1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: Hey Christina, good morning, welcome to the show. How are you. 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: I'm good, How are you doing? 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Okay? Thank you so much for calling and for being 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: on the show and for reaching out to us at 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: Friendshire radio dot com. So what's going on with this 7 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: guy who you met? His name is Alex. How did 8 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've been on, 9 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: and kind of what's happening right now. 10 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 3: Well, originally we met on one of the dating apps 11 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 3: and he asked me out for some drinks. 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 2: You've only actually had one date he asked me out 13 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 2: for some drinks. 14 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 3: I thought we had a blast, just a really good time, 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 3: good conversation, We're just having fun. 16 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 2: Like he even invited me back to his house. So 17 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: like I feel like that was a good sign. 18 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I haven't heard anything from him at 19 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 3: all and like a week and a half and I'm 20 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 3: super confused and I need your help. 21 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that that is weird because usually if a date 22 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: goes really well and you wind up back at somebody's place, 23 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: I mean that's a really good sign because I feel 24 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: like what happens on the dating apps at least in 25 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: my experience is you agree to a drink and that's 26 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: what you agreed to, and that way, like if it's weird, 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: if there's no chemistry, or if it's not good or whatever, 28 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: then then you're now yeah, right, then you got it out. 29 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: But then if if the night goes on and is 30 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: extended and then you wind up back at somebody's place, 31 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: I mean that use a really good sign. But you 32 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: have not heard anything. Have you reached out to him 33 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: at all? I've texted you, I haven't heard anything back. Okay, 34 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: so you've not heard back from this guy. He's ghosting completely. 35 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: So ya, who knows. There's a lot of possibilities here. 36 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: But we're going to play a song come back. We're 37 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 1: gonna call Alex. We're gonna ask some questions on your behalf. 38 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at some point. You're welcome 39 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: to jump in on a call and hopefully we can 40 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: straighten this out and if so, set you guys up 41 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for. Sound good, Let's 42 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: see what's going on? Part to you, I waiting about 43 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: a phone after Metro Pullman, the entertainer of ports show 44 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: Bitch Shelley. Our first holiday wish show. The season all 45 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: coming up. It's the French show. We're glad you're here 46 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: metro boom and it's the Fred Show. Commercial free for 47 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: the next forty minutes. You don't have to go anywhere, hey, Christina, Yeah, 48 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call Alex. You guys met 49 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: on the apps. You set up a date, you went 50 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: on the date, you thought it went great. You wind 51 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: up back at his place afterwards, I mean, usually a 52 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: great sign. The thing is you have not heard from 53 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: Alex since then. It's been over a week and a half. 54 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: You've texted, no response, so it really appears like you're 55 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: being ghosted, which is annoying, and you want to. 56 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 2: Know why exactly. 57 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's call the guy now. Good luck, Christina, thank you. 58 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 3: Hello. Hi? 59 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: Is this Alex? Yeah, this is Alex Alex him. My 60 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: name is fredam call from the Fred Show, the Morning 61 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: radio show. And I have to tell you that we 62 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: are on the radio right now and I would need 63 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can which out 64 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,239 Speaker 1: for just a second? Do you mind that? 65 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 3: Fine? 66 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf of 67 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: a woman who reached out to us. Her name is Christina, 68 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: says she met you on one of the and you 69 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: guys recently went out a couple of weeks ago. Do 70 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: you remember her? Oh? 71 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember that. 72 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: Okay. Well, so she told us that she thought the 73 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: date went really well, mentioned that she went back to 74 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: your place, but says that you have not responded to 75 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: her or reached out to her in some time now 76 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: since the date. So why it looks like you're ghosting her? Why? 77 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 4: Well did she tell you? Why? 78 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: No, she said it was a great date and that 79 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 1: you guys that you just haven't called her back. 80 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 4: All right, Well, I'm surprised. I'm not surprised she doesn't 81 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 4: know why, because she probably doesn't remember. 82 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: Okay, what does that mean? What happened? What's your side 83 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: of the story? All right? 84 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 4: So the day was fine. It was actually a lot 85 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 4: of fun. But we had a lot to drink, and 86 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 4: so we went back to the place afterwards, and at 87 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 4: this point she was really drunk and neither said anything 88 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 4: to eat. So I'm like, you know what, I'll cook 89 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 4: it something to eat. And then while I'm in the kitchen, 90 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 4: she heads straight to my bar cart. She grabs a 91 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 4: fifth of Malibu rum and starts plugging it like it's 92 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: a won punch. 93 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: Oh okay, Oh well I mean you know, I mean yeah, 94 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: wo coconut rum just out of the bottle, yeah, spiced 95 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: rum or something, yeah, plugging it okay? And then was 96 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: that enough for you to be like this woman may 97 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: have a problem, like she may need to go to 98 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: a meeting or something or what. 99 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 4: Well yeah, well, honestly, it just I was more like 100 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 4: freaked out because, like I said, like she hadn't had anything, 101 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 4: she was already drunk. So by this time, like, yeah, 102 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 4: I'm just more or less worried for So I tried, 103 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 4: like I don't know, like telling her like, oh, maybe 104 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 4: that's enough, Maybe we should call it a night. Let 105 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 4: me call you an uber home. And so from there 106 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 4: she tries like cooking up with me, and like obviously, 107 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 4: like she's so wasted, I don't want to do that. 108 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 4: So and then basically after I turned her down, she 109 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 4: just starts like cussing me out, like have you you 110 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 4: sun up a bum? Like we am I not good 111 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 4: enough for you? And then like then basically she has 112 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 4: a mental breakdown and starts crying. Yeah, And it was 113 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 4: just like one of the messiest things I had ever 114 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 4: witnessed in my life, so. 115 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: That like that's not sexy. Uh so a drunk emotional person. 116 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: Well let me I forgot you mention that Christina is here. 117 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: She seems sober when I talked to her a second ago. 118 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, the bottle. Now after this that. 119 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 4: You love that point out, you let that point out forget. 120 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, we always gosh. I'm just so sorry, appreciate what 121 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: you don't remember any of it. You must not remember 122 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: any of this. 123 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: I think he's just being like dramatic. 124 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: He's been dramatic. So it didn't happen like that. 125 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: You thing happened. I don't remember anything happening that way. 126 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: What do you remember? 127 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 2: Good time, he's making me food. Then I remember getting 128 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 2: in an uber and then waking up. 129 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's that's a large window of opportunity where 130 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: the exact thing that he said happened might have happened. 131 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 3: That's honestly, I don't think when that way like I would, 132 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 3: I would not be like sen like crying. 133 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 2: And no, are you a Malibu Rock fan? 134 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: Is that your drink? 135 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: Is your I mean I am? 136 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well that checks okay, so there's no way that 137 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: you just got kind of blackout and and maybe a 138 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 1: little irrational, which I have to respect the guy. He 139 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: didn't really want you in your house in that in 140 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: his house in that condition, because and he's not going 141 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: to take advantage of you in that condition, and especially 142 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: if you're being emotional and you know he can't reason 143 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: with you, so he wanted you to go home. I 144 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: have to respect that. 145 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but like, I don't think that that 146 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 3: I was being There's no way I would have been 147 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 3: like that. 148 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're saying, okay, so let's give you the 149 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt. Let's say that it did happen, 150 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: but it's just so rare that but you know, you 151 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 1: really can't imagine it, Alex. Let's say she was just 152 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: I don't know, having a really good time when things 153 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: got out of hand. It sounds like, I mean, I'm 154 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: trying to give it a benefit of the doubt here, 155 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: but it sounds like everything went well until that point. 156 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: Would you consider giving her another chance or are you 157 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: going to be her sponsor? 158 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 4: I'm gonna go with option see and choose none of 159 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 4: the above, because yeah, I think I'm just way too 160 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 4: traumatized to go out with. 161 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: Well, that's like dramatic saying that you're trauma. 162 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 4: Come on now, no, Like, I'm like, here, I'll give 163 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 4: you this, Like maybe you had so much to drink 164 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 4: you weren't yourself that night, so I'll say that, but 165 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 4: come on now, no, it was very messy. And yeah, 166 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 4: I'm sorry this is happening over the radio. But like 167 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 4: you guys called me so sorry. 168 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 2: No, you know what, like right now I need a 169 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: drink dulous. 170 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, camera, yeah, and see what happens. I mean, everyone's 171 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: entitled to a bad night. I think anybody who's ever 172 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: drank before, you know, has probably acted out of character 173 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: while drinking. But when you first meet somebody, I feel 174 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: like you're trying to make an impression. And if the 175 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: first time I meet you that happens, I guess I 176 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: don't think it's unfair to jump to the conclusion that 177 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: that's something that it happened regularly. But maybe you don't 178 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: know your limits that maybe you know I could expect 179 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: to have to wrangle you every time we're together. 180 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 2: Maybe it was just nerves. 181 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: I mean, like, all right, so all right, maybe Alex 182 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: another shot? Do we give this one more chance? I'll 183 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: pay for it. 184 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 4: No, no, no, I told you, like time you know, all. 185 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: Right, never mind, I probably had to put a cap 186 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: on the day too, because you might drink it all 187 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: right now, yeah girl, please don't drink anymore Malibu straight 188 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: from the bottle. Let's let's him higher, higher quality. That's 189 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: nothing wrong Malibu. But I mean, my god, Okay, look, 190 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: it's not going to work out, Alex, thank you for 191 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: your time. Christina, I'm sorry. Best of luck to you. 192 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good. Thank you.