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Speaker 1: all Uh, I'm doing pretty much for them. I'm a

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Speaker 1: good morning, the Breakfast Club? How are their gifts? Are

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Speaker 1: up having to be back. How was fatherhood? Man, it's good.

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Speaker 1: has a mate. Was she jealous efforts? No, No, everyone

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Speaker 1: new music. I'm basically like I'm in the most creative

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Speaker 1: explore doing stuff and taking risks because I'm going to

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Speaker 1: if I put out an album and it bombs, I'm

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Speaker 1: still playing to ninety two thousand people that night. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's there's no I don't feel the pressure of it.

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Speaker 1: You're going to talk for the next five years and

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Speaker 1: well including this year. Yeah, we finished in twenty twenty six. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you for coming brother. Yeah, thanks you for always stepping

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Speaker 1: topic time called eight hundred five A five one oh five.

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Speaker 1: Want to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club,

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Speaker 1: talk about it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club and now

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Speaker 1: if you just join us during get it off your chess.

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Speaker 1: A woman call this morning and had a little issue

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Speaker 1: at her son's school. Let's listen. My son comes into

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Speaker 1: the car and tell me a teacher called him a jerk.

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Speaker 1: So I'm ready to let this lady. My son is

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Speaker 1: six years old and a school teacher. Instead of inspiring

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Speaker 1: them and being a role model, she over there calling

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Speaker 1: him a jerk of law, telling him it's not science.

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Speaker 1: So what would y'all do? Because I'm literally trying to

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Speaker 1: make myself not getting concrated because I'm afraid of jail

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Speaker 1: to be truthful with you, but I'm ready to let

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Speaker 1: this lady have it, because enough is enough. Eight hundred

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Speaker 1: five A five, one oh five one. We're asking what

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Speaker 1: would you do if your six year old child called

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Speaker 1: a jerk in school? Now, Charlemagne and I were talking,

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Speaker 1: and he is absolutely right. Back in my day, if

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Speaker 1: a teacher called me a jerk, I definitely would say

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Speaker 1: your mother your mother. I would say your mother is

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Speaker 1: a jerk because I was a bad, disrespectful little kid

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Speaker 1: who was always in trouble. And you know what would

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Speaker 1: have happened in that situation. I would have gotten more

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Speaker 1: trouble than the teacher because I would have been sent

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Speaker 1: to the principal's office for saying that your mother is

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Speaker 1: a jerk. And then I'd have been in the principal's

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Speaker 1: office trying to explain, well, she called me a jerk first,

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Speaker 1: and none of my none of the teachers, none of

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Speaker 1: the principles, my parents, none of them wouldn't want to

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Speaker 1: hear that. No, okay, in that case, I wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: got in trouble because as soon as I told my

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Speaker 1: mother my father that a teacher called me a jerk,

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Speaker 1: they would be like, all right, he was right for

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Speaker 1: saying your mother. I don't know if they wouldn't Back

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Speaker 1: in the day, Brock. Back in the day, they didn't

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Speaker 1: really listen to kids the way we listened to the

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Speaker 1: kids listen to me. My parents listen to me like

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Speaker 1: that was one thing I knew that if I ever

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Speaker 1: got in trouble, I can call them immediately. So if

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Speaker 1: a teacher called me a jerk, and I said, your

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Speaker 1: mama is a jerk, then when my mama came to school,

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Speaker 1: then my mama would call your mom. My mom will

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Speaker 1: called my teachers mama jerky, And truth be told, I've

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Speaker 1: never been on the right side of any of that,

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Speaker 1: but that's probably that was always it was all I

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Speaker 1: always instigated. Yeah, that seems like you always in some way,

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Speaker 1: shape or for him. But if that was my child,

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Speaker 1: I would go have a conversation with that teacher immediately. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's no email, there's no phone calls. I'm pulling up

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Speaker 1: after school and I want to go talk to the

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Speaker 1: teaching I'm asked to teach you a simple question. Did

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Speaker 1: you call my child a jerk? And then she says, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I called him a jerk. Then we got to have

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Speaker 1: a conversation, and I have to I can't even leave

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Speaker 1: that conversation with you. I have to take that conversation

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Speaker 1: immediately to your supervisor because that has to be on

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Speaker 1: record for if I got to give you a weggie

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Speaker 1: are slapped at you next time, I see, Well, you

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Speaker 1: can't do it because she's a woman, But it depends.

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Speaker 1: We don't know all teachers aren't women. But in this case,

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Speaker 1: the teacher as a woman and my wife was slapped,

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Speaker 1: did you go? I mean I would do the first

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Speaker 1: thing I would do is I would have my attorney

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Speaker 1: draw up a letter because I would need to have

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Speaker 1: it on record just in case that does happen and

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Speaker 1: my wife has to slap the issh out of a

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Speaker 1: teacher just wanting on record just in case and say

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Speaker 1: that this this teacher is h is very aggressive. Um,

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Speaker 1: and then yeah, I would have my wife go down

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Speaker 1: there and have a little chung lashing with this teacher.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, were just talking. We would never

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Speaker 1: hit the teaching so we would too them we really

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Speaker 1: go to the supervisor. Okay, all that is true, but right,

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Speaker 1: But I just I think that from the side of things,

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Speaker 1: from the teacher side of things. I remember when I

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Speaker 1: was doing my apprenticeship to be a teacher, one of

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Speaker 1: the teachers would always lose control in the classroom and

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Speaker 1: talk crazy to the students, and students don't respect that

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Speaker 1: when a teacher does that, and then it allows for

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Speaker 1: them to feel like they can speak to her that way.

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Speaker 1: Like you said, you would call the teacher a jerk

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Speaker 1: back or say your mom is a jerk or something

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Speaker 1: like that. And so I just think that creating that

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Speaker 1: environment makes people feel like that's appropriate to talk to

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Speaker 1: each other that way, and you never want to do

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Speaker 1: that as a teacher. That's why you always have to

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Speaker 1: have control and be as authoritative as possible and also

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Speaker 1: teach him how to show respect to each other. So

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Speaker 1: I think that is one of the main things, because

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Speaker 1: once you lose control like that, it's hard to get

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Speaker 1: it back. Yeah, I agree with that, but I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you something. You do respect to teach it if she

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Speaker 1: curses you out the way you and your friends curse

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Speaker 1: each other out, like like if you said, if you

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Speaker 1: call him an f boy, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell him he switched side like a little bitch.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying stuff like that. I'm telling you,

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Speaker 1: why are you sending the bitch And I don't know

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Speaker 1: why I ain't did that, but I'm gonna tell you something.

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Speaker 1: But I cursed them out that way. Respect. But I

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Speaker 1: think you don't want kids to feel like it's appropriate

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Speaker 1: to speak that way because then they talk to each

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Speaker 1: other like that. They talk to me. You don't want them.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to set that standard. They already area.

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Speaker 1: I agree, but they already are talking to each other

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Speaker 1: like that. And if you curse them out the way

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Speaker 1: they cursed each other out, the whole class will be like,

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Speaker 1: oh burn, And then that's the ego thing. I had

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Speaker 1: teach you to put hands on you too. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: I teach you that grabbed me by the copy by

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Speaker 1: the shirt. Absolutely yeah that I don't think that happens

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Speaker 1: as much anymore. But when I grew up Mom's corner,

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Speaker 1: South Carolina, I'm telling me we had a fourth grade

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Speaker 1: teacher in white elementary school, boy Miss Freeman used to

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Speaker 1: put hands on people, boy be jacking us up in

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Speaker 1: the classroom. To missus Harris, Miss Butterfield used to grab

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Speaker 1: my cheeks, grab my cheeks in my face and pinch

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Speaker 1: them like pull me out the cub. Yeah, well, mister Harris,

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Speaker 1: your cheeks its Harris. I ain't hit that part, you know,

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Speaker 1: mister Harris, did what do your cheeks? Hello? Kids, do

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Speaker 1: you want to discuss this child of trauma that you experienced? Wow? Hello,

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Speaker 1: this try. My name is Alicia, Alicia, Good morning, Good

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Speaker 1: morning y'all doing what did the teacher call your kids?

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Speaker 1: It was an after school teacher and he said my

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Speaker 1: son looked like squidbird Like who squid word? Squid word? Well,

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Speaker 1: before we judge, does he No, he don't know, he don't,

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Speaker 1: So I pressed the situation. I went right back to

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Speaker 1: the after school right after, because I like to address

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Speaker 1: things right then. To me, I'm not taking it home. Um,

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Speaker 1: he didn't want me to go back because you know,

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Speaker 1: like he no, he don't stop playing with me, and

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Speaker 1: he doesn't. He doesn't, So um I went back. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I want to talk to such and such whatever the

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Speaker 1: teach your name was, because he said my son look

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Speaker 1: like squidbird. I'm ready to I'll see him coming. I'm

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Speaker 1: ready to go all off on him. But long I'm

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Speaker 1: still be sure. Come to find out, my son told

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Speaker 1: the teacher that the teeth is my something he looked

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Speaker 1: previ that was me. I was that kid rant, so

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, and I had to address it

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Speaker 1: and I let my child know. I'm like, that's not

589
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Speaker 1: because that the teacher's not your thoughts because I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you're gonna get me in trouble one day

591
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Speaker 1: because I'm always ready to go up on the teacher

592
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Speaker 1: because I don't play behind my kids saying like something

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Speaker 1: I'm said. I would go to jail behind mine. But

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Speaker 1: my kid is that kid with the mouth that's gonna

595
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Speaker 1: tell you how he fails. So we just got to

596
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Speaker 1: get to the bid of the story before we jumped down.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely that was me, and that's why whatever stuff like

598
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Speaker 1: that used to happen. First thing, my dad was he

599
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Speaker 1: well what did you do? Because it was always one side,

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Speaker 1: what did you do? And then he was right. A

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Speaker 1: lot of the time I did instigate that I'd be

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Speaker 1: the one message with the teacher, and the teacher say

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Speaker 1: something back to me, and now I'm upsetting. Hello, who's this?

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00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: This is Tempers from the Bronze tempaing to us. Well, listen,

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Speaker 1: I'm meeting her at the school, and we gotta discuss

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Speaker 1: why she sat. It was okay for her took for

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Speaker 1: my child a church. I'm going there, and then I'm

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Speaker 1: going to the principle because the principal needs to put

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Speaker 1: her in check to know. If my child did something,

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Speaker 1: you tell me and I'll handle it. That's not your place. First.

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00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: If you calling him names, that's right. How you going

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Speaker 1: good morning? You put my child to jerk nah, and

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Speaker 1: then you say and then you say, I want to

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Speaker 1: see you dance, and then you put onto your jerk song.

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Speaker 1: That's right, jerk good bye. You make the teacher dance backwards, moll.

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Speaker 1: The story is stop playing with people churing. Okay, It's simple.

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Speaker 1: It's really that simple. That same golden rule. Y'll be

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Speaker 1: teaching them kids doing the others you would have them

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Speaker 1: doing to you treat people's kids the way you want

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Speaker 1: them to treat your kids and your grandkids before somebody

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Speaker 1: have you in that classroom dancing to your jerk. Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club,

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Speaker 1: wanting everybody in CJ Envy and charlom Nay, we are

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Cluse. We've got a special guest in the villain.

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Speaker 1: Jammy dominated Lizzy six times, six times number one song

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Speaker 1: Lizzo number one song album this week, Lizzie, how are

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Speaker 1: you yourself? Lizz Lizzie, how are you forget the career

628
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Speaker 1: and stuff? How are you personally? I am finally okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: today to day, I woke up in a good mood

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Speaker 1: and a good ass moe. I woke up by five am.

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Speaker 1: Word that you know I always tell when I'm sitting down.

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Speaker 1: My therapists always say I'm somewhere between O and K.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a good place to be A by

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Speaker 1: C D h J. No, Okay, like I love that

635
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: Litz and called y'all Lizzie guzzlers. The meeting Glizze gladiators

636
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: in the bill, that's not what happens that what happened.

637
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: That's what I heard. That's not how it started. We

638
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: were talking about cot dogs, yes, and then for some

639
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: reason we got into Ryan's. Oh Ryan, Oh Ryan's that's

640
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: what she said. She said Ryan's belt. You were talking

641
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: about Glizzy, yes, and I was like, I didn't know

642
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: it was a Glizzie. I thought Lizzie's hot dog. Lizzie

643
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: are hot dogs. But it's also I never heard of it.

644
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: That's a gun a Glizzie. I never heard that. When

645
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: what do you call it? Like? When you were called

646
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: to it? Yeah? What do you where do you normally use?

647
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: I say, um o, whoa whoa? Because you're not called

648
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: the wee wee's. But that sounds small, so I say

649
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: who you say it like that? Who? I don't know

650
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: if that gad, that's actually a good way to make

651
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: a guy feel as you say special, you'd be like, whoa, whoa?

652
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. Plug the album, Yeah, if it's cute

653
00:31:51,920 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: like Lizzie's albums out this Friday. Now let's talk about it. Now.

654
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: You did this through the pandemic, Yes, I did. How

655
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: was that because you didn't have producers, you didn't have

656
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: people around you were you had to figure it out yourself. Well,

657
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: the first songs were bad, well good. I mean I'm

658
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: a great songwriter, so the songs were still good. But

659
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,479
Speaker 1: I was in my home studio beating on a guitar

660
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: and like doing an MPC trying to make beats. It

661
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: wasn't it. But really, all of these songs came after

662
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: I wrote Rumors. When I put Rumors out, I was like,

663
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: this is how the world sees me. After Rumors came out,

664
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: I got all this backlash and I was like, holy,

665
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: and I'm not used to being in the public eye

666
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: and dropping a song. So I wrote Special to kind

667
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: of like protect myself and remind myself how special I am.

668
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: I love fact that you had self awareness to know

669
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: that the music wasn't good, because you know, sometimes your

670
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: ego will tell you like everything I do is great.

671
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: Like when you think you developed that type of self awainning,

672
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: I think it's because I'm a perfectionist and I'm really

673
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: hard on myself. So I cut a lot of songs

674
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: from the album. I wrote like over one hundred and

675
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: seventy songs, and I had to cut a lot. Some

676
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: of them had some of my favorite lyrics. I was

677
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: rapping more on some songs, and I was like, I

678
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: gotta show people out wrap, you know. But I narrowed

679
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: it down to like the perfect songs. I was like,

680
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: it has to be a perfect song, it has to

681
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,719
Speaker 1: mean something. So I think, um, I can just be

682
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: super hard on myself. It's really that, how do you

683
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: know you're not lying to yourself? Because you know, the

684
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: things we tell ourself is the most important. How you

685
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: know you're not lying to yourself? Because I lie to

686
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: myself in the opposite direction, and I'll be like this

687
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: ain't good and people have to be like, bitch, is

688
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: good what you're talking about? Oh? I mean like you

689
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: could be lying in some the music could be actually good.

690
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: But how do you know when you're not lying yourself?

691
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: If it's just you? You know that happened when about

692
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: damn time. I was like, oh, I don't know about

693
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: this when y'all, and it was the last song to

694
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: be written for the album. I turned in my master's

695
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: in March and I wrote it in February and I

696
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know about this one, y'all. And

697
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: I was the number one songs. Yeah, so it was wrong.

698
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I love proved me wrong. When when

699
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: the Lizzle get the confidence people talk now they be like,

700
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: I want confidence, like Listle, So when did you get

701
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: the confidence and be okay with the world and the

702
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: trolls and the shots that they always stow at you

703
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: and you go to the game, they throw a shot

704
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: at you. You say something that's cool in the States

705
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: but might be not cool overseas, they throw shots at you.

706
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: When did you develop that confidence? I think it's because

707
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 1: my intention is always good. I'm very confident in the

708
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: content of my character and the fabric of my of

709
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: my being. Like I feel like I'm a good person, um,

710
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 1: and that's always my north star. I'm always like, you

711
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 1: know what, I didn't mean wrong? I was confused too

712
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: a lot of things. When I get backlash, I'll be like, wait,

713
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: what did I do the spast and confused us? Like

714
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: I was mad you changed that because you know anywhere

715
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: people like you spassed out. It's not being words matter.

716
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: Spas means to lose physical or emotional control like a

717
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: coach can spas during a game. You can spas out

718
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: because you're upset about something like. It doesn't just mean

719
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: a physical ailment. It's a nuanced conversation, and I was like,

720
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 1: what's the best thing I can do. I could say

721
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: my opinion on it and just add to everyone else's opinion,

722
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 1: or I can do something about it. And really I

723
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: wanted to be a leader in what we should be

724
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: doing as a culture, like making this world a better place.

725
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: Like if they could do that for black people, that

726
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 1: would be amazing. True when we call things out, if

727
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: they can make changes that quickly for us, If I

728
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: can do it that quickly, I did it on a

729
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: Sunday night, it was fixed by Monday. They could do

730
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: that for us when we call out the injustices about us.

731
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 1: So if you wanted to be a leader in that,

732
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: you say fixed, but you didn't do anything wrong because

733
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: you use it in this proper context, like words matters.

734
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: This is a dictionary defined word, right, you know, and

735
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: you used it in the proper context. You know it

736
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: was news to me. You'll learn something new every day. Yeah,

737
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: I think it was a great example to say, Okay,

738
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: people have a problem with this, It's not a big

739
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,359
Speaker 1: deal for me to just change the word. It wasn't

740
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: my intent to offend people. I feel like that was

741
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, a good way to instead,

742
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: because sometimes you can get defensive and then it turns

743
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: into a whole way business. The words matters, words do matter,

744
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: and you use the words of the the proper condex intention,

745
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: I think, and I think that people pick and choose

746
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 1: when intention matters, and in this case, my intention was pure.

747
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: Anyone who knows me, and anyone who listened to the

748
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: context of the song would know that I didn't use

749
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: it as a slur. I didn't even use it as

750
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: a slur. I use it as like an adjective, as

751
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 1: the dictionary defined word. You use it right, hold my bag, bitch,

752
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:28,240
Speaker 1: hold my bag, and you see that I'm as bad. Yeah, okay, girl, okay, okay,

753
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: that she's right. It's not a slur. It's a word

754
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: in the dictionary, and you use it in this proper country,

755
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: and words can be used as slurs. So that's where

756
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: the nebulous, the gray area comes in. I didn't use

757
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: it as a slur, and I think that the backlash

758
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: of you just lost a fan is unnecessary and someone's

759
00:36:50,000 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: intention wasn't negative or too harmful. Okay, my cancel, man,

760
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: how do you know these people? I'm not saying that

761
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: all of them aren't real, but sometimes people just do

762
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 1: things with you on social media. So how do you

763
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: know that these are even real people and not like Box?

764
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 1: I think that I have a gift of discernment from God,

765
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 1: and I use it very wisely because every time I

766
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: get backlash, I don't apologize or change things. This was

767
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: a rare instance for me because I did the research.

768
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I just go off of what people say.

769
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: I need to look into it for myself and know

770
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: what I'm doing before I make a big decision like that.

771
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,479
Speaker 1: Because I was a big decision. You're gonna be changing

772
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 1: the lyrics to Everybody's gay because everybody's not gay that LGBTQ,

773
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: plus it's a whole spectrum. Everybody's gay is not what

774
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: you think. It is happy. That's what it means, happiness.

775
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 1: See words matter. It's not what I'm saying. You see

776
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Words matter. It's up to your interpretation.

777
00:37:53,960 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: You can interpretat okay, gay is an experience with Youzze Brown,

778
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: Glizzie with a pink chip. That's all Ryan. They actuate,

779
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: we are we got more with Lizza when we come back,

780
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: do moves to breakfast. Everybody is angela year. So the

781
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: guy we Are to Breakfast Club was still kicking it

782
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: with Lizzo ye BT Awards. I remember I woke up

783
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 1: in the morning and Row versus Wag was overturned. And

784
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: I know that's something that you've been really focused on

785
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: as far as making sure that people have money and

786
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 1: access to be able to make decisions about their own

787
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: family plans. Absolutely. I mean, between me and Live Nation,

788
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: we've pledged a million dollars to plant Pidenthood and abortion

789
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 1: funds and um. Also over Fourth July weekend, I was like, yeah,

790
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: let's celebrate our independence. Anything you buy an idy that's

791
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 1: going straight to abortion funds, all the proceeds to abortion funds.

792
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: So I was born to do this, and once I

793
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: was ready in this position to give back, I was like,

794
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: let's go. It's time. Like that's I got my Yetio know,

795
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying yitt he chained gied up down, yitie. That's

796
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: my nickname when I was a little kid. Okay, how

797
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: do you get that? Well, my name is Melissa and

798
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: my brother could say he said Mayita. So my aunt

799
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: she was like, Yeda, you say yie, and so yitty,

800
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: you know, in Detroit we all got nicknames. Lizzo was

801
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: in middle school. Okay, so Melissa, you know in Houston

802
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: you will put the oh on the end, so it

803
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 1: was lissoy. So I have a lot of names, Guys,

804
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: I have a lot of nicknames. Now, since you write

805
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: your own music, let's talk about some of these songs. Okay, okay,

806
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: break up twice? What inspired up? So? I had a

807
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: barbecue at my house and I invited a man. And

808
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: you tell your girlfriend that go down, you know, and

809
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: so they always know and then they'd be bad at him.

810
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: At this particular barbecue, we got a little drunk and

811
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 1: she I saw her corner and she was like, if

812
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 1: you her, I'm a slash your motherfuck. I was like,

813
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: oh my god. But I also was like, damn, that's real. Friends,

814
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: you know your ex's tires? Like is that your friend?

815
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: Do you have plans? Was her extra timeable? What was

816
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: he getting back in? He was getting back in and

817
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: at that time, see what I'm saying is she had

818
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: slashed the ties. And the reason, you know what, she

819
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: didn't slash them tires though, because he ain't. He's been

820
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: right over since. And so I went in the studio

821
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 1: that week with Mark Ronson, and I was like, I

822
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: need to write about this, Like all my songs are

823
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: about things that happened to me. Literally, the first verse

824
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: talks about the barbecue list. They have to know that

825
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: they could possibly be on the song. Absolutely I'm black,

826
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift, I really am. I'm trifling. But that was

827
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 1: heard about telling your friends something when things are going

828
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 1: bad and then they hate the guy into dating and

829
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 1: then y'all get back together and they're like, we don't

830
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: say all this time. See, that's why I don't talk

831
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: too badly about his character. It's just what he do.

832
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: I'd be like, he's a good person, but this is

833
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: what he did. Am I tripping? And they're like, you're

834
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: not tripping, You're not tripping. Do you talk about the

835
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: Glizzie too? Because sometimes women don't want to talk to

836
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: their friends about what it's like, but some girls say why.

837
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: I heard women say that I don't want to talk

838
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: about how good a guy is in bed to other

839
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: women because I don't want them to Well, obviously what

840
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: your friends. But I've heard them say I don't want

841
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 1: anybody to know because wow, I don't have that fear.

842
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: But it's like, okay, you kind of got to think

843
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: analyze your relationship with that buying their friends. If you

844
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: feel like I can't say yeah because the first thing

845
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: you want to do is that girl, let me tell

846
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: you it was amazing. Yeah, oh my god, new fear unlocked.

847
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: Have you ever told a friend that with the intent

848
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: to share? Have women ever done that? Like, you need

849
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: to get some of that. I have been in that situation.

850
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 1: It was like it was kyo. It was like, I

851
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 1: don't recommend five stars. You should try it. Wow. Yeah,

852
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: honestly that happens. There was a real kid. Yeah, it was.

853
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: And then they got it canceled. Bring it back back? Oh,

854
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 1: got canceled before hubs still around. Come on, we need

855
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: something too, damn let us have guil. What was y'all

856
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: rating beyond guili? You asked a nice night not early

857
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: met would get about a zero? Yeah, we heard Shut up,

858
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:40,320
Speaker 1: damn crazy. I'm not explaining nothing. You heard from his

859
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: wife told us all that he was so close your mouth.

860
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 1: It's not that bad. You just asked me to tell

861
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: us what. I met my wife when she was fifteen.

862
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: I was sixteen, So the first time we had sex.

863
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: For the first ten years, I couldn't make an orgasm

864
00:42:53,520 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: from She was like, my game was goods were young,

865
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: but we could ten years. You imagine listen, you couldn't

866
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: orgasm for ten years. You have right managers. It may

867
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: twenty one to get the twenty seven. I haven't even

868
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: been with nobody for ten years. I can't imagine being

869
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: with somebody for ten years. That's a long time, Yo,

870
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna be with this one for ten years? Whoa

871
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: who maybe name? I'm not gonna ta you how it

872
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 1: already is. There was on a red We haven't done

873
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: a red carpet yet. By the way, I just want

874
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: to point that out Instagram official. That was an f YC.

875
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: Why didn't I ain't tag them? We haven't done a

876
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: carpet yet. When we do a carpet official, y'all gonna know.

877
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: So Instagram official is not a thing if you don't

878
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: tackle exactly. Wow, does he keep you laughing all the time?

879
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: You know that's important? Look at that blessing. He's funny, yeah, funny,

880
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. I think a traditional like relationship scares

881
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 1: me for ten years. But love is forever. I can

882
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: love somebody forever. I want to hear more. What does

883
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: the non traditional relationship look like the I don't even

884
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: like to say words like non traditional tradition relationships like

885
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 1: monogamy I think to me is a little claustrophobic. I

886
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: think because there's the rules. I think a love relationship

887
00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: that's not monogamous has no rules. And I think people

888
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,240
Speaker 1: who do Polly and all that stuff, there's still rules.

889
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: It's like, well, you can see this person, but you

890
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: can't see this person. I don't want any rules. But

891
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean I'm out here ducting and you know

892
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Um, it doesn't mean he is either.

893
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: It just means that, like there's just no expectations. Yeah,

894
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: And that way the love gets to just be like

895
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:21,720
Speaker 1: the main event, not like the well you were supposed

896
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: to call me and why are you home? Bike? Like

897
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: it's like, do what you want to do as long

898
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: as you love me. That's not interesting to me because

899
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: I don't think the male ego could ever handle that.

900
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: I think the male ego is too fragile for that.

901
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I just don't think a man

902
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: could ever deal with his woman being with another man,

903
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: another woman probably more than like and they love it. Yeah,

904
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: that's why. That's what I heard things about it. That's

905
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: the way to times true, right What if? What if

906
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 1: he was like I just wanted to be in them

907
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: and not just me and you. I don't want you

908
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: to do nothing else. I want to be with you. Well,

909
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: we could still have that and not call it monogamy. Okay,

910
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: it's the label just love. It's like, I just love you.

911
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about nobody else. I'm not worried about

912
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: nobody else sexually, romantically, or emotionally. I'm just worried about you,

913
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: and I think that's what we have, which is the

914
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: most beautiful, pure thing ever. You could be committed the

915
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: one Glizzie for the rest of la Maybe this g Lizzie. Okay, okay,

916
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: all we got more with Lizza when we come back.

917
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. Breakfast Club

918
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: is still picking Mizzo. When it comes to reactions, what

919
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: causes a greater reaction being number one, having a number

920
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: one song, I'll being nominated for six emmis My reactions

921
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,760
Speaker 1: are very quiet, like I don't go whoa. I haven't

922
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: gone whoa about anything in a long time. Really, I

923
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: think I carry all of my shock and excitement like inside.

924
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 1: So even when I got the Emmy call yesterday morning,

925
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 1: like I didn't know what to do next, and my

926
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: sister was like, oh, outside and scream. I got some

927
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 1: roosters in my backyard and I woke the roosters up.

928
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 1: She was like, with the roosters up for a change,

929
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, I got sick. Said the rooster

930
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, did any of the roosters ever chased you?

931
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 1: This is why I can't be on this show. The truth.

932
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell me the proper context of

933
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: the world. That is when using no, I'm not gonna TikTok.

934
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: You know that I do not have any control over

935
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 1: what this man said or does. TikTok is out of

936
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: my control. TikTok, no I do. I disagree with everything.

937
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: I disagree the checks. Just please keep me out of it.

938
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 1: If you're gonna come from somebody, please come fort that

939
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: you about prints and can you tell us one of

940
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,959
Speaker 1: those stories for people that haven't heard of you working

941
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: in the studio with Princes because he even was gonna

942
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 1: ep an album for you before you pass. That's wow.

943
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: So can you tell what are those stories of you?

944
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: Makes me so sad? Actually thinking and talking about it. Um.

945
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: I think one of the greatest stories I still have

946
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: is um I got invited to Paisley Park like last

947
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: minute to see Prince perform on piano, and Um I

948
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: walked in and I was like, you think he's going

949
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: to uh purple Rain, and like he don't do purple

950
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: Rain no more. And then he did Purple Rain. And

951
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 1: when he was performing Purple Rain, he started getting emotional

952
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: and he started crying towards the end, and then um,

953
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: he finished it and he got up and he stormed

954
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: off the stage and we were like hot Stan and

955
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: he came back out and was like, I gotta put

956
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: that song in a different spot because it was early

957
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: in the set. Did he say anything to you that

958
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: that empowered you early on, like made you feel like, man,

959
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: I can really do this. Yeah, he said, Lizzen, you're next.

960
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: You're up next, and then said it in magazines like

961
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: you know, it was proud of me. Was giving me

962
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 1: co signs when nobody was giving me CO signs when

963
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: I was an indie rapper, Like that was such a

964
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: big deal to me. I do a lot of things

965
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: to make Prince proud seven years ago, right, Yeah, Wow, yeah,

966
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: a long time ago and he wanted to epa album. Huh,

967
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 1: I would have been crazy, that would have been. I

968
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: still have the emails to this day. I look at

969
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: it sometimes and be like, he never said a beat

970
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: to nothing yet he was no. Yeah, I mean that's

971
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: the way interest because I think I went out like

972
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: what musical direction would Prince have taken? Right? Um? And

973
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: I really wonder that likes one of the things I

974
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: will never know, but I just wonder. I wonder too.

975
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: I think he wanted me to be on my like

976
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 1: rap and sing like he wanted to get weird with it. Well,

977
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: you know, we'll never know. Growing up as a kid,

978
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: you know, your mother was singing gospel music. You went

979
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: into the church, so when you started popping and you

980
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: were cursing and what what the mom? The family thing?

981
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: I still don't cuss in front of my mom exactly.

982
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: She had songs, she had interviews. I always have to apologize.

983
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: I'd be like mommy, you know, but now that I'm rich,

984
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: she's like girl but a cusan out. But they're like,

985
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: bit let me tell you like prayer. But um, Yeah,

986
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: in the beginning, I was so nervous and scared. I

987
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: didn't cuss at all my first projects on Little Bangers,

988
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: I didn't cuss Big Girl, Small World, I didn't cuss

989
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: because I was afraid that my great grandma would hear me.

990
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: And um, one day, I was just like, you know,

991
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: I gotta say what I want to say. If I

992
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: hold back, you know, I'm gonna stay back. So I

993
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: told my mom. I was like, when I'm on stage,

994
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say some bad words, but it's cool, right,

995
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:47,280
Speaker 1: And She's like, it's fine. She don't like cussing because

996
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 1: she can't cuse she's she's a virgo. She's bad at

997
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:53,919
Speaker 1: Cussing's Virgos can't really cuss good a virgo. I'm a cancer.

998
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm a virgo, sensitive, emotional. You're a virgo. You cuss? Yes,

999
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: it sounds sound. It really don't sound you know how

1000
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:04,919
Speaker 1: you know it doesn't sound right? His voice gets high?

1001
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: You got it? Hey? All you gotta do is go

1002
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: back to an interview with Jesus and Marrow stas off,

1003
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: pick up the getting tea. They't even looking mirrables like

1004
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 1: that's the best. You got a custom? How important to

1005
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: role is faith play in your life? Oh? It's everything.

1006
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: I I mean I grew up in the Church of

1007
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: God in Christ, right, I think my anxiety got in

1008
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,760
Speaker 1: the way of my faith for a long time, because

1009
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: if you're afraid, it means you're not trusting in God.

1010
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 1: I say to Lord's prayer every single day. Now. I

1011
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: started maybe like during the pandemic, actually because I was

1012
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: having nightmares. I was going through it because the world

1013
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 1: and I was also having a lot of personal loss

1014
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: and issues and problems. And I started praying every single day.

1015
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 1: And it is like the most important part of life.

1016
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: This is better than any vitamin you can take. It

1017
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: is sitting back and praying and knowing that you are covered.

1018
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: But let's play special right now. And we appreciate you

1019
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: for joining us. But we got to end on the

1020
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: prayer because you're talking about thank you God and pray

1021
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: every day and he wants you to pray. Are you

1022
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 1: want me to pray? About to pray? Also? Okay, we're

1023
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna get into this. Y'all know you can't

1024
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: wake the whole money. This is about to be up you.

1025
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: You need to hold Paulo hand. Everybody's jail, right, I

1026
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: can feel the energy in here. This pc yes for

1027
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: every day in the mirror. Lord God, we thank you

1028
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: so so, so so much every single day for life

1029
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 1: and life more abundantly. Lord God. I just want to

1030
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: plead the blood of Jesus on every single person in

1031
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: this room, Lord God, and extend that out into this

1032
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: entire building. Jesus, they are covered, Lord God. They are

1033
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: more than conquerors, Lord God, and I pray that we

1034
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: can go out and conquer the day, Lord God, fearlessly

1035
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: to know that you are with us, Lord God, you

1036
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: are by our side. Thank you so much, Lord God.

1037
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 1: Every single day we pray and we love you and

1038
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:18,800
Speaker 1: Jesus name. Amen. I'm gonna tell you something, playing fingers

1039
00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 1: and soften. What can I say, Lizzie grabber by the

1040
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 1: way like you copying him with this because right after

1041
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 1: the prayer, but guess what, God knows all said he

1042
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: did this first. I just want to tell you when

1043
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: he was like that. But no, my mind was not.

1044
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: It wasn't. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't a more my

1045
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: actual actual as it was not a mold of my

1046
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: actual birth. He was a little copy mea as the mold. Wait,

1047
00:53:54,160 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what is going on? Everybody's gay? He gave

1048
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 1: me a mold as that is so sweet? And what

1049
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: did you do with it? As the question tell the

1050
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: truth and this one time there you go. Okay, ten

1051
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:21,399
Speaker 1: years of practice, So get you somewhere. Okay, the breakfast club.

1052
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: Your mornings will never be the same, fastball. A great

1053
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: night's sleep starts at Matches Firm right now, get King

1054
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: beds for Queen prices, Queen beds for twin prices, and

1055
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 1: save up to seven hundred dollars on select mattresses from

1056
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: top brands. Visit a store near you or Matches Firm

1057
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: dot com. Today you are, don't you? It's time to day.

1058
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: Donkey today does not discriminate. I might not have the

1059
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: song of today, but I got to donkey that. So

1060
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 1: if you ever feel I need to be a donkey,

1061
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: man it with the breakfast club. Bitches, Please don't keep

1062
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 1: the day today? Yeah, don't you? To day goes to

1063
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,839
Speaker 1: Terrell christa song of Santa Fe, New Mexico. He's thirty

1064
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: four years old. Let me tell you something. The reason

1065
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: I have made my life's work helping people heal, getting

1066
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 1: folks to invest in their mental wealth is because of

1067
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: God's Like Terrell Sea, I'm gonna use the word crazy

1068
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: here because I need you all to understand where I'm

1069
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 1: coming from. Okay, every day of our lives, we are

1070
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,440
Speaker 1: trying to avoid crazy, not just our own crazy, but

1071
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: the crazy that exists within us. See, we can't run

1072
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: from ourselves. That's why you have to do the work

1073
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,760
Speaker 1: on yourself so you don't hurt yourself or others. Okay,

1074
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: because when you don't do the work on yourself, you

1075
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: end up projecting that hurt and that pain and that

1076
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:35,439
Speaker 1: crazy onto other people. Okay, but other people we really

1077
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: can't control. We can only encourage, and someone like Terrell

1078
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: definitely needed some encouragement. Let's go to ko AT Action

1079
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 1: News seven for the report. Please to hit what Terrell did?

1080
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: Please russe a man in Santa Fe, where officers say

1081
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: he broke into a home, drank some beer, feasted on

1082
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: some shrimp, then took a bubble bath. Police said the

1083
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: homeowner found the intruder inside his home in southwest Santa Fe.

1084
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:56,839
Speaker 1: The man told you a homeowner he needed a more

1085
00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 1: place to stay, apologize for breaking in, and left two

1086
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: hundred dollars on a chair to pay for the window.

1087
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 1: Aryl Christensen has charged with aggravated burglary. Larceny and criminal danna.

1088
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 1: Now see, Terrell Christensen is what you would call a

1089
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 1: compassionate criminal, a holistic home invader. If you will, imagine

1090
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: walking in your house and someone in there holding an

1091
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 1: AAR fifteen, drinking a beer, eating up all the shrimp,

1092
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: and taking a bubble bath. I know that sounds like

1093
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: one of the hardest covers of a rap album you

1094
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: ever seen, but it's not. This really happened. And then

1095
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: Terrell apologized to the homeowners, saying he just needed a

1096
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 1: place to sleep and did you hear what they said?

1097
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 1: He left police to play the news your port one

1098
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: more time? Right? Police a russa man in Santa Fe,

1099
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: where officers say he broke into a home, drank some beer,

1100
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: feasted on some shrimp, then took a bubble bath. Police

1101
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: said the homeowner found the intruder inside his home in

1102
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: southwest Santa Fe. The man told the homeowner he needed

1103
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 1: a more place to stay, apologize for breaking in, and

1104
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: left two hundred dollars on a chair to pay for

1105
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:56,800
Speaker 1: the window. Teryl Christensen has charged with aggravated burglary, larceny,

1106
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: and criminal danna. He broke the window and left two

1107
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:02,280
Speaker 1: hundred dollars on a pay for the window, before packing

1108
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: up his gun in the duffel bag and quietly departing.

1109
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: Not clearly, this man is sick. Clearly this man needs help.

1110
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 1: Let's thank god nobody got shot first. Okay, all right,

1111
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,760
Speaker 1: let's let's thank God for that, all right. And by nobody,

1112
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: I mean the owner of the home and Terrell. But

1113
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: I could easily give Terrelle the credit he deserves of

1114
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: breaking in the house, drinking a bed, taking a bubble bath,

1115
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: and eating all the scrimps. And I'm gonna tell you something,

1116
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: in my old age, I have grown to have empathy

1117
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: and compassion for people like Terrell, because to say you're

1118
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: broke into someone's house just because you needed a warm

1119
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: place to stay, that's an act of desperations. I pray

1120
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: I never have to experience. But Terrell, the reason you're

1121
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: getting dunkey are to day, it's because you left two

1122
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: hundred dollars on a chair for the homeowner. The average

1123
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,680
Speaker 1: price of a more talent Albuquerque, New Mexico it's ninety

1124
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: eight dollars on a weeknight, one hundred and thirty dollars

1125
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: on the weekend. I google this, Okay, I know inflation

1126
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: is kicking everyone's ass, but you still would have money

1127
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: to get some bearing some scrimps. Okay, gotta be a

1128
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: bubble gumps, all right, Captain Dee's around Santa Fe somewhere,

1129
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: all right, twelve pack of butt light ten dollars and

1130
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 1: forty nine cents at Walmart. Get you some kids bubble

1131
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: bath miss the Bubbles three ninety nine. You don't even

1132
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: have to get the honest brand bubble bath. That's like

1133
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 1: eleven twelve dollars. Go by the kid's brand, Okay, to

1134
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 1: save some money. Moral of the story is, dude, you

1135
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: know how much two hundred dollars is? All right? You

1136
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:21,919
Speaker 1: breaking in people's houses, eating their food, drinking their beer,

1137
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: using that tub, and you got money in your pocket.

1138
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: Clearly something is wrong, you know, I know something was

1139
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 1: wrong with this thoughtful thug. Well, he didn't get arrested

1140
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 1: that day. He got arrested the next day after he

1141
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 1: tried to steal a woman's car at gunpoint at a

1142
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: church's chicken in Santa Fe. All Right. The woman told

1143
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: cops she was waiting for her food in the drive

1144
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: through line when Terrell pulled up and pulled out and

1145
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: demanded that she get out of the car because he

1146
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: was taking it, and then he ran off when she

1147
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: started blowing her horn, and he was picked up by

1148
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: police when he was spotted walking down a road later

1149
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: that day. Terrell told police that he had been caught

1150
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: in the blizzard on Sunday and broke into the home

1151
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 1: out of fear of freezing, and he felt bad about

1152
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 1: breaking the window, but he ref used speak about the

1153
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: attempt to car jacket at Church's chicken. All right, he's

1154
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 1: not all there, all right, but he's dare enough, and

1155
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 1: the fact he had two hundred dollars in his pocket,

1156
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: but instead of going to get a motel, he chose

1157
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: to break into someone's house. And he was charged with

1158
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: aggravated burglary, larceny, and criminal damage the property for the

1159
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 1: Sunday breaking and an additional aggravated the soul charge for

1160
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: the attempt to car jacking. Listen, man, Yes, everybody has

1161
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: to deal to consequences of their actions, but what is

1162
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: jail gonna do for this guy? He clearly needs to

1163
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: be getting some type of psychological evaluation and be somewhere,

1164
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: you know, getting some mental health services. But in the

1165
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 1: meantime he has to get the credit he deserves for

1166
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:38,320
Speaker 1: making poor choices. Please give Terrell Christa san the biggest

1167
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: he are. All right, Oh god, okay, envy got guess

1168
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: it's time to play a game of guess what raising

1169
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: And I printed out his picture just in case you

1170
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: wanted up play. Okay, all right, all right, I'm ready.

1171
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: Terrell Christason, thirty four years old, New Mexico broke into

1172
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 1: somebody's house, ate up all the strimps, drank all a bell,

1173
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,800
Speaker 1: took a bubble bath, and left him two hundred dollars

1174
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: for the window. He broke angela yea, guess what race?

1175
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 1: He um? What's his name? Began Terrell? Terrell Christa soon,

1176
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 1: Christa song, Christens song, Christen song. Oh this sounds French

1177
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: or something connect. We don't have a whatever any French

1178
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 1: drops but we we right? And then it politely left money.

1179
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: What you say Germans have a reputation, do they French?

1180
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: I said French. You can't say French. We don't have French.

1181
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: And I said we we claim to be I've never

1182
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: claimed to be a genius. All right, and clean went

1183
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: to college, right, she's the one. I'm just following her.

1184
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: So you go with white. I don't know, but I

1185
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 1: don't need white. People need Terrell. You going, you gotta

1186
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 1: pick one. Terrell Christis. I want the Christis song signed

1187
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: the Rockefeller Christian Christian Chris Joran um Man. It's tough

1188
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: for me, man, because Terre, I don't know a white

1189
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: person one big a race. We know non white, non white,

1190
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 1: that's an option always. That don't mean black though not white.

1191
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: I ain't non white, he said, no white dj n V.

1192
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 1: Terrell Christa sault Okay, thirty four years old, New Mexico,

1193
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: broke into somebody's house, ate up all the scrimps, drank

1194
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: all the bill, took a bubble bath, and then left

1195
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars for the person. Jes what R fifteen.

1196
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: Let me not forget that part. Damn man, that's a

1197
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: big clue. That's a big clue. Is a big clue.

1198
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: I was gonna go black, right, And I'm gonna tell

1199
01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: you why I was gonna go black. I was gonna

1200
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 1: go black because you said churches chicken. He went to

1201
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: the church of chicken. He's at the church, went to

1202
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: the churches. The robber card not for the chicken. Oh

1203
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: my back. But then then I don't think if a

1204
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: black person ran into somebody house, he's gonna take a

1205
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: bubble bath. Could be his spanning, you know what I mean,

1206
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: I don't think it. But then you said a off fifteen,

1207
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: and I think A fifteen that's a white man. I

1208
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 1: think that's a white man's gun. White, that's the white shooter.

1209
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: That's right, Yeah, because black people got the small gun

1210
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: because we got tuck it. But we ain't got no.

1211
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: We can't walking around with him. You hurry up and

1212
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:32,080
Speaker 1: guess what I'm going. I'm going white. I mean, I

1213
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 1: could be wrong, you are wrong. Right, it's white. I

1214
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: know it as I know most y'all look white to me.

1215
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: If he can identify as a white man, that's for

1216
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: sure he white white. Yes, all right, you got that

1217
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: one right. I know. It's the bubble bath. The bubble

1218
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 1: bath and the A fifteen. Go get to Rell some help.

1219
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 1: Man needs some help. He said, there's no white people.

1220
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 1: I don't know any white people named to you. Well

1221
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: now you do, all right? Well thank you for that,

1222
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: donkey Ja the breakfast club, hell, the relationship advice, need

1223
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 1: personal advice, just the real advice. Call up nown for

1224
01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 1: asking morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy.

1225
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: We are the breakfast club. It's time for asking ye hello,

1226
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 1: who's this? This is mister B. I want to remain anonymous, though,

1227
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna save mister be from day in Ohio. Man,

1228
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: I can't with you this morning, I mister d that

1229
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 1: wants to be anonymous. What's quest? Well? Good morning, good

1230
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: morning miss Year and Charlomagne the guard'm Aa dude, yo DJ,

1231
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: what's that? Mister Mann? She my ex girlfriend right now,

1232
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: but she want to she want to get back with me.

1233
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: But my question is it's the white girl she owned

1234
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: the date black guy? Okay and uh. We were going

1235
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 1: to the Taste of Cincinnati on a Saturday morning, so

1236
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 1: she decided she want to drive her car so I

1237
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 1: could get in on the driver side. I look on

1238
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: the floorboard and I see a Black and Mile rapper.

1239
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: That's you know, you know how you know how this

1240
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: you know? Okay, So a Black and Mile rapper with

1241
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:21,439
Speaker 1: the back end it oh, smoke blacking Mile. She don't

1242
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: smoke Black and Mile, and I didn't want to accuse her,

1243
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 1: so I said, I said to myself, maybe one of

1244
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: her girlfriends smoking the lifting so I picked it up

1245
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: and I said, can't you explain this to me? And

1246
01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 1: she hit me with the oaky dough you know, always

1247
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 1: fluid in the wind. Man, take that down, flying the window.

1248
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: I gonna fly in the window, and it got the

1249
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: back end it. Then she saying, well, I got at

1250
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: the gas station. Must have stuck to the bottom of

1251
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: the shoe. I say that sticky on this rapper, you

1252
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So she to this day, that's

1253
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: that's been probberly two months ago. To this day, she

1254
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: still ain't come up with a good explanation how it

1255
01:04:55,200 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: got in the car. You know what I mean, We're

1256
01:04:57,840 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 1: gonna die. We're gonna down the road to go dow

1257
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 1: under sincin matter. Now, I'm a hood dude from you

1258
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 1: know from it. I'm a hood. I'm a hood and

1259
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: she's a suburb. No I got. I used to hustle

1260
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: before I started driving Trump. I'm a Trump driver. So

1261
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 1: we got pulled over. Some stuff come up from a

1262
01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 1: pat and uh, they put the hand cuts on me,

1263
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 1: you know. But all they wanted to do with serrupy

1264
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 1: or summons to go to court. That's it, and out

1265
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: in and out she brought that up and want to

1266
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 1: break up with me. I'm talking about you're gonna get

1267
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: mad with me because I found the Black and Mile

1268
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: rapper in your car, and you're gonna bring up some

1269
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 1: old stuff to break up with me. You think got shit?

1270
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 1: You think I got shit forgivea and get back with

1271
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: or what? No, it sound like the sounds like too

1272
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 1: much driving. First of all, she lies to you, and

1273
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: you know she's lying right. Secondly, and then she broke

1274
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: up with you at the time that you really, you know,

1275
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,320
Speaker 1: needed her. You already gave her another chance after she

1276
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 1: lied to you. Why would you go back? Exactly? You

1277
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: got out, get out? Okay, Okay, That's what I needed

1278
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 1: to hear. Why Why were you Why were you even

1279
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 1: considering it? Because you know we we've been we've been

1280
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 1: together going on three years now. We don't broke up

1281
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: about four or five times, you know, because she I

1282
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: even went to council like Charlemagne saying, I went to

1283
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 1: council to be a better man, you know, because I

1284
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: got issues, you know, from you know, when I was

1285
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 1: in cancer rating, you know, abandonment issues and stuff like that,

1286
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 1: and proud of you came, Thank you man, thank you.

1287
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: She she went to council with me. But the final

1288
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: straw was I brought up you know, I brought it

1289
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 1: up in counseling and the councilor try to tell her

1290
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 1: how young Blackney grow up in the hood with no

1291
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 1: father figure and stuff like that. So she tried to

1292
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 1: tell the council what to due to the count she

1293
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,960
Speaker 1: made the counsel to get off the zoom Yeah, to

1294
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: hang up. What Yeah, it doesn't. Yeah, this doesn't sound

1295
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 1: like it's going anywhere for you. Okay, okay, that's that's

1296
01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 1: what I needed to hear though that, you know I was,

1297
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 1: I was on like then she try to she tried

1298
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 1: to put me in a friend zone. Yeah, it doesn't

1299
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: sound like you have anything too positive to say. Everything

1300
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 1: you've said to me is all the reasons why you

1301
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: don't want to be with her. I just asked you

1302
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 1: why you want to go back. The only thing you

1303
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: could say is because y'all been off and on for

1304
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: three years. That ain't a reason I'm playing. You know

1305
01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm playing. I love her, but I don't love enough

1306
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: to be visible. I'll put it that weight. Okay, Well

1307
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: you answered your own question, mister b. But thank you,

1308
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: thank you Okay, Charlemagne, you're my dude. Man. I appreciate you, King.

1309
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you too. Brother. Keep keep being, keep

1310
01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: being a better version of yourself. Man, keep going to therapy.

1311
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: Oh yes, sir, yes, sir. Y'all have a good day. Man,

1312
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 1: I so appreciate it. Man to ask ye eight d

1313
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one if you need

1314
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 1: relationship advice. He e now was the breakfast club? Good morning?

1315
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: It's that time ask Charlemagne and DJ nd anything make

1316
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: it up up, It's time to a see any morning.

1317
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 1: Everybody in CJ and envy angela Ye, Charlemagne, the guy

1318
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 1: we are the breakfast club in the middle of our

1319
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 1: seat and eat. And I just want to say that

1320
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:07,919
Speaker 1: the guy who called, uh, you know, he just needed

1321
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,040
Speaker 1: to deal with the reality that his woman doesn't want

1322
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 1: to be with him anymore. Like you can't diagnose her

1323
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: with mental health issues just because she told you repeatedly

1324
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 1: she don't want to be with you no more. Just

1325
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 1: use mental health as an excuse. Well that's him using

1326
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 1: that as an excuse for her. That's silly. All right, Well,

1327
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 1: let's go to the phone line. We have Nate on

1328
01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:27,640
Speaker 1: the line. Nate, good morning, Good morning, what's going on?

1329
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:33,559
Speaker 1: DJ King asked, any what's your question? Yeah, listen, man,

1330
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 1: what you do when you got two wives that you've

1331
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 1: been with the years together, been with one for twenty five,

1332
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:44,600
Speaker 1: one for seventeen. But they're still in competition. Huh? He

1333
01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 1: has two wives, so he's been married twice. He's been

1334
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,600
Speaker 1: married to one for twenty five years. But you know,

1335
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: you know, you know, coming coming a little marriage seven years, right,

1336
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:56,800
Speaker 1: what I'm a long marriage is seven years? Oh yeah, Okay,

1337
01:08:57,120 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 1: he's been married to one for twenty five and the

1338
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,240
Speaker 1: other one seven. You neither one of them because I

1339
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 1: can't get matter unless I change my religion. They I'm

1340
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,560
Speaker 1: saying it, but my bob or they both live in

1341
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: the house with you, same house. Okay one I just

1342
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: had a baby with one four years ago. The other

1343
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 1: one you're trying to have a baby for the past

1344
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 1: four years, but we can't. But they're always going to competition.

1345
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:20,760
Speaker 1: Tell about you don't love me, you only love her. Well,

1346
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 1: that's good. I mean you should want them to constantly

1347
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,040
Speaker 1: be in competition with each other. Keep them on their toes.

1348
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 1: The house you went, you went either way like then

1349
01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 1: you don't feel feeling talk the talk. I think you

1350
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:33,760
Speaker 1: don't mean what's the problem you hurt? I think what's

1351
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 1: gonna happen is you you put them in competition with

1352
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:40,479
Speaker 1: each other. Happen man hating on you, envy hating on you. Nope, nope, no,

1353
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm not putting them in competition. I'm just like you

1354
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: chose with you sold it ain't for you, don't use it,

1355
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: but everybody gonna suck up. I don't see nothing wrong

1356
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 1: with the competition. I think a little friendly competition is fine. Okay,

1357
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. I told you, bro, no,

1358
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 1: you don't really get an age forty four forty four,

1359
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 1: So let me ask your question. You still got enough

1360
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 1: energy in town for two for two? Ops? I mean

1361
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:06,439
Speaker 1: big Doug. When when you when you commit, you will

1362
01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 1: in if they choose, you know, I put it to you.

1363
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: I put it to you like this, They say, let

1364
01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 1: them make a choice, right, did you tell them and

1365
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 1: they know what it is? And then all you do

1366
01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: is bring together. Now you you kind of lose your

1367
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: power because now they tell each other, but then come

1368
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 1: back to you with one dud but other So let

1369
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: me out of do they sleep with each other? Man?

1370
01:10:28,720 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what nobody do it. I just do

1371
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: what that do, big dogs. I'm saying, you don't know

1372
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 1: if the women sleep with each other in the house

1373
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 1: like y'all have three s, but that that doesn't really

1374
01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:39,560
Speaker 1: like I put it to you like this, you know,

1375
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: now choose. It's a way to fake it is a

1376
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 1: way to make it. I mean, liten, you're faking it

1377
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 1: to make it. It ain't gonna last. They don't talk

1378
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:47,840
Speaker 1: to me like you know, Pemp, I ain't one of

1379
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: your wives. Now tell me the truth. Did they sleep

1380
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: with each other or not? I don't know they yet?

1381
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: All right? They have okay, right up, lavitre blue shoes

1382
01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:00,679
Speaker 1: as that big does none of that? This little push

1383
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 1: ups get that blood flow. That's all listen, hither thingum.

1384
01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 1: Competition is very good as long as it's healthy. It's

1385
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 1: what makes one person describe to be better. So I

1386
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 1: don't see the problem with a little healthy competition. Competition

1387
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: in the household sir? When when? When is it? Though?

1388
01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 1: When they can't get comfortable, do they ever gonna get you?

1389
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 1: Should you never let them get comfortable? He got I

1390
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: don't have too wid bro. You you setting yourself up.

1391
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: You got one pregnant, the other one having a baby.

1392
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,920
Speaker 1: You're setting yourself up, bro, don't listen to him. Okay,

1393
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 1: myself up. But I made my choice, so I treat

1394
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 1: with it. Don't don't let them get comfortable. King, you

1395
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:35,639
Speaker 1: do your thing. Can you keep doing your thing until

1396
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 1: you can't do your thing no more? When you can't

1397
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 1: do your thing no more, you call us and let

1398
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 1: us know about it. You can't wait till you got

1399
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: to take your kid to elementary school or the first

1400
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:44,519
Speaker 1: day of school, and you got two mamas and one

1401
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 1: daddy and two kids, and you're gonna be the envy

1402
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: of all the daddy. No, no, no, what I'm saying too,

1403
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: I got a grown son. I waited so boom we

1404
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:55,559
Speaker 1: was rocking. I waited until my son with to college

1405
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 1: to make another baby. So once I made the baby

1406
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,479
Speaker 1: with one, I gotta get the other one of the

1407
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 1: baby seventeen join she's somebody be like, yo, where's mother.

1408
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:04,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about confusing, but I

1409
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 1: do know that competition is good as long as it's healthy.

1410
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 1: Keep the competitiveness up between your two sister. Wise, is

1411
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 1: that what they call I think something like that. It's

1412
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:23,080
Speaker 1: a breakfast clug the morning the breakfast club, there's some

1413
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 1: real advice with Angela. Yet's ask ye wanting? Everybody is

1414
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 1: DJ envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the

1415
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 1: breakfast club. We're in the middle of asking, ye, Hello,

1416
01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: who's this the club with no breakfast? What's going on?

1417
01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: You know? That's right? I got a serious question, Angela. Ye,

1418
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:43,400
Speaker 1: and I need you to give me a serious answer, Okay, Angela.

1419
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 1: When a man is act for an opinion on when

1420
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:49,639
Speaker 1: a woman wears, or a new hairstyle or whatever. Are

1421
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 1: we are we supposed to give you, guys, one hundred

1422
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: percent honest to god truth. Are we supposed to tell

1423
01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 1: you what you want to hear? But if we're asking

1424
01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:00,600
Speaker 1: you a question, we have to be prepared for that answer. So,

1425
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: but are you prepared for the answer. Let's just say

1426
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: you ask that question with the assumption that you know

1427
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna like the answer. But what if you don't.

1428
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 1: Would you rather the person lied to you or just

1429
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 1: be brutally obvious? I'd rather you tell the truth. But

1430
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:16,560
Speaker 1: you don't have to be brutal about your truth. You know,

1431
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 1: so you know who your girlfriend is and you know

1432
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 1: how she handles things. Some people can take it and

1433
01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 1: some people can't. So it's all about how you say things.

1434
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 1: You don't have to be like, man, I hate that

1435
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:28,519
Speaker 1: outfit that you have on. You look terrible, and I

1436
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 1: could see, yeah, Poopa, you don't got to do all that,

1437
01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 1: but you can be like, Okay, I don't think it's

1438
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: the most flattering outfit. Like when you hear a little

1439
01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 1: bit more detail. My friend trying to headstall that I've

1440
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,280
Speaker 1: never seen before. She she's never tried it before, so

1441
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 1: she took a picture of it and send it to me,

1442
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 1: and my only response was different. Okay, you didn't like

1443
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:50,600
Speaker 1: the different response, right, So all I said was this

1444
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:53,840
Speaker 1: is given predator vibes. But I wasn't talking about my

1445
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,280
Speaker 1: girlfriend or the way she looks. I was talking about

1446
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 1: the hairstyle. And she didn't like the fact she didn't

1447
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 1: know what Predator was. Then googled it and slue what

1448
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: Predator was. Then, I mean, I've been in the doghouse

1449
01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:06,680
Speaker 1: ever since. Well, yeah, it's probably the way you said it.

1450
01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 1: You know, she liked her hairstyle. You could have said

1451
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,600
Speaker 1: it's not the most flattering. I like when you have

1452
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 1: your style, like this better. But you know, sometimes because

1453
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:17,120
Speaker 1: it is like a little trying to be funny, make

1454
01:14:17,160 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 1: a little jokey joke, but she could have been feeling sensitive. Yeah, yeah,

1455
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: I'm assuming the doghouse. She wasn't feeling that one at all,

1456
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: So I guess I got to be more since I

1457
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:28,720
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