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Well, by not being 31 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: on the podcast on Friday, I ruined my perfect a tenants. 32 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: So somebody tweeted at me yesterday, I guess you're not 33 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: getting your end of your tenants snus. There really wasn't 34 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: a podcast, Garrett spoke, But that wasn't a podcast. What 35 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: do you mean, Well, it wasn't like everybody who's in 36 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: the room doing a fifteen minute morning show podcast and 37 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: you weren't here. None of us were here, and then 38 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: Garrett from home recorded audio and uploaded it to cover 39 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: up the fact that we weren't here. Oh, is that 40 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: what happened? I didn't even so. I feel like it 41 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: was a snow day and the nerd showed up asking 42 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: if he could have a surprise quiz is what ended 43 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: up happening is they were filming something in this studio 44 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: that was supposed to take like a little bit and 45 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: ended up taking a lot of bit, and so we 46 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 1: all had to leave before they were done, and so 47 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: we couldn't do a podcast. So, speaking of Twitter, I 48 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 1: could just slip this in. I want to send a 49 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: shout out to uh Vedem. You can turn my mic off. 50 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: Punch in the face. Um, I want to shout out 51 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: to Vedem Postleleuck close enough, because about a week ago 52 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: I had said I had a topic I wanted to 53 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: discuss on the podcast about a problem with getting a 54 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: table in a restaurant, and we never got to it. 55 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: And so every day tweets when he goes, are you 56 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: tabling that conversation again? Loving the puns? So we are 57 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: tabling it again today. Maybe we'll bring it tomorrow. But 58 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: Bethy's got something fanta plastic. From what we're hearing, this 59 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: could set back everything we've done previously, back years. This 60 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: is going to be the best part about the bar higher. 61 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: But hey, do when you do this to me? I 62 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: hear that from women all the time. Okay, So here's Okay, 63 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: So Scary and I are in a little bit of 64 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: a pickle. As you know, Scary and I share a friend. Uh, 65 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:24,959 Speaker 1: Scary claims I poached her, and I didn't. We met 66 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: separately through a different mutual friend, but A stopped hanging 67 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: out with her. I did stop hanging out with her, 68 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: but no, no, you started hanging out with her more 69 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: because you were monopolizing her time. So anyway, she's been 70 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: hanging out with you. So this friend recently got married 71 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: and and she sent out her wedding invitations via email, 72 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: like basically like an EVI A lot of people do that, right, 73 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: So the issue. I knew she was getting married because 74 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: she texted me or I saw it or something on 75 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: Twitter or something. I saw that she was getting married. 76 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: So I knew she was getting married. But I have 77 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: a really hard time keeping track of my emails, and 78 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: so I remember, like a while ago, opening an email, 79 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: seeing that it was a wedding celebration, and then quickly 80 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: moving on, and I think I expected to get something 81 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: in the mail or something whatever. So I just went 82 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: through my emails and I saw that I got one 83 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 1: on Friday saying we look forward to continuing our wedding 84 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: weekend and celebrating with you tomorrow, which was Saturday, which 85 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: was the first one that like, I really opened and 86 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: looked at and realized that I missed my friend's wedding 87 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: completely because it was sent to me via email. Wait 88 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: had you so you had an rsv P. I haven't 89 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: done anything. I had an rs VP. I hadn't acknowledged 90 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: I hadn't nothing, nothing, nothing. Here's the email. I hadn't 91 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: even viewed the car, I hadn't opened. Wait, wait, before 92 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: he answered that question, this is the rule. If scary went, 93 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: he wins the friend back. I did not go. But 94 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: then again, I don't think I was even invited because 95 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm not on the radar anymore. I don't even think 96 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: he got the evite. Well here's the thing, yes, and 97 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: that's the thing I got. I didn't even see. I 98 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: think this rule, guys, I don't know about you, and 99 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: I think, Bethany, this might be where you're going doesn't 100 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: really count if they email you a wedding invite. I 101 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: think that's way too informal for something so important. I 102 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: feel like I understand that a lot of things are 103 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: moving that direction, and I get that for me, I 104 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: feel like it's really similar to a Facebook invite, which 105 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: is I assume that if you're sending a Facebook invite out, 106 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 1: you're sending it to everybody on your Facebook list, and 107 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: it's not super personal. I I think I would have 108 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: needed in this situation at least a text saying, Hey, 109 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 1: sending out my wedding invites. Keep your eye out for 110 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: an evite or whatever. If you get a fancy calligraphy 111 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: right invite, you put it on the fridge. Right. If 112 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: you get an evite, is your responsibility to print it 113 00:05:58,400 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: and then put it on the fridge. And most of 114 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,559 Speaker 1: this him you get a save the date ahead of time, 115 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 1: and I may have gotten now via email and not 116 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 1: and not seen it. And they know a lot of 117 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: people do like, um, you know, go to our website 118 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: and rs VP that way instead of sending it back. 119 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 1: But usually they at least send yourself. It's got to 120 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: come through the mail. I don't count it. I don't 121 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: count it. It was well did her family and friends 122 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: get a written fancy calligraai? I don't because if you 123 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: got like second tier invite, then you're not responsive on 124 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,559 Speaker 1: Facebook as invites your birthday party at a bar that 125 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: that's acceptable for face by Facebook, and Bethany still won't go. No, 126 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: but think about it a second. I might have gotten 127 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: an invite and now I must have missed it. I've 128 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: been tell yourself that I've been friend commy, friend Commy. 129 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: We talked about it on this very podcast. He's like, dude, 130 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 1: you didn't get my my Facebook invite, Like, I'm not 131 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: so sure now he said he did, but anyway, they 132 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: we scheduled the date and I'm going to that one. 133 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: But the point is this, you guys, you have to 134 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: realize that that it has to be if it's if 135 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: it's in important to you for me to be there, 136 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: if it's an expensive party, if it's a big thing, 137 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 1: it's a big celebration, it's a monument, it's a milestone, 138 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: send it to the mail. And and to be honest, 139 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: for weddings, if I haven't, you don't hear from somebody 140 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: that you know you invited. You usually say hey, did 141 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: you get my wedding invitation? Because you have to pay 142 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: for that, you know, for that plate. And I think 143 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: that because I understand your wedding isn't about me, Like 144 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: I understand that, like if you want to send an 145 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: evite and that's your narrative. That's awesome. You go do that. 146 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: It's not about me. But if you want to get 147 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: a head count or whatever, you know that. Like I'm 148 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: terrible at email, Like I say this all the time, 149 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: and it's totally true. I have unanswered emails from two 150 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: thousand eight, like me there, I'm terrible at it. And 151 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: so I feel so bad. And so then I was asking. 152 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: I was out in the living room asking like what girl, 153 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: Kathleen and RRISA, So then do you do you send 154 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: a gift? Like what what do I do? If? If 155 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: here's my rule, if you send me an evite, then 156 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm just going to send you a picture of a gift. 157 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: I feel that it is so bad because like she's obvious. 158 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: I mean, they're they're the best, They're so happy in weddings. 159 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: You know you are close to her. She ain't getting 160 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: a gift from me because you poached her and she 161 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: chose you. There was several years ago, but point did 162 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 1: not poached her. Grian Freedman introduced us, not you, Well, 163 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: we introduced you to Brian Freedman. T J introduced me 164 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: to Brian Freedman. Fair enough, this is all we I 165 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: introduced everyone to but hiring him. This is true Freedman's 166 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: fault that Allegra is not getting it, is not getting 167 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 1: a wedding gift. But my babysitter's name is Allgra game. 168 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: Maybe she doesn't need a gift because she saves so 169 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: much money on invite great head. You know, invite some 170 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: very expensive And that's why I get it. I know 171 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: that the trend is moving in this direction. I just 172 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: think that like it's going to take a little bit 173 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: more time as we all figure out the etiquette as 174 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 1: it moves this direction. I'm all for I'm all for 175 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 1: moving forward tech knowledge. An evite is like if the 176 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: guy showed up wearing a T shirt that looked like 177 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 1: a tuxedo, Like, at some point, go fancy, or I'm 178 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: gonna get you a dinner play a dinner set that's 179 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: paper right. You just pretty much undervalued your own, your 180 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: own occasion by not churning out inviting the mail. Danielle 181 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: is looking at me like I'm crazy, because nowadays things 182 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:25,599 Speaker 1: are different. You need many emails? Do I have that? 183 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: Look at the email badge on my iPhone eleven thousand, 184 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: seven hundred and six. Yeah, are you crazy. How the 185 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,599 Speaker 1: hell am I supposed to find your ship in my 186 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: freaking email? I just opened the card. This looks like 187 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: it was a lovely wedding. Oh man, should propose your faces. 188 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: Just sending a little something. It would have been my 189 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: first second Jewish wedding. Can you send a little something? 190 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: And I'm more resolutely going to the guilty You're going 191 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: to get for nut showing up Jewish and so sorry 192 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: she gets a gift, but she gets a less your 193 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: gift because you didn't go. I mean, it's not like 194 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: I spent the whole time looking for you with my 195 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: own wedding. I was worried you didn't call. Can I 196 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: tell you how terrible I am at this stuff? Um 197 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: My cousin got married two and a half years ago. 198 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 1: I still haven't sent the wedding gift yet. I think, like, 199 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm so terrible at this you guys, I'm so bad 200 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: A kind of like grown up etiquette stuff and that 201 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: Bethany and baby gifts. I have them about five gifts 202 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 1: behind between weddings. What do you look at me? You 203 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: owe me two baby gifts. I don't think I ever 204 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: gave Garrett a baby gift when Hudson was born. No, 205 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: I just Hudson's turning to no. And it doesn't It 206 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: doesn't enter my mind as a grown up to do. 207 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: It just doesn't enter my mind to do this stuff. 208 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: I've given out way more than I've gotten back, that's 209 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: for sure. Because I haven't babies. I don't commemorating anything. 210 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: I'll get you something for your wedding once again. See 211 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: I mean didn't money. I've been doing out money my 212 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: whole life. Bethany, I'm with you. It was totally fool. 213 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: You don't want to get married, you don't have kids, 214 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: but it's your full you're just trying to make those 215 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 1: money making I'll throw some money. I'll throw some money 216 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: into your new minivan. You know how, you know how 217 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: they do like gender revealed parties and then everyone it's 218 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: another excuse to have a party. So you show up 219 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: and you give them a present or whatever. So I 220 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: think what we should do scary is every time you, 221 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: I or your girlfriend takes a pregnancy test and it 222 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: comes out negative, we should have a pregnancy test revealed 223 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: party where everyone comes, they bring gifts, no gender. Then 224 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:27,719 Speaker 1: we like Papa balloon and it says negative. Yes for 225 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: that just a circle, a dash is a minus sign? 226 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: Is there a sigh of relief emoji? Like, that's what 227 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 1: that's what comes up. That's what we'll do. That's how 228 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: we'll get our parties in that babies either. How many 229 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: negative pregnancy tests has Roben taken? What are you doing? 230 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: You ever had a scare? No? Really, you're good. I've 231 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 1: had a coppleman. Yeah. Well one scare was that time 232 00:11:53,520 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: they did it with the lights on. You have to 233 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: set up for all the jokes. I don't need to 234 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: set up. I had one when Sheldon and I first 235 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 1: got when that first got together, but like we were 236 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: dating for a while and we were not ready to 237 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: have kids, and I thought I would have had like 238 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: a twenty something all by. Yeah, that was when you 239 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: were living in Sinna. Before that, that is when I 240 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: was living in sin Thank you for joining that. Parents 241 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: were not happy. They were not let's not go. Did 242 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: you teach Sunday school? Did you teach Sunday school while 243 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 1: you were living in And I told him that too. 244 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: I told him I'm living with my boyfriend, so that 245 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: makes a difference with me teaching. Let me know, I 246 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: was honest. Did you show him her ankle before marriage. 247 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: Shut up. But I just remember Sheldon asking my mom 248 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: for permission to move in together, and he she goes, no, oh, yeah, 249 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: oh totally. She said, no, you were knocking boots with 250 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't even my sister come over and visit. At the time, 251 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: my sister found out we were living together because she 252 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: called the phone and we were both on the answering machine. 253 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: You don't know any of this. And then we bought 254 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: a house before we got engaged, and my mom said, 255 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: you know, you're doing everything backwards. And then eventually she 256 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: was like, okay, you know, I guess if you invested 257 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: in the house eventually, Ye, that's what always happened everything. Yeah, 258 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 1: my sister moved in with her boyfriend. They bought a 259 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: house before they got married. So then by the time 260 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: my dad moved in with his girlfriend, my grandparents were 261 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: fine with that because my sister had like paved the 262 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: way of sin, I paved the way of sin. Yeah, 263 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 1: together down that road. It was already paid. We just 264 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: celebrated date like together twenty years the other day. So 265 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: we've been together twenty years, but yeah, not married twenty years. 266 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: We've been together twenty years. I wasn't been married. We 267 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: got married in two thousand three. I remember your single days. 268 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: They were very brief. They were talking about you know, 269 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: you've known British, have only known you like twenty something years. 270 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, you were on Shelton almost as long as 271 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: you've known me. Right, two years longer when I started 272 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: full time. I was with him before I even started 273 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: being like on the air here I was doing. I 274 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: was an intern, so two years. I knew you for 275 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: two years and you were single, Greg. He tried to 276 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: date me. Remember remember you're with one dude and then 277 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: you were single and then next thing you know, you're 278 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: dating Sheldon. Yes, like nobody had any chance to get 279 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: it as I was. No, no, no, I was single 280 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: and dating a whole bunch of other people before I 281 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: met him. So but I was casually dating a lot 282 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: of different But then you didn't get any other time, 283 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: any other chance for any other guy. Didn't need it. 284 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: I didn't want it. Once I met him, I was like, 285 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: all right, well was good. I dated people for a 286 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: lot longer than you have. Scary because you said you 287 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: didn't start dating till later on. Was you know you 288 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: got married in three Gift There are actually a couple 289 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: of people. Let's me, we're never going to be getting 290 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: kept the physical list. My favorite I know one person, 291 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: I know one person was my favorite thing that happened 292 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: that one of my favorite things. Two people came up 293 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 1: to us, so wasted. It was so funny. They said, 294 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: we lost your check. There was so wasted. We can't 295 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: find where we put the envelope. We're gonna put a 296 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: stop payment on it and send you another. And they did, 297 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: but they were that drunk, not remember where they put 298 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: the envelope. Was it the couple dressed as a monkey, 299 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: you know? Was it the couple dresses Frank Sinatra? And 300 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: they were fired as well. You missed the great wedding 301 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: guys there you were there that show that Haytering Hall 302 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: has my all time favorite food. If I hear someone's 303 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: having a party there, I go. Ever like them or not. Bethany, 304 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: I think you would be in the brighter part. Bethany 305 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: would be Venian so much. Yeah, Nian the best Italian food. 306 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: It's amazing. The place is amazing. The food is out 307 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 1: of this world. It's not the best road getting there, 308 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: but once you're there, it's awesome. That road it's like 309 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: the minute morning show, oh