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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dum. We

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Speaker 1: are back at it another week in the o R.

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Speaker 1: I just drove to Newport and right back from Newport,

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Speaker 1: which is about, you know, an hour fifteen. So I'm

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Speaker 1: on a high. I'm still on the high from Owen Hunt. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I I have like a glow about me. People like

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Speaker 1: all week were like, wow, you look different. I was like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I just ended like a thirteen year

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Speaker 1: feud in my head with somebody, a character, a fictional character. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I feel revitalized. I feel regenerated and alive. I

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Speaker 1: would say that I feel the same feeling. Yeah, although

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Speaker 1: I did watch grays Anatomy this week and I still

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Speaker 1: was kind of like, not totally jazzed on him. Listen,

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Speaker 1: It's like, which is that long? It's been thirteen years

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Speaker 1: but three no, when he cheated on Christina the show

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Speaker 1: started two dozen five. I'm sorry. Okay, Yeah, so that's

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a good eight year run. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: it's gonna take some time. But the ball has started

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Speaker 1: rolling and the healing has began, Yeah, begun. I know

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Speaker 1: I felt the same way, and I was thinking about

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Speaker 1: it in the car of like we have had this

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Speaker 1: feeling towards not only Owen but also Kevin mckinn without

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Speaker 1: even realizing that we had transferred our negativity towards the

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Speaker 1: actual person that was playing a character. It makes me

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Speaker 1: keep in mind like how we think of people we

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Speaker 1: watch on TV. Like I always felt like this about

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Speaker 1: The Bachelor when people were so rude to the contestants

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Speaker 1: and like, you know, it's just like everyone's a joke.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, these are just people, Like we're just

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Speaker 1: we like go and there's cameras all over the place,

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Speaker 1: and they're taking like little snippets and glimpses into these

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Speaker 1: like fourteen hour days and making it into a two

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Speaker 1: hour show and like, people are so cruel. But then

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Speaker 1: I find myself doing it even when I watched the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor shows now, So just a reminder, especially when someone's

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Speaker 1: playing a character too, you know. No, I can still

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Speaker 1: feel the way I feel they get they deserve when

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Speaker 1: they But Kevin McKidd didn't it, didn't do it. He's

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Speaker 1: just an actor. Correct, Correct, I'm saying, like, don't send

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Speaker 1: like death threats to the actors because you didn't. But

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Speaker 1: people do correct, correct, correct, Like do you know how

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Speaker 1: many Christina Stands probably sent like the nastiest messages to him.

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Speaker 1: You could have been one of them. I could have.

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Speaker 1: I never take it to that level because I don't

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Speaker 1: believe in trolling. I don't believe in like actually being

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Speaker 1: you know, trolling, taking at that extra step. But speaking

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Speaker 1: of um So, I spent the entire day yesterday, literally

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Speaker 1: the entire day. I don't think I did one productive.

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Speaker 1: Went to the grocery store. I went to the grocery

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Speaker 1: store yesterday watching Squid Game. Oh yeah, what do you think?

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Speaker 1: Did you finish it? Yes? And I'm pissed that I did.

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Speaker 1: But I couldn't stop pissed that you finish it yes,

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Speaker 1: like one activity and um So, over the weekend, I

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Speaker 1: Squid Game. He had never heard of it, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, it's like the biggest show in the world

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Speaker 1: hated it. Did someone tell you it was uplifting and heartwarming? No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know. I don't think anyone is has made that claim,

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Speaker 1: So you going into it, there should have been no

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Speaker 1: I don't know why, because I feel like, to me,

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Speaker 1: And I think that's the whole theme of like what

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was just like, I was so

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Speaker 1: And then the episode would end and I was like,

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Speaker 1: very intriguing and sucks you in. I thought it was

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Speaker 1: To me, I think of it as like sometimes, you know,

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Speaker 1: We're not doing that. But Tom, you had a question,

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Speaker 1: talking about possibly doing a drinking version of The Squid Games,

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Speaker 1: that's so dark. You know. That scene was very jarring

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Speaker 1: who's this speckt tilly And they're gonna go to your Instagram,

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Speaker 1: uglet doesn't ever smell bad. We used to have him

425
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Speaker 1: in studio and you could tell when he wasn't wear

426
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: in deodorant. It was it was like a funk, but

427
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 1: it was a pleasant funk. It wasn't I don't like

428
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 1: a pleasant funk. It was more of a I thought

429
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: it was more of a pheromone than a than a

430
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: body odor. But maybe that's just me. I thought it

431
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: smelled fine. I prefer fresh over funk. Well. I remember

432
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 1: I remember calin uh that there was this whole conversation

433
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: about Dean had been traveling for like or camping or

434
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: hiking or something, and Hatton showered for like two were

435
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 1: ten days or something, and he was coming to see

436
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: her and he was going to stop off in shower

437
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: and she was like, I A, really, I'm curious to

438
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: see what you smell like now right now without having showered,

439
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: And she was like it definitely wasn't great, but it

440
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be.

441
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: I'll never forget finding out that he didn't used so

442
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: but I was like, you don't remember where we were

443
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: when we found we all remember the comment heard around

444
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: the world. Next time you see next time you see

445
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: him smells armpits, that'll be at Ben's wedding, but in justice.

446
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 1: Next time you see him, no red Star. I was like, oh,

447
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to hang out with us till the

448
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: end of no remember cool? Okay, yikes. Yeah, if you're

449
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: getting off your deodorant, then I'm not coming around. Yeah,

450
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: I'll just what do I just say? Hey, Tanya says,

451
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 1: your armpits never stink because that's an invasive move. Yeah,

452
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: to tell him, okay, yeah, don't just go in. Okay,

453
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: catch him off card, don't tell him it's happening, but

454
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: tell him that I'm going in. Yes, you're going in, correct,

455
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: but not before like the morning before, the day before, Like, don't, oh,

456
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. Okay, Um, well, speaking of nothing, Um,

457
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: we have some really fun guests today. One is new

458
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: one we've had before, correct Eastern and I really appreciated that.

459
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: Segway back. Congratulations on that Hall of Fame. Hall of Fame.

460
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: Speaking of nothing, Okay, we've had we've definitely had one

461
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 1: on the one of our guests on the podcast. But

462
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: then the other is a family member who we've never had.

463
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: But we're having Megan Trainer and her brother, Ryan Trainer

464
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: on the podcast today to scrub in. They have a

465
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: new podcast, so you know we're gonna be talking to

466
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 1: fellow podcasters. It's always just like the same, you know,

467
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: just like taking in a mirror, exactly parallel lines, parallels, um.

468
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: So we will take a break and then we will

469
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: be back to chat with them. We're really excited because

470
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: we have two guests joining us in the o R today.

471
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: We have Megan and Ryan Trainer. Everybody, fellow fellow podcasters,

472
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. Podcast. We just recorded an episode.

473
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: So oh, what were you guys working on? Working on

474
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: on this podcast? Working on nutrition, which I'm super pumped

475
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 1: about health overall health, health, gut health. I have a

476
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: probiotic that I'm obsessed with, and I got to interview

477
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: the lady who made it, which just thrive every day.

478
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: If we get her going, she'll just talk about poop

479
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: for every day. I put a giant poop morning guaranteed

480
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: if I take these pills at night. Here's the thing

481
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: we before we before we jumped it. On the interview,

482
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: we were talking about natural deodorant and Tanya was saying

483
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: how she could talk about natural deodoran for hours of people.

484
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: I feel like pooping is another conversation that really what

485
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: it can't stand it every every podcast I've been doing,

486
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, my poops, but like it's a people poop shame,

487
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: and they shouldn't. It's not a poop shame. It's just

488
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: like how much can you talk about poop? It's school.

489
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: I can go on. Yeah, because what I realized, at

490
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: least for me, like my boyfriend has no problems going

491
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and I have so many problems going

492
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. So I could talk about poop and

493
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: probiotics and like all those things for hours on end.

494
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: I don't think and correct me if I'm wrong. I

495
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: don't know if men I feel like I hear and

496
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: maybe it's because it's my friends who talked about it,

497
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 1: but I feel like women really do struggle with gut

498
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: health and having regular poop schedules, and I feel like

499
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: guys don't get it. So they're like, you, like, why

500
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: are we still talking about poop? Yeah, I think seeing

501
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: because I don't seem to have a problem. I literally

502
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: asked the girl to who may just thrive? I was like,

503
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,719
Speaker 1: is there something with girls don't poop as well as boys?

504
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: Because that seems to be the case, and um, A

505
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: lot a lot of it has to do with your emotions.

506
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, it is like emotion we hold.

507
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: I know for myself. I don't know if you want

508
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: to keep going on this, but I know for myself,

509
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: if I wake up and I have to work early

510
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: in the morning, I won't get a poop all day.

511
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: If I can wake up and chill for like an hour,

512
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: it'll probably happen, and then my day is rocking. It

513
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: gets the day started the right way. It's so it's

514
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: so crazy to say that because I think that's my problem.

515
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: When you say you go multiple times a day, I'm like,

516
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: I don't think I've done that since I was like

517
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: five years old. But when I wake up in the morning,

518
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: I wake up and I hit the ground running. I

519
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: don't give myself time to go to the bathroom, Like, honestly,

520
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: I really don't. I know, if I have to like

521
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: work out at eight, I'll get up at like six

522
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: thirty and I'll have breakfast in bed. I'll chill with

523
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: my baby and my husband, and I'll be like, we're cooking.

524
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: We're cooking, you know, like I smell coffee. It's different,

525
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: do different? Okay? Do you all have a store? Like

526
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: some people say if they walk into like Barnes and

527
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: Noble or TJ Max, like they instantly have to go.

528
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: Have you all experienced where there? I can't. I can't

529
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: relate to that, but I thought that was interesting because

530
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people have that. Not a store. I

531
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: don't know. It's like I just know it's yeah, he

532
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: just he just doesn't get it done. And then right

533
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: after they're also the same way, I'll be like, where

534
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: the f for you? He's like like all day long,

535
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: that's all he does. What does Darrell do? He's in

536
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: the bathroom again, he's a great digestion. Well, I'm happy

537
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: for him, happy for you two, Ryan, and happy for

538
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: us that we get probiotics and other insights. I just

539
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: try just thrive. It's okay, Well changed my life, so

540
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: I have a question because y'all are siblings doing a

541
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: podcast together. We're best friends, Like we're best friends and

542
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: we started this podcast, and a lot of people, I think,

543
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes mixing work with your closest relationships, a

544
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: lot of people kind of steer clear of that to

545
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: avoid you know, have you all had that yet? I

546
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: know anytime time you saw me mostly was like my

547
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: bros there because he was my videographer and photographer. So

548
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: he've been working together for years. We love it. Finally, um,

549
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: he did have a meltdown recently where he's like, I

550
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: don't want to be your I don't want to be

551
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: an employee anymore. I want to be your bro. And

552
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 1: so he's not taking my pictures anymore. Still an employee,

553
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: but it's like a cooler job. Likes to me like

554
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: it's still the color is not right. I'm like, we

555
00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: still work together whatever. I like. Yeah, I think it's

556
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: because we lived together and we're used to that environment

557
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: where it's I can be like, yo, bro, you like

558
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: you need to fix this. Yeah, we're from Massachusetts all

559
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: the time. Gets a little like oh my god, like

560
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: respect you. I was like, why you just said do better?

561
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: It is easier to yell at siblings than anyone else,

562
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: So to have those like conversations where you're like, that's

563
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: you're not doing it right. That's also why I refused

564
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: to ever have an assistant until I really need them

565
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: one day. But my mom is my assistant because I

566
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: feel much better being like Mom, we watched the kid

567
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: when we going to work out, you know, yeah, I

568
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: don't want a stranger coming over and be like can

569
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: you get this? Do you feel like being mom? Did

570
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: you have this idea of what um like motherhood and

571
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: pregnancy and all that would look like versus the reality

572
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: of it? Because I have this idea of when I

573
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: have a child that I'm gonna do to have this

574
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: blissful experience. But the more people are talking about it

575
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: on social media and being open about the experience, I'm like,

576
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: this could really go in the opposite direction from don't

577
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: let us scare you, don't let us scare you. There

578
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: are there's many things that are not on the internet.

579
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: If you could imagine that they're they're not in books.

580
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: I didn't take any classes, so maybe that was my problem,

581
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: but it was COVID. I was like, yeah, I figured, um,

582
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: but there's so many things that nobody tells you, like

583
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: like big things like how to breastfeed right, what it's

584
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: like if he flips and you have to do a

585
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: C section? Now they just send the doctors are like,

586
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: so when you want to book it, you know it's

587
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: very because they do this every day. So I am

588
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: writing a book. Ryan laughs at me because he's like, sure,

589
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna write. She read a couple of books. Now

590
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm gonna write a book. I know I

591
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: know everything because nobody told me like eighteen things and

592
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: I'm partnering up with a nice lady and we're gonna

593
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: write it together. She's had two kids, and I'm asking

594
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: everyone there are different opinions, but um, I was like

595
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: stoked to be a mom, like always since I was

596
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: like twenty two, I was like, I can't wait to

597
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: get knocked up. I'm about us And uh so when

598
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: I was pregnant, I didn't know about justational diabetes and

599
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: I got that and I was like, what, Like it's

600
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: supposed to be like freedom, I can eat whatever I want.

601
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 1: What do you mean? So, um, there's like bumps in

602
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: the road that nobody tells you about, and a C

603
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: section was like fantastic going in, but the recovery is

604
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: so um. And then he was in the Nike. There's

605
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: like a thousand. The other problem is it's not the

606
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: same for every person, always different, so you can't be

607
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: like expect this because they might not have that. I

608
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: had zero back pain my whole pregnacy. I had no

609
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: back pain. I had the last few minutes I couldn't.

610
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 1: I was a heavy gal. I was. I waited a

611
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: lot at my math my max capacity. I was like

612
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: like watch out. I slept on the couch. Yeah, I

613
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: was a big guy. Um, but yeah, you can't. You

614
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: can't even give advice that you can just unless you've

615
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: had experienced that too. But it's agin you do, forget

616
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: all the misery and you go can't wait for number two.

617
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,959
Speaker 1: I know, I I That's why I feel like people.

618
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 1: I have some friends who during the pregnancy were like,

619
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: I will never do this again. I cannot put my

620
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: body through this. I'm never taking the risk the baby is.

621
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: I think she's too now, and there's like, yeah, we've

622
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: been talking about another one. I'm like, huh, remember some

623
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: conversations that are very different from this one. My period

624
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,399
Speaker 1: right now is m I a UM, which is very

625
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 1: exciting and frightening. But I took a test and it

626
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: is negative. So I think another thing that nobody tells

627
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 1: you is that your periods don't come back super regular

628
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 1: after you stopped breastfeeding. So but when I told my husband,

629
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 1: like I took a test and I joked around and

630
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: I was like, it's pregnant, he was like so happy.

631
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 1: And when I told him it was a lie, he

632
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: was like, why would you do that? Like almost cried

633
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, you're ready like that,

634
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: It's like give me. Yeah, I'm like king a fit

635
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: journey trying to I'm trying to be so fit that

636
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't have just sational diabetes next time, even though

637
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: it's genetic. But also I want to I want to

638
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: be that person too that had to see section the

639
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: first time and then pushes it out the second time. Yeah,

640
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: my sister did that. Then I could really write a

641
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: book of like oven. You know my sister did that,

642
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: so you can do that. See it happened. Yeah, I'm

643
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 1: gonna do it. But no, I actually have an interesting

644
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: question because I was watching I saw this real or

645
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 1: was it was either a real or TikTok. I'm not sure,

646
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: but it was like this girl and it kept saying like,

647
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: as a woman, it's when you're single, Uh, why aren't

648
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: you dating? Why don't you have a boyfriend? Once you

649
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: get a boyfriend's when you getting engaged, When you get engaged,

650
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 1: When are you getting married? When you get married, it's

651
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: when you're having a baby. When you have a baby,

652
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 1: it's when are you having another baby? Megan, do you

653
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: feel like you get that a lot? And then on

654
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: the flip side, Ryan, do you feel as a man

655
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: do you feel that? Because yeah, I'll answer for him. Um,

656
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 1: I pressure him a lot, like don't you want to

657
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,919
Speaker 1: sold me? She's the only one. Yeah. Everyone's just like, dude, dude,

658
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: you're doing everything right to relax children. Even I'm like,

659
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 1: she's like you get it going. I'm like, you did

660
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: it your way. Yeah. And any human I talked to

661
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: you was like, when's the next one? It's so weird.

662
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: It's like not like nineteen sixty anymore or whatever, like

663
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 1: just everyone does. We're weird. Me and Darryl were like

664
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: we should become one, I mean, and they were like,

665
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: you're a baby. You're so young for this year. They

666
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: thought that they treated me like I was sixteen years old,

667
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, I love this, but anyone if

668
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 1: you're like thirty two in the hospital called geriatric, I'm like, what, Yeah,

669
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 1: it's pretty wild because I just feel like it is.

670
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: It's such a it's such a gender thing, you know,

671
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: like we and for me, for I was single for

672
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: so long and like the question was, why aren't you

673
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:16,439
Speaker 1: dating anybody? Why haven't you found somebody special? And it's like, girl, Also,

674
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,800
Speaker 1: congrats ma'am because you look so happy on Instagram and

675
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you. Remember you did your whole

676
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: Dear Future Husband book and I love thank you, thank you.

677
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: And I did my calling in the one and I

678
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: and I called him in and he's wonderful and so

679
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: so great and definitely it was worth the weight. But

680
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 1: it's like the second I started dating him, it was

681
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: like okay, now everyone's like asking, like, you know, when's

682
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: the engagement did, and it's like, oh, but for so long,

683
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: it was just like that'll never stop and then I'll

684
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: be forever. I've just like accepted it, and you just

685
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: you're like, okay, cool, yeah, we're going to take a piece.

686
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 1: And it's not even like oh, because I'm being interviewed.

687
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: It's like, no, it's just humans, Like that's just their nature.

688
00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: Especially the older generations are like, what's you know. It's

689
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: so it's like why can't we just like sit in

690
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: the moment for a second, just like enjoy it. But

691
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 1: it's interesting that Ryan you said, like, aside from Megan,

692
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: nobody pressures you into anything. I mean, well, but Mommy

693
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: is like mom was like maybe she's the one or

694
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: like she goes like this, she goes like, oh my god.

695
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:28,760
Speaker 1: We're like like for him, she's big plans, big plans.

696
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: I like, not her, though. I mean my buddy's girlfriends.

697
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: You know, they get a little buzzgal and they'll just

698
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: be like, oh right, like let's think about Ryan's type

699
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find Ryan and girl like if they

700
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 1: get a little drunk. I'm like, because all my friends

701
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: have girlfriends pretty much special. After the quarantine, a lot

702
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: of them are like, all right, we're locking this one.

703
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: Oh really you got sober instead? Yeah, mental breakdown. It's

704
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: not on the mental breakdown, but congrats onthing. So yeah

705
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: you to go down to final rock bottom. It's great.

706
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: It was good for all of us. It's it's it's

707
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: it's good. He's you know, I just have to feel

708
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: all my emotions and I hate it. But interesting podcast

709
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: because like it's our family therapy because he doesn't love therapy,

710
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: but we get to talk it all out right. To

711
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: be honest, like I just last I've been in therapy

712
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 1: for a year, and I am the same way. I

713
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: still feel so vulnerable feeling my emotions, Like I still

714
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: even though I know it's been so helpful for me,

715
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: I still like when I feel myself wanting to cry

716
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: talking about something, I'm like no, no, no, no, no

717
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: no no, like blocket, blocket, bocket. But then I'm like,

718
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: oh no, this is part of the growth. Yeah, I

719
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 1: push it down. I get that, but I'm I'm really honestly,

720
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: it's such an accomplishment, you know, to like let yourself

721
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: feel and to get through that kind of stuff. So

722
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 1: seriously proud of you. That's really cool. It's almost like

723
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: taking a great boot. It's full circle. Nobody think it

724
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: is interesting because I think that like I'm one of

725
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,439
Speaker 1: those people where I feel my feelings and I feel

726
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: like I'm the person that looks in the mirror and cries,

727
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: like I watched myself crossed. He's like, I kind of

728
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: feel like Megan, You're the same way. Yeah. Yeah, I

729
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 1: love to cry. Um, I cry, and you can't. I

730
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: can't good happy cries and sad yeah yeah, and then

731
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: like you put on sad music that, like you know,

732
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: will get you in your fields. Yes. I used to

733
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: do that, especially in high school, and I would go

734
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: through a breakup. I put on high school today that

735
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: like a year ago. But so Bryan, when you're when

736
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: you go on dates and stuff, do you try to

737
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:00,919
Speaker 1: keep it like are you seeing your sister in such

738
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: a very public relationship, Like do you think in your

739
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: mind it's something that's more private to you? Or you

740
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: kind of like, once I find someone, I'm going to

741
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: be you know, because I have I'm I'm in a relationship,

742
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: but it's private. I don't it's not a public thing.

743
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 1: So you know, it can be complicated, especially because my

744
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 1: whole job in life is sharing my life. And um,

745
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: but you know, I had a public relationship and now

746
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: I'm in one that's not public, and it's like there's

747
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: pros and cons to it. It's like my own, it's ours,

748
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 1: and I don't, you know, I have to worry about

749
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: people's opinions of it. Who aren't um in my life,

750
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: I guess on a personal level. But there's also something

751
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: really cool about sharing your love. So I kind of

752
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: go back and forth on if and when I will

753
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: share it. Yeah. I mean, well, I'm in a situation

754
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: where I'm like not dating at all. I'm literally trying

755
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: to figure out who I am as a person, how

756
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: to be a person with like alcohol, I feel like

757
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: that was my whole identity. It was just in a

758
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:09,240
Speaker 1: booze bag, which is terribly Yeah, I had like commitment issues,

759
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: so I never really had like a serious relationship in

760
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: the last like ten years. Um. But it depends on

761
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,240
Speaker 1: the person, I guess. But yeah, I like to post

762
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: if you know, find someone that's that's fine whatever they

763
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: want to do. I don't really care that we're also

764
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: like I don't feel I don't think of me and

765
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: they're all very public. Yeah, Like I don't think we're

766
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: that cool. I think you're a lot cooler than yeah,

767
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: like people care about Yeah, like people were they like

768
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: what happened where they like mean they commented about your

769
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: relationship ones or something. No, I think it was just

770
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: um I came from I was on the Bachelor, and

771
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: so like all people cared about was my love life.

772
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: So I think then I had a relationship and I

773
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 1: felt like I remember feeling like, you know, we were

774
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: going to break up, and I still like there was

775
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 1: this high of posting photos and then when I stopped,

776
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: I was like, well, what happened? What happened? It felt

777
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 1: like all of a sudden, I'm going through a breakup

778
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: and people are strangers, are in my business, and so

779
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: it's kind of this whole thing. So it was just different.

780
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: It does like mine, it does like mess with your

781
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 1: mind a little bit because my my boyfriend I broke

782
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: up for like a small a few months and I

783
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: like was wrecked, like so shattered and like I couldn't

784
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: talk about it because I would just cry. Like I

785
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: was like I actually physically can't, Like I got to

786
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: call Ryan and like tell him, but I was like

787
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: I can't talk about on the air because I'll lose it.

788
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: And it's interesting because it's like after that, I was like,

789
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, now I'm like I'm kind of like

790
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you built something up,

791
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, for me, and like I love I love

792
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: the love and I love to share, but then when

793
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: it fell apart, I like freaked out, like I just

794
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. So now I'm like, but

795
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: it's so hard for me, Like I can't like I

796
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: just want to post him all the time. I'm like,

797
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with you. What happens with this podcast If

798
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: I do meet someone and I do start talking about

799
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, you know who will

800
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: be upset? A lot of the fans that really really

801
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: a day Ryan, Do you know what I un to say?

802
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: I used to want to date Ryan. I literally as

803
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: soon as you popped up, I was like, I've seen

804
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: him before, and I was like, I remember telling you

805
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: showed me photos of him because she was like, Megan's

806
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: brother is so cute. Yeah, yeah, I swear, I swear

807
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: I didn't tell you. Megan. Hell no, I would have

808
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 1: looked it up. I think, Yeah, no, I totally I don't.

809
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: I don't remember what year, but I remember specifically, like

810
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: what it was at this like Jonah's brother's party. It

811
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,959
Speaker 1: was like at Philly Mack and we were like waiting

812
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 1: in life at the bathroom together and I was like,

813
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, Megan's brother is really cute and like

814
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: you my day. And then then I came home and

815
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: I told Becca about it, and I was like, what

816
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 1: do I do? But I think we fell flat at

817
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: well No, I think I think because you're you said

818
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: your twenty eight. I don't know if they're because at

819
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: that time, yeah, I don't know. I wanted a serious

820
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: related I think I think it was kind of like

821
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't Yeah, she was looking for everything correct, Yeah,

822
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: you let me know when you're like ready today, I

823
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: can get you this book. It's called Calling In the

824
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 1: one there's a homework assignments in it. Every day for

825
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: seven weeks you have homework. But I'm telling you gets

826
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: you in this mindset where you're like, wow, I really

827
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: realize this is what I want, this one I'm looking

828
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: for on this one, I'm calling in that's what he

829
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 1: needs to because if you ask him, he'd be like, well,

830
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't think. I think there's a lot of um.

831
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: There's also a lot of pressure of people being like,

832
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: what's your type? What are you looking for? And if

833
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: you all you write it. Everyone has the opportunity to

834
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: write everything they're looking for on paper. But then you

835
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,919
Speaker 1: meet someone and it's like the piece of paper kind

836
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: of means nothing, like I think you have your non

837
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: negotiables in certain ways, but I think with everything, it's

838
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: all about that connection that you have with someone, like

839
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: you refer to Darryl as your soul me, like you

840
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: like you knew beyond what could be written down, that

841
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: he was the one. I talked about this a lot

842
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 1: to my girlfriends, to who are looking on, like I

843
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: never had a specific type, and I have a friend

844
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: who was like, only tall, dark hair, no blonde. I'm like,

845
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: all right, but you can see my track record is

846
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: like opposite looking human beings. But I was like, I

847
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: refused to marry a redhead and have redhead babies, and

848
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: I got me a red head baby. Anything is possible,

849
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: so true. I think that's I really think I focus

850
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: so much on writing down like my dream guy, which

851
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: is really funny because it couldn't be more opposite. And

852
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: I just think people spend so much time doing that,

853
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: and then you meet someone and it kind of all

854
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 1: goes out the window. So I say, calling the one

855
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: because she did and it worked if you're ready, but

856
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: just when you're ready. But there is homework, but it's good.

857
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: It's a good kind it's really self reflective. Okay, baby, yeah,

858
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: because I hate homework, always have always no, no, But

859
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: it's like good homework, Like it makes you realize, like

860
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: the patterns that you have in dating and like getting

861
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: rid of them. It's good. Trust me, it's it's another

862
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 1: thing you love. It's therapy. I never think any of that. Yeah,

863
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 1: only one girl in high school has ever been Ryan's girlfriend,

864
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: just like classic l a. But like yeah, but they

865
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: don't call each other a girlfriend boyfriend. We're all just

866
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:40,399
Speaker 1: like what is it? Label it, tell us what it is. Yeah. Yeah,

867
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: that's another thing too. When you date us, you date

868
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: our family. It's great, it really, I mean that is

869
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: like and I imagine having you as a sister in

870
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: law would be the best ever grand time. Like a champion,

871
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 1: a champion, healthy, the owner, Honey, I'll take care of me.

872
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: It's vacation vacations. You're welcome to every vacation. Cute. We'll

873
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 1: put it out there, the scrubbers, the scrubbers, and they'll

874
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: be sending an application. So just wait, can y'all tell

875
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,280
Speaker 1: us where we can find people can listen to your podcast,

876
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: everything else you have going on, and can you have

877
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,320
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff fine on So definitely tell everybody

878
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 1: where they can catch you. Oh lord, um, you can

879
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: catch me if you love cooking shows. She's a host

880
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: of a TV show Top Chef Family Style. It's on Peakalk.

881
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: Who said that? Weird? And then I have a news

882
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: show where I'm a judging cover bands with Ester Dean

883
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: and Adam Lambert, which is sick and Um. That's on

884
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Speaker 1: e Clash of the Cover Bands produced by Jimmy Fallon

885
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 1: There it is where I'm on his show. Pretty exciting.

886
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: And then I'm also doing my podcast, working on it

887
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 1: with my big bro Ryan in and that's everywhere working

888
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 1: on it, paw dot com working and you can questions

889
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 1: all socials, follow us, subscribe, smash that button. I'm running

890
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 1: the New York City Marathon for Boston Children's Talking Yes,

891
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: like is in my Instagram bio Ryan dot Trainer. It's

892
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 1: for a great cause. And a sweet little girl named

893
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: Hanna Hannah. She's like six, She's so cute. Um. And

894
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: then oh, I'm a mom um and I have a

895
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: son and he's the greatest and the best husby husband

896
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: husband ever. His name is Riley. I wanted him to

897
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,320
Speaker 1: be in this, but I think he's a napty. I

898
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: think next time, yeah, next time. They like, well, I

899
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: definitely feel like we'll see all again. Yes, a collaboration. Yeah, great, nappy,

900
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: how is it? It's not back yet, It's not back yet.

901
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: This week. Actually, last season was like a tough one

902
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 1: to get through. Honestly, I had some had some it

903
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 1: had some eyes and had someone mose My husband and

904
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 1: I like in the in the quarantine in the beginning,

905
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 1: he never saw it and I made him wash it,

906
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 1: and he was from the beginning the best. But around

907
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: season seven he was like, come board, and I'm like,

908
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 1: it's gonna get good. Just keep going please. Yeah, yeah,

909
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: at least get through the plane crash episode like epic events. Yeah,

910
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: there's still more past season seven, so keep him on

911
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 1: that train, the track. But this last one was yeah,

912
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: Peaks and Valley. Um, we love you guys, congrats on

913
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: the podcast and everything you have going on, and um,

914
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 1: hopefully we'll see you again really soon. Yes, I love

915
00:51:47,360 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: you guy. Guys. Alright, we love a Megan Trainer moment

916
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: and love a Ryan Trainer moment. It's so funny thinking

917
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 1: that we were I remember you thinking he was cute

918
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: and we were like what about you were like, what

919
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: about Megan's younger brother? And I didn't even realize how

920
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: much younger he was because I was thinking. I was like,

921
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: why did I ever explore that option? And I think

922
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: I remember we discovered his age, yeah, and it sounds

923
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: like he was really living not parallel lines. I want

924
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,439
Speaker 1: a husband and I'm going to go for a guy

925
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:38,919
Speaker 1: that's sixth nineteen partying every weekend. Um. They're really great,

926
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,759
Speaker 1: so make sure you'll check out working on it. UM.

927
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 1: I think we have an email mark if you wanted

928
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 1: to hop into that. Thank you very much, Becca, something Juliana.

929
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 1: I play so much value on my friendships, and I

930
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: always have. I've been single for many years now, and

931
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: I've sort of always had to carry Breadshaw mentality of

932
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: maybe our girlfriends are our soul mate. Lately, however, I've

933
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: just been feeling a little hurt by some friends in

934
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 1: the sense that I feel like I put all the

935
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: effort into the relationship and it's not really reciprocated. I

936
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,280
Speaker 1: watched Becca's story when she was sick and Tanya dropped

937
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: off a goodie box at her front door. Becca said

938
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: that everyone needs a Tanya in their life, So my

939
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: question is, what if you are the Tanya but you

940
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: don't feel appreciated for it. Have you ever had a

941
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 1: time in your life when you felt like you had

942
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 1: friends but none that really appreciated you, or maybe just

943
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: didn't care as much as you do? What would you do?

944
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: It's so interesting because I think that people show that

945
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: they care and people show love and in different ways,

946
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 1: and so for me, it's like, I don't necessarily feel appreciated.

947
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: If I make somebody a box, I could get well boxed.

948
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 1: I don't expect Becca to like make me a feel

949
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: good box or do you know what I mean? Like,

950
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: I don't ever expect or feel appreciated in the same

951
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: ways that I express love and being and caring about people.

952
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: So uh, yeah, I have had friends in the past

953
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: that I feel like, you know, but honestly that was

954
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 1: a lot younger. I feel like my friendships now are

955
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: mutually beneficial, like we both I have both parties and

956
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: my relationships that are equally giving and are there. And

957
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: you know, some help you when they help me when

958
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 1: I'm low, I help them when they're low. But I

959
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: feel like when I was I think when I was

960
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: just graduating from college, I went through a lot of

961
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: those phases with some friends that you know, they gave

962
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: me a lot of crap for not going out to

963
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: the clubs with them or things like that, because I

964
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: was just starting out with my with my career and

965
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: I had early call times and I just wasn't going

966
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: out with them, And I remember having to have some

967
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: friendship breakups because it just wasn't a good relationship for me.

968
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: And so I think, if you're feeling that way, you

969
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: really kind of just need to examine if this person

970
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 1: really cares about you, if this is something that is

971
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: important to you, and if so, express what you're feeling,

972
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:02,399
Speaker 1: and if not, then move on. Yeah, I was gonna say,

973
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 1: Tanya like her gift your gifts, since you're sitting right

974
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: next to me, is gift giving and like showing up

975
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: and doing things for people, And it's like not every

976
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: like a very few people that I know in my

977
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: life are as considerate as Tania in that way. Like

978
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: I remember years ago, she went on a date with

979
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: a guy and they talked about cookies that he liked

980
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:26,839
Speaker 1: or something, and they went on one day and then

981
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: he went back to Texas or something, and she's like,

982
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 1: I think, I think I'm gonna send him a basket

983
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: of the cookies because we talked about how much you

984
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: love them. And I'm like, oh, no, you need to

985
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: do that, you know. But that's really nice and thoughtful.

986
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: And Dannya has always been that way, Like she's always

987
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: been the person who showed up with like a box,

988
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,919
Speaker 1: you know. And so I think, um, I remember that guy. Yeah,

989
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: And she's never I don't think. I mean, I genuinely

990
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: don't think that she expects that in return when she

991
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 1: does it. She does it because it's what her Her

992
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: love languages is like gift giving, and she's just very

993
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: thoughtful that way. Um, But I do think I was

994
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: having this conversation weirdly last night about how like not

995
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: everyone gets to have a best friend, you know, like

996
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: not everyone has a best friend in their life, and

997
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,439
Speaker 1: especially as an adult, and I was saying, I feel

998
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: so lucky that I have so many close friendships and

999
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: people that I feel like I can rely on and

1000
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,919
Speaker 1: that are supportive of me, because a lot of people

1001
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: don't have that like connection with anyone, much less multiple people.

1002
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: And um, I think sometimes as you get older, you

1003
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: kind of realize, like, what's the value in that friendship,

1004
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 1: like are you doing things expecting things in return? Are

1005
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: you doing them? And it's this equal balance of like

1006
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: showing up for each other in different ways where you

1007
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: can and like when you specifically need certain things. Um,

1008
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: but I think you start to weed out the friendships

1009
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: that aren't that you're not getting anything from, because when

1010
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: you're constantly giving, eventually there becomes resentment because even if

1011
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: you're not receiving in the same way you're giving, if

1012
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: you're not receiving anything across the map, sometimes those friendships

1013
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: are it's time to say goodbye. That was good for

1014
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: a season, and you know, invest into other relationships that

1015
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: you feel fulfilled by. That's my advice. You know what's

1016
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: interesting though, And I was actually talking about this the

1017
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: other day, um, because I threw everything into like my relationships,

1018
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: my friendships for so long, and I feel like when

1019
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: you get into a relationship, naturally your time goes to

1020
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: your significant other and that you know that relationship and

1021
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: that partnership, and you can't dedicate and give as much

1022
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: time to your friendships as you did in the past,

1023
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: Like you just physically can't do it. And yet even

1024
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 1: though I'm trying to, like, uh, go against the grain

1025
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: and like sometimes I feel like I spread myself too thin. Um.

1026
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: I've had my friends, like my best friends, they know

1027
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 1: if I haven't seen them in like two weeks, they don't.

1028
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 1: They know it's not because you know, I hate them,

1029
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: I hate them or care any less about them. Like

1030
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm constantly checking and over text messages, are having phone calls, um,

1031
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: And they're like so happy for me in this phase

1032
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 1: of life, you know what I mean. I think that's

1033
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: so different because I think also when you're younger or

1034
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: more immature, people get like pissed when you get into

1035
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: a relationship and you start spending all your time with

1036
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 1: somebody like that, And so it's just cool. I think

1037
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,919
Speaker 1: a lot of it comes with maturity, um. And also

1038
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: the right people. So find those people. Find those people,

1039
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: find them, they will find you find you. Also, I'm

1040
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: very excited about the Meredith and Scott Speedman relationship forming

1041
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: on Gray's Anatomy. You are, Yeah, I really like him

1042
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:48,439
Speaker 1: and there's like a cute chemistry that I haven't really

1043
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: seen her with anyone else that they've tried to match

1044
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: her with. Yeah, I agree with that. I'm more hopeful

1045
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: for this one than any of the other ones in

1046
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: recent years, including Hayes. Yeah, there's been a lot about

1047
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: on board with DeLuca, and then they really took a

1048
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: sharp turn and said nope, I'm not doing that. They

1049
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: just killed him like that, like justice for DeLuca? Who

1050
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: are we mad at about that? He didn't deserve that

1051
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: you wanted? I don't know. We'll never know. I guess

1052
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: I'll never know. Isn't Shawna's decision, I think, I mean,

1053
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: I think there's multiple show runners, so yeah, I don't

1054
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: think so. I don't think she's very actually involved with

1055
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: the storylines anymore. Well, we forgive you. That's healthy. That's

1056
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 1: healthy relationship right there. Crazy not me? By the way,

1057
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 1: did you try and spam Kevin McKidd What does spam mean? Oh?

1058
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: Because I genuinely feel like he has pull over in

1059
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: the Grays world and if anybody can make us extras,

1060
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 1: it's him. So I was tagging the hell out of

1061
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: him last week, being like whatever, no response. We can't

1062
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: decide if he runs his uh social media account or

1063
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: if he has someone doing it for him, So we're

1064
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: not sure what angle we should take, like being overly

1065
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 1: aggressive or I don't know what the other option, right

1066
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: like I went subtle with the tagging, but I might

1067
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 1: need to go boulder with a d M. I mean,

1068
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 1: what do you have to lose? Yeah, long gone, long gone?

1069
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: That left in twenty five? Or what this is when

1070
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 1: you know it's time to end the thousand five? Two

1071
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 1: thousand five, it's a long time from now. It's like

1072
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: the year twenty five? No, what's the year? East of

1073
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: another that Kelly Clarkson is gon gonna be number one

1074
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: and they're gonna seeing underwater Jonas Brothers. Yeah, that's the

1075
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: title of the song is called Yeah, originally a song

1076
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 1: by Busted, the UK pop band that people seem to

1077
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 1: always forget about or have never heard of in the

1078
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: first place. But everyone listening, listen. Go listen to Busted.

1079
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 1: They're so good. Everything they do is great. Listen to

1080
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: Crash the Wedding. We listen to your three thousand, They're

1081
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: so good. Oh yeah, Wait, And I also, I know

1082
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 1: you don't watch ted Lasso, but I'm not. And they

1083
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: just aired the finale of this season and I'm not

1084
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 1: there yet. I don't know what. I think. I'm close

1085
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: to the last one. But there's this episode that's all

1086
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 1: about Beard and it is so not like any of

1087
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: the other episodes. It was so weird. It was like

1088
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 1: painful to get through. I was like, what a weird episode?

1089
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: Have you either of you seen that? No? Not yet.

1090
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm working my way through. But I love I love

1091
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 1: Bottle episodes. I love the occasional random episode. It is

1092
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: so random and I was like kind of getting annoyed

1093
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: because there's start, there's a storyline that I'm very intrigued

1094
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: with that I just want to see more of, and

1095
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: like that episode ended on such like a high with

1096
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: this storyline, and then the next episode airs and it's

1097
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: like random and bad? How dare they? How dare Then

1098
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: it's like they didn't even consider you and what you wanted.

1099
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: There's the scene with ted Lasso. This is what this is.

1100
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: Honestly the reason why ted Lasso was such a bus

1101
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: for me because Danny did this laughter and then I

1102
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,439
Speaker 1: saw the scene and I was like, no, So he's

1103
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 1: in the hospital with like this with the therapist and

1104
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: he's like asked the nurse. He's like, does she have

1105
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: a blood blah blah and the nurse says no, and

1106
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 1: he does she have a I don't know what the

1107
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:45,680
Speaker 1: words are? And she says no, but you know a

1108
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 1: lot about brain stuff, and he goes, I've watched a

1109
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: lot of grays and out of me and I was like, A, yeah,

1110
01:02:55,880 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: that feels that feels significant. It that story is way

1111
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: better than the first. In the gaming, it was good.

1112
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: I was giggling. Are we winded it a couple of times?

1113
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 1: As you do? Um? Are we gonna go on to

1114
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: walk today? We've been doing our walks actually, which is can.

1115
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: I'm way too busy, but I love you so much. Um,

1116
01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: you know, like I have like books like on the

1117
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: hour right today, on the hour, please go through those

1118
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: things again. It's too much right now, too much as

1119
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 1: I need to eat first before I can think about

1120
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: anything else. That's the main focus. Going back to a

1121
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:37,920
Speaker 1: Roman cafe to get my wrap, Tanya like, well, Tanya

1122
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: will order like a side of tuna with like lettuce leaves,

1123
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 1: and then I won't finish my rap and she'll eat

1124
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: the whole thing, and I'm like, why didn't we just

1125
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: split one of these for what? For you to just

1126
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 1: be like you were perfectly healthy? Even though my wrap

1127
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: was like perfectly fin It's because I had already eaten

1128
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 1: lunch that day and I was going out to dinner,

1129
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 1: and so I didn't really want to eat, but I

1130
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 1: was a little hungry. You ate the whole half of

1131
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 1: our and my curly fries. Tony doesn't limit herself to

1132
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 1: the good food as much as you think she does.

1133
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: She loves a French fry. I do. I don't order

1134
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: it for myself, but if it's at the table, I

1135
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 1: will nibble, which is one of my biggest pet peeves.

1136
01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: But I had a huge plateful, so I let it slide.

1137
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: But normally I'm like, order your own fries. Two types

1138
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: of people in this world, the Shares and the Carols.

1139
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 1: It's like ches, leeches, whatever if you want. I didn't

1140
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: want them, but they look so delighted want them. This

1141
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 1: is that mine game you play with yourself. Oh I'd

1142
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: much rather have a Salaman pizza. You don't you yourself

1143
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: because when the pizza comes, you want to slice of

1144
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: it and you're not getting gonna finish your salad. This

1145
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 1: is your brain game. I haven't seen curly fries and

1146
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 1: like a long time, and they were they were exquisite

1147
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,320
Speaker 1: about to order some more today. So what's on the

1148
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: agenda for the next five six hours that you can't

1149
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 1: for Hawaii timorrow, so I have like, yeah, just like

1150
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff getting ready for a trip. Fine

1151
01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: fair CBS. Yeah that to my hourly schedule. Do you

1152
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: pack snacks for your trips? No, I'm like perfectly content

1153
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 1: getting on that I eat before. I might get one

1154
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: of the snacks that they offer on the plane, or

1155
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 1: go to like one of those little you know stores

1156
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 1: before and get some like chips and a drink or something.

1157
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: But like, I don't pack all my Like I'm like,

1158
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm an adult. I can make it six hours without

1159
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: having to eat if I need to or having one snack.

1160
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 1: I know. I don't know why I have this mentality

1161
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 1: of when I'm traveling, I have to have snacks with

1162
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 1: me in case, like God forbid, something happens to like

1163
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 1: I'm the car when I get to my destination and

1164
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 1: we're like stuck on a freeway or like I don't

1165
01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 1: even know, lots of entertainment for yourself to watch on

1166
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 1: the way, so you don't have to be stuck if

1167
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: there's no entertainment on the plane. I have some podcast downloaded,

1168
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 1: so okay, I love a crime junkie session. There you go. Um,

1169
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 1: but Tanya and are more alike than they are different.

1170
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: I'll say that because I have to deal with the

1171
01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: snack thing with both of these loony's every time we

1172
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 1: go somewhere. By the way, when we went to Vegas,

1173
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: I packed like, um, like a little snack pack of grapes,

1174
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: and I did it for I packed one for every person.

1175
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: And I got in this car and red Star. I

1176
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 1: was like, you packed one for every person, like no

1177
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 1: one's gonna want to eat it. I never off everybody

1178
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 1: didn't get pack it. I was like, thank you. Well,

1179
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 1: like if food's given to me, I eat it. It's

1180
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 1: just that I don't expect it, or like it's I

1181
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: don't do it for myself. So if someone else is like, here,

1182
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 1: I brought you some grapes in a bag, and be like,

1183
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, thank you so much, and eat the

1184
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: grape like pop an organic grape in your mouth besides

1185
01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 1: over like a salty nut. Did I ever tell the

1186
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 1: story about when the first time I went up to

1187
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: we went to the Ivy, which is in it's Hollywood

1188
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. When I lived in San Diego, ahead just

1189
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: moved from Louisiana, and so we had seen like a

1190
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 1: bunch of celebrities. Jin Annison went to the IVY and

1191
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: was always like photographed coming out. So when we drove

1192
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: up to l A for the first time ever, we

1193
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 1: went we made a reservation at that ivy and I'm

1194
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: looking at the menu and they were like chicken en

1195
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: schiladas or something that said free range chicken, and I

1196
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 1: did I had never seen that before on the menu,

1197
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 1: so I asked the waiter. I was like, um, excuse me,

1198
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: and of course my accent was probably so Southern at

1199
01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 1: the time, and I was like, can you what is

1200
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 1: free range mean? And he goes, they're just not in

1201
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 1: like cages. That makes me feel kind of better. And

1202
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: he was like, that just means they're you know, not

1203
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: in cages. And I was like, okay, so it tastes

1204
01:07:55,840 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: the same. He's like, yes, this sweatshop chickens. Maybe I

1205
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 1: kind of like that taste better. But I went back

1206
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 1: to I went to the IVY this weekend, probably like

1207
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 1: one of the first times I've been back since then,

1208
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 1: and I was like giggling thinking about it. Really come

1209
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 1: a long way, proud of you. Thank you. Well you

1210
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 1: didn't know either, sob like I've seen that a bunch

1211
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 1: and I've never questioned it, but then when you said that,

1212
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, do I actually know what it means? Yeah,

1213
01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 1: it just means they're not kept in like pages. When

1214
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: you go to the farmer, when you buy your produce

1215
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: from or when you buy your meat from my local farmers,

1216
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:30,879
Speaker 1: they tell you how they like they kill the animals

1217
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: and like that they pray over them, and like, yeah,

1218
01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 1: emotional almost makes me not want to eat. I know,

1219
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 1: it's very intense, Like I have a weird feeling about it,

1220
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 1: but I like, I don't know, I don't know. I

1221
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 1: like knowing. Okay, Well, on this note, we're actually going

1222
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 1: to in the podcast now and we will be back

1223
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 1: next week, and I hope you all have a good week.

1224
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:54,040
Speaker 1: Me too. I love you so much. Love you. Listen

1225
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: ever more, stream evermore.