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Speaker 1: Welcome to we talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women with an

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Speaker 2: opinion who talked back.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'alls? Your girl, AJ Holiday? What's up Tam Bam?

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Speaker 2: Y'all, it's Tam Bam. I love y'all so so very much.

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Speaker 2: It's a new week, it's fall, so I'm extra happy.

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Speaker 2: So AJ, how is your weekend?

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Speaker 3: My weekend was just fine. It was great.

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Speaker 1: I spent all week last week hanging out at my homegirls.

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Speaker 1: And what did I do for the actual weekend? Just

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Speaker 1: ketch up on life, business, shit, clean my house, got

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Speaker 1: rid of a bunch of shit. I still got CDs, y'all.

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Speaker 1: You know, I got about twenty eleven hundred different cords

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Speaker 1: and cables. I had to throw out a bunch of

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Speaker 1: clothes I haven't worn and kept saying, and I'm a

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Speaker 1: fitting at some point from fucking college. Uh hell yeah,

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Speaker 1: I even have Uh No, I got the CDs. I

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Speaker 1: kept my CDs. I actually ordered CD cases from Amazon,

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Speaker 1: and then I still have my You know, how you

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Speaker 1: go to college, you have a trunk?

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Speaker 2: Did you have a trunk?

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Speaker 1: I still got my college freshman year trunk full of transcripts,

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Speaker 1: student loan shit that I ain't never paying, all types

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Speaker 1: of shit in there. My list is in there. One

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Speaker 1: of my exes went through that same trunk. The year

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Speaker 1: was two thousand and five or some shit like that,

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Speaker 1: two thousand and four or something like that, and a

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Speaker 1: nigga went through that thing and found my list and

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Speaker 1: was mad he wasn't at the top of it, Like

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Speaker 1: it's not in chronological order.

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Speaker 2: Sir, right now?

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Speaker 1: I said, well, it is in chronological order. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: you weren't the first, so you aren't at.

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Speaker 2: The top, right, you at the bottom actually.

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Speaker 3: Current? Yeah, maya fucking business.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that's all I did, actually clean up and

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Speaker 1: get rid of a bunch of shit and stop with hoarding,

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Speaker 1: like I aspire to be like one of those people

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Speaker 1: who I'm such a hoider when it comes to close mail,

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Speaker 1: you know, like if I haven't, if you haven't touched

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Speaker 1: it all year through that shit in trash.

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Speaker 2: If you ever gave me a greeting card between twenty

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Speaker 2: ten and now, I still got it, maybe even before.

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Speaker 1: That, like birthday cards, I got all that shit letters

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Speaker 1: like I got, I'd be having everything.

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Speaker 2: I'm the same way. Girl, I just need to get

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Speaker 2: rid of a lot of shit. I just can't part

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Speaker 2: ways with it. And that's the missing brought.

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Speaker 3: I bought a shredder too, so I have been partner

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Speaker 3: these with stuff.

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Speaker 2: What did I do this? Girl? I watched all of

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Speaker 2: Stranger Things from beginning.

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Speaker 3: To ooh, that's my favorite show.

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Speaker 2: Girl. Also, I'm not done.

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Speaker 3: Is it a new season on?

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Speaker 2: I know, but it's coming in November. I just made

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Speaker 2: it to season four. But when I tell you, when

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Speaker 2: Jim Hopper died, I cried so hard. I cried. I

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Speaker 2: was like, my boy, hop, I was so hurt. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love Gym. I can't believe they killed him my dad. Like,

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Speaker 2: I'm just so sick about it. It really ruined my day.

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Speaker 2: He might just be in the upside down girl, you

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Speaker 2: know what, because we didn't see him evaporade. But you know,

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Speaker 2: like the last time that sit exploded, everybody there turning

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Speaker 2: to mush on the ground. So I'm just, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but either way, I'm upset. I'm about

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Speaker 2: to start season four and see I've.

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Speaker 1: Never missed the season, and I would I watched. I

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Speaker 1: watched Stranger Things as soon as the seasons come out.

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Speaker 1: That's I'm like, wait, it's a new season that.

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Speaker 2: You know, my my little young thing put me on

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Speaker 2: in So, yeah, we watched that together.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I don't okay, season four? What season is coming up?

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Speaker 1: Is it season five?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So you are in season four? So have you

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Speaker 3: gotten to Russia yet?

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Speaker 1: Actually got into the Like there's like scenes in Russia.

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Speaker 3: You haven't gotten there yet.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the whole the whole last season was in the mall.

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Speaker 3: That's not the first season.

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Speaker 2: That's season three.

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Speaker 3: What the fuck?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was in the mall the whole time, but

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Speaker 2: it was like under the mall.

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Speaker 1: So maybe a season four. Possibly, it has to be

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Speaker 1: season four. But there's some parts in there that when

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Speaker 1: Brittany Griner was locked up in Russia, I'm like, man,

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Speaker 1: I was associating her with stranger things because of these scenes.

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Speaker 3: We'll talk about it when you get there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I want to see it. But yeah, that

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Speaker 2: was my weekend.

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Speaker 1: And I really think this is that's how that's the

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Speaker 1: world we live in, you know. I really believe like

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Speaker 1: there is an upside down, Like there's this universe and

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Speaker 1: there's like a bad version of this universe or this

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Speaker 1: is the bad version, right and there the flip side

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Speaker 1: is a good side, because this shit is not nice.

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Speaker 2: Stranger things have happened, all right, So let's getting the sins.

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Speaker 1: Cleane, y'all going on this with y'all. Diddy is trying

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Speaker 1: to serve his fifty months sentence.

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Speaker 3: So last week Friday, I think it was.

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Speaker 1: All the headlines started coming out that Diddy was sentenced

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Speaker 1: to fifty months in prison four years essentially. So he's

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Speaker 1: been in jail since around this time last year, since

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Speaker 1: like last September. So maybe he'll get some good time served.

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Speaker 1: This is Feds we're dealing with, right, so you got

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Speaker 1: to serve all your time. It ain't like the state

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Speaker 1: where you get low eighty percent. But he can get

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Speaker 1: time served for the time he's spent in the counted.

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Speaker 2: The fourteen months that he did will go.

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Speaker 3: Is it fourteen months?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I feel like it was last it was in last September.

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Speaker 1: It might have been last July then that he went

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Speaker 2: He says he want to go to Fort Dix to serve.

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Speaker 1: And that's the other funny party, and that's how I

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Speaker 1: be spelling dicks.

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Speaker 2: D I X, if I had to go to jail,

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Speaker 2: I would want to go to Fort Dix.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like fun to me. The Fort Dix is like a.

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Speaker 1: Minimal minimal, minimal, minimum security shit is probably some Hollywood shit,

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Speaker 1: And I mean it's in Jersey, so he will still

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Speaker 1: be close to his family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, those girls, when I started walking out their courtroom,

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Speaker 2: I just my heart went out to them because you

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Speaker 2: were screaming crazy shit at them.

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Speaker 3: And they're still kids.

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Speaker 2: They're still kids, little girls. You know, the boys too,

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Speaker 2: but the little girls especially.

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Speaker 1: What do you think about so fifty he said he

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Speaker 1: was going to write a letter to the judge. He

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Speaker 1: didn't write the letter to the judge, but he posted

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Speaker 1: it on social media.

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Speaker 3: Have you seen that?

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Speaker 2: No? Okay? Was it a letter in support of Diddy.

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Speaker 1: Or absolutely fucking not okay? And I had a great

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Speaker 1: debate with somebody regarding the letter because I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: understand like rules of engagement like artor war and all

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Speaker 1: that shit, but what does this do for? And I

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Speaker 1: guess maybe we are well super far away from keeping

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Speaker 1: it real or just real nigga shit. Like It's just

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Speaker 1: I'm not in the streets. I'm a grown ass man.

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Speaker 1: And Diddy is essentially bad for the ecosystem.

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Speaker 3: This is what fifty cents letter he supposed.

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Speaker 1: He said he was saying sending this to the judge,

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Speaker 1: but he posted it online and to me, it's equivalent

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Speaker 1: to sending it.

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Speaker 3: To the judge. So the letter says yeah.

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Speaker 1: It says I have had an ongoing dispute with Puffy

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Speaker 1: for over twenty years. He is very dangerous. Multiple times

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Speaker 1: I have theared for my life. I think you should

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Speaker 1: consider the safety of the general public your honor before

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Speaker 1: unleashing him upon them. There hasn't been enough time for

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Speaker 1: him to reform or make any adjustments, despite his trying

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Speaker 1: to teach a class in there. As you are already aware,

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Speaker 1: the government has spent a maximum amount of money on

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Speaker 1: deploying federal agencies, which appeared to be an army in

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Speaker 1: two locations simultaneously. Later, his son, who's dealing with his

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Speaker 1: own rape allegations, claimed that the fees had hit the

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Speaker 1: wrong house. He did that in a song this the

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Speaker 1: son com what's the little sun name? Justin Sean, just

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Speaker 1: no Sean, the junior. I don't know right, he says right,

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Speaker 1: and then it says anyway, Diddy's only going to return

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Speaker 1: to high caring more male sex workers, and keeping most

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Speaker 1: of the baby oil away from the general public any

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Speaker 1: and babies needed, he said. He said, my Netflix doc

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Speaker 1: on this SCANDALSS subject that's coming soon. So this is

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Speaker 1: a letter he said he was going to write to

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Speaker 1: the judge, But to me, posted that on social media

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Speaker 1: is essentially the same thing as far as.

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Speaker 2: He really posted that.

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Speaker 1: This is off of his Twitter account, Oh well yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it says this is my letter to the judge on

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Speaker 1: Ditty's case.

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Speaker 3: What I'm scared for my life? Lol?

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Speaker 2: Like he is just such the hugest troll. You don't

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Speaker 2: have nothing to do with that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, conne he does. I mean essentially like his

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Speaker 1: son's mom was wrapped up in the shit. Some can

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Speaker 1: say that that Diddy had her first and basically put

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Speaker 1: her on fifty cent.

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Speaker 3: What's her name his kid's mom? Is it Daphne?

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, m hm.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like it's real. It's just whack, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, did he is down? The

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Speaker 1: nigga's down?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't think that I'll kick him, but that's

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Speaker 2: like fifty cent energy though, this don't surprise me about

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Speaker 2: him at all that he would do that. It's just

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Speaker 2: he's very he's like the penniless, he's a cancer. So

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Speaker 2: I know he can get low radl snake low. So

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Speaker 2: when they mad, I know how cases can get. I

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Speaker 2: am one, so I get it. But he just take

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Speaker 2: it too far.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because this ain't no real nigga shit. Man, you

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Speaker 1: writing letters to the judge, dog, that's.

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Speaker 3: What you're doing.

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Speaker 1: And I'm kind of torn about it because did he

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Speaker 1: was facing some real, you know, real charges, they still

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Speaker 1: got him on that Man Act, which to me is

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Speaker 1: very racist. Right, So this is what he's He was

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Speaker 1: essentially charged with Man Act and if you guys don't

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Speaker 1: know what that is, it's just essentially, you know, taking

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Speaker 1: somebody across state lines. They created that racist asked charge

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Speaker 1: when they arrested Jack Johnson, a boxer, for taking his

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Speaker 1: white wife across state lines, so trafficking.

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Speaker 3: So this is what R.

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Speaker 1: Kelly was also charged with as well. So I feel like,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know has there been any white men

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Speaker 1: charged with that type of charge before?

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Speaker 3: I'd like to know.

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Speaker 1: I hope, I hope that he gets his his wish

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Speaker 1: and gets to you know, go over to Fort Dix.

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Speaker 2: But okay, so let me tell you what else happened. Uh,

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Speaker 2: Portia william is back outside, Williams, excuse me, it's back outside.

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Speaker 2: She's currently currently only seeing two people, a man and

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Speaker 2: a woman, and this is four months after finalizing divorced

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Speaker 3: Interesting, Yeah, interesting, I.

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Speaker 1: Want to know is it is? I mean, do people

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try some Guccie Because I just feel like

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Speaker 1: if you was gonna try some Gucci, you already been

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Speaker 3: This ain't like new right.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes people do, but yeah.

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Speaker 3: Add forty what's that?

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Speaker 2: Jenner? The Jenner? The man, the man who became a

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Speaker 2: me just lead it on, he said, wolves what about

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Speaker 2: try something new. That's it my theory. I might be wrong.

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Speaker 3: Is it a theory?

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Speaker 2: Let me know?

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Speaker 3: Is it really a theory or you speaking from experience?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like I done did all the things

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do. Like you can't churse me for one.

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Speaker 1: You know some dudes that try to no nigga. If

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Speaker 1: I was going to do a three, some would have

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Speaker 1: been done one hundred times over. I don't like Cuci, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Like I like oysters. I don't like Kuci, though.

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Speaker 3: This is what gay bitches do right here? How do

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Speaker 1: How do you know why? Okay, bitches who like Cuchi,

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Speaker 3: What they do.

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Speaker 2: I don't like Cucie either.

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Speaker 3: How do you know? Why would you ask me that

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Speaker 2: Saying like you don't know. It's like saying, oh, I

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Speaker 2: don't like pizza that you never had pizza before? You know.

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Speaker 1: I listen certain foods. I don't got to taste it

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Speaker 1: to know I don't like it. I don't like how

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Speaker 1: it looks, I don't like how it smells, only like mine? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I know my Kucie been at too, Like if I

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Speaker 3: Mad I don't know if I would be out here

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Speaker 1: I just don't know because it's a ratchet pussy I hear.

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Speaker 1: I'll have y'all know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know where my Kucie been.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a lot of I heard that the

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Speaker 3: I don't know if that's true.

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Speaker 2: A friend's locker room. I used to work in the gym.

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Speaker 2: The men's locker room was always cleaner than the female's

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Speaker 3: That says a lot. Okay, that's a lot.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Women, when ain't nobody looking, bitches can be nasty. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So fellas of that microwave dirty, of that bathroom dirty.

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Speaker 1: If the heel on that shoe is looking like something

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Speaker 2: The he'll of her shoe, that's not fair. What does

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Speaker 2: she just say got money for new.

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Speaker 1: Shoes That tap only cost seven dollars to give replaced.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. And they be walking on

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Speaker 4: That if you don't throw them damn shoes in the trash.

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Speaker 3: I just told y'all get rid of all that old ship.

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Speaker 1: That those are little small indications okay, that no, something

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Speaker 1: might be up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so uh so, basically, what I'm hearing is that

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Speaker 3: And they actually had a pop up strip club.

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Speaker 1: Essentially in Japan, and the locals are calling it jack Lana.

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Speaker 3: What do you think about that, Tammy?

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Speaker 2: I want to go. I don't want to go. I

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Speaker 2: don't if I could go because from the pictures, y'all,

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Speaker 2: there was so much money on the ground. Mm hmmm,

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Speaker 2: it was a lot.

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Speaker 3: Don't you want to go to work or just watch?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to go to work. Watch I

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Speaker 2: want somebody had moneyon in Japan, Carrol Ju go town.

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Speaker 3: And you're still gonna end up on the internet.

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Speaker 1: People gonna know you was over there. You know a bitch,

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Speaker 1: you used to try to go to the next state

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Speaker 1: over and strip.

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Speaker 2: I'll go into the next continent.

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Speaker 3: That was before the internet. That wasn't me this Ai,

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Speaker 3: that's my surrogate girl.

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Speaker 1: What if your fucking lag mess around to give out

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Speaker 1: while you're in there.

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Speaker 2: First of all, it's by ankle, by ankle, go fuck up.

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Speaker 2: That's that's why I can't go, but I would want

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Speaker 2: to remember on the yellow brick road. You gotta take

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Speaker 2: a little cann off. Listen. I'm too old, I have

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, you might you might be able

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Speaker 1: to get up there. I know I'm not, y'all. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I just I never understood, like how First of all,

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Speaker 1: it's two things about strippers. I never understood how y'all

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Speaker 1: get up there naked and every night and dancing these strangers.

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Speaker 3: And why the fuck y'all body so soft like that?

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Speaker 3: Like what what products are y'all using?

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Speaker 1: How I know stripper's body is soft because I have

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Speaker 1: touched a stripper Okay, that wasn't her.

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Speaker 3: And that bitch just be fucking soft.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know what type of products they be using,

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Speaker 1: like what they be fullyat with the.

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Speaker 2: First of all, they're definitely shaving their asses, you guys,

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Speaker 2: if you're not shaving your butt, it's not but ain't hairy.

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Speaker 2: It's not hairy. But there's that little fine hair that's

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Speaker 2: all over your body. If you shave it, it will

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Speaker 2: be nice and smooth.

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Speaker 3: Let me see right quick.

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Speaker 2: It's a little it's like fine hair all over it.

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Speaker 2: When I tell you I shave like. I learned this

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Speaker 2: from this Korean skincare group that I'm in for Koreans

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Speaker 2: Skincare for Black Girls group, And they talked and there

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Speaker 2: was just one one tip to shave your entire body,

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Speaker 2: even like I was shaving my collar bone, like my

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Speaker 2: whole I shaved my whole body, even my bunch cheese.

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Speaker 2: When you get in a shower today, tonight or whenever

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Speaker 2: the next time, you, babe, I don't know, shave your butt,

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Speaker 2: expec and increase the whole ass, the whole ass.

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Speaker 1: How you shave your whole ass? What a razor and

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Speaker 1: you and you reach every part? Yes, fuck you, I

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Speaker 1: bet you'd be having like a little line in here.

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Speaker 1: Some we're that you hairy. I'm not as hairy as you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I feel like you got more hair

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Speaker 1: in your body than me.

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Speaker 2: I'm probably more hairier than you, but I don't think.

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Speaker 2: I don't consider myself hair. You know how people be

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Speaker 2: having like hairy ass arms. My arm don't grow hair

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Speaker 2: like that. It beat them.

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Speaker 1: Light skined girls. Light skined girls only shave their calf.

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Speaker 1: You fuck run and see that bench thigh and shit's

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Speaker 1: fucking hairy is.

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Speaker 3: The we're WoT underneathing.

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Speaker 2: You'll be surprised how much hair is gonna come up

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Speaker 2: on that raising. You're gonna be humble, but then it's

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Speaker 2: gonna make your ass so smooth.

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Speaker 1: One itch, though, if you shave a spot that's never

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Speaker 1: been shaved before, I'm my butt won't be itching.

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Speaker 2: No, just you.

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Speaker 1: I remember the first time I shaved my couchie in

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Speaker 1: high school. Oh my god, I was pat my pussy

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Speaker 1: all day long, like trying to scratch that shit on

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Speaker 1: the loan.

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Speaker 3: I could not believe how bad my cucci was itching.

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Speaker 1: That never happened to you, No, you know, I spent

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Speaker 2: Yah, I hadn't heart so bad. I had the heart

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Speaker 2: and I I would go to the bathroom. But then

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Speaker 2: And I hadn't tell him I had I was farting

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Speaker 2: because you know, that just ruined me. Kill intimacy. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm farting in there. What did you eat? I just

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Speaker 1: I should be following me sometimes not far me down

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Speaker 1: fell and followed me back to the bed. I gotta

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Speaker 1: kick that bitch. My fart definitely be loud. Sometimes, motherfucker

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Speaker 1: just pull up back to the bed with me. So

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Speaker 1: I just swung your clothes.

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Speaker 2: I stopped, I held it. Oh my gosh. When I

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Speaker 2: was driving home today, Oh my god, yeah, I was like,

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Speaker 2: first of all, he in his house is like eight minutes.

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Speaker 2: In eight minutes, I farted at least seven team the

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Speaker 1: You had on jeans, what kind of past you had on,

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Speaker 1: what kind of you had on? Don't it feel good

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Speaker 1: at a couple of times?

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Speaker 3: Like when it roll up the front the front.

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Speaker 1: When you fart, like with clothes on, and I like

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Speaker 3: It feels good a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you're fucking nasty, it does. See y'all won't admit

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Speaker 1: to some of this ship, but it's just regularly human shit.

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Speaker 1: Like you have a conversation with another real nigga and

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Speaker 1: they'd be like, yeah, I experienced that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it was. I'm never like, oh

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Speaker 2: that felt nice. Yeah, I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: I like to poll strands to weave out my butt

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Speaker 3: crack too. What don't that feel good?

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Speaker 1: So you won't be having when you won't be having

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially what I'm doing, hair be hair in places

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Speaker 2: that I don't like.

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Speaker 3: How did you get pulled out slow? I'll save my

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Speaker 1: Okay, that shit feels the fuck good.

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Speaker 2: It's that word at all, aging, all right, all right?

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Speaker 3: So Aliyah Jones says that she's a corporate catfish, and y'all,

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Speaker 3: I've told y'all to be a corporate catfish on multiple occasions.

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Speaker 1: So this woman basically changed their profile picture on LinkedIn

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Speaker 1: I've been telling people, like aside from the podcast not

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Speaker 1: to put pictures on LinkedIn because I know that they discriminate.

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Speaker 1: Like they have your application now you can just go

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Speaker 1: you know, if they can't find your Facebook page, they

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Speaker 1: can just type up your instagra, I mean your LinkedIn profile.

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Speaker 1: People will discriminate. There are black people who discriminate on

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Speaker 1: other black people. If you get a email that sounds

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Speaker 3: So this shit happens.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy, but it's not surprising. You know, the blonde hair,

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Speaker 2: you know, people want this this woman working at their job.

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Speaker 1: So she said she was tired of not getting hired

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Speaker 1: was doing an interview. She said, I studied for interviews, religiously,

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Speaker 1: showed up on time, got stood up, traveled across cities,

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Speaker 1: After a while, it stopped feeling like a coincidence and

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Speaker 1: she's the corporate catfish. In corporate Catfish, Jones claimed, someone

441
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 1: told her she wasn't corporate enough. She got a message

442
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: for somebody on LinkedIn and it was like a voice

443
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: memo on a direct message, and it told the person

444
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 1: told her she was not corporate enough.

445
00:23:58,880 --> 00:23:59,640
Speaker 3: What does that mean?

446
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: Because I mean people got our generation got sleeves in

447
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 1: sleeve tattoos in corporate settings, right, Okay, so what does

448
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 1: that even mean? She said, they policed my tone and

449
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 1: told me that I'm not corporate enough, and should present

450
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 1: myself the way, and should present myself that way if

451
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: I want to be taken seriously. That moment said a lot,

452
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 1: because what does corporate enough even mean sounding less black,

453
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: real or robotic? I'm real or more robotic. She said,

454
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: I was showing up as myself and that made some

455
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: people uncomfortable. Being corporate should mean being competent, communative, and respectful,

456
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 1: not silencing your personality, culture or humanity. Corporate culture is

457
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: still rooted in this outdated blueprint that prioritizes assimilation over authenticity.

458
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: It's time we built something better, so she says. So

459
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 1: she changed her profile picture, simple little tweak, and she

460
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: was getting you know.

461
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 2: But I mean, all right, just because you get the

462
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 2: interview and you show up black, then what because I

463
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 2: don't know, you.

464
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: Know, well sometimes because okay, before AI, I think AI

465
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: has always been a thing, right, but now it's like

466
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 1: more mainstream. But these hiring systems that people use, like

467
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: workforce stuff like that, they have always been using some

468
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: type of AI, you know, computerizations. Just yeah, so if

469
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: you if you got a factor in affirmative action, so

470
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 1: say for instance, you have an office with I don't know,

471
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 1: fifty people in there, y'all want to hire ten more people.

472
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: Got to be percentage black, gotta be a percentage woman,

473
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, now you got to

474
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: add in all this extra bollshits. So this system is

475
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 1: weeding people out. But just like when we talked about DEI,

476
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: how it benefited white women more anyway, So what are

477
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: we really even talking about?

478
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 3: Right?

479
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:01,679
Speaker 1: So, even with DEI and affirmative action in place, there

480
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: are still discriminatory practices happening in corporate.

481
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 3: Settings just period.

482
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you are in the job market, yeah,

483
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: you might need to not say that you're a black American.

484
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you just got to play the game until

485
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: you win.

486
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 3: That's all.

487
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: Play the game until you win, because you're not even

488
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: getting into the hiring process because they already knocking you out.

489
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 3: Your application is getting knocked out.

490
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 2: It's so crazy with all these things trying to keep

491
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 2: us suppressed and keep us down, and keep puts sick

492
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: and keep us dying earlier than everybody else. I still

493
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: want to be a black woman. I still wouldn't choose

494
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 2: to be over there.

495
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 3: Ain't that dangerous, but it's lit.

496
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 2: I still wouldn't wonderful nothing else.

497
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: They don't want to be nothing else either, like their

498
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: motherfuckers want to be black too.

499
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 3: That's why they can't stand when it's too many of

500
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 3: us around. Like goddamn it, god damn it.

501
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: But I had a homegirl telling me that a girl

502
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: whose name is probably like a Shanika or some shit

503
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: like that, said she she is in a position of

504
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: hiring people. And she said that when she sees, like, h,

505
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: let's say an email that says ta Misha Brown or

506
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 1: something like that.

507
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 3: She's overlooking that application.

508
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: So we are also doing it to each other when

509
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: we are in a position to put the next nick

510
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: Ononda and you overlook it to Misha exactly.

511
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 2: Going back, Hi, kill, good morning, Kill, oh Ben, you

512
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: and Shakwanda.

513
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: And I have refrain, Like I had my homegirl Tamika,

514
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 1: like she started going by Renee because you know, she

515
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: had a master's degree and wasn't getting.

516
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 2: Jobs just because her name was ethnic. Yep.

517
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: So I mean it's it's unfortunate corporate settings do have

518
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: an uniform. Hopefully you can get someplace working from home

519
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 1: where you don't be looking like shit, right, you know

520
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like you just look at look like

521
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: ship from the house.

522
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 3: But that's just it is what it is until it's not.

523
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 2: Do you know what another name that it might be

524
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: suck to have right now? Karen? Karen right now? All right?

525
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: You know Karen that works with Charlamagne. Well, when we

526
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: were first like working out our deal and stuff like

527
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: that with Black Effect, I was talking to I said,

528
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: what's your name again?

529
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 3: She said like she didn't want to repeat her name.

530
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 3: She didn't want to say Karen again.

531
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one of those names have right now. You

532
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: got to overcompensate for your name, just like being a name. Unfortunately,

533
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: what are we talking today?

534
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: So, y'all, today we are having a conversation about.

535
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 3: Orcasters, oh my favorite.

536
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, in comparison to men, is there is there

537
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: equality amongst orgasms? Or is it an illusion? That's what

538
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: we're talking about today.

539
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I need more, I need details on what that means.

540
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 3: We'll be back.

541
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.

542
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: So it's twenty twenty five, y'all, it is October twenty

543
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: twenty five. Are women still faking orgasms in twenty twenty five?

544
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: Raise your hand.

545
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 2: I don't think them, no more. I do not. I

546
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: used to think them. I used to be the queen

547
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 2: of fake in the orgasm, not no more.

548
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to practice mind in the mirror this t.

549
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 2: That's your best me and your best.

550
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: Come girl, my best come?

551
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: What best orgasm?

552
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 3: Girl? I'm not doing that. I can't fake orgasms like

553
00:29:59,280 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 3: that no more.

554
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 2: And I'm you just know shy, She's shy, everybody.

555
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 3: I ain't doing it for free. I'm not about to

556
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 3: be moaning on this, Damn Mike.

557
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: I'll least bet on OnlyFans with the moons.

558
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't fake them no more, just

559
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: because I don't have to. I come so fast now,

560
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is. Listen, my boot will

561
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 2: breathe on my neck and I'll be like, you know,

562
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 2: anytime I do a fake orgasm, sound I just channeled

563
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 2: my inner black Man? Remember when he came on himself?

564
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: Black Man? Girl? You a big walking movie reference?

565
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, so I don't think I haven't faked the

566
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: orgasm in a very long time. And I feel like

567
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: we are women are actually the reason why niggas really

568
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: think they be hitting this pussy for real.

569
00:30:58,640 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 3: Like why would we ever fait?

570
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: You know, because I've said this before, I do feel

571
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: like the female orgasm is like a new new thing,

572
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: you know, because our grandmother's really wasn't having orgasms, you

573
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

574
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: Nobody was even trying to concern with them having orgasms exactly.

575
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 3: Jimmy Paul was just hitting that thing and on the

576
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 3: just sweaty.

577
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: I just think about like color purple his business, Yeah,

578
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: color purple exactly. I could not imagine living in that

579
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: time and having a deal with that type of bullshit

580
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: because their egos should have been bruised day one. But

581
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: we have women that still having sex and really not

582
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: enjoying it, still faking it.

583
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 3: And why why do we fake it?

584
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: Why are women still faking orgasms in twenty twenty five?

585
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 3: I really would like to know.

586
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 2: So I think there's two reasons that people fake an organasm.

587
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: One because they wanted it over, wanted to be over.

588
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 2: Or Two now I've done that and the man is

589
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: working hard to get you to come, and you know

590
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,719
Speaker 2: you're never going to come, so you just fake it

591
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 2: so it can be done. So they let me let.

592
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 1: Me rephrase that right quick, not recent as in recent recent,

593
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: but I mean like recent in the last couple of years.

594
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: Go ahead, when your nigga listened to the show not

595
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: like that, boo boo. And then the second reason is

596
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: to feed a man's ego. You don't want to hurt

597
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: his feelings. You want him to feel like he's the

598
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: man because you care. Those are the two. Those are

599
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: only two reasons.

600
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 3: I agree. I agree.

601
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: So this says the twenty twenty four Cross National study

602
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: eleven thousand people they interviewed found forty percent have faked

603
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: at some point. Eighteen percent of women versus nine percent

604
00:32:54,240 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: men report currently faking. Many stopped after improving communication and

605
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: slash comfort. And it also goes to say, like the

606
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,719
Speaker 1: motives in the psychology behind fake and it says common

607
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: motives is to avoid negative feelings like you said, protect

608
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: your partner's ego and an encounter you said that right,

609
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: Or because orgasms feels unlikely given the way sex is happening,

610
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: so you're in the middle.

611
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 3: It says, the orgasm feels unlikely, you're.

612
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: Not going to ever get there, so you just start

613
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: faking it so it can be over.

614
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it says.

615
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: Newer research links faking to emotion regulation difficulties and using

616
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: sex to cope, pointing to relational emotional dynamics, not just performance.

617
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: So I think for women, we do have to be

618
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: mentally in it. To have an orgasm, you got to

619
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: be I don't do you think prostitutes be having orgasms

620
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: when they have sex.

621
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 3: Sometimes you a real whole, You are a real who.

622
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: If you having orgasms all as sex every all night,

623
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't think so.

624
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: I they probably fake it most of the time, but

625
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 2: I'm sure they come sometimes.

626
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 3: It's I think, I think.

627
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: But the reason why I'm saying is that I think

628
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: that men's men orgasms is more connected to the act

629
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: of it, and with women it's more connected to the

630
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: emotional aspect of you know, having sex. So I know

631
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: prostitutes are not emotionally attached to their johns, but.

632
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 2: It's not always emotional because sometimes the niggas just be

633
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 2: hitting that but you like it's over. You know, it

634
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 2: don't have to be like emotional or passion involved. It

635
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 2: could just be like the physical act.

636
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like, I mean, it's been

637
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: a long time where I could have sex with somebody

638
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: I don't like because even like when somebody you're in

639
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: a relationship with a long time and you know that

640
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: shit over mentally, but you still physically there, the sex

641
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 1: is not fucking good anymore, and like I start thinking,

642
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: like why did I ever think this was good? That's

643
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: because I'm just not into it anymore emotionally, Like he

644
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: might still be doing his thing, you know, and it's

645
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: still great to him, but for me it feels a

646
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: little ugh ink. Yeah, it's such an ick Like I'm not.

647
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: Ingending it because mentally he's gross to you now, But

648
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 2: what if he wasn't mentally gross, but you also wasn't

649
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 2: in love with him, you know, m Like if you

650
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 2: didn't have an emotional connection to him, but he wasn't

651
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 2: gross to you, because once you check out, like the

652
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 2: idea of fucking that person is now like, eh, I don't.

653
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 3: Want you, That's what I'm saying. It's still like I

654
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 3: don't know, how do you think you can?

655
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't think I can ever like get back there

656
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: once I get to that, ugh, what a person it

657
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: could be two years from now and I decide, let

658
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: me see how this sitting like it's just over for you.

659
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: And it's not that you're like ugh to me for real,

660
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: it's just that I'm not in love with you no more.

661
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 3: So now it's like.

662
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: Or even in like with you anymore? Yeah, because you

663
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: know that's a big thing. It's two different things. So

664
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: I feel like, once I fall out alike and lust,

665
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: I like lust. Now lust, you know you still like

666
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: that person a lot. Lust is so good. And that's

667
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: why I remember that time. I was like, how do

668
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 1: you stay in lust?

669
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 2: Right?

670
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: In order to stay in lust, you gotta keep you

671
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: gotta have sex with a new person every time, because

672
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 1: how do you stay in lust with the same person.

673
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 2: You don't even like? Even if you have sex a

674
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 2: lot with someone new, after a little while, it's coming like,

675
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 2: it's just chills next. I don't know if there's any

676
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 2: way to keep it lustfull.

677
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: Because lust is good LUs just like lust is like

678
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: meeting somebody, y'all. I've been on several dates. You know,

679
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: you want to give him the kuchi, right and.

680
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 3: This this this, this.

681
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: Is the day and y'all might be out of town

682
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: or y'all you know, in town, and y'all just hanging

683
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: out all day from like ten o'clock that morning to

684
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: ten o'clock that night. All day you're thinking about how

685
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,919
Speaker 1: you're gonna do this when you get on it. That

686
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,479
Speaker 1: is the feeling. I want to have in a relationship. Yes,

687
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: how do you keep that going?

688
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 2: That's drugs?

689
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 3: I think distance also, right.

690
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, distant?

691
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

692
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 2: Being away from for some time does help. Let me

693
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 2: tell you what makes this is gonna sound crazy, and

694
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 2: this is my toxic energy. But after a fight, after

695
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: a fight, that lust for energy real will ignite.

696
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 3: No, you might be a serial killer. I'd be so mad.

697
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 3: I'd be so after that.

698
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, after the after the fight

699
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 2: has been resolved or pushed it aside or whatever y'all decide.

700
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 2: You know that first time after.

701
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 3: Take me through there, Take me through there?

702
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

703
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: I have yet to listen to that and hold that

704
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: whole song, have you?

705
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 2: That's pretty much the gist of it. If you heard

706
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 2: that part, you heard the song, oh something? Yes, So

707
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: tell me you ain't never had like really passionate sex

708
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 2: after y'all come back from a fight.

709
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: No, because I feel like when you if you're not

710
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: doing things to continuously fall in love, you've fallen out

711
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: of love. So if we like having fights to wear

712
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: like yeah, like the makeup to break up thing, I don't.

713
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: I don't really particularly care for makeup to break up

714
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 1: because the more we make up to break, I'm falling

715
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: out of love. That's how I get to that point

716
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: and not want you to even fucking touch me. You

717
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I don't play.

718
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 2: Them one time, like really passionate six after y'all made

719
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 2: that is fucking toxic. It's what you Yeah, I like it.

720
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 3: I don't want no toxic sec because I want that

721
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 3: shit to be happy.

722
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: I wanted to be happy. But I mean, fights are

723
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 2: going to happen. I can't imagine a relationship where you're

724
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: never gonna fight.

725
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 3: I feel like there's some people who I taught.

726
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: I saw this couple, you know how on Instagram they

727
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: walk around the cities and then they stopped couples like, hey,

728
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: y y'all a couple, How long have y'all been together?

729
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: It was this couple, a white couple, and they might

730
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: have been like in their fifties or something like that.

731
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 3: Looked like fifty six, early sixties or something.

732
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: And he was asking how long they were were married

733
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: were together and they had been married for thirty one years.

734
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: She said that she she didn't really he lived in

735
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: her building. She didn't realize he lived in her building.

736
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: He saw she saw him. They walked past each each

737
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 1: other and they both, you know, turn back and look

738
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 1: at each other.

739
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: Right.

740
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 1: So now she realizes later on that evening, while she's

741
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody else going into her apartment,

742
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: that this her fucking husband. Okay, So she said, they

743
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: basically said from that like once they actually got together,

744
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: they were inseparable from that day on. And they said

745
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 1: how they do that is by basically having a competition

746
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: on how to make the other one happy. Like, yeah,

747
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: it's a competition. I want to make you happier than me.

748
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 1: You made me yesterday. You know what I'm saying, that's

749
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: that's the type of luck. Yeah, I don't want to

750
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: I don't want I'm past in my life the turmoil. Shit,

751
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: that ship was never turn on for me and I

752
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 1: got PTSD. I really still be thinking about fights I've

753
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: had in relationship.

754
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 3: Yes, that shit has never been been Ah, that's not good.

755
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 3: It's not good.

756
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 2: Good, it's not good. But the sex was good. I

757
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 2: just remember asking them after the fight six that it

758
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 2: was like very nice. So I'm just saying.

759
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: I aspire for a relationship where there's no fights. I

760
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: feel like it's possible. You know if you find the

761
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: actual person, Like, yes, you want to have disagreements, but

762
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: different disagreements doesn't does not have to result into you know, arguments.

763
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: Yeah to where you gotta you know that don't sound

764
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: like a perfect you know what you uh? The part

765
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: when you were talking about porschit because I did see

766
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: that that headline. Right, she was saying how she's dating

767
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 1: these two people, the man and a woman, but she

768
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 1: was actually at doing somebody's live show or something. She

769
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: was on stage talking and this is how the reports

770
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: came out of whatever. She was saying, how these two

771
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: people aren't narcissists, right, they are not narcissists, they're healthy people. Right.

772
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: So now she's being forced to check herself because those

773
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: are the situations that she's used to, right, and now

774
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 1: like these people are checking her and when she wants

775
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: some bullshit, right, so she might need to evaluate whether

776
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: or not she was a narcissist and her other relationships. Right,

777
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: that is what I'm hearing, is what I'm hearing, Like worry,

778
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: I mean, and that's growth, right, that's definitely growth. So

779
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 1: she was basically saying that, yeah, she'd be having to

780
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: check herself now because these people are healthy.

781
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 2: So what you're getting at that I need to stop

782
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 2: fighting with niggas. I feel like that. I mean, that's

783
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 2: what you was doing.

784
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody taking me through shit, put me

785
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: through the man. You can talk me through these Yeah,

786
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 1: you can talk me through these orgasms though, Please do that. Yeah.

787
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 2: I don't want to fight, but I just feel like

788
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 2: it's inevitable. I don't want to fight a lot, you know.

789
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: I just don't feel like. I just feel like if

790
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship where there's never one fight over

791
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 2: thirty years, it's boring as fucking this relationship.

792
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 3: We gotta at least like physical fight at least, no.

793
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 2: Not a fist fight. I don't want to get physical.

794
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: One of my exes told me he was gonna beat

795
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: my ass or we turned fifty. He was like, when

796
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: we turn fifty, I'm gonna beat your ass.

797
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 2: Your birthday. Not physical. I don't want to physically fight

798
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 2: a man because, just based on past experience, I know

799
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: that I'm not gonna win. So I just don't want

800
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 2: to do that. I need to. I just want to

801
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 2: argue some once, at least once about something.

802
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 3: So it says that across adulthood.

803
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: Men report orgasms in about seventy to eighty five percent

804
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: of partner encounters versus women, it's forty six to fifty

805
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 1: eight percent for women. In a large US study of

806
00:43:55,440 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: orientation differences, heterosexual men ninety versus heterosexual women women sixty

807
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: five percent orgasm consistency.

808
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 3: Lesbian women reported higher.

809
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:16,280
Speaker 1: Orgasm rates higher orgasm rates than heterosexual and bisexual women,

810
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: pointing to technique slash communication not female dysfunction. I never

811
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: think it's female dysfunction. No, Like now, One thing I

812
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: always tell people, like when they start talking about squirting

813
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,959
Speaker 1: and shit like that, like I gush, a'h, gush now,

814
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: but like like squirting across the room and shit like that, Hey,

815
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: maybe my coochie is broke because it doesn't do that.

816
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: Across the room. It's crazy.

817
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 3: Maybe it's broke. You know, I'm not into pee up

818
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 3: somebody's bedding.

819
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 2: You.

820
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm damn sure not peen at my own bed. We

821
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 1: can do that nasty shit at your house.

822
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to tell y'all what I do.

823
00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 3: I'm shy. Oh do you be squirring because I don't.

824
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that. I don't want to talk about it.

825
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 1: You mattress cover for Tammy.

826
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 3: You're a good one. I was at Haverdes this weekend.

827
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: Havebards had some good mattress covers on sale.

828
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 3: You might need that plastic ship that going?

829
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 2: Uh? I said, I'm not saying that.

830
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:35,240
Speaker 3: So that going to baby the baby bed like the crib.

831
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: That's what you probably need, Chad, I hear that. Next,

832
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: they got me nickname for your ass. Technique versus script

833
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 1: what actually happens or what actually helps? So it says

834
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: clatoral reality check for me? For me, I do require

835
00:45:56,239 --> 00:46:01,919
Speaker 1: a little clatoral stimulation while having sex? Like I Yeah,

836
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm not a lesbian, right, So if I'm you gotta

837
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: girls second time? And now he's the third time, so

838
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 1: I could finish my thought, I'm not I'm not a lesbian.

839
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: So if we having sex, like you got to follow

840
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: up with some dick, sir, I do not just want

841
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: head the whole time.

842
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 3: I don't want a little finger in there while you

843
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 3: eating it too.

844
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 2: That's your that's your girl too.

845
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I need like a combo? Can I get a combo?

846
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: So it says combined clatorial vaginal plus vaginal stimulation is

847
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: associated with more intense orgasms for more women focusing on

848
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: penetration alone often missus the mark.

849
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 3: You think that's true? Oh you said niggas breathing on

850
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 3: your neck? Does it?

851
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 2: I mean, right now, it's just so weird what I

852
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: got going on right now. I'm just coming so easy.

853
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 2: So I don't know. You breathe, cool breeze, go across

854
00:46:55,760 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 2: the back of my back. I'd be like, yeah, I mean.

855
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 3: For real, we are in our prime. You know what

856
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I don't.

857
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 1: I feel like I might be a little bit more

858
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 1: horny now and I hate that word, y'all, but horny.

859
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: I feel like my libido is higher, very higher now

860
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: than it was. You know, I'll say ten years ago. Likewise, Yeah,

861
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: because what was we doing?

862
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 2: Right? I agree? But I don't know why this conversation

863
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 2: is making me uncomfortable.

864
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 3: Girl, because you're fucking gay talking to me, bitch? Why

865
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 3: is it uncomfortable? I don't know talking about sex anymore?

866
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 3: I listen.

867
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 2: That's the crazy part, because we have had like some

868
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: very explicit conversations on this show, and then all of

869
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 2: a sudden, I'm like, oh my god, my vagina. It's embarrassed.

870
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 3: It's not on display though, nobody's seeing it.

871
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 2: It feels like it. First of all, I just think

872
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 2: I'm alright. So obviously I've expressed that I've had experiences

873
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 2: with women in my life, but I don't consider myself gay,

874
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 2: even though Ashley tells me as much as possible that

875
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 2: I am.

876
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: A man has sex with a man one time, I'm

877
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: not a man in college that one time.

878
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 2: It really is a double standard.

879
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: No, absolutely, to people who be on some game shit,

880
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: it is a double sunning.

881
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 2: For me.

882
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 3: It's the same shit.

883
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 2: I've lost by train of thought. I don't even know

884
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 2: where the fuck I was going at you.

885
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: I don't know you were shy about talking about coming,

886
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: Like I don't know why what is happening?

887
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: I am shy about it. I'm not shy about coming,

888
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: but I'm shyy about talking about it with y'all. But

889
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: now I do like it don't take much. I don't

890
00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 2: know if that rolls unlock some unlocked something in me.

891
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,879
Speaker 2: Do y'all? Yeah, that just made it happen real fast.

892
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 2: Now I'm ready to go to bed and go to work.

893
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: I threw that thing in the trash. No hesitation either, Like,

894
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 1: just really, you didn't after like a week, no it's

895
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: too much. And I don't even feel like it's like

896
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: too much, like it feels good. It's almost like it's

897
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: just it's kind of irritating to me. And then I

898
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: also saw a video with this girl had a tester

899
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: on a radiation tester and it's giving off a lot

900
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: of radiation.

901
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 2: Really.

902
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you zapping your gucci literally mm hmm.

903
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: When I went all those months of not having any sex,

904
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 2: I was definitely using that a lot. Let me tell

905
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 2: you about my best friend, Like I was least all

906
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 2: the time. But I think it might've unlocked something because

907
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 2: now I don't use it as much because I have

908
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 2: like a partner. Yeah, and yeah, you don't have to

909
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: work up very hard to give me where I need

910
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 2: to be.

911
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: M Yeah, I'm pretty easy nowadays as well. But yeah,

912
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: I might be a little greedy though, what do you mean,

913
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: Like I'd be wanting to have sex often and I

914
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 1: like marathons.

915
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I want you that a marathon for you hour

916
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 2: and a half. You want to have a have set

917
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:28,760
Speaker 2: for an hour and a half.

918
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 3: Yes, I do.

919
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: I would like to have sex for an hour and

920
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: a half, like and that would include like the fore play,

921
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: you know, what I'm saying, Like that's the most important

922
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: part to me, right, and then yeah, follow up with

923
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: some dick for like thirty minutes, and I mean we

924
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: can stop and start, but like things have to be

925
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,280
Speaker 1: happening the whole time. I just need like the fuller

926
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 1: on session because sex for me is not just like

927
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: penetration the whole time, like just all the things like

928
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 1: still in the bed, rubbing up, kissing up.

929
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:55,919
Speaker 3: You know, watch a little bit of TV.

930
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: Give it a little head while you watch a TV,

931
00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: Like all the things have to still be happening.

932
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 2: Oh so that's a part of the sex.

933
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 3: Yes, watch on. It's part of the six You need

934
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 3: to watch TV like that. But I don't know.

935
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: Singing on my microphone like I do fucking around, I

936
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: might fucking run it off on the mic, not the dick,

937
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: but the actual mic.

938
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:17,919
Speaker 3: Sing a little bit.

939
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 2: It's not ship. It's if you leave the dick to

940
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 2: pick up of microphone, it's weird.

941
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: Okay, you'd be doing rap songs and scripts for movies.

942
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:41,479
Speaker 2: That's actually be free styling. But that and that's where

943
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 2: a man is getting no sex. If I break out

944
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 2: the karaoke, just know you're going home the same way

945
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 2: you can listen.

946
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: I don't have to have a marathon every session. You

947
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I I do enjoy a

948
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: nice squeakie. Okay, I do enjoy a nice squeaky especially

949
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: when you got shit to do or you're just starting

950
00:51:58,719 --> 00:51:59,919
Speaker 1: to get it out the ways you go to sleep.

951
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,399
Speaker 3: I enjoy a nice queakie. Quiki is are nice?

952
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 2: Twenty minutes on a Saturday night.

953
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes, that's a I mean, twenty minutes is a

954
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:10,439
Speaker 1: good time.

955
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 2: That's all I ever.

956
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes straight, pound out, Poundtown twenty minutes.

957
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah that all I need.

958
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:23,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, Poundtown for twenty minutes is good. Yeah, it's all Listen.

959
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 2: Anything over it, I'm calling the police. You get off

960
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 2: of me, Go like, what are you trying to do?

961
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 2: Kill me?

962
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: I need somebody to tomorrow. What is that phone call

963
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: going to sound like to the police?

964
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 2: Excuse me? I need you at this address right now.

965
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 2: This man is trying to take my life. You trying

966
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 2: to take my life?

967
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,720
Speaker 3: Real sex? Do be having you feeling dreamed? Also?

968
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like it does exude a

969
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: lot of energy. But if we go like I'm just

970
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: saying you know, on a nice Friday or Saturday night.

971
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, twenty minutes. Maybe some drugs are involved,

972
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 1: a little bit, a little bit of alcohol, you know

973
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, you know, a little fun. You

974
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: get up and go drink some water and come back

975
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: and do a little bit more stuff.

976
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 2: That's not fun, Sir Bernie Mack. That's it. I gotta

977
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 2: go to bed twenty minutes. If you ain't got it

978
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 2: about twenty minutes, you ain't getting.

979
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 3: It once a month, man, I need a marathon at

980
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 3: least once a month. That's all.

981
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: I'm asking masks for too much. Yeah, I don't know.

982
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: I might be greedy.

983
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 3: You might be a little greedy on drugs. I might

984
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 3: be a little tiny bit low greed. What y'all think though?

985
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 3: Are y'all?

986
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:51,879
Speaker 1: How sex going okay? I am forty one? Actually right,

987
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: sex is going great for me. I would like to know, Tammy,

988
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 1: sex going great for you? Are you having sex now?

989
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 2: I am? Yes. Sex has been amazing.

990
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:03,760
Speaker 3: Sounds good.

991
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 2: It has been really really good.

992
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: Amazing sex in your forties. It might be hard to

993
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: come by for some people. I got puma pussy'll know.

994
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: But y'all, but how sex for y'all. Y'all forties, Okay,

995
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: how is it? How is it going?

996
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 2: Nice? Yeah?

997
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: Do y'all have to use any special tools, any special lubricants,

998
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: No waterfalls.

999
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 2: My body's still doing what they need to do.

1000
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 3: I know, isn't it great? Yeahn't great.

1001
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 2: But I know, like we're getting closer to the age

1002
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 2: where the body stop. And you know, some people are

1003
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 2: experiencing that in our age group where their bodies aren't

1004
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 2: producing well, especially like imagine all right, so imagine women

1005
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 2: are our age who have been having sex with the

1006
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:57,760
Speaker 2: same guy for fifteen years or ten years, or seven

1007
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 2: years or two years, I don't know. You know, you

1008
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 2: might not get as wet because you know, he buy

1009
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: the stroke to the left for seven, stroke to the

1010
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 2: right for forty, and he gonna flip you over, lick

1011
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 2: your butt, flip you back over, like you know exactly

1012
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 2: what he gonna do. Like you might not get.

1013
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 1: You know, I think that's fun sometimes anticipating like you

1014
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: know they about to do this thing, like I know

1015
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 1: it's up next, like your favorite thing you can't do

1016
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: you do kind of get into a little routine like that,

1017
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: or he about to he about to eat.

1018
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 3: My Kuchie off the side of the bed. That's my favorite.

1019
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 2: Stay your favorite he do he eats your coochie off

1020
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 2: the side every time for seven years. Oh yeah, kuccie

1021
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 2: off the side.

1022
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 3: I am not like a super freak, you know.

1023
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm okay with the person whoever, whoever I'm with, We're

1024
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: gonna do all the things like a little bit right,

1025
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,800
Speaker 1: but I'm playing jeans, so it ain't a whole.

1026
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 3: Bunch of like what the fuck else you need?

1027
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: Like hanging from the ceiling, like what what do y'all need?

1028
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: That's why y'all should not be out here doing all

1029
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 1: this bullshit because a man asks you to. It's never

1030
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,879
Speaker 1: going to be a limit. I don't need that much

1031
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: to come. I don't need all that extra shit. So

1032
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: if your man need all that, you know, maybe he

1033
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: don't like you. I don't know, maybe he's like has

1034
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 1: a porn addiction, get porn too, or maybe he has

1035
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: maybe he has a porn addiction. That's a that's a

1036
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: problem in a lot of relationships. Yeah, So now you

1037
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,839
Speaker 1: have this expectation of what sex is supposed to look

1038
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: like because you're watching this this ship and these bitches

1039
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,799
Speaker 1: getting you're not paying me enough enough to do that shit.

1040
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 3: My nigga, Like, you gotta up to pay if you

1041
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 3: want some porn shit.

1042
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 2: Do you watch porn?

1043
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: I haven't in a long time. Like what I watched porn? Yes,

1044
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,439
Speaker 1: but it's like blocked in South Carolina, North Carolina. Right now,

1045
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: I can't watch no porn. But I was at one point,

1046
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: but I was likeugh, you just feel after it. I

1047
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 1: never I just like have ideas and I have visions

1048
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: in my mind of my own session.

1049
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 2: That's how I like. I discovered porn in twenty seventeen,

1050
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 2: and I was off of it by twenty eighteen. It's

1051
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 2: just seem it don't do nothing for me.

1052
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 3: You discovered porn in seventeen.

1053
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I never looked at porn until twenty seventeen. And

1054
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: then I was just like, yeah, I like I needed

1055
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 2: my porn to have a plot, Like I need to

1056
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 2: know how these people met.

1057
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 3: You want soap oper porn.

1058
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 2: It has to be otherwise I'm just gonna be grossed out.

1059
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 3: That little nasty music just come on?

1060
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, how much she said you fanby director?

1061
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: You can't see a director like balls? Then she start

1062
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: sucking the balls like that.

1063
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 2: I need y'all to add bump into each other at

1064
00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 2: the grocery store or something like me something to make

1065
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 2: it clean.

1066
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 3: It's like a dick in the car in front of

1067
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 3: the pickly Wiggily.

1068
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 2: Clean, not the piggy wiggly. Tell everybody from.

1069
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 3: The South, shit pilly wiggily be bumping.

1070
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: They got that good ass cafe cafeteria food they do.

1071
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 2: Oh, speaking of that, I heard New York finally got

1072
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 2: a bow Jangles.

1073
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 3: I saw that.

1074
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 2: You're gonna get fatter, because that's what.

1075
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 3: You don't go mad asking me, oh, you don't eat girl.

1076
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: The most I would eat from bull Jangles is an

1077
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 1: egg biscuit strawberries strawberry strawberry jelly. But the bulberry biscuit

1078
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,040
Speaker 1: don't taste like how I used to. But I remember,

1079
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 1: I remember how food used to taste as a kid.

1080
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: And this food ain't hitting on ship. So them buwlberry

1081
00:58:55,120 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 1: biscuits used to be different. Yeah, to sing, they just

1082
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 1: taste like a biscuit now with blueberry. Before it was

1083
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: like the dough was tasting different than a biscuit.

1084
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:09,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

1085
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 2: It was different quality as it once was.

1086
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, but that's the only thing I

1087
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: eat from there, and then you know I would eat

1088
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: their fries because I do remember enjoining the French fries.

1089
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: But I know they'd be frying that ship with the

1090
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 1: chicken mm hm, So I don't eat the fries.

1091
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 2: Last time I went to go to bow Jangles, they

1092
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 2: got to fighting at the drive through window and I

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00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 2: couldn't get my food. I was soaked.

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Speaker 1: We know that shit on the application for bul Jangles,

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00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: McDonald's and Berry Kings. He say, can you fight? It's

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Speaker 1: on application waffle House. Definitely waffle House better, waffle House

1097
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: got ru licensed to carry on their app. Some motherfuckers

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Speaker 1: be shooting, and rightfully so, because people come to waffle

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00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: House drunken shit start and shit with them. People who

1100
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 1: were in there working just try and do their job.

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00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 1: It's already hard enough. You work in the waffle house

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Speaker 1: at three am.

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01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 2: Right, and now you got this drunk motherfucker coming here

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01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 2: mad because their eggs ain't fry hard enough and throw you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Did you see that? It was a video?

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01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:14,919
Speaker 1: This girl like she definitely sprayed waffle House up from

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01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: behind the counter like shot she was the employee, Yes,

1108
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: because the bitches was throwing hell of shit at her. Yeah,

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01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 1: she definitely shut that ship up.

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Speaker 2: She went to jail.

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01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure.

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01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 2: But that's why you gotta leave people alone. You don't

1113
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 2: know what are people at their thirteenth reason? You know? So?

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01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, they assaulted her first.

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Speaker 2: All right, do we have any more things to say

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01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 2: about your regina before we go?

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01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 3: It's nice.

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01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 2: I don't even like how like when I'm talking to

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01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 2: a guy. I don't like using the word p I

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01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 2: don't like that word.

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01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 3: Why.

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01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 2: It just sounds I.

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01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 3: Don't even say it during sex.

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01:00:55,000 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 2: I don't like it. It sounds dirty. Girl. Hello, everyone's like,

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01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 2: can you stop calling it a vagina? I don't like

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01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 2: you calling it a vagina. I want to I don't

1127
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 2: like words.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not dirty, So what you want to call it?

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01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 2: You got?

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01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: That is so ugly, my vagina. I like the word pussy.

1131
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: It's such a nice word. I don't like the word

1132
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: of horny though, but pussy is nice word.

1133
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:30,439
Speaker 2: Another word I don't like mooist And if you put

1134
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 2: that one in front of pieces.

1135
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 3: Out, what would you even say that? It's wet? Okay,

1136
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 3: it's wet man y'all nasty?

1137
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it.

1138
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: It was this lady on Instagram. She would always make

1139
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: videos like this moist, the old White Lady moist moist.

1140
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 1: Stop please please doing enough on social media because you

1141
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: literally could just do anything on that bitch.

1142
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 3: And ragu viral.

1143
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 2: That's that's what we need to get into. That is

1144
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 2: our greatest endurance in life. It's a social media.

1145
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 3: Vagina.

1146
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what. It sounds nice and clean. All right, ladies,

1147
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 2: what's my last last for y'all? Don't be afraid to

1148
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 2: tell your guy what it takes to get you where

1149
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 2: you need to be. If you out here faking every time,

1150
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 2: you're doing yourself a disservice, just have a conversation and

1151
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: tell him, because you know women be doing that, never

1152
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 2: expressing what they need to get them where they need

1153
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 2: to be.

1154
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: I agree, I concurrento, just to piggyback off of what

1155
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 1: you were saying. Be honest with that nigga because when

1156
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: he get over here, he gonna know you was lying

1157
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell him he a goddamn lie, and.

1158
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 3: Start over. Start from the top, Start from fuck top.

1159
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 3: They get stop wanting to these niggas because when.

1160
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 1: They get into a real one, she gonna hurt their

1161
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: feelings real it's gonna be like a little like he's

1162
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 1: went thirty years. They can he be busting some ship

1163
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: up somewhere. And even the term busting up. You know,

1164
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: you don't want to bust the kuccia. You want it

1165
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: to feel nice.

1166
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, because guys think that if you're screaming that they're

1167
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,439
Speaker 2: doing a good job. Actually, that's not gonna stop either.

1168
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 2: I'm calling the police once again. What are you trying?

1169
01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: If I if I gotta do like this on your

1170
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: stomach one too many times.

1171
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 3: It's over.

1172
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: Actually, if I got to tap about this, especially when

1173
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,640
Speaker 1: you married, you're not about to be busting my ship

1174
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 1: up like that.

1175
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, what are you trying to do? What are

1176
01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 2: you trying to puss here?

1177
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 3: This is a rental.

1178
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: And it's a motherfucker big body bends. You're not about

1179
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 1: to be crashing my ship out like that. So if

1180
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 1: I got to too many fucking times, it's the time

1181
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 1: and place for everything. And now I don't want to

1182
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:04,439
Speaker 1: get beat up, you know for the marathon. Yeah, yeah,

1183
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 1: get off me. So yeah, please be honest.

1184
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,360
Speaker 2: He hurting your kouchie when he eat it and you're

1185
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 2: scared to say something.

1186
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: No, girl, what now you're about to take me someplace else.

1187
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,320
Speaker 1: This whole conversation, I'm thinking about all the type of

1188
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: ship you ever had. Somebody to bite your kuccie, like,

1189
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: let's at least try to eat your guccie. I had

1190
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: a nigga eat my kucci once. That's where I had

1191
01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: to get the mirror to make sure I wasn't missing

1192
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 1: a piece down there.

1193
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 2: He was nibbling on your reagina.

1194
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: I have never felt anything. I have never felt that

1195
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 1: type of excruciating pain before.

1196
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 2: Oh, he tried to bite your clearers off.

1197
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 3: He was trying to eat it like it was literally serious.

1198
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 2: Did you hit him at the top of his head.

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01:04:51,160 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 1: Almost, you know, like that this was up like.

1200
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 2: Like what to do? But he didn't know. Maybe the

1201
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 2: last girl liked her is bitten off.

1202
01:05:03,800 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 3: I don't know. Don't nibble want my cucci? Okay, it's

1203
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 3: for sucking and licking. That's it. Like who told you

1204
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 3: to literally eat kuci?

1205
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 2: So bite it off? It's crazy. Yeah, tell him tonight, girl,

1206
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 2: tell him tonight.

1207
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 3: No, that ain't who beat my kuccie.

1208
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:23,920
Speaker 1: This is a long time nobody listen every time tell

1209
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: about my gucci like I'm shooting you.

1210
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 3: Nigga can bite my coucie. Nowadays, you're gonna get shot

1211
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 3: in he nobody, he do.

1212
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 2: Be hurting me. I'm gonna tell him, girl, But you

1213
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 2: justnna say at night, and you don't have to be

1214
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 2: mean about it.

1215
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 3: Don't wait till after, though. You have to.

1216
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: Just like a dog when you're training a dog, you

1217
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: have to catch them in the act while they're doing

1218
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: the thing. You can't reprimand reprimand them after they've already

1219
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: done the thing. So you gotta do it like literally,

1220
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: why he licking at Kuchie like, I don't like that.

1221
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 3: That doesn't feel good. Do it like this? Men like construction,

1222
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 3: Men like instructions. They like boundaries, you know, just say

1223
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 3: it nice and sweet. No, baby, I want you to do

1224
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:02,439
Speaker 3: it like. Do it like this, talk to a real

1225
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 3: low hum.

1226
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 2: And then give him positive reinforcement when he do it right.

1227
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:13,479
Speaker 3: H good boy, good boy, good good boy.

1228
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 2: No. I don't know about that, but mag good boy.

1229
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 2: You be saying good boy.

1230
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 3: To your bigger No.

1231
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: Hell no, but I like a nigga to say good

1232
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 1: girl to me.

1233
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that too.

1234
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 3: Yes, All right, y'all, we be getting out of here because.

1235
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 1: Row episode here come this horny ass cat, y'all my

1236
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: cat and he That's how I'd be, y'all crazy, all right, y'all.

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