1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: Hello everyone, welcome to the Almost in Its podcast. It 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: is just me today, and it's it's not because Ben's 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 2: on here. It's because he thought that it would be 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: fun that we just had some girl talk. So I'm 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 2: with Gabby Windley and Rachel Rekya, who are basically like 8 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: a couple. You guys are really like you came. 9 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: Out as a couple of Bachelor Nation. 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 2: We'd be so devastated if you guys were to ever 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 2: break up. 12 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 4: Never you would like to announce her no longer friends. 13 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: After lots of consideration. It's heartbreaking for us to announce 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 2: that we just you know, we. 15 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 4: Wish each other the best, but stay away from me. 16 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: Well that's great that that is not going to happen ever, 17 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,319 Speaker 2: But I gotta talk about your exes, Like, let's just 18 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 2: jump into X talk, right please, because both of you 19 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: did not stay with your fiances very long. 20 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: Guilty. 21 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: Let's get into like just the conversations that you guys 22 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: would have getting off the show. Did you guys internally 23 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 2: feel insecure that like, the other one had a stronger 24 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: relationship than the other one. Was there any like thought 25 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 2: in your head, you're like, oh, man, I'm going to 26 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,839 Speaker 2: be the loser of this because we're not going to last. 27 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 2: And like secretly it was kind of happening at the 28 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 2: same time with both of you. 29 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 3: Do you understand my question? 30 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 4: I do. Yeah, I feel like it wasn't really a 31 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 4: secret because I was telling her immediately. I don't think 32 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 4: it was a secret. Me and Tino had a lot 33 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 4: of issues, like at the beginning we were fighting, and 34 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 4: even she knew all. 35 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 3: That or the whole like cheating stuff. 36 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 5: Yeah. 37 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 4: I mean, I guess what he has said is that 38 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 4: like that really is what led into it, which I 39 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 4: am at fault for like some of that fighting and like, yeah, 40 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 4: but you guys weren't connecting. Yeah, we were not connecting. 41 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 4: So I feel like Gabby always knew that me and 42 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: him right off the bat, it was really difficult for us. 43 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 4: So I always thought, you we had like a really 44 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 4: strong connection with. 45 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think same, Like we expressed our doubts with 46 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 5: each other. 47 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 3: So yeah, there was no I don't there was. 48 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,679 Speaker 5: She was the only other person at the time who 49 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 5: had gone through the exact same thing. I cannot imagine 50 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 5: how people do it alone. 51 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: There's so much question. There is so much doubt. 52 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 5: It's like this weird world afterwards where you think you 53 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 5: know the person and you think you don't. You're like, 54 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 5: what's normal? What do I do for four days alone 55 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:29,679 Speaker 5: in a B and B? 56 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 4: Like I think stream? 57 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys, ever. 58 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: Say with a happy couple of weekends that you wanted 59 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 2: to join forces and just be in the same house together. 60 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,959 Speaker 4: We did one time. Yeah, we well we weren't supposed to, 61 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,679 Speaker 4: but one time we did. We had like a sneakover. 62 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 4: We snuck them over and we all four hung out. 63 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 4: That night was fun. That night was fun because we're 64 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 4: all together, right, Yeah, more distraction. 65 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: So did you both just not feel like you knew 66 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: both guys coming off the show? And why do you 67 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: feel like you I think there was a reason that 68 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: the two of you felt like you didn't know your partner. 69 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 3: To that point where. 70 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 2: Like a lot of other people leave the show, like 71 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: you were just talking about with Zach and Katie just 72 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 2: feeling that they knew each other so deeply. 73 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 4: Well, I mean it was so different just in timing. 74 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 3: Why, Yeah, that's what I mean. 75 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 4: Because a normal season you would do two one on 76 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 4: ones and then a group date every week, and we 77 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 4: didn't even start like getting to know the guys until 78 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 4: week three until we split up with our group and 79 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 4: then we were getting one less one on one a week. 80 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 4: So I feel like we just kind of missed out 81 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 4: on time, and in that way, it kind of flawed 82 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 4: a lot of at least decision making, and like I 83 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 4: feel like I was going really off of a motion 84 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 4: more than like being able to spend time and seeing compatibility. 85 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 4: If that makes sense. 86 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: No, I agree, I have a couple of things. I think. 87 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, it is hard not to confuse like chemistry with connection, 88 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 5: and I think both of us could probably have chemistry 89 00:03:56,720 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 5: with like a cardboard box. So that was hard to 90 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 5: like suss out like what is fun and what is 91 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 5: the process and what is like being on a crazy 92 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 5: day in France versus actually connecting, like what you were saying. Also, 93 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 5: I think I know myself so deeply as a person. 94 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 5: I've done a lot of work. It's something I want 95 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 5: to continue to get better at so I can articulate it, 96 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 5: so I can ask for things in a relationship, and 97 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 5: that takes some work, and I don't the other person 98 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 5: has to be able to know themselves too, And I 99 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 5: feel like I wasn't really being met with that. So 100 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 5: when I say I feel like I, you know, never 101 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 5: really got to know him, I think it was really 102 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 5: because he didn't really get to know himself. Like he's 103 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 5: a little younger, you know, hasn't been through as much. 104 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 5: So I think I was constantly wanting more than I 105 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 5: just like didn't get. 106 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: Eric lost his dad while you guys were still together. 107 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: How was that, I mean, how difficult of a thing 108 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 2: to navigate so early in a relationship. 109 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, it really was. 110 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 5: And I was, you know, so glad I got to 111 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 5: meet him at hometowns and I'm a nurse, so I 112 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 5: think my nursing kind of ICU background helped a lot 113 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 5: because his dad was really really sick for a long time. 114 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 5: But I think, you know, he could really lean on me, 115 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 5: which is nice, and like I wanted to be there 116 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 5: for him, Like there's grieving and losing somebody so hard 117 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 5: as a support person because there's there's not anything you 118 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 5: can say. And I was like, well aware, like I'm 119 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 5: like I'm not going to be able to make anything better, 120 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 5: but like if you need anything, I'm here, Like, you know, 121 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 5: I can only imagine how terrible it is. But like, 122 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 5: I can't be your support person. 123 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 2: Both your guys are in new relationships now publicly, right, 124 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 2: Tino took a long. 125 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 4: I feel like a while it's been. I don't know 126 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 4: when he started dating this new girl, but. 127 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 3: It seems private. 128 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 2: Seems like she's a quote regular girl in like his 129 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: hometown area. How did it feel for you guys, Well, 130 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 2: we'll talk about Rachel first. 131 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 4: How did it feel to see like that picture? Yeah, 132 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 4: it's so weird because I feel like I truly am 133 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 4: so like just okay with the situation and moved on that. 134 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 4: I do genuinely want him to find happiness and find 135 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 4: a person. I assume he wants the same for me, 136 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 4: So obviously it's just kind of weird to see it. 137 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 4: But obviously wish him all the best and hope it's, 138 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 4: you know, going good. 139 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 3: And now Gabby she's just a little different. 140 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of wish been We're here for this 141 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: moment because he had a celebrity crush on Elizabeth Turner. 142 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 2: She's like like a model actress, and it seems like 143 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 2: the Eric is now dating her and Hannah, Oh my god, 144 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 2: Hanna grab a mic. Oh yeah, our producer Hannah's coming 145 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: on for a second. It because she has seen Eric 146 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 2: out about in La Let's hid very very soon after 147 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 2: the breakup. 148 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he just seemed like he was ready to go. 149 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, no any time like bachelor, you know, yeah, yeah, bachelor, 150 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: traditional sense life. 151 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 3: How has all that been feeling? 152 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 5: I mean same, I think it's great, Like we weren't 153 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 5: a match. We want different things out of life. Clearly 154 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 5: after you just said, you know, he's like doing the 155 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 5: bachelor Bachelor already right after the breakup. Like my just 156 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 5: how I live my life is different, Like I'm goal oriented. 157 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 5: I get reward from like you know, having a purpose 158 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 5: like doing work things, expressing myself, like knowing myself, self 159 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 5: improvement on all of those things. 160 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 4: You know. 161 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 5: Like I'm in my thirties, Like I just want to 162 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 5: be the person I want to be and take the 163 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 5: steps to get there. And it's like he's in a 164 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 5: different phase of life. So this is it's like kind 165 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 5: of validating. I'm like, why we weren't a match. And 166 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 5: it's like I don't want anyone to be unhappy, Like 167 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 5: him being happy or unhappy is not going to affect 168 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 5: me at all. So I'm like, yeah, like go do 169 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 5: a thing. But where'd you run into him? I'll know 170 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 5: to completely avoid it. 171 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 6: Lots of bars in Venice, be lots of bars, like 172 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 6: you we saw multiple times. I think I saw him 173 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 6: like three or four times out like right after the split, 174 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 6: and I was like, I think Gabby's better. 175 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 4: Doing this guy just. 176 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 3: Acting very is acting very single. 177 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 4: So shocking. 178 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, not surprised. 179 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: Didn't you guys take some weird like moment where you're like, 180 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 2: we're not really engaged but we're dating. 181 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I tried everything. 182 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: That's the movie Like it's like no, like let's not 183 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 2: even pretend because like I've heard multiple people do that too. Yeah, 184 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: like I don't want to engage, but we might get 185 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: there again one day. 186 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 4: Literally. 187 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 5: Well, I remember we had a conversation. It's like we 188 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 5: are engaged, like me wearing this ring and he obviously 189 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 5: wanted me to like wear the ring. 190 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: Sorry. 191 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 5: I was like, if we consider ourselves engaged, then we 192 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 5: need to be acting like this, and then these are 193 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 5: the things like the decisions and the conversations we need 194 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 5: to be having, which are very serious and like I'm 195 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 5: constantly bringing them to the table. If we're not, if 196 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 5: we're dating, then like cool, I want to be coreted, 197 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 5: Like you can just take me out on a date 198 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 5: a couple of times a week. We can like take 199 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 5: a step back like trying and like get to know 200 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 5: each other and revel in the new period because it 201 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 5: was kind of new being like in public, you know. 202 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 4: But nothing worked. I feel like everyone does go through 203 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: that because it is so emotional and all of a 204 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 4: sudden you're engaged and you realize that and you are, 205 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 4: but you're you've never dated them. You don't really know 206 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 4: who they are at all as a person because you 207 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 4: are so different in you're day to day life, and 208 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 4: so you're like wait, wait, wait, like yes, we're engaged, 209 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 4: but we need to go back to that dating phase. 210 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 4: So I feel like we kind of everyone who's been 211 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 4: through it does that in a way. 212 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough. 213 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 4: How do you feel like the show should evolve? 214 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: That's a little pun dai pun for us, so that 215 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 2: you guys, do know your person more before you like 216 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 2: set off in the sunset together. 217 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 3: Alone casting casting. 218 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 2: You don't think it should be like more dates or 219 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 2: like eliminating the weak ones earlier on. 220 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 5: I don't think anything would have changed if I had 221 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 5: more time, I still would have ended up who I 222 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 5: ended up with, Like, I don't know how much you 223 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 5: can fully get to know someone on camera because it's 224 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 5: like these conversations are also, you know, pretty produced. They 225 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 5: have a layout that's like true to batch, like this 226 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 5: is when you typically say you're fine in love like 227 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 5: this is. So it's like how much of it is 228 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 5: actually real conversation maybe honestly more off camera time. I 229 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 5: feel like BP is so successful because you just spend. 230 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 3: All day with each other. 231 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 5: You're not constantly like having these like seriously produced, serious 232 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 5: and produced conversations with each other, like you get the downtime. 233 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: Plus the seriously produced conversations often feel so boring, and 234 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 2: when Gabby means boring as a viewer, when Gaby says produced, 235 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: she means like they're led. They're not like telling us 236 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 2: what to say. They're like, but answer this question now 237 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 2: and ask. 238 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 3: Them this question. 239 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you. Okay, So let's talk about current dating life. 240 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 3: Rachel. I know that you you were dating, you were 241 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 3: dating somebody kind of secularly, right. 242 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 4: Well, so, I mean it's been crazy. Right after the show, 243 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 4: I feel like, not the show. After our AFR, I 244 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 4: guess I felt like so much pressure with myself to 245 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 4: be dating again and prove that I could basically do 246 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 4: it and feel desired and like I'm gonna just get 247 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 4: back out there. And I did really really soon, Like 248 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 4: it was immediately after our finale, and I mean, obviously 249 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 4: he was great. And it is to me, like, how 250 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 4: do you were you meeting guys when you were trying 251 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 4: to date? I really only dated one person again, and 252 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 4: I haven't dated really anyone in like six months. He 253 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 4: was the last person I dated because I think when 254 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 4: that kind of ended, everything kind of like in a 255 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 4: way came crashing down where I had to really kind 256 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 4: of realize what this whole year had been, like a 257 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 4: fail engagement, everything that happened on The Bachelor, and I 258 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 4: was really able to like take that time to heal 259 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 4: and like accept what had happened. And so, yeah, I've 260 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 4: been single and it's been really really nice, honestly. 261 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 3: Susie recently Susie like, who's like the third. 262 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 2: Of you guys from Clayton season. She recently said that 263 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 2: she pictures a relationship between you and Clayton to have 264 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: made more sense unhinged. 265 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, we heard that. 266 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 4: I don't understand that you really know that about like 267 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 4: the guy you were with. Yeah, yeah, that was hard 268 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 4: I think for me to your because I mean they 269 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 4: had a really serious relationship for months, and I obviously 270 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 4: only knew Clayton on the show and what aspect that was. 271 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 4: So I think that would hurt me in a way 272 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 4: if I had heard someone say that about me, who 273 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 4: has stated me for that long. But I don't know. 274 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 3: And it's like you've moved past it. You've had a 275 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 3: whole life outside of. 276 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 5: It, and I'm sure you've learned a lot from being 277 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 5: on Bachelor, but like you've had a lot of experiences 278 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 5: since then. So just to kind of assume, like, oh, 279 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:44,479 Speaker 5: this should happen is like really. 280 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 4: Not taking you into consideration. 281 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 3: During our trip to. 282 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 2: Carmelo a couple of months ago, you and Clinton did 283 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: like have some sit down chats and stuff. 284 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 3: How's your relationship in since? Like do you guys text? 285 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: Not? 286 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: Really? 287 00:13:58,640 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 4: Let's see how. 288 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:02,839 Speaker 2: Not? Really? 289 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 4: I mean here and there. He did send me his book. 290 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 4: It's been nice to have like a friendship with him, 291 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 4: and like with Zach now, I really feel like I've 292 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 4: been able to like I don't know, I was holding 293 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 4: on to so much resentment with I feel like everyone 294 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 4: and being able to like kind of come together and 295 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 4: really talk things out and apologize to them. It's been 296 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 4: really nice, So we'll keep doing this. Just bring all my. 297 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: Okay, it's nice therapy. Well, let's talk about that meeting 298 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 2: with Zach. I know we talked about it also on 299 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 2: ourn day episode, but you you know it's okay to 300 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 2: say that it was you were nervous and seeing him again, 301 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: especially since there was a lot of shade throw in 302 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: your way during his season. So did you want to 303 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 2: address that or you just like real sleep it under 304 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 2: the rug and be friendly. 305 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, obviously it was hard watching it because I did 306 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 4: hear and see everything it was. It was hurtful, but 307 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 4: in a way, like I know that he was just 308 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 4: maybe relating it back to the only experience he had, 309 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 4: and his feelings were valid and they were hurt. So 310 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 4: I did just try to like take that into consideration, 311 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 4: and I did text him during his season and reach 312 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 4: out and so we kind of did already make up. 313 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 4: And so seeing him again today, obviously it's the first time. 314 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 4: I was a little nervous, but yeah, it was nice. 315 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 5: I will say, Rachel, You're the best at like reaching 316 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 5: out and knowing that people have your support, and I 317 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 5: think that means a lot because it's like no message 318 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 5: DM or text like went unnoticed. I was like, hey, 319 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 5: I don't maybe I don't know you, but I'm here 320 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 5: to support you. Like I know you've been really supportive 321 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 5: with charity and like you're just good at that, and 322 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 5: like other guys from our season, you're good at being 323 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 5: like like kind of no hard feelings. I'm also a 324 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 5: person you can lean on and like I care about 325 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 5: you as a person, like you make it known, and 326 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 5: I think that means a lot to people. 327 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 3: That's so nice. 328 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's always nice to see a DM 329 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 2: from somebody, even if you don't know them from the community. 330 00:15:58,800 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? 331 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 3: Make you feel better? It does? 332 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 333 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 2: Okay, Yabby, Supposedly you slid into Ben's DM yes to 334 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 2: talk about this. 335 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 5: It was like word vomit right when I pulled up, 336 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 5: And like, I know Ben Higgins is somewhere on the 337 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 5: premise and I need to tell everybody that I slid 338 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 5: into out there chest. 339 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: You know what it would re emerge is like if 340 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 2: you were to damn Ben now, I'd be like, hey, thanks, 341 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 2: great weekend. 342 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it would come I. 343 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 5: Know I deleted it because I up ahead. 344 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I know. 345 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 5: I'm like I was like harboring this secret for years, 346 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 5: I feel because it's like we're like on parallel kind 347 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 5: of pass like he's obviously a huge name. 348 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 4: We just had a season. I'm like, when is someone 349 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 4: going to find out I did damn think about damned? 350 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 5: But he was like from Denver and I was I 351 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 5: had seen him in Denver before, never said that to 352 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 5: his face, so like I knew where he lived. 353 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 4: He thinks I didn't, like, oh my god, where were 354 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 4: you located? The coffee shop? Yeah, but he's like a 355 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 4: hot commodity, like you know in Denver when he was 356 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 4: single at the time. 357 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 3: So I slid. I did. 358 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 4: I'm a shameless slider. 359 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 2: Okay, well we're going to play a little game now, 360 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 2: Okay called who did you d M? 361 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 3: And let's read it out loud. 362 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 2: I have I'll say it so just to pull it 363 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 2: up and who is it? And what does it say? 364 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 2: Word for word? It'll be like an old. 365 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 4: Do we say I love you the other day? Really 366 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 4: genuinely thinking he would respond to the singers in your 367 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 4: musician era, Yeah, I love a good musician. 368 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 5: Okay, do you want to know who it is first 369 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 5: Brett Goldstain from Ted Lasso. Okay, I said, through medium 370 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 5: amounts of stocking, I see you're a Bachelor fan. 371 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 4: He has a Bachelor highlight. 372 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 2: Amazing the Bachelor highlights. Yeah, so it's not just like 373 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: he follows you. Does he follow you? No, he doesn't. 374 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 2: It was like one season and it was like unhinged. 375 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 5: It was just this clip that they were like going 376 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 5: to Tulsa, Oklahoma or something, and then you know, on 377 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 5: the couch, they make you go like okay, now everybody scream. 378 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 5: It was like to somewhere crazy, like for us, it's Houston. Yeah, 379 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 5: so it was like that. So I was like, through 380 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 5: medium amounts of stocking, I see you are a Bachelor fan, 381 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 5: and I am a I am a fan of your chest, hair, 382 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 5: sweater and dry sense of humor. No response, never read 383 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 5: fully ignored. 384 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 4: One day, Yeah, were waiting for that scene. It's never 385 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 4: been opened. 386 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 3: We have somebody else. 387 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 2: I have to get a cringey one, guys, because I 388 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 2: just opened Damn did Jimmy garoppolo in twenty fifteen? 389 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 390 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 2: I was only on the show for I had just 391 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 2: gotten off of filming Batchel my first reason paradise and. 392 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 3: I want to die. I want to actually crawl into 393 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 3: a whole right now. 394 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 2: This is specially like reading an old diary dream. 395 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 3: I can't say it. 396 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 2: I lot yes, you hi, Jimmy. I think you're extremely handsome. 397 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 2: And I have never sent a direct message to a 398 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 2: guy in my life, fass, just like the most famous quarterback. 399 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 4: You're like, I never do this. I decided to take 400 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 4: a chance on you. 401 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 2: Still a backup at the time, guys, still a backup 402 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 2: to Tom, and I can't imagine the number of d 403 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 2: ms that you get. I did this, And let me 404 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,360 Speaker 2: just say I did this in spite of Jared, because 405 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 2: he was like, oh, I'm sure you can't get like, 406 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: you know, I wanted to get Jimmy Garoppolo, who is 407 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 2: the backup quarterback to Tom Brady on the Patriot at 408 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 2: the time, and be like, oh, Jared, you don't want 409 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 2: to date me. 410 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 3: Well, Jimmy Garoppolo is gonna want to date me. Motivation. 411 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 2: I think I lied here by saying I'm going to 412 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 2: be in Providence this weekend, which is like half an 413 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 2: hour from where his house would have been, and I 414 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 2: would love to meet you. Let me know if you'd 415 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 2: be interested in hanging out. This is such like an 416 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 2: og DM, like when d ms were. 417 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 4: Like not a thing, very formal. 418 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 2: It's really like, this is the most embarrassing thing I've 419 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 2: ever seen in my life. And then I attached a 420 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 2: photo of myself. 421 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 5: Just to make things easy for you. I'm putting all 422 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 5: the information in one text. 423 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 2: You don't even have to look at my profile if 424 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:45,239 Speaker 2: you're at trying to meet dam back. I want to 425 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 2: just I need to go retire from life right now. 426 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 4: Do you have friends? 427 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 5: Look over your dms? You say, okay, okay, And that's 428 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 5: so strange. 429 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 2: Is the best flirter and the best at sliding into 430 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 2: any text the threat, Oh my god, I love it. 431 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 4: I love it? 432 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 2: Should I go find another one. I can't think of 433 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 2: anybody that. 434 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 4: I had good ones? I feel I was just I 435 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:14,400 Speaker 4: feel like with people I know I could never get. Yeah, 436 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 4: that's my damn Like Riley Green, the singer idem him too. 437 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 438 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 4: Wait, if you're listening Riley Green, no, I deleted it. 439 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 3: That's the thing. I get so ashamed. I said Green, 440 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 3: you guys, I am so out of the pop culture. 441 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 4: And he's a country singer. Okay, and I was going 442 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 4: to stagecoach and he was going to stage coach, showing 443 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 4: message him. And then I deleted it right away because 444 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 4: I get embarrassed that I did that. It's not there. 445 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 4: I never did it. Have a couple of glasses wine, 446 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 4: don't even remember. I'm like, oh I did that. No, Yeah, 447 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 4: that wasn't me. 448 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 3: That's different things. 449 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 2: I'm looking at him right now, so hot, Okay, So 450 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 2: Hannah just gave me one that she slided it. She 451 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,239 Speaker 2: slid into and listen, Hannah and I we always talk 452 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 2: about Joe Burrow together, so I don't have you yes 453 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 2: to that. I mean, he's got a girlfriend, very public, 454 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 2: but oh my god, we talked about this last time. 455 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 3: I remember when we were in Carmel. 456 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 2: I couldn't stop talking about, you know, Joe Burrow. I 457 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: have a quarterback thing. It's fun, but it's so. Hannah 458 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 2: just sent me this screenshop. It's Nick Bossa and he 459 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 2: Bosah and he's a football player as well for San Francisco. 460 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 4: I love this athlete. 461 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 2: And she said hi on February second, with the smiley 462 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 2: face and then you guys, this is an amazing, amazing moment. 463 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 2: On February fifteenth, she says, following up on the above. 464 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 5: I it incredible, as you should. 465 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 4: I'm doing that now. 466 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. On February twenty second, she goes circling back, and 467 00:22:55,520 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 2: then finally, on March fourteenth, the Granby face so good. 468 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 4: I will not get out of here. You will give 469 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 4: me a response. 470 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 3: I love it, So go back to Riley green No response. 471 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 4: No, well, I also just deleted it, so I don't 472 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 4: even know if he saw it. He probably didn't. I 473 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 4: don't think it. 474 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,199 Speaker 5: I feel like men like aren't Like I'm always in 475 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 5: my dms, but we're women and we're like nosy and 476 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 5: want to know. 477 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 4: I feel like men aren't that good at it. 478 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 3: Tell about the blue check mark, Like you have a 479 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 3: blue check mark? 480 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 2: Aren't you read it? Is like your direct inbox? And 481 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 2: then like he's just gonna be really curious to see 482 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 2: who had a blue check mark. 483 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 4: Everyone go message Riley Greeny tell him message me back. 484 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 5: Operation Rachel and Riley love it good name, Like all right, 485 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 5: here's somebody that did not slide into any d MS 486 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 5: but made quite a buzz. 487 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 4: So you and Vinnie from Jersey Shore. 488 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 2: I this is I'm gonna look at you and I'm 489 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 2: gonna say what I think happened, tell me, and then 490 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 2: you should confirm her to not. Okay, I think you 491 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 2: had a really good flirtation. You made out a few times, 492 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 2: but it was way more fun to get the public 493 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 2: interested than like anything for real, for real. 494 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 5: We never even made out really yeah, no, because he's 495 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 5: never in la and he. 496 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 3: Got that's why. 497 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, literally physically we can't make out cross country. 498 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 4: My lips are that meme that are like, oh, flopping 499 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 4: in the wind. 500 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 5: But yeah, he got eliminated on dancing like a couple 501 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 5: of weeks before it was over, and that's when it 502 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 5: was my busiest. So our pass just didn't really cross. 503 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 5: I'm I was always like kind of like I'm interested, 504 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 5: like take me on a date whatever that looks like, 505 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,199 Speaker 5: like find me to New York basically, like that's what 506 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 5: people do these days. I feel like if you're going 507 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 5: to date long distance, and it just like never really 508 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 5: came to fruition. Then we saw each other on tour, Yeah, 509 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 5: I mean. 510 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 2: Didn't you guys go on tour together or did he 511 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 2: just make a few appearances. 512 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 4: He was there for like five days. 513 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 5: He only spent one night on the bus, which like 514 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 5: if we were going to make out. It'd probably be 515 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 5: like on the bus. Yeah. So yeah, just like never 516 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 5: really like kind of bossome. We're good friends, like we do. 517 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 5: We like talk all the time. He's sending me his 518 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 5: jump ropes. He's like, hey, would you be interested. I'm like, Vinnie, 519 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,360 Speaker 5: you can send me whatever you want. They're gonna say 520 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 5: my back room will never use them, but like, please 521 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 5: send me them. 522 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 4: But yeah, so just friendly. 523 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 5: He is very flirty in the social media realm, I think, 524 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 5: with like multiple women. So I think he kind of 525 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 5: started that and I was like, oh my god, this 526 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 5: is fun because I'm sure there's some overlap of Bachelor 527 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 5: Jersey Shore fans. 528 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:35,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 529 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's like that kind of overtook. But not 530 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 5: to say like I'm not interested, but it just doesn't 531 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 5: really seem like it's gonna like blossom. 532 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 3: Okay, well you guys should just go on a date 533 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 3: and see. 534 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 5: Literally, but I'm not gonna take myself on a date. 535 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 5: It's like he needs to like put in the initiative, Racha, 536 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 5: what do you. 537 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 2: Think about that coupling, Vinnie? Yeah, do you think it 538 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 2: makes sense? I think it makes sense on paper. 539 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 4: But yeah, I don't know. I also feel like maybe 540 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 4: he's too much of a mama's boyfriend. God, yeah, I 541 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 4: can't really with the mama's boy She needs like a 542 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 4: partner who's very confident and like I don't know, yeah, yeah, 543 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,959 Speaker 4: not that you're not confident any but I don't know 544 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 4: who knows? 545 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So if we were to set you guys up, 546 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 2: like if you were to set Gabby up with a celebrity, 547 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 2: who would it be? 548 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,959 Speaker 4: And if you were to set up Rachel with the celebrity, 549 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 4: who would it be? 550 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: Like? 551 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 3: Or I should we let's just go there? 552 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 2: Who's the bachelor person that you think so and so 553 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 2: should give a try? 554 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 4: I know yours should date Tyler Cameron. And I'm only 555 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 4: saying that, Yeah, that's a good match. 556 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 3: Know who doesn't have a crush on Tyler Cameron. 557 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 4: I think you guys would be good together. I don't 558 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 4: really know his personality, but he seems like kind of fun. 559 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 4: But he seems that he seems really nice to look at, 560 00:26:58,480 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 4: So what more do we need? 561 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 3: Yours would be what's his name? 562 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 4: Ben? From Katie's Season? 563 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 2: Oh? 564 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 4: Is it Ben Smith? 565 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:06,400 Speaker 5: Yes? So hot? 566 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 567 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:11,959 Speaker 5: So hot and like emotional? Oh sorry, yeah, I get 568 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 5: him confused. The COVID seasons. But but yeah, I feel 569 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 5: like you guys would be a good match. 570 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 3: He lives in la Maybe you should give him a call. 571 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 5: And he's like kind of below like not he doesn't 572 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 5: care about Yeah, he's like it, which I love that 573 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 5: he has his own stuff going on, Like I think 574 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 5: it'd be great. 575 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 3: He seems really nice. 576 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 4: Let's do it. Okay, let's make it happen. 577 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 2: All right, Let's have him come to our next thing. 578 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: Hanna put it down, Ben Smith and all. 579 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 4: My other axes. 580 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 3: We'll just get him all there. 581 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk a little bit about your breast reduction surgery, Rachel. 582 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,920 Speaker 2: What was the reasoning going into it and how long 583 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 2: have you been thinking about doing it? 584 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 4: So I wanted to do it since I was seventeen. 585 00:27:56,440 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 4: I was in high school really like interested doing the research, 586 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 4: and I was just kind of waiting at that point. 587 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 4: And once I was in college, I was like, all right, well, 588 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 4: as soon as I graduate, I'm gonna get it done. 589 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 4: I ended up graduating like a month before I went 590 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 4: on the Bachelor, and I went immediately into the Bachelorette. 591 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 4: So once that ended, I was like one hundred percent 592 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,439 Speaker 4: doing it right now. Being on the show affected it 593 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 4: a lot too. I feel like because I just hated 594 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 4: the clothes I was in and I was so uncomfortable 595 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 4: I would have back pains. So it just like made 596 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 4: sense right after the show and no regrets. Best decision 597 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 4: of my entire life. Do you mind telling us what 598 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 4: soars we were? I think I was a triple D 599 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 4: maybe bigger. I literally didn't even measure myself because I 600 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 4: just wouldn't ever wear like a wired bra. I would 601 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 4: only really wear sports bras and stuff like that. And 602 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 4: now I think I'm a c great. Yeah, so it's 603 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 4: been credible. Such a difference. My back like feels incredible. 604 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 4: I just feel like I can wear anything, My movement 605 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 4: exercising is better. Just like this quality of life is amazing. 606 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 3: I'm so happy for you. 607 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 4: It's awesome. 608 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, you look incredible. 609 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 4: It's great. 610 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 3: Do you feel like people whenever you talk about are 611 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 3: like looking at your boobs? 612 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 4: No money for that. 613 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like having this conversation and I'm checking 614 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: you out. 615 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 4: I'm like, they look so perky. I show everyone, I 616 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 4: showed Ashley last night. I show everyone. I have this 617 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 4: picture of me mid surgery where one boob is done 618 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 4: and one isn't. And anyone who asked me about I'm 619 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 4: do you want to see a picture I just show 620 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, yeah you can put the 621 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 4: little blur. Yeah, it's my favorite picture. It's so jarring. 622 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 4: It's like one is like, yeah, like. 623 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 5: Who would have thought, like boobs can be such a burden, 624 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 5: but like bigger is not always better? 625 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I would obviously can't relate, But all I 626 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 2: know is that what I always thought, you know. 627 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 3: I was like, I wonder what I'd be like with 628 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 3: bigger boobs. 629 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: And then when I was pregnant and they were bigger, 630 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 2: I was like I don't like these Yeah, like I 631 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 2: don't like the way that I felt them, like on 632 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 2: my stomach. 633 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? 634 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 2: So, how was the recovery from that? And how was 635 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 2: your friend and roommate Genevieve and taking care of you? 636 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? No, she was amazing. Recovery actually wasn't bad. I 637 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 4: thought I was gonna be like down bad for a 638 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 4: long time, but probably like a week two weeks and 639 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 4: then I was basically back to normal and I'm like 640 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 4: three months now and totally fine. And Genevieve's awesome. She 641 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 4: took such good care of me. So thank god she. 642 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 5: Is a good little like worker care taker. Yeah, she 643 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 5: like thrives in that. 644 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 3: I love it. Yeah, all right, well let's talk about 645 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 3: like next steps in life. 646 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 2: You are a pilot, and whenever I think about you 647 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 2: being a pilot, I'm like, that's like the most badass 648 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 2: thing ever. And I can't imagine what you look like 649 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 2: when you're like flying by yourself. And I know that 650 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 2: sometimes you actually like go up in the air by yourself, 651 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 2: and you've had some scary moments up in there by. 652 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I have some horror stories, like I 653 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 4: could literally go on for days. A lot of them 654 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 4: were when I was alone. They were when you were 655 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 4: a lot of scary. It's yeah, it's just a lot, 656 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 4: but I love it. I love like the adrenaline rush too, 657 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 4: So like even though they were scary, I think they're 658 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 4: like fun stories. 659 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 3: To tell me. 660 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 2: There was way you keep going like that, a weird 661 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 2: light go off, and by myself. 662 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 4: There was this one flight I had to do that 663 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 4: was six hours long that I had to do to 664 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 4: get my commercial license, six hours by myself in one day. 665 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 4: Like it was actually a lot, but I ended up 666 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 4: having an RPM gauge failure, which is basically like you're 667 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 4: basically saying what your engine is doing. And so I 668 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 4: thought I was having an engine failure. And when I 669 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 4: like landed, basically I was like, oh my god. And 670 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 4: I went to this maintenance sight and they basically couldn't 671 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 4: tell me what it was. They were like, we don't 672 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 4: know if it's your RPM or if it is your engine, 673 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 4: so we recommend you staying like here. And I was 674 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 4: in Indiana, and I was like, I'm just going to 675 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 4: assume it's our PM gauge because I didn't see any 676 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 4: other engine roughness. And then I just said the rest 677 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 4: of the flight, no, I go back. 678 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 679 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 4: And the scariest part was that it was like dark 680 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 4: out by the time I was going back, so it 681 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 4: was just pitch black, me by myself and my RPM gauge, 682 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 4: just like going into the red into the red. But 683 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 4: it actually ended up just being the gage. 684 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 3: So I was, Oh my god, terrifying. 685 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 4: You literally live on the edge. 686 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 5: I forget that you're such an adrenaline junkie. 687 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't like come across as somebody that isn't 688 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 2: adrenaline junkie. 689 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 4: She loves it. Yeah, I love it like I got 690 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 4: to go on that date on our season where we 691 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,240 Speaker 4: did the zero g's in the plane so much fun. 692 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 4: Like I love anything like that. But I'm in the 693 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 4: process right now. I'm renewing my CFI license, my teacher license, 694 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 4: and I'm gonna go back to that. 695 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 3: Do you just want to go fly for the airlines? 696 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the goal. I don't like teaching. You basically 697 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 4: just have to do it to get to the airlines. 698 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 4: So do you pretend like to be in top gun 699 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 4: though when you're teaching? Oh my gosh, teaching is so hard. 700 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 4: I'm just not a teacher, Like not everyone is cut out. 701 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 4: So it's like I'm a good pilot and I know 702 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 4: what I'm doing, But like sometimes teaching I'm just like, 703 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 4: oh god, and. 704 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 3: You're still impatient. 705 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's scary as hell, like your life is 706 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 5: in their hands. 707 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 4: Who are these students? So literally one time I was 708 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 4: with a student when Clayton season was airing, and he 709 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 4: just looks at me. We were like flying in silence, 710 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 4: and he goes, I know you're on the show. 711 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 3: No one not. 712 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 4: And he goes, YESTERD, why I saw you? And I'm like, Okay, 713 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 4: you're back back to this, it was I think the 714 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 4: episode the night before was Fantasy suitees too. Oh my god, great, 715 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 4: Like I can take it real seriously right now? 716 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 3: So yeah, literally, Oh you're in Gabby. 717 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 2: I know that you guys are both like enjoying your 718 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 2: post bachelor life, like absolutely no pressure in getting back 719 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 2: to what you're doing beforehand, Like you should just soak 720 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 2: up all like the money and experiences that you can 721 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 2: right now. 722 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 3: But do you ever think about going back to nursing. 723 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 5: Obviously, Like healthcare has a special place in my heart. 724 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 5: I was in IC you nurse for eight years. It 725 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 5: is grueling. Nursing is really not for the faint of heart. 726 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 5: I will say at that time, I was pretty burnt 727 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 5: out working through COVID I started when I was young. 728 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 5: I see you as just like intense. You know, you're 729 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 5: dealing with lots of death and lots of sick patients 730 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 5: and lots of responsibility. So I don't think I would 731 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 5: ever go back to the bedside, but I would like 732 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 5: to be like an advocate in some way. It's really 733 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 5: hard because sometimes it seems like unattainable. It's like, what 734 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:27,359 Speaker 5: can I do personally about staffing ratios? You know, this 735 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,359 Speaker 5: is kind of like a niche thing that like in 736 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 5: real life doesn't really affect people. 737 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 3: But like obviously we need nurses. 738 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 4: Which we know through the pandemic. 739 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 5: So but yeah, I think I like right now, just 740 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 5: want to spread the true word because I think nursing 741 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 5: is glorified. 742 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 4: I think people are like, oh my god, you're nurse. 743 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 5: Like you must be like so perfect, great angel and 744 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:52,280 Speaker 5: like love your job, and it's like, no, we're humans, 745 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 5: and humans taking care of humans is really scary and 746 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 5: really vulnerable, and we do make mistakes and we work 747 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,280 Speaker 5: thirteen hours day on our feet with sometimes no breaks 748 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 5: and no chance to get water. So it's like these 749 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 5: are the things we need to talk about, not necessarily glorifying, 750 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 5: like the occupation, like we need to know the truth 751 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:12,919 Speaker 5: that's really well put. 752 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 3: All right, well, this is a great time. You're the best. 753 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 3: It's so fun to have a girl time with. 754 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,920 Speaker 4: So fun, didn't hit How are you? 755 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 2: How am I next time? 756 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 3: Okay? Well, we love you guys, and please come on 757 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 3: all of our trips. So much fun. 758 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 4: It was so much fun. 759 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,320 Speaker 3: Thanks for having us of course. All right, well until 760 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,240 Speaker 3: next time. I've been Ashley. 761 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 4: I'm Rachel and I'm Gabby. 762 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 3: That's cute. They mess up a little bit, but we 763 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 3: like it. Bye. 764 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on iHeartRadio, 765 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.