1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: with her radio. Alright, actually, it is time to break 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: down episode two of this season of the Bachelorette. There 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: are some shocking parts to this episode. I want to 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: start by asking if you agree or disagree with me. 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: I have a thought after two episodes, so my sample 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: base is very small. I feel as I watched this 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: that this feels more like a throwback season, like more 9 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: vintage Bachelorette Bachelor than how we've kind of gone about 10 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: the show in the last movie five years, even though 11 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: we have two Bachelorettes. I watched this and I'm like, 12 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: this kind of feels like a season that I'm gonna 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 1: get really into again. Well, why, well, I think we 14 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: have some very interesting contestants. I think is one um 15 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: that some we're gonna really root for, some uh we're 16 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: really gonna root against. Not to completely uh skip over 17 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: this whole episode. I do feel like they've gotten rid of, 18 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: or they're gonna get rid of, the more villainous characters 19 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: very quickly. Right right now. They're like kind of like 20 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: in and out, which kind of happened the past they 21 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: weren't around um and then I also in finding the 22 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: dynamic between Rachel and Gabby very interesting. They are very 23 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: supportive of each other. Uh, there was some odd moments 24 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: that we're getting during the episode where like they have 25 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: a guy come over and they're both sitting there. That's 26 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: weird to me. But I think getting to know them 27 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: better has been really fun. But I think they're just 28 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: gonna go about this process very differently, so we're kind 29 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: of getting two seasons all in one. We're we're gonna 30 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: agree with one lead, we're gonna disagree with the other. 31 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: That might switch back and forth over the season. I 32 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: just feel like now I'm kind of like engaged more 33 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: than I was in the past, where the villain took 34 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: up all the screen time was always on the episode, 35 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: the drama was always at the forefront, and that just 36 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: got annoying and hard to watch. Now, I feel like 37 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: most of this this episode, at least, was their own 38 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: journey struggling through who to send home, who not send home, 39 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: and also dealing with conflict, which used to be the 40 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: storylines of the past. Yeah, that was really well put. 41 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: I really have enjoyed as well. Um, both girls I 42 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: find are equally compelling to watch, and it's just nice 43 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: it's just nice having a variety. So let's talk about 44 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: the moments that really stood out to us. So it 45 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: starts with them like basically needing to get to know 46 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: all twenty eight remaining guys, so a ton you could 47 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: call this. Do you call us a group date or 48 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: you just tell this like Rose Cocktail Party Part two, 49 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: it's yucky outside. They wanted to have a pool party, 50 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: but then they decided to kind of bring the pool 51 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: party inside and see what these guys can do in 52 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: speedos while having a talent show. The moment that stands 53 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: out to me most during this part was Jacob being hilarious, 54 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: comes up looking like his standard Tarzan, swivels a chair around, 55 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: puts glasses on, and goes, let me tell you about, 56 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: you know, how to get the best mortgage. That was 57 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: a good laugh. Loved that the guys um they were fun, 58 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: they were lighthearted, and they all appeared quite likable in 59 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: this moment. What do you think I think there were two? 60 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: I mean, so far other than you know Chris's little mishap, 61 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: I don't not in the little mishap, I think he 62 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: meant what he said because he kind of doubled down 63 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: on it. But everybody else I'm finding to be very likable, 64 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: like guys that you're like, I could root for you 65 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: or I enjoy watching you interact. So yes, I agree 66 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: with that. Okay, So then they just say that they're 67 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: going to bring the guys that they are most interested 68 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: in getting to know better based on the talent show 69 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: over to their house, and that is what I love. 70 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: I love it when they make it seem a little 71 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: bit more grounded, down to earth, bring him over to 72 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: their house. That's cool. I like the wayther us utilizing 73 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: the girl's house. I like the way that with the 74 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: Nate date, Gabby brought him over like some morning mimosas, 75 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: and then they go and off and do their date thing. 76 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: But it's like, Okay, why don't you come over for 77 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: a minute before we do the thing? And that's seems 78 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 1: more real life. I didn't did you find that to 79 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: be a weird moment though I'm watching you think it's 80 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: weird because like Gabby and Rachel are both there. Yeah, 81 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: I think it's I don't think it's weird. I don't know. 82 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: It feels like a roommate situation. I feel like the 83 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: guys that they're taking on dates this week the two 84 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: of them particularly, there were definitely guys like Nate was 85 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: there for Gabby and Jordan was there for Rachel. I 86 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: don't think that they're like guys are competing over. If 87 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: there was a guy that they were competing over, like 88 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: Mario at this point, then that would be really awkward. Okay, 89 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: But am I missing this that? I don't know where 90 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: we found out who's into who? Like, are we just 91 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: getting this through passive like sentences being shared? I don't 92 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: feel like there's a clear boundary. I didn't know Nate 93 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 1: was only into Gabby. Okay, I'll say you're right, I 94 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: don't know about the Nate and Gabby sitch. I was 95 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: just vibing that. I think it was expected of us 96 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: to kind of vibe that. But how am I supposed to? 97 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 1: But didn't you know that Jordan's was for He said 98 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: made it. I mean, he made it clear that he 99 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: was there for Rachel. So yes, that makes more sense. 100 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 1: But I don't know where Nate fully stands. Maybe he 101 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: said it and I missed it, but I don't know 102 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: where he like confidently stands right now. And so then 103 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: he shows us they're like dating roommates, which I mean 104 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: has happened. It didn't feel awkward to me, well, because 105 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 1: they tried to both not make it feel awkward. They 106 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: both like to this is weird, but let's act like 107 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: we're having a good time and like catching up with 108 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: each other. But it's weird. And I mean, if Rachel 109 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: was into him, we would have heard a sound bite 110 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: of Rachel being like, I meant to him and this 111 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: is weird. Well, and Rachel kind of said, hey, I 112 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: see the relationship that Gabby and Nate are having and 113 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: I wish I wish it was kind of that way 114 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: with Jordan's or whatever. So we are getting the hints 115 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: of it. But if this is how the whole season 116 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 1: is going to go, where we're like not really getting 117 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: who's into who, I'm gonna be so confused. There's way 118 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: too many dudes for me to keep track of. I'm 119 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: gonna get so lost in this whole thing. And at 120 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: some point there's gonna be a guy that goes on 121 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: a date with Gabby that Rachel's into, and I'm gonna 122 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: miss that whole storyline because I'm not gonna know what 123 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: know the backstory. I want it clear, I need I 124 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: need clear cut. We'll eventually get clear cut. I think 125 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: the only one that we really see seriously overlapping is 126 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: I know, to jump to the end of the episode, 127 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: it was Mario. There's just no way actley, like, I 128 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: cannot get behind the idea that Mario is the only 129 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: guy they're going to compete after. There's got to be 130 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: a lot of dudes in the house. They're both like 131 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: eyeing right now, Like, right now we only see Mario 132 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: really being that person, but there's got to be a 133 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: ton more. I mean, there's just no way, like you 134 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: would just believe with that many dudes. Both these women 135 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: are going I like him and I like him, and 136 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: the guys right now are going, hey, I even got 137 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: to talk to either of them yet, so I don't 138 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: even know if what I'm into. I mean, let's go 139 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: back to where we left off. The guys get invited 140 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: to Gabby and Rachel's house, and that includes Logan and 141 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: Johnny and um Brandon, Avan, Jason, and Colin. So in 142 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: that day, what's sticking out to me is Johnny and 143 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: Logan because Logan kisses both of them and that's the 144 00:07:56,440 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: first time I say this. And Rachel's a little sad 145 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: because she was hoping that he was just kind of 146 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: showing her attention. This is I mean, okay, so let's 147 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: pause here. Everybody listening. We have the first group date. 148 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: Logan kisses both of them. I watch it and I go, 149 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: bad move, Logan, And then I think a step back 150 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: and go is it a bad move? Is this I 151 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 1: don't know? Is it disrespectful? Is it leading one of 152 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: them on? Is this just kind of the nature of 153 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: the environment and it's going to have to be this way? 154 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: Then I had to go, I don't know how I 155 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: feel about this, Like I'm not gonna like hate on 156 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: Logan for doing this, because I don't know what's right 157 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: and wrong right now. In this scenario, Gabby said she 158 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,719 Speaker 1: felt her heart drop because she felt like she had 159 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 1: a connection with him, and I was like, this is 160 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: the moment we've been waiting for. If this is what 161 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: I asked the girls last week, I was like, was 162 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: there a time where you're like, oh, do you like him? 163 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: I like him? Blah blah blah, that where you're like, oh, god, 164 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: she kissed him. So they did experience at Eventually, Rachel 165 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:05,719 Speaker 1: gives her roast Logan and Gabby gives her rose to 166 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: Johnny but I definitely think that Logan is somebody who 167 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: is just up in the air. It's probably like this 168 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: is what's awkward, And this is what Caitlin said this week. 169 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristow said, like it kind of is making her 170 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: sick seeing the two bachelorettes because eventually it will be 171 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: up to the guys to choose which one, and it 172 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: will be a choice that the men ultimately make because 173 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: what gets Gabby and Rachel both seemed to have interest? 174 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: So what Gabby and Rachel gonna convene and say, Okay, 175 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: I like him, but how much do you like him? 176 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: I think I like him a lot. Okay, well, I 177 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: like I think I like him a medium amount. You know. No, 178 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 1: it's gonna be the guy's decision. No, it's true. I mean, 179 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: I mean it's gonna have to be both right. Both 180 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: both sides are gonna have to agree to this. I mean, 181 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: if Logan continues to make their hearts drop and give 182 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: them get sad, I mean, he ain't gonna be onund awhile, like, 183 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: I just can't imagine they're both like, yeah, this is 184 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 1: cool and worth it, and so somebody's gonna lose out 185 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: either Logan or one of the girls that real they 186 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: like Logan. I do feel like it's gonna get messy, 187 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: And that's why I said I want it clear cut, Ashley, 188 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: Like I want a clear like I want to know 189 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: who's into who and who's gonna date who. I don't 190 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: gonna have to wait a few weeks. Then there's gonna 191 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: be a lot of damage done before that few weeks. 192 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: Like I'm not disagreeing with Caitlin where it's like it's 193 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: kind of makes me feel sick because I can't hate 194 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: on Logan for doing what he did. Like it's he's 195 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: dating two people at once. They both know he's dating 196 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 1: two people once. They're all trying to figure it out. 197 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: So I cannot say I cannot hate on him for 198 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: his decision. I can't say that was a bad decision. 199 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: I just said. When I watch it, it does make 200 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,599 Speaker 1: me feel confused, maybe not sick to my stomach. I 201 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: think Caitlin probably has a little more of a visceral 202 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 1: like reaction to this because she's experienced this, uh and 203 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: and her you know, time on the Bachelortte. But I 204 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: do get confused, and confusion is not good for me. 205 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: When I watch TV I'm confused half of my life, 206 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: most of my days when I watched TV. I don't 207 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: want confusion. I want it very clear. You don't Confusion 208 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: may not be the right word for you. You don't 209 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: want an emotional conflict. No, I don't want emotional Understand 210 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: what's going on. You just feel bad for what's going on. Yeah, 211 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: I feel terrible. This sucks for for for really all sides. 212 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, we can we can put these 213 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: guys and say, hey, we we really are upset that 214 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: ultimately it's going to become their choice. Right. Well, they 215 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: didn't necessarily agree to that at the beginning, but it's 216 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: just the way this whole format is going to play out. 217 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: We can also feel bad for the women and say, hey, 218 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: they're gonna be probably disappointed, and they're probably gonna have 219 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: moments of like chaos and uh, confusion themselves on how 220 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: to navigate this. Well, that's part of being the lead. 221 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: But it's not what they signed up for at the beginning, 222 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: or maybe as they said it was because they didn't 223 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: know who was going to be the bachelor, and they 224 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: didn't know both of them are gonna be a bachelor 225 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: until the night of I'm confused. Even speaking right now, 226 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm word vomiting because I don't I can't make sense 227 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: of this yet. However, I go back to what I 228 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: said at the beginning. I am intrigued, I am interested, 229 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: and that's gonna keep me watching. Yeah, I agree with 230 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: Caitlin though. Okay, they keep saying they're not going to 231 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: put them against each other. As supportive as they are, Somebody, 232 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: somebody is going to be more hurt throughout this process, 233 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: I think. And then I think it's going to beg 234 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: the question at the end of the season, depending on 235 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: you know, how it all unfolds. Was it worth having 236 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: two bachelorettes? Wouldn't have been less hurtful to one of 237 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: them if one of them was the lead? Well, I 238 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: say this after our interview with them. What you can 239 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: tune into posted alonmost Family. You say they both seem happy. 240 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: I say, and I retaliate. That's not what I was 241 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 1: gonna say. That's not what I was going to say. 242 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: What I was gonna say is uh. The show itself, 243 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: as a as a holistic entity, is very lucky they 244 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: have Gabby and Rachel because if they had any two 245 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: people men or women, less supportive of each other and 246 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: less wanting to do this thing well, to support each 247 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: other and to see both people be happy at the end. 248 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: It would have really gotten ugly fast, and it would 249 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: have backfired fast, And I think it would have backfired 250 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: starting like week two, and all we would have been 251 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: watching is people getting hurt the whole time, both sides, 252 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: the leads and the contestants. Instead, we got to give 253 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: a lot of credit in this situation to Gaping Rachel 254 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: for when these situations come up, they look at each other, 255 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: they talk it out. They have the understanding, they have 256 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: their respect, they have the care for each other to 257 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 1: know that this is just the way it's gonna be 258 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: for a bit like it or not, it's the way 259 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: it's gonna be. And so can we do this thing 260 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: and love each other through the process. And so far, 261 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: so far, And if I had to put money down 262 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: on I would say it's gonna continue to exist for 263 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 1: the rest of the season. They have done a tremendous job, 264 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:52,959 Speaker 1: the two of them of being there for each other 265 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: even when things are super awkward. Say what I said 266 00:13:55,679 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: last week, they're way better than I I could ever 267 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: do this with as much compassion and support I know 268 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: myself well enough that like I'd put myself first. These 269 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: girls are putting each other first. And this is a 270 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,679 Speaker 1: friendship that's only been in existence for less than a year. 271 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: That is something that is some true true love. You know, 272 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: that's that's true love. Uh. Yeah. But and I have 273 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: to say I'm not like, I don't want to say 274 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: that I'm like not liking the format because I do. 275 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: I just I'm worried. I'm worried for them. I'm worried 276 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: that this is sort of like a woman against woman 277 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: thing at the end. But I'm still enjoying watching two 278 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: leads because I like the variety of it continuing, continuing. Yeah, 279 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: so there's a big moment in this episode. We're gonna 280 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: flash forward now too, away from the logan and away 281 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: from the group day uh situation where they dressed up 282 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: in speedos and showed off, which would have been my 283 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: worst nightmare, especially in the room. I've said it many times, 284 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: full of just absolutely jack do um. We saw a 285 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: little bit of the personalities kind of come out. We 286 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: obviously saw Chris has come out at that point, and 287 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: I think there was some like this feels like a 288 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 1: little odd to be saying on your first group date. 289 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: That like, you're there to motivate and you're the leader 290 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: and you're the head dude here. I mean that was 291 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: just like okay. So we get to the next scene, 292 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: which is Rachel's very first one on one with somebody 293 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: who I think had a lot of fans support. He's 294 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 1: good looking dude. He seemed very nice. He seemed uh, 295 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: very I don't want to use the word normal, because 296 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody's just like normal, but he 297 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: just seemed like somebody you would want to get to 298 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 1: know better. He's a race car driver's name is Jordan's. 299 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: I thought he was so sweet, So yeah, it's about him. 300 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: So they go on one on one date. They have 301 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. I'm watching this whole date and 302 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, this guy is gonna be around. Awhile he 303 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: has the first one on one, they're making out and 304 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: zero gravity. They're you know, having a blast. Then they 305 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: go to dinner and he starts opening up and sharing 306 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: his story. This is where I'll pass it off to you. Actually, 307 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: because things didn't go as expected and the Bachelor Nation, 308 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: social media following reacted strongly to say the least, oh 309 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: please please inform me. I was, I was at Audrey's 310 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: and not keeping up with the social media componment. People 311 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: were sad that he's gone mad. Yeah, like your first 312 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: big controversy. No, we see controversy for the leads throughout 313 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: this whole season. This is something that will come and 314 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: go very quickly. People will forget as soon as the 315 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: season progresses. But at least for this episode, as we 316 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: sit here and talk about it, Fascination was very disheartened 317 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: that he went home. They also felt, and this is 318 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: why I'd like you to speak to this. They also 319 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: felt like, uh, he got a row into the deal 320 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: because he opened up about his life and then was 321 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: kind of sent home following, and like what he felt 322 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: about that, what he thought about a lot of it 323 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: was poor Jordan's I feel bad for Jordan. That was 324 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: kind of the sentiment. He was awkward talking about the 325 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: family issues, a little cryptic about it. It was like 326 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 1: he was holding back a little bit. But then again, 327 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 1: you want to keep your family ship private, right, so 328 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: you can't really fault him for that, especially this early 329 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: on the process. If that was the kind of, you know, 330 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 1: vague conversation that he had a couple of weeks in 331 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 1: then you could be like, oh, he's struggling to open up. 332 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: I'm not connecting. I get it. But it was weird 333 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 1: because it seemed like they were having flirtatious conversation chemistry 334 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: in the zero gravity thing, and then they sit down 335 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: at dinner and all of a sudden, it's gone. I 336 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 1: felt like she should have chalked it up to it 337 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 1: being like him being awkward, him being nervous, and him 338 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: just starting to get used to this whole thing, and 339 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 1: kept him around a little bit longer. Keep him around, 340 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: even if it's just one or two more weeks. You 341 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: had that great moment night one. I thought he was adorable. 342 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 1: I was excited selfishly to watch him because I, as 343 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: a viewer, just felt connected to him. It is disappointed 344 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: he's not going to be around. I would say he 345 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 1: should be a shoe and for Paradise, well, yeah, that 346 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: he will be. I mean he should be. But the 347 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 1: thing here, I mean, I've gone through this process, as 348 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: everybody knows, and I it's so early on. You don't 349 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: know much about any of these people yet, and everybody's 350 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: still very nervous. If Caitlin Bristo would have sent me 351 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: home because I was awkward. Well, I would have been 352 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: going home every day for the first two weeks of 353 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: this show. Look at Coltlan Hannah Brown, she had the 354 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 1: most awkward first day, so weird. And so there is 355 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 1: this level when you're the lead that you have to 356 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: ask yourself, okay, am I endo this person? And as 357 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,199 Speaker 1: Rachel was saying, she she found him interesting, but her 358 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 1: gut was telling her that he wasn't the one. Okay cool, 359 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: but this week too. You almost want to keep your 360 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: strongest connections alive for as long as possible, so that 361 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,440 Speaker 1: when you're down to the end in the final six 362 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: and you're traveling the world together and you're going on 363 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: these full day dates and you're seeing them every like 364 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: two days, that you have the people there that at 365 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:25,959 Speaker 1: least you enjoyed being around. You mean, you're like initial first, yeah, 366 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: you gravitational polls, you said you said you're strong at 367 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: you you just said you're strong um connections, Well, she 368 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 1: was saying, I'm not feeling a strong a connection. However, 369 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: it was one of those moments where at first there 370 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 1: was that thing. So keep the keep those people around 371 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: for a little long longer you have to. That's kind 372 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 1: of the art of the road ceremony because when you 373 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 1: get asked who are you sending home tonight before you 374 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 1: walk out, then you go through it and if there's 375 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: a big group you're trying to send home the pe 376 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: bowl that there's no pull towards like that's kind of 377 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 1: the first few weeks, like zero, like you, it's not 378 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: physical attraction. It's the most physical attraction to us. So 379 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: you've got to keep him around. In my opinion, you 380 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: just have to. I think I think at some point 381 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna look back and be like, yeah, Jordan could 382 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: have been in the six spot, fifth spot, whatever. But 383 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:23,919 Speaker 1: she sent him home shockingly to the audience, shocking to him. 384 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: Do you know what I was so wanting in this moment? 385 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: And I'll say this a little could confuse She's like, 386 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm not going to give you this rose. So my 387 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: thought was, well, does it get to go back to 388 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:39,479 Speaker 1: the house and try things with Gabby or is it 389 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 1: because he said episode one, I'm here specifically for you 390 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,159 Speaker 1: that him not getting a rose on that date meant 391 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: immediate elimination. Oh jeez, yeah, you're right. As a contestant, 392 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: that little you know he was thinking it? Yeah, the 393 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: little hint would be leave your options wide open for 394 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: as long as possible now, because if you go on 395 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: date with one and you know the show doesn't know 396 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 1: who you're really into, maybe go back home, because you 397 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: would think if Gabby had any interest in in Jordan's 398 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: that she, like Rachel, would have also had to talk 399 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: to Gabby and be like, is it cool if we 400 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: send him home? I think there's a missing piece there. 401 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 1: I bet you something like that was filmed some sort 402 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: of powow. I was so weird that when she was like, 403 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: can I walk? But then again no, there wasn't She 404 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: said yeah unless there because she said can I walk 405 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,120 Speaker 1: you out? And I was like, are you walking him out? 406 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: To go back to the mansion to maybe stort these 407 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 1: things out? Like what if um, Rachel had Logan or 408 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: Mario on the date and if she said, hey, I'm 409 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: not feeling it, I'm not going to give you this rose. 410 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: I think those guys would have gone back to the house. 411 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 1: You know there's a missing piece. I don't. I don't 412 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: understand it. Yeah, I guess I I don't fully understand 413 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: where how this works yet, because I think it was 414 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: shocking that Jordan just is gone, He's out of there. 415 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: Gabby has no out with him. He's so adorable. I 416 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: really did want to say, we'll see more of them, 417 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: We'll see more. Okay, So onto the second one on 418 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 1: one day Gabby's time and she invites Nate. The card 419 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 1: says me at meet me at my place. He has 420 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: bring a bathing suit. Nate shows up to Gabby's place 421 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: where Rachel is at. We just talked about it. Kind 422 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: of I felt like it was awkward. You felt like 423 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: it was whatever. It's kind of how it has to 424 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 1: be a little weird. Okay, fine it was. I think 425 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: you think it was weird, and I thought it was fine. 426 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: I would love to know what the general consensus was. Okay. 427 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: So then they go in a helicopter and fun helicopter 428 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: bachelor date with Gabby? Is anything going to be awkward? 429 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: She just seems like she's out to have fun and 430 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: really is like not taking anything seriously. Yeah, I know 431 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: she is taking it seriously, but when she's out on 432 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: a date, like I feel like she could just enjoy 433 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,399 Speaker 1: time with anyone. Oh yeah, Because I think she's one 434 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 1: of those people that just you know, keeps it lighthearted 435 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: for as long as she can until a moment where 436 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: and we see it with you know the show. At 437 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: some point you know it's going to get very serious, 438 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: but until then, she seems like a great time, like 439 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: a really good person to hang out with and have 440 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: fun with. Nate was nervous. I don't know if you 441 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 1: could tell in his voice, but he kind of was 442 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,719 Speaker 1: like had that like little like stuttery voice going on, 443 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: and she repeated himself too, Yeah, and she immediately kind 444 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 1: of calmed his nerves and made him feel super comfortable there, 445 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: which is great because there is a lot of nat 446 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 1: that we want to see. So, Ashley, what did you 447 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,880 Speaker 1: think about them? They playing out, they went to the helicopter, 448 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: read they landed, they got in a hot tub shockingly, Uh, 449 00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: this is the classic bachelor day helicopter and yeah, so 450 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 1: what did you think about the date? Is there a 451 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: connection there? H? Is there something serious? Is Nate one 452 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 1: to watch? Nate's definitely want to watch. I think he's 453 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 1: very I like him. I don't know that there's like 454 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: I actually need like comparisons, do you know what I mean? 455 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: Like I need these girls to really super connect with 456 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 1: somebody so I know what the threshold is so that 457 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: I can then put I could compare connections amongst the 458 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 1: highest of the high, right, Yeah, well right now it's Tino. 459 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: But Tino, obviously because he has a good connection. We 460 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 1: didn't see anything from me. He disappears for like the 461 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 1: next three weeks, then he'll pop up again. Exactly what 462 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 1: stood out about Nate's day? It was obviously him getting 463 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: emotional talking about his daughter, who's six, and there's a 464 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: video out there of him braiding her hair and it's 465 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: absolutely adorable. And Gabby she, you know, it's very accepting 466 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: of the fact that he has a daughter, and she 467 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: loved the way you talked about her. But there's not 468 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 1: much to say beyond that. Do you feel I would 469 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,679 Speaker 1: only say there's something to watch, not watch out for 470 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 1: in the sense if it's bad, but watch out for 471 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: where Gabby, you know, I don't know if she considered 472 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: the fact that from this experience, she would, you know, 473 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 1: potentially be a mom very soon after. I think that's 474 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: something that is going to be a storyline to follow. 475 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 1: Is Gabby ready to walk out of this and take 476 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: on a child? Um? Some from the franchise have been 477 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: that's awesome. Some from the franchise haven't been that's great. Too, 478 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: but it's just a storyline to follow is where is 479 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: Gabby at in her process of you know, working, you 480 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: know on a relationship with Nate while at the same 481 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: time knowing that if they are together, she could be 482 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 1: a mom very soon. So something to follow, something to watch. Well. Uh, 483 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 1: Nate gets the rose, goes back to the house. It's 484 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 1: now time for the final rose ceremony, or not the 485 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: final but the rose ceremony of the first the first 486 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 1: rose ceremony. They have a cocktail party. Uh, we've gotten 487 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 1: to see bits and pieces of Chris. I think that's 488 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: one thing that we should just kind of gloss over. 489 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 1: We've talked about it, but Chris at this point is 490 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: kind of mentioning how he believes he's going to be 491 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: there on the final four. He just knows he is. 492 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 1: He's saying this to all the guys and that he 493 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 1: is setting stipulations which we've seen in the past. Also 494 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 1: that if she's if any of the women that he's 495 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 1: with sleeps with somebody else in the fantasy suite, it's 496 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: a no go for him. We're in week two, barely 497 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 1: week two. We're kind of like, what week one and 498 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: a half because they've never had a road ceremony. They've 499 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 1: just now all started to talk to the people, to 500 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: the to the women, and he's making these pretty strong 501 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: claims on how it's gonna go for him. This is 502 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: his experience, which, hey, it is two sides, but at 503 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: this point, so your role buddy, Also, don't tell a 504 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: bunch of dudes who are also trying to press out 505 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 1: that you're gonna be there in the final four, because 506 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: that's never a good look. I don't love his demeanor. 507 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: I do think he comes across condescending. I think it's 508 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 1: I think he should not be talking about himself per 509 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: se in that top four position. So yeah, I do think, 510 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: and maybe I'm gonna get shipped for this, but I 511 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 1: think it was maybe a little bit of an overreaction 512 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 1: on everybody's part um that he was talking about how 513 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 1: he would deal with fantasy suites, like I, like I said, 514 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: like his tone not not most likable. I get it, 515 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 1: But but I think it's fine for us to talk 516 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: about how you would hit would perceivably if you got 517 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:39,120 Speaker 1: that far handle situation like that, especially since it's been 518 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: such a drama point the past couple of years. I 519 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 1: think you can talk about how you would handle it. 520 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: I think it's weird to maybe put yourself there being 521 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 1: like I will be there, so this is how I 522 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 1: will handle it. I think you have to say use 523 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 1: language like if I were to ever get there, I 524 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 1: would would like it to unfold like this. This is 525 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 1: how I can see myself maybe one day handling the situation. 526 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 1: It's all about how you word it right a little bit. 527 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: Here's here's my argument. There's a little bit of awareness 528 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: social awareness needed here too. I don't know, I know, 529 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 1: but I don't believe that conversation ever needs to exist 530 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: with other cast members. It's weird enough, you know. Back 531 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: in the day, I was very much against even talking 532 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 1: about kissing the lead if you were a cast member 533 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: with other cast members. I thought that was a little 534 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: bit odd, right, even when I was on The Bachelor 535 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: at that talked talked about your best friends. Yeah, you 536 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: just don't share that stuff because it is sensitive, and 537 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: as the feelings increase, it gets really hard to navigate 538 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: those emotions of I really care about this person, maybe 539 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 1: I love this person, and I know they're still out 540 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 1: there dating other people, and so it just is kind 541 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: of that like boundary. It's like, what awareness do you 542 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: have and who are you speaking to? And why are 543 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 1: you hearing this with him? What are you hoping to 544 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: get from this moment where you're sharing this really strong 545 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 1: feeling with other cast members? Where do you hope this goes? 546 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: Do you hope they all agree with you? Do they 547 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: hope they you rally they rally around you? Do they 548 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: hope Do you hope they come behind you and support 549 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 1: you and tell the women, Hey, make sure that you're 550 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: good because Chris is so great you can't sleep with 551 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 1: anybody else and you need to be with him in 552 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: the end. I don't know what he was hoping from 553 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: this other than just to start talking now. If he 554 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 1: sat down with Rachel or Gabby and he shared with him, hey, 555 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: this is kind of where I'm thinking at some point 556 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: when it was appropriate, I would have a really hard time. 557 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: And I've already been thinking about the fantasy suits. I've 558 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 1: already been thinking about what that's gonna look like, and 559 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm having a hard time processing how I would handle 560 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: it if I knew I cared so much about you too, 561 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: that that you could be with somebody else and I 562 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 1: needs need you to walk through this with me as 563 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: a partner totally different scenario, but he's sharing it with 564 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: the whole world. Hey, I'm gonna be there to Final four. 565 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 1: And if they sleep with anybody other than me, and 566 00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if he said himself, but they if 567 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: they sleep around uh during the fantasy sweet dates, which 568 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: is up to them, then I'm out. Like, no matter what, 569 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 1: no matter what I'm feeling, that's not my wife, I'm out. 570 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: It's like, well, good, because you're gonna be going home tonight. 571 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 1: You're definitely out. You're not going to even make it 572 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: past the first week and a half, all right, I 573 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: guess you're right. I guess it's all in the way 574 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: that you say it is straying to talk about it 575 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: in a group setting. I guess I'm thinking about like 576 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 1: from like my experience, Like I would sit around with 577 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 1: like a clip of my closest friends and like kind 578 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 1: of imagine like if we got to a certain point. 579 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: But I don't think you would ever. I would never ever, 580 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: And I don't I don't remember anybody acting as if 581 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: they would be at that point that early on. No, 582 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just that just felt like a pretty 583 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: good red flag to say, hey, it's time for you 584 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 1: to go home, Chris. This is no longer for you. 585 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 1: This isn't gonna be for you, and so you're out now. 586 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 1: The interesting part is they do send Chris home. They 587 00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: both talked to him. I think they handle it really well. 588 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 1: They're both pretty fired up. I could tell. It is 589 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: one of those moments where they're like, no, you aren't 590 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 1: gonna step on our parade and uh then he comes back. Yeah, 591 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 1: that was freaking weird. And I loved the way it 592 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: was shot. The scenes, all the guys you see the cameras. 593 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: It was dramatic. I love it when they break the 594 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: fourth law like that. I wish they would do it 595 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 1: more often. Yeah, I feel bad for like I won't 596 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: say his name, but one of the audio engineers is 597 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: like standing there and he's like working on stuff, and 598 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden you see him like have 599 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: to move out of the way for Chris. He kind 600 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: of gets hit and he looks up. He's like, oh crap, 601 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: and then he sees the camera like on him and 602 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: he has to like dodge behind somebody. Um, but what 603 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: a great scene. I mean, all three hundred of the 604 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: dudes from this season are standing there watching this thing 605 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: play out. I Uh, I want to know what Chris 606 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: was thinking. I think we should have mom, because I 607 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: want to know what he was hoping to get out 608 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: of that moment, other than just to find out that yes, 609 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: many people from the house shared that you were saying this, 610 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 1: and that like not a lot of people were in 611 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: agreeance with you. I wonder if he just couldn't come 612 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: to terms with the fact that maybe he was wrong, 613 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 1: maybe his thought process wasn't as great as he thought 614 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: it could be or thought it was going to come off. 615 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: But Chris's home, going home now that the leads Rachel 616 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 1: and Gabby Uh stand up to him, say get out 617 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 1: of here, you don't belong here, and then we move 618 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: into a rose ceremony, a rose ceremony that I don't 619 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 1: think I had a lot of shocking exits. Really, I 620 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: don't think there's anything from that to mention. Do you 621 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: have anything? Absolutely nothing to mention To the point where 622 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: I even forget them saying goodbye to the guys, I 623 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: don't think they ever did. It was very very quick, 624 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: like they kind of said, hey, say say goodbyes. They 625 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 1: showed the dudes kind of hugging out. Oh yeah, well, 626 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: I was actually shocked that Ryan got eliminated, not because 627 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: I saw a great romance about to form with one 628 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: of the girls with him, but just because they showed 629 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: a lot of him on Night one. Yeah, I was like, 630 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm surprised too. So here's the guys that went home, Ryan, Matt, 631 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 1: John Brandon, and Colin. Good luck if you know any 632 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: of those people or if you could put a face 633 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: to the name at this point in this season, But Ryan, Matt, 634 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: John Brandon, and Colin are going home. That leaves us 635 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: Jason Avan, Eric Zack, Jordan, Quincy, Michael, Tino, Jacob Tyler, Termain, Hayden, Meatball, 636 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: poor Guy, Kirk Spencer, alec Ethan Mario left to continue, 637 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 1: as well as Logan and Johnny. You all had roses 638 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 1: going into that ceremony, the really crazy weird, weird, weird, 639 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 1: weird weird part, and I was trying to understand if 640 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: I was understanding correctly. I was like, wait a second, 641 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 1: Am I getting this right? Is this Mario the say 642 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 1: Mario from last week? The Mario that both of them 643 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: seemed into in this episode? Why do they wait to 644 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: the last rose for him? No? Was it a matter 645 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 1: of who was the one that was actually handing the 646 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: rose because they were saying, the roses come from both 647 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 1: girls equally. You know, we're we collectively as a pair 648 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 1: or extending you this rose. Here's my come on now, 649 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: right Rachel was handing Tino the rose. It seems to 650 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 1: have some sort of meeting behind who was actually doing 651 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 1: the handing. Well, I think it hints to a storyline 652 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,959 Speaker 1: that we should follow for the rest of the season, 653 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: which is gonna be that Mario is probably, um you 654 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 1: representive a of what this is going to look like 655 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 1: when things get a little messy and both people are 656 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 1: gonna be into Mario. Mario is going to be into 657 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: both of them. They're gonna all gonna try to figure 658 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 1: it out. They probably I won't know how to do 659 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 1: it perfectly ever, but somehow this will be a storyline 660 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: now that we follow because I think him getting the 661 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 1: last rose, and I think how the roses passed out 662 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,800 Speaker 1: is just hinting foreshadowing uh if I say so, uh 663 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: for what is to come in the future, which will 664 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: be interesting to watch. We all knew it was going 665 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: to happen at some point. Uh, Ashley, that was a 666 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 1: crazy break down, A lot to talk about, but we 667 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 1: have a lot of headlines. We're gonna get to a 668 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 1: few of them today. We'll get to a few others 669 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: next week. So let's take a break and come back 670 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 1: with Bachelor headlines. Signed for Bachelor Headlines with our expert, 671 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: Ashley I Connettie. Oh, I'm an expert, you are an expert. 672 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,320 Speaker 1: Here we go. First one is this Ivan Hall seemingly 673 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:38,800 Speaker 1: trolls Deandra over Nate dating speculation. This is a whole video, 674 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: so like the proof is in the pudding. Actually, what's 675 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 1: it all about? Okay? For those who don't know, there's 676 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:50,840 Speaker 1: like some speculation that Deandra might be having something going 677 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 1: on romantically with Nate Michelle's X. They were spotted at 678 00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:01,400 Speaker 1: his birthday party earlier this month and she appeared to 679 00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: be wearing his chain necklace. And it was also the 680 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 1: same weekend that Michelle blocked around followed Nate. UM and 681 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 1: then Ivan and Deandra did a little Q and Q 682 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 1: and I a little Instagram live together and he um 683 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 1: he asked, he asked her to describe her type and 684 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 1: the and then um she said something like she's like 685 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 1: I don't know Nate or or something. That's what she said, 686 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 1: like probably like Nate or something. And then Ivan was 687 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 1: like shocked and said who um, and they laughed and 688 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: she said, I'm kidding. You know, how do I say this? 689 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 1: Guys who have a bit more swag, I feel like 690 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: me um, like a pro athlete, you know, Guys a 691 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,919 Speaker 1: little more slag, Guys who are into fashion. Yeah, there's 692 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: some hinting now at at this thing being a thing. 693 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: It's been rumored for a bit. We don't have any 694 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 1: clear knowledge that they are dating or hanging out, but 695 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 1: we've seen video now of them together. We have this 696 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: interview to pull back on. If you remember when we 697 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: interviewed DeAndre, she had mentioned that Ivan is one of 698 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 1: her closest friends. So we're gonna watch this as it 699 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,319 Speaker 1: plays out, because it's gonna get uh, gonna be a 700 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 1: story to follow. And if they ever come out publicly, 701 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: I think, I don't know. I think it could be 702 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 1: hard for many people. Now if they're happy what you know, 703 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 1: they're dating, their figuring out, but it could be hard 704 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: for many people. And and it may be hints to 705 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,359 Speaker 1: some of Michelle's emotions during our crossover episode with them, 706 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 1: where she seemed still trying to process what had just happened. Uh. 707 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 1: During my jaw. It's dropped, it's dropped. I can't believe that. 708 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 1: I know, I know, we gotta, we gotta go through 709 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: the quick, but I just need to know, Well, what 710 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 1: was she thinking saying his name directly like that? Like? What? Okay? Bye, 711 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: moving on, moving on. Next story is this? It's one 712 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 1: that has been all across uh, Twitter and social media 713 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 1: this last week. I don't really understand it, so actually 714 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: I'll need you here to explain it to me. Here's 715 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,319 Speaker 1: the headline. Joe, Natasha, and Tia weigh in on the 716 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: Nick Vile and Katie Thurston drama, plus thoughts on Slussgate. 717 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,680 Speaker 1: I I don't know what slus Gate is. I've seen. 718 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 1: I think I understand the Nick Vile and Katie Thurston 719 00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: drama just from what I've been able to pick up on. 720 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,799 Speaker 1: But it's been everywhere. What's going on? Can you explain this? 721 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 1: Because I don't even understand this? Like Nick has a 722 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:51,680 Speaker 1: text that said that Katie was going to pick Blake 723 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:56,600 Speaker 1: all along, so that everything with Greg was an over 724 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 1: exaggeration and she shouldn't have freaked out the way she did. 725 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,799 Speaker 1: She knew she's gonna pick Blake all along. And then 726 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: like Nick revealed this, and then Katie said, like, Nick 727 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 1: is blocked on my phone for a reason. Am I 728 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 1: getting this right? You're getting it right. There is an 729 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,759 Speaker 1: element here where we have written down where Blake Hurtzman's 730 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,360 Speaker 1: then as came out against Nick, saying that he's a 731 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: hypocrite because Nick is sharing text on his podcast and 732 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 1: he was mad at Blake for sharing texts about Kaylin 733 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: back in the day, uh, you know, from Paradise. And 734 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,840 Speaker 1: so then it kind of spiraled. I would say into 735 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 1: uh kind of the team Nick or team Katie and 736 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: Blake uh sides and people started to get upset. And 737 00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: then Natasha, Joe and Tia weighed in on this whole situation, 738 00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 1: and it sounds like they took Nick side, and people 739 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,640 Speaker 1: didn't like that because they said they're company people at 740 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 1: least according to this, And so everybody's up in arms. Uh. 741 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: Some people are on his team Nick, some people are 742 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: on team Katie. But it feels like there is just 743 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: a lot of This is what it feels like me 744 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: because I don't think we'll ever makes sense of this 745 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: whole thing. I don't think we're ever going to get 746 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,719 Speaker 1: to the bottom of where all this is coming from. 747 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 1: What it feels like to me is we're getting a glimpse, 748 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: like a very top level glimpse of a lot of uh, 749 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 1: controversy and probably upset feelings that have happened behind the 750 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,600 Speaker 1: scenes now for the last year, and now we're just 751 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 1: getting like a taste of some stuff coming out. Okay, 752 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 1: so let's not watch the blues Gate. And it is 753 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: sort of sort of related because Katie is saying that 754 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: she has a whole bunch of tea and she's spilling it. 755 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 1: One of those ta hot items is that she has 756 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:47,399 Speaker 1: this photo of Hannah and s louse Um on a 757 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:52,400 Speaker 1: cart down in the resort in Palm Springs in which 758 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,560 Speaker 1: Tasia and Claire season was taken, and it was supposedly 759 00:40:55,600 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 1: taken that same summer. I think the reference here, or 760 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 1: the tea that she's trying to mildly spill, is that 761 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,359 Speaker 1: Hannah Anne may have been in the running to take 762 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:13,240 Speaker 1: over claire spot instead of Tassia, and it was all 763 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 1: like that that the decisions were made like there in 764 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: the moment. I don't know if anybody even knows that 765 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,280 Speaker 1: that was truly Katie's intention, but I'm pretty sure that's 766 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,879 Speaker 1: what sleuth Gate is about well, I will say this 767 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: to make sense of all of this now, to kind 768 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,400 Speaker 1: of summarize it. They have multiple people pick for leads 769 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 1: each season. Now they might have a favorite, but sometimes 770 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,400 Speaker 1: negotiation on pay and all that goes up until the 771 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,360 Speaker 1: very last minute, and so they always have like a 772 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 1: backup option around and there, I mean until the bachelor 773 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 1: Bachelor is announced. Then there are some like plan B 774 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 1: and c's and so maybe Hannah and was like a 775 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,919 Speaker 1: Plan B, and Tassia was Plan A, and they brought 776 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,319 Speaker 1: Hannah Anna and just in case Tasha couldn't make it, 777 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 1: or maybe back then she had COVID and wouldn't be 778 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,000 Speaker 1: able to film, and so they had to have some 779 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,880 Speaker 1: other options available. I don't know, I'm just assuming that 780 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,520 Speaker 1: if she was there, Yeah, she's probably in the running. 781 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 1: Like is that shocking now? Of course? And they're on names. Yeah, 782 00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 1: she was of course in the running. Okay. The Nick 783 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: situation with Katie Thurston sounds like the two of them, 784 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,839 Speaker 1: uh you know, are at odds. And it sounds like 785 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, Katie has blocked Nick and it sounds 786 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 1: like Nick is upset with Katie, and so the two 787 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,000 Speaker 1: of them have came out publicly now and did this 788 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,280 Speaker 1: on social media, and then Clickbait came out and shared 789 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:40,760 Speaker 1: their opinions on the matter. I think most Bachelination feels 790 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 1: like they took Nick's side, uh during this, and so 791 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: some are upset about that. Some are not upset about that. 792 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 1: But here is to come down to it. No matter 793 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: what your opinion is, Katie and Nick have now came 794 00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 1: out publicly on social media, um that that you know, 795 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 1: they're in a thistle or they're they're upset with each other. 796 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,920 Speaker 1: And so that's just something the follow of course, when 797 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 1: we break down Bachelor headlines, that is a headline to 798 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: be followed. Uh. And maybe we'll learn more, maybe we won't, 799 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:09,880 Speaker 1: maybe we'll just go away, who knows. But you know 800 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 1: what should happen? Nick should have Katy on the podcast. 801 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:18,160 Speaker 1: M hm yeah, Well that feels like it just benefits Nick. Well, 802 00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: we'll see how it is unfolds. But I can see 803 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,759 Speaker 1: that Katie probably won't agree to it. But you know, 804 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,040 Speaker 1: that would be an episode that all the Bachelor die 805 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,160 Speaker 1: hards would be listening to. I I agree, That's why 806 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,719 Speaker 1: I said. I think it would just really benefit Nick. Well, 807 00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 1: you spoke about this earlier, Uh, Caitlin Bristow reacts to 808 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,959 Speaker 1: The Bachelor at having two leads, why are we doing 809 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 1: this again? Now? We heard Caitlin Bristow come out a 810 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,239 Speaker 1: few months ago when they announced that we have two 811 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 1: leads and she was upset about it. Then then Caitlin 812 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:51,839 Speaker 1: comes out and says, um, effing hates watching two bachelorettes. 813 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:55,359 Speaker 1: I cannot believe they are doing this. Uh. So she 814 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 1: is publicly saying that she is very upset. The former 815 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,400 Speaker 1: bachelorrette and farmer host of the Bachelor is now publicly 816 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:07,240 Speaker 1: saying she is upset once again while the season is airing. Okay, 817 00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 1: so she's saying that she's watching and she's like, why 818 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,400 Speaker 1: are we doing this again? Um? But she's remaining trying 819 00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,839 Speaker 1: to remain optimistic. She thought that they both observe their 820 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,959 Speaker 1: own season. I don't think we can do that every time. 821 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,719 Speaker 1: You know, we got that with Michelle and Katie. We 822 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,239 Speaker 1: can't do that every time. Um. She said. I do 823 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,879 Speaker 1: love that they have a solid friendship that can lean 824 00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 1: on each other and go through this together, but they're 825 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 1: not setting them up for success by um saying you're 826 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,520 Speaker 1: all dating the same guys. And she also said I 827 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 1: am hoping there's of course no drama, but there's gonna 828 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 1: be drama, and I just hope it works out for 829 00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 1: both them in the end. And then so that was 830 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,239 Speaker 1: her watching last week, and then this week she's less optimistic. 831 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:48,920 Speaker 1: I'd say she knows. I fucking hate this. Am I 832 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 1: being dramatic? I can't believe they're doing this to these 833 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 1: women and to these men. It really feels like these 834 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: guys are just having friendly small talk. Yeah. That that 835 00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:01,880 Speaker 1: that's what she said. She said it on she tweeted 836 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 1: it last night. Yeah, she's been tweeting about it. Uh, 837 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,600 Speaker 1: speaking of last night, the ratings are in here is 838 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: uh the article I'm reading, according the Programming Insider says this, 839 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 1: even as the Deluded, the Bacherette is enough to top 840 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,319 Speaker 1: the evening in adults eighteen to forty nine, it's very 841 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 1: important demo for the show, with a point six rating UM, 842 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,240 Speaker 1: but only managed to attract two point eight million viewers, 843 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 1: which is about what it had last week. This two 844 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:34,360 Speaker 1: point eight million viewers trailed cbs is repeat lineup, which 845 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:38,879 Speaker 1: is not good. Cbs is repeats had more viewership than 846 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: The Bachelorette. CBS had three point zero four million viewers 847 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,840 Speaker 1: um and deteriorating show that I love, but I know 848 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: it's not gonna be around much longer. On NBC called 849 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,720 Speaker 1: American Ninja Warrior, which aired had two point five million viewers. 850 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:59,239 Speaker 1: So in terms of uh, the Whole she Bang, the 851 00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,399 Speaker 1: Bacherette Place second or ABC Play Second with two point 852 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 1: eight million CBS was in first. It's a big deal 853 00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,360 Speaker 1: to see how this plays out now. I believe we 854 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: three four, we'll get better ratings. We hope, um, but 855 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 1: two point eight million viewers is still not a ton. 856 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,040 Speaker 1: As we mentioned last week, that's still down from last 857 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: season's viewership. So there you go, take it for what 858 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 1: you well. Hey, Ashley Big Podcast, We're have an episode 859 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 1: with cam A y'alla coming up about his surgery, recent 860 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 1: surgery where he got his leg amputated due to his 861 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 1: struggle with lymphidema. That's gonna be one to listen to. 862 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, you learn a lot here a lot 863 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 1: and uh hear about where he's at in life. It's 864 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,280 Speaker 1: it's definitely worth tune in. But until next time. 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