WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Soulmates to the Third Power

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<v Speaker 1>Second dating. I think there's a time in everyone's life.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually it's somewhere in your twenties where you're having a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, you're care free, the possibilities are endless, and

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden, it happens your best friend

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<v Speaker 1>gets engaged. Oh wait a second, the party's about to

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<v Speaker 1>be over. Yeah, oh crap, I gotta find somebody. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like dating musical chairs now, and if you don't move quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be left with just a spot on

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<v Speaker 1>the floor. That type of anxiety saying you got to

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<v Speaker 1>move fast. And that's kind of where one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Mary Anne, found herself a few months back, and she

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<v Speaker 1>said it changed the way that she thought about dating man. So,

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<v Speaker 1>mary Anne, welcome to the show. Hey yeah, Mary yea,

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<v Speaker 1>mary Anne, tell us about your dating life. What's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's been fine and normal and good. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been trying though, to meet a guy for a while, right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And your requirements are different now is kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff is alluding to. You're looking for something more. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for my soulmate now. Pressure. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like, gosh, I guess the phase of life is here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like made this alarm go off inside me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like what have I been doing? You know? Just turn around?

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't be eagle by myself when everybody else

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<v Speaker 1>is getting married. Don't feel peer pressure. I founding into

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<v Speaker 1>peer pressure is a good thing always. So it is, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how have you tried to pursue a soulmate? Now? What

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<v Speaker 1>strategy are you using? Most recently, I did speed dating

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<v Speaker 1>whole school in person, like at a bar or something. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well so this one was interesting because it was lego

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<v Speaker 1>speed dating. Actually what does that mean? So what you

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<v Speaker 1>do if you meet and there's like a place with

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of tables and then there are lego pieces

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<v Speaker 1>on each table and they start that timer and you

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<v Speaker 1>sit down and then the person across from you. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys are talking, but you create something from the lego

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<v Speaker 1>while you are talking. You don't have to have like

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable eye contacts. Like there's something else to do, like

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<v Speaker 1>a big fidget table. Okay, I made an airplane crashing,

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<v Speaker 1>But it sounds like you're supposed to build something together,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's like you're teaming up to make something of that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's like a metaphor for your relationship, right, also

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<v Speaker 1>kind of an innuendo there how the pieces fit together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if nobody would think, but it's good

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<v Speaker 1>to know how many people are fighting like, no, we

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<v Speaker 1>need this piece. Well, then you know you're not a

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<v Speaker 1>good match. So how did it go with the lego building?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it went fantastic, Say, really, did you meet someone? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>When I sat down across from Steve, we decided that

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<v Speaker 1>we would build Harry Potter's wand yeah, was it just

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<v Speaker 1>like one giant stack of leg a circular? Oh? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>wands come in many shapes and sizes. Are all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of wands. It's not just one long stick. So basically

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<v Speaker 1>he's like a dorky Harry Potter head like you are,

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<v Speaker 1>which is also another common interest. It sounds like we

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh, we totally speak the same language, we

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<v Speaker 1>have the same interests here. It was going better than

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<v Speaker 1>I ever could have hoped. And then I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we have thirty seconds left. They let you know when

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<v Speaker 1>your time is rubbing, and I was like, what spell

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<v Speaker 1>should we cast? That was totally just being ridiculous, and well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to cast a love spell. On you to

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<v Speaker 1>put your number in my phone so we can go

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<v Speaker 1>on a real date. Answer. I think so, And they

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<v Speaker 1>sat down to a big pile of brown legos. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like, yeah, it was smart and clever and cute, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like playing along and and so we did.

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<v Speaker 1>A week later, we went out and we just went

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<v Speaker 1>to a ping pong bar and pooped around and played

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<v Speaker 1>ping pong and drank and hissed. And it was his

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<v Speaker 1>Oh whoa. I mean literally it was perfect. I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I had this strong connection with him and we

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<v Speaker 1>were we were talking about the future and our brains

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<v Speaker 1>and mind. Well that's what happens when you get a

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<v Speaker 1>love spell cast on you. Yeah, maybe the spell wear off.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why, dude. That's crazy though. It's like you put

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<v Speaker 1>out into the universe that you wanted to meet your soulmate,

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<v Speaker 1>and it felt like this universe was kind of delivering. Yeah. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, here's the deal. I've been on a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dates, okay, and I have met a wide variety

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<v Speaker 1>of people, but I honestly feel like Steve might be

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<v Speaker 1>my soulmate. WHOA, wow, after one date, I'm not lego

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<v Speaker 1>building now, that's true. They warn you about that. When

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<v Speaker 1>you build legos to you, why would you not be

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back? I have no idea. It just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like everything quicked so well and we were laughing and

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<v Speaker 1>the chemistry was good, and I'm not really sure what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no red flags at all, but that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a red flag in itself. The flag, Yeah, that might

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<v Speaker 1>be what it is. In fact, if I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>speed dating with the legos, I would build a red flag. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>just the yeah that you are walking up exact date

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<v Speaker 1>at your own risk. But we're gonna call Steve here

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to ask him if he sees you

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<v Speaker 1>two as soulmates the same way that you guys do.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we say that for like a second question, Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we'll ask, and then we'll ask if we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do it with your second next second, Brook, do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember the exact moment you first fell in love with

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<v Speaker 1>your husband? Hush? I remember the first time I saw him,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, But we just fell in love. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it takes time, and I don't think it happens in

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<v Speaker 1>one My husband can tell you the exact moment he

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<v Speaker 1>knew that he loved me for him? Oh no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were on top of a volcano. What true story,

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<v Speaker 1>true story, flare. We were very well prepared. We had

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<v Speaker 1>just gone and thought we were going hiking and oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, goodness, Okay, he was having a heat stroke.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very cold. Actually, just saying that special moment

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<v Speaker 1>looks different for everyone. And for mary Anne, our listener,

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<v Speaker 1>at moment happened when her speed dates Steve picked up

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<v Speaker 1>some legos and built her a Harry Potter wand and

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<v Speaker 1>cast a love spell. That's really cute. But after they

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<v Speaker 1>went out to a bar, love spell seems to have

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<v Speaker 1>worn off a little bit, so we're gonna try and

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<v Speaker 1>reactivate it here with the second date update. How long

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<v Speaker 1>ago was it that you saw him? Steve? It's been

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<v Speaker 1>a week since I've heard of him from him, and

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<v Speaker 1>and just nothing. He hasn't texted you back at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he just disappeared. That wouldn't have happened if your date

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<v Speaker 1>was on a volcano. Maybe he was actually Cinderella turned

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<v Speaker 1>into a pumpkin. Oh, Harry Potter, he has the invisibility

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<v Speaker 1>cloak on is there a shoe involved? Okay, all this

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<v Speaker 1>talk of magic and eruptions and volcanoes, we gotta just

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<v Speaker 1>call Steve before it gets too steamy in here? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you ready? Maryanne? I am all right, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Donard's number right now. Hey, Hello, Hey, is it Steve?

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<v Speaker 1>Yees seeking? Who's hey Steve. It's your lucky day. You're

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Hey, I see Okay, okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a second right now? Um? Yeah, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up. We're calling because we got your number from

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners named Mary Anne. Oh, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a woman that you met at speed dating and

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<v Speaker 1>went out with once. Yeah. Wow, okay, So she asked

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<v Speaker 1>you to call me. Yeah. Yeah. Are you surprised by that? Uh? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm not surprised by that. I'm surprised it's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not surprised that she would do that. I guess. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to sound nervous. It's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. It means that she had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time with you. It did a great time with you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I gathered that. Yeah you did well, that's good. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you have a good time? Honestly? I did? Um, she

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<v Speaker 1>was very fun to talk to. It just started getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird towards the end. Um, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're choosing your words like super carefully. Well, well, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't dislike um. It's just a little too unusual

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<v Speaker 1>for for me. Okay, actual is this before or after

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<v Speaker 1>you kissed her? Because we heard there was kissing involved

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar Um. I would say it definitely got

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<v Speaker 1>the weirdness spike after that. Why is it Sai? Then

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<v Speaker 1>she said what so she was pretty openly talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of soulmate? Uh huh? Was that she said

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<v Speaker 1>that to you? Yeah, but she was just talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it as like a big idea, right, like not your

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<v Speaker 1>my soulmate. She opened it like that, and then she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, I think you might be one

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<v Speaker 1>of my homemates. Whoa wait and then one of isn't

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<v Speaker 1>there only one soulmate? Now you can have Mark. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the point. It's not soul mate, it's soul mate.

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<v Speaker 1>That's That's exactly what I said. And she it is like, yeah, welly,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone has three soulmates three three. I didn't know that, Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>This is good news for you and your marriage. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I can see that though it's like your best friend,

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<v Speaker 1>your sister. No, you want to bring your sister. It

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<v Speaker 1>isn't a sexual thing. Soul is just someone who you're

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<v Speaker 1>like connected with in this beyond any other relationship type

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<v Speaker 1>of ways. Yeah, exactly. I mean that's that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>how we are understanding it. But Steve, how were you

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<v Speaker 1>understanding what mary Anne was telling you? Oh? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what you guys are talking about sounds great, that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>very reasonable. Um, that is not what I was presented with.

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<v Speaker 1>Um to her, it's like a thing where you have

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<v Speaker 1>a past soulmate, a present soulmate, and a future soulmate

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<v Speaker 1>and these are all romantic. You have three. God, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to find three of them in your life that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to want to make it out with a friend.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't get it. Yeah, just a little too

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<v Speaker 1>absurd to me, this idea of like boy friends of past,

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<v Speaker 1>present and future. Hy Hey, I have something to say, Hey, Steve, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>that that's mary Anne. She's she's been listening on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line and clearly wants to talk to you. Usually

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<v Speaker 1>wait till we call him ghost a Christmas past. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wow, Um, were you going to tell me that?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I just did. Okay, okay, okay, yes, Hi

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<v Speaker 1>mary Anne, Marianne something to say. Hi, Hi, Steve. You

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<v Speaker 1>sound really confused, and I feel like maybe I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do a very good job of explaining it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like this for everyone. It's just the rule

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<v Speaker 1>of the universe. Right, So you have three soulmates. You

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<v Speaker 1>have a past soulmate and a present soulmate and a

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<v Speaker 1>future soulmate. Those was a three fine in your life? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Which soulmate and which soulmate is Steve number? Okay? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>So he I'm pretty sure if my presence soulmatee right,

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<v Speaker 1>my past my high school boyfriend that was my past soulmate, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>I really think has a possibility to be my present soulmate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but that kind of indicates to him that he's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get dumped for another dude along. It's better to have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a small part of Maryanne than none at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I would agree with that, sure, but look like it's

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<v Speaker 1>not me, Like I'm not making this up right, This

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<v Speaker 1>is like a law of the universe. Okay, Steve, how

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<v Speaker 1>does that make you feel, figuring that you could possibly

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<v Speaker 1>be her present soulmate? Well, if I if I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>present soulmate, and then suddenly there's a future soulmate, then

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<v Speaker 1>with that future soulmate, then that's your present soulmate, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm your past soulmate. So the whole system falls

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<v Speaker 1>apart really fast. Yeah, it should be on a numbering

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<v Speaker 1>system rather that deep and just be like a date. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've already had my first soul mate, I can't have another,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm fairly certain, like it really feels like you

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<v Speaker 1>will be the second. And then if you're lucky, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if every pos well, then I wouldn't even find my

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<v Speaker 1>future soulmate until after you are dead. Oh okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>let's get on that. The most romantic sentence that's ever

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<v Speaker 1>been up about this show. I mean, wouldn't you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to find somebody after you die? What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? We're not even together yet. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about meeting someone after I die? That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>You aren't together yet until we send you out, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for you, guys, to make it official as

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<v Speaker 1>present soulmates to each other. We'll pay for it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>soulmate is a little bit stronger, we'll send you out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date better, and then you can figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if the soulmate thing is real or Now ate I

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<v Speaker 1>like that? I mean, given that you did have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time with her. She's got some cookie ideas, but

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<v Speaker 1>she likes you. You guys had a great time. See. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it is not cookie. It is the rule of three soulmates.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody follows this. Okay, okay, wow? Did that convince you

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with her this time? Steve? No, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to find out what other rules of

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<v Speaker 1>life there are that I didn't know about. I will

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<v Speaker 1>say it does explain the divorce, right, People are just

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<v Speaker 1>go into their future soulmates. Yes, that's what's happening. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>a seconds, wait, Steve, since you said no to the date,

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<v Speaker 1>does that now make mary Anne your past soulmate or

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<v Speaker 1>so that means you only have two more to go

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<v Speaker 1>till you find your forever lady. And does it mean

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<v Speaker 1>that Maryanne only gets one or maybe? Yeah? Well, when

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<v Speaker 1>you started talking about this, you know, more and more

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<v Speaker 1>information sort of came to me, and the energy was

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<v Speaker 1>just not what I thought it was, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>canceled you in my mind. So it's unsubscribed from the

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<v Speaker 1>soulmates this guylmate. I kind of like these universe rules

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<v Speaker 1>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. You know, it's funny

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<v Speaker 1>that girl mentioned that she had a past present in

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<v Speaker 1>future soulmate somewhere in the world. If I got some

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<v Speaker 1>funny in it, Well, yeah, sure, it's just funny because

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when we did a live broadcast from Vegas

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<v Speaker 1>and I walked into one of the hotel rooms and

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<v Speaker 1>I met all three of Jose's soulmates. Yeah, remember that

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<v Speaker 1>their names? Remember their names? I doubt Yeah. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it just goes to show that everybody's got a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a different take on what love means. Love is, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and how much you have to pay love that three

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<v Speaker 1>for one deal on the street. Okay, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>your soul mate might be different than you're forever person,

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<v Speaker 1>who might be different than the one who might be

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<v Speaker 1>different than the love of your life. Oh man, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't any of them. It's not the same. Those are

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<v Speaker 1>all different. Oh my god. Love is hard, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>here to help you with that hard love. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we should go with that. I said it was help

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<v Speaker 1>me in Vegas. I know that dating can be difficult,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you want to get a little help. Email

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<v Speaker 1>the show, we'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>You could check out all the second Ey podcasts up

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<v Speaker 1>online at Brooke and Jeffrey dot com, Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning,