Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
Speaker 1: online at advocuslaw dot com. Michayla is on the phone
Speaker 1: today for a first day follow up and she's getting
Speaker 1: ghosted by a dude named Jason. So in a few minutes,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call him and see if you'll tell us
Speaker 1: why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Mikayla,
Speaker 1: how long has it been since you heard from Jason.
Speaker 2: It's been two weeks.
Speaker 3: We had been like talking very regularly before that, so
Speaker 3: this is not common for us to go days without like.
Speaker 2: Talking like this.
Speaker 1: Did you try to talk to me?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean so I texted him after a date and
Speaker 3: he sent me a one word response and then nothing.
Speaker 2: I was like, how is your day? And he was
Speaker 2: like good, and I was like sick.
Speaker 3: That always feels like a middle finger, like after you
Speaker 3: asked me a question and all you get back is good.
Speaker 1: Well, how is the date?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 1: Was the date good?
Speaker 2: Amazing?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, it lasted for like ever.
Speaker 1: It lasted for. It was a long date, it was
Speaker 1: it was We.
Speaker 3: Did like a lot of different things, so we like
Speaker 3: we met the mall, which I at first I was like,
Speaker 3: this is a little weird, but it was because he'd
Speaker 3: coordinated with the pet store to let us play with
Speaker 3: the puppies.
Speaker 1: That's so sweet.
Speaker 3: Yes, they like never do that, but I guess he
Speaker 3: like knows the owner or the manager or something and
Speaker 3: so and I was like, oh, okay, So I felt
Speaker 3: very special and I got to play with the puppies
Speaker 3: and I love puppies, and so that was wonderful. And
Speaker 3: we just like cuddled with puppies and like talked for
Speaker 3: like the longest time, and yeah, and he is like
Speaker 3: so cute with the puppies. And then like we went
Speaker 3: to the cheesecake Factory, which is like one of my
Speaker 3: favorite because I just I'm like obsessed with the avocado
Speaker 3: egg rolls, like genuinely. Then like we were, you know,
Speaker 3: like we'd finished eating, and he was like, I really
Speaker 3: don't want like to say goodbye yet, like I'm not
Speaker 3: really ready for it to end. And he's like, I
Speaker 3: have a couple of like aaronst run O. We're at Target,
Speaker 3: like there's a few things I need to get, Like
Speaker 3: would you want.
Speaker 2: To go with me? Is that weird? And I was like,
Speaker 2: oh no, I would love to go with you. Thank you.
Speaker 3: Wait, so you hit puppies the cheesecake factory in all
Speaker 3: day one day.
Speaker 2: Right, I was like, this is beautiful.
Speaker 3: I'm like you can tell a lot by beruson like
Speaker 3: what they get when they go to Target and like
Speaker 3: how they do the Target experience. And I was very
Speaker 3: impressed by like what he got, Like he was getting
Speaker 3: like method surface cleaner, so I like, obviously he likes
Speaker 3: to keep things really clean, and like that's important, you know,
Speaker 3: because like a lot of guys don't clean. And he
Speaker 3: bought toilet paper, you know, Like I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: so he feels comfortable around me, and he like he
Speaker 3: gets good toilet paper, which like a lot of guys
Speaker 3: I feel like, get really cheap, scratchy toilet paper, and
Speaker 3: you're like, I never want to go to the bathroom
Speaker 3: when I'm over at your house. And he got really nice,
Speaker 3: like very soft toilet paper, and so okay, okay, he
Speaker 3: takes care of himself.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: But then like after Target, it kind of felt like
Speaker 3: he was rushed. He was like, oh I really got
Speaker 3: back home. I really need my dog, which I totally understand,
Speaker 3: but then it kind of felt like he was like
Speaker 3: trying to get away from me, and he like he
Speaker 3: took me to my car that was back at the mall,
Speaker 3: but I just kind of felt like he was like
Speaker 3: like something changed and maybe he.
Speaker 2: Was like ready to, like I don't know, get out
Speaker 2: of there, which.
Speaker 3: Made me feel like maybe I did something wrong, like
Speaker 3: maybe I mess something up.
Speaker 2: Like I was kind of like ribbing him and.
Speaker 3: Like teasing him a bit, and like, you know, when
Speaker 3: we got back to the car, like I was kind
Speaker 3: of teasing him about the stoft toilet paper and it
Speaker 3: was kind of I was trying to be like flirty
Speaker 3: and cute and like joky, and I'm like worried that
Speaker 3: it like came across like demeaning or like weird or.
Speaker 1: Mean or well what did you say, like how did
Speaker 1: it become demeaning?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 3: I was just like Sweety needs extra saft for his
Speaker 3: extra cute bumb bum.
Speaker 2: And I was trying to be cutesy, and I you know,
Speaker 2: sometimes I hit some sometimes miss the mark.
Speaker 3: And now I'm like and then that was kind of
Speaker 3: when he was like, yeah, I really need to get
Speaker 3: back you can.
Speaker 2: Check on my dog. And I was like, yeah, I
Speaker 2: feel that.
Speaker 3: Maybe, but I don't feel like that more is like
Speaker 3: completely good. Yeah, like you know, obviously, I know. I
Speaker 3: we had so much funt for such a long time.
Speaker 3: I'm just like, Okay, so I said one stupid thing.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say a lot of stupid things. There was
Speaker 3: the one stupid thing ruin it.
Speaker 1: We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song come Back, and then call him
Speaker 1: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
Speaker 1: and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thank you, Okay,
Speaker 1: play song come back your first day follow up next.
Speaker 1: Right in the middle of your first date follow up,
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Mikayla is on the phone
Speaker 1: and she's getting ghosted by Jason. So we're about to
Speaker 1: call him and see if he'll tell us why is
Speaker 1: ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, MICHAELA,
Speaker 1: why don't you refresh our memory on your date with Jason.
Speaker 2: I mean, we had an amazing date.
Speaker 3: We played with puppy, We had amazing avocado egg rolls
Speaker 3: at the FUSEEA factory, and then we went and wandered
Speaker 3: the streets or the streets the aisles of Target, and
Speaker 3: I mean, like it doesn't get better than that.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, and the only thing you can think of
Speaker 1: that he's not calling you back is because of what I.
Speaker 3: Teased him about his toilet paper selection, and I said
Speaker 3: that he needed extra soft toilet paper for his extra
Speaker 3: cute bumbum.
Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm saying this.
Speaker 1: I'm going to lose my mind. Yeah, I mean, you
Speaker 1: told him you had to extra cute bum bum. You
Speaker 1: should like that.
Speaker 2: I can't believe it.
Speaker 3: And then now I can't believe that I've had to
Speaker 3: repeat it for the world. I'm like, oh God, everybody knows.
Speaker 1: Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, maspeak to Jason please, Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is him. Hey Jason, how are you? My name
Speaker 1: is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called
Speaker 1: The Jebel Show. Hi, Jason, the show's here. I'm Nina
Speaker 1: also on it. Fine, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4: Hi. What can I do for you? Guys?
Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: I have not. But you know what, Actually, I have
Speaker 4: seen your clips on TikTok so I am love actually,
Speaker 4: but I've seen a couple of clips.
Speaker 1: That's dope. Okay, Well, congratulations you're on the show. We
Speaker 1: do a segment on the show called the First Day
Speaker 1: follow Up. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: day with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that
Speaker 1: person can ask us to call you and ask why
Speaker 1: you're ghosting? So, are you ghosting anybody?
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I sure we're listening. Going look, yeah, I am,
Speaker 4: I am. I'm ghosting a girl who is a she's
Speaker 4: a bit of a cleptough. So that's kind of the
Speaker 4: big crux of it, to be honest with ye.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you talking about MICHAELA? Yeah, I was gonna.
Speaker 4: Okay, I am, let me, let me just kind of explain.
Speaker 4: So we went to Target and she only had a purse,
Speaker 4: so you know, I saw what she was carrying, and
Speaker 4: she was right next to me the whole time. We
Speaker 4: got into the car, and she had this huge thing
Speaker 4: of orbit gum that she offered me and I said
Speaker 4: where did she get that from? And said, oh, I
Speaker 4: bought it. And I am absolutely positive she did not
Speaker 4: buy anything in the Target. I'm almost positive she she shoplifted.
Speaker 4: And I'm not cool with that because I mean, how
Speaker 4: do I know that you're not gonna, you know, give
Speaker 4: me like stolen goods for my birthday or something. You know.
Speaker 4: She she absolutely did. She absolutely took her with her,
Speaker 4: but it seemed because she didn't she didn't pay for it.
Speaker 4: She stood next to me when I checked out and
Speaker 4: walked out and me she said, oh, yeah, I bought it.
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, you didn't.
Speaker 2: She just took it.
Speaker 4: So listen, that was her explanation. And I don't like
Speaker 4: people that lie. I don't want people that shoplift. I
Speaker 4: think that's you know, weird at the sticking gum. So
Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe feel weird. And you know, I
Speaker 4: don't want to go on a day that.
Speaker 2: I can guarantee you that I did pay for that. Yes,
Speaker 2: yes I did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's MICHAELA. She's actually on the phone listening and.
Speaker 4: Great, great, great, great. You know what, I'm actually I'm
Speaker 4: actually glad she's on the phone because I think that
Speaker 4: this will probably steer her away from, you know, a
Speaker 4: like of crime. This will probably make her maybe a
Speaker 4: little bit more embarrassed about, you know, her conduct. The
Speaker 4: first time you meet somebody, I'm kind of surprised you
Speaker 4: didn't make off with a puppy when we were you know,
Speaker 4: haying out.
Speaker 2: You should be embarrassed. By your conduct, you're just assuming
Speaker 2: that I stole it.
Speaker 3: But maybe you were just a little too busy paying
Speaker 3: attention to your fancies.
Speaker 2: Mans you toole at paper and bought some gum.
Speaker 4: No, no, I'm not. You were attached with the hips
Speaker 4: to me basically the entire time, following me around like
Speaker 4: a poppy. Actually, so I did not see you go
Speaker 4: to a checkout.
Speaker 2: Or anything, you know what, Let me see it.
Speaker 3: Let me look sermon, I'm sure I have a receipt.
Speaker 3: I have the freaking app. So even if I don't
Speaker 3: have this physical copy, I know I.
Speaker 4: Will have it.
Speaker 2: It's the Target app.
Speaker 4: You know. It Actually will be better if you just
Speaker 4: admitted that you took it, because I think that it's
Speaker 4: at this point you're kind of just denying denying, and
Speaker 4: it's not really taking you any more feeling to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jason, Hello, Yeah, I did.
Speaker 3: I found it, and I found the physical copy, so
Speaker 3: you don't think that I bought it on a different
Speaker 3: day if I send you the app.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna send you this right now. Your twit.
Speaker 4: Okay, yes, guys, I'm I'm so devastated to call me
Speaker 4: a twit. I don't know how I'm ever going to
Speaker 4: recover from this real I don't know how I'm going
Speaker 4: to recover. She just call me a twit. Twit guys,
Speaker 4: you call me a twit that Yes, I've never called
Speaker 4: the two crazy.
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm waiting, uh.
Speaker 1: Huh, you're gonna feel bad if.
Speaker 2: Yeah, look a look.
Speaker 4: At your tech. Okay, well I guess I'm wrong. I
Speaker 4: do see it here?
Speaker 1: Does say that she bought it?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah it does. But yeah, all right, well look
Speaker 4: I'm wrong, and when you're wrong, that you're wrong. So
Speaker 4: I am sorry about that. I really was convinced, obviously,
Speaker 4: because you know when you're when you're convinced, you stick
Speaker 4: to your convictions.
Speaker 1: Well why did you jump to that?
Speaker 4: You know because I really did not remember a single
Speaker 4: instance where she was not next to me, and I
Speaker 4: didn't remember seeing her pay for it, so the reasoning
Speaker 4: was there. So I am sorry. I was wrong totally.
Speaker 1: You don't think she's a thief? Now?
Speaker 4: I no, No.
Speaker 2: That was a little exciting.
Speaker 1: Jason. Would you like to go on another date with MICHAELA?
Speaker 1: Then we'll pay for it?
Speaker 2: I mean I don't.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I mean yeah, no, I actually would, I
Speaker 4: actually would because you was very cute and like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I know, like I am like very sorry about that. Like, well,
Speaker 4: when I really believe something, I go in hard on it.
Speaker 4: And I was definitely a miss step by me.
Speaker 2: But I would like another chance because.
Speaker 4: I am sorry about that. And up until that thing
Speaker 4: kind of sent me down a rabbit hole, I was
Speaker 4: having a really nice time. I really enjoyed, you know,
Speaker 4: getting to know her and you know, go to Target
Speaker 4: and kind of just walk around and have a nice
Speaker 4: time and bop around with you know, puppies and whatnot.
Speaker 4: She probably told you about it, but we had a
Speaker 4: great time. I brought her to a pet store and uh,
Speaker 4: it was it was fun, and I would like, I
Speaker 4: would like to see her again. And I would be
Speaker 4: bummed if you know this was what ruined It's some
Speaker 4: stupid you.
Speaker 1: Know, jumping to like the worst case scenario. Okay, well, Mikayla,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a date with him? Still?
Speaker 3: Uh, I would like to see him again because I
Speaker 3: did think he was really cool. But like, you have
Speaker 3: to give people the benefit of the doubt before you
Speaker 3: jump to conclusions and called them something like a thief
Speaker 3: like that is a very far week to make, especially
Speaker 3: the for somebody that you just met. So I am
Speaker 3: willing to give you a second chance if you are
Speaker 3: willing to be I don't know. I guess a little
Speaker 3: bit more open minded and give yeah, and give people.
Speaker 4: Great. Absolutely again, I really am sorry, and I really
Speaker 4: appreciate the second chap. I really did, actually, so thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, great, Well you've got a second date. Congratulations Mikayla
Speaker 1: and Jason. You know she's not a thief.
Speaker 2: Now, yay? Oh good. Jule's first date fall up