Speaker 1: The comments are definitely full. Hey, welcome to Brick and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in your Second Date podcast from yesterday's brand new
Speaker 1: second Date update with the defensive driving drama. Yeah yeah,
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Speaker 1: So people thought they were cute together.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's basically what I gathered.
Speaker 2: Oh hey, one person said, I mean he said he
Speaker 2: wanted a little spicy in he got it.
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Speaker 1: today we have a brand new one. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's one of our most popular second dates of the
Speaker 1: last year, the European Dating comple.
Speaker 2: Yes, speaking of comments, you guys were all a fandom
Speaker 2: after this one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not believe the update. Remember, we're gonna play the
Speaker 1: original and then in part three, after a quick commercial. Sorry,
Speaker 1: in part three, we're gonna get him back on the phone.
Speaker 1: And what they have to say is truly shocking. Stay here,
Speaker 1: Stay here. It starts right now.
Speaker 4: It's hard to admit, but there's certain things that Europe
Speaker 4: just objectively does better than us.
Speaker 1: That was quick, Alexi, just name one.
Speaker 4: Also, soccer nude beaches, laws that prevent you from marrying
Speaker 4: your cousin. Yeah, we're not quite willing to let that
Speaker 4: one go yet.
Speaker 1: Unless you're in the royal family.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then it's still chill. But when two of
Speaker 4: our listeners told us about European dating, we were all wondering, wait,
Speaker 4: is that really how it works there? And it led
Speaker 4: to quite the conversation, one of our most popular calls
Speaker 4: of the past year, and that's why we're having them
Speaker 4: back on again to give us a special update update.
Speaker 4: We're gonna do it right after this.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.
Speaker 4: What are the classic signs that your date is not
Speaker 4: going well? Maybe they keep forgetting your name, Yeah, they
Speaker 4: asked the waiter for separate checks before you even order out.
Speaker 4: Or they FaceTime their mom trying to hook you up
Speaker 4: with her instead.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean you.
Speaker 6: Upgrading dates?
Speaker 4: They liked the showy It sound as bad as that,
Speaker 4: I thought, But our listener, Noah said he saw clear
Speaker 4: signs immediately on his date that things were just not
Speaker 4: going right immediately.
Speaker 1: That means she's not even given you a chance.
Speaker 4: Let's hear from him. Noah, welcome to the show Man.
Speaker 6: Hi, Hi, thanks for having me on.
Speaker 1: God immediately, this is terrible.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So tell us about the name of this lady
Speaker 4: and how you met her.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So her name is Sophie and we met on
Speaker 6: a dating app.
Speaker 8: All right.
Speaker 6: She's got these beautiful brown eyes, long dark hair. I mean,
Speaker 6: to be honest with you, I just felt like I
Speaker 6: was lucky that she matched with me.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a nice compliment.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 8: He likes her, you know.
Speaker 6: And we started like messaging really quickly, and I got
Speaker 6: the impression that she's like a worldly.
Speaker 1: Person, like she travels a lot.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like she's a traveler, you know, and.
Speaker 1: You like that about her obviously. Yeah.
Speaker 8: Sure.
Speaker 6: I mean, I admit I haven't really traveled much in
Speaker 6: my life, but I like that, you know, and I
Speaker 6: like somebody.
Speaker 1: To know stuff, and maybe that's somebody that, yeah, introduce
Speaker 1: it to you.
Speaker 6: Sure, yeah, I mean it was. I was all about it,
Speaker 6: and eventually it got to the point where I was like, well,
Speaker 6: do you want to meet up in person? And she
Speaker 6: said yeah, And she said she wanted to go on
Speaker 6: a European date.
Speaker 1: Does that mean it dinner starts at eleven pm?
Speaker 6: It was kind of weird thing, right, Like I didn't
Speaker 6: exactly know what that meant. And she mentioned Scandinavia for
Speaker 6: like the Nordic countries or something, and.
Speaker 4: Okay, let's go have some pickled fish.
Speaker 3: Oh, there's a scanning coffee shop here that's really good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe she wanted to go Dutch, meaning she
Speaker 1: wants to split it equally.
Speaker 6: And I didn't want to like ask anything because I
Speaker 6: didn't want to seem like dumb, you know, I didn't
Speaker 6: want to seem like I didn't know what she was
Speaker 6: talking about. So I just sort of pretended that I
Speaker 6: knew what she was talking about.
Speaker 1: Wait, and you're going to have to plan a date
Speaker 1: without knowing what she wants.
Speaker 6: I just rolled the dice and I made a reservation
Speaker 6: at a couple of different places, and I just figured
Speaker 6: i'd let her pick.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so she wanted me to pick her up her
Speaker 6: apartment and she looked just like her.
Speaker 1: Pick okay, good time, okay, And then where does it
Speaker 1: go bad? Because you said it went you got bad
Speaker 1: signs immediately.
Speaker 6: Well, so this is where it started to get weird.
Speaker 6: So while I was at her place, I told her
Speaker 6: that I made some dinner reservations at European restaurants and.
Speaker 7: She said, I don't know if we should do that what?
Speaker 7: So I said, like, what do you want to do?
Speaker 6: And she was just sort of noncommittal, you know, she
Speaker 6: said she was pretty tired.
Speaker 1: Oh didn't that annoy you? I'm sorry, but like you
Speaker 1: went through all this trouble and she's being kind of
Speaker 1: rude about it in her house.
Speaker 6: Well, it was less annoying and more just weird because
Speaker 6: she had confirmed a half hour before this, and she
Speaker 6: said that she was like ready to go to bed
Speaker 6: and you're.
Speaker 1: Running Night's over what like Alexi said, you're inside her
Speaker 1: apartment and she's canceling the.
Speaker 2: Date in yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah. So I was starting to get worried that maybe
Speaker 6: I didn't look like my pictures or something like did.
Speaker 4: I accidentally catfish this woman?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 6: I didn't think I misrepresented myself, but I just didn't
Speaker 6: know what was going on.
Speaker 4: Or maybe she has a certain standard of European restaurant
Speaker 4: that she wants to go to and the ones that
Speaker 4: you chose weren't up to that level.
Speaker 1: Or maybe she was asking you to go to bed
Speaker 1: with her immediately.
Speaker 4: That's just how brain works.
Speaker 1: Maybe you were so sexy that you walked in and
Speaker 1: she's like, ooh, I'm tired gets the dinner.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was lying.
Speaker 6: If I said that thought didn't briefly pass through my head,
Speaker 6: but that was not.
Speaker 3: The vibe I was getting it all.
Speaker 4: Okay, so did you end up going out to eat anywhere?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 6: I only spent like fifteen minutes there at her apartment,
Speaker 6: and I've been texting her but she hasn't been responding,
Speaker 6: and I really want to go out with her. But
Speaker 6: I figured, like, maybe I screwed up somehow, and I
Speaker 6: just don't know how.
Speaker 4: Well, obviously you did, but I just don't know what
Speaker 4: it is.
Speaker 1: It's hard to like think that you should even give
Speaker 1: this girl anymore time because of the way she treated you.
Speaker 4: But at the same time, it sounds like he wants
Speaker 4: to know what the reason was before he finally moves on.
Speaker 1: Well, and it also sounds like she's really hot, so
Speaker 1: he'll put up.
Speaker 3: With a lot really hot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Well, we're going to come back we'll call
Speaker 4: Sophie and try to get her to agree to I mean,
Speaker 4: at least an American date, all the fast food cubeon
Speaker 4: she can handle. We'll do it right after this.
Speaker 2: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 8: Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here Part two.
Speaker 4: Out of all the dates that we've heard about this year,
Speaker 4: this one might be the shortest. Just fifteen minutes that
Speaker 4: Noah spent was Sophie, Yeah, and most.
Speaker 1: Of it was spent talking about how she didn't want
Speaker 1: to be in it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, or trying to figure out which European restaurant they
Speaker 4: should go to if they go out at all. It
Speaker 4: wasn't a very productive conversation till eventually she just said,
Speaker 4: you know what, I'm tired. I'm gonna go to bed.
Speaker 9: God. Yeah.
Speaker 4: And that would not even like come with me, no,
Speaker 4: just like I'm sleepy. That was basically it. And now,
Speaker 4: to be fair, Noah did say she is very hot,
Speaker 4: and hot girls do require more beauty sleep, so we
Speaker 4: should probably give her a little bit of grace on
Speaker 4: that is that how it works so I've heard.
Speaker 1: I will say I feel like I dropped a couple
Speaker 1: of points since kids, and it's not because of anything
Speaker 1: other than just the lack of sleep.
Speaker 4: Just a couple of points at least some answers out
Speaker 4: of this, right, Brooke.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know that you should probably
Speaker 1: go out with her again.
Speaker 5: But what do I know?
Speaker 4: You're at? Hey, what if he did something wrong?
Speaker 9: We don't know.
Speaker 7: Well, that's the thing. I just want to know if
Speaker 7: I did do something wrong, what it was, and maybe
Speaker 7: she'll give me a second chance.
Speaker 1: Okay, So, but remember, no matter how hot she is,
Speaker 1: self respect is priceless. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 4: Half of our listening audience. Just to thank you for that,
Speaker 4: Conrad Brook. Here we go, I'm gonna dial Sophie. Hopefully
Speaker 4: we can get her to agree to if not a
Speaker 4: European day, just an American style one. But let's see
Speaker 4: what she has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 4: is this Sophie?
Speaker 8: Yes, it's is she?
Speaker 3: Who's this?
Speaker 4: Hey? This is a radio show that you're on right now.
Speaker 4: It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, the show.
Speaker 1: Sophie, glad to have you on it.
Speaker 8: This is random. Did you guys? How did you guys
Speaker 8: get my number?
Speaker 4: We got your number from one of our listeners that
Speaker 4: you went on a date with recently, a guy named Noah.
Speaker 8: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: If we could even say you went on a date.
Speaker 1: He came to your house to take you on a date.
Speaker 1: It just never seemed to happen.
Speaker 8: What is this whole thing about? How am I involved
Speaker 8: in this?
Speaker 4: This is a segment called a second Date Update. It's
Speaker 4: where we try to help our listeners get answers for
Speaker 4: why things didn't go well on their first meetup or
Speaker 4: why there hasn't been a second one. So we're just
Speaker 4: trying to help Noa figure out if he did something wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's pretty easy to own that it could
Speaker 1: be him.
Speaker 4: I mean, and it is interesting that you said you
Speaker 4: were bummed out that you didn't spend more time together.
Speaker 4: Can you elaborate what you mean?
Speaker 8: Sure?
Speaker 9: Like, I tried to give him some hints about what
Speaker 9: I want.
Speaker 3: For our first date, and I kind of told him
Speaker 3: I wanted to do a European style date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he mentioned that you had brought it up and
Speaker 4: that it was something you wanted to do. He wasn't
Speaker 4: one hundred percent sure what you meant by a European date.
Speaker 9: Though, so I tried to like give him more hints,
Speaker 9: like I brought up like Scandinavian date, Norwegian date. I
Speaker 9: like listed those three things and was hoping if he
Speaker 9: didn't now, maybe he'd google it.
Speaker 8: Here's a deal.
Speaker 9: Like after college, I traveled a lot and I became
Speaker 9: more used to that style of dating.
Speaker 3: Are you guys picking up up what I'm putting down?
Speaker 6: Because you know, what's a European style of dating?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 8: So?
Speaker 3: I know this is like on the radio. I don't
Speaker 3: want to be inappropriate, but when you go on a
Speaker 3: first date, you hang out at like their home or.
Speaker 8: Your home, and then you go out and eat.
Speaker 1: Do you mean more than hangout?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 9: So, like it's the opposite in America where you have
Speaker 9: to like play games and have small talk, try to
Speaker 9: impress each other, but in Norway, you like get together,
Speaker 9: get all of the.
Speaker 1: Nerves out, you test the chemistry right away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's.
Speaker 6: Like a pre agreement, Like you come over, let's because.
Speaker 2: You were a tourist there seeing there, it's like beautiful.
Speaker 1: The Norwegian men are like, no, we swear this is how.
Speaker 4: We do it. You're saying that's what you were wanting
Speaker 4: to do by European dates.
Speaker 9: Oh my god, yeah, I mean I thought he he
Speaker 9: news that's what I wanted, but he just didn't seem
Speaker 9: interested when he got there.
Speaker 1: I don't know that did not show up on a
Speaker 1: Google search.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I promise you he was not understanding the hints
Speaker 4: that you were laying down for him. But I way
Speaker 4: for dinner. He really want a European style dinner. But
Speaker 4: now I assure you he probably understands because he has
Speaker 4: been listening to this conversation on the other line waiting to.
Speaker 8: Talk to you. Are you joking.
Speaker 9: Right now?
Speaker 1: Yes? Why are you embarrassed? Wouldn't you want him to
Speaker 1: know this?
Speaker 8: Not now I feel horrible.
Speaker 4: Well, don't feel feel terrible. Just talk to him because
Speaker 4: Noah's there, right, Noah?
Speaker 6: Hi? Yeah, Hi, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: He's like the biggest missed opportunity of my life.
Speaker 8: Well, hi, hi, Sophie.
Speaker 7: Uh, I'm trying to understand. You wanted to, like, you know,
Speaker 7: do the thing and then and then go to dinner.
Speaker 3: Boys guys, So I tried, I really tried giving you
Speaker 3: the hints. But if you do it that way.
Speaker 9: The Norwegian way, Then all that pent up tension is
Speaker 9: gone and you can really enjoy each other's company and
Speaker 9: get to know each other on the date.
Speaker 1: Oh, I am going to be so fascinated by our
Speaker 1: Norwegian listener feedback on the podcast on this one.
Speaker 4: Actually, that does make a lot of sense. If you
Speaker 4: get all the stress out early, then you can just
Speaker 4: bet yourself more when you're hanging out of idiots. Well,
Speaker 4: I'm not saying I would do it, but mentally it
Speaker 4: makes sense to me, like you're more relaxed for your day. Yeah,
Speaker 4: well yeah, I'm no. What do you think about that?
Speaker 7: Well, I mean I think it's cool. It's just kind
Speaker 7: of surprising, I mean because I just had.
Speaker 6: Never heard that, you know, but I mean sure, I'm
Speaker 6: down for that.
Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, Well that that was then the moment has
Speaker 9: kind of passed now, you know.
Speaker 1: I can't to give a guy a chance to learn
Speaker 1: the Norwegian way.
Speaker 9: I just don't know if he's as assertive as I want.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think he was trying to be respectful, right,
Speaker 1: like he was trying.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I want to like you presume anything. I just
Speaker 6: I think you're gorgeous and I just really wanted to
Speaker 6: do my best to do the right thing. But if
Speaker 6: you want me to be assertive, I mean, I'm ready
Speaker 6: to take you to Norway whenever you want. I will say, I.
Speaker 3: Do think it's kind of sweet that even though I
Speaker 3: didn't really explain it to you, you still got.
Speaker 9: These radio people to contact me and.
Speaker 3: To figure it out. And I think that's kind of cool.
Speaker 8: Okay.
Speaker 4: Well, so now that Noah has heard everything and he's
Speaker 4: fully clued into what you were going for, would you
Speaker 4: be willing to give him another chance to have a
Speaker 4: proper European first date with you, because if you do,
Speaker 4: we're willing to pay for the date, just the date,
Speaker 4: though nothing else.
Speaker 6: Look Sophie, I will do all the research on Norwegian
Speaker 6: style dating. I will call a Norwegian all I will
Speaker 6: make sure that I am prepared and it'll be the
Speaker 6: best date you've ever had.
Speaker 1: Promise.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's a lot to live up to.
Speaker 8: I'm definitely down to try again.
Speaker 4: Well, congratulations, Noah, you got yourself, I guess the first
Speaker 4: data first European style date for yourself.
Speaker 6: Thank you, guys. It's Sophie, like, before we get off here, like,
Speaker 6: should I go on Amazon and buy like a Norwegian
Speaker 6: flag because I'll wear that and only that doesn't want
Speaker 6: just let me know.
Speaker 3: That's hilarious.
Speaker 9: I'm open to surprises, right, ready for a full salute
Speaker 9: of that flag.
Speaker 1: Right up the flagpole.
Speaker 4: Congratulations. Definitely let us know how the first date goes.
Speaker 4: Not all the details though, Yeah, just a video will do.
Speaker 6: Yeah, in the morning.
Speaker 4: It was one of our most popular second dates online.
Speaker 4: We got tons of comments, Yes they did.
Speaker 1: From a lot of Norwegian listeners all over.
Speaker 4: Yeah, people were commenting. And look who we've got back
Speaker 4: on the line today for an update. Update Sophie and Noah,
Speaker 4: welcome back to the show you too. Hello, so good
Speaker 4: to hear from you guys. What's new? What's happened since
Speaker 4: you were last on with us?
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, it's kind of crazy because after being
Speaker 5: on your show, all my friends heard it and they
Speaker 5: forwarded me a link to your podcast.
Speaker 8: And I'm not realized how many people around the world
Speaker 8: listen to you guys.
Speaker 7: Either.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's mostly bots that we pay to
Speaker 4: have listened to us, but it's still kind of cool.
Speaker 3: Well, you guys could be Hu was following Norway.
Speaker 8: I don't know if you know that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but they were all commenting on your podcast that
Speaker 5: my idea of a European date wasn't true, and I
Speaker 5: was skeptical.
Speaker 1: Oh you were still skeptical even.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just have to say I saw those comments too,
Speaker 6: and I was like, I didn't think that was right.
Speaker 1: But let's be honest. You enjoyed the description.
Speaker 6: I mean, why not?
Speaker 4: Okay, but Sophie, you were still skeptical that the Europeans
Speaker 4: didn't know what European dates were.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was skeptical.
Speaker 8: So I actually reached out to some of them to
Speaker 8: ask about it, and.
Speaker 5: One person actually invited me to go out to Norway
Speaker 5: to find out for myself.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah, then he's super kind. But obviously I was seeing Noah.
Speaker 8: I'm still seeing Noah.
Speaker 5: And we basically decided that we both should just go
Speaker 5: visit Norway, and so we planned a trip.
Speaker 7: And I mean, when you told me about and she
Speaker 7: was all like, oh, yeah, this really nice guy.
Speaker 6: He wants to like show me around Norway.
Speaker 7: And I'm like, obviously this guy is trying to hook
Speaker 7: up with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the American way anyway.
Speaker 4: So you're like I need to come with you.
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, we're going. We're going with me trip and
Speaker 6: when we're there, we're hoping to do like a big
Speaker 6: meetup in Oslo with a group of people that's listen
Speaker 6: to your shows.
Speaker 5: I mean, we don't know if they're going to applaud
Speaker 5: us or mock us, but we're just gonna have a
Speaker 5: great time anyway.
Speaker 4: We'll definitely report back and tell us how Norway is
Speaker 4: and what a European date is.
Speaker 1: Really like or just have I'd like to hear from him, but.
Speaker 4: Definitely keep us updated. Thanks for being back with us.
Speaker 4: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.