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Speaker 1: who I did date years ago and was on this

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Speaker 1: and timing, and this dating concept that I have been

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Speaker 1: exploring is about alignment. It's not about what's his net

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Speaker 1: worth and is he an actor?

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Speaker 2: And is he five nine and does he have.

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Speaker 1: You know, a big washboard abs and a.

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Speaker 1: It's about alignment and having spent some time with him

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Speaker 1: and getting to know him briefly, not you know, it

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Speaker 2: It was dating.

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Speaker 1: I heard that they were together, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: that tracks based on my sense about her. How she dresses,

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Speaker 1: which I still believe. So I saw that post and

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Speaker 1: me realize that society and the media is constantly saying

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Speaker 1: her relationships or failed relationships, all these things, right, they

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Speaker 1: don't really say that about men. They'll talk about Leo

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Speaker 1: at all times. But that's more of like a pattern,

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Speaker 1: And why or Bill Belichick, it's not about it's not

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Speaker 1: women always get that, like she can't hold the man,

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Speaker 1: what if she didn't want to hold the man? What

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Speaker 1: if she was the wrong man? What if this is

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Speaker 2: Now? You know?

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Speaker 1: What if she had to kiss a lot of frogs,

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Speaker 1: including Brad Pitt to get to her prints. Like what

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Speaker 1: if one person's dream justin thrower Brad Pitt is is

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Speaker 1: somebody else's nightmare, Like what if this is just her

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Speaker 1: forever guy? I just think it is. I just I

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Speaker 1: can feel it like a witch, like I'm a like.

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Speaker 1: I literally have like a tent and I'm reading fortunes.

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Speaker 1: I just feel it. I think this is her forever guy.

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Speaker 1: I I don't think in six months it's gonna be

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 1: He's very chill, but yet has a good sense of humor,

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Speaker 1: is good looking, is smart and spiritual. But I remember

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Speaker 2: I don't know. He seems like he could take a

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Speaker 2: back seat. I like it. I love it. I don't

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Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with me, and it has

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with clickbait. What it does have to

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Speaker 1: do with is if you want to find someone and

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Speaker 1: your discouraged, and you're wondering why it keeps failing, why

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Speaker 1: you keep going out the wrong guy, why your picker

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Speaker 2: So it's not I'm.

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Speaker 1: Not talking about this for clickbait fodder. I'm talking about

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Speaker 1: this for what it means. It means she has been

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Speaker 1: criticized and scrutinized, and she what I believe, and she

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Speaker 1: And there are people in my comment saying they don't

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Speaker 1: I don't not like her, I don't know her. I

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Speaker 1: I haven't gotten it right. I've had many serious relationships.

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Speaker 1: I have no problem meeting men, I have no problem

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Speaker 1: right reasons. And I strongly believe in the pendulum theory.

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Speaker 1: So it's not a theory that anyone's ever said before me,

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Speaker 1: I went for someone who said they were going to

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Speaker 1: And then that was so chaotic that after that I

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Speaker 1: And there were many, many circumstances that led to that

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Speaker 1: relationship being wrong. But after that relationship, I did the work.

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Speaker 1: to be celibate and not date, to get the pendulum

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Speaker 2: Let's say it was someone who cheated on you.

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Speaker 1: Then you was someone who may not even have a pulse,

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Speaker 1: was a very bad experience. Because they were broke, it

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Speaker 1: means you have to fucking level out. And I get

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Speaker 1: wasn't like reacting to Brad Pitt or Justin Throw or this,

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Speaker 1: The one that said to me, you will keep making

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Speaker 1: So let me take a seat and then let me

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Speaker 1: not move out of this chair until there's something to

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Speaker 2: I am dating.

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Speaker 1: I met a lot of different types of people, and

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Speaker 1: some are certain about me. They are absolutely certain that

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Speaker 1: It means I'm exploring it. The old me went to

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Speaker 1: the person. I have never really been the chooser. I'm

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Speaker 1: always the chosen. I get chosen. I get intoxicated by it.

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Speaker 1: I lean into it. I go hard for it, because

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Speaker 1: it's so intoxicating to be loved, particularly if you grew

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Speaker 1: But that's not the sole reason to be If someone

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Speaker 1: It's a factor you don't want someone who doesn't love you.

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Speaker 1: It's go time or no time. You're not sitting around

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Speaker 2: That's it. It's go time or no time.

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Speaker 1: It's not the idea of something or eventually they'll get

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Speaker 1: If they do operate that way, it's not based in truth,

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Speaker 2: It's go time or no time.

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Speaker 1: They're ready, or discard them, that's it. If you're looking

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Speaker 2: He is primed and ready.

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Speaker 1: He is a blobed up, based up glossy turkey ready

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Speaker 2: Come back to center. They will not.

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Speaker 1: If your dating have updated photos, that is it. What

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Speaker 1: it does not look like you, and you're gonna show

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Speaker 1: someone into thinking you look like that picture. Get your

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Speaker 2: What are you trying to convey? Also, like, why are

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Speaker 1: Picture with your mother? Why are you in a picture

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Speaker 1: with your best friend is hotter than you? Why are

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Speaker 1: they're even looking at, Like what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Like? Why are you in every single picture?

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Speaker 1: In a hot dress, Like, do you do anything else

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Speaker 1: besides wear hot dresses? Do you do you do sports?

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Speaker 1: Like people are clueless. But the worst defense is the

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Speaker 1: picture doesn't look like you. We have this dating concept

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Speaker 1: and one woman the two pictures don't look like the

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Speaker 1: same person. Will the real person please stand up? They

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Speaker 2: I I got scalped. How's that?

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. This is a PPA. It

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Speaker 1: is a public ponytail announcement, and I'm putting up dues

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Speaker 1: What do you think that that's a sentence that anybody

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Speaker 2: Like I was like what? And I got scared, like

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Speaker 1: And he was like, no, something pulled and I looked

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Speaker 1: And everyone said to me, Courtney Kardashian went through that.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember when it was and I didn't see

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Speaker 2: She put it on her show.

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Speaker 1: I'm not traumatized, but like, I don't really want a

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Speaker 2: What a fucking disaster. What a disaster?

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Speaker 1: Uh, one more thing, you cannot go backwards. If you

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Speaker 1: It's a discipline, it's a slap on your hand, it's

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Speaker 1: going backwards, no matter what, no matter how no matter

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Speaker 1: not going backwards. Another thing I want to ask you, guys.

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Speaker 1: I really want to ask you guys. Now I talk

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Speaker 1: to my shrink about this. It cannot be in a vacuum.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how important sex is. I want

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Speaker 1: I think it can be improved, I think it can

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Speaker 1: what does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Message us, let me know.