WEBVTT - From the Archives: Lena Dunham

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Alec Baldwin here before we launch our next

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<v Speaker 1>season of Here's the Thing at iHeartRadio in January, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I'd play some of my favorite shows from the archives.

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<v Speaker 1>Three years ago, twenty three year old Lena Dunham made

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<v Speaker 1>a low budget art house film called Tiny Furniture. She

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<v Speaker 1>filmed the movie in her parents' house and basically played herself,

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<v Speaker 1>a recent college graduate moving back into her childhood bedroom

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<v Speaker 1>while making plans for her future. Dunham was proclaimed a

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<v Speaker 1>fresh original voice, a director with a bright future. Writer

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<v Speaker 1>director Judd Apatow was one of those who took notice,

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<v Speaker 1>and today he and Dunham executive produced Girls, a show

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<v Speaker 1>she created for HBO that premiered its second season on

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<v Speaker 1>January thirteenth. You're good.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so good at you kidding? I have never

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<v Speaker 2>been as well in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I know. I mean you've seen good that. The

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<v Speaker 1>wedding was so quick and unexpected. I kind of even

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<v Speaker 1>know how to process it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, you tend to overthink things, and that's an

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<v Speaker 2>issue for you. This is what it's like when the

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<v Speaker 2>hunt is over. I think Sandy really likes me.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like him too.

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<v Speaker 2>When you's so nice, and funny when you have sex.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no part of me that wants like pretend they

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<v Speaker 2>don't exist, which is a rarity.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. He's kind of a Republican, which feels weird.

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<v Speaker 2>What's wrong of the Republican?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the same as a Democrat. They're old bags.

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<v Speaker 1>Lena Dunham has achieved an astonishing amount in just three years.

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<v Speaker 1>Her portrayal of Hannah Horvath and Girls recently won her

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<v Speaker 1>a Golden Globe Award for Best Actress in a Comedy Series.

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<v Speaker 1>This past October, she sold a book of essays and

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<v Speaker 1>advice to Random House, and her boyfriend is a rock star. Today,

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<v Speaker 1>she hardly resembles Aura, her character from Tiny Furniture. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I wouldn't have much in common with Lena. She's

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<v Speaker 1>half my age and has been fiercely embraced by my

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<v Speaker 1>daughter's generation. But oh, how quickly we realized there was

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<v Speaker 1>common ground between us us.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, my show is moving into the thirty rock stages.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yes, we're taking you guys are moving to Silver Cup. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you and Michael Fop.

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<v Speaker 2>We were in Silver Cup. Then we went to Steiner

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<v Speaker 2>because we couldn't get our stages back because some show

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<v Speaker 2>that has one word that's about murder took it. And

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<v Speaker 2>then we are coming back because you guys are leaving,

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<v Speaker 2>so we're going to be on your stages and in

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<v Speaker 2>your offices.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, I thought, isn't Michael Fox coming there too?

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<v Speaker 2>He is. We're I think we don't take as much

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<v Speaker 2>stage space as you guys did, so we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>have because we have fewer sets. So I think it

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna have We're gonna have a piece and he's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have a piece.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, as I'm sitting here meeting you for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time and talking to you for the first time, you

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<v Speaker 1>are nothing like I imagined you would be. Really nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a bit thrown here because you play someone who

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<v Speaker 1>is a guess in your mind that I want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. Your a vision of what kind of character

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to create is a little bit a beat

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<v Speaker 1>behind everyone else. Or I'll let you articulate that what

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<v Speaker 1>you think she is though, But what I want to

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<v Speaker 1>say is you when I meet you, you seem like

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<v Speaker 1>you could be like a senator or the head of

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<v Speaker 1>the corporation. I mean, you're really very, very You seem

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<v Speaker 1>so together and smart, and you look great, and you

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<v Speaker 1>cut your hair, you look gorgeous. That is firstly, very meaningful.

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<v Speaker 2>And I have to not turn red and get excited

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<v Speaker 2>because you said that's radio.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't care. I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get good, perfect, and I'm wearing my crew jacket

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<v Speaker 2>and I really I should have dressed up more for you.

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<v Speaker 2>But that being said, you know, it's funny. Firstly, a

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<v Speaker 2>beat behind idea really speaks to me because I'm always

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<v Speaker 2>sort of saying when people ask about Hand, I'm always

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<v Speaker 2>sort of saying, she's a version of me, but she's

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<v Speaker 2>a few years behind me, and she's also sort of

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<v Speaker 2>a few minutes behind everyone around her. So you really

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<v Speaker 2>picked up on a concept that I'm sort of always

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about a little bit when I play her and

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<v Speaker 2>when I write her.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's who you used to be.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's funny. I think I used to I

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<v Speaker 2>think I in order to convince myself that I should

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<v Speaker 2>play this character, or that I should even write this character,

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<v Speaker 2>I had to say, well, I'm just writing my It's

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<v Speaker 2>that easy. I'm just writing myself. Because the idea of

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<v Speaker 2>sort of creating an entire other human can be so

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<v Speaker 2>intimidating and Who are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Though?

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<v Speaker 2>In real life?

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<v Speaker 1>In real life, who are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that Hannah is someone who I'm very capable

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<v Speaker 2>of being, who's wounded, ambitious but doesn't know where to

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<v Speaker 2>place it. Hannah sort of the version of myself if

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<v Speaker 2>I'd had less understanding parents and sort of less drive

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<v Speaker 2>to get things done. And I think who I am

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<v Speaker 2>as a person who was always sort of if I

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<v Speaker 2>had to describe the war within myself that exists currently.

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<v Speaker 2>It's sort of the challenge of trying to reconcile the

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<v Speaker 2>part of me that that always thought I would be, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a weird gender and women studies teacher who

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<v Speaker 2>occasionally showed movies at film festivals and hung out in

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<v Speaker 2>my strange apartment that was stacked high with books. Trying

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<v Speaker 2>to reconcile that with the part of me that has

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<v Speaker 2>to like figure out a dress.

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<v Speaker 1>The cover of Rolling Stone magazine.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly it was to shoot the Rolling cover of Rolling

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<v Speaker 2>Stone Magazine was to figure out a dress to wear

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<v Speaker 2>that for an event that and everyone seems to be

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<v Speaker 2>worried about whether or not the dress is in st

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<v Speaker 2>because it has to be my own dress, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dealing with all these sort of this strange echosystem

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<v Speaker 2>and all these weird politics that I kind of never

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<v Speaker 2>imagined would happen to me in my lifetime.

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<v Speaker 1>You never imagined, No, you really never imagined it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I my dream situation was that I would

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<v Speaker 2>be someone who people thought, oh, she's doing important work

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<v Speaker 2>in her own little corner.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a ras Chaste cartoon character, exactly like a Ra's

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<v Speaker 4>Chast cartoon character, or like I think because I went

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<v Speaker 4>to pretentious private school, the biggest dream you would have

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<v Speaker 4>is you'd be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm going to be Joan Diddyon. That was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of where your brain was allowed to wantry maybe Nora.

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<v Speaker 1>E from Maybe You'll make films, but you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be in films exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't think when I first started acting, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I never got parts in high school. I never

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<v Speaker 2>even I never was able. I think I had a

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<v Speaker 2>twofold thing about it. One is that it came from

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<v Speaker 2>a family of artists, and so the idea was sort

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<v Speaker 2>of like you made your work and then got out

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<v Speaker 2>of the way of it. Like part of what was

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<v Speaker 2>I think I internalized the idea that your work was

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to speak for you. You were not supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>speak for your work, and so I think I was

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<v Speaker 2>conscious about the idea of being anything so self promoting,

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<v Speaker 2>and although that's not what acting is, it is now

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<v Speaker 2>it's become that. And then I also think that I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 2>there's people who are professionals who can do this better

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<v Speaker 2>than me. So I'm just going to act until I

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<v Speaker 2>have access to the people who should be acting. And

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes I still feel that way. Sometimes I think, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'll do this a little longer and then

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle Williams can play me every day till I die.

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<v Speaker 2>Something that's really nice about making the show that isn't

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<v Speaker 2>that is a comedy that isn't stuck in any sort

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<v Speaker 2>of I mean, thirty Rock was able to bust out

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<v Speaker 2>of a lot of network sitcom tropes, but a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of the time when you're on a I think one

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<v Speaker 2>of the biggest things that networks prevent, besides curse words

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<v Speaker 2>and showing your breasts is development. I think that when

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<v Speaker 2>you play, I think so many sitcom characters end up

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<v Speaker 2>playing the same version of themselves in various scenarios.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the thing as God as my judge. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the thing that we talked about in the meeting

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<v Speaker 1>to prep this thing with you, which was shows I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen where the protagonists male or female, they're going through

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<v Speaker 1>the same set of problems in season six that they

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<v Speaker 1>were in season one. It's just different lines in different coasts. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And with you, I'm wondering, do you have a Bible

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<v Speaker 1>on the show? Do you have an arc in your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Not even on paper, not even approved with your other

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<v Speaker 1>Could you do this with jud correct.

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<v Speaker 2>I do it with Judd and a woman named Jenny

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<v Speaker 2>Connor who's the other executive producer.

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<v Speaker 1>And we have a great little writer's room.

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<v Speaker 2>But our writer's room doesn't really work like It's not

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<v Speaker 2>like we write a script and then all sit together

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<v Speaker 2>punching it up. It's much more we sit together at

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning of the season and really talk through It's

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<v Speaker 2>like a giant therapy session where we work out the

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<v Speaker 2>emotional arc and then we go to it.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you work out that emotional arc, do you

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<v Speaker 1>think to yourself are the things that she's going through?

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<v Speaker 1>Now your character and the other characters where you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself, let's make sure they're not going through this,

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<v Speaker 1>that there is growth a season from now or by

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the season completely.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why I feel like it's okay for me

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<v Speaker 2>to cut my hair, or it's okay for me to

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<v Speaker 2>start spinning, or it's okay for me you know whatever

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<v Speaker 2>I whatever to change to change, because I feel as

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<v Speaker 2>though so much of what this show is about is

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<v Speaker 2>about seeing these girls off into their adulthood. Like in

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<v Speaker 2>my Bible, the ideal finale to the show would be

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<v Speaker 2>a feeling like, you know, they don't have to have kids,

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have to have husbands, but you look at

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<v Speaker 2>them and you kind of go, they're on their way.

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<v Speaker 2>They're more okay than they were when they started, or

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<v Speaker 2>they're less okay, but we have an understanding of what

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<v Speaker 2>kind of adult we think they're going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>So describe to me how that works. Because the theme

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<v Speaker 1>here is control. And you are, like other brilliant comedy

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<v Speaker 1>writing chicks I've known over the years. You have this

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<v Speaker 1>is your show, this is your thing. So how does

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<v Speaker 1>it start? How does whose idea was? Girls? Was it yours?

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<v Speaker 2>It was mine? Because I basically I went in, I

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<v Speaker 2>made this movie tiny Furniture, and I made it. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>my mom and sister starred. We shot it in my

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<v Speaker 2>mom's house, my mom and dad's house. It was totally

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<v Speaker 2>populated with friends, some of whom have made their way

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<v Speaker 2>to Girls with me.

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<v Speaker 1>And what motivated you don't want to do tiny furniture.

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<v Speaker 2>I had always wanted to be a writer, and I

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<v Speaker 2>used to think I wanted to be a playwright, and

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<v Speaker 2>then in college I sort of had this revelation where

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, like, plays, you rehearse, and you rehearse, and

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<v Speaker 2>then they happened twice. Like I just felt so frustrated

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<v Speaker 2>by the lack of permanence. Like I'd always been sort

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<v Speaker 2>of turned on by the fact that when my parents

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<v Speaker 2>as artists, made work, like they had these material items

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<v Speaker 2>that would outlast them. And I was frustrated that that

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't a part of the theater experience. So I started

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<v Speaker 2>making short films and I made my first feature and

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<v Speaker 2>went to south By Southwest Film Festival with it, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I just had and I'd been making web TV,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just had this itch to sort of tell

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<v Speaker 2>the specific story, and I wrote the script and the kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what I want to talk about, is is

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<v Speaker 1>that itch meaning beyond the arc of the shooting and

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<v Speaker 1>the and the career aspects of it or the burgeoning career.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it about what was going on in your

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<v Speaker 1>life that you want to do that movie?

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<v Speaker 2>On a practical, real life level, I wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about that moment between college and adulthood that felt so

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<v Speaker 2>flounder and so every day I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 2>walking through the strangest, most surreal soup. That would mean

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<v Speaker 2>that on a deeper level, I kind of wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about change, which is what I always think is

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<v Speaker 2>sort of the most interesting place to find characters is

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<v Speaker 2>in a time of intense change. And so I sort

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<v Speaker 2>of also wanted to capture this moment where I was

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<v Speaker 2>I knew that I wouldn't live at home forever, that

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<v Speaker 2>my little sister wouldn't be sort of seventeen and ambitious

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<v Speaker 2>but also stuck in her bedroom forever, that my mom

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<v Speaker 2>was sort of looking in this beautiful moment where she

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<v Speaker 2>kind of was I mean, she'd murder me for saying this,

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<v Speaker 2>but she looked that kind of beautiful way where it's

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<v Speaker 2>like you're not quite old yet and you just look

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<v Speaker 2>kind of She just looked kind of perfect to me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just.

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<v Speaker 1>Look a great car.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I just thought I could say that exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just thought, I want to capture all of this.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to capture our cats, I want to capture

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<v Speaker 2>our house, I want to remember all of this. And so,

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<v Speaker 2>so you really love your mom. I'm obsessed with my mom. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I love my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying, that's interesting that you have that feeling

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what makes you survey what's around. You wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to capture that because I find typically people who

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<v Speaker 1>are not happy they got to wait a while until

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<v Speaker 1>they can negotiate the pain to go back and talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of the biggest things that inspires me to

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<v Speaker 2>make work is this feeling of looking around and going,

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<v Speaker 2>even if you're not perfect, you're all so perfect right now,

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<v Speaker 2>let's capture this and then, you know, I'd love the feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just watching like Panic and Needle Park last week,

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<v Speaker 2>that movie which is you know it, Kitty Win, Kitty Gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>She's so good. Where did Kitty Win go?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Let me get that vile out for Kitty Win.

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<v Speaker 1>She's incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>But so I was watching that and I was just

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about how exciting it was to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>watch sort of like al Pacino at that first moment

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<v Speaker 2>when he was sort of like he still almost looked

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<v Speaker 2>a little adolescent, and he was still and he was

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<v Speaker 2>learning his craft and just behaving on film. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>I just love capturing that. And that's something that I've

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<v Speaker 2>tried to do with girls too, is sort of grab

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<v Speaker 2>people and go, let's just let's just see you as

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<v Speaker 2>you are right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>So the film did well, So then how does girls Happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Girls happened? Because so then I went to LA and

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<v Speaker 3>kind of did that. I went like, Okay, I guess

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<v Speaker 3>what you do next is get an agent. And I

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<v Speaker 3>guess what you do next is try to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>what you're doing next.

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<v Speaker 1>You, I mean, you're on the runway.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, Yes, I was. I was on the runway, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was going around LA doing the sort of what

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<v Speaker 2>I call the couch and water bottle tour of LA,

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<v Speaker 2>where you meet everybody and have those kind of general

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<v Speaker 2>meetings where and I remember it was so funny because

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<v Speaker 2>at first I didn't understand that everybody says to you

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the general meeting, oh, I'd love

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<v Speaker 2>to find a way to work with you. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I would call my agent afterwards and go, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>it was amazing, and he said he wants to find

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<v Speaker 2>a way.

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<v Speaker 1>To work with me, and he meant he what should

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<v Speaker 1>come clean his pool?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, basically, I'd always been obsessed with TV. I'd always

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<v Speaker 2>loved TV and found it to be the most sort

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<v Speaker 2>of comforting medium and.

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<v Speaker 1>The one that what comforted you on TV?

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<v Speaker 2>What comforted me on TV was there's a range of

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<v Speaker 2>things that comforted me on TV. I loved having weird

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<v Speaker 2>what was the most what was the weirdest? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>my favorite show when I was little was Under the

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<v Speaker 2>Umbrella Tree, which is a Canadian show about a woman

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<v Speaker 2>who lives with three puppet and it was on every

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<v Speaker 2>morning at seven am. God there were three of them

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<v Speaker 2>named Iggy, Gloria, and Jay, and Iggy was an iguana.

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<v Speaker 2>Gloria is a groundhog and Jay is a blue jay

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<v Speaker 2>and he lives out back in a birdhouse. They like

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you about recycling, or like help their old

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<v Speaker 2>elderly neighbor who fell down in the street. Like they're

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<v Speaker 2>just like nice puppets, But looking back, it feels like

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<v Speaker 2>a child molester who's on the lamb with her three.

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<v Speaker 1>My my guilty pleasure. Like that was when I was

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<v Speaker 1>in my twenties and I go to my friend's house

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<v Speaker 1>and we just had this weird habit where like at

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<v Speaker 1>four o'clock in the afternoon, we'd like make a drink

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<v Speaker 1>and we'd roll the biggest joint and we'd smoke pot

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<v Speaker 1>and watch a show called Stairway to Stardom that was

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<v Speaker 1>on Public Access TV. And Stairway to Startom was this

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<v Speaker 1>older man and kind of looked like Rod Steiger. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like a burly looking, tough looking older man. And

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<v Speaker 1>his wife and she kind of looked like like Tammy

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<v Speaker 1>Faye Baker. She was like a big, big honey combed

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<v Speaker 1>shellacte hair and she was like this big bosom me

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<v Speaker 1>older woman. And the guy would come out and he

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<v Speaker 1>had the funniest voice. He'd be like, welcome everyone to

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<v Speaker 1>sell and use, and they'd sing a song and opening

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<v Speaker 1>so and they would bring out acts that would perform.

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<v Speaker 1>They were all like local queens Brooklyn talent parakeets.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like it was bizarre that sounds like the

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<v Speaker 3>best thing in the world. It was the best show

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<v Speaker 3>in the world, especially if you've smoked.

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<v Speaker 1>An enormous amount of marijuana an enormous joint, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>on the Sofa water Bottle Tour and what happens on

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<v Speaker 1>the sofa water bottle.

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<v Speaker 2>Tour and my agent, who I feel like you're not

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to say you love your agent because it makes

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<v Speaker 2>you sound really Hollywood and everyone. I love everyone, And

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<v Speaker 2>also I have the best agent. He's like really been

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<v Speaker 2>at it for a long time. He's like a cigar

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<v Speaker 2>smoking you know, he's what I imagined. His name's Peter Benedeck.

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<v Speaker 1>Peter Benedict did know Peter Benedeck, And he smoked cigars.

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<v Speaker 3>He's old school, he's old kind of a hectemic gothapy exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And he belongs to a cigar club. Which one does

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<v Speaker 2>he belong to? I think it says it has a

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<v Speaker 2>Cuban flair. I think it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the board of Grand ev are you. I

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<v Speaker 1>know Peter and I probably have seen him a Granda

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<v Speaker 1>that Wow. He always plays on the out there and

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<v Speaker 1>smoked the goods with him when you were still a

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<v Speaker 1>gleam in your parents. Aye, you weren't even around God.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn with the way this business works. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>So he's your agent and you love him.

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<v Speaker 2>I love him, And he said to me, I was

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<v Speaker 2>sort of saying to him like, maybe I could get

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to move out of my parents' house,

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<v Speaker 2>and I thought and make more movies. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I could should write a spec how I met

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<v Speaker 2>your mother, and I could get staffed on a show.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I didn't know any I didn't know how

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<v Speaker 2>any of this worked. And he said that I should

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<v Speaker 2>go for a meeting at HBO, and I did, and

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<v Speaker 2>I said, well, here's what I'd want to see, is

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<v Speaker 2>like a show about all my girlfriends, like sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like Tiny Furniture, but there's more of us, and we

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<v Speaker 2>don't live with our parents anymore, but it's still about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like it was pitched so weekly, like a year

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<v Speaker 2>after my movie, but there's more of us and it's

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<v Speaker 2>a TV show.

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<v Speaker 1>So the conversation wasn't coming out of and Tiny Furniture

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<v Speaker 1>in the indie and in the festival world had a

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<v Speaker 1>very good buzz. There was no conversation, but you just

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<v Speaker 1>going right into films and making more films. Normally they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to want to steer some especially your age was

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<v Speaker 1>very young. They're going to go just keep making movies.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, there was a conversation, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>I picked up on the fact very early going on

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<v Speaker 2>the Couch and Water Bottle tour that the kind of

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<v Speaker 2>stories that I wanted to tell we're not really being

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<v Speaker 2>funded on a larger scale and film.

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<v Speaker 1>We're taking a break stay with us.

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<v Speaker 2>I picked up on the fact very early going on

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<v Speaker 2>the Couch and Water Bottle tour that the kind of

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<v Speaker 2>stories that I wanted to tell we're not really being

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<v Speaker 2>funded on a larger scale.

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<v Speaker 1>And film Tina says that sometimes the Tina I would

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<v Speaker 1>just finished working. Yeah, it seems like it's more difficult

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<v Speaker 1>to ay to have the control you want in the

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<v Speaker 1>film business and be to say what you want to say.

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<v Speaker 2>It is, And the fact is I could have kept

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<v Speaker 2>saying what I wanted to say, you know, making twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five thousand dollars movies, but I wanted It's weird. The

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<v Speaker 2>reason that I like having some budget is not because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I want to stagecarshes or I want to

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<v Speaker 2>have you know, ten makeup artists on set, although those

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<v Speaker 2>things would will would be lovely, But but it's more

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<v Speaker 2>because of the fact that I do so many jobs,

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<v Speaker 2>so so exciting to not have to worry anymore about

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<v Speaker 2>answering the doorbell, about returning the equipment, about making sure

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<v Speaker 2>that people had the pizza. Also, that's going to happen

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<v Speaker 2>in TV. And what I has money and has HBO

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<v Speaker 2>is time Warner. But they have money, but they use

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<v Speaker 2>it in this kind of amazing It's this amazing model,

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<v Speaker 2>which is that they don't have to answer to advertisers

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<v Speaker 2>in the same way. So HBO can sort of fulfill

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<v Speaker 2>its odd little interests. And that's what I started out

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<v Speaker 2>as and I what I didn't predict was how much

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<v Speaker 2>I would love the opportunity to develop characters in this

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<v Speaker 2>way and the kind of the fiber of TV itself.

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<v Speaker 1>And they believe in you. Based on my experience, I've

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<v Speaker 1>never worked for them, but I've have many friends and

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<v Speaker 1>colleagues over the years who've worked for them, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>I've almost worked for them here and there. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>HBO is one of those places like that, I think

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<v Speaker 1>the most six testful studios and networks. The way they operate,

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<v Speaker 1>which is that they vetted maybe to a fairly well,

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<v Speaker 1>but if once they believe in you, they're all in

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<v Speaker 1>it's yours. They give you the money that they it's

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<v Speaker 1>not too intrusive now, so the template of four women,

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously HBO is no stranger to the template of

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<v Speaker 1>four women talking about but obviously those women were older.

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<v Speaker 2>And you've been a fan of that show, Yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>think that I can't find one girl who isn't at

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<v Speaker 2>least secretly a fan of Sex and the City who's

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<v Speaker 2>my age. And I loved it, And you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>was very conscious when I was first writing the show.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought to myself, should I put these girls in Boston?

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<v Speaker 2>There was and I tried to make it three girls

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<v Speaker 2>because and Shashana was initially not one of the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Shashana was jess as Zosher Mammot's character was jess A's

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<v Speaker 2>Jemim mc kirk's character's cousin, and she kind of came

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<v Speaker 2>in and out as a kind of She was the

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<v Speaker 2>more suring as a recurring in and out goofball who

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<v Speaker 2>was sort of supposed to call to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be that.

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<v Speaker 2>She does. She plays it beautifully and but the reason

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<v Speaker 2>that I wrote her was to sort of call out

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<v Speaker 2>the Sex and the City thing, like this is the

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<v Speaker 2>girl who came to New York to have her cosmos

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<v Speaker 2>and her Manolo's and it's not going quite right. But

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<v Speaker 2>she was so wonderful, and she added something that the

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<v Speaker 2>three of us didn't have on our own, and so

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<v Speaker 2>it became a four person delio. And so I tried

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<v Speaker 2>to make it three women. I tried to put it

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<v Speaker 2>in a different city. But the fact is is that

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<v Speaker 2>New York is where it was supposed to happen, and

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<v Speaker 2>four women just somehow there's a symmetry to it that

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't Gee.

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<v Speaker 1>Star, be damned, I'm going to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't help it. I couldn't help it. And so

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<v Speaker 2>but the fact is that you know, sext and City

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<v Speaker 2>is a specter that hangs over in a I mean

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<v Speaker 2>in a positive way. Everything when female centric, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>in the writer's room, every there were so many episodes

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<v Speaker 2>of Sex and City and they tackled every area of

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<v Speaker 2>sexual function and dysfunction that there's almost nothing you can

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<v Speaker 2>pitch that they haven't done.

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<v Speaker 1>But I found that the women on Sex in the City,

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<v Speaker 1>that those women would have things happen, and they tended

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<v Speaker 1>to brush off the consequences pretty quickly. Yeah, whereas the

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<v Speaker 1>girls on your show, the tone seems very different. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>seems to almost be doubting what they're doing, or they

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<v Speaker 1>have a kind of a sense of fear or anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>about it. While they're doing it, it seems more real. Was

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<v Speaker 1>that deliberate in your part? Well, something I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel about being in your twenties, which is different than

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<v Speaker 2>you know. Sex and the City was a show about

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<v Speaker 2>women in their thirties who had successful careers pre recession,

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<v Speaker 2>the best, most supportive friends. They didn't have. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>they had little friend TIFFs. But the characters on our

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<v Speaker 2>show are tortured. It's sort of impossible to get through

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<v Speaker 2>your twenties without It's like, if you ask a girl

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<v Speaker 2>in her twenties, are you a happy person? I think

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<v Speaker 2>she can say I have happy moments, but I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think it's possible. Maybe I'm maybe people will radically disagree

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<v Speaker 2>with me, but I don't really think it's possible to

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<v Speaker 2>be sort of an at peace human when you are

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<v Speaker 2>between twenty two and thirty, and so I think there's

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<v Speaker 2>dot I don't because I think.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a problem that I mean for me. One thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I noticed when I went to college, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago, an interesting number of people they

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<v Speaker 1>really knew what they wanted to be, they weren't quite

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<v Speaker 1>sure how to get there. They had a dream. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to become a lawyer, I want to become a doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go into politics. I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>into and now people today it seems like younger people

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<v Speaker 1>really they think they have more time to figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>You're turning twenty five, and they really don't have that

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<v Speaker 1>picture and focus. Do you agree?

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<v Speaker 2>I do agree, And I think a big part of

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<v Speaker 2>it is being I think the Internet has cracked things

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<v Speaker 2>open in a way that's both beautiful and that it

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<v Speaker 2>helps you find. There's so many things that I never

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<v Speaker 2>would have even known about, things that have been huge

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<v Speaker 2>for me that have existed because of the Internet. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think that I've been able to partially connect with

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<v Speaker 2>people who would be fans of the show because of

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<v Speaker 2>the Internet. I think, you know, it's always exciting when

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<v Speaker 2>like there's this website called rookiemag dot com that's run

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<v Speaker 2>by this girl, Tavi Jevnson, and it's a smart teen

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<v Speaker 2>magazine that exists only on the Internet. And I just

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<v Speaker 2>think if when I was a teenager there had been

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<v Speaker 2>that place and that message board, I would have felt

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<v Speaker 2>like the world was my oyster like just meeting other

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<v Speaker 2>weirdo girls who had the same who like you know whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>At the time, I just wanted to talk to someone

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<v Speaker 2>about Connor Oberst or something on the Internet, and that

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<v Speaker 2>would have been possible. But I think now the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that like the Internet has created so many strange specialized

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<v Speaker 2>jobs and so many things where it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a brand consultant, slash blog enhancer or whatever. People

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<v Speaker 2>are like, suddenly the world feels wide open, but there

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<v Speaker 2>are less jobs available, and so it's a really confusing

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<v Speaker 2>moment to make any decisive choice about what you want

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<v Speaker 2>to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting you say that the Internet is responsible for that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then idea of having too many choices than you

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<v Speaker 1>need you wind up bout.

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<v Speaker 2>That could also be a metaphor for like men in

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<v Speaker 2>their twenties dating. I feel like men in their twenties

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<v Speaker 2>like I once had dated a guy who told me

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<v Speaker 2>that he didn't feel like he could be serious about

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<v Speaker 2>anyone in New York because it would be like eating

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<v Speaker 2>at the same restaurant every night in New York, Right,

0:22:54.640 --> 0:22:58.000
<v Speaker 2>there's so many amazing choices. It's New York City.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope he choked some whatever a restaurant to go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't say that. That's me that's wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that, so it's helpful to have it

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<v Speaker 2>backed up by Alec Baldwin.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alec Baldwin, and you're listening to here's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing more in a minute. Lena Dunham didn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>look far to come up with her character on Girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Physically, I'd say Hannah is. I mean, she's me because

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<v Speaker 2>I play her. But it's funny because she's chubby, but

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't. That's not where her anxiety comes from. Like

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<v Speaker 2>she's just not I like playing a character who doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>have a perfect body, but that's not the main source

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<v Speaker 2>of their anxiety. I feel like we have very few

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<v Speaker 2>female characters on television who don't look like models and

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<v Speaker 2>aren't constantly discussing it. So of course Hannah has her

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<v Speaker 2>moments of self conscientiousness, just like every woman does, but

0:24:02.840 --> 0:24:05.320
<v Speaker 2>that's not She sort of doesn't notice that her clothes

0:24:05.320 --> 0:24:07.719
<v Speaker 2>don't quite fit. She sort of doesn't think about what

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<v Speaker 2>she eats.

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<v Speaker 1>It's and I have closed her just to cover you

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<v Speaker 1>up and keep you warm, exactly. They have some degree

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<v Speaker 1>of style to the grain, but less.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a character exactly. And I like she's more interested

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<v Speaker 2>in like whether her clothes are funny and witty, like

0:24:17.920 --> 0:24:19.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't think she really cares about being sexy. She's

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<v Speaker 2>more just like, oh, this dress like has owls on it?

0:24:22.600 --> 0:24:25.399
<v Speaker 2>How sweet? I used to be much in college. I

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<v Speaker 2>dressed like a complete lone. I feel like my dad

0:24:27.160 --> 0:24:29.040
<v Speaker 2>always told me, I look the golon tamer all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I've calmed down just because I realized that you could

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<v Speaker 2>vests with so many vests, red vest, so many red vests,

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<v Speaker 2>so many like you know, strained boots pulled over my

0:24:38.320 --> 0:24:41.240
<v Speaker 2>weird leggings with a three flounced skirt. I could never

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<v Speaker 2>accessorize enough. It was oppressive. But in the Luftwaffa, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And so so that's Hannah's sort of physical I think emotionally,

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:55.159
<v Speaker 2>some facets of Hannah are that she is, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she has a certain amount of wit and a certain

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<v Speaker 2>amount of sort of spunk, but she isn't really applying

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<v Speaker 2>it anywhere properly yet. And she's also.

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<v Speaker 1>Smart and funny and not mean because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the people in that world and the improvisational comedy were

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god and funny in there me and that

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<v Speaker 1>meanness is the font that it comes from. Is that source?

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<v Speaker 2>I know and you know the thing about Firstly, my

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<v Speaker 2>dad is like a manner's Nazi. So I think that

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up feeling like the worst thing you could

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<v Speaker 2>do was offend somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>Sit up straight in that chair, and your dad told

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<v Speaker 1>me to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, Oh my god, my dad still tells me

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<v Speaker 2>to sit up straight constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to call it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then and it's funny because both my dad is

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<v Speaker 2>an artist and he paints these sort of outlandish intense

0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:36.520
<v Speaker 2>I mean, he paints things that are pretty pretty sexual images,

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 2>pretty aggressive images, you know, a man with a I mean,

0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:42.919
<v Speaker 2>they're funny, but they're intents. It's like two men with

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<v Speaker 2>penises for noses in a war with guns and knives

0:25:49.000 --> 0:25:49.800
<v Speaker 2>with three women.

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<v Speaker 1>Grew up around this, is around it.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was what was interesting was that my dad

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<v Speaker 2>was sort of like you.

0:25:54.080 --> 0:25:59.240
<v Speaker 1>Can do girls. I know, dad had penises on his face, on.

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<v Speaker 2>His face, on every face, but you know, you I

0:26:01.720 --> 0:26:03.440
<v Speaker 2>grew up around it. But I think that my dad

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<v Speaker 2>always really showed me that there was a difference between

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<v Speaker 2>you know, what your work was and who you were.

0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 2>And he's so my parents are so polite and so

0:26:09.880 --> 0:26:12.680
<v Speaker 2>sort of they just I think so much of this. Again,

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<v Speaker 2>I've never had kids. I've you know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what that feels like. But I think, how old are

0:26:17.880 --> 0:26:20.639
<v Speaker 2>you know? I'm twenty six and I want kids, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not ready. No, please, I really.

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<v Speaker 1>I just tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>I just got a doctor.

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:26.639
<v Speaker 1>We already have birth control pills for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, no kids now. I don't want kids. I just

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<v Speaker 2>got adoption. Everybody things I'm insane. I just finished season two.

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<v Speaker 2>Season three. Well, we're starting season three and we're starting

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of March, so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to come and play yours therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be the most fun thing in the world.

0:26:43.920 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 2>It's bad, bad, bad, But I forget what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm glad you don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I get too guilty if I ever make a mean joke,

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<v Speaker 2>like appreciate what I'm saying, I do, well, I'm terrified.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of the reasons I don't I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>feel like a comedy writer, because there's sort of like

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:01.280
<v Speaker 2>a quickness and a harshness, and you need.

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 1>To have those people in your bullpen there. Do you

0:27:02.720 --> 0:27:05.679
<v Speaker 1>have some more really traditional edgier We do have.

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:08.240
<v Speaker 2>I have a couple of writers on the staff, one

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Murray Miller, who this season was really essential in sort

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:14.000
<v Speaker 2>of bringing us just hard jokes, But no one on

0:27:14.000 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 2>our staff has that particular kind of darkness. I've been

0:27:17.680 --> 0:27:19.800
<v Speaker 2>around a lot of those comedy writers, and you know,

0:27:20.240 --> 0:27:22.000
<v Speaker 2>there's that feeling of like even when they're saying something

0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:23.439
<v Speaker 2>nice to you, they're kind of trying to murder you

0:27:23.480 --> 0:27:25.520
<v Speaker 2>with their eyeballs, and it's.

0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:28.480
<v Speaker 1>It's it becomes too much salt to the soup exactly.

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:31.680
<v Speaker 2>It's impressive to me in small doses, but terrifying.

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:33.320
<v Speaker 1>You've got to have it, but you've got to mix

0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:34.840
<v Speaker 1>it carefully. Like when we did our show that was

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:37.320
<v Speaker 1>that was a big issue where like sometimes I would say,

0:27:37.400 --> 0:27:39.439
<v Speaker 1>I just think this is too mean, Like we're going

0:27:39.480 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>to lose people like we want to be we want

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:42.360
<v Speaker 1>to be mean, but we have to decide who we're

0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:44.359
<v Speaker 1>going to be mean too. It's true who deserves it.

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<v Speaker 2>My thing is also I always I only really make

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:49.360
<v Speaker 2>jokes about people I like, Like when there's a joke

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 2>that references a celebrity on the show, it's usually a

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.160
<v Speaker 2>joke that I'm making because I have really taken note

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 2>of their work and have fascinated by.

0:27:58.040 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 1>It's not because you slept with them and you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get even with them.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't have that instinct.

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:06.680
<v Speaker 1>So talk about two things. The level of control you have.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you are a very young woman, and I'm

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 1>assuming it's all you correct, I mean it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I work with Jenny and Judd really closely,

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:20.199
<v Speaker 2>and I definitely I think I'm constantly sort of telling

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:22.720
<v Speaker 2>myself I have bosses around. It kind of comforts me.

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:25.359
<v Speaker 2>I mean, and you don't, do you not exactly. I

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:28.760
<v Speaker 2>have collaborators. I have collaborators, but I have collaborators who

0:28:28.800 --> 0:28:32.200
<v Speaker 2>I take really seriously and who you need and who

0:28:32.240 --> 0:28:34.879
<v Speaker 2>I need and who I would never I think the

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:37.040
<v Speaker 2>minute you get an attitude like it's my show, the

0:28:37.160 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 2>ship runs on duneam and my way or the highway,

0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:45.040
<v Speaker 2>I think it's broken exactly. I think you still want

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 2>to feel a little fear when you share a script

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 2>with your collaborations. You want to go I hope they

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 2>like this. I'm going to listen to them. When they don't,

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:56.840
<v Speaker 2>I still feel tremendously indebted to them and anxious about

0:28:56.840 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 2>their reactions. And I never feel like, you know, I'm

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 2>the big boss and you guys can all get with

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:02.720
<v Speaker 2>it or leave.

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 1>So when so the Hannah character you start out, I

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:09.080
<v Speaker 1>mean in tiny Furniture, I almost feel like tiny.

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 4>Furniture is it's.

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<v Speaker 1>You. You. You may become one of these actresses now

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 1>where it's all one series. You know what I mean?

0:29:18.080 --> 0:29:19.479
<v Speaker 2>It kind of is. It's funny when I look at

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:23.720
<v Speaker 2>any character I've played in anything that I've made, it's you,

0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:26.520
<v Speaker 2>it's me, and it's it's funny. I've never played anyone

0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:28.720
<v Speaker 2>whose name doesn't end with a I've made. I've written

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:30.600
<v Speaker 2>all these characters who because I always have to have

0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 2>a name that I think sort of like is.

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 1>In the world name it's the two double syllables.

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:37.480
<v Speaker 2>Yep.

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Someone said to me to be a famous star, you

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 1>need to have two double syllable names.

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:42.800
<v Speaker 2>You do, do you?

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Or two monos? But Sean Penn, Marlon Brando.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom did tell me that she gave me my name,

0:29:53.000 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 2>which is so funny because it's not like we have

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:58.960
<v Speaker 2>any actors in her family. My mom said, I'm named

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:00.880
<v Speaker 2>after my Russian gret Grad. And my mom said, but

0:30:00.960 --> 0:30:02.840
<v Speaker 2>when she named me, she thought, I don't know what

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:04.480
<v Speaker 2>she'll want to do. But this is a great name

0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:06.920
<v Speaker 2>if she does want to be a movie star. That

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<v Speaker 2>was what my mom thought, which is so funny because

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<v Speaker 2>it's not like my mom's some crazy stage mom or

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<v Speaker 2>like is she she's a photographer and.

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<v Speaker 1>She's what's the source of your real close to the start,

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<v Speaker 1>to the extent you can say, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to prob oh, no, I don't mind. I've clearly

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind. We are very similar in ways that

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<v Speaker 2>can be delightful and can be maddening. Something I like

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<v Speaker 2>about both my parents, and I'd imagine you're like this

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<v Speaker 2>with kids too. Is they really talked to me like

0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:33.160
<v Speaker 2>I was an adult always? And I love that And

0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:35.600
<v Speaker 2>I love I love talking to kids like their adults

0:30:35.600 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 2>because it's like they kind of come alive when you

0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:41.160
<v Speaker 2>just ask them real questions. And yes, my mom always

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 2>really let me into her world. And I'm working right now,

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:45.600
<v Speaker 2>I'll talk to in ten minutes, And just having that

0:30:45.720 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 2>kind of access to her was amazing. Yeah, And I've

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:52.040
<v Speaker 2>just always thought she was the coolest, and it's funny

0:30:52.040 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 2>and it's nice to see it echoed because all my

0:30:53.720 --> 0:30:55.040
<v Speaker 2>friends think she's the coolest too.

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Now you're going to do how many seasons of the

0:30:58.080 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 1>show are you signed on to do well?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's not clear. I mean HBO contractually has me,

0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 2>I think as an actor for six years, but as

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<v Speaker 2>a writer, and I wish I should pay more attention

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:09.440
<v Speaker 2>to my deals. But I'm just so excited to have

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:11.920
<v Speaker 2>my job. I just go, okay, whatever you say. But

0:31:12.760 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 2>I think my dream world is that, you know, I

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:16.840
<v Speaker 2>want to kind of follow like you know, how British

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:19.920
<v Speaker 2>shows always know British shows and thirty Rock always know

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:21.080
<v Speaker 2>just when to get off the air.

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:26.280
<v Speaker 1>The question becomes how you can maybe you know, do

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<v Speaker 1>that TV show? And the schedule is how many months.

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<v Speaker 2>We do it?

0:31:31.000 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>Well, how many episodes.

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 2>We've been doing ten? I think between you, me and McGee,

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 2>I think we might do twelve next year, right, But

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 2>I would love that. I don't want to, like, I

0:31:41.080 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 2>don't have any desire in doing like, you know, a

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 2>twenty two episode. I don't even understand how someone does

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 2>the twenty two episode marathon. But I do think that

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:51.440
<v Speaker 2>doing I think that a little more would be just

0:31:51.520 --> 0:31:53.800
<v Speaker 2>a little more storytelling real estate and it'd be amazing.

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:57.360
<v Speaker 2>But you know, so I shoot four four and a

0:31:57.440 --> 0:32:00.040
<v Speaker 2>half months out of the year, then I'm editing and

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing press that I'm writing. Then I'm back. So

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 2>so it's not four and a half months, so it's

0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 2>not it's safe months. It's actually more like twelve months.

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 2>And so would you make.

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<v Speaker 1>A movie during the breakfast now?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I couldn't because there was just no time. I

0:32:13.560 --> 0:32:15.800
<v Speaker 2>finished shooting in August, I was editing.

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 1>Why don't you make a deal with HBO with all

0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 1>financi your films, so you're working for them in its

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:20.200
<v Speaker 1>olin house.

0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 2>It's very smart. I mean, I really want to make

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<v Speaker 2>a movie. I have two features scripts that I've been

0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 2>working on that I just I want to make another

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 2>before I make like a big, massive ambitious movie. I mean,

0:32:29.640 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 2>I want to make a creatively ambitious movie. But I

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:34.760
<v Speaker 2>want to make another small movie I have. I have

0:32:34.920 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 2>small movie idea.

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:38.720
<v Speaker 1>Do you have a massive ambitious movie inside you? I do,

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>but it's I you have an idea?

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:44.120
<v Speaker 1>But it's so weird, fifty four year old psychotherapist that.

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 2>There's there's a fifty four year old somebody And I mean.

0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll talk to you later in the traffic controller.

0:32:49.920 --> 0:32:51.680
<v Speaker 2>Working with you is one of my long standing dreams.

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 2>But I am and I'm also I'm writing a book.

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 2>So that's something that.

0:32:55.920 --> 0:32:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Was really well I heard about that.

0:32:57.200 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 2>It's something that was really important to me to start

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:01.000
<v Speaker 2>doing it at this point in my career.

0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 1>Starn And you write and produce your own TV show

0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:06.760
<v Speaker 1>and you're writing a book. H Who did that remind

0:33:06.760 --> 0:33:09.760
<v Speaker 1>me of? What are you gonna write a book about?

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm writing a book. Well, I guess it's about me,

0:33:11.600 --> 0:33:13.520
<v Speaker 2>although it's a little less about me because it also

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 2>has advice an advice component, but it's like personal essays.

0:33:16.960 --> 0:33:18.840
<v Speaker 1>So is it like Paula Pell's Hey Young Girls?

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I love Hey Young Girls. Makes me

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.840
<v Speaker 2>so happy. Paula Pel is funny. Paula Pel is someone

0:33:24.840 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 2>who's funny and not mean.

0:33:26.480 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Paula Pel's I mean to the right people.

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 2>She's just a dreamy person. But you know, the thing

0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 2>that's been so great about writing the book is I've

0:33:33.360 --> 0:33:35.479
<v Speaker 2>always loved writing prose, and I wanted to make it

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:38.040
<v Speaker 2>a part of my career sooner rather than later, because

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:39.880
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want it to be like when I decided

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:41.720
<v Speaker 2>to write a book in ten years, it was like, oh, look,

0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 2>here's a celebrity memoir. Number fifty seven I wanted it

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 2>to really feel like I'm a person who writes prose

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:50.000
<v Speaker 2>and that it's a part of my life and career

0:33:50.040 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 2>for a long time.

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 1>But unlike other people that are writing books, they don't

0:33:52.800 --> 0:33:55.720
<v Speaker 1>have TV shows that they're starring in and writing. When

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:58.480
<v Speaker 1>you're done doing now not just ten but twelve episodes,

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 1>what do you have left to go into the book?

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 2>There's stuff that's just for the book.

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:02.360
<v Speaker 1>There's still an example.

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:04.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, likewise, I write a lot about my childhood in

0:34:04.720 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 2>the book. I write a lot about my parents. I

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 2>write a lot about college and sort of like that,

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 2>I write a lot about that period. I write a

0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:13.799
<v Speaker 2>lot about sort of the beginning of being sexual person.

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:16.279
<v Speaker 2>I write about relationships. I'm writing a lot about sort

0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:18.560
<v Speaker 2>of female role model I.

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 1>Want to say about sexuality.

0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:24.719
<v Speaker 2>It's interesting. I've had to become more conscious about what

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 2>I say and what I promote. Not in a way

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:28.040
<v Speaker 2>that stifles me, but just in a way where I

0:34:28.120 --> 0:34:30.839
<v Speaker 2>realize now that there are seventeen year old girls who

0:34:30.920 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 2>come up to me and tell me that the show

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:34.040
<v Speaker 2>means a lot to them, and.

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:37.279
<v Speaker 1>This show one percent of your audience is influenced. This

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:39.839
<v Speaker 1>is what I learned from someone one percent of your

0:34:40.239 --> 0:34:43.400
<v Speaker 1>one percent is genuinely and in any way influenced by

0:34:43.400 --> 0:34:45.280
<v Speaker 1>what you do and say. That's still tens of thousands

0:34:45.320 --> 0:34:45.680
<v Speaker 1>of people.

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:48.480
<v Speaker 2>It's amazing. It's an amazing thing. And it's like it's

0:34:48.520 --> 0:34:50.440
<v Speaker 2>a platform that you have to take seriously, which is

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 2>why sometimes it's like I used to be really into Rihanna,

0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 2>that pop star, and then it was like again, I

0:34:55.480 --> 0:34:58.400
<v Speaker 2>don't want to ever, you know, throw stones from my glasshouse,

0:34:58.440 --> 0:35:00.920
<v Speaker 2>but I follow her on Instagram and I just think

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 2>about how many little girls, beyond what I could even comprehend,

0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:08.440
<v Speaker 2>are obsessed with Rihanna, Like, you know, she left Barbados,

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:11.640
<v Speaker 2>she's had this amazing career, she's you know, one Grammy,

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:15.239
<v Speaker 2>she's talented, and then she gets back together with Chris

0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Brown and posts a million pictures of them smoking marijuana

0:35:17.680 --> 0:35:20.640
<v Speaker 2>together on a bed, and it cracks my heart in

0:35:20.680 --> 0:35:21.960
<v Speaker 2>half in a way that makes me feel.

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:23.879
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm nicety Chris Brown smoking pot.

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.040
<v Speaker 2>No, because she got back together, was going, oh, yeah,

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:28.319
<v Speaker 2>you guys, you made a really good joke, and I

0:35:28.360 --> 0:35:30.960
<v Speaker 2>got too emotional and in my response, yeah, because I

0:35:30.960 --> 0:35:34.520
<v Speaker 2>want to that's here. It's terrible, mean enough, it's terrible.

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:38.440
<v Speaker 1>So you are as a role model. What won't Hannah

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>or the other girls in the quartet do?

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Jenny and I talk about this a lot. We won't

0:35:42.719 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 2>fuck someone because they have a nice apartment. There's not

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:47.760
<v Speaker 2>going to be any version of sort of like prostuding yourself.

0:35:47.760 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 2>There's not going to be any version of dating somebody

0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:51.360
<v Speaker 2>because he can take you out to nice dinner.

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:53.719
<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait, you're putting down my whole playbook. This is

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:56.440
<v Speaker 1>all I have left. Wait a second. That is so

0:35:56.719 --> 0:35:57.360
<v Speaker 1>wrong of you.

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:00.759
<v Speaker 2>Come on, it's interesting. I have so many friends who

0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:04.000
<v Speaker 2>are so sort of tortured by their romantic relationships, and

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:05.359
<v Speaker 2>I think such a big part of it is that

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:07.680
<v Speaker 2>the desires of young men and young women are not

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:08.640
<v Speaker 2>caught up with each other.

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:10.680
<v Speaker 1>And I say to my wife, I do want to

0:36:10.719 --> 0:36:12.319
<v Speaker 1>eat in the same restaurant every night, but I want

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 1>the hostess to wear a different outfit every night. Perfect.

0:36:14.840 --> 0:36:18.240
<v Speaker 1>But so you say they won't monetize sex.

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 2>They won't monetize sex, And it's like even more subtle

0:36:21.680 --> 0:36:23.719
<v Speaker 2>than that, Like, I don't like a storyline that's like

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:26.800
<v Speaker 2>unless it's really saying something about where characters at. I

0:36:26.800 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 2>don't like a storyline that's like, you know, he bought

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:32.240
<v Speaker 2>me an entire trousseau of dresses, and so I'm his forever.

0:36:32.360 --> 0:36:33.799
<v Speaker 2>Like that's just not the way that I want to

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:37.560
<v Speaker 2>idealize anything. I think that the characters, the characters can

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:41.120
<v Speaker 2>make mistakes, but they have to be emotionally responsible for

0:36:41.160 --> 0:36:43.719
<v Speaker 2>the things that they've done. I don't ever want to

0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:46.920
<v Speaker 2>like have a makeover scenario where someone's doing better after

0:36:47.000 --> 0:36:49.320
<v Speaker 2>they've put on a great dress and you know, straight

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 2>ironed their hair. Like I just there's it's a really

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:56.400
<v Speaker 2>instinctual thing, but it's just a feeling a balance. I

0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:58.840
<v Speaker 2>want women. This is so kind of Hippi tippy, but

0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 2>I want them to make their own choice. I want

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:03.720
<v Speaker 2>them to I don't want people to live in service

0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:06.360
<v Speaker 2>to sort of what television things they should look like,

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:07.839
<v Speaker 2>or what their family things they should act.

0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:10.000
<v Speaker 1>How much do you think that women, because this is

0:37:10.040 --> 0:37:12.319
<v Speaker 1>a very sensitive topic, I mean because I'm I'm not

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.360
<v Speaker 1>going to go Norman Mailer here, but I feel like,

0:37:14.920 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, the interesting thing for society is if women

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:20.040
<v Speaker 1>have been allowed to make their own choices for the

0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:21.920
<v Speaker 1>most part, for the last forty years, or at least

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:25.680
<v Speaker 1>for the last twenty five and that's reaped enormous benefits

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 1>for society. I mean, forget about just women. But at

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:29.960
<v Speaker 1>the same time, women are the only ones who can

0:37:30.000 --> 0:37:33.319
<v Speaker 1>have children, true, and therefore in the way that we're

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>trying to in the traditional family or even in a

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:38.320
<v Speaker 1>gay family where a man and two guys want to

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 1>have a baby with a woman, or two women want

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:44.359
<v Speaker 1>to have a child together, that balance of career and

0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>ambition and so forth with family is that something that

0:37:48.480 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 1>you struggle with some numbers you even think that.

0:37:50.040 --> 0:37:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Struggling, But I mean I think about it all the

0:37:52.520 --> 0:37:54.680
<v Speaker 2>time actually because I'm.

0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Because you're the product of a happy home, yeah.

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:58.760
<v Speaker 2>And I want all that you want to replicate that totally.

0:37:59.200 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 2>I was raised to think that the two most important

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:04.280
<v Speaker 2>things you could do in your life were have a passionate,

0:38:04.320 --> 0:38:07.400
<v Speaker 2>generous relationship to your work and to raise children. And

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 2>so you still feel that way, and I do still

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:11.120
<v Speaker 2>feel that you want to have children big time. I'm

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 2>so excited. I don't want like to jolly pit the

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:16.640
<v Speaker 2>whole situation, but like, like at least two and I

0:38:16.680 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 2>think all the time about it's funny exactly. I might

0:38:20.280 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 2>got Jenny Connor's daughter, Coco, who's eight and is my

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:26.279
<v Speaker 2>dear friend. We like to go out to see live

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 2>music together. Coco one day was like, when do you

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:30.960
<v Speaker 2>think you're going to have children? Just roughly, and I

0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't know, Coco, Like, you know, I'm

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:33.840
<v Speaker 2>twenty six, so I'd like to wait till I'm like

0:38:33.840 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 2>at least thirty. And she was like, at that point,

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.960
<v Speaker 2>I think you should not be working on girls. And

0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:40.480
<v Speaker 2>if you are working on girls, you're going to have

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:42.560
<v Speaker 2>to cut your hours down to like eight thirty to

0:38:42.680 --> 0:38:44.439
<v Speaker 2>six because you need to be able to be there

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:46.319
<v Speaker 2>when they wake up, and you also need to be

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:48.760
<v Speaker 2>there with them at nice issue. Yeah, and she, basically

0:38:48.800 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 2>an eight year old, started to school me in the

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 2>way that my lifestyle would not allow for children. She

0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:54.800
<v Speaker 2>was like, you know your boy My boyfriend's a musician

0:38:54.800 --> 0:38:56.319
<v Speaker 2>and he tours a lot. And she was like and

0:38:56.360 --> 0:38:58.319
<v Speaker 2>she was like, he might have to quit his job.

0:38:58.360 --> 0:38:59.320
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I don't think he's going to

0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:01.200
<v Speaker 2>quit his job. Well, that might be hard for you too.

0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:03.200
<v Speaker 2>You might have to really talk about it. And even

0:39:03.280 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 2>just now, I just adopted a dog and I was

0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:09.000
<v Speaker 2>really really it was like instead of just meeting a dog,

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:10.719
<v Speaker 2>thinking it was adorable and bringing it home. It was

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:13.000
<v Speaker 2>this tortured thing of like, am I gonna be able

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<v Speaker 2>to give it what it needs? And what if it

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<v Speaker 2>resents me? And at a certain point my mom, who

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<v Speaker 2>is really ready to play dog grandma and is playing

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<v Speaker 2>to spend a lot of time with the dog, was

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<v Speaker 2>like she was like, Lena, it's a fucking dog. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, it's at a certain point she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. I'm glad you're thinking it through, but like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not like adopting twins now.

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<v Speaker 1>Two things that I think are kind of connected, which

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<v Speaker 1>is how do men present themselves? You have a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to prior to your personal life,

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<v Speaker 1>but you how do men present themselves too differently? You

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<v Speaker 1>said that Hannah was this and that and a chubby

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<v Speaker 1>girl who did and now you're now the name Lena

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<v Speaker 1>Dunham means something else to people. How do men present

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<v Speaker 1>themselves to you now different from the way they used to?

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting. I mean, I'm so bad at knowing if

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<v Speaker 2>anybody's hitting on me, Like someone literally has to like

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<v Speaker 2>beat me on the head with a drumstick and me

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<v Speaker 2>back to their cave for me to understand that it's

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<v Speaker 2>going on, and then I would, and then they then,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I didn't hire Gloria Alred as my attorney.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah exactly. But you know, the thing is is that

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<v Speaker 2>sleazy people are attracted to and sleazy people and not

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<v Speaker 2>sleazy people are attracted to any sense of GRAVI toss

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<v Speaker 2>that someone might have. So so I definitely have had more.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I definitely have had felt less ignored by

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<v Speaker 2>the opposite sex. But I'm also so bad at perceiving

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<v Speaker 2>any of it. And so did you know your boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>liked to Well, we got set up on a blind date,

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<v Speaker 2>so I knew he liked well. I didn't know he

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<v Speaker 2>liked me, but he was predisposed. He was predisposed to

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<v Speaker 2>like me because what we were going on was a date.

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<v Speaker 2>And then that was a special situation because I went, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I think he likes me, and I like him, And.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me if you don't want answer this question, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just find it charming. Where did you go on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date with your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>We went to Blue Ribbon Bakery in the West Village.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason I was happy is because I find

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<v Speaker 2>picking a restaurant so anxiety producing, because I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because the lemma a burdens ass. It really is.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, what if I choose the wrong restaurant and

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<v Speaker 2>you have a bad association with it or you think

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>Poorly on me?

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, it's just the worst. And like what if we

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<v Speaker 2>go there and you don't like a brand muffin? Exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>it's stressful. So he said, before I even had to

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<v Speaker 2>say anything, he said, if it's stressful for you, I

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<v Speaker 2>can pick the restaurant. And I felt like, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to be in great hands.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you pick?

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<v Speaker 2>And then you picked Blue room Maker? And then I

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<v Speaker 2>ate a cheese and then I ordered a hamburger and

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<v Speaker 2>he said, I think you should get cheese on it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And you went, oh my god, I'm home.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's easy.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so glad you like, did my mom call

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<v Speaker 3>you for this date?

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<v Speaker 1>And let you know, cheese? I like Yarlsburg exactly, somebody

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<v Speaker 1>suggesting burger and then and then and now you've been

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<v Speaker 1>dating it for a while, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Like almost a year. It's been. He's a very very

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<v Speaker 2>great person.

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<v Speaker 1>To meet you and tell me if I'm onto something here.

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<v Speaker 1>You seem like someone that regardless of what you look

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<v Speaker 1>like or didn't look like, or what you had or

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have. Whoever you were, you have a very very

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<v Speaker 1>healthy and kind of guileless sense of who you are

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<v Speaker 1>and you present it yourself to people your entire life,

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<v Speaker 1>going this is who I am, and if you like me, great,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you don't, there's another six point five billion

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<v Speaker 1>people out there to go for it. Am I right?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's the most stress to me. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>most lovely way of putting it. I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I think I always had a feeling like if you

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<v Speaker 2>just stick around and continue to be yourself, the correct

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<v Speaker 2>people will find you. And that's something that's been so

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful about the show is that it kind of confirmed

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<v Speaker 2>that for me, which is not everyone watches it, but

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<v Speaker 2>the people who watch it understand it. And that feeling

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you've had this before of uniting with your

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<v Speaker 2>appropriate audience and sort of uniting with your people is

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<v Speaker 2>like about as comforting as feelings get.

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<v Speaker 1>You too, can unite comfortably with Lena Dunham over the

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<v Speaker 1>unique discomfort of being a woman in your twenties. Today.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls is on Sunday nights on HBO. I'm ac Baldwin,

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