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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second Day update today met
Speaker 1: the guy that she wants to call because they live
Speaker 1: in the same building. Oh, that's it's always easy when
Speaker 1: you live in the same building to meet somebody. The
Speaker 1: trick is you wait till they're not at home, you
Speaker 1: break in, you steal some of their mail, and then
Speaker 1: you see him in the hallway and you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: I think somebody delivered some mail to me by accident,
Speaker 1: and then you strike up a conversation. It even works
Speaker 1: with TV sometimes, like somehow your TV was sitting out
Speaker 1: in the hallway. It's in my apartment right now if
Speaker 1: you want to come get it. Wow, Is that is
Speaker 1: that how you did it? Rachel? Well, kind of similarly,
Speaker 1: but no, not at all. So you didn't break didn't
Speaker 1: break into the guy's place. I didn't break any laws,
Speaker 1: but I did, you know, I did put myself out
Speaker 1: there boring. I was hoping for an exciting story. How'd
Speaker 1: you meet this dude? Well, he just moved into the
Speaker 1: building pretty recently, and you know, I found like going
Speaker 1: up and down the stairs once. But we hadn't really
Speaker 1: talked more than like a hello or but I definitely
Speaker 1: noticed him. I definitely thought he was really cute. And
Speaker 1: what's his name? His name is Adam. And we actually
Speaker 1: got a chance to talk because we were both We
Speaker 1: have these machines in our basement. We have like laundry
Speaker 1: on site in the building, but they're kind of weird
Speaker 1: that they don't take quarters. You have to like use
Speaker 1: these resyllable cards. Yeah, I know, really yeah, Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: annoying and confusing the first time you view them. And
Speaker 1: so he'd never used them before. And I just happened
Speaker 1: to be doing laundry at the same time. You just
Speaker 1: happened to drop some of your underwear on the floor
Speaker 1: in front of them. Let me help you out with
Speaker 1: your problem. This is not about me and my lingerie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And like I accidentally put some of my underwear in
Speaker 1: his loads so that when he got home he'd be like,
Speaker 1: well I was worth these. Yeah, that's why I thought
Speaker 1: maybe maybe it was similar to your male idea. So
Speaker 1: what did you guys end up doing for your date?
Speaker 1: It was actually his idea. It was really cute because
Speaker 1: we lived in the same building. He was like, why
Speaker 1: don't we just order an uber since we live in
Speaker 1: the same place and have it pick us up and
Speaker 1: we'll just get some dinner and some drinks. Wait, so
Speaker 1: he's the one that asked you out after all that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I was clearly like flirting with him, and
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, I know we live in
Speaker 1: the same building. I could just knock on your door,
Speaker 1: but I'd love to have your number in case, like
Speaker 1: I have any questions, right, like he but I knew
Speaker 1: he was like yeah, And I was like, okay, it
Speaker 1: was an obvious play to get your phone number. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So he asked you out and then you guys took
Speaker 1: an uber to a bar. Yeah, we number to a
Speaker 1: bar and it started out really great, Like we were
Speaker 1: in the cab and like the banterom was really good,
Speaker 1: you know, like we could just kind of like he's
Speaker 1: really easy to talk to. It's really funny. He seemed
Speaker 1: like very relaxed, and I don't remember like what he
Speaker 1: said but after he said it, I was just cracking
Speaker 1: up and I couldn't stop laughing. And I don't know why,
Speaker 1: but the words just came out, Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: love you more. You're so funny. I love you exactly.
Speaker 1: But like regardless you guys, I said I love you
Speaker 1: on the way to the date. That's not a good
Speaker 1: time to drop. That wasn't like one of those records
Speaker 1: scratch moments where everything then drops totally. And then I'm like,
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't really understand why because I was like,
Speaker 1: oh god, I'm sorry. I mean, you know what I meant, right,
Speaker 1: And but it was like I could tell it was
Speaker 1: like really different all of a sudden, like and so
Speaker 1: then I like, because it was so awkward, proceeded to
Speaker 1: like really lean into it. And so, like I've said,
Speaker 1: I love you, did the uber driver when we got
Speaker 1: out of the car, just trying to make it a
Speaker 1: thing that like clearly like it hit a nerve and
Speaker 1: like it wasn't part of like this thing. Were you
Speaker 1: just over compensating? No, Yeah, Like I don't know what
Speaker 1: happened to me, but I like I just really wanted
Speaker 1: him to know that it was a joke and then
Speaker 1: I didn't mean it, but like, looking back on it,
Speaker 1: I do feel like I maybe overdid it, but I did.
Speaker 1: I mean, did he get the point that you didn't
Speaker 1: mean it? Yeah, I mean I think he got it.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, like I said it like
Speaker 1: for the third time during the meal, like bringing it
Speaker 1: up jokingly again, and he didn't laugh. And so that's
Speaker 1: when I kind of knew, Like oh, and like for me,
Speaker 1: when that happens, it just makes me like want to
Speaker 1: convince someone even more than I'm sorry or kidding. And
Speaker 1: it might have been okay if you would have dropped
Speaker 1: it after it happened and made your quick joke about
Speaker 1: it and moved on. I know. Do you think that's
Speaker 1: why he's not calling you back? Well, no, actually he
Speaker 1: did call me. The date went fine other than I
Speaker 1: love you gate and then he called me the next morning,
Speaker 1: but I was in the shower until I missed the call. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he didn't leave a message, so I was like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: I'll text him. So I texted him. I was like, sorry,
Speaker 1: I missed your call. I was in the shower or
Speaker 1: winky base um had a great time last night. We
Speaker 1: should do that again. What are you up to this
Speaker 1: weekend something like that, right, And that was like four
Speaker 1: or five days ago, and I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 1: Oh really, have you seen him in the building at all? No,
Speaker 1: because that's always a risky thing at some point. No
Speaker 1: matter how this turns out, you're going to have to
Speaker 1: share an elevator or the laundry room again. I just
Speaker 1: think it's really weird that he would call me and
Speaker 1: then not respond to me. Yeah. I mean, you could
Speaker 1: understand it if after a first date somebody said I
Speaker 1: love you and then you just never talked to him again.
Speaker 1: But the fact that he called you in the morning,
Speaker 1: you see, like I love you, I love you. I'm
Speaker 1: not like I get it, We're like you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: but like it really seemed to like affect him. And
Speaker 1: I think that's why I kept going back to it,
Speaker 1: because even though I'd apologized once, it felt like it
Speaker 1: was like hanging in the airstone. I'm like, why this
Speaker 1: shouldn't be this intense? All right, Well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: thanks guys, Okay, hold on rooking Jubil in the morning
Speaker 1: right in the middle of a second date update. If
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in, Rachel is on the phone, and
Speaker 1: Rachel is in love for the first time in her life.
Speaker 1: Rachel has found love and it's slipped through her fingers
Speaker 1: and it's not calling her back. And love's name is Adam.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, if you missed, Rachel recap her date.
Speaker 1: She met a guy that lives in her apartment building.
Speaker 1: They agreed to go out for drinks and dinner, and
Speaker 1: while they were riding to the restaurant, he was joking around.
Speaker 1: She laughed and it just kind of slipped out. She
Speaker 1: said I love you. And she thinks that's the reason
Speaker 1: he's not calling her back, because one she said I
Speaker 1: love you, and then she's spent the rest of the
Speaker 1: date trying to pour it on that it was a
Speaker 1: joke and saying I love you to everything and everybody,
Speaker 1: and just any way she could drop the I love
Speaker 1: you line, she would do it. And now he's not
Speaker 1: calling her back, and she's wondering why. I mean, what'd
Speaker 1: you like so much about Adam? He was just really
Speaker 1: easy to talk to you, and he's really funny, you know,
Speaker 1: like a guy being funny is the most important thing
Speaker 1: to me. I love funny guys. Okay, okay, I guess
Speaker 1: playing it real thing, all right, I'm gonna dallas phone
Speaker 1: of her right now and see if we can find
Speaker 1: out why he's not calling you back. Okay, okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Well, Hi is Adam there? Yeah, this is Sham. Hey,
Speaker 1: what's up, Adam? How are you? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: brook and Jewil in the morning. Um, hey, hey, what's
Speaker 1: going on today? Not much? Why are you calling me? Oh?
Speaker 1: Just checking in? Man? Just you know, No, I don't. Oh, okay, Well,
Speaker 1: the real reason I'm calling is that somebody emailed us
Speaker 1: about you and asked if I get you on the phone.
Speaker 1: Her name is Rachel. She actually lives in the same
Speaker 1: building as you do. Oh what do you remember Rachel?
Speaker 1: Do you know Rachel? Yeah? But why are you calling
Speaker 1: about her? Well, because we do a second and on
Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. It's where if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 1: end up blowing them off after they email us to
Speaker 1: see if we can get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: ask why. So, Rachel's wondering why you won't call her
Speaker 1: back after your date? I did call her, right, she
Speaker 1: said that after your date she got a missed phone
Speaker 1: call from you, and then she texted you back and
Speaker 1: was like, hey, sorry I missed your call. And then
Speaker 1: she hasn't heard from you since. Wow, she told you
Speaker 1: everything she did. She even told us about the I
Speaker 1: love you comment. Uh. Yeah, that was pretty embarrassing for her.
Speaker 1: Is that the reason that you're not calling her back
Speaker 1: because she dropped I love you on a first date?
Speaker 1: H No, I actually thought that was kind of endearing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because she got so worked up about it. She kept
Speaker 1: saying it, and I mean I got that she just
Speaker 1: said it as you know I was saying and I
Speaker 1: wanted her to move on, but she didn't. You didn't
Speaker 1: help her at all. And she said after she said
Speaker 1: I love you that you guys super awkward. I didn't
Speaker 1: get awkward after the first time she said it. I
Speaker 1: got awkward after the fifth or sixth time I said it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she told us that she feels like she went a
Speaker 1: little too hard on trying to let you know that
Speaker 1: it was a joke. I wouldn't say it was a
Speaker 1: little too hard. I mean I was trying to get
Speaker 1: to know her and she just kept saying it, and
Speaker 1: it just kept getting in a way trying to get
Speaker 1: to know her. I thought, I thought she was great
Speaker 1: and I wanted her to just stop saying it. Girl,
Speaker 1: she's so awkward about it. Yeah, so is that the
Speaker 1: only issue? Then? Yeah? I love you. No, No, I
Speaker 1: knew it was a joke and I wanted to see
Speaker 1: her again, and that's why I called her. And the
Speaker 1: call went to her voicemail, and on her voicemail is
Speaker 1: this other dude? Yeah? He sounds like a real dude.
Speaker 1: She was like, Hey, what's this is Rachel's phone? Leave
Speaker 1: a message because she's busy right now. She's laughing in
Speaker 1: the background and he's laughing about it. It's like, what weird? Wa?
Speaker 1: What do you mean? So you're not calling her because
Speaker 1: there is a guy's voice on her voicemail. It wasn't
Speaker 1: just a guy's voice. It's the way he was talking
Speaker 1: and the way she was reacting to it in the background.
Speaker 1: Don't you think it's just like a voicemail joke that
Speaker 1: just isn't very funny to you. It didn't seem like it.
Speaker 1: Who's this dude? And why she laughing like she loved it?
Speaker 1: You don't know who the guy is? Why don't you
Speaker 1: just call her up? And ask her. I mean, I
Speaker 1: might come paranoid if I call her up and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: who's a dude on your voicemail? Yeah? I can see that,
Speaker 1: being like I was another dude you seeing somebody else
Speaker 1: been one day already. But you are being that way
Speaker 1: since you're not calling her back and you don't know
Speaker 1: who this guy is. It could be her brother for
Speaker 1: all you know. You're right, it could be, but it
Speaker 1: might not be. And it's only been four days. I
Speaker 1: still haven't decided if I'm going to call her back.
Speaker 1: You know what, why don't we just clear this thing
Speaker 1: up once and for all and ask who the guy is?
Speaker 1: Because she's been on the phone listening this whole time.
Speaker 1: What Yeah, Rachel, Hey Adam, Hey Rachel. So I guess
Speaker 1: I've been explained to do um kind of I guess relief. Um,
Speaker 1: But the person on my voicemail is an ex boyfriend. Okay, why,
Speaker 1: good question. I mean, it's really not that big of
Speaker 1: a deal. I mean, it's just my voicemail. I think
Speaker 1: it's really funny. I like the way he's putting on
Speaker 1: this like douchey, silly voice, and I sound really happy
Speaker 1: in it. It's just now. It's just it doesn't seem
Speaker 1: like a time time. You like the way your ex
Speaker 1: sound and the way you sound happy with him. Look,
Speaker 1: it's really not that being the deal. I mean, things
Speaker 1: didn't end badly between us, and I just thought it
Speaker 1: was funny, you know. But you're but it's over are you?
Speaker 1: Are you not over him? How long ago did you
Speaker 1: break up? We broke up like three months ago. But no,
Speaker 1: I'm I don't have feelings for him at all. It's
Speaker 1: just okay, So, yeah, you are clearly not over him
Speaker 1: if you're going on any date other than me Thnion
Speaker 1: broke up. Yeah, I went on one, but I wasn't
Speaker 1: super into him. But Rachel, nobody listening believes that you're
Speaker 1: over your ex one person. Oh my god, you guys,
Speaker 1: Just because I have a voicemail with someone on it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that I'm emotionally attached to them over I
Speaker 1: feel like Facebook friends with their exes, people get coffee
Speaker 1: with them. It's not I'm not in love with him
Speaker 1: at all. I don't know, but it just seems like
Speaker 1: you wouldn't even want to have like hear their voice
Speaker 1: that often, let alone have that be on your voicemail
Speaker 1: all the time. Well when I when I listen to
Speaker 1: my voicemails, I don't. It's not like an answering machine.
Speaker 1: I don't listen to it. I don't even think about it.
Speaker 1: The only people that hear it people call me it sounds.
Speaker 1: Do you call your voicemail and schossen to it? You know,
Speaker 1: that is the one thing that I do. And honestly, Adam,
Speaker 1: I really like you. But we've only been on one date,
Speaker 1: and like, as we get to know each other, I'm
Speaker 1: happy to change my voicemail if the fathers it's not
Speaker 1: that's see what I mean. It's it's not it's not
Speaker 1: a big deal for me. It's just like she will
Speaker 1: just get a little on the spot in awkward right now.
Speaker 1: You know, I just feel like I don't need to
Speaker 1: be bringing in my path, but you know it's it's
Speaker 1: my path. It's like it's just a voicemail. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm your path in Adam. I mean, she said that
Speaker 1: she'll take the voicemail down. That's the first step. I'm
Speaker 1: sure she'll get rid of her photo collages that are
Speaker 1: in her apartment as well. She said she'd do it
Speaker 1: after we get to know each other. That's not it's
Speaker 1: got to be like, it's got to be done. Hey, Adam,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Rachel? We will pay for it. No, that was Adam.
Speaker 1: You don't even give her a shot, man, I mean
Speaker 1: you've gotten out of relationships. We all have, and after
Speaker 1: three months it's sometimes hard to let go a little bit.
Speaker 1: She's ready, man, Yeah, she's clearly not. You say so,
Speaker 1: it's a no. You're not going to give her another shot. Listen, Rachel.
Speaker 1: I like you. Um, I like you too. I think
Speaker 1: we got along really well. Um, but I think there's
Speaker 1: some things that you need to examine and once you've
Speaker 1: done that, hit me up. Okay, So you mean like
Speaker 1: three months, Adam, six months down the line, Adam, after
Speaker 1: she's had time to heal. Yeah, you're making a huge
Speaker 1: mistake right now. I just want to eat food and
Speaker 1: make out with you and I'll delete my voicemail. It's
Speaker 1: not a big deal. Like, I don't know what happened
Speaker 1: to you, but like, if you have bad experiences with
Speaker 1: people messing around with their exes or something like, there
Speaker 1: is no unfinished business and if you feel this strongly
Speaker 1: about it, there's nothing I can say, come on, Adam, Adam,
Speaker 1: eat some food and make out. Yeah, that that proposal
Speaker 1: doesn't fall into your lap every day? Awesome. If I
Speaker 1: weren't over him, would I be on the radio trying
Speaker 1: to get a second date with you? Come on? Would
Speaker 1: you still have his voice on your voice fail? You
Speaker 1: could be my new voice now if it makes you
Speaker 1: feel better. Wow, I'm I'm I'm honored, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have to pass honest the whole time. Come on, Sorry, Rachel,
Speaker 1: no second date, man. I really thought it was because
Speaker 1: of the I love you thaying, and now I'm learning
Speaker 1: it's because of something bigger. It's because of the I
Speaker 1: love you thing with your ex broken Jewel in the
Speaker 1: Morning text in at seven eight, five nine two that says,
Speaker 1: what's wrong with that guy who doesn't want to eat
Speaker 1: food and make out? What an idiot? Where can Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning talking about the second date update, Rachel
Speaker 1: wanted to call this dude named Adam. They live in
Speaker 1: the same building. They went out, had a good time.
Speaker 1: She thought he wasn't calling back because she accidentally was
Speaker 1: laughing at something you said and it slipped down. She
Speaker 1: said I love you, and then the whole evening. She
Speaker 1: kept making excuses and trying to point out that it
Speaker 1: was a joke. When she said I love you, she
Speaker 1: didn't actually mean I love you. But the problem was
Speaker 1: he called her for a second date and she still
Speaker 1: has her ex boyfriend on her voicemail and he didn't
Speaker 1: want to go out with her again because of that.
Speaker 1: He can't blame him too much, but she did sound
Speaker 1: pretty cool about it, like, I'll change it. It's not
Speaker 1: a big deal. Yeah, one of those situations. It's a deal,
Speaker 1: but you don't know why it doesn't feel right. She
Speaker 1: didn't sound like she was still into her ex at all,
Speaker 1: but he was convinced that she was not over her
Speaker 1: ex because she left him on the voicemail. Yeah. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second date update, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back.