WEBVTT - Jenna Perdue 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:17.080 Carolam. She's a queen of talking. She's on the inside. 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:21.120 She got the scoop on the lad. No one can 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:36.880 win Klie Caralam, Caralam, No one can win Quiet Caralam, Carol. Hi, friends, 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:41.640 Welcome back to my Music City Wives podcast series. On 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:45.080 this episode, I have Jenna Perdue joining me. She is 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:49.240 so beautiful and so sweet. Her husband is DJ Silver, 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:52.400 one of the hottest DJs in country music, touring with 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.720 Jason Aldean, Chris Young, Dirk s Bentley. He is the 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:59.800 DJ in country music. He's so amazing. And Jenna is 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:03.360 It's a sweet, sweet angel soul. I love her so much. 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.680 When my husband toward with Jason Aden a couple of 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:09.039 years ago, her husband, DJ Silver was on tour at 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:10.720 the same time and we got to know each other 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:14.679 and she was actually pregnant with her first child, sweet 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:17.880 baby Wake who's now two years old. Now she's pregnant 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:22.240 again with a new baby, and she's just so awesome. 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:25.080 I really want to give Jenna some big love before 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.920 we get into this episode, because when we recorded this, 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:29.680 I was in the middle of going through an early 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.400 miscarriage and it was really emotional and it still is 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:35.120 an emotional thing to talk about. 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So this is not forever, no, No, 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.120 twenty one floor with a two year old and pregnant, 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:35.760 it's not ideal, but we're getting through it. So you 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:38.400 get your exercise just by like getting to your house. 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:42.320 Yeah exactly, you're finding a parking spot, getting to the elevator, 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:47.279 getting up the elevator. How did you groceries with that wagon? 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.240 I was gonna say, like just wake and the groceries 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:57.839 go on the wagon. Everybody gets yes, all aboard. Yep. 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:00.159 It's intense. But you know what I feel like, is 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:05.360 it kind of nice um getting thrown out of your 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:08.040 ideal situation and realizing you can make it work with 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:10.400 a two year old? He said to me, with a 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:13.720 two year old with a pregnancy. It's like when you're 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:16.080 pushed to things that you wouldn't have done ideally. Does 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:17.760 it kind of make you feel like, Okay, I can 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:19.360 I can do this. I can do more than I 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:22.080 thought I could. I'm like Superman. I'm Superman. It's like, 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:26.520 I find myself kind of complaining because because it's annoying 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:29.480 a small space and we're not used to having like 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:32.080 to live in like on top of each other. And 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:35.400 but are you kidding me? We're on the twenty one 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:39.920 floor in downtown Nashville and a beautiful, views insane, incredibly 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:44.760 gorgeous condo, Like we have nothing to complain about. Yeah, 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:47.760 So I feel like that's something I have always really 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:52.360 gravitated towards you, towards about is your ability to find 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:56.200 gratitude all the time and where does that come from? 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:58.680 Because we were talking about Gabrielle Bernstein, the book The 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:02.440 universe has your back, which I downloading and reading stat 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.960 And you've always been that like a believer of energy 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:08.760 and you believed in in your own energy. Where did 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:13.880 that come from? I don't know. I think like just 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.800 but being around like some girlfriends growing up and just 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:22.200 the vibes. And I'm not a very religious person. I 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:25.279 was raised Catholic, but I don't know. My dad is 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.760 totally not religious at all. It's like mom and dad 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.679 are totally opposite. And I just kind of like found 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:35.800 myself in this middle ground where I just started feeling 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:39.040 like I would think things and then they would happen 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.279 in my life, and I could start telling these stories like, 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:43.960 oh my gosh, I wanted to do this and I 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:46.240 thought about it and that happened, and you will never 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:48.279 believe I ran it, who I ran into or whatever. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:52.200 So I did it all link together with positivity, believing 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:54.040 that it was going to happen. I just kind of 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:56.200 just kept believing, Okay, I want to do this, I 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:57.960 want to go on this trip. I'm gonna put it 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:01.440 out there. And you even believe like manifested your husband too, 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:04.400 remember you telling me that I sure did. And a 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:07.720 parking lot there he was. I found him truly truly, 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.440 Like how did you do that? You manifested your Like 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.760 I want someone who's this, this, this and this or something. Yeah. Yeah, 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.440 I was in a relationship for a long time with 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:16.400 a guy who was none of those things, and I 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.240 was just like this is not working and I want 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:23.480 and deserve these things. That's a key believing you deserve it. Yeah, 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:26.400 because we are all deserving. It's just believing it. You 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.000 have to know that you are deserving. How do you 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.680 find that? Like, say you're in a valley and you like, 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:33.800 for me, like I'm coming out of I'm in a valley, 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:36.720 really just being honest, and it's hard to like get 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.040 yourself a steam back sometimes in your worth and your 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.840 worth or knowing that it can happen, or that you 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.560 deserve good things. You know, how do you do that 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:45.840 when you're in a valley? Well, you have to go 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:50.080 through that the valley. The valleys do suck, but their 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:53.520 reality and do you go how do you work to 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:58.600 your valley? You have to listen to Gabrielle. You have 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:02.160 to listen to Gabriel Bernstein, but the universe, but it 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:03.920 really is, you do have to help yourself. You have 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:06.440 to help yourself because at the end of the day, 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.320 nobody really is going to do that for you. So 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.920 if you start to feel like you're going downhill and 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:15.920 downhill fast and I have been there, nobody's going to 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.360 dig you out of that hole. You know. Can you 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.400 feel it though You're like, okay, I'm sliding. I got 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:22.880 to turn this thing around. Yeah. It's seeing me also 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:24.840 being so weird my energy. I'm like, I know it 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:28.000 when I'm going down and I'm like, oh gosh, shoot 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.000 here it is, I'm going straight now and i don't 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:31.840 even know how to get out. And then I'm like, 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:33.600 you've got to turn it. You've got to turn it. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.480 But sometimes I'm like, where are my tools? You've got 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.839 to find your tools. But it's good being aware of that. See, 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:42.400 that's the problem. Some people aren't. Don't catch on, and 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:46.360 then you can live there forever. Yeah. So it's just 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:48.760 being aware and knowing that you deserve it and you 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:52.400 can get out of it and you will and you 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:55.760 just believe it. Yeah, you have to believe. You just 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:58.120 always have to find the positivity and everything. You know, 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:01.840 we don't have millions of dollars in the bank, but 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:04.199 we're living life and we're making the best of it, 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:06.560 and things could be worse and things could be better, 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:11.000 but we're alive and we've got each other, and you 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.920 just believe that it's gonna be okay. So how did 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:19.560 you manifest? John ak DJ Silver? I, like I said, 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:22.200 I was in a relationship, and it was just where 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:26.880 were you living? Um and London, Ontario and Canada? Actually, hey, 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:32.160 yeah nice? No, I mean beautiful place, not great from Florida. 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:37.320 So yeah, it was quite a drastic change, and I 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.079 was really holding on to something. I don't know. It's 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:43.840 hard to let things go. And I knew. I knew 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.040 right when I moved there that he was bad news. 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:49.560 Once again, your instincts was still hard. But I was 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:52.520 so proud. My ego was like, we finally are together 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:56.160 because we were long distance for so long, and any 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.959 who long the story short, I was just like, I'm done. 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:01.920 So you had a moment. How do you know when 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.800 you're done? What does it feel like? It feels like 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:10.080 other guys walking by and you're finally like that curious, right, No, 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.480 that's the truth. It was like I was on the 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:16.600 road for work and I started noticing some other guys 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.800 and I'm like, this is a really bad sign. Yes, 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:22.840 you know. So that's really when I was like, Okay, 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:24.959 this is so not working. I need out of here. 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.840 And what did you know you deserved after that relationship? 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:31.920 What were you looking for? I wanted a partner who 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:36.560 respected me. I was like, really respect. I wanted to 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.600 be respected. I wanted somebody to hold my hand. I 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.640 wanted somebody to like address me. And he wouldn't even 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.439 like you wouldn't know that we were together, lived together, 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:47.960 let alone knew each other like in a public bar. 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:51.320 He was not like affectionate at all, which I don't 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.440 really need, Like I'm kind of super independent, but you 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:57.839 want to be like, you gotta give me something, dude. Yeah. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:02.040 So I wanted like a lover when it's somebody who 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:03.640 was funny and fun to be with and we were 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.240 like into the same thing. So I was like, I 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:10.120 gotta go, man, this is not working. Yeah, and that's scary, 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:12.800 especially you're in Canada. Well you know what my dad 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:15.280 told me. It was my dad really was my dad 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:19.280 who was like Jenna because I called him crying. I'm like, 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:23.319 I'm here in Canada. His sisters were not my biggest fans. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:26.319 And that was that was like not fun and there's 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:31.360 just really nothing for me there at all. And I 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:34.400 was like crying to my dad on the phone all 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:36.600 the way back in Florida, and he goes Jenna. It's 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:40.520 like so easy. It's you stay and that's your life. 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:43.280 What you have is what you get and it's not 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.520 going to change, or you leave and you're young and 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:48.960 you've got things going on and then who knows what 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:50.920 it is like it's scary because you don't know, but 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.760 you'll be fine. And I was like, Okay, I gotta 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:56.480 I gotta go back. I'm out of here. And he's 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.439 so right. He's so right. And if you could think 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:01.160 of it in those terms, without all of the just 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:04.520 waves of feelings, it's true because it's like do you 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.559 want this to be your life? And you clearly investigated 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:10.400 and realized no, right, But it's like finding that bravery. Okay. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:11.679 So then this is the next question, how do you 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:14.040 find a bravery to make a big change? Because that 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:15.920 is always really hard for me. I always end up 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.160 doing it, but like it's so hard. Right before, I 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.560 don't know, I felt like because it was December twelve, 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:23.960 two thousand twelve, when the day. I've got in my 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.679 little folk Stock and Jetta and drove all the way 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:32.600 back to Florida, and I said, he goes, isn't today 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.440 the day that the world's supposed to end? Like the 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:37.640 Mayan calendar, you know, it's like you're exit And I 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.120 was like, no, that's on the twenty one, today's the twelve. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:43.559 But today is the day that your world is Oh 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:46.240 my god, I don't know. I felt like so empowered. 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.160 I was like I finally made up my mind and 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:50.319 I was like I am so I don't want any 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:54.120 of what you have not been offering me and I'm 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.760 not here. Yeah, and then it was like empowering, like 0:12:56.920 --> 0:13:00.280 I'm free. Awesome, So you just felt free because you 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.640 knew Okay, so you get to the point where you 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:06.680 know and then how did you get to Nashville? So 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:10.520 I traveled all over the world with Cadillac, presenting the 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.640 vehicles at the auto shows for seven years. Yeah, it 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:15.640 was like van of white and like it's you speak, 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.640 but you just like, hello, here's your car that you 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.560 need to get all over It was a lot more intense. 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:26.560 I essentially had to be an engineer without having to 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:30.840 know everything about the yeah, yeah, yeah you yeah, yeah, 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:36.120 inter exteror power train, horse power, you know, final drive, 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.960 like all kinds of ratios. It was crazy. Oh my gosh. Yeah, 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:43.400 it was intense, so I did that. I had fun traveling. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:45.680 It was so fun, but you know it's lonely too. 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.160 You're in hotel rooms. And I had really good girlfriends 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:51.559 on the road, so thank God for them. But um, 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:55.080 it just got to the point where any who, I 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:57.520 was all over and I kept coming back to Nashville 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:00.080 for work and I'm like, I love this place and 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.440 about it. Yeah, it was just I felt like a 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:05.000 big city, but it had like a good vibe, like 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:08.280 you know, just twenty minutes away and Franklin or somewhere 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:11.680 to raise a family or whatever. I didn't see myself 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.960 in l A or New York, Chicago or any big 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:18.360 city after I left in Canada, and I didn't really 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.680 see myself in Florida either, but I was like, I 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:24.360 could see myself in Nashville. Well. Then I was at 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:27.280 a Jason and Luke concert in Detroit. I was there 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:31.520 for a meeting for work, and I ran into John 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:34.000 in the parking lot. We didn't have any ticket, Yeah, 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:35.720 we didn't have any tickets to the show. But I 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:37.560 was like, we're going. I told my girlfriend we're going 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.880 to the concert. We're going to go backstage. And she's like, 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:43.720 I love you. The concert is sold out on StubHub 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:45.880 gender and I'm like, I'm not worth girl. You gotta 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.000 have I was like, you gotta have faith. We aren't 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:50.280 going on the concert if you're acting like this negativity. 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:54.040 We don't need that. You knew it. So there he was. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.480 He comes up with his friend and he's like, what 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.760 are your girls doing? Like, we need to we need tickets. 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:01.840 We got to get in there. He's like, come with me. 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:07.200 Stop get on the back of his golf cart and 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:08.600 he's like, so what do you do. I said, I 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:10.960 worked for Cadillac. He goes, I have a Cadillac. I said, oh, 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:14.360 I'm thinking myself. Here comes the stories and everybody's got 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.520 a story about a Cadillac. I'm sure. He goes, I 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.920 have a CTSV coop and I was like, are you 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:22.000 asking me or you telling me? Because those are my babies. 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:24.200 There are high performance cars. I was on the race 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:27.000 to me like, yeah, that's my talk. I can talk 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:31.160 that talk. And he's had no idea what anything about 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:34.800 his car, like this car is like a bad basscar. 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:38.040 I don't know if I can say that. He had 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:41.000 never had the thing over a day. What he did. 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:43.280 He showed me pictures he had the black Diamond edition, 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:46.320 like this thing was awesome, but it'd never been over 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:48.480 a d and any who, we were laughing about his car. 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:52.080 Not a lot of people have those, and so you'll 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:55.600 have an instant connection totally. And he's so charming and nice, 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:57.520 just the funniest guy, Like I don't know where he 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:00.520 comes up with half the crab. He says, it's oh witty, 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.600 and like you can't teach somebody that. And he's so 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:08.600 it's easy to be around. Yeah. Literally, I've seen him 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:11.040 give the shirt off of his back. He's that guy 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:15.320 and funny and sweet. And I was like, I remember 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:17.600 thinking that night at the concert looking at him. I 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:24.680 was like, there's something about this guy. And he said, 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.240 what do you Where do you live? And I'm like, well, 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:29.600 I'm going back to Florida, but I've always wanted to 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:31.920 move to Nashville. And he's like, I live in Nashville, 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:34.560 so take my number. And then I mean the resist history. 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:36.800 We dated for a year. We were engaged for a 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:40.560 year and it's pretty fast. We were married for a 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:42.960 year and on our one year anniversary we found out 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:45.560 we were pregnant with wake So dated for a year, 0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:48.160 married for on your one year anniversary, foun out your 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.640 pregnant with And the craziest thing about him is it 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:52.360 took my ex a year and a half for him 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.360 to tell me he loves me. I mean red flags 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:58.280 like f lying. John told me after two months, and 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:00.240 I told him over the phone. I'm like, don't know, 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:02.160 you don't have to say that because that was so weird. 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:06.000 I'm like, you love me already. But he that's everything 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:09.840 I wanted and deserved. He like boom was and you 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:13.040 knew it. He's like, no, I love you and I 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:19.159 have to tell you cry because being married it's not 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:22.960 just about it's being married is you have to get 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:25.359 along with that person, connect with that person, make a 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:27.000 life of that person. Is not just so is this 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:29.240 person cute or is this person like do we have 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:31.919 some sort of chemistry? It is so much more, like 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:35.880 you said, to be seen and respected by this man 0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:38.359 who loves you, I mean that has to just feel 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:42.240 so amazing. Yeah, yeah, it's awesome, Like people ask do 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:44.080 you worry about him on the road, and like, because 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:46.400 he is on tour Jason and tons of people. Yeah, 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:48.880 he's out DJs young right now. He's a badass DJ. 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:51.520 He like entertains the crowd in between sets and kicks 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.520 to show off and like all sorts of stuffs all 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:57.840 and he has residencies in Las Vegas. Like he's gone 0:17:57.840 --> 0:18:00.359 all the time, all the time. Yeah, I'm like semi 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:04.800 single wife and mom which hashtag balance. Sometimes I'm like 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:07.159 when Michael's gone on the road, I'm like, I like 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:10.040 many I'm the same way I and that's I think 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:11.760 that's why we work so well. But people are like, 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:14.119 I couldn't do it. I'd be losing sleep. Your husband 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:16.600 works until four in the morning of bars and nightclubs. 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:19.920 And I'm like, I have no reason. I've never lost 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:22.960 one ounce of sleep over him. I trust him. Isn't 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.720 that everything? Like if somebody came up to me and said, 0:18:26.359 --> 0:18:28.520 your boyfriend is cheating on you my ex, I would 0:18:28.520 --> 0:18:34.000 have been like, I know, I've always known. If somebody 0:18:34.000 --> 0:18:35.560 came up to me was like, John is cheating on you, 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:39.440 I'd be like, I need FBI proof. I don't believe you, 0:18:39.560 --> 0:18:42.320 I don't believe you. That's exactly how I feel too, 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:45.119 And it just allows you to never have to trust issues, 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:47.800 never on the table, never. And I'm like Michael and 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.040 I know John's the same way, and all the women 0:18:50.200 --> 0:18:52.200 that we hang out with in this community of women 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:55.240 who are incredible in the entertainment industry, country music especially, 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:57.480 I feel like all of our husbands like like being married, 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:00.160 you know, and marriage is a cool thing now. It's 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:01.960 not like the secret thing that you have to like, 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:05.280 you know, be single for the fans. Yeah, it's like 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:08.199 being married for the fans is great. Yeah, yeah, no, 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:11.760 they love it. So we're good. We'll be married four 0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:15.440 years in January. So talk to me about wake when 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:18.200 you found out your pregnant. How was that experience, because 0:19:18.240 --> 0:19:20.520 you're someone who is so open and honest and I 0:19:20.600 --> 0:19:22.040 love that, and I just want to talk all about 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:24.199 the pregnancy journey because I'm in the big middle of 0:19:24.200 --> 0:19:27.120 it and it's a lot. It's a it's a lot. 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:30.840 It is so much more than yeah, so much more 0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:33.320 than what you think. I thought I was pregnant. Well, 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:35.720 actually I didn't really know. We went to Miami on 0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:39.920 our one year wedding anniversary because we we love Miami, Florida. Girl. 0:19:40.040 --> 0:19:44.200 Oh yeah. And I should have known because I wasn't drinking. 0:19:44.240 --> 0:19:46.320 I had wine, but it wasn't going down like it 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:50.199 normally does. And we were at this long dinner and 0:19:50.240 --> 0:19:52.480 I went to leave in like my one glass still 0:19:52.560 --> 0:19:55.119 was only halfway gone, and I remember thinking, that's weird, 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:57.360 like I just wasn't gravitating towards it. I felt great, 0:19:57.400 --> 0:20:01.040 but I wasn't gravitating towards it. And then and um, 0:20:01.160 --> 0:20:03.840 we were going it was New Year's and we went 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:07.800 to Brittany and Jason's. They had a farmhouse, like a 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:10.240 big ranch house out in the middle of nowhere, and 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:11.959 we did New Years out there, and I could not 0:20:12.080 --> 0:20:14.879 catch a buzz. I was like, let's do another shot, 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:17.640 another shot. I could not catch a buzz. I even 0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:22.800 took like pre workout powder blue like chemical concoctions not 0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:26.240 good for you, or you're pregnant or not pregnant, just 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:28.639 not good. You're like, I'm going to do this. I 0:20:28.640 --> 0:20:32.359 could not catch a buzz which was another red flag. 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:34.720 So um on our one year anniversary. That morning, I 0:20:34.720 --> 0:20:36.640 took the test and it was as clear as day 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:38.760 that I was pregnant, and John was in the shower 0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:43.000 and I took the test and I was like, open 0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:46.119 the shower door and I got in, and I'm hysterical. 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:48.239 I couldn't spit it out, crying because pregnancy is all 0:20:48.280 --> 0:20:50.600 I had ever wanted. Oh it is. Oh yeah, you 0:20:50.680 --> 0:20:53.160