1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: The comments are definitely full. Hey, welcome to Brick and 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in your Second Date podcast from yesterday's brand new 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: second Date update with the defensive driving drama. Yeah yeah, 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: we're just gonna review some of those real quickly. 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: Alexis dude run run crazy lady, red flag oh danger, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: hell no, red flag controlling run, So yeah, it will 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: get worse. 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: Red flag, red flag. 9 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 3: Red flag. 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: So people thought they were cute together. 11 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's basically what I gathered. 12 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: Oh hey, one person said, I mean he said he 13 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: wanted a little spicy in he got it. 14 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 4: Oh yeah he did. 15 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 5: We go. 16 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a whole have an arrow. Yeah, that 17 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: was fun. So we love when you leave your comments, 18 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: send your feedback on the segments. It's so rad. And 19 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: today we have a brand new one. Oh my god, 20 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: it's one of our most popular second dates of the 21 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: last year, the European Dating comple. 22 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: Yes, speaking of comments, you guys were all a fandom 23 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: after this one. 24 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, not believe the update. Remember, we're gonna play the 25 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: original and then in part three, after a quick commercial. Sorry, 26 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: in part three, we're gonna get him back on the phone. 27 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: And what they have to say is truly shocking. Stay here, 28 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: Stay here. It starts right now. 29 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 4: It's hard to admit, but there's certain things that Europe 30 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 4: just objectively does better than us. 31 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: That was quick, Alexi, just name one. 32 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 4: Also, soccer nude beaches, laws that prevent you from marrying 33 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 4: your cousin. Yeah, we're not quite willing to let that 34 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 4: one go yet. 35 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: Unless you're in the royal family. 36 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then it's still chill. But when two of 37 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 4: our listeners told us about European dating, we were all wondering, wait, 38 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 4: is that really how it works there? And it led 39 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: to quite the conversation, one of our most popular calls 40 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 4: of the past year, and that's why we're having them 41 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 4: back on again to give us a special update update. 42 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 4: We're gonna do it right after this. 43 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 44 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 4: What are the classic signs that your date is not 45 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 4: going well? Maybe they keep forgetting your name, Yeah, they 46 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 4: asked the waiter for separate checks before you even order out. 47 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 4: Or they FaceTime their mom trying to hook you up 48 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 4: with her instead. 49 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: Well, I mean you. 50 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 6: Upgrading dates? 51 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 4: They liked the showy It sound as bad as that, 52 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 4: I thought, But our listener, Noah said he saw clear 53 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 4: signs immediately on his date that things were just not 54 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 4: going right immediately. 55 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: That means she's not even given you a chance. 56 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 4: Let's hear from him. Noah, welcome to the show Man. 57 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 6: Hi, Hi, thanks for having me on. 58 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: God immediately, this is terrible. 59 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 60 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, So tell us about the name of this lady 61 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 4: and how you met her. 62 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 7: Yeah. 63 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, So her name is Sophie and we met on 64 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 6: a dating app. 65 00:02:58,960 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 8: All right. 66 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 6: She's got these beautiful brown eyes, long dark hair. I mean, 67 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 6: to be honest with you, I just felt like I 68 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 6: was lucky that she matched with me. 69 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: Oh that's a nice compliment. 70 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 8: Yeah. 71 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 72 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 8: He likes her, you know. 73 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 6: And we started like messaging really quickly, and I got 74 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 6: the impression that she's like a worldly. 75 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: Person, like she travels a lot. 76 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, Like she's a traveler, you know, and. 77 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: You like that about her obviously. Yeah. 78 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 8: Sure. 79 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 6: I mean, I admit I haven't really traveled much in 80 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 6: my life, but I like that, you know, and I 81 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 6: like somebody. 82 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: To know stuff, and maybe that's somebody that, yeah, introduce 83 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: it to you. 84 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 6: Sure, yeah, I mean it was. I was all about it, 85 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 6: and eventually it got to the point where I was like, well, 86 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 6: do you want to meet up in person? And she 87 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 6: said yeah, And she said she wanted to go on 88 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 6: a European date. 89 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: Does that mean it dinner starts at eleven pm? 90 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 6: It was kind of weird thing, right, Like I didn't 91 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 6: exactly know what that meant. And she mentioned Scandinavia for 92 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 6: like the Nordic countries or something, and. 93 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 4: Okay, let's go have some pickled fish. 94 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 3: Oh, there's a scanning coffee shop here that's really good. 95 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe she wanted to go Dutch, meaning she 96 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: wants to split it equally. 97 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 6: And I didn't want to like ask anything because I 98 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 6: didn't want to seem like dumb, you know, I didn't 99 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 6: want to seem like I didn't know what she was 100 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 6: talking about. So I just sort of pretended that I 101 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 6: knew what she was talking about. 102 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: Wait, and you're going to have to plan a date 103 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: without knowing what she wants. 104 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 6: I just rolled the dice and I made a reservation 105 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 6: at a couple of different places, and I just figured 106 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 6: i'd let her pick. 107 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 8: Yeah. 108 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, so she wanted me to pick her up her 109 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 6: apartment and she looked just like her. 110 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: Pick okay, good time, okay, And then where does it 111 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: go bad? Because you said it went you got bad 112 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: signs immediately. 113 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 6: Well, so this is where it started to get weird. 114 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 6: So while I was at her place, I told her 115 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 6: that I made some dinner reservations at European restaurants and. 116 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 7: She said, I don't know if we should do that what? 117 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 7: So I said, like, what do you want to do? 118 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 6: And she was just sort of noncommittal, you know, she 119 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 6: said she was pretty tired. 120 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: Oh didn't that annoy you? I'm sorry, but like you 121 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: went through all this trouble and she's being kind of 122 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: rude about it in her house. 123 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 6: Well, it was less annoying and more just weird because 124 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 6: she had confirmed a half hour before this, and she 125 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 6: said that she was like ready to go to bed 126 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 6: and you're. 127 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: Running Night's over what like Alexi said, you're inside her 128 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: apartment and she's canceling the. 129 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: Date in yeah. 130 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 6: Yeah. So I was starting to get worried that maybe 131 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 6: I didn't look like my pictures or something like did. 132 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 4: I accidentally catfish this woman? 133 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 3: Yes? 134 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 6: I didn't think I misrepresented myself, but I just didn't 135 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 6: know what was going on. 136 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 4: Or maybe she has a certain standard of European restaurant 137 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 4: that she wants to go to and the ones that 138 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 4: you chose weren't up to that level. 139 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: Or maybe she was asking you to go to bed 140 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 1: with her immediately. 141 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 4: That's just how brain works. 142 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: Maybe you were so sexy that you walked in and 143 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: she's like, ooh, I'm tired gets the dinner. 144 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was lying. 145 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 6: If I said that thought didn't briefly pass through my head, 146 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 6: but that was not. 147 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 3: The vibe I was getting it all. 148 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 4: Okay, so did you end up going out to eat anywhere? 149 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 3: No? 150 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 6: I only spent like fifteen minutes there at her apartment, 151 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 6: and I've been texting her but she hasn't been responding, 152 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 6: and I really want to go out with her. But 153 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 6: I figured, like, maybe I screwed up somehow, and I 154 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 6: just don't know how. 155 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 4: Well, obviously you did, but I just don't know what 156 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 4: it is. 157 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: It's hard to like think that you should even give 158 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 1: this girl anymore time because of the way she treated you. 159 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,799 Speaker 4: But at the same time, it sounds like he wants 160 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 4: to know what the reason was before he finally moves on. 161 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: Well, and it also sounds like she's really hot, so 162 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: he'll put up. 163 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 3: With a lot really hot. 164 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Well, we're going to come back we'll call 165 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 4: Sophie and try to get her to agree to I mean, 166 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 4: at least an American date, all the fast food cubeon 167 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 4: she can handle. We'll do it right after this. 168 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 2: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 169 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 8: Second Date Update. 170 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update, 171 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 172 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: right after you here Part two. 173 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 4: Out of all the dates that we've heard about this year, 174 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 4: this one might be the shortest. Just fifteen minutes that 175 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 4: Noah spent was Sophie, Yeah, and most. 176 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: Of it was spent talking about how she didn't want 177 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: to be in it. 178 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, or trying to figure out which European restaurant they 179 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 4: should go to if they go out at all. It 180 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 4: wasn't a very productive conversation till eventually she just said, 181 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 4: you know what, I'm tired. I'm gonna go to bed. 182 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 9: God. Yeah. 183 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 4: And that would not even like come with me, no, 184 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 4: just like I'm sleepy. That was basically it. And now, 185 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,119 Speaker 4: to be fair, Noah did say she is very hot, 186 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 4: and hot girls do require more beauty sleep, so we 187 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 4: should probably give her a little bit of grace on 188 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 4: that is that how it works so I've heard. 189 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: I will say I feel like I dropped a couple 190 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: of points since kids, and it's not because of anything 191 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: other than just the lack of sleep. 192 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 4: Just a couple of points at least some answers out 193 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 4: of this, right, Brooke. 194 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know that you should probably 195 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: go out with her again. 196 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 5: But what do I know? 197 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 4: You're at? Hey, what if he did something wrong? 198 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 9: We don't know. 199 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 7: Well, that's the thing. I just want to know if 200 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 7: I did do something wrong, what it was, and maybe 201 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 7: she'll give me a second chance. 202 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: Okay, So, but remember, no matter how hot she is, 203 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: self respect is priceless. Blah blah blah. 204 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 4: Half of our listening audience. Just to thank you for that, 205 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 4: Conrad Brook. Here we go, I'm gonna dial Sophie. Hopefully 206 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 4: we can get her to agree to if not a 207 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 4: European day, just an American style one. But let's see 208 00:08:50,600 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 4: what she has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, 209 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 4: is this Sophie? 210 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 8: Yes, it's is she? 211 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 3: Who's this? 212 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 4: Hey? This is a radio show that you're on right now. 213 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 4: It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, the show. 214 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: Sophie, glad to have you on it. 215 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 8: This is random. Did you guys? How did you guys 216 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 8: get my number? 217 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 4: We got your number from one of our listeners that 218 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,359 Speaker 4: you went on a date with recently, a guy named Noah. 219 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 8: Okay, I don't know. 220 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: If we could even say you went on a date. 221 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: He came to your house to take you on a date. 222 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: It just never seemed to happen. 223 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 8: What is this whole thing about? How am I involved 224 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 8: in this? 225 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 4: This is a segment called a second Date Update. It's 226 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 4: where we try to help our listeners get answers for 227 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 4: why things didn't go well on their first meetup or 228 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 4: why there hasn't been a second one. So we're just 229 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 4: trying to help Noa figure out if he did something wrong. 230 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's pretty easy to own that it could 231 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: be him. 232 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 4: I mean, and it is interesting that you said you 233 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 4: were bummed out that you didn't spend more time together. 234 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 4: Can you elaborate what you mean? 235 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 8: Sure? 236 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 9: Like, I tried to give him some hints about what 237 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 9: I want. 238 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 3: For our first date, and I kind of told him 239 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 3: I wanted to do a European style date. 240 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, he mentioned that you had brought it up and 241 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 4: that it was something you wanted to do. He wasn't 242 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 4: one hundred percent sure what you meant by a European date. 243 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 9: Though, so I tried to like give him more hints, 244 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 9: like I brought up like Scandinavian date, Norwegian date. I 245 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 9: like listed those three things and was hoping if he 246 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 9: didn't now, maybe he'd google it. 247 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 8: Here's a deal. 248 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 9: Like after college, I traveled a lot and I became 249 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 9: more used to that style of dating. 250 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 3: Are you guys picking up up what I'm putting down? 251 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 6: Because you know, what's a European style of dating? 252 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 4: Yeah? 253 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 254 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 8: So? 255 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:07,839 Speaker 3: I know this is like on the radio. I don't 256 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 3: want to be inappropriate, but when you go on a 257 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 3: first date, you hang out at like their home or. 258 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 8: Your home, and then you go out and eat. 259 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: Do you mean more than hangout? 260 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 8: Yes? 261 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 9: So, like it's the opposite in America where you have 262 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 9: to like play games and have small talk, try to 263 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 9: impress each other, but in Norway, you like get together, 264 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 9: get all of the. 265 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: Nerves out, you test the chemistry right away. 266 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's. 267 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 6: Like a pre agreement, Like you come over, let's because. 268 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 2: You were a tourist there seeing there, it's like beautiful. 269 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 1: The Norwegian men are like, no, we swear this is how. 270 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 4: We do it. You're saying that's what you were wanting 271 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 4: to do by European dates. 272 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 9: Oh my god, yeah, I mean I thought he he 273 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 9: news that's what I wanted, but he just didn't seem 274 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 9: interested when he got there. 275 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: I don't know that did not show up on a 276 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: Google search. 277 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I promise you he was not understanding the hints 278 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 4: that you were laying down for him. But I way 279 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 4: for dinner. He really want a European style dinner. But 280 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 4: now I assure you he probably understands because he has 281 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 4: been listening to this conversation on the other line waiting to. 282 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 8: Talk to you. Are you joking. 283 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 9: Right now? 284 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: Yes? Why are you embarrassed? Wouldn't you want him to 285 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 1: know this? 286 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 8: Not now I feel horrible. 287 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 4: Well, don't feel feel terrible. Just talk to him because 288 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 4: Noah's there, right, Noah? 289 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 6: Hi? Yeah, Hi, Yeah, I'm here. 290 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 1: He's like the biggest missed opportunity of my life. 291 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 8: Well, hi, hi, Sophie. 292 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 7: Uh, I'm trying to understand. You wanted to, like, you know, 293 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 7: do the thing and then and then go to dinner. 294 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 3: Boys guys, So I tried, I really tried giving you 295 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 3: the hints. But if you do it that way. 296 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 9: The Norwegian way, Then all that pent up tension is 297 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 9: gone and you can really enjoy each other's company and 298 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 9: get to know each other on the date. 299 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: Oh, I am going to be so fascinated by our 300 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: Norwegian listener feedback on the podcast on this one. 301 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 4: Actually, that does make a lot of sense. If you 302 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 4: get all the stress out early, then you can just 303 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 4: bet yourself more when you're hanging out of idiots. Well, 304 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 4: I'm not saying I would do it, but mentally it 305 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 4: makes sense to me, like you're more relaxed for your day. Yeah, 306 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 4: well yeah, I'm no. What do you think about that? 307 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 7: Well, I mean I think it's cool. It's just kind 308 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 7: of surprising, I mean because I just had. 309 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 6: Never heard that, you know, but I mean sure, I'm 310 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 6: down for that. 311 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, Well that that was then the moment has 312 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 9: kind of passed now, you know. 313 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 1: I can't to give a guy a chance to learn 314 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: the Norwegian way. 315 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 9: I just don't know if he's as assertive as I want. 316 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I think he was trying to be respectful, right, 317 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: like he was trying. 318 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I want to like you presume anything. I just 319 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 6: I think you're gorgeous and I just really wanted to 320 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 6: do my best to do the right thing. But if 321 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 6: you want me to be assertive, I mean, I'm ready 322 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 6: to take you to Norway whenever you want. I will say, I. 323 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 3: Do think it's kind of sweet that even though I 324 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 3: didn't really explain it to you, you still got. 325 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 9: These radio people to contact me and. 326 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 3: To figure it out. And I think that's kind of cool. 327 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 8: Okay. 328 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 4: Well, so now that Noah has heard everything and he's 329 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 4: fully clued into what you were going for, would you 330 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 4: be willing to give him another chance to have a 331 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 4: proper European first date with you, because if you do, 332 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 4: we're willing to pay for the date, just the date, 333 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 4: though nothing else. 334 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 6: Look Sophie, I will do all the research on Norwegian 335 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 6: style dating. I will call a Norwegian all I will 336 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 6: make sure that I am prepared and it'll be the 337 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 6: best date you've ever had. 338 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 1: Promise. 339 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 3: Okay, that's a lot to live up to. 340 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 8: I'm definitely down to try again. 341 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 4: Well, congratulations, Noah, you got yourself, I guess the first 342 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 4: data first European style date for yourself. 343 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 6: Thank you, guys. It's Sophie, like, before we get off here, like, 344 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 6: should I go on Amazon and buy like a Norwegian 345 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 6: flag because I'll wear that and only that doesn't want 346 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 6: just let me know. 347 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 3: That's hilarious. 348 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 9: I'm open to surprises, right, ready for a full salute 349 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 9: of that flag. 350 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: Right up the flagpole. 351 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 4: Congratulations. Definitely let us know how the first date goes. 352 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 4: Not all the details though, Yeah, just a video will do. 353 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, in the morning. 354 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 4: It was one of our most popular second dates online. 355 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 4: We got tons of comments, Yes they did. 356 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 1: From a lot of Norwegian listeners all over. 357 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, people were commenting. And look who we've got back 358 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 4: on the line today for an update. Update Sophie and Noah, 359 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 4: welcome back to the show you too. Hello, so good 360 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 4: to hear from you guys. What's new? What's happened since 361 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 4: you were last on with us? 362 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, it's kind of crazy because after being 363 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 5: on your show, all my friends heard it and they 364 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 5: forwarded me a link to your podcast. 365 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 8: And I'm not realized how many people around the world 366 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 8: listen to you guys. 367 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 7: Either. 368 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's mostly bots that we pay to 369 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 4: have listened to us, but it's still kind of cool. 370 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 3: Well, you guys could be Hu was following Norway. 371 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 8: I don't know if you know that. 372 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, but they were all commenting on your podcast that 373 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 5: my idea of a European date wasn't true, and I 374 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 5: was skeptical. 375 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: Oh you were still skeptical even. 376 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:19,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, I just have to say I saw those comments too, 377 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 6: and I was like, I didn't think that was right. 378 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: But let's be honest. You enjoyed the description. 379 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 6: I mean, why not? 380 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 4: Okay, but Sophie, you were still skeptical that the Europeans 381 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 4: didn't know what European dates were. 382 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was skeptical. 383 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 8: So I actually reached out to some of them to 384 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 8: ask about it, and. 385 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,479 Speaker 5: One person actually invited me to go out to Norway 386 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 5: to find out for myself. 387 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 9: Yeah. 388 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, then he's super kind. But obviously I was seeing Noah. 389 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:52,959 Speaker 8: I'm still seeing Noah. 390 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 5: And we basically decided that we both should just go 391 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 5: visit Norway, and so we planned a trip. 392 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 7: And I mean, when you told me about and she 393 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 7: was all like, oh, yeah, this really nice guy. 394 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,360 Speaker 6: He wants to like show me around Norway. 395 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 7: And I'm like, obviously this guy is trying to hook 396 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 7: up with you. 397 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the American way anyway. 398 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 4: So you're like I need to come with you. 399 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, we're going. We're going with me trip and 400 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 6: when we're there, we're hoping to do like a big 401 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 6: meetup in Oslo with a group of people that's listen 402 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 6: to your shows. 403 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 5: I mean, we don't know if they're going to applaud 404 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 5: us or mock us, but we're just gonna have a 405 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 5: great time anyway. 406 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 4: We'll definitely report back and tell us how Norway is 407 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 4: and what a European date is. 408 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: Really like or just have I'd like to hear from him, but. 409 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,479 Speaker 4: Definitely keep us updated. Thanks for being back with us. 410 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 4: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.