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Speaker 1: Second date update. This happens every so often, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: a listener will do a second date update with us

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Speaker 1: that doesn't end with a yes. But the thing is,

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Speaker 1: they're so impressed by us, specifically me and my efforts

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Speaker 1: but I like, yeah, that's why Justin has reached out

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Speaker 1: to us once again. He was on a few months back,

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Speaker 1: and last time the lady he went out with was

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Speaker 1: not impressed because she showed up an hour late to dinner,

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Speaker 1: but said Justin wasn't mad enough to be mad about

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Speaker 1: it and cancel what I think. I remember that it

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Speaker 1: was really weird and that call definitely crashed and burned,

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Speaker 1: but we promised to try and do better for Justin

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Speaker 1: this time. So Justin, welcome back. Hey, thank you guys

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Speaker 1: for having me. Oh man, how long did you wait

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Speaker 1: for your date to show up this time? Justin? No,

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Speaker 1: she actually came right on time this time. Test and

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Speaker 1: you failed it supposed to get up and leave and

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Speaker 1: make her way. Yeah. I think that show's improvement. And

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Speaker 1: I heard that you've been actually doing a little bit

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Speaker 1: of research since the last time you were on with us. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like the learning process never really ends. I'm

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Speaker 1: always trying to better myself. You know, I heard about

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Speaker 1: this book called Attached. Have you guys? Are you familiar

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Speaker 1: with it? Attached? I don't. Yeah, reading is not on

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Speaker 1: so but tell us about it. What is attached about? So,

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Speaker 1: this book basically talked about how most people come into

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Speaker 1: three different psychological categories while dating. Okay, secure, where you

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Speaker 1: can communicate openly and like I could be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I know you're busy, but I just kind of get

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Speaker 1: of communicator you are. Exactly three groups. They're secure, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The other two categories are anxious and avoidant. Anxious people

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Speaker 1: text back, you're texting them like twenty times, like where

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Speaker 1: are you? Where are you registered? For you? I don't

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm the first two combined. You

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Speaker 1: gonna wait for the movie to come out. Sounds really

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Speaker 1: like a fun movie, Jeff. Yeah, if they can to

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Speaker 1: make it really short because my attentions fan isn't great. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So which which one are you justin? So I'm secure

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Speaker 1: I'm just really open and communicative about what I'm expecting

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Speaker 1: You know? Just talk about it? So we did we

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Speaker 1: how your love life has improved? For everybody in the

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Speaker 1: or Justin wrote this book and he's trying to sell exactly. Yea,

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Speaker 1: So how does all this relate to your new and

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Speaker 1: improved dating life? So I put this on my dating

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Speaker 1: matched with your secure people only demand? With this wonderful

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Speaker 1: like she's like, what the hell did he just say? Boy?

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Speaker 1: Can you give a subject material like you to know anything?

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Speaker 1: your openers for you. The next year, I wanted to

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Speaker 1: date update right after this. All right, sounds great, All right,

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Speaker 1: totally secure. I'm talking about our listener, Justin, who's back

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Speaker 1: doing a second date update for the second time on

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Speaker 1: our show because we failed him the first goal. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but this time Justin went out with a woman named Callie,

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Speaker 1: You said you're by yourself, and then you're by yourself

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Speaker 1: Hey is this CALLI? This is her secure account? No,

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Speaker 1: excuse me. My name is Jeff. I heard that you

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Speaker 1: were secure. Sorry, my name is Jeff from the radio

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Speaker 1: show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Which radio show. I

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Speaker 1: don't we a podcast too? Maybe you listen to that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think i've heard of you, guys. OK, right,

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Speaker 1: so what's this about. Well, we do a segment on

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Speaker 1: How much do you guys know? Well, we know that

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Speaker 1: like other horoscope signs. Yeah, yeah, and you didn't feel like,

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Speaker 1: Justin's secure enough to take it in stride, because cal

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Speaker 1: had him on the whole time, Yeah, he did. Justin there. Hey, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't want to be mean to you.

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Speaker 1: I just you need to know that this strategy doesn't work,

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Speaker 1: Like women aren't into that. It's not a strategy. I

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Speaker 1: And it's just not a good tragedy, Like it's date one.

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Speaker 1: We're supposed to just talk about, you know, the trivial

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Speaker 1: talking about his favorite book. You know, it's not fifty

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Speaker 1: Shades of Gray, but at least it's like adjacent. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm not basic. I don't want to go and talk

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you were just like monologuing about a

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Speaker 1: and I apologize. I didn't mean to be boring. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I gotta be work for you, and it's not boring. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm a dope rapper. I'm one of the best to

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Speaker 1: Kanye taking picture of anybody. Kellie. Let's just pretend that

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Speaker 1: you didn't hear him call you the other B word. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Can you see how it was maybe a little bit

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Speaker 1: your fault because you were encouraging him. He said that

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Speaker 1: she seemed interested. Yeah, that can definitely not be blamed

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Speaker 1: send Callie out on another date with Justin. We'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it. I'm going to stop you right there. I

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Speaker 1: thought this girl was secure. I'm getting so much avoidant

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Speaker 1: one night thing. Oh okay, she's not going to stay

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Speaker 1: before the sun even comes up. Path wasn't the name

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Speaker 1: of his album. That's a good album single, Hardback. I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying really hard because I don't want to go

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Speaker 1: oh for two with Justin here. Listen, listen, you guys.

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Speaker 1: This is not your fault. I mean, I love you, guys,

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Speaker 1: I love the show. I love that you like are

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Speaker 1: taking the time to help me. You're oh for one

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Speaker 1: betting five hundred. It's pretty good. Hey, I'm calling it

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Speaker 1: fifty fifty. Okay, we are definitely never gotten on basic.

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Speaker 1: It's in victory in my book. Congratulations Justin just got

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