1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: It is time for the Strawberry Letter, and if you 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buchael, love and hold on tight. 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you subject. Can you please stop 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: touching me? Dear Stephen Shirley, I met a man and 12 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: fell in love. I'm forty five and he's fifty five. 13 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: I didn't like him at first, but he wore me 14 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: down and stole my heart. I have to weigh the 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: pros and prose with the cons all the time because 16 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: he is very annoying. He's been very handsy from the 17 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship. We went on a blind date 18 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: and I was very nervous because he's older. He reached 19 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: across the table and grabbed my wrist and told me 20 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: that he could feel my heart racing by the pulse 21 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: in my wrist. I wanted to snatch my hand from 22 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: his because he was being too familiar. He walked me 23 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: to my car and he had his hand in the 24 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: small of my back. He leaned over in my car 25 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: and rubbed the side of my face and said, I 26 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: have pretty skin on down the line. I let him 27 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: know politely that he doesn't need to touch me while 28 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: we are having a conversation. He said he's very affectionate 29 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: and asked if it was a problem. I lied and 30 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: said that it wasn't. He's gotten worse since we started 31 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: having sex. He can't sleep without snuggling up on me. 32 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: If I squirm away, he'll reach across and place his 33 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: hand on my hip. He wakes me up by gently 34 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: holding my face in his hands and kissing me softly. 35 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: He even holds my hand while we're having coffee or 36 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: tea in the morning. He holds my hand while he drives. 37 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: I either have to cuddle with him while watching movies, 38 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: or I have to put my legs across him, or 39 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: vice versa. He massages my neck and my scalp. I 40 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: am so tired of his hands being on me. We 41 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: hold hands in public and even at church. Some women 42 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: love this, but I do not have I let it 43 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: go for too long to complain? How do I stop him? 44 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: You're not going to change him. You're not going to 45 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: change him. This is what he's doing, and he's this 46 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: is him, okay, this is who he is. It sounds 47 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: like a case of you love him, but you don't 48 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: like him very much. You said he was annoying. And 49 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: you are quite different from a lot of women, because 50 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,839 Speaker 1: most women want just what you're getting from a man 51 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: you say you're in love with, who loves you too 52 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: and doesn't mind showing you. Don't you know that? This 53 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: is what people do when they're in love. They touch okay, 54 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: they cuddled, They do things like this. Why would you 55 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: tell him that all the touching wasn't a problem when 56 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: he asked you, he asked you outright. You admit it 57 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: that you lied to him. You should have told him 58 00:02:58,840 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: the truth right then. 59 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 3: There. 60 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: You're not a touchy feely type of person, so please stop. 61 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: Now you're stuck in this relationship with what this good 62 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: man who sounds like a perfect gentleman, a man who 63 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: loves you, he's romantic, he wants to be with you. 64 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: It could be a lot worse. I mean, you cannot 65 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: change him. That's who he is, and this is a 66 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: man in your life. You really have nothing to complain about. 67 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: But you have found something. Listen. If you don't like it, 68 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: you gotta tell him, you gotta let him go. There 69 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: are so many women who would love to have him 70 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: and all the touching and cuddling he can give. 71 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 3: Steve, can you please stop touching me? Show damn hands 72 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 3: awf of me? You make me sick. 73 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you too much. 74 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 3: I understand the letter. You don't normally I go, what's 75 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 3: what you're tripping for? But no, you too much. You 76 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 3: met him, man, but let me I'm gonna point out it. 77 00:03:55,760 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 3: This letter met him man glove. I'm forty five, fifty five. 78 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: I didn't like him at first, right there, stop. I 79 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 3: didn't like him at first. How many times should you 80 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 3: have followed your first mind? I ain't like him at first, 81 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: but he wore me down. Just a lesson to the fellas. 82 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 3: Keep applying pressure. He will break eventually. See there's a 83 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 3: lesson in this letter for everybody. Follow your first mind. 84 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 3: Ladies way him down, fellas, they'll eventually break. And he 85 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 3: stole your heart. I have to weigh the pros and 86 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: cons all the time because here's another one. 87 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 2: He is very annoying. 88 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 3: I don't know about you, but I don't like me 89 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 3: any relationship with people that's annoying. That's gonna be a 90 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 3: relation full of that's gonna be a relationship full of you. 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: Ow my damn nerves. But she went on and jumped 92 00:04:56,480 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: in anyway. She ain't like him at first, and he's annoying. 93 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 3: He stole my heart. You stupid. This is a stupid person. 94 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 3: He's very handsy from the beginning. Went on a blind date. 95 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 3: I was very nervous because he's older. He reached across 96 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: the table and grabbed my wrists and told me he 97 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: could feel my heart racing. 98 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 2: Through the pulse in my wrists. He was really checking 99 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 2: your blood pressure. 100 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 3: That what that is. That's what old people do. They 101 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 3: know how to check your blood pressure. His old lass 102 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 3: and had his blood pressure checked so many times now. 103 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 3: He said to me talking about he can feel your 104 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:40,119 Speaker 3: heart racing. That's blood pressure. Boy. I want to snatch 105 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 3: my hand because he was being too familiar. When I 106 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 3: come back, all I'm gonna do is read you the letter, 107 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: tell you what's wrong. That's all. 108 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm all right, thank you. We'll have part two of 109 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 110 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject can you please stop touching me? 111 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: Back after this? You're listening show? All right? Come on, Steve, 112 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is can you 113 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: please stop touching me? 114 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: Can you please stop touching me? 115 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna show you the This is a letter full 116 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 3: of contradictions, and all I'm gonna do is show you 117 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 3: the contradictions. I met a man and fell in love. 118 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 3: He's forty five, I'm fifty five. I ain't like him 119 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 3: at first. Well, okay, there you go. What I tell you, 120 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 3: always follow your first mind. But he wore me down 121 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 3: and stole my heart. This is a message to the fellas. 122 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 3: Keep the pressure on you will soon break them. They 123 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 3: can crack under pressure. 124 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 2: I have to wait the pros and cons all the 125 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: time because he is very annoying. 126 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 3: Let me get this right. You didn't like him at first. 127 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 3: He wore you down, but he's very annoying. I don't 128 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 3: know about you, but I don't like me. In the 129 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 3: relationships with people, that's a knowing as hell, because this 130 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 3: is finna be a relationship full of you own my 131 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 3: damn nerves and guess what happened. Watch this letter. He's 132 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 3: been very hands from the beginning. Went on a blind date. 133 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: I was nervous because he's older. He reached across the 134 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 3: table and grabbed my wrists and told me he could 135 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 3: feel my heart racing by the pulse in my wrist. 136 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: That's a damn lie. He was checking your blood pressure. 137 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 3: Old people like to know if they got something in 138 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 3: common with the other person. He was trying to see 139 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 3: if you had high blood too, then y'all can get 140 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 3: y'all prescription. It might get a discount down to CVS 141 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 3: because they got family discount at Walmart if you got 142 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: a lot of pills. He was just checking to see 143 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 3: if he would be able to save some money, but 144 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 3: hoping your ass had high blood pressure. 145 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: So that's the old people move. 146 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,239 Speaker 3: I ain't never in my life grabbed a woman's wrists 147 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 3: and said, I could feel your heart racing. That's on 148 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:43,679 Speaker 3: her chest. If you grab her wrists, checking for the pulse, 149 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 3: that's blood pressure or signs of life. I wanted to 150 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: snatch my hand hand from him because he was being 151 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 3: too familiar. Then he walked you to your car and 152 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 3: he had his hand in the small of my back. Okay, 153 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 3: we do that. He leaned over in my go and 154 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 3: rubbed the side of my face and said, I have 155 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 3: pretty skill. May get your damn hands off my face. 156 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 3: I just met you, you know, as old ass went 157 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,239 Speaker 3: to the bathroom before y'all went to the car because 158 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 3: it got a weak blinder, so he can't be walking 159 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 3: in noe, go to the bathroom now here. 160 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:19,559 Speaker 2: They got a hand on your face. On down the line. 161 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: I let him know politely that he doesn't have to 162 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 2: touch me while we are. 163 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 3: Having a conversation. He said he's very affectionate and asked 164 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 3: if it was a problem. I lied and said it wasn't. 165 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 3: See now, this is the wrong lie. Okay, there's a 166 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 3: time and place for line. This was a wrong lie. Wow, 167 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 3: this was a lie that served you no purpose. It 168 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 3: only benefited him and furthered his aggression. He's gotten worse 169 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 3: because you lie, and you don't even know how to lie, 170 00:08:59,040 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 3: because you put. 171 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: The line in the wrong place. Damn, the wrong lie. 172 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 3: He's gotten worse since we started having sex. He can't 173 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 3: sleep without snuggling up on me. Man, it's hot. Your 174 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 3: ass off of me if I squirm away, He'll reach 175 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 3: across and place his hand on my on my hip. 176 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 3: Now check this out. He wakes me up by gently 177 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 3: holding my face in his hands and kissing me softly. 178 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 3: Oh that's movie kissing right there, lady. He saw that 179 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 3: in a movie somewhere. Don't knowbody, every damn morning hold 180 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 3: the woman face in they hand and kiss them softly. 181 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 2: What kind of punk ass, missus. 182 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 3: D cause you can't sustain that every damn morning, gently 183 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 3: holding your cheeks in my head, kissing you good morning, 184 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 3: darling man. Stop all the old movie Yet he wakes 185 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 3: me up by gently holding my face in his hands. 186 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 3: He even holds my hands while we having coffee or 187 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 3: tea in the morning. I got to hold his coffee cup. 188 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 3: Let me go, damn we at Starbucks. I got the 189 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 3: grand latte. I need both hands. He holds my hand 190 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 3: while he drives. Your old ass, get two hands on 191 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 3: the wheelfo you mess around, have a seizure and run 192 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 3: us up into the back of this garbage truck. See, 193 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 3: I just see all this stuff happening. We got a 194 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 3: cuddle with him while we watching movies. I had to 195 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 3: put my legs across him or vice versa. He massage 196 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 3: is my neck and my scalp. You're not finn Do 197 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 3: my scalp now. 198 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 2: All the day. 199 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 3: You finnah, Get your fingers. I topped my head. Just 200 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 3: rub my head and stuff. I ain't four years old. 201 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: Get your damn hands. I am so tired of his 202 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 3: hands being on me. We hold hands in public and 203 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 3: even at church. Why we hold the hands in church? 204 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 3: I got to pray. I need both my hands because 205 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to Capitol start going to Catholic church 206 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 3: where they put their hands together and hold them up 207 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 3: under their chin. So I'm gonna eave both my hands. 208 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 3: Some women love this, but I do not. I let 209 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 3: it go on for too long to complain. How do 210 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 3: I stop him? You can't. You can't. 211 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 2: It's too late. But this is your fault. You ain't 212 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: even like him in the beginning. What made you start liking? 213 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 3: Then you said you gotta do the pros and cons 214 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 3: all the time because he's annoying you with a man 215 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 3: you don't like, and is annoying. 216 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 2: And now guess what he doing. He annoying your ass. 217 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: Touchy touchy, touchy, touchy touchy. So now the only way 218 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 2: I think you can do this is you gonna have 219 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: to make an announcement? 220 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: An announcement, Steve, Yeah, what. 221 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 3: If you put your hands on me again? We are 222 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 3: done having sex? Wow, that's all. 223 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 2: I don't want to hold your. 224 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 3: Hand when we driving. I want to hold my coffee cup. 225 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 3: I don't want to hold your hand while I'm having cup. 226 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 3: I want both hands. I like to drink my coffee sometimes, 227 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 3: you know, and feel the warmth of the cup. Sometime 228 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 3: I like two hairs on a cup. It's just giving 229 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 3: me the listen. Sometimes I hold my coffee cup with 230 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 3: two hands, like I'm doing right now. I ain't never 231 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 3: because I don't really do that. I'm just like letter, 232 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 3: and I don't hold my cup with my other hand, 233 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 3: but women do and all the time. Mississippi Monica. 234 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: Only your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram. 235 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: At count it at all, we don't really care, and check. 236 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: Us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free 237 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app coming up next to this junior and off 238 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Morning Show