1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com. 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 1: All you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter, 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air, 6 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: just like I'm going to read this one right. 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: Here, right now. You never know, it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 2: You never know, You never know. 9 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 3: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it to 10 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 3: you here. It is a Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: Thank you. Nephew's subject. I didn't mean what I said. 12 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: Dear Stephen Shirley. 13 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for eight years 14 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: and we've known each other fifteen years. We have been 15 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 1: through ups and downs like most couples, but when we argue, 16 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 1: it's because of something that my husband has remembered from 17 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: the past. I won't say he's insecure, but he's always 18 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: worried about me leaving him for my ex boyfriend or 19 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: this female I pooled around with one time when we 20 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: were separated. 21 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 2: I guess it's my fault for. 22 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: Him thinking I would leave him, because when I get mad, 23 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: I say a lot of things I do not mean. 24 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: I want to hurt him and win the argument. 25 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: I always have to fix it for days after we've 26 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: made up. The last fight we had is a lot 27 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: different because I was still mad days later and he 28 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: overheard me on the phone. 29 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: With the woman I used to fool around with. 30 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: I told her that my husband is mediocre in bed 31 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: and she has way better skills than he does. I 32 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: told her that my ex boyfriend has been begging for 33 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: me to meet up with him at a hotel huh 34 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: by his house, and I was thinking about going because 35 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: he has a lot more stamina than my husband does. 36 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: I wasn't paying attention to the camera that we have 37 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 1: on the front porch, or the fact that it has 38 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: a microphone on it. My husband was in the house 39 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: and heard the entire conversation. 40 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 2: Conversation Yeah, I continued to sit on. 41 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: The porch after my call, and he talked through the 42 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 1: camera to tell me to come inside. I tried to 43 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: tell him that I was still upset and I didn't 44 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: mean anything I said, but there was no way to 45 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: fix it. I really don't think my side chick has 46 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: better skills than him. I was talking bs because I 47 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: was still salty with him. I've never cheated on him 48 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: unless we were separated, So I need him to believe 49 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: that it wasn't serious. I wasn't serious. How do I 50 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: get my husband to trust me again? Please help? Wow? Hm, 51 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: trust is a hard thing and this is just not 52 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: cool what you're doing. Okay, you really really you need 53 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: to grow up. I mean you're very immature. Words hurt 54 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: words lead to actions. That's why your husband is upset. 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: He thinks you know because you said it, you did it, 56 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: and you need to stop saying stupid stuff that you 57 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: don't mean. You can't take any of that stuff back. 58 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: You can't take it back, period. It's common sense that 59 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: if it's the only thing you guys argue about, this 60 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: is what you say. According to you, is what you've 61 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: said in the past. That you should stop talking. Your 62 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: husband is not insecure, but like most men, he's got 63 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: an ego, a fragile ego, and no man wants to 64 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: hear that someone else has better skills than him or 65 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: more stamina than him. What is wrong with you? You 66 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: really need to stop this. I mean, even if you 67 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: say you haven't cheated, he's not gonna believe you because 68 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: he heard what you said. 69 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 2: He heard it coming out of your mouth. 70 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: You're playing a dangerous game here with your husband, with 71 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: your marriage, all of that trust. That's a big thing 72 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: in marriage, a very very important thing. Once it's broken, 73 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: it's really really hard to get back, if ever, if 74 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: at all. But your husband is still here, he's still 75 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: there with you, so maybe there's a chance. So you 76 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: got to stop playing with this feelings. You've got to 77 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: grow up. You're hitting way below the belt. If you 78 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: don't stop this and work on fixing your marriage and 79 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: trying to get your husband to come back around. And 80 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: these are things that you've broken, you gotta lose him. 81 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 2: You really are Steve. 82 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: Wow, this is really one of the more ignorant letters 83 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: we've had in a while, and we've had some ignorance. 84 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 4: The subject is I didn't mean what I said. The 85 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 4: problem is he heard you. This is your whole problem. 86 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 3: This whole thing is her. You know, I don't even know. 87 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 4: I don't even know how this dude still here is 88 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 4: one of the worst. Look y'all been married eight years, 89 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 4: y'all known each other fifteen, she said, We've been through 90 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 4: ups and downs like most couples. But when we arega, 91 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 4: see now, this ain't like most couples now not reading 92 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 4: this letters like most couples. 93 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 3: I want to tell you this right now. This is rare. 94 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 4: But when we augur, it's because of something that my 95 00:04:55,839 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 4: husband has remembered from the past. And I won't say 96 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 4: he's insecure, but he's always worried about me leaving him. 97 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 4: Now why was he worried about him leaving him? Guess 98 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 4: what she says for my ex boyfriend? All this female 99 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 4: I fool around with one time we was separated. Now, 100 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 4: let's just deal with that part right here. Your husband 101 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 4: has an awful lot to wear. Any what he looking at, 102 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 4: what's she looking at? 103 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 3: What you're looking at him? Fault? What you're looking at 104 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 3: her fault. 105 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 4: Everybody walked by is a potential threat. She can't even 106 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 4: really relax. If a guy walked by, that's a threat. 107 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 4: If a woman walked by, that's a threat. Girl, Girl, 108 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 4: you too much? And she did. 109 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: She said, I guess it's my fault for him thinking. 110 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 4: And I would leave him because when I get mad, 111 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 4: I say a lot of things I do not mean. 112 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: I want to hurt him and win the argument. Are 113 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 3: you stupid? Hurting? Don't mean you win? What is y'all 114 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 3: y'all have an argument trying to one up each other. 115 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: Listen when you argue with your wife, this ain't cracking 116 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 4: or the joneses. Your mama so fat? Your mama so fat, 117 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 4: she need a belt on the size of the equator. Well, 118 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 4: your mama so fat? 119 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: That is what this is. Are y'all arguing to one 120 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 3: up each other? 121 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 2: So immature? 122 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 3: That's not winning an argument? 123 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,359 Speaker 1: All right, Hold on, Steve, we'll have part two of 124 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 125 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: Subject of today strawberry letter. I didn't mean what I said. 126 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 127 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 128 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 5: It's time to level up your audio game and exploring 129 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 5: LG's lineup of x Boom portable speakers. 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Because y'all all 144 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 3: got like fools. 145 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 4: First of all, you've been together for fifteen years, but 146 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 4: you think your man is insecure because he's afraid you're 147 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 4: gonna leave him for your ex boyfriend. 148 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 3: All a female you fooled around with when y'all were separating. 149 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: Who Who's just a lot to worry about? Me? He 150 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 3: can't get the man, he can't. I'm going out with 151 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 3: the girls for happy hour, Happy hour. 152 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 4: With the with the what with who? See, he ain't 153 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 4: got to worry about who's gonna be down there? All 154 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 4: he gotta worry about it is people are gonna be 155 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 4: down there, some people. 156 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: See. 157 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 4: Most people gotta worry about who are all gonna be 158 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 4: down there? And the dude wait to hear some other 159 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 4: dude's names or woman wait to hear some women name. 160 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 4: When you say you're going to have it hour, you 161 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 4: first question is is people gonna be there? 162 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 3: Because your everybody? 163 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 4: And then I guess it's my fault for him thinking 164 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 4: I would leave him when I get mad, because I 165 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 4: say a lot of things I don't mean because I 166 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 4: want to hurt him and win the argument. 167 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 3: Hurting a person is how you win an argument. 168 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 4: No, you gotta stop thinking of winning an argument and 169 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 4: thinking about suddenly and if you're arguing to win, you're 170 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 4: not going to do that, so now and then. 171 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 3: You always got to fix it. 172 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 4: For days after we'd been made up in the last fight, 173 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 4: we had a lot of which was a lot different 174 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 4: because I was still mad days later, and he overheard 175 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 4: me on the phone. 176 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 3: With the woman I used to fool around when I 177 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 3: told her on the phone. 178 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 4: That my husband is mediocre in bed and she got 179 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 4: way better skills than he do. 180 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 3: And he heard this with the woman you used to 181 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 3: fool around. He heard that. 182 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 4: That ain't insecurity. That's not insecure. That ain't he heard it. 183 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 4: That's a blatant statement. And you wasn't trying to hurt 184 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 4: him because you was talking about him without his knowledge. 185 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 4: So now this ain't how you win this argument because 186 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 4: you're talking about the man behind his back, So you 187 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 4: can't say that you was trying to win an argument. 188 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 3: By hurting him. You wasn't even talking to you. 189 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 4: Then I told her that my ex boyfriend been begging 190 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 4: me to meet up with him at a hotel by 191 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 4: his house, and I was thinking about going because he 192 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 4: got a lot more stamina than my husband. Do No, 193 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 4: wait a minute, this man is here in the feeling. 194 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 4: First of all, he ain't got no skills. 195 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 3: Now, he ain't got no stamping. Snap, what is he? 196 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 2: The man wants to hear that? 197 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 3: Why is he here? See? 198 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 4: And then once again, you're talking to you so far 199 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 4: on this latter I don't even know why you still 200 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 4: calling me your hugs, cause I'm telling you right now this. 201 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 4: And so I wasn't paying attention to the camera that 202 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 4: we got on front porch, and he got microphone on 203 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 4: my husbands. 204 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 3: In the house, hurd the entire come and say. 205 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 4: I sat on the porch after the call, he talked 206 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 4: to the camera, told me to come inside. 207 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 3: I tried to tell him I was still upset and 208 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 3: didn't mean anything I said. 209 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 4: But there was no way to fix I really don't 210 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 4: think my side chick has better skills him. Are you 211 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 4: listening to what you're writing? You're so stupid, You height 212 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 4: stupid I see. Not only did you say stupid stuff, 213 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 4: stupid stuff, you height stupid stuff, you actually said, I 214 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 4: don't think my side chick has better skills than him? 215 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 2: What let her have it? 216 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 4: I've never cheated on him unless we were separated. What 217 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 4: you just y'all wasn't separated when you was in here 218 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 4: telling your girlfriend that she had better skills and your 219 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 4: ex boyfriend that you was talking about to your side 220 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 4: chick because she don't care, because all y'all do everything. 221 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 3: And I was. 222 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 4: Talking to BS because I was still salty with him. 223 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 4: Uh so I need I need him to believe that 224 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 4: I wasn't serious. How do I get my husband to 225 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 4: trust me again? Please help? 226 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: Question number one? Is he steal your husband? 227 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 4: See, I'm stuck with just him because you not my wife, 228 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 4: because you belong. 229 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 3: To too many people. 230 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 4: You the other woman, you got a side chick cheating 231 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 4: with you, you got a boyfriend. 232 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be realsh. 233 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 2: This is one. 234 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 3: This is on. 235 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 4: This ain't no marriage trade and quit asking us fixed 236 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 4: though that's unfixable. Y'all need bish jakeson somebody like this 237 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 4: because I ain't got nothing, I don't know, just too 238 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 4: many people in here, ooh lord, Oh, here come to waitress. Oh, 239 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 4: here come the matrix, Here come to wait Oh the dishwasher. 240 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 3: Oh the bus boy. Oh look at that. 241 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 4: Oh look at this girl over here sitting. Who was 242 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 4: this man just rubbed up against me. It's just too 243 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 4: many people in mere. I'm confused, I'm hot, I'm all this. 244 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 4: It's just too much going on. Child, I can't even eat. 245 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 4: Everybody in here flying to me. I'm just slobbling on myself. 246 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 4: It's too much, all. 247 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: Right, Please leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter like. 248 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 4: This over I'm like, all it's about sixty five people 249 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 4: in here. 250 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 1: I tell to Steve Harvey at them dot com and 251 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand as well. 252 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.