paid for something and 667 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 1: raped a child, it was something they felt like they 668 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:22,839 Speaker 1: couldn't touch because of the deep and and then and 669 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:24,919 Speaker 1: I mean that's not to say that they don't have 670 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: in there. I actually I'm not quite sure what age, 671 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,279 Speaker 1: but that New Zealand cuts it off, but that it's 672 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 1: not technically legal to purchase a child there, but just 673 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:39,879 Speaker 1: law enforcements ability to really regulate it is is compromised, right, 674 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 1: and it's and it's their inability to act because they 675 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 1: don't know where the line is driving that is dangerous 676 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 1: in real time. I think people forget that it doesn't 677 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 1: matter if there's legislation if the legislation can't be practically 678 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 1: enacted in real time, and that New Zealand story feels 679 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 1: like a perfect example of that. What do you think 680 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 1: needs to happen for the equality model to exist here? 681 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 1: Because you know, obviously you're doing incredible advocacy work and 682 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: there are attorneys all across the US trying to, you know, 683 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,760 Speaker 1: help this become law here. But what can the rest 684 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 1: of us do to support your work and to and 685 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 1: to help, you know, kind of climber for this, I 686 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: think spread the word educated. There's a third alternative, and 687 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: that when you read an article in teen Vogue that 688 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: says sex work is work, and question it and push 689 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:35,320 Speaker 1: back on teen Vogue who wrote an incredibly distasteful, horrible 690 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:39,000 Speaker 1: article glamorizing the sex trade, and you know, take to 691 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 1: social media and convince millennials that it's not empowering to 692 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 1: let men buy access to your body, and that when 693 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: there's a price tag on one woman, there's a price 694 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,839 Speaker 1: tag on all women. And I think that's such an 695 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:56,959 Speaker 1: interesting thing, because to your point, there are people who 696 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,839 Speaker 1: find their person empowerment in all sorts of ways. There's 697 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 1: all sorts of avenues, there's all sorts of choice. But 698 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,200 Speaker 1: as you're saying that, I am realizing. You know, I 699 00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: mentioned to you and again it's I'm not liberty to 700 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,399 Speaker 1: tell someone else's story, But I sat down with someone 701 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 1: who explained how her work in the sex trade empowered 702 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,359 Speaker 1: her and changed her life. And she's no longer in it, 703 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 1: but it was a really interesting conversation, and so in 704 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 1: this moment, I'm going, oh, right, it's so important to 705 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: qualify in in the math. You know, yeah, there could 706 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 1: be this story to tell, but but it is globally 707 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 1: an anomaly, and that doesn't shame her at all. But 708 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: but I think it's a really important distinction to draw 709 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 1: that there are quite literally, you know, they say that 710 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,359 Speaker 1: there are more slaves on earth today than their were 711 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:59,439 Speaker 1: during the slave trade, and a huge percentage of those 712 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 1: people who are enslaved or enslaved for sex work, and 713 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,400 Speaker 1: and the idea that there are tens of millions, potentially 714 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 1: hundreds of millions of people who are being forced to 715 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,840 Speaker 1: do this, who are being raped, and who are being abused, 716 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: and who are being trafficked. It's like we have to 717 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 1: remember that we can't simply celebrate one person's success and 718 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 1: eradicate everyone else's story in any in any industry, you know, 719 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: but this in particularly at this issue. What what often 720 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: ends up happening is to look at people, look at 721 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 1: it on a really individual basis, and um, you have 722 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: to look at it as the greater good of society 723 00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 1: and as the whole what what do we want for 724 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,839 Speaker 1: our country and for our future? And for the girls 725 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,600 Speaker 1: were raising and the boys were raising. And you linked 726 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,400 Speaker 1: it to the slave trade, and we very deliberately use 727 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 1: the term sex trade to make that link, because it 728 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 1: would be going back in time to enslaving people to 729 00:41:54,760 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 1: to legalize buying people. And you said something earlier two 730 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: that really struck a chord in me that these buyers 731 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,240 Speaker 1: of women and the men who are in the sex 732 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 1: trade really look at those people as property, They look 733 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,799 Speaker 1: at them as a thing they can do what they 734 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,440 Speaker 1: want with and they believe that when money has exchanged hands, 735 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,759 Speaker 1: they have carte blanche to do whatever they want. And 736 00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 1: it's odd that because of the completely not odd, it's 737 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:28,400 Speaker 1: traumatizing actually because of the completely immediate and transactional nature 738 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 1: of the experience that these buyers have with sex workers, 739 00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,399 Speaker 1: with with people in the sex trade, is that they're 740 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 1: not humanized at all. But they're very human, but they're 741 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 1: being treated like a twisted doll of some sort. You know, 742 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,920 Speaker 1: it's like, I can do whatever I want with you, 743 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 1: I can take it as far as I want with you. 744 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 1: When I leave, I never have to think about you again. 745 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 1: And you know, it fuels all of that. Pornography so dangerous, 746 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:56,280 Speaker 1: and kids are being exposed to pornography and it's so violent, 747 00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: and it's fueling all of this. I'm curious because of 748 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: the problem of porn and you know, all the good 749 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 1: researchers are talking about how porn is like the downfall 750 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:13,239 Speaker 1: of relationships of sexual intimacy. Um, it's causing increases of 751 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 1: violence and trauma and all of these things. How do 752 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 1: you see the Internet play into the sex trade? Because 753 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,240 Speaker 1: I think about pornography and I think about I remember 754 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,879 Speaker 1: the story about back page being shut down and all, 755 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 1: how does all of this work? It just increases access. 756 00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,839 Speaker 1: A number of years ago, if you wanted to buy 757 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 1: sexual access to a person, you would have to go 758 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: down to it what we call a track, a ceed 759 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,879 Speaker 1: part of town and do it in person. And so 760 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 1: that was a barrier to some people. But with the 761 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 1: proliferation of the Internet, sex trafficking increased since back Page 762 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 1: from my backpage started until it was shut down last year, 763 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:58,840 Speaker 1: And so there are studies done that. For example, in Seattle, 764 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,560 Speaker 1: there was a study that the highest time of day 765 00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,879 Speaker 1: that men purchase sex was at two pm. Get back 766 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 1: from lunch break, go to their desk, sit down and 767 00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 1: go online and do that. So just the increased access 768 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: to to purchasing sex again led to an increase it 769 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:18,720 Speaker 1: a huge increase in demand, and that demand um gets 770 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 1: as men get bored of of just purchasing someone their 771 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 1: age for sex um then they want someone younger and 772 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: younger and younger. And you know, most most sex buyers 773 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 1: are employed, most are partnered. It's really anyone. And when 774 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:36,240 Speaker 1: the person who's sitting next to you in a cubicle 775 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 1: can go online and buy a woman for sex. How 776 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 1: can he then go sit next to you in a 777 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 1: conference room and treat you as an equal or see 778 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,879 Speaker 1: you as an equal? We really need to shift the 779 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,759 Speaker 1: whole conversation to sex buyers and what happens if if 780 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,319 Speaker 1: a man gets back from lunch and sits down at 781 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,360 Speaker 1: his desk at two pm and buys sexual access to 782 00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 1: another human being? When it? When does that happen? So? Yeah, 783 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 1: you order a girlfriend, Yeah, you make your after work plans? 784 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah. And I think that study, if 785 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 1: I remember correctly, was primarily men in the tech businesses. Wow. Yeah. 786 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 1: And for people listening may not know, can you can 787 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 1: you run us through what Backpage was and how that worked. Yeah? 788 00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: So Backpage was like a Craigslist online platform that had 789 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,440 Speaker 1: a huge adult services section. Before they shut down, they 790 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 1: were making over a hundred and fifty million dollars a 791 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 1: year off their adult services section. And there was a 792 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 1: really outdated law called the Communications Decency Act that held 793 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 1: websites gave them immunity from any accountability if a third 794 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 1: party posted on their site. So because Backpage said they 795 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 1: weren't authoring the ads, they were immune to any prosecution 796 00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 1: under this statute. We spent a few years lobbying hard 797 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: to close that loophole, and it passed, and it's an 798 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: incredible piece of legislation that very narrowly amends the Communications 799 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 1: Seasons the Act so that websites who knowingly facilitate human 800 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: trafficking can be held accountable. So this doesn't, you know, 801 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 1: affect if people who call themselves sex workers want to 802 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: go online and say, like, don't go on a date 803 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 1: with this guy, he's dangerous, it doesn't affect that that's 804 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 1: not knowingly facilitating human trafficking. However, when you google the legislation, 805 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:33,120 Speaker 1: which is called Fosta Sessa there's all you get a 806 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:37,120 Speaker 1: huge amount of negative information about it. You hear that 807 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,600 Speaker 1: it drove prostitution back onto the streets too and made 808 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,719 Speaker 1: it more dangerous. But what really happened is that it 809 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 1: shut down an entire marketplace where men could anonymously go 810 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 1: online and buy people for sex, most often children. There 811 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 1: was no way, there's no way to screen how old 812 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,360 Speaker 1: someone is on back Page. You just put eighteen and 813 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:03,359 Speaker 1: and their eighteen man. So um. Since Backpage closed, there's 814 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 1: been within the first seventy two hours, there was a 815 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:11,240 Speaker 1: reduction in trafficking on that. So that's something that people 816 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,360 Speaker 1: need to be including in these articles. And and but 817 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 1: it dawned on me when you said that the internet 818 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,440 Speaker 1: took the barrier away that people used to have to 819 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,320 Speaker 1: go somewhere and to actually physically switch out a person. 820 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 1: You can't watch someone via an internet exchange. But back 821 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 1: pushing sex which sex trade back onto the streets means 822 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: people can be surveilled, they can be followed, law enforcement 823 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: can actually crack down on this, hopefully rescue these sex 824 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 1: workers and criminalize these these john's and these pimps. And 825 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,720 Speaker 1: for people who are in the sex trade who say 826 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,800 Speaker 1: that the Internet gave them like a layer of safety, 827 00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 1: to your exact point, how you can't see who's on 828 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 1: the other end of the computer. You don't know until 829 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:59,479 Speaker 1: that person shows up, opens your door, comes inside. If 830 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: they're going to be the next person that beats you 831 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 1: or suffocates you with a pillow, or sodomizes you, or 832 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 1: any number of horrific, dangerous acts. You don't know that 833 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,319 Speaker 1: from the internet. How does the internet at a layer 834 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 1: of safety? Yeah, that's an argument that you often hear 835 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:19,720 Speaker 1: um about why Foster Sista made made it most so dangerous. Wow, 836 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,560 Speaker 1: But you know, tech was really against it at first, 837 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 1: free speech and all that, but we we have to 838 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: do the work. We have to do something to protect 839 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:34,600 Speaker 1: vulnerable people, and and it we legislate for the many, 840 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 1: not the few, you know, to your point of the 841 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:42,239 Speaker 1: really individual stories, Honor them, hear them, respect them. But 842 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,680 Speaker 1: we legislate for the many and for those for the 843 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 1: last girl, as one of our advocates says, you know, 844 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,839 Speaker 1: those who are most marginalized, most needed. As we talk 845 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,239 Speaker 1: about the reporting on it, because you do talk about 846 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 1: the fact that there's not a lot of statistics, and 847 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 1: also that the stories around the reality of these policies 848 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: can get very conflated and whatnot. How do we get 849 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,040 Speaker 1: better numbers and reporting? How do you how do you 850 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,120 Speaker 1: think we get to that? Do you think we need that? 851 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if we need it. I think it 852 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,320 Speaker 1: helps people to mobilize to hear numbers, and and people 853 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: often want to know, like, really, what percentage of the 854 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 1: sex rade people in the sex rade are consentual and 855 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,800 Speaker 1: not consensual and and we are sort of obsessed with numbers. 856 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't bother me that I don't know exactly, because 857 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 1: I understand why it's so hard to like so much 858 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,279 Speaker 1: sexual violence. It's it's under reported, you know, there are 859 00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: barriers to reporting. And then it's so hard to quantify 860 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 1: if you were trafficked at thirteen out of your foster 861 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 1: home or out of a shelter, and and you it's 862 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,719 Speaker 1: the only life you know, and you don't go to 863 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 1: high school, and you and so you don't have an education, 864 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,919 Speaker 1: and you don't have any earning potential. And now you're 865 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,279 Speaker 1: twenty two and you've already been through hell and back 866 00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 1: and the only life you know as prostitution and you 867 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 1: are without a pimp. Does that mean you're consensually in 868 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 1: the sex trade? Are you there by choice? So how 869 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,240 Speaker 1: can you even quantify that? That's a really good point, 870 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 1: And all of it makes me just want to ask you. 871 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 1: I mean, you are choosing to serve people in a 872 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: very hard space. This is emotionally taxing work that you're doing, 873 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:25,800 Speaker 1: and I imagine there are days that are really got wrenching. 874 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:29,799 Speaker 1: And how do you how do you do it? How 875 00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:34,200 Speaker 1: do you do your job and and also make space 876 00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,720 Speaker 1: for yourself and for joy and you know, for your kids, 877 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,279 Speaker 1: And what's the tactic or what are the tactics that 878 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:44,520 Speaker 1: you have to sort of employ to do that. I 879 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 1: never don't want to go to work. I love my job. 880 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,240 Speaker 1: I love the people I work with on both sides. 881 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:53,640 Speaker 1: I love my colleagues who are also little social justice 882 00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 1: warriors and advocates, and they inspire me. And I wish 883 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 1: you could talk to all of them, because there are 884 00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,919 Speaker 1: a thousand times better on the subject than I am. 885 00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,520 Speaker 1: And and I love the clients that we work with 886 00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 1: and the survivors, and they're inspiring. If, I mean, how 887 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,759 Speaker 1: can I ever complain about anything in my life? If 888 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 1: if they're getting out of bed at five am and 889 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,160 Speaker 1: getting on a bus to d C to go testify 890 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,960 Speaker 1: against a bill that they just know will affect their 891 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: brothers and sisters across the country. God, they're so inspiring. 892 00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,839 Speaker 1: And then I come home to two amazing kids who 893 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:32,600 Speaker 1: make me happier than anything. So they're one and a 894 00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,160 Speaker 1: half and three and a half. Oh, it's so fun. 895 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 1: One of my best friends is a one and a 896 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 1: half year old baby. It's a really fun stage. She's delicious. 897 00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:44,120 Speaker 1: Community brings a lot of relief and a lot of joy. 898 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:48,800 Speaker 1: I think in any sort of arena that's tougher, intense, 899 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:53,319 Speaker 1: or grueling, so I imagine your community is one of 900 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 1: the answers to this next question. But I'm curious also, 901 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,680 Speaker 1: what makes you feel hopeful I But yeah, I think 902 00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 1: it's sort of the same answer. The people that I 903 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 1: work with, and we'll we'll go around and we'll meet 904 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 1: with legislators and we'll meet with community members and you know, 905 00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 1: we'll just educate people and sometimes we'll get pushed back, 906 00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 1: and then sometimes we'll have a meeting that just gives 907 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,520 Speaker 1: you so much hope some some politician who's a visionary 908 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 1: who you just so implicitly trust is going to lead 909 00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:27,280 Speaker 1: us in the right direction, And that gives me hope. 910 00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 1: And seeing I mean, in reaction to everything that's happened 911 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 1: this year, seeing the young people be active in a 912 00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:38,359 Speaker 1: way that I've never seen, and how they just take 913 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 1: they use their voices and they take to the streets 914 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,440 Speaker 1: and their marches and their social media and using all 915 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,879 Speaker 1: their platforms in a way but I don't think we've 916 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,800 Speaker 1: ever seen so that gives me hope. Yeah, they're pretty 917 00:52:52,800 --> 00:53:00,879 Speaker 1: badass on all subjects. Really great, it's really excited this one. Well, 918 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 1: but again, I think to your point, it's about you know, 919 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,800 Speaker 1: who's getting to tell the story, and yeah, great to 920 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,080 Speaker 1: to say as a bunch of feminists to to someone 921 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:16,839 Speaker 1: who is in sort of a space that they say, like, 922 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,840 Speaker 1: I love this and this was my choice and this 923 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:20,919 Speaker 1: is how it works for me. Like more power to you. 924 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 1: But tens of millions of people don't have that luxury, 925 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,719 Speaker 1: and we have to fight for them. It's wrong not 926 00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,920 Speaker 1: to because it's because it's working just for one person. 927 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,719 Speaker 1: And to your point, the excellent version of this kind 928 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,960 Speaker 1: of legislation, being the equality model, wouldn't criminalize that person 929 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 1: who's living her best life anyway, but it would protect 930 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,920 Speaker 1: tens of millions or potentially hundreds of millions of people 931 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:50,240 Speaker 1: who are not. And that's got to be the point. Well, 932 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 1: my last question for you is one that I like 933 00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 1: to ask everybody. The title of the podcast is called 934 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:59,960 Speaker 1: work in progress, and I'm curious what in your life 935 00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 1: comes to mind as a work in progress for you 936 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:06,520 Speaker 1: right now? I think all of it. Children certainly are 937 00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:12,560 Speaker 1: um marriages, and and my work is I think right now, 938 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 1: I'm so have my head in this drafting of the 939 00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 1: equality model, and what do we want to go and 940 00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,839 Speaker 1: do it? And how do we defeat the other bills? 941 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:20,759 Speaker 1: And how do we educate people. And then I took 942 00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 1: a step back yesterday and said to one of my colleagues, like, 943 00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,240 Speaker 1: this could be a five to ten year battle. This isn't. 944 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:29,279 Speaker 1: This isn't. I need a reminder. This isn't happening this year. 945 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 1: So that's definitely a work in progress. You know, I 946 00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:37,480 Speaker 1: have the amazing privilege to raise two boys and to 947 00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:41,840 Speaker 1: figure out how I want to teach them respect and 948 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:48,360 Speaker 1: and how to be interested and smart and curious children. 949 00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:52,480 Speaker 1: And oh, it's all a work in prodcrests. Yeah, thank you. 950 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,040 Speaker 1: All that super cool. Yeah, except my apartment it feels done. 951 00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,719 Speaker 1: Know your apartment is done, but you got you got 952 00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:03,440 Speaker 1: an inside lab. Yeah. Fun fact. Alexei's sister happens to 953 00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 1: be one of the great well half of one of 954 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:10,200 Speaker 1: the great design duos in America, potentially the world. I 955 00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, I like I found girl follow 956 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:16,239 Speaker 1: her on Instagram and the first time she replied to me, 957 00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:20,480 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I think you're so amazing. Okay, anyway, 958 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,680 Speaker 1: I've seen everything you've ever done. Okay, bye. Now I 959 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,000 Speaker 1: have to tell her she has to listen to the 960 00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:27,239 Speaker 1: whole podcast just to get her. Yeah, we'll be like 961 00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:31,960 Speaker 1: and just a little plug and yeah, yeah you can follow. 962 00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,319 Speaker 1: You can follow their well, the duo Ashley Androw on 963 00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 1: Instagram and I repost a lot of their work on 964 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 1: my little like design feed. So anyway, yeah, just a 965 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,439 Speaker 1: moment I think I'm turning red. It's fine. I still 966 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,960 Speaker 1: love that cool And you can follow No Buyer, No 967 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,760 Speaker 1: Pimp and why Like New York to learn more about 968 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: this issue. Thank you for bringing attention to this, like 969 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,360 Speaker 1: I said, just talking about it, teaching people that there's 970 00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 1: a third alternative. It's really important because I think a 971 00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:05,600 Speaker 1: lot of people instinctively know that criminalizing people in prostitution 972 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 1: isn't what they want. But I think once they learned 973 00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 1: that that decrome also means pimps and buyers and brothels 974 00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 1: and sex tourism and the likes, there's a third way. Yeah, 975 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,840 Speaker 1: thank you, Yeah, thank you, because it really is important 976 00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:23,440 Speaker 1: for people to have access to the expertise. There's so 977 00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:25,920 Speaker 1: much information out there, Like you said, you google things 978 00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,880 Speaker 1: and you get you get reviews that may be completely 979 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,520 Speaker 1: inaccurate to the way that they're going to affect the 980 00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,920 Speaker 1: public or public policy. And so for you to open 981 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,440 Speaker 1: up your home and your time to really help people 982 00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:41,359 Speaker 1: who are not lawyers in this arena get into your 983 00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:49,800 Speaker 1: brain is a gift, So thank you, thank you. Hey guys. 984 00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:53,000 Speaker 1: We wanted to include a follow up to the conversation 985 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 1: that I had with Alexei with a panel that she 986 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:59,359 Speaker 1: recently moderated on the link between sex trafficking and prostitution 987 00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: and why full decriminalization, in her opinion, is not the 988 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:07,800 Speaker 1: answer to protect people who do sex work. It's really powerful, 989 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:14,240 Speaker 1: so I hope you'll continue listening. There's a movement again 990 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:19,920 Speaker 1: amongst some progressive liberals to decriminalize the sex trade. This 991 00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,000 Speaker 1: movement tells the ideology that sex work is work, that 992 00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:26,960 Speaker 1: prostitution is a choice, that it's empowering. Uh. They even 993 00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,400 Speaker 1: go so far as to say that legalizing the sex 994 00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 1: trade would have no effect on human trafficking. We're not. 995 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,880 Speaker 1: For my work as UM a prosecutor of human trafficking 996 00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:42,080 Speaker 1: cases and my privilege to work among these incredibly brilliant, 997 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 1: brave warriors, I might also um subscribe to that ideology, 998 00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:52,200 Speaker 1: but instead I know that it's not empowering, that this 999 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 1: kind of legislation would be regressive, that sex buyers fuel 1000 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 1: the industry and create the demand that there's a historical 1001 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,360 Speaker 1: acceptance of violence against women of color who are bought 1002 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 1: and sold, and that the sex trade is an inherently 1003 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 1: predatory industry that praise and vulnerabilities. People among both sides 1004 00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,400 Speaker 1: of the divide agree that no one in prostitution should 1005 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,360 Speaker 1: be criminalized. Um. But where we differ is in how 1006 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:21,160 Speaker 1: to provide meaningful services to those people to help them 1007 00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:26,960 Speaker 1: exit prostitution, and um, how to recommend policy to around 1008 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:31,720 Speaker 1: sex buyers and pimps. So um. Without further ado, I 1009 00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 1: am thrilled in honor to introduce you to these leaders 1010 00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 1: who can help us explore these themes even further. So 1011 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,480 Speaker 1: I want to start and ask you each to introduce yourselves. 1012 00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 1: Who you are, what you do, and how you got there. Um. 1013 00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:48,920 Speaker 1: My name is Yasmin Vafa. I am the co founder 1014 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,480 Speaker 1: and executive director of Rights for Girls, which is a 1015 00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 1: human rights organization based in Washington, d C. Dedicated to 1016 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 1: ending gender based violence against young women and girls in 1017 00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,200 Speaker 1: the United States. And how I come to this work 1018 00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,920 Speaker 1: is as an Iranian American woman who immigrated to this 1019 00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,000 Speaker 1: country with my family in the eighties during the Iran 1020 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,960 Speaker 1: I Rock War. Uh. And so I've always had an 1021 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:17,120 Speaker 1: eight um understanding of this struggle for women's rights and 1022 00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,680 Speaker 1: girls rights coming from the Middle East, but it wasn't 1023 00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,600 Speaker 1: until my law school years where I realized the extent 1024 00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,880 Speaker 1: to which the United States detegrates the rights of young 1025 00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,840 Speaker 1: women and girls, and so I became very passionate about 1026 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:32,400 Speaker 1: working to address those issues here in the United States UM, 1027 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,160 Speaker 1: which led to the founding of Rights for Girls. As 1028 00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 1: an advocate, I became very frustrated in navigating a number 1029 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:42,720 Speaker 1: of different advocacy spaces where girls lives were really invisible, 1030 00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:46,400 Speaker 1: whether it was in the criminal justice or juvenile justice realm, 1031 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:49,360 Speaker 1: in the domestic violence sexual assault realm, or even in 1032 00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:53,600 Speaker 1: the anti trafficking realm, girls and particularly marginalized girls of 1033 00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:56,680 Speaker 1: color were really invisible. And so we started Rights for 1034 00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 1: Girls UM to really center the voices and the needs 1035 01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:03,000 Speaker 1: of our most marginalized girls. And so that's how I 1036 01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:08,040 Speaker 1: come to this work. Hi everyone, UM, my name is 1037 01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:11,800 Speaker 1: Melanie Thompson. I am a survivor of human trafficking UM. 1038 01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:13,680 Speaker 1: I was trafficked here in New York City when I 1039 01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,640 Speaker 1: was twelve years old and then later arrested UM. And 1040 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,720 Speaker 1: I got into this work because upon my arrest I 1041 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 1: was sent to a juvenile detention of state, and there 1042 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:25,479 Speaker 1: was a famous New York Times editor who came to 1043 01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 1: interview the staff of that facility. UM, and the staff 1044 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 1: of that facility essentially introduced that editor to myself to 1045 01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:34,720 Speaker 1: do an interview. And then I was introduced to the 1046 01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:38,280 Speaker 1: world of advocacy UM and I never stopped since then. 1047 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 1: I realized that this my voice was not only powerful 1048 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:46,680 Speaker 1: and necessary, UM, but definitely one that could serve as 1049 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 1: a voice for the voiceless. As I like to say, so, UM, 1050 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:53,440 Speaker 1: I'm here and you're gonna good singing to fight the fight. Hello, 1051 01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 1: my name is Anne Mathieson. I'm the lead program specialist 1052 01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:59,760 Speaker 1: in the Justice and Empowerment for Teens in Initiative out 1053 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,800 Speaker 1: Saying Try for Families. It's a clinical program providing therapy 1054 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 1: services to young adult survivors of the commercial sex industry. 1055 01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:12,720 Speaker 1: I started UM in this work over a decade ago 1056 01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 1: in Seattle. I met a number of survivors in Seattle. 1057 01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,200 Speaker 1: I had already had a lot of concerns about this 1058 01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:22,240 Speaker 1: issue because I had seen friends of mine pulled into 1059 01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:27,000 Speaker 1: the industry and severely hurt by the industry. UM. So, 1060 01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,960 Speaker 1: while I was living in Seattle. I met advocates survivors 1061 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,400 Speaker 1: who were in the process of creating a new nonprofit, 1062 01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:37,240 Speaker 1: the Organization for Prostitution Survivors. So I worked with them 1063 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,000 Speaker 1: to found that nonprofit and worked there for for a 1064 01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:42,960 Speaker 1: number of years, and then I traveled to Sweden UM 1065 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:46,560 Speaker 1: to complete a full Bright fellowship. I was researching global 1066 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:51,280 Speaker 1: prostitution policy and specifically looking at the equality model in 1067 01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 1: Sweden and comparing it to other models. My name is 1068 01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:00,720 Speaker 1: Cristian Ardo. I'm Mexican imm iran, a member of the 1069 01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:05,440 Speaker 1: LBT community, and I'm a survivor of international domestic sex 1070 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:09,680 Speaker 1: on labor traffic UM. Actually, I start to a bocate 1071 01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:14,480 Speaker 1: this year and there reson is because I need to 1072 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 1: break the stigma about certain things. The first is that 1073 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,680 Speaker 1: all the people in prostitution are thereby choice. That's not true. 1074 01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 1: The second is that trafficking is only happening in kids 1075 01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:30,960 Speaker 1: and women. That's not true. I'm a male and I 1076 01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:34,840 Speaker 1: was traffic as an adult. And the third thing is 1077 01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:38,120 Speaker 1: that trafficking is happening here and it's trafficing is happening 1078 01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:43,600 Speaker 1: in our communities. Good evening, everyone. My name is Laura Ramirez. 1079 01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm the program coordinator for the Coalition Against Trafficking in 1080 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:52,440 Speaker 1: Women UH, the first international nonprofit organization to fight commercial 1081 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:57,520 Speaker 1: sexual exploitation UM. I'm also a core organizer with a 1082 01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:01,960 Speaker 1: firm New York, which is a transnational feminist organization that 1083 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:08,200 Speaker 1: does grassroots advocacy UM towards genuine transnational feminist liberation. The 1084 01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 1: word transnational means that no matter where you are in 1085 01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:16,960 Speaker 1: the world, your advocacy cannot ignore or forget the experiences 1086 01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 1: of our sisters back home. And that's exactly what I'm 1087 01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:22,480 Speaker 1: doing here in this work and in all of my 1088 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:26,040 Speaker 1: work for the rest of my life, which is understanding 1089 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:28,080 Speaker 1: that we are not alone in this world, and that 1090 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 1: everything we do, especially here in the United States, the 1091 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:34,600 Speaker 1: most privileged country in the world, affects women and girls 1092 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:39,000 Speaker 1: all over the world. Thank you, so yes man. The 1093 01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,280 Speaker 1: topic of sex trafficking and the sex trade is in 1094 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:44,440 Speaker 1: the news almost daily with high profile cases like Robert 1095 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 1: Kraft and Jeffrey Epstein. Most people have really still not 1096 01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,720 Speaker 1: thought about the links between the sex trade, which includes 1097 01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:54,080 Speaker 1: prostitution and sex trafficking. Can you start by giving an 1098 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,920 Speaker 1: overview about what sex trafficking is and then explain the 1099 01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:01,760 Speaker 1: link between the two sure or so. UM. Under the law, 1100 01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 1: the crime of sex trafficking occurs any time an adult 1101 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:09,800 Speaker 1: is forced or coerced into the sex trade, or any 1102 01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:12,800 Speaker 1: time a child under the age of eighteen is involved 1103 01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 1: in the sex trade. UM. Of course, a lot of 1104 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 1: people talk about the issue of prostitution and sex trafficking 1105 01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:22,200 Speaker 1: as if they're too totally distinct issues. But we know 1106 01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:25,440 Speaker 1: from our work that in fact these issues are inextricably linked, 1107 01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 1: and that's true for a number of reasons. UM. First, 1108 01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,560 Speaker 1: it's important to realize that when people talk about sex trafficking, 1109 01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:37,400 Speaker 1: what we're actually saying is people who are trafficked into prostitution. UM. 1110 01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,080 Speaker 1: Another way of saying that is that although sex trafficking 1111 01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,720 Speaker 1: might be the means, prostitution is the ultimate end, that 1112 01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,920 Speaker 1: this is all operating in the same ecosystem. UH. And 1113 01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:51,000 Speaker 1: that's certainly sex buyers who are soliciting individuals in the 1114 01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:54,600 Speaker 1: sex trade are not meaningfully able to discern whether an 1115 01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:58,200 Speaker 1: individual they're purchasing is trafficked or not. UM. The other 1116 01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,760 Speaker 1: way in which these two issues are linked is that 1117 01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,400 Speaker 1: we know from survivors and much of the global research 1118 01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,360 Speaker 1: that the vast majority of adults in the sex trade 1119 01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:09,000 Speaker 1: first entered as children, so under the law, they would 1120 01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:12,160 Speaker 1: be considered child sex trafficking victims. And so it's important 1121 01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 1: to think about, UM, what happens when these kids turn eighteen? Right, 1122 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,680 Speaker 1: does this automatically become an empowered career choice for them 1123 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:21,560 Speaker 1: even if they maybe no longer have a trafficker. Um. 1124 01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 1: So it's really important to understand how these two systems 1125 01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:29,000 Speaker 1: are actually very closely connected. UM. And we also have 1126 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,440 Speaker 1: to understand how the policies that we UM, you know, 1127 01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 1: enact to address one of these issues inevitably impact the other. 1128 01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:40,320 Speaker 1: And really quickly, can you go over there's been bills 1129 01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:43,920 Speaker 1: introduced in both DC and New York. UM, what do 1130 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,880 Speaker 1: those bills decriminalize? Sure, so there's been a lot of 1131 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,040 Speaker 1: momentum around UM, you know, the need to decriminalize quote 1132 01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 1: unquote sex work. UM. And I think people hear this 1133 01:05:55,200 --> 01:06:00,360 Speaker 1: and and initially UM might have a very you know, strong, UM, 1134 01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 1: you know, desire to to support these moves because I 1135 01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,680 Speaker 1: think we initially think, as you said, that it's really 1136 01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 1: important to decriminalize individuals who are engaged in prostitution, who 1137 01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,760 Speaker 1: happened to be some of the most vulnerable members of 1138 01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 1: our community who often entered the sex industry as children. UM. 1139 01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,040 Speaker 1: But what these bills do is actually go much farther 1140 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:21,680 Speaker 1: than that. UM. What they do is seek to legitimize 1141 01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:25,480 Speaker 1: the sex industry by repealing all of the laws around UM, 1142 01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:29,280 Speaker 1: sex buying, pimping, and pandering, as well as brothel keeping. 1143 01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:32,560 Speaker 1: And what we know is that in doing so they 1144 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:36,760 Speaker 1: actually fuel more harm, more violence, more exploitation, and actually 1145 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:40,920 Speaker 1: directly lead to increase levels of sex trafficking. UM. We 1146 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:44,040 Speaker 1: all know that, you know, sex buying is illegal in 1147 01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:46,320 Speaker 1: most parts of the country except for a handful of 1148 01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:49,680 Speaker 1: counties in Nevada. And despite that, there are millions of 1149 01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,200 Speaker 1: men willing to break the law in order to buy sex. 1150 01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 1: So imagine what would happen if suddenly we were to 1151 01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:59,120 Speaker 1: repeal those laws. UM. More men would inevitably enter the market, 1152 01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 1: not just from that jurisdiction, but from other jurisdictions where 1153 01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:06,040 Speaker 1: it remains illegal as sex tourists. UM. And what that 1154 01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:08,400 Speaker 1: does is it drives up the demand. UH. And the 1155 01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:10,280 Speaker 1: reality of the sex trade is that you're never going 1156 01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 1: to have as many truly willing and consenting participants as 1157 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:17,480 Speaker 1: a never ending demand requires. And so that's where sex 1158 01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:20,600 Speaker 1: trafficking comes into play because traffickers will always seek to 1159 01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:23,240 Speaker 1: capitalize on that demand, and they do so by targeting 1160 01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:28,080 Speaker 1: are most vulnerable exactly so, and can you talk about 1161 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:32,040 Speaker 1: the impacts that full decriminalization or legalization have had in 1162 01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:35,840 Speaker 1: the countries that have implemented these models? For sure? So 1163 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:40,920 Speaker 1: legalization and full decriminalization are nearly identical in UM implementation 1164 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:44,400 Speaker 1: and the consequences that they both cause. In countries that 1165 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:49,720 Speaker 1: fully decriminalize or legalized prostitution UM, more men, bisex, more 1166 01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 1: women and children are trafficked into UM the commercial sex industry, 1167 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:57,520 Speaker 1: primarily from poorer nations UM to meet that demand for 1168 01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:00,959 Speaker 1: paid sex, there are high rates of violence against people 1169 01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:05,160 Speaker 1: in the trade. Organized crime controls the majority of both 1170 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:10,360 Speaker 1: the legal and illegal markets, and broadle owners conspire with 1171 01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:14,800 Speaker 1: the pimps and traffickers to fill their broadles with UM 1172 01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:18,960 Speaker 1: women and youth, primarily women and youth of color. In Germany, 1173 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to talk about a number of countries now 1174 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:24,519 Speaker 1: and give UM example specific examples from countries of how 1175 01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 1: it's manifested. So in Germany, where UM prostitution is legalized, 1176 01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 1: the intersection of capitalism and legalization has produced what they 1177 01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:39,080 Speaker 1: call flat rate and mega broadle chains. I'm going to 1178 01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:42,760 Speaker 1: read a quote from a German news article that is 1179 01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:47,679 Speaker 1: reviewing one of those broadle chains. Quote. When the pussy 1180 01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:51,440 Speaker 1: Club of flat Ray Broadle opened near Stuttgart, the management 1181 01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:54,880 Speaker 1: advertised the club as follows quote sex with all women 1182 01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:57,320 Speaker 1: as long as you want, as often as you want 1183 01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:01,719 Speaker 1: sex anal sex, oral set without a condom, three ways 1184 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:06,320 Speaker 1: group sex, gang bangs end quote. The price seventy euros 1185 01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:09,320 Speaker 1: during the day and a hundred in the evening. According 1186 01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:13,400 Speaker 1: to the police, about seventeen hundred men took advantage of 1187 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 1: the offer on the opening weekend. Buses arrived from far away, 1188 01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:20,200 Speaker 1: and local newspapers reported that up to seven hundred men 1189 01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:24,880 Speaker 1: stood in line outside the Broadle at any one time. Afterwards, 1190 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 1: customers wrote in internet chat rooms about them supposedly unsatisfactory service. 1191 01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:36,040 Speaker 1: They complained that the women were no longer as fit 1192 01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:39,800 Speaker 1: for use. After a few hours. At closing time, many 1193 01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:43,840 Speaker 1: of the women collapsed from exhaustion, pain injuries, and infections, 1194 01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:47,200 Speaker 1: including painful rashes and fungal infections that spread from their 1195 01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:51,360 Speaker 1: genitals down their legs. This club was closed one year 1196 01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:55,000 Speaker 1: later for sex trafficking and that's in a country where 1197 01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:58,360 Speaker 1: it's and that's in the Germany where it's legalized. So um, 1198 01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk a little bit about full decriminalization. Again, 1199 01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:05,200 Speaker 1: these are really the same models. The abstract theory behind 1200 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:09,680 Speaker 1: full decriminalization is that the sex trade, a trade that 1201 01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:13,400 Speaker 1: is rife with violence and abuse, will somehow self regulate 1202 01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:17,799 Speaker 1: to prevent exploitation. In two thousand and three, New Zealand 1203 01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 1: decriminalized sex buying, pimping and selling. After full decrim the 1204 01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:26,920 Speaker 1: number of unregulated brothels increased and there were high number 1205 01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:30,439 Speaker 1: of reports of incidents of violence against women in the industry, 1206 01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:36,280 Speaker 1: including murder. Of The women who are exploited in street 1207 01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:40,559 Speaker 1: based prostitution in New Zealand are Maori and Polynesian. Rather 1208 01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,639 Speaker 1: than reducing the number of children exploited in the sex trade, 1209 01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:47,920 Speaker 1: New Zealand Commissioner for Children, Dr Cindy Cairo stated that 1210 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:51,360 Speaker 1: New Zealand has a clear problem of child exploitation, which 1211 01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:56,280 Speaker 1: she said had most likely worsened since decriminalization. Police reports 1212 01:10:56,320 --> 01:11:00,439 Speaker 1: indicate that girls as young as twelve are being sold 1213 01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:03,639 Speaker 1: on the streets to adult men, and this is because 1214 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:05,920 Speaker 1: there's a demand in New Zealand for children because the 1215 01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:09,519 Speaker 1: buyers want unprotected sex, but they also don't want s 1216 01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:14,000 Speaker 1: t I S. So sex buyers don't differentiate. They don't 1217 01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:16,720 Speaker 1: ask someone if they're trafficked. They don't ask someone are 1218 01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:19,719 Speaker 1: you over the age of eighteen. In fact, many sex 1219 01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:23,840 Speaker 1: buyers are actually specifically seeking out children because they really 1220 01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:26,599 Speaker 1: want someone who they can manipulate and control, who they 1221 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:29,479 Speaker 1: can act out, you know, whatever fantasy of dominance and 1222 01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:33,160 Speaker 1: degradation that they want, and they find that vulnerability of 1223 01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:37,120 Speaker 1: the person that they're buying arousing. So even though New 1224 01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 1: Zealand has been identified as a destination country for trafficking, 1225 01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:45,679 Speaker 1: it took the country twelve years to prosecute a single 1226 01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:50,320 Speaker 1: trafficker because after full decriminalization, it became the case that 1227 01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:55,200 Speaker 1: the laws were so advantageous to traffickers. I'm gonna talk 1228 01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:57,800 Speaker 1: just if if we have the time, we'll talk about 1229 01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:00,200 Speaker 1: the Netherlands too, because this is another country of that 1230 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:04,120 Speaker 1: people hold up as an example of um success, which 1231 01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:09,040 Speaker 1: is really a big myth. So in Netherlands, the sex 1232 01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:13,200 Speaker 1: industry is legalized, and because the sex industry is so 1233 01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:16,679 Speaker 1: controlled by organized crime, many Dutch cities had to close 1234 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:20,479 Speaker 1: their legal prostitution zones, and Amsterdam closed half of their 1235 01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:24,920 Speaker 1: legal prostitution UM windows because the city council had determined 1236 01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:28,640 Speaker 1: that they were completely run by organized crime. An investigative 1237 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 1: report was published by the National Police Service and it 1238 01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:34,400 Speaker 1: documented that criminal gangs working as pimps and bodyguards had 1239 01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:38,080 Speaker 1: been using extreme violence against women in the industry UM 1240 01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 1: and specifically in the legal, licensed, supposedly safe, protected portion 1241 01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:46,679 Speaker 1: of the industry. And the report asked, how is this possible? 1242 01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:50,120 Speaker 1: How is it that sex trafficking is happening almost unimpeded 1243 01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:54,080 Speaker 1: in the legal sector of our industry, And they identified 1244 01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:56,479 Speaker 1: five answers, and I think these are really important because 1245 01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:59,960 Speaker 1: of New York legalizes prostitution or you know, fully decriminalizes 1246 01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:01,760 Speaker 1: whatever we want to call it, these will be the 1247 01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:04,519 Speaker 1: same results that will see. So they found that law 1248 01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:09,040 Speaker 1: enforcement has a lot less power to investigate UM and 1249 01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:12,599 Speaker 1: they have a lot less incentive to investigate prostitution when 1250 01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:15,960 Speaker 1: it's a legal industry. The legal trade acts as a 1251 01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:18,120 Speaker 1: cover for the illicit market, making it really hard to 1252 01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:22,360 Speaker 1: track the illegal market. Broadle inspections are not successful in 1253 01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:25,799 Speaker 1: detecting exploitation, in part because the women are often monitored 1254 01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:29,800 Speaker 1: by pimps, when the inspectors are interviewing them. They found 1255 01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:32,759 Speaker 1: that the bodyguards were actually working for the criminal gangs. 1256 01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:35,280 Speaker 1: Many of the bodyguards were pimps themselves, and they also 1257 01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:37,960 Speaker 1: found that there was a high risk of collusion between 1258 01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:40,760 Speaker 1: the law enforcement and bodyguards. You've got to remember that 1259 01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:43,479 Speaker 1: when you legalize or fully decriminalized, as soon as that 1260 01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:46,519 Speaker 1: officer takes off his uniform, he can be a buyer too. 1261 01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:50,719 Speaker 1: And also they found that legalization relied on the goodwill 1262 01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,440 Speaker 1: of the broadle owners and the sex buyers to prioritize 1263 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:59,920 Speaker 1: um reporting abuse over their own profit margins and personal 1264 01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:07,479 Speaker 1: sexual satisfaction. No so, Melanie, Here in New York we have, 1265 01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:11,519 Speaker 1: on the one hand, prostituted people are criminalized under the law, 1266 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:14,960 Speaker 1: and on the other hand, there's this strong cultural and 1267 01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:18,320 Speaker 1: media push to celebrate prostitution as a job like any 1268 01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:22,439 Speaker 1: other and as empowering. As a survivor of sex trafficking 1269 01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,400 Speaker 1: and prostitution, can you explain why you do not use 1270 01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:29,599 Speaker 1: the language of sex work? Absolutely? Um So. I love 1271 01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:31,479 Speaker 1: to say that sex is not work, and work is 1272 01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:36,960 Speaker 1: not sex. You cannot buy consent, and there's this huge misconception. 1273 01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:40,080 Speaker 1: Everybody agrees that those who are traffic shouldn't be in 1274 01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,639 Speaker 1: that trafficking is bad. But there's always this argument when 1275 01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:45,760 Speaker 1: it comes to this idea of consensual sex work. Um, 1276 01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 1: And what a lot of people fail to realize is 1277 01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:51,160 Speaker 1: that prostitution is a system, not an isolated act that 1278 01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:54,400 Speaker 1: is fueled on other oppressive systems. So what I think 1279 01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,120 Speaker 1: our community needs to understand around sex work is the 1280 01:14:57,160 --> 01:15:02,800 Speaker 1: fact that prostitution is fueled on miss ageny, capitalism, and patriarchy. 1281 01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,439 Speaker 1: And if you don't have a clear understanding of those 1282 01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:09,000 Speaker 1: three oppressive systems, and you're not going to fully understand 1283 01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:15,400 Speaker 1: how prostitution can never be considered consensual right concise? I 1284 01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:20,080 Speaker 1: love it. Christan EDWARDA, UM, can you talk a little 1285 01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:25,880 Speaker 1: bit about how prostitution affects the LGBTQ community. Well, now 1286 01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,800 Speaker 1: with this movement, we have been here in the especially 1287 01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:33,080 Speaker 1: the LGBT community, it's on board about this. It's like, oh, 1288 01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:37,720 Speaker 1: this is the progressivity that we can do. Prostitution is 1289 01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:40,520 Speaker 1: the best thing that you can do. Um. It's interesting 1290 01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:45,520 Speaker 1: because the LGBT community has been always seen as the freaks, 1291 01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:49,040 Speaker 1: as the ones who are willing to do by choice 1292 01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:52,160 Speaker 1: all that theiry things on sex and are willing like 1293 01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:58,439 Speaker 1: to try. No matter how we are, how harm, how 1294 01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:01,600 Speaker 1: how much danger injury you can do to somebody, it 1295 01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:05,559 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You always will go stack the alerty community 1296 01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:08,439 Speaker 1: as yes, they're willing to do because they enjoy it 1297 01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:11,120 Speaker 1: and they like it. But on the other hand, it's 1298 01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:15,320 Speaker 1: and within the same about prostitution that we don't think 1299 01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 1: the people engage in prostitution as we never think about 1300 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:21,160 Speaker 1: them like, oh, this person need to be this person 1301 01:16:21,200 --> 01:16:23,880 Speaker 1: need housing, this person need they have all these needs. 1302 01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:26,519 Speaker 1: I don't know if they are going to school if not, 1303 01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:28,799 Speaker 1: if they are immigrants, that they have lit all status 1304 01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:32,360 Speaker 1: or not. We buyers never stop to think about this. 1305 01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:40,360 Speaker 1: So why and how this movement is now affecting the 1306 01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:44,880 Speaker 1: alivity community. Well, all gerty community has a lot of vulnerabilities. 1307 01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:47,200 Speaker 1: We need a lot of housing, We are a lot 1308 01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,599 Speaker 1: of immigrants, We lack of legal status, we don't have 1309 01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:53,760 Speaker 1: opportunities for a job. But there is a common denominator 1310 01:16:53,880 --> 01:16:57,800 Speaker 1: on other communities. People of color is suffered from the 1311 01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:00,800 Speaker 1: same things. Black people is suffering from the same things. 1312 01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:04,040 Speaker 1: Immigrants are super infermenting same thing. So it's not only 1313 01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 1: altivity communities that are being targeting by this new movement 1314 01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:14,040 Speaker 1: on prostitution, it's all our communities that are bolderable, and 1315 01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:16,760 Speaker 1: at the end, it's all the communities that are that 1316 01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 1: are exposed and are in danger already, and we need 1317 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:24,080 Speaker 1: to think about that. We are more than wholes and 1318 01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:29,360 Speaker 1: we're more than sticks because it's the way that everybody 1319 01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:33,080 Speaker 1: is seeing people in prostitution. So at the end, we 1320 01:17:33,120 --> 01:17:36,640 Speaker 1: are affecting human beings. And I don't know if you 1321 01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:40,599 Speaker 1: really have you ever stopped thinking about yourself and oh, yes, 1322 01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:43,800 Speaker 1: why I don't wake up today like, yes, let's go 1323 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,559 Speaker 1: and have sex with random people. And and that's the 1324 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:50,160 Speaker 1: people that I don't know one just because I mean 1325 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:54,160 Speaker 1: I feel it and it's empowering. I mean, have you 1326 01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:58,240 Speaker 1: ever heard about it? Of course not. So we need 1327 01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:02,320 Speaker 1: to stop romanticizing prostitution. There is a lot of harm 1328 01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:05,840 Speaker 1: over it, and this is not a solution for fully 1329 01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:08,760 Speaker 1: cominversation is not the solution. We need more choices, we 1330 01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:15,920 Speaker 1: need more opportunities, I agree, Laura. In the US, we 1331 01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:18,879 Speaker 1: know that it's primarily white men of privilege buying sexual 1332 01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:21,080 Speaker 1: access to the bodies of black and brown women and 1333 01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:24,479 Speaker 1: girls of color and members of the LGBTQ community. We 1334 01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:27,519 Speaker 1: cannot talk about the sex trade, sex trafficking, and sex 1335 01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:31,440 Speaker 1: buying without examining the legacies and ongoing impact of colonization 1336 01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:34,600 Speaker 1: and the slave trade. Can you speak about how combating 1337 01:18:34,600 --> 01:18:38,840 Speaker 1: prostitution is both a racial and gender justice issue. Yeah, 1338 01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:43,680 Speaker 1: prostitution is a racial issue, it's a gender issue. But 1339 01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:46,760 Speaker 1: I would also go as far as to say that 1340 01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:50,160 Speaker 1: it is a matter of genocide. Um. So everyone knows 1341 01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:53,360 Speaker 1: the phrase. If you don't know your history, you're bound 1342 01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:57,559 Speaker 1: to repeat it. Right. So um, I am going to 1343 01:18:57,680 --> 01:19:01,719 Speaker 1: share a history of my people, right, colonized people. So 1344 01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:05,519 Speaker 1: where my family is from, from the Caribbean islands. The 1345 01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:11,280 Speaker 1: native people were Diana Indians and women were actually matriarchs. 1346 01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:17,760 Speaker 1: So women um fought alongside men, They worked politically alongside men. 1347 01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:23,479 Speaker 1: They actually worshiped goddesses. They were They were a matrilineal society. 1348 01:19:23,640 --> 01:19:28,720 Speaker 1: And as soon as the colonizer stepped foot in Hispaniola, 1349 01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:33,040 Speaker 1: the very first thing that they did was sell our women. 1350 01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:38,120 Speaker 1: Christopher Columbus used to sell women, girls under the age 1351 01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:40,280 Speaker 1: of twelve years old. There are cases that say that 1352 01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:44,080 Speaker 1: he sold uh Tiana girls who were um around nine 1353 01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:48,439 Speaker 1: years old. So, um, fast forward thirty years in the island, 1354 01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:54,880 Speaker 1: and nine of Tayano Indians were completely um annihilated. Um. 1355 01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:58,960 Speaker 1: They were condemned to the slave trade, and women in particular, 1356 01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:04,559 Speaker 1: because of their acute vulnerability of being women were condemned 1357 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,240 Speaker 1: to the state slave trade. So when you hear people 1358 01:20:07,320 --> 01:20:11,439 Speaker 1: say prostitution is the world's oldest oppression, you can tell 1359 01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:15,720 Speaker 1: them that story about how my people didn't know prostitution 1360 01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:20,240 Speaker 1: until the colonizer stepped on our lands. So when we 1361 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:25,640 Speaker 1: talk about um liberation feminism, when we talk about decolonizing feminism, 1362 01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:29,759 Speaker 1: we're talking about going back to times where women didn't 1363 01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:34,080 Speaker 1: have to even deal with being and with existing as 1364 01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:38,000 Speaker 1: being a subordinate class. That's what we're talking about. So 1365 01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:40,680 Speaker 1: when people push the narrative, oh, you know, this is 1366 01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:45,840 Speaker 1: liberation politics, this is not liberation politics. The story that 1367 01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:49,200 Speaker 1: I just told is replicated all over the world. You 1368 01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:51,519 Speaker 1: can go to Africa, you can even go to places 1369 01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:55,280 Speaker 1: such as the Philippines, which still has a booming sex 1370 01:20:55,320 --> 01:21:00,120 Speaker 1: industry unfortunately based predicated on the same same contept globally, 1371 01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:04,559 Speaker 1: this is not a profession. It never has and I 1372 01:21:04,600 --> 01:21:07,320 Speaker 1: hope that after this panel you can understand that it 1373 01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:11,960 Speaker 1: never will be and therefore, we shouldn't pass legislations that 1374 01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:18,040 Speaker 1: enshrine our systematic historical oppression into law. All right, So 1375 01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:21,439 Speaker 1: you've heard a lot about what we're against, and we 1376 01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:25,640 Speaker 1: talk about what legal framework we are for. Absolutely, so 1377 01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:29,320 Speaker 1: we support a model called the equality model. This was 1378 01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:33,599 Speaker 1: a model that was first pioneered in Sweden. Sweden UM 1379 01:21:33,840 --> 01:21:37,120 Speaker 1: was the first country to recognize that prostitution is neither 1380 01:21:37,280 --> 01:21:41,479 Speaker 1: work nor a victimless crime, but rather a severe form 1381 01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:45,880 Speaker 1: of gender based violence. In Sweden passed the Peace for 1382 01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:51,320 Speaker 1: Women Act UM, which criminalized sex buying and pimping, while 1383 01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:55,519 Speaker 1: they also decriminalized the individuals who are being bought and 1384 01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:59,160 Speaker 1: sold in the industry. So they recognize that the individuals 1385 01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:01,400 Speaker 1: who are being exploited it should not be criminalized for 1386 01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:05,240 Speaker 1: their own exploitation. The model is a combination of three 1387 01:22:05,280 --> 01:22:09,160 Speaker 1: equally important components. The first is that it provides robust 1388 01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:12,760 Speaker 1: social services to survivors so that they can exit and 1389 01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:15,400 Speaker 1: heal from this um the trauma that they endure in 1390 01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:18,520 Speaker 1: this industry. The second is that it uses a community 1391 01:22:18,640 --> 01:22:22,759 Speaker 1: education campaign to teach men about the harms that sex 1392 01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:26,920 Speaker 1: buying causes to individuals and to the community. And the 1393 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:29,200 Speaker 1: third is that it changes the laws as I mentioned 1394 01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:31,840 Speaker 1: at the beginning, to reflect that prostitution is a form 1395 01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:37,400 Speaker 1: of gender based violence. Iceland and Norway followed Sweden adopting 1396 01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:40,160 Speaker 1: the same legislation, and every year, I think this is 1397 01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:43,599 Speaker 1: a really interesting fact. Every year these three countries are 1398 01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:47,280 Speaker 1: ranked among the top five of the World Economic Forums 1399 01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:51,280 Speaker 1: Index for equality between women and men. So each of 1400 01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:55,320 Speaker 1: these countries has made a quality model policies part of 1401 01:22:55,360 --> 01:23:00,640 Speaker 1: their gender equality like legislation. Overall, it's important to know, 1402 01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:03,040 Speaker 1: because I think folks get concerned about this, that the 1403 01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:07,120 Speaker 1: equality model is not driven by incarceration. That's something that 1404 01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:10,760 Speaker 1: the United States really focuses on. UM sex spires are 1405 01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:13,920 Speaker 1: subject to finds on a sliding fee scale based on 1406 01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:17,000 Speaker 1: their income. The model, what it really does is it 1407 01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:21,280 Speaker 1: works to prevent this harm in the first place, so 1408 01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:25,440 Speaker 1: they strive to decrease demand by teaching men about the harms. 1409 01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:29,639 Speaker 1: And it also is committed to empowering marginalized communities, um 1410 01:23:29,680 --> 01:23:32,280 Speaker 1: and populations so that they don't get pulled into this 1411 01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,559 Speaker 1: destructive industry in the first place. So I really think 1412 01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:38,160 Speaker 1: it's important for us to recognize that it's about supporting 1413 01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:42,760 Speaker 1: survivors to heal from the trauma that they've endured. UM. 1414 01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:45,160 Speaker 1: I also want to just say really quickly that, uh, 1415 01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:47,120 Speaker 1: the equality model, because I think this helps folks to 1416 01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:51,320 Speaker 1: understand what the equality model is. It really recognizes that 1417 01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:53,800 Speaker 1: prostitution should be treated in the same way that we 1418 01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:57,080 Speaker 1: treat other forms of gender based violence, like domestic violence. 1419 01:23:57,520 --> 01:24:02,320 Speaker 1: So the model only um decriminalizes the individual who is 1420 01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:07,040 Speaker 1: being exploited. It doesn't decriminalize the sex buying, the pimping, 1421 01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:10,639 Speaker 1: the trafficking. And this model has been adopted in seven 1422 01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:15,120 Speaker 1: additional countries. So there happens to be a huge misinformation 1423 01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:18,759 Speaker 1: campaign about this model, whereby detractors claim that it's a failure, 1424 01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:21,000 Speaker 1: that it pushes prostitution on the ground, makes it more 1425 01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:23,439 Speaker 1: dangerous for people in the sex trade. Um, we don't 1426 01:24:23,479 --> 01:24:25,120 Speaker 1: have time to get into all the myths, but can 1427 01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:28,200 Speaker 1: you address one or two of those myths for sure? 1428 01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:31,760 Speaker 1: So the equality model has decreased the size of the 1429 01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:34,200 Speaker 1: commercial sex trade, like I said, by decreasing the number 1430 01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:37,840 Speaker 1: of sex buyers and pimps, and by preventing people from 1431 01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:41,160 Speaker 1: being pulled into the industry. Also, the model helps folks, 1432 01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:43,680 Speaker 1: as I said, who are in the sex trade to 1433 01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:47,760 Speaker 1: exit and it's and it's really important again they help 1434 01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:49,800 Speaker 1: them to access the service that they need to heal. 1435 01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:53,080 Speaker 1: So what all of this means is that the equality 1436 01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:56,920 Speaker 1: model is a major threat to the big business interests 1437 01:24:56,960 --> 01:25:00,920 Speaker 1: that profit from the sex trade. This is I just 1438 01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:05,320 Speaker 1: always want to like contextualize this. This is a multibillion 1439 01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:09,479 Speaker 1: dollar global industry, so really big industry, a lot of 1440 01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:11,680 Speaker 1: folks with a lot of vested interest in seeing this 1441 01:25:11,760 --> 01:25:17,559 Speaker 1: industry normalized, decriminalized, legalized, and seeing it expand across the globe. 1442 01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,960 Speaker 1: So also that means that there's there's significant power behind 1443 01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:25,479 Speaker 1: the scenes invested in discrediting the equality model, because the 1444 01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:28,679 Speaker 1: equality model is our single, like the single biggest threat 1445 01:25:28,760 --> 01:25:32,679 Speaker 1: to the sex industry right now. Before enacting the equality model, 1446 01:25:32,720 --> 01:25:35,519 Speaker 1: Sweden actually had a full decrim model, and it was 1447 01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:38,720 Speaker 1: because of the failures that this model was showing in 1448 01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:41,639 Speaker 1: the country that they enacted the um the equality model 1449 01:25:41,640 --> 01:25:44,760 Speaker 1: in the first place. And after it was passed, they 1450 01:25:44,800 --> 01:25:47,960 Speaker 1: saw sex the percentage of men who are buying sex 1451 01:25:48,040 --> 01:25:52,080 Speaker 1: dropped from thirteen point six percent to seven point four percent. 1452 01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:55,600 Speaker 1: And it's because the demand dropped that the size of 1453 01:25:55,640 --> 01:26:00,240 Speaker 1: the industry began to shrink. Dramatically. In our culture, we 1454 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:03,280 Speaker 1: really hyper fixate on the choices made by people who 1455 01:26:03,320 --> 01:26:05,799 Speaker 1: are bought and sold in the industry, and I always 1456 01:26:05,800 --> 01:26:08,360 Speaker 1: tell people that this is actually a form of victim blaming, 1457 01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:11,759 Speaker 1: and it obscures that it hides the individuals who are 1458 01:26:11,760 --> 01:26:16,560 Speaker 1: truly making empowered choices, the pimps, the sex buyers, the traffickers. 1459 01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:20,280 Speaker 1: They are the individuals who decide how much they will pay, 1460 01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:22,639 Speaker 1: if they will use a condom, if they will rape 1461 01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:24,800 Speaker 1: the person that they've bought, if they will make the 1462 01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:28,320 Speaker 1: person that they're selling use a sponge to hide their 1463 01:26:28,360 --> 01:26:31,040 Speaker 1: menstrual flow. These are the people that are making the choices, 1464 01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:35,479 Speaker 1: and extensive research from around the world shows that sex 1465 01:26:35,479 --> 01:26:38,920 Speaker 1: buyer and pimp violence is an embedded aspect of prostitution. 1466 01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:45,320 Speaker 1: Panic buttons in brothels, pimps posing as bodyguards, training, and 1467 01:26:45,400 --> 01:26:48,320 Speaker 1: hostage negotiation skills. All of these things have been tried, 1468 01:26:48,640 --> 01:26:52,760 Speaker 1: and they don't make prostitution any safer, because, frankly, prostitution 1469 01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:57,640 Speaker 1: is not safe. There's a study that was done in 1470 01:26:57,640 --> 01:27:01,000 Speaker 1: the United States, and of the buyers in that study 1471 01:27:01,120 --> 01:27:06,040 Speaker 1: stated that if if a man pays a woman for sex, 1472 01:27:06,160 --> 01:27:09,080 Speaker 1: that that woman should do anything he asks, there's a 1473 01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:12,560 Speaker 1: sense of ownership that comes when you buy another person's body, 1474 01:27:12,720 --> 01:27:15,040 Speaker 1: and in another study, nearly half of the buyers admitted 1475 01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:17,280 Speaker 1: that they had paid for sexual acts with someone they 1476 01:27:17,360 --> 01:27:19,320 Speaker 1: knew to be under the control of a pimper trafficker. 1477 01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:23,320 Speaker 1: They just didn't care, so advocates in the sex trade 1478 01:27:23,600 --> 01:27:27,440 Speaker 1: Advocates of the sex trade um folks in the Netherlands, 1479 01:27:27,479 --> 01:27:30,720 Speaker 1: New Zealand, Denmark and Germany. They all argued that they 1480 01:27:30,720 --> 01:27:34,320 Speaker 1: were decriminalizing or legalizing prostitution for the benefit of the 1481 01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:38,639 Speaker 1: women in the industry. But those who truly benefited from 1482 01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:41,439 Speaker 1: this multibillion dollar trade and who continue to benefit are 1483 01:27:41,479 --> 01:27:45,200 Speaker 1: the broad ol owners, the pimps, the sex buyers, and 1484 01:27:45,240 --> 01:27:49,080 Speaker 1: the governments who are bringing in a significant tax in 1485 01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:52,720 Speaker 1: tourism revenue. Survivors, on the other hand, are dealing with 1486 01:27:52,760 --> 01:27:56,240 Speaker 1: acute and chronic medical illnesses and injuries that result from 1487 01:27:56,280 --> 01:28:01,080 Speaker 1: being repeatedly bought for sex by strangers, such as traumatic 1488 01:28:01,080 --> 01:28:03,880 Speaker 1: brain injuries from having one's heads slammed into car doors 1489 01:28:03,920 --> 01:28:07,920 Speaker 1: and windows, genital and internal injuries, as well as common 1490 01:28:08,040 --> 01:28:11,800 Speaker 1: psychological impacts like PTSD. Because you never know is this 1491 01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:13,960 Speaker 1: sex buyer going to be the one that murders me 1492 01:28:14,120 --> 01:28:20,360 Speaker 1: or rapes me, and also suicidal ideation, dissociation. The human 1493 01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:24,439 Speaker 1: body and psyche are not able to sustain sex with five, ten, 1494 01:28:24,680 --> 01:28:32,759 Speaker 1: fifteen thirty strangers a day, multiple days a week, multiple 1495 01:28:32,760 --> 01:28:39,000 Speaker 1: weeks a year. This causes severe physical and psychological harm. 1496 01:28:39,040 --> 01:28:42,680 Speaker 1: And these impacts don't discriminate based on whether someone identifies 1497 01:28:42,720 --> 01:28:45,880 Speaker 1: as a sex worker, a survivor, or a victim of 1498 01:28:45,920 --> 01:28:50,880 Speaker 1: sex trafficking. So last week, we were at a hearing 1499 01:28:51,040 --> 01:28:53,439 Speaker 1: in Washington, d C. In front of the DC Council 1500 01:28:53,479 --> 01:28:57,320 Speaker 1: members and someone um and it was about a decriminalization bill, 1501 01:28:57,400 --> 01:28:59,559 Speaker 1: and someone who was against the bill got up and 1502 01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:04,439 Speaker 1: said to the council members, this legislation doesn't protect black 1503 01:29:04,479 --> 01:29:07,560 Speaker 1: and brown girls. It protects the white men who buy them. 1504 01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:11,639 Speaker 1: So Christian Eduardo, every dollar pimps and traffickers make comes 1505 01:29:11,640 --> 01:29:14,679 Speaker 1: from the sex buyers who feel the demand that leads 1506 01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:18,759 Speaker 1: to sex trafficking. Can you talk about the buyer's role? Well, 1507 01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:22,240 Speaker 1: it's something really interesting actually happening in this room. There 1508 01:29:22,280 --> 01:29:24,479 Speaker 1: are no men in this room. There are a couple 1509 01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:27,080 Speaker 1: of men's and the first thing that we need to 1510 01:29:27,080 --> 01:29:31,240 Speaker 1: do is like break this cycle of that we are 1511 01:29:31,280 --> 01:29:37,040 Speaker 1: ideals always keeping this conversation only with victims, survivors, females 1512 01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:41,599 Speaker 1: like the ones that are always suffering, and they are 1513 01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:45,320 Speaker 1: the ones that are always in danger because the people 1514 01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:48,439 Speaker 1: of empower and privilege, they don't care. That's it's true. 1515 01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:54,000 Speaker 1: And on the other hand, and I feel this is 1516 01:29:54,920 --> 01:29:58,320 Speaker 1: something that we are all doing. Like even if we 1517 01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:02,840 Speaker 1: see are people being prostituted on the street, we never 1518 01:30:02,880 --> 01:30:06,080 Speaker 1: stop to think about, lie, is this person being traffic? 1519 01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:10,000 Speaker 1: Is this person here by choice? So it's easier to 1520 01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:12,559 Speaker 1: always say, like, now they are doing it because it's 1521 01:30:12,600 --> 01:30:16,439 Speaker 1: their choice, because it's their decision they are aware of 1522 01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:20,320 Speaker 1: or what they're doing and I don't care is the true, 1523 01:30:20,320 --> 01:30:23,439 Speaker 1: and we are continue to doing this, so we need 1524 01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:26,760 Speaker 1: to stop that. And the other thing is that buyers 1525 01:30:27,439 --> 01:30:31,280 Speaker 1: is for they don't care. And when I was traffic 1526 01:30:31,760 --> 01:30:38,720 Speaker 1: and nobody stop to ask me like, oh, do you 1527 01:30:38,800 --> 01:30:43,000 Speaker 1: like it? Can I do it? Are you enjoying it? 1528 01:30:43,400 --> 01:30:46,840 Speaker 1: And this is happening to a lot of people right now. 1529 01:30:47,560 --> 01:30:52,280 Speaker 1: We really need to break the stigma about and around prostitution. 1530 01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:57,280 Speaker 1: And we cannot continue to protect buyers because buyers who 1531 01:30:57,320 --> 01:31:01,320 Speaker 1: are the buyers, men's are the buyers. And this is 1532 01:31:01,360 --> 01:31:05,880 Speaker 1: true and for real, you need to invite every single 1533 01:31:06,040 --> 01:31:10,240 Speaker 1: one male in your life to join this conversation because 1534 01:31:10,240 --> 01:31:13,439 Speaker 1: if that not happened, we are this is going to 1535 01:31:13,479 --> 01:31:18,080 Speaker 1: continue happening because they don't care. They don't have vagina, 1536 01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:21,880 Speaker 1: they are not female that they don't have like all 1537 01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:24,559 Speaker 1: these things that were for real, as a male, I'm 1538 01:31:24,720 --> 01:31:27,599 Speaker 1: always every single day is so worried about my female 1539 01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:33,280 Speaker 1: friends because and it's something that you worry every single day, 1540 01:31:33,360 --> 01:31:37,040 Speaker 1: and I feel that you don't related it with prostitution 1541 01:31:37,120 --> 01:31:40,559 Speaker 1: and trafficking. We are all against like sensual arressment, we 1542 01:31:40,640 --> 01:31:43,559 Speaker 1: are all against rape. We are we're always fighting for 1543 01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:50,639 Speaker 1: now respect my identity, resect my rights, and sexual arressments, rape, 1544 01:31:50,760 --> 01:31:56,040 Speaker 1: the denial of your identity our components of prostitution and trafficking. 1545 01:31:56,600 --> 01:32:01,240 Speaker 1: So we need to stop. She'll and the buyers and 1546 01:32:02,400 --> 01:32:06,639 Speaker 1: if they want fully criminalization for real? Why this panel 1547 01:32:06,760 --> 01:32:10,360 Speaker 1: is full of victims, activists, survivors, w they are not 1548 01:32:10,439 --> 01:32:13,960 Speaker 1: buyers coming here and standing that, oh I have the 1549 01:32:14,160 --> 01:32:18,120 Speaker 1: right to buy the body of somebody because I have 1550 01:32:18,200 --> 01:32:21,760 Speaker 1: money and power and I don't care. Tell me, what 1551 01:32:21,840 --> 01:32:26,080 Speaker 1: are the reasons to buy somebody? Why are we why 1552 01:32:26,120 --> 01:32:29,639 Speaker 1: are we still doing that can you can you for real, 1553 01:32:29,840 --> 01:32:34,280 Speaker 1: imagine just yours yourself, put yourself like and if you 1554 01:32:34,360 --> 01:32:36,760 Speaker 1: really need housing, if you don't have food, if you 1555 01:32:36,800 --> 01:32:39,840 Speaker 1: are here with all legal status, if you cannot have 1556 01:32:40,280 --> 01:32:44,240 Speaker 1: if you cannot find a job, like, it's not a 1557 01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:49,400 Speaker 1: decision to move to prostitution for real. It's never going 1558 01:32:49,439 --> 01:32:52,720 Speaker 1: to be a solution. And the buyers are just spraying 1559 01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:56,360 Speaker 1: on on these people. And the problem is that we 1560 01:32:56,360 --> 01:33:01,280 Speaker 1: are feeding these vulnerabilities, and we have this tendency to 1561 01:33:01,360 --> 01:33:04,280 Speaker 1: think that everybody in the world is like, we are 1562 01:33:04,320 --> 01:33:07,000 Speaker 1: all good persons, we are worried wanting to and that's 1563 01:33:07,000 --> 01:33:11,080 Speaker 1: not true. Believe me, that's not true. I was trafficked 1564 01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:14,880 Speaker 1: by people of color of my own community, LGBT people 1565 01:33:14,920 --> 01:33:17,800 Speaker 1: of color, and trust me, we need to stop that. 1566 01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:20,880 Speaker 1: We need to stop protecting buyers, and we need to 1567 01:33:20,920 --> 01:33:24,920 Speaker 1: start talking openly about this. So I hope that you 1568 01:33:25,120 --> 01:33:28,920 Speaker 1: joined after this two our proposal for the equality model, 1569 01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:31,439 Speaker 1: and that we are moving forward that we want to 1570 01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:34,559 Speaker 1: protect people. And if I'm talking here, it's because I 1571 01:33:34,600 --> 01:33:37,960 Speaker 1: don't want that nobody going through the same that I went. 1572 01:33:38,560 --> 01:33:50,840 Speaker 1: I walk in hell and nobody deserved that. Yeah, And 1573 01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:52,960 Speaker 1: to that point, another quote we heard at the hearing 1574 01:33:53,040 --> 01:33:56,160 Speaker 1: last week was by someone who said that they were 1575 01:33:56,320 --> 01:33:59,120 Speaker 1: there by choice and we're supporting a bill to decommize 1576 01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:01,000 Speaker 1: the sex trade. And they looked right at the members 1577 01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:03,519 Speaker 1: of members of City Council and said, come on, you're 1578 01:34:03,520 --> 01:34:07,120 Speaker 1: our buyers. Don't criminalize us. So if that doesn't say it, 1579 01:34:08,760 --> 01:34:12,479 Speaker 1: um so to that, Laura, how do you respond to 1580 01:34:12,520 --> 01:34:16,880 Speaker 1: progressive policies that embrace quote unquote sex work movements, politicians 1581 01:34:16,960 --> 01:34:19,879 Speaker 1: organizations that claim that full decrim is the way forward. 1582 01:34:21,560 --> 01:34:26,719 Speaker 1: Masking full decriminalization of the sex trade is perhaps the 1583 01:34:26,840 --> 01:34:32,760 Speaker 1: laziest um betrayal of women as a class that I 1584 01:34:32,800 --> 01:34:38,559 Speaker 1: have ever seen. Um, I would I would encourage people 1585 01:34:38,800 --> 01:34:43,000 Speaker 1: to be more strategic and to be more liberation uh, 1586 01:34:43,040 --> 01:34:47,320 Speaker 1: and and focus liberation in their advocacy for politics. You See, 1587 01:34:47,360 --> 01:34:51,120 Speaker 1: the thing is when we speak with people who have 1588 01:34:51,280 --> 01:34:56,240 Speaker 1: been in the trade and who justify their um existence 1589 01:34:56,240 --> 01:34:59,840 Speaker 1: in the trade, right, so we're talking pro sex work advocates, 1590 01:35:00,240 --> 01:35:03,160 Speaker 1: they all share the same story. I think it was 1591 01:35:03,600 --> 01:35:07,080 Speaker 1: one of you who said, uh, there's no difference between 1592 01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:10,639 Speaker 1: a sex worker, a prostituted person, and a trafficed victim 1593 01:35:10,720 --> 01:35:14,439 Speaker 1: because they all experience the same material reality. Um. But 1594 01:35:14,640 --> 01:35:18,400 Speaker 1: when in speaking with people who are, according to them, 1595 01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:22,240 Speaker 1: willingly engaged in the trade, they say, well, I do 1596 01:35:22,280 --> 01:35:24,920 Speaker 1: this because I need to pay my rent, or I 1597 01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:27,439 Speaker 1: do this because I need to pay for school, or 1598 01:35:27,479 --> 01:35:31,240 Speaker 1: I do this because I'm a trans individual. And there's uh, 1599 01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:36,160 Speaker 1: you know, there's not equal protected equal protection in in hiring. 1600 01:35:36,439 --> 01:35:38,599 Speaker 1: You know what those sound like to me? That sounds 1601 01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:42,880 Speaker 1: like an education for All campaign, a job protection campaign, 1602 01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:48,120 Speaker 1: a regularly um housing campaign. Those are campaigns that are 1603 01:35:48,200 --> 01:35:52,480 Speaker 1: actually progressive, progressive and actually have a vision of liberation 1604 01:35:52,840 --> 01:35:57,360 Speaker 1: and actually have people's best interests at heart, as opposed 1605 01:35:57,400 --> 01:36:01,840 Speaker 1: to the pro men feminism that we hear being being 1606 01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:07,160 Speaker 1: you know, yelled at by people who want to defend 1607 01:36:07,200 --> 01:36:11,840 Speaker 1: this this idea that you know, uh, sex work is 1608 01:36:11,880 --> 01:36:17,280 Speaker 1: somehow um feminist. And it's really unfortunate because the sex 1609 01:36:17,320 --> 01:36:20,679 Speaker 1: trade has become the progressive lit miss tests. In other words, 1610 01:36:20,840 --> 01:36:23,120 Speaker 1: if you like google how to be Woke, they're going 1611 01:36:23,160 --> 01:36:25,519 Speaker 1: to send you a giant list of things that you 1612 01:36:25,560 --> 01:36:28,120 Speaker 1: need to do, and one of them is accept the 1613 01:36:28,160 --> 01:36:31,800 Speaker 1: sex trade into your feminist policy. And we are here 1614 01:36:31,840 --> 01:36:35,479 Speaker 1: to tell you that that is absolutely not true. If 1615 01:36:35,479 --> 01:36:37,840 Speaker 1: we know where we're coming from and we know where 1616 01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:41,599 Speaker 1: we want to go, and that is a world without violence, 1617 01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:45,639 Speaker 1: without patriarchy, without misogyny, then we would know better than 1618 01:36:45,680 --> 01:36:50,400 Speaker 1: to cement women's subordinate position in society as a class 1619 01:36:50,439 --> 01:36:54,240 Speaker 1: that exists to be purchased for the purposes of male 1620 01:36:54,320 --> 01:37:07,519 Speaker 1: sexual satisfaction. So, Melanie, to sum it all up, what 1621 01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:10,040 Speaker 1: messages would it send to men and boys about gender 1622 01:37:10,080 --> 01:37:13,200 Speaker 1: equality and the liberation if we decriminalize the act of 1623 01:37:13,240 --> 01:37:16,960 Speaker 1: purchasing women's body, especially in the age of me too. Yeah, 1624 01:37:17,120 --> 01:37:21,120 Speaker 1: in the age of me too, it's funny, um. Honestly. Essentially, 1625 01:37:21,160 --> 01:37:24,120 Speaker 1: what full decriminalization is saying to the world is that 1626 01:37:24,200 --> 01:37:26,519 Speaker 1: women can be bought, that girls can be bought, that 1627 01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:32,559 Speaker 1: anybody that's marginalized, um is property. Honestly. Um. Interestingly enough, 1628 01:37:32,600 --> 01:37:36,759 Speaker 1: there was a study done in Seattle, UM on sex 1629 01:37:36,800 --> 01:37:41,559 Speaker 1: buyers and what the results showed was that the height 1630 01:37:41,640 --> 01:37:45,479 Speaker 1: of sex buying usually happened around two pm, UM, usually 1631 01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:48,519 Speaker 1: during the work day, right after somebody's lunch. And I 1632 01:37:48,560 --> 01:37:52,080 Speaker 1: can personally attest to what that looks like considering the 1633 01:37:52,120 --> 01:37:55,320 Speaker 1: amount of people that have purchased my body for their 1634 01:37:55,439 --> 01:38:00,000 Speaker 1: lunch our special um. So, really, if we fully decriminalize 1635 01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:03,240 Speaker 1: as the sex trade and its entirety. Um, what we're 1636 01:38:03,240 --> 01:38:05,200 Speaker 1: really saying is that you can continue to view people 1637 01:38:05,240 --> 01:38:08,120 Speaker 1: as commodities and that consent can be purchased. Um. And 1638 01:38:08,120 --> 01:38:11,679 Speaker 1: we're also saying to to individuals that UM, a dollar 1639 01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:15,080 Speaker 1: or a hundred dollars, whatever have you, means that you're 1640 01:38:15,080 --> 01:38:17,519 Speaker 1: no longer oppressed. And that's an issue, that's something that 1641 01:38:17,520 --> 01:38:19,120 Speaker 1: we need to come back as a community. And whether 1642 01:38:19,200 --> 01:38:21,800 Speaker 1: or not you're margine, if you're marginalized or privileged, we 1643 01:38:21,840 --> 01:38:24,760 Speaker 1: all have a role to play in that. So right, 1644 01:38:24,800 --> 01:38:26,720 Speaker 1: and if that guy goes out and buy sex at 1645 01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:28,479 Speaker 1: lunch time, it comes back, how is he going to 1646 01:38:28,560 --> 01:38:31,240 Speaker 1: treat you as an equal in the how we that 1647 01:38:31,360 --> 01:38:35,680 Speaker 1: in the office. I find it really, um, really baffling 1648 01:38:35,720 --> 01:38:38,439 Speaker 1: in my opinion that in the age of me too, UM, 1649 01:38:38,520 --> 01:38:40,880 Speaker 1: somebody goes public or somebody just comes out and says, 1650 01:38:40,880 --> 01:38:42,760 Speaker 1: you know what, I went out last night and I 1651 01:38:42,800 --> 01:38:45,640 Speaker 1: was raped, and then we all stand in solidarity. But 1652 01:38:45,720 --> 01:38:47,439 Speaker 1: I go to that same individual and say, I went 1653 01:38:47,479 --> 01:38:49,120 Speaker 1: out last night and I was raping somebody put a 1654 01:38:49,160 --> 01:38:50,880 Speaker 1: hundred dollars on the desk, and not all of a sudden, 1655 01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm a prostitute. I had consent, I had choice, I 1656 01:38:54,040 --> 01:38:56,400 Speaker 1: was no longer oppressed, I'm not black and brown, I'm 1657 01:38:56,400 --> 01:38:59,000 Speaker 1: still not poor. All of these things change. I think 1658 01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:01,000 Speaker 1: we really need to wake up the community and realize 1659 01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:02,720 Speaker 1: that the traumas are still the same. Similar to what 1660 01:39:02,800 --> 01:39:12,759 Speaker 1: Laura was saying, anyone, does anyone have a last thought 1661 01:39:12,920 --> 01:39:16,280 Speaker 1: they want to close on or should we do? What 1662 01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:18,800 Speaker 1: can we do? You can spread the word. You can 1663 01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:21,559 Speaker 1: talk to people. When you hear sex work is work, 1664 01:39:22,120 --> 01:39:24,840 Speaker 1: push back on them. Explain what you've learned today. Um. 1665 01:39:24,880 --> 01:39:26,599 Speaker 1: When you see it in the media, when you see 1666 01:39:26,640 --> 01:39:31,479 Speaker 1: popular magazines whose audience are young girls talking about sex 1667 01:39:31,520 --> 01:39:35,599 Speaker 1: work being liberating, push back on them. Um. And then 1668 01:39:35,640 --> 01:39:38,640 Speaker 1: there's there's another thing you can do. UM. Well, we 1669 01:39:39,080 --> 01:39:41,760 Speaker 1: have a little hand out here because the language is confusing, 1670 01:39:41,760 --> 01:39:44,000 Speaker 1: so when you do talk about it, we've got your 1671 01:39:44,400 --> 01:39:48,600 Speaker 1: your support here. UM. But you can also donate. UM. 1672 01:39:48,640 --> 01:39:50,800 Speaker 1: What we're what the money would go to as a 1673 01:39:50,840 --> 01:39:54,559 Speaker 1: survivor leadership fund because we work with these incredible survivors 1674 01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:56,280 Speaker 1: who do this out of the goodness of their hearts 1675 01:39:56,280 --> 01:39:58,640 Speaker 1: and because they don't want anyone else to experience what 1676 01:39:59,240 --> 01:40:02,280 Speaker 1: they've been through. But it's not their jobs. It's their 1677 01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:05,640 Speaker 1: extracurricular So let's help fund them, um and make it, 1678 01:40:06,320 --> 01:40:17,639 Speaker 1: you know, make their work worthwhile. So that's what you can. Yeah. Sorry, 1679 01:40:18,120 --> 01:40:24,800 Speaker 1: um that it can seem like an unpopular thing to advocates, 1680 01:40:25,880 --> 01:40:33,720 Speaker 1: but as someone who has exacting yeah yeah, Amy had 1681 01:40:33,720 --> 01:40:37,640 Speaker 1: her show protested and it's still here. So thank you, 1682 01:40:38,240 --> 01:40:45,400 Speaker 1: thank you for using your voice. Are we doing what 1683 01:40:45,400 --> 01:40:51,160 Speaker 1: should we do? Questions? Yeah? Yeah. Two things I want 1684 01:40:51,200 --> 01:40:54,800 Speaker 1: to say is, first of all, for me, one of 1685 01:40:54,840 --> 01:40:59,519 Speaker 1: the things that really opened my eyes is um, sex 1686 01:40:59,560 --> 01:41:04,839 Speaker 1: industry is such a huge, huge industry. And the reason 1687 01:41:04,880 --> 01:41:08,680 Speaker 1: why it is such a huge industry is because the 1688 01:41:08,840 --> 01:41:14,000 Speaker 1: inventory is free. They don't pay for the inventory. If 1689 01:41:14,040 --> 01:41:17,120 Speaker 1: you are if you are a drug dealer, you have 1690 01:41:17,200 --> 01:41:20,920 Speaker 1: to buy the drugs and sell it. You don't buy 1691 01:41:20,960 --> 01:41:25,599 Speaker 1: this inventory and it's replenishable. So if you think about 1692 01:41:26,000 --> 01:41:29,280 Speaker 1: that way, it's just so horrible. I think it's a 1693 01:41:29,400 --> 01:41:34,840 Speaker 1: very good way to think it. And so I'm glad 1694 01:41:34,880 --> 01:41:38,240 Speaker 1: that we can raise some money. So if you when 1695 01:41:38,240 --> 01:41:40,720 Speaker 1: you go downstairs, if you shop, I will give you 1696 01:41:42,000 --> 01:41:46,439 Speaker 1: will go to your organization, and I personally will match 1697 01:41:46,520 --> 01:41:58,160 Speaker 1: it much the twenty percent. Um. Sorry, my English is 1698 01:41:58,240 --> 01:42:00,400 Speaker 1: not very well, but are you going to trying to 1699 01:42:00,439 --> 01:42:04,439 Speaker 1: do it? So I would like to know how can 1700 01:42:04,640 --> 01:42:11,479 Speaker 1: we explain to the the community? Are the people whatever 1701 01:42:12,840 --> 01:42:20,680 Speaker 1: a what is UM sex trafficking? Because I was in 1702 01:42:20,800 --> 01:42:24,920 Speaker 1: sex trafficking when I was talking, but I didn't realize 1703 01:42:24,920 --> 01:42:29,479 Speaker 1: that until my forty idears. So how can we have 1704 01:42:29,640 --> 01:42:42,240 Speaker 1: planed then the community? Uh, the sex trafficking exists. I mean, 1705 01:42:42,240 --> 01:42:44,519 Speaker 1: I think it's really critical to know it's it's much 1706 01:42:44,520 --> 01:42:47,360 Speaker 1: more pervasive than anyone thinks. I mean again, I'm based 1707 01:42:47,360 --> 01:42:49,840 Speaker 1: in Washington, d c UM, and I can just give 1708 01:42:49,880 --> 01:42:54,000 Speaker 1: you an idea that one of the you know, few 1709 01:42:54,400 --> 01:42:59,120 Speaker 1: organizations serving trafficed youth UM is currently serving seventy kids, 1710 01:42:59,240 --> 01:43:01,720 Speaker 1: with another twe me three on the wait list. And 1711 01:43:01,800 --> 01:43:05,120 Speaker 1: this is with all the existing laws against trafficking, against 1712 01:43:05,160 --> 01:43:10,000 Speaker 1: you know, exploitation of miners, against child rape and statutory rape. UM, 1713 01:43:10,040 --> 01:43:12,600 Speaker 1: all these laws on the books, and we're still consistently 1714 01:43:12,640 --> 01:43:15,519 Speaker 1: at capacity. So again, you know what would happen if 1715 01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:18,479 Speaker 1: we were to suddenly repeal all these laws? Obviously it 1716 01:43:18,520 --> 01:43:21,040 Speaker 1: would it would go up. And so UM, I think 1717 01:43:21,040 --> 01:43:23,439 Speaker 1: you also raise an important point that most of the 1718 01:43:23,479 --> 01:43:27,679 Speaker 1: survivors that I've ever worked with didn't self identify as traffic. 1719 01:43:27,800 --> 01:43:30,479 Speaker 1: You know, some of those realizations come later in life 1720 01:43:30,520 --> 01:43:33,719 Speaker 1: when um, you know, they're exposed to some other type 1721 01:43:33,720 --> 01:43:38,320 Speaker 1: of services or UM you know, maybe it's through um, 1722 01:43:38,360 --> 01:43:41,559 Speaker 1: you know, a domestic violence scenario or some other type 1723 01:43:41,560 --> 01:43:45,280 Speaker 1: of scenario where they realize that exploitation that's not uncommon. UM, 1724 01:43:45,320 --> 01:43:47,720 Speaker 1: but I think it's really important to know that it 1725 01:43:48,120 --> 01:43:51,720 Speaker 1: seems like a really crazy issue, but it's much more 1726 01:43:51,720 --> 01:44:01,200 Speaker 1: pervasive than I think any of us really realize. M. Well, 1727 01:44:01,320 --> 01:44:04,000 Speaker 1: I really want to just tell everybody that you are 1728 01:44:04,080 --> 01:44:13,280 Speaker 1: quite an impressive group, and UM, break really really takes 1729 01:44:13,280 --> 01:44:15,639 Speaker 1: a lot of courage to do the work you're doing 1730 01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:21,200 Speaker 1: and to have UM and speak so freely about your 1731 01:44:21,280 --> 01:44:26,760 Speaker 1: own experiences. Alexei convinced, UM, that's why I want to 1732 01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:30,160 Speaker 1: do here. I got you, got me. UM. My question 1733 01:44:30,600 --> 01:44:38,280 Speaker 1: is I'm a little confused. If we do not decriminalize, 1734 01:44:38,360 --> 01:44:42,400 Speaker 1: we stay exactly as we are. No, I think, so 1735 01:44:42,720 --> 01:44:45,320 Speaker 1: that's what I need help. Unders. What we're advocating for 1736 01:44:45,439 --> 01:44:47,800 Speaker 1: is the equality model, and that is also known as 1737 01:44:48,000 --> 01:44:52,040 Speaker 1: the Nordic model, Swedish model, or partial decriminalization. So I 1738 01:44:52,040 --> 01:44:54,200 Speaker 1: think that it is the partial decent right so I 1739 01:44:54,200 --> 01:44:56,240 Speaker 1: think what you're where you're getting confused is like full 1740 01:44:56,360 --> 01:44:59,760 Speaker 1: versus partial. So what we're advocating for is the de 1741 01:45:00,000 --> 01:45:04,120 Speaker 1: criminalization of the person that's engaged in prostitution, I E. Myself, 1742 01:45:04,360 --> 01:45:07,160 Speaker 1: I E. Christian, I, any of the survivors that are 1743 01:45:07,240 --> 01:45:10,400 Speaker 1: engaged in prostitution. But it still keeps the penalties for 1744 01:45:10,439 --> 01:45:13,640 Speaker 1: the perpetration. And that's whether you self identify. That's the equality, 1745 01:45:13,720 --> 01:45:17,280 Speaker 1: not okay, And that's whether you're trafficed or yourself identify 1746 01:45:17,360 --> 01:45:19,200 Speaker 1: as a sex worker and you want to be there. 1747 01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:23,080 Speaker 1: It decriminalize, it decriminalizes the sex trade for the people 1748 01:45:23,120 --> 01:45:26,120 Speaker 1: who are bought and sold in prostitution. So for the 1749 01:45:26,160 --> 01:45:31,559 Speaker 1: women and also the men who are become victims. UM, 1750 01:45:31,920 --> 01:45:38,680 Speaker 1: talk to me about, UM, how we can what we 1751 01:45:38,800 --> 01:45:45,360 Speaker 1: can do that will give them alternative lifestyles if they 1752 01:45:45,439 --> 01:45:48,680 Speaker 1: think that this is something that they have to do 1753 01:45:48,800 --> 01:45:51,160 Speaker 1: to put food on the table, take care of their kids, 1754 01:45:51,240 --> 01:45:55,720 Speaker 1: pick them up from school. Help me understand, because we 1755 01:45:55,800 --> 01:45:59,200 Speaker 1: are not unfortunately in some ways or very fortunately. You know, 1756 01:45:59,280 --> 01:46:03,960 Speaker 1: there's we're not in Canadian. Um, we are a very 1757 01:46:04,600 --> 01:46:08,759 Speaker 1: we're a bunch of mutts. But uh, but and it's different. 1758 01:46:09,080 --> 01:46:13,519 Speaker 1: It's just different in this crazy wild Yeah, so the 1759 01:46:13,640 --> 01:46:17,440 Speaker 1: world we live in, so thank you. We aren't Scandinavian, 1760 01:46:17,520 --> 01:46:21,240 Speaker 1: but we can still match those ideals. And we actually 1761 01:46:21,680 --> 01:46:23,600 Speaker 1: we were a lot of us were advocating with the 1762 01:46:23,600 --> 01:46:26,759 Speaker 1: New York City Council, and the New York City Council 1763 01:46:26,840 --> 01:46:31,160 Speaker 1: decided to allocate funding for us to create a comprehensive 1764 01:46:31,600 --> 01:46:36,240 Speaker 1: Social Service Center UM, which will co locate medical services, 1765 01:46:36,320 --> 01:46:42,040 Speaker 1: legal services, UM, therapeutic clinical services, you know, everything that 1766 01:46:42,080 --> 01:46:45,480 Speaker 1: you might need in one location, and we're working on UM, 1767 01:46:45,520 --> 01:46:48,760 Speaker 1: you know, bing renovating that location right now. Now. This 1768 01:46:48,880 --> 01:46:52,200 Speaker 1: is a you know these centers Actually we're pioneered by Sweden. 1769 01:46:52,240 --> 01:46:55,120 Speaker 1: This is one of the key components that they said 1770 01:46:55,160 --> 01:46:57,439 Speaker 1: you need to implement if you're going to implement the 1771 01:46:57,479 --> 01:47:00,400 Speaker 1: equality model. And so we're working on bringing at for 1772 01:47:00,400 --> 01:47:03,120 Speaker 1: the first time to the United States right now. It'll 1773 01:47:03,160 --> 01:47:05,519 Speaker 1: be opening in a month and it's called the Empower Center. 1774 01:47:05,640 --> 01:47:08,400 Speaker 1: Good for you all, And just to quickly add to that, 1775 01:47:08,439 --> 01:47:10,720 Speaker 1: I think that's one of the other really critical components 1776 01:47:10,720 --> 01:47:14,599 Speaker 1: of the equality model and the partial decriminalization approach because 1777 01:47:14,640 --> 01:47:18,840 Speaker 1: it recognizes and debunks the notion of prostitution as a 1778 01:47:18,920 --> 01:47:22,519 Speaker 1: legitimate job. UM part of what you'll see with these 1779 01:47:22,680 --> 01:47:26,040 Speaker 1: legislative proposals that seek to just fully decriminalize the sex 1780 01:47:26,080 --> 01:47:29,280 Speaker 1: trade is that there are no services, right because why 1781 01:47:29,320 --> 01:47:32,360 Speaker 1: would you provide services to help people out of a 1782 01:47:32,439 --> 01:47:36,479 Speaker 1: legitimate profession. So I think this is why, um, you know, 1783 01:47:36,600 --> 01:47:39,120 Speaker 1: all of us really advocate for the equality model, which 1784 01:47:39,120 --> 01:47:42,519 Speaker 1: is the decriminalization of those engaged in prostitution, coupled with 1785 01:47:43,040 --> 01:47:47,640 Speaker 1: vital services resources, exit strategies and as well as you know, 1786 01:47:47,720 --> 01:47:50,479 Speaker 1: sealing and expunging their criminal records so that they can 1787 01:47:50,520 --> 01:47:54,680 Speaker 1: actually exit the industry, access housing, jobs and other opportunities. 1788 01:47:54,920 --> 01:47:58,720 Speaker 1: But if you legitimize prostitution as work, um, there's no 1789 01:47:58,800 --> 01:48:01,599 Speaker 1: incentive to help people of it. And it also sets 1790 01:48:01,600 --> 01:48:04,760 Speaker 1: a really dangerous precedent down the line in terms of, 1791 01:48:04,840 --> 01:48:07,479 Speaker 1: you know, are we then ready to deny poor women 1792 01:48:07,920 --> 01:48:11,080 Speaker 1: unemployment benefits for turning down a job opening at a brothel? 1793 01:48:11,320 --> 01:48:13,920 Speaker 1: So I think we have to be really um, you know, 1794 01:48:14,200 --> 01:48:17,599 Speaker 1: genuine about is this a job like any other and 1795 01:48:17,720 --> 01:48:25,639 Speaker 1: feel confident debunking that. How close are we too? High? 1796 01:48:25,680 --> 01:48:29,280 Speaker 1: Congratulations to everybody, um. Sheila Maloney from the Keenney School 1797 01:48:29,280 --> 01:48:32,000 Speaker 1: of Journalism. I'm from Ireland, where we have the equality 1798 01:48:32,040 --> 01:48:39,200 Speaker 1: model in place, and yeah, but thanks to the thanks 1799 01:48:39,240 --> 01:48:41,479 Speaker 1: to the great work of an activist whom I'm sure 1800 01:48:41,479 --> 01:48:45,120 Speaker 1: you've heard of, Rachel moren Um. I was just wondering 1801 01:48:45,160 --> 01:48:48,360 Speaker 1: because I was in Amsterdam recently myself actually, and I 1802 01:48:48,479 --> 01:48:50,320 Speaker 1: was shocked. I've been there before, but I was shocked 1803 01:48:50,320 --> 01:48:53,200 Speaker 1: to see that there are actually prostitution museums there now, 1804 01:48:53,920 --> 01:48:59,240 Speaker 1: so you can actually go, Yeah, it's unbelievable, and you 1805 01:48:59,320 --> 01:49:03,120 Speaker 1: have like and our prostitutes who are retired who take 1806 01:49:03,200 --> 01:49:05,559 Speaker 1: you around and explain, and the whole thing is so 1807 01:49:05,600 --> 01:49:09,120 Speaker 1: sanitized and so normalized, and I was just wondering, how 1808 01:49:09,160 --> 01:49:13,800 Speaker 1: do you go about, um countering that myth of normalization? 1809 01:49:15,120 --> 01:49:20,760 Speaker 1: Can I I think the very very first thing, I 1810 01:49:20,800 --> 01:49:23,120 Speaker 1: think the very first thing that you can do is 1811 01:49:23,560 --> 01:49:26,599 Speaker 1: not use the term sex work right so that I 1812 01:49:26,640 --> 01:49:30,680 Speaker 1: think we we hear every day, and all of us 1813 01:49:30,720 --> 01:49:33,400 Speaker 1: sort of cringe when we hear it, because that term 1814 01:49:33,439 --> 01:49:38,599 Speaker 1: alone exists for the purposes of sanitizing the industry. Because 1815 01:49:38,640 --> 01:49:41,600 Speaker 1: when we start calling it what it is, which is 1816 01:49:41,960 --> 01:49:46,360 Speaker 1: monetized penetration, right, when we start calling it what it is, 1817 01:49:46,439 --> 01:49:50,040 Speaker 1: which is um paid rape, rape that you can pay 1818 01:49:50,080 --> 01:49:52,599 Speaker 1: for with a credit card, then people start to like, 1819 01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:57,320 Speaker 1: you know, they take a step back, right, and UM, 1820 01:49:56,760 --> 01:50:00,519 Speaker 1: a brief history on that term itself. Off, it was 1821 01:50:00,640 --> 01:50:05,760 Speaker 1: created by um, people who had interests in promoting prostitution 1822 01:50:06,040 --> 01:50:10,320 Speaker 1: because they were gaining, they were gaining economically from prostitution. 1823 01:50:10,400 --> 01:50:15,160 Speaker 1: In other words, literal sex traffickers created the word sex work. 1824 01:50:15,479 --> 01:50:18,040 Speaker 1: So that, right there is the first thing that you 1825 01:50:18,080 --> 01:50:21,040 Speaker 1: can do, because again, once we take that term away, 1826 01:50:21,400 --> 01:50:24,320 Speaker 1: we can start talking about it for what it is. 1827 01:50:24,479 --> 01:50:28,759 Speaker 1: And the other dangerous part about that term is because um, 1828 01:50:28,800 --> 01:50:31,400 Speaker 1: when we start talking about labor laws and we start 1829 01:50:31,439 --> 01:50:36,200 Speaker 1: talking about unionizing, um, those are all workers rights. So 1830 01:50:36,280 --> 01:50:40,080 Speaker 1: are we going to entertain the notion of unionizing brothels? 1831 01:50:40,680 --> 01:50:45,400 Speaker 1: Absolutely not, right, So that term invites a host of 1832 01:50:45,400 --> 01:50:47,920 Speaker 1: of things. It's like a giant can of worms that 1833 01:50:48,080 --> 01:50:50,320 Speaker 1: again we hear every single day, but have to like 1834 01:50:51,160 --> 01:50:55,880 Speaker 1: peacefully nu nuclear you know, UM, what's the word neutralized? 1835 01:50:56,120 --> 01:50:58,680 Speaker 1: So that we can continue and have an honest conversation, 1836 01:50:58,840 --> 01:51:03,120 Speaker 1: so that there is one place to start, all right, 1837 01:51:03,160 --> 01:51:04,960 Speaker 1: I think we can take one more question and then 1838 01:51:05,080 --> 01:51:09,000 Speaker 1: everyone will stick around and and you can have Yeah, 1839 01:51:09,040 --> 01:51:11,760 Speaker 1: there's powerful people in this room. Minute. It's an election year, 1840 01:51:11,840 --> 01:51:16,160 Speaker 1: so if you have a politician in your mix y, 1841 01:51:17,280 --> 01:51:23,240 Speaker 1: and local politics really matters in this is a sponsors, yeah, 1842 01:51:26,400 --> 01:51:30,640 Speaker 1: of the decriminalization bill. It's Dick Godfried, who's the assemblyman 1843 01:51:30,800 --> 01:51:34,800 Speaker 1: right here in Chelsea. It's Julius Salazar who is a 1844 01:51:34,960 --> 01:51:41,639 Speaker 1: young UM democratic socialist, progressive female, and Jessica Ramos. Um, 1845 01:51:41,680 --> 01:51:45,799 Speaker 1: they're both she's queens. Um, she's the senator and queens 1846 01:51:45,800 --> 01:51:50,559 Speaker 1: who's who support full decriminalization. Um. You guys may have followed, 1847 01:51:54,920 --> 01:51:59,920 Speaker 1: Can I can I say that Godfried quote? We were 1848 01:52:00,000 --> 01:52:02,720 Speaker 1: at a meeting with the sponsors of this bill and 1849 01:52:02,800 --> 01:52:08,000 Speaker 1: Dick Godfried, who um, who who authored it said, now 1850 01:52:08,120 --> 01:52:12,000 Speaker 1: say you have a white Hollywood exec and he's got 1851 01:52:12,000 --> 01:52:16,160 Speaker 1: a black housekeeper and he asks her for sexual services. Um, 1852 01:52:16,200 --> 01:52:18,960 Speaker 1: what's the difference between that and cleaning his toilet when 1853 01:52:19,000 --> 01:52:22,360 Speaker 1: she doesn't want to do either? Yea, I could tell 1854 01:52:22,400 --> 01:52:29,760 Speaker 1: them the differences. So that was Dick Godfried and then um, Julia, No, 1855 01:52:29,840 --> 01:52:33,479 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Jessica Ramos, My favorite quote of my entire 1856 01:52:33,520 --> 01:52:36,800 Speaker 1: life is um um. And you know it's going to 1857 01:52:36,880 --> 01:52:38,559 Speaker 1: be a bit vulgar, so pardon my French, but she 1858 01:52:38,600 --> 01:52:41,840 Speaker 1: said buying is legal and fucking is legal. So buying 1859 01:52:41,880 --> 01:52:44,839 Speaker 1: fucking should be legal. That was her logic to justify 1860 01:52:45,200 --> 01:52:49,360 Speaker 1: a legislation. Are elected folks here in New York, So 1861 01:52:49,439 --> 01:52:54,880 Speaker 1: think about that when you go to the polls. Yeah, 1862 01:52:54,920 --> 01:53:00,880 Speaker 1: what's his worst? And yeah, so so there was a 1863 01:53:01,000 --> 01:53:03,760 Speaker 1: you might have followed the Queen's District attorney's race, Um 1864 01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:07,040 Speaker 1: that that happened over the summer. Um, But there was 1865 01:53:07,080 --> 01:53:10,760 Speaker 1: a candidate who ran on a pro sex work platform 1866 01:53:10,880 --> 01:53:14,360 Speaker 1: completely without um really understanding the ramifications of what that 1867 01:53:14,400 --> 01:53:19,120 Speaker 1: would do to to queens in New York. So on. 1868 01:53:19,280 --> 01:53:23,519 Speaker 1: The sponsors of our bill are tremain Right in the 1869 01:53:23,560 --> 01:53:28,080 Speaker 1: Assembly and Liz Krueger in the Senate. UM. Two incredibly 1870 01:53:28,080 --> 01:53:31,640 Speaker 1: powerful women who are authoring our quality model legislation and 1871 01:53:31,680 --> 01:53:41,640 Speaker 1: will help us get it hopefully get it through. Oh great, ye, 1872 01:53:43,240 --> 01:53:47,560 Speaker 1: so so our bill we're authoring, will hope to introduce 1873 01:53:47,600 --> 01:53:50,840 Speaker 1: it in January, UM, when the session starts back up. 1874 01:53:51,000 --> 01:53:55,960 Speaker 1: So um, just look out for it, um, and again 1875 01:53:56,080 --> 01:53:58,400 Speaker 1: spread the word and educate. UM. If you happen to 1876 01:53:58,439 --> 01:54:00,599 Speaker 1: have any personal connections to any members of the New 1877 01:54:00,680 --> 01:54:08,400 Speaker 1: York State legislator, have these conversations. Um, yeah yeah, and 1878 01:54:08,520 --> 01:54:12,360 Speaker 1: does um. So our bill actually moved quite farther. We 1879 01:54:12,479 --> 01:54:14,599 Speaker 1: just had a public hearing, which is the first step 1880 01:54:14,600 --> 01:54:18,400 Speaker 1: in the bill being like legitimized and taken seriously. Last week. UM. 1881 01:54:18,439 --> 01:54:23,439 Speaker 1: There were a hundred and seventy witnesses. It went fourteen hours. UM. 1882 01:54:23,479 --> 01:54:26,120 Speaker 1: There was actually more people in support of the legislation 1883 01:54:26,160 --> 01:54:29,520 Speaker 1: than against. UM. But we you know, had a formidable 1884 01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:32,560 Speaker 1: force and many survivors of the sex trade came from 1885 01:54:32,600 --> 01:54:34,840 Speaker 1: all over the country, many of whom had been exploited 1886 01:54:34,880 --> 01:54:37,600 Speaker 1: in Washington, d C. And you know, for folks that 1887 01:54:38,000 --> 01:54:40,680 Speaker 1: for many years have been thinking this was a fringe movement. 1888 01:54:40,800 --> 01:54:43,200 Speaker 1: This you know, these bills had no chance of really 1889 01:54:43,200 --> 01:54:45,400 Speaker 1: moving forward. It's not just New York and d C. 1890 01:54:45,520 --> 01:54:48,320 Speaker 1: They're being introduced in a number of different states. Again 1891 01:54:48,600 --> 01:54:51,520 Speaker 1: based on on the vagueness of the term sex work. 1892 01:54:51,600 --> 01:54:55,160 Speaker 1: People are. It's appealing to people's inherent understanding that the 1893 01:54:55,360 --> 01:54:59,080 Speaker 1: status quo isn't working. We shouldn't be punishing women in prostitution. 1894 01:54:59,160 --> 01:55:02,880 Speaker 1: They are vulnerable. UM. But what they actually do is 1895 01:55:02,880 --> 01:55:05,480 Speaker 1: go a lot lot further and and threatened to actually 1896 01:55:05,640 --> 01:55:08,000 Speaker 1: fuel more harm. UM one or the other. I think 1897 01:55:08,040 --> 01:55:10,080 Speaker 1: talking points that you'll hear, and we hear a lot 1898 01:55:10,080 --> 01:55:12,440 Speaker 1: in d C. As well. We're keeping all the laws 1899 01:55:12,440 --> 01:55:14,680 Speaker 1: on trafficking. Of course, we have horror trafficking, everyone of 1900 01:55:14,720 --> 01:55:18,520 Speaker 1: horse trafficking. We're just repealing the pimping and pandering statutes. Well, 1901 01:55:18,800 --> 01:55:21,040 Speaker 1: the prosecutors and law enforcement in the room will tell 1902 01:55:21,080 --> 01:55:23,960 Speaker 1: you that's actually how the vast majority of trafficking cases 1903 01:55:24,000 --> 01:55:28,000 Speaker 1: are prosecuted. It's very difficult, um to bring an actual 1904 01:55:28,040 --> 01:55:30,920 Speaker 1: trafficking case, and so most of these cases are pled down, 1905 01:55:31,280 --> 01:55:33,360 Speaker 1: and so you know, you would be removing all these 1906 01:55:33,440 --> 01:55:35,400 Speaker 1: laws off the books. And you know, we give the 1907 01:55:35,440 --> 01:55:38,879 Speaker 1: example of it's basically you know, repealing the laws against 1908 01:55:39,200 --> 01:55:42,960 Speaker 1: secondary murder, manslaughter, involuntary manstatter and saying but don't worry, 1909 01:55:42,960 --> 01:55:45,080 Speaker 1: we still have first degree murder. You know, these are 1910 01:55:45,120 --> 01:55:48,200 Speaker 1: lesser penalties for trafficking. It's really important that we retain 1911 01:55:48,280 --> 01:55:49,840 Speaker 1: them on the books. It's the same with the New 1912 01:55:49,920 --> 01:55:52,720 Speaker 1: York law. They say they're maintaining all aspects of the 1913 01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:56,960 Speaker 1: human trafficking laws, but they're repealing uh statue of promoting prostitution, 1914 01:55:57,040 --> 01:55:59,960 Speaker 1: which is pimping. And so if you don't have that process, 1915 01:56:00,000 --> 01:56:03,960 Speaker 1: secuters have no leverage for any plea agreements. Um it 1916 01:56:04,360 --> 01:56:07,880 Speaker 1: forces them to put traumatized survivors and victims on the 1917 01:56:08,000 --> 01:56:12,200 Speaker 1: stand to testify to their force broader coercion um, which 1918 01:56:12,200 --> 01:56:19,400 Speaker 1: prosecutors can't always do, so they are gutting human trafficking laws. Um. 1919 01:56:19,400 --> 01:56:21,720 Speaker 1: There's a petition about the d C bill that we 1920 01:56:21,760 --> 01:56:23,960 Speaker 1: can share. We can share with your social media team 1921 01:56:24,000 --> 01:56:26,120 Speaker 1: and they can get it out. Um. Another thing you 1922 01:56:26,120 --> 01:56:28,400 Speaker 1: can do is, if you're part of the media, tell 1923 01:56:28,440 --> 01:56:31,440 Speaker 1: this story, because the media tells a very one sided 1924 01:56:32,080 --> 01:56:36,400 Speaker 1: story of the white girl who went to Yale grad 1925 01:56:36,440 --> 01:56:39,120 Speaker 1: school and stripped to get her way through it and 1926 01:56:39,120 --> 01:56:41,880 Speaker 1: found it empowering. And that's what we hear, and we 1927 01:56:41,920 --> 01:56:45,520 Speaker 1: don't hear this, and people need to know the truth. UM. 1928 01:56:45,560 --> 01:56:49,080 Speaker 1: So there are media connections in the room, use them 1929 01:56:49,120 --> 01:56:51,600 Speaker 1: and social media to Twitter, I mean, and all those 1930 01:56:51,600 --> 01:56:56,360 Speaker 1: Assembly members there on Twitter. Dick Godfried on Twitter. IM, 1931 01:56:57,160 --> 01:57:01,200 Speaker 1: I was one week ago on the DC hearing, and 1932 01:57:02,000 --> 01:57:04,520 Speaker 1: the truth that I was sitting there for six hours 1933 01:57:05,400 --> 01:57:12,080 Speaker 1: m at the beginning, I was really mad. I was. 1934 01:57:12,760 --> 01:57:15,800 Speaker 1: It was a complex, It was a lot of feelings 1935 01:57:15,920 --> 01:57:18,080 Speaker 1: and the truth is that I don't want that to 1936 01:57:18,160 --> 01:57:20,680 Speaker 1: happen here because what I was hearing over there, it 1937 01:57:20,960 --> 01:57:25,640 Speaker 1: was like most of the testimony, and we're about survival 1938 01:57:25,760 --> 01:57:30,600 Speaker 1: sex no choices, no opportunities, and we need to stand 1939 01:57:30,600 --> 01:57:33,040 Speaker 1: for this. So I invite you, every single one of you. 1940 01:57:33,280 --> 01:57:37,040 Speaker 1: If you hear somebody talking about food organization, like open 1941 01:57:37,120 --> 01:57:40,440 Speaker 1: that conversation, don't be afraid like support us. Also, we 1942 01:57:40,480 --> 01:57:42,880 Speaker 1: needed space to do more things like this. If you, 1943 01:57:43,000 --> 01:57:45,760 Speaker 1: if you can connect with Alexis so we are more 1944 01:57:45,760 --> 01:57:49,640 Speaker 1: than open to educate everyone and every single New York 1945 01:57:49,680 --> 01:57:53,040 Speaker 1: character because we don't I personally, I don't want to 1946 01:57:53,080 --> 01:57:58,000 Speaker 1: see what happened in d C one week ago being here, 1947 01:57:58,080 --> 01:58:05,320 Speaker 1: like protecting buyers and perpetuating this harm and this nonsense 1948 01:58:05,520 --> 01:58:11,360 Speaker 1: of that it's better to buy pleasure than to kill 1949 01:58:11,560 --> 01:58:14,560 Speaker 1: or harm a human beings. So please join this movement 1950 01:58:14,600 --> 01:58:16,960 Speaker 1: and support us in every single way that you can. 1951 01:58:17,600 --> 01:58:20,280 Speaker 1: Going with us, talk with us, like we are really 1952 01:58:20,320 --> 01:58:24,200 Speaker 1: open to educate every single one about this issue. Please 1953 01:58:24,440 --> 01:58:26,040 Speaker 1: let me just let me just say, because I know 1954 01:58:26,200 --> 01:58:29,280 Speaker 1: people I see we're trying to get out of here. Um. 1955 01:58:29,320 --> 01:58:31,320 Speaker 1: But I think it's also very important to note that 1956 01:58:31,360 --> 01:58:34,000 Speaker 1: you might also come across people who claim that they're 1957 01:58:34,080 --> 01:58:37,480 Speaker 1: consensual sex worker x y z um, but also recognize 1958 01:58:37,480 --> 01:58:40,040 Speaker 1: that a lot of them are still in trauma UM. 1959 01:58:40,080 --> 01:58:43,280 Speaker 1: And I can attest personally that while I when when 1960 01:58:43,280 --> 01:58:46,880 Speaker 1: you're in trauma, especially in prostitution, a lot of times 1961 01:58:46,920 --> 01:58:49,120 Speaker 1: you have to find a way to justify your trauma 1962 01:58:49,400 --> 01:58:51,240 Speaker 1: in order to get through it. And I remember a 1963 01:58:51,240 --> 01:58:52,640 Speaker 1: time when I was sixteen and I was in a 1964 01:58:52,680 --> 01:58:55,080 Speaker 1: life that I told myself that this was empowerment and 1965 01:58:55,120 --> 01:58:57,120 Speaker 1: liberations so that I can get through another sex buyer, 1966 01:58:57,480 --> 01:58:59,240 Speaker 1: so that I can continue to go to another hotel 1967 01:58:59,280 --> 01:59:00,879 Speaker 1: room and make sure that I can keep my sanity. 1968 01:59:01,160 --> 01:59:04,160 Speaker 1: So you might come across somebody who's chanting chanting, chanting 1969 01:59:04,160 --> 01:59:07,920 Speaker 1: consensuality UM, but still hasn't processed their own trauma. So 1970 01:59:08,040 --> 01:59:10,120 Speaker 1: don't just take the narrative at face value. I'd love 1971 01:59:10,160 --> 01:59:12,440 Speaker 1: to say that it's the same story, different narrative when 1972 01:59:12,440 --> 01:59:15,360 Speaker 1: it comes to both sides of the divide UM. So 1973 01:59:15,520 --> 01:59:18,160 Speaker 1: just recognize, going back to those ideas of systemic oppression, 1974 01:59:18,160 --> 01:59:21,600 Speaker 1: that we're all suffering the same UM traumas and abuses. 1975 01:59:21,640 --> 01:59:23,640 Speaker 1: One may have a pimp, one may not UM, but 1976 01:59:23,680 --> 01:59:25,720 Speaker 1: the oppressions are still the same. And a lot of 1977 01:59:25,760 --> 01:59:29,120 Speaker 1: people haven't fully grasped UM what their trauma looks like 1978 01:59:29,160 --> 01:59:31,360 Speaker 1: and where it comes from. So you might come across 1979 01:59:31,360 --> 01:59:33,520 Speaker 1: somebody that's like pro sex work, pro sex work, but 1980 01:59:33,560 --> 01:59:35,120 Speaker 1: if you actually talk to them when and want and 1981 01:59:35,160 --> 01:59:37,400 Speaker 1: ask them about well their day to day, you'll find 1982 01:59:37,400 --> 01:59:39,600 Speaker 1: out that many of those people that are chanting protect 1983 01:59:39,680 --> 01:59:42,200 Speaker 1: work have got into prostitution when they were under eighteen 1984 01:59:42,920 --> 01:59:45,880 Speaker 1: a lot of times because they were suffering of um, 1985 01:59:45,920 --> 01:59:48,760 Speaker 1: suffering from the effects of systemic oppression. So just keep 1986 01:59:48,800 --> 01:59:51,480 Speaker 1: that in mind when you come across somebody who's holding 1987 01:59:51,080 --> 01:59:58,640 Speaker 1: a red umbrella and saying that this is work. 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