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Speaker 1: hallway and looking the way I did. And then walked

423
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: in the hallway and you see all the girls, all

424
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 1: our friends that were dress up as a plastics. When

425
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,680
Speaker 1: I stood behind him, it looked like the plastics like

426
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 1: it looked like it did on the day, Like when

427
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 1: because I stand like you know, a foot sent from

428
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,440
Speaker 1: the back, like it looked like Lacey and Amanda and

429
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 1: Rachel and Lindsay like it looked just like them. They

430
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: did a great job with Yeah, and that's what I

431
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 1: love about. Are you when you're doing something that you

432
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: do it right and you do it big, and she did.

433
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: And she's honestly one of the best human beings you

434
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: will ever, ever, ever, ever, ever get to meet or

435
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:05,400
Speaker 1: work with. She cares. She's amazing. She cares so much

436
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: about like everyone from the extras, like going up and

437
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: talking to him in the background players and like going

438
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: up and like engaging with them, Like she's just on

439
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: set having fun doing what she was put on this

440
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 1: earth to do, which is entertained people and make music,

441
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 1: and like was like her in her element, being where

442
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: she's supposed to be, and she's phenomenal, phenomenal. I can't

443
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 1: say enough. I cannot say enough good things about Ariana Grande,

444
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 1: Like I wish I could like have a parade every

445
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,639
Speaker 1: day about how cool of a person she is. And

446
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: that was like, that's how selfless she is. She wants

447
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 1: everyone to do well. Like jokingly, I was like, hey,

448
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm my cookbook. When I'm in the video when we're

449
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: doing the whole walk down the hallway, I have school books.

450
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: I was like, wouldn't be funny if I cared in

451
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: my cookbook? Can I do that? And she was like,

452
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 1: are you kidding? Go get that now? Let's sell it.

453
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 1: I was like, are you serious? She's like yes, I

454
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: like sprinted to the room, got my cookboo, which I

455
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: just it's so funny to think fifteen years ago, you're

456
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: shooting mean girls, You're shooting that scene. Who would think

457
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: that fifteen years later, the biggest pop star in the

458
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: entire world would be shooting the biggest music video in

459
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: the entire past decade. And I will be carrying a

460
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: cookbook that I made based on that movie, Like what

461
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: what is the world? Yeah? That's awesome, Yeah, it really is.

462
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: That was really exciting. It was really fun. And the

463
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 1: girl that they cast is Lindsay Lohan like looked just

464
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 1: like it's Ari's friend Liz from Dynasty. Right, she's on Dynasty.

465
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,719
Speaker 1: I can't I can't think of her last thing, Yeah, Dynasty,

466
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: look her up, Liz from Dynasty. Oh this room is

467
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 1: just like yeah, yeah, yeah, Um, do we have any

468
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: Elizabeth Gillies Elizabeth Gillies, Yeah, she's from Dynasty's great? Can

469
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 1: we do an email with Jonathan? Do we have any

470
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: good ones that people need life help and advice? As

471
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: we can? Is gonna help me? Like they both need

472
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 1: great to Yeah, James, James coming over here side. No,

473
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 1: there's one email I really want to get to at

474
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: the end of the podcast about this seven year old

475
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: who has doesn't have to put a tampon. Talk about

476
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: that's perfect for this situation. Okay, how about this roommate issue?

477
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: Anonymous emailer? Help me? James gonna help me on alright,

478
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: make's gonna read the email far. Okay, I'm in college

479
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: at university where I live with three guys. This is

480
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 1: a female writing this, and that's kind of a fun setup.

481
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 1: One of the roommates, Todd, has a girlfriend, but he's

482
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: been shady vibing with girls at the club. My other

483
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 1: roommate told me Todd as an active tender and goes

484
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: to different girls houses all the time. My best friend

485
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: swiped on Todd's tender to see if he was active,

486
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: and sure enough, they matched and he even messaged her.

487
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: This poor girlfriend if his has no idea he's cheating

488
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: on her all the time and even turns his notifications

489
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: off when he's with her. I know there's a roommate code,

490
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: but at what point is too far? Should I say something?

491
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 1: I don't know this girl, but I feel like I

492
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: shouldn't get involved. But if someone knew my boyfriend was

493
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: doing this, I'd want to be told. Any advice would

494
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: be appreciated. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, so girl code Trump's roommate code.

495
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 1: She said it right there at the end. The last

496
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: thing was that this was happening to me. I would

497
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: want somebody to tell me. Therefore, you have to always

498
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: put yourself in the other person. Choose what she just

499
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: did at the end. She knows what she wants to

500
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 1: do or gonna be asking the question already. But here's

501
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: how you do it to keep yourself from being thrown

502
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,959
Speaker 1: into the fire on this anonymous note, anonymous message, anonymous account,

503
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: come up with some way to let her know this

504
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: is what's going on with links and screenshots so she

505
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: can see it. But then you stay out of it.

506
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 1: And I think this person will find two like in

507
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: the long run, she doesn't really want to be friends

508
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 1: with that roommate because he's not a good guys, very

509
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: good Next email, next email, any other any other thoughts

510
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: on that? I mean, yeah, I personally would want to

511
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 1: know as soon as anyone anything. My gut was to

512
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: stay out of it. Am I wrong on that? I

513
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 1: don't want to know? But it's her roommate, not they're

514
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: not even close friends. And this girlfriend, she barely knows

515
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: a lot about what he's doing. It's not like she

516
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: just heard one thing. It's like, so you always tell

517
00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: them about the situation than anything. And her friend, her

518
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: friend matched with him on Tinder, so there's a personal connection.

519
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: Always look at what she would want in the same situation, right,

520
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: all right, And this is from Suez. I'm thirty. I

521
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: went to an event with someone I really liked in September.

522
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm thirty, he's thirty one. We had a great time together,

523
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 1: but I had to kick him out early when the

524
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: girl I was sharing a room with was heading back.

525
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 1: It was a rough, sweet goodbye, but he didn't ask

526
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: for my number. I didn't sweat it because eighteen and

527
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: if you have people in common, you can still connect.

528
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: So what did I do? I added him on Instagram?

529
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: In my head, I dropped the handkerchief. That's a phrase

530
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: time he uses a lot, dropping the handkerchief and guy

531
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 1: will pick it up. Only he didn't pick it up.

532
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: He's a self proclaimed introvert and definitely on the shire side.

533
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: Do I need to make an actual move? Did I

534
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: already make an actual move? Ps, I'm a nurse, he's

535
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 1: a doctor. I know. I know. There was that book.

536
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,959
Speaker 1: There was that one book they wrote. What's it called, Um,

537
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: he's just not into you. Yeah, he's just not that

538
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: into you. Yeah, I don't think he's that into you.

539
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: He would have picked it up. But this is the

540
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 1: thing that women do that we've talked about many times.

541
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: He's an introvert, he shy. We make excuses for these guys.

542
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: I know. I mean same. I told the guy I

543
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: left my number for a guy at this restaurant, and

544
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: I was like, he didn't call me. I was like,

545
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: it's probably got eaten by a bear, or like the

546
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: waitress didn't give it to him. Like I come up

547
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: with all these different excuses, So I mean, yeah, it's

548
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 1: not looking good. There's a very famous scene and what

549
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: is my best Friend's wedding where she's like, yeah, I'm

550
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: chasing him or chasing him, and then her friend goes, well,

551
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: who's chasing you? It's that plain and simple. If somebody's

552
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: not chasing you, bounce, it's not worth the time. You

553
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: should always be chasing each other. And like if she

554
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: already put out a little bit of the goods, it

555
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: looks like and he didn't follow up, like, girl, find

556
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: somebody's going to appreciate you. It's true, Thank you next,

557
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: Thank you next. Also, it's such a y'all are a

558
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: really good example of this of like, when it's right,

559
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: it's reciprocated on the offense. But he called you, and

560
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: you're like, what took so long? And he thought he

561
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: was calling you quick? You know, when both people are

562
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: into it, there's no no, there's none of this, Like

563
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 1: she's done all she needs to do. Yeah, no matter what,

564
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,239
Speaker 1: it's gonna hurt, like it's gonna except it's gonna hurt.

565
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: And then just wait till you find that. Right, we'll

566
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: get back to the next party's Christmas time. A lot

567
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: of people right now. This is from Becca different Becca.

568
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: I assumed she's torn between two guys. She's named the

569
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: Mark and Easton for our Easton just laughed and I'm Mark.

570
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: So all right now I'm dating two guys. I'll explain how,

571
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: but I really need to figure out who to choose,

572
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: and I need help. The first guy, we'll call him Mark.

573
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: I've known him quite a few years. We started off

574
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: dating for a year. We're both young, and I was

575
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,479
Speaker 1: his first serious girlfriend. He felt like he needed more

576
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: experience and to figure himself out. So we spent the

577
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: next couple of years dating other people, but he never

578
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: did a girl longer than six weeks before breaking up

579
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: with her because quote, he didn't have the same feelings

580
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: for her as he did for me. Okay, the other guy,

581
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: you're not in the Mark. Okay, the other guy will

582
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: call him Eastern. I haven't. We've been great friends since

583
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: we were young. We started hanging out together recently and

584
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: he admitted his feelings for me and we started dating.

585
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 1: Mark didn't know I was dating someone when he came

586
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: to me and told me he was ready to be

587
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: with me and felt like he'd never love anyone as

588
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: much as he loves me. So now I'm in a

589
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 1: situation where I need to decide who I want to

590
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: be with. Can you imagine Tom, you being in this situation?

591
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: Come back and like goodbye, like comparrass into ridges over here.

592
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: I love them both. I feel more deeply for Mark,

593
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: but I have an easier time with easton Eastern, and

594
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: I am more compatible, but I love Mark a little more.

595
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: What's more important love or compatibility? And what is best

596
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: long term she's doing something right and everyone loves me.

597
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: What am I gonna do? I have too many options?

598
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: Shut up, that's what I say. Shut up? Okay, but

599
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: Becca serious, she needs our help. Is what's more important?

600
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: Compatibility or love? Compatibility fascinating? Well, just because I prefer

601
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: the second guy. I don't like that Mark was like

602
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: him and hawing over her. He was young, he was scared.

603
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: I get Mark's point of view that that twenty I

604
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: don't know how they're don't I don't think, she says.

605
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: But they were young, they were twenty two. You're not

606
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: going to commit for life at twenty two. You got

607
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: to kind of see the world a little bit, and

608
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: that's what he wanted to do. Yeah, I'm metro. I'd

609
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 1: be I'd much other a guy like go do his

610
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: own thing if he wasn't ready, and then figure out,

611
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: if you know, when he comes back, if it's the

612
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: right timing. Timing is very important. Timing is very important, gentlemen.

613
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: I think she goes with Mark, she said she loves.

614
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 1: I think as far as practicality goes, yes, compatibility is

615
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: where you want to look at it. But like, this

616
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: is a problem with their culture where people are so

617
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: used to dating TV shows that they think they can

618
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: just run their life like it's a dating TV show.

619
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: You're toying with two guys right here, and you're sitting

620
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: there acting like you're the freaking star, and you get

621
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: to make a choice. I actually hope they both dump

622
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: her and she has to start over, because that's messed up.

623
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: If homeboy was so into you and you were creating

624
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: a scenario where he thought he could let this girl

625
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: go and say, Hi, I'm in love with you, let's

626
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: be together, and you're like, yo, I got this whole

627
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: other compatible dude over here, Like maybe you should. You

628
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 1: have the point because I think that like transparency and

629
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: dating is one of the most important things that you

630
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: can have if you're dating multiple people, just be upfront

631
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: and ones. And the fact that she was lying well

632
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: also too, and like we want I think also in

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Speaker 1: the dating culture and like the way our our society

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Speaker 1: and it's gonna be perfect, like it will be those moments,

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Speaker 1: but they'll also be other moments and we never broadcast though,

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Speaker 1: so you the illusion is there. You know, maybe instead

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Speaker 1: things and she can figure out who she that's probably

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Speaker 1: what Mark is feeling and then she won't do it again.

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Speaker 1: But Mark did it to her first he was twelve.

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Speaker 1: I have, Well, I have. I have my movie with

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Speaker 1: Hillary Duff next year coming out called The Haunting of

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Speaker 1: I try to get back and they come to the

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Speaker 1: farmer's in market with me on Sunday, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know why I try anymore. You wouldn't go.

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Speaker 1: That sounds so fun just to walk around meet people.

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Speaker 1: I don't need that. You don't need to meet people. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I like to thrive at the farmer's market. I am

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Speaker 1: like my talk to everybody I talked to. I talked

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Speaker 1: to all the local farmers. I'm like, oh, I love it.

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Speaker 1: It's like my favorite thing I do for I kind

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Speaker 1: of church A great Sunday activity because you get to

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Speaker 1: be with people. Yeah, you would love that. We need

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Speaker 1: to introduce you this voice. Okay, guys, it's very exciting.

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Speaker 1: We have. This is my very own pastor chat. What

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Speaker 1: do I say? I? Um, it's who I am? Your

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Speaker 1: referenced a lot on this podcast. Actually, yeah, that means

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Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, well, I think both of you are

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Speaker 1: amazing and congratulations on this success. Thank this podcast is unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: It's really exciting. I feel like this is such a

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Speaker 1: big deal to come on your podcast. Time made it

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Speaker 1: so it's all downhill from here. Yeah pretty much. Um, well,

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Speaker 1: I there. We do reference you a lot. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I do talk about you a lot. People were

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Speaker 1: really excited when I said that you were coming on

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Speaker 1: the podcast. There's a lot to you. I feel like

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Speaker 1: everything about you is like positive and encouraging, and I

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Speaker 1: feel like you have so many stories to tell. I'm blushing,

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Speaker 1: but they can. But the one thing that I wanted

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Speaker 1: to focus on today that I feel like our listeners

794
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Speaker 1: could really benefit from was your journey from being in

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Speaker 1: Seattle to like getting this call to come to l

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Speaker 1: a plant a church, and just like kind of if

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Speaker 1: I want you to talk about the journey the struggles,

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Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people we've gotten emails

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Speaker 1: to where people like um, want to pack up and

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Speaker 1: move across this you know, the country to do something

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Speaker 1: that they feel in their heart, but they're not sure

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Speaker 1: how to do it. And I kind of want you

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Speaker 1: to like talk about because what's really funny is, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I even told you this. I met

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Speaker 1: We met at like a charity event in l A.

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Speaker 1: And he you were living in Seattle at the time,

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Speaker 1: in my life. And so we like exchange phone numbers

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Speaker 1: and You're like, if you're in Seattle, like you know,

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Speaker 1: let me know, and I was like, I'm never in Seattle,

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Speaker 1: but for sure, we're at the Beverly Hills Hotel. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then I remember you called me was like maybe

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Speaker 1: a year or like is a year after that, and

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Speaker 1: don't know if you have a home church, and I

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Speaker 1: be in Santa Monica, which is right down the street

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Speaker 1: for me. So it's all like it was so weird

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Speaker 1: because when I met you, I felt like you were

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Speaker 1: going to be in my life forever, and yet you

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Speaker 1: weren't even living in l A at the time. So

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Speaker 1: it's really crazy that like, now that was years ago,

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Speaker 1: I totally remember that, and um, it's crazy you say

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Speaker 1: our church originally was going to be in Santa Monica

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, Santa Monica is

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Speaker 1: so far away from everybody. Let's definitely not go there.

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Speaker 1: Let's visit there, let's go to the third Street, but

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Speaker 1: let's not put a church in Santa Monica. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think, um, it is a big deal to move anywhere,

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Speaker 1: I think that you've got to do things that are

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Speaker 1: in your heart, and you've gotta do things that are

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Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to be wise. I had at

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Speaker 1: I want my wife to stop I'm begging or stop.

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Speaker 1: She won't leave me alone. It's another podcast for another day.

842
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: It's all relationships. I'll come back we occurring guests anyways.

843
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,399
Speaker 1: But I just couldn't shake this feeling like I felt

844
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: like I was supposed to, you know, come down here

845
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: and do what we're um do what we're doing now.

846
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 1: And so I think when you make big decisions in life,

847
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: you always got to sit on them, you know. You

848
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: you know how the cost, so to speak. And I

849
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: knew we were, you know, good to go when my

850
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: wife is like one day we were in Bellevue, Washington,

851
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: she was like, all right, it's time, let's go. And

852
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: I was like, if Mama says we're good, then we're

853
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: really good. And so, um, yeah, we came down, moved

854
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 1: down and and we've had a lot of fun and

855
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: there's been a wild, crazy adventure. No, it's actually like

856
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: really nuts because the church is only three years old.

857
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 1: Three years old, yeah, so started out with zero people. Yea,

858
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: yeah we are first little gathering was eleven people in

859
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: our living room, legit. Yeah. And now it's how many

860
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: a couple of thousand people would come on Sunday. Yeah,

861
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: I know it's and and I've known so many people

862
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: who have moved somewhere and planted the church, and it's

863
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: really I think people see where Zoe is now and

864
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: it's kind of like maybe they didn't see the struggle

865
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: because they just see what it is now. They see

866
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: the thousand to people but it is a lot of work.

867
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: From what I mean, I haven't experienced it, but seeing

868
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 1: friends who have done it, it's like a lot of

869
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: effort and struggle and like wondering if you've done the

870
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: right thing and wondering if you heard the wrong voice

871
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: or something totally well. I think like it's like any business,

872
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: you know, any startup, any small company. Um. The way

873
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: that I look at us is like, we're like a

874
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: small business. And if you look at any like I

875
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: have a friend that has a shop in Culver City,

876
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: it's called so so s he os So. I don't

877
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: know how to say it right. Every time I was like,

878
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: is this so s Like, let's let's start with your

879
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: name anyways. Um, but but like my friend Corey shout

880
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: out to s E at the platform in Culver City.

881
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I watch his work ethic and I

882
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: watch it's an a shop. He's going his life into

883
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: this thing. I think. Anything. You know, if you're moving

884
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: to l A, you know, it's so funny. You know,

885
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: I didn't realize this about l A. But it really

886
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: is the land of broken dreams. People move here to

887
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: be actors and models and filmmakers and film the blank,

888
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: and it doesn't pan out as quickly or in the

889
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: trajectory that they planned and thought they would. And I

890
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: heard someone say, John Gray, I think you love John Gray.

891
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: John said, you know, we have this generation that has

892
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: million dollar dreams with you know, a hundred dollar work ethic.

893
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 1: And it's like, wow, you know, if you want to

894
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: make it in l A, you really or anywhere in life,

895
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: you really got to grind it out and work. So

896
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: I think that they're especially when it comes to spirituality.

897
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes we can hide behind the God card and like

898
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 1: God's gonna do it or God's not growing it. It's like,

899
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: I think you need to work harder. So you know,

900
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: I think in a great opportunity we have here is

901
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: just you know, let's work as hard as we can

902
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: and and see what happens. What do you think was

903
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: the hardest struggle in the beginning, Yeah, I think the

904
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: hardest part for me in the beginning was I had

905
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: never had a business. So I had been a youth

906
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 1: pastor or been a pastor on staff somewhere for fifteen

907
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: sixteen years. I was never in charge of HR and

908
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:14,959
Speaker 1: payroll and budget and land acquisition and fill in the blank.

909
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: So it was a learning curve to like run an organization.

910
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: So that was probably the hardest part for me. Was

911
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: everything else was easy and natural, preaching and leading teams forever,

912
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: but this part was like really cool to learn. Even

913
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 1: saying all those things make me nervous. Right, Sometimes I'm

914
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: like someone's gonna walk into office and be like, you're

915
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: a fraud. I'm like, yeah, for sure, I knew it. Yeah,

916
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: everybody knows it, right learn? Where do you learn it? All?

917
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: Like online? I don't know just what. I'm talking to

918
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: my wife, who was really smart, So, babe, what do

919
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: you think about just trusted her with everything? I'm like,

920
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: can I just smile and like hug babies and like

921
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: jake hands and you do the business to actually what happens?

922
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: You're nuts how it's done. I feel like you talk

923
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: a lot about that. So you have two books out

924
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: right now, unreasonable hope that book is life changing. You're

925
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,919
Speaker 1: so kind. Honestly, if you are listening and you haven't

926
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: read it, I highly suggest it. Um I don't. I mean,

927
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that's like a whole another like we

928
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: could go, but can you share a little bit of

929
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: the story of if your daughter Georgia that's crazy that

930
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: you say that you forget about, you know, projects that

931
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: you you throw your life into. So the other day

932
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: I picked up a copy. I was like, well, I

933
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: forget about this book. Unreasonable Hope was the first book

934
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: that I wrote, and it really is a story about

935
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: our daughter, Georgia. Our daughter Georgia just turned seven and

936
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: when she was born, she was born, her brain never formed,

937
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: never developed, and um, so she has smooth brain and

938
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: with that brings a lot of complications, and her life

939
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 1: expectancy was, you know, she's given a short amount of

940
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: time to live, and the doctors, you know, said a

941
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: lot of negativity over her. She'll her do you know this,

942
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: that and the other, and she's really defied the doctors.

943
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: You know, in the seven years of her existence. She's

944
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: she's done, she's thrived. She goes to school. I drop

945
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: her off at school every day right now, and her

946
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: teachers love her and she's in class and they're working

947
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: with her and developing her. But Unreasonable Hope, basically, um,

948
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: the whole thought behind that was to say, you know,

949
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: sometimes in life you have to have hope against your situation.

950
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: You have to be filled with hope even when your

951
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:32,280
Speaker 1: circumstance looks bleak and hopeless, and so as a leader

952
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: of my family, for my wife and my kid, I

953
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 1: felt like I needed to really get my hopes up

954
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: and be hopeful that this this thing. Although the doctor

955
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: is saying one thing, that we believe in a god

956
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: that can do another. And I also feel like I

957
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: control the environment of my life, in the environment of

958
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 1: my home, and so I just wanted my home to

959
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: be filled with joy and laughter. So, yes, the pain

960
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 1: is real, but I can also I can turn on

961
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: some good music and we can celebrate life, and we

962
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: can take our daughter and give her the best life

963
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: we can provide for her. So that was the whole

964
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: goal of Unreasonable Hopes, just say, come on, let's get

965
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 1: our hopes up. I think the other thing that I

966
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: that really stood out to me too, um, was how

967
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: you were talking about how sometimes like your biggest pain

968
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: in your life can become your biggest platform, because that

969
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: went with you when we were talking about Yeah, you

970
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: were like preaching about it one Sunday about like that

971
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: the book, and um, it was like, how something that

972
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: can be like that, that was the worst thing that

973
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: could have possibly happened to your family and yet it

974
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: took you from because that's when you started really like

975
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: speaking and going into these big arenas and things like that.

976
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: And it was like, and your empathy for people in

977
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 1: pain just was you thought that you had the empathy

978
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: before him, but now it's like on a totally different level.

979
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: And that really like resonated with me because I think

980
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 1: a lot of people sometimes are in there going through

981
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: storms in life, like that's why am I going through this?

982
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: But it's like it's really to put you on the

983
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 1: path of like where you're supposed to go. Well, I

984
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: didn't realize other people were in pain until I had pain.

985
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: So it's just my eyes just were open, like, oh

986
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: my gosh. People are in the hospital right now, and

987
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: now like if someone's like my mom has cancer or

988
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: something something happened, my heart leaps at them because I've

989
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: been through trauma, I've been through pain, so now I

990
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: have empathy, And so yeah, you wouldn't I always think

991
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. I really wouldn't.

992
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: What we have to face even today, you know, like

993
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: what her seizures and medication and what my wife has

994
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: to deal, I wouldn't wish that on anybody. But I

995
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 1: wouldn't trade it for anything because it has made us softer, kinder,

996
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: more compassionate people. And it also made us relate to

997
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: people that I never would have been able to relate to.

998
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,399
Speaker 1: Like A'll go preach places and people will bring their

999
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: children in, you know, wheelchairs, and they say, we read

1000
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: Unreasonable Hope and we just can we you know, can

1001
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,240
Speaker 1: you pray for my kid? Or can we take a photo?

1002
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,439
Speaker 1: And it's like wow, I never would have been able

1003
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 1: to relate with these people, talk to them, meet them

1004
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: if we didn't go through that. So it opens up

1005
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 1: a whole world. Um, it was really cool. Unreasonable Hope.

1006
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: It actually did really well in the special needs category

1007
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: and has actually given us um relationships and the special

1008
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 1: needs community. So now it's like night to Shine comes,

1009
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,280
Speaker 1: which you know we do with the Tim Tebow Foundation.

1010
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: We throw a prompt especially these people, and it's like

1011
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm a part of this special community, you know, Buddy

1012
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 1: to Buddy and um the special needs Olympics and it's

1013
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 1: like I'm a part of this community where I'm I'm

1014
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: one of them and that feels so cool. Well, it's

1015
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 1: my my nephew and Georgia were born on the same day.

1016
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: So I followed the story from like literally the day

1017
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: she was borne on Instagram and so it was cool,

1018
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: like you know, watching and then like seeing I think

1019
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: it and for some reason that they were born on

1020
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: the same day. When when her diagnosis and everything happened,

1021
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: it like crushed me because I was thinking, like, oh,

1022
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: she's that's the same birth you know, all at the

1023
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: same time. But I think I've watched y'all story and

1024
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: share so many times with just random people who either

1025
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: going through something that I can not that I'm like

1026
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: super close to hell personally, but I could be like

1027
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 1: there's a story and very kind. Yeah, and I think

1028
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: you know, um, I tell a story in the book.

1029
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: But you know, before Georgia was born, I don't know

1030
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: why I prayed this, but every night I would lay

1031
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 1: hands on Julia's stomach and I would, you know, pray

1032
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 1: over Georgia and I'd say, you know, God, I pray

1033
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: that you'll give this girl a global grace. I have

1034
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: not prayed that over any of my other kids, by

1035
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,720
Speaker 1: the way. It was just I felt to pray over Georgia,

1036
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: this prayer to pray every night God, thank you, You're

1037
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: gonna use her around the world. She's going to touch

1038
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:43,760
Speaker 1: the earth, and I would envision her you know, singing

1039
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,919
Speaker 1: or speaking or being a missionary or you know, fill

1040
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: in the blank. Who would have thought that three months old,

1041
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,760
Speaker 1: I mean that diagnosis went out, she touched the world

1042
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: like that, and I thought, she has her own grace

1043
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: that it's not me and it's not Julia, it's her.

1044
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: People love her and they follow her, and I think

1045
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 1: that's just a really supernatural gift that she has, that

1046
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: she's been used to bring hope and to bring inspiration

1047
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: and to bring life to so many people. It's unbelievable.

1048
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,879
Speaker 1: It really is unbelievable. But I mean I think also too,

1049
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: like you and Julia and your your whole family, Like

1050
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 1: you guys have this like um it is actually one

1051
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: of the questions somebody sent in that they wanted to

1052
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: ask you was just kind of like how you guys

1053
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: like you just lead by such a great example, you know,

1054
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: like you love like. I think it's also especially in

1055
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: the city, it's hard to see relationships like that, you

1056
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:40,399
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I think you guys are such

1057
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: a good example of like just like a strong healthy

1058
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: marriage and foundation, and like how I guess maybe not

1059
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: how you guys met, but like, how do you keep

1060
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: it so tight? You have? You been married for how

1061
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 1: many years? Now? Ten years? It's just so retained years unbelievable. Well,

1062
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: I I think you know we're like any couple, any cup.

1063
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: You throw two flawed humans together, you're gonna have issues. Period.

1064
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: I don't care who you are. So we're like and

1065
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 1: then you throw four babies in the mix and still

1066
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:15,240
Speaker 1: three and diapers. You know, we're we're We're as common

1067
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: and as real as anybody in the world. So we have,

1068
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: you know, arguments and disagreements and you know times that

1069
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: you know, the water gets hot. I think we're just

1070
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,919
Speaker 1: committed to talk, talking through our issues and sitting down

1071
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,359
Speaker 1: and getting like this and going okay, how am I doing?

1072
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 1: How are you doing? Uh? Where am I falling short?

1073
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: Right now? Um? How can I improve? I think the

1074
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,240
Speaker 1: only way a relationship works is if you're both leaning

1075
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: into each other trying to serve the other person, going like, hey,

1076
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: how can I serve you this week? What can I

1077
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: do for you to have to help your life be easy? Um?

1078
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 1: I know I'm missing it. If she's like, you're not

1079
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 1: making life easy for me? My my role is to

1080
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 1: make her life easy. So I think we're just trying

1081
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,720
Speaker 1: to work our system to the best of our ability,

1082
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 1: play the cards that we've been given to the best

1083
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: of our ability, and um, that's what makes us strong.

1084
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: Our strength is in the acknowledgement that we're not perfect.

1085
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 1: We're going to make mistakes, but we're committed to resolving

1086
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:15,720
Speaker 1: all of our issues. That's our goal. So I'm sorry, babe,

1087
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 1: Wait do you have do You were screenshotting questions from

1088
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,760
Speaker 1: a listeners that wanted to be here but they can't.

1089
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: I have one up. Actually, oh, here we go. Uh,

1090
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: Sarah just Facebook saying Tanya mentioned your pastor is going

1091
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 1: to be hon I'd like his advice on how to

1092
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: find a church as a little more modern and inclusive.

1093
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: I grew up Catholic, but I have issued with some

1094
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: of their teachings. This is an issue I think a

1095
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: lot of absolutely. I think you know, she she hit on,

1096
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 1: you know, maybe the two things that we're all looking

1097
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: for right modern, which is what relevant? You know. I

1098
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: always think my job is I'm like an interpreter. I'm

1099
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: taking ancient truths and I'm trying to interpret in today's language.

1100
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 1: I'm kind of an interpreter that way. So I would

1101
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: just find, you know, I always think everyone should go

1102
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 1: listen to somebody that they they can receive from, you know.

1103
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: So there's all kinds of great communicators out there. Everybody's great,

1104
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 1: everybody's gifted, but you've got to find somebody's like I

1105
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 1: really hear well through them when they talk, it's like

1106
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 1: it makes sense to me and it reaches me. So

1107
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 1: that's the kind of the modern part. And then yeah,

1108
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: I think that the the whole um, the teaching part

1109
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: is really important and it's got to resonate with you,

1110
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: like it's got to feel to me when I listen,

1111
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,479
Speaker 1: because I listened to preachers, right, I listen to guys

1112
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: that I like Bishop Jake's. I love Jude. I think

1113
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 1: Jude is the greatest in the world of you know,

1114
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 1: uh other other people that preach, Stephen Verdict and Jose

1115
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 1: And so I think I listen to people that it's like,

1116
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: not only are they interpreting well, but it's like I

1117
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: can tell this is the truth that I want to

1118
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: build my life on. So I would just you know,

1119
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: whoever you are, just find, you know, if you've got

1120
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 1: to go to a few different places and and listen

1121
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: a few and go NA, now, yep, that one's good. UM,

1122
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: do it because I think that the place that you

1123
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: go to church is so important. It really is, whether

1124
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: you realize they or not, shaping so much of your

1125
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: view on God and your view on self and then

1126
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 1: even your view on others. Right. I know, Actually I

1127
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: think I've told this story on the podcast before. UM.

1128
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: I had two of my best friends are UM lesbian couple,

1129
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 1: and they made kind of this like like what did

1130
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: I call it? Deal with God? Or what do I

1131
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: call it? Where like she was, they prayed, UM, they

1132
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: were getting pregnant and they were like if this sticks,

1133
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: like I'll go to church for a month or something

1134
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: deal with God or something like. UM. So they got pregnant,

1135
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: and so they wanted to follow up, and so they're like,

1136
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: can we kind of church with you? Like they don't

1137
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: know where else to go, and UM, one of them

1138
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 1: had just had really bad experiences with the church. She's

1139
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: a lesbian and always always told like you're not welcome

1140
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: or just kind of always felt like that. And I

1141
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: introduced you to her her very first time, and she

1142
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 1: had tears in her eyes because she's like I've never

1143
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: felt more included or welcome or respected, and like that

1144
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: meant so much to me to be able to, like,

1145
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: I have so many years of her feeling like she

1146
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: didn't belong somewhere, and like to be able to like

1147
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: introduce her to you and bring her to church and

1148
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 1: have her feel like part and like it. I mean,

1149
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: watch seeing her tear up made me tear up because

1150
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: I was like that, it means so much, And like,

1151
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: I think that was a huge It's a huge thing

1152
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: for people to just to feel welcome absolutely well. And

1153
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: I'll never forget that. Where at Bancroft Middle School and

1154
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 1: comes in and and um is now a close friend

1155
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 1: and and you know, we speak and I just think

1156
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: it's it's so bizarre to me that you know, to

1157
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 1: treat someone based upon what other people think is wrong?

1158
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: Is this so insane to me? I'm so wrong, I'm

1159
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 1: so flawed. I have so many issues. So would you

1160
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 1: ever treat me a certain way? Because I have it?

1161
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: We all are on a journey, we all have different

1162
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: things where get through and trying to figure out. And

1163
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: it's just like that. So I love about Jesus Man.

1164
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: He loved people right where they were no matter what

1165
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: they were facing, no matter what other people thought about them.

1166
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: He's just like, hey, man, get out of the tree.

1167
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: Let's go have coffee today. We gotta sit down, we

1168
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 1: gotta be friends. And that's what made religious people mad,

1169
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,439
Speaker 1: was that he just accepted people and brought him along

1170
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: the journey. And it was through his acceptance. I always

1171
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 1: thinking about Jesus. He was a person of love, acceptance,

1172
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: and forgiveness. He loves us well, he accepts us where

1173
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: we're at, and then he forgives what where we're missing it.

1174
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 1: So I love that about him, and I hope that

1175
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: we can emulate that when people we interact with people,

1176
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: it's like, wow, I really feel accepted by you. I

1177
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: feel I don't feel judged, and I don't feel like

1178
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,439
Speaker 1: you put me in a box right away. I hope

1179
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 1: I never treat people that way. It's so disrespectful to

1180
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: treat people what it really is. And I think a

1181
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: lot of people struggle with the religion part of you know,

1182
00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: being a Christian or having a relationship with God. They

1183
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 1: get it confused with right, like all the rules that

1184
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: you're taught versus having the relationship. And I think that

1185
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: someone being able to go to a church and say, like,

1186
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: I've had so many bad experiences, but for the first

1187
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: time it felt good. It's probably one of the most

1188
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: powerful things that you can offer. Well, what changes us?

1189
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:23,919
Speaker 1: Does shame change us or guilt? Like, I've never changed

1190
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: my life of feeling condemned. It's only love that changes us. Acceptance, belonging,

1191
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 1: that's what truly like. So I always think of that

1192
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 1: verse where it says it's his kindness that leads us

1193
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: to change. So it's how how good he is and

1194
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: how kind he is that I'm like, all right, like

1195
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: I should sort this unforgiveness in my heart because you're

1196
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: so awesome. It's not when he's like you're the worst

1197
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: and you're a bad husband and you're a bad father,

1198
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: and it's like it feels like that's never going to

1199
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 1: change anybody. A lot of people will ask me things

1200
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: like how are you How are you a Christian? But

1201
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 1: you like I believe in scopes or you know, I'm

1202
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 1: like I always getting questions like that, and I'm like,

1203
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: to me, being a Christian is like I want people

1204
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 1: to be able to see the light of Jesus through me,

1205
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 1: through my kindness, through the way that I act through

1206
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: the person that I am, you know, whether I have

1207
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: hobbies in the horoscopes and things like that, like it's

1208
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 1: those are just things that I find interesting and you

1209
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I do, I like, I

1210
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 1: find it fun, you know. But it's like I think,

1211
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, for me, it's like

1212
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: more just about being a good person and like being

1213
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: kind and like just having it exude through your actions

1214
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: versus like kind of shaking your hand at things like that.

1215
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 1: And I think so much of it is just accepting

1216
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: the love of God, you know, just like the more

1217
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: the more I let Him love me where I'm at,

1218
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 1: where I'm truly at, not like the fall falls pretense,

1219
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: like so everybody can see like the real broken person

1220
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 1: that I really am. Like the more I let Him

1221
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: love me, the more that changes me. And so part

1222
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: of being a Christian, I think is always just letting

1223
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 1: God love me where I'm at, and that will change

1224
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: me more and more because we're all we're all wanting

1225
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: to grow. Everybody wants to be the best version of themselves.

1226
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: But I never feel like that happens through like discipline

1227
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 1: and like trying harder and I'm gonna be better It's like,

1228
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: I think you've got to receive a lot to give

1229
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: a lot. You know, so good? All right, let's trow

1230
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: this one from America. She recently ended things with a boyfriend,

1231
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: and before that, she did it a guy for nine years,

1232
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: and she has two boys with that guy. I'm not

1233
01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: really social media savvy, and it kind of weirds me

1234
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: out when a random guy messages me that I don't know.

1235
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: My friends all tell me I should go on dating apps,

1236
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: but I don't think a lot of guys would swipe

1237
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: right on a year old single mom of two. What

1238
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,520
Speaker 1: is some advice that you can give to get over

1239
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: the weirdness that I feel from d m s? Are

1240
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: dating apps really a good way to meet someone who's

1241
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 1: also looking for a forever partner? Wow? You're taking that one.

1242
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I think things happen in DM like, not

1243
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: bad things, like I think things happen back, so good

1244
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 1: things can happen in the d N. I almost feel

1245
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: like it's like it is like a dating app in itself.

1246
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 1: I think it. Yeah, I agree, right, Um. I also

1247
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: think that you should be proud that your mom of

1248
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 1: two and don't let that be like a don't think

1249
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 1: of it as a negative thing. Yeah, I always use

1250
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 1: my my thing about the my son has dimples like yours,

1251
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: and then I feel like you guys poo poo that

1252
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: one week and I've never thought of it the same

1253
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: because like when when you when you're dating as a

1254
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 1: single parent, they always go like, oh, I I have

1255
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: two kids, and it makes it seem like it's like

1256
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:40,640
Speaker 1: a bad thing, where like they should just like put

1257
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 1: it in a conversation like, oh my gosh, your dimples

1258
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 1: are so cute. They remind me of my son's. And

1259
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 1: then it's just like in part but I get why

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Speaker 1: that's kind of weird, right, you don't want your day

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Speaker 1: range of your son. But let's be honest with Erica.

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Speaker 1: Are there guys on tender looking for someone to marry

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Speaker 1: who already has children? Like I feel like that's Tinder

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Speaker 1: is an least stage. Yeah, I like that. Yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: we're looking for a better app butter, maybe there's a

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Speaker 1: better app harmony att Yeah, yeah, I would just stay

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Speaker 1: off like tender bumble. Right, they're all kind of like

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Speaker 1: in the same kind of aggressive maybe yeah, kind of

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Speaker 1: more like casual things, I think. Yeah, but what about

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Speaker 1: if guys are in if guys are dming her on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: They know about her, they know about her. I don't

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Speaker 1: mind the rocket Rocket I'm into the DM, but I'd

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Speaker 1: say stick to like yeah, harmony. It feels good and

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01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: like match And I get the weirdness of strangers messaging you.

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Speaker 1: I get that. I don't I don't think you should

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Speaker 1: lose that skepticism because I get some weird Yeah, you

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01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: gotta be careful out there. Yeah, but use your discretion

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01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 1: and go for it. Yeah. And I'm proud of you

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01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 1: for just like getting out there. Yeah. Total eating is

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01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 1: hard and it's discouraging and Eric, I applaud you, and

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01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: I also I also think what you said though, like

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01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 1: if you got two kids, rock that. Yeah. I don't

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01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,480
Speaker 1: think there's a lot of guys out there that you

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01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: know that are going like, oh yeah, two kids, you

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01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 1: are out right away, like there'd be some guys are

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01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 1: There are a lot of amazing guys out there that

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01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 1: are looking for an awesome, awesome person. It's more about

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01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: who you are than the kids. Even like who you

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01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: are as a mom is really attractive. I feel like

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01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 1: two men they if they're wanting a family and they

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01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 1: see that you're a good mom. That's like an attractive quality.

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01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: I know. Everybody always tells me. They're like, is it

1293
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 1: a deterrent if you date a guy that has kids,

1294
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: And I'm like no, because if he's a good dad,

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01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: totally yeah, we like a good hot dad songs, he's

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01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: open to having more children, right right right, blended family

1297
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: but too like what I mean, Okay, well, you're the best.

1298
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 1: Thank you coming in scrubbing in the o R with us.

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01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 1: I love the words scrub what can be? Where can people? Um?

1300
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: So you have unreasonable hope out? Faith, board future out

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01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 1: ye and we're working on the third one right now.

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01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Um And if people want to follow you,

1303
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 1: they can follow you on Twitter and Instagram. I'm on

1304
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: those things. I'm still I'm still strong on the Twitter.

1305
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: You guys are on Twitter. I love Twitter. I was

1306
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: just thinking this, I'm not gonna okay, Like it's where

1307
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 1: we find our news, Like so much of life is

1308
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 1: happening still on Twitter, by the way, I'm still all

1309
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,720
Speaker 1: the way in. I'm so in. Yeah. I love Twitter. Yeah,

1310
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 1: Like it's like Instagram is such a separate little thing

1311
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: than Twitter. Yeah, but I'm no, I just agree with

1312
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 1: you when news is breaking, when somebody's being indicted or

1313
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 1: whatever is going down. I am on Twitter because there's

1314
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 1: nowhere that Yeah, like an earthquake in l a Twitter.

1315
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: Yeah great, yeah, glad, we all agree. But it's Chad Beach,

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01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 1: that's your I threw the little see in For the

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01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: first few years on Instagram, I had the little underscore

1318
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: bade rough stuff, and then I thought about nicknames like,

1319
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 1: you know, swaggy chat, preach, preach, you know, scrap like that.

1320
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: So I just I got my middle initials in their

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01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 1: chat C Beach. Yeah I knew it wasn't just Chad

1322
01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 1: Beach Chad CV. Yeah, I had to throw it in there. Yeah.

1323
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 1: Well I used to be b l t Z on Twitter.

1324
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 1: If that gives I've changed, you know, I've upgraded myself.

1325
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 1: But I am Becattilly five on Twitter because beck at

1326
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: Tilly was taken to have a number. You gotta do something, yeah,

1327
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:41,520
Speaker 1: you gotta do. But the five is actually a good move.

1328
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 1: I don't look at that and go really yeah, I'm

1329
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 1: like okay, cool, Like I'm actually tell me more. I

1330
01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 1: I'm one of five kids and it's my favorite number.

1331
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 1: I like, you never thought preach beach see I got

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01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: I should Okay, here's the whole thing about Instagram. I now,

1333
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 1: have you seen this whole thing that they go, um,

1334
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 1: you know, we can put all the names you've been

1335
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 1: known as on Instagram. You know, people change their name

1336
01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 1: all the time. And I'm like, oh my gosh, people

1337
01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 1: change their name a lot on this thing. Like they've

1338
01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 1: had multiple names, you know what I mean. Yeah, so

1339
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 1: like so like I was like, well, I've only had two,

1340
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,800
Speaker 1: you know, did the underscore? Now this maybe I should

1341
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 1: do like the nickname type Champagne Poppy or you know,

1342
01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 1: like I love these nicknames at Wow. I might remember

1343
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 1: when people are into the city's like Carl Lenz was

1344
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 1: Carl Lentz and y C And then like Philip Wagner,

1345
01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: I remember he went from Oasis. He's like, you know

1346
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 1: l A. I don't know if I could do the

1347
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: l A. I'm international like saying that, but you know

1348
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 1: what I might do the preach beach or like did

1349
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 1: you already name your third book? I haven't beach the

1350
01:08:56,320 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: preach Preach dropped the mic. Wait before you go, you're

1351
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:07,600
Speaker 1: supposed to set me up with somebody. I was just

1352
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,600
Speaker 1: about to say, oh my gosh, stop, did I not

1353
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 1: follow up with you about this phone call. He's dating now.

1354
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: It's so tragic to me, but I told him all

1355
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: about you, and I said, listen the moment this goes sour,

1356
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: because it will in Jesus name, the moment it goes sour,

1357
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 1: you tell me. Wait, I have even even better good.

1358
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 1: I don't hope I should say it on the podcast.

1359
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to out him, but I don't want

1360
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:34,439
Speaker 1: to out him, so we'll use um different names. Okay, Yeah,

1361
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 1: the person that he was dating is my coworker's best friend.

1362
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: You can't make the step, you can't make it up.

1363
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 1: So this is the crazy thing. So you told me

1364
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 1: that you have to you're gonna set me up with

1365
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: and I came to work and I was like, oh, like,

1366
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 1: my pastor's gonna set him with this guy's and she goes,

1367
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, he's dating my best friend. I don't

1368
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: think it's gonna last long because they're polar opposite. Ok So,

1369
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 1: like he eats Kale like she's like literally every time

1370
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 1: she talks about him, I always think of you. And

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01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 1: I was like, that's so crazy, Like, what are the

1372
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 1: odds that like this guy that you were saying, and

1373
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: then my coworker soul mates, and she said, he's half

1374
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 1: serbian and he knows that you are too. Wait, so there,

1375
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm following up right as soon as I've following up

1376
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: on the podcast. Yeah, is that such a small I

1377
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 1: don't know why, but the moment you said, that's what

1378
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: you said to me. I'm just looking for a guy

1379
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:39,920
Speaker 1: that when I say let's go to church to the

1380
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 1: eleven o'clock service, he's like, yeah, let's go. And right

1381
01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: when you say this, I'm like, I can see over

1382
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 1: you in the service you were in that Sunday. This

1383
01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:54,480
Speaker 1: guy just like it's like a light from heaven angels

1384
01:10:54,920 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 1: flew down, picked up the serbian body, ushered him to

1385
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 1: the second row four because you're in C three, and

1386
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: sat him next to you. And it was like it

1387
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 1: really is so crazy, because I was like, what what

1388
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 1: are the odds? And like she literally kept saying to me,

1389
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 1: she's like every time she talks about him, I'm like,

1390
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 1: this is literally Tanya in male form. You were there, Mark, Yeah,

1391
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:24,719
Speaker 1: like everything this, he lives in the five country region.

1392
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm happy, just period, let's go for it. I tend

1393
01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 1: to date guys that don't live in l A and Mark.

1394
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:38,719
Speaker 1: That is not good. No, not ideal situation. UM. Okay,

1395
01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 1: thank you so much, the best. This is so fun,

1396
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: so fun. So the next time I come on, you'll

1397
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 1: be dating this guy and uh wow and be officiating this.

1398
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 1: There we go perfect Honestly, I want to know an update, Yes,

1399
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:56,000
Speaker 1: I need there needs to be some follow up here.

1400
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 1: Our listeners will want it. They deserve it, deserve it. Yeah,

1401
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: they have earned it, they've earned it, They've been really invested.

1402
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, thank you, child you guys. UM,

1403
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 1: he's so great, he really is. Yeah, that really I

1404
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,760
Speaker 1: think it meant a lot to him to be on

1405
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 1: the show, as it should as we are. UM. But

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Speaker 1: I'd like to talk about talk Space UM. Today's show

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Speaker 1: is actually sponsored by talk Space. It's the online therapy

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Speaker 1: to practice self health by it working now, obviously, building

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Speaker 1: slash Becca. Amy Sugarman in the house. She just delivered

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Speaker 1: a gift. Gifts gifts? Are these gifts to them from you?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh? Oh? Can they open them on the air?

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Speaker 1: Of course you get one to mark, but yours isn't

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Speaker 1: another room. Okay, this is everybody's thank you for being

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Speaker 1: solved the boxes of the product box. Becca is getting

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Speaker 1: her open first time. He struggling with the ribbon Wow,

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Speaker 1: this is amazing. This is so good. It's money, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like a credit card I d holder, And weirdly, I've

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Speaker 1: been researching them because my other one's like looking old

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Speaker 1: and shabby. Mine too, Amy, this is like way too nice. Oh.

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Speaker 1: You guys work so hard and you do such a

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01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 1: good show, and I'm so proud of you. I wish

1441
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Speaker 1: I could show. I'm going to have to do a

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Speaker 1: story so you can see it. But it's like, literally,

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Speaker 1: mine's so jankie the one that I have right now.

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Speaker 1: So this comes out of nobody needs a wallet, credit

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Speaker 1: card and then put your phone in your pocket. This

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Speaker 1: is like it's perfect for going out. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: It's gorgeous. It's gorgeous. Do you want me to go

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Speaker 1: get it? Okay? Um? While Amy goes, should I share

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Speaker 1: my idea? Okay? So, since we get one award, we

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01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 1: think we think that most and most we might get half.

1451
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Speaker 1: We don't know. I'm thinking, what if we did a

1452
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:11,799
Speaker 1: little thing like kind of the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants,

1453
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,519
Speaker 1: and we each took the award home for like a week,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to buy a little journal that that

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Speaker 1: goes with the award and in the journal. Each week

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Speaker 1: that one whoever on the show has the award at

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Speaker 1: their house, you write in the journal like what the

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Speaker 1: what you did that week with the with the People's

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Speaker 1: Choice Awards. So like let's say, you're so serious right now? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm really serious, sus So, like we log each week,

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Speaker 1: so every person so. And then to top it off,

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Speaker 1: so it goes through every person that works on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: They get it for one week and they marked on

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Speaker 1: the dates that they have the People's Choice Award with

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01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 1: them what they experienced with the People's Choice Award. And

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01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 1: then our very last week we send it to one

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01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 1: listener that has dedicated She dedicated a lot of time

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01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 1: and end g into voting and getting us as People's

1469
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 1: Choice Award, So she gets it for the last week

1470
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: of its round. And then after it's been to all

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01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 1: the places we can read about like where the People's

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01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 1: Choice Award went. And I was still thinking like this

1473
01:16:13,800 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 1: is sort of the traveling pants type thing. But yeah,

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01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 1: we get an award. We're supposedly allegedly getting one one

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01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 1: one now can we buy another? I don't know? Yeah,

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01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 1: well no, I think Ali. Someone told Ali that it

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01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 1: was being delivered to me. Sometimes you can pay so

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01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 1: that you can have one to Tanya, No, I'm giving it. Well,

1479
01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 1: I was saying we should do this with it so

1480
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: like it travels to each person that works on the podcast.

1481
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 1: Need a handcount for everyone else in the room. We

1482
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 1: journal and then we send it journal their activities with

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01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:55,759
Speaker 1: the People's Choice Award. And I didn't say up and Becca,

1484
01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 1: yours is not. I could see Eastern journaling too. I

1485
01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 1: think would do more like funny Instagram stories documenting it. Right,

1486
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 1: he would take it on Space Mountain. Yeah, and then

1487
01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 1: and then and then for our listener to get it

1488
01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: for a week. How cool is that? That part's great?

1489
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:14,799
Speaker 1: But like, what are you going to do with the awards?

1490
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 1: You're gonna like take it places? No, but like let's

1491
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:18,880
Speaker 1: say I have it so the week I have it,

1492
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 1: Like let's say I have a boy over for dinner

1493
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 1: or something. I'll be like, oh, like he saw like

1494
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 1: the PC braggy. No, it's cool. It could be a

1495
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,000
Speaker 1: conversation piece, but it would be like if he asked

1496
01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: about it. No, no, he has nothing to do with it.

1497
01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: It's just there. But like that, what I'm saying is

1498
01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:38,640
Speaker 1: the People's Choice Award saw me on a date with

1499
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 1: Johnny or whatever his name. She's taking it to a

1500
01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:45,400
Speaker 1: weird level. Yeah, weird level. Yeah, it's not like if

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01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:47,000
Speaker 1: it were a moon man and it was like a

1502
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:50,040
Speaker 1: person and he was watching. But it's just and then

1503
01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 1: I could take it like I could take it a

1504
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 1: church with me on Sunday and be like, Okay, this

1505
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 1: was the message from church on Sunday and like, come on,

1506
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 1: it's so cute. It's heavy. I think that doesn't sound fun.

1507
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:02,679
Speaker 1: It's it's so dud. And then we have a little

1508
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 1: journal and then we get to share it with our

1509
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 1: listeners of like where it's been, and then it's going

1510
01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:08,800
Speaker 1: to go to our the listener that runs our Twitter

1511
01:18:08,920 --> 01:18:13,719
Speaker 1: anders and they pass it around like a traveling pants.

1512
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 1: That's cool. I was toying with that idea, but then

1513
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't love the idea of that

1514
01:18:18,360 --> 01:18:23,840
Speaker 1: going out of statecal listeners. It made me a little

1515
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:26,680
Speaker 1: nervous sending it out of state. I feel like you

1516
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: should journal it and like show us how you want

1517
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:32,600
Speaker 1: it to go, and then maybe we'll get inspired to

1518
01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:37,320
Speaker 1: Yeah the first week I get it. Yeah, weeks, I

1519
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: have an idea, how about you get it for the

1520
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:43,560
Speaker 1: first year and each week you post a photo with

1521
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:48,479
Speaker 1: it traveling around. That sounds good, fine by me. I

1522
01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:50,560
Speaker 1: wanted to give everybody some love, but I'm happy to

1523
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: journal and take it for the years. I just want

1524
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:55,400
Speaker 1: to see what you envisioned before I take it into

1525
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 1: my own hands. So I just want you to do it,

1526
01:18:58,240 --> 01:19:00,880
Speaker 1: show us what you journal about. Maybe write a song

1527
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,680
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, yeah, anything, really Yeah, you can do

1528
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:07,040
Speaker 1: it every Yeah. By the way, speaking of writing songs,

1529
01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 1: I hope everyone has seen tanyas. Thank you Seacrest heard

1530
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:12,720
Speaker 1: it and seen the videos we posted they posted in

1531
01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:17,280
Speaker 1: the Facebook. By the way, speaking to the Facebook group again,

1532
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:19,879
Speaker 1: so much love on there. I think her name was Jasmine.

1533
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 1: She posted on Thursday or Friday that she came out

1534
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 1: to her parents and her parents rejected her, and she

1535
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: posted about that, and the love from the Facebook warmed me.

1536
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 1: It was so great that she now has all of

1537
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 1: these people, and so many people said direct message me talk.

1538
01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:36,720
Speaker 1: I'm here to talk any time you need to talk.

1539
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: And that's it's so great. All right. You wanted to

1540
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 1: get to this email Tanyum from anonymous high I feel

1541
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 1: really embarrassed that I'm saying this, but I'm twenty seven

1542
01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:50,360
Speaker 1: years old and I cannot put in a tampon. I've

1543
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:53,479
Speaker 1: tried mirrors to look, reading magazine articles, but I just

1544
01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:55,760
Speaker 1: can't figure out how to put it in. I don't

1545
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 1: have insurance, so I can't make an appointment with a guy. No,

1546
01:19:58,360 --> 01:20:01,519
Speaker 1: I've never been sexually active. I feel dumb. What was

1547
01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:03,760
Speaker 1: your first experience like putting in one? Is there a

1548
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 1: best brand to start with? I need help. I have

1549
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,000
Speaker 1: to wear pads all the time and it sucks. Also,

1550
01:20:08,640 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 1: what advice do you have so people can't tell you're

1551
01:20:11,240 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 1: on your period? Like how do you get yourself to

1552
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 1: not smell? I love you, guys. I voted for you

1553
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: every day from anonymous she maybe we should send her

1554
01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 1: the People's Choice where she voted every day. I love

1555
01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 1: this because my first tampon experience. Oh no, So I

1556
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:30,639
Speaker 1: was at my dad's house when I got my period,

1557
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 1: and my bless his heart, he UM bought me like

1558
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 1: the O B tampons that you put in yourself an applicator.

1559
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:40,479
Speaker 1: And this is my first tampon experience, so I don't

1560
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 1: really know. And the only reason I needed a tampon

1561
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 1: versus the pad was because I was going to a

1562
01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 1: pool party that day and it was my very first period. Okay,

1563
01:20:48,200 --> 01:20:50,160
Speaker 1: so he brings me back this o B, I don't

1564
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 1: put it in all the way. I come out to

1565
01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 1: my dad and I was like, is it supposed to

1566
01:20:56,560 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 1: fill up with water? He didn't to it. Oh no,

1567
01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:05,200
Speaker 1: you should tell people your dad's a doctor. Yeah, my

1568
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:07,240
Speaker 1: dad's doctor. But still, I mean he's not like it's

1569
01:21:07,280 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 1: not like he like shows. He just kind of right

1570
01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 1: show it. Yeah, he didn't show me, so I just

1571
01:21:12,120 --> 01:21:14,719
Speaker 1: was like guessing and I got like halfway up my guests,

1572
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 1: I thought, which just like like a cork, you know,

1573
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:21,400
Speaker 1: like all the way in it just plucks. The bottom

1574
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:23,560
Speaker 1: part was filled with water, and I was looking so

1575
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 1: painful because when you don't get all the way in,

1576
01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 1: it isn't very uncomfortable. Person anonymous, I'm going to give

1577
01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:33,240
Speaker 1: this is my advice because I went my mom I

1578
01:21:33,320 --> 01:21:35,680
Speaker 1: thought was about to murder me because I went through

1579
01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:38,200
Speaker 1: so many boxes and failed to tips, and I was

1580
01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:40,040
Speaker 1: just like, if I didn't get it, I'd thrown away.

1581
01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: And my Mom's like, why don't you have any You're

1582
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:48,640
Speaker 1: not getting any of them here, like two boxes. It

1583
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:50,760
Speaker 1: is so hard when you don't know what you're doing

1584
01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 1: it's hard. This is the advice I would give though,

1585
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:56,439
Speaker 1: I feel down there with your finger, figure out where

1586
01:21:58,080 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 1: I can totally say this and feel where it's supposed

1587
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 1: to go, and use your other hand to basically guide

1588
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:09,880
Speaker 1: where you're finger is because you kind of have to go.

1589
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:12,719
Speaker 1: You have to go up, you go. It's a slight

1590
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:15,680
Speaker 1: angle and it takes a while. It's not like a

1591
01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: natural feeling when it was happy to support anonymous and

1592
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 1: that I am forty four and have never used one.

1593
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: I can't. I've never even tried life. I think the

1594
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:29,080
Speaker 1: ship has sailed. It's like, only have like what six

1595
01:22:29,160 --> 01:22:32,559
Speaker 1: ten more years to deal with this thing a long time.

1596
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 1: I'm never going to try one. No, it's life changing,

1597
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:39,800
Speaker 1: and tampon versus a pad is like it changes. It's

1598
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:43,680
Speaker 1: like it's like it's like a oh, this is going

1599
01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:48,479
Speaker 1: to be a battery. It's like it's like if you're

1600
01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:51,160
Speaker 1: going for dessert, it's like having a tic tac or

1601
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 1: chocolate Sunday. It's not a terrible analogy. It's not great,

1602
01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:57,160
Speaker 1: but it's not terrible. Yeah, I feel like no one

1603
01:22:57,240 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 1: needs a tik tak so because I'm saying I have

1604
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:02,360
Speaker 1: because there like a YouTube video she could watch. You know,

1605
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 1: there's probably in parenthood, Like isn't that not as expensive

1606
01:23:07,280 --> 01:23:09,960
Speaker 1: or free? I need to google that too. They should

1607
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:12,360
Speaker 1: be able to help with it. I just feel I

1608
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:15,920
Speaker 1: really feel determined that she can do this. Oh, I

1609
01:23:16,040 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 1: have all the faith in the world that you, anonymous

1610
01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:21,719
Speaker 1: can can do it and do it well. Just remember

1611
01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 1: those an as a little bit of an angle on

1612
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:26,400
Speaker 1: then up and as smart of the as the other question, Um,

1613
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:30,840
Speaker 1: should she in the bathroom like I don't. I'm just

1614
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:33,439
Speaker 1: gonna ask, because let's help this person, like over the

1615
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:37,240
Speaker 1: toilet or like standing literally put my leg up on

1616
01:23:37,360 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 1: the sceink so I could see it in the mirror,

1617
01:23:39,400 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 1: like I would just get because once you figured out

1618
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:44,599
Speaker 1: then after the first time, it's you have the feeling

1619
01:23:44,640 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 1: for Yeah, it's like writing, like do you think once

1620
01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:47,640
Speaker 1: you get it the first time or do you need

1621
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: to get it like three times, like a couple of

1622
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:52,160
Speaker 1: times like a and then get a light tampon so

1623
01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:56,400
Speaker 1: it's nice and small right in there. Yeah, avoid the

1624
01:23:56,439 --> 01:24:02,559
Speaker 1: obis because yeah, she tries are lola. Yeah, the tampons

1625
01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:09,280
Speaker 1: are great. Um, it's just um. And also look, no,

1626
01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:12,920
Speaker 1: the pad is a gigantic problem. I do find with it. No, no,

1627
01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:17,200
Speaker 1: no life changing. Actually want you to get this down

1628
01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:19,400
Speaker 1: and then and then write us a follow up email

1629
01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:21,160
Speaker 1: of how life changing it is, because I want you

1630
01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 1: to encourage Amy. As far as the smell they have,

1631
01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:28,320
Speaker 1: um probatics are really good to help balance page levels

1632
01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:31,560
Speaker 1: of your vagina. I can also solve that one. Just

1633
01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:36,759
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and change it, because she's talking

1634
01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:40,920
Speaker 1: about to change it more often than it says you

1635
01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 1: need to. They also have they have. She doesn't like

1636
01:24:45,280 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 1: that you can spray that like neutralize, UM. I don't

1637
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:55,599
Speaker 1: love that's like chemicals and like like being cleaned down there.

1638
01:24:56,439 --> 01:24:59,720
Speaker 1: Organic tampons I agree with, like natural things going up there.

1639
01:25:00,560 --> 01:25:04,679
Speaker 1: And you're fine. I'm sure like that was so didn't

1640
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:08,439
Speaker 1: I didn't mean purchase going out there? Yeah, because I

1641
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:10,880
Speaker 1: didn't realized that tampons are just like dipped and bleach.

1642
01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:15,680
Speaker 1: We believe in you, Anonymous, and you can do this.

1643
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:18,320
Speaker 1: I can't wait for you to do it. Yes, you

1644
01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 1: can go to the gym when you're on your period,

1645
01:25:20,160 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 1: like you can do all you go swimming? What else

1646
01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:30,640
Speaker 1: done the gym and swimming? All right? We also got

1647
01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 1: one from Christie about my septo plast. I don't think

1648
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 1: this is interesting any with me and Christie, so maybe

1649
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 1: I just reached out to her. But all right, well,

1650
01:25:37,920 --> 01:25:40,040
Speaker 1: she's getting the same procedure I had done. She's gonna

1651
01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:42,479
Speaker 1: get on in January eighth, as well as a turbinate reduction,

1652
01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:45,200
Speaker 1: which I also had. And by the way, you're looking

1653
01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:46,680
Speaker 1: at me like you don't know what that was. I

1654
01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:48,479
Speaker 1: never heard that word in my life until about a

1655
01:25:48,520 --> 01:25:51,680
Speaker 1: month ago. Turbinate What is it? It's something that's up

1656
01:25:51,720 --> 01:25:54,200
Speaker 1: there and they're shaped like balloons, and my guy made

1657
01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:56,560
Speaker 1: them shaped like pancakes, and then you have more airflow

1658
01:25:57,439 --> 01:26:00,519
Speaker 1: that sounds like a game Changers was a little bit.

1659
01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't enough, though, and that's why I'm I got

1660
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:05,479
Speaker 1: the sceptical plastic. Anyway, she's very nervous about the process

1661
01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 1: and the surgery and the healing afterward because she had

1662
01:26:07,200 --> 01:26:09,200
Speaker 1: bad experience. She's got ton selecting me a wisdom tooth,

1663
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 1: and she had terrible recoveries. Look, mine went great. I

1664
01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 1: had fairly easy recovery. I was a little bit low

1665
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:17,000
Speaker 1: energy and low appetite for about a week, and I

1666
01:26:17,080 --> 01:26:18,600
Speaker 1: really was anxious to get that all back. It was

1667
01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:21,479
Speaker 1: getting a little frustrating, but I feel good now. Everything's fine.

1668
01:26:21,520 --> 01:26:23,760
Speaker 1: It was very little pain with both of them, so

1669
01:26:24,280 --> 01:26:26,720
Speaker 1: good luck to you. She's a pre nursing major and

1670
01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:28,760
Speaker 1: nothing grosses me out, so give me the dirty beats.

1671
01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:30,280
Speaker 1: I think I'll spare everyone the dirty deats. But it

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01:26:30,360 --> 01:26:32,240
Speaker 1: was fine. It wasn't bad at all. Haley just had

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Speaker 1: hers last week and accept plastic. Oh my gosh, there's

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Speaker 1: the season and she, yeah, you told me that, And

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01:26:39,080 --> 01:26:41,000
Speaker 1: I was wondering if it was the same thing that Mark. Yeah,

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01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 1: and she I was like prepared to. I didn't even

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01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:48,280
Speaker 1: like I was expecting enough to like suck out, you know,

1678
01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:51,880
Speaker 1: stuff from the nose and you're not. No. She because

1679
01:26:51,960 --> 01:26:54,080
Speaker 1: just had like a blood like but she wears galls

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01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 1: under her nose and then it's just changes when she

1681
01:26:56,680 --> 01:27:00,320
Speaker 1: when it bleeds, and that's it. Thursday midday and I

1682
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:02,560
Speaker 1: had caused Thursday and most of Friday and then that

1683
01:27:02,680 --> 01:27:05,120
Speaker 1: was it. Oh she's she's had it for a few days.

1684
01:27:05,160 --> 01:27:10,000
Speaker 1: But she uh has like the tubes up here? Did

1685
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:11,800
Speaker 1: they do that to you know? Oh? I guess to

1686
01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:13,519
Speaker 1: like hold it up. I don't know, but she gets

1687
01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:17,160
Speaker 1: those taken up Thursday, but she mostly just said she's uncomfortable,

1688
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,400
Speaker 1: but they gave her pain killers. But she's she's taken

1689
01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:21,720
Speaker 1: like abriprofin and stuff. It's not like I voted the

1690
01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:24,439
Speaker 1: pain killers too. It wasn't bad. Yeah, So um, I

1691
01:27:24,600 --> 01:27:27,920
Speaker 1: feel Christie. I feel like I had my wisdom teeth out,

1692
01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:32,080
Speaker 1: and I mean I had a pretty easy recovery. But

1693
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 1: I feel like it can't be that much for her.

1694
01:27:34,439 --> 01:27:36,120
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be fine, Christie. It's gonna be

1695
01:27:36,160 --> 01:27:42,240
Speaker 1: great to breathe. Yeah, like Ariana Grande, because keep breathing

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Speaker 1: and breathing and breathing and breathe. It can we just

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1709
01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:34,960
Speaker 1: that does it. That's it. What a year it's been.

1710
01:28:35,120 --> 01:28:38,320
Speaker 1: You guys wanted People's Choice Award. I'm sad that we're

1711
01:28:38,360 --> 01:28:41,479
Speaker 1: not going to do another one is going to be

1712
01:28:41,560 --> 01:28:47,920
Speaker 1: so much better. It's two weeks we're back on jan seven. Okay,

1713
01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 1: I know it's sad. We need to end positive send

1714
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:54,840
Speaker 1: people off to the holiday everybody. Okay, it's vision board

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01:28:54,880 --> 01:29:01,240
Speaker 1: times back from now until January seventh. Everybody, Let's make

1716
01:29:01,280 --> 01:29:03,799
Speaker 1: our twenty nineteen vision boards. I will make mine. Already

1717
01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:06,600
Speaker 1: picked my word for it's going to be Radiants, and

1718
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:10,400
Speaker 1: so my board will depict that word for ten and

1719
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:12,680
Speaker 1: I will bring it in on our first podcast. And

1720
01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm really just excited about a new year. Let's do it. Gang.

1721
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:18,920
Speaker 1: Where will you be Christmas Day with my family in

1722
01:29:18,960 --> 01:29:21,479
Speaker 1: Orange County? Where will you be New Year's Eve? TBD?

1723
01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:26,519
Speaker 1: Back up? Christmas Day? Um, in Louisiana with my family.

1724
01:29:26,680 --> 01:29:30,479
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve? Maybe in Florida with my family. Maybe

1725
01:29:31,800 --> 01:29:37,640
Speaker 1: you can have a TBD. We already discussed this, so

1726
01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:39,519
Speaker 1: it wasn't it wasn't like a question mark. It was

1727
01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:42,200
Speaker 1: like a Florida exclamation point. Gotcha, yeah, yeah, yeah, I

1728
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,840
Speaker 1: get it? All right? Christmas, everybody, where are you going

1729
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:48,560
Speaker 1: to be? Yeah? I'll be in Franklin, Wisconsin with my

1730
01:29:48,640 --> 01:29:51,200
Speaker 1: wife's famish. It's gonna be a snowy Christmas, hope, so

1731
01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:53,759
Speaker 1: hoping for snow. Kids don't get snow. They get cranky

1732
01:29:53,800 --> 01:29:57,080
Speaker 1: because it's cold and miserable outside. Snow makes it fun. Yeah,

1733
01:29:57,240 --> 01:29:59,439
Speaker 1: Snow makes it fun when you're that cold. See me,

1734
01:29:59,520 --> 01:30:04,639
Speaker 1: where will you be? Tahoe Tahoe and Tahoe Morning, Oh

1735
01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:06,479
Speaker 1: my gosh, we do have them occasionally. I'll be in

1736
01:30:06,600 --> 01:30:10,320
Speaker 1: San Francisco, little bit too, okay, wonderful? Um okay, Well,

1737
01:30:11,120 --> 01:30:13,640
Speaker 1: happy twenty nineteen. I'm just so excited to start a

1738
01:30:13,680 --> 01:30:15,600
Speaker 1: new year with you guys. I already miss you, and

1739
01:30:15,680 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 1: it's not happy. We haven't even end. I don't want

1740
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:24,920
Speaker 1: the podcast to end. Getting I'm getting because the door

1741
01:30:25,880 --> 01:30:29,800
Speaker 1: and getting my knee, little card holderloaded and I got

1742
01:30:29,960 --> 01:30:34,200
Speaker 1: to go. All right, see you are you calling it?

1743
01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:36,920
Speaker 1: I called it? You weren't hereless? Okay. Time of death

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Speaker 1: twelve out of practice. Wow, don