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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Ben,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm okay, how are you doing today?

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Speaker 1: Okay, just okay, We're great. But what's going on with

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Speaker 1: this woman? Angie? Tell us about how you met, about

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on, and then where things

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Speaker 1: are now.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 2: I like to go to concerts a lot. I'm outgoing,

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Speaker 2: you know, and I'm you know, usually hanging out a

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Speaker 2: lot with my friends. But this time I went solo

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Speaker 2: to a show and it was a good show, and

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Speaker 2: I went into the beer lines kid something, and I

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Speaker 2: met this beautiful woman named Angie, and she she just

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Speaker 2: seemed amazing. We clicked like right off the bat, and.

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Speaker 3: I took a risk.

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Speaker 1: I don't always do this.

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Speaker 2: But something was vibing, and I asked her for her

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Speaker 2: number and she gave it to me, and we went out,

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Speaker 2: got some brunch, you know, some pizza and some bruise,

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Speaker 2: and then I never heard from her after that. I

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Speaker 2: really thought we had a great date, you know, and

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Speaker 2: said goodbye. Seemed pretty cool, you know, But then.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, and I don't know why. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you hear this man they met in a wild love

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Speaker 1: like he he spoke to her in person. It can happen, yep,

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Speaker 1: I guess yeah. I mean, but do you really look

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Speaker 1: back on this date? And I asked everyone this question,

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Speaker 1: but you look back on this date and you really

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Speaker 1: felt like everything was good. There was good chemistry, good conversation,

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Speaker 1: no awkwardness, no strange topics, nothing, not really.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she seemed pretty, she seemed pretty fun, and

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Speaker 2: I was trying to like, you know, feel her out,

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Speaker 2: to see if you know, not to be you know,

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Speaker 2: weird about it, but like I love a long term relationship,

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Speaker 2: and so I don't know, I thought, you know, we

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Speaker 2: would go out, go meet some of my other friends.

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Speaker 2: She was like around them, and how long after the brunch,

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Speaker 2: you know, we went to another little party thing and

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Speaker 2: then when you know, back and I dropped her off

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Speaker 2: and that was it and everything seemed okay. She didn't

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Speaker 2: seem to say.

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Speaker 1: Anything was weird. Okay, All right, well let's see what's

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Speaker 1: going on. We're gonna call uh, We're to call Angie

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Speaker 1: and ask some questions and hopefully we could straighten things

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Speaker 1: out and then set you guys up on another date

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Speaker 1: that we paid for. So good. Oh, I love you.

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate that. Let's find out what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Part to you after David getta back in two minutes

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Speaker 1: on the French Showhouse at three hundred and fifty bucks

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Speaker 1: with show beive Shelley in the next ten minutes. You

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Speaker 1: win if you could beat her. He had five questions

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Speaker 1: in the show down. It's the Fred Show, Hey, Ben, Yeah, well, yeah, good.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you didn't hang up that that would be strange.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, let's call Angie. You guys, you met in person.

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Speaker 1: You just walked up to her and approached her and

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Speaker 1: talked to her and asked her out. You wound up

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Speaker 1: going on a date. You thought it went great, but

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Speaker 1: she has ghosted you since that date, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why. That would be really good to know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Yeah, you got it. Let's call her now.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, Ben, appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi'sus Angie. Hi Angie, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Frend Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that you are on

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Speaker 1: the air right now. I would need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the calls. That okay, if we chat for

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Speaker 1: a little bit sure, okay, well fantastic, Well thank you, Ang.

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Speaker 1: You were calling on behalf of this guy Ben, and

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Speaker 1: he wants to know what's going on because he said

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Speaker 1: he liked you. You met him recently in person, and

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Speaker 1: you guys went out and had some food and some

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Speaker 1: drinks and stuff. Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I remember it clearly. I do. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Because he recalls I think you're

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Speaker 1: about to tell me. I'm sorry to interrupt you, but

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Speaker 1: he recalls a really successful date. So what's your side

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Speaker 3: Oh boy, okay, Well, successful is an interesting word, but

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Speaker 3: that makes sense from his perspective. I think, yeah, well, candidly,

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Speaker 3: we did meet at a concert. I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 3: sure all the details that he shared, but we met

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Speaker 3: at a concert and definitely, you know, hit it off,

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Speaker 3: and so he asked me on a formal date and

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Speaker 3: we did brunch, which was actually super fun. I really

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Speaker 1: To us? Yeah? So wrong.

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe he doesn't think that it went well. I

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Speaker 3: don't think he thinks it went wrong actually because this

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Speaker 3: was all obviously pre planned in his idea. But I

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Speaker 3: am someone that I don't know. I'm an independent woman,

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Speaker 3: I'm confident, and I don't really need somebody to like

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Speaker 3: test me on a first date. And I feel like

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Speaker 3: that's exactly what he did, and it just set me off.

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Speaker 3: We did the whole brunch thing. It was great. It

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Speaker 3: and I was feeling awfully tipsy and just having a

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Speaker 3: going great, as I mentioned, and then he's like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I have a surprise for you, and I'm like, okay.

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Speaker 3: He's like, there's a second stop on our date. So

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Speaker 3: I'm just thinking we're going to go do like a

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Speaker 3: didn't anticipate that it would be a freaking fifth grader's

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Speaker 1: You went to a fifth grader's birthday party?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Literally, I have no words, daughter.

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Speaker 1: He said, he hung out with some buddies he took

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Speaker 1: you to. He meant a fifth grader's birthday party.

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Speaker 3: Yes, not even to be weird. It was like okay,

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Speaker 3: So I guess it was like a friend of his.

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Speaker 3: Their daughter's in fifth grade, so they had a big

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Speaker 3: So there were literally also five year old run I mean,

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Speaker 3: basically he rolled up to this house and there's like

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Speaker 3: what's happening? And then he's like surprise, I kind of

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Speaker 3: wanted to you know, when I pulled him aside of

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Speaker 3: what like where wanna be? What happened? Like I'm literally

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Speaker 3: like what is this guy thinking? Like, first of all,

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Speaker 3: I'm not a fan of kids, but he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I felt like I can't really date somebody unless I

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Speaker 1: This is all very word I mean, it would be

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Speaker 1: weird enough, I think to take somebody on a date

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like like for him to

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Speaker 1: have taken you to meet his friends in a first

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Speaker 1: date is a little bit strange. But now you're telling

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Speaker 1: me that he was testing you with children.

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Speaker 3: Children ages five to fifteen, and I'm like, one of

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Speaker 3: the most is deep okay, and I don't really like kids,

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Speaker 3: so I'm fixing. And also just getting interviews by every parent,

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Speaker 3: which you know, are friends of his, and the whole thing,

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Speaker 3: Oh do you guys have kids? How long have you

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Speaker 3: been married? Because some were like whys of friends of friends,

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Speaker 3: Like the whole thing was like being at some weird,

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Speaker 3: like it was a test. And I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: On it was a test.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hold your horses, yeah, hold your horses, get to

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Speaker 3: know him, give them their darn mimosas, and like have

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Speaker 3: a good day, you know.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I forgot to mention that Ben is here, Ben,

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Speaker 1: I mean, dude, you know there's another test. Actually that

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Speaker 1: isn't untrue. You're right about that. I mean, what how

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Speaker 1: is she supposed to answer that when you take her

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Speaker 1: around your friends and say, how do you guys? You

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, you know, you guys

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Speaker 1: are un assard, Ben, what were you thinking?

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Speaker 2: I thought we had already had a deep connection and

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Speaker 2: wanted to see if this was real or not and

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Speaker 2: how far like that would go. I guess you're right

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Speaker 2: it was a test. I'm sorry. I didn't mean it

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Speaker 2: like that. I just you know, I've had some bad

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Speaker 2: found out that I was interested in maybe being a

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Speaker 1: So there's a lot in the first date, and I

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Speaker 1: think a little heads up would have been nice too.

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Speaker 1: You know, hey, well, how would you feel about going

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Speaker 1: don't even know what to tell these people, that kind

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Speaker 3: Don't even know this guy's last name at this point,

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Speaker 3: you know, Oh my goodness, Yeah, well you used to.

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Speaker 1: I guess you failed the test though, because well he

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Speaker 1: wanted to see you again. But you know you weren't

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Speaker 1: good with the kids that.

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Speaker 3: I kept my distance, y'all. I'm not into the snotty news,

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Speaker 3: you know, booger chasing little breath. I'm just not so well.

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Speaker 3: This is a strong coalition on children and then fifth graders,

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Speaker 3: fifth graders things like they're adults. So like the attitudes

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Speaker 3: then the boogers on the five year old. The whole

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Speaker 3: thing was just like so uncomfortable. And I mean, let

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Speaker 3: me just tell you my bug wore off reft.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, and you probably could have gotten to this response, man,

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Speaker 1: if you just asked her over drinks how she felt

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Speaker 1: about kids. You probably need to actually take her to

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Speaker 1: a focus group of actual children anyway, all right, look,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, right, so Angie, no interest in another date

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Speaker 1: with Ben.

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Speaker 3: I assume Ben, you're a super nice person, but I

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Speaker 3: think we're going to just pass on that opportunity. But

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Speaker 3: just a word of advice in the future. I just think,

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Speaker 3: like flow your role, just ask questions. Don't like pull

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Speaker 3: surprises on people, especially when they involved kids, family, You know,

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Speaker 3: when someone doesn't even know your last name.

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Speaker 1: I would be so uncomfortable if I had to meet

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Speaker 1: don't know your last name or anything. All right, look, Ben,

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Speaker 1: it's not going to work out, man, I might not

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Speaker 1: notice that that's what they're about to do.

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Speaker 2: You're a wise man. I probably should do that in

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Speaker 2: the future.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys hear that? Hear that's say that clip?

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Speaker 1: Because you're damn right. I am. All right, guys, best

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Speaker 1: to luck to both of you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, Thank you guys so much. And Ben,

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Speaker 3: thanks for are also ambushing me on my favorite morning show.

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Speaker 3: Like awkward but awesome at the same time. So I

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Speaker 3: just want to say thanks to start the day.

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Speaker 1: It kind of fits the theme here. But anyways, good luck, guys,

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Speaker 1: Thank you