WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sneaker Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Second d of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What

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<v Speaker 1>do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>superhero and nothing else? Not a good look. Well, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the other

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<v Speaker 1>day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in

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<v Speaker 1>the story or is she? Or maybe you're both naked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was a good date. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I just made up the naked stuffsating. But apparently

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<v Speaker 1>shoes come into how they met each other. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the girl that you want us to call?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name

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<v Speaker 1>you use? No, how did shoes bring you guys together?

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<v Speaker 1>I use my shoe to kill a spider? You are there?

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<v Speaker 1>We go? So how did that happen? Set the scene

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<v Speaker 1>for us? Where were you did a coffee shot? Okay? Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was working on my laptop, just working on a

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<v Speaker 1>project for work, and there's a booth, you know, run

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<v Speaker 1>across from me, and I saw this spider crawling up

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<v Speaker 1>towards this woman like up the side of the booth,

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to go into her, and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a big one. It's a juicy one, and you scream,

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<v Speaker 1>not today, evil do her? I approached silent but deadley.

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<v Speaker 1>I did, okay, okay, and you got a cute girl's

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<v Speaker 1>attention on top of it. Yeah. I didn't know that's

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<v Speaker 1>what was happening at the time until yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that, yeah, she's an attractive woman who I

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<v Speaker 1>just saved, takes a life, get a number. So how

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<v Speaker 1>did you end up turning that into a day? We

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<v Speaker 1>talked him when she thanked me for what I did,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I sat back down. Then she came over

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<v Speaker 1>and asked me if she could buy me a coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>But I had coffee. I was sitting there working right,

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<v Speaker 1>So so I said, well, how about you know, some

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<v Speaker 1>time in the future. Okay, she gave me her number. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty smooth. That's sweet. So where did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>up going together? We went out to my favorite tie

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<v Speaker 1>places dinner. Yeah. Yeah, we didn't do coffee, that was

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<v Speaker 1>just the end, you know, But yeah, so we went

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<v Speaker 1>out for dinner. That's awesome, and it's always key to

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<v Speaker 1>take someone to like your favorite place. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the food's good. You know, the service is good, exactly. No,

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<v Speaker 1>the atmosphere it's fun. It's it's a nice place, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, yeah, a good place to talk. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was. It was really good. So the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I can think of is that I love this

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<v Speaker 1>place so much. And I'm a pretty big guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I eat a lot of food, and you know, tie food,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean chop sticks. Sometimes it can be a little

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<v Speaker 1>you're eating soup like tomm yum or something, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>can splash back and you can kind of make a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a mess of yourself, even if you're

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being cool. You know, Yeah, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>eat so I could like have a full meal before

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<v Speaker 1>she came, so I would be like pregamed and then

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<v Speaker 1>order something light with her and just sort of pick

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<v Speaker 1>at it while we talked. Okay, actually get that strategy.

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<v Speaker 1>You ate your entire meal before she even got there.

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<v Speaker 1>I ate an entire meal the first course. I can

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<v Speaker 1>put back. A lot of Thai food got me to right.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that soup, I like that a rice dish,

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<v Speaker 1>noodle dish. But like with her, I just had that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, pie a salad. So I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>eating something light. But when she arrived, was your table

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<v Speaker 1>all cleaned off? Yeah? Yeah, I had asked the guys

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<v Speaker 1>to reset it. I didn't want to see me weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I came from work, you know, so I was like hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>It might be kind of awkward for her, though, if

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<v Speaker 1>she's eating this big thie meal and you're not eating anything,

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<v Speaker 1>You're just watching her eat the entire time. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>could make her feel like she's being a glutton. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe that's it. That's the only thing I

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<v Speaker 1>can think of. It might have been weird. She mentioned,

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, why you really don't eat much? To you?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, You're like, it seemed weird that a guy

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<v Speaker 1>in my size wasn't eating anything but like a cream salad.

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<v Speaker 1>And you respond to that? Would you say? When she

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<v Speaker 1>said that, I'll just say that's how I roll, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>That's just how I felt. I like you, fatty, I

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<v Speaker 1>be a deal breaker for me because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I eat a lot. I surpised with a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't eating. Looking back, I should just have an appetizer

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<v Speaker 1>and then I eat like a just start with so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did dinner end? Was there like a kiss?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any romance? I'm not a kiss, but there

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<v Speaker 1>was some romance. We went for a walk afterwards, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we were holding hands form part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It was like a fun, kind of very

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<v Speaker 1>easy going into the evening. So when you left, you

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<v Speaker 1>had full thought that you guys were going to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again. Oh yeah, for sure? And what did she say? Do?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what was her last words? Uh? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>remember her exact class words, but she definitely was like, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this again, you know, like we'd way to

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<v Speaker 1>ask that, though I don't know what we what were

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<v Speaker 1>her last words for her final breath? You guys know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I think we left it on that

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<v Speaker 1>tone of like, we're going to do this again. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Okay, So how long has it been since

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<v Speaker 1>you last spoke to her? Oh? That's last time I

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<v Speaker 1>spoke to her. And I texted her and I called once.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not going to call more than one time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But I've texted to so I covered both

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<v Speaker 1>the channels, you know. Okay, But I mean, like, is

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<v Speaker 1>that a day ago? Is that a week ago? We

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<v Speaker 1>can ask yeah, and nothing neshing. Maybe it's true, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that spider's family came back and finished the job

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<v Speaker 1>took her. We're going to call us, okay check, Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she just remembered me killing it, and guys, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like this guy's kill. I don't like this day. Well

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<v Speaker 1>let's find out. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Trinity for you, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, thanks you guys. Okay, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, what good love story doesn't start with a

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<v Speaker 1>little murder, all of them. That's how one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan met a woman named Trinity by murdering a spider.

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<v Speaker 1>You're making it sound crawling up the booth in the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop where she was sitting. And that's why they

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<v Speaker 1>call him the eight legged Assassin. What happened to the

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<v Speaker 1>super super guy? They also call him sneaker boy during

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<v Speaker 1>the day at nice is the eight legged Assassin? See

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<v Speaker 1>I only have two legs the spider at age, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why. Here's the assassin in the chopped off his

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<v Speaker 1>own six legs in a rage. That's how the eight

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<v Speaker 1>legged Assassin rolls in surprise. He's not getting a callback

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan wants us to call a woman named Trinity who

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<v Speaker 1>he met at a coffee shop. They had a nice

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<v Speaker 1>date together, but afterwards she's completely ghosted and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a little over a week. So we're going to try

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<v Speaker 1>and help him out. Ryan. And how you feeling feeling good?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you feeling because you know your theory is that

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<v Speaker 1>because you pregamed with the whole meal before she arrived,

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<v Speaker 1>that she felt like a pig eating in front of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna come clean and tell her the truth

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<v Speaker 1>of what you did? Yeah? Well, if that's the issue,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, I'm not going to say it though they

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<v Speaker 1>legged assassin. You come out and say it for you,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Man? So I feel like we're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>call Trinity. Are you feeling ready? I am, okay excited. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get her on the line, I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that we'll hear what she has to say. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm gonna doll her number right now. Hello. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Trinity? Yes, it is hey, Trinity. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Hoping you have a second to talk with us? Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what is about her? This is about a date that

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<v Speaker 1>you went on recently with a guy who's known by

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<v Speaker 1>many names. Some call him some call him Sneaker Boys,

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<v Speaker 1>some call him the leg An Assassin, but Layman's people

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<v Speaker 1>would know him as Ryan. How many people are on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, I'm sorry, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't count. Yeah, somewhere between three and eight. There's four

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<v Speaker 1>of us. Okay, it's a radio show, Okay, Okay. The

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<v Speaker 1>reason why we're calling is because Ryan told us that

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<v Speaker 1>he went out with you the other night and said

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<v Speaker 1>he had a great time, but afterwards, you haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>responding to him, and he's a little bit confused about

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<v Speaker 1>why he called you guys about this. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed us and then we spoke to him about

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hanging out, and from our end, it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>really nice. Is that okay that he did. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just really excited about you, and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>you hadn't gotten back to him in like over a week. Um, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So he just it's a little bit of clarity about

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<v Speaker 1>why you ghosted all of a sudden. Oh, this is

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<v Speaker 1>like a little awkward. It's just weird to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>We went on one. It wasn't even I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I would call it even like a date. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't you call it a date? You went to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and you held hands. Honestly, I don't think he

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<v Speaker 1>should be talking to you guys about that, Like this

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<v Speaker 1>was a casual thing between two people. I'm kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in a relationship or something? I'm engaged? Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's okay. Are you happily engaged? Because it is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a weird thing to say yes to dinner with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I understand you're saying your intentions were pretty innocent,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just wanted to buy him a cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't this like a huge dinner plan. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, you know, I'll take your number, So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like okay, and I didn't think that much

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<v Speaker 1>of it. And then like he would like want to

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<v Speaker 1>grab a bite to eat, and I'm like sure, and

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<v Speaker 1>then like you know, it became like a sit down dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't even know we're gonna like sit anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't that formal. But how did your feel

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<v Speaker 1>how did your fiance not come up during conversation? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had a little bit of a rough time. We've

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<v Speaker 1>had a rough time. We've been engaged for a little

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<v Speaker 1>over a year now, so it's just been like an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward time, and so I did not want my ring

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Okay, No, I get this, Like sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>just you want to be friends with guys and they

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<v Speaker 1>always take it too far, interpreted it wrong. Maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean even if that is the case, Trinity, why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you just tell Ryan that, like you didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to ghost him? Well, I mean I can understand too.

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<v Speaker 1>How you know, she kind of didn't know that it

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<v Speaker 1>was happening that way. She was thinking it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a friendship. Yeah. Yeah, and you know, I never it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like a date, like we didn't kiss, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like romantic. Yeah. And traumatic experiences do bring people together

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<v Speaker 1>that and this might also be kind of a traumatic

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<v Speaker 1>experience because Ryan, I need to let you know, Trinity

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<v Speaker 1>has been on the other line listening this whole time

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid so, Ryan you there, Yeah, I'm here. Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you feeling. I'm feeling, like really disappointed because

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<v Speaker 1>that was like the best date I've been on in

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<v Speaker 1>a really long time. But it was a date. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was a dinner date. I mean friends can

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<v Speaker 1>go to dinner. Yeah, not stranger friends with the world,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with friends that you know totally. And I mean, like, Trinity,

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell your fiance that you were going out

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<v Speaker 1>with Ryan? Not before? Hi? Ryan, not beforehand, but after

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we had just I'm not going to say date,

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<v Speaker 1>after we had this dinner. I did talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>with my fiance. Yes, what did he have to say? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What's he happy about that? Note? This is a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a rough patch. We're okay. It's a little awkward

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Like it was just, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a bad timing. We've been fighting about how you know,

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<v Speaker 1>long we've been engaged, and yeah, so maybe there's I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling some things in the back of my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just wanted someone to talk to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Ryan, you were there. So I apologize for

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<v Speaker 1>giving you mixed messages. Were you just like testing it,

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<v Speaker 1>like let me see what it feels like to be

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<v Speaker 1>out with another guy, and then you realize you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like it and went right back to your engagement. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I did not enjoy it. Yeah, I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>it at the time, and I just had a guilty

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<v Speaker 1>conscience after, But yeah, I enjoyed it. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>were engaged, do you go out with Ryan again? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you trying to do? What? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're not You're going through a rough patch. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of thinking to do right now and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of re evaluating where you're at with your relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that has anything to do with Ryan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your own thing. Yeah, I agree. I mean, Trinity

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<v Speaker 1>is your fiance somebody that you live with currently. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't live together. Oh oh okay, where does he live?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't live in the same city. We're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a long distance right now. That makes

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<v Speaker 1>way more sense. Why this all happens. When are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys moving to be with each other? Um, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>good question of the drama. So I feel she's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to delete your phone number any time soon. Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a tough situation where it's like you feel

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<v Speaker 1>the connection between these two, but you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>break up an engagement. Absolutely, they're both okay with it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the fiance doesn't have to know what show Alexa.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we can't really send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>a romantic date, not officially, but we could send you out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. Yeah, I don't think I'm feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that well, what about this ron? What what if? Would

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<v Speaker 1>it be okay? If Trinity calls you, if she needs

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to talk to. I wouldn't say that was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would say if we saw each other in

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee shop, it would be nice. If she said hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like, okay, okay. If there's a spider inside her apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay? If if it's a poisonous spider, I

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<v Speaker 1>will help her. Yes, there we all right, I'll bring

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<v Speaker 1>the shoe sho Okay, look at you with your good boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just this point because this literally first date I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on that wasn't on an app in forever, Rarely

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. You're so after this, we're just gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>killing insects everywhere. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.