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Speaker 1: Second d of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What

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Speaker 1: do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers. Oh,

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Speaker 1: superhero and nothing else? Not a good look. Well, apparently

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the other

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Speaker 1: day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a good date. I

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Speaker 1: think I just made up the naked stuffsating. But apparently

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Speaker 1: shoes come into how they met each other. What's the

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Speaker 1: name of the girl that you want us to call?

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Speaker 1: Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name

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Speaker 1: you use? No, how did shoes bring you guys together?

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Speaker 1: I use my shoe to kill a spider? You are there?

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Speaker 1: We go? So how did that happen? Set the scene

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Speaker 1: for us? Where were you did a coffee shot? Okay? Okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: I was working on my laptop, just working on a

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Speaker 1: not today, evil do her? I approached silent but deadley.

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Speaker 1: I did, okay, okay, and you got a cute girl's

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Speaker 1: But I had coffee. I was sitting there working right,

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Speaker 1: pretty smooth. That's sweet. So where did you guys end

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Speaker 1: up going together? We went out to my favorite tie

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Speaker 1: the food's good. You know, the service is good, exactly. No,

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Speaker 1: the atmosphere it's fun. It's it's a nice place, but

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Speaker 1: and it was. It was really good. So the only

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Speaker 1: You ate your entire meal before she even got there.

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Speaker 1: I ate an entire meal the first course. I can

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Speaker 1: you last spoke to her? Oh? That's last time I

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Speaker 1: But I'm not going to call more than one time,

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Speaker 1: you know. But I've texted to so I covered both

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Speaker 1: we'll call Trinity for you, and we'll try and get

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Speaker 1: hold on, what good love story doesn't start with a

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Speaker 1: the day at nice is the eight legged Assassin? See

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Speaker 1: all right? Man? So I feel like we're ready to

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Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna doll her number right now. Hello. Hey,

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Speaker 1: is this Trinity? Yes, it is hey, Trinity. My name

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Speaker 1: is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Hoping you have a second to talk with us? Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what is about her? This is about a date that

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Speaker 1: many names. Some call him some call him Sneaker Boys,

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't you call it a date? You went to

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Speaker 1: then like you know, it became like a sit down dinner.

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't that formal. But how did your feel

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Speaker 1: how did your fiance not come up during conversation? Well,

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Speaker 1: I've had a little bit of a rough time. We've

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Speaker 1: had a rough time. We've been engaged for a little

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Speaker 1: over a year now, so it's just been like an

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Speaker 1: that night. Okay, No, I get this, Like sometimes you

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Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid so, Ryan you there, Yeah, I'm here. Ryan.

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Speaker 1: What are you feeling. I'm feeling, like really disappointed because

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Speaker 1: mean it was a dinner date. I mean friends can

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Speaker 1: dinner with friends that you know totally. And I mean, like, Trinity,

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Speaker 1: did you tell your fiance that you were going out

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Speaker 1: with Ryan? Not before? Hi? Ryan, not beforehand, but after

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Speaker 1: you know, we had just I'm not going to say date,

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Speaker 1: after we had this dinner. I did talk about it

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Speaker 1: What's he happy about that? Note? This is a bit

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Speaker 1: of a rough patch. We're okay. It's a little awkward

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Speaker 1: like I just wanted someone to talk to you, and

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Speaker 1: you know, Ryan, you were there. So I apologize for

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Speaker 1: giving you mixed messages. Were you just like testing it,

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Speaker 1: like it and went right back to your engagement. Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean I did not enjoy it. Yeah, I enjoyed

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Speaker 1: were engaged, do you go out with Ryan again? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What are you trying to do? What? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: Like you're not You're going through a rough patch. You've

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Speaker 1: I don't think that has anything to do with Ryan. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: is your fiance somebody that you live with currently. No,

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Speaker 1: we don't live together. Oh oh okay, where does he live?

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Speaker 1: We don't live in the same city. We're doing a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a long distance right now. That makes

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Speaker 1: way more sense. Why this all happens. When are you

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Speaker 1: guys moving to be with each other? Um, it's a

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Speaker 1: good question of the drama. So I feel she's not

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Speaker 1: going to delete your phone number any time soon. Ryan.

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Speaker 1: This is a tough situation where it's like you feel

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Speaker 1: break up an engagement. Absolutely, they're both okay with it.

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Speaker 1: You know, the fiance doesn't have to know what show Alexa.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we can't really send you guys out on

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Speaker 1: a romantic date, not officially, but we could send you out.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Yeah, I don't think I'm feeling

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Speaker 1: that well, what about this ron? What what if? Would

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Speaker 1: it be okay? If Trinity calls you, if she needs

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Speaker 1: somebody to talk to. I wouldn't say that was okay,

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Speaker 1: but I would say if we saw each other in

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Speaker 1: the coffee shop, it would be nice. If she said hello,

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Speaker 1: I'd like, okay, okay. If there's a spider inside her apartment,

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Speaker 1: is it okay? If if it's a poisonous spider, I

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Speaker 1: will help her. Yes, there we all right, I'll bring

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Speaker 1: the shoe sho Okay, look at you with your good boundaries.

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Speaker 1: It's just this point because this literally first date I've

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Speaker 1: been on that wasn't on an app in forever, Rarely

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Speaker 1: that happened. You're so after this, we're just gonna be

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Speaker 1: killing insects everywhere. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.