WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Euro Date 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.160 The comments are definitely full. Hey, welcome to Brick and 0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:06.200 Jeffrey in your Second Date podcast from yesterday's brand new 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:10.680 second Date update with the defensive driving drama. Yeah yeah, 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:13.040 we're just gonna review some of those real quickly. 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:17.480 Alexis dude run run crazy lady, red flag oh danger, 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:23.200 hell no, red flag controlling run, So yeah, it will 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:23.680 get worse. 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:25.480 Red flag, red flag. 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:25.680 Red flag. 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:27.160 So people thought they were cute together. 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:28.360 Yeah, that's basically what I gathered. 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:31.560 Oh hey, one person said, I mean he said he 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.400 wanted a little spicy in he got it. 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:34.159 Oh yeah he did. 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:34.519 We go. 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:37.680 Yeah, it's like a whole have an arrow. Yeah, that 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.760 was fun. So we love when you leave your comments, 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:43.680 send your feedback on the segments. It's so rad. And 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.560 today we have a brand new one. Oh my god, 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.479 it's one of our most popular second dates of the 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:50.760 last year, the European Dating comple. 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:53.120 Yes, speaking of comments, you guys were all a fandom 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:53.720 after this one. 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:56.920 Yeah, not believe the update. Remember, we're gonna play the 0:00:57.000 --> 0:01:00.800 original and then in part three, after a quick commercial. Sorry, 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:03.600 in part three, we're gonna get him back on the phone. 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:06.880 And what they have to say is truly shocking. Stay here, 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.360 Stay here. It starts right now. 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:12.720 It's hard to admit, but there's certain things that Europe 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.200 just objectively does better than us. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:19.880 That was quick, Alexi, just name one. 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:25.640 Also, soccer nude beaches, laws that prevent you from marrying 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:30.080 your cousin. Yeah, we're not quite willing to let that 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:30.960 one go yet. 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:32.280 Unless you're in the royal family. 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:36.600 Yeah, and then it's still chill. But when two of 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:41.840 our listeners told us about European dating, we were all wondering, wait, 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.640 is that really how it works there? And it led 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:48.400 to quite the conversation, one of our most popular calls 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:50.600 of the past year, and that's why we're having them 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:54.280 back on again to give us a special update update. 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:56.120 We're gonna do it right after this. 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:59.160 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:03.360 What are the classic signs that your date is not 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:08.480 going well? Maybe they keep forgetting your name, Yeah, they 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:14.280 asked the waiter for separate checks before you even order out. 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:17.800 Or they FaceTime their mom trying to hook you up 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:19.000 with her instead. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:20.600 Well, I mean you. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:26.000 Upgrading dates? 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:27.959 They liked the showy It sound as bad as that, 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:30.760 I thought, But our listener, Noah said he saw clear 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:34.720 signs immediately on his date that things were just not 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:36.560 going right immediately. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.880 That means she's not even given you a chance. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.320 Let's hear from him. Noah, welcome to the show Man. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:43.919 Hi, Hi, thanks for having me on. 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:45.760 God immediately, this is terrible. 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:46.200 Yeah. 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:53.000 Yeah, So tell us about the name of this lady 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:53.919 and how you met her. 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:54.680 Yeah. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.920 Yeah, So her name is Sophie and we met on 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:58.880 a dating app. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:02:59.280 All right. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:05.080 She's got these beautiful brown eyes, long dark hair. I mean, 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:07.079 to be honest with you, I just felt like I 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:08.560 was lucky that she matched with me. 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.520 Oh that's a nice compliment. 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:13.760 Yeah. 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:14.000 Wow. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.280 He likes her, you know. 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:19.640 And we started like messaging really quickly, and I got 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.680 the impression that she's like a worldly. 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:24.320 Person, like she travels a lot. 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.480 Yeah, Like she's a traveler, you know, and. 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.680 You like that about her obviously. Yeah. 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:30.000 Sure. 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.760 I mean, I admit I haven't really traveled much in 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.120 my life, but I like that, you know, and I 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:35.960 like somebody. 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:38.760 To know stuff, and maybe that's somebody that, yeah, introduce 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:39.120 it to you. 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:41.840 Sure, yeah, I mean it was. I was all about it, 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:44.640 and eventually it got to the point where I was like, well, 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.360 do you want to meet up in person? And she 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:49.520 said yeah, And she said she wanted to go on 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:50.800 a European date. 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:55.320 Does that mean it dinner starts at eleven pm? 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:58.440 It was kind of weird thing, right, Like I didn't 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:02.200 exactly know what that meant. And she mentioned Scandinavia for 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:05.200 like the Nordic countries or something, and. 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:07.080 Okay, let's go have some pickled fish. 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.560 Oh, there's a scanning coffee shop here that's really good. 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.720 Yeah, or maybe she wanted to go Dutch, meaning she 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:13.960 wants to split it equally. 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:19.839 And I didn't want to like ask anything because I 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.640 didn't want to seem like dumb, you know, I didn't 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:22.839 want to seem like I didn't know what she was 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:26.280 talking about. So I just sort of pretended that I 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:27.920 knew what she was talking about. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.120 Wait, and you're going to have to plan a date 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:31.880 without knowing what she wants. 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:34.560 I just rolled the dice and I made a reservation 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:37.320 at a couple of different places, and I just figured 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:38.440 i'd let her pick. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:40.640 Yeah. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:42.320 Yeah, so she wanted me to pick her up her 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:44.440 apartment and she looked just like her. 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:46.800 Pick okay, good time, okay, And then where does it 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:48.920 go bad? Because you said it went you got bad 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:49.880 signs immediately. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.479 Well, so this is where it started to get weird. 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.440 So while I was at her place, I told her 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:58.520 that I made some dinner reservations at European restaurants and. 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:01.760 She said, I don't know if we should do that what? 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.680 So I said, like, what do you want to do? 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.599 And she was just sort of noncommittal, you know, she 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:08.240 said she was pretty tired. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:12.040 Oh didn't that annoy you? I'm sorry, but like you 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:14.640 went through all this trouble and she's being kind of 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:16.240 rude about it in her house. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:20.039 Well, it was less annoying and more just weird because 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:23.760 she had confirmed a half hour before this, and she 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.280 said that she was like ready to go to bed 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:27.040 and you're. 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.920 Running Night's over what like Alexi said, you're inside her 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:31.479 apartment and she's canceling the. 0:05:31.520 --> 0:05:32.960 Date in yeah. 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:36.880 Yeah. So I was starting to get worried that maybe 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:41.279 I didn't look like my pictures or something like did. 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:42.680 I accidentally catfish this woman? 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:43.000 Yes? 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.159 I didn't think I misrepresented myself, but I just didn't 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:48.360 know what was going on. 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:51.760 Or maybe she has a certain standard of European restaurant 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.440 that she wants to go to and the ones that 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.160 you chose weren't up to that level. 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:57.240 Or maybe she was asking you to go to bed 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.039 with her immediately. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.640 That's just how brain works. 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:04.360 Maybe you were so sexy that you walked in and 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.640 she's like, ooh, I'm tired gets the dinner. 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:09.280 Yeah, it was lying. 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:12.479 If I said that thought didn't briefly pass through my head, 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:13.279 but that was not. 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:14.360 The vibe I was getting it all. 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.800 Okay, so did you end up going out to eat anywhere? 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:19.520 No? 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:22.440 I only spent like fifteen minutes there at her apartment, 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.520 and I've been texting her but she hasn't been responding, 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:28.039 and I really want to go out with her. But 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:31.400 I figured, like, maybe I screwed up somehow, and I 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:32.800 just don't know how. 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:36.200 Well, obviously you did, but I just don't know what 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:36.520 it is. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:41.000 It's hard to like think that you should even give 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:44.039 this girl anymore time because of the way she treated you. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.799 But at the same time, it sounds like he wants 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.440 to know what the reason was before he finally moves on. 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:52.080 Well, and it also sounds like she's really hot, so 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:52.800 he'll put up. 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:54.400 With a lot really hot. 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:58.120 Yeah, okay, Well, we're going to come back we'll call 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:01.440 Sophie and try to get her to agree to I mean, 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:05.839 at least an American date, all the fast food cubeon 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:08.240 she can handle. We'll do it right after this. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.440 Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:11.800 Second Date Update. 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:13.720 You're in the middle of a second date update update, 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:15.720 and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:17.480 right after you here Part two. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.880 Out of all the dates that we've heard about this year, 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:26.120 this one might be the shortest. Just fifteen minutes that 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:28.840 Noah spent was Sophie, Yeah, and most. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:30.760 Of it was spent talking about how she didn't want 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:32.080 to be in it. 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:36.200 Yeah, or trying to figure out which European restaurant they 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.960 should go to if they go out at all. It 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:42.720 wasn't a very productive conversation till eventually she just said, 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:44.960 you know what, I'm tired. I'm gonna go to bed. 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:45.960 God. Yeah. 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:48.280 And that would not even like come with me, no, 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:52.920 just like I'm sleepy. That was basically it. And now, 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.119 to be fair, Noah did say she is very hot, 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:58.040 and hot girls do require more beauty sleep, so we 0:07:58.040 --> 0:07:59.800 should probably give her a little bit of grace on 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:01.760 that is that how it works so I've heard. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.080 I will say I feel like I dropped a couple 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:07.160 of points since kids, and it's not because of anything 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:08.760 other than just the lack of sleep. 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:16.400 Just a couple of points at least some answers out 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:17.640 of this, right, Brooke. 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:20.320 Yeah, I mean I don't know that you should probably 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:21.440 go out with her again. 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:22.880 But what do I know? 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:25.520 You're at? Hey, what if he did something wrong? 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:25.880 We don't know. 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:27.840 Well, that's the thing. I just want to know if 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.080 I did do something wrong, what it was, and maybe 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:31.360 she'll give me a second chance. 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.640 Okay, So, but remember, no matter how hot she is, 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:39.200 self respect is priceless. Blah blah blah. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:42.280 Half of our listening audience. Just to thank you for that, 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:46.120 Conrad Brook. Here we go, I'm gonna dial Sophie. Hopefully 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:47.880 we can get her to agree to if not a 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:50.600 European day, just an American style one. But let's see 0:08:50.600 --> 0:09:03.120 what she has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:03.920 is this Sophie? 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:06.360 Yes, it's is she? 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:06.920 Who's this? 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:10.280 Hey? This is a radio show that you're on right now. 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:13.320 It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, the show. 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:16.240 Sophie, glad to have you on it. 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:22.880 This is random. Did you guys? How did you guys 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:24.280 get my number? 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.000 We got your number from one of our listeners that 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:30.359 you went on a date with recently, a guy named Noah. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:32.480 Okay, I don't know. 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:33.840 If we could even say you went on a date. 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:35.640 He came to your house to take you on a date. 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:37.840 It just never seemed to happen. 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.200 What is this whole thing about? How am I involved 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:43.640 in this? 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.360 This is a segment called a second Date Update. It's 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:49.160 where we try to help our listeners get answers for 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.560 why things didn't go well on their first meetup or 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.600 why there hasn't been a second one. So we're just 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.960 trying to help Noa figure out if he did something wrong. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.400 Yeah, because it's pretty easy to own that it could 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:02.880 be him. 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:04.920 I mean, and it is interesting that you said you 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.600 were bummed out that you didn't spend more time together. 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:09.240 Can you elaborate what you mean? 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:11.120 Sure? 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:17.920 Like, I tried to give him some hints about what 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:18.760 I want. 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:23.440 For our first date, and I kind of told him 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:26.920 I wanted to do a European style date. 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:29.720 Yeah, he mentioned that you had brought it up and 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:31.920 that it was something you wanted to do. He wasn't 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:35.400 one hundred percent sure what you meant by a European date. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:39.360 Though, so I tried to like give him more hints, 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:44.760 like I brought up like Scandinavian date, Norwegian date. I 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.520 like listed those three things and was hoping if he 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:49.200 didn't now, maybe he'd google it. 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:51.040 Here's a deal. 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:56.040 Like after college, I traveled a lot and I became 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.520 more used to that style of dating. 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:00.800 Are you guys picking up up what I'm putting down? 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:04.520 Because you know, what's a European style of dating? 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:04.839 Yeah? 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:05.400 What do you mean? 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:05.680 So? 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:07.839 I know this is like on the radio. I don't 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.240 want to be inappropriate, but when you go on a 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:12.920 first date, you hang out at like their home or. 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:15.079 Your home, and then you go out and eat. 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:18.960 Do you mean more than hangout? 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:19.760 Yes? 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:22.880 So, like it's the opposite in America where you have 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:25.800 to like play games and have small talk, try to 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:31.400 impress each other, but in Norway, you like get together, 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:32.920 get all of the. 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:37.160 Nerves out, you test the chemistry right away. 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:38.840 Yeah, so it's. 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:42.880 Like a pre agreement, Like you come over, let's because. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:47.880 You were a tourist there seeing there, it's like beautiful. 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:50.080 The Norwegian men are like, no, we swear this is how. 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:55.560 We do it. You're saying that's what you were wanting 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:57.600 to do by European dates. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.120 Oh my god, yeah, I mean I thought he he 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.400 news that's what I wanted, but he just didn't seem 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:03.880 interested when he got there. 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.720 I don't know that did not show up on a 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:07.360 Google search. 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:13.600 Yeah, I promise you he was not understanding the hints 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:15.920 that you were laying down for him. But I way 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:19.000 for dinner. He really want a European style dinner. But 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.640 now I assure you he probably understands because he has 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:25.760 been listening to this conversation on the other line waiting to. 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.160 Talk to you. Are you joking. 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:29.840 Right now? 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:35.880 Yes? Why are you embarrassed? Wouldn't you want him to 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.319 know this? 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:38.360 Not now I feel horrible. 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:41.640 Well, don't feel feel terrible. Just talk to him because 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.680 Noah's there, right, Noah? 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:46.640 Hi? Yeah, Hi, Yeah, I'm here. 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:50.199 He's like the biggest missed opportunity of my life. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:52.520 Well, hi, hi, Sophie. 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:59.720 Uh, I'm trying to understand. You wanted to, like, you know, 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:03.360 do the thing and then and then go to dinner. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:07.720 Boys guys, So I tried, I really tried giving you 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:10.199 the hints. But if you do it that way. 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:13.520 The Norwegian way, Then all that pent up tension is 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.520 gone and you can really enjoy each other's company and 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.240 get to know each other on the date. 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.640 Oh, I am going to be so fascinated by our 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:23.360 Norwegian listener feedback on the podcast on this one. 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:25.400 Actually, that does make a lot of sense. If you 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:27.720 get all the stress out early, then you can just 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:30.679 bet yourself more when you're hanging out of idiots. Well, 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:33.520 I'm not saying I would do it, but mentally it 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:37.440 makes sense to me, like you're more relaxed for your day. Yeah, 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:42.079 well yeah, I'm no. What do you think about that? 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:45.160 Well, I mean I think it's cool. It's just kind 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:47.760 of surprising, I mean because I just had. 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.880 Never heard that, you know, but I mean sure, I'm 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:51.560 down for that. 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:56.319 Yeah, okay, Well that that was then the moment has 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:59.960 kind of passed now, you know. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:01.840 I can't to give a guy a chance to learn 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:02.840 the Norwegian way. 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:07.600 I just don't know if he's as assertive as I want. 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.520 I mean, I think he was trying to be respectful, right, 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:11.480 like he was trying. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:16.240 Yeah, I want to like you presume anything. I just 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:18.840 I think you're gorgeous and I just really wanted to 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.680 do my best to do the right thing. But if 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:24.280 you want me to be assertive, I mean, I'm ready 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:34.400 to take you to Norway whenever you want. I will say, I. 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:37.840 Do think it's kind of sweet that even though I 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.400 didn't really explain it to you, you still got. 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:43.440 These radio people to contact me and. 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:45.720 To figure it out. And I think that's kind of cool. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:47.080 Okay. 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.920 Well, so now that Noah has heard everything and he's 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:54.000 fully clued into what you were going for, would you 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:57.440 be willing to give him another chance to have a 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.760 proper European first date with you, because if you do, 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:03.080 we're willing to pay for the date, just the date, 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:03.960 though nothing else. 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:08.600 Look Sophie, I will do all the research on Norwegian 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:15.800 style dating. I will call a Norwegian all I will 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.520 make sure that I am prepared and it'll be the 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:19.680 best date you've ever had. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:21.160 Promise. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:23.480 Okay, that's a lot to live up to. 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:27.560 I'm definitely down to try again. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:33.320 Well, congratulations, Noah, you got yourself, I guess the first 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:36.480 data first European style date for yourself. 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:40.760 Thank you, guys. It's Sophie, like, before we get off here, like, 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:44.000 should I go on Amazon and buy like a Norwegian 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.720 flag because I'll wear that and only that doesn't want 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:48.480 just let me know. 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:50.280 That's hilarious. 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:55.720 I'm open to surprises, right, ready for a full salute 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:56.560 of that flag. 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.240 Right up the flagpole. 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:03.360 Congratulations. Definitely let us know how the first date goes. 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:06.440 Not all the details though, Yeah, just a video will do. 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:10.520 Yeah, in the morning. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:13.680 It was one of our most popular second dates online. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:17.280 We got tons of comments, Yes they did. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:20.040 From a lot of Norwegian listeners all over. 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:23.160 Yeah, people were commenting. And look who we've got back 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:27.720 on the line today for an update. Update Sophie and Noah, 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:33.240 welcome back to the show you too. Hello, so good 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.640 to hear from you guys. What's new? What's happened since 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:36.920 you were last on with us? 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.920 Oh my gosh, it's kind of crazy because after being 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:44.120 on your show, all my friends heard it and they 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:46.240 forwarded me a link to your podcast. 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:50.480 And I'm not realized how many people around the world 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:51.840 listen to you guys. 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:53.880 Either. 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.480 Yeah, I mean it's mostly bots that we pay to 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:58.720 have listened to us, but it's still kind of cool. 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:01.120 Well, you guys could be Hu was following Norway. 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:02.040 I don't know if you know that. 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:05.440 Yeah, but they were all commenting on your podcast that 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:09.520 my idea of a European date wasn't true, and I 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:11.000 was skeptical. 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:13.120 Oh you were still skeptical even. 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:19.120 Yeah, I just have to say I saw those comments too, 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:21.960 and I was like, I didn't think that was right. 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:26.560 But let's be honest. You enjoyed the description. 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:28.080 I mean, why not? 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:32.280 Okay, but Sophie, you were still skeptical that the Europeans 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:34.040 didn't know what European dates were. 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:36.119 Yeah, I was skeptical. 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:38.760 So I actually reached out to some of them to 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:40.520 ask about it, and. 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:43.479 One person actually invited me to go out to Norway 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:44.920 to find out for myself. 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:45.800 Yeah. 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:51.240 Yeah, then he's super kind. But obviously I was seeing Noah. 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:52.959 I'm still seeing Noah. 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.119 And we basically decided that we both should just go 0:17:55.280 --> 0:17:57.399 visit Norway, and so we planned a trip. 0:17:58.119 --> 0:18:00.280 And I mean, when you told me about and she 0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:02.240 was all like, oh, yeah, this really nice guy. 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:04.360 He wants to like show me around Norway. 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:07.560 And I'm like, obviously this guy is trying to hook 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:08.000 up with you. 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:10.600 Yeah, that's the American way anyway. 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:14.119 So you're like I need to come with you. 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:18.240 Yes, yeah, we're going. We're going with me trip and 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.760 when we're there, we're hoping to do like a big 0:18:21.840 --> 0:18:25.680