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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to episode three A for the Dads.

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Speaker 1: I am Sherman Young. I'm the co host alongside Will Compton,

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Speaker 1: who's the host of the show. This week. We have

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Speaker 1: some really crazy stories. I won't spoil it here at

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Speaker 1: the top, but Will has maybe one of the craziest

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Speaker 1: stories He's definitely told on for the Dads, but maybe

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Speaker 1: even in Busting History. Make sure you check that out.

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Speaker 1: We go through Dad callins again. Guys, six to oh

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Speaker 1: one the Dads. That is our call in number. You

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Speaker 1: guys have been crushing the call ins. We've had to

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Speaker 1: dump our voicemails on our for the Dad's phone already

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Speaker 1: because you guys are blown up the line. We thank

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Speaker 1: you for that. You guys have been crushing the comments section.

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Speaker 1: We're seeing comments all over the place, whether that's socials

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Speaker 1: rather that is YouTube. A reminder for the credits is

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Speaker 1: when we play dad content. So if you guys want

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Speaker 1: to continue to dm us, any gender reveals, funny dad moments,

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Speaker 1: anything that is fun that you want to share with

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Speaker 1: us is okay for us to post on socials. Make

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Speaker 1: sure to send that in. And last, but not least, guys,

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Speaker 1: huge news. We are moving to a new YouTube channel.

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Speaker 1: So the episodes right now that you're watching are on

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Speaker 1: Busting with the Boys. Next week, it's going to be

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Speaker 1: on before the Dad's YouTube channel. We will be posting

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Speaker 1: all content for the dads from now on on that

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Speaker 1: new channel. We'll make it very easy for you guys.

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Speaker 1: Will is always making fun of the boomers and I

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Speaker 1: get it. But boomers can figure it out quick and

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Speaker 1: we'll make sure we'll hold your hand in the process.

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Speaker 1: We'll be sharing that link of the new channel for

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Speaker 1: you guys, but be on the lookout for that. Make

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Speaker 1: sure you subscribe. We got to bump those numbers up.

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Speaker 1: As Taylor always says on Busting, unsubscribe, re subscribe. It

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Speaker 1: helps us out a lot. If you want some merch

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Speaker 1: like this, we have some new hats, some new bucket hats,

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Speaker 1: and we'll put a link below you guys can scan

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Speaker 1: that QR code. If you want to help the show

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Speaker 1: new bus and merch. This is a really fun episode.

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Speaker 1: It was super long. Hope you guys enjoy. Let's jump

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Speaker 1: into that episode.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to for the Dads. Uh, listen a lot to

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Speaker 2: break down. I've been in Chicago and New York this

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Speaker 2: past week. Right now, it is currently as you're watching this,

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Speaker 2: it's Wednesday, It's Wednesday morning. And again, I know I

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Speaker 2: the baby boomers who don't quite have everything figured out electronically,

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Speaker 2: please make sure you're subscribed to this channel on YouTube,

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Speaker 2: Bust with the Boys.

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Speaker 3: And again we will be kicking off.

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Speaker 2: We will have a channel of our own here in

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Speaker 2: July coming up, so be on the lookout for that.

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Speaker 2: We will be We'll be teeing it up to you,

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 2: Yes, dude, I'm sitting there. You know, I'm whipping around

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Speaker 2: Fired me up? Yes, dude, fired me up. Fired me up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but right now, I know you guys said, you

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Speaker 2: Number one. New York is overrated. We had fun, we

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Speaker 2: been a long week. It's been a long week. It's

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Speaker 2: been a long weekend. It was fun being at Barstool

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Speaker 1: Yep, two and O on the Dozen, Yes, two and

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Speaker 2: We made it to the final four. I'll be out

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Speaker 2: in Boston this Thursday. That'll be live stream on Barstool's

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Speaker 2: YouTube channel. But the Booze Ponies are We're coming where

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Speaker 2: two and oh We're coming.

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Speaker 1: I love me some Dana Bears, Yeah, shameless.

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Speaker 3: Love some Dana Beers.

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Speaker 2: Love fidal Berg, love fiddle Berg, love file Berg. If

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Speaker 2: That's no free shout outs to the boy Shane Gillis.

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Speaker 3: That you guys are leaving. I was kind of just

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Speaker 2: I love that you guys were just like, fuck it, dude,

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Speaker 2: go over an hour if you guys have to, we

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Speaker 3: Sherman.

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Speaker 1: He now has a spotlight. I'm the problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she's got the spotlight.

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Speaker 1: There's no way you two are ever going to go

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Speaker 2: But that's a good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good thing. But just scanning through these comments,

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Speaker 2: a Rock eighty six shot out. You really appreciate you

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Speaker 2: for the dads will ensure them. You guys are the goats.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for a solid future dad advice and appreciate

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Speaker 2: recognition for my wife and I was journey. Big hugs,

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Speaker 2: tiny kisses. Again, just a little little warning down at

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: Here we go Mark Mark Arnett sixty four to seventy seven.

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Speaker 2: Pro tip for Sureham dad of a ten year old

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Speaker 2: so when they outgrow it, before they actually wear it,

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Speaker 1: When you have that many. Chef, we've highlighted a bunch

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Speaker 3: You say, elves, But we have one and it's Chef.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have one. And he's having to also be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: He's trying to do everything possible to make sure this

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Speaker 1: We did buy him dinner, though, I will say that

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Speaker 3: Should we get into should we get into? Motherfucked?

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Speaker 2: Charo had been Charlo had done this as Charlie knows

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Speaker 2: it's okay. It's tap being and you've seen.

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Speaker 2: I'm in a panic. You know. They're taking it slow,

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Speaker 2: like what's your name, what's your address, what's PROHNE number

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Speaker 3: What's happening? I'm like, my three year old is choking.

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00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,440
Speaker 1: She's still currently choking on this coin. Yeah.

430
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:37,639
Speaker 2: We're trying to get out of her and it's not

431
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:38,080
Speaker 2: coming out.

432
00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,040
Speaker 1: And are they coaching you?

433
00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,800
Speaker 2: Godly, It's hard to remember because it was such a

434
00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:49,679
Speaker 2: moment of like panic and you don't know what's going on,

435
00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,679
Speaker 2: Charles just jumps into like superhero mode, like yelling all

436
00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 2: these coaching directions to do it. I'm thinking, I'm doing

437
00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,719
Speaker 2: the Heimlit correctly because I took the CPR class back

438
00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 2: when I was a lifeguard back in high school. Yeah,

439
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 2: and I'm just talking to I'm talking to whoever nine

440
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,280
Speaker 2: one one on the phone and saying what's going on.

441
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,160
Speaker 2: They're like, we're sending somebody over to you. As they're

442
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 2: sending somebody over to me. That call lasted three minutes.

443
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,920
Speaker 2: Probably around the two minute mark, Charo is down.

444
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 3: Her throat again.

445
00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 2: She's like, I got it, I got it, and then

446
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:19,400
Speaker 2: pulls it out, gets the coin out. As they're driving

447
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 2: over to the house and I'm like, coins out. She's fine.

448
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 2: She's like is she breathing? And I walk over to

449
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 2: the room, I'm like, hey, you know, I'm asking her

450
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 2: questions and stuff. She seems like she's gonna be okay.

451
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,280
Speaker 2: She's just in a panic and she's crying. There's blood

452
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 2: everywhere because Charle probably scraped her throat or scraped something

453
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 2: inside of her mouth. Because there's blood on my there's

454
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 2: blood on my shirt, there's blood on the counter. Yes, bro, Yes,

455
00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: I've been holding that on me for over a Yes,

456
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,199
Speaker 2: And that was one of those moments where it's like

457
00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,439
Speaker 2: you're internally motherfucking yourself because I was just trying to

458
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 2: do something on the iPad and next thing you know,

459
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:56,720
Speaker 2: she's gagging and choking.

460
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,880
Speaker 3: And it happened. It happened quick, you know what I mean.

461
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 2: Yes, if you turn away for one second, you have

462
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 2: food set up, you're trying to get something off on

463
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 2: the iPad and she's gagging herself and the next thing you know,

464
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 2: she's choking on a coin and fire department ambulance comes over,

465
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 2: they're running her vitals, they're doing all this stuff. She

466
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 2: checks out, Fine, she's all good, but she was choking

467
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 2: on a fucking coin. Bro from winning to mimic of

468
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 2: magic trick? Can we.

469
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Speaker 1: Really quick before we jump into this, Can we crack

470
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Speaker 1: a cold one to Chario saving today?

471
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Speaker 2: Oh buddy, yeah we can, because Chrall went into superhero mode. Yeah.

472
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,919
Speaker 2: I was in it. I was in just panic. Like

473
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 2: I again, I'm like trying to do the Heimlich. I

474
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 2: think I'm doing it right, but nothing, your mind is

475
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: going everywhere. That was so long ago. When you do

476
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,920
Speaker 2: the CPR class that you don't know if you're doing

477
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Speaker 2: it correctly.

478
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Speaker 1: And bro the fact that she had the wherewithal to

479
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 1: just be like, I'm digging this shit out.

480
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, get.

481
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 2: I'm getting it because I'm seeing it happen and my

482
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 2: eyes are wide open again. I was just like a

483
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:15,719
Speaker 2: kid sitting on the fucking sideline thinking like I don't know,

484
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 2: you're thinking your kid could die right there. Because then

485
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 2: when the fire department everybody comes over and they're kind

486
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 2: of breaking it down. They're like, hey, if by any

487
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 2: chance this were to happen ever again and she goes unconscious,

488
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 2: all you have to do is just hit like the

489
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Speaker 2: I think it was like thirty CPR, Yeah, CPR compressions presses,

490
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: whatever it is, give her some marriages to keep oxygen

491
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 2: going to her brain. But they're like, if she was unconscious, like,

492
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: we would have still been able. We would have still

493
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 2: been able to save her. With it being a coin,

494
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 2: we would have still been able to save her even

495
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 2: if she's unconscious. Yeah, So just to put your mind

496
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Speaker 2: at ease, because you're thinking, if they don't get.

497
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: Here before her eyes closed, before her.

498
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 2: Eyes closed, like she would die. That's what's happening. That's

499
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Speaker 2: what I'm thinking of my mind. I'm assuming Charles and

500
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 2: the same exact thing.

501
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 1: Also, we are not experts and do not take any

502
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,919
Speaker 1: Yeah this is not yeah yeah yeah, but while I

503
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: asked this question, this is my personal question too.

504
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Speaker 3: Will.

505
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 1: This is not for the listeners to take in as advice.

506
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 1: Aren't you supposed to do like the two finger the

507
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 1: three finger thing with toddlers and not like the full

508
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 1: hand compression.

509
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Speaker 3: So Chef Jack is saying, yes, take his advice.

510
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can take no.

511
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Speaker 2: I think with like rue her being three, you would

512
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 2: still go like on on the front. It feels like, uh,

513
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 2: it feels scotty. You'd be flipping her back and forth,

514
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 2: patting on the back and patting on the front. Yeah.

515
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 2: For the compressions, I think, yeah, you do like fingers

516
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 2: or whatever. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah dude, that was so

517
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 2: long ago, but I was trying to I was trying

518
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: to like remember, like as I'm just like doing the

519
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 2: hoimelock and everything else.

520
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: But it was ar will Okay. Also that brings that

521
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: reminds me and I'm gonna go buy one.

522
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 3: Go take a CPR class.

523
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 1: Hey one, go take a CPR class. You can get

524
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: them for free. At your local county hospital. Don't quote

525
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: me on that, but do I'm almost positive that's a thing.

526
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: If Chef Jack can google that, I'm almost positive that's

527
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:28,360
Speaker 1: a thing. Secondly, these choking like kid rescuer things, it's

528
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: those little like it's like a mask and you do

529
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: the suction is really bad radio, but yeah, you put

530
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 1: it on like it's a mask and it has this

531
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: little almost like a ball pumper thing on the bottom.

532
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Speaker 1: And I've been seeing videos on the internet that make

533
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: me want to go buy that thing tomorrow. I know

534
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Speaker 1: you have a kid in the world.

535
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be smart to do.

536
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: But oh my god, buddy, it was terrifying. It was

537
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: terrifying round of.

538
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 2: The yeah, yeah, dude. She flew into action, bro, And

539
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there like, how did this happen so quick?

540
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Because I was the one

541
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: like sitting by her. Oh yeah, And again I looked

542
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 2: over like I heard the I heard the choke in

543
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,959
Speaker 2: the gag and I look over at her and then

544
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 2: she's looking at me and she like does it again?

545
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: And I'm like, what are you doing? And she just

546
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 2: starts kind of panicking, and I'm like, are you all right?

547
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 2: And Charles like, oh my god, she's choking. She's choking.

548
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 2: Sprints over. I'm like, she's choking. She's like she's got

549
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 2: a coin. I'm just thinking a fucking coin. I'm just thinking,

550
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 2: what in the hell is happening again, immediately started doing

551
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 2: the Heimlich Charles like idly standing by, just like watch out.

552
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 2: She's like watch out, move you call.

553
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 3: Nine one one. She starts fucking trying to dig down.

554
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 2: Dude. It was.

555
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 3: It was terrifying. Dude, Thank god I.

556
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Speaker 1: Do have a nurse for a wife.

557
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

558
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna pop quizzer when I get home and

559
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: not tell her this part of the story first. I'd

560
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 1: be like, theoretically, yeah, like Scarlet's cheering on it. You know,

561
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: she gets a coin down there. Where are we doing

562
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: tess her? Yeah, but hopefully.

563
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 2: You heimelick until you would Basically what they were kind

564
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 2: of telling us is you would you would heim lick

565
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 2: and try to get it out up until they go unconscious.

566
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 2: When they go unconscious again, you can't like don't panic,

567
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 2: and you sit there and do the compressions. You would

568
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: hit thirty compressions, try to blow get auction to their brain.

569
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 2: You're just trying to keep oxygen going until help gets there. Yeah,

570
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 2: because they were there within like within five minutes from

571
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 2: the call. Damn, we were on the phone. She's like,

572
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 2: I got somebody headed your way. And even when I

573
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 2: was like, hey, the coin's out, I think she's all good,

574
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: they're already on their way. So whenever they get there,

575
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 2: like they'll choke bottles and make sure everything's clear. And

576
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: they were saying, it's it's honestly, it's better, like it's

577
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 2: a good thing that it was that it was a

578
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: coin and not food, because food can start breaking down

579
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 2: and actually block her throat or where she was breathing.

580
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: Because since root didn't pass out, they were under the

581
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 2: impression that it probably wasn't fully blocking her airways.

582
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: Well, and it's so big it probably got caught up

583
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 1: more like in her.

584
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like it was like I'm not sure

585
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: it was like up here, and they're like if it

586
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 2: would have got there, like you know, showing her if

587
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: it would have got down to here. You know, they

588
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 2: were just kind of talking to her to have conversation

589
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: with her. She was just like trum, Yeah, I slept.

590
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: I mean, you're you're beating yourself up. Just as a parent,

591
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 2: because you take your eyes off of it for a

592
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 2: minute and something can go sideways like that, and then

593
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 2: you know, Charles was Charle was struggling for a while afterwards,

594
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 2: and you know, I'm like, you know, maybe we don't

595
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 2: teach the magic trick to Scotti.

596
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: Did she laugh?

597
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 2: She yeah, she knew I was joking, but she's like, yeah,

598
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 2: like you're just not you know, Charle's not thinking she

599
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 2: was gonna do something like that, No, because the last

600
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 2: time I saw charge do that magic trick was a

601
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,199
Speaker 2: long time ago, and I guess rue she saw the

602
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 2: coin and it probably just reminded her of the magic trick.

603
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,199
Speaker 2: She's like, look, mom, I think like rou was showing her, like,

604
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 2: hey mama, do the matrics. She's like, I'm playing with Scotty.

605
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 2: I'll do the magic trick with here with you in

606
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 2: a little bit. And then she just got a wild

607
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 2: hair and was like, yeah, I'm gonna try this magic trick. Ude.

608
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: Thank god she did that, right. I mean, obviously it

609
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: would have been better if it hadn't happened, but thank

610
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: god she did it in front of you guys. Thank

611
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 1: god y'all were there.

612
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 2: Dude.

613
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, doubt, no doubt, I very randomly. This

614
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: is just a dad tip for people out there. Uh,

615
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: we were at a family like easter hunt. Somebody had

616
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: a green pool cover. I was young enough to think

617
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: that the pool cover was like a putting green because

618
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 1: it kind of looked like AstroTurf or whatever. Walked out

619
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: on it and went underneath, uh the pool cover. My

620
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: cousin ended up getting help almost drowned. But it was

621
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: like one of those things where like everybody's easter hunting,

622
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: like Easter egg hunting, and then all of a sudden

623
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: they look up and you know, my dad's seeing somebody

624
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: trying to fish me out. It's crazy, dude, it can

625
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: just happen.

626
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: It happens.

627
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 2: And were at our We were at a friends a

628
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 2: few weeks ago and we were in the pool in

629
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: the backyard and Rue was playing on a couple of

630
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 2: the noodles And can't like fully swim yet. But she

631
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 2: can do like a couple of things, you know what

632
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: I mean. She can go underwater, she can swim like

633
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 2: a couple of strokes or something like that, but she

634
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 2: can't handle herself by herself with water. But I'm in

635
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 2: the water with all I'm in the water with her

636
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 2: and our friends' kids. Yeah, and one came outside and

637
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 2: was wearing an outfit and I was complimenting her outfit,

638
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: and you know, I'm like playing with Rue, but Rue

639
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 2: wanted to play on this noodle.

640
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 3: She's like, no, Dad, let go, and.

641
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: So I'm like, let go, and she kind of does

642
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 2: a thing where she like, let's go for a end,

643
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 2: goes underwater and then comes back up on the noodle. Yeah,

644
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: we've been we were playing for we were playing for

645
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 2: a long time. There's probably been forty minutes at this point.

646
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 2: And then the other one, the sibling, comes out and

647
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 2: wants to show me his outfit because I'm complimenting his sister. Oh,

648
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 2: well look at this, and I'm like, look over my

649
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome, buddy, and dude. I turn around and

650
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 2: Srew was like struggling in the water for a moment.

651
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 3: I pick her.

652
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: I just pick her up. It wasn't like anything close

653
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 2: to her drowning or nothing like that, but just another

654
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 2: subtle reminder that you turn your head for like one

655
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 2: minute and things could be things could be crazy. Nobody

656
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: saw either, Like I picked her up and she was

657
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 2: like crying for a second, I'm like, hey, sweetheart, like,

658
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: this is why you know you need to use the noodle,

659
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 2: this is why you need to be close to the side,

660
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 2: because she was like, you know, she's like trying to

661
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 2: get she's like trying to do things more for herself.

662
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 2: She's trying to like prove to herself that she can

663
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 2: do more without help and things like that. Yeah, and

664
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: uh but yeah, that was just another like just quick

665
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: reminder that you can turn your head for a second

666
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 2: and something could just go south. It's scary, dude, It's nuts.

667
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: See what in the world while you were telling that. Uh,

668
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: my throat felt terrible the entire time you were telling

669
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: that story, and I felt like I had something in

670
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: my throat. That was the worst story I've heard in

671
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: a while.

672
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: When the first time when Charles said she had it,

673
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: I got it.

674
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 3: I got it.

675
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 2: I got it. And then she's like, I lost it.

676
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 2: I lost it. What's going on?

677
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, thirty minutes, Oh got you?

678
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

679
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well one second and.

680
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: I lost I lost it. Like in my brain, I'm thinking,

681
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: holy fuck, how are we going to get out of this?

682
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: Cause again I'm not thinking about like when the fire

683
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 2: they were over at the house, being like, oh, she

684
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 2: would have we would have still got it out and

685
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 2: you guys would have been fine. I'm thinking that was

686
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 2: like a life or death moment getting that out before

687
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 2: the ambulance.

688
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

689
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, what, So what's your mother?

690
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: So what's my mother? Well, I'm glad you asked, well,

691
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: my motherfucked?

692
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: Is that?

693
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: My wife said? I need to talk with you guys

694
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: more about college football and less with her.

695
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 3: She not, she not, she's not a ball fan.

696
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: She's a ball fan.

697
00:31:58,640 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 2: But is she a ball fan?

698
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: But when, apparently, when she's hungry in the morning, when.

699
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 2: She's third trimester hungry in the morning, and you're bitching

700
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 2: about Baylor, she don't want to hear it.

701
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: When I'm trying to tell her, Hey, here's the deal.

702
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people are kind of sleeping on Baylor.

703
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: They could have a really good season, though, Honey. They're

704
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: eight and four last year.

705
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 2: Sweetheart.

706
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 3: When you look at Baylor's schedule, what do you see?

707
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: And tell me really quick, tell me. Are you more

708
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 1: worried about Auburn? Are you more worried about SMU? And

709
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: I get it, SMU is a ACC school, but they

710
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: were a playoff team last year.

711
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 2: Honey, Sherman, get your head out the fucking clouds. We're

712
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 2: about to have a baby here in two weeks, and

713
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 2: you're talking about Baylor football.

714
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: We're going to the game. I already told you we're going.

715
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: I would go to the game with you.

716
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 2: Go talk to your buddies at work.

717
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: No, But she quite literally was like, do you realize

718
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: where you work? Because I told her. I was like, honey,

719
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: I just like, I like talking about this stuff. She goes, well,

720
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: I want to talk about us. I want to talk

721
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: about our daughter that's about to be here. Maybe you

722
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: can talk about that at work where you guys talk

723
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 1: about sports and stuff. I was like, you know what, God,

724
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: motherfucked in that situation. But she's right, I need to

725
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: talk about that stuff.

726
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 2: You know. But is she You're just trying to include her.

727
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 2: I am, here's an interest in my life. She chefs

728
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 2: back to She's.

729
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: Like, sure, yeah, he said.

730
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 2: Women want there are men to talk more, and when

731
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 2: they want to talk about their interest, that being football,

732
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: they're trying to be vulnerable and share something with you.

733
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: This is a moment where I will get going, dude,

734
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: like I'm talking, I'm not even I'm probably missing turns

735
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: left and right on the way to Velvet Taco where

736
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: she wanted to have breakfast. They don't have breakfast tacos.

737
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: I didn't complain. I took her to Velvet Taco. And

738
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm probably missing turns left and right. I'm talking about Baylor,

739
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: and I get it. It's okay. I'm not upset about it,

740
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: but uh, it does hurt because when she's talking about

741
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: her shows or she's talking about her stuff, I've been listening.

742
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, buddy, this is the space, this is the show

743
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: to do it all because for you to be as

744
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 2: much of a college football fan or a football fan

745
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 2: in general as I know you to be, and you

746
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,959
Speaker 2: just got to the point where you were like you said,

747
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: she's right, and it's like, hang on a second. You

748
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 2: gotta love yourself, bro.

749
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: I don't even think I was talking about Baylor. Was

750
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: the best part. I don't even know what I was

751
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: talking about. But I wasn't even talking about Baylor.

752
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 2: You're trying to share an interest with your wife.

753
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just I was just sharing something along

754
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: the lines of I wish I could remember, but I

755
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: think I was talking about some SEC team and I

756
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: was talking about their schedule and like, yeah, it's kind

757
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 1: of crazy. Game days always usually following Bama, and you know,

758
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: I'm going like a million miles an hour, and she's

759
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: just like, this is the last thing I want to

760
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 1: talk about right now. I'm like, honey, I get that,

761
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: but like you put on.

762
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, how many things is she talking about that you

763
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 2: don't want to hear about? Yeah?

764
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: And when you eat it, I eat it. When you

765
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 1: put on the Damilio Show, the Riality TV Fallen Charlie

766
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: d'milio and her sister, I sit there, Yeah, for those

767
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 1: forty five minutes, sweetheart.

768
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: I do my best to create space. When you want

769
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,959
Speaker 2: to tell me back about this Onyx and Storm book

770
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: that you're reading, I'm trying to buy in. It's hard.

771
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 2: But ladies, let me tell you. When your man talks

772
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 2: to you about college football and the upcoming season and

773
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 2: you just tell him, hey, go talk to your boys

774
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 2: about this at work, you're just telling us you don't

775
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: matter right now.

776
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: And you know what the worst part is, because she

777
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: is a longhorn. I guarantee you if I've been talking

778
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: about arch Man now, honey, you know that you know

779
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: they're saying this, and that they're saying sarks really only

780
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 1: like a player's coach. If he doesn't have the squad,

781
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 1: he can't really get a team there. He's not a

782
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: numbers guy. Yeah, and she would listen and eat that

783
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 1: up all day if I was talking about the Longhorns.

784
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: If I wasn't talking about her longhorns, that's pretty selfish. Yeah,

785
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: cut that part out, cut that part out. But yeah,

786
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: that's my that's my motherfucked it. It doesn't even touch

787
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: uh will's I feel like yours is motherfucked crack a

788
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: cold one and potentially dad hack. Don't take us, you know,

789
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 1: verbatim on that.

790
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean it's all it's all of the

791
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: things in one survival kit.

792
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm looking it up at.

793
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, they like that. The dad hack again for two

794
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: weeks in a row, coming more so from my wife,

795
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 2: jumping action and try to dig that fucking coin out.

796
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:23,720
Speaker 3: Of their throat.

797
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: Get in there that it doesn't matter.

798
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 2: Hey, if you see blood.

799
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 1: You just the eyes closed. It's okay, all right, fine,

800
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: department's gonna get there.

801
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: Fine. Oh buddy, Yeah that.

802
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: Was dude, you've had it. That was two weeks.

803
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, we haven't even talked about the New York story.

804
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,319
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Speaker 2: My crecit cald one this week is going to go

835
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 2: to finding your way back to your teammate. I was

836
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: wondering if I would tell this story on this show.

837
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 2: I kind of vented to the boys about it before

838
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 2: the show started. But finding your way back to your

839
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: teammate in my in this circumstance, In this situation, it's

840
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 2: my teammate is my wife. We we were in New

841
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 2: York over the weekend. We had a lot of great moments,

842
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 2: but we had a couple of down moments. In one

843
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 2: of those down moments is we were at each other's

844
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 2: throat at like two in the morning on Saturday. I'll

845
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 2: preface this, sweetheart, you were right, you were right.

846
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 3: I was wrong.

847
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: This sounds like a motherfucked as well.

848
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, but you got to crack a

849
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: cold one too, because we made we found our way.

850
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 2: We both apologized to each other.

851
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: There we go.

852
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 2: But we had a great night on Saturday where we

853
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: we got a sitter. We were out in New York.

854
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 2: Charo had a work thing earlier in the week and

855
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 2: then parlayed into visiting a friend, a really good friend

856
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 2: of hers in New York, and we were hanging out

857
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: with that couple. They have two little ones of their own,

858
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: like eight years old and five years old, so the

859
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 2: five year old was close with Rue. They were great

860
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 2: to Rue. They were great with the kids. But on Saturday,

861
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 2: we've been doing all the family stuff to where you know,

862
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 2: we're all with each other. We're going to dinner, we're

863
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: doing breakfast. Hey, let's go to the pool, let's do

864
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: this and that. But on Saturday, it was just it

865
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 2: was just the adults. We got a sitter, We went out,

866
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 2: we had dinner. There was a little double date. We

867
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 2: had dinner up on a rooftop somewhere, and then afterwards,

868
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: at ten forty five, we went to this speakeasy magic show.

869
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: It's a really cool setup. You go in, you kind

870
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 2: of in this waiting area, like inside of this bar.

871
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 2: Guy comes up and grabs you.

872
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: He was like, was there a secret cut?

873
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah, but the person who booked it had to

874
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 2: do all the secret codes stuff, gotcha Okay, So he

875
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: grabs sham, takes him over. Hey, you guys are going

876
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 2: to the other side. Tell him George sent you go

877
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 2: to the other side. It's the cleaners, to where the

878
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 2: cleaners is closed. And you walk in and you know,

879
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 2: you got the desk sitting up front. You got all

880
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 2: these clothes hanging from like dry cleaning and everything else.

881
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 2: You say, what the code is, Hey, George sent us,

882
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 2: and you take your little coupon. You walk behind. There's

883
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 2: like a door behind all the closes. You're like walking

884
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 2: through the close and everything else. There's a secret little door.

885
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 2: You entered the secret door, and then you're back in

886
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 2: this bar area with a little stage and it was

887
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: a magic show. We had a great time at the

888
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 2: magic show, a lot of different magicians. You know, they

889
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 2: have about ten minutes at each table and they get

890
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 2: up and they do different they do different sets, they

891
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 2: do different things.

892
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: It was a great night.

893
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: During that night again double date, we had a sitter

894
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: for all four kids at my wife's friend's apartment. So

895
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 2: Ruin Scott Yeah, ru and Scottie are essentially having a

896
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: little sleepover at at Susan's. Okay, so they're at Susan's.

897
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 2: They have a little movie night, they watch Frozen, they

898
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 2: go down to sleep. Rue's having a little sleeping bag sleepover.

899
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 2: Scotty's down for the count around seven, seven thirty. She's

900
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 2: the easy one to put down. And Rue and and Uh.

901
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: The two friends, the eight year old and the five

902
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 2: year old, they do a little sleepover together in one

903
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 2: of their bedrooms. And throughout that night they're alluding to, hey,

904
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 2: the kids seem like they're having a great time. They

905
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 2: can just stay all night at our house. And Charles's

906
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: kind of pushing back, Oh, we can go back and

907
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 2: we can get them, And in my mind bubbling up

908
00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 2: is like, hey, if they're offering, and take them up

909
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 2: on this offer, and we could just go back to

910
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: our hotel room or four hundred foot square foot hotel room.

911
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 2: We could have the bed to ourselves, we could sleep

912
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: and we don't have to worry about the kids in.

913
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 1: That in that moment, are you doing any hints towards

914
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: Jara of kind of like a hey, no.

915
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 2: I think I nudge her one time, like, hey, it'd

916
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 2: be kind of nice, kind of nice. She's like, hey, sweetheart,

917
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 2: there are kids. I feel you, I feel you, but.

918
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: Would be nice.

919
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 2: And at this point, it's like one one thirty in

920
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: the morning, and I am absolutely beat. Everybody's kinda beat,

921
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 2: and we're finishing out this magic show. And again they're

922
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: doubling down, doubling down on. Hey, they're already asleep. They

923
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: can just sleep at our they can just sleep at

924
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,320
Speaker 2: the apartment, and they you know, we'll just we'll handle

925
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: them in the morning.

926
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 3: And I'm thinking it.

927
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 2: Could be kind of nice, sweetheart, come on, she doesn't

928
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 2: want to do it. They they're tripling down.

929
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: I was just about to say, don't tell me they

930
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: triple down, tripled Then then it's like you you may

931
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: even be kind of rude. Then it's like, what they

932
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: don't want their kid, We're not good enough.

933
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and then yeah. Then he gets to the

934
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: point where I'm like, we're uber and back, and I'm

935
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: thinking to myself, why aren't we getting an uber back

936
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 2: to the hotel like they've offered us, Like, why not

937
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: take them up on this offer, knowing that my man

938
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 2: Chris on the other side is probably like, he's probably

939
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: i'd be nice. You guys can get your kids. You know,

940
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 2: he's not saying nothing, No, he's like, yeah, he'll be fine,

941
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 2: dam too.

942
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,240
Speaker 1: Or I know my man Chris, He's like, yeah, you guys.

943
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,240
Speaker 2: Get your kids. Get you And I'm thinking, hey, sweet,

944
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 2: let's fucking just go back to the hotel room. So

945
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 2: we go back, We wake them up. It's two in

946
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: the morning, we wake up, we wake up Scottie, you know,

947
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 2: Charles getting Scottie and the carrier.

948
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 3: I'm getting rue.

949
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 2: We get an uber to go back to the hotel,

950
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: roosting a tantrum the entire time back to hotel. Obviously

951
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 2: she's tired, Yeah, all the different things, right, And I'm

952
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 2: just sitting there, I'm exhausted, and I'm starting to get

953
00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 2: in like a bad mood for the fact that we

954
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 2: ended up taking the kids back to the hotel. And

955
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 2: we're pushing them down. We're going down the hall. We

956
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: got the stroller going down the hall. And Troll makes

957
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 2: a comment, it seems like you're it seems like you're

958
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: kind of mad, kind of mad at me right now,

959
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: because I think roommate the comment like that day you frustrated.

960
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: Oh no, that is not frustrated, that is just tired.

961
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 2: And charl goes, it feels like you're kind of mad

962
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 2: at me right now. And I'm like, we could have

963
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 2: left the kids at the apartment and came back to

964
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: the hotel. This is basically all I said. Oh so

965
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 2: you are mad at me. I'm just saying it would

966
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 2: have been nice if we could have just came back

967
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 2: to the hotel room and got some sleep with each other.

968
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 2: And so I'm, you know, doing this thing when when

969
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 2: I get upset, I'm very much like an internal an

970
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: internal being. A lot of things fester inside. I'm more

971
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: so suppressed. I suppress. I know my therapist would say, hey,

972
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 2: you need to talk about this stuff. I'm a guy

973
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 2: that suppresses my emotions when when.

974
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:54,479
Speaker 1: I've traveled with you for travel shoots, that happens also

975
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: when you get tired. It seems like yeah, so it

976
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: was a little double down.

977
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, we were wipe.

978
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 2: We were exhausted because you're run around, you're doing some

979
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 2: with the kids all day, and nap time there wasn't

980
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 2: really a whole much of a nap time because again

981
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 2: you're just on the move, you're in a different city. Yes,

982
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 2: And then when we're going back to our hotel room,

983
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 2: like our hotel room is insanely small, so we're all

984
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 2: four on the bed, Scotty's playing. You're trying to get

985
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 2: her down, but she doesn't really want to go down,

986
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: so it's like, all right, we're just gonna eat this

987
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: nap time. So everyone's essentially just exhausted. And because I

988
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 2: was on an earth, now that was a different that

989
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 2: was a different day. All these days run together. But

990
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 2: you're sleeping in you're sleeping in the bed with your toddler.

991
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 2: We don't do we don't normally do that. So it

992
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 2: was like, you know, she's adjusting all night long. You're

993
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 2: waking up like about eight times because her foot is

994
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 2: like on your face and you're like, hey, sweetheart, you got.

995
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 1: To move over.

996
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: Go bother mom or something apparently like between them and pillow. Yeah,

997
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: she's in between us. But we were just at that

998
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 2: part of the night to where there was not a

999
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 2: lot of like, uh, diplomatic resolution. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you

1000
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Yeah, and uh, where we said

1001
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 2: a few things back and forth to each each other.

1002
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 2: Okay that I'm not proud of. I know she's not

1003
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 2: proud of. I escalated the situation because I more so

1004
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 2: wanted to suppress a maternalize and say no, I don't

1005
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 2: want to talk about this shit. I want to go

1006
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 2: to bed and I want to sleep on it. It's like, oh,

1007
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 2: so you don't want to get you don't want to

1008
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 2: get this figured out and talk about it tonight. No,

1009
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about it tonight. I want

1010
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,879
Speaker 2: to go to sleep. I want to put the kid down.

1011
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 2: I want to go to sleep. Well, she's like, well,

1012
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 2: Ru's already asleep, but can't you just help me with Scotty.

1013
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 2: I still got to do my face routine and brush

1014
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 2: my teeth and everything else. And I told her, I said,

1015
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 2: I told you that when we got to the apartment

1016
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 2: that I had Ru, meaning you have Scotti. So even

1017
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 2: though Ruth's asleep, that's a win for me. You got

1018
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 2: to put Scottie down. That was the deal. So, oh,

1019
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 2: so you're not going to be my teammate. You can't

1020
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 2: have some perspective on how I've been grinding with the

1021
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 2: kiddos all week long out here in New York while

1022
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 2: you were in Chicago. I'm like, oh, so now you

1023
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 2: want to bring up the scoreboard. Now you want to

1024
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,439
Speaker 2: scoreboard me to death? Make me feel guilty. I wish

1025
00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 2: I could have been out here with you.

1026
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: Are you in your pjs while you're having this?

1027
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 2: Just in my short so yeah, I guess I'm in

1028
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 2: my pj's. I'm like scratching Ru's back, And there's a

1029
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 2: part of you, there's a part of me after the fact.

1030
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking about it in the moment, but after

1031
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 2: the fact that my I kind of hate that. I

1032
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 2: was kind of going back and forth with mom, like

1033
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 2: because Rue was there. I think she was sleeping, But

1034
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: you know, when you're young, it's like you could be

1035
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:21,919
Speaker 2: fake sleeping and you're listening to mom and dad argue.

1036
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 2: I don't know if she's old enough to have that

1037
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 2: figured out yet.

1038
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: Well you all doing Uh have you ever seen the

1039
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: other guys?

1040
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? Of course, which we're fighting.

1041
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:34,240
Speaker 1: You said I that means you have Scotty.

1042
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 2: You No, No, we were not wasn't too high, but

1043
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 2: we were allowed. We were loud enough. I was loud

1044
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 2: enough for sure. And I kind of do things where

1045
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 2: like roll over there, Charles like sitting there like like shaking,

1046
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 2: like you know, rocking Scotty trying to get her to

1047
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: sleep because she's fussy now. But you got Scottie at

1048
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,399
Speaker 2: that volume with that Yeah, I think I I can't

1049
00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 2: believe remember, oh, no thing. I kind of like roll

1050
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 2: over and I'm trying to fall asleep and try not

1051
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: to think about all the words that I said because

1052
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 2: I'm trying to just sleep. She's like, so you don't

1053
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 2: want to figure this out. No, I don't want to

1054
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: figure this out. I want to go to sleep. Just

1055
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 2: log us a therapy session. We can talk about this

1056
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:17,919
Speaker 2: with a therapist. And she's like, we don't have she's

1057
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 2: not booked for next week. I'm like, well, you better

1058
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 2: book her because we need to figure out We got

1059
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 2: to Yeah, we got to talk about this conversation with

1060
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 2: the therapist. And she's like, oh, it doesn't seem like

1061
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 2: it's very healthy if we have to use the therapist

1062
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,479
Speaker 2: to talk about this, Like we need to be using.

1063
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 2: We need to be doing the stuff that she's talked to.

1064
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: Us about to help us through. Not to solve every Yeah, yeah,

1065
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: not to solve it.

1066
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 2: The sweethearted is June you don't want to respect mental

1067
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 2: What is it mental Health Awareness Month?

1068
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 1: I think it's Pride month? Is it both? Yeah?

1069
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,399
Speaker 2: It might be both, It might be better. Yeah, yeah,

1070
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 2: June teenth, Come on, there's a lot of things going on,

1071
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 2: of things going on.

1072
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 1: Come on, dude, June's a big month.

1073
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: And I like to think I I kind of I

1074
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 2: hardheaded that argument to where listen, I'm going to sleep.

1075
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to argue about that.

1076
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 2: I want to talk about this being a dude, being

1077
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 2: a full on dude, having a low moment as a husband,

1078
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 2: as a father, and as a man.

1079
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 3: In the next morning, she beats me to an apology.

1080
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 2: She's like, hey, you know, I'm sorry for uh I

1081
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 2: said some things I didn't mean last time. I am

1082
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: sorry for bringing the schoolboard that makes it. I didn't

1083
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 2: want it to go there, and I was like, I

1084
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 2: want to be I did want to. I needed to

1085
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 2: be the first to apologize because I was being a

1086
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: bit about the entire situation, because I just wanted to,

1087
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 2: like just go back to the room. We don't got

1088
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 2: the kids. It's like they offered, we take it up night,

1089
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 2: me and you. We go back, we sleep, we wake up,

1090
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 2: we go down and get lattes, like we enjoyed just

1091
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 2: a nice little morning before a little pool day that

1092
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 2: we were about to have on Saturday or whenever that was.

1093
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 3: And she's giving me the whole Hey, the kids are.

1094
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,800
Speaker 2: Our responsibility, Like, I don't want to put our kids,

1095
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 2: the responsibility of our kids on my friend when even

1096
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 2: though she's offering and saying yes, like I know what

1097
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: it takes to, you know, handle a couple of kids,

1098
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 2: and they would have all four of them doing all

1099
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 2: their morning routines and they're getting the same amount of

1100
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: that we're getting. Yeah, And she's like it's our kids

1101
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 2: are our responsibility. I'm thinking of myself like, yes, she's right,

1102
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 2: but we would have had a little lifeline, we would

1103
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 2: have had a little anyway, what I'm cracking a cold

1104
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 2: one too. We ended up finding our way back to

1105
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: each other. We were both apologetic to each other because

1106
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 2: you know, I was being a pussy. Yeah, well that's

1107
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 2: why I said. I was like, I'm sorry for being

1108
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: a pussy last night. Like I was really bitching about

1109
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 2: it and I was taking it out on you, and

1110
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for that.

1111
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: Everyone won in that situation.

1112
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's one of those I was going back and

1113
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 2: forth on if I wanted to tell that story on here,

1114
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 2: But then I think, like, that's real life. Yeah, that's

1115
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 2: a that's like you go at it, and that's a

1116
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 2: perfect example of an argument over something like trivial when

1117
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 2: you look back at it now. Yeah, but it was

1118
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 2: a good moment of like Charro's going off of that

1119
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 2: philosophy of like the right choice here is the harder

1120
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 2: one to make to go pick up our kids. Now

1121
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 2: you say that, I feel even worse because you're one

1122
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 2: hundred percent right.

1123
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 1: Like, and I live by those words just because Jill's

1124
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: stepdad says religiously, He's like, if you have two options,

1125
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: the right one is usually the harder one to do.

1126
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, all right, God.

1127
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 2: But that doesn't I couldn't see that, so I could

1128
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 2: not see it in the moment.

1129
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,319
Speaker 1: I didn't want to see that in the moment. We

1130
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 1: always get blinded in moments like that. I do all

1131
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, and I'm really bad. I feel like

1132
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 1: every single wedding I've ever been to, the dad of

1133
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:35,880
Speaker 1: the bride that like, you know, talks that right before

1134
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: the receptions about the guys. You know, the only advice

1135
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: I'd give you guys is, uh, never go to bed angry.

1136
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: You know, solve it before you go, Like, dude, I

1137
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 1: know that's what they all say.

1138
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 2: The whole Yeah, don't go to bed angry. I struggle

1139
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: with that because I am just such a being that

1140
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: I almost need a night's sleep and I'll be a

1141
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 2: lot more clear minded when I wake up, because when

1142
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 2: I'm in it, I'm just not in I'm just not

1143
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 2: in the mental space to solve it the way that

1144
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 2: we actually need to solve it.

1145
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: Yes, Jill sounds like very similar to Charro. She wants

1146
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: to do it right then and there and what that entails.

1147
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: And this is nothing against Jill. That it's gonna be

1148
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: a lot of monologuing from Jill, and I need to

1149
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: keep maintain eye contact. I need to show her that

1150
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: I'm listening. But it's also one point thirty in the morning.

1151
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: I want to go to bed. I'm exhausted, and I

1152
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: don't have the brain capacity to fully solve this thing.

1153
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: And it's hard. It's a double edged sword because it's like, Jill,

1154
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 1: you're not getting the best of me right now. I

1155
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: know you want to solve this right now, but you

1156
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 1: you're getting a pissed off, upset, tired, and probably hungry

1157
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: sherman right now. Who sucks. That's the worst version of me.

1158
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1159
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: So if we did this tomorrow, yeah, with sound minds

1160
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: and a nice sleep and some thought. Yeah, but that's

1161
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: just life, dude.

1162
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 3: They Yeah, can you wake up the next morning?

1163
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 2: You're kind of feeling a little weird, like, you know,

1164
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 2: I know I need to say something I need to

1165
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 2: figure out right at the right time. Yes, right to them,

1166
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 2: we're kind of like, hey, you want to get Scotty

1167
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: in this? Or hey do you want you know, I'm like, hey,

1168
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 2: what do you want me to get in the what

1169
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 2: do we need to get in the green backpack for

1170
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 2: the day?

1171
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 3: Like how long were we gonna plan to be out?

1172
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 2: Like you know, I'm trying to do all the stuff,

1173
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 2: and you know, it's just sitting in your mind, like

1174
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 2: we know we have some some words we need to say,

1175
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 2: like apologizing.

1176
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: What was the little quote you said? The hard the

1177
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 1: hard choice. The hard choice is usually the right one

1178
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: to make. I'm just gonna call my wife. I have

1179
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 1: a good feeling about this before she picks up.

1180
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 2: I have a good feeling about this.

1181
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: It's ten twenty on a Sunday.

1182
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I we're in the middle of this episode right now,

1183
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: and I just I feel I felt inclined to call

1184
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 2: you and tell you that I am once again sorry

1185
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 2: for the way I acted the other night. That Sureham

1186
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 2: just hit me with a quote that said the hard

1187
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: choice is usually the right choice to make. And in

1188
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 2: that moment of in that moment of weakness, I was

1189
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: very much trying to take the easy way out, and

1190
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 2: I was projecting on you in a way that you

1191
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: did not deserve. And again I said it yesterday, but

1192
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 2: I was I was being a bitch when I was

1193
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 2: when we were coming back to the hotel, and I

1194
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 2: just once again, I want to apologize to you and

1195
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 2: then say I'm sorry a bit. It's kind of, you know,

1196
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 2: it's kind of a mix because we're on the show.

1197
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 2: I was kind of talking about my crack of cold.

1198
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: One was finding your way back to your teammate, Charo.

1199
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: I will say this, and I'll just interject here. I

1200
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 1: do apologize when I said that quote. He grabbed his

1201
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: phone and was like kind of partially halfway listening to

1202
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: what I was talking about. I could tell he was like,

1203
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 1: I need to call my wife right now. So I

1204
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: don't think this is fully a bit. I think he

1205
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 1: really did want to call you.

1206
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 2: Thanks, You're welcome. I hope you hope you're enjoying your night.

1207
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 2: I know it's ten twenty on a Sunday. I will

1208
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,839
Speaker 2: be home soon. But again, I just yeah, I had

1209
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 2: loser mentality the other night when Surem hit me with

1210
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: that quote on the hard choice is usually the right one,

1211
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 2: I was like, God, yes, she was. No. No, I

1212
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 2: believe that because you were kind of giving me the

1213
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 2: right like I was thinking of from a perspective of

1214
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 2: more selfishness, on we would have a room to ourselves,

1215
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 2: your your friends tripled down and offered to have the kids,

1216
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 2: and that felt like the easiest, most comfortable choice to make.

1217
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,359
Speaker 2: And when ru hit me, or when not Rue, when

1218
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 2: Suram hit me with that quote, I'm thinking back to it,

1219
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 2: and you were leaning into I know, but these the

1220
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 2: kids are our responsibilities. So I'm like, you were choosing

1221
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 2: the hard choice even though you probably you know you

1222
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 2: would have loved to have done the same thing as me.

1223
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 4: I don't know what to say, because.

1224
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 3: You could just say I love you and you're the

1225
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 3: best husband in the world.

1226
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: Well, I agree, Okay, let's go.

1227
00:55:56,120 --> 00:56:00,399
Speaker 2: I love you, so I'll see you later. I think

1228
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 2: they went well.

1229
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: I think that Hey, I think that was pretty good.

1230
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it went pretty good, she said, I.

1231
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: Agree with what you said.

1232
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 2: She did.

1233
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 1: Yell you. Yeah, hey, we're you're if like you're in

1234
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 1: the doghouse right now. I think you're like well out

1235
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: of it, you know what I mean, Like your tails

1236
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 1: still might be in the doghouse.

1237
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 2: Ol, buddy, out of the doghouse, when I tell you,

1238
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 2: I put on a heroic performance when we had to

1239
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 2: sit on the tarmac for ooh, that's all of two

1240
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 2: and a half hours today when we were flying back

1241
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 2: from LaGuardia. Yeah yeah, I mean I had Rue all right,

1242
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 2: had Scotty on my lap. I you know, BASE essentially

1243
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 2: gave Charles like a two two and a half hour

1244
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 2: break because I was like, hey, do you want me

1245
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 2: to hold Scotty? And because I again Charles like carrying Scotty.

1246
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 2: I'm messing with Rue a lot of the time. But dude,

1247
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 2: when you're stuck on the tarmac. We were stuck on

1248
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 2: the runway. We were supposed to fly out at noon.

1249
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 2: We got on, we got boarded around twelve thirty, and

1250
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 2: we didn't leave until about three, like take off till

1251
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,720
Speaker 2: about three. Like that. Dude, that's a different kind of Hell. Yeah,

1252
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 2: that's a different type of Like the kids were good

1253
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 2: for the most part, Little dad hack out there. If

1254
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 2: you're flying with your family, always sit by the window.

1255
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 2: Reason being if there's a blowout or a heavy diaper

1256
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 2: and your wife's in the aisle, she would usually have

1257
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 2: to be the one to go to the back.

1258
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: After that, photegal. Yeah, it's crazy, it's crazy.

1259
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 2: But you got you got to you got to strategize

1260
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 2: at some points. I listen, I was I was a one.

1261
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 2: They were in c but they got to do the

1262
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,959
Speaker 2: family boarding after a But I don't work this hard

1263
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 2: to you know, just let my A one go to

1264
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:49,959
Speaker 2: waste on Southwest. Yeah, so I hold down the row

1265
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 2: that we're gonna be on full flight, not an empty seat,

1266
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 2: the entire not an empty seat when we were taking off.

1267
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so I'm holding down the row and it's like,

1268
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 2: you know, I just happen to be on the inside.

1269
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 3: And I was thinking about.

1270
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 2: This whenever we were getting towards the end and Scottie

1271
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 2: I was seeing kind of a blowout. She had wetness

1272
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 2: on the outside of that. Oh shit, nice, know, we

1273
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 2: gotta change it. But matter of fact, Charle changes are

1274
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: right there in the row. I ended up putting Rue

1275
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 2: on my lap and she just changes Scotty right there

1276
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 2: in the middle seat. Oh damn, Yeah, Charles scared to

1277
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 2: get her hands dirty.

1278
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,200
Speaker 1: No, that's dial.

1279
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 2: She ain't scared to get her hands dirty. She'll she'll

1280
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 2: do it in public if she has to.

1281
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 1: I need to train on diaper training. By the way,

1282
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: that is something that I am very like, not nervous about.

1283
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I want to be a pro. I

1284
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: want to be an Officianado.

1285
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 2: Oh you'll you'll get there. You'll, you'll, you'll you'll learn quick.

1286
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: You'll learn quick watching you do it that one time.

1287
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: It's the only barrier you get across. You got to

1288
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 1: get across is once you realize there they're more durable

1289
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: than you INTI bait.

1290
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you want to be very careful. You think

1291
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 2: everything hurts them. Like when I was putting clothes on Rue,

1292
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: for I mean really first several months, I'm always like

1293
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 2: very careful because I don't want to pull a string

1294
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 2: of a strand of hair, you know what I mean. I

1295
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 2: don't want her to be uncomfortable as I'm trying to

1296
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 2: put like a shirt or something over a head. But

1297
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 2: once you get past kind of that barrier that they're

1298
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 2: that they're pretty durable, then you'll you'll get rolling.

1299
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 3: Not in a way to where you're throwing them around.

1300
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 2: But I remember when you were you were at the

1301
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 2: house and I was like, hey, go ahead, like change

1302
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 2: your diaper or I was having you do something. Oh,

1303
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 2: just seeing how you were very cautious.

1304
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: You were having me practice feeding. Yeah, you have practice feeding.

1305
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was holding on when I was showing you

1306
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 2: the diaper. I was showing you you.

1307
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: Showed me the diaper change.

1308
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1309
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: But then you were like, hey you can feed her

1310
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: like here, you put your elbow up here.

1311
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 2: Yes, you were being super which I completely get. Like

1312
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 2: I was the same, Like I was the same way.

1313
00:59:57,840 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: I was holding a glass ballerina. Yeah, I was like,

1314
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: what in the world is this? Yeah, You're like not.

1315
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: Get her, get her sitting up.

1316
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: You gotta push it in just I'm like late, and

1317
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: then Brad doing the bottle during the trailer. Dude, I

1318
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: always think about that, putting the bottle underneath his chin

1319
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: and Scotty just I'm like, oh my god, I was

1320
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 1: getting so nervous.

1321
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 2: So easy, there you go.

1322
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 1: You're sitting like ten feet back. You're like, what are

1323
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: you doing?

1324
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 2: Just move it. Yeah.

1325
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: We ran long again, which is which is totally fine,

1326
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: Which is totally fine. But I was going to kick

1327
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: it too. We had a survival kit and a dad hack.

1328
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: I was gonna hit the what are the odds?

1329
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 3: What was your crack a cold one?

1330
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, crack a cold one will probably.

1331
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 2: Listen, listen. We got enough comments. People don't care.

1332
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 3: If it goes over.

1333
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: It's okay.

1334
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 3: If we go, it's okay if it goes over. Until

1335
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 3: people say, hey, you guys gonna shut the fuck up.

1336
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 2: I think it's all right. I think we gotta go.

1337
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 2: I think we got enough good feedback. Like in my head,

1338
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 2: I'm thinking these would be a lot better if they're

1339
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 2: under an hour. I would love to ideally hit that

1340
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 2: every episode. Yeah, but no, Like I don't know if

1341
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 2: I'm in my own head about it. A lot of

1342
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 2: the times and all the reassuring comments. It's like, hey,

1343
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 2: we love you guys, taking your time, you guys talking

1344
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 2: everything else.

1345
01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 3: It's kind of like, bro, just rip it.

1346
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 2: Bro.

1347
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: Well, if we're coming in with two stories like that

1348
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 1: off the top, I mean those are bangers. We looked up.

1349
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: We looked up after the choking story, it was thirty

1350
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: five minutes.

1351
01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that felt like that.

1352
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the worst minutes I've ever been through.

1353
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: You're having to listen to that. Yeah, okay, So my

1354
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: crack a cold one.

1355
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 2: Uh.

1356
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,919
Speaker 1: Will brought up Daily Dad, and then he also brought

1357
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 1: up Strong Fathers Strong Daughters. I made it my homework

1358
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: assignment that first week to get both of those books.

1359
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: I have both of those books as well. Some others

1360
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 1: shout out Papa Sheerm. He listens to the episodes. He

1361
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 1: actually the one that got on Amazon and said, I

1362
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: heard you wanted these? Do you want these? As like

1363
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 1: a little gift, let's go. So Papa Shirm hooked it up.

1364
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: I dove into Strong Father's Strong Daughters. I literally have

1365
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: only read the intro. So we got it last night

1366
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: or two days ago. I got it and started reading

1367
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: it last night out loud to Jill. I have only

1368
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: gotten through the intro and then like part of chapter one,

1369
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: but I cannot recommend it more just because the introduction

1370
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 1: is and I forget the author's name. That's terrible that

1371
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 1: I forgot her name. Strong Father's Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker,

1372
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: shout out Magneeker. So written by a woman, And essentially

1373
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: in the introduction, she's like, hey, listen, I've been a

1374
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: doctor for like this long I've had to treat She's

1375
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: done some stuff in mental health as well as well

1376
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: as being like a family pressitioner, I think is what

1377
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 1: she is. She's like, I've had all these daughters come in,

1378
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: all these girls, it's the same thing about their dad,

1379
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: of like, these are the types of qualities that I

1380
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 1: love in my dad, or somebody that had a terrible

1381
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 1: relationship with my dad. It's these are the things that

1382
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: I really wanted from my dad. Yeah, And she's basically

1383
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 1: sitting there in that introduction and just being like, Dad's

1384
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 1: you are the most important relationship with your daughter no

1385
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: matter what. Don't care who they married, don't care who

1386
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: they date, who their best friend is, if they're best

1387
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 1: friends with Taylor Swift, does not matter. You are going

1388
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: to be the most important relationship in your daughter's life.

1389
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: Bar Nune. Even with mom and hearing that and reading

1390
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: it aloud, and then Jill like sitting there on the couch,

1391
01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 1: it was fun, dude. I was getting like actually really

1392
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: juiced up of like because I'm hearing you talk about that,

1393
01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: I'm hearing Jill every now and then she said this

1394
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 1: great quote, She's like, the only thing I've ever been

1395
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 1: worried about you, Sherman, is that our kids are gonna

1396
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: love you more than me. And she was like, and

1397
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 1: that's the best thing I could ever be worried about.

1398
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: And she's always talking about Scarlet's gonna be a daddy's girl,

1399
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 1: She's gonna be obsessed with you. You're gonna be her favorite

1400
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 1: person in the whole world. So like hearing all those

1401
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 1: things and then reading from this doctor Meg Meeker that

1402
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: wrote this like best selling book, like it is your

1403
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 1: job to be her needle in life, of like morality,

1404
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: of spiritually, of emotionally, Like you are going to be

1405
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 1: the driving force in her life. Buckle up, because you

1406
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: play a really important role. And she had a great

1407
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: quote she was like, if you knew how important your

1408
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 1: role was in your daughter's life, you'd be terrified. And

1409
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: I stopped reading out loud, and I looked at Jill.

1410
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: I said, well, good thing. I'm already scared shitless, so

1411
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: I uh, like, I'm very excited, and so I wanted

1412
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: to crack a cold one to you. I know we

1413
01:04:56,800 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 1: already cracked our bud lights, but I'm just oked off

1414
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: of like, and that was only off of one night

1415
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: of reading. I'm gonna get home. I have so much

1416
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: coffee in me it's late at night that I'm gonna

1417
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: have to read The Fall asleep. I know exactly what

1418
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm reading, So shout out to you and uh for

1419
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 1: that book recommendation, and I'll do like a more succinct

1420
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: breakdown I guess of like each chapter as I go

1421
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: through it.

1422
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I'm only a few chapters in, but it is.

1423
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 2: It's cool that you say that too, because I feel

1424
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 2: like a lot of people have DM me saying that

1425
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 2: they got that, that they got strong Fall Strong sick.

1426
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 2: People I've talked or have mentioned The Daily Dad. I

1427
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 2: know I've recommended it before, and a couple of people

1428
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 2: also were talking about the twelve hours and twelve weeks

1429
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 2: like a sleep the sleeping method, but a lot of

1430
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 2: people getting strong father strong daughters, And dude, I'm telling you,

1431
01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: whether again you're an expecting father, whether you're somebody that's

1432
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,919
Speaker 2: already doing it and your daughter is young, whether you're

1433
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 2: older and you have a teenage daughter, Like, there are

1434
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 2: so many stories that she breaks down on that Yeah,

1435
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 2: it's like the greatest thing in the world, and you,

1436
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 2: just as I'm reading it, you already know it's going

1437
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:08,120
Speaker 2: to be one of the hardest things in the world,

1438
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 2: especially when they get older and resent you and have

1439
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 2: all these things where they push back on and they

1440
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 2: don't listen to you, and you kind of, I would assume,

1441
01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 2: feel like you don't have a great relationship with your daughter.

1442
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 2: You come across a lot of these stories that you're

1443
01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 2: almost it's like in my head as I'm reading it

1444
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 2: and I have a three year old, it's like, oh,

1445
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 2: this is going to be inevitable that you're going to

1446
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 2: have these like bumps in the road, or these could

1447
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 2: potentially be long periods of feeling like you're not doing

1448
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 2: good enough for your daughter. So even if you're a

1449
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 2: dad right now and you have a teenager, you have

1450
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:44,440
Speaker 2: somebody who's in their twenties, and you'll read these stories

1451
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 2: and I'm sure you'll get whether it's flashbacks or even

1452
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 2: things to look out and prepare for that you're not

1453
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 2: going to be able to stop just because you feel

1454
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 2: like you have the best relationship of all time with

1455
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 2: your daughter, because it seems just from what I'm reading

1456
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 2: that there are going to be those moments. There's gonna

1457
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 2: be those phases impossibly like years where it seems like

1458
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 2: they're far away from you. So it's cool. I think

1459
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 2: the book is incredible. I think that I would strongly

1460
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 2: recommend the book to every girl that out there.

1461
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it's sick. Even when you were just talking

1462
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: about in the teenage years when they started pushing back,

1463
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 1: she was like, that's when they need you even there most.

1464
01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 2: And it's not even something that I feel like you're

1465
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 2: going to have like a result from. Yeah, it's just

1466
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:26,880
Speaker 2: going to be knowing that you still have to intentionally,

1467
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:30,479
Speaker 2: just through your actions, just show that you're being there,

1468
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 2: because it's it's like them testing you, and they might

1469
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 2: not even know that they're testing you because they're so

1470
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 2: they're so hormonal, Yeah, that they might just be resistant

1471
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 2: to you. But it's like I feel like the book

1472
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 2: gives you a lot of good perspective to be prepared

1473
01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 2: for or again, you might be in it. You might

1474
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:49,439
Speaker 2: be in those teenage years to where you just you're

1475
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 2: able to compartmentalize and understand what's happening, and it gives

1476
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 2: you some good practical ways to continue to show up

1477
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 2: even though it probably doesn't feel like you're showing up. Yeah,

1478
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 2: so the book is the book is incredible so far.

1479
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: One last note I would say on the book that

1480
01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 1: was something that caught my attention. And the introduction was

1481
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 1: she said, and this is for any dad's out there

1482
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 1: that like maybe you don't have the strongest relationship with

1483
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: your daughter. She had a great quote, and they're saying,

1484
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: this book isn't just for like dad's at the you know,

1485
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 1: precipice of this relationship. If you're trying to heal or

1486
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:25,720
Speaker 1: trying to like recover that relationship with your daughter, it

1487
01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 1: is never too late. And that's Meg Meeker's words and

1488
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 1: not mine, but she says, you know, it's never too

1489
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 1: late to revitalize that relationship, Like even if you are

1490
01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: separated from your daughter right now, like there's still a

1491
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 1: place in her heart where like she wants dad, she

1492
01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 1: needs dad. So I thought that those were powerful words.

1493
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, dude.

1494
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 2: Dude, it's it's buckle up. You'll get you'll get teary eyed.

1495
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm not.

1496
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:54,879
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't last night, but you'll.

1497
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 2: Even get teary eyed over the stories that you kind

1498
01:08:56,760 --> 01:09:00,600
Speaker 2: of just read about. That's like, it's just you know,

1499
01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 2: it's tough.

1500
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,679
Speaker 1: There were there were some stuff just at the beginning

1501
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: of chapter one where she was talking about like sex

1502
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 1: education and stuff for you know, what the kids are

1503
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 1: learning in school. And this book was written I don't

1504
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 1: know when, but it sounds like maybe written a ways back,

1505
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 1: not too far back, but like we have Google, Yeah,

1506
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: we do have Google.

1507
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 2: There's gonna be one story you come up on here

1508
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 2: pretty soon to where it's like the daughter, something happened

1509
01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 2: to the daughter and she kind of told her dad,

1510
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 2: and her dad was going off for like a uh.

1511
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 1: Two thousand and six, okay, because.

1512
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, six, her dad was going out for a tea time,

1513
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 2: and the daughter was kind of telling her dad and

1514
01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 2: he just made the comment like, oh, boys will be boys,

1515
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 2: and just that comment right there, and it dives into

1516
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 2: it dives into that that girl's story and it just

1517
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, You'll you'll you'll get a lot

1518
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 2: of perspective, a lot of like, oh shit stuff that

1519
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 2: you'll just think about like as a man, you know

1520
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 2: what I mean. Yeah, that if you don't know any better,

1521
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 2: you get caught up and hearing the whole.

1522
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 1: Boys will be boy's phrase.

1523
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, And now that it's like you have a daughter

1524
01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:09,959
Speaker 2: and you're you're seeing it from a whole different perspective

1525
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 2: and a whole different lens, you just realize how truly

1526
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:16,240
Speaker 2: important like those moments are.

1527
01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:18,680
Speaker 3: It's you'll like it.

1528
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:21,680
Speaker 1: Damn, I'm still you'll like it. But that was that

1529
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: was my kracker cole one. And did you already do

1530
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 1: your crackerle one?

1531
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 2: My cracker hole was finding your way back to your tea.

1532
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 2: My cracker call one ended in a phone call to

1533
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 2: the missus, just hey, sweet, I just want you to know,

1534
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:35,720
Speaker 2: is this a bit? I am on the show? You

1535
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 2: are calling me out saying that this is a bit.

1536
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 2: But I do mean every word that I'm saying.

1537
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,639
Speaker 1: I was just checking my mis calls because I saw

1538
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 1: a Jay on there for Jill, but it was actually

1539
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,920
Speaker 1: Jared Beamon, who might be the second most important Jay

1540
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 1: in my life.

1541
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:51,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jared Demon.

1542
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 1: Jared Demon, that's a producer here. We got, we got.

1543
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 1: You have a what are the odds? I do have

1544
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: a what are the odds? I put Will on the

1545
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: spot earlier. I've warned you multiple times. This has been

1546
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: a recurring issue with me at my past jobs. I

1547
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: do a very poor job of asking for PTO in advance.

1548
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 1: I feel like this was well in advance, though, But

1549
01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 1: I did put you on the spot in front of

1550
01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 1: chef and I said, Hey, Baylor is playing Auburn for

1551
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 1: their season opener night game blackout in Waco. Ari bought

1552
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 1: tickets for it. What are the odds night game blackout Waco?

1553
01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:32,920
Speaker 1: Scarlett is going?

1554
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was so Sran was like, so I got

1555
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: tickets to this game. It's like August twenty ninth, August

1556
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 2: twenty eight, somewhere around there.

1557
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1558
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 2: Paternity leave, I know, I got it up until football

1559
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:51,519
Speaker 2: season starts. However, once paternity to leave in what's paternity leave.

1560
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 1: In labor day weekend?

1561
01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? How about some vacation time? What are the changes?

1562
01:11:57,000 --> 01:12:00,040
Speaker 2: I get out of the office and go to the

1563
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 2: Baylor home opener blackout blackout, I said, I don't see

1564
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 2: why not.

1565
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,400
Speaker 3: I reserve the right to change my mind.

1566
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 1: You one hundred percent do you one hundred percent.

1567
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:13,720
Speaker 2: Don't see why not? I think you are insane. How

1568
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 2: old Scarlet gonna be eight weeks? Yeah, maybe two months? Yeah,

1569
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 2: you're taking her to a game? Hell yeah, she's going

1570
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 2: phones on.

1571
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 1: Hell yeah.

1572
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 3: You know you ain't gonna You're not gonna be at

1573
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:24,719
Speaker 3: that entire game.

1574
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:27,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, No, I'll be in the concourse probably, you know,

1575
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 1: five minutes in the first quarter, Jill going, Jill's going. Okay,

1576
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: it's a family affair.

1577
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 2: So if it's a full, premeditated, planned out affair, got

1578
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:40,760
Speaker 2: a hotel room in Waco, there's a chance you might

1579
01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:43,400
Speaker 2: get to be at the entire game. But I would

1580
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 2: assume eight weeks postpartum, she ain't gonna want to say.

1581
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:50,679
Speaker 1: That whole fucking game.

1582
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 2: She's gonna be at that game. When you guys get

1583
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 2: in Waco, she's gonna be like, what the fuck are

1584
01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 2: we doing?

1585
01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:58,640
Speaker 1: She and to bring it to bring it back to

1586
01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: our buck or my motherfucked quit talking about CFP. She's

1587
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:09,680
Speaker 1: actually very stoked for the sounding yeah right now, So

1588
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 1: you're saying the what are the odds shout out FanDuel

1589
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:14,160
Speaker 1: the what are the odds? And what are the odds?

1590
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: Might not even be with your boss. Yeah, no, the

1591
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 1: what are the odds are? Will we make it through

1592
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 1: the whole game? Can Scarlett make it through a full

1593
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 1: ninety those odds?

1594
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 2: Or you're got you got plus fifteen hundred at least? Okay,

1595
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 2: I can make it through the whole game. I mean

1596
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 2: I know that this might be a little tam I

1597
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:37,440
Speaker 2: and you don't even have to share this is she breastfeeding?

1598
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? I feel so kind of weird as but they

1599
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 1: have they have the little you know, like kids sections,

1600
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:49,599
Speaker 1: the little baby sections that you go into in the

1601
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 1: concourse for like the breastfeeding. The diaper changes could be

1602
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:54,839
Speaker 1: kind of nice.

1603
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 2: Could be kind of nice. I'm excited to hear how

1604
01:13:56,840 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 2: that experience goes. The chef said, we need a dad vlog?

1605
01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah we are. This is for the dads.

1606
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 1: Can I at some point I.

1607
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:09,959
Speaker 2: Would assume we might expand in the vlogs?

1608
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:17,759
Speaker 1: Can I, uh, could we send somebody down to film

1609
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 1: that blog?

1610
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 2: Possibly potentially if I buy the game ticket for him? Well,

1611
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 2: I mean that would this this is where it's like

1612
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:28,439
Speaker 2: the company would Oh okay, we're gonna make a vlog

1613
01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:30,880
Speaker 2: out of it. It's for the brand. Yeah, yeah, you

1614
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Yeah, you wouldn't have to come

1615
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 2: out of pocket to Okay, this fun.

1616
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:38,800
Speaker 1: That could be fun or it could be the worst

1617
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:41,639
Speaker 1: blog ever because it's like yeah, she you know.

1618
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 2: Oh she she's gonna go feed you mind if I.

1619
01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:52,879
Speaker 1: Get the camera chef and Jared or in the hotel

1620
01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 1: room we're trying to put her dad. We're like, all right, Jill,

1621
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:58,800
Speaker 1: you mind if we filmed this? Okay, so Jill, hey

1622
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:01,280
Speaker 1: for this scene. It's actually to be really good because

1623
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 1: here's what we're gonna do. But yeah, I guess.

1624
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 2: So.

1625
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 1: One of the odds is will I make it? Will

1626
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:09,439
Speaker 1: I go to the game? Will we make it through

1627
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:11,080
Speaker 1: the game? Now that we've talked through this, you'll go

1628
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 1: to the Yeah you're allowed to go. Yes, Okay, let's now.

1629
01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:16,639
Speaker 2: What are the odds is? Will you make it through

1630
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 2: a full game with the missus, like with with the squad.

1631
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:22,559
Speaker 1: And any any bears out there, any dad bears out

1632
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 1: If you gotta eat tips at McLain Stadium, I gotta

1633
01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 1: reach out to McLean and see what the.

1634
01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 2: Most important thing is that you and Jill are just committed. Yes, dude,

1635
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 2: you guys are committed. I think you can make it happen.

1636
01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 2: She told me all she wants again, you keep saying,

1637
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 2: she told me this is a different time frame.

1638
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 1: This is different time frame than eight weeks. But she

1639
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 1: said the only thing she wants in this world is

1640
01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 1: sushi and alcohol postpartum. Okay, she said, as long as

1641
01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: she gets a couple of dogs and a couple old ones,

1642
01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: a couple of bud lights before the game, She's gonna

1643
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 1: be a happy camper. She's a big beer girl, She's

1644
01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 1: a bit a big dog girl. She loves live sporting events.

1645
01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't think Jill is the issue. I think I

1646
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:14,599
Speaker 1: think Scarlet is the issue.

1647
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:20,519
Speaker 2: Again. This is Jill pre momick in a little differently

1648
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 2: and may maybe maybe maybe she'ld be a road dog

1649
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 2: and none of that will change.

1650
01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:27,559
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I'll be sober, sure but all day. Yeah,

1651
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 1: and let her just you babe, you go.

1652
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 2: But it's almost like you like learn different things on

1653
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 2: the fly because moms are so in tune with everything

1654
01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:40,680
Speaker 2: that's going on that moments of that they find out

1655
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,000
Speaker 2: everything that they put in their body ends up going through.

1656
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 1: If they're breastfeeding. Oh yeah, she wouldn't be able to

1657
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 1: breastfeed if she's drinking. She's not pumping dump.

1658
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, the old pump and dump. Yeah.

1659
01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:56,120
Speaker 2: Fuck so you never know, you never know, never know, Okay, godspeed.

1660
01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:57,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot. It sounds like we're.

1661
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 2: Shut out, fand shut out baby sweetheart, you said we

1662
01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 2: was doing this like you know what are the Osmo

1663
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:07,640
Speaker 2: home presented by Fandel We gotta we can't.

1664
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:11,280
Speaker 1: Pump and dump this segment shots going, demons going, They

1665
01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:14,400
Speaker 1: will might even go. I think Will's gonna cub.

1666
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 3: No Huskers play Cincinnati. Oh, come on, Augus, come on.

1667
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:20,080
Speaker 1: Now a Baylor two and a half. By the way,

1668
01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 1: two and a half dogs at home? Night game Blackout

1669
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 1: be fun game, Be a fun game.

1670
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: Uh, Survival Kit dad Hacks, we can rip through these.

1671
01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:33,639
Speaker 2: I see you got a survival Kit one on here.

1672
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 2: Like again, Survival Kit and dad Hacks kind of run.

1673
01:17:36,360 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 2: I feel like they kind of run together because my

1674
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:42,679
Speaker 2: dad hack is almost my dad hack is a product.

1675
01:17:42,680 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 2: I guess I could be survival Kit. I guess my

1676
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 2: dad hack could have been. And that's not even a

1677
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 2: dad hack, that's a parent hack. Even the mom's out

1678
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:50,799
Speaker 2: there listening. You get that window seat on the plane,

1679
01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:54,960
Speaker 2: make the old dog go in the aisle. I'm telling you,

1680
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 2: that's strat right there, that's some high level strat.

1681
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:01,439
Speaker 1: That's strat. That was a gag crazy after that though,

1682
01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:05,400
Speaker 1: but it's it's a good strat. I love that strat.

1683
01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 2: Hein nobody there dads will even Dad's a vibe with

1684
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: this too, But I think there's there's not a dad

1685
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:15,839
Speaker 2: in the game that times up bathroom breaks quite like myself.

1686
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:19,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have said that, you you have Scottie down

1687
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:20,360
Speaker 1: almost to the tea.

1688
01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:26,839
Speaker 2: What are you talking about. I'm talking about bathroom breaks

1689
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 2: like you use them as like a lifeline. You're talking

1690
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:31,960
Speaker 2: to hold the kid. You're holding the kid. You've been

1691
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:34,080
Speaker 2: putting in you know, you've been putting in the holden time.

1692
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 2: You've been looking over at the wife. She had been Yeah, hey, Scotty,

1693
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 2: daddy's got to hit the bathroom. You offload them now

1694
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 2: it's their turn to hold the kid. They're not just

1695
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:44,400
Speaker 2: going to give the kid back to you when you

1696
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:46,280
Speaker 2: come back from the bathroom. You'll be going to the

1697
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 2: bathroom doing your thing, and all of a sudden the

1698
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:50,599
Speaker 2: time shifted or it's like.

1699
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:54,000
Speaker 1: You can get an extra a couple of minutes. When

1700
01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:56,120
Speaker 1: she tries to hand Scotty back to you, I didn't

1701
01:18:56,200 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 1: wash my hands.

1702
01:18:56,800 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 2: Hold on, yeah, hey, let's let's go up and get

1703
01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 2: bedtime started. I'm gonna run to the bathroom real quick.

1704
01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 2: They'll get bedtime started first. You know what I mean. Yeah,

1705
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 2: it's just a little subtle It's a little subtle game. Okay, now,

1706
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:10,759
Speaker 2: just putting out into the universe.

1707
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 1: I have a note section that I'll add bathroom breaks too.

1708
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 2: I'll come up with more situations too, so that this

1709
01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 2: can be like a solid, solid clip in the future.

1710
01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:25,439
Speaker 1: I have a for mine. I was just gonna say,

1711
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm looking at my survival kit and my dad Hack

1712
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:30,439
Speaker 1: and I feel like they should one hundred percent be switched.

1713
01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:32,439
Speaker 1: Now I'm looking at it.

1714
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:34,559
Speaker 2: Let me go ahead and hit the survival kit, my

1715
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 2: survival kit shout out. This baby product is going to

1716
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:40,719
Speaker 2: be is called the mom Cozy. What the mom Cozy

1717
01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 2: is is it? It's this deal that you put the

1718
01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:47,400
Speaker 2: water in and it heats it up for you. You charge it,

1719
01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:50,000
Speaker 2: you have it on the go, but it heats it

1720
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 2: up for you. So if you want to get the

1721
01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 2: water up to one oh five. So that way, when

1722
01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:55,799
Speaker 2: you have the bottle, once you get to the formula

1723
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 2: phase or the formula stage, or even I guess, yeah,

1724
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 2: breast milk you could just put you could dump breast

1725
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:04,000
Speaker 2: milk in it and it'll heat it up for you.

1726
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:07,439
Speaker 2: So if you're on the go, grab some some room temp,

1727
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:10,120
Speaker 2: water cold, what doesn't even matter. Throw water in it,

1728
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 2: hit the button, gets it up to ninety five, one

1729
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 2: oh five, whatever your desired temperature is.

1730
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 3: Heats it up to it.

1731
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:18,200
Speaker 2: You throw it in the bottle, You put the formula,

1732
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:19,640
Speaker 2: and you shake it up and you're ready to go.

1733
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 2: So my survival kit is called it's called the mom

1734
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 2: Cozy because you'll you'll learn too. It's like if you're

1735
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 2: gonna go out and you might heat up milk before

1736
01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 2: you go, thinking like, all right, she's gonna eat or here,

1737
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 2: or she's gonna eat in about twenty to thirty minutes,

1738
01:20:32,880 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 2: so we'll be able to have a heated bottle in

1739
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:38,479
Speaker 2: the car for him, or like there's some backpacks that

1740
01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 2: have like a little insulated insulated sleeve that you might

1741
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:43,479
Speaker 2: set it in and hope that it lasts for however

1742
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 2: long you need it. But this little mom cozy is

1743
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,600
Speaker 2: like this little portable heat up like it looks like

1744
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:54,439
Speaker 2: a little I don't want to say yetti, but it's something.

1745
01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 2: It's something like that to where you put the water in.

1746
01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 2: It's got a little it's got a little battery pack

1747
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:01,839
Speaker 2: on the bottom that you would charge, plug in and charge.

1748
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:05,320
Speaker 2: You charge it up, and whenever you turn on, it'll

1749
01:21:05,320 --> 01:21:08,440
Speaker 2: heat up your water to the to the desired temperature.

1750
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,240
Speaker 1: This thing looks sick. Yeah, I didn't even know.

1751
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 3: It's a game changer.

1752
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 2: It's a game changer because you could just have in

1753
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 2: you know, again, you could just have a bottle of

1754
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 2: water and whenever it's time to eat or time to feed.

1755
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 2: It could be hours later. But you have this thing,

1756
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:23,479
Speaker 2: and you might be on the go to where you're

1757
01:21:23,479 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 2: not anywhere where you can get some hot water or

1758
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:27,840
Speaker 2: some warm water, because usually people will heat it up,

1759
01:21:27,880 --> 01:21:29,920
Speaker 2: whether you know, they get hot water in this at

1760
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 2: the bottle, yeah, in the in the hot water, or

1761
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:34,759
Speaker 2: they got a little they got a little bottle warmer

1762
01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 2: in the house. This is like one on the go.

1763
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that you had to heat it up.

1764
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1765
01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 1: But now, thinking back to one of my favorite movies

1766
01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:44,960
Speaker 1: as a kid baby say out. I don't know if

1767
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 1: you'll ever saw that one burns himself trying to heat

1768
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:49,599
Speaker 1: up the bottle the OG's node.

1769
01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:52,320
Speaker 2: Then you know, yeah, but I didn't know heat. I

1770
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 2: didn't know you had to have heat and milk either.

1771
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:57,599
Speaker 1: That's crazy, okay, mom cozy because if you.

1772
01:21:57,520 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 2: Think about it, when they're feeding on the booth, there

1773
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 2: didn't add that body temperature milk. It's coming out warm.

1774
01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 1: Bro, I've been learning about uh, colostrum, colosstrum. Yeah, dude,

1775
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 1: I saw some body like.

1776
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, the little yeah, listen to this. So

1777
01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 2: apparently this is my wife giving me this game. But

1778
01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 2: apparently if your kid is like sick or they have

1779
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:34,440
Speaker 2: a cold or something, the mom their body knows because yeah,

1780
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 2: the baby's like communicating with the tea like when they

1781
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 2: latch on, and they're ultimately telling the mom what it

1782
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 2: needs nutrient wise, and the mom ultimately makes it like

1783
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:46,320
Speaker 2: when they're breastfeeding. So if they're sick or something, the

1784
01:22:46,680 --> 01:22:50,960
Speaker 2: mom is like formulating something based off the communication between

1785
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:53,120
Speaker 2: the nipple and the mouth when they connect that hey,

1786
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:55,680
Speaker 2: my body, the baby needs this right now, so it

1787
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 2: provides them the nutrients that they need. Even when they're sick.

1788
01:22:58,840 --> 01:23:02,400
Speaker 1: It's crazy here looking for aliens. We've been aliens the

1789
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:07,599
Speaker 1: whole time. That's crazy. Nuts, that's so cool, dude. That

1790
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:12,320
Speaker 1: is like the human body is so badass. Like the

1791
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:15,520
Speaker 1: way that everything on Jill's body is just like changing

1792
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:18,639
Speaker 1: to make this happen is crazy. We were talking about

1793
01:23:18,680 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: like the swelling and the legs. Yeah, these Jill's gone

1794
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:26,240
Speaker 1: up like three shoe sizes, and the fact that there

1795
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 1: is telepathy between the tit and the baby is nuts.

1796
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1797
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:34,040
Speaker 1: And then also for any meat heads out there that

1798
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:38,920
Speaker 1: think that, I swear to God, people like sell colostrum.

1799
01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 1: Jill was telling me this. They they will like syringe

1800
01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:46,120
Speaker 1: it out and they'll they'll freeze it. And then these

1801
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 1: bodybuilders are like these juice heads.

1802
01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:50,760
Speaker 3: One of the best things.

1803
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:55,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're like, oh hey, who gets colossum? Yeah, yeah,

1804
01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:58,679
Speaker 1: he gets a colostrum, bro. Jill told me registered nurse

1805
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:02,840
Speaker 1: that doesn't that doesn't do the trick for adults. It

1806
01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:05,439
Speaker 1: does have a lot of nutrients in it, but it's

1807
01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:07,479
Speaker 1: not worth all the time of you know, buying some

1808
01:24:07,520 --> 01:24:10,840
Speaker 1: clossrum on the black market. That's what the streets are saying,

1809
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:13,160
Speaker 1: Are you buying are you buying coloster.

1810
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:16,760
Speaker 2: You're looking at me like I like the supplement clossrum.

1811
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm not there is a supplement.

1812
01:24:18,920 --> 01:24:21,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, colossrum is a big thing

1813
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:23,639
Speaker 2: on the one. Yeah, you're trying to get jack.

1814
01:24:23,680 --> 01:24:27,599
Speaker 1: You want to get some gloss the guys you're one

1815
01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 1: of the guys that you was talking about.

1816
01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:37,679
Speaker 2: Jill, Listen, she might be wrong in saying that because

1817
01:24:37,680 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 2: it seems to be a lot of research buying clossrum.

1818
01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:44,679
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think so, Okay, maybe I'm mixing up two stories.

1819
01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:46,479
Speaker 1: And she was talking about breast milk.

1820
01:24:47,400 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so there are guys like I had an ex

1821
01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:52,720
Speaker 2: neighbor of mine that thinks like boom milk is like

1822
01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 2: the fountain of youth. So he would tell me, he

1823
01:24:56,439 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 2: would he would tell me like, hey, he would tell

1824
01:24:58,520 --> 01:25:00,720
Speaker 2: Charles if you got any left over that not gonna use,

1825
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:01,439
Speaker 2: Like he'll take it.

1826
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:02,599
Speaker 1: He said that to her face.

1827
01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 2: Yes.

1828
01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:09,000
Speaker 1: What was her reaction to that? Laughter, like nervous laughter, Like.

1829
01:25:09,120 --> 01:25:10,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, because we're like friends, you know what I mean?

1830
01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:12,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but he's like.

1831
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:15,920
Speaker 2: He's dead ass, seriously. But I'll be like, you drink

1832
01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:17,799
Speaker 2: your wife's boot milk and he's like, yes.

1833
01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:24,040
Speaker 1: Good for him, dude, was he jacked?

1834
01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:27,200
Speaker 2: He's yeah, he's a he's a good looking human being.

1835
01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe there is some some science behind it. And

1836
01:25:31,240 --> 01:25:38,000
Speaker 1: Jill's what he says, Oh she has to pump indom. Yeah,

1837
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 1: and the kids like something like that.

1838
01:25:41,240 --> 01:25:44,840
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, you're talking about when he comes up

1839
01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:46,760
Speaker 2: to his mom and he's like he's like sucking at

1840
01:25:46,760 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 2: the teat and he's like, uh, how old is he?

1841
01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 2: And she's like she's like, uh, what'd you say? Forty

1842
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:53,599
Speaker 2: eight months?

1843
01:25:53,760 --> 01:25:56,439
Speaker 1: Or yeah, oh yeah, she says some ridiculous amount of

1844
01:25:56,479 --> 01:25:58,560
Speaker 1: months that equals up to like seven.

1845
01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:01,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like seventy two months. He's like so so.

1846
01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 1: Three yeah, oh my god, great call out.

1847
01:26:07,920 --> 01:26:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was mixing up the Yeah, there are there

1848
01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:13,120
Speaker 2: are cats out there that drink boot milk. I tasted, Charles.

1849
01:26:13,120 --> 01:26:15,120
Speaker 2: I haven't like drank it, you know what I mean? Like,

1850
01:26:15,200 --> 01:26:17,439
Speaker 2: as I'm gonna use this as a supplement.

1851
01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:19,160
Speaker 1: You did it? Is like a bit to be funny.

1852
01:26:19,360 --> 01:26:21,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did it, Like let me see what this

1853
01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:24,200
Speaker 2: is all about. Yeah yeah, and it really won't that bad.

1854
01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try.

1855
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:26,639
Speaker 2: It really won't that bad.

1856
01:26:26,720 --> 01:26:28,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and act like I'm not

1857
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:31,439
Speaker 1: gonna try it. Yeah, but yeah, dude, seeing the colossrum

1858
01:26:31,520 --> 01:26:32,000
Speaker 1: was crazy.

1859
01:26:32,520 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's just it's different for every woman. It's

1860
01:26:35,800 --> 01:26:38,840
Speaker 2: like Charles having a really hard time on herself because

1861
01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:40,639
Speaker 2: I want to say, with rue, she might have got

1862
01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:42,720
Speaker 2: to about four months. And there are some women who

1863
01:26:42,800 --> 01:26:44,800
Speaker 2: you know, they like freeze their boot milk and they

1864
01:26:44,800 --> 01:26:48,719
Speaker 2: have like months worth of supply. But it just varies

1865
01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 2: for it just varies for everybody. Scotty, she had a

1866
01:26:51,360 --> 01:26:54,240
Speaker 2: little bit more. She's able to do more. Maybe her

1867
01:26:54,240 --> 01:26:57,000
Speaker 2: body was adjusted for the second pregnancy. Yeah, because some

1868
01:26:57,040 --> 01:26:59,880
Speaker 2: women will breastfeed for a long time. I don't even know.

1869
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 2: I don't even want to say a number, but they'll

1870
01:27:02,160 --> 01:27:03,800
Speaker 2: be able to breastfeed for like a long time, Like

1871
01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:05,880
Speaker 2: I'm talking like a year, over a year, as long

1872
01:27:05,880 --> 01:27:07,080
Speaker 2: long as they can. Yeah.

1873
01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:10,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're like back in the olden days when

1874
01:27:10,600 --> 01:27:13,040
Speaker 1: like you would have like a back in the medieval,

1875
01:27:13,240 --> 01:27:15,479
Speaker 1: Back in the medieval, what would they call those the

1876
01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:17,120
Speaker 1: nursing the wet nurse.

1877
01:27:17,680 --> 01:27:21,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, we'll say it for this story, the

1878
01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:21,639
Speaker 2: wet nurse.

1879
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:24,639
Speaker 1: I hope I'm not like saying some super non PC

1880
01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:27,800
Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure that's what Yeah, yeah, yeah, a

1881
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: wet nurse that just like she just always had boot

1882
01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:35,600
Speaker 1: milk gun. Yeah, you didn't have to breastfeed. It was like,

1883
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:37,400
Speaker 1: you know, put her, put her on nurse.

1884
01:27:37,479 --> 01:27:40,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's just so many different variables, one being

1885
01:27:40,400 --> 01:27:42,680
Speaker 2: the mom like the supply that they have, and then

1886
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,960
Speaker 2: another one is like if the kid is like breastfeeds, well,

1887
01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:49,120
Speaker 2: sometimes it won't be coming out fast enough, so they'll

1888
01:27:49,160 --> 01:27:51,360
Speaker 2: be very irritated, and then then you start to switch

1889
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:53,519
Speaker 2: to the bottle because they're just not getting a lot.

1890
01:27:54,040 --> 01:27:55,240
Speaker 3: There's a lot of different things that.

1891
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:58,720
Speaker 2: You'll that you'll experience in the damn in the postpartum life,

1892
01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:00,719
Speaker 2: because that's a that's a real thing that goes down.

1893
01:28:00,880 --> 01:28:02,840
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm in a holding pattern right now

1894
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 1: with this podcast. I'm very excited for Scarlett to be here.

1895
01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:08,680
Speaker 1: Obviously for Scarlett to be here, but I feel like

1896
01:28:08,880 --> 01:28:10,760
Speaker 1: just the amount of stuff that's gonna hit me in

1897
01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 1: week one, I'm gonna.

1898
01:28:12,439 --> 01:28:14,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, it'd be some fun. Yeah, it'll be some good story.

1899
01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:17,559
Speaker 1: It's gonna be seeing there chuckling as I'm like cross

1900
01:28:17,560 --> 01:28:19,040
Speaker 1: eyed and like, yeah, what the fuck is?

1901
01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:21,599
Speaker 2: And you'll have different experiences, you know what. I mean, yeah, well,

1902
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 2: I'm assuming that you'll probably have like different experiences.

1903
01:28:24,360 --> 01:28:25,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for sure.

1904
01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:27,559
Speaker 2: That it won't be the exact same thing that I experience.

1905
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:30,160
Speaker 2: Like everybody, everybody's different, so you just never know, but

1906
01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:30,720
Speaker 2: it will be.

1907
01:28:31,120 --> 01:28:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be nice.

1908
01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 2: The fact that you're you're playing this Waycoat trip, we

1909
01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:40,200
Speaker 2: gate we Scarlet's life. She's gonna go to her first

1910
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:40,679
Speaker 2: ball game.

1911
01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:44,200
Speaker 1: And you think the Bears are gonna lose with Scarlet,

1912
01:28:44,240 --> 01:28:45,880
Speaker 1: there'd be crazy.

1913
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:47,519
Speaker 3: That'd be crazy. That'd be crazy.

1914
01:28:47,560 --> 01:28:52,160
Speaker 1: There's no way. Oh yeah, my survival kid and Dad

1915
01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:56,560
Speaker 1: hacks A'll go really quick. We have the baby Breza

1916
01:28:57,720 --> 01:29:01,559
Speaker 1: nice that was give to us. It's kind of like

1917
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 1: our was that you.

1918
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:04,519
Speaker 3: Get the bottle cleaner one or you got like the

1919
01:29:04,560 --> 01:29:05,400
Speaker 3: Formula one.

1920
01:29:05,920 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 1: Bottle cleaner one, and that thing is crazy. I got

1921
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:13,759
Speaker 1: to see it in action. Jill also bought the set

1922
01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:17,519
Speaker 1: where it like holds the bottles and stuff for Yeah,

1923
01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:20,040
Speaker 1: we had it on our what was it called where

1924
01:29:20,040 --> 01:29:21,679
Speaker 1: all your gifts are on the Internet and your loved

1925
01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:25,840
Speaker 1: ones like registry registry. It was on our baby registry,

1926
01:29:26,439 --> 01:29:29,559
Speaker 1: So shout out whoever got that for us. But the

1927
01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:32,479
Speaker 1: Baby Breza is sick, And I'm like, why aren't all

1928
01:29:32,560 --> 01:29:35,559
Speaker 1: dishwashers like this? Now that I think about it, if

1929
01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 1: you just had a smaller dishwasher instead of waiting all

1930
01:29:39,080 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 1: for your dishes to just like collect over a long

1931
01:29:41,400 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 1: time and put in this dishwasher where it's so big

1932
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:46,920
Speaker 1: that it's not really like getting everything, why not have

1933
01:29:47,040 --> 01:29:51,000
Speaker 1: like a small concentrated dishwasher like this baby Breza that

1934
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:53,680
Speaker 1: just gets it dialed and you only put like the

1935
01:29:53,720 --> 01:29:56,360
Speaker 1: cups and plates that you use from dinner in it.

1936
01:29:57,040 --> 01:29:58,879
Speaker 1: But watching that thing work, it was crazy.

1937
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:00,439
Speaker 2: There might be one out there, And now as you

1938
01:30:00,439 --> 01:30:02,519
Speaker 2: said that, if there's not, maybe it's our first product.

1939
01:30:03,160 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 2: That'd be six just great manufacture, our first product.

1940
01:30:06,520 --> 01:30:11,559
Speaker 1: You just George Foreman style pushing these mini diss and guys,

1941
01:30:11,560 --> 01:30:15,559
Speaker 1: I'm well compted when I'm not podcasting cleaning dishes.

1942
01:30:16,439 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 2: Uh.

1943
01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:22,160
Speaker 1: And then Survival or dad Hack was Goodwill. Goodwill came

1944
01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:25,080
Speaker 1: in Clutch today. It was a Sunday all the city

1945
01:30:25,160 --> 01:30:27,559
Speaker 1: dumps where you can like go legally dump your stuff.

1946
01:30:27,600 --> 01:30:30,759
Speaker 1: We're cleaning out the house because her parents, my parents,

1947
01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 1: they're all going to be coming in next week. Because

1948
01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:35,960
Speaker 1: Jill gets to induced on the second so they're gonna

1949
01:30:35,960 --> 01:30:39,400
Speaker 1: come in on the thirtieth. The moms, I think are

1950
01:30:39,439 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 1: gonna be staying with us kind of on and off.

1951
01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:46,240
Speaker 1: Everybody has hotel rooms and airbnbs, but Jill wants the

1952
01:30:46,240 --> 01:30:48,960
Speaker 1: house looking perfect. So we're like purging all this stuff.

1953
01:30:49,400 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 1: All the city dumps are closed. I'm like, where the

1954
01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:54,400
Speaker 1: hell can I take all this stuff today to like

1955
01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,360
Speaker 1: get it out here, because Jill's like, I want it

1956
01:30:56,400 --> 01:31:02,960
Speaker 1: gone Goodwill. Dude asked zero questions, and I'm sitting there,

1957
01:31:02,960 --> 01:31:05,439
Speaker 1: I'm giving them like two or three chances. Like the

1958
01:31:05,600 --> 01:31:08,120
Speaker 1: couple in New York. I'm like, you sure, like I

1959
01:31:08,120 --> 01:31:12,240
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what's in this container. I

1960
01:31:12,240 --> 01:31:13,960
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm about to like dump in here.

1961
01:31:14,000 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 1: And they're like, oh, well, that's the miscellaneous bin so

1962
01:31:16,479 --> 01:31:21,400
Speaker 1: you can just it was incredible, dude. It was just

1963
01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:24,120
Speaker 1: a weight off the chest. So Dad Hacks if you know,

1964
01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:27,519
Speaker 1: the missus is ever Anya. It's like, hey, you gotta

1965
01:31:27,560 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 1: get this this stuff out of here. Go to good Will.

1966
01:31:30,280 --> 01:31:30,559
Speaker 2: Dude.

1967
01:31:30,560 --> 01:31:33,160
Speaker 1: They asked zero questions. Love that, but be good to them.

1968
01:31:33,200 --> 01:31:35,320
Speaker 1: Don't give them a bunch of nasty stuff to sift through,

1969
01:31:35,680 --> 01:31:38,400
Speaker 1: which I hope I didn't I look through it enough

1970
01:31:38,400 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 1: that it's like, Okay, nothing's gonna you know, piss them off.

1971
01:31:43,200 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was a good little dad hack.

1972
01:31:45,120 --> 01:31:46,800
Speaker 3: That's it. That is a good dad hack. Should we

1973
01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:48,520
Speaker 3: dive into the to the voicemails.

1974
01:31:48,680 --> 01:31:50,640
Speaker 1: Let's dive into the voicemails. Do you want to do

1975
01:31:50,840 --> 01:31:56,120
Speaker 1: a serious one or a funny one? First? H serious? Okay?

1976
01:31:56,160 --> 01:31:59,600
Speaker 1: And the serious is not over serious overly serious? This

1977
01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:02,839
Speaker 1: week it's more so this dad is looking for advice

1978
01:32:03,080 --> 01:32:06,120
Speaker 1: directly from Will Compton. I cannot answer this question.

1979
01:32:10,400 --> 01:32:14,800
Speaker 4: Hey, fellas, this is Thomas from Chattanooga. Want to call

1980
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:18,639
Speaker 4: in and get some advice from the boys about making

1981
01:32:18,680 --> 01:32:22,000
Speaker 4: the jump from one to two kids. My wife's expecting

1982
01:32:22,040 --> 01:32:27,160
Speaker 4: our second in November. We'll have two under two. Just

1983
01:32:27,240 --> 01:32:29,080
Speaker 4: kind of wanted to see what that jump was like

1984
01:32:30,080 --> 01:32:31,360
Speaker 4: and what to expect from it.

1985
01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:34,840
Speaker 2: All right, thanks fellas, Thomas from Chattanooga.

1986
01:32:34,840 --> 01:32:35,680
Speaker 3: Appreciate you calling in.

1987
01:32:35,720 --> 01:32:39,759
Speaker 2: Brother two under two I here is a different animal.

1988
01:32:40,439 --> 01:32:40,720
Speaker 3: You know.

1989
01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:43,400
Speaker 2: Charl and I we had our we were trying to

1990
01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:45,360
Speaker 2: go for two under two, but we obviously if you

1991
01:32:45,400 --> 01:32:47,719
Speaker 2: listen to the IVF podcast on bus with the Boys

1992
01:32:48,479 --> 01:32:51,679
Speaker 2: around Mother's Day that we dropped it. We had problems

1993
01:32:51,680 --> 01:32:54,559
Speaker 2: getting pregnant with the second one with Scotti, and so

1994
01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:58,120
Speaker 2: Rue was I would say, what was about two and

1995
01:32:58,160 --> 01:33:02,080
Speaker 2: a half when we had so we didn't necessarily have.

1996
01:33:02,000 --> 01:33:03,800
Speaker 3: Two under two. I do hear two under two is

1997
01:33:03,840 --> 01:33:04,520
Speaker 3: like a different.

1998
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:06,960
Speaker 2: Animal, because again it's like the first one. They haven't

1999
01:33:06,960 --> 01:33:10,800
Speaker 2: been walking very long. Rue I feel like she's not

2000
01:33:11,400 --> 01:33:14,479
Speaker 2: she's not the most useful, but she's somebody who's aware

2001
01:33:14,520 --> 01:33:16,200
Speaker 2: of like she's wanting to help out. So I feel

2002
01:33:16,200 --> 01:33:18,559
Speaker 2: like that helps. When you have the older one, they're

2003
01:33:18,600 --> 01:33:23,600
Speaker 2: over two years old, you'll be you think you'll be

2004
01:33:23,640 --> 01:33:26,280
Speaker 2: playing man to man because you're not necessarily outnumbered yet.

2005
01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:28,600
Speaker 2: You'll be too two v two in the household, but

2006
01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 2: you're still somewhat playing a bit of zone defense because

2007
01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:34,439
Speaker 2: what the older one needs. The older one's gonna be favoring,

2008
01:33:34,479 --> 01:33:37,080
Speaker 2: whether mom or dad at the time the newborn, you

2009
01:33:37,120 --> 01:33:39,280
Speaker 2: guys are gonna be able to like you already know

2010
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:41,160
Speaker 2: what to expect out of the second one because you

2011
01:33:41,240 --> 01:33:43,200
Speaker 2: had the first one, So the second one really won't

2012
01:33:43,200 --> 01:33:46,000
Speaker 2: be a problem. Once they get sleeping, it's it's gonna

2013
01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:47,880
Speaker 2: be all about getting them to sleep, getting them in

2014
01:33:47,920 --> 01:33:50,720
Speaker 2: a good rhythm. I would strongly recommend twelve hours by

2015
01:33:50,760 --> 01:33:52,639
Speaker 2: twelve weeks. I forget who the author is, but that's

2016
01:33:52,680 --> 01:33:55,160
Speaker 2: a good book out there for like for like sleep training.

2017
01:33:55,160 --> 01:33:58,160
Speaker 2: It's not too aggressive. It's how to get to the

2018
01:33:58,240 --> 01:34:00,559
Speaker 2: kid to adapt to your life versus the other way around.

2019
01:34:01,080 --> 01:34:03,160
Speaker 2: And that was like a method we went by. So really,

2020
01:34:03,160 --> 01:34:05,560
Speaker 2: the first one's all about getting in that good sleep routine,

2021
01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:07,639
Speaker 2: because that one, again, it's like when they first come out,

2022
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:09,680
Speaker 2: it's they're eating every three hours. You kind of know

2023
01:34:09,760 --> 01:34:12,080
Speaker 2: what to expect. With that second one. It's going to

2024
01:34:12,120 --> 01:34:15,280
Speaker 2: be the older one that is going to be experiencing

2025
01:34:15,360 --> 01:34:19,320
Speaker 2: new emotions as they age. They're gonna have there used

2026
01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:21,799
Speaker 2: to being the only child. They're no longer the only child.

2027
01:34:22,080 --> 01:34:24,639
Speaker 2: Something that we did with Rue because we were very

2028
01:34:24,640 --> 01:34:29,400
Speaker 2: intentional about how we introduced Scotty into the world with Rue.

2029
01:34:30,000 --> 01:34:33,800
Speaker 2: And I was getting this stuff from like honestly Instagram.

2030
01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:36,679
Speaker 2: But one thing that we did when Scotty was born

2031
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:39,720
Speaker 2: is when Rue came to the hospital, we had our

2032
01:34:39,840 --> 01:34:43,480
Speaker 2: nanny holding Scottie. We had our nanny holding the newborn.

2033
01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:47,000
Speaker 2: So that way, when Rue walked into the room for

2034
01:34:47,160 --> 01:34:51,440
Speaker 2: your first child, you you and mom are their entire world.

2035
01:34:51,760 --> 01:34:54,559
Speaker 2: So when she's walking into the room to check on Mom,

2036
01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:57,599
Speaker 2: the entire goal was while I was walking room, it's like, Hey,

2037
01:34:57,600 --> 01:34:59,200
Speaker 2: we're gonna go see mom and you can meet your

2038
01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:02,320
Speaker 2: new little sister. So we wanted Rue to see when

2039
01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:06,960
Speaker 2: she walked into the room, Mom not holding the newborn,

2040
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:11,000
Speaker 2: Mom who Rue saw as her entire world being Mom

2041
01:35:11,120 --> 01:35:14,960
Speaker 2: recovering from having Scotty, the second child. So Rue could

2042
01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:16,960
Speaker 2: walk in, crawl up on the bed with mom, check

2043
01:35:16,960 --> 01:35:18,479
Speaker 2: in on mom. And then we were like, hey, do

2044
01:35:18,479 --> 01:35:19,840
Speaker 2: you want to meet Scotty? Do you want to meet

2045
01:35:19,840 --> 01:35:22,479
Speaker 2: your baby's sister who our nanny was holding. So as

2046
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:25,080
Speaker 2: a family, we kind of go over and introduce Rue

2047
01:35:25,080 --> 01:35:28,439
Speaker 2: to Scotty. So that way Rue feels like the baby

2048
01:35:28,479 --> 01:35:30,679
Speaker 2: is getting introduced to all of us at the same

2049
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:32,920
Speaker 2: time getting introduced to our world. That was one thing

2050
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:35,120
Speaker 2: that we did. The second thing that we did, which

2051
01:35:35,400 --> 01:35:37,040
Speaker 2: Steve and Cha shout out to the boy Stephen Cha

2052
01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:38,840
Speaker 2: for putting me on this and I feel like this

2053
01:35:38,960 --> 01:35:42,760
Speaker 2: isn't like a secret or anything. But when we were

2054
01:35:42,800 --> 01:35:46,839
Speaker 2: taking Scotty home, our second baby home, we were telling

2055
01:35:46,920 --> 01:35:49,120
Speaker 2: Rue as we were driving in the car, Hey, Scotty

2056
01:35:49,240 --> 01:35:53,360
Speaker 2: got you a present when you get home, and we

2057
01:35:53,400 --> 01:35:55,800
Speaker 2: got her like some like ELSA, some little like ELSA

2058
01:35:55,920 --> 01:35:59,320
Speaker 2: jewelry or something from the store. So when Rue got home,

2059
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:02,240
Speaker 2: Scotto he had a gift for her. We're like, hey, Scotty,

2060
01:36:02,240 --> 01:36:03,800
Speaker 2: got this gift for you and re opened up. I

2061
01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:07,160
Speaker 2: was all excited. So we were very intentional about introducing

2062
01:36:07,680 --> 01:36:12,439
Speaker 2: the second baby into our home with Rue being our oldest.

2063
01:36:12,479 --> 01:36:17,040
Speaker 2: So I would I would recommend a couple of those things.

2064
01:36:17,080 --> 01:36:20,679
Speaker 2: And then it's like how you can immerse your oldest

2065
01:36:20,680 --> 01:36:23,760
Speaker 2: into being helpful with Scottie. You're like, hey, do you

2066
01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:25,519
Speaker 2: want to do you want to show Scotty how we

2067
01:36:25,600 --> 01:36:28,120
Speaker 2: do your bedtime routine? That actually kills two birds with

2068
01:36:28,160 --> 01:36:30,000
Speaker 2: one stone, because you're trying to get you know, it's

2069
01:36:30,080 --> 01:36:32,960
Speaker 2: hard enough to get your your oldest one in the

2070
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:37,640
Speaker 2: bedtime routine every night consistently. So you're like, hey, do

2071
01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:39,559
Speaker 2: you want to show Scotty how we do bedtime? How

2072
01:36:39,600 --> 01:36:41,640
Speaker 2: we do our routine, And so Rue would be like

2073
01:36:41,680 --> 01:36:43,559
Speaker 2: helping out, we do this, we do that kind of

2074
01:36:43,600 --> 01:36:46,840
Speaker 2: talking to the baby, and in the same breath, Ruth's

2075
01:36:46,840 --> 01:36:48,800
Speaker 2: getting ready for bed. So you're kind of like, you know,

2076
01:36:48,840 --> 01:36:50,519
Speaker 2: you're kind of gaming her up to get ready for

2077
01:36:50,520 --> 01:36:55,160
Speaker 2: bed as well. She obviously you're your oldest doesn't know

2078
01:36:55,200 --> 01:36:57,040
Speaker 2: how to read yet. But we would tell we would

2079
01:36:57,040 --> 01:36:58,960
Speaker 2: have Rue like, hey, what books should we read Scotty

2080
01:36:59,040 --> 01:37:01,000
Speaker 2: for the first time? Which we do here, what we

2081
01:37:01,080 --> 01:37:03,519
Speaker 2: do there? And so we were we were We allowed

2082
01:37:03,640 --> 01:37:09,040
Speaker 2: Rue to be very instrumental into introducing Scotty into our house.

2083
01:37:09,040 --> 01:37:10,800
Speaker 2: So those would be the things that I would tell you.

2084
01:37:10,840 --> 01:37:14,000
Speaker 2: As far as going one to two, you know you'll

2085
01:37:14,000 --> 01:37:16,840
Speaker 2: get mixed reviews. You know you have you'll have the

2086
01:37:16,840 --> 01:37:18,680
Speaker 2: people that are like, oh, you only have one kid, now,

2087
01:37:18,680 --> 01:37:20,760
Speaker 2: wait till you have the second one. But honestly, dude,

2088
01:37:20,800 --> 01:37:23,760
Speaker 2: it's not. It's not that bad. You're already in your

2089
01:37:23,760 --> 01:37:25,800
Speaker 2: own routine of having a kid in the first place,

2090
01:37:25,840 --> 01:37:30,679
Speaker 2: and balancing work, family, being home, all those different things,

2091
01:37:30,680 --> 01:37:32,679
Speaker 2: and helping your wife out. The second one is really

2092
01:37:32,720 --> 01:37:37,280
Speaker 2: not as as difficult when you have to. Obviously, mom's

2093
01:37:37,280 --> 01:37:38,640
Speaker 2: going to be leaning on you to help with the

2094
01:37:38,640 --> 01:37:41,160
Speaker 2: older one a lot more getting ready for bed because

2095
01:37:41,200 --> 01:37:42,320
Speaker 2: she's going to be on a lot more of a

2096
01:37:42,400 --> 01:37:44,000
Speaker 2: routine with the newborn.

2097
01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:45,880
Speaker 3: But it's not it's not.

2098
01:37:45,880 --> 01:37:48,800
Speaker 2: As bad as I feel like what reviews can be

2099
01:37:48,840 --> 01:37:49,840
Speaker 2: on going one to two.

2100
01:37:50,439 --> 01:37:53,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm speaking so out of turn. I have

2101
01:37:53,280 --> 01:37:55,880
Speaker 1: no idea, but I almost see it as like as

2102
01:37:56,120 --> 01:38:00,839
Speaker 1: the two get older, like that their relationship starts budding.

2103
01:38:01,400 --> 01:38:04,679
Speaker 1: They're able to start pouring into each other. They're able

2104
01:38:04,720 --> 01:38:07,880
Speaker 1: to kind of entertain each other in types of ways

2105
01:38:08,439 --> 01:38:12,320
Speaker 1: to where almost like the two dog principle.

2106
01:38:12,520 --> 01:38:15,280
Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, yeah, Well, it's like once they can

2107
01:38:15,320 --> 01:38:18,880
Speaker 2: start smiling, like anytime Scotty's like smiling at Rue, or

2108
01:38:19,439 --> 01:38:23,120
Speaker 2: because Scotty watches Rue a lot, just play and do

2109
01:38:23,160 --> 01:38:25,240
Speaker 2: all the things and just making the comments Scotty loves

2110
01:38:25,240 --> 01:38:27,960
Speaker 2: you so much, Oh, Scotty loves her big sister, you know,

2111
01:38:28,439 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 2: getting them to say it back and forth. So Rue

2112
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:33,120
Speaker 2: feels very connected to Scotti. And another thing that we

2113
01:38:33,120 --> 01:38:36,240
Speaker 2: would do that I think we learned on Instagram as well.

2114
01:38:36,280 --> 01:38:38,679
Speaker 2: I know for me I did. It was like how

2115
01:38:38,760 --> 01:38:41,639
Speaker 2: you kind of talk to the newborn with the oldest

2116
01:38:41,640 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 2: sitting there. So it's like if Rue wants my attention

2117
01:38:45,400 --> 01:38:47,840
Speaker 2: to play, Hey dad, Dad, can we play Hide and Seek?

2118
01:38:48,520 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 2: And I know I gotta do something with Scotti before

2119
01:38:51,520 --> 01:38:54,400
Speaker 2: I play with Rue. And I'm trying to be conscious

2120
01:38:54,400 --> 01:38:57,519
Speaker 2: about just telling Rue like Hey, I gotta de feed Scotty.

2121
01:38:57,600 --> 01:38:59,400
Speaker 2: I can't play with you right now. Instead, I would

2122
01:38:59,439 --> 01:39:01,559
Speaker 2: look to Scott and be like, hey, all right, we

2123
01:39:01,560 --> 01:39:03,000
Speaker 2: can play hide and seek. I just got to tell

2124
01:39:03,000 --> 01:39:06,479
Speaker 2: Scotty something that I look at Scotty. Hey, Scotty, when

2125
01:39:06,479 --> 01:39:07,960
Speaker 2: I'm done feeding you, I'm gonna go have to play

2126
01:39:08,000 --> 01:39:09,840
Speaker 2: hide and seek with your sister if that's okay with you.

2127
01:39:10,120 --> 01:39:11,920
Speaker 2: So I'm kind of telling Scotty. I'm kind of saying

2128
01:39:11,960 --> 01:39:12,599
Speaker 2: that in front.

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01:39:12,439 --> 01:39:15,120
Speaker 1: Of Rue, so Rue knows that, oh.

2130
01:39:15,080 --> 01:39:16,920
Speaker 2: Dad's gonna spend time with me, he just has to.

2131
01:39:17,160 --> 01:39:19,160
Speaker 2: He's letting Scotty know he's got to play with me

2132
01:39:19,240 --> 01:39:22,080
Speaker 2: before he plays, yes, dude, versus being like, I can't

2133
01:39:22,080 --> 01:39:23,960
Speaker 2: play with you right now, I'll play with you after

2134
01:39:23,960 --> 01:39:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm done feeding Scotty. Because then in their brain or

2135
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:29,120
Speaker 2: what I've tried, like learning or gathering, like in their

2136
01:39:29,160 --> 01:39:32,080
Speaker 2: brain it's like, oh, I'm second fiddle to this new trial.

2137
01:39:32,200 --> 01:39:34,760
Speaker 2: So that could build up some resentment like in their

2138
01:39:34,840 --> 01:39:36,960
Speaker 2: brain because I, sweetheart, I can't play with you right now.

2139
01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:39,320
Speaker 2: Let daddy. Daddy will play with you after I'm done

2140
01:39:39,720 --> 01:39:41,880
Speaker 2: doing what I gotta do with Scotty. Instead, I'll look

2141
01:39:41,920 --> 01:39:43,640
Speaker 2: at Scotty and explain what I'm gonna have to do

2142
01:39:43,680 --> 01:39:46,080
Speaker 2: with Rue after I get done executing what I need

2143
01:39:46,120 --> 01:39:47,080
Speaker 2: to execute with the new.

2144
01:39:47,040 --> 01:39:49,040
Speaker 1: Dude, that is some serious game.

2145
01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:49,880
Speaker 2: You like that?

2146
01:39:50,240 --> 01:39:52,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, shout out Instagram, man, Yeah.

2147
01:39:52,320 --> 01:39:54,880
Speaker 1: Shout out Instagram. That's so sick.

2148
01:39:55,000 --> 01:39:56,800
Speaker 2: You're like, listen to the breakdown and you hear the

2149
01:39:56,840 --> 01:39:58,920
Speaker 2: why behind it, and you're like, oh that that that

2150
01:39:59,040 --> 01:40:01,000
Speaker 2: makes a lot of sense, yes, and how it could

2151
01:40:01,000 --> 01:40:03,360
Speaker 2: come off to the child that doesn't know any better.

2152
01:40:03,400 --> 01:40:05,720
Speaker 2: They're just hearing, no, I can't play with you right now.

2153
01:40:05,760 --> 01:40:08,800
Speaker 2: I gotta do this with the newborn. And it's like, well,

2154
01:40:08,840 --> 01:40:11,120
Speaker 2: you know, where's the time for me? You know what

2155
01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:12,519
Speaker 2: I mean? And then I can build up some it

2156
01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:14,720
Speaker 2: can build up whatever the resentment is. Like, really, the

2157
01:40:14,720 --> 01:40:17,519
Speaker 2: only issue we have with the ruined Scotti is if

2158
01:40:17,640 --> 01:40:21,120
Speaker 2: Rus just starting to break down and she sees Mom

2159
01:40:21,360 --> 01:40:23,800
Speaker 2: say holding Scotty like it happened today on the on

2160
01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:28,720
Speaker 2: the flight like Charo had, Scottie had the carrier and

2161
01:40:28,720 --> 01:40:30,559
Speaker 2: she was shrapped to her chest, and ru was just

2162
01:40:30,600 --> 01:40:32,439
Speaker 2: like having a little moments like Mom, I want you

2163
01:40:32,479 --> 01:40:34,439
Speaker 2: to hold me. I don't want you to hold Scotty. Yeah,

2164
01:40:34,439 --> 01:40:35,800
Speaker 2: so then you got to kind of, hey, I'll take

2165
01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:37,559
Speaker 2: the baby so she can hold Rue and stuff like that.

2166
01:40:37,600 --> 01:40:41,160
Speaker 2: But really that's about as much jealousy that we've seen

2167
01:40:41,200 --> 01:40:42,920
Speaker 2: out of Rue. It's more of just like when Ruth's

2168
01:40:42,920 --> 01:40:45,000
Speaker 2: having a moment and see Scotty being held, She's like,

2169
01:40:45,040 --> 01:40:46,160
Speaker 2: I want you to hold me. I don't want you

2170
01:40:46,200 --> 01:40:46,799
Speaker 2: to hold Scotty.

2171
01:40:47,960 --> 01:40:52,519
Speaker 1: It's very much the power. Forgot where I heard this

2172
01:40:52,680 --> 01:40:55,320
Speaker 1: or read it, but the power of we, the power

2173
01:40:55,320 --> 01:40:58,800
Speaker 1: of us, like using those types of terminology with like

2174
01:40:58,880 --> 01:41:01,360
Speaker 1: co workers, even if it's a job that only you're

2175
01:41:01,400 --> 01:41:03,639
Speaker 1: gonna be doing, but if you're saying it to your

2176
01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:06,639
Speaker 1: coworker of like yeah, if we do that, yeah, that's

2177
01:41:06,680 --> 01:41:08,240
Speaker 1: gonna work out great. I think that would be the

2178
01:41:08,240 --> 01:41:13,400
Speaker 1: best option for us. It's like integrating we're a team. Yeah,

2179
01:41:13,479 --> 01:41:17,080
Speaker 1: Like you're letting Rue know like, hey, we are playing

2180
01:41:17,160 --> 01:41:19,840
Speaker 1: hide and go seek. That's a given. We just gotta

2181
01:41:19,840 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 1: break it to this little thing over here. I love that, dude.

2182
01:41:23,280 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeah it's been Yeah, it's worked out. It's been a

2183
01:41:26,040 --> 01:41:26,760
Speaker 1: good move for us.

2184
01:41:26,760 --> 01:41:29,160
Speaker 2: But that that's what I would That would be my

2185
01:41:29,240 --> 01:41:30,519
Speaker 2: advice on going from one to two.

2186
01:41:30,920 --> 01:41:33,839
Speaker 1: Let's go and then we'll be reaching out to Thomas

2187
01:41:34,360 --> 01:41:38,640
Speaker 1: in Chattanooga to get his address and he'll be receiving.

2188
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:40,120
Speaker 2: Did we do a good job following up with our

2189
01:41:40,160 --> 01:41:43,160
Speaker 2: callers from last week? Let's go chef.

2190
01:41:43,320 --> 01:41:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we and yes, our friends that do the

2191
01:41:49,320 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 1: merch stuff. We have like a great doc that's all

2192
01:41:52,080 --> 01:41:55,400
Speaker 1: put together. We're gonna be putting people's addresses into it.

2193
01:41:56,720 --> 01:41:59,720
Speaker 1: We also you and I need to write some thank

2194
01:41:59,760 --> 01:42:02,960
Speaker 1: you for those guys as well. That will be included

2195
01:42:03,000 --> 01:42:08,000
Speaker 1: with so huge shout out to Thomas for reaching out.

2196
01:42:08,439 --> 01:42:14,160
Speaker 1: We have another call from Stephen, Stephen Steven. Let's go Stephen.

2197
01:42:14,479 --> 01:42:15,640
Speaker 1: This one might sting for you.

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01:42:19,040 --> 01:42:23,519
Speaker 5: What's up, boys, This is Stephen. I'm currently living in

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01:42:23,560 --> 01:42:28,160
Speaker 5: Warner Robbins of Georgia, originally from the borough. When it

2200
01:42:28,200 --> 01:42:33,400
Speaker 5: comes to kids, let's just talk about the bedtime routine.

2201
01:42:33,920 --> 01:42:37,600
Speaker 5: My kids have had the same bedtime routine since the

2202
01:42:37,680 --> 01:42:42,439
Speaker 5: dawn of time. Seven o'clock, they go lay down eight o'clock.

2203
01:42:42,479 --> 01:42:44,960
Speaker 5: They're usually asleep by then. I feel that when it

2204
01:42:45,000 --> 01:42:46,799
Speaker 5: comes time to put them to bed at seven o'clock,

2205
01:42:48,080 --> 01:42:50,879
Speaker 5: it's not just oh, hey, go to bed, it's seven o'clock.

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01:42:51,040 --> 01:42:52,360
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no.

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01:42:53,400 --> 01:42:55,800
Speaker 5: My kids I have to put them to bed, so

2208
01:42:55,880 --> 01:42:58,400
Speaker 5: I have to go in the room. I got to

2209
01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:00,920
Speaker 5: make sure they're steiling fans on. I gotta turn on

2210
01:43:00,960 --> 01:43:03,639
Speaker 5: the curtain lights. I gotta turn on their little box

2211
01:43:03,720 --> 01:43:06,640
Speaker 5: van because we're from the South and we gotta have

2212
01:43:06,680 --> 01:43:09,559
Speaker 5: two fans in our bedroom at all times. I gotta

2213
01:43:09,560 --> 01:43:12,080
Speaker 5: cover them up and kiss them and tell them good night.

2214
01:43:13,479 --> 01:43:17,200
Speaker 5: And all this time, they know they're gonna be thirsty.

2215
01:43:17,720 --> 01:43:21,559
Speaker 5: They know they're gonna want water. Yep, my daughters have

2216
01:43:22,240 --> 01:43:25,679
Speaker 5: a billion water cups. You know they got the o Wallas,

2217
01:43:26,560 --> 01:43:28,840
Speaker 5: they got the Stanley's. Do you think they fill that

2218
01:43:28,960 --> 01:43:33,200
Speaker 5: thing up knowing they want it before bed? Absolutely not.

2219
01:43:34,840 --> 01:43:37,320
Speaker 5: So as I finish the routine, I kiss them and

2220
01:43:37,320 --> 01:43:39,280
Speaker 5: tell them good night, I go to leave the room

2221
01:43:39,840 --> 01:43:42,240
Speaker 5: and I hear can you fill up my a walla?

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01:43:43,280 --> 01:43:48,320
Speaker 5: And the rage that fills up inside of me could

2223
01:43:48,320 --> 01:43:52,080
Speaker 5: blow the roof off the building. Because they have known

2224
01:43:53,200 --> 01:43:57,559
Speaker 5: since I started putting them to bed that they were

2225
01:43:57,560 --> 01:44:03,320
Speaker 5: gonna be thirsty. Bedtime routine super important. But I know

2226
01:44:03,360 --> 01:44:05,200
Speaker 5: I'm not the only one out there that gets frustrated

2227
01:44:05,200 --> 01:44:07,719
Speaker 5: by it. And then I just sit here and think,

2228
01:44:08,320 --> 01:44:09,720
Speaker 5: I just cannot wait for them to get older and

2229
01:44:09,720 --> 01:44:13,640
Speaker 5: put themselves to bed, and I cannot wait until they

2230
01:44:13,640 --> 01:44:17,240
Speaker 5: put themselves to bed. I got a twelve year old boy,

2231
01:44:17,479 --> 01:44:21,000
Speaker 5: and I got three daughters, ten year old, eight year

2232
01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:24,400
Speaker 5: old and a three year old. Well that's my story.

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01:44:24,960 --> 01:44:25,920
Speaker 1: Shout out to the boys.

2234
01:44:26,080 --> 01:44:30,320
Speaker 2: Have a good day. Steven from Georgia appreciates you calling in.

2235
01:44:30,400 --> 01:44:32,680
Speaker 2: The first thing I would say, listen, I can tell

2236
01:44:32,720 --> 01:44:34,360
Speaker 2: by your voice. I know you're in it right now.

2237
01:44:34,680 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 2: I know you're in it, and you said the words

2238
01:44:36,240 --> 01:44:38,360
Speaker 2: I can't wait until they can put themselves to bed.

2239
01:44:38,400 --> 01:44:40,760
Speaker 2: But I need you just to pause for me, and

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01:44:40,800 --> 01:44:44,320
Speaker 2: I need you to understand. All of us dads, all

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01:44:44,360 --> 01:44:47,960
Speaker 2: of us parents. I have those thoughts many times throughout

2242
01:44:48,000 --> 01:44:50,320
Speaker 2: the week, and I have to just remind myself that

2243
01:44:50,400 --> 01:44:52,920
Speaker 2: one day, one day, we're going to be old, and

2244
01:44:53,040 --> 01:44:54,680
Speaker 2: all of these kids are going to be out of

2245
01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:57,360
Speaker 2: the house, and we're going to be own, lonely, and

2246
01:44:57,360 --> 01:44:58,840
Speaker 2: we're going to be trying to talk to our wives

2247
01:44:58,840 --> 01:45:00,639
Speaker 2: about the college football sked coming up, and.

2248
01:45:00,560 --> 01:45:01,880
Speaker 1: They ain't gonna want to hear it. They're not gonna

2249
01:45:01,880 --> 01:45:02,320
Speaker 1: carry You're.

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01:45:02,200 --> 01:45:05,160
Speaker 2: Gonna be an empty nester and you're gonna wish that

2251
01:45:05,240 --> 01:45:09,400
Speaker 2: you were back in this moment, hoping that you can

2252
01:45:09,400 --> 01:45:11,280
Speaker 2: put your daughter to bed and she can annoy you

2253
01:45:11,360 --> 01:45:13,479
Speaker 2: by saying, Hey, dadda, can you fill up my what

2254
01:45:13,720 --> 01:45:14,360
Speaker 2: did he call it?

2255
01:45:14,760 --> 01:45:17,799
Speaker 3: The the a wala? That can you filla walla?

2256
01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:20,040
Speaker 2: You are going to miss that one day and we

2257
01:45:20,160 --> 01:45:21,800
Speaker 2: both know that you're going to And I know as

2258
01:45:21,800 --> 01:45:23,599
Speaker 2: I sit there and say this, you're like, God, damn it.

2259
01:45:23,880 --> 01:45:26,040
Speaker 2: I know he's right because we all go through that shit.

2260
01:45:26,120 --> 01:45:29,160
Speaker 2: We always get so mad when you get him to bed.

2261
01:45:29,479 --> 01:45:33,839
Speaker 2: Hey dad, Dad, I'm hungry all of a sudden. It's like, buddy, rue,

2262
01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:36,599
Speaker 2: that is why you had to eat your dinner. There's

2263
01:45:36,640 --> 01:45:39,640
Speaker 2: no snacking. There's no snacking a night. We got to

2264
01:45:39,680 --> 01:45:42,280
Speaker 2: set a precedent. We got to stand on business. Daddy,

2265
01:45:42,320 --> 01:45:45,479
Speaker 2: Can I listen? I go through the waterface or we're

2266
01:45:45,479 --> 01:45:48,000
Speaker 2: in the waterface, like Dad, that kind of have some water.

2267
01:45:48,320 --> 01:45:50,760
Speaker 2: I'll already kind of have it filled up. But here's here,

2268
01:45:51,280 --> 01:45:55,280
Speaker 2: Here would be some unsolicited advice that I would give

2269
01:45:55,320 --> 01:45:58,479
Speaker 2: you before you enter that war room. Yeah, each night

2270
01:45:59,479 --> 01:46:02,840
Speaker 2: is you lay out the expectation of bedtime and it

2271
01:46:02,880 --> 01:46:04,639
Speaker 2: doesn't always go smooth. It doesn't.

2272
01:46:04,720 --> 01:46:05,879
Speaker 3: We know that it doesn't.

2273
01:46:06,400 --> 01:46:08,800
Speaker 2: But if you lay out the expectation like, Hey, we're

2274
01:46:08,800 --> 01:46:13,040
Speaker 2: gonna have a good, clean, fun bedtime. We're gonna have

2275
01:46:13,040 --> 01:46:15,200
Speaker 2: a consistent bedtime tonight. There's no problems.

2276
01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:17,920
Speaker 1: Does the heart need to turn black for bedtime? Yeah?

2277
01:46:18,000 --> 01:46:22,760
Speaker 2: When when when you hear that door click, your heart

2278
01:46:22,800 --> 01:46:28,400
Speaker 2: needs to turn black knowing that you have a mission

2279
01:46:28,439 --> 01:46:32,439
Speaker 2: to accomplish that is bedtime, and you lay out the

2280
01:46:32,560 --> 01:46:37,080
Speaker 2: expectations like, hey, we're gonna get your pjs on. Rush

2281
01:46:37,080 --> 01:46:38,559
Speaker 2: will still wear a pull up. We're gonna get the pullup.

2282
01:46:38,560 --> 01:46:41,360
Speaker 2: We're gonna get the pjs on. That's never That's hasn't

2283
01:46:41,400 --> 01:46:43,439
Speaker 2: necessarily been a problem, unless she wants to go see

2284
01:46:43,479 --> 01:46:46,080
Speaker 2: mom and give her a hug before bed. We're gonna

2285
01:46:46,080 --> 01:46:48,400
Speaker 2: brush your teeth. Dad is gonna brush your hair. I'm

2286
01:46:48,400 --> 01:46:50,360
Speaker 2: gonna start low on the hair, just like you like it.

2287
01:46:50,560 --> 01:46:52,519
Speaker 2: We're not gonna We're gonna try to minimize as many

2288
01:46:52,520 --> 01:46:54,920
Speaker 2: tangles as possible. I know, dads feel me on that.

2289
01:46:55,040 --> 01:46:56,599
Speaker 2: It's kind of a learning curve when you're going through

2290
01:46:56,640 --> 01:46:58,800
Speaker 2: brushing the air. You gotta start low, you gotta start

2291
01:46:58,840 --> 01:46:59,360
Speaker 2: at the bottom.

2292
01:46:59,400 --> 01:46:59,880
Speaker 1: That's game.

2293
01:47:01,160 --> 01:47:03,760
Speaker 2: We're gonna get your pjs on. We're gonna read two

2294
01:47:03,760 --> 01:47:07,000
Speaker 2: books because what you don't want to get into is

2295
01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:08,760
Speaker 2: you get on a rhythm, you get in, you build

2296
01:47:08,800 --> 01:47:11,920
Speaker 2: some momentum, because dads, I know we're all good storytellers

2297
01:47:11,920 --> 01:47:13,639
Speaker 2: out there when we're hitting, when we're hitting the green

2298
01:47:13,640 --> 01:47:16,679
Speaker 2: eggs and ham, we're hitting the you know, fancy, Nancy,

2299
01:47:16,760 --> 01:47:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm reading Ziggy and the Three Little Pigs right now.

2300
01:47:19,120 --> 01:47:20,439
Speaker 3: Yes, they've hadded a fourth pig.

2301
01:47:20,720 --> 01:47:22,000
Speaker 1: Hungry hungry caterpillar.

2302
01:47:22,120 --> 01:47:26,519
Speaker 2: Hungry hungry caterpillar. You set the precedent with two books.

2303
01:47:26,520 --> 01:47:28,679
Speaker 2: We're gonna read two books. We're gonna brush your teeth,

2304
01:47:28,720 --> 01:47:30,880
Speaker 2: and we're gonna get in bed. And when we get

2305
01:47:30,920 --> 01:47:34,720
Speaker 2: in bed, you better not be thirsty. If you need

2306
01:47:34,760 --> 01:47:37,400
Speaker 2: a drink of water, you're gonna drink it before you

2307
01:47:37,439 --> 01:47:41,639
Speaker 2: get You're gonna drink it before you brush your teeth. Now,

2308
01:47:42,000 --> 01:47:45,280
Speaker 2: when you get to bed, they're still gonna want that water. However,

2309
01:47:46,080 --> 01:47:48,960
Speaker 2: now that you set precedent and you set expectation, you

2310
01:47:49,000 --> 01:47:52,519
Speaker 2: can look at them say, sweetheart, I have a water

2311
01:47:52,560 --> 01:47:54,960
Speaker 2: bottle sitting over there right now. We're not gonna drink

2312
01:47:54,960 --> 01:47:58,240
Speaker 2: this water long because Dad already told you that we're

2313
01:47:58,240 --> 01:48:00,960
Speaker 2: not drinking water once we get in bed. Yeah, now

2314
01:48:01,000 --> 01:48:02,559
Speaker 2: you go get them the water. They take a little

2315
01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:04,559
Speaker 2: sip and be like that one's on the house. Next time,

2316
01:48:04,560 --> 01:48:07,920
Speaker 2: it's gonna cost you. But you got to understand that

2317
01:48:09,360 --> 01:48:11,880
Speaker 2: Dad said we weren't gonna have water. So that way,

2318
01:48:11,960 --> 01:48:15,559
Speaker 2: it just starts to cultivate a behavior to where at

2319
01:48:15,640 --> 01:48:17,599
Speaker 2: least they think twice about getting the water. And if

2320
01:48:17,640 --> 01:48:19,800
Speaker 2: they do get the water, they're gonna keep it short.

2321
01:48:19,800 --> 01:48:23,240
Speaker 2: They're gonna keep it sweet. That would be that would

2322
01:48:23,280 --> 01:48:24,040
Speaker 2: be my advice.

2323
01:48:24,479 --> 01:48:27,720
Speaker 1: So don't don't have water living on the nightstand.

2324
01:48:28,120 --> 01:48:31,200
Speaker 2: So we started that way, okay, But when I knew

2325
01:48:31,720 --> 01:48:34,040
Speaker 2: she was gonna get me for some water, yeah, I

2326
01:48:34,080 --> 01:48:36,439
Speaker 2: would already have it kind of filled up. Yeah, and I.

2327
01:48:36,400 --> 01:48:37,559
Speaker 3: Wouldn't fill it up very much.

2328
01:48:38,080 --> 01:48:40,040
Speaker 2: When she's like I need more water, it's like, sweet art,

2329
01:48:40,080 --> 01:48:41,400
Speaker 2: we both know you're gonna wet the bet if you

2330
01:48:41,439 --> 01:48:42,080
Speaker 2: drink more water.

2331
01:48:42,280 --> 01:48:44,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, she might throw fin. I might end up getting

2332
01:48:44,840 --> 01:48:45,479
Speaker 3: her more water.

2333
01:48:45,800 --> 01:48:48,600
Speaker 2: But what I try to set the expectation on is

2334
01:48:48,640 --> 01:48:50,639
Speaker 2: this is all the water you have. You know when

2335
01:48:50,680 --> 01:48:52,679
Speaker 2: it's gone, it's gone. So you can have your water

2336
01:48:52,720 --> 01:48:54,040
Speaker 2: in the crib. I'll let you keep it in the

2337
01:48:54,080 --> 01:48:55,600
Speaker 2: crib if you want to. But there's only like a

2338
01:48:55,600 --> 01:48:57,519
Speaker 2: little bit of water in there, so she can utilize

2339
01:48:57,520 --> 01:49:00,120
Speaker 2: the water if she wants to. She's trying to stay

2340
01:49:00,479 --> 01:49:03,080
Speaker 2: she's trying to continue to stay up and find new things.

2341
01:49:03,640 --> 01:49:06,040
Speaker 2: When she was younger, it would be she has to

2342
01:49:06,040 --> 01:49:07,960
Speaker 2: tell the stairs a good night, she has to tell

2343
01:49:08,000 --> 01:49:10,400
Speaker 2: the rail good night. Just tell all of her stuffed

2344
01:49:10,479 --> 01:49:12,880
Speaker 2: animals good night. Yep, I gotta go tell this door

2345
01:49:12,960 --> 01:49:15,439
Speaker 2: good night. You got to take them all around the

2346
01:49:15,479 --> 01:49:17,880
Speaker 2: house to say good night to everything. But you realize

2347
01:49:17,920 --> 01:49:21,439
Speaker 2: they're strategizing against you. They're negotiating to stay up longer.

2348
01:49:21,760 --> 01:49:25,320
Speaker 2: It's all about setting expectations right from the jump, and

2349
01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:27,920
Speaker 2: those expectations always they always.

2350
01:49:27,600 --> 01:49:28,960
Speaker 3: They won't go according to plan.

2351
01:49:29,200 --> 01:49:32,920
Speaker 2: However, you're setting expectations so that way when they get there, listen,

2352
01:49:33,000 --> 01:49:34,960
Speaker 2: I'll get you out of bed. We can go say

2353
01:49:34,960 --> 01:49:37,080
Speaker 2: good night to the world one more time at the window.

2354
01:49:37,360 --> 01:49:39,960
Speaker 2: But whenever we say good night, we're not going anywhere else.

2355
01:49:39,960 --> 01:49:42,599
Speaker 2: We're going in the bed. Okay. You make them say okay,

2356
01:49:43,040 --> 01:49:44,840
Speaker 2: and when they say okay, you get them up. You

2357
01:49:44,880 --> 01:49:46,800
Speaker 2: go over there when they say good night to the world,

2358
01:49:46,960 --> 01:49:48,400
Speaker 2: Where do we go now we go to bed?

2359
01:49:48,479 --> 01:49:52,160
Speaker 1: Can I pitch you a plan really quick. Since I

2360
01:49:52,160 --> 01:49:54,920
Speaker 1: have not gone through bedtime routine. Can you tell me

2361
01:49:54,960 --> 01:49:58,160
Speaker 1: if this is a good plan? Yeah, I get daughter,

2362
01:49:58,280 --> 01:50:00,479
Speaker 1: I get Scarlet. I say, hey, Scarlett, we're gonna go

2363
01:50:00,520 --> 01:50:03,439
Speaker 1: get our night night water. It's the only water that

2364
01:50:03,439 --> 01:50:04,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna get before night night.

2365
01:50:04,840 --> 01:50:05,400
Speaker 2: This is it.

2366
01:50:05,560 --> 01:50:08,679
Speaker 1: Let's go fill it up together. We go fill it up, Scarlett.

2367
01:50:08,720 --> 01:50:10,040
Speaker 1: I know that you want to say nine night to

2368
01:50:10,080 --> 01:50:12,600
Speaker 1: the stairs, to the railing. Let's go ahead and do that.

2369
01:50:12,640 --> 01:50:14,559
Speaker 1: I'm holding her and she's got her water. We're telling

2370
01:50:14,680 --> 01:50:16,439
Speaker 1: night night to all the stuff that we want to do.

2371
01:50:16,560 --> 01:50:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm knocking out all the things that she's wanted

2372
01:50:18,960 --> 01:50:21,960
Speaker 1: to do with her before bet and after we do this,

2373
01:50:22,000 --> 01:50:25,360
Speaker 1: we're going to bed. Let's sell the stuffed animals night night.

2374
01:50:25,439 --> 01:50:27,400
Speaker 1: Let's sell the blah blah blah. Is that too much

2375
01:50:27,439 --> 01:50:29,960
Speaker 1: to like feed into those little things that she's wanting

2376
01:50:30,040 --> 01:50:32,040
Speaker 1: to do? Am I giving her too much of what

2377
01:50:32,080 --> 01:50:32,639
Speaker 1: she wants?

2378
01:50:32,880 --> 01:50:36,439
Speaker 2: You won't know until she starts negotiating with you, and

2379
01:50:36,520 --> 01:50:38,439
Speaker 2: then after a few days you're gonna understand what a

2380
01:50:38,520 --> 01:50:43,000
Speaker 2: rhythm is and what is imperative is you don't go

2381
01:50:43,160 --> 01:50:45,559
Speaker 2: one by one, is that you just lay out the

2382
01:50:45,600 --> 01:50:48,240
Speaker 2: plan before it happens. So if it's we're gonna go

2383
01:50:48,240 --> 01:50:50,080
Speaker 2: down and get water, we're gonna say good night to

2384
01:50:50,120 --> 01:50:52,400
Speaker 2: the stuff, or whatever their cadence is.

2385
01:50:52,479 --> 01:50:53,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we're.

2386
01:50:53,320 --> 01:50:55,200
Speaker 2: Gonna go downstairs and get water. We're gonna say good

2387
01:50:55,240 --> 01:50:56,880
Speaker 2: night to the animals. And when we say good night

2388
01:50:56,960 --> 01:51:00,679
Speaker 2: to the animals, after the last one, we're gonna get bed. Okay.

2389
01:51:01,439 --> 01:51:03,519
Speaker 2: Once they say okay, they might want something else, and

2390
01:51:03,520 --> 01:51:06,320
Speaker 2: they might be crying about something else. You gotta know

2391
01:51:06,400 --> 01:51:09,759
Speaker 2: that you got to give them enough of what they're wanting.

2392
01:51:09,960 --> 01:51:13,559
Speaker 2: But then you implement the expectation of bedtime. After that

2393
01:51:13,720 --> 01:51:16,639
Speaker 2: second or third thing out of their list of five, Hey,

2394
01:51:16,680 --> 01:51:18,920
Speaker 2: you're not getting all five. Here's the three that I'll

2395
01:51:18,960 --> 01:51:21,599
Speaker 2: give you, because you know it's bedtime right now. Here's

2396
01:51:21,640 --> 01:51:23,519
Speaker 2: the two or three that I'll give you. We'll go

2397
01:51:23,640 --> 01:51:26,040
Speaker 2: do those things. But after that second or third one

2398
01:51:26,320 --> 01:51:28,719
Speaker 2: we're now getting, we're gonna get back in bed. Okay.

2399
01:51:28,960 --> 01:51:31,479
Speaker 2: Is that a deal? They'll say? Okay, So then you

2400
01:51:31,520 --> 01:51:34,400
Speaker 2: start hitting the things. Where do we go to next bedtime?

2401
01:51:35,240 --> 01:51:36,080
Speaker 1: Two books?

2402
01:51:36,560 --> 01:51:40,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a two book guy. I'm a two book guy.

2403
01:51:40,320 --> 01:51:42,360
Speaker 2: She'll get me up to three four every now, and

2404
01:51:42,360 --> 01:51:46,559
Speaker 2: then sometimes you got to negotiate too. It'll be like

2405
01:51:46,600 --> 01:51:48,599
Speaker 2: you might get two books and it's like I want

2406
01:51:48,680 --> 01:51:50,320
Speaker 2: I want one more book, and they're not wanting to

2407
01:51:50,320 --> 01:51:52,479
Speaker 2: go brush your teeth. Like hey, sweetheart, here's what we

2408
01:51:52,479 --> 01:51:55,479
Speaker 2: can do. Let's brush your teeth. We'll get you in

2409
01:51:55,479 --> 01:51:57,800
Speaker 2: bed and I'll read you one more book. They might

2410
01:51:57,840 --> 01:51:59,400
Speaker 2: not want. They might want the book on the couch.

2411
01:52:00,280 --> 01:52:03,439
Speaker 2: So again, you gotta it's gonna be instinct, it's gonna

2412
01:52:03,439 --> 01:52:05,439
Speaker 2: be in the moment, but you're gonna have to give

2413
01:52:05,520 --> 01:52:07,920
Speaker 2: to get some It's all about places. It's all about

2414
01:52:07,960 --> 01:52:10,759
Speaker 2: setting the expectation. That's all I say. It's about setting

2415
01:52:10,760 --> 01:52:14,679
Speaker 2: the expectation, laying out the expectation and getting them to say, okay,

2416
01:52:15,280 --> 01:52:17,639
Speaker 2: getting them to think like, okay, that is a good deal.

2417
01:52:17,920 --> 01:52:19,559
Speaker 3: That's I can get those couple of things.

2418
01:52:19,720 --> 01:52:21,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel comfortable with that.

2419
01:52:21,600 --> 01:52:23,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll rocket.

2420
01:52:23,600 --> 01:52:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm definitely like, just from the relationship of Jill and

2421
01:52:27,080 --> 01:52:30,120
Speaker 1: I with our dogs, like I know that I'm gonna

2422
01:52:30,120 --> 01:52:33,080
Speaker 1: have to be the disciplinarian, the one that's kind of

2423
01:52:33,520 --> 01:52:36,839
Speaker 1: you know, setting that line and as our miss missus

2424
01:52:36,880 --> 01:52:40,679
Speaker 1: Meek or doctor Meek is telling me and strong father's

2425
01:52:40,680 --> 01:52:43,320
Speaker 1: shock daughters like, I'm gonna be driving the boat.

2426
01:52:43,600 --> 01:52:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2427
01:52:44,000 --> 01:52:47,960
Speaker 1: So I'm I'm already just from my poor performance with

2428
01:52:48,120 --> 01:52:51,800
Speaker 1: Ru and her sticker book of giving her exactly what

2429
01:52:51,840 --> 01:52:54,519
Speaker 1: you wanted in the in the moment and given JJ

2430
01:52:54,760 --> 01:52:57,439
Speaker 1: here in the office exactly what he wanted in the moment.

2431
01:52:57,560 --> 01:53:00,679
Speaker 1: I'm just like, man, I gotta with Scar, I gotta

2432
01:53:00,760 --> 01:53:03,840
Speaker 1: lock in. Yeah, my heart has to turn black at

2433
01:53:03,840 --> 01:53:07,200
Speaker 1: some point. Yeah yeah, And dadas is gonna have to

2434
01:53:07,240 --> 01:53:11,760
Speaker 1: step up and say no, no, no, no, no, no.

2435
01:53:10,920 --> 01:53:14,200
Speaker 2: It's gonna go. You gotta know when you realize what

2436
01:53:14,240 --> 01:53:16,040
Speaker 2: they want, you got to think in your mind, I'm

2437
01:53:16,040 --> 01:53:17,400
Speaker 2: gonna give them what they want, but you have to

2438
01:53:17,400 --> 01:53:19,519
Speaker 2: follow it up with what your expectation is going to

2439
01:53:19,560 --> 01:53:22,400
Speaker 2: be after that and then get them to say okay,

2440
01:53:23,080 --> 01:53:25,040
Speaker 2: and then when it happens, then then they know what

2441
01:53:25,080 --> 01:53:25,800
Speaker 2: do we do next?

2442
01:53:26,120 --> 01:53:28,480
Speaker 1: We get in bed, are you ever doing story times?

2443
01:53:29,040 --> 01:53:29,160
Speaker 2: Like?

2444
01:53:29,200 --> 01:53:31,559
Speaker 1: Are you ever making stuff up? I feel like you'd be.

2445
01:53:31,520 --> 01:53:34,960
Speaker 2: Good at that. Uh. I will if I get the

2446
01:53:35,040 --> 01:53:36,320
Speaker 2: light off and I'm laying next to her because she

2447
01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:38,559
Speaker 2: loves when dadad lays next to her in bed at night,

2448
01:53:38,640 --> 01:53:40,439
Speaker 2: So I'll like lay down by her crib because you know,

2449
01:53:40,479 --> 01:53:42,120
Speaker 2: the low back. I'm not trying to like stand up

2450
01:53:42,160 --> 01:53:44,880
Speaker 2: the entire time or sit sometimes they get so I'll

2451
01:53:44,920 --> 01:53:46,920
Speaker 2: be like laying down on a pillow next to her crib.

2452
01:53:47,520 --> 01:53:49,439
Speaker 2: If she wants another story, I'll just bet how about

2453
01:53:49,479 --> 01:53:52,400
Speaker 2: Dadad tells you a story, and then I'll just I'll

2454
01:53:52,439 --> 01:53:55,200
Speaker 2: just riff on something and tell her a story, usually

2455
01:53:55,240 --> 01:53:58,680
Speaker 2: like something it's like a sports moment that happened back

2456
01:53:58,680 --> 01:54:00,679
Speaker 2: in my that happened back in the day, oh yeah,

2457
01:54:00,720 --> 01:54:03,479
Speaker 2: of myself, and I'll just make up a different character.

2458
01:54:04,240 --> 01:54:06,559
Speaker 1: Dude, I can't believe or I can't wait until she

2459
01:54:06,880 --> 01:54:12,120
Speaker 1: becomes like aware of your playing background. That's gonna be fun.

2460
01:54:12,160 --> 01:54:14,960
Speaker 2: No, it'll be interesting because it won't mean shit to him. No,

2461
01:54:15,040 --> 01:54:16,280
Speaker 2: it'll mean shit when it's cool.

2462
01:54:16,320 --> 01:54:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, like elementary time. Yeah, uh huh yeah yeah.

2463
01:54:19,840 --> 01:54:23,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's yeah, I'll riff and do some story time.

2464
01:54:23,320 --> 01:54:25,200
Speaker 2: I love reading the children's books because I love like

2465
01:54:25,240 --> 01:54:27,680
Speaker 2: doing different voices, like she loves she would be on

2466
01:54:27,680 --> 01:54:30,880
Speaker 2: a kick of like Beauty and the Beast, changing beasts voice,

2467
01:54:30,920 --> 01:54:32,800
Speaker 2: like changing all the voices. I love doing that kind

2468
01:54:32,840 --> 01:54:33,240
Speaker 2: of stuff.

2469
01:54:33,280 --> 01:54:37,000
Speaker 1: Oh dude, shout out Brett Burford that he was our neighbor.

2470
01:54:37,040 --> 01:54:40,320
Speaker 1: He would sometimes he and his wife would babysit while

2471
01:54:40,480 --> 01:54:43,080
Speaker 1: my dad and mom like went out to dinner, and

2472
01:54:43,160 --> 01:54:45,440
Speaker 1: he would read us the o G. Harry Potters, which

2473
01:54:45,640 --> 01:54:47,320
Speaker 1: miss Amy was not a fan of.

2474
01:54:47,440 --> 01:54:47,880
Speaker 2: My mom.

2475
01:54:48,080 --> 01:54:50,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think she knew that he was reading

2476
01:54:50,520 --> 01:54:52,560
Speaker 1: us Harry Potter, but he would get into that hagrid

2477
01:54:52,640 --> 01:54:54,960
Speaker 1: voice and get into that dumble Doore voice. Heah, I

2478
01:54:55,080 --> 01:54:57,240
Speaker 1: still remember that. I'm thirty two years old and I

2479
01:54:57,360 --> 01:55:00,600
Speaker 1: still just dine laughing wizard.

2480
01:55:02,600 --> 01:55:04,680
Speaker 2: Oh, stuff up.

2481
01:55:05,160 --> 01:55:07,120
Speaker 1: We have our topic quote.

2482
01:55:07,000 --> 01:55:10,520
Speaker 2: Or yes, dude, so mine is going to come from

2483
01:55:11,640 --> 01:55:14,200
Speaker 2: let me find it. Mine is going to come from

2484
01:55:14,200 --> 01:55:17,440
Speaker 2: The Daily Dad by Ryan Holiday. This book right here

2485
01:55:17,560 --> 01:55:19,880
Speaker 2: highly recommend great one to half just on the dinner

2486
01:55:19,920 --> 01:55:23,320
Speaker 2: table if you're eating every night, just a little breakup session, like, hey,

2487
01:55:23,480 --> 01:55:25,560
Speaker 2: you want Data to read something out of his book.

2488
01:55:25,600 --> 01:55:28,480
Speaker 2: She'll say yes, and then we'll read something out of

2489
01:55:28,480 --> 01:55:31,640
Speaker 2: The Daily Dad. Three hundred and sixty six Meditations on Parenting, Love,

2490
01:55:31,720 --> 01:55:35,240
Speaker 2: and Raising Great Kids by Ryan Holiday, a number one

2491
01:55:35,280 --> 01:55:38,240
Speaker 2: New York Times best selling author of the Obstacle is

2492
01:55:38,240 --> 01:55:40,960
Speaker 2: The Way in the Daily Stoic Big in the Stoicism

2493
01:55:41,440 --> 01:55:44,440
Speaker 2: love Ryan Holiday's books, So we rock the Daily Dad

2494
01:55:45,280 --> 01:55:46,320
Speaker 2: for dinner time.

2495
01:55:46,680 --> 01:55:48,880
Speaker 1: Shout out, going to one hundred and ten percent. I

2496
01:55:48,920 --> 01:55:51,440
Speaker 1: see they went one day extra of a three hundred

2497
01:55:51,440 --> 01:55:52,080
Speaker 1: and sixty.

2498
01:55:52,120 --> 01:55:54,080
Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, yeah, I can appreciate that.

2499
01:55:54,240 --> 01:55:56,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. But also it's a flex, like what are you

2500
01:55:56,200 --> 01:55:58,360
Speaker 2: trying to just make an extra day?

2501
01:55:59,040 --> 01:56:00,760
Speaker 1: Come all right, come on?

2502
01:56:03,080 --> 01:56:08,600
Speaker 2: This this is one for man, I'm stuck between two.

2503
01:56:08,720 --> 01:56:12,360
Speaker 2: This one's called just go to bed. So this is

2504
01:56:12,440 --> 01:56:15,040
Speaker 2: for dads out there, and this is great for us

2505
01:56:15,080 --> 01:56:18,080
Speaker 2: because we love staying up and playing pubg. A lot

2506
01:56:18,080 --> 01:56:19,920
Speaker 2: of career guys out there, a lot of working dads,

2507
01:56:19,960 --> 01:56:21,800
Speaker 2: a lot of working moms that stay up late and

2508
01:56:21,840 --> 01:56:24,800
Speaker 2: sacrifice or sleep to stay up late doing whatever they're doing.

2509
01:56:24,840 --> 01:56:27,080
Speaker 2: In our case, sometimes I'll stay up late playing a

2510
01:56:27,160 --> 01:56:29,320
Speaker 2: video game or just doom scrolling.

2511
01:56:29,360 --> 01:56:30,880
Speaker 1: Because this is is he about to tell us not

2512
01:56:31,000 --> 01:56:31,480
Speaker 1: to do that?

2513
01:56:32,400 --> 01:56:34,360
Speaker 2: Uh, he's not about to tell you not today. I'll

2514
01:56:34,360 --> 01:56:36,000
Speaker 2: read it to you. I'll read it to you. Okay.

2515
01:56:36,240 --> 01:56:41,440
Speaker 2: Here's a quote from Arthur Choppenhauer. Sleep is the interest

2516
01:56:41,480 --> 01:56:43,880
Speaker 2: we have to pay on the capitol, which is called

2517
01:56:44,000 --> 01:56:46,520
Speaker 2: in at death. The higher the interest rate and the

2518
01:56:46,560 --> 01:56:49,240
Speaker 2: more regularly it is paid. The further the date of

2519
01:56:49,320 --> 01:56:53,960
Speaker 2: redemption is postponed. All right here it is. You know

2520
01:56:54,040 --> 01:56:56,080
Speaker 2: your kids are a mess when they don't sleep. That's

2521
01:56:56,120 --> 01:56:59,280
Speaker 2: why you follow the bedtime ritual religiously. You know that

2522
01:56:59,360 --> 01:57:01,960
Speaker 2: kids get into trouble at night if left to their

2523
01:57:02,000 --> 01:57:05,040
Speaker 2: own devices. That's why your teenager has a curfew that

2524
01:57:05,080 --> 01:57:07,760
Speaker 2: you enforce with an iron fist. And yet here you

2525
01:57:07,840 --> 01:57:11,720
Speaker 2: are up late again, mindlessly watching TV. Here you are

2526
01:57:11,760 --> 01:57:14,600
Speaker 2: tired in the morning again because you were uplate on

2527
01:57:14,640 --> 01:57:17,840
Speaker 2: your phone. You could have gone to bed. You knew

2528
01:57:17,840 --> 01:57:20,400
Speaker 2: you should have gone to bed, but you didn't. Who

2529
01:57:20,440 --> 01:57:24,240
Speaker 2: suffers your kids do because you're grouchy, because you don't

2530
01:57:24,240 --> 01:57:27,640
Speaker 2: have the energy, because you're behind, because maybe they even

2531
01:57:27,720 --> 01:57:30,080
Speaker 2: sense that you're a hypocrite. If you want to be

2532
01:57:30,120 --> 01:57:32,640
Speaker 2: a better parent, start going to bed earlier, Give yourself

2533
01:57:32,640 --> 01:57:36,360
Speaker 2: a bedtime that you honor and respect and enforce, value sleep.

2534
01:57:36,520 --> 01:57:39,360
Speaker 2: Take care of yourself and everyone else will benefit.

2535
01:57:43,680 --> 01:57:46,720
Speaker 1: That hits home. Dude, we do stay up. We are

2536
01:57:46,840 --> 01:57:48,880
Speaker 1: we are too really bad.

2537
01:57:49,280 --> 01:57:51,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can be a couple times, definitely, those couple

2538
01:57:52,000 --> 01:57:53,480
Speaker 2: nights a week that will stay up playing the video

2539
01:57:53,520 --> 01:57:56,320
Speaker 2: game doesn't mean I'm gonna stop playing yeah, just means

2540
01:57:56,320 --> 01:58:00,760
Speaker 2: that this is a great reminder that even when you

2541
01:58:00,840 --> 01:58:03,120
Speaker 2: do stay up late, you're just aware that we are

2542
01:58:03,120 --> 01:58:09,720
Speaker 2: doing it to ourselves. That almost makes I'll versus stand

2543
01:58:09,800 --> 01:58:11,640
Speaker 2: up late your grouch. You're kind of pissing a moment

2544
01:58:11,760 --> 01:58:14,240
Speaker 2: everybody you're making it. You're just in a bad mood

2545
01:58:14,320 --> 01:58:16,720
Speaker 2: because you stayed up late, you feel bad about yourself

2546
01:58:16,720 --> 01:58:18,520
Speaker 2: for doing it, and you're just more so projecting on

2547
01:58:18,560 --> 01:58:21,560
Speaker 2: everybody else. Something like this right here just makes me

2548
01:58:21,680 --> 01:58:26,040
Speaker 2: aware that I am doing it to myself, so be

2549
01:58:26,120 --> 01:58:28,640
Speaker 2: aware and be intentional of it the next day. To know,

2550
01:58:28,720 --> 01:58:30,560
Speaker 2: like if you if I am going off the rock

2551
01:58:30,600 --> 01:58:33,040
Speaker 2: or a little bit, that it's only because I did

2552
01:58:33,040 --> 01:58:36,040
Speaker 2: it to myself the night before. I that.

2553
01:58:37,680 --> 01:58:41,480
Speaker 1: Just inspired me as far as Pubgen nights go, because

2554
01:58:41,480 --> 01:58:44,480
Speaker 1: now I know the cost, and it's.

2555
01:58:44,360 --> 01:58:45,840
Speaker 3: A cost that we will continue to pay.

2556
01:58:45,960 --> 01:58:50,920
Speaker 1: It is a cost, Like they know that we got

2557
01:58:50,920 --> 01:58:55,840
Speaker 1: to be accountabilly buddies the next day, truly, which I

2558
01:58:55,880 --> 01:58:57,839
Speaker 1: feel like we already kind of do at the office

2559
01:58:57,920 --> 01:59:01,040
Speaker 1: those those next days, Like I pumped into my veins,

2560
01:59:01,080 --> 01:59:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know what I did, yeah, and I'm

2561
01:59:03,640 --> 01:59:07,720
Speaker 1: but I gotta show up this next day. And kick ass.

2562
01:59:08,280 --> 01:59:11,160
Speaker 1: But I do love that message, just because as far

2563
01:59:11,200 --> 01:59:14,040
Speaker 1: as work goes, I obviously don't have a kid yet,

2564
01:59:14,240 --> 01:59:15,960
Speaker 1: but as far as work goes, do when I'm getting

2565
01:59:15,960 --> 01:59:20,360
Speaker 1: that sleep, it's crazy how much better I'm operating and

2566
01:59:20,400 --> 01:59:23,400
Speaker 1: so applying that to like, you know, being able to

2567
01:59:23,440 --> 01:59:26,840
Speaker 1: have those conversations with my kids and my wife and

2568
01:59:26,960 --> 01:59:30,400
Speaker 1: be more there, be more present. Yeah, that's a that's

2569
01:59:30,400 --> 01:59:32,400
Speaker 1: a good learning Listen. Did you have another one?

2570
01:59:32,400 --> 01:59:33,920
Speaker 3: It's a good little reminder. I did have two.

2571
01:59:33,960 --> 01:59:35,440
Speaker 2: I might as well just read the second one says

2572
01:59:35,520 --> 01:59:39,160
Speaker 2: right here. This one's called it's good that you worry

2573
01:59:39,200 --> 01:59:43,320
Speaker 2: about this, a quote from Michael Ian Black. One great

2574
01:59:43,320 --> 01:59:45,480
Speaker 2: thing about having kids is that they force you into

2575
01:59:45,520 --> 01:59:47,880
Speaker 2: an active practice of love, whether you're ready for it

2576
01:59:47,960 --> 01:59:51,040
Speaker 2: or not. The question hits you in a soft place.

2577
01:59:51,440 --> 01:59:53,800
Speaker 2: It hits you when you least expect it, and yet

2578
01:59:53,880 --> 01:59:56,360
Speaker 2: it's there constantly. Am I a good parent? Am I

2579
01:59:56,360 --> 01:59:59,640
Speaker 2: screwing this up? Your own parents will try to reassure

2580
01:59:59,640 --> 02:00:03,360
Speaker 2: you that every parent thinks this way, except that's not true.

2581
02:00:03,400 --> 02:00:05,440
Speaker 2: There are, in fact two types of parents who never

2582
02:00:05,480 --> 02:00:07,360
Speaker 2: think that. There are parents who are so convinced that

2583
02:00:07,360 --> 02:00:10,040
Speaker 2: they're the center of the universe, that they never question themselves,

2584
02:00:10,480 --> 02:00:13,839
Speaker 2: never wonder what they're doing wrong. Then there are parents

2585
02:00:14,040 --> 02:00:16,760
Speaker 2: who don't even care enough to ask, although they are

2586
02:00:16,840 --> 02:00:19,360
Speaker 2: very different. In the end, these two types of parents

2587
02:00:19,360 --> 02:00:22,600
Speaker 2: are the same. They are not good parents. But you

2588
02:00:23,080 --> 02:00:26,120
Speaker 2: the type who is always checking in and wondering am

2589
02:00:26,160 --> 02:00:30,240
Speaker 2: I doing enough? Who actually cares about whether you're doing

2590
02:00:30,240 --> 02:00:33,160
Speaker 2: a good job or not. You are, by definition, a

2591
02:00:33,160 --> 02:00:35,760
Speaker 2: good parent because you are thinking about your kids first,

2592
02:00:35,840 --> 02:00:38,960
Speaker 2: not yourself. It's proof that you care, that you have

2593
02:00:39,040 --> 02:00:42,600
Speaker 2: self awareness, that you're always trying to improve, that you

2594
02:00:42,600 --> 02:00:45,560
Speaker 2: would stop to evaluate your own performance, that it would

2595
02:00:45,640 --> 02:00:49,000
Speaker 2: bother you to give anything less than the full measure

2596
02:00:49,440 --> 02:00:52,400
Speaker 2: of your devotion is all the evidence you need to

2597
02:00:52,440 --> 02:00:55,720
Speaker 2: reach a positive conclusion. So if you feel that negative thought,

2598
02:00:55,840 --> 02:00:59,080
Speaker 2: that doubt come up today, be reassured. It means that

2599
02:00:59,120 --> 02:01:00,920
Speaker 2: you're putting them first, and it means that you're doing

2600
02:01:00,960 --> 02:01:05,600
Speaker 2: a good job. I like that a lot. Yeah, solid

2601
02:01:05,640 --> 02:01:09,960
Speaker 2: one for solid one for parents. The it kind of

2602
02:01:10,160 --> 02:01:13,080
Speaker 2: sucks to read there where he just says they're not

2603
02:01:13,200 --> 02:01:15,560
Speaker 2: good parents, because I'm sure it's, like, you know, I

2604
02:01:15,600 --> 02:01:18,240
Speaker 2: feel like every parent kind of thinks are wonders that

2605
02:01:18,280 --> 02:01:19,520
Speaker 2: they're doing a good job or not?

2606
02:01:20,640 --> 02:01:24,800
Speaker 1: Of course, yes, everybody thinks about anything in their life,

2607
02:01:24,880 --> 02:01:27,480
Speaker 1: not just parenting of like am I a good friend?

2608
02:01:27,720 --> 02:01:29,960
Speaker 1: Am I a good husband? Am I a good employee?

2609
02:01:30,120 --> 02:01:34,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? I guess it's like a good m reminder or

2610
02:01:34,960 --> 02:01:40,360
Speaker 2: shift in perspective of asking yourself like have I checked

2611
02:01:40,360 --> 02:01:42,120
Speaker 2: in with the wife? Have I checked in with my wife?

2612
02:01:42,160 --> 02:01:43,760
Speaker 2: Have I checked in with my kids? Have I checked

2613
02:01:43,760 --> 02:01:46,000
Speaker 2: in with myself? To kind of measure performance whatever that

2614
02:01:46,000 --> 02:01:47,800
Speaker 2: performance is. I don't think there is like a measuring

2615
02:01:47,800 --> 02:01:49,760
Speaker 2: stick for it. Yeah, but if you're at least like

2616
02:01:49,840 --> 02:01:53,240
Speaker 2: conscious of it enough to think like so, because we

2617
02:01:53,280 --> 02:01:55,360
Speaker 2: don't know what our blind spots are unless we ask

2618
02:01:55,440 --> 02:01:58,800
Speaker 2: people in our close circle, you know what I mean?

2619
02:01:59,080 --> 02:02:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know exactly what. But you man, it's something

2620
02:02:00,960 --> 02:02:03,880
Speaker 1: that I'm already starting to think about with like the

2621
02:02:04,280 --> 02:02:07,360
Speaker 1: everything that's coming up, and like the next three weeks

2622
02:02:07,360 --> 02:02:09,800
Speaker 1: for me are about to be a whirlwind. It's about

2623
02:02:09,840 --> 02:02:13,760
Speaker 1: to be crazy. Yeah, And I'm already starting to think

2624
02:02:13,800 --> 02:02:18,920
Speaker 1: to myself about like still trying to prioritize Jill even

2625
02:02:18,960 --> 02:02:21,640
Speaker 1: though Scarlet is going to be in the picture, and

2626
02:02:21,720 --> 02:02:23,840
Speaker 1: like that's going to be our main focus no matter what.

2627
02:02:24,120 --> 02:02:28,160
Speaker 1: But with postpartum depression and all the things that you

2628
02:02:28,200 --> 02:02:31,440
Speaker 1: hear of like hey, is is Jill? Like am I

2629
02:02:31,440 --> 02:02:33,360
Speaker 1: doing enough for Scarlet? But I am I also doing

2630
02:02:33,440 --> 02:02:35,880
Speaker 1: enough to support Jill? And is Jill okay in this moment?

2631
02:02:37,400 --> 02:02:37,640
Speaker 2: You know?

2632
02:02:38,480 --> 02:02:40,640
Speaker 1: It's I feel like it's one of those things that

2633
02:02:40,760 --> 02:02:43,560
Speaker 1: like the like we were talking about last week, when

2634
02:02:43,600 --> 02:02:45,560
Speaker 1: you ask yourself you're like, man, I hope I'm going

2635
02:02:45,600 --> 02:02:47,640
Speaker 1: to be a good dad. It's like the fact that

2636
02:02:47,680 --> 02:02:51,320
Speaker 1: you're asking yourself that, or that you're wanting that, that's

2637
02:02:51,360 --> 02:02:52,360
Speaker 1: already a good sign.

2638
02:02:52,640 --> 02:02:58,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's And if you're somebody out there thinking

2639
02:02:58,680 --> 02:03:01,760
Speaker 2: of because I, like you said about like just you know,

2640
02:03:01,800 --> 02:03:04,880
Speaker 2: making sure Jill's all right, if Jill's good, being on

2641
02:03:04,920 --> 02:03:08,440
Speaker 2: the same page with Jill, it's like essentially asking your

2642
02:03:08,520 --> 02:03:12,440
Speaker 2: wife those questions like you know, hey, am I doing enough?

2643
02:03:12,480 --> 02:03:15,280
Speaker 2: What do you need from me right now? Or am

2644
02:03:15,320 --> 02:03:18,560
Speaker 2: I operating how you would assumed if you could give

2645
02:03:18,600 --> 02:03:21,200
Speaker 2: me a performance evaluation right now? And some of those

2646
02:03:21,360 --> 02:03:23,480
Speaker 2: questions are some of those thoughts might be like scared

2647
02:03:23,480 --> 02:03:24,880
Speaker 2: to have with your wife, Like if you're a dad

2648
02:03:24,960 --> 02:03:27,920
Speaker 2: right now listening thinking to yourself like maybe I haven't

2649
02:03:27,960 --> 02:03:29,920
Speaker 2: checked in with myself recently, or I haven't checked in

2650
02:03:29,960 --> 02:03:31,360
Speaker 2: with my wife, and it could be like a frightening

2651
02:03:31,440 --> 02:03:34,760
Speaker 2: thing because you might know what the answer is. You

2652
02:03:34,800 --> 02:03:37,840
Speaker 2: almost just have to you almost have to lean in

2653
02:03:37,880 --> 02:03:40,720
Speaker 2: and still seek those answers that you might not be

2654
02:03:41,200 --> 02:03:43,600
Speaker 2: excited to hear. Because it's one thing that we talk

2655
02:03:43,640 --> 02:03:46,560
Speaker 2: about all the time is like conflict delayed is conflict multiplied.

2656
02:03:46,720 --> 02:03:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so.

2657
02:03:47,600 --> 02:03:49,360
Speaker 2: If you don't seek out those answers and rip that

2658
02:03:49,400 --> 02:03:51,560
Speaker 2: band aid off and kind of hear something that you

2659
02:03:51,680 --> 02:03:55,720
Speaker 2: might not be ready to hear, it would be just

2660
02:03:55,800 --> 02:03:57,480
Speaker 2: to open that door. It would be like, yeah, open

2661
02:03:57,520 --> 02:03:59,720
Speaker 2: that door and face it and have those conversations, because

2662
02:03:59,760 --> 02:04:03,200
Speaker 2: that's you know, right, like anytime like I might not

2663
02:04:03,280 --> 02:04:05,480
Speaker 2: be doing something well enough, or when charl and I

2664
02:04:05,560 --> 02:04:07,680
Speaker 2: are laying in bed and it's just as simple as

2665
02:04:07,720 --> 02:04:10,160
Speaker 2: like you know, hey, what do you.

2666
02:04:10,120 --> 02:04:11,240
Speaker 1: Need out of me this week?

2667
02:04:11,560 --> 02:04:14,280
Speaker 2: Where it's like we should know that answer, but it's

2668
02:04:14,480 --> 02:04:18,760
Speaker 2: almost allowing the space for that conversation to happen and

2669
02:04:18,800 --> 02:04:19,720
Speaker 2: them to even say it.

2670
02:04:19,640 --> 02:04:23,880
Speaker 1: Out loud, or the fact that you're even asking yeah, yeah, yeah,

2671
02:04:24,760 --> 02:04:27,920
Speaker 1: or like I feel like I fell short here and

2672
02:04:28,000 --> 02:04:29,840
Speaker 1: you're seeking feedback whatever that might be.

2673
02:04:30,320 --> 02:04:32,240
Speaker 2: It's like all those conversations are important.

2674
02:04:32,480 --> 02:04:35,720
Speaker 1: I I one hundred percent have not checked in with

2675
02:04:35,880 --> 02:04:38,640
Speaker 1: Jill like that. I'm trying to remember the last time

2676
02:04:38,640 --> 02:04:39,240
Speaker 1: that I've done that.

2677
02:04:40,480 --> 02:04:45,160
Speaker 2: I really, yeah, and me intentionally, I don't. I'm not

2678
02:04:45,200 --> 02:04:47,120
Speaker 2: thinking of the last time I actually did that charing

2679
02:04:47,120 --> 02:04:49,280
Speaker 2: and I will do as you know, a couple's therapies.

2680
02:04:49,360 --> 02:04:51,080
Speaker 2: So I feel like that stuff comes out when we're

2681
02:04:51,080 --> 02:04:52,960
Speaker 2: sitting down talking about it, and sometimes you're.

2682
02:04:52,840 --> 02:04:55,400
Speaker 3: Just not you're not privy or you're not aware.

2683
02:04:55,440 --> 02:04:58,240
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, oh snap, I didn't know that you

2684
02:04:58,280 --> 02:05:00,000
Speaker 2: know this was happening or this was in your mind.

2685
02:05:00,000 --> 02:05:03,880
Speaker 2: And I can do a better job of seeking out

2686
02:05:03,920 --> 02:05:07,640
Speaker 2: whether it's that information, her feelings in a certain situation.

2687
02:05:09,840 --> 02:05:12,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, dude, which I gotta get that dialed into

2688
02:05:12,960 --> 02:05:16,840
Speaker 1: what couple therapy. That's another thing that Jill and I

2689
02:05:16,920 --> 02:05:17,920
Speaker 1: did pre mariital.

2690
02:05:19,040 --> 02:05:20,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, the premarital counseling.

2691
02:05:20,360 --> 02:05:23,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, prepping for and it was awesome, dude, And I

2692
02:05:24,080 --> 02:05:27,360
Speaker 1: like we every I feel like every two weeks we're like,

2693
02:05:27,840 --> 02:05:30,320
Speaker 1: we gotta get that counselor thing set up. We got it,

2694
02:05:30,400 --> 02:05:33,480
Speaker 1: you know with the therapists and national Yeah, I'll ask well,

2695
02:05:33,560 --> 02:05:34,800
Speaker 1: I heard that he does couples.

2696
02:05:35,040 --> 02:05:37,880
Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, we love doing it. There are times

2697
02:05:37,920 --> 02:05:40,200
Speaker 2: where I'm not necessarily sure we're going to talk about

2698
02:05:40,240 --> 02:05:42,040
Speaker 2: going into it because I'm like, i feel like everything's

2699
02:05:42,040 --> 02:05:44,640
Speaker 2: been going pretty smooth, and I'm not one of those

2700
02:05:44,640 --> 02:05:47,480
Speaker 2: types who likes to just sit in like what we're

2701
02:05:47,520 --> 02:05:50,120
Speaker 2: feeling in every moment. Yeah, you know what I mean.

2702
02:05:51,160 --> 02:05:53,680
Speaker 2: You know, I'm like a guy's guy, I guess when

2703
02:05:53,720 --> 02:05:56,200
Speaker 2: it comes to that. But I do enjoy I do

2704
02:05:56,280 --> 02:05:58,920
Speaker 2: have a different perspective on therapy since doing it and

2705
02:05:59,000 --> 02:06:00,440
Speaker 2: going to it, because I do feel like we get

2706
02:06:00,480 --> 02:06:02,880
Speaker 2: a lot out of it because you have a third

2707
02:06:02,880 --> 02:06:07,040
Speaker 2: party perspective that has zero bias toward either of our lives, Yes,

2708
02:06:07,320 --> 02:06:09,800
Speaker 2: helping us kind of talk through what our differences might be,

2709
02:06:09,920 --> 02:06:11,560
Speaker 2: and they're there to kind of help you zoom out

2710
02:06:11,600 --> 02:06:14,160
Speaker 2: and see it for what it is, and you like

2711
02:06:14,280 --> 02:06:18,160
Speaker 2: learn a different skill set of communication and like what

2712
02:06:18,200 --> 02:06:20,800
Speaker 2: your triggers are and you you come to find out

2713
02:06:20,880 --> 02:06:23,440
Speaker 2: you get some stuff off your chest that you might

2714
02:06:23,440 --> 02:06:25,120
Speaker 2: have been feeling and you didn't necessarily know that you

2715
02:06:25,160 --> 02:06:27,920
Speaker 2: were feeling. So I was really shaky on it at first.

2716
02:06:28,080 --> 02:06:29,880
Speaker 2: At times, I'm not like the biggest fan of going

2717
02:06:29,960 --> 02:06:32,000
Speaker 2: in and talking about all the emotions and the feelings

2718
02:06:32,080 --> 02:06:34,120
Speaker 2: of everything. It's like, hey, we know we have to do.

2719
02:06:34,920 --> 02:06:37,240
Speaker 2: Why sit in this for an hour of our time?

2720
02:06:37,440 --> 02:06:41,600
Speaker 2: But every time we leave a session, we always feel like.

2721
02:06:41,600 --> 02:06:44,600
Speaker 1: A lot better one hundred percent. We always feel a

2722
02:06:44,600 --> 02:06:49,080
Speaker 1: lot better one hundred percent. That got me stoked.

2723
02:06:49,160 --> 02:06:49,760
Speaker 2: That got me.

2724
02:06:51,240 --> 02:06:53,640
Speaker 1: Wanting to I know Jill's going to be asleep when

2725
02:06:53,640 --> 02:06:54,720
Speaker 1: I get home tonight, but.

2726
02:06:55,000 --> 02:06:56,880
Speaker 2: It's fucking eleven thirty at night.

2727
02:06:56,920 --> 02:06:57,080
Speaker 1: Oh.

2728
02:06:58,080 --> 02:06:59,760
Speaker 3: I hope you guys have enjoyed it. We went a

2729
02:06:59,760 --> 02:07:00,680
Speaker 3: little longer than.

2730
02:07:00,600 --> 02:07:02,960
Speaker 2: Even last week, but you guys said, hey, fucking just

2731
02:07:03,080 --> 02:07:05,640
Speaker 2: let it rip, don't cut it short. Yeah, we like

2732
02:07:05,720 --> 02:07:08,120
Speaker 2: the longer ones. Hopefully you guys do. Hopefully you guys

2733
02:07:08,200 --> 02:07:11,120
Speaker 2: enjoyed this one. Shut out all the dads, man, shout

2734
02:07:11,160 --> 02:07:13,879
Speaker 2: out everybody tune in, whether your mom or dad, somebody

2735
02:07:13,960 --> 02:07:16,520
Speaker 2: just interested in parenting. Are you guys just like listen

2736
02:07:16,560 --> 02:07:19,040
Speaker 2: to me and sure and talk about stuff like this.

2737
02:07:19,800 --> 02:07:20,960
Speaker 2: We appreciate it, man.

2738
02:07:20,840 --> 02:07:22,600
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Shout out the guy that say he

2739
02:07:22,600 --> 02:07:25,400
Speaker 1: sits on a tractor and he said make it three hours. Yeah,

2740
02:07:25,680 --> 02:07:27,640
Speaker 1: the chapter all, yeah, did you see that one?

2741
02:07:27,920 --> 02:07:29,240
Speaker 3: No, I did not see that one, but I am

2742
02:07:29,320 --> 02:07:30,400
Speaker 3: laughing like I did hear that one.

2743
02:07:31,960 --> 02:07:35,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yea yeah all right for the dads,

2744
02:07:35,480 --> 02:07:39,680
Speaker 2: that's fucking take out the trash boys. Come on, yeah

2745
02:07:39,720 --> 02:07:40,160
Speaker 2: that was.

2746
02:07:41,800 --> 02:07:44,360
Speaker 1: Was that on purpose? No, I just flipped that's tune

2747
02:07:44,360 --> 02:07:49,320
Speaker 1: a round. That's great, SOD. Tell my wife a probably

2748
02:07:49,360 --> 02:07:49,920
Speaker 1: ten thirty