WEBVTT - Why Golf?

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<v Speaker 1>I miss a green, for example, I'm already upset.

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<v Speaker 2>When I find my ball in the bunker, I'm really upset.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I find my ball in a brid egg.

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<v Speaker 3>Friday Egg, the dreaded Frida Egg, fridagg bride Egg Egg

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<v Speaker 3>bridegg bride Egg Lie, I'm about ready to run off

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<v Speaker 3>the golf course.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Frida Egg Podcast. I'm Garrett Morrison, and

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<v Speaker 1>today we're talking about the hidden reasons that golf is

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<v Speaker 1>so appealing. My guest is Bob Cullen, who tackled this

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<v Speaker 1>very question in a book called Why Golf. This is

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite golf books. It touches on evolutionary psychology, philosophy, design,

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<v Speaker 1>and many other subjects, and its basic purpose is to

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<v Speaker 1>explain why certain people not only play golf but become

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely obsessed with it. Bob's book Why Golf came out

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<v Speaker 1>in two thousand, so there was no particular occasion for

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<v Speaker 1>us to talk about it other than the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to. So hope you enjoyed the conversation. But

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So, Bob, when we were talking about you

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<v Speaker 1>coming on the podcast a while back, you responded, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to come on. I'd love to talk about my

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<v Speaker 1>book Why Golf, But I do have one request, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is that we discuss the concept of the groundy.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I've been curious for months now. I have

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<v Speaker 1>resisted the temptation of asking you straight up, but what

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<v Speaker 1>is a groundie?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the truth is that when you get to be

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<v Speaker 2>my agent golf, you can't look forward to sort of

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<v Speaker 2>Jack Nichol's style pars and birdies the way once in

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<v Speaker 2>a while you might have been able to in the past.

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<v Speaker 2>So and in my case, getting the ball in the

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<v Speaker 2>air sometimes is a little problematic. So a groundie is

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<v Speaker 2>a birdie that you make probably on a par three,

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<v Speaker 2>without the ball ever leaving the ground. And I've had

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<v Speaker 2>one of those. You scull the ball off the tee,

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<v Speaker 2>but it rolls and rolls and rolls, hits the green

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<v Speaker 2>and then you make the putton. It's second in my

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<v Speaker 2>esteem only to the Aqua Sandy, which I managed in

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<v Speaker 2>Florida last winter, which is when you scull the ball

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<v Speaker 2>off the tee through a water hazard and it skips

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<v Speaker 2>off the hazard and then lands in a bunker, and

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<v Speaker 2>you put the bunker shot on the green and make

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<v Speaker 2>the putt, and that is called the aqua Sandy. I can't, ever,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't expect anymore to have a good round in

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<v Speaker 2>the seventies, but I can occasionally pick up a groundie

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<v Speaker 2>or an aqua Sandy or something like that and take

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<v Speaker 2>some pleasure from those.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a friend who once told me when we

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<v Speaker 1>were playing, I'm not out here for a score, because

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<v Speaker 1>if I were, I would just be frustrated. I'm out

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<v Speaker 1>here to make birdies and interesting pars, and whatever happens

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<v Speaker 1>in between is just sort of whatever. I am not

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<v Speaker 1>going to bring myself to care about that. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think a groundee, I mean, it's a birdie technically, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you were to make a par in a

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<v Speaker 1>groundy manner, that would certainly qualify as an interesting par

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<v Speaker 1>as well. Yes, yes, all right, Well, many people might

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<v Speaker 1>recognize your name not only from the book Why Golf,

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<v Speaker 1>but also from the covers of some best sellers by

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Bob Rotella, the famous sports psychologist. You helped him

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<v Speaker 1>write books like Golf Is Not a Game of Perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>How Champions Think, etc. I think people listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast will probably be familiar with this kind of series

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<v Speaker 1>of books that doctor Rotella and you have done in

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<v Speaker 1>the past twenty five thirty years or so. So maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we could start with you telling a story that you

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<v Speaker 1>actually tell in your book Why Golf, about how you

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<v Speaker 1>got linked up with doctor Rotella. How did that happen?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it was one of the fortunate breaks of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a guy named Bob Carney. There is a

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<v Speaker 2>guy named Bob Carney at Golf Digest, and he was

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<v Speaker 2>set up to work with Bob Rotella on the book

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<v Speaker 2>that became Golf Is Not a Game of Perfect, But

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<v Speaker 2>because he got a promotion at Golf Digest, he backed

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<v Speaker 2>away from the project and Rotella was left looking for

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<v Speaker 2>a collaborator. And we share a literary agent, Raf Sagallen,

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<v Speaker 2>and so Rotella said to Raith. I'm looking to write

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<v Speaker 2>a book about psychology for the average golfer, and I

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<v Speaker 2>need a collaborator. And Rafe said, well, I have a

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<v Speaker 2>client who's a very average golfer. And so I happened

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<v Speaker 2>to live in the Washington area and Bob Rotello lives

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<v Speaker 2>in Charlottesville, Virginia, and so I drove down there and

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<v Speaker 2>we chatted and decided it was worth trying to work together,

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<v Speaker 2>and that collaboration produced eight or nine books and put

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<v Speaker 2>my kids through college. It was one of the nicest

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<v Speaker 2>things that's ever happened to me.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some of the most important things that you

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<v Speaker 1>learned from doctor Rotella about the mental approach to golf.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess they could be encapsulated in one phrase, train

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<v Speaker 2>it and trust it. I think before I started to

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<v Speaker 2>work as a ghostwriter for Bob, I was one of

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<v Speaker 2>those players who was constantly thinking about the last tip

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<v Speaker 2>that I read about in a golf magazine and trying

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<v Speaker 2>to use it on the golf course. And his understanding

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<v Speaker 2>of the game includes the fact that your body really

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<v Speaker 2>works better when you allow your self conscious your subconscious

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<v Speaker 2>i'm sorry, your subconscious brain to control your movements, and

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<v Speaker 2>it does so much better than your conscious brain can do.

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<v Speaker 2>For example, if you think about if you're probably too

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<v Speaker 2>young for this, but if you ever learned to drive

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<v Speaker 2>a stick shift. When you first started to learn, you're

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<v Speaker 2>using your conscious brain trying to think about when to

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<v Speaker 2>put in the clutch, when to move the lever, et cetera,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera, and the car lurches and jerks and can

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<v Speaker 2>barely move. And after a while, though, you start to

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<v Speaker 2>learn it in your subconscious brain and you don't even

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<v Speaker 2>think about shifting the car anymore, and you drive very

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<v Speaker 2>smoothly from one point to the next. Well, the golf

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<v Speaker 2>swing is like shifting your car. You ingrain the correct

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<v Speaker 2>movements by training it, and then your best chance to

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<v Speaker 2>play well is by not thinking about it and letting

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<v Speaker 2>your subconscious brain control your swing. And the problem that

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of golfers have and that Rotella helps them with,

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<v Speaker 2>is that they get into a situation in a tournament

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<v Speaker 2>if you're a pro golfer or with a three dollars

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<v Speaker 2>Nassau on the line, if you're an amateur and you

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<v Speaker 2>really want to win, you really want to play well,

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<v Speaker 2>and so you turn on your conscious brain and you

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<v Speaker 2>screw it up. The best advice that Rotella ever gave anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>or me in particular, was, you know, just think about

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<v Speaker 2>where you want the ball to go and swing and

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<v Speaker 2>don't think about how to swing. And if you've done

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<v Speaker 2>your practicing a little. Even if you haven't practiced, you're

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<v Speaker 2>still going to produce a better swing relative to your

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<v Speaker 2>skill level if you just let it go. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>one of the skills that Rotella teaches, and it helped

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<v Speaker 2>my game tremendously, although I have to say I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>the preacher's kid. Rotelo also says, don't get upset about

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<v Speaker 2>a bad shot, just let it go and accept it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not the kind of person that can do

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<v Speaker 2>that very easily. My friends tell me that they call

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<v Speaker 2>something the colin I have anguish and they count how

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<v Speaker 2>many ccas they hear during the course of a Saturday

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<v Speaker 2>round and then tease me about it at lunch. But

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<v Speaker 2>it's some parts of the Rotella teachings come easier to

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<v Speaker 2>me than others.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let me bring up part of Rotella's philosophy, which

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<v Speaker 1>I don't question the validity of that has frustrated me

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<v Speaker 1>in the past, and that is this idea of turning

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<v Speaker 1>on and off the conscious mind, as you put it,

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<v Speaker 1>I find that I don't have much control over what

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<v Speaker 1>my mind does that as much as I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to be in the moment, kind of in that flow

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<v Speaker 1>state where you're not thinking about the specifics of what

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing, You're just looking at the target and making

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<v Speaker 1>it happen. You're trusting your training, you're not being self

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<v Speaker 1>conscious about it. I'd love to get to that state.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure how to get there, because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that I I'm really in control of what my

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<v Speaker 1>brain does. And so I wonder, I mean, this would

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<v Speaker 1>obviously be a good question for doctor Rotella himself, but

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if you, as somebody who kind of learned

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<v Speaker 1>as this stuff as well as rote about it, had ever,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, explored that notion that the brain is really

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<v Speaker 1>hard to control, and some people are better at it

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<v Speaker 1>than others. But I find myself, in particular, very poor

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<v Speaker 1>at that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. I think one thing he would say is that

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<v Speaker 2>you have to practice it, and so with his players,

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't want them working with a swing teacher the

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<v Speaker 2>day of the tournament or just before a tournament. He

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<v Speaker 2>wants their practice sessions just before a competition to be

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<v Speaker 2>in the trusting mode, and therefore he tells them, don't

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<v Speaker 2>think about your swing, just think about the target on yours,

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<v Speaker 2>and think about that more and more as try to

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<v Speaker 2>think that way more and more as the competition approaches.

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<v Speaker 2>If you need to make a swing change, or if

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<v Speaker 2>you need to work on your mechanics, then the time

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<v Speaker 2>to do that is well before competition. Work on the

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<v Speaker 2>mechanics in a kind of controlled way, and then as

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<v Speaker 2>your competition date approaches or your round approaches, more and

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<v Speaker 2>more you have to practice in the trusting mode. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's one thing that kind of helps, But obviously it

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<v Speaker 2>presupposes that you're doing a lot of practicing, which is

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<v Speaker 2>not something everybody gets a chance to do.

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<v Speaker 1>My wife tells me I need to meditate, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's probably right that that is a kind of

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<v Speaker 1>practice of exerting control over your own mind, of saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is the mind is part of my body.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not something that kind of exists. A pardon does

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<v Speaker 1>what it wants. I am in control of it. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's so hard to do, incredibly difficult discipline.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not easy, and that's one reason why a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people have read the books, and they're still not

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<v Speaker 2>winning the US Open. Although some of Rotel is Rotella.

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<v Speaker 2>There's something else I have to tell you about Rotella

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<v Speaker 2>that is not in any of the books, and that

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<v Speaker 2>is his personality. Players respond to him, and he has

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<v Speaker 2>a tremendous knack for figuring out what's going to work,

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<v Speaker 2>what kind of words, what kind of approach is going

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<v Speaker 2>to work with anybody that he trains or works with,

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<v Speaker 2>And that's one of his gifts. And it's not something

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<v Speaker 2>that's easy to reproduce in a book, because when you

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<v Speaker 2>read the book, it's his words. But it's not the

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<v Speaker 2>same as being next to him on the practice range.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, and I've heard people say the same thing about

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<v Speaker 1>the swing coach, butch Harmon, it's not so much about

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<v Speaker 1>the technique, though he has mastery of that. It's about

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<v Speaker 1>the way he communicates and the confidence that he instills

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<v Speaker 1>in the attitude that he encourages. And you know, that

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<v Speaker 1>can't really be written down. It's embodied in the personality

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<v Speaker 1>of the coach, and that is kind of the value

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<v Speaker 1>of the teaching there. But certainly, I mean the books

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<v Speaker 1>have have helped many golfers kind of conceptualize how they

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<v Speaker 1>might be able to improve their mental games. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at least it gives a path.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and some of it is some of it is

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<v Speaker 2>just common sense. There's a chapter in Golf Is Not

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<v Speaker 2>a Game of Perfect that says, if you're not spending

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<v Speaker 2>seventy percent of your practice time on your short game,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not practicing to score better. And when I started

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<v Speaker 2>working with Doc, I didn't ever practice my short game,

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<v Speaker 2>and if I practiced at all, I would take a

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<v Speaker 2>driver out and whale the ball and try to hit

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<v Speaker 2>it further. And under his guidance, I started to practice

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<v Speaker 2>my short game, and sure enough, I dropped eight strokes

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<v Speaker 2>off my handicapped during the year we worked in the book,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know that trend didn't continue, but I got

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<v Speaker 2>better every year we worked together because he was constantly

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<v Speaker 2>reminding me to practice my chipping and putting.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, let's talk a little bit about your

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<v Speaker 1>own book, Why Golf, which came out in the year

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and I love this book, you know, It's

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<v Speaker 1>one that I've been a fan of for years and

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<v Speaker 1>read multiple times and often think about, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>the course of doing my job. And the central question

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<v Speaker 1>of it is embodied in the title, Why is it

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<v Speaker 1>that golf is so appealing? Why golf specifically, why is

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<v Speaker 1>it that this is the game that we become we

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<v Speaker 1>golfers become obsessed with. Some of the explanations that you

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<v Speaker 1>give toward the beginning of the book have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to do with what I think of as evolutionary psychology,

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<v Speaker 1>right where part of the explanation for why we like

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<v Speaker 1>what we like and why we do what we do

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<v Speaker 1>is deep in our genetic coding, right these things that

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<v Speaker 1>are still there inside us, because humans existed for a

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<v Speaker 1>long long time before we all moved into cities and got,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, bureaucratic jobs and did all the modern things

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<v Speaker 1>that we do now. Humans existed for many many more

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<v Speaker 1>centuries before that and developed kind of modes of being

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<v Speaker 1>and desires that had a lot to do with hunter

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<v Speaker 1>gatherer society and what life was like in that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of environment and that kind of social structure. And evolutionary

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<v Speaker 1>psychology gets at some of those tendencies and humans that

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<v Speaker 1>were developed way way back and tries to explain some

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<v Speaker 1>of our behavior in the present day by referring back

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<v Speaker 1>to those early instances of genetic coding and motivation and humans.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if I've explained that very well. That's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what evolutionary psychology does. But you drew on

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<v Speaker 1>this a lot in explaining why golf was so appealing,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe you could take me through that a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some of the things that you found.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one of the first things in why golf is

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<v Speaker 2>so appealing is the place where you play. I know

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<v Speaker 2>that since I've been a small child, I've always thought

0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:33.960
<v Speaker 2>golf courses were great places to be. Just the look

0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:36.720
<v Speaker 2>of the golf course appeals to me. Even if it's

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<v Speaker 2>a scruffy municipal golf course like Rock Creek Park in Washington,

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<v Speaker 2>it still seems to strike a chord within me, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think within most golfers. And I had some conversations

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<v Speaker 2>with a friend named Bob Wright, who's a writer of

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<v Speaker 2>some very serious and important books who loves to play golf,

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<v Speaker 2>and he introduced me to a book called the biophilia

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<v Speaker 2>Hypothesis I believe, which suggests that there are deep within

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<v Speaker 2>our hunter gatherer reptilian brains associations with places of prospect

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<v Speaker 2>versus places of refuge. Places of prospect are like the

0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:24.880
<v Speaker 2>fairways and the greens on a golf course, and places

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<v Speaker 2>of refuge are like the woods and that water hazards

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<v Speaker 2>and the desire to be in a place of prospect

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<v Speaker 2>is something that's existed within human beings for thousands and

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<v Speaker 2>thousands of years, and there are some fundamental instinctive pleasures

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<v Speaker 2>or desires. There's a chapter in Why Golf called the

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<v Speaker 2>Blind Baby Smile or Why the Blame Blind Baby Smiled,

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<v Speaker 2>And one of the psychologists that I cited was in

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<v Speaker 2>trusted in why it was that a blind baby who

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<v Speaker 2>could never see a smile could learn to smile. And

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<v Speaker 2>it turns out that if the baby can be set

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<v Speaker 2>up in a situation whereby kicking at things or striking things,

0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:22.119
<v Speaker 2>it can move something in the environment, it smiles. The

0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:25.720
<v Speaker 2>baby smiles even if it's never seen a smile. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's an indication that the basic act of playing golf,

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<v Speaker 2>the movement of the ball by striking it with a club,

0:18:34.480 --> 0:18:38.159
<v Speaker 2>strike some cord within us that probably had to do

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<v Speaker 2>with the genetic advantage of being able to manipulate your environment.

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<v Speaker 2>So and that's probably also the case with so many

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<v Speaker 2>other sports. I mean, golf is not the only sport

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<v Speaker 2>that you move a ball around in a playing area.

0:18:56.200 --> 0:19:02.040
<v Speaker 2>Almost all sports have that involved with them, so but

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<v Speaker 2>that's one of the reasons why. Whether it be hitting

0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:08.679
<v Speaker 2>a drive down the middle of the fairway or sinking

0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:13.600
<v Speaker 2>a three point shot, or you know, hitting a hitting

0:19:13.600 --> 0:19:17.359
<v Speaker 2>a baseball really solidly and seeing it go into the outfield,

0:19:18.040 --> 0:19:22.200
<v Speaker 2>those are instinctively satisfying feelings for a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's it's wired into our wired into us. Whether

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<v Speaker 2>it's in the genes or in some other fashion. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. I'm not a scientist, so it's hard for

0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:38.200
<v Speaker 2>me to make a definitive statement, but it's clear that

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<v Speaker 2>there are some elements of golf, both in terms of

0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:43.639
<v Speaker 2>the setting and in terms of the movement of the

0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:48.280
<v Speaker 2>ball that are ringing a bell deep within our being.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I want to go back to golf courses as

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<v Speaker 1>places for a second before moving on to you know,

0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:36.160
<v Speaker 1>the appeal of playing the game itself, hitting the ball,

0:21:36.240 --> 0:21:39.680
<v Speaker 1>et cetera. There are lots of interesting things in both

0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:44.240
<v Speaker 1>of those pursuits, and there are evolutionary explanations, I suppose

0:21:44.400 --> 0:21:50.399
<v Speaker 1>for both kinds of appeal in golf, but prospect and refuge. So,

0:21:50.600 --> 0:21:53.760
<v Speaker 1>prospect environments are places where you can see a lot

0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:57.320
<v Speaker 1>basically right, where you can can see over an expanse

0:21:57.520 --> 0:22:00.160
<v Speaker 1>of land. You know, think of the savannah that it's

0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:04.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of a prospect environment, whereas refuge environments are more

0:22:04.920 --> 0:22:08.760
<v Speaker 1>like a jungle or a forest where you can be

0:22:08.920 --> 0:22:12.240
<v Speaker 1>sort of hidden away. And you know, both of those

0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:17.439
<v Speaker 1>environments can be appealing to humans for different reasons, right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>what are the reasons that a refuge environment might be

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<v Speaker 1>appealing and what are the reasons that a prospect environment

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<v Speaker 1>might be appealing the sort.

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<v Speaker 2>Of hunter gatherer paradigm. The hunters would be the ones

0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:33.760
<v Speaker 2>that would go out into the places of prospect so

0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:39.000
<v Speaker 2>they could hunt game or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you wouldn't want to hunt game in a forest, right,

0:22:42.680 --> 0:22:46.159
<v Speaker 1>that's not the ideal place to be hunting, because you know,

0:22:46.200 --> 0:22:48.199
<v Speaker 1>you can't see very far. You don't really have an

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<v Speaker 1>advantage there.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Whereas the gatherers would tend to be people who

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to be protected from or wanted to protect themselves

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<v Speaker 2>from wild animals, and they would spend their time in

0:23:01.119 --> 0:23:04.680
<v Speaker 2>a forest or some kind of environment where they had

0:23:04.680 --> 0:23:09.160
<v Speaker 2>some natural shelter or natural protection against predators, and where

0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:17.760
<v Speaker 2>they could find food sources that were available on the

0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:21.119
<v Speaker 2>forest floor, hanging from the branches or something like that.

0:23:21.760 --> 0:23:26.960
<v Speaker 2>So you're the obvious over simplistic explanation is that golfers

0:23:27.000 --> 0:23:32.000
<v Speaker 2>are descended from hunters and gatherers, and non golfers are

0:23:32.000 --> 0:23:35.639
<v Speaker 2>descended from gatherers, and that the reason the golf course

0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:40.000
<v Speaker 2>is so appealing to some people but not all, is

0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:43.439
<v Speaker 2>that some people have more of that hunter gene and

0:23:43.960 --> 0:23:46.160
<v Speaker 2>some people have more of that gatherer gene.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I would say that a lot of golf courses

0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:54.280
<v Speaker 1>are there's many varieties of golf courses, right. Some golf

0:23:54.359 --> 0:23:58.399
<v Speaker 1>courses have a lot more prospect environments than others. But

0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:02.520
<v Speaker 1>the golf course that are at least most appealing to

0:24:02.640 --> 0:24:07.280
<v Speaker 1>me are ones where there are both kind of prospect

0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:12.640
<v Speaker 1>and refuge environments where there's an alternation between places where

0:24:12.680 --> 0:24:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you can see an expanse and places where you're more enclosed,

0:24:18.560 --> 0:24:20.960
<v Speaker 1>and the golf course kind of moves in and out

0:24:21.240 --> 0:24:25.159
<v Speaker 1>between those, and so it's a kind of combination or

0:24:25.280 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 1>the best of both worlds, you could even say, where

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you get these moments where you feel kind of tucked

0:24:30.520 --> 0:24:35.080
<v Speaker 1>away and protected or hidden, and you get moments where

0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:39.680
<v Speaker 1>you're more behaving in a hunter manner and looking over

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:42.639
<v Speaker 1>a broad environment and seeing what's next. Those are the

0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:45.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of more expansive moments of the golf round and

0:24:45.680 --> 0:24:48.560
<v Speaker 1>then the kind of release moments. And then when you're

0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>in those, you know, kind of more sheltered environments, you

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:56.400
<v Speaker 1>get a different feeling. And so I think a lot

0:24:56.400 --> 0:24:58.400
<v Speaker 1>of golf courses sort of deliver both.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe right. I think that for example, when I look

0:25:03.080 --> 0:25:08.720
<v Speaker 2>at Oakmont today or Congressional, where the USDA has persuaded

0:25:08.720 --> 0:25:12.480
<v Speaker 2>those clubs to remove thousands and thousands of trees, they're

0:25:12.520 --> 0:25:15.320
<v Speaker 2>not as appealing to me as they were when I

0:25:15.359 --> 0:25:18.439
<v Speaker 2>first saw them, and they had a lot more trees

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 2>and tree lined fairways. So yeah, the association with the

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:29.679
<v Speaker 2>places of refuge is probably one of the things that

0:25:29.760 --> 0:25:32.840
<v Speaker 2>makes the most appealing golf courses as appealing as they are.

0:25:34.000 --> 0:25:37.199
<v Speaker 2>Although obviously you don't want to spend a lot of

0:25:37.200 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 2>time in your place of refuge if you're playing around

0:25:39.520 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 2>the golf.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. Yeah, you don't want to be in the

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:44.720
<v Speaker 1>swamp right.

0:25:44.640 --> 0:25:48.639
<v Speaker 2>Right, or in the trees or where where some of

0:25:48.720 --> 0:25:52.320
<v Speaker 2>us spend way too much time instead of out on

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:54.160
<v Speaker 2>that nice sun drenched fairway.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know. Regarding tree removal, I would say that

0:25:58.160 --> 0:26:01.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot of golf courses maybe went too far in

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:05.199
<v Speaker 1>the direction of making the entire golf course refuge right

0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:08.879
<v Speaker 1>where you're surrounded by trees the entire time. And I

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:12.280
<v Speaker 1>think that the most successful tree removal projects have often

0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:16.800
<v Speaker 1>been ones where enough trees were removed so that places

0:26:16.800 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 1>of prospect were opened up, and there were moments when

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:21.520
<v Speaker 1>you can kind of see across the golf course and

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 1>get that feeling, you know, that good feeling of being

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:30.160
<v Speaker 1>in command of your environment. But then there are also

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>moments where there are some trees, there are enough trees

0:26:33.400 --> 0:26:36.760
<v Speaker 1>left so that you can get the other feeling or

0:26:36.800 --> 0:26:40.639
<v Speaker 1>the other side of it, and so on many golf courses.

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:44.959
<v Speaker 1>I like that tree removal has created the opportunity for

0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 1>both of those to be experienced. Now, you may say, Okay, Oakmont,

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:51.920
<v Speaker 1>pretty much all of the trees are gone on most

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:54.560
<v Speaker 1>parts of the golf course, and there's a particular argument

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:58.680
<v Speaker 1>for that. But I guess I'm glad that certain golf

0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:01.400
<v Speaker 1>courses have moved back to a place where there are

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:08.000
<v Speaker 1>more kind of kind of prospects on the scene. I suppose. Now,

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:11.000
<v Speaker 1>another element of this that was interesting in your book

0:27:11.320 --> 0:27:15.840
<v Speaker 1>is the idea of clipped grasslands right where you know,

0:27:16.000 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 1>part of the reason that golf courses are appealing is

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:22.800
<v Speaker 1>that the grasses is kind of short, and so you know,

0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:26.240
<v Speaker 1>what about that, what's the what's what's the feeling that

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 1>we get from that.

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:32.680
<v Speaker 2>I think that that to a hunter in prehistoric times,

0:27:32.960 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 2>the the site of clip grass suggested there was prey

0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:44.840
<v Speaker 2>ahead and that was very pleasant to see and resonated

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:48.400
<v Speaker 2>nicely with them, so that it meant that the kind

0:27:48.400 --> 0:27:52.120
<v Speaker 2>of animals that graze and like sheep or who were

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:56.359
<v Speaker 2>in the first golf courses or in other places other

0:27:56.440 --> 0:28:00.080
<v Speaker 2>kinds of grazing animals were near hand and there for

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 2>the hunting was going to be good. That's my feeling

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 2>about it. But it's obviously not something you could ever

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:08.760
<v Speaker 2>probably prove.

0:28:09.720 --> 0:28:12.439
<v Speaker 1>Right. Well, that's the thing about some of these ideas

0:28:12.440 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>of evolutionary psychology is that it is kind of hard

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:18.760
<v Speaker 1>to prove. There's really no way to prove aside from,

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, making a convincing argument about it. But yeah,

0:28:22.000 --> 0:28:25.159
<v Speaker 1>I find this idea that golf courses kind of replicate

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 1>a landscape that humans are coded to react well to.

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:31.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, wherever you want to take that argument, whatever

0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:35.200
<v Speaker 1>specifics of golf courses you want to point out, that

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 1>does seem right to me that golf courses just give

0:28:38.600 --> 0:28:41.880
<v Speaker 1>you this feeling of, ah, this is a good place

0:28:41.920 --> 0:28:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to be. And do you still have that feeling today

0:28:44.560 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 1>when you walk on a golf course.

0:28:47.040 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes, although I have to say that compared to twenty

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:52.920
<v Speaker 2>odd years ago, if I were writing the book today,

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 2>I would give more emphasis to the fact that one

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:02.080
<v Speaker 2>of the appealing things about golf is that it's a

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:07.320
<v Speaker 2>game where you can measure your improvement. You know, when

0:29:07.360 --> 0:29:11.200
<v Speaker 2>I wrote this book, I was working my handicap down

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 2>from twenty one where it was when I started working

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 2>with Barbrook Dell to five, which is as low as

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 2>I ever got. And now that my handicap is going

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 2>in the opposite direction because of a variety of things,

0:29:26.840 --> 0:29:31.560
<v Speaker 2>mostly age. I really find that I miss the notion

0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 2>of improvement and the striving to get that handicap a

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:44.800
<v Speaker 2>stroke lower and regularly work on your game. As David

0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:47.280
<v Speaker 2>Oakley observed, you can't when you get to the point

0:29:47.280 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 2>in life where you have all the time you need

0:29:49.320 --> 0:29:51.160
<v Speaker 2>to work on your game. Your body won't let you

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:54.800
<v Speaker 2>there are and your body won't let you hit the

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:59.120
<v Speaker 2>ball that far anymore. I remember once about I don't

0:29:59.160 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 2>know twenty years ago, being at a clinic with Jack Nicholas,

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 2>and he was demonstrating how he hits the ball. He says, well,

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 2>that's the way I do it, but well didn't go

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 2>anywhere anymore. Of course, he was only hitting it two sixty. Wow.

0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 2>I'd love to be able to make the ball not

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 2>go anywhere the way Jack does. But you know, age

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 2>robs us all of the ability to hit the ball

0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:25.200
<v Speaker 2>as far as we once could, hit it as high

0:30:25.240 --> 0:30:30.160
<v Speaker 2>as we once could, and so forth. And it's tough

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 2>to want to practice enough on the things that you

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:35.840
<v Speaker 2>can still do as you get older, Like you're chipping

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 2>and you're pitching, and you're putting to compensate for the

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:46.600
<v Speaker 2>loss of distance and clubhead speed. So anyway, so if

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:50.280
<v Speaker 2>you don't and I don't, I'm afraid want to spend

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 2>a lot of time practicing your short game to compensate

0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:58.120
<v Speaker 2>for your reduced clubhead speed and so on, you find

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 2>your handicap going in the wrong direction, and that takes

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:04.000
<v Speaker 2>a lot of pleasure away from the game. I have

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 2>to say, in retrospect, I would have said, you know

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:14.000
<v Speaker 2>that the notion of improving, of reaching a goal and

0:31:14.040 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 2>then climbing to another goal is one of the most

0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:19.880
<v Speaker 2>appealing aspects of golf. It's not I don't think a

0:31:19.920 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 2>coincidence that golf, probably of all sports that I can imagine,

0:31:25.560 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 2>has the best handicap system and the most scientific way

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 2>of determining you know exactly where your game is in

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 2>terms of your scoring and that handicap number. You know,

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 2>I just got my handicap the other day from the

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:45.480
<v Speaker 2>Maryland State Golf Association, So every two weeks I get

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:51.160
<v Speaker 2>an update, and it's it can be both a great

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:55.640
<v Speaker 2>thing or a saddening thing. If you see it going down,

0:31:56.840 --> 0:31:59.480
<v Speaker 2>that really is encouraging, and if you see it going up,

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 2>that kind of takes a little of the spice out

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 2>of the game.

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:05.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid, well, let me defend your book here for

0:32:05.960 --> 0:32:08.400
<v Speaker 1>a moment, because I do think that you bring this

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 1>idea through in the book. You know, we've mainly been

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:15.840
<v Speaker 1>talking about your ideas about the appeal of golf courses

0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:20.200
<v Speaker 1>as environments or as habitats. But there's a big set

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 1>of ideas in this book about why the act of

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:27.400
<v Speaker 1>playing golf is satisfying. And one of those ideas is

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:30.760
<v Speaker 1>that it offers a realm for improvement, which is what

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:34.880
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about right now. And you know, here's here.

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:37.480
<v Speaker 1>There are a number of great passages to refer to here.

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>One quote that jumped out to me this time reading

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 1>your book is that golf is a great sport for

0:32:44.160 --> 0:32:47.400
<v Speaker 1>the striver, right, And if I could just read a

0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:50.120
<v Speaker 1>quick passage to maybe get your your thoughts going about this,

0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:53.520
<v Speaker 1>you say that that people are happiest when they are

0:32:53.560 --> 0:32:56.960
<v Speaker 1>working toward a goal. In our distant ancestors, this trait

0:32:57.040 --> 0:33:01.320
<v Speaker 1>helped assure survival in our time, serve Bible is rarely

0:33:01.400 --> 0:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>an issue, and this is at least for people who

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:07.640
<v Speaker 1>have the opportunity to play golf. Yet the striving trait

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 1>lives on within us seeking an outlet. This is why

0:33:10.880 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 1>people try to circumnavigate the globe in hot air balloons.

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:16.640
<v Speaker 1>This is why we have tourists trekking to the top

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 1>of Mount Everest. It is why each autumn the marathons

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:23.560
<v Speaker 1>in New York and Washington are oversubscribed. People want to strive.

0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:28.240
<v Speaker 1>Striving makes them happy. Therefore golf makes them happy. And

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 1>in fact, this is also one big reason why this

0:33:31.600 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>was your story as well, why people may let golf

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:38.920
<v Speaker 1>go in their twenties and pick it back up in

0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:43.000
<v Speaker 1>their thirties or forties. Because in our twenties, a lot

0:33:43.040 --> 0:33:47.960
<v Speaker 1>of us are striving in many realms of our professional

0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and personal lives. Many of us are building our careers,

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:56.440
<v Speaker 1>looking for promotions. In our twenties, we're looking often many

0:33:56.480 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>of us are looking for a mate. In our twenties,

0:33:59.320 --> 0:34:03.200
<v Speaker 1>we're looking to start families. And those are both arenas

0:34:03.200 --> 0:34:06.880
<v Speaker 1>in which people really have to strive in order to succeed.

0:34:07.000 --> 0:34:11.200
<v Speaker 1>But by the time many people are in their thirties, forties, fifties,

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:14.720
<v Speaker 1>they've kind of settled into a life, right, They've maybe

0:34:14.719 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 1>settled into a family life, They've maybe settled into a

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:22.200
<v Speaker 1>professional life, and the striving is not as much part

0:34:22.280 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 1>of what they're doing. And so that's why people sometimes

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:29.400
<v Speaker 1>take up golf because it offers a place to strive.

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:33.480
<v Speaker 1>And so you still think that's true, But for you,

0:34:33.960 --> 0:34:37.280
<v Speaker 1>that part of the game has become less, right.

0:34:38.719 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I guess I'm afflicted. Bob Rotello would tell me,

0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:48.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm defeating myself. I'm afflicted with the sense that even

0:34:48.440 --> 0:34:54.440
<v Speaker 2>if I started again devoting a lot of time to practice,

0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 2>I would not be able to do any better and

0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:03.160
<v Speaker 2>probably not do as well as I could twenty years ago.

0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:08.240
<v Speaker 2>So I as a result, I really rely on golf

0:35:08.280 --> 0:35:11.480
<v Speaker 2>to give me a companionship and exercise. You know, my

0:35:11.560 --> 0:35:14.800
<v Speaker 2>buddies that I play with are very important in my life,

0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:18.360
<v Speaker 2>and the exercise I get playing golf is important to me.

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:23.319
<v Speaker 2>And just the sheer pleasure of hitting the ball well

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:26.640
<v Speaker 2>occasional or even making a groundie or an aqua sandy

0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:32.480
<v Speaker 2>is important to me. But I can't invest myself as

0:35:32.560 --> 0:35:35.880
<v Speaker 2>much as I did in seeing you know, can I

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:38.279
<v Speaker 2>get to be a single digit? Can I get to

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:42.120
<v Speaker 2>be less enough six? And you know, one of the

0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:46.280
<v Speaker 2>things you find out, unfortunately, is that it takes twice

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:48.600
<v Speaker 2>as much work to get from six to five as

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 2>it did to get from twenty to ten. And you know,

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:56.879
<v Speaker 2>the practicing that I had to do, I did it

0:35:56.920 --> 0:36:00.719
<v Speaker 2>in part because when I was writing about golf, I

0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:04.319
<v Speaker 2>felt like it was an occupational necessity.

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:05.360
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:36:06.360 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Bob Rotella, in fact, and I both got a little invested.

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:11.640
<v Speaker 2>In the back flap of the books that we did

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:16.200
<v Speaker 2>there'd be a little paragraph about me. And it started

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:19.840
<v Speaker 2>out in the first book saying, in his time working

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:23.520
<v Speaker 2>with Bob Rotella, Bob Collen's handicap has gone from twenty

0:36:23.560 --> 0:36:27.239
<v Speaker 2>one to thirteen. And you know, the next book it

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:31.239
<v Speaker 2>was twenty one to eleven. And you know when I

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:33.680
<v Speaker 2>became a single digit with about the third or fourth

0:36:33.680 --> 0:36:40.640
<v Speaker 2>book that Rotella liked that and I liked it. But

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:45.279
<v Speaker 2>I got down to five and I realized that, you know,

0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:48.880
<v Speaker 2>to get anywhere from below five, I would have to

0:36:48.920 --> 0:36:52.680
<v Speaker 2>start spending hours a day at the golf course trying

0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:57.719
<v Speaker 2>to improve marginally on my putting or marginally. And I

0:36:57.760 --> 0:37:00.920
<v Speaker 2>don't like practicing putting. I'll be perfec be honest with you.

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 2>In one of the Rotel books we had that we

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:09.400
<v Speaker 2>wrote about putting, I had some great putting drills from

0:37:09.480 --> 0:37:14.799
<v Speaker 2>Dottie Pepper. I interviewed her and she gave me a

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:18.839
<v Speaker 2>few drills that we incorporated into that book. And those

0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:23.719
<v Speaker 2>drills are great. You have to, for example, draw a

0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:27.399
<v Speaker 2>straight line on the putting green, I find a straight putt,

0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:29.600
<v Speaker 2>in other words, and then put three balls down a

0:37:29.680 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 2>three feet, hit them in three in a row, and

0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 2>then move it back to five feet, hit them in

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:37.000
<v Speaker 2>three in a row, move it back to seven feet,

0:37:37.040 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 2>hit them in three in a row. And if you

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:43.560
<v Speaker 2>can do that, your practice is done. It adds pressure

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:47.840
<v Speaker 2>to your practice, it grooves your stroke. It's a tremendous drill,

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:50.880
<v Speaker 2>but it's boy, it's tough on your back.

0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:56.480
<v Speaker 6>And so if somebody invites me to play in a

0:37:56.560 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 6>member guest and I don't want to embarrass myself, I

0:38:00.360 --> 0:38:04.440
<v Speaker 6>will practice putting for a week or so and it

0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:05.359
<v Speaker 6>works every time.

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:10.600
<v Speaker 2>The drill improves my game by several strokes. But it's

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:14.400
<v Speaker 2>just not fun. And as I get older, I find

0:38:14.640 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm really only in it for the fun anymore. And

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:22.280
<v Speaker 2>so you know, give me a nice group of guys,

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:25.439
<v Speaker 2>a nice day, and a three dollars Nassau and that's

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 2>about as happy as I'm going to get from golf anymore.

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to get there. I'm not going to

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:35.319
<v Speaker 2>get happy because I'm striving to lower my handicap from

0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:39.920
<v Speaker 2>seven to six. Well, that was great, And it's true

0:38:40.000 --> 0:38:44.120
<v Speaker 2>that in any endeavor, people are who understand their own

0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 2>psychology will tell you that the journey is a much

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:52.680
<v Speaker 2>greater source of joy than the destination. And you know,

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:57.440
<v Speaker 2>so feeling like you're working and making progress is a

0:38:57.480 --> 0:39:01.360
<v Speaker 2>great part of golf, but it's part of golf I've given.

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Up, and so then the pleasure that you get out

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:07.840
<v Speaker 1>of golf now is primarily social.

0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:10.840
<v Speaker 2>One of my proudest achievements is I taught my wife

0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:14.160
<v Speaker 2>to play golf. I didn't teach her. She had learned

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:17.359
<v Speaker 2>a little bit as a kid, but she started picked

0:39:17.360 --> 0:39:19.880
<v Speaker 2>it up again when she was in her fifties, and

0:39:19.920 --> 0:39:24.360
<v Speaker 2>now she wants to go on golf vacations all the time.

0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:28.759
<v Speaker 2>You know, when we go away this winter, we're going

0:39:28.800 --> 0:39:30.560
<v Speaker 2>to a place where there's a golf course, and she's

0:39:30.600 --> 0:39:34.960
<v Speaker 2>going to want to play every day if possible. And so,

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 2>you know, as golf is giving us something we both

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 2>enjoy doing together in our golden years, and it's true

0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:51.640
<v Speaker 2>that being with friends, you know, the golf trips you

0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:57.320
<v Speaker 2>take with your buddies, those things, the camaraderie, the weather,

0:39:57.480 --> 0:40:01.920
<v Speaker 2>that all those things are extremely important and golf is

0:40:01.920 --> 0:40:04.560
<v Speaker 2>a way of giving them to yourself.

0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Are there moments now, even as you feel your skills

0:40:10.880 --> 0:40:14.239
<v Speaker 1>on the course are declining and that the opportunity for

0:40:14.440 --> 0:40:17.160
<v Speaker 1>improvement is more part of your past than it is

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:21.920
<v Speaker 1>part of your future, are there moments when this kind

0:40:21.960 --> 0:40:27.360
<v Speaker 1>of balance between difficulty and achievability that golf has still

0:40:27.400 --> 0:40:30.520
<v Speaker 1>appeals to you. And what I mean by this is that, yes,

0:40:30.680 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 1>golf is an extremely difficult game, but it's also possible

0:40:34.440 --> 0:40:37.759
<v Speaker 1>to play it extremely well for anyone. You know, it

0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:41.480
<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter if we're not wonderful athletes. We can all

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:46.480
<v Speaker 1>hit great shots, and so that is the achievable. That's

0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:51.680
<v Speaker 1>the allure of playing golf in part that you know,

0:40:52.480 --> 0:40:56.239
<v Speaker 1>great golf is within our grasp right and occasionally we

0:40:56.320 --> 0:41:00.759
<v Speaker 1>can play it, but it's extremely difficult to do that consistently,

0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>and so we kind of have to wait for those

0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:07.160
<v Speaker 1>moments or work toward those moments. So you know, even

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:09.680
<v Speaker 1>as you say that, you know the act of playing

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 1>golf and trying to get better at it has become

0:41:12.239 --> 0:41:15.120
<v Speaker 1>less important to you. Do you still feel like golf

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:18.279
<v Speaker 1>draws you because you feel like, you know, sometimes I

0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:20.719
<v Speaker 1>can achieve a state of grace.

0:41:21.520 --> 0:41:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Once in a while in any round of golf. I

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:27.319
<v Speaker 2>think that's correct. I think you know. I'm not sure

0:41:27.320 --> 0:41:29.800
<v Speaker 2>I agree with you that anybody can play great golf.

0:41:30.920 --> 0:41:33.359
<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you a story from a clinic that I

0:41:33.400 --> 0:41:37.600
<v Speaker 2>went to with Jack Nicholas. Another story, And as part

0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 2>of this clinic, people were getting golf clubs, and the

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:45.000
<v Speaker 2>golf club sets included hybrids, and Jack said, how do

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:49.160
<v Speaker 2>you like those hybrids? And find Jack you know, and

0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:51.960
<v Speaker 2>he said, well, I don't use them. You can't work

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:52.600
<v Speaker 2>the ball with that.

0:41:52.760 --> 0:41:56.439
<v Speaker 1>You can only hit it high and straight, and yeah,

0:41:56.840 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 1>that's so bad.

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.400
<v Speaker 3>And in Jack's world that was true, because Jack's golf

0:42:01.440 --> 0:42:06.959
<v Speaker 3>game operates within such fine tolerances that he can't work

0:42:07.000 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 3>the ball with a hybrid club. He wants to be

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:13.920
<v Speaker 3>able to fade it and draw it, and he gets

0:42:14.360 --> 0:42:17.640
<v Speaker 3>he can do that with the old standard irons, he

0:42:17.760 --> 0:42:22.200
<v Speaker 3>can't do it with hybrids. And after that clinic, every

0:42:22.200 --> 0:42:22.920
<v Speaker 3>time I hit.

0:42:22.800 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 2>A big hook or a terrible slice with a hybrid club,

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 2>I'd say, no, Jack, you're wrong. You can work the

0:42:28.880 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 2>ball with a hybrid club because you know, the average

0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:39.520
<v Speaker 2>player doesn't swing the way Jack swings. Jack swing is

0:42:39.520 --> 0:42:45.360
<v Speaker 2>a different animal altogether. And so anyway, I think the

0:42:45.440 --> 0:42:50.399
<v Speaker 2>average person is capable of some good shots and once

0:42:50.440 --> 0:42:52.480
<v Speaker 2>in a while doing them, and if you practice more,

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:56.520
<v Speaker 2>you get more consistent with it. But nowadays, you know

0:42:56.600 --> 0:43:00.880
<v Speaker 2>the for me, a long drive is one that catches

0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.000
<v Speaker 2>the other side of a hill and rolls out to

0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 2>two hundred yards. I'm never going to hit the ball

0:43:06.120 --> 0:43:09.360
<v Speaker 2>to seventy again, not that I ever did very often anyway,

0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:15.600
<v Speaker 2>But and so what really I think highlight my golf

0:43:15.680 --> 0:43:20.480
<v Speaker 2>rounds are the recovery shots. You know, when you when

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:22.840
<v Speaker 2>you when you hit the ball in a bunker, but

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:25.120
<v Speaker 2>then you knock the bunker shot to two feet and

0:43:25.160 --> 0:43:28.279
<v Speaker 2>make the put. That that's one of the highlights. Or

0:43:29.719 --> 0:43:36.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, the the occasional shot where the ball comes

0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:38.400
<v Speaker 2>right off the club the way you want it to.

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:42.600
<v Speaker 2>And if it's if it's a well designed course, you

0:43:42.640 --> 0:43:47.040
<v Speaker 2>know you've got some shots there where they look harder

0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:50.600
<v Speaker 2>than they are. And so you you hit the ball

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:53.000
<v Speaker 2>over a bunker and onto the green and stop it

0:43:53.600 --> 0:43:57.239
<v Speaker 2>and I don't stop it very sharply anymore, but I

0:43:57.280 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 2>can still keep it from rolling out through the green

0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:04.360
<v Speaker 2>and if I hit it well. And those kinds of

0:44:04.360 --> 0:44:08.080
<v Speaker 2>shots that look harder than they are are the kinds

0:44:08.080 --> 0:44:12.600
<v Speaker 2>of shots that good golf course architects build into their

0:44:12.640 --> 0:44:17.279
<v Speaker 2>courses and which can give me that same feeling of yeah,

0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:21.760
<v Speaker 2>I can do this. But to be honest, it's mostly

0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:25.560
<v Speaker 2>the occasional recovery shots. You know, if I have a

0:44:25.600 --> 0:44:28.080
<v Speaker 2>good day in the bunkers, I'm having a good day.

0:44:28.280 --> 0:44:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Right Yeah. Well, when I say that anybody is capable

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 1>of great golf, I don't mean that anybody is capable

0:44:35.000 --> 0:44:39.120
<v Speaker 1>of putting together eighteen holes of great golf, right right, Obviously,

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:42.280
<v Speaker 1>that's that's not true. I mean, you know, maybe maybe

0:44:42.320 --> 0:44:44.080
<v Speaker 1>most people would be able to get there with a

0:44:44.080 --> 0:44:47.359
<v Speaker 1>lot of practice, but most of us don't practice enough

0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:50.040
<v Speaker 1>or work hard enough on our games to or have

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:52.640
<v Speaker 1>enough time to develop those kinds of skills.

0:44:52.800 --> 0:44:54.640
<v Speaker 2>But you put your finger on one of the lures

0:44:54.640 --> 0:44:57.799
<v Speaker 2>of the game, and that is that anybody who can

0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:02.399
<v Speaker 2>break a hundred can remember hitting a great drive down

0:45:02.440 --> 0:45:05.319
<v Speaker 2>the middle, or hitting a seven iron crisp to a pin,

0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 2>and then the lure is, well, if I could do

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.319
<v Speaker 2>it once, I sure certainly should be able to do

0:45:11.360 --> 0:45:15.280
<v Speaker 2>it more often. Whereas if you are a pole vaulter,

0:45:16.640 --> 0:45:21.200
<v Speaker 2>you know you're never gonna get very far off the

0:45:21.200 --> 0:45:24.319
<v Speaker 2>ground with a pole in your hands, or if you're

0:45:24.400 --> 0:45:27.040
<v Speaker 2>a boxer, you're never going to last more than five

0:45:27.160 --> 0:45:32.759
<v Speaker 2>seconds with a professional heavyweight. And so golf has that

0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:39.080
<v Speaker 2>element that you mentioned that is very alluring, the notion

0:45:39.160 --> 0:45:42.799
<v Speaker 2>that I've done it once. There's no reason except for

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:45.800
<v Speaker 2>for consistency, that I can't do it all the time.

0:45:46.120 --> 0:45:49.480
<v Speaker 2>And of course consistency is the mystery of the game,

0:45:49.760 --> 0:45:53.880
<v Speaker 2>one of the mysteries of the game. But anyway, yes, yeah.

0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:58.360
<v Speaker 1>You're correct, it's within reach. Yeah, exactly. The achievability factor

0:45:58.760 --> 0:46:01.920
<v Speaker 1>that is kind of what golf offers is that is

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 1>that little mirage I guess most of the time of achievability,

0:46:07.520 --> 0:46:11.719
<v Speaker 1>and to the extent that you find that appealing, that's

0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:14.120
<v Speaker 1>the extent to which you remain obsessed with the game.

0:46:14.800 --> 0:46:15.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's accurate.

0:46:16.480 --> 0:46:18.840
<v Speaker 2>I think you're right. I think that's what keeps you

0:46:18.920 --> 0:46:23.919
<v Speaker 2>practicing if you are a practicer, and that's what kept

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:28.160
<v Speaker 2>me practicing because I knew that if I worked on it,

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:31.840
<v Speaker 2>I would develop more consistency. I remember when my kids

0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:35.920
<v Speaker 2>were young, we'd go down to the beach in South Carolina,

0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:39.279
<v Speaker 2>and there are a lot of good practice ranges down

0:46:39.320 --> 0:46:41.000
<v Speaker 2>there in the Myrtle Beach area. I don't know whether

0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:45.880
<v Speaker 2>you've ever been there. Yes, well, I would go to

0:46:45.920 --> 0:46:49.239
<v Speaker 2>a probe before our vacation and I would ask for

0:46:49.320 --> 0:46:52.480
<v Speaker 2>some drills, and he would give me drills to improve

0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:55.920
<v Speaker 2>my contact with the ball or something of that nature.

0:46:56.560 --> 0:47:00.960
<v Speaker 2>And when we got to South Carolina, because the kids

0:47:00.960 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 2>were small, I couldn't take an hour. I couldn't take

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:05.759
<v Speaker 2>six hours to play around a golf but I could

0:47:05.760 --> 0:47:07.239
<v Speaker 2>take an hour and a half and go to a

0:47:07.360 --> 0:47:10.920
<v Speaker 2>range somewhere and work on those drills. And when I

0:47:10.960 --> 0:47:14.200
<v Speaker 2>came back from those vacations, I was always a stroker

0:47:14.239 --> 0:47:17.839
<v Speaker 2>to better than I had been because the drills made

0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:20.480
<v Speaker 2>me more consistent. And if I wanted to get better

0:47:20.520 --> 0:47:22.480
<v Speaker 2>at golf, now, that's what I would start doing. I

0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:25.320
<v Speaker 2>would get a pro and I would get some drills,

0:47:25.360 --> 0:47:27.840
<v Speaker 2>and I would improve what I have, even though what

0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 2>I have now is not going to be what I

0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:35.160
<v Speaker 2>had twenty five years ago. And so yeah, I think

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:38.160
<v Speaker 2>that's one of the great allures of the game for

0:47:38.360 --> 0:47:44.160
<v Speaker 2>people who are like you or me, the striver that

0:47:45.160 --> 0:47:50.279
<v Speaker 2>you want to improve. You can see the possibility or

0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:54.120
<v Speaker 2>the potential of playing well, and you're willing to work

0:47:54.280 --> 0:47:58.880
<v Speaker 2>on drills or other kinds of practice that will slowly

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.720
<v Speaker 2>make your game more system You know, I would spend

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:07.120
<v Speaker 2>an hour on those South Carolina practice ranges, swinging on

0:48:07.120 --> 0:48:11.640
<v Speaker 2>one leg because my pro told me that, you know,

0:48:11.680 --> 0:48:15.560
<v Speaker 2>you've got to work on something, and it worked. You know,

0:48:17.120 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 2>when I came home, I was I was shooting a

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:22.399
<v Speaker 2>couple or three strokes better than I had been when

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:24.520
<v Speaker 2>I left on that vacation. And people said, you must

0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:26.640
<v Speaker 2>have played a lot of golf, and I said, no,

0:48:26.760 --> 0:48:28.200
<v Speaker 2>I just did a lot of practice.

0:48:28.600 --> 0:48:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Right. You finished this book with a really lovely chapter

0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:39.239
<v Speaker 1>I think about Twilight Golf. Yeah, and I wonder if

0:48:39.239 --> 0:48:40.640
<v Speaker 1>you still love Twilight golf.

0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't do it as often as I used to,

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:48.520
<v Speaker 2>but I still do it occasionally. And you know, I'll

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:51.720
<v Speaker 2>have to tell you that that that Twilight Golf chapter

0:48:51.840 --> 0:48:56.520
<v Speaker 2>featured by two children who are now close to middle age,

0:48:57.280 --> 0:49:00.560
<v Speaker 2>and they don't play golf anymore. I don't know why

0:49:01.160 --> 0:49:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I could couldn't instill it in them. In any case,

0:49:06.560 --> 0:49:11.840
<v Speaker 2>Twilight golf was something that I did when they were young,

0:49:12.200 --> 0:49:14.960
<v Speaker 2>and we had dinner at six o'clock because that's when

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:17.400
<v Speaker 2>they wanted to have dinner, and I didn't have the

0:49:17.440 --> 0:49:22.120
<v Speaker 2>cocktail before dinner, and then it would be six thirty

0:49:22.160 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 2>and there would be two perfectly good hours, and I'd say,

0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:26.239
<v Speaker 2>let's go out and play golf, or I would go

0:49:26.239 --> 0:49:29.480
<v Speaker 2>out and play golf. And when you're a working person,

0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 2>which I was, then those are your hours to play.

0:49:33.200 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 2>You got to use those twilight hours, especially if you

0:49:36.560 --> 0:49:39.319
<v Speaker 2>can get your kids to go out and take the

0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 2>kids off out of the house for a couple of hours.

0:49:42.560 --> 0:49:47.239
<v Speaker 2>So I really like that, and I still do it occasionally,

0:49:47.320 --> 0:49:50.239
<v Speaker 2>but not as much as I did when the kids

0:49:50.239 --> 0:49:50.760
<v Speaker 2>were small.

0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:55.800
<v Speaker 1>What I really like about this portrayal of twilight golf

0:49:56.160 --> 0:50:00.200
<v Speaker 1>is you know this idea that you're on this kind

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:03.880
<v Speaker 1>of abandoned golf course for the most part, and you

0:50:03.960 --> 0:50:07.719
<v Speaker 1>have a line in here where you say, even though

0:50:07.719 --> 0:50:09.840
<v Speaker 1>the day is kind of coming to an end and

0:50:10.560 --> 0:50:14.360
<v Speaker 1>you're kind of aware of advancing time, it seems like

0:50:14.440 --> 0:50:18.359
<v Speaker 1>you have more time when you're playing twilight golf than

0:50:18.800 --> 0:50:22.759
<v Speaker 1>at any other time. Of the day, and you know,

0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:25.719
<v Speaker 1>that just strikes me as something that's that can be

0:50:25.920 --> 0:50:29.160
<v Speaker 1>really pleasurable, and I wish we're kind of more common.

0:50:29.400 --> 0:50:32.880
<v Speaker 1>In golf. People are often sort of rushing through a

0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:36.080
<v Speaker 1>golf round, making sure they're not holding anybody up, and

0:50:36.480 --> 0:50:39.279
<v Speaker 1>they're keeping score, and there's a set of rules about

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:42.040
<v Speaker 1>how you go about it. And twilight golf, those rules

0:50:42.120 --> 0:50:45.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of seem to be suspended and you're able to

0:50:45.640 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 1>play a little more. It's a time to bring kids

0:50:48.120 --> 0:50:49.919
<v Speaker 1>out on the course, you know.

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Because you're not trying to finish around. And you know,

0:50:54.080 --> 0:50:57.680
<v Speaker 2>I have to say I am a stickler for a

0:50:57.760 --> 0:51:03.000
<v Speaker 2>pace of playing golf. Yes, we were at Pine Needles

0:51:03.040 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 2>a couple of weeks ago. There was a group of

0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 2>guys that were playing a tournament among themselves and they

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:12.799
<v Speaker 2>were putting everything out and winding everything up.

0:51:12.760 --> 0:51:15.799
<v Speaker 1>Three times, grinding over two footers, crazy.

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:18.080
<v Speaker 2>Playing behind them. It took us five hours to play,

0:51:18.560 --> 0:51:21.600
<v Speaker 2>and I was very unhappy about that because I like

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:25.160
<v Speaker 2>to play in four hours. But twilight golf, maybe I

0:51:25.239 --> 0:51:28.520
<v Speaker 2>put too much pressure on myself to move along and

0:51:28.520 --> 0:51:33.200
<v Speaker 2>and to never hold anybody up and so forth. Twilight

0:51:33.280 --> 0:51:36.279
<v Speaker 2>golf maybe was special in fact now that you talk

0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:40.960
<v Speaker 2>about it, because I didn't have that kind of desire

0:51:41.080 --> 0:51:44.560
<v Speaker 2>to move, move the game along and not hold anybody

0:51:44.640 --> 0:51:50.759
<v Speaker 2>up and get done with my round in a four

0:51:50.760 --> 0:51:56.360
<v Speaker 2>hour at a four hour pace. And so yeah, maybe

0:51:56.360 --> 0:51:59.880
<v Speaker 2>the maybe one of the one of the real attraction.

0:52:00.040 --> 0:52:02.279
<v Speaker 2>It's one of the great things about twilight golf is

0:52:02.320 --> 0:52:04.080
<v Speaker 2>that you know, if you don't play six holes, you

0:52:04.160 --> 0:52:09.600
<v Speaker 2>play five, nobody cares, and it takes a time pressure

0:52:09.640 --> 0:52:12.440
<v Speaker 2>element away from the game. And the time pressure element

0:52:12.520 --> 0:52:15.920
<v Speaker 2>is necessary in golf the way it is in this

0:52:15.960 --> 0:52:20.239
<v Speaker 2>country today. You can't have somebody playing five hours on

0:52:20.320 --> 0:52:22.480
<v Speaker 2>a course that has other people on it, because it's

0:52:22.480 --> 0:52:26.120
<v Speaker 2>not fair to them. But there's something nice about being

0:52:26.160 --> 0:52:29.560
<v Speaker 2>liberated from the time constraints which you are to some

0:52:30.040 --> 0:52:34.840
<v Speaker 2>which you are basically one hundred percent liberated in twilight

0:52:34.920 --> 0:52:37.320
<v Speaker 2>golf if you're playing it at a course that you

0:52:37.400 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 2>belong to and that you know you can switch from

0:52:41.520 --> 0:52:44.719
<v Speaker 2>one hole to the next, skip a few holes and

0:52:46.120 --> 0:52:48.680
<v Speaker 2>or hit an extra shot, or all those other things

0:52:48.760 --> 0:52:50.840
<v Speaker 2>that are part of the pleasure of the game that

0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:54.040
<v Speaker 2>you can't have on a Saturday morning when everybody's trying

0:52:54.040 --> 0:52:55.800
<v Speaker 2>to get around the golf course. Before lunch.

0:52:56.520 --> 0:52:59.240
<v Speaker 1>Well, Bob, thank you so much for talking with me today.

0:52:59.640 --> 0:53:02.840
<v Speaker 1>The book is called Why Golf. I recommend that people

0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:05.440
<v Speaker 1>revisited it if you read it years ago, it's a

0:53:05.480 --> 0:53:08.680
<v Speaker 1>good one to pick up again. But thanks again for

0:53:08.760 --> 0:53:10.600
<v Speaker 1>coming on the podcast, Garrett.

0:53:10.600 --> 0:53:13.840
<v Speaker 2>It's been a pleasure and on behalf of golf Riders Everywhere.

0:53:14.320 --> 0:53:15.640
<v Speaker 2>Thanks for doing what you're doing.

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