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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha and welcome to Stephane

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Speaker 1: Never told your protection of iHeart Radio, and welcome to

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Speaker 1: another edition of advocates and activists around the world. That's

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Speaker 1: a that's on your title, okay, um And we want

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Speaker 1: to celebrate the amazing people who are doing and have

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Speaker 1: the entire world and say thank you and give you

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Speaker 1: flowers as per usual. But before we start, Adie, I

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Speaker 1: have a question for you. It's not hard, it is hard.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. How do you feel about team sports

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Speaker 1: and were you actively a part of them? M hmm.

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Speaker 1: is I liked playing in them. I'm very competitive, but

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Speaker 1: the stress was way too much. Samantha. It was so much,

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Speaker 1: except that, like the whole thing, you know, it's hard

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Speaker 1: not to be like if I fail, then it's all

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Speaker 1: And why are we talking about that today? Why am

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Speaker 1: I asking these questions? Well, because I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: an amazing thing to be able to be in sports

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Speaker 1: but also combating the many, many things that oftentimes can traumatized,

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Speaker 1: about her. You're ready. Abandoned at an orphanage in Saigon,

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Speaker 1: including her sexual identity. Right so Late refers to her

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