1
00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,200
Speaker 1: Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put

2
00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:04,400
Speaker 1: away that mouse and get out of the house. Join

3
00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,880
Speaker 1: in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles.

4
00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:14,040
Speaker 1: Put in the Loop Singles dot Com Today looking jubels

5
00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,520
Speaker 1: Second date Update. One night stands are always awkward, you know,

6
00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,400
Speaker 1: especially at the end of it, when you're done and

7
00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,040
Speaker 1: there's just that awkward moment where you're like, hey, was

8
00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:30,120
Speaker 1: it sixty five or seventy dollars? And then you have

9
00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,479
Speaker 1: to like haggle back and forth and you're like, do

10
00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,000
Speaker 1: I tip? Is it? What's t twenty five percent? Then

11
00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,040
Speaker 1: you look it up on Google and they're standing there

12
00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,080
Speaker 1: looking at you. It's just a one night stands are

13
00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:46,479
Speaker 1: just so awkward. No, I'm just not even gonna hollow you. Well, Matt,

14
00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,360
Speaker 1: who is on the phone today to do a second

15
00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,280
Speaker 1: date update, has an awkward story about a one night stand.

16
00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,400
Speaker 1: I guess, Matt, how are you man? I'm okay, So,

17
00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:56,720
Speaker 1: what's the name of the girl that you want to

18
00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,040
Speaker 1: call today? Arianna? Is that it said? Exactly like that?

19
00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,080
Speaker 1: It is when I say it, Arianna? Okay? And where'd

20
00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,320
Speaker 1: you meet her? I met her at a house party? Okay,

21
00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:10,840
Speaker 1: you met her at a house party, and now your

22
00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,240
Speaker 1: email will ask you a little bit more about her.

23
00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,959
Speaker 1: In a second, your email said that you guys hooked

24
00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,000
Speaker 1: up same night you met, and now she's not calling

25
00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,640
Speaker 1: you back. That's correct. I'm always so. I always think

26
00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,119
Speaker 1: it's so funny when we call it a second date

27
00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,560
Speaker 1: update when the first night not really so much a date.

28
00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,480
Speaker 1: It's an instant date. It's still a date, right, Matt, Yeah,

29
00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,080
Speaker 1: I mean I guess you look up with the chick

30
00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:32,760
Speaker 1: it counts as a date. Yeah, I think so. I

31
00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,520
Speaker 1: consider that a date. So how did you meet her

32
00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,520
Speaker 1: at the house party? So I planned a drinking game

33
00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,280
Speaker 1: with all my friends, you know, um, we're just having

34
00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,000
Speaker 1: a good time, and she wandered up and wanted to

35
00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,280
Speaker 1: be a part of it, and I was like, sure,

36
00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,480
Speaker 1: of course, she was hot and I want to sit

37
00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,680
Speaker 1: down and play the game with us. No dudes, only

38
00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,440
Speaker 1: no hot girls get to play this game. What game

39
00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,760
Speaker 1: were you guys playing? The game's called as I don't

40
00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,320
Speaker 1: know if you know that when you guys are playing

41
00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:01,880
Speaker 1: the game, did you actually get to talk to each

42
00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,600
Speaker 1: other much? I talked to her mostly while we were

43
00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,960
Speaker 1: actually playing the game, like trying to teach her how

44
00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:08,680
Speaker 1: you know, you got to look at a certain cards

45
00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,200
Speaker 1: and know what the card mean. So, I mean that's

46
00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,079
Speaker 1: when I was kind of like, oh wow, this chick

47
00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,120
Speaker 1: is really cute and taught her and how to play

48
00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,280
Speaker 1: the game. Okay, So how did the rest of the

49
00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,400
Speaker 1: evening progress? I mean, I know how it ended, because

50
00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,080
Speaker 1: you said in your email that you guys hooked up.

51
00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,280
Speaker 1: But I mean, did she seem like she was actually

52
00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,080
Speaker 1: into you or she just wanted to hook up with you?

53
00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,560
Speaker 1: I wanted to say that she was really into me,

54
00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:32,480
Speaker 1: but she's not calling me back. Yeah, it's a good point. Yeah,

55
00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,720
Speaker 1: Usually that's how you can tell if somebody's really into

56
00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,600
Speaker 1: you or not. Why do you think she's not calling

57
00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,600
Speaker 1: you back? Well, I don't know, because I mean remained

58
00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,280
Speaker 1: out a little bit and we went back to her play.

59
00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,920
Speaker 1: But bad, I guess. I don't know. I don't know

60
00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,040
Speaker 1: why it didn't work. You mentioned in your email that

61
00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,799
Speaker 1: it was a little awkward the next day. How So

62
00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,239
Speaker 1: when I woke up, she was like a different person.

63
00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,760
Speaker 1: It wasn't the person that I hooked up with that night.

64
00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,400
Speaker 1: The next morning was like what, like literally a different person.

65
00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,880
Speaker 1: Like you woke up and you're like, who is this dude? No,

66
00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,520
Speaker 1: she was just cold and loof. It was like it

67
00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:05,840
Speaker 1: was it was a different person. I can't say literally,

68
00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,760
Speaker 1: but she's just not the person I hooked up with

69
00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,360
Speaker 1: the night before. Did she seem disappointed that you were

70
00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:15,040
Speaker 1: still there in the morning? Kind of? I mean, because

71
00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,440
Speaker 1: it's I mean, it sounds like she maybe just wanted

72
00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,560
Speaker 1: a one night stand. Well, I mean I hope not,

73
00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,280
Speaker 1: because I mean we had fun and it was a

74
00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,040
Speaker 1: really good time, but I didn't want it to be

75
00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,200
Speaker 1: a one time thing, you know what I mean. So

76
00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:30,080
Speaker 1: did you ever actually say that to her? I actually

77
00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:31,920
Speaker 1: have the conversation that you wanted it to be more

78
00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,480
Speaker 1: than a one night stand? Yeah? I did, I mean

79
00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,080
Speaker 1: in so many words, but that's what I wanted. And

80
00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,440
Speaker 1: what did she say to you back? Not much? Really?

81
00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,680
Speaker 1: Yeah that's not good. So you were like, hey, I

82
00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,400
Speaker 1: want more than a one night stand and she just

83
00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,520
Speaker 1: like pat you on the head and kick you out

84
00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:51,040
Speaker 1: the door kind of? That's cute. I wish she was

85
00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:58,160
Speaker 1: that cute. What was the last thing she said to you? Bye? Okay?

86
00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,960
Speaker 1: And how many times do you tried to get aho

87
00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,160
Speaker 1: of her since this one night standing? I've been trying

88
00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,160
Speaker 1: for like a couple of weeks. Now, man, why are

89
00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,000
Speaker 1: you I mean, why are you so hung up by this? Though?

90
00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,800
Speaker 1: Like I get that you liked her and stuff. A

91
00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,480
Speaker 1: lot of dudes would be like sweet a chick that

92
00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,120
Speaker 1: doesn't want any strings attached. I'm not like a lot

93
00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,160
Speaker 1: of dudes. I'm sensitive, you know, like I really I've

94
00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,240
Speaker 1: stopped this meant something? Does she respond you at all?

95
00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,520
Speaker 1: Not on the phone, only through texts, and she is

96
00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,760
Speaker 1: always like I'm busy. Hey, at least you're getting a

97
00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,800
Speaker 1: little bit of a response on text. It's not a

98
00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,440
Speaker 1: good one necessarily, But why do you think that this

99
00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,680
Speaker 1: would change her mind? She? I mean, I'd not try

100
00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,600
Speaker 1: to be mean, but she obviously seems like she doesn't

101
00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,159
Speaker 1: want to talk to you. It's like one of the

102
00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:36,839
Speaker 1: best times I've ever had, So why would I not

103
00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,440
Speaker 1: want to have that again? I mean, I guess it

104
00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,240
Speaker 1: can't hurt to try. Well it could, I could actually hurt,

105
00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,400
Speaker 1: I guess. But anyway, what we'll do is we'll play

106
00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,080
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second

107
00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:54,440
Speaker 1: day out date. All right? Thanks everybody looking jubil in

108
00:04:54,480 --> 00:05:00,000
Speaker 1: the morning. I completely forgot to ask the most important

109
00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,400
Speaker 1: question in the first part of today's second date update

110
00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,960
Speaker 1: when we were talking to Matt. Hey, Matt, Yeah, how

111
00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:11,040
Speaker 1: bad are you in bed? It's a good question on

112
00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,840
Speaker 1: a scale of what to what make your own scale up? Though?

113
00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,359
Speaker 1: Are you bad in bed? Do you think or do

114
00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,320
Speaker 1: you think you're Okay, I'm not bad. I'm not gonna

115
00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,320
Speaker 1: say I'm good either. All right, that's good. You don't

116
00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:27,520
Speaker 1: want to like overhype yourself. I feel I feel adequate. Okay.

117
00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,600
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning into the second day update, Matt

118
00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,560
Speaker 1: met Arianna at a house party. They had a one

119
00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,279
Speaker 1: night stand. The next morning. She was awkward, and he

120
00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:35,760
Speaker 1: hasn't been able to get her to go back out

121
00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,960
Speaker 1: with him ever since. So I'm just assuming maybe that

122
00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,600
Speaker 1: it was bad and she was like, I don't want

123
00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,840
Speaker 1: to do that again. All right, man, I'm gonna dial

124
00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,320
Speaker 1: the phone of her right now, get her on the phone,

125
00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,880
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Okay, thank you so much.

126
00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,080
Speaker 1: And Matt, you said you're a really sensitive guy. Are

127
00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,240
Speaker 1: you going to be able to handle some harsh criticism

128
00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,719
Speaker 1: because that sometimes happens in the second date update. I'm

129
00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,520
Speaker 1: gonna try, Okay, hold it together, buddy, It's just one girl.

130
00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,159
Speaker 1: Just remember that, all right? One girl and a lot

131
00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:14,480
Speaker 1: of other girls listening who might know who you are? Hello? Hi?

132
00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:18,920
Speaker 1: Is this Arianna? Yes? Who am I speaking to? This

133
00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,880
Speaker 1: is Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How

134
00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:26,680
Speaker 1: are you? I don't understand what you mean? Sorry? Um?

135
00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,560
Speaker 1: My name is Jebil host a radio show. It's called

136
00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,120
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, and one of

137
00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,640
Speaker 1: our listeners emailed us about you. So I'm calling to

138
00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,200
Speaker 1: ask you a few questions. Any idea who might want

139
00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:42,560
Speaker 1: to get in touch with you? I honestly have no idea.

140
00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,760
Speaker 1: His name is Matt, and you guys recently met at

141
00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:52,359
Speaker 1: a party, and so it sounds to me like you

142
00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:58,119
Speaker 1: know who Matt is. Yeah, I know who matters. Matt

143
00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,360
Speaker 1: talked to us a little bit about meeting you, said

144
00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:01,920
Speaker 1: that he really liked you and has been trying to

145
00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,279
Speaker 1: get you to go out with him again since you

146
00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:07,000
Speaker 1: guys had a little one night stand. But he says,

147
00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,600
Speaker 1: you just say that you're busy, but you obviously aren't

148
00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:10,240
Speaker 1: really calling him back and agreeing to go out. Is

149
00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:15,880
Speaker 1: there any particular reason why? I mean, it just really

150
00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,720
Speaker 1: wasn't a good night And I don't know it just

151
00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,640
Speaker 1: honestly wish I could just take it all back. Was

152
00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:26,600
Speaker 1: it the actual hooking up that was bad or was

153
00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,160
Speaker 1: it just the experience of being with him that was bad?

154
00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,040
Speaker 1: He said it was. He said that after you guys

155
00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,120
Speaker 1: did it and you woke up in the morning, you

156
00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,360
Speaker 1: seemed kind of like awkward about things. I mean, there

157
00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,440
Speaker 1: was just a really a specific moment that I can

158
00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:43,240
Speaker 1: remember that was just not ideal, and it kind of

159
00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:47,040
Speaker 1: like was really sobering. To be honest, can you tell

160
00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,160
Speaker 1: us what happened? He really wants to see you again,

161
00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,280
Speaker 1: and he's wondering why you're not calling him back. I

162
00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,920
Speaker 1: don't know. It's really embarrassing, and I just I don't

163
00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:59,360
Speaker 1: know if I should say it or not embarrassing about

164
00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:04,760
Speaker 1: you or arrassing on his behalf. Oh, definitely on his behalf. Okay,

165
00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,160
Speaker 1: if you know you're never going to talk to him again, right,

166
00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,160
Speaker 1: and you know that he set this phone call up

167
00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,320
Speaker 1: because he wants to know what he did wrong. Yeah,

168
00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:16,600
Speaker 1: then I guess he's willing to be embarrassed. Yeah. I

169
00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:18,600
Speaker 1: guess you wouldn't call the radio if you didn't want

170
00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:22,880
Speaker 1: the honest answer. There you go. Um, well, we were

171
00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,440
Speaker 1: we were we were intimate and I can call it that,

172
00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:31,120
Speaker 1: and it was it was fine. But then in the

173
00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:35,440
Speaker 1: middle of things happening, his phone rings and it's like

174
00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,760
Speaker 1: a text, and he like gets up, like in the

175
00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,720
Speaker 1: middle of it, and like walks across the room. He says,

176
00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,280
Speaker 1: hold on a second. Wait, this is why you guys

177
00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:48,840
Speaker 1: are in the middle of things. Yeah, it's like just

178
00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,520
Speaker 1: like just getting to the good part and then just

179
00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,320
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, out of nowhere, and he gets

180
00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:57,079
Speaker 1: at He's like hold on, and so so I just

181
00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:01,200
Speaker 1: lay there and I'm like, uh oh, okay, and he

182
00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,079
Speaker 1: gets up and walks across the room and pulls his

183
00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:12,240
Speaker 1: saunt out of his pants pocket and starts texting someone. Yeah,

184
00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,000
Speaker 1: just in the middle, and I'm just like, are you

185
00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:20,680
Speaker 1: kidding me? Like you couldn't wait like twenty more minutes.

186
00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:23,520
Speaker 1: So he did you take a break in the middle

187
00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,920
Speaker 1: of hooking up with you to check his text messages? Yeah?

188
00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:29,120
Speaker 1: Did you tell him that? That is like, I mean,

189
00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:33,520
Speaker 1: so many things uncomfortable, rude? No, honestly, Like it was

190
00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,440
Speaker 1: just one of those situations where I just wanted to

191
00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:40,440
Speaker 1: be over with And so he after he was texting,

192
00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,720
Speaker 1: he was kind of like all right, where where are we?

193
00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:52,000
Speaker 1: And I so uncomfortable. One of my buddies just sent

194
00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,319
Speaker 1: me this hilarious meme. Sorry, I had to text him back,

195
00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,920
Speaker 1: l are you ready to get this thing back moving again?

196
00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,200
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just like I need disconnect for like

197
00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:05,760
Speaker 1: a little bit. Like Sorry, I had to check in

198
00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:12,359
Speaker 1: real quick. To his defense, you guys were both wasted.

199
00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,200
Speaker 1: I mean, he's obviously not making the best and brightest

200
00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:18,319
Speaker 1: decisions of his life at that moment. At this point,

201
00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,640
Speaker 1: we weren't even wasted anymore. It was just one of

202
00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,280
Speaker 1: those things where he just got up and checked his

203
00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:27,160
Speaker 1: phone in the middle of being together, and it was

204
00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:31,520
Speaker 1: just so rude and inconsiderate and honestly so embarrassing on

205
00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,720
Speaker 1: his part. That is a way to make a woman

206
00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,719
Speaker 1: feel sexy. I know, definitely. I have never thought more

207
00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,520
Speaker 1: sexy in my life. Yeah, I am so into being

208
00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:42,000
Speaker 1: with you right now, but I can hear my phone

209
00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:43,719
Speaker 1: going off. I'm gonna check that real quick and then

210
00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,040
Speaker 1: get back to it. You must have been pretty well.

211
00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,040
Speaker 1: I would be pissed if somebody checked their phone in

212
00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,440
Speaker 1: the middle of time. I should have updated my Twitter

213
00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,720
Speaker 1: right then while he was here. So is that why

214
00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,120
Speaker 1: you were kind of cold with him the next day. Yeah,

215
00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,959
Speaker 1: I just figured if I'm just don't say much, maybe

216
00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,599
Speaker 1: he'll leave, and so he did. He finally laughed, but

217
00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:06,840
Speaker 1: it was just he was super super like clinging the

218
00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,880
Speaker 1: next morning and like, I had a really great time.

219
00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:14,600
Speaker 1: I was like, really, aren't you curious to find out

220
00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:18,720
Speaker 1: who he was texting? I mean, honestly, I really don't

221
00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,760
Speaker 1: give anymore. He's such a blimp on the radar and

222
00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't really care about him anymore. Well, I'd like

223
00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,240
Speaker 1: to find out. And it's cool because he's actually on

224
00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:35,120
Speaker 1: the other line listening, so we can ask him what. Yeah, hey, Arianna,

225
00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:42,200
Speaker 1: Hey Matt. That is awkward, isn't it? Matt? Why would

226
00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,080
Speaker 1: you check your phone in the middle of sexual relations

227
00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:49,760
Speaker 1: with somebody. Some of us have responsibilities beyond just sucking up.

228
00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,120
Speaker 1: How could you have a responsibility at that time of night,

229
00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,480
Speaker 1: after a whole night of partying. Well, I have family

230
00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,480
Speaker 1: that depends on me. Like I have a brother who's

231
00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:02,160
Speaker 1: in trouble financially. My sister has two kids. So when

232
00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,920
Speaker 1: my phone rings, I mean, that's my gut response, that's

233
00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:08,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I have to go through that. Yeah, but

234
00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:12,240
Speaker 1: I can't wait like one minute, You're already out at

235
00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,840
Speaker 1: like twelve in the morning, Like, who, what do they need?

236
00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,720
Speaker 1: I just don't under stay. Yeah, hey, Arianna, I apologize

237
00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,040
Speaker 1: I offended you. It had nothing to do with you

238
00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,720
Speaker 1: at all. Really, when my phone goes off, it's like

239
00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,320
Speaker 1: an instinctual trigger. I have to pick it up. And

240
00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,960
Speaker 1: did you never know what's going to happen? Yeah, I

241
00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:35,000
Speaker 1: guess no. I mean, really, come on, No, you can't

242
00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:36,640
Speaker 1: say no to that. You can say no to family.

243
00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,800
Speaker 1: If my mom texts me in the middle of hooking

244
00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,000
Speaker 1: up with somebody, I'm not answering that. I honestly don't

245
00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,400
Speaker 1: even believe him that it was his family. I think

246
00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,880
Speaker 1: he's just covering. Wait. I didn't say it was my family.

247
00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,599
Speaker 1: I said if those people were to call me, I

248
00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:54,400
Speaker 1: have to pick up the phone. So who was it?

249
00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:58,600
Speaker 1: Who was it then? Matt? Yeah, well why, I'll be honest,

250
00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:03,680
Speaker 1: it's my boy Scott. Okay, not an emergency, but it

251
00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:07,440
Speaker 1: might would have been, so I guess I picked up

252
00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:11,000
Speaker 1: the phone. I don't understand why you at the time,

253
00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,440
Speaker 1: and still don't quite understand why picking up a phone,

254
00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:17,120
Speaker 1: no matter who it's from, in the middle of that

255
00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:19,920
Speaker 1: is not a good idea. Finish the task at hand,

256
00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,480
Speaker 1: and then you can text your friend. It just doesn't

257
00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,240
Speaker 1: seem that difficult. Does that make sense to you at all?

258
00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:31,840
Speaker 1: Matt No, not really. So you think it's perfectly fine

259
00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,320
Speaker 1: to text in the middle of that act. I don't

260
00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,240
Speaker 1: think it's perfectly fine in all accounts. But you have

261
00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,520
Speaker 1: to take into account work going out with sex. You're

262
00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:41,280
Speaker 1: one of those people that would like, if you were

263
00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,600
Speaker 1: pulled on whether you'd give up sex or your cell phone,

264
00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,040
Speaker 1: you choose sex before your cell phone, right, only in

265
00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,920
Speaker 1: an emergency situation. All right, Well, I'm gonna ask the

266
00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,720
Speaker 1: question anyway. I know the answer. But Arianna, would you

267
00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,520
Speaker 1: like to go out with Mattigan on a second date?

268
00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,320
Speaker 1: I will pay for it. Honestly, it wasn't even that

269
00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:02,920
Speaker 1: fun to begin with. It's kind of relief that you

270
00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,559
Speaker 1: got up and had a text Matt no second date

271
00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:08,600
Speaker 1: for you? Well, now I'm okay with it. You're okay

272
00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:11,439
Speaker 1: with it now? Why is that? Well, after hearing her

273
00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,880
Speaker 1: end of the story, I think I'm better off because

274
00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,319
Speaker 1: she was the one in the rock, you know where

275
00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,520
Speaker 1: You're right? She should be more understanding. Yeah, you know,

276
00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:24,920
Speaker 1: I think that he's totally right. I probably am better off. Well,

277
00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:30,160
Speaker 1: we can agree to agree. Broken jewel in the morning,