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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 2: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

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Speaker 3: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

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Speaker 3: a sibling.

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Speaker 2: Raivalry, No, no, sibling. You don't do that with your mouth.

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Speaker 3: Ravely.

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Speaker 2: That's good. I'm so excited about this because I love

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Speaker 2: this man, like I'm kind of obsessed with.

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Speaker 4: I know, I've never met this man.

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Speaker 2: I have and I'm going to save it for the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Tony Robbins is one of my favorite motivational speakers sort

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Speaker 2: of you know.

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Speaker 1: This.

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Speaker 2: I feel like he just exudes everything positive and motivating

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Speaker 2: and like just an absolute force of nature. I've never

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Speaker 2: been to one of his seminars, but a lot of

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Speaker 2: my friends have been and they say it's life changing.

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Speaker 4: We need to go. I need to go.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I can just use this as a private seminar. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but you know I love about Tony Robbins too, and

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Speaker 3: I have not met him. He can take the piss

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Speaker 3: out of himself as well. Yeah you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's he's definitely.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's got he's got a sense of humor about

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Speaker 3: all of his stuff.

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Speaker 2: Right, you know, I love I am. His newest book

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Speaker 2: is The Holy Grill of Investing. I want to delve

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Speaker 2: into this. I kind of got yeah Amazon, it was

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Speaker 2: for a bit, but I I I want to get

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Speaker 2: into that a little bit with him. I read a

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Speaker 2: little bit about it. I have not read the book yet.

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Speaker 2: Have you read the book?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't read about investing. I just I just

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Speaker 4: don't want to.

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Speaker 3: I just throw my money where people tay me to

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Speaker 3: open out any ricks.

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Speaker 4: Let's go back Tony.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna.

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Speaker 5: Up in jail, and we let him in.

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Speaker 2: He's waiting. He's like the one person that never wait.

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Speaker 2: Let's go all right, Let's bring Tony in. Him handsome.

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Speaker 1: Nice to meet you.

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Speaker 5: Nice, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Actually, I was just saying this in our introduction, Tony,

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Speaker 2: I have met you before, and I will never forget it.

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Speaker 2: Because I was a little girl and it was the Kings,

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Speaker 2: the Los Angeles Kings were in the playoffs. I might

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Speaker 2: have been there, and we were back in the in

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Speaker 2: the hallway. I was with my mom and my dad.

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Speaker 2: We were waiting to go into the locker room, and

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Speaker 2: you were, you were it was our family, and you

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Speaker 2: were standing there and I got to meet you, and

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Speaker 2: I will never forget it because you're so tall, and

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Speaker 2: I couldn't believe how big you were, and I could

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Speaker 2: and obviously, as everyone knows, you just exude such positive energy.

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Speaker 2: So you left a mark on me as a young child.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know your father, but I love your

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Speaker 1: mom and I've met a few times. And that's some

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Speaker 1: nice conversations that she's doing well, she.

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Speaker 2: Is, she's doing great.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's start.

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Speaker 4: Let's start simple.

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Speaker 5: What is your net worth?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to our podcast, Tony. Well, look, I feel like

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Speaker 2: everybody in the world knows who you are, and for

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Speaker 2: those who don't, you.

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Speaker 5: Are a reason.

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Speaker 2: There's no reason to even give your biocast off.

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Speaker 3: But I'd honestly like to know about your upbringing, your childhood,

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Speaker 3: where you were born, how you grew up, how you

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Speaker 3: what were the seeds you know to actually becoming who

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Speaker 1: I was born in downtown Los Angeles, believe it or not,

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Speaker 1: and I grew up in a San gabe A valley

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Speaker 1: a kind of a tough environment. I had four different fathers.

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Speaker 1: My mom was a very intense lady, shaped me immensely

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Speaker 1: But she also abused, unfortunately prescription drugs and alcohol, and

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Speaker 1: I to anticipate what was going on. That's where it

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Speaker 1: I took a speed reading class and I promised myself

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Speaker 1: I was eleven years old, we had no money and

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Speaker 1: no food at Thanksgiving and it's probably the most profound

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Speaker 1: And it, you know, left in doubible mark. When I

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Speaker 1: then eight, and as years got by, I got to

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Speaker 1: I interviewed fifty of the most successful investors in history.

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Speaker 1: doing a hundred billion meal challenge. But all those things

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Speaker 1: to a seminar. I'm never heard of a seminar. I

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Speaker 1: my father had said, you know, that guy used to

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Speaker 1: And so he took me to lunch and he said,

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Speaker 1: I guess it's true. And he said I went to

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Speaker 1: this seminar And I said what's a seminar? And he said,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I like to do that. Could

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Speaker 1: he said no? And I said, well why not? And

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Speaker 1: he said, because if you don't investin it, you won't

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Speaker 1: says like to me, it was the biggest decision in

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Speaker 2: And nat Tony Tony was that Jim Ron? Jim Jim Ron?

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Speaker 2: And what was it about him that really like stuck

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Speaker 2: with you like that for the first light bulb?

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Speaker 1: Well? No, our styles are radically different, but I had

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Speaker 1: an enormous respect. Come I can do his style, but

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Speaker 1: it's not me as much. Lower tempo. And he's a philosopher.

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Speaker 1: I love philosophy and strategy, but what got me with

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Speaker 1: him was some simple philosophies, like, you know, for things

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Speaker 1: lamenting about how you know, these teachers only make I

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Speaker 1: unfair it is. And he said, Tony, well, let me

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Speaker 1: let me give you a little lesson. He said, we're

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Speaker 1: all equal as souls, but we're not equal in the marketplace.

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Speaker 1: I said, what does that mean? He said, well, you

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Speaker 1: have to become more valuable in order to be able

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Speaker 1: to earn more. And he said, so let's start with McDonald's.

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Speaker 1: He says, nothing wrong with McDonald's, but those basic jobs

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Speaker 1: at McDonald's where people get minimum pay. There's a reason.

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Speaker 1: It's because anyone can do that job. Anyone can learn

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Speaker 1: it in a few hours, so you don't get much

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Speaker 1: for it. But he said, your school teachers, you know,

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Speaker 1: your school teachers, I'm sure you've said some great ones,

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Speaker 1: how many were great? And I named two or three

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Speaker 1: and he goes, out of all your teachers, he said,

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Speaker 1: saber tooth tiger so you could fight, or you could flight,

437
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Speaker 1: you could run or freeze and hopefully not be seen.

438
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Speaker 1: But today people have that same reaction to what somebody

439
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Speaker 1: wrote about them in social media, whether they have enough

440
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Speaker 1: money or not. And you know, even those that are

441
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Speaker 1: poor in this country, and I help those people obviously

442
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Speaker 1: have about one hundred million meals each year, do a

443
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Speaker 1: lot of other things. But honestly, you know, in this country,

444
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Speaker 1: poor is very different than poor in India or somewhere else.

445
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Speaker 1: I mean you really, it's it's not the same. So

446
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Speaker 1: those survival instincts take over and so you have to

447
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Speaker 1: do is you have to get people out of the

448
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Speaker 1: survival mechanism and get into their consciousness and show them

449
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Speaker 1: how they can condition themselves to make that change quickly

450
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Speaker 1: when the fear shows up. A lot of it is conditioning,

451
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Speaker 1: you know. It's like one time, learning something happened freaked

452
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Speaker 1: you out in that moment, and you saw the bridge,

453
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Speaker 1: and now bridges freak you out every time you think

454
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Speaker 1: of it. And so that's why one time interventions can

455
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Speaker 1: also do the same thing. And most people don't believe that.

456
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Speaker 1: But the good news is I've been doing it, you know,

457
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Speaker 1: for this my forty seventh year. And you know, I

458
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Speaker 1: did this documentary a few years about a decade ago

459
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Speaker 1: on Netflix called Tony Robbins, I'm Not Your Guru, And

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Speaker 1: you know we did follow up on those people ten

461
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Speaker 1: years later, and now I've trained therapists all over the

462
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Speaker 1: world and we have hundreds of these interventions that we've done. Well,

463
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Speaker 1: you can see what I did in real time. I

464
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Speaker 1: didn't know what they're going to do, and then you

465
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Speaker 1: get to see them three years later, five years later

466
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Speaker 1: and see that the change is lasting.

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Speaker 2: Do you ever get burnt out?

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Speaker 1: Well, sure, physically, I get burned out. I don't get

469
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Speaker 1: burned out emotionally because I love what I do and

470
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Speaker 1: I love people. I love my family. It's pretty hard,

471
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Speaker 1: you know. All I got to do is make I'm

472
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Speaker 1: a walk down the street. It's just like you. I mean,

473
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Speaker 1: you got to stop, I'm sure every day of your life.

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Speaker 1: But people thank me because they you know, they say

475
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Speaker 1: I changed their life. That's the number one thing. And

476
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Speaker 1: I'm I didn't do it, They did it.

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Speaker 4: I was reminded me of that.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask a question. How much is the message?

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Speaker 3: How much is is it the message? And how much

480
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Speaker 3: is it the delivery of the message, Because obviously you

481
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Speaker 3: have an incredible knack for the delivery of the message.

482
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Speaker 3: If it was some random dude sort of saying the

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Speaker 3: same shit that you're saying, but has no delivery, it's

484
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Speaker 3: not going to have the impact.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a great question. Stanford came to me during

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Speaker 1: the you know, the middle of the pandemic, and they

487
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Speaker 1: had two of their professors that went to my date

488
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Speaker 1: with Destiny Seminars, a five day seminari I do once

489
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Speaker 1: a year. They were both clinically depressed. They both left

490
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Speaker 1: with no science. Clinical depression got rid of their drugs.

491
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Speaker 1: And so the guys at Stanford called and said, this

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Speaker 1: is unbelievable. We never say like this. You know what

493
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Speaker 1: data do you have? And I said, well, I've got

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Speaker 1: millions of clients and testimonials and stories. They said about

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Speaker 1: like scientific data. I said that would never done a study.

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Speaker 1: If you want to do one, I'd love to. And

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Speaker 1: so what do you want to do it on? And

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Speaker 1: they said depression because obviously during the pandemic, you know,

499
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Speaker 1: I'm sure you saw suicides went to the roof, drug

500
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Speaker 1: overdoses when through the roof. And I said, okay, well

501
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Speaker 1: what are we comparing too? What are the meta studies

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Speaker 1: show through traditional interventions for depression? And it's really depressing.

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Speaker 1: Sixty percent of the people of depression who go in

504
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Speaker 1: for drug therapy and or cognitive or some form of therapy,

505
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Speaker 1: sixty percent don't improve at all. Forty percent improve and

506
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Speaker 1: the average improvement is fifty percent, So they're half is depressed. Now,

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Speaker 1: some people get better, but so small. Most people say

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Speaker 1: on those SSRIs forever. And about a year and a

509
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Speaker 1: half ago, I'm sure you saw the covered Newsweek show

510
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Speaker 1: that SSRIs don't even work. We know they don't work,

511
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Speaker 1: and we still sell millions of them every single day.

512
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Speaker 1: I'm on them.

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Speaker 4: I'm on twenty milligrams of lexapro.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 3: I tried to get I tried to wean off of it,

516
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Speaker 3: and I did properly, yes, and I went back into

517
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Speaker 3: it was it wasn't for depression, it was anxiety having

518
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Speaker 3: I fucking fell back in as I was a lout

519
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Speaker 3: of my mind and trying to fight through it, trying

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Speaker 3: to use other methods. And then I had to get back.

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Speaker 3: I had to go to work, I had to do

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Speaker 3: a job.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I can't function.

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Speaker 1: I have to go back on you know, well, as

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Speaker 1: you know, there are lots of side effects to them

526
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Speaker 1: as well that aren't so happy. And just think of

527
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Speaker 1: it this way. We don't experience life. We experience the

528
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Speaker 1: life we focus on. So in a moment, you can

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Speaker 1: create anxiety if you change your focus to certain things.

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Speaker 1: In another moment, like you could be at you could

531
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Speaker 1: be at a funeral with someone you love and everyone's

532
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Speaker 1: crying and then someone talks about some moment about the

533
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Speaker 1: deceased that's funny, and you go from crying to laughing instantaneously.

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Speaker 1: So you have a habit in the way you perceive

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Speaker 1: the world right now that controls your quote unquant anxiety.

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Speaker 1: It's not yours. By the way, The first thing I

537
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Speaker 1: do is I get rid of the word you are,

538
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Speaker 1: because when you got it becomes your identity and it

539
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Speaker 1: locks you hypnotically into the place. But I'll just tell

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Speaker 1: you what they proved. I said, Okay, what's the best

541
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Speaker 1: study you've ever done? And you might like the best

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Speaker 1: study they did it Johns Hopkins, and they gave people

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Speaker 1: psilocybin for thirty days.

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Speaker 3: I interviewed Matt Johnson, Johnson, the guy who runs Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: But I was I was a question I was going

546
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Speaker 3: to have, how you feel about sort of the psilocybin

547
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Speaker 3: plant medicine therapies these days academy.

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Speaker 1: I'll answer that for four you as well. But that

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Speaker 1: study is I'm sure you know they did cognitive therapy

550
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Speaker 1: and psilocybin for thirty days. And I said, well, I

551
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Speaker 1: don't know what the result is, but you've been have

552
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Speaker 1: gotten something out of that, and you change somebody's bio

553
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Speaker 1: chemistry that much, And it was the best result they've

554
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Speaker 1: ever seen in the history of psychiatry up until that

555
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Speaker 1: point six weeks afterwards, fifty four percent of the people

556
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Speaker 1: had no symptoms of depression. So it's much better in

557
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Speaker 1: SSRIs obviously, but it's not legal in most parts of

558
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Speaker 1: the world, right in the country, so nothing's really happened

559
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Speaker 1: with it. So I said, well, why don't you use

560
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Speaker 1: that study to compare to ours. We'll use no drugs,

561
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Speaker 1: we'll do five days, not thirty days, and you can

562
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Speaker 1: test the result. The results guys were so dramatic that

563
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Speaker 1: they were afraid of being canceled before they published it,

564
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Speaker 1: so they sent and blind out to three different organizations

565
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Speaker 1: all the data. It all came back to the same.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't that hard? One hundred percent of people six weeks

567
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Speaker 1: later after the five day program with no drugs had

568
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Speaker 1: no version of it whatsoever. Ession better than that. Seventeen

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Speaker 1: percent of people they put in had suicidal ideation. Zero

570
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Speaker 1: had suicidal ideation. And then they followed up eleven months later.

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Speaker 1: They're going to do twelve months, but then COVID was

572
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Speaker 1: ending and people are going back to home, and they

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Speaker 1: had all these perfect statistics, so they did eleven months later.

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Speaker 1: Eleven months later, no depression with no interaction. You mean whatsoever? Again?

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Speaker 1: Not only none of that, but their negative emotions overall

576
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Speaker 1: were down seventy two percent, their positive was up fifty

577
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Speaker 1: one percent. And now they just did a one year

578
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Speaker 1: study that just ended in December on you know businesses.

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Speaker 1: Their level of engagement has changed obviously since COVID. So

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Speaker 1: it's about quiet quitting versus you know, put quitting versus engagement.

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Speaker 1: And all I know is in the first all the

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Speaker 1: numbers that they've ever had for engagement have gone through

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Speaker 1: the floor, the worst in history during COVID, and in

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Speaker 1: five days we reversed not only all the results but

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Speaker 1: got them better than they ever were before. And for

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Speaker 1: six months after they had kept climbing without any further talking.

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Speaker 1: So the reason that works to answer your question is

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Speaker 1: they took my same content. I guy from Stanford who's

589
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Speaker 1: one of the top professors, most popular professors, teach the

590
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Speaker 1: exact same content and he got pretty wonderful results for

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Speaker 1: about thirty days and then it dropped off the side.

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Speaker 1: What was the difference. Difference is the things that I

593
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Speaker 1: do change people's biochemistry, and so there's something they've measured.

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Speaker 1: They followed me for the same group, followed me for

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Speaker 1: three years, and they had me wear this sixty thousand

596
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Speaker 1: dollars device that measures heartright, veriability and everything else. During

597
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Speaker 1: the breaks, they take my saliva, they take you in

598
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Speaker 1: my blood and see what's happening. And they found that

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Speaker 1: I have something that I do every time I'm on stage,

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Speaker 1: that the same thing Tom Brady does and many other

601
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Speaker 1: athletes they've measured. And Tom Brady was down in the

602
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Speaker 1: fourth quarter, you know, very much like the last Super

603
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Speaker 1: Bowl for Kansas City, and he comes back to win,

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Speaker 1: and he's only got two minutes to do it. How's

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Speaker 1: he do it? Well? He goes into this biochemistry where

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Speaker 1: his testosterone surges, I mean peeks, which puts you in

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Speaker 1: this focused place where everything is retained. If I said,

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Speaker 1: where were you on nine to eleven? You both can

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Speaker 1: tell me where you were, who you saw? Where were

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Speaker 1: you on eight to eleven? You don't know the difference

611
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: is of motion tied to information sticks with you, right.

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00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: So when you have a testosterone search, everything gets absorbed.

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Speaker 1: But usually with testosterone you also get cortisol. That's the

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Speaker 1: stress hormone. But what happens to Tom and me and

615
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Speaker 1: others like us at that peak performance is the cortisol

616
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Speaker 1: drops through the floor. So all you love is this

617
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Speaker 1: focus not doesn't guarantee success, but it increases your probability

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Speaker 1: one hundredfold. The best part was they started then studying

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Speaker 1: my audience, and then we went digital, because you can imagine,

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Speaker 1: suddenly overnight I was doing stadiums. You know, for years

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Speaker 1: of fifteen twenty thousand people COVID, everything's shut down, the

622
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Speaker 1: stadiums are over. You put one hundred people in the stadium. Well,

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Speaker 1: you can't do that. So then I figured we'll move

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Speaker 1: to Vegas. They'll never shut Vegas. Well they shut down Baka.

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Speaker 1: It's like movie theaters. Ten people in a movie theater,

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Speaker 1: they shut down the frickin movie theater. So I built

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Speaker 1: five thousand score foot studio and twenty foot I led

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Speaker 1: screens zero point sixty seven, highest resolution in the world,

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Speaker 1: and I said, we're going to find a way to

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Speaker 1: do this people for people in their homes. So I

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Speaker 1: now do them literally in every country the world, one

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Speaker 1: hundred ninety three countries. I just did a seminar for

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Speaker 1: one point one million people for four days. And what's

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Speaker 1: amazing is they've gone into these countries and measure them

635
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Speaker 1: and they do the exact same. It looks like music.

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Speaker 1: As I go into this state, so does the audience.

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Speaker 1: And that's why eleven months later, the result is still

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00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: stuck in their body because it isn't just content, it

639
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: is strategy, but it's also absorbed in their nervous system.

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Speaker 3: How much how much do you have to how much

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Speaker 3: do you have to sort of, you know, turn off

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Speaker 3: your entrepreneurial brain and keep to your roots. Not to

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Speaker 3: say you are not that is your path, but obviously

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Speaker 3: you are an entrepreneur and it is a business for you.

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Speaker 3: And this business is crushing, you know, from a monetary standpoint,

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Speaker 3: but also changing lives, you know, I mean, do you

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Speaker 3: ever have to sit back and try to balance those

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Speaker 3: two things in your mind?

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Speaker 1: Because in the beginning, you know, I have no business background.

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Speaker 1: The beginning, it's just like I realized my ideas were

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Speaker 1: going to die on my lips. I was more of

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Speaker 1: an artist, you know. It's like, this is my art

653
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: helping people in this way, and yet my art, you know,

654
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: I had to put on an art show if I

655
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Speaker 1: wanted to see more than one person at a time,

656
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Speaker 1: and then I had to hire people. And I wasn't

657
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Speaker 1: good at me of those things. But I got good

658
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Speaker 1: because it was a mission for me. But you know,

659
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Speaker 1: I did it when I was near bankrupt. I did

660
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Speaker 1: it when I do well. I mean two thousand and eight,

661
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Speaker 1: you know, I didn't have like I do now in

662
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Speaker 1: one hundred and fourteen companies, but I had about, oh

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Speaker 1: what I guess about fourteen companies at that time, and

664
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Speaker 1: you know it was brutal. I almost went bankrupt in

665
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Speaker 1: the middle of those pieces. So but I did it

666
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Speaker 1: because it's my love, it's my passion. I'll do it

667
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: as long as I possibly can. But I've learned to

668
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: get good in business too, because I love solving problems

669
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Speaker 1: and I love creating value in people's lives. So to me,

670
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: they're not really separated. It's all about how do you

671
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: maximize the quality of life for people? And anything I do,

672
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: there's no company I'm involved in that isn't something that

673
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 1: i'm I don't sell widgets or do things like that.

674
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Speaker 1: It's like it's like, you know, stem cells for example,

675
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Speaker 1: or ahi. It's the things that I think make a

676
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Speaker 1: difference in the quality of life. And so that gives

677
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: you so much energy when you're seeing that kind of impact.

678
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Speaker 3: Right.

679
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 2: Well, and now your newest book, but fully grail of investing.

680
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Speaker 2: I mean, now you're tackling one thing that is on

681
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: everybody's mind. I have a little bit of a theory

682
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 2: on this, and let me know what you think about this,

683
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 2: because I somehow feel like the digital world has got

684
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 2: everybody thinking like I have to be an entrepreneur, I

685
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 2: have to be someone building something. I have to be

686
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Speaker 2: a leader, and leaders look like this, and for me,

687
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 2: I think leadership looks so different. It has so many

688
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 2: different faces, and people are chasing this concept that is

689
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: not always the most reachable for certain types of people, personalities, craftsman's.

690
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Speaker 5: When you say look like this, I mean physically, No, No,

691
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Speaker 5: I mean I.

692
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Speaker 2: Mean in terms of the perception like, oh, I need

693
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Speaker 2: to run a business. Well, not everybody's built to actually

694
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Speaker 2: run the business. Some people are built to be the

695
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 2: creator in the business, to be us on the street

696
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Speaker 2: salesperson like some people are great salesmen, some people are

697
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 2: great innovators. But leadership has sort of lost. It's become

698
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Speaker 2: this concept that I think is really unreachable to so

699
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Speaker 2: many people, and I think it's causing a great amount

700
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Speaker 2: of stress in the young. Young children. They have this

701
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: concept of significance like if I don't do something significant,

702
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Speaker 2: then what am I?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's social media driven that as too well now,

704
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: and that's the biggest challenge because people don't even project

705
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: what's correct, right. They put a filter on everything, they

706
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: make it better than it is. And that's why there's

707
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Speaker 1: so much depression, especially in young girls, because on top

708
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: of that, we have these stupid standards that are completely

709
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Speaker 1: different men versus women, that are unattainable. And yet these

710
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: girls then think I'm not enough as they see this.

711
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 1: The more they watch this stuff, it's foot unfortunate. But

712
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Speaker 1: I think I agree with you as far as leadership

713
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: becomes in so many different forms. Some people are leaders

714
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Speaker 1: in intellectually, some people are leaders emotionally. Some people are

715
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Speaker 1: leaders in the way they structure things, And I think

716
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: the illusion that it's one way. I talk about the

717
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: three types of leaders. Actually there's the artist, which is

718
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Speaker 1: really what I am. Quite honestly. I learned to be

719
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Speaker 1: an entrepreneur because I wanted my art to be reached

720
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Speaker 1: by a very large number of people, and you know,

721
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Speaker 1: there's no real way to do it. There wasn't an

722
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Speaker 1: industry for me that could just distribute, so I had

723
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Speaker 1: to create my own distribution. But artists are people that

724
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: want to do things just because they fall in love

725
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Speaker 1: with the customer. They want to give them the best experience.

726
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: They want their life is that it's not the money.

727
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Speaker 1: And of course they want to earn money like anybody does.

728
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Speaker 1: But if they have to choose money versus their integrity,

729
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: there's zero question they're going for this. Then there's those

730
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Speaker 1: that are more like a manager leader. They love to

731
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Speaker 1: manage people and processes and they love that and they're

732
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Speaker 1: great at that. And then there are people they're all entrepreneurial.

733
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Speaker 1: But there's people that are entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs, pure entrepreneurs. You know,

734
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Speaker 1: they're just in it for the results. You know, they're

735
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Speaker 1: in it to build something and sell it. An artists

736
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Speaker 1: that I don't ever even think of selling their company.

737
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Speaker 1: An entrepreneurs sell their company a bet for the right price.

738
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Speaker 1: So I'm really the artist, to be honest with you.

739
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: But I became an entrepreneur in order to have the

740
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Speaker 1: impact that I wanted to have. But I surround myself

741
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Speaker 1: with pure entrepreneurs a lot of times because I'll overdo

742
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: everything because you know, I want to just so over deliver.

743
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 1: But coming to the economics. What I really think is

744
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 1: missing in our society is we did not teach young

745
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: people how to appreciate and take advantage of the American

746
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: enterprise system that we have. You don't have to be

747
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: a business owner. All you have to do is stop

748
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Speaker 1: being a consumer. So I'll give you the most simplistic example.

749
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: And you know we're all trained to be consumers. The

750
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: other day I was talking to this group of young people.

751
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: I was saying, how am I going to get through

752
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: to them on this? And so I said, how do

753
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: you guys have an iPhone? I did my homework in advance.

754
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: I thought about it the night before. They all raise

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Speaker 1: their head. I said, when you have more than one iPhone?

756
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: Over the years, you've had more than one. They all

757
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Speaker 1: raise their head and I all but like two kids.

758
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: And I said, okay, well I've had iPhone since the

759
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Speaker 1: very beginning. You guys have iPhones? Yeah, okay, so I

760
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Speaker 1: bought them since the very beginning two thousands se and

761
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Speaker 1: I have the first iPhone. I just got a new

762
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Speaker 1: one for a year. Like most people been around long

763
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: enough to do that. Well, if you add it all up,

764
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: well you actually I found the exact prices as they

765
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: came out of it, and it's twenty thousand, three hundred

766
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Speaker 1: dollars you would have spent on iPhones now if you

767
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: bought the stock of Apple, if you stop being a

768
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Speaker 1: damn consumer and for a moment said I'm going to

769
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Speaker 1: be an owner, and you bought the first iPhone was

770
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Speaker 1: six hundred and fifty seven dollars with change with tax,

771
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Speaker 1: and you bought Apple at that point, what it was

772
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: six hundred and fifty seven dollars WOU get for you?

773
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: And I did that all the way through to now

774
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: it's wheth two hundred and six thousand dollars. Yeah, So

775
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: it's like kids today think socialism is great. I went

776
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: to the Soviet Union when I was twenty three years old.

777
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: I was brought over because of the firewalk, and I

778
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: got to see it is not equal at all. I

779
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: was on a train going from Moscow to to the

780
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: far side of the country and back, and I was

781
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 1: traveling these people and having caviar. And then we'd stop

782
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: on the train in the city and there'd be a

783
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: line a quarter of a mile long around the building,

784
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: people standing in the freezing colts that'd get a quart

785
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: of milk and half a loaf of bread. So our

786
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: world has no I taught young people what's possible other

787
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: than you got to look good, be the best, be

788
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: the leader, you know, be an influencer, and unfortunately that's

789
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 1: getting exhausted. And so you see a lot of people

790
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 1: doing the opposite, saying, you know, I'm going to quiet quitting,

791
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: I'm do the minimum. I don't need to hustle on

792
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: the side. We've going from one extreme to the other, and.

793
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 5: Quiet quitting is sort of the new buzzword.

794
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 4: I've been hearing it.

795
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, the quiet Yeah, yeah, what does it mean? What

796
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,760
Speaker 5: is quiet meaning? Like you're quitting life, You're just fucking

797
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 5: giving up?

798
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: Well pretty much. But what they do is is I

799
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: don't need to work so hard. I'm going to do

800
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: the minimum out of work where I don't lose my job.

801
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I don't need to be so responsive

802
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: to my boss. So I'm not going to quit, but

803
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm quietly I am quitting. I'm still getting paid. And

804
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 1: they're loud quitting, which is people that try to destroy

805
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: the company before they leave to try to put another job.

806
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:50,320
Speaker 1: And these are really terrible patterns that have come in

807
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 1: extreme to people feel only got to hustle every moment,

808
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 1: and now with inflation, they're going like, I need eleven

809
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: thousand dollars for the average family more per year to

810
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: buy the same stuff. So what they haven't learned is

811
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 1: how to be more productive, you know, when they ask

812
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 1: more and Buffett, how do you feel about inflation? Aren't

813
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: you panicked?

814
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 4: And he said no.

815
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: He said it's not going to stay at eight percent inflation.

816
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: But if it did, all you got to be is

817
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: ten percent more productive, and you can be fine. And

818
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: he said, you work about the currency, and you're a

819
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: great lawyer or doctor or speaker or podcaster, and we

820
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: have shekels, you'll get the most shekels. It's really about

821
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: adding value. Once again, the same principles we talked about.

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Speaker 2: Tony. You have one hundred and forty one businesses.

823
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 5: No, forty one fourteen, one hundred and fourteen.

824
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Speaker 6: That's us.

825
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, one hundred and forty one.

826
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Speaker 3: Is I get another one?

827
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Speaker 4: I got to pitch for another business.

828
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Speaker 2: If you recognize quiet quitting in your teams, if you

829
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: recognize even loud quitters in your teams, or someone who

830
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: is sort of like maybe it may be possible that

831
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Speaker 2: they go move in that direction. What's your what do

832
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: you do? How do you communicate?

833
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: We're you know, we don't leave anything on seid. We

834
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: pull people aside and we coach them right away, and

835
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: we say, listen, if this isn't the right place for you,

836
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: the demands are too strong, it's okay. But if you

837
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: want to go to the next level, we'd like to

838
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: coach you, and we'd like to understand what your goals

839
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: are and what your dreams are. The second study that's

840
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: I told you about, the year long study, was done

841
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: on quiet quitting, and after five days we turned it

842
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: around for people from all walks of life. What they're

843
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: really missing is what I call a compelling future. And

844
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,439
Speaker 1: like anyone can deal with the difficult today if they've

845
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: got a compelling tomorrow, right. But these days, kids are

846
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: taught you know that the whole world's going to disappear

847
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: in twelve years because if environmental disaster, which is total bullshit.

848
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: I mean, we have to deal with the environment, but

849
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: the world's not going away in twelve So I'm not

850
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,879
Speaker 1: going to have a child. I can't do anything. There's

851
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: no future. It's not their fault. They're immersed in this

852
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: every day, over and over again. Totally. You know, Kitler

853
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: said to I, big enough, loud enough, long enough, people

854
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: will believe you. And boy, with social media and media today,

855
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: we certainly do that. And we all know negativity cells

856
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: for that mental bias we talked about. Right, it's like

857
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: it leads, It leads as in journalism, right, why because

858
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: the brain reacts. And by the way, if you click

859
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: on you know that.

860
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: The brain loves it.

861
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 1: Brain am I shot anger you, I get you more engaged,

862
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: you know, I on that thing. Even if the title

863
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: it's clickbait, it doesn't match the article. I still get

864
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 1: paid if you click it. So yeah, they're not bad people.

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Speaker 5: They're just how many times you click an article and

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Speaker 5: it has nothing to do with what the headline?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you're talking to me. I can't even

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Speaker 2: tell you how many times I've sat in interviews where

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Speaker 2: someone just read the headline.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, and I'm like, I don't even know what.

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Speaker 2: You're talking about. What are you talking about? They're like, well,

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Speaker 2: it's said in the thing, and I'm like, oh no,

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Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with anything that I said.

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Speaker 3: Actually, interesting, where is your take on sort of misinformation?

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Speaker 1: These days?

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Speaker 3: The access to misinformation is sort of essentially you're yelling

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Speaker 3: fire in a theater. Now, as the first Amendment, that

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Speaker 3: was the amendment of the first Amendment where you free

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Speaker 3: speech until that. Now it seems like the theater is

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Speaker 3: social media, and there you can create theaters.

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Speaker 4: Of thousands of people to yell fire in.

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Speaker 1: And even government just did that two days ago when

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Speaker 1: they came out and said, oh, we have this huge emergency.

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Speaker 1: You know you should be fearful of a don't panic,

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Speaker 1: but we're not going to tell you what it is.

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Speaker 1: And it was it was just not true, right, It's

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Speaker 1: something that's been going on, they've known about for years.

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Speaker 1: It was just designed to scare people so that they

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Speaker 1: could pass those the money for Ukraine, and you might

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Speaker 1: support them with saying money Ukraine. But it's a really

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Speaker 1: bad technique. But they found through what they did with

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Speaker 1: COVID and many other things, fear controls people if you

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Speaker 1: have enough fear there. So it's it's extremely unfortunate. But

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Speaker 1: also the problem is when you try to curtail quote misinformation,

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Speaker 1: who makes that decision, right, So now you end up

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Speaker 1: with large bodies of information being controlled for their interests.

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Speaker 1: So it's it's a difficult thing. And what we have

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Speaker 1: to de young people is how to think critically. It's

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Speaker 1: not about not having there's always been misinformation.

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Speaker 4: Always right now, it's just there's just so many avenues and.

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Speaker 2: Hoping that we can always have access to all kinds

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Speaker 2: of information as well.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, Tony, We're gonna we're gonna break

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Speaker 2: this up into two parts. There's so much to talk about.

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Speaker 5: We love talking to you, Yeah, we don't.

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Speaker 4: Let's be a three hour episode.

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Speaker 3: So we need to break it up because what you're

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Speaker 3: saying is too I don't know, it's too important.

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Speaker 2: Well, and all this financial insight is to me like

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Speaker 2: I wish people. Actually, well no, you just don't learn

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Speaker 2: this in school. Younger generation aren't prepared for this. So

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Speaker 2: I think this is very important. So let's let's reconvene