1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya Brad and I 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. 3 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, it's our bonus episode. I don oh that's more. 4 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: This makes me very happy. Um, everyone's zoomed in. Where's Eastern? Now? 5 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't sent the invite. This feels very much like 6 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: high school for me. Oh no, it's okay. I don't know. 7 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: Make this sound better? So hopefully this sounds better today. 8 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: And here's my thing. I feel as though I am 9 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: a much better podcaster. I'm a much better steward um 10 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: when I can see the people that I'm talking to. 11 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: So this zoom situation is really going to be a 12 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: game changer for me. I leave. Yes, we have discussed 13 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: that Tanya needs human interaction, so she needs, at the 14 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: very least to be able to be face to face 15 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: with those she is communicating with. I don't think I 16 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: could do without it, truly, Mark. Could you do it 17 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: without it or do you need the face to face? No? 18 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: I think I could do it without it. And by 19 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 1: the way, just till people understand what's happening here. So 20 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: we're connected to Eastern via Skype, Becca and Tanya and 21 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: I are connected via Zoom so we can see each other. 22 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: The Skype is for the audio, the Zoom is for 23 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: the video, and then we're also rolling on garage band 24 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: on our computers to get the clean audio that Easton 25 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: will then stack on top of each other, so it 26 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: sounds like we're all in the same room together. Is 27 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: that accurate? Eastern? That is the Rube Goldberg device we 28 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: are building today, because it's like, look, we know that 29 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: these don't sound the greatest, um, but we're trying our 30 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: best because this is the foreseeable future. So I think 31 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: each podcast we're going to try and try until we 32 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: get it right. Baby. I mean, that's that's all we 33 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 1: can do is put in the effort. And I mean 34 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: for what Easton's having to do, it sounds like he's 35 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: really putting forth the effort to make this the best 36 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: that it can be. You know, I'm just trying to 37 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: just trying to bring the world some some podcasts. That's 38 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: all They send you. The idea that oh there you go, okay, 39 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, the gang's all here, oh, just makes 40 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: such a difference. Um, you have to hit gallery up 41 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: on the right hand side. If you're listening at home 42 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: and you're using zoom, you should hit gallery in the 43 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: upper right hand side and then you can see everybody. 44 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: I have become such a zoom connoisseur. That's that. I 45 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: thought you'd be a little more of a connoisseur because 46 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: I was asking you questions and you don't really know 47 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: how to do it all. So I've never initially, I've 48 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: never initiated a meeting. I've only joined in on meetings. Um, 49 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: but now I'm so this is your first host chat. Correct, 50 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: You're no, you hosted our double date night too. I know, 51 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: but I think I was so wasted when I did that. 52 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: I don't even remember how I did it. Yeah, I 53 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: called Tanya called me that day, like it was probably 54 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: like two in the afternoon, and she's like, yeah, I 55 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 1: think Red Star is gonna come over and we're just 56 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: probably gonna drink. Start drinking. Now. It's like, wow, who 57 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: are you? I know, we literally started. I had a 58 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: rough I had a rough day that day, and so, um, yeah, 59 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: he got over here at like to thirty and I 60 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: think we started drinking at three and then our double 61 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: date wasn't until seven, So you can imagine how it's saucy. 62 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: I was by the time our date started. Yeah, and 63 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: you're like a well, I don't know, maybe things have changed, 64 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: but you used to be like a one hit wonder 65 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: where you were like one and done. I'm still this. 66 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: We made Margarita's for the double day, and I didn't 67 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: even touch my margarita because I was so like hammered 68 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: from the sangaria. Um. I feel like this bonus episode 69 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: we should be like this should be like for the 70 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: emails and just silly like fun stuff and keep it 71 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: light and you know, a little bonus ap joy happy 72 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: to keep it light. UM. I would also like to 73 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 1: say that, um, we do need to give another name 74 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: on this podcast. On our double date, it was it 75 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: was requested, oh my gosh, yeah requested that my significant 76 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: other has a name and red star and my significant 77 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: other came up with the nickname Antonia. I guess I 78 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: thought it was gonna be ent. It wasn't just nine 79 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: we could I just thought for brevity we could do 80 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: just nine. But I'm down. Yeah, I mean, just what 81 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: was the point just so we can talk about my 82 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: relationship to Yeah yeah, and y'all just like like laughing 83 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: and doing the n because you know that makes me panic, 84 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: we can change the name. We just thought that that 85 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: was like a cute one, you know. I like, yeah too. Anyway, 86 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: so there we go. We met another member of our family. 87 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: He met Ryan Seacrash. Although they yet to speak a 88 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 1: word to each other, they have seen each other. Now, Oh, 89 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: he didn't talk. I saw that, you know, he didn't 90 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: talk because I just I can't have his like. And 91 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: that's the other thing. I've got so many d ms 92 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: from people being like, what, like, you're not going to 93 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: show him to us that and I'm like, this is 94 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 1: just for the time being. I'm not going to hide 95 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: him for eternity. This is just for the time being. 96 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: There's a reason for it. And I will explain all 97 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 1: that in due time. Um, but just for now, I'm 98 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: keeping everything a little sanzy. But he is like around 99 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 1: that he's just like a big Like in the video, 100 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: Sierra put like an emoji over his head so it 101 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: looks like marshmallow. Yeah. It's like kind of fun for 102 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: like for when the time comes that he's revealed, like 103 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: the lead up, the build up is exciting. Um. Okay, 104 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: So but by the way, I thought it would be 105 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: cool if he did speak on the radio and just 106 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: disguised his voice. That's funny to me going that could 107 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: have been very funny, but Tanya was not into that idea. 108 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: He's not an actor. So, like he said, people can 109 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: do voices, you know what's be an actor to a voice? No, 110 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: you can't. You've heard us try and we sound like 111 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: you do, Gypsy Rose exactly like it sounds Chris like us. 112 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 1: It's just just do a high pitch. That's all you 113 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: gotta do. No one will be able to tell what 114 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: that is. You don't know, like a sound person. Well, 115 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: he did say, he's like, I would totally talk if 116 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: somebody could like do something to mych like someone a 117 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: witness protection or something. We could do that after the fact. 118 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: We do that in post production on live radio. That's 119 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: I mean, that's not impossible, but it's hard. He should 120 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: speak through a Texas speech like Marshmallow does. Oh my god, 121 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: there he is. Wait, should I sure we could disguise 122 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: his voice on the podcast the podcast we're talking about you. 123 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: Thanks for talking about they want me to put on 124 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: speaker and trying to protect your voice speaker. By the way, 125 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: we did give n Um a nickname, so it just happened. 126 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: He says, yeah, I love that. Okay, y love you. Bye. 127 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: You haven't said that yet. I love Do you feel 128 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: that though? Yeah? Okay, So we have to talk about 129 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: this too. Whoa this? By the way, people will say 130 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: to me sometimes they will say, why is Tanya such 131 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: a great radio personality? And I have the best answer. Now. 132 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: Tanya announced on the radio on Kiss FM in Los Angeles, 133 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: really arguably the biggest radio station in America, that she's 134 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: in love with her boyfriend. She has not told him 135 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: that yet, and that is fantastic. That is so good. 136 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: The problem as we were talking about it and it 137 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: just slipped out that happening. I was sweating, like slipped out. 138 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: And then Ryan like a lot. He was like, I'm 139 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: sorry what And I was like, oh shoot. And then 140 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: Sysney goes to him. He was going to commercials like 141 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: it was over. We were done talking in times like 142 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: you guys, I'm falling. He was like, excuse me, we 143 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: have more time. Wait? Was was he still in the 144 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: house with you? No, he wasn't here, Thank the Lord. 145 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: And I don't think he heard it because I feel 146 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: like I would have gotten a phone call. So we're 147 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: in the clear. And I also told him he has 148 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: to stop listening. I also told him he has stop 149 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: listening to the podcast. Nothing would make me listen to 150 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: a podcast more than someone telling me to not listen 151 00:09:52,200 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: to the Like, I know, when does she tell him? 152 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: The question now is when does she tell him the 153 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: cat is play out of the bag whenever she wants 154 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: the doors wide open? I disagree. I disagree. I say 155 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: she waits now, she gives it assuming the cat is 156 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: out of the bag, because I feel like it's going 157 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: to get to him somehow. I think she gives it 158 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: a week or something to give him the opportunity to 159 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: say it to her first, because that would be the 160 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: better scenario. It's not so much, it's like I feel 161 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: like right now, it's just such a weird time, Like 162 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: I don't feel like do you know what I mean. 163 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: Like there's just like a lot going on, a lot 164 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: of people have things like on their minds. It's just 165 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: like not the best time. People are getting engaged, like 166 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: Ben Higgins people, yeah, yeah, and people are looking for 167 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: good news. That is good news, that is that's something 168 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: nice to hear. But I also haven't like said it 169 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: to somebody in literally almost a decade, So it feels 170 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: very um girthy. So I just I don't know, it 171 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: might take me a minute. I don't know if I can, 172 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: like verbally, I don't know if I can like physically 173 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: get it out of my mouth. Well, I don't hate 174 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: the idea of, like, well, like Mark said, giving him 175 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: a chance to say it first, But I also don't 176 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: think it's a problem if you say it first. However, 177 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: I do feel like with certain things in y'all's relationship, 178 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: it might be important for you to hear it from 179 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: him first. That is the bingo bengo bongo. I agree, 180 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 1: because yeah, I think it's also very apparent that like 181 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm very much in it, and um, I think he 182 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: knows that. And so I think that's just I think 183 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: I need to know that he's in it as much 184 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: as I am before I'm like fully comfortable to say that. 185 00:11:48,600 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 1: Does that makes sense? What here's like? Yeah, so that's 186 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: kind of where I'm at, Like, it's it's there, It's 187 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: it's definitely there. It's in my heart. It just hasn't 188 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 1: it's just not having a tough time getting it out 189 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: of my mouth. Yeah, well that's that is into the episode. 190 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening, But it is scary you guys, like, 191 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: I haven't felt I haven't said this is somebody literally 192 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: in seven years. That's a long ass time. I know. 193 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: I know for me too, I remember I had actually 194 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: never said it, so it was like really a lot. 195 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: But um actually, until you never said it, yeah, that 196 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: was like my whole that was like my whole story 197 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: and everything. You did not mention that on the podcast. 198 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: I would just like to say, that's awesome, that's really great. 199 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: Oh really no, never I knew that. I knew that 200 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: because I'm your best friend. But I know you never 201 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: said it on here. So that's why Mark was like, oh, 202 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: I think I've said I think I had said like 203 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 1: I had never been in love before. I mean I 204 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: feel like for sure I've said that anyways. Yeah, when 205 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: I when I first feel like sometimes you say that 206 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: in early relationships and then later on you figure out, 207 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: oh wait a second, this is love and what was 208 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: before when I was saying love wasn't really love? Right? Yeah, 209 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: I never said it before, and um so but I 210 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: remember it was like I had this moment of not 211 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: wanting to say it and then freak out about it, 212 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: you know, So I get that, right, So, but like, 213 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: who said it first. You were n five in five okay, 214 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: Ethan who said the first year out? And then I 215 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: think we we kind of said at the same time, 216 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: and ours was very like we were on the phone, 217 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: and um, it was just like I love you and 218 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 1: I love you. I think I think I said it first. 219 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: And it was like three days later and we're like, wait, 220 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: did we just say that? Pretty casual? But I think 221 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: it was me, Um, I will. I have to say 222 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: that there was some dispute over this, so my memory 223 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: may not be accurate of this. But my memory of 224 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: this is that we were in my apartment in Milwaukee, 225 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: in Wawatosa, sitting on the floor of the bedroom for 226 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: whatever reason, and I knew that she wanted to say it, 227 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: and she was concerned whether or not I would say 228 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: it back. But I knew I was definitely going to 229 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: say it back, so I kind of coaxed her into 230 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: saying it so I could then say it back again 231 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: right away. That's my recollection. Hers is different, but that's 232 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: how I remember it. How does she remember it? She 233 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: thinks that I said it first, and she might be right. 234 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: I don't. Maybe I'm a planner, So maybe my version 235 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: is how I planned on it happening, and that's not 236 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: actually how it happened. I'm not sure. We'll never know. Yeah, 237 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: you remember the setting correctly, sitting on the floor of 238 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: my bedroom and which um in five p said it, 239 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: and then I said it back, and then I freaked 240 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: out because I was like, did I just say it 241 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: back to to make things less awkward? So then yeah, 242 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: So then I called and I took it back because 243 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: I would get back. I was just like, I don't 244 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: know if I'm there yet, and it's the first time 245 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: I've ever said or felt this way, so I don't 246 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 1: want to like rush into it. And then I said 247 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: it like a week later. M hmm, So that meant 248 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: a lot more because you really thought about it. Yeah, yeah, 249 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: so yeah, get back. That's the most becca thing I've 250 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: ever heard. That's what I was just thinking. That's such 251 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: a great contrast. As I was on the phone taking 252 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: it back, I was like, why am I like this? 253 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: Why is it plaguing me that I need to take 254 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: it back instead of just like letting it go. But 255 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: you're right, I do think it's that shows that it 256 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: was more intentional and there was like more thought and 257 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 1: that you really really liked soul searching, and they were like, no, 258 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: this is it, this is this is really how I feel. Right. Yeah, 259 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: So it was good at the end of it. But 260 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: I do remember having the thought as I was being like, 261 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, thinking, why am I? Well I always 262 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: be this way overthink everything? Maybe probably well I always 263 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: be this way, Like, Lord help me. Tanya came over 264 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: and uh, she needed a tennis racket for the weekend, 265 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: and so she wanted to borrow one of mine. So 266 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: we did an exchange yesterday where I laid it on 267 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: the sidewalk and I backed up and then she went 268 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: and picked it up. So we got to see each other, 269 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: waved to each other. Sucked so bad. I wish maybe 270 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 1: we could figure something out because we do live so 271 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: close together, where like you could bring out a lawn 272 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 1: chair and sit on your front porch and red Star 273 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: and I could come by and um, bring one of 274 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: my chairs and we could just like talk for a 275 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: little bit. I'm not opposed to it a front porch chain. Yeah. Right, 276 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: we're at the point of this lockdown that I feel 277 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: like you can start to expand your isolation pot a 278 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 1: little bit. And I don't know what a doctor would 279 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,360 Speaker 1: say about that. But we had a caller that we're 280 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: gonna try to get you next week. On the morning show, 281 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 1: they're doing a thing where one family it's a couple 282 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: with an only child, and then they have neighbors who 283 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 1: are a coupled with an only child, and they've decided 284 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: to co quarantine. So we're not they're not leaving their 285 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: apartments except to go to each other's apartments, you know, right, 286 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 1: because if if neither of them leave, then they can't 287 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: catch anything. So that's the idea. So I mean, if 288 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: you've both been quarantined for a long time, which you have, 289 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 1: maybe a starting to be okay. But then again, it's 290 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: one trip to the grocery store, does that throw it 291 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 1: all out the windown' you have to start the clock 292 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: over again. Yeah, I think it does. And like I've 293 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 1: been going to the I've been going to the grocery store, 294 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 1: you know, like I have been going to the doors, 295 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 1: and I try and go once a week ish, But um, yeah, 296 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 1: I do think it throws it off. So it's like, 297 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: I don't think it's totally safe to code pot or whatever. 298 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: But if we're keeping a good grothy like eight ten 299 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: ft apart. Maybe we could, I mean we could probably 300 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 1: just I could walk in straight up the stairs, don't 301 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 1: touch anything, get to the rooftop, or you come over 302 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: to my rooftop and we just sit the equal distance apart. 303 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 1: But we're still in a you know, private place, not 304 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: out in the middle of the street. Can I get 305 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 1: to your roof I like through this like outside world. No, 306 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 1: you can walk in. You can put your hands up 307 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 1: like you're going into surgery, and you can walk up 308 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: the stairs. Oh I see, I see, I see, I see. Yeah, 309 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: Like we're it's worth some thought. I'll run it by 310 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: I'll write it by Red Star and see get his opinion. 311 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: I tried. My nails are at like that breaking point, 312 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: not literally breaking, but to the point where they're just 313 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: gross and outgrown, and so I tried to file them down. 314 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: But I did it with I'm now. I did the 315 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: first one with my dominant hand, and now I don't 316 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: know if I have the strength to do this one 317 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 1: with my weak hand. Oh, you file them down like 318 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: how they actually do with the gels and the So 319 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: I filed the see. Yeah, I got neon tips before 320 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 1: I went to Hawaii, thinking oh, then I'll get them 321 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: redone to my normal look and here we are still 322 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 1: with neon tips, and here will be for quite some 323 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: more time. Yeah, there are worse, there are worse problems, 324 00:19:55,359 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: but that is I decided. So yesterday, I like, I 325 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: think I've been pretty vocal about the fact that I'm 326 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 1: like struggling mentally through all this um and yesterday hit 327 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: like a breaking point, and I decided that I'm going 328 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: to take back control. I'm taking back control over my 329 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: life because I'm just letting everything like control me. I'm 330 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: letting like I'm available to everybody at all times of 331 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: the day, and I'm realizing that I can't take that 332 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: on anymore. Like I've just been that way for the 333 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 1: last three weeks. If anybody needs anything literally work like 334 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 1: any anything, I'm here, I'm available. Can you face time? 335 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 1: Can you do this? Can you get this me? And 336 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 1: can you do this video? Can? I'm like yes, yes, yes, 337 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 1: and so um, I'm taking back control and I'm like 338 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,679 Speaker 1: creating a structure to my day so that i can 339 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: make sure that I'm still getting in like even though 340 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 1: I have a lot of Tanya time, making sure that 341 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: i have like an hour that's just for me, and 342 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: that I'm not you know what I mean, Like it's 343 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 1: really can't really explain it. But I'm going to create 344 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: like a schedule um and to take back control a 345 00:20:56,400 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: quarantine schedule. I mean, you know me, I need my routine. 346 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 1: I am a creature of habit and I thrive on routine. 347 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: So I've really tried hard to keep one. And it's 348 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: really challenging sometimes, but I've tried. But that's part of 349 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: the problem is when people know your home all the time, 350 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 1: they try to get you on the phone all the time. 351 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: We have meetings with the radio station all day every day, 352 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: and it's driving me crazy. So yeah, I see what 353 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: you're saying. But also I gotta have my same breakfast. 354 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: I gotta have my same lunch. I gotta do it 355 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: at the same time. I got a shower when I 356 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,400 Speaker 1: get up in the morning. I really try to keep 357 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: it regimented or I might do with my mind. I'm 358 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 1: gonna start doing that come Monday. I'm gonna like actually 359 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: get up like I'm going to the studio, like this 360 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: is going to be my studio, and I'm gonna like 361 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: actually treat it like I'm going into work and I'm 362 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: gonna pack my lunch the night before and like eat 363 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: out of that bag and like I'm serious, they're going 364 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: to turn on the lights in your living like good 365 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: morning everybody. I literally I'm like, I'm gonna pretend like 366 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm in the studio, So I'm gonna walk down my stairs, 367 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn lights, I'll say good morning every do 368 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: the whole Yeah, I'm going to do the whole thing, 369 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: like it's gonna be a whole new twnya come Monday. Wow, 370 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: that's good before the show. Yeah, And I'm gonna start 371 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 1: jump roping to like keep my energy up in between things. Yeah, 372 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: we could tell you you were starting to go down 373 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 1: a dark path. It was pretty clear. I thought, really yeah, 374 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 1: the amount of text I got that were like I 375 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: am losing my mind, all separate texts, different words like that. 376 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: Because it's like I don't want to complain because I 377 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,400 Speaker 1: know it's like I have at least I have a home, 378 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: and I'm healthy and like and a job that I 379 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: can do from home, like you know, like I am 380 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: very very grateful and I and I and I don't 381 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: want it to seem like I'm you know, complaining, but 382 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: I think, um, there's something about the mental aspect of 383 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: all of this that I thought I was a lot 384 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: stronger than like I thought. I was like, oh this, 385 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: I got this, and I realized I didn't got this. 386 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: This is going to go on so long that I 387 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 1: think a lot of people are going to go through 388 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 1: periods of that, even if they're still doing fine. Now, 389 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 1: everybody's going to go through so many emotions as this 390 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 1: goes on. It's just it's nothing any of us have 391 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 1: ever dealt with before. And my wife was just talking 392 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 1: about this this morning. We're so sad that our kids 393 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: aren't going to get to do their graduations because one 394 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: is leaving elementary school and one is leaving middle school. 395 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: It was so sad. But as soon as we expressed 396 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: that sadness, you feel the guilt of other people who 397 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: were in much worse situations. So you feel bad for 398 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: feeling sad and knowing that it's worse, and it's all 399 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 1: this just kind of this, this pile of negative emotions 400 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: you end up feeling. So I think it's okay that 401 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: we can be sad without feeling guilty. We can also 402 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: be grateful and appreciative and fortunate and all that stuff 403 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: and realize that it could be a lot worse and 404 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: still be sad about our kids. Yeah. I think it's 405 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: like perfectly fine to feel everything and like go into 406 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 1: like different moments of feeling each thing, like having the 407 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: moment of feeling like gratitude that you have a house 408 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 1: and you have food and you're totally financially okay, and 409 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 1: then having a moment of being like I hate this 410 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 1: and I'm bored and I want to see my friends 411 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: and I miss my schedule. I think it's okay to 412 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: have both. I think it's healthy to have both. Yeah, 413 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 1: And I think it's also hard too, because it's like 414 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,239 Speaker 1: you also want to help, you know what I mean. 415 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: Like we're all trying to figure out, like how can 416 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: we help each other, how can we come together without 417 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 1: leaving our home, you know what I mean. So it's 418 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: like like you read all these beautiful stories of people 419 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 1: like helping and doing things that they can. So I 420 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,399 Speaker 1: think it's just like being aware of all that, you know. 421 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah, Like I'm actually learning a lot of 422 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: friends in my life that have compromised immune systems. I 423 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: like I had no idea and I was like, oh 424 00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: my gosh, Like when I go to the grocery store 425 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: all texts you if you need anything, like let me know, 426 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: you know, like I had no idea. Yeah, um, are 427 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,400 Speaker 1: you on TikTok yet? Tommy, I am not on TikTok. 428 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: Are you on TikTok? Oh? Yeah? Yah on it? But 429 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm I like, I am really into just I'm a lurker. 430 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't participate much. Oh my god, my kids are obsessed. 431 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: It is so addictive. I literally lay in bed for 432 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: hours and then before I go to sleep, and then 433 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, what time is it? What happened? I went 434 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: into this like deep dark hole and then next thing 435 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just watching dance the same the same 436 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: dance happened over and never give the same song. It's 437 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: so weird, Like everyone that like tiny little gap when 438 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,360 Speaker 1: you're scrolling Instagram between the two posts TikTok's like, okay, 439 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: I forget that, And then now it's just like it's 440 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 1: a constant scream. I think that's the problem with it. 441 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 1: You don't know when one starts and one ends. You're 442 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 1: so right eastern, there's no break. I do the opposite 443 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 1: of you back I I have. I don't lurk on 444 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 1: there because I don't really understand like how to browse 445 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,159 Speaker 1: on it yet, But but I have. I have been 446 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: posting a couple of bids here and there. If I 447 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: got my TikTok, I ranked oreos on there and stuff 448 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: like that, Oh we love so you're not dancing. I 449 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: did one dance video, yeah, but but mostly it's other stuff. Um. 450 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: Dean is really funny on his because he like tries 451 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: to get Kalin to do like what do you call it? 452 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: Like brain teasers kind of yeah, like like like puzzles 453 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:58,360 Speaker 1: for the brain. Yeah, but it is hilarious. Her reactions 454 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 1: are so funny and genuine and once she figures out, 455 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: like what the answer is? Um, but yeah, I've been 456 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: doing a lot of tiktoking. I've been working out. I've 457 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: been trying to cook more, just like the new me, 458 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: you know. Nice, that's good that we should use this 459 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 1: time to better ourselves however we can. But also like 460 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: I made the perfect grilled cheese yesterday, I still am 461 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: thinking about it. The key. The key is that people 462 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: gave me tips because I had done a video where 463 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: I toasted like a turkey mount and people and I 464 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: struggled spreading the butter on the bread, and people were like, 465 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 1: you just need to use mayonnaise, which I was like, 466 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: that sounds a little heavy. So I tried that. I 467 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: didn't really like it that much. Then I tried melting 468 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: the butter and putting the bread directly on the pan, 469 00:27:52,359 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: and that's the key to the golden bread. Nice. So yeah, 470 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: highly recommend. That's all I have to offer today. Goodbye. 471 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: I don't know the last time I ate a grilled 472 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: cheese sandwich was probably like two thousand and ten. Wow, 473 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 1: the best m Like, what a horrible life. I started 474 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 1: making grilled cheese sandwiches with the brown bread from the 475 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 1: cheesecake factory and it's a it's a game changer. It's 476 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: really really good. Wow. Easton's living in the year three thousands. 477 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: Um wait a sec, have y'all. I need to talk 478 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: to Easton specifically about fruity pebbles, okay, because I don't 479 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: think I've had sereal. I don't think I've had cereal 480 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: like eighth grade. I can't picture eating cereal at all. 481 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: That's it's my go to froyo topic. Interesting, interesting, interesting factor. 482 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: I may have done that at some point in the 483 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: last ten years. I may have done that as well. 484 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,959 Speaker 1: You are such a liar because you talked about how 485 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: you ate like crap and you were like all over 486 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: the place and ate whatever you wanted to and um, 487 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: last weekend college and stuff. Oh that's college was ten 488 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: years ago. Oh you said eighth grade. Well, Cereal, I 489 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 1: don't think I really brought into my college years. But 490 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: in college I did eat a grilled cheese, and I 491 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: would kind of do all those things, like we did 492 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 1: taco bell and like all that stuff. For sure. I 493 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: just got back into cereal with with the fruity pebbles. 494 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: Ceter got me back into Cereal me too. I haven't 495 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: had it in so long, And then I got it 496 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: actually in Hawaii. We went to the store and I 497 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: was like, that sounds good, and ever since then it's 498 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: all I crave. But I am trying to like limit 499 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: myself because I could eat it for every meal back 500 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: and I've been treating selfies of ourselves eating fruity pebbles 501 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: back and forth and els it's like you gotta stop, man, 502 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: leave her alone. Leave with regular milk, just like regular milk, 503 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: just dairy. I do almond milk. I do milk from 504 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 1: yeah nice. What about cocoa pebbles? How do you guys 505 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: feel about that, because I'm pretty pleased with cocoa pepples 506 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 1: as well. I have them in my house, right. I 507 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: love cocoa. I love cocoa pebbles. I love cocoa puffs. 508 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: I love frosted flakes. Nice, good call frosted flakes. The 509 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: Tiger one, Yeah they're great. Yeah that's good. You don't 510 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: even know Cereal from a pop culture standpoint, Like, how 511 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: is how you missed Cereal in your life? Excuse me? 512 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: I just said it. I just got it at the tiger, 513 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: the tiger, like, of course it's a tiger. They're great. 514 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 1: Everyone knows that the rabbit, which one is the rabbit? 515 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 1: Which Cereal has the rabbit TwixT? So yeah, I gotta right. 516 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: Which is a candy? Are tricks? Tricks with the berries? 517 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: Right at the berries? Yeah? It's her kids, like Captain 518 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: Crunch adjacent? Right, Okay? I feel like that's insulting to 519 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: cart Crunch. I feel like Captain Crunch would not be 520 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: flattered by the comparison to Tricks because to me, they 521 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 1: are at different level. Tricks is, Tricks is cute and cartoony, 522 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: but really kind of garbage Cereal. Captain Crunch is fantastic 523 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: and crunch Berries is top of the line. Well yeah, 524 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: marked Mark like the just berriesops. All Berries is one 525 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: of the finest cereals ever created. It's my favorite cereal 526 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: title of a whole time. I love it. It makes 527 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: me laugh everything. There is an accident at the factory 528 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: and they accidentally started producing cereal. It was only berries, 529 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: and then they accidentally created a whole marketing campaign and 530 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: designed a box. It was all a huge action. It's 531 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 1: so funny, is that true? No, but that's the premise 532 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: and not a lot of cereal has a premise and 533 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: I respected for that. How about Yeah? I like it 534 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 1: to Who's into apple Jack's? I did like apple Okay, alright, alright, 535 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: I used to like to eat apple Jack's dry Wow, 536 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: just like just like reach your palms into and just 537 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,480 Speaker 1: like poor little bowl and stop him in there, pop 538 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: him in. Um wait, Tanya, I just had a random 539 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 1: question for you. What are you doing about your waxings 540 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: or your lasering, your waxing or what you know what? 541 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 1: Actually Red Star asked me about that, and I was like, 542 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: you guys have not you've been listening. I started lasering? 543 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 1: Um when did I start lasering? Maybe? Like seven or 544 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 1: eight months ago, no more than that. Let me. Yeah, 545 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: I started lasering. You actually goble. You actually can't wax 546 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: um while you're doing laser hair removal. So I haven't 547 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:16,719 Speaker 1: waxed in like almost around like September time, so I've 548 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: been shaving. It's not my favorite, but it's what you 549 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: gotta do for the for the cause. Is it? Is 550 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: it easier since you've been lasering, though, Oh I hate 551 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: shaving my crotch. I hate it, but you do it. 552 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: You do it for the clause. I do it for 553 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: them to do our part. We have to do because 554 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 1: when you laser, eventually I will have no hair down there, 555 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 1: so it will all work itself out. But in the meantime, 556 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: shaving Susan is my name, Shaving Sharon, Shaving Sharon is 557 00:33:54,920 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: my name. Great where we love. It's all ful to 558 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 1: be doing your part. Somebody actually asked that. They were like, 559 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:08,760 Speaker 1: what do I do? I'm not going to getting my wax, 560 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'll tell you what not to 561 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:14,280 Speaker 1: do is pluck your bikini line. Because that was actually 562 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 1: literal torture. That's a moost like psychopathic torture. I know 563 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 1: that was that was that was a dark time. Wow, 564 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 1: how long did that take you to do? If you 565 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: don't mind me asking? Um, No, I don't mind it 566 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 1: at all. Actually I did it in about thirty minutes. 567 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 1: And I can't remember why I did it. There was 568 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: a reason, just some experiment or no, somebody was coming. 569 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,320 Speaker 1: Maybe it was doctor screen time was coming to I 570 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 1: don't remember. I was going on a date or something 571 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: with Mr D and I like I couldn't get into 572 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 1: my waxer or something like that, so I just plucked 573 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 1: my bikini line. I can't remember there was a reason 574 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: for it. There's I would not do that for anyone. 575 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 1: I want to go through that for anyone. I still 576 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 1: don't understand why didn't you just shave? Because I hate 577 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,320 Speaker 1: shaving so much, so the tweezing was a better option. 578 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 1: I thought it was at the time, but it was. 579 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: It's definitely not for anybody listening. It is not the 580 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:23,240 Speaker 1: better alternative. The way your brain works is so interesting 581 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,919 Speaker 1: to me. I know sometimes I wish, sometimes I wish 582 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 1: I could reprogram it, but no, no, no, it needs 583 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:49,800 Speaker 1: to stay how it is. Um. Can we do some 584 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 1: emails because these are from last week and I wanted 585 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 1: to do them, but we didn't have time. All right, 586 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 1: here we go. This is from Anonymous. The title is 587 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: getting back with your ax, so that's the you can 588 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 1: put yourself in that mind frame. My ex boyfriend and 589 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 1: I didd for about six months. He checked all the 590 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: boxes and with someone I fell in love with quickly. 591 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 1: Our relationship was everything I wanted it to be. Three 592 00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 1: days after the New Year, I had an intuition to 593 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 1: go through his phone and I was heartbroken with what 594 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: I found. He was at a wedding a month before 595 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 1: and was drunk, messaging a bridesmaid that he wanted to 596 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: kiss her. I confronted him and he says, nothing happened 597 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,800 Speaker 1: between him and the girl. Well, that's not great, because 598 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: apparently that was her decision. I was entirely upset and 599 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 1: broke up with him in the heat of the moment. 600 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: Fast forward two months, he reached out to me, stating 601 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,839 Speaker 1: how sorry he was, how much he missed me, how 602 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,279 Speaker 1: much he still loves me. We have decided to try 603 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: it out again, but it's been hard for me to 604 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: fully trust him. Now. Should I have even gotten back 605 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 1: together with him? Have you ever gotten back together with 606 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 1: someone who emotionally cheated on you or had bad intentions 607 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 1: at all. Divorce. Yeah, it's a hard note for me. 608 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: I mean, if somebody's cheating, like does a zebra change 609 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: its spots? Right, he didn't cheat, but he certainly was 610 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: trying to and probably would have had she not put 611 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: up to stop sign. Yeah. Yeah, the girl definitely is 612 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 1: the one who put it who didn't move forward. I 613 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:25,280 Speaker 1: would imagine the bridesmaid to me. I just think trust 614 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 1: is like the biggest, the biggest thing for me, and 615 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 1: if you lose that, it's very hard for me to 616 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 1: gain that back. Personally, I think that everyone handles things differently, 617 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 1: and I think if you're someone who feels like this 618 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 1: is your person and you're able to move forward from 619 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 1: it and eventually get over the um trust issues that 620 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: you're I mean obviously, I mean we don't know how 621 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 1: long ago they've been or how long they've been back together, 622 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 1: But if you're continuously doubting him or not trusting him, 623 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 1: what's the point of being in a relationship. Like, if 624 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: you're that miserable and you don't have any trust, or 625 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: you're constantly wondering who he's texting, or where he's going 626 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 1: or who he's talking to you, that sounds just like 627 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: a horrible relationship to put yourself in. Agreed. However, I 628 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:20,759 Speaker 1: am going to pull out the card. I pull out 629 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:25,319 Speaker 1: a lot, which is the guys are stupid card. He's 630 00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 1: clearly stupid, and he clearly regrets his stupid mistake. However, 631 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 1: whether or not you guys can make it work is 632 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: up to the two of you. He can, he can 633 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 1: earn it back, he can earn back the trust. Uh, 634 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 1: it's just gonna take time. But also, like Becca said, 635 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: if you're miserable, if you're constantly looking over your shoulder 636 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 1: and wondering, then this isn't for you. But if you 637 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 1: think you can get past that as you guys grow together, 638 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: because I don't know how old you are, but if 639 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,480 Speaker 1: you're both very young, I think this is something he 640 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 1: could get past. Because guys do stupid things. I think 641 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 1: this could be okay. I have a girlfriend who was married, 642 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 1: and she tried to get past it. She found out 643 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,800 Speaker 1: that her husband had been cheating on her because he 644 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,960 Speaker 1: had a drinking problem, and so he was like kind 645 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: of saying, like it goes hand in hand, and so 646 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 1: he she's stuck with him. He got sober, and I 647 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,800 Speaker 1: think maybe like a year and a half into it, 648 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,319 Speaker 1: she was still just like I can't, like this isn't 649 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm constantly like stressed that you're cheating on me. So 650 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,799 Speaker 1: they divorced. She's happily married now having a baby. Yeah. 651 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, I think it's just different 652 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 1: people how they handle the situation. But I don't think 653 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: getting back together with someone in a relationship, like you're 654 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,479 Speaker 1: not married, you don't have kids, you're not like trying 655 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 1: to make it work for anyone but yourself, And if 656 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: you're just like constantly miserable and questioning things, I don't 657 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,160 Speaker 1: think it's a relationship you should be in. But if 658 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,399 Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, I'm going to give it a chance, 659 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 1: and you actively learned to trust him and give him 660 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 1: a chance, then do it. But like you kind of 661 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,840 Speaker 1: have to like either choose to move forward and forgive 662 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 1: him or break up for sure, all right. Next one 663 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: from Sam. I live in a house with four roommates. 664 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 1: There are five of us total. Out of the five, 665 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: four of us are taking social distancing very seriously. The 666 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 1: one roommate who's not is continuing to hang out with 667 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: her different friends, seeing families, spending the night at her boyfriend, 668 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: who was with her boyfriend, who is still working with 669 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,840 Speaker 1: who knows who and where and also has his own roommates. 670 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 1: I feel so defeated. I have asked him nicely to 671 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 1: take this seriously. She's asked me a few times why 672 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 1: I have I haven't been the same way. Well, I 673 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 1: told her because I can't sleep at night, I'm so 674 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,280 Speaker 1: worried about the world, and because people aren't taking this seriously. 675 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 1: It's been ten days since our last conversation and it's 676 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 1: made our home awkward. You could cut the tension with 677 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 1: a knife. What do I do? I would be so 678 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 1: frustrated with this. I would literally be so annoyed. What 679 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,399 Speaker 1: would you do? Tanya? Honestly, I don't know, because you're 680 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 1: kind of like you're kind of stuck right like, And 681 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:00,800 Speaker 1: she didn't say if she does she live close to 682 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 1: her family, maybe she can go quarantine in her family's house. 683 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 1: That's an option. Yeah, I was gonna say, maybe you 684 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 1: ask if she can either quarantine with her boyfriend or 685 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 1: or her family if she's going to be going in 686 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 1: and out, because y'all are actually worried, and it's it's 687 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,720 Speaker 1: very selfish of her to put y'all in that position. 688 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: If everyone else in the house is taking it seriously 689 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 1: and she's the only one, I think it's a very 690 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 1: selfish move. I also, like, don't understand people that are 691 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: just like playing it cool, like you know, it's like, 692 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 1: just stay do your part, stay in Like, yes, there 693 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: are things that you have to do, like you need 694 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 1: to go to the grocery store, you might need to 695 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 1: go to the doctor, you might need to you know 696 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, but minimalize all the things and 697 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 1: just do your part, you know, and you have four 698 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 1: people to hang out with, like you're one of the 699 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 1: luckier ones who has like a group. I also, I 700 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,919 Speaker 1: saw I saw this the other day, and I wish 701 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 1: I had it, but maybe you've seen it. But it's 702 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 1: just about how this we should remember this moment as 703 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: humanity's active love toward each other, because it's a tremendous 704 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,160 Speaker 1: act of love that we're all doing this in order 705 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: to protect each other. We're not doing this to keep 706 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 1: from getting sick. We're doing this to stop spreading it 707 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: so that our parents and grandparents and our friends parents 708 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 1: and grandparents don't get it. And that's the whole idea, 709 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 1: which is a very loving act if you think about it. 710 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 1: So the people that are ignoring it are choosing not 711 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,760 Speaker 1: to to love. They're choosing to just kind of ignore 712 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,320 Speaker 1: it all and put their head in the sand like 713 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 1: it's not going on. So that sucks that it's your roommate. 714 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,240 Speaker 1: If I were you, I would never leave my bedroom. 715 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,320 Speaker 1: I'd go I would get home from work or wherever 716 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm going, I would wash my hands, I would go 717 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: to the bedroom, and I would stay there until I 718 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 1: had to leave again, because that's kind of your only 719 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: option if you don't have the family or the boyfriend. 720 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: That is so unfair. Though for the rest of the roommates, 721 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: I would have a house meeting and I would say, hey, 722 00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 1: I want to be respectful towards you and what you need. 723 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: But if you're going in and out and going to 724 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 1: all these places, I think it's fair if maybe you 725 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 1: go quarantine with your family or leaves crime, or with 726 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 1: your friends or your boyfriend. Like, she clearly has other 727 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: places that she can go, so if she wants to 728 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: be running around and doesn't want to do her part, 729 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 1: then she should go stay with them. I don't think 730 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:25,480 Speaker 1: it's fair that four other people are locked into their 731 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 1: rooms because of one person. True, that's a good point. 732 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:34,480 Speaker 1: It's a not for me, just like straight up now 733 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:42,279 Speaker 1: out her arrested. Have her arrested, you know, like there's 734 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,919 Speaker 1: that number that you can call that if like there's 735 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 1: businesses that are still operating, you can tell yeah, yeah, 736 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:54,759 Speaker 1: three one one on your roommate. Yeah, get her as 737 00:43:54,920 --> 00:44:00,320 Speaker 1: in jail. Yeah no, I would, just like I would. Hey, 738 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 1: I I feel really awkward. This situation is uncomfortable. Everyone's 739 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: scared and concerned. But I just want to be upfront 740 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 1: with you how we're feeling and get your other roommates involved. 741 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,799 Speaker 1: Don't make it just like one on one. Hm, that's 742 00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 1: a good idea. House meeting is a good idea. Yeah, 743 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 1: well anything else? People have been asking for two episodes 744 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,799 Speaker 1: a week for a long time. Here we are take 745 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 1: a global pandemic. So here we are. Yeah, but we 746 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:32,520 Speaker 1: did it. We're here? Are we watching Graves tonight? Oh? 747 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 1: Is it Thursday? I've been so I was talked about 748 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: it last week. I've been so into Grays lately. I 749 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 1: think it's been on an upswing for sure. Ever since 750 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: that horrendous family Dinner episode has been on an upswing. Okay, 751 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,399 Speaker 1: I'll catch up today. And I'll watch and I'll watch 752 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: tonight's as well. Great, thank you. That's all right. We'll 753 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,839 Speaker 1: be able to discuss on Monday. Yeah, we don't want 754 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,399 Speaker 1: to change the title of the podcast if you don't 755 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: have to. I'm also gonna try to um cut my 756 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 1: boyfriend's hair this weekend. Oh my gosh, don't let me. 757 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 1: He like won't let me pictures. I took pictures of 758 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: like the back because he just wants me to like 759 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 1: trim it up, like just kind of just like you know, 760 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 1: I'm not going to cut like the lengths, just like 761 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 1: around the head or whatever. And so I took pictures 762 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:24,279 Speaker 1: of it, and I was like showing him where all 763 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 1: I was gonna cut and I was like, look, it's 764 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,120 Speaker 1: so easy to go right there. And he goes, oh, 765 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,719 Speaker 1: there's no way. I'm hell I'm letting you do that. 766 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,920 Speaker 1: My head. I was like, what if I watch YouTube 767 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 1: videos or something and like learn how to do it, 768 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:39,760 Speaker 1: And he's like, maybe if you like take it seriously. 769 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna try and show him. I'm gonna YouTube 770 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 1: some things and like show him that I'm actually gonna 771 00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 1: take it seriously. Oh my gosh, please film that. I mean, 772 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,480 Speaker 1: you can put a star over and or whatever. But yeah, 773 00:45:55,640 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 1: yeah for sure. Wow, um, I hope this episode gave you, 774 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: you know, a midweek break and a midweek jolt, and 775 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: then we will see you just in a few days 776 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,320 Speaker 1: back on Monday. Yeah, and maybe you guys can email 777 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:24,919 Speaker 1: us in on on like saying I love you. Oh yeah, 778 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: stories about yeah, their stories. It's good. You can get 779 00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 1: some funny ones. I don't know stories people this email 780 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: saying I love you. You please tell us you love 781 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 1: us through email, I know. I was like, well, you 782 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,840 Speaker 1: could go on iTunes and give us some you know, 783 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 1: five stars, but that works. I wanted to thank the scrubbers. 784 00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 1: I posted in the Facebook group about my wife's um uh, 785 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: the workouts she's been posting on YouTube. So a friend 786 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 1: of hers said to her, hey, you used to be 787 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 1: a groop backside teacher. Can you put something up because 788 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 1: I need to. I'm really feeling out of it. So 789 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,399 Speaker 1: she did it, and she said it was some friends 790 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 1: and she put it up on Facebook and YouTube. She 791 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,480 Speaker 1: got a really good response from it, and I said 792 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: to her, you know who would love this, The scrubbers 793 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 1: would love this. So I posted it. It got like, 794 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,120 Speaker 1: you know, two thousand likes or something like. It's very sweet. 795 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: Everybody was very responsive, but she has seventy subscribers now 796 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,160 Speaker 1: and so she's like, she's like feels pressured now that 797 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 1: she's kind of makes you's got a real audience for 798 00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 1: these things. But it's really cool. It was always sweet 799 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 1: how everybody kind of jumped on it and people are 800 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 1: doing it and people are telling her how sore she's 801 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,399 Speaker 1: making them, and nothing makes no way happier than knowing 802 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: she's making people sore. Totally means it's working. Yeah, so 803 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 1: thanks for that. And if you didn't see that post, 804 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 1: it is just Amy Molnitski on YouTube. You can subscribe 805 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,800 Speaker 1: and let her know that she is keeping you in 806 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: shape because she loves that. I love that. I love that. 807 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,839 Speaker 1: I love our scrubbers. They always show up. Yeah, they're 808 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:54,800 Speaker 1: good people. Um, we love you guys, stay in, stay safe, 809 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,879 Speaker 1: and like Mark said, we're doing it for each other. 810 00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 1: So um, they're staying in and everything, not the podcast, 811 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 1: but we are doing this for you. Um, we love 812 00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,839 Speaker 1: you guys, and we'll be back on my bay. Yay. 813 00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,280 Speaker 1: Thanks for doing the zoom. I appreciate it. Love you guys,