WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Amy

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<v Speaker 1>Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Listener Q and

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<v Speaker 1>a Mary. Almost Christmas. Everybody, Welcome to the Best Bits.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for tuning in on your holiday break. I assume

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<v Speaker 1>most of you guys are Amy is joining me this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you go check out part one, but Amy's

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<v Speaker 1>still here with me for part three. Amy, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Good? And right before we did part three, I just

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<v Speaker 2>ran up and down some stairs in the parking garage

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<v Speaker 2>to get something for lunchbox and I'm out of breath.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, I might need to work on

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<v Speaker 2>my cardio for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I also feel like when you're rush though, too,

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<v Speaker 1>you just get out of breath a lot quicker and

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<v Speaker 1>your body's moving very fast.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, there's a lot of factors involved. I definitely

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm like, Okay, I know I'm taking care

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<v Speaker 2>of myself and I'm in good shape, but whatever just happened,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm oh, maybe it's just time for a break.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, it's definitely time for a break, which we

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<v Speaker 1>are going to have, but first we have to answer

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<v Speaker 1>some questions. Okay, We're It was some shout outs, though,

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<v Speaker 1>love you both so much. I look up to you all.

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<v Speaker 1>This is from Live in DC.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks Live.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Amy's new hair. Just a shout out from Kristin.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you. I'm trying to get used to it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like that much different. But I did have

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<v Speaker 2>hair extensions even in my short hair, which is weird

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes for people to be like, wait, why with the

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<v Speaker 2>short because I had them when they were long, and

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<v Speaker 2>then when I cut my hair, I just cut them,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I had really short hair extensions, which did

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<v Speaker 2>make it fuller. But anyway, I didn't realize how much

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<v Speaker 2>blonde was in some of the extensions. And this is

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<v Speaker 2>not a big deal at all, but it's just one

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<v Speaker 2>of those things where she took them out and then

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get my hair colored or anything. I'm like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>now I have short hair, and it's just really brown.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it your natural hair color?

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty much? I mean, there's still some highlights in here,

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<v Speaker 2>but not like the pops of blonde that I think

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<v Speaker 2>kind of wake you up or me up.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that you were naturally like that brunette.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's dark.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I see like your eyebrows. I guess your

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<v Speaker 1>sister iste, isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>She Yeah, she's almost like dark dark dark brown to black.

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<v Speaker 2>And my mom was same way. My dad was the

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<v Speaker 2>had the lighter hair. So have you always died your

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<v Speaker 2>hair blonde?

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<v Speaker 1>This is audit tangent.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I've done really dark brown to black before all over.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's been in my ful gosh, twenty years

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<v Speaker 2>ago or so. When I first joined the show a

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<v Speaker 2>long time ago, it was like really really dark.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've only known you up until like recently,

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<v Speaker 1>when you were kind of doing more than natural or

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<v Speaker 1>the ombre. Most of the time, I think I've known

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<v Speaker 1>you. You had blonde hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well my own bray look right now, is gray

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<v Speaker 2>hair coming through on the top. They're gonna be sober

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<v Speaker 2>fox maybe maybe, but it is very freeing. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if any of you have had extensions. The first

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<v Speaker 2>time I ever got them put in was after my

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<v Speaker 2>mom died. My hair started falling out like I had long,

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<v Speaker 2>thick hair, and I think that's the most stress that

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<v Speaker 2>I had felt. I don't know. It was just a

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<v Speaker 2>very stressful time with her death, and then my eating

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<v Speaker 2>sort of came back like all the same time, so

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<v Speaker 2>I think my body was freaking out a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>and it's healthier now. But I got so used to

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<v Speaker 2>the extensions it was hard to get rid of them.

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<v Speaker 2>But now that they're out, it is so freeing, like

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<v Speaker 2>I take a brush through my hair. So that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I say, if anybody's ever had them, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about, Where you can just take a brush

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<v Speaker 2>through your entire scalp and not worry about anything getting

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<v Speaker 2>caught tugging on there. It feels very freeing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh good, Okay, Well, thanks Kristin. That's a sweet shout out.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that was probably an unexpect That was a shout out,

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<v Speaker 2>not a question, So that's okay. I rambled.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we were talking about hair. No questions. Just want

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<v Speaker 1>to say I love your podcast and the show. Sadie

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<v Speaker 1>from Ohio. Thanks Sadie, amazing. Okay, getting into questions now,

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<v Speaker 1>Any Haitian traditions you incorporate into your holidays Merry Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>from Gin.

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<v Speaker 2>No traditions that the kids remember and want to bring in.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if there are any. We do it

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<v Speaker 2>throughout the year. Just a couple of weeks ago, we

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<v Speaker 2>went to our Haitian spot here in Nashville and picked

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<v Speaker 2>up food to go, and we go home and we

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<v Speaker 2>have Haiti Night, our Haitian night, and you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>try to just talk about Haiti as much as possible,

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<v Speaker 2>talk about their families. I think it would be natural

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<v Speaker 2>for me if it's Mother's Day, Father's Day, not as

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<v Speaker 2>much Father's Day, because they really don't ever talk about

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<v Speaker 2>their dads. They just talk about their moms. And I

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<v Speaker 2>know who their moms are. I do not know who

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<v Speaker 2>their dads are, but I would say Christmas family time,

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<v Speaker 2>it may bring up thoughts for them. So we just

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<v Speaker 2>try to talk about it all the time so that

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<v Speaker 2>it's not difficult if it comes up during more sensitive times.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they were so young, like when they were in Haiti,

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<v Speaker 1>do they have any Christmas traditions that they were not doing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we don't have any that we have to carry.

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<v Speaker 2>The main thing for them is the food. They love

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<v Speaker 2>the food, so I try to make sure just you're

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<v Speaker 2>around to have that. Or if we're having a family

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<v Speaker 2>meal around the table for the holidays, like I would

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<v Speaker 2>imagine next week we'll be at my sister's, I could

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<v Speaker 2>see us doing some fried plantains or making some rice

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<v Speaker 2>and beans to go along with the Christmas meal, because

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<v Speaker 2>that's what they would enjoy with certain spices and seasonings

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<v Speaker 2>that they love.

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<v Speaker 1>I was wondering what those recipes would be, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure what Haitian food is specifically like to them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a specific set of spices that they're used to.

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<v Speaker 2>But even the ones that I have bought here in

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<v Speaker 2>America that are the same thing come from a Haitian

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<v Speaker 2>cookbook that I have from our Haitian friend Mark that

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<v Speaker 2>lives here. He made a little cookbook. And we do

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<v Speaker 2>have Haitian friends too that will all have cook because

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<v Speaker 2>they know exactly what they're doing. But picking it up

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<v Speaker 2>at the Haitian restaurant is also really good. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll make it with seasonings that I buy here. And

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<v Speaker 2>my daughter is still She's like, this is just not

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<v Speaker 2>the same. The spices they have to come from Haiti.

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<v Speaker 1>I do wonder because we, I mean, we americanize everything,

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<v Speaker 1>So I do wonder if we americanize those spices a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit so they don't taste quite the same.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's just in her I think it could

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<v Speaker 2>be in her mind, but I respect the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>also sometimes it's just that Haitian touch yeah, and maybe you.

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<v Speaker 1>Add a little bit of this and a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of that.

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<v Speaker 2>And you don't necessarily tell anybody. Yeah, so then it's like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is why it tastes so good. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>try to do it year round. But there's no specific traditions.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's fun. I love you're gonna shout out the

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<v Speaker 1>Haitian restaurant just in cases, I'll try and.

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<v Speaker 2>Look it up on my phone because I don't, I will, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>keep talking and then I'll pull it up. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>from one of those ghost kitchens. Oh right around the corner. Nice,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's not too far from here. And you go

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<v Speaker 2>and you enter stuff in on a screen and there's

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<v Speaker 2>all different types of.

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<v Speaker 1>Food ordered from ghost kitchens on like uber Eats. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't realize there was also like ghost minus.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, you can show up a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>picking up or working for Uber eats or door Dash,

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<v Speaker 2>but if you just want to go there, you can

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<v Speaker 2>enter it in on the screen and there's a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of lockers and you get a locker code and it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you get locker five and it gives you

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<v Speaker 2>a thing. You put your phone up to it and

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<v Speaker 2>the locker opens and whila, there's all this Haitian food

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<v Speaker 2>sitting there. You don't ever see a human that's wild.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want Italian, if you want like there,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want name it Chinese, Jeff, like, there's so

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<v Speaker 2>many options there, or even like a burger, I'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>you where it is, OK, but let me look up

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<v Speaker 2>the restaurant we're going to go.

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<v Speaker 1>To, Stephanie. She wants to know how you really feel

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<v Speaker 1>about Lunchbox's Christmas gift that he gave you for our

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<v Speaker 1>annual Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>The eye candy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, it's on brand, like it tracks. It's funny, it's Lunchbox,

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<v Speaker 2>so I get it. And his wife was literally with

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<v Speaker 2>him when he picked it out, And.

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<v Speaker 1>That does make it not so creepy yet, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because she probably picked it out and just handed it

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<v Speaker 1>to him.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I can laugh at things like it's not

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<v Speaker 2>I think some people might really not like that at all,

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<v Speaker 2>but I I'm not married anymore. I know that Ben

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<v Speaker 2>did not like that kind of stuff when we were married.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Lunchbox did that probably fifteen sixteen years ago

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<v Speaker 2>or so. He gave me like candy underwear, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think it was my first like it was my anniversary

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe my first Christmas after being married a year,

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<v Speaker 2>and Lunchbox like gifted me all kinds of edible things

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<v Speaker 2>and he's like, you know, you got to keep this

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<v Speaker 2>bark alive. It's I don't know, he's funny like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Ben did not think it was funny though, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was still very new to the show and very new

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<v Speaker 2>to understanding Lunchbox, and same with Ben. And he was

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<v Speaker 2>out of the country a lot, so he didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>listen to the show and he didn't understand. And we

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<v Speaker 2>were in our twenties, so think of Lunchbox now multiply

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<v Speaker 2>that by twenty oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine he was completely unhinged totally. And because

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<v Speaker 1>he was, he also wasn't married Ben.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, he was staying out all night. You can only imagine.

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<v Speaker 2>We were on a pop station, so things were.

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<v Speaker 1>A little less family friendly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Favorite Christmas memory from your childhood Ashley in Arizona.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'll answer that, and real quick. It's Chez Lama

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<v Speaker 2>Haitian cuisine. Oh nice, and it's Midtown Foods is the

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<v Speaker 2>ghost Kitchen situation? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, people love National recommendations, and I'm sure there's people

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<v Speaker 1>that want Haitian recommendations, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah maybe or any other yeah type of food

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<v Speaker 2>because they have it all. Okay, so uh was the

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<v Speaker 2>question again?

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<v Speaker 1>Favorite Christmas memory from childhood.

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<v Speaker 2>If anybody ever questions if I have ADHD it's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably the year I got a microphone from my grandma.

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<v Speaker 2>We were in Birmingham, Alabama. All my cousins were over.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone got something musical, like do you know somebody got drums?

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody got this. So my sister and my three cousins

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<v Speaker 2>we formed a band and my microphone was yellow and

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<v Speaker 2>had a stand and we performed Cocomo by the Beach Boys.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you still sing Cocomo right?

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<v Speaker 2>Like a Ruba Jamaica? Ooh, I wanna take it to

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<v Speaker 2>Bermuda Bahama Come, I'm Freddy, Mama, key Largo, montego baby

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<v Speaker 2>Ladle we go down to cocame Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't know, No, I didn't know the song.

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<v Speaker 2>So the faster them, We'll take it slow, that's where

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<v Speaker 2>we wanna go.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys all tell your grandma collectively that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to form a band or what was this music instrument?

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<v Speaker 2>Situation. Maybe it was her idea. She was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I'll just get them all something and then they

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<v Speaker 2>can play. That'll give them something to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and probably get your guys to bond to. That

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<v Speaker 1>was probably something. Oh that's super sweet. How old were

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<v Speaker 1>you roughly roughly seven maybe and you still remember that?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, core memory?

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<v Speaker 1>Then I feel like it's the core memories you remember. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember much from my childhood, which that's a

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<v Speaker 2>whole nother thing, but yes, I remember.

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<v Speaker 1>That, Okay, core memory. Shout out Grandma. Kaylie would like

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<v Speaker 1>to know what kind of cat is Maggie Ballanese. How

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<v Speaker 1>is Maggie doing.

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<v Speaker 2>She's doing great, except for she did throw up yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why, but she seemed okay. It was

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<v Speaker 2>just one time, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Cats always throw up its hair balls. She was fine.

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<v Speaker 2>So Cara threw up the other day too, But I

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<v Speaker 2>know why. She ate a bunch of coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>So she ate a bunch of coffee like coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, someone had given me a gift here at work,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a bag of coffee and I had

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<v Speaker 2>it on the counter because i'd unpacked the box. And

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<v Speaker 2>I left the room for a little bit, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I find the coffee. She didn't need the whole bag

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<v Speaker 2>or anything. I think she figured out pretty quickly this

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<v Speaker 2>is not good.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't that taste it?

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<v Speaker 2>At least it came out, Yeah, came out. But Maggie's good.

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<v Speaker 2>A Balinese is a long haired Siamese.

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<v Speaker 1>She's cross eyed. How much is Maggie way?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't know, probably more than she should.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say that. The reason I asked this is Hazel,

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<v Speaker 1>my cat is so small, and I try everything. She

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<v Speaker 1>eats three times eight, like all day she has food,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's seven pounds.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think her fur is less.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's not long haired. She's short haired.

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<v Speaker 2>So even Kara, for example, she's a labberdoodle, and so

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<v Speaker 2>when she is shaved down, she looks like a skinny

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<v Speaker 2>little rat dog. But when her coat is grown out,

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<v Speaker 2>even just an inch or inch and a half, she

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<v Speaker 2>looks like the fluffiest, biggest dog you've ever seen. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think for Maggie, since she's long haired, she looks

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<v Speaker 2>fluffier and bigger than she is.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever given Maggie bath?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes I have. I don't know that she likes it,

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<v Speaker 2>but yes I have, especially when we were first learning

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<v Speaker 2>how to use the little robot, she did not like

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<v Speaker 2>that thing. And I see people rave about the little robots,

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<v Speaker 2>so I was very excited to get it, and it

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<v Speaker 2>did not work for our family. I had to sell

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<v Speaker 2>it because she can figure it out. So now I

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<v Speaker 2>just use a regular litter box and we are happy

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<v Speaker 2>as a clam. But that thing, she was ending up

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<v Speaker 2>with stuff all over her, and so I would want

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<v Speaker 2>to bathe her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, people you want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Cause a little controversy on Instagram or whatever social media

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<v Speaker 2>platform you choose, people do not understand or like if

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<v Speaker 2>you bathe the cat. I mean some people get it

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<v Speaker 2>and they're fine, but that will get some attention. And

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<v Speaker 2>people are just like what cats clean themselves? And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>yes to a certain extent, but cats.

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<v Speaker 1>Also are They're still animals and they'll still get dirty,

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<v Speaker 1>and they still have moments. Hazel's been baits, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>I had them tod that one time and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a scene from a movie. I was in my

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<v Speaker 1>shower and she was up on the walls and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, this is not going well. The Bobby had

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<v Speaker 1>gifted me like a two or three Christmas exchanges ago,

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<v Speaker 1>like this mobile pet spa and randomly like they'll always

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<v Speaker 1>come like once a month to bathe Remmy because Remy

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<v Speaker 1>needs a good little blowout. But every so often, like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you guys bathe Hazel? And they will, and Hazel,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, just sits calmly in the bathroom them and

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<v Speaker 1>they just like and she They're like, she's literally the

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<v Speaker 1>most well behaved cat ever, Like that was not my experience.

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<v Speaker 1>This is rude.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, they do make little sacks you can put

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<v Speaker 2>them in that help them feel like safe and contain

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<v Speaker 2>while you're making like a mesh sack. And then also

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<v Speaker 2>I have used a groomer before, only twice in the

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<v Speaker 2>entire time that we've had her, which has been several

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<v Speaker 2>years now, but her hair got really madded in the back.

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<v Speaker 2>With long hair, you do have to brush a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>and with the oil build up it if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>brush often, which we're not always the best at, it'll

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<v Speaker 2>build up into these little knots. And there's nothing I

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<v Speaker 2>could do. And I felt bad because I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 2>that's painful on her. Yeah, I've used a groomer and

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there's nothing like it. She looks beautiful when

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<v Speaker 2>they get done with her, and I'm like, well, but

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<v Speaker 2>I am not paying to have my cat bait. Sorry, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like a lot. I will every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say every once in a while. That Hazel's

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<v Speaker 1>like once a year maybe if she really needs it

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<v Speaker 1>or something. It's more just like on a random occasion. Remy,

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, needs one more Quite often.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, Remy so small, you just throw in

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<v Speaker 2>the sink. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I bathe her a lot, too, but it's like she

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<v Speaker 1>needs a good blowout because she won't let me blow

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<v Speaker 1>dry her hair and her fur needs to be pulled

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<v Speaker 1>off of her body, especially when I'm about to like

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<v Speaker 1>shave her down, and so I always have them blow

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<v Speaker 1>her out and then I do the her actual grooming.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Okay, it's a whole process skill set there.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you had.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's not a professional. Like anybody who would

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<v Speaker 1>ever ask me to be like, can you groom my?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, I'm not. I just I can be

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<v Speaker 1>content with what Remy looks like when I do it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Versus if somebody else, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a professional. I definitely don't have the skill

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<v Speaker 1>set to like make her look like she would from

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<v Speaker 1>a groomer. Right, It's just for her to survive, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it looks good. Okay, we're gonna take a quick break.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back. Everybody's always asking for Nashville recommendation,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can share these of mine first and it

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<v Speaker 1>can make you think. But we had a woman want

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<v Speaker 1>to know best places in Nashville for a business lunch

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner. So maybe think of some places you've been

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<v Speaker 1>for the two that I would come up with for lunch. Postina,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a new spot in twelve South. They have

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<v Speaker 1>these amazing different boards from Cheeseboard, Duhummas Board, and they

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<v Speaker 1>do a fun little happy hour with those boards and

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<v Speaker 1>wine and stuff, and it's a cool vibe. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's such a cool spot for a work lunch

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<v Speaker 1>while also being a little bit fun. And then dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd say sixty Vines because sixty Vines is elegant, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's upscale American and it's also friendly.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you feel like for a business meeting though it's

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<v Speaker 2>a little crowded and loud. I don't know what type

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<v Speaker 2>of business meeting we're having here, so I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 2>to say, like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Having a business meeting and a thing. You need a vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. Oh, I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>I love going there, but I'm thinking, like it's just

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<v Speaker 2>so crap because there's so much happening and it's right

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<v Speaker 2>off Broadway. It's definitely fun. I'm just trying to think and.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I have different ideas for business dinners. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I want us both to share.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I know, well, maybe by the time it's dinner time,

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<v Speaker 2>they're just really trying to hang out and get along.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like every time I'm there, so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what'd you say? What? See?

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<v Speaker 1>That's also good for too. That's why she's Blanco, because

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<v Speaker 1>Blanco for me is even loud. So it's funny that

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<v Speaker 1>you say sixty vines because they're like, oh, that one's

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<v Speaker 1>formally okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe you need to figure out if Audrey is

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<v Speaker 2>open for lunch. Have you been there yet in East Nashville.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but I have heard good things about it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an amazing My goodness, it's amazing. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>that I would say it's a lunch place. And then

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<v Speaker 2>it also depends on what you're trying to spend because

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<v Speaker 2>more taking people out. Yes, it's a little nice. It's

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<v Speaker 2>more of like a date night spot, so scratch that.

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<v Speaker 2>But Henrietta Red is also so good and cozy. But

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I have good like take a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of people. How do you know? I was just

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<v Speaker 2>thinking Barcelona is so good, But I don't know that

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<v Speaker 2>that's a good Barcelona being.

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<v Speaker 1>A spot that could be good for lunch because that

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<v Speaker 1>does get wild and a little bit louder at night,

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<v Speaker 1>but they have good lunch. Okay, so maybe lunch spot Barcelona.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I don't know that I made that helpful. We

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<v Speaker 2>eat out of Chipotle.

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<v Speaker 1>Chipotle is also a good spot for lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you couldn't get that anywhere, so she went

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<v Speaker 2>to Nashville spots. So maybe as we continue talking, I

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<v Speaker 2>might think of something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. We have Melissa in California who would like the

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<v Speaker 1>best tip for balancing a career in kiddos. She is

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<v Speaker 1>always feeling guilty.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, the best tip is there is no balance. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>I've learned that from multiple people that have talked about it.

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<v Speaker 2>The most famous one for sure would be Shonda Rhimes,

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<v Speaker 2>the TV creator producer, director, all the things. She said

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<v Speaker 2>it best, and I'm paraphrasing here, but you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>she's out doing something for Grey's Anatomy, she's inevitably missing

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<v Speaker 2>something for her children. And if she's with her children,

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<v Speaker 2>then she's missing someone's last scene in a show that

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<v Speaker 2>she's been working on forever. So there's give and take,

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't think you need to feel guilty. You

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<v Speaker 2>just need to say, in order for me to do

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<v Speaker 2>this part of my life and pursue this part of

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<v Speaker 2>my dream, I am going to have to miss out

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<v Speaker 2>on other parts of my dream. So your kids are

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<v Speaker 2>important to you, and your job is important to you,

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<v Speaker 2>and there really is no balance to that. There's just

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<v Speaker 2>decisions that you have to make, and then you have

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<v Speaker 2>to surrender and release that guilt because it's doing you

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<v Speaker 2>no favors carrying it around. Now, if you're in a

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<v Speaker 2>position where you are literally having to choose work all

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<v Speaker 2>of the time and you're missing everything with your kids,

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<v Speaker 2>then okay, there's room for some guilt, maybe reflection on

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<v Speaker 2>how can we remedy this. But if you're doing the

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<v Speaker 2>best you can to make a hard to make a choice,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's going to be hard. Then that's where it's at,

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<v Speaker 2>and you got to surrender the guilt.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's really good advice. Also, I didn't know that

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<v Speaker 1>about Shonda. That's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she did a commencement speech a while back. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it was maybe even the college she went to,

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<v Speaker 2>but you can look it up on YouTube. Watch the

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<v Speaker 2>entire thing. It's brilliant. She did a great job. She's

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<v Speaker 2>a wonderful speaker, and it really resonated with me. And

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<v Speaker 2>since then, I've heard a lot of other people say

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<v Speaker 2>a similar message and something that they've adopted for their

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<v Speaker 2>own life. But I think that that's what we have

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<v Speaker 2>to do. Like, you can't carry that type of guilt.

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<v Speaker 2>You just have to know like you're doing the best

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<v Speaker 2>that you can and you're living out multiple dreams. Like

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<v Speaker 2>if you've wanted to be a good mom and you're

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<v Speaker 2>getting to do that, that's amazing. If you've wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>pursue this career and you're getting to do that, that's

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<v Speaker 2>also amazing. You just got to make hard decisions sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>but release the guilt. Like I've missed stuff before and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, uh, but then I try to be in

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<v Speaker 2>the moment. I don't want to miss out on where

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<v Speaker 2>I am in that present moment because I'm carrying around

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<v Speaker 2>this guilt. But it's okay to be sad and grieve

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<v Speaker 2>that I can't be there. And then there's times where

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<v Speaker 2>I've said no to work for family, not even just

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<v Speaker 2>my kids. I know that there was a time that

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<v Speaker 2>I missed iHeart Festival in Vegas, which is very rare.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've been to that every single time except

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<v Speaker 2>for one year. My dad was really sick and he

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<v Speaker 2>was in Nashville and I was his primary caregiver and

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<v Speaker 2>I just thought, oh, I think it was like the

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<v Speaker 2>day before, I was like, there's no way I can leave.

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<v Speaker 2>And being with my dad was clearly the right decision.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew it. It was hard to call Jen, our boss,

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<v Speaker 2>and say, hey, I know everything's already booked and y'all

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<v Speaker 2>have me scheduled for interviews and I but I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>And I backed out. And that was a hard decision

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<v Speaker 2>but also the right decision. And again it's it's not balance,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just making hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Always coming in with the wisdom on things.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's from other people.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that was really good. Okay, speaking of wisdom, we

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<v Speaker 1>have a last piece here, so we have Laura who

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<v Speaker 1>would really like to get a four Things tope for

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<v Speaker 1>her fourth kid, but she had gotten one for all

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<v Speaker 1>of her kids before that. Unfortunately, she lost her kid

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<v Speaker 1>three days after he was born. As she put he

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<v Speaker 1>grew his wings. So she still wants to get one

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<v Speaker 1>to commemorate that fourth kids. So she's trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what she should put on the fourth like the

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<v Speaker 1>tote the words, so we can brainstorm here together for her,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe some ideas, some words that she can put on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that if you look at what the

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<v Speaker 2>other totes are for the kids, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>their names are on it, so a name would be

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<v Speaker 2>one spot if that is the case. If not, what

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<v Speaker 2>words bring you comfort when you think of him and

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<v Speaker 2>his situation. I don't really honestly know what would be

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<v Speaker 2>comforting about that at all, because it's one of the

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<v Speaker 2>most difficult things ever. I do try to look in

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<v Speaker 2>at the the gain, and I don't know what you

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<v Speaker 2>have gained as a mom going through something so terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>There's strength, there's tenacity, there's perseverance, there's so many emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it could be another word because there's

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<v Speaker 1>so much love there for them. That's like a hopeful word.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, yeah, I think this is a really I know

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<v Speaker 2>this is a hard testical question. I guess I could,

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<v Speaker 2>but I saw it some more time on and come

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<v Speaker 2>up with something meaningful. But I would just maybe dream

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<v Speaker 2>up to what you thought he might be like, and

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<v Speaker 2>if there's a word that could describe that, like if

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<v Speaker 2>you just sometimes you just know, like I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what number of child it is, is a fourth yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so fourth child, the youngest. We're normally a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>I see Amy and I can both speak to that,

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<v Speaker 2>and so you may know some of his personality traits

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<v Speaker 2>just based on the fact that he is your fourth child.

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<v Speaker 2>And if there's a verse or scripture. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if faith is a part of your life, but I

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<v Speaker 2>guess just if something has brought you comfort, a quote

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<v Speaker 2>or a verse pulling from that, but I know a

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<v Speaker 2>full quote is not going to fit because there's a

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<v Speaker 2>character limit for each thing. But like my mom's joy,

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<v Speaker 2>like when she was going through cancer, joy was her motto,

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<v Speaker 2>but it came from Niamiah eight ten, the joy of

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<v Speaker 2>the Lord is my strength. So for example, on my

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<v Speaker 2>mom's so we might put Niamiah eight ten and that

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<v Speaker 2>was some of that. So if there is a verse

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<v Speaker 2>or a poem or a quote or a book or

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<v Speaker 2>anything like that that brought you comfort, you can incorporate

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<v Speaker 2>that somehow with one of the more powerful words or

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<v Speaker 2>the title or the passage.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, these are really good. I know this was a

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<v Speaker 1>hard one, but I saw it come through and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I feel like we have to help her

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<v Speaker 1>with this one, just because or even hard to think

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<v Speaker 1>of right now.

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<v Speaker 2>You know the name, and then yes, there's other things

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<v Speaker 2>to describe him, but just brother because he's the brother

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<v Speaker 2>to the other siblings mm hm.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe a middle name because I imagine he had a

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<v Speaker 1>first and a middle name, so maybe both of his

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<v Speaker 1>names if you just feel like nothing is going to

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<v Speaker 1>suffice his names in scripture, and maybe a you know, love,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of other words for love, because

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<v Speaker 1>I love you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you can even write things out does it can

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<v Speaker 2>be an action. So that's another thing about the four

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<v Speaker 2>things totes is it could be one word or it

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<v Speaker 2>can be an action of we miss you, we love you,

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<v Speaker 2>You're precious, you are loved, and you know, yeah you

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<v Speaker 2>can kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of Okay, Well, I didn't want to end on that,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's where we are. Is there any We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna try and go to a different direction, just

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<v Speaker 1>to end on something. Did you have any other suggestions

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<v Speaker 1>for Nashville dinner lunch as we were talking, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know we did.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just you know what my brain is just it's

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<v Speaker 2>like the last few places that I've eaten, literally or Chipotle,

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<v Speaker 2>Audrey Henrietta Read and Barcelona, so like, those are the

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<v Speaker 2>things that come to my mind. I'm like, where else

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<v Speaker 2>have I gone? Or what do I like? What's that

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<v Speaker 2>place we went to for lunch that was so good?

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<v Speaker 2>We went to a business in Sadies, Mediterranean, right next

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<v Speaker 2>to Barcelona, and it's in edge Hill and it is

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<v Speaker 2>That's a cute little place.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a good one for a lunch or dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>They do both.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, there we go.

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<v Speaker 1>We got we ended on one. Okay, Well, Merry Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>like early Christmas, Happy holidays everybody, Amy, thanks for joining.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell the people where they can.

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<v Speaker 2>Find you all that good stuff at radio Amy, that's

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<v Speaker 2>the easiest place. I feel like sometimes I rattle off

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<v Speaker 2>like tons of stuff, but if you just go there,

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<v Speaker 2>there's links and all the things but podcast is Four

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<v Speaker 2>Things with Amy Brown and Yeah, I hope y'all have

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<v Speaker 2>the Christmas that you need to have.

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<v Speaker 1>Very good Merry Christmas everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye.

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