WEBVTT - Thursday Post Show (8-19-21) 0:00:01.200 --> 0:00:10.800 It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host, Bobby. 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:14.280 Are we on, We're on, We are on Facebook. Yeah, 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:17.000 we've had it. You know, we're as it's his skeleton crew. 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:20.320 So Eddie's been doing multiple jobs. We got it signing 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.040 a book for someone who wanted to give it for 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:24.919 an auction. In twenty twenty one. I still signed twenty 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:27.480 twenty one. It still feels like Evans had to sign 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:29.160 a lot of twenty twenty one, even though we're already 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:34.440 in August. But it's almost twenty twenty two. That's crazy 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:36.640 as crap. I don't want to rush it, but yeah, 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:41.320 it's almost twenty twenty two. That's weird. Years keep on going. Uh, 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:45.680 glad everybody's here. Let's see where do I start. I 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:47.199 had a couple of Eddie things that I didn't get 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:48.680 to on today's show, and I really wanted to, So 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:50.559 don't be insulted, Eddie, You're good. And I did say 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:51.839 before we went on to post you, I say, hey, guys, 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:53.120 we're gonna do some really good stuff here that we 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.960 just weren't able to get to today. One of them 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:58.920 was you're talking to your kids about what they want 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:01.440 to be it when they grow up. Yeah. Yeah, And 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:05.440 you have four kids, yes, two foster kids, two biological children, 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:07.880 and you're having the conversation with them swimming three of them. Well, 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.240 I'm only having a conversation with a couple of them 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:13.800 because I feel like with my biological kids, I've known 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.520 them long enough to kind of see their personalities and 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:19.880 what I believe they're able to do in their life. Oh, 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:21.399 You're already telling them what they want to be. I'm 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:24.039 planning a seed in their head because I have this 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:26.320 one kid. That sounds boring. If you're a kid and 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:28.760 you get a seed planet, tell what you're gonna do. No, 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.039 I just kind of, you know, like, hey, as you 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.440 grow up, think about this, because I have this one 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:37.800 kid who is very smart. He's just above everyone else. 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:40.840 One kid. I hope not every kids super smart. So 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:43.560 better athletes, some are better, you know, the other kids won't. 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:45.840 We've driven in the car right now listening to the 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.800 other they have a podcast. This is the post show, 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:52.720 so they will not be riding in the campo. So 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:55.520 and he's just you know, like he's driven and he's 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:59.120 got this personality that I feel like, if he wanted 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:03.200 to be a doc. He can be a doctor. He's patient, 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:07.520 he's smart, he likes school, he's good at school. I'm like, dude, 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:10.160 this could be you. And at first he was like, ah, 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:12.880 you know, I want to be a baseball player. I'm like, cool, 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:15.160 I love it. Let's work. I mean, work on that. 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:18.080 But at the end of the day, a doctor. I 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.600 think you'd be a great, great doctor. And you like 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.720 nice stuff. Guess what doctors get to buy nice stuff? 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:26.799 So I'm already playing in the seed in his mind, 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:30.400 and I'm hoping he takes my advice. My mom was 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:32.520 very disappointed I did not become a doctor. She wanted 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:35.920 you to become a doctor. Yeah, I think so. And 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.400 I would have been too to have a kid who's like, 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:40.440 I want to do something where nobody makes any money. 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:44.800 There's absolutely no stability. That was what That's the profession 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:47.720 that I chose. So I understood that she was disappointed 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:50.320 I did not choose to go into something where there's 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:53.639 a ton of stability, being a doctor or even a lawyer, 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:55.680 even because no one where we came from was a 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:57.480 doctor or a lawyer. We didn't even know a doctor 0:02:57.560 --> 0:03:00.600 or a lawyer. But she was like that you should 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:02.480 do this, you should be a doctor, Like, don't you 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:05.680 see that you are naturally you have a gift of 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.760 you can retain information, you can read it, you have 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.160 the curiosity to go and want to know this stuff. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:11.360 And I was like, nah, I want to be in 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:15.680 the radio. And she was just disappointed that what I 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.480 was good at in her mind, I was not using 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:20.919 it to the fullest potential. And now I'd kind of 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:22.639 get that nudge, are you sure you don't want to 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:26.000 get into medicine? Like you could do this? It was 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:28.519 for me I've been lucky to know since I was 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:31.280 five years old, I wanted to be in radio. And 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:34.960 when you work in radio, you're just broke. I'm not 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:36.880 broke now. I'm not gonna act like I'm broke now 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:40.840 because I'm not. But you're broke forever. And I was. 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:44.040 And what was cool for me was since I grew 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.240 up poor, I was okay being poor once. Once I 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:48.400 was an adult, you know, there wasn't like a big 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.000 change where I had to like take a step back. 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:51.760 What stinks for some people in art it is if 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:53.440 you grew up in your nice mental class family and 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:55.720 you have to go and take a huge it hurts 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:59.200 more because you have to actually go backward where you know, 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:00.800 there are certain things that happened in my past that 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:02.280 at a time I was like, well this sucks, but 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:03.920 I look back and I was I was kind of lucky. 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:06.120 I grew up poor in a certain way because I 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:09.400 was able to chase something where there was no money. 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.480 Letok go put the average radio person makes. It's like 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:13.840 Mike looked at up like twenty eight thousand dollars a 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:18.880 year or something and made significantly less for a long time. 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:22.320 And my first contract was, you know, seventeen thousand dollars, 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:27.560 my first morning show contract. Whenever I was like supposed 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.320 to like killing it. It's fifty grand a year, and 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.520 I thought that I was and I thought it was rich. 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.200 That was rich. It was like I'm there, made double 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:39.839 what my stepdad made working at the mill. And I 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.760 was like, this is the life. Remember going to my 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:44.560 mom going I make it fifty grand a year. And 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.200 I was able to a little after that, you know, 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:48.080 by her trail, learned a couple of acres to live on. 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.680 She's passed away since then, so she doesn't live there now. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:54.320 But I was able to go look, but a grand 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:56.159 and a little bit. She was like, yeah, but doctor's 0:04:56.200 --> 0:05:00.240 made two hundred grand, So I know what it's like 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:04.200 to have that feeling of someone going it was a compliment, 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.360 and it's a compliment to your kid. Yes, so you 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:08.920 think he can be a doctor? Yeah, like you, you're 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:10.640 not just saying be it and he can go chase 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:13.000 a dream. Maybe you really thinking in I think he's 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:14.800 able to do it. And that's all I'm saying. I 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.279 don't I wouldn't even be disappointed if he did something else. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:18.840 I'm just saying, hey, but if you want to be 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.160 a doctor, you can totally do it. And I think 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.279 that's great. Don't go, hey, you need to be a 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:26.080 doctor now, because I got a little bit of that, 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.360 and I think that was coming from fear from my 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:32.920 mom though, that I would just be in that cycle 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:35.880 of what our family had been in for generations of 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:40.000 we didn't work to build a life, We work to 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:44.880 survive our life week to week. Yeah, and so yeah, 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:46.760 I took a big risk. Was broke a long time, 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:48.360 but I was okay it'd being broke because I grew 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.600 up broke and I'm not broke anymore and it's awesome 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:53.560 and have a good life now. But yeah, good as 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:56.839 long as you're framing it that way. Yeah, but sometimes kids, 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:58.640 you know, parents will hit me. I'll be like my kid, 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.680 they just want to be a YouTube star. What do 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:04.800 I do? I'm like, you encourage the crap out of them? 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:09.200 That now is what radio is? Radio Now? In my mind, 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:11.440 it just was whatever comes out of your phone. You 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.680 can be a podcast. I listen to podcast that never 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:16.240 go on actual airwaves. To me, that's radio. This show 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:18.760 goes on airwaves as the podcast, that's radio. Everything's everything's 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:20.200 radio to me if it comes out of your phone. 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:23.800 But it's like my kid wants to be If people 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:25.360 would have told me, hey, you can't be on the 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:28.040 radio because it's like point one percent of people who 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:31.800 actually make it and can have a sustainable wage just 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:35.440 to live. If I would have played the odds, I 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:40.280 wouldn't be here. So you encourage them, support them. Baseball 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:43.720 Players tough though, because you can practice all day and 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:46.760 if you don't have the physical it's tough. Yeah, but 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:48.360 you can be good enough to get a small, small 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.080 college scholarship. That'd be cool. Yeah, I told him that, dude, 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.480 If you get a ride to college playing baseball you've won, 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:55.200 and that doesn't mean you have to be a Major 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.520 League baseball player, right, But every kid, all I wanted 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.880 to be a ball player, all right, I think that 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.760 every kids. I always wanted to be in radio and 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:03.480 new TV and new comedy, but I also wanted to 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:05.160 be a ball player for a while. And then once 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.360 everybody kept growing like bigger and stronger, and I did. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:13.920 I didn't grow at all until tenth grade. I mean 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:15.880 that was the smallest kid. And then I started to 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.679 get a little taller. I was always really skinny. Um 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.680 in playing high school football was thin. Started to get 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:22.240 a little taller and started I was an okay high 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:25.200 school football player, good baseball player, but okay high schoolotball player. 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:29.320 But um yeah, let him know. The average radio person 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:34.360 today makes thirty five thousand dollars. So and I don't 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:39.560 think that's even the average salary of what someone in 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:43.480 the United States makes. Mike looked that up average, saw 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.760 an article on this. I don't know, I haven't looked 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:49.720 at this in a while. Um, the he's gonna pull 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.240 up not radio average salary, but just average salary in 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:56.360 general for Americans, for Americans. I want to say, it 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:59.320 was like forty or something thirty one thirty the average 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:03.200 US salary thirty three. Yeah, so it's about that of 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:07.400 someone in radio. Um but good, ope, he's a doctor. 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:09.960 That'd be cool. Man, that'd be really cool, just just 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.520 as we get older too. I'm thinking, how awesome would 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:14.360 it be to have a son doctor to like call 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:16.840 and be like, I'm feeling this song? What do I do? 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:18.960 Or it'd be awesome to have a kid who is 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.880 getting his pre med while playing baseball? No. Two. All 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:25.160 of that would be great. That'd be tough. Um. Eddie 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:28.480 said that he had a babysitter over you and your wife. 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:32.839 You left something, did something like that, We went head dinner. Okay, 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:35.280 come back, you hire a babysitter. And I'm assuming by 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:37.960 this story she's young. Yes, she's young, and she was 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:41.280 a new babysitter that we hadn't had before. Okay, but 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:43.199 how do you find a new babysitter these days? Through 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:45.120 through our old babysitter and like, oh, you know what, 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.400 I can't do it this weekend, but I have a 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.800 friend that can go do it? Cool? All right, great, 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:51.439 we trust you. My wife is just stubborn, dude. She's 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:53.560 been doing this forever, and she can't break out of it. 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:56.040 She writes checks, and so we come back and she 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:59.400 asked the babysitter how much, and the babysitter tells her, 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:02.160 So she her check book writes a check because it's 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:04.480 the babysitter. And the babysitter was sweet, and I was 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.960 just like, thank you, and then looked at the check, 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.960 and then before she walked out the door, goes, what 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:16.320 do I do with this? My wife was like, what 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.480 do you mean? It's a check? Like, right, well, how 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.720 do I turn this into money? Or is this the money? Like? 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.839 I don't really understand. And we had to explained the 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:24.360 whole thing, like it's a check. You go to a 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:25.920 bank and you give it to him and they give 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:28.880 you cash or whatever checking account? Did you have to 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.480 figure something else out? Unless she had a check in account. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:35.240 She just don't also cash a check without a checking 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.280 but they charge you. They do. Yeah, they take a 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.319 percentage of the check even at its back in the day. 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.440 We just signed a backup and you get it. Yeah, 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:43.080 I'm a cash a check. I don't. We don't use 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:45.120 checks anymore. I no, no, I mean no one does. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:46.640 That's why I tell my wife like, we gotta stop 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:49.000 doing that. We I have a bit of that because 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.800 again I'm eleven years and nine months older than Kaitlin, 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:56.160 and that is at times a funny generational difference. She 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:59.680 doesn't know not having a cell phone where we talked 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:02.920 about I'm considered what they call a geriatric millennial. I 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:04.840 was able to do both live in the gen X 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:08.120 with no Internet. I remember it, but then totally be 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:11.440 in and I feel like I'm still as dialed in 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:14.000 as anyone who's you know, nineteen or twenty for the 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:17.480 most part. And so she was like, yeah, I just 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:20.079 I don't remember time without having cell phones or GPS, 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:22.120 and I was like, no, no map map quests. Man 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:24.040 used print or the book you used to get on 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.600 map Quest, and they go, you purnt off all the papers, 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:29.160 like go this way to take a left. It's interesting 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.959 hop on Morgan's mic over there because Mike d and 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:35.480 Caitlin are basically at the same age. Do you remember 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:38.480 map Quest? Yeah? I use map quests? You did? Yep? 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:42.280 Did you ever have? Do you have a time remembering when? Not? 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:43.959 Because of how you grew up, Because again, if you 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:45.839 couldn't afford a cell phone, that's different but when cell 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:48.840 phones weren't a thing. Yeah, I remember when they were 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:50.520 a thing. I didn't have one because we were broken. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:54.240 I couldn't afford one. But yeah, they were always a 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:57.679 thing in your life. Yeah, Pee, cell phones were always probably, 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.120 I just didn't have one. My friend Evan had a 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:06.520 car phone. Oh money bags. I mean, I couldn't believe 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.760 get a bag phone and his dabot over them. They 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.880 called people from the car. That's mine was bad. I 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:14.320 remember my dad got one like early early and it 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.960 was for business and and he sent me to the 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.040 phone store to pay the bill and it was almost 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:22.640 a thousand dollars for the bill for this phone that 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:24.800 he had in his car that he he didn't have 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.600 an office. He wrote around town in his big brick phone, 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:29.560 and that's how he did work. Mike, You ever send 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:31.480 a big brick phone in a car? No, I've never 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.640 seen that. That's that that was were the people that 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:35.760 weren't making it, or they would just spend a lot 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:37.440 of money out to have a phone. Yeah, yeah, but 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:40.800 he had had a bag phone. Another thing was someone 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:43.880 had sent her these little spritzer drinks and it's like 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:46.240 a spritzer alcohol thing. Some new product line. I don't know. 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.079 I don't know how she got it um, And so 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.240 she she opened it up and it had a disposable 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.520 camera in there, and she was like, oh, this is cool. 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.440 What do you do with it after you take the pictures? 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:01.600 And it wasn't developed pictures. I mean, Amy, Yeah, that 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:03.720 was like high school. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:05.400 And I was like, I was like, what do you mean? 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:07.800 She no, no, if I want to take these pictures, 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:09.720 but what do you do? What do I do at 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:11.880 the camera now? But also I don't know who does 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:15.080 that anymore? Right? Walking? They still do? Yes? Did you 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:17.080 ever use to disposeable all the time? You did? How 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:19.040 we took all our pictures? Okay? But she was like, 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:21.959 I don't, I don't. We didn't use a camera like this, 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:26.240 And so there's a lot of fresh Prince references. She 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:29.240 doesn't get. Man, no one knows the struggle of being 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.840 left somewhere and needing to call someone a phone. The 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:37.240 Woodstock ninety nine documentary. She was like, well she knew 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:38.840 there weren't self. She was like, but there were no 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:40.960 cell phones in ninety nine, I said, out there because 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:42.880 they show people on payphones waiting a line of payphones. 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:45.839 They couldn't find their friends. There were one hundreds thousand 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:48.200 people there and if you lost your friend, you just 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:52.280 lost them because you couldn't text them. They literally go 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:54.439 all weekend without seeing their friend because they're like, how 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:55.800 can we get a hold of them. They have these 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:59.200 little stations where you write your name looking for Bobby. Hey, 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:02.640 it's me Eddie, me try to meet you here and 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.640 that that was the time. Or you have to pull over. 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:07.480 Have a payphone. Did you ever have a payphone or Mike? Yeah, 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:12.640 one collector? Remember using that collector? Yeah, that was talk. 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:16.080 I would just do zero the operator and then you 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:17.839 want to make collect call. If you do zero, and 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.760 then you would dial the number the operator pick up 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.120 first and go. Or you have to record your name. Hey, 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.320 say who it is, and hey's Boby, pick up the phone. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.240 Or we would cheat and I'd be had a payphone 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:27.720 to have no money, and I would be like, hey, 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:29.080 don't accept this, but I'm here. I need to be 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:34.679 picked up. Love it. That's scrappy too, because we have 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.080 thirty five cents to put in there, so you know, 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:40.040 you'd you'd have like six seconds to tell the person 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:42.760 who you were, so they'd pick up this charge. Do 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:45.240 you accept the charges? And they'd be like calling you 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.040 now is Hey, it's Bobby, I'm a charge, can pick 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:51.240 me up by and that was it. Yeah, and so 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:57.640 but there are the occasional little, uh, generational quirks and 0:13:57.720 --> 0:13:59.440 I make fun. Ever, sometimes I'm like, you don't like 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:02.840 she didn't Metallica? She never had Metallica. I never liked Metallica, 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:05.000 And honestly, Metallica was a little bit old for me 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:07.040 too because they were big eighties and I really didn't 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.920 come into my own in the nineties. But she was like, oh, Metallica, 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.640 the face paint guys. I was like, no, that's kiss 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.000 counting crows. When we were going, she had no idea 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.120 what you going to And then but I play him 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:18.640 to her now and she's like, ah, still don't like them. 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:23.960 Oh man, they're so good. Um, okay, Mike, thank you 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:27.520 for your time. Yep, Mike has some questions. He wrought 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.880 me a nod. He wanted to ask me one month 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:34.120 into marriage, do you have those with you? Let's do those. 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:37.520 These are questions that now that I've been married for 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.280 a month, you are Yeah, you're wondering because after me 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:42.240 being married married a month, this kind of stuff I 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.840 experienced as well. Okay, go ahead, So does it feel 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:48.000 weird calling Caitlyn your wife? It did for about a day. 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:52.440 It did the first time. You're like, this is my wife. Wow, 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:55.320 that's weird. Now No, now it's just normal. It's Yeah. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.080 The only thing I am not the best at sometimes 0:14:57.120 --> 0:15:00.040 is forget is remembering to put my ring on. And 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.760 so sometimes I won't have it on and I'll be like, yeah, 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:04.400 I went and worked out our single when I worked out, 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:08.960 you know, or I'm gonna I'm gonna eat dinner single tonight, 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:13.280 so why don't take it off. I don't like jewelry, really, 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:15.400 just take the rubber ring I'm wearing now is actually 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:18.560 pretty cool. Yeah, I don't really feel it. Um. Stanley 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:20.000 loves to try to chew it off on me though, 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.080 Like he just sees it and so if my hand's hanging, 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:25.560 you know, he wants to. But if we moved to 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:27.440 dinner last night, we had a nice dinner. Um, I 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:30.200 put on the oh, the the ring, the ring that's 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:32.040 got a little diamonds in it. Yeah, it just FLEs 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.280 a little bit. Yeah, all right, what else? Yeah, that's 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:35.560 what we gonna say. Are you used to wearing it? 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:37.200 Like the main one? The rubber one's pretty cool. I 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:39.280 can actually fall asleep in it. The main one, no chance. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:41.680 The main one. I'm just playing Maine. I'm just playing 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:43.240 with it all the time because it's it's heavy. If 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:46.400 I wash my hands, it like cuts my underhand because 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.600 it's because you and you've never worn warn a ring. Yeah, 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:52.760 was it a rough reality coming back from the honeymoon 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:55.280 and like, all right, this is just life now, no 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:57.840 more wedding to plan, that's all done. I'd say it 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.840 was the opposite. It was way better. More wedding to plan, 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:04.520 and now it was we get to get started with 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:07.280 the real stuff, like trying to get her on my insurance. 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:09.440 You know, it's been a bit difficult trying to get 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:14.120 her off her work insurance onto my insurance. That's all 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:16.920 weird that we are having trouble with. But other than 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:18.800 that's always been pretty good. And how do I, like, say, 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:20.840 money on taxes? Now, let's go, how do I do that? 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.680 Somebody tell me? Somebody give me some tips or having 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.600 kids to save more money? Oh, let's go. What else? 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:27.840 And do you just feel different, like I felt like 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.920 after I got married, I just felt more adult. It 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:36.240 felt different when she moved in officially. Yeah, it definitely 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.240 feels like I had a letter in an envelope and 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:43.920 it was unsealed. Now I've just sealed the envelope. I 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:46.560 feel like when I do stupid stuff, now she she 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:49.400 can't leave. That's what most It's a little security in me, 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.200 Like sometimes I do stupid stuff and say stupid stuff, 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:52.520 and I know she's just not gonna run away and 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:54.160 never come back. She's just not gonna pack the car 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:55.800 up because a lot of paperwork you have to do it. 0:16:55.800 --> 0:17:00.840 Oh yeah, anybody wants to do process? Yes, um so yeah, yes, 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:02.680 I would say yes. But I'm just ready to save 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:04.480 money on taxes. I'm not even sure how that works. 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:06.920 Keep going back to everybody keeps saying I'm gonna save 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:11.920 money on taxes. Um it, yes, I mean it feels 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:17.200 like I'm a big, heavy boulder that's almost impossible to move. 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:19.640 That's what that's what we are now, Like it's it's 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:21.879 somebody's house, Like it's it's a lot of work to 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:23.600 have to move one of those huge rocks and they 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:25.959 usually never moved. And that and then you're like, this 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.600 rocket is a big rock that's not going to be moved. Um. 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:31.320 So it kind of feels like that, like just more 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:36.560 secure that analogy works. But some people put some big 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:38.439 old rocks in their yards. I'm like, how that you're 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:40.920 there almost taking a lot of time. Um. No, it's 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:43.560 it's good, but I feel like it a year. Asked 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:46.800 me these again, Okay, because after I get to pay 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:52.160 taxes and save money, ask him April next year. Well, 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:54.280 that's what everybody's saying, like, Oh man, you're gonna love it. 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:57.320 You're gonna love saving money on taxes. Um. Are you 0:17:57.520 --> 0:18:02.840 flying this weekend? Yeah? To New York? And I bought 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:07.480 a very last minute ticket, like very and um the 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:13.159 only like the best price option and time available was 0:18:13.200 --> 0:18:15.879 on Spirit Airlines, and I couldn't bring myself to do it. 0:18:15.960 --> 0:18:19.240 I don't know why I've never flown Spirit. I have 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:23.400 not that me neither. I'm sure they're amazing, but then 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:25.320 but you know, I don't know. I feel like, are 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:29.119 they the duct tape place? One instance? That's why I 0:18:29.119 --> 0:18:31.400 would want to fly Spirits in right? Oh, take care 0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:34.520 of you. Do you think you're gonna get in duct taped? Then? 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:36.600 Why would you get I get, I mean, I guess not. 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:39.000 I don't know. I just hadn't for whatever reason, I 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:41.040 just felt like I needed to stick with my og 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:44.320 like Southwest or even though it's not the most ideal time. 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:47.200