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Speaker 1: much of a freakazoid for anything? For any one thing?

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Speaker 1: Chelsea and Devon? These people are huge Jurassic Park fans.

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Speaker 1: The La residents have annual passes the Universal Studios Hollywood

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Speaker 1: This is from a press release this year. Knowing the

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Speaker 1: ride will be closing on September third to make way

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Speaker 1: for a Jurassic World ride as opposed to Jurassic Park,

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Speaker 1: the couple aimed to break the record for the most

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Speaker 1: which previously stood at sixteen. But he had a second

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Speaker 1: goal in mind. He was going to propose to Chelsea

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Speaker 1: as well, so on Thursday, the theme park uploaded a

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Speaker 1: YouTube video of the couple riding Jurassic Park the Wild

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Speaker 1: for the ride for thirteen hours, and on the sixty

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Speaker 1: first ride, he proposed in epic fashion, opening his Jurassic

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Speaker 1: Park inspired raincoat to reveal a shirt that read Chelsea,

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Speaker 1: will you marry me? In the film's font no less,

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Speaker 1: the ring was an amber stone within Mosquito trapped inside,

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Speaker 1: donated by Universal Pictures for the proposal, which one of

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Speaker 1: the characters in the film used to steal dinosaur DNA.

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Speaker 1: The only thing being stolen here though, is our hearts

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Speaker 1: because the couple then went on the ride for the

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Speaker 1: these people obviously Jurassic Park freakazoid. I've got some friends

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Speaker 1: proposal is not going to be you know, swipping. He's

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Speaker 1: not gonna we're not gonna go to not very farm.

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Speaker 1: you know they're crazy. They're all the Lucy's dress up

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm crazy. Yeah, Rufio, you gotta have one. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm a diehard Chicago Bulls fan. I mean, like I

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Speaker 1: wait to hear from them. By the way, we're fifty

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Speaker 1: days away from the opening guy from the season opener,

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Speaker 1: t shirt, some jerseys and thank you like a bullshrine

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Speaker 1: at your parents house. I do like my room, your

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Speaker 1: I need all your parents want to probably want to

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Speaker 1: you are a Harry Potter freakazoid. Yes wow, okay, So

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Speaker 1: Whoa Okay, all right, funny, No is he into a

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Speaker 1: fair enough, Thank you, Stephanie. Have a good day. Thank you. Hey, Emily,

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Speaker 1: for calling. You're a shark week freaky ZOI we are

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Speaker 1: good day. Thank you. Hello, as Lee, how are you hello?

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Speaker 1: You are obsessed with the Beatles Juice movie Beetle Juice. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen that movie in so long. Watch it,

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Speaker 1: you called. Yeah, Hey Haley, good morning. Yeah, hi, Hi.

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Speaker 1: You are obsessed with I'm obsess a futurama. Futurama okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: good morning. So these people, they they're obsessed with Jurassic Park.

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Speaker 1: go on, Hey Danny, you're obsessed with Oh well, it

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Speaker 1: Fred Nancy are on So Huffington Post posted a list

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Speaker 1: but I'd love to know as a single person or

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Speaker 1: when you were single, you got really really tired of

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Speaker 1: hearing this statement, this thing. What's the first one that

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Speaker 1: mister Wright. But I'm like, well, if I feel like,

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I think you're out there a lot though.

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Speaker 1: don't have that problem. So it's fun. Yeah, it's weird,

421
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Speaker 1: So I kind of I go to the stall whenever

422
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Speaker 1: I so people look over. I think, said, guys do

423
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 1: that I do? I don't. I don't think it's like

424
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 1: an every day I don't think it's I feel like

425
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 1: every guy does. No, No, we don't, we don't. We

426
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 1: don't what he does. But I know what happens. But

427
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 1: if there was like a huge celebrity standing next like

428
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 1: what if Kanye was paying next to you, wouldn't you

429
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:21,720
Speaker 1: look like real quick glands? Yes, why I wouldn't you know?

430
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: He'd be so curious. You do like a quick, like

431
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: nanosecond glance. No za guy, feel you, thank you so much?

432
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 1: Many problem have a good day. And I see, yeah,

433
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 1: he would look. No, I wouldn't believe I wouldn't I whatever.

434
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 1: I don't know why this story sticks out to me

435
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 1: about that very situation. But I was um fourteen years old.

436
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: When I was fourteen, I was a thirteen maybe I

437
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 1: was a Phoenix Suns ball boy. Right, So I'm in

438
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: out of the locker room, I'm on the court and

439
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 1: with these guys all the time for a full season.

440
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,399
Speaker 1: It was like the pimpest thing for a thirteen year

441
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:53,199
Speaker 1: old boy. I'm rolling with Shat hang with Jordan with

442
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 1: Jordan had retired and then he came back after I

443
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 1: But if the point is that he it was awesome.

444
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,119
Speaker 1: And so that year in Phoenix we had the All

445
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 1: Star Games, so I got to ball with the All

446
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: Star Game, so every baller player. So I'm in a

447
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 1: bath employee bathroom. And I'm thirteen years old and I'm

448
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: in the middle yurinal and I'm peeing, and I'm not

449
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: even kidding to I got flanked left and right, and

450
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,399
Speaker 1: it's only going to appeal to basketball fans by Patrick

451
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 1: Ewing and Alonzo Morris left and right appear why they

452
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 1: went into the employee bath room. I don't know they

453
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 1: were the nicest guys ever, but look, there's three yurinals.

454
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: I didn't Yes, I won't tell you. I won't tell you.

455
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: It's a thirteen year old boy that I felt very

456
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 1: inferior at that moment. Because here I am thirteen years old,

457
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: already insecure about that area, and now I got the

458
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 1: two largest men in the NBA to my left and right.

459
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 1: I must have been absolutely um. It would have been

460
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 1: invisible compared to those tis. Why didn't you look then

461
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: to see what you might grow up? Because I'm not

462
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,920
Speaker 1: gonna get called Look at Patrick Ewing's I'm not gonna

463
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 1: get caught doing that. That's not how I'm gonna get

464
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 1: fired from being a ball boy. No, Alana, guys don't

465
00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: do that. Ela Nice could talk great talk a lot

466
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: of Nezi Hi, how are you good? How are you.

467
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm very well. Do you have a hard time doing

468
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 1: anything in public? When do you think people are watching? Yeah,

469
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 1: especially when I'm out on like the first couple of

470
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: days with a new guy, I do not like to

471
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: take a bite out of my food while he's looking

472
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: at me. Really. Yeah, It's just really awkward because I

473
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 1: feel like I'm going to still or you know, drop something.

474
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: So I just like stray away from taking a bite,

475
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: and so he like either takes a bite or looks away.

476
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 1: No kidding, no kid, I don't think I've ever thought

477
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 1: about that when I was out on it. I think

478
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 1: a lot of these things are gonna make us all insecure. Now,

479
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 1: I've never really thought about it. I'll say, though, I

480
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: being poor sed same thing. I do the same thing.

481
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: I keep the water on, and even now, like when

482
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see, it's like something in my mind,

483
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: like psychologically I have to have the water off. I

484
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: will say though, that there are certain foods that I

485
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 1: won't order on a first, second, third day just because

486
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: because it's gonna get on my face with the chance

487
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: I'll spill. So there's certainly I do think about that,

488
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: but I've never thought about not actually taking the bike,

489
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: but down you wanting to look at your mouth. It's

490
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: kind of awkward because look, if you drop something, he's

491
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: gonna look at it. It's like, I owe you like

492
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 1: that after I know who like go on a few

493
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: days with you. That's fine if you I don't know

494
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: if you heard a waiting about the phone earlier, You're

495
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: don't worry about that. As long as you're gonna show

496
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: up a Batman costume, you're gonna be just fine on

497
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 1: your days. You have nothing to worry about. Nest, thank you,

498
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, have a good day. Let me to thank you. Hey, Lauren, Lauren, Hey,

499
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: good morning. You have a hard time doing this in

500
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,160
Speaker 1: front of other people. What is it? I cannot talk

501
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: on the phone in front of other people? Really? I

502
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: do it all the time. What's your problem with that? Um?

503
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 1: For me, it's rude when other people do it, so agree.

504
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 1: When I try doing it, I have to walk away

505
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: and everybody is like, you can you can talk on

506
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 1: the phone. I mean, I'm like, you don't have these conversation.

507
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 1: I don't like to do that in front of other

508
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: people either, And it drives me crazy when you're somewhere

509
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: and people have to talk, so they want you to

510
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 1: hear what they're talking about. It's there so long. Sometimes

511
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, really, why am I involved in your conversation?

512
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll walk away. I guess, I don't know.

513
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,479
Speaker 1: I mean it's a far reason I got to take

514
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: the call, I take the car and walk away. Walk yeah,

515
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: walk away. I think it's rude. I don't know. Okay,

516
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: thank you, glad you called. Have a good day by Stephanie. Yes, Hi, Stephanie.

517
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 1: How are you hi? I'm good? How are you very?

518
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: We welcome to fred Nan. Do you have a hard

519
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 1: time doing this when other people are watching? Yes? I

520
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: can't do any math really, no, mess it up. We're

521
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 1: like on the street doing math like good will hunting?

522
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Why would people watching in front

523
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: of people like if I have to you know my like, um,

524
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: I'll try to figure out something, how something's percentage off

525
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: or tips, you know, at a table, everybody's trying to

526
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: figure out the tip and I can't. Oh gotcha. So

527
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: there's a little performance anxiety with the with the math. Yeah, okay,

528
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: all right, that makes sense. Look, no one's judging, we're

529
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: all just trust me. Mine's way weirder. I can't pee.

530
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: I gotta turn a freaking water on all the way.

531
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,719
Speaker 1: Thank you, Stephanie, Thank you. Have a good day. Jess Hey, hey,

532
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Good morning? How are you? Thanks

533
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: for listening. This is something about you or it says

534
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: you work at a gym. Yeah, now this is there me.

535
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: I work at a gym and um a part of

536
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: like our clients almost every day, and part of it

537
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: is we have to ask and they're the same questions.

538
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,959
Speaker 1: So like these ten questions that it's like basically, are

539
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: you writing his clients about like what they're currently doing

540
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 1: or whatever? And I am just such I get so

541
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: nervous having her write down their answers when they're talking

542
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: really and I like forget how to sell, and I

543
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: like it just does nothing. That's crazy. Are you afraid

544
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: that they're judging your handwriting or something? No, it's because

545
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: I have good handwriting. I think that. I just like

546
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 1: am nervous that like they are going to read what

547
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 1: I write, and I maybe I'm like because they're checking

548
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: to see if you're writing this person is a big

549
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: fat fatty or well or but like you misspell or

550
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: like if your grammars poor, or if you're dumb or

551
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: this person's dumb. I'm talking so I forget how to

552
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: spell yesterday, I can how to spell the word coach,

553
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 1: like obviously I know how to spell the word coach.

554
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just did happened? Okay, you can't write

555
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: in front of me by guys. Thank you, Jess, thank you,

556
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: I have always I feel much more normal after this segment,

557
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: I must say, Angie, I'm taking Why did they get

558
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: blown off? We'll find out now in waiting by the

559
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: phone where Fred and Angie? They told me how you doing? Hey,

560
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: I'm doing? How you doing? We're great? Thanks for being

561
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 1: on the show. I have your email here about say,

562
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: your date with Natalia, But why don't you fill us

563
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 1: in on? Well, what happened? How you guys met? Where

564
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: you guys stand? Um? Sure, um yeah that's her, just

565
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: like out of Borrows with my friends one night. Um,

566
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 1: you know, kind of classic things just to change numbers.

567
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 1: I was really excited about it for the first time.

568
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't going on like a you know, app date. Uh,

569
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 1: and I you know, we really hit it off. I

570
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: thought we had a night dinner, I got a drink afterwards, um,

571
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: you know, and like you know, a kiss, but nothing

572
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: nothing crazy. But I thought there was like fuenty of

573
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: opportunity for the future. But after that she just completely

574
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: goes with me. Okay. It was frustrating because here, you know,

575
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: here you had you were looking forward to getting to

576
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: know her and and optimistic and yet now she's not

577
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: responding to anything. Yeah, And there was one of those

578
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: things like like I didn't have any doubt that there

579
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: would be a second date, Like it just its like

580
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: so well, that was that, you know, I just kind

581
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: of assumed that, you know, this could be something special

582
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: and and just like that. Okay, all right, well that's

583
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: where we come in. We're gonna call on the Talia.

584
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: He'll be on the phone, bill ask some questions and

585
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: hopefully we can figure out what's going on and treating

586
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: things out and set you guys up on another date

587
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: that we take for Okay, so it would be great.

588
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: Can you hang on for a second. Oh yeah. Part

589
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: to waiting on the phone, you've got to hear what

590
00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: ghost out. We'll do it in three minutes on Kiss

591
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station.

592
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: It's Fred and Angie, Hey, Toby, welcome back. Let's call

593
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: Natalia you, guys, you met, you went on a date,

594
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: you thought everything went really well. You were hoping to

595
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: go on another date, except now she's ghosting you and

596
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: you want to know. Yeah, makes sense. We'll call her

597
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: right now. Good luck, all right, thank you? Hello? Hi?

598
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: Is this Natalia? Yeah? Hi there, it's Fred and Angie

599
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: calling from the morning radio show on Kiss FM in Chicago.

600
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry to bother you, but I do have

601
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right

602
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: now and I would need your consent to continue with

603
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: the call. Can we can we talk for a couple

604
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: of minutes? Yeah, okay, thank you. We appreciate that. We're

605
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy named Toby, who you

606
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: might remember. You guys met out one night and exchange numbers,

607
00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: talked about going out. Oh my god. Yeah, okay, what's

608
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: what's going on with Toby? Because he called us that

609
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: he liked you, it was attracted to you, and now

610
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: you aren't responding to him at all, and he wants

611
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: to kind of know why. Oh my god, that's never

612
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: signed in the beginning. UM, as experts in this, that's

613
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: not a good place to start. What's the problem. What happened? Oh? Well,

614
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god. During the date, he stretches his arms

615
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: and his shirt comes up a little bit and there

616
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: there was a badueled dangly little button ring. Oh what

617
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: wait is this so this is like a belly button ring?

618
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Wait, wait, you have a dangly I

619
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: forgot to mention that, Toby's here, you have a dangly

620
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: belly button ring. Yeah, Like I'm repulsed by that. Wait

621
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: what what is Is it like a charm? Like? What's

622
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: on it? Um? You know, it's just like a like

623
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: a dangly kind of gem, you know what I mean? No,

624
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what like a belly ring? Yeah. I

625
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: was kind of like thinking more like Middle Eastern sultan.

626
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:12,719
Speaker 1: But yeah, um, yeah, no Eastern Sultan. Okay, I can

627
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever seen a straight guy

628
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: with a belly button ring. I'm not even sure if

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Speaker 1: I've seen a guy with a belly button ring. I

630
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Speaker 1: had to mention a dangly one, That's what I mean.

631
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, it wasn't real. What's that? I mean?

632
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: Is a jewel even real? That you're by the authenticity

633
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: of the stone? Where is like? What did he do?

634
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: Did he just go to Claire's right before our date. Yeah,

635
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: tell me about tell me about the inspiration for this,

636
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: Like what why? Um, you know, I just try to

637
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: like be somebody who's unique and like, I don't know,

638
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: sweet people with like, you know, with a belly button ring,

639
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: especially the guys. I mean, like girls used to then

640
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: they'll do it anymore. That should have been your tu

641
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: a woman thing. Well no, you know, like things come

642
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: back in style, Like I mean, I just, you know,

643
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: I just thought it was kind of a cool thing.

644
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: I mean, no one else has had a response to it. Wow,

645
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Speaker 1: Oh boy, all right, what if he takes it out? Natalia,

646
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: you were fine with him until you saw the belly

647
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: button ring, So now he takes it. Let's say he's

648
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: willing to take it out. I'm not even sure if

649
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: he is, but let's say that he is. Then what

650
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: But that's like a judgment call, Like I'm questioning his

651
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: judgment because he takes it out. And then what what

652
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: else is he gonna pierce later on his bat? Is

653
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: there anything else pierced by the way that's invisible? Oh no, no, no,

654
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: I don't be more piercing. It's the belly That's all

655
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: you need. No, tattoos either. I mean it's like, well,

656
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: one thing people have, like permanent tattoos. I got a

657
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: belly button ring. Maybe you want to take that out?

658
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: All right? Yeah? I mean what if he takes it

659
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: out though you didn't answer the question, So he takes

660
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: it out, um, and we forget this ever happened. Then

661
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: then you give another shot. Oh why did he feel

662
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: like you have to be so unique that you have

663
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: to get a belly button ring? I mean, what's really

664
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: going on? I take that as a no. Then yeah, okay,

665
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: so look, I don't think we can salvage this one. Look, hey,

666
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: you know what, beat dude? Do you Toby? You want

667
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: to dangly belly button ring? Then I suppose and you

668
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: do that for you, but you also may run the

669
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: risk of people thinking it's a little strange and then

670
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: not wanting to go out with you. Well, I don't

671
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: want to like date people who are afraid of things

672
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: are a little strange. I'm gonna all right, there you

673
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: have it, Natalia, thanks for are thanks for talking with us.

674
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: Good luck to you, and same to you, Toby. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: all relate to because we did them a couple of

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Speaker 1: years ago. You emailed me the other day and you

682
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Speaker 1: were telling me, and this is one I think you

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Speaker 1: can relate to no matter how old you are. But

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Speaker 1: you were telling me that your ex boy friend of

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Speaker 1: a year ago and now has another girlfriend recently popped

686
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: up on the social media platforms. Dude is popping up

687
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: on all of them. Oh yeah, he's uh, well, he's

688
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: always been there. He hasn't gone away through social He's

689
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: liking things. I thought my accident I can tell because

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00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 1: unlike it, so you know what I mean, Like he's

691
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: creeping and then you like, like like where Instagram, and

692
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: then he added me on Snapchat. It's real hard everything.

693
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: It's real hard to accidentally like something on Instagram. He

694
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: wants you to see that he's still there, and then

695
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: he popped up on Snapchat. He wants he's why why

696
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Speaker 1: is he watching your stuff? That's my question. He has

697
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Speaker 1: a girlfriend and you guys are exs. Why is he

698
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: why this is a concertative effort. Is your Instagram public? Yes?

699
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: And so is he on your Facebook? No? I deleted him.

700
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: Oh I was gonna say, yeah, Petty, So for you

701
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: like public, he's following you on where he's looking at.

702
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 1: He's not following me back until he's looking because he's

703
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: liking my pictures. I like them, so if you get them,

704
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: so you definitely that it happened. But then, yeah, I see,

705
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 1: now this guy he's looking at why is he looking

706
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: Everybody creeps though on their excess page and look, but

707
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: you don't let them know you're looking exactly. Do you

708
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: think he did it by accident or he wanted her

709
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: to know that he was looking at? This is my point.

710
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: I just said that you don't accidentally like multiple things.

711
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: I've accidentally like, but not on multiple occasion with the

712
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: same person. Probably not. No, No, I guess the point

713
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: I'm getting at here is this is one of the

714
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: things about social media that I have a problem with.

715
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 1: This is one of the bad things. And I'm guilty

716
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: of doing this too. I'm guilty of this. You get

717
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: curious about somebody from the past and in about three seconds,

718
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: you can find out exactly where they are, what they're doing,

719
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: what they look like, who they're with. And I think

720
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: it's messed up. I mean, shouldn't we have some don't

721
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: need to have some guidelines here, Like if you if

722
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Speaker 1: you are an ex and you have a girlfriend or

723
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,439
Speaker 1: a boyfriend, you don't you don't need to go likek

724
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: in that person. You know what you should probably, I mean,

725
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: why are you Likeking? Why are you liking this stuff? Like,

726
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: especially if you're not friends, if you don't have a

727
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,479
Speaker 1: relationship of any kind exactly, So what are you doing?

728
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: Are you liking his stuff? Back? No, I'm just living

729
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: life and I don't think I'm that cool, So I

730
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: don't know why he's following. Just you creep him too,

731
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: though you say I do, but I don't let him

732
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: know that. I don't let him know. Everybody does the creepy,

733
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: but you had to do it aspicuously is how you

734
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: gotta do the creepy? But I mean, how do you

735
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 1: how do you handle though? People want to By the way,

736
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: she's on Twitter, but you got a weird ass last name,

737
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: So how do what's your Twitter? It's Pauline so at

738
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Speaker 1: Paulina ate you l I na yeah and half my

739
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Speaker 1: last name w y s O C an easier one

740
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: I need you need, like Paulina, Paulina kiss, Yeah you

741
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: need something easy. I told you that like six months ago. Yeah,

742
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 1: you need some people can remember, Paulina, change it today, Paulina.

743
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm brainstorming. Yeah, girl, I don't know something something like that, pa, suburbs. Yes,

744
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 1: that's where you live in the summer. Everybody, everybody knows

745
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: you live in the suburbs. Now do you have an

746
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: experience with this? You have an experience with the x

747
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: popping up on social media? And then how do you

748
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: deal with that? Because then let's say, like so, let's

749
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: say you get a friend request from that to you

750
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: accept it because you're a nice. First problem right there?

751
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: Don't accept the friend requests? Then are you in trouble

752
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: with the new guy or the new girl if you

753
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: accept that because you won because you maybe you want

754
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: to know what's going on with them too, but you

755
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: don't really like them. You just kind of want to

756
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, you kind of want to not be accepting.

757
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: Oh what does Angel won? Yeah, Jeffreys talking to Angel.

758
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: I want to see what Angel wants how do you

759
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: handle the X and the social media? Let me talk

760
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,439
Speaker 1: to this person, Jeffrey Jeffrey hold on, Well, we'll just wait.

761
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: I know he's doing his due diligence here. Angel. Hey,

762
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: you're a friend of Paulina. Are you the X? Are

763
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: you the one? Oh? No, no, no, But I mean

764
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. I'm almost positive I know who. Okay,

765
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: you know this guy, Angel, probably somebody is supposed to

766
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: what you think you do. He says he's your friend,

767
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: you know him? Or you don't know him? Angel? From where?

768
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 1: From Phoenix? You know? Like, oh, hey, what's going on?

769
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: Are you? He doesn't I'm talking about very well, I'm

770
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: talking about Okay, so I know very well. Is he

771
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: trying to get her back? Or and what is it?

772
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: Is he pining for her? I don't know. Um, he

773
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: seems to be really happy in the relationship that he's in. Um,

774
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: but I really don't know why he would do that.

775
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: I'm actually I'm on with a class right now, and

776
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: I losten to these guys all the time. I heard

777
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 1: that Paulina was on the radio show, So I just

778
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: do even more not if she was the front all right,

779
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,720
Speaker 1: So you don't think he's you don't think he's actually

780
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: after anything. But I can't understand why they don't talk

781
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: every day or even at all. Then I don't know

782
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: what he's like for That's just a weird thing, is

783
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: that we've had conversations because he's also my friend. Um,

784
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: we've had conversations about her before. Um, he doesn't seem interested,

785
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,919
Speaker 1: But at the same exact time, I think he has

786
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: that in the back of his mind where he's wondering

787
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 1: what's going on in her life. Since Angela, you have

788
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: you got him with Paulina. No, not yet at least now, Okay,

789
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, angel I have a nice day. Well, no,

790
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: Paulina has a thing we would like. She likes to

791
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: keep the circles tight, you know, because there was beach

792
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: guy and then beach Guy's friend, and then there was

793
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: a little maybe a little layover, a little you know,

794
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: across over there. You know what I'm saying, whoa wide

795
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 1: in a circle a little bit? Hey, Dylan, Yeah, you

796
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: don't unfriend people on Facebook so they can look at

797
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: you forever. It's like it's just a bad happen of

798
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: like I don't remember to do it, and then all

799
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: of a sudden, like years later, I haven't thought about

800
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: this person and forever, and all of a sudden put

801
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: some just something on the wall, like hey, what's up

802
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: something like that, and all of a sudden I get

803
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: a call from my girlfriend like oh yeah yeah. The

804
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,839
Speaker 1: other thing is is yeah, people get massively offended when

805
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: you unfriend them. It's incredible. It's like I don't even

806
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: know if somebody unfriended. Well, people figured out over time

807
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: when like after a while it say I haven't heard

808
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: from that I haven't seen anything on my wall or whatever,

809
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: I haven't seen anything on my on my feet about

810
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: that person a while and then or maybe they'll go

811
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: to creep you and and realize you're not friends anymore.

812
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,280
Speaker 1: People get so offended. It's like, look, sometimes I don't

813
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: need to see what happens with you later, Like I

814
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: don't need the temptation to reach out to you, so

815
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: I unfriend you. Would you really get offended if it

816
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: was an axe though, Like I wouldn't care. Some people do.

817
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you anyway. So but

818
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: some people, some people will like calling you up and

819
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: be like, hey, why are we not friends on Facebook? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

820
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 1: I know you're right, it's happening to me before. Thank you, man,

821
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 1: have a good day. I think it's like, look if

822
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 1: we broke up or whatever, I don't really care if

823
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: you're going on a day with some of the guy,

824
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: or you post some meme or I just found the

825
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 1: love of my life and life couldn't. I never knew

826
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: life could be this good. I believe whatever life was

827
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: good with me. I don't care about anything you're doing.

828
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: I don't care if you like post pictures of your

829
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: food or whatever you do all day, Like I don't

830
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: want to see anything about you. I don't even care.

831
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: This is what happened with social media. Man, it's like

832
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: people creeping any people you thought in the eighties, Guys

833
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: in the eighties you could just get rid of somebody

834
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: by not hauling down lay in line phone right, not

835
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: rotary down on their number. You could you could rip

836
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Speaker 1: their number up on the piece of paper you had

837
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: a written down on, throw it away, and then you

838
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: never never gonna talk to you again. Hang out where

839
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: they used to go, like any of that. Stow the

840
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: old Google. Now you got everything. I guess everything they're doing.

841
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: I can see what their kids look like. Everything. Hey, Cindy,

842
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: all right, you got a problem with this too. We're

843
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: talking about social media. We're talking about exes coming along.

844
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: They've been gone for a while and then they reappear

845
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: because social media allows that. So my ex doesn't, Actually

846
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 1: his wife does, and she like my Instagram, me on Snapchat.

847
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: She's so weird, like, yeah, your phone breaking up. What

848
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 1: she's saying is that her ex's wife is requesting her

849
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: on all the social media platforms. So that is a

850
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 1: weird thing. And Sinday your fellows breaking up? Thank you?

851
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 1: That's weird. She's not trying to be your friend. No,

852
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: she's trying to look at you and compare herself to you.

853
00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: That's what she's doing. And it's weird, and it's call

854
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: how are you doing? The cloes going on? Good? Are

855
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: you very well? Paulina? Here, you got a little X

856
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: and he's popping up on all these social media platforms.

857
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: He's got a girlfriend, and why do you have a girlfriend? Now?

858
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: Why is he liking her stuff? Why is he trying

859
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,959
Speaker 1: to be on her Snapchat? Their exes, they don't talk.

860
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: What's the deal. Do you have a story like this too? Yeah,

861
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: Well I have this guy that I was seeing back

862
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: in the day, we weren't really dating. This more like

863
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: a friend whose benefits situation, and things eventually ended, and um,

864
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: now he has his girlfriend and they have a child together,

865
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 1: and recently he tried adding me on Facebook and Instagram

866
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: is snapchat, and I'm like, why are you trying to

867
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: reconnect with me when he's clearly u situo going on

868
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: in your life. That's a weird thing. Yeah, it's a

869
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: weird thing. It's like you should be happy, and like

870
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: you should be preoccupied with your new child. Like we

871
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 1: used to do stuff together, like intimate things together, and

872
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: you have a your wife and like, and she said,

873
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: you have a wife and a child. We're not going

874
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: back there and we're probably not going to be friends.

875
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: So what's the point of this? Why are you doing this? Exactly?

876
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 1: I don't know what he's feeling. And he like, I

877
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 1: deleted his number. He wished me a happy birthday, and

878
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: I didn't remember who it was. I had to go, hey,

879
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: new friend, new phone, who is this? Yeah? Exactly, that

880
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: whole thing. I do that all the time. A new phone,

881
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: who is it? Even if you get a new phone,

882
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: all your numbers transfer. Everybody knows that liar, thank you, Nicole.

883
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: That's a good day. Hey, Corinne, Hey, Hey, good morning.

884
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: What do you want to say? Oh? God, I love

885
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: the show. Thank you, love you too, Thanks for calling. Um.

886
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: I wanted to say that I've had exes actually send

887
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: me a friend request and then hurry up and change

888
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: for it. Oh, I think I didn't secure about it. Yes,

889
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,439
Speaker 1: and like I think when we were scrolling that things

890
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: probably accidentally hit ex friends. Yeah, I will say I

891
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: do that now with x's. But if I see somebody

892
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 1: I haven't seen in a while, and it's like a

893
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: like a mute to well, you know how they do

894
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: that the algorithm thing on Facebook where it's like people

895
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: you may know. Yeah, it's mostly people I've slept with,

896
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: but if it weren't, maybe I've occasionally requested somebody, but

897
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: it's just because it's all that's interesting, what are they doing?

898
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: But if I've gotten with them before, or if I

899
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 1: think they're married, orf, it's a picture of them and

900
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: they're two kids and their husband probably not going to

901
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: request that. I think that's weird. Well, I actually I've

902
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 1: been with my boyfriend for a little over two years

903
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: now and we have a son together, and it's been.

904
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: It's happened a few times since I've had my son, actually,

905
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: so I think they are like, oh, let's storm out

906
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: with her, and I'm on her page and then it's

907
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: on your requests and they're like, oh no, they hurry

908
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: up and delete itification and then working it's gone a

909
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: little weird. Corene, Thank you, have a good day. Glad

910
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: you called Ore. We gonna go. So what are you

911
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: gonna do? You just you just ignore him like you're

912
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: not doing anything. I'm just thinking the problem is your boys.

913
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: Your boy's gonna go to school today and tell him

914
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: that we talked about him on the radio. We want

915
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,919
Speaker 1: to do it one or three five kids that found

916
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music stay he should eat Fred

917
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: and Angie. We had an employee event a couple of

918
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: days ago on a boat. They put us all on

919
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 1: a boat. I don't know if they I don't know why,

920
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: Like if they had it at a bar or like

921
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: in a ballroom or something that they figured people would leave,

922
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: So they put us on a boat. So like anywhere.

923
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: Once you're on the boat, then for two hours we're

924
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: held captive and there's like no place for us to go.

925
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 1: One year I'm going to escape one year. I'm gonna

926
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 1: hire like a helicopter to come and drop a basket

927
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 1: that would be so money, or like have a yacht

928
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: pull up next to it and jump on and be

929
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: like posh, you know, just so I'm gonna throw some

930
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: kind of make some kind of scene. They do it

931
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: every year, and I swear it's on purpose, because once

932
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: we're out there, then they start, you know, preaching the

933
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: scientology gospel onto us, and we have nowhere to go,

934
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. They start like brainwashing us,

935
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: and you can't escape. Yeah, I felt weird these last

936
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: few days, and one day I know that's why. But

937
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 1: on this on this boat, you know, you get to

938
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: talk to some employees, get to hang out with some folks,

939
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: some you know, something you don't know, and and obviously

940
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: the conversation gets a little weird over two to three

941
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: hours of just you know, aimless just drinking and there,

942
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 1: and there's alcohol in this boat too. But one of

943
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,280
Speaker 1: our co workers and you I wasn't privy to this conversation,

944
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: but you guys, uh, this song comes on and this

945
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: coworker of ours he says to you, guys, this song

946
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: will play at my funeral. Yeah, she's adamant about how

947
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 1: this will be her funeral song. Katy Perry roar, she

948
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: might be the last Katy Perry fan. Yeah, or just

949
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,439
Speaker 1: a song, but yeah, she might be. She say why

950
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: just because she loves Katie Perry that. She also said

951
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 1: that this song is like strong, empowering and she wants

952
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: people to be like, yes, she was just competitive. Yeah,

953
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 1: she was that chick. Okay, now that this doesn't have

954
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: to be serious, right, like, you know, it doesn't have

955
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: to be meaningful and like deep and sad. But we

956
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: can be funny about this too, But like, what song

957
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: would you want to play? What song comes to mind?

958
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: You would want it to play at your funeral? And

959
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: I don't want you to die. You're not gonna die

960
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: for a long time, long time, but let's say just

961
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: you know, to be prepared. Um, when she said that

962
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: she's doing I'm doing a state planning right now, so

963
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: I need to include this in my put it in there. Yeah,

964
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 1: when she said that she had this song for her funeral,

965
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 1: everybody was kind of like, WHOA, that's kind of morbid.

966
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: And I immediately was like, oh my god, I have

967
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: a funeral song. Too. What is it? It's purple rain.

968
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: Not only do I have it, I have been making

969
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 1: it known since like forever to my family my friends

970
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: that this better play at my funeral, and I better

971
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: see tears because you're better tears. You're gonna be watching

972
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: your funeral. Oh yeah, I've been taking notes on who

973
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: showed up cry the most, im people falling out in

974
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: the aisles. I'm not watching my funeral. No, I'd be

975
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 1: sad when like seven people show up. So now, no, no,

976
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not watching out funeral. You have a

977
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: funeral song or salad. I have not thought about it

978
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: until this morning when we when this came up, and

979
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about what I if I would go funny,

980
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: or if I would go meaningful or something. I don't

981
00:47:59,960 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: know what about you? What comes to mind for you?

982
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: I think I feel like i'd want it to be

983
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,919
Speaker 1: some EDM song because I don't want paying M. Yeah,

984
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: like an Afrojack song or like David get a song

985
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: you turn up. Yeah, I think it would lift people's

986
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: spirits because funerals, I mean, no one likes the funeral Afrojack,

987
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 1: So I don't know you got one in the Michelle

988
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: we are. We are so sorry for your loss. It

989
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: would be weird blasticks. Shelley has left the earth now,

990
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 1: which means that somebody can finally win the money. But

991
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 1: everybody to dance me out. I've been to like memorials

992
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: like that, where it is they wanted you to have

993
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: a party. I want that too, But I do want

994
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 1: a sad moment where everybody gets together and cries about that. Yeah,

995
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: the Purple Rain playing, but then I after that turn up,

996
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: that's right. I don't want that. I want everyone to

997
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: just be happy that I'm that I lived to be

998
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: happy that I was here and then now I'm gone,

999
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 1: Like whatever, I'm gone now, so it doesn't I wasn't

1000
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: scared of it, you know. Now I'm in heaven. I'm

1001
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: with my nana and my g dad and all my

1002
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: old dogs, and I just don't give a damn anymore.

1003
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 1: I want everyone to be sad, you do time why?

1004
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: I don't want people to be sad and I'm gone.

1005
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: I want them to be like, yeah, he was all

1006
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: right while he was here and now he's gone. I

1007
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: want there to be a real lost fout I whatever

1008
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: be like, wow, the world has changed. How will we

1009
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: live this person's no longer here be like he's finally

1010
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: getting laid now, like yay Fred, Hey Taylor, Hi, good morning,

1011
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: Hi Taylor. So what's your funeral song? It's not mine,

1012
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: it's my mom, but she has wanted the song for

1013
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: a long time. It's American edia. It's like green Day. Wow,

1014
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: that's a very like anarchist like rage song. Is there

1015
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 1: a reason? Really? She wants to like leave a message

1016
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: once he goes out. She wants like amazing grace of

1017
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 1: coorse something like that. But then she wants American media

1018
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: at some point played during her funeral because she wants

1019
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: people to like wow, wow, I don't know why, and

1020
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: then let's go to the are. Yeah, she wants an

1021
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: American idiot. Okay, all right, are you going to make

1022
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: that happen for her? Absolutely? Love, that's what she wants.

1023
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah, thank you, Taylor. Than have a good day.

1024
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: See hi, Brenda, how are you? Hi? How are you? Brenda?

1025
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: Good morning? Your funeral song? My funeral song would be

1026
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: stain Alive by the bast irony. Yes, let me see her.

1027
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we all know what that sounds like,

1028
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: but I can I'm trying to like talk and then

1029
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 1: pull up songs. Say Alive is also the song that

1030
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: you're supposed to give somebody CPR too, Yes, that's true.

1031
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: That's one of the best office seines of all time.

1032
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:44,240
Speaker 1: Then and then Dwight preps the hard out harvest my friend.

1033
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 1: I wanted my friend to be a green reaper though

1034
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: with the like a little boom back, Okay, walking around, Okay,

1035
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: this is getting heired. All right, thank you, Brenda. You

1036
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 1: have a good day. Cindy. Hey, Hey, what's going on? Sydey.

1037
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be morbid today. But I mean, seriously,

1038
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: have you ever thought about a song that you went

1039
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: would want played at your funeral? All the time? I

1040
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: mean years ago, I said, I want Computer Love by

1041
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: Zap and Roger to he played as a my cast

1042
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: game out of the church. I want them to walk

1043
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: through the beat why computer Love? Did you meet someone

1044
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: on the Internet or something? No, it's the beat of

1045
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 1: the beat, the song of the still. You want them

1046
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: to sort of be like dancing your casket out a

1047
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: little bit. Yes, you want like, Yeahindy Wood, you know

1048
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, I can see it. And then

1049
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 1: you should have you should have whoever like the priest

1050
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 1: is is doing the whole thing, use like the voice changer,

1051
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,720
Speaker 1: so he's all computerized. Oh yeah, like the like Zappa

1052
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: Roger whichever one did a computer or like I think

1053
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: Tim Pain used this same synthesizer from Zappa and Roger

1054
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: didn't me. I think Zappa Rogers the og though. You

1055
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: gotta have yeah yeah yeah, Sydney, haven't, hey, Jill. Yeah,

1056
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 1: By the way, I don't think you should get fancy

1057
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: with walking with the casket either, because I feel like

1058
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: when you start, if you start getting like fancy with

1059
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: your walk, that's where the thing tips over the body

1060
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: balls up point yeah, yeah, you gotta. I've been a

1061
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: Paul Bearer before, Like you gotta just keep it moving,

1062
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like just walk with the

1063
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 1: fail Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Ji hi Ji yeah Hi.

1064
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: You want this song to play? It's your funeral? Which one?

1065
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,919
Speaker 1: Oh no, this is my mom okay, obsessed with Bob

1066
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: Seger and she wants us to play roll Me Away

1067
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: as I don't think I have that song, but I

1068
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:46,760
Speaker 1: said Detroit boy, right Bob Seeger. Yeah, I'm from Michigan

1069
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 1: and my mom's obsessed with them, So that happen for her.

1070
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, I love you. Gotta get you gotta grant

1071
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: those you know, last requests for somebody, no matter how ridiculous.

1072
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, it's not about it. It's about whatever they wanted,

1073
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: what they want. Thank you, Jill, Thank you. Have a

1074
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: good day. Hey Marcella, Hi, Hi, good morning. You want

1075
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: this song to play at your funeral? It's actually a

1076
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: phone from Nurcy school. She we had to talk about

1077
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: our will and what we wanted, and she wanted to

1078
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: drop it like fot By Bucks going down while they're

1079
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: lowering it. Okay, and then four out of forty Oh

1080
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: yeah you do? Yeah, yeah, okay. I'm trying to think

1081
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: what would my song be, wouldn't the pimps in the grip?

1082
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 1: I don't know what about like Carly Ray, Carly Raid

1083
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: call me baby, yeah, baby in heaven. No, you want

1084
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: to definitely call me to heaven because I finally am

1085
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 1: in heaven and I get whatever the l I want? Well,

1086
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,479
Speaker 1: are you gonna be like your mom and get buried

1087
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 1: with your cell phone? Just in case this is not

1088
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: a joke. In my mom's will, it's actually written she

1089
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 1: wants to be married or she wants to be buried

1090
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 1: with all the ashes from all the pets that she's

1091
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: ever owned, so we have them all. She and I

1092
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,720
Speaker 1: know where they are, and god forbid in a hundred

1093
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: years when I have to do it. She wants to

1094
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: be buried with a cell phone just in case she

1095
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: wakes up. This is not a joke, and magazines in

1096
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: case she gets bored. I don't know, and apparently show

1097
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 1: Shelly wants me to be trolled even in my death.

1098
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: I love this song, okay, but we're not We're not

1099
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: doing that. We're not playing this song in my funeral. Hey,

1100
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: all those girls that didn't call me back while I

1101
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 1: was alive number there's some funny tweets. Um his song

1102
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: said I want look Alive by Drake that's funny, funny.

1103
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 1: Let's see the ghost of you by my Chemical Romance.

1104
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 1: There's a couple of people that's that dot. That's funny. Yeah,

1105
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: somebody's are deep freight and Angie on one of three

1106
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 1: five kiss up the show. Miss Shelley's is a Yeah,

1107
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:15,240
Speaker 1: the lawyers made us bleep that out. Yeah, Hi, morning morning,

1108
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: all right, Evan's back today, Evan, Yeah, it's you again.

1109
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: Two days in a row. Yea your tied with Shelley,

1110
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: which means your back this time for one thousand, one

1111
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars if you can hand her hers

1112
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: eighteenth loss previous day, the tie she'd won fourteen games

1113
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: in a row. But good money. You earn yourself fifty

1114
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: bucks by time yesterday. Are you ready to play the game?

1115
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 1: Insurance salesman with lots of time on his hands, Evan, Yeah,

1116
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: all right, okay, having good laugh than Shelley's getting in

1117
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 1: a candy in a Candy Striper out It looks like

1118
00:55:54,920 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: it's gonna be volunteering later. That's exactly right. Yeah, that's

1119
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 1: exactly right. With Kenny Striper's shoes. Kenny Striper Kids actually

1120
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 1: sponsored the office today. The outfit, without question is right

1121
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: queen only, and you would take it to CD one

1122
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:15,320
Speaker 1: Price Cleaners, which their new loss washingful Lunxury service is

1123
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: created to make everyday clothes look and feel ready. Ever Yeah,

1124
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute, he's prepared for this morning.

1125
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 1: Here we go. His whole life's all right. It's name

1126
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 1: the latest I got thrown off by the fast food question.

1127
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: Name the latest fast food restaurant to offer vegetarian options

1128
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: with Beyond Fried Chicken. Taylor Swift won't play stadiums on

1129
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: her upcoming tour for Lover. What was her last tour

1130
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: called um three? This actress was in movies like The Mask.

1131
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:57,240
Speaker 1: There's something about Mary and Charlie's Angels and his forty

1132
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: seven Today, the average American believes that the president should

1133
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 1: be forty eight years old? Is President Trump in his sixties,

1134
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: seventies or eighties? And the Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf

1135
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: is releasing limited edition Friends coffee that Rufio thinks he

1136
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: can take to Mariano's and grind for free. Yes, what

1137
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 1: was the name of the coffee shop where the characters

1138
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: hung out on the show. That's fine, it's good money good,

1139
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: it's good good. Question for is going to be the five?

1140
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: I think I think she'll get him all. I think

1141
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: he'll be a tie a gun all right, which would

1142
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: earn him one hundred dollars. By the way, so let's

1143
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: see Shelley name the fast food restaurant to offer vegetarian

1144
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 1: options with Beyond Fried Chicken Kentucky Fried Chicken. Yeah, I was,

1145
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: I was nervous. Taylor Swift won't play stadiums on her

1146
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: upcoming tour for lover. What was her last tour called

1147
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: the Reputation Tour. This actress was in movies like The Mask.

1148
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: There's something about Mary and Charlie's Angels and his forty

1149
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 1: seven today, the average American believes the president should be

1150
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: forty eight years old? Is President Trump in his sixties

1151
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: seventies or eighties three? Ties seventies seventy three? And finally,

1152
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: the coffee Beating tea Leaf is releasing limited edition Friends Coffee.

1153
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: What was the name of the coffee shop where the

1154
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: characters hung out on the show Central. That's fine, wow,

1155
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 1: time for nothing but time. You got to clear your

1156
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: schedule because you're coming back next week. This time though insurance,

1157
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 1: he said, he has not number time he's coming back.

1158
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: All right, He's got to sell some insurance to somebody

1159
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,959
Speaker 1: that meets one thousand and two, one hundred and fifty

1160
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: bucks for your second tiebreaker, third appearance in a row

1161
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:05,919
Speaker 1: on this show. So he earned yourself one hundred bucks

1162
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 1: by tying today. So it's pretty good, all right, all right, good,

1163
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: So we'll have you back next week. Hold on one second,

1164
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: twelve fifty, have a great weekend, all right, Stay right there.

1165
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 1: He's like yeah, whatever, man, just what. I dared his

1166
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 1: whole life for this. Yeah. You know, normally people they

1167
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: make those big statements and then they get zero or one.

1168
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was waiting for it. Yeah he almost

1169
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: he almost missed the camerds one. It was at the buzzer. Yes,

1170
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: you almost missed the Donald Trump question. Oh yeah, I

1171
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 1: was like these sixties or seven yeah, rights, not eighties.

1172
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 1: So yeah. Shelby Shelly Radio program ten dude right here

1173
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: on this channel one of three to five what do

1174
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 1: you guys? Coming off? Guess is on the show today.

1175
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: One of my favorites, John Travolta. He has this movie

1176
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: out coming off a lot and then call you by

1177
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: the wrong name, had a trophy or ry. I didn't

1178
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: know he was such a sy on this station. Yeah,

1179
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: show first. I would love drag show, Shelley. Yeah, it's

1180
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: something that I'm sure we could arranged that. I know

1181
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: you would arranged that. Oh my god. Fun I think

1182
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,959
Speaker 1: that we've had drag somebody's birthday, we've had drag, angy drag.

1183
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: So drag show, Shelley, it's your birthday, a Shelly, have

1184
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: a great day. We'll see you. Tempt you by and

1185
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 1: James all right, it is Friday. You know what time?

1186
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: It is a Friday throw back dance party with detain Erotic.

1187
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: Paulina is here. Hey, if you want to shout out,

1188
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: hit us up at one of the five kiss of

1189
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 1: M hashtag ft DP, p boy, it's a Friday for

1190
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: a back dance party with Fred and Engy. On one

1191
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: of three five kiss up all right hashtag ft DP

1192
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,480
Speaker 1: if you want that shout out. Paulina, I got you listen,

1193
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 1: we got less Clie, we got list Caitlin's listening out

1194
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: in Aurora. Mike Danita, this is the fredded Angie Friday

1195
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: throw Back Dance Party with DJ and Erotic in the mix.

1196
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: On one of three five kiss up M all right,

1197
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: shot him on Paulina, all right, we got Erica out

1198
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:20,439
Speaker 1: here listening in Midway. What up Partney and of course

1199
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: everybody else in Chicago. We see you, Hire you, Bobbie.

1200
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: It's Franchie Friday and the throwback dance party. On one

1201
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: of three five kiss FM, use that hashtag ft DP.

1202
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 1: Paulina shot him out. Hey, d G Eurotic, I see you.

1203
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: Mama's listening, d G Erotics mom and of course Tina

1204
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: and more people out here. An back dance party with

1205
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: Fredd and Angie on one of three five kiss up

1206
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: m Yo Neurotic, thank you for playing that beaver baby.

1207
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: Appreciate that nobody's having a baby. Oh you gotta see

1208
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: the voice of an angel. Paulino Afio Radio. Check it out.

1209
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: This is the Fredded Angie Friday Throwback Dance Party with

1210
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: DJ rot It get a mix on one of three

1211
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: five hashtag ft t P shout him out, Paulina, Alejandro Dana,

1212
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: right back up, we see Pauline. We out here. Man,

1213
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: It's Franchie Friday and the Throwback Dance Party. On one

1214
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: of three five Kiss f M. Stop dipping over there, Paulina.

1215
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 1: I can't help it, man, get them shout outs going

1216
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: ft go go go get shout out to you Bernice

1217
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 1: and Rodrigo. What up Chicago backa Ki check out d

1218
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 1: Jake No Rodic woe crushing it bro Yeah, thank you

1219
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: Vernmark rushing it once again another Friday throwback dance party.

1220
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: Thank you to everyone for um chiming in yes and trending.

1221
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 1: We're trending to hashtag FTDP. I know slab in a weekend.

1222
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: I know you got some places you're gonna be at

1223
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: people who can't you live? Where can they see this weekend?

1224
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 1: D catch me tomorrow outside of the all out events

1225
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 1: at the Sear Center. Whatever right, sing, yeah, of course

1226
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: is wrestling. I'll outside party tomorrow me flip Gordon Colt Cabana. Okay, yeah,

1227
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: and uh, happy birthday. Shout out to my friend Peck.

1228
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 1: It's his birthday. Happy. Yeah, I got you. That's at

1229
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 1: the Sear Center. But tomorrow tomorrow I might stop by.

1230
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 1: I'll be out. I'll be out there. Jess As mom

1231
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: lives out there and I'm doing barbecue. So I'm to

1232
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: the barbecue first. Okay, I invite you, but sure whatever, Yes,

1233
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm mixing two the five Pierre not at the barbecue.

1234
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: Chica who was number one hit was a station one

1235
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 1: or three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one hit music station.

1236
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: It's Fred and Agie Um. A North Carolina school teacher

1237
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 1: had no idea that what she did in her personal

1238
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: time would cause her to lose her job. Her name

1239
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: is Candice Mason. She was gearing up to start teaching

1240
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: sixth graders at a middle school when she unexpectedly was

1241
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: suspended for being a part time pole dance instructor I

1242
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 1: was really excited. I already had my classroom, she said. However,

1243
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 1: a video of this woman pole dancing in her home

1244
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 1: was supposted to her private Facebook account was then linked

1245
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: to the public school board. I've worked so hard to

1246
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: try and make sure that i can provide for my

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01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 1: daughters in our livelihood, and to have a jeopardize just

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01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: for doing something that I'm passionate about, she explained. The

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01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: pole dancing allows you to express herself and provides an

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01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: additional income for her household. In addition to teaching and

1251
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: pole dancing, the single mother has a master's in psychology,

1252
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 1: a bachelor's in English, and a certificate in flebotomy as well.

1253
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: She's been suspended from the school with pay for violating

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01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: the employee Personal Use of Social Media policy. Employees are,

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01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 1: according to the documents given to her, employees are responsible

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01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: for their public conduct even if they're not performing their

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01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 1: job duties as employees of the school system. So I

1258
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of teachers who listen to us.

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01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 1: A lot of folks the video is going up if

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01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: it's not already there at fred dancing, What does she

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01:04:55,360 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: do wrong? Like class? Like is more of a workout thing.

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01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: It's like a class you can take at the gym.

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01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 1: Right I don't understand like what the problem is right

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01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: right now? Much a busybody ass mom is the one

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01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 1: that forward that to the board because she's a hater

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01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 1: reading reading this and after you said that she has

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01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 1: all those degrees, I'm pretty certain that she's got those

1268
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: student loans. I mean, think about it. Teachers really don't

1269
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: make a lot of money and it really sucks. I'm

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01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: not going to get into that, but it's really unfortunate. Well,

1271
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm looking at this video the pull dancing is whatever.

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01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 1: They're blurring out the bottom half of what she's wearing

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01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: on the news, which makes me wonder are they being

1274
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: super conservative? Where was she wearing a thong or something? Was?

1275
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: Was the issue that she was exposing too much skin?

1276
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 1: Is on her private video page? I mean, how is

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01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: it any different than I'm wearing a swimsuit. If she

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01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 1: wore a swimsuit, would they you know, suspender, I really

1279
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:53,520
Speaker 1: can't argue the other side of this. It does seem ridiculous.

1280
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it was it's a private Facebook page. The

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01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 1: only people that she allowed should have been able to

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01:05:58,120 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: see it. Sounds like one of her friends or somebody

1283
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: who did allow then tipped tipped off the school board

1284
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 1: or whatever. But as a teacher, do you it is

1285
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: that a trade off that you make that I just

1286
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: can't post stuff like that on social media, Like there

1287
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 1: can't be a picture of me and a thong or

1288
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: me and a skimpy bikini or whatever this is. Again,

1289
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't see what it is, so

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01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. You can go watch the video and

1291
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: be the judge, but I mean, is that just the

1292
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: way it goess? Like, look, kids are gonna get access

1293
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: to this stuff, maybe potentially, and so why don't we?

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01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: So that's that's what I agree to as a teacher,

1295
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: is that I'm not I don't get to go on

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01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 1: Instagram and post pictures of me partying or pictures of

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01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:34,400
Speaker 1: me in a swimsuit or pictures of me kissing someone.

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01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: That's just as part of the deal. I mean, is

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01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: it or is that unfair? Hey Megan, Hey Megan, welcome

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01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: to Fred Nancy. How are you. I'm good, very well.

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01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 1: So you heard the whole story and the videos up

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01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: on the website. What do you think? Oh, I am

1303
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 1: a teacher, and you know they always tell us no

1304
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 1: matter what, even if you are at the school or not.

1305
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 1: You are a teacher first, you know, so you've kind

1306
01:06:59,320 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: of got a put your um personal life not on

1307
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: social media. So I mean, my profiles are all super

1308
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 1: private and you have to be friends with me. But

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01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: even still, I don't post stuff. If I did something,

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01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: even if it's something innocent it's extra dancing, exercising, I

1311
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't put that out there that I'm doing it, because

1312
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 1: of course you could argue like, look, I have a

1313
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 1: right to do that. I wasn't doing anything illegal. If

1314
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 1: this stuff is done in public gyms, in big glass

1315
01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 1: rooms all the time you walk by the gym, you

1316
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: see it going on, like she's doesn't stripped, She wasn't stripping.

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01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 1: There wasn't It wasn't sex act or anything like that.

1318
01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:40,919
Speaker 1: But you know what I wonder is on the flip side,

1319
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 1: do you it is this just part of the deal,

1320
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 1: like I so, so, yes, I have a right to

1321
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 1: do it, But because it could be seen, and because

1322
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: I'm influencing young minds and because they're not mature enough

1323
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 1: to understand what I'm doing and I'm the adult, then

1324
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 1: I just don't get to share that. Oh and I

1325
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: think the part of the issue is that she's sharing

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01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: it on social media. It was I understand, but yeah,

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01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 1: even myself, I would never post something like that because

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01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,040
Speaker 1: they don't want somebody to come across right and take

1329
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 1: it the wrong way. Megan, do you think it warrants

1330
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 1: her being suspended from teaching? Now? I mean I don't

1331
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: personally agree with her being suspended, but you know, we

1332
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 1: all sign our contracts and stuff like that saying that

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01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: we'll have this higher moral standard. So there was nothing

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01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 1: immoral about it. That's the thing. Like, I don't think

1335
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 1: it was immoral. I mean we I don't necessarily agree

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01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: that it is, but it also is up to the

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01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:45,400
Speaker 1: school district. Yeah, yeah, I mean she agreed to pretty

1338
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: loose terms, and I suppose that you know, one's moral compass,

1339
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 1: you know, it varies from person to person, and someone

1340
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 1: has to ultimately say, like, we're gonna set the example

1341
01:08:54,680 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 1: with this woman. You can't wear your swimsuit or whatever

1342
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: she's wearing. Lead I don't even know what it is.

1343
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 1: Two pieces something, um and do it and again you

1344
01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: know which sounds you took all the right precautions. But

1345
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 1: then maybe that's just part of the deal. I'm a teacher.

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01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't get to post that. Thank you, Megan, have

1347
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 1: a good day. Glad you call Hi Donna, Yeah, Hi Donna,

1348
01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: good morning. What do you want to say? Welcome to

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01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:15,680
Speaker 1: the show. By the way, Hi, thank you so much. Um.

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01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 1: I don't think it's so much from the moral it's

1351
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 1: like like that. I think it's absolutely ridiculous. I just

1352
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: think it's a matter of like, I'm a teacher. I

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01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: can potentially see one of my kids anywhere. Yesterday I

1354
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 1: was out and about and I was well, I was

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01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: getting ready to leave, and the shorts that I had

1356
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: on were fine to walk around my house, but not

1357
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 1: necessarily fine from one of my high school students to

1358
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: see me. And I went inside and I changed folks,

1359
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:41,600
Speaker 1: and that was kind of fist for a minute, like

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01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 1: it's the summertime I'm worth. This was so that I

1361
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 1: was like, if one of my kids seed me and

1362
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:53,400
Speaker 1: then I say something to them during the school year

1363
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 1: about their clothes, it's gonna be a mess. So do

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01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 1: you consider it then, Donna? Is it just this is

1365
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: just part of being a teach. You're in twenty eighteen

1366
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:04,640
Speaker 1: or whatever? Is that Unfortunately I'm gonna be or I

1367
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 1: could be unfairly judged, or I I could be seen

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01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 1: in a light that even though it's not intended, or

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01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: others wouldn't see it, my students might. So it's it

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01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: just is just part of the deal. Now, yeah, I agree,

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01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:17,880
Speaker 1: it's just this part of the deal, the same way

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01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: a heart sergeant shouldn't be on the corner smoking a cigarette.

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01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: That's just so. It's like a branding thing too, because

1374
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 1: I mean, looks ultimately in this job, you know, we

1375
01:10:26,840 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 1: can go out and drink excessively if we feel like it,

1376
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 1: or we can go out and do whatever we want

1377
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:32,720
Speaker 1: within the limits of the law. But I don't know

1378
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 1: that it's a great look. I mean, somebody could take

1379
01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: a picture of us in the club act and a

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01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 1: fool and then put that out there and be like, well,

1381
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,040
Speaker 1: this guy talks to kids, and am I doing the

1382
01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: wrong thing? Am I? Is it against the law? What

1383
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: I did? No? But could someone put that image in

1384
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: you know, out there and then put it in the

1385
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 1: wrong light and then did I kind of subject myself

1386
01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:52,880
Speaker 1: to that? But what are you supposed to do? Supposed

1387
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: to be a nun and like never leave the house?

1388
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 1: What I mean, somebody else where helped you a different standard,

1389
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 1: whether it's fair or unfair. And I think maybe teachers

1390
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: are being held to a different standard. And I don't know,

1391
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 1: maybe maybe you could call it unfair, or you could

1392
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 1: say this is what this is. This is a by

1393
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:09,640
Speaker 1: product of what I'm signing up to do. Is that

1394
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: I don't you know, I can't show up to the

1395
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 1: community pool in my in my ass flaws. We have

1396
01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 1: dress called this pool for students and you can't yet.

1397
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:24,560
Speaker 1: But at school you too. Yeah, I understand that in

1398
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:27,679
Speaker 1: school on school grounds, I get that, And I understand

1399
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: that you guys are held to a standard and you

1400
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 1: sign contracts. It's just I don't love it. Sucks for

1401
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:34,679
Speaker 1: you guys. I feel bad that you you can't really

1402
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: live your life. I don't love it. But on the

1403
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:42,240
Speaker 1: flip side, you know, yeah, go ahead, sigment, what huh?

1404
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 1: I was like, it's but the thing is that I

1405
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 1: said I didn't want the hassle of a student seeing

1406
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 1: me in those sharks yesterday. I was like, I'm not

1407
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 1: going to be able to live this now, alloy. This

1408
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 1: is Roberts Sharts. Why can't I whether? Yeah, they don't

1409
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 1: pay you enough. I'm telling you you have to sign

1410
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 1: your life away. Agree on that you guys are heroes.

1411
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: You take care of our kids every day, you're shaping

1412
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 1: minds and they pay you peanuts. And then, by the way,

1413
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:12,600
Speaker 1: don't wear short shorts, don't wear your ass flaws, but

1414
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 1: you can wear it around me. It's fine. Thank you, Donna,

1415
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a good day. One three five, Chicago's

1416
01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:23,599
Speaker 1: number one hit music stage. If Fred and Angie are here,

1417
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 1: How would you feel if you all of you? How

1418
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 1: would you feel if you've found out And I'm not

1419
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:30,600
Speaker 1: sure there is something I would admit to you, by

1420
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 1: the way, but how would you feel if you've found

1421
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 1: out that your partner was having dreams about cheating on you?

1422
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: Because apparently it's very common. According to a Lisa the

1423
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 1: people who make the beds or whatever the bedding beds,

1424
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 1: sixty percent of women have had a dream about cheating

1425
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 1: on their partner. They asked a thousand people, so six

1426
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 1: hundred women have admitted cheating on their partner. Dreams about

1427
01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 1: a past partner can be triggered by anything running into them,

1428
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 1: to spotting something that they posted on Instagram, to go

1429
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,160
Speaker 1: into a place that used to frequent together. The fact

1430
01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:03,800
Speaker 1: that you dream cheated with an X is likely just

1431
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: the result of your slumbering brain returning to a familiar place,

1432
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 1: rather than you actually wanted to get back together with

1433
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 1: this person. Nonetheless, everybody has those dreams. I don't think anything. Yeah,

1434
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: I've had those dreams. Have you Are you cheating in

1435
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 1: the dreamer? Are you just having sex with someone else?

1436
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 1: So it's cheating like in the dream? Are you dating

1437
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:26,639
Speaker 1: that person? Oh? I don't know that. That's a little

1438
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 1: bit deeper than i'd consider. No, honestly, I'm I'm not

1439
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 1: making fun of you. I just I would I guess

1440
01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: if you're sleeping with them, having sex with them, then

1441
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 1: you're that Yeah, oh okay, what are you talking about.

1442
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 1: They're having a romantic meal. I guess so in the dream,

1443
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 1: if I'm dating my current boyfriend and then I cheat,

1444
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 1: that's different than having just like a general sex dream.

1445
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: And in the dream you're not. Guys went to Ikea together.

1446
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 1: The dream sticking move situation. I can get over that.

1447
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 1: But wait a minute. You two went on vacation together.

1448
01:13:57,120 --> 01:14:00,560
Speaker 1: Were you holding hands? Um? I would you hold that

1449
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:02,720
Speaker 1: against somebody? Would you know? I think, like you said,

1450
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 1: dreams are kind of like from what I understand there's

1451
01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 1: sort of like a recap of it could be of

1452
01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 1: your day or of like something that an event that

1453
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 1: happened to you. I think it's also a situational though,

1454
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:12,800
Speaker 1: like we can all sit here and say in happy really,

1455
01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:14,599
Speaker 1: like if you're a happy relationship, like, oh, I wouldn't

1456
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,559
Speaker 1: be upset about that. But if there was any vulnerability person, right,

1457
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,400
Speaker 1: if there was any vulnerability in the relationship whatsoever, and

1458
01:14:20,479 --> 01:14:22,080
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden you reveal that you're having

1459
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 1: these dreams about cheating, I can see that being a

1460
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 1: thing if even if the two things are unrelated, if

1461
01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 1: my relationship is vulnerable, I would hope that you wouldn't

1462
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 1: tell me that you had a dream that you were

1463
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: banging your ax or something. Well, I don't think you

1464
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 1: should ever reveal that, right, Like why you that's I

1465
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 1: feel like that's one of those things that you don't share,

1466
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 1: Like why what's the value in hand? Good morning? Hate?

1467
01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:45,920
Speaker 1: Passed the cream? So last night? Two? Never do dreams

1468
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 1: and number like count body count? Body count? Yeah, you

1469
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: mean the number of people that you've been intimate with

1470
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:57,920
Speaker 1: body body count? Every time? All doesn't everyone have sex

1471
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:00,680
Speaker 1: dreams about like some time I haven't been in a

1472
01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 1: relationship and so long that I don't know if those

1473
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 1: would cease to exist. I have no idea. I would

1474
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 1: assume they don't. It's just and I don't think dreams

1475
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 1: are that literal, like where it means you are longing

1476
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:15,680
Speaker 1: for that or you miss somebody. I think dreams can

1477
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 1: be just so random and stupid. That's a lot of

1478
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:23,599
Speaker 1: people those sixty Hey Aubrey, Hey, Hey, good morning. What's

1479
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:27,360
Speaker 1: what's your thought? Right? Well, I have them weirdly enough,

1480
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:30,439
Speaker 1: and I'm totally happy on my current relationship. But I

1481
01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 1: always call her dream Aubrey because people will come up

1482
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: to me in the dream and be like, hey, you

1483
01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: know you're with so and so, And I'm like, yeah,

1484
01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 1: but I don't care. Like dream Aubrey never cares a

1485
01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:47,360
Speaker 1: bit of a harlot yeah, And I tell him and

1486
01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 1: he's like, what the heck. I'm like, I don't know,

1487
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,720
Speaker 1: but she don't care. I do. I wake up mad

1488
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 1: at my own self because I'm like, yeah, I feel

1489
01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 1: icky when I wake up, and after having one of

1490
01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: those dreams, I'm like, what's wrong with me? Yeah? Parts

1491
01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:02,000
Speaker 1: then when you look over and realize it wasn't a dream,

1492
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 1: of that person's actually there. You're like, oh my god,

1493
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 1: oh leave, Oh my god, why are you still here?

1494
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 1: Thank you Aubrey. Have a good day. I'd like to

1495
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 1: meet Dream Aubrey one day, by the way, because apparently

1496
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 1: Dream Aubrey just doesn't care. I like to lux Dream Aubrey. Yeah,

1497
01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 1: she's she's living her best life. Dream Aubrey is