WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: One Night Stand Weirdo

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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. One night stands are always awkward, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>especially at the end of it, when you're done and

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<v Speaker 1>there's just that awkward moment where you're like, hey, was

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<v Speaker 1>it sixty five or seventy dollars? And then you have

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<v Speaker 1>to like haggle back and forth and you're like, do

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<v Speaker 1>I tip? Is it? What's t twenty five percent? Then

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<v Speaker 1>you look it up on Google and they're standing there

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<v Speaker 1>looking at you. It's just a one night stands are

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<v Speaker 1>just so awkward. No, I'm just not even gonna hollow you. Well, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>who is on the phone today to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, has an awkward story about a one night stand.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, Matt, how are you man? I'm okay, So,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the name of the girl that you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call today? Arianna? Is that it said? Exactly like that?

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<v Speaker 1>It is when I say it, Arianna? Okay? And where'd

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<v Speaker 1>you meet her? I met her at a house party? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you met her at a house party, and now your

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<v Speaker 1>email will ask you a little bit more about her.

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<v Speaker 1>In a second, your email said that you guys hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up same night you met, and now she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. That's correct. I'm always so. I always think

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<v Speaker 1>it's so funny when we call it a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update when the first night not really so much a date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an instant date. It's still a date, right, Matt, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess you look up with the chick

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<v Speaker 1>it counts as a date. Yeah, I think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>consider that a date. So how did you meet her

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<v Speaker 1>at the house party? So I planned a drinking game

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<v Speaker 1>with all my friends, you know, um, we're just having

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<v Speaker 1>a good time, and she wandered up and wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be a part of it, and I was like, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, she was hot and I want to sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and play the game with us. No dudes, only

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<v Speaker 1>no hot girls get to play this game. What game

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<v Speaker 1>were you guys playing? The game's called as I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you know that when you guys are playing

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<v Speaker 1>the game, did you actually get to talk to each

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<v Speaker 1>other much? I talked to her mostly while we were

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<v Speaker 1>actually playing the game, like trying to teach her how

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you got to look at a certain cards

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<v Speaker 1>and know what the card mean. So, I mean that's

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<v Speaker 1>when I was kind of like, oh wow, this chick

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<v Speaker 1>is really cute and taught her and how to play

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<v Speaker 1>the game. Okay, So how did the rest of the

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<v Speaker 1>evening progress? I mean, I know how it ended, because

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<v Speaker 1>you said in your email that you guys hooked up.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, did she seem like she was actually

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<v Speaker 1>into you or she just wanted to hook up with you?

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to say that she was really into me,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's not calling me back. Yeah, it's a good point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Usually that's how you can tell if somebody's really into

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<v Speaker 1>you or not. Why do you think she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back? Well, I don't know, because I mean remained

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<v Speaker 1>out a little bit and we went back to her play.

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<v Speaker 1>But bad, I guess. I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why it didn't work. You mentioned in your email that

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<v Speaker 1>it was a little awkward the next day. How So

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<v Speaker 1>when I woke up, she was like a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't the person that I hooked up with that night.

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<v Speaker 1>The next morning was like what, like literally a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you woke up and you're like, who is this dude? No,

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<v Speaker 1>she was just cold and loof. It was like it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was a different person. I can't say literally,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's just not the person I hooked up with

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<v Speaker 1>the night before. Did she seem disappointed that you were

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<v Speaker 1>still there in the morning? Kind of? I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's I mean, it sounds like she maybe just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>a one night stand. Well, I mean I hope not,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean we had fun and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time, but I didn't want it to be

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<v Speaker 1>a one time thing, you know what I mean. So

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<v Speaker 1>did you ever actually say that to her? I actually

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<v Speaker 1>have the conversation that you wanted it to be more

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<v Speaker 1>than a one night stand? Yeah? I did, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>in so many words, but that's what I wanted. And

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<v Speaker 1>what did she say to you back? Not much? Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's not good. So you were like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>want more than a one night stand and she just

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<v Speaker 1>like pat you on the head and kick you out

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<v Speaker 1>the door kind of? That's cute. I wish she was

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<v Speaker 1>that cute. What was the last thing she said to you? Bye? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And how many times do you tried to get aho

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<v Speaker 1>of her since this one night standing? I've been trying

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<v Speaker 1>for like a couple of weeks. Now, man, why are

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<v Speaker 1>you I mean, why are you so hung up by this? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I get that you liked her and stuff. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of dudes would be like sweet a chick that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want any strings attached. I'm not like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dudes. I'm sensitive, you know, like I really I've

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<v Speaker 1>stopped this meant something? Does she respond you at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Not on the phone, only through texts, and she is

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<v Speaker 1>always like I'm busy. Hey, at least you're getting a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a response on text. It's not a

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<v Speaker 1>good one necessarily, But why do you think that this

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<v Speaker 1>would change her mind? She? I mean, I'd not try

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<v Speaker 1>to be mean, but she obviously seems like she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you. It's like one of the

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<v Speaker 1>best times I've ever had, So why would I not

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<v Speaker 1>want to have that again? I mean, I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>can't hurt to try. Well it could, I could actually hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. But anyway, what we'll do is we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>day out date. All right? Thanks everybody looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. I completely forgot to ask the most important

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<v Speaker 1>question in the first part of today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>when we were talking to Matt. Hey, Matt, Yeah, how

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<v Speaker 1>bad are you in bed? It's a good question on

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<v Speaker 1>a scale of what to what make your own scale up? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you bad in bed? Do you think or do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you're Okay, I'm not bad. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm good either. All right, that's good. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to like overhype yourself. I feel I feel adequate. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just tuning into the second day update, Matt

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<v Speaker 1>met Arianna at a house party. They had a one

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<v Speaker 1>night stand. The next morning. She was awkward, and he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't been able to get her to go back out

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<v Speaker 1>with him ever since. So I'm just assuming maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>it was bad and she was like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do that again. All right, man, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>the phone of her right now, get her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. Okay, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>And Matt, you said you're a really sensitive guy. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you going to be able to handle some harsh criticism

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<v Speaker 1>because that sometimes happens in the second date update. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try, Okay, hold it together, buddy, It's just one girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Just remember that, all right? One girl and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of other girls listening who might know who you are? Hello? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Arianna? Yes? Who am I speaking to? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I don't understand what you mean? Sorry? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jebil host a radio show. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, and one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners emailed us about you. So I'm calling to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you a few questions. Any idea who might want

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<v Speaker 1>to get in touch with you? I honestly have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Matt, and you guys recently met at

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<v Speaker 1>a party, and so it sounds to me like you

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<v Speaker 1>know who Matt is. Yeah, I know who matters. Matt

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<v Speaker 1>talked to us a little bit about meeting you, said

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<v Speaker 1>that he really liked you and has been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get you to go out with him again since you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had a little one night stand. But he says,

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<v Speaker 1>you just say that you're busy, but you obviously aren't

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<v Speaker 1>really calling him back and agreeing to go out. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there any particular reason why? I mean, it just really

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a good night And I don't know it just

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<v Speaker 1>honestly wish I could just take it all back. Was

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<v Speaker 1>it the actual hooking up that was bad or was

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<v Speaker 1>it just the experience of being with him that was bad?

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<v Speaker 1>He said it was. He said that after you guys

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<v Speaker 1>did it and you woke up in the morning, you

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<v Speaker 1>seemed kind of like awkward about things. I mean, there

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<v Speaker 1>was just a really a specific moment that I can

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<v Speaker 1>remember that was just not ideal, and it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like was really sobering. To be honest, can you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us what happened? He really wants to see you again,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's wondering why you're not calling him back. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It's really embarrassing, and I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I should say it or not embarrassing about

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<v Speaker 1>you or arrassing on his behalf. Oh, definitely on his behalf. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know you're never going to talk to him again, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know that he set this phone call up

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<v Speaker 1>because he wants to know what he did wrong. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>then I guess he's willing to be embarrassed. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you wouldn't call the radio if you didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>the honest answer. There you go. Um, well, we were

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<v Speaker 1>we were we were intimate and I can call it that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was it was fine. But then in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of things happening, his phone rings and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a text, and he like gets up, like in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of it, and like walks across the room. He says,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on a second. Wait, this is why you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are in the middle of things. Yeah, it's like just

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<v Speaker 1>like just getting to the good part and then just

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, out of nowhere, and he gets

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<v Speaker 1>at He's like hold on, and so so I just

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<v Speaker 1>lay there and I'm like, uh oh, okay, and he

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<v Speaker 1>gets up and walks across the room and pulls his

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<v Speaker 1>saunt out of his pants pocket and starts texting someone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just in the middle, and I'm just like, are you

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<v Speaker 1>kidding me? Like you couldn't wait like twenty more minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>So he did you take a break in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of hooking up with you to check his text messages? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell him that? That is like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so many things uncomfortable, rude? No, honestly, Like it was

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<v Speaker 1>just one of those situations where I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be over with And so he after he was texting,

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<v Speaker 1>he was kind of like all right, where where are we?

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<v Speaker 1>And I so uncomfortable. One of my buddies just sent

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<v Speaker 1>me this hilarious meme. Sorry, I had to text him back,

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<v Speaker 1>l are you ready to get this thing back moving again?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm just like I need disconnect for like

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Like Sorry, I had to check in

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<v Speaker 1>real quick. To his defense, you guys were both wasted.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's obviously not making the best and brightest

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<v Speaker 1>decisions of his life at that moment. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't even wasted anymore. It was just one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things where he just got up and checked his

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<v Speaker 1>phone in the middle of being together, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just so rude and inconsiderate and honestly so embarrassing on

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<v Speaker 1>his part. That is a way to make a woman

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<v Speaker 1>feel sexy. I know, definitely. I have never thought more

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<v Speaker 1>sexy in my life. Yeah, I am so into being

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<v Speaker 1>with you right now, but I can hear my phone

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<v Speaker 1>going off. I'm gonna check that real quick and then

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<v Speaker 1>get back to it. You must have been pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be pissed if somebody checked their phone in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of time. I should have updated my Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>right then while he was here. So is that why

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<v Speaker 1>you were kind of cold with him the next day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just figured if I'm just don't say much, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he'll leave, and so he did. He finally laughed, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was just he was super super like clinging the

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<v Speaker 1>next morning and like, I had a really great time.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, really, aren't you curious to find out

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<v Speaker 1>who he was texting? I mean, honestly, I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>give anymore. He's such a blimp on the radar and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care about him anymore. Well, I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to find out. And it's cool because he's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening, so we can ask him what. Yeah, hey, Arianna,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Matt. That is awkward, isn't it? Matt? Why would

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<v Speaker 1>you check your phone in the middle of sexual relations

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody. Some of us have responsibilities beyond just sucking up.

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<v Speaker 1>How could you have a responsibility at that time of night,

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<v Speaker 1>after a whole night of partying. Well, I have family

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<v Speaker 1>that depends on me. Like I have a brother who's

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<v Speaker 1>in trouble financially. My sister has two kids. So when

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<v Speaker 1>my phone rings, I mean, that's my gut response, that's

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I have to go through that. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait like one minute, You're already out at

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<v Speaker 1>like twelve in the morning, Like, who, what do they need?

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't under stay. Yeah, hey, Arianna, I apologize

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<v Speaker 1>I offended you. It had nothing to do with you

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Really, when my phone goes off, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>an instinctual trigger. I have to pick it up. And

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<v Speaker 1>did you never know what's going to happen? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess no. I mean, really, come on, No, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>say no to that. You can say no to family.

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<v Speaker 1>If my mom texts me in the middle of hooking

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<v Speaker 1>up with somebody, I'm not answering that. I honestly don't

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<v Speaker 1>even believe him that it was his family. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he's just covering. Wait. I didn't say it was my family.

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<v Speaker 1>I said if those people were to call me, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to pick up the phone. So who was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Who was it then? Matt? Yeah, well why, I'll be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>it's my boy Scott. Okay, not an emergency, but it

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<v Speaker 1>might would have been, so I guess I picked up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I don't understand why you at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and still don't quite understand why picking up a phone,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter who it's from, in the middle of that

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<v Speaker 1>is not a good idea. Finish the task at hand,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you can text your friend. It just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem that difficult. Does that make sense to you at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Matt No, not really. So you think it's perfectly fine

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<v Speaker 1>to text in the middle of that act. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's perfectly fine in all accounts. But you have

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<v Speaker 1>to take into account work going out with sex. You're

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<v Speaker 1>one of those people that would like, if you were

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<v Speaker 1>pulled on whether you'd give up sex or your cell phone,

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<v Speaker 1>you choose sex before your cell phone, right, only in

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<v Speaker 1>an emergency situation. All right, Well, I'm gonna ask the

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<v Speaker 1>question anyway. I know the answer. But Arianna, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with Mattigan on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for it. Honestly, it wasn't even that

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<v Speaker 1>fun to begin with. It's kind of relief that you

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<v Speaker 1>got up and had a text Matt no second date

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Well, now I'm okay with it. You're okay

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<v Speaker 1>with it now? Why is that? Well, after hearing her

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<v Speaker 1>end of the story, I think I'm better off because

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<v Speaker 1>she was the one in the rock, you know where

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<v Speaker 1>You're right? She should be more understanding. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that he's totally right. I probably am better off. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we can agree to agree. Broken jewel in the morning,