1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: Seacrest this Wednesday morning. So you had first of December today, 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: twenty four days till Christmas. Tonight is the fourth night 4 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: of Hanukkah and sunshine pretty perfect for the first day 5 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: of December. If you're listening around the country, listen to 6 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: this highs around eight. Jeez, upper eight Inland. I just 7 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: know so many people listen to the radio and serious 8 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: XM and you're you're putting layers on, boots on, you're 9 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: bracing your face and yourself to get outside. And here 10 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: is something in California with the eighties and upper eighties, 11 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: and it's gonna be almost too hot. I want it cooler. 12 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:53,279 Speaker 1: It is too hot for December in the six right now. 13 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: You want it cooler until you live in cold and 14 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,959 Speaker 1: then you would say I'll take the eighties. I said cooler. 15 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: I did not say cold. What mid sixties? Mid sixties, 16 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: that's still not real, that's still that's like we can 17 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: wear hugs and yeah, yeah, it's all about the accessories, 18 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: all right. Look us sisty stand by because you need 19 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 1: to fill out the surveyor form. It's woe Baby Wednesday. 20 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: Are you ready for that check in with How does 21 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: she know she's fifteen weeks? Did you have to think 22 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: about that? I did, because he kind of stopped counting 23 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: the weeks. I might switch it to months at this point. 24 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what's the whole thing about. You gotta 25 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: call babies thirty eight months and not a couple of 26 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: years old. Right? You kind of stop at like eighteen 27 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: months or like twelve months, do you? Because I have 28 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: friends that went further than that. To me, after one year, 29 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: it's one year in a month, I think, so she's 30 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: a year. Yeah, two days until our Kiss FM sold 31 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: out jingle Ball presented by Capital One and call him 32 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: one of two. It's picking up some tickets to that 33 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: right now. This is Chris Say on the line and 34 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: Chino Hells. Chris say, how are you? Good morning? Hi, 35 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: Good morning Rain. How are you super good? How are 36 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: you doing in Chino Hills? I'm doing wonderful. Hopefully you 37 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: guys are doing great as well. So far, so good. 38 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: But it's all just started. We could go either direction. 39 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: How can we help you? Well? You know I called 40 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: because I remember hearing a segment where Susany was stating that, uh, 41 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: you know, she took her kids to the park and 42 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: it was like, you know, kind of chaotic taking them 43 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: to the restroom. So I just kind of wanted to 44 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: give her a tip of what I would do when 45 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: I had my kids with me. You were at the park, 46 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: so you know, yeah, so it gets chaotic, you know, 47 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: like you know, you're having them on the swing and 48 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: one of them like, I gotta go to the restroom. 49 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: I can't hold it. So what I would do, I 50 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: was taking my kids a little larger plotting thing, you know, 51 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: the one you teach them to use the rest from 52 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: the toilet in, and I would take in the car 53 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: and have them do their business and dump it out. 54 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: It's so much easier, you don't have to worry about 55 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: the public restroom and grossness. So it worked for me. 56 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, it's so funny. That is 57 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: such a good tip. And I actually do travel with 58 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: their little portable toilet because it's happened to us where 59 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: we've been on like a going down to Orange County 60 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: to my parents. Yeah, like a little road trip, and 61 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to stop at a gas station or whatever, 62 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: so I do just have them do their business um 63 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: in the toilet. But stop on the side of the 64 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: road to do your business. We should all have one 65 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: of these. Yeah, shame writing. They sell adult funnels, by 66 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: the way. I only know that if I bought one, 67 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: I don't know that I could talk about it. But 68 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: they make them. And I only know this because somebody 69 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: deemed me when I was talking about how I had 70 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom when I was in line 71 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: to get my vaccine at Dodger Stadium and I had 72 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: to use a porter potty during like peak covid um. 73 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: So anyways, just you know, sidebar that, But thank you 74 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: so much for the tip. I often stop at a 75 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: taco bell then buy a taco and used the bathroom. Yeah, 76 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: all right, thanks for calling Chris, say let's get your 77 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: morning hack. Then I have a quote of the day today. 78 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: So this is the time when you're most likely to 79 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: fight with your spouse. Be aware of this time of year, 80 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: and it's not a time of day situational. The time 81 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: you are most likely to fight with your partner is 82 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: after a party. Oh after a party, because you're a 83 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: little drunk. Men tend to exaggerate something about their wives 84 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: for a laugh at many which makes people not happy. Yeah, 85 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: remember the All Too Well music video by Taylor Swift. 86 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: I don't he didn't make her, He didn't. It was 87 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: a party they had, like a dinner party, and they 88 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: got into a big, big fight after. It was about 89 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: a hand grabbing. It wasn't like he made for her. 90 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: Ryan's right, Well, I'm not right. This is the universe 91 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: of Chicago that did this. I they said. On the 92 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: women's side, women might flirt with other men for an 93 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: ego boost, which angers their husbands. So it's at the party. 94 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: I'm thinking alcohol is involved in all of the times. 95 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 1: I think so too, and it definitely accentuates the emotion. 96 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: But just be respectful at the party, exactly. You never 97 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: want to make your spouse the butt of your joke, 98 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: no ever ever, all right, or talk behind their back. Yeah, 99 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 1: well let's give it today's quote. Until you get comfortable 100 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,799 Speaker 1: with being alone, you'll never know if you're choosing someone 101 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: out of love or loneliness. So painful tubs bring in 102 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: Emmy Melly on our zoom here. Uh and it's nice. 103 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm great? How are you nice to 104 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: see you? I'm doing well. Thanks. So I just kind 105 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: of set this all up for everybody. If you know 106 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: the name, I mean Melly from TikTok, then you know 107 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: what's about to happen here? But born and born in Torrance, 108 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: right and then raising long beach. Yes, yes that's correct, 109 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: I mean literally in our backyard. Yeah? Did you did? You? 110 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: Did you always want to be a performer at a 111 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: young age? Yeah? To be honest, this is all I've 112 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: been doing my entire life. I came out singing and 113 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: dancing and performing, and I've loved it for as long 114 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: as I can remember. I've never really wanted to do 115 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: anything else. So this is all kind of a dream 116 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: come true for me. And then you put out this 117 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: song that everybody's following on a TikTok called I Am 118 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: a Woman. What was What was your reaction to see 119 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: the response that everybody had to it? Um? It kind 120 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: of took a while for it to really set in. Um, 121 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: I'm sure you can imagine, like what it would be 122 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: like for your life to just suddenly change overnight. You know, 123 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: I posted a video on Tuesday night, just doing what 124 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: I always do, and then on Wednesday I woke up 125 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, my world was fast crazy. 126 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: It's amazing, literally that fast, And you know, I've been 127 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 1: doing this for years and years, so for it to 128 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: just boom like all of a sudden. But this is 129 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: a this is a song of empowerment that a lot 130 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: of women are are using and spreading, which is such 131 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: a beautiful thing with their photos and other stories on TikTok. Yeah, 132 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: you know what, It's genuinely the most amazing and beautiful, 133 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: incredible thing I've ever experienced. I can't tell you how 134 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: it feels too to wake up and see all these 135 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: amazing women feeling so empowered. You know. I don't know 136 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: if you've seen the workout videos, mpian videos, just all 137 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: these body positivity videos, people dancing around their room like 138 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: feeling like they can finally love themselves. It's pretty much 139 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: every artist dream come true to know that your music 140 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: is is really influencing people and the positive and it's 141 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: such a strongly positive way. Here's here's a clip of 142 00:07:50,720 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: I Am Woman, I Am Ye. You're looking at Emmy 143 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: Melli with us here on Kiss. I'm interested, you know, 144 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: because we've been playing songs here for many, many years 145 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: on Kiss FM, and then comes TikTok, and so many 146 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: artists are getting their breaks through TikTok. How has that 147 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: been such a part of your life and what is 148 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: it meant to be able to do it directly? Yeah, So, 149 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: you know, TikTok I kind of always just used as 150 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 1: a tool for exposure. Um. When I first started putting 151 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: out music, I TikTok was a new thing, and I 152 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: kind of was just like should I you know, I 153 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not really sure if I would consider 154 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: myself necessarily a creator as much as um a musician. 155 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: So I was mostly just using it as a tool. 156 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: And UM, I enjoy it. I en aoy it. I 157 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: like hearing people's feedback, and I think it's a really 158 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: great way to directly communicate with the people that you 159 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: that are going to be listening to your music, you know, 160 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: like really get a feel for who your audience is. 161 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: And I think it's a little bit more intimate of 162 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 1: an experienced and immediate immediate, as you said, from Tuesday 163 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: to Wednesday morning, Tuesday night to Wednesday morning. I also 164 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: read something about you which I thought was so cool, 165 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,599 Speaker 1: Uh that you write your goals on sticky notes and 166 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: put them on the back of your door. Yes, I do. 167 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: I do that. Um, I've been doing that since I 168 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: moved out my parents house. Um, every single apartment that 169 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: I've been at actually has had a sticky note wall. Uh, 170 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: And I I kind of just take my wildest dreams 171 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: and my wildest goals, even if they seem totally out 172 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: of touch, as if it would be something I wouldn't 173 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: be able to do for years and years. I just 174 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: write them on sticky notes and just cover my wall 175 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: in the sticky notes. And what's incredible is that I 176 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: don't even most days, I don't really even look at 177 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: them or pay attention to them. But somehow just having 178 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: that goal there to wake up and yeah, she manifest Yeah. Well, 179 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: you know, I think if it were me and my 180 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: apartment moving away from my parents the first tikenob make 181 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: rent pay for gas, there'd be like so many things 182 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: that I just like, I literally have been working two 183 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: jobs up until a week and a half ago, and 184 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 1: now you got to quick one both quick both good 185 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: for you. I mean, that's that's not awesome, I'm sure 186 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: for your employers, but that's awesome in terms of step 187 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: of success for you. And what high school did you 188 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,839 Speaker 1: go to? I went to Los Alamidos High School. I 189 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: had a feeling, yeah like that seal Beach rossmore Long Beach, 190 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: where Tanya and I are both alumni from Los Alamidos 191 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: High School. Go Griffin's. Yeah, that's so cool. So much 192 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 1: local talent coming out of Low sal on this corse, 193 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: There we go, There we go gets done. Check her 194 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: out any at Emmy Melly Music on TikTok. It's so 195 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: nice to meet you, and congratulations on all the success 196 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: um and the fact that you got to quit both 197 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: your jobs to do what you love. That's awesome. Thank 198 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: you so much. I'm sure we'll see you soon somewhere. 199 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: Take care. Thanks. That's really cool that you guys are 200 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: all in the same high school, different times, same school. 201 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 1: It breeds talent different times. For for sure, she for 202 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: sure goes to Volcano Burger money. Well that's on one 203 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: of her post it's make payment of Volcano Burger. Ever 204 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: since Sissany you started having children, we've come up with 205 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: these sort of questionnaire templates that we fill out about 206 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: babies and or pregnancy. Once the veg grows up a 207 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: little bit, we're gonna be looking to other team members 208 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: here for our whoa whatever Wednesdays. I like that idea involved. Still, 209 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: you're still in a relationship Oh yeah, Oh we got 210 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: a suitor tomy. You still in relationship? Sure I am, 211 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: because it was it was it was hump day bump day, 212 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: and there was new moon mom Monday like that. No, 213 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: it was hump day bump day. And then after Monday 214 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: and I had the twins, and then I would think 215 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: it was twining Tuesday. We did that for a while 216 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: and then we went back to hump day bump day 217 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: for survey, and then here we are again. The company 218 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: should give you an extra week off. You've given us 219 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: too many segments and now the latest or whoa baby? Wednesday? 220 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: I check up on the newest member to the team. 221 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: Here baby fifteen weeks? All right, so this week, what 222 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: did she learn to do at fifteen weeks? Uh? Tummy 223 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: time was the highlight this week, which is very normal 224 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: at this stage. You kind of want them to start lifting, 225 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: gaining those neck muscles and being able to push off 226 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: the ground and start lifting up and stuff like that. 227 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: She kind of gets sick of it after five minutes 228 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: or seven. It's like an exercise. Yeah, it's like an 229 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: X your size, but you put toys and you put 230 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: things and encourage her to kind of like reach for them. 231 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 1: And all milestoness to reach and tell us about the 232 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: twins at this stage, how are they doing? So they're 233 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: exploring their individualities and actually the rest of this form 234 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: it turned into a lot of things about them because, um, 235 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: right now there they really are just I got I guess, yeah, 236 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 1: exploring their individualities. And for starters, they don't want to, um, 237 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 1: take baths or showers together anymore, so we do separate showers. Yeah. 238 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm totally fine with that too. And honestly, it's it's 239 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: easier when when I am one on one with them. 240 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: It is a walk in the park. It is so 241 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: simple when they're together, and it's it's like chaos. Well, 242 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: then they team up. They've got I mean numbers, right, 243 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 1: they can team up in numbers. They've got their their partner. 244 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: What's the moment that really made you laugh? I guess 245 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: let's stick with aisan maxim. This is a good one. Okay. 246 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: So Aisa revealed to us that I kind of was 247 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: fishing for it. She basically has a crush on the boy. Really, yes, 248 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: And so this is at dinner and then and so 249 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: then Michael goes well like almost like he was like, well, 250 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: tell me more about him? Or what, and she got 251 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: so she looked at me and she got so embarrassed, 252 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: almost like mom saved me, Like she already has these 253 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: feelings of like I don't want to talk to daddy 254 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 1: about boys, but I was, I'm okay talking to Mommy 255 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 1: about him. We're programmed. It's such a young age to 256 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: get embarrassed about all of that. The first time we've 257 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: talk about that. It's it's fascinating, which is why I 258 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: cracked up. I literally lost it and I just heard 259 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: it laughing. And she's only three. We're in trouble. She's 260 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: three years old, you guys, Yeah, that's I mean, I 261 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: don't know, but that seems early. I remember having crushes 262 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: in kindergarten. I definitely do. Really you can remember kindergarten 263 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: K three six runs together except for Social Studies that 264 00:14:56,640 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: one class. I remember. All right, what about let's see 265 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: the realist moment of the last week for our woe 266 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: baby Wednesday form this one, Like literally I felt every 267 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: emotion in my heart for and I. So I got 268 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: my booster shot last Friday, the Friday after Thanksgiving, um, 269 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: and I brought Max in with me because he quite honestly, 270 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: him and Asa were just driving each other crazy. So 271 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: I was like, it's time to separate, Maxine, you come 272 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: with me. I got it at Ralph's like super chill, 273 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: we'll do some grocery shopping afterwards. And so I sit 274 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: down in the back room to get it. And he 275 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: saw the needle and I think he panicked, thinking like 276 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: it was going to be a shot for him, even 277 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: though I told him it wasn't. So I sit down 278 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: and he goes, Mommy, do you want me to hold 279 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 1: your hands so you're not scared melting moment, I know, 280 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: And so he held my hand and I got the 281 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: shot and it just, you know, it's a cute tears, 282 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: not because of the shop, more because of no I'm saying, 283 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: because that's what I'm saying. Yeah, I will be crying 284 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: as a parent through everything, both the tough stuff and 285 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: all the melty stuff. It's yes, you will, beautiful. Madison 286 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: is on the phone. It's Wednesday morning already, the first 287 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: day of December. Yeah, how can we help you? Hi? Um, 288 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 1: So I'm calling to see if I'm over reacting or not. 289 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: Um My sister is having a first birthday parties for 290 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: her daughter, my niece. So I love so much um, 291 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: and I was looking forward to it and like, you know, 292 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: I got her gift and everything, and like I'm definitely 293 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: gonna be the favorite auntie. Um. But she Actually, my 294 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 1: sister just texted me yesterday and asked if I could 295 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: wear long sleeves to the party to cover up my 296 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: tattoos because I have like, you know, basically full sleeves 297 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: on both arms. Um. And it really offended me, Like, 298 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if it's like the other 299 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: mom friends are there and like I don't know, are 300 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: weird about tattoos or whatever, because there's gonna be other 301 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: moms and other kids. But like it actually really hurt 302 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: my feelings and made me not want to go and 303 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: be a part of like this very important day, am 304 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: am I overacting or I don't know, how do you feel? Well, 305 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: this is your so this is your niece's first birthday. Yeah, 306 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 1: I think it's so silly. I haven't thought about this 307 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: because I could picture myself in that situation with my 308 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: sister telling me the same thing to cover my tattoos. Well, 309 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: you don't if I did. And here's the way I 310 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: would handle it. There's two things I would do to 311 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: two prongs you're number one before hand tell your sister 312 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: how you feel. Or number two where the sleeves, enjoy 313 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,880 Speaker 1: the party, be there for your niece, and then talk 314 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: to your sister after the fact to tell her how 315 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: you felt and that you just didn't think that was right. 316 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: And going forward you don't want to have that kind 317 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: of friction between the two of you. Oh yeah, both 318 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: of those are great options. It's just, yeah, the day 319 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: is not about me, That's what I'm saying. Maybe you 320 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: cover them, cover them up even look, you know how 321 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: you feel paused that for a moment for your niece 322 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: and the first birthday party, and then afterwards the next 323 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 1: day you have a conversation with your sister about what 324 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: that really meant and sounded like and felt like to you. 325 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: And then going forward, you're gonna be in this little 326 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: girl's life, but you're not gonna, you know, come wrapped 327 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: up every single time. And she's your sister, she's gotta 328 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: understand that. She's probably think it is really sweet of 329 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: you to do what you did. I mean, it is 330 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:28,239 Speaker 1: very classy. Got those brownie points. And then Gilter, I 331 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: like what you guys, Well, I didn't say that, but however, 332 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: you want to look at it. Good Madison, Happy birthday 333 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: to your niece. Oh man, right, just making about the 334 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: little girl first and then say hey, look this isn't cool. 335 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:47,679 Speaker 1: I saw red the minute she's that story to us. 336 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: But you took the classy route, and so I think 337 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: that's better. Well, only because I have to put myself 338 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: in these situations. And I could have tattoos one day 339 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: and Flora is gonna have a birthday party. Can shelter 340 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: your kids and people that you invite to a woman 341 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: on birthday party because of tattoos? You don't know the answer. 342 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: She didn't say why. There might be a reason why. 343 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest mcgrab Trevor here on the line, Trevor, 344 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: good morning. You are on kissp M. How are you doing, Trevor, 345 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: I'm good, good morning. Yeah. I just had a question. 346 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: I was listening a couple of days ago and you 347 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: had mentioned of that. Or guys are more willing to 348 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: cheat when they have I think there's like hamsters and 349 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: gerbils or rabbits or something like that. And hold on, 350 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: hold on for a second, Trevor. A small brain has 351 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:50,159 Speaker 1: to backtrack here. I remember I was reading from somewhere. 352 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: Now I can't remember which paper or website it was from, 353 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: but yes, there was a website this said hamsters and rabbits. 354 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: People who have pets that are hamsters and rabbits are 355 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,679 Speaker 1: more likely to cheat. That was a study. Yes, okay, 356 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: big big red flag, big red flag for those furry animals. 357 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 1: And I I have been single for two years and 358 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I own a snake and chinchilla, 359 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 1: and I was wondering if maybe that's that's the reason 360 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: you own a snake and a chinchilla, and you think 361 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: that maybe the why you're single? Correct? I don't know. 362 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: I mean, also, are my dating profiles like my depict 363 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm holding them? Well, let's let's say to me that's 364 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 1: it can be controversial, so it could go either way. 365 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: Someone could see the snake and think, wow, that's very 366 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: sexy hot, okay, all right, But the chinchilla. I couldn't 367 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 1: do it. I could not feel comfortable sleeping at a 368 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: guy's house knowing that he had a snake. Like, what 369 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: if a snake escaped and then got in the bed? 370 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: Why why do you have that as your profile? Because 371 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: I use it as like an opening line I'm like, hey, ladies, 372 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,120 Speaker 1: you guys want to hold my snake. Yeah, that's a problem. 373 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: I think that may be a problem. And that hasn't 374 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 1: gotten any response. I mean, I mean, I'll I'll get 375 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: some some some some ladies will be like, oh, there's 376 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,199 Speaker 1: things so cute like what's like, what's your name and 377 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,919 Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. But yeah, I mean for 378 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: for me, Yeah, for me, Trevor, it's got more likelihood 379 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: to backfire than it does to forward fire. And I 380 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: think it hasn't worked so far, So why don't you 381 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 1: change it up and see what kind of reaction you get? 382 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: And then of course when you're out with them, you 383 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 1: can talk about your snake. So maybe take them off 384 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,199 Speaker 1: my profile put me on it. I I well, so 385 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 1: far it hasn't benefited you to have them on it. Yeah, okay, cool, alright, alright, 386 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: but I appreciate the authentic question. Let me tell you 387 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: a man with a snake means, I don't know. I 388 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: think you say that in your isolation chamber being in 389 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 1: a relationship right now, But I think if you were 390 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 1: out on Tinder or Hinge again and the guy has 391 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 1: a picture of his snake and says you want to 392 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 1: come play with my snake. You would not respond to that. Yeah, 393 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,680 Speaker 1: I don't want the pickup line of would you like 394 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: to come play with my snake? But I feel like 395 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: if a man owns a snake, there's probably it's a 396 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: good I think it's a good sign. For others, you 397 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: don't love it, and then like, don't they have to 398 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: feed them live mice? I just can't. I can't with 399 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: the snakes. I mean, Trevor's not getting any traction. So 400 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: I would completely change it up to see what happens, 401 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 1: what's the down stupers exactly? In college, I dated a 402 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 1: guy once that had a pig, and let me tell you, 403 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: it was so weird because we have to put the 404 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 1: pig in like the bathroom when we go to bed 405 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: at night. It was the pig was like a little 406 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: like a pop belly pig, like not like a wild 407 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 1: boar running around and I think they're coming back. Actually, 408 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: I saw somebody walking a pig down Ventura the other day, 409 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: and so that means that it's a trendy pet now. 410 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, kind of you said, someone walking with 411 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 1: Alicia pig on the sidewalk of Intura. Yes, I love 412 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 1: l a I'm gonna vote that that doesn't become a trend, 413 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 1: all right, So let's get to this training report. Tanya 414 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 1: says is too busy to be in a relationship A 415 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: legit excuse? All right, Well, who's doing that in the 416 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,400 Speaker 1: training report? Ta okay? So it's Tiffany Hattish and Common. 417 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 1: So the news of their split comes a year after 418 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: Tiffany revealed that she and Common were dating on a podcast, 419 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 1: And in the article that I read, it said that 420 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: the reason for their split was and I quote, they 421 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 1: are never in the same city together and both of 422 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: them are just too busy for a serious relationship. So 423 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: it got me thinking because I had this debate actually 424 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,160 Speaker 1: the other day with a friend of mine who said 425 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: that they wanted to focus on their career right now 426 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 1: and didn't want to date. But then how the pandemic 427 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: kind of changed that way of thinking for him, because 428 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 1: he was just like, I think that that is something 429 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 1: that people tell you and that you really can have 430 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: both at the same time. So I feel like, if 431 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 1: you say you're too busy to be in a relationship, 432 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: it just means you're not that into them, because if 433 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 1: you were that into them, you would make time of course, 434 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,920 Speaker 1: But what if you're Tiffany Hattish and you've got this unbelievable, 435 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: magical opportunity of a lifetime, but you are into somebody, 436 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: but it's your dream to be Tiffany Hattish can get 437 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 1: all of the opportunity that she's got, or also Common 438 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: for that matter. Right if you're Common and your opportunities 439 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: continue to be bigger than your wildest dreams, same with 440 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: hatt Ish, it makes it, It can make it tough. 441 00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: But I will say I think you're both right. It 442 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 1: just means it's not the right person that get you 443 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: to pull back a little bit. It doesn't mean it's 444 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 1: the wrong person. It's just not the right person gets 445 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: you to pull back. I don't even think you would 446 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: need to necessarily pull back if they're having this dream opportunity. 447 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 1: If you have a dream opportunity, and then your partner 448 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,159 Speaker 1: can say, all right, if this is your dream opportunity, 449 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 1: I can pull back a little bit right now and 450 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 1: be with you and help you out. And then it 451 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: needs when it's my turn, you can pull back and 452 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 1: help me. It's a cop, you know who I see 453 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: do that brilliantly? Who wait, don't tell us, let's guess 454 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: stop yelling, I'm right here. Oh my gosh, is it 455 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: Mila Kuna is an Ashton Kutcher. That's not who I 456 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: was thinking about, yeh. Dak Shepherd and Christen Bow not 457 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:52,959 Speaker 1: who I was thinking about. That's a good guess. Beyonce 458 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: and jay Z not who I was thinking about. Blake 459 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: Lively and Ryan Reynolds good one like live. No, it's 460 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 1: not who I was thinking about. And then those all 461 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 1: could be people doing it. I was thinking about Keith 462 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: Urban and Nicole Kidman only because I saw it firsthand. Yes, 463 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 1: And Nicole Kidman because when he was on America and 464 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: I got to see Keith Urban's a jodge. I got 465 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: to see up closely how they amazingly work their careers 466 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 1: full speed and balance it out and are there for 467 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: each other when they have to be a need to 468 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: be and they do make it up and now they 469 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: have the resources to do it, but they make it happen. 470 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: But I think, look in my life in the past, 471 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:39,880 Speaker 1: I've chosen career over love. Yeah, but and dig deep 472 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: on this, do you think if it was the real love, 473 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 1: the love love, the one that you're supposed to be 474 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: with forever, love, you would have done that. Do you 475 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna give you all those answers right now 476 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: in this segment. No, I'm not. I adore you, but 477 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: I'm not. I think he wouldn't have. I think you 478 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: knew in your heart it wasn't the right person. So 479 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: that's why you made those choices? Or was I just 480 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 1: scared of it so I focused on work? Was I scared? 481 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 1: Was a fearful of it being the right thing? And 482 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 1: so I just buried my head and work. I think 483 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: that because you just said that, that's probably what it was. 484 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 1: I'm just throwing things out there. We should dig deeper 485 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: on that too. Yeah, this is really fun. That's great. 486 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm so excited about it. All right, Lizzie here, Anna Hunt, Lizzie, 487 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: good morning. How you doing Lizzie? Hi, how are you 488 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 1: doing well? So tell me about your fiance. What's going down? 489 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,360 Speaker 1: So dating is really hard these days. And we met 490 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: online about like why at the beginning of COVID and 491 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: it was great, it was wonderful. We're greatly in love 492 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: and everything, and then he proposed and you know, it 493 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: was all great. And so now that we're starting our 494 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: life together, like when we that, like like I didn't 495 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 1: have many filters dating online, but the one filter that 496 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 1: I did have was I wanted someone who has a 497 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: college degree, so that I because I didd one who didn't. 498 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: And it was just he would come home tired every day. 499 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: I would never want to go out because I used 500 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: did at a death job. After work, I want to 501 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: go out. I want to go do things. And then, um, 502 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: so I met my fiancee. He was he was teaching 503 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: at the time, and then he decided he didn't like 504 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: teaching anymore, and he was he was quinny, but then 505 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: he didn't have anything else lined up, and then he 506 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: started working, um like manufacturing, where he'd come home tired, 507 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 1: and I expressed how I didn't really want like that, 508 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: and then he assured me like, oh, it's fine. Um, 509 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: I'm making a lot more than I was teaching, and um, 510 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: you know, it'll be fine. And then after then then 511 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: like now that we've been we're engaged and and and 512 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm like trying to start a life together. I find 513 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 1: out I happen to see his taste up that he's 514 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: only making a minimum wage and and it's like not 515 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: enough for us to start a life here in California. 516 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: And so I just feel being white like he and 517 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 1: he's been doing this, like he's been working at his 518 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: software like almost a year, and I just feel lied 519 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: to you for over a year, and it's like I 520 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: don't know if I can trust him again. I agree, 521 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: you know. I think there's two things that play here. 522 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 1: One is you. One of your boxes is that there 523 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: needs to be financial stability or security, certainly to live 524 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: in this state, in southern California. It is not living 525 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: in a small town in a different state. It's expensive, 526 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: and I think that's just one of your criteria and 527 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: there's nothing to be there's no guilt with that. I 528 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: think the bigger issue looking forward is that he did 529 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 1: lie to you. But did he lie to you because 530 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: he knew you would not be with him if he didn't, 531 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 1: and because I gave him so many opportunities to tell me, 532 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 1: and that I would have worked with him, like I 533 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 1: could have helped him find something else, and like, you know, 534 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 1: do all these things. But he he said it was 535 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: he was embarrassed at what he was making and he 536 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 1: felt ashamed and didn't want to tell me. But at 537 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: the same time, like if you feel that way, then 538 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: like do something in the background in the meantime too, 539 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: to show that you're you're not even to show but yeah, 540 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: to make that change. Yeah. Look, I understand how he 541 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 1: might feel shame and not want to tell you. I 542 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: do understand that, and I understand how you say, Look, 543 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm being the opportunity to tell me the truth. So 544 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: now we have to figure out which is the bigger 545 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: Which is the bigger concern that makes impact on being 546 00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: with the person that you're talking about being with for 547 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: the most of your life. Like you know, it's a trust, 548 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: it's the trust that's broken, and this is a slippery slope. 549 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: If he's lying about this, what's he gonna lie about 550 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 1: when life gets harder in fifteen years or I mean, 551 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 1: it's like it's just gonna be. In my opinion, Domino 552 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: effective probably future lize. And that's what I worry about. 553 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: Even when I asked, like, why did you lie to me? 554 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: He was like, I didn't lie to you. And then 555 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, but you did lie to me, And he's like, 556 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 1: how did I lie to you? And I was like, 557 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: you lie to me by not telling me. That sounds 558 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: like a compulsive liar, And it sounds like gas lighting. 559 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: Isn't that gas lighting? Telling you you you're not hearing 560 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: it right, and and he's manipulating you. I worry, Lizzie, 561 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 1: And I also understanding the term gas lighting. It's only 562 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: been twenty years, been trying to understand. I also think 563 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: in a situation like this, it's a sign that maybe 564 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: you should not move forward because you have so there's 565 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: a couple of issues here, one of which is the trust. 566 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: And you did give him the chance, and you did 567 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: ask and he didn't and then he's trying to tell 568 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: you he didn't lie. That's like double trumble. Yeah. I 569 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 1: don't love it. It sucks. Yeah, so now I don't 570 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: I don't feel like in the air, I don't know 571 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 1: what I'm doing. Yeah, I get that. It's and then 572 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 1: if you say this is not for me, now where 573 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 1: are you while you're starting over? Which is a great 574 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 1: place to be. Every new beginning comes from some other 575 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: beginning's end. The world is your oyster. Yeah. So you 576 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: know you have two choices to move forward and do 577 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 1: it knowing what you know, or to know what you 578 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: know and stop. And it's your choice. Yeah, Lizzie, I 579 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: wish I could give you a hug him. So sorry 580 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 1: they're having these thoughts in this moment right now. Thank you, Ryan, 581 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: We'll take care and you know, listen to really listen 582 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 1: to your gut in this. Okay, yeah, thank you, all right, 583 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: all right, Lizzie, thanks for calling. I don't I just 584 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: want to I want to give a nod before we 585 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: take a break to Tanya's use of the semisonic song 586 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: closing time and giving relationship advice. That's like one of 587 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: my favorite lyrics and quotes. Every new beginning comes from 588 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: some other beginning's end, closing time, every new beginning inning. 589 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 1: And then she went into the world of the oysters. 590 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 1: So if you have kids, listen to this. If you're 591 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: thinking about kids, listen to this. It's this he saying 592 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 1: that there is news out today the children in the 593 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,479 Speaker 1: Netherlands of the hat as kids in all the world 594 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 1: and as a mom, as a parent, all you want 595 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 1: is for your kids to be happy. So does that 596 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 1: have to do with the school, Does that have to 597 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: do with nature? Does that have to do with beauty? 598 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 1: What is it? It's it's a mixture of a few things, right, 599 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: It's not just one answer. But apparently parents in the 600 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:23,720 Speaker 1: Netherlands have an assertive parenting style which sets very clear 601 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: boundaries for children. Children need boundaries, they need rules, they 602 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 1: need consistency. They thrive on that, and so that basically 603 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 1: correlates with positive outcomes for children. Also, shame can be 604 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: really damaging to kids, especially at an early age. So 605 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: you really should never shame your children for you know, 606 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 1: natural curiosity or things like that. And so the Dutch 607 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 1: have a reputation of being very open with their kids 608 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 1: and talking about topics that are maybe taboo or uncomfortable 609 00:34:56,000 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: to talk about in other countries. Um such as like 610 00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: if you're like maybe sexual topics or you know, things 611 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: like that. I think like when children ask you, don't like, 612 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: don't shame them for being curious about their body parts 613 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: or things like that, you know, I think that it's 614 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 1: very important to keep that conversation going. And then yes, 615 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 1: it comes down to the schools. Ryan. So apparently the 616 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,760 Speaker 1: schools in the Netherlands are not very competitive. They value 617 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 1: diversity and they are more inclusive, so exam scores are 618 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: not everything when it comes to schools. Their children feel 619 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: like they can be who they want to be and 620 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 1: they're not being judged, and so does that that's good 621 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 1: for the kid being a happy kid? How Does that 622 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:45,320 Speaker 1: work when they're an adult if the exams are valued. No, 623 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 1: but I'm saying if you don't have to learn the 624 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 1: things in school, I love all the other components, But 625 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: what if for exams aren't important, does that matter when 626 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: you become an adult, when it's time to get a job. 627 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe. I mean, look, I think the 628 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: things about shame that our fault. That's our fault from 629 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 1: our generation and our parents and the generation of their 630 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:10,240 Speaker 1: parents and and so on. Because you know, our parents 631 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 1: and their parents didn't talk about half the stuff we 632 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: talked about on this show, and so that's like generational 633 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 1: how it sort of passed down. Now you're probably much 634 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 1: more liberal than your parents were with you, Yes, absolutely, 635 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 1: But I'm also I'm finding similarities with like striving to 636 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: be the best, like the competitiveness of it, like that 637 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: is in my blood. And I don't know that that's 638 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,720 Speaker 1: now that I'm reading this beneficial to children, Like maybe 639 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: you need to let them be. May we put too 640 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: much pressure on our kids? Maybe they're too stressed. I 641 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 1: think we can I know that if when I played 642 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,359 Speaker 1: let me just take you back to when I played 643 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:53,720 Speaker 1: basketball Church league. I sucked my dad played basketball in college. 644 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,359 Speaker 1: He was good. If he pushed me harder, I would 645 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 1: have gotten really down on myself about it. But he 646 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: kind of knew I wasn't so good at so let 647 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 1: it go. But if he wanted me to be like 648 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,919 Speaker 1: him and got competitive about it, I'd be scarred still today. 649 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:13,959 Speaker 1: So it's I've never been to the Netherlands. Oh, never 650 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 1: have you? It's one. I've been to Amsterdam, one of 651 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: It's one of the most beautiful cities and one of 652 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 1: the cleanest cities. They do street sweeping every night. What 653 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 1: was it? The fault in Our Stars, the movie that 654 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 1: was shot there. It made me cry with the football 655 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: players and Woodley, Yeah, wood Right with what's his name Rodgers? No, 656 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:47,879 Speaker 1: Aaron Rodgers is dating Shaley Woodley rightaged engaged too, Yeah, 657 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: And so she was in that movie that took place there, 658 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: and I remember all the scenes, the beauty there, the 659 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 1: faults in Our Stars, Aaron Rodgers where she goes shaming 660 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 1: my brain on air with Ryan Secret, Hey, Megan Trainer, 661 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, Merry christ Miss Sidelent nine Trainer. You want 662 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 1: me for the next Christmas album? I'm ready. I mean, 663 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: I I've been singing the songs in church all my life. Yes, 664 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: you have Christmas baby and you too, happy early birthday. Wow, 665 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 1: you know me so well. I love this, thank you? 666 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 1: So what happens between twenty two and with you guys? 667 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 1: It's like that the twenty second is my birthday and 668 00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 1: then every other day is just like get ready for Christmas. 669 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,400 Speaker 1: You know, if I could, if I could reprogram it, 670 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:56,279 Speaker 1: I would do your birthday, my birthday, and Christmas Eve. 671 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,840 Speaker 1: Then Christmas Day be like a four day affair. I 672 00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,239 Speaker 1: love this. We should have our moms talk about this. 673 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 1: My mom literally looked at me like as if I 674 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 1: didn't know. It was like his birthday's Christmas Eve every 675 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 1: time every time we talk. Hey, you know last time, 676 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,719 Speaker 1: I think you were giving us the scoop on the 677 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,520 Speaker 1: baby music class right that your son Riley is in, 678 00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: and you said every everybody goes to that, some very 679 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: well known people, Hillary Duff and many Moore and Ashley 680 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:27,840 Speaker 1: Tisdale and all the kids. Now, Sisney, doesn't this sound 681 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: like something that you and baby Savella should the cameo 682 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 1: you're invited to want to? I am yep, I'll make 683 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: a call. Oh my, what happens there? What will she 684 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,439 Speaker 1: do with her baby? What will they do? It's great 685 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 1: you show up with your baby. Um, your husband can 686 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 1: go if you want. My some most husbands don't go, 687 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 1: but my man goes UM and then we sit there 688 00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: and we sing our hearts out, and the baby is 689 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: like mostly don't know what's going on. But sometimes I'll 690 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,160 Speaker 1: just like eat the toys. Or when the bubbles go own, 691 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,799 Speaker 1: it's a party. So that's fine. Babies with bubbles. That's 692 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: the move right there. And you know I'm in the valley, 693 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 1: so this really makes sense. Oh my goodness, it's happening. 694 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: And Tisney, you can sing this here. Listen, you can 695 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 1: sing so so good. I'm not gonna nothing. He's got 696 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: sold your Christmas got soul. I love your Christmas kid. 697 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure it's only your song on rotation there. And 698 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,399 Speaker 1: you have your what's your music video for My Kind 699 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 1: of Presence? Out now? And you can just put that 700 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,760 Speaker 1: on a loop. Yes, and my son's in it, first 701 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 1: first appearance. I love my gosh, that's exciting. Yeah, it's 702 00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,840 Speaker 1: super exciting. And my husband his first music video too 703 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,879 Speaker 1: with me. So so, how how were you as as 704 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: the mom in this situation where you a stage mom? 705 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,880 Speaker 1: With the baby. Were you hands on controlling? How was it? 706 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,880 Speaker 1: His part was so little, so it was only a 707 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 1: few minutes. But it was him like reading this this 708 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,840 Speaker 1: book and on the pages there's nothing on them. So 709 00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:17,440 Speaker 1: I was like, guys, he's not going to be interested. 710 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 1: And he is a full blown actor and was like, wow, 711 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,759 Speaker 1: look at this book, turning the pages and we were 712 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 1: just screaming like get it, Riley. So I was very proud. 713 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 1: Nine months now is he nine months? Yeah? Yeah, he's 714 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 1: almost ten months. Okay, so let's get to this. We 715 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,200 Speaker 1: have to talk about this. It's another Macy's Wishless Wednesday. 716 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 1: We partner with Macy's is also working with the Make 717 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 1: a Witch Foundation, so wonderful. It's time to get presents 718 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,080 Speaker 1: for people. It's time to start thinking about others in 719 00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 1: your life. And today we're focused on Macy's toys and 720 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: games for the whole family. So what kind of toys 721 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:56,399 Speaker 1: and games do you guys? Like? Megan oh Man, this year, 722 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,720 Speaker 1: I got a lot of cousins. Um, I've been getting 723 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: them a lot of like physical like moving toys or 724 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,719 Speaker 1: like you got your body. Um, I got a lot 725 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,919 Speaker 1: of like the dance dance revolution. That what are those 726 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,440 Speaker 1: things whatever? Yeah, I try to get games that make 727 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 1: you go outside, to games that creates some motion, which 728 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,959 Speaker 1: creates emotions. Yes, I'm all about health, but I also 729 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:21,280 Speaker 1: love board games like Sorry Sorry is my favorite board game. Ember. 730 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: I think that's a classic. I grew up my parents 731 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: I think grew up playing that. Yeah, that's why I 732 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 1: always played at my grandma's house. Did you have candy Land? 733 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 1: The photos and candle were all I wanted, the photos 734 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: of I was like, why is this delicious? So? What 735 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:43,479 Speaker 1: are you looking forward to this Christmas? Megan? Oh man? Um, Well, 736 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,760 Speaker 1: I haven't got to see a lot of my family, 737 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 1: you know, because um, because of how the world is. 738 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,760 Speaker 1: So I'm excited to finally get everyone together again and 739 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,960 Speaker 1: squeeze them and hold them. And I moved to a 740 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: new home, so i've been It's been Christmas here since 741 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 1: right after Halloween. So I can't believe for everyone to 742 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 1: see all my beautiful decorations. I worked really hard on. 743 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 1: Are you hosting? Oh yeah, always at my house, but 744 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:10,840 Speaker 1: my mom and dad cook because I can't can't. I 745 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 1: love it. I love it. Well, tell the family. Hello. 746 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 1: Megan Trainer with her music video from My Kind Of 747 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 1: presence out now and visit macys dot com slash wish 748 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: list for all the gifting needs you need. You take care, 749 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,319 Speaker 1: Happy Birthday, Merry Christmas, Night, Christmas, Happy Birthday. I love 750 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 1: you then so much. I'll see a music class by 751 00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 1: yeah so sis ay done you now have a fun 752 00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 1: activity with babysiting little intimidated because they all can sing 753 00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,839 Speaker 1: them singing? Please did you do ram it for us? 754 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:56,799 Speaker 1: This is yours? Are it's your harmony? What this is your? Then? 755 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 1: B who is this? Do you know? Here's yours? I'm sorry, 756 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:25,840 Speaker 1: just there, you go turn to a baby class near you. 757 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest, that is gonna do it 758 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 1: for us tomorrow It's up front Thursday and Ryan's Roses 759 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 1: So tickets to jingle Ball presented by Capital One in 760 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 1: the first few rows every time you win. 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