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Speaker 1: Caitlyn, you wrote that your mom sent you a text

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Speaker 1: that was twisted, and now it's just I have.

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Speaker 2: To know, Okay, So I I want to know. So

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Speaker 2: we only know our own experience, right Like, so I

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Speaker 2: don't know if this is normal or not, and I

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Speaker 2: want to know if my mom is. And I love

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Speaker 2: my mom, but she's a little bit of a control freak,

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Speaker 2: a little bit like I'm the ruler of this household.

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Speaker 2: No one will say nothing doesn't matter our ages. Now,

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Speaker 2: I sometimes worry that, like, because my sister's so much

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Speaker 2: younger that I like get grouped in with her and

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Speaker 2: she still thinks that I'm you know that age.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: So anyways, so I'm redoing my bedroom because I just

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Speaker 2: like need, I need a zen sanctuary.

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Speaker 3: And so I'm just like redoing something in.

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Speaker 4: Your home, not like your childhood bedroom.

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Speaker 3: Nope, in my own home yet yep, which I pay

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Speaker 3: the rent for.

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Speaker 4: And I'm just saying state and city. I just just

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Speaker 4: to be clear.

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Speaker 3: Different state in city for sure.

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Speaker 2: And my mom and I have similar schedules to where

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Speaker 2: like we talk all day and then sometimes it's hard

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Speaker 2: at night to talk more.

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Speaker 3: She's a therapist, so I.

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Speaker 2: Was trying to involve her in this little room renovation

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Speaker 2: because I wanted us just to have something to talk

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Speaker 2: about or whatever. Yeah, So I was texting her, so

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Speaker 2: she sent me a picture of her room with a

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Speaker 2: vibe I like, and I told her, actually, you know

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Speaker 2: I already because she was telling me where to get rugs.

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Speaker 4: Where did you?

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I actually just purchased a burnt yellow rug.

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Speaker 3: I love it. I'll show you.

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, I also want to do

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Speaker 2: and we've talked about this, you know, the double duvet

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Speaker 2: thing where like hotels.

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Speaker 4: Will like double duve it's like huge, y. Yes. Only

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Speaker 4: problem is in the summer it's hot, is it? Yeh?

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Speaker 4: It looks cool, but yeah, it looks pretty.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of is it sam a hot sleeper?

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I was asking her advice on that, like how

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Speaker 2: do I double duvet? And she said, no, period double

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Speaker 2: duvet is one pulled up on top of the bed

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Speaker 2: and then one folded halfway at the end of the bed.

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Speaker 3: That's not true, like people do do double duvets. She said,

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Speaker 3: I would not do a double duvet. I would just

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Speaker 3: do a quilt if of a blanket halfway.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, on your ideas through me before you buy and

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Speaker 2: what the hell is burnt yellow? So and throughout this

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Speaker 2: process it's been very much like why han't you asked

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Speaker 2: me or like a little bit of permission.

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Speaker 1: Well, in fairness, you did involve her in the process,

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Speaker 1: so it's like I feel like you kind of gave

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Speaker 1: her the license to give her opinion. She doesn't. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to do what she says. But like I

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Speaker 1: noticed this too with my mom, Like I'll include her

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Speaker 1: and stuff because like I don't have a woman in

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Speaker 1: my life, you know, so like aside from the women

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Speaker 1: in this room, all of you, but like all run

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Speaker 1: stuff because she fancies herself. She you know, has an

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Speaker 1: eye for design. It's her taste. It's good taste, but

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Speaker 1: it's her taste, it's not my taste. But I'll include

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Speaker 1: her because I feel like if I don't, then she'll

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Speaker 1: get her feelings hurt if I'm not.

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Speaker 4: You know, hey, what are you thinking about the rouch?

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Speaker 1: But then I were don right, you were very upset

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Speaker 1: that I purchased a couch without talking to you. She

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Speaker 1: would have been devastated if I had purchased a couch

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Speaker 1: without consulting her, right, So you can relate.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh oh yeah, Helena, we just went through this

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Speaker 5: all process with my bridal proposal boxes.

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Speaker 4: I put in a video up.

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Speaker 5: Literally, she's in the video like, you know, if you're

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Speaker 5: going to do something, then you need to tell me

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Speaker 5: and I'll make sure it's done, right.

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, yes me girl.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, so you open the door, you know for

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Speaker 4: the opinions. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: It was more like which color do you like? Or hey,

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Speaker 2: where do you think I should get a rug from?

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Speaker 2: Not like I have to run. I'm paying for this, but.

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Speaker 3: I'm paying to this. Okay, so this is normal or.

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Speaker 1: Well I don't know that it's normal, but I can

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Speaker 1: relate to it because of that personality type.

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Speaker 4: And it's lovely and I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: But like, yeah, oh no, I've done Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: you bought that, like without talking to me.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, like last week she asked to call

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Speaker 2: my guy no so that she could handle like negotiating

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Speaker 2: my medical bill. I was like, Mom, chilly, sure he

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Speaker 2: wants to like call sometimes in my apartment building.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, Mom, I'm an adult, Like that would look

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Speaker 3: crazy if you did that.

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Speaker 1: So I just sometimes I wish somebody else would handle

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Speaker 1: my adult responsibilities.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, but then it comes with like, you know,

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Speaker 2: you can't redecorate your room with that.

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Speaker 4: Kid, And that's exactly it. That's exactly it.

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Speaker 1: So like if I think, if you're going to include

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Speaker 1: your parents and stuff at a certain age, then you

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Speaker 1: gotta be willing to accept the feedback or you just

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Speaker 1: don't ask them. But it can be a losing proposition

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Speaker 1: either way, because either you ask and then you get

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Speaker 1: the feedback that you don't necessarily want, or you don't

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Speaker 1: ask and then it's people are upset because they weren't

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Speaker 1: included in the process.

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Speaker 2: I just don't understand how my bedroom affects her in

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Speaker 2: any way. When she's in Michigan and she is acting

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Speaker 2: like I have gone against her.

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Speaker 5: I think the burnt yellow really did it, Like you

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Speaker 5: really messed up with that.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't even know what burn yellow is.

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Speaker 4: What I want to talk to you about, Bernie yellow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just yellow. That's a little darker.

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Speaker 2: I see it before you voted for it, or no,

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Speaker 2: maybe Keky wasn't here, Paulina voted for as when you

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Speaker 2: out of time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was sitting right here. You didn't ask me

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Speaker 4: return it more Fred Show Next