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Speaker 1: Second date Update. One night stands are always awkward, you know,
Speaker 1: especially at the end of it, when you're done and
Speaker 1: there's just that awkward moment where you're like, hey, was
Speaker 1: it sixty five or seventy dollars? And then you have
Speaker 1: to like haggle back and forth and you're like, do
Speaker 1: I tip? Is it? What's t twenty five percent? Then
Speaker 1: you look it up on Google and they're standing there
Speaker 1: looking at you. It's just a one night stands are
Speaker 1: just so awkward. No, I'm just not even gonna hollow you. Well, Matt,
Speaker 1: who is on the phone today to do a second
Speaker 1: date update, has an awkward story about a one night stand.
Speaker 1: I guess, Matt, how are you man? I'm okay, So,
Speaker 1: what's the name of the girl that you want to
Speaker 1: call today? Arianna? Is that it said? Exactly like that?
Speaker 1: It is when I say it, Arianna? Okay? And where'd
Speaker 1: you meet her? I met her at a house party? Okay,
Speaker 1: you met her at a house party, and now your
Speaker 1: email will ask you a little bit more about her.
Speaker 1: In a second, your email said that you guys hooked
Speaker 1: up same night you met, and now she's not calling
Speaker 1: you back. That's correct. I'm always so. I always think
Speaker 1: it's so funny when we call it a second date
Speaker 1: update when the first night not really so much a date.
Speaker 1: It's an instant date. It's still a date, right, Matt, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess you look up with the chick
Speaker 1: it counts as a date. Yeah, I think so. I
Speaker 1: consider that a date. So how did you meet her
Speaker 1: at the house party? So I planned a drinking game
Speaker 1: with all my friends, you know, um, we're just having
Speaker 1: a good time, and she wandered up and wanted to
Speaker 1: be a part of it, and I was like, sure,
Speaker 1: of course, she was hot and I want to sit
Speaker 1: down and play the game with us. No dudes, only
Speaker 1: no hot girls get to play this game. What game
Speaker 1: were you guys playing? The game's called as I don't
Speaker 1: know if you know that when you guys are playing
Speaker 1: the game, did you actually get to talk to each
Speaker 1: other much? I talked to her mostly while we were
Speaker 1: actually playing the game, like trying to teach her how
Speaker 1: you know, you got to look at a certain cards
Speaker 1: and know what the card mean. So, I mean that's
Speaker 1: when I was kind of like, oh wow, this chick
Speaker 1: is really cute and taught her and how to play
Speaker 1: the game. Okay, So how did the rest of the
Speaker 1: evening progress? I mean, I know how it ended, because
Speaker 1: you said in your email that you guys hooked up.
Speaker 1: But I mean, did she seem like she was actually
Speaker 1: into you or she just wanted to hook up with you?
Speaker 1: I wanted to say that she was really into me,
Speaker 1: but she's not calling me back. Yeah, it's a good point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Usually that's how you can tell if somebody's really into
Speaker 1: you or not. Why do you think she's not calling
Speaker 1: you back? Well, I don't know, because I mean remained
Speaker 1: out a little bit and we went back to her play.
Speaker 1: But bad, I guess. I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: why it didn't work. You mentioned in your email that
Speaker 1: it was a little awkward the next day. How So
Speaker 1: when I woke up, she was like a different person.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the person that I hooked up with that night.
Speaker 1: The next morning was like what, like literally a different person.
Speaker 1: Like you woke up and you're like, who is this dude? No,
Speaker 1: she was just cold and loof. It was like it
Speaker 1: was it was a different person. I can't say literally,
Speaker 1: but she's just not the person I hooked up with
Speaker 1: the night before. Did she seem disappointed that you were
Speaker 1: still there in the morning? Kind of? I mean, because
Speaker 1: it's I mean, it sounds like she maybe just wanted
Speaker 1: a one night stand. Well, I mean I hope not,
Speaker 1: because I mean we had fun and it was a
Speaker 1: really good time, but I didn't want it to be
Speaker 1: a one time thing, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: did you ever actually say that to her? I actually
Speaker 1: have the conversation that you wanted it to be more
Speaker 1: than a one night stand? Yeah? I did, I mean
Speaker 1: in so many words, but that's what I wanted. And
Speaker 1: what did she say to you back? Not much? Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah that's not good. So you were like, hey, I
Speaker 1: want more than a one night stand and she just
Speaker 1: like pat you on the head and kick you out
Speaker 1: the door kind of? That's cute. I wish she was
Speaker 1: that cute. What was the last thing she said to you? Bye? Okay?
Speaker 1: And how many times do you tried to get aho
Speaker 1: of her since this one night standing? I've been trying
Speaker 1: for like a couple of weeks. Now, man, why are
Speaker 1: you I mean, why are you so hung up by this? Though?
Speaker 1: Like I get that you liked her and stuff. A
Speaker 1: lot of dudes would be like sweet a chick that
Speaker 1: doesn't want any strings attached. I'm not like a lot
Speaker 1: of dudes. I'm sensitive, you know, like I really I've
Speaker 1: stopped this meant something? Does she respond you at all?
Speaker 1: Not on the phone, only through texts, and she is
Speaker 1: always like I'm busy. Hey, at least you're getting a
Speaker 1: little bit of a response on text. It's not a
Speaker 1: good one necessarily, But why do you think that this
Speaker 1: would change her mind? She? I mean, I'd not try
Speaker 1: to be mean, but she obviously seems like she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to talk to you. It's like one of the
Speaker 1: best times I've ever had, So why would I not
Speaker 1: want to have that again? I mean, I guess it
Speaker 1: can't hurt to try. Well it could, I could actually hurt,
Speaker 1: I guess. But anyway, what we'll do is we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second
Speaker 1: day out date. All right? Thanks everybody looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. I completely forgot to ask the most important
Speaker 1: question in the first part of today's second date update
Speaker 1: when we were talking to Matt. Hey, Matt, Yeah, how
Speaker 1: bad are you in bed? It's a good question on
Speaker 1: a scale of what to what make your own scale up? Though?
Speaker 1: Are you bad in bed? Do you think or do
Speaker 1: you think you're Okay, I'm not bad. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say I'm good either. All right, that's good. You don't
Speaker 1: want to like overhype yourself. I feel I feel adequate. Okay.
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning into the second day update, Matt
Speaker 1: met Arianna at a house party. They had a one
Speaker 1: night stand. The next morning. She was awkward, and he
Speaker 1: hasn't been able to get her to go back out
Speaker 1: with him ever since. So I'm just assuming maybe that
Speaker 1: it was bad and she was like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to do that again. All right, man, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: the phone of her right now, get her on the phone,
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: And Matt, you said you're a really sensitive guy. Are
Speaker 1: you going to be able to handle some harsh criticism
Speaker 1: because that sometimes happens in the second date update. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try, Okay, hold it together, buddy, It's just one girl.
Speaker 1: Just remember that, all right? One girl and a lot
Speaker 1: of other girls listening who might know who you are? Hello? Hi?
Speaker 1: Is this Arianna? Yes? Who am I speaking to? This
Speaker 1: is Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How
Speaker 1: are you? I don't understand what you mean? Sorry? Um?
Speaker 1: My name is Jebil host a radio show. It's called
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, and one of
Speaker 1: our listeners emailed us about you. So I'm calling to
Speaker 1: ask you a few questions. Any idea who might want
Speaker 1: to get in touch with you? I honestly have no idea.
Speaker 1: His name is Matt, and you guys recently met at
Speaker 1: a party, and so it sounds to me like you
Speaker 1: know who Matt is. Yeah, I know who matters. Matt
Speaker 1: talked to us a little bit about meeting you, said
Speaker 1: that he really liked you and has been trying to
Speaker 1: get you to go out with him again since you
Speaker 1: guys had a little one night stand. But he says,
Speaker 1: you just say that you're busy, but you obviously aren't
Speaker 1: really calling him back and agreeing to go out. Is
Speaker 1: there any particular reason why? I mean, it just really
Speaker 1: wasn't a good night And I don't know it just
Speaker 1: honestly wish I could just take it all back. Was
Speaker 1: it the actual hooking up that was bad or was
Speaker 1: it just the experience of being with him that was bad?
Speaker 1: He said it was. He said that after you guys
Speaker 1: did it and you woke up in the morning, you
Speaker 1: seemed kind of like awkward about things. I mean, there
Speaker 1: was just a really a specific moment that I can
Speaker 1: remember that was just not ideal, and it kind of
Speaker 1: like was really sobering. To be honest, can you tell
Speaker 1: us what happened? He really wants to see you again,
Speaker 1: and he's wondering why you're not calling him back. I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's really embarrassing, and I just I don't
Speaker 1: know if I should say it or not embarrassing about
Speaker 1: you or arrassing on his behalf. Oh, definitely on his behalf. Okay,
Speaker 1: if you know you're never going to talk to him again, right,
Speaker 1: and you know that he set this phone call up
Speaker 1: because he wants to know what he did wrong. Yeah,
Speaker 1: then I guess he's willing to be embarrassed. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: guess you wouldn't call the radio if you didn't want
Speaker 1: the honest answer. There you go. Um, well, we were
Speaker 1: we were we were intimate and I can call it that,
Speaker 1: and it was it was fine. But then in the
Speaker 1: middle of things happening, his phone rings and it's like
Speaker 1: a text, and he like gets up, like in the
Speaker 1: middle of it, and like walks across the room. He says,
Speaker 1: hold on a second. Wait, this is why you guys
Speaker 1: are in the middle of things. Yeah, it's like just
Speaker 1: like just getting to the good part and then just
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, out of nowhere, and he gets
Speaker 1: at He's like hold on, and so so I just
Speaker 1: lay there and I'm like, uh oh, okay, and he
Speaker 1: gets up and walks across the room and pulls his
Speaker 1: saunt out of his pants pocket and starts texting someone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just in the middle, and I'm just like, are you
Speaker 1: kidding me? Like you couldn't wait like twenty more minutes.
Speaker 1: So he did you take a break in the middle
Speaker 1: of hooking up with you to check his text messages? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you tell him that? That is like, I mean,
Speaker 1: so many things uncomfortable, rude? No, honestly, Like it was
Speaker 1: just one of those situations where I just wanted to
Speaker 1: be over with And so he after he was texting,
Speaker 1: he was kind of like all right, where where are we?
Speaker 1: And I so uncomfortable. One of my buddies just sent
Speaker 1: me this hilarious meme. Sorry, I had to text him back,
Speaker 1: l are you ready to get this thing back moving again?
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just like I need disconnect for like
Speaker 1: a little bit. Like Sorry, I had to check in
Speaker 1: real quick. To his defense, you guys were both wasted.
Speaker 1: I mean, he's obviously not making the best and brightest
Speaker 1: decisions of his life at that moment. At this point,
Speaker 1: we weren't even wasted anymore. It was just one of
Speaker 1: those things where he just got up and checked his
Speaker 1: phone in the middle of being together, and it was
Speaker 1: just so rude and inconsiderate and honestly so embarrassing on
Speaker 1: his part. That is a way to make a woman
Speaker 1: feel sexy. I know, definitely. I have never thought more
Speaker 1: sexy in my life. Yeah, I am so into being
Speaker 1: with you right now, but I can hear my phone
Speaker 1: going off. I'm gonna check that real quick and then
Speaker 1: get back to it. You must have been pretty well.
Speaker 1: I would be pissed if somebody checked their phone in
Speaker 1: the middle of time. I should have updated my Twitter
Speaker 1: right then while he was here. So is that why
Speaker 1: you were kind of cold with him the next day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just figured if I'm just don't say much, maybe
Speaker 1: he'll leave, and so he did. He finally laughed, but
Speaker 1: it was just he was super super like clinging the
Speaker 1: next morning and like, I had a really great time.
Speaker 1: I was like, really, aren't you curious to find out
Speaker 1: who he was texting? I mean, honestly, I really don't
Speaker 1: give anymore. He's such a blimp on the radar and
Speaker 1: I don't really care about him anymore. Well, I'd like
Speaker 1: to find out. And it's cool because he's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening, so we can ask him what. Yeah, hey, Arianna,
Speaker 1: Hey Matt. That is awkward, isn't it? Matt? Why would
Speaker 1: you check your phone in the middle of sexual relations
Speaker 1: with somebody. Some of us have responsibilities beyond just sucking up.
Speaker 1: How could you have a responsibility at that time of night,
Speaker 1: after a whole night of partying. Well, I have family
Speaker 1: that depends on me. Like I have a brother who's
Speaker 1: in trouble financially. My sister has two kids. So when
Speaker 1: my phone rings, I mean, that's my gut response, that's
Speaker 1: I mean, I have to go through that. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I can't wait like one minute, You're already out at
Speaker 1: like twelve in the morning, Like, who, what do they need?
Speaker 1: I just don't under stay. Yeah, hey, Arianna, I apologize
Speaker 1: I offended you. It had nothing to do with you
Speaker 1: at all. Really, when my phone goes off, it's like
Speaker 1: an instinctual trigger. I have to pick it up. And
Speaker 1: did you never know what's going to happen? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess no. I mean, really, come on, No, you can't
Speaker 1: say no to that. You can say no to family.
Speaker 1: If my mom texts me in the middle of hooking
Speaker 1: up with somebody, I'm not answering that. I honestly don't
Speaker 1: even believe him that it was his family. I think
Speaker 1: he's just covering. Wait. I didn't say it was my family.
Speaker 1: I said if those people were to call me, I
Speaker 1: have to pick up the phone. So who was it?
Speaker 1: Who was it then? Matt? Yeah, well why, I'll be honest,
Speaker 1: it's my boy Scott. Okay, not an emergency, but it
Speaker 1: might would have been, so I guess I picked up
Speaker 1: the phone. I don't understand why you at the time,
Speaker 1: and still don't quite understand why picking up a phone,
Speaker 1: no matter who it's from, in the middle of that
Speaker 1: is not a good idea. Finish the task at hand,
Speaker 1: and then you can text your friend. It just doesn't
Speaker 1: seem that difficult. Does that make sense to you at all?
Speaker 1: Matt No, not really. So you think it's perfectly fine
Speaker 1: to text in the middle of that act. I don't
Speaker 1: think it's perfectly fine in all accounts. But you have
Speaker 1: to take into account work going out with sex. You're
Speaker 1: one of those people that would like, if you were
Speaker 1: pulled on whether you'd give up sex or your cell phone,
Speaker 1: you choose sex before your cell phone, right, only in
Speaker 1: an emergency situation. All right, Well, I'm gonna ask the
Speaker 1: question anyway. I know the answer. But Arianna, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with Mattigan on a second date?
Speaker 1: I will pay for it. Honestly, it wasn't even that
Speaker 1: fun to begin with. It's kind of relief that you
Speaker 1: got up and had a text Matt no second date
Speaker 1: for you? Well, now I'm okay with it. You're okay
Speaker 1: with it now? Why is that? Well, after hearing her
Speaker 1: end of the story, I think I'm better off because
Speaker 1: she was the one in the rock, you know where
Speaker 1: You're right? She should be more understanding. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I think that he's totally right. I probably am better off. Well,
Speaker 1: we can agree to agree. Broken jewel in the morning,