1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Second dating. I think there's a time in everyone's life. 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: Usually it's somewhere in your twenties where you're having a 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: good time, you're care free, the possibilities are endless, and 4 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, it happens your best friend 5 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: gets engaged. Oh wait a second, the party's about to 6 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: be over. Yeah, oh crap, I gotta find somebody. It's 7 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: like dating musical chairs now, and if you don't move quickly, 8 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: you're going to be left with just a spot on 9 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: the floor. That type of anxiety saying you got to 10 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: move fast. And that's kind of where one of our listeners, 11 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 1: Mary Anne, found herself a few months back, and she 12 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: said it changed the way that she thought about dating man. So, 13 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: mary Anne, welcome to the show. Hey yeah, Mary yea, 14 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: mary Anne, tell us about your dating life. What's going on. 15 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: You know, it's been fine and normal and good. I've 16 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: been trying though, to meet a guy for a while, right, okay, 17 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: And your requirements are different now is kind of what 18 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 1: Jeff is alluding to. You're looking for something more. Yeah, yeah, 19 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm looking for my soulmate now. Pressure. I mean, it 20 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: was like, gosh, I guess the phase of life is here. 21 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: It's like made this alarm go off inside me, you know, 22 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: like what have I been doing? You know? Just turn around? 23 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: And I can't be eagle by myself when everybody else 24 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: is getting married. Don't feel peer pressure. I founding into 25 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: peer pressure is a good thing always. So it is, okay, 26 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: how have you tried to pursue a soulmate? Now? What 27 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: strategy are you using? Most recently, I did speed dating 28 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: whole school in person, like at a bar or something. Yeah. Yeah, 29 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: well so this one was interesting because it was lego 30 00:01:55,560 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: speed dating. Actually what does that mean? So what you 31 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: do if you meet and there's like a place with 32 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: a bunch of tables and then there are lego pieces 33 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: on each table and they start that timer and you 34 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: sit down and then the person across from you. You 35 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: guys are talking, but you create something from the lego 36 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: while you are talking. You don't have to have like 37 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: uncomfortable eye contacts. Like there's something else to do, like 38 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: a big fidget table. Okay, I made an airplane crashing, 39 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: But it sounds like you're supposed to build something together, 40 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: Like it's like you're teaming up to make something of that. Okay, 41 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: that's that's like a metaphor for your relationship, right, also 42 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: kind of an innuendo there how the pieces fit together. 43 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,679 Speaker 1: I don't know if nobody would think, but it's good 44 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: to know how many people are fighting like, no, we 45 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: need this piece. Well, then you know you're not a 46 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: good match. So how did it go with the lego building? 47 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: I thought it went fantastic, Say, really, did you meet someone? Well? 48 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: When I sat down across from Steve, we decided that 49 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: we would build Harry Potter's wand yeah, was it just 50 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 1: like one giant stack of leg a circular? Oh? Okay, 51 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: wands come in many shapes and sizes. Are all kinds 52 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: of wands. It's not just one long stick. So basically 53 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: he's like a dorky Harry Potter head like you are, 54 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: which is also another common interest. It sounds like we 55 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: were like, oh, we totally speak the same language, we 56 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: have the same interests here. It was going better than 57 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: I ever could have hoped. And then I was like, okay, 58 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: we have thirty seconds left. They let you know when 59 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: your time is rubbing, and I was like, what spell 60 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: should we cast? That was totally just being ridiculous, and well, 61 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to cast a love spell. On you to 62 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: put your number in my phone so we can go 63 00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: on a real date. Answer. I think so, And they 64 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: sat down to a big pile of brown legos. It 65 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: sounds like, yeah, it was smart and clever and cute, right, 66 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: and it was like playing along and and so we did. 67 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: A week later, we went out and we just went 68 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: to a ping pong bar and pooped around and played 69 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: ping pong and drank and hissed. And it was his 70 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: Oh whoa. I mean literally it was perfect. I felt 71 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: like I had this strong connection with him and we 72 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: were we were talking about the future and our brains 73 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: and mind. Well that's what happens when you get a 74 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: love spell cast on you. Yeah, maybe the spell wear off. 75 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: That's why, dude. That's crazy though. It's like you put 76 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 1: out into the universe that you wanted to meet your soulmate, 77 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: and it felt like this universe was kind of delivering. Yeah. Like, 78 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: I mean, here's the deal. I've been on a lot 79 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,799 Speaker 1: of dates, okay, and I have met a wide variety 80 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: of people, but I honestly feel like Steve might be 81 00:04:56,080 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: my soulmate. WHOA, wow, after one date, I'm not lego 82 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: building now, that's true. They warn you about that. When 83 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: you build legos to you, why would you not be 84 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: calling you back? I have no idea. It just felt 85 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: like everything quicked so well and we were laughing and 86 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: the chemistry was good, and I'm not really sure what happened. 87 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: There's no red flags at all, but that's kind of 88 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: a red flag in itself. The flag, Yeah, that might 89 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: be what it is. In fact, if I was doing 90 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: speed dating with the legos, I would build a red flag. Actually, 91 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: just the yeah that you are walking up exact date 92 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: at your own risk. But we're gonna call Steve here 93 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: and we're going to ask him if he sees you 94 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: two as soulmates the same way that you guys do. 95 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: Can we say that for like a second question, Maybe 96 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: we'll ask, and then we'll ask if we're going to 97 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: do it with your second next second, Brook, do you 98 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: remember the exact moment you first fell in love with 99 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: your husband? Hush? I remember the first time I saw him, 100 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: for sure, But we just fell in love. I mean, 101 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: it takes time, and I don't think it happens in 102 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: one My husband can tell you the exact moment he 103 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: knew that he loved me for him? Oh no, yeah, 104 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: we were on top of a volcano. What true story, 105 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: true story, flare. We were very well prepared. We had 106 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 1: just gone and thought we were going hiking and oh 107 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: my god, goodness, Okay, he was having a heat stroke. 108 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,359 Speaker 1: It was very cold. Actually, just saying that special moment 109 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,239 Speaker 1: looks different for everyone. And for mary Anne, our listener, 110 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: at moment happened when her speed dates Steve picked up 111 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: some legos and built her a Harry Potter wand and 112 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: cast a love spell. That's really cute. But after they 113 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: went out to a bar, love spell seems to have 114 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: worn off a little bit, so we're gonna try and 115 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: reactivate it here with the second date update. How long 116 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 1: ago was it that you saw him? Steve? It's been 117 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: a week since I've heard of him from him, and 118 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: and just nothing. He hasn't texted you back at all. No, 119 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: he just disappeared. That wouldn't have happened if your date 120 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: was on a volcano. Maybe he was actually Cinderella turned 121 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: into a pumpkin. Oh, Harry Potter, he has the invisibility 122 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: cloak on is there a shoe involved? Okay, all this 123 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: talk of magic and eruptions and volcanoes, we gotta just 124 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: call Steve before it gets too steamy in here? Are 125 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: you ready? Maryanne? I am all right, let's do this. 126 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm Donard's number right now. Hey, Hello, Hey, is it Steve? 127 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: Yees seeking? Who's hey Steve. It's your lucky day. You're 128 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in 129 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: the morning. Hey, I see Okay, okay, okay, all right, 130 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: you got a second right now? Um? Yeah, well, yeah, 131 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: what's up. We're calling because we got your number from 132 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: one of our listeners named Mary Anne. Oh, okay, okay, okay. 133 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: She's a woman that you met at speed dating and 134 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: went out with once. Yeah. Wow, okay, So she asked 135 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: you to call me. Yeah. Yeah. Are you surprised by that? Uh? No, 136 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: I guess I'm not surprised by that. I'm surprised it's happening. 137 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that she would do that. I guess. Well, 138 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: you don't have to sound nervous. It's supposed to be 139 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: a good thing. It means that she had a really 140 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: good time with you. It did a great time with you. Yes, 141 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: I gathered that. Yeah you did well, that's good. Did 142 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: you have a good time? Honestly? I did? Um, she 143 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 1: was very fun to talk to. It just started getting 144 00:08:56,360 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 1: a little weird towards the end. Um, it sounds like 145 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: you're choosing your words like super carefully. Well, well, I don't. 146 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:09,599 Speaker 1: I don't dislike um. It's just a little too unusual 147 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: for for me. Okay, actual is this before or after 148 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: you kissed her? Because we heard there was kissing involved 149 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 1: at the bar Um. I would say it definitely got 150 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: the weirdness spike after that. Why is it Sai? Then 151 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: she said what so she was pretty openly talking about 152 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: the idea of soulmate? Uh huh? Was that she said 153 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: that to you? Yeah, but she was just talking about 154 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: it as like a big idea, right, like not your 155 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: my soulmate. She opened it like that, and then she 156 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: was like, you know, I think you might be one 157 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: of my homemates. Whoa wait and then one of isn't 158 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 1: there only one soulmate? Now you can have Mark. Yeah, 159 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: that's the point. It's not soul mate, it's soul mate. 160 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: That's That's exactly what I said. And she it is like, yeah, welly, 161 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 1: everyone has three soulmates three three. I didn't know that, Brook. 162 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 1: This is good news for you and your marriage. No, 163 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: I can see that though it's like your best friend, 164 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 1: your sister. No, you want to bring your sister. It 165 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: isn't a sexual thing. Soul is just someone who you're 166 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: like connected with in this beyond any other relationship type 167 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: of ways. Yeah, exactly. I mean that's that's kind of 168 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: how we are understanding it. But Steve, how were you 169 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 1: understanding what mary Anne was telling you? Oh? I mean 170 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: what you guys are talking about sounds great, that sounds 171 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 1: very reasonable. Um, that is not what I was presented with. 172 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: Um to her, it's like a thing where you have 173 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: a past soulmate, a present soulmate, and a future soulmate 174 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: and these are all romantic. You have three. God, you 175 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: got to find three of them in your life that 176 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 1: you want to want to make it out with a friend. 177 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: But I don't get it. Yeah, just a little too 178 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: absurd to me, this idea of like boy friends of past, 179 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: present and future. Hy Hey, I have something to say, Hey, Steve, Sorry, 180 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: that that's mary Anne. She's she's been listening on the 181 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: other line and clearly wants to talk to you. Usually 182 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: wait till we call him ghost a Christmas past. Yeah, 183 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: oh wow, Um, were you going to tell me that? 184 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: I think I just did. Okay, okay, okay, yes, Hi 185 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: mary Anne, Marianne something to say. Hi, Hi, Steve. You 186 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: sound really confused, and I feel like maybe I just 187 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 1: didn't do a very good job of explaining it, you know, 188 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: because it's like this for everyone. It's just the rule 189 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: of the universe. Right, So you have three soulmates. You 190 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: have a past soulmate and a present soulmate and a 191 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: future soulmate. Those was a three fine in your life? Right, 192 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: Which soulmate and which soulmate is Steve number? Okay? Right? 193 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: So he I'm pretty sure if my presence soulmatee right, 194 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: my past my high school boyfriend that was my past soulmate, Steve, 195 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: I really think has a possibility to be my present soulmate. Yeah, 196 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: but that kind of indicates to him that he's gonna 197 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: get dumped for another dude along. It's better to have, 198 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: you know, a small part of Maryanne than none at all. 199 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: I would agree with that, sure, but look like it's 200 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: not me, Like I'm not making this up right, This 201 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 1: is like a law of the universe. Okay, Steve, how 202 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: does that make you feel, figuring that you could possibly 203 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: be her present soulmate? Well, if I if I'm the 204 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: present soulmate, and then suddenly there's a future soulmate, then 205 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: with that future soulmate, then that's your present soulmate, and 206 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: then I'm your past soulmate. So the whole system falls 207 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 1: apart really fast. Yeah, it should be on a numbering 208 00:12:56,240 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: system rather that deep and just be like a date. Yeah, Like, 209 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: I've already had my first soul mate, I can't have another, 210 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: and I'm fairly certain, like it really feels like you 211 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: will be the second. And then if you're lucky, right, Like, 212 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: if every pos well, then I wouldn't even find my 213 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: future soulmate until after you are dead. Oh okay, let's 214 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 1: let's get on that. The most romantic sentence that's ever 215 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: been up about this show. I mean, wouldn't you want 216 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 1: me to find somebody after you die? What are you 217 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: talking about? We're not even together yet. What are you 218 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: talking about meeting someone after I die? That's a good point. 219 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: You aren't together yet until we send you out, and 220 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: we'll pay for you, guys, to make it official as 221 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 1: present soulmates to each other. We'll pay for it. Maybe 222 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: soulmate is a little bit stronger, we'll send you out 223 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: on another date better, and then you can figure out 224 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: if the soulmate thing is real or Now ate I 225 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: like that? I mean, given that you did have a 226 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: good time with her. She's got some cookie ideas, but 227 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: she likes you. You guys had a great time. See. No, 228 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: it is not cookie. It is the rule of three soulmates. 229 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: Everybody follows this. Okay, okay, wow? Did that convince you 230 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: to go out with her this time? Steve? No, I'm sorry. 231 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to find out what other rules of 232 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: life there are that I didn't know about. I will 233 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: say it does explain the divorce, right, People are just 234 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: go into their future soulmates. Yes, that's what's happening. Wait 235 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: a seconds, wait, Steve, since you said no to the date, 236 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: does that now make mary Anne your past soulmate or 237 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: so that means you only have two more to go 238 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: till you find your forever lady. And does it mean 239 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: that Maryanne only gets one or maybe? Yeah? Well, when 240 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: you started talking about this, you know, more and more 241 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: information sort of came to me, and the energy was 242 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: just not what I thought it was, and I just 243 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: canceled you in my mind. So it's unsubscribed from the 244 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: soulmates this guylmate. I kind of like these universe rules 245 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. You know, it's funny 246 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: that girl mentioned that she had a past present in 247 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: future soulmate somewhere in the world. If I got some 248 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: funny in it, Well, yeah, sure, it's just funny because 249 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: I remember when we did a live broadcast from Vegas 250 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 1: and I walked into one of the hotel rooms and 251 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: I met all three of Jose's soulmates. Yeah, remember that 252 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: their names? Remember their names? I doubt Yeah. I mean 253 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: it just goes to show that everybody's got a little 254 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: bit of a different take on what love means. Love is, yeah, 255 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: and how much you have to pay love that three 256 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: for one deal on the street. Okay, but you know 257 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: your soul mate might be different than you're forever person, 258 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: who might be different than the one who might be 259 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: different than the love of your life. Oh man, I 260 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: haven't any of them. It's not the same. Those are 261 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: all different. Oh my god. Love is hard, and we're 262 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: here to help you with that hard love. I think 263 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: we should go with that. I said it was help 264 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: me in Vegas. I know that dating can be difficult, 265 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: and if you want to get a little help. Email 266 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: the show, we'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. 267 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: You could check out all the second Ey podcasts up 268 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: online at Brooke and Jeffrey dot com, Brooke and Jeffrey 269 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 1: in the Morning,