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Speaker 1: That was it. But we have this place that we

426
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: love called um Mother's Ruin here in Nashville, and um

427
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: it has been open through the pandemic and it's the

428
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 1: one place that like has didn't feel like you were

429
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 1: going to some crowded bar like they were. Have it

430
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 1: very distant, very distant, And so we've gotten another the

431
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: bartenders and the servers and stuff there and they're really

432
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 1: great people and they always bring tequila shots and it's

433
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: usually more than one special shot of the day. And

434
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,439
Speaker 1: so our happy hour turned into where are we going next?

435
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 1: Kind of and we were kind of itching to do karaoke.

436
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 1: And I remember that there was this new place by

437
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 1: my house UM called Sid Sid's Gold Room, and I

438
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: thought it was live karaoke with like a piano player

439
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: where you could request a song and you got to sing.

440
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: It turns out it's just a guy playing piano and

441
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 1: singing along, and so that was kind of annoying. And

442
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,439
Speaker 1: the room was like it was two rooms, the bars

443
00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 1: in the front room and then the pianos in the

444
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: back room. And we couldn't there were so many of

445
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 1: they were like eight of us, and so we couldn't

446
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: even get a table in there. So we were just

447
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: like being these like annoying drunk people in the front

448
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: room and like the service wasn't that gray, and um Reagan,

449
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: our friend Reagan, Um, like it was time to go,

450
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: and she just screams out check plays and like they

451
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: could not have gotten us out of there fast. And

452
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: then we ended up at this Hey, we can't hear

453
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: you when you don't talk into your mike. Then we

454
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: ended up My shoe is ripping. It's very depressing. Um,

455
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: I we ended up at this karaoke bar and it's um,

456
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: it is not a lesbian bar, which the bartender was

457
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:43,719
Speaker 1: very sure to tell me when she heard me describe

458
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 1: it as such that I thought that it was called

459
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: the Lipstick Lounge and it is owned by lesbians. And

460
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 1: when I tell you, when I walked in, it was packed,

461
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 1: and I was one of three males. One of the

462
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: males worked there. One of them was Dirk's band. It

463
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,959
Speaker 1: was randomly there. Steby was there, he's friends with one

464
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: of the bar timers, and then myself, and so most

465
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: of the women they're like women. So it's it might

466
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: not be a lesbian bar, but lesbians do enjoy going

467
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: they're not going to turn you away if you're not.

468
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 1: It's I mean, it's actually a really really fun bar.

469
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: So calling it a lesbian bar is not factual. But

470
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: there's a lot of lesbians so, and it's called the

471
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: Lipstick Lounge. So anyway, um, we have a great time.

472
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 1: We karaoke, although they wouldn't let two people do it

473
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: at the same time, like pandemic um this crazy. There's

474
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: crazy people there. It's fun. I sang, Oh, my goodness,

475
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 1: I can't even remember what I did. I did oh

476
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: Poison by Bell BIV Devo, and then I did um

477
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: Friends and Low Places. Poison is like one of those

478
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: songs that like when you're riding in the car you

479
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: think you know the words, and then you get a

480
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,640
Speaker 1: stage to singing karaoke and you're like, I never knew

481
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: the words of these songs and it's too fast and

482
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: I literally only in parts of the chorus. Yeah. So anyway,

483
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: the night's winding down, the bars clearing out, they call

484
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: last call um and along the way we um at

485
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 1: when when we were on our way to sid Sid's

486
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 1: Golden Room, we picked up a friend like I had

487
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: left to take my car home, and so I didn't

488
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: want to be driving and to feed my dogs. And

489
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: then I was like, I'm gonna meet everybody there. And

490
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 1: when I got to Sid's gold room, there was another

491
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: our friend, Shelley had joined us, and I was like,

492
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,199
Speaker 1: where did she come from? And um so she was

493
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: with us on the rest of the journey and um so,

494
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: the night's winding down, they call last call. Our friend turns.

495
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 1: We literally had a table next to the bar. Our

496
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: friend turns to the bar to pay her tab and

497
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: turns around and her purse is gone, her phone is gone,

498
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 1: and the bar is essentially kind of empty at that point,

499
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 1: and she's like, where did my stuff go? And I

500
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: was like, I literally just saw your I asked whose

501
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: phone it was. Um So, I had a very like

502
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: clear visual memory of the timeline, Like I remember seeing

503
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: her person had fringe that was black. Other birds had

504
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: fringe on it. I saw it sitting there, and Julie's

505
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: like she crossed her arms. She's like, I'm not leaving

506
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: this bar until I find out where my stuff went,

507
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: and like digs or heels in so and she's also

508
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: at this point very alpha three sheets to the wind,

509
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: and she's very alpha about it, and you know, they're

510
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: like not having it. They're all they're trying to do

511
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: is clean up and get out, like they've been serving

512
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: drunk people all night and they just want to go,

513
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: and she's like, I'm not leaving, like this is crazy.

514
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,199
Speaker 1: My stuff just walked out, and they're like happens all

515
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 1: the time, so they were taking no responsibility for it.

516
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: And finally she convinces. She's like, do you have cameras

517
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: and they're like, fine, you can come over these cameras.

518
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 1: So she disappears into the bar. They say it's in

519
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: the basement, and literally felt like she was gone for

520
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. And meanwhile I figured out how to like

521
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,719
Speaker 1: sign in to find my iPhone remotely and I wouldn't

522
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: need her log in so I could try and find

523
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: her phone. And the doorman sitting there talking with me

524
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: and like it had been really cordial, and then finally

525
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: I asked him, I'm like, hey, can you go can

526
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: you help me go find my friend so I can

527
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: like ask us and he's like, nope, she's fine where

528
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: she is, and I was like, yeah, but it's taking

529
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: for everybody's like it was a long night of tape,

530
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: and I was like except for the moment. It's five

531
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,719
Speaker 1: minutes long and we know the window when this disappeared,

532
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: and he just started getting like rude with me. Okay, tut,

533
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: You're like, you're like shocked this guy. The first of all.

534
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: This guy is probably like I want to go I

535
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: want to go home. These idiots I'm running through tape

536
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: of what happened that because these drunk acidiots can't keep

537
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: up with their ships. And you're like a cognitude with him. Well,

538
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: I was. I wasn't really cocking a tude. I just

539
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 1: was like, dude, the longer we wait, the further this

540
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: phone gets away, Like can you just like you don't

541
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: have to take me to her? Can you like yell

542
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: down the stairs and ask where to log in? And

543
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:12,199
Speaker 1: he was like just refusing, And then then he like

544
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: I was actually starting to worry because she had been

545
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: gone for so long and I had no idea where

546
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: she was getting murdered at the left and he was

547
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: like she's she's where she wants to be, and he

548
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: kind of got nasty, and I was like, you know, what,

549
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: do you have a sister? I was like, women go

550
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: places they want to be all the time, and bad

551
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: things happen, and I'm starting to worry about my friend

552
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: and I'm about to call the cops, and then here

553
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: comes Julie and she's like, Shelly has my fucking ship

554
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: our friend. Ye, she saw it on the tape. She

555
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: saw our friend walk out of the like, and none

556
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: of us hadn't even really noticed Shelly. It just did

557
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: stuff like she had just left without saying she grabbed,

558
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: she ghosted, and she grabbed Julie's bag and left. We

559
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,080
Speaker 1: didn't know if the phone was in it because you

560
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: could see in the camera was um Had nobody tried question?

561
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: Had nobody tried to call Julius? We had, but it

562
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: was going straight, it was going to voice, so it

563
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: was ringing but going to voicemail. So then the fucking

564
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: door guy looks at me and goes, you owe me

565
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: an apology, and I was like, I didn't blame you

566
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: for anything other than not letting me go find my friend.

567
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: And he's like, you know what, get the funk out

568
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: of here, and he got really aggra with me, and

569
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: I was like, I like bucked up, and I was

570
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,479
Speaker 1: like I was like, fuck you. It's like I'll happily

571
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: leave this place on my own accord and started to

572
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: walk out, and then he tried to like put his

573
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: hands on me and he tried to help me, and

574
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: Julie had to get between us. I was like, if

575
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 1: you don't, if you touch me one more fu time,

576
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a problem. Like she was like, I've

577
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: never seen anything. I haven't never seen you. I mean,

578
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: that's something I would do. I was bumped up, and

579
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: then I was out front like stealing, like I'm calling

580
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: the cops. I'm calling the cops because it was like

581
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: there was something about their attitude toward it that I

582
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: was like it felt like one of them might have it,

583
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: you know, like it was like, so you were you

584
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: were getting being annoyed by people, but like most people's

585
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: lives are in their person there. I mean, she didn't

586
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: have keys to our house. Yeah, that would like thank

587
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: god she has a keypad, but like a normal person

588
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: doesn't have that. So it just felt really annoying because

589
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: they didn't seem to care. And they even said, well

590
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: maybe they just went out that back door, and we

591
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: were like, is there a camera on the back door. Nope.

592
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: I just like there's so many things I have to

593
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: say and actually, uh say something in the second, uh

594
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: that you don't know about, but um so, I just

595
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: like imagine after a long day of work, I just

596
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: can't get rid of this. But like if I was

597
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: on set all fucking day, and I'm also like, I

598
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: have to be on set sometimes with drunk people and

599
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: it's annoying as hell when you're sober and you're trying

600
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: to work, and like, I know, they work in a bar,

601
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: so this is like par for the course. But like

602
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: you guys were at fault, I mean, like losing the

603
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: person they didn't have to be ask The fact that

604
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: they even let you guys look at the tape is

605
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: hilarious to me, Like y'all are like, let us do

606
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: you guys have cameras in here? Let us like what

607
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: are you the fucking cops? Like all of a sudden,

608
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: you're like running. I mean that's we were kind of

609
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: just waiting for Julie and I was chit chatting with

610
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: the dude and it escalated. Well before it escalated, you know,

611
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: a friend of ours, Mary sent me a voice note

612
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: that she has a few Well that voice note, well,

613
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: I kind of want to play this for the people,

614
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: so they have a red Let me before you play

615
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: it that voice. Note it was recorded at Julie's house,

616
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: So this is after, yeah, this is after. This is

617
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: after this. Don't make not you sure. I'm certain of

618
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: that because it was after we had gotten home and

619
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: we still like, yeah, that's why I thought it was stupid. Okay,

620
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: let's let's roll the tape and then I'll explain that. Okay,

621
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: credit card, because you can say to them, I think

622
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: my friend might have it, but it might have been stolen.

623
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: Can you at least block it the next and taught

624
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: figure it out. I'll all you back rather than anceling it,

625
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: because you will literally have to give a new credit

626
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: card to everything. You have a lot, your phone, in

627
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: the company, everything. Oh my god, come over there and okay,

628
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: so you're saying that you we're telling her to cancel

629
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: her credit card. I think you're wrong. I don't remember

630
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: I asked you where you got the recording. That recording

631
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: is a voicemail that I left on Shelley's phone and

632
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: Shelly send it to Mary. So we were calling Shelley

633
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: incessantly trying to wake up. She woke up to miss

634
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: calls and it's like three am. You know, it's late,

635
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: and we knew that Shelley had the bag, what we

636
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: didn't know was whether or not she had Julie's phone. So,

637
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: but then Julie's like, I've got to cancel everything, and

638
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: I was like, no, you don't, like you're not making

639
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 1: sense right now? Are you drunk right now? I'm sure

640
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: that's yes, because she do you want to go to

641
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: lipstick lound? No? Never again. They will never let me apply.

642
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: Are they literally? Have you want to bandle it jacket? Um? No?

643
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: That recording is like Julie's like trying to cancel her

644
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 1: cards and she's like, I don't even know how to

645
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: call them. I'm like, what kind of bank card do

646
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: you have? And she's like US Bank. I'm like, then

647
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 1: google one eight hundred number for US Bank. Like I'm

648
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: like walking through it, but I'm like, why would you

649
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: do that? You're going to cancel that card and then

650
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: find out Shelley has it in the morning and you're

651
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: gonna have to go on Amazon and your phone bill

652
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: and change all of it. Five hours Shelley will be

653
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: up at eight am. Yeah, so y'all didn't have y'all

654
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: knew Shelly had walked out with the purse, but you

655
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: didn't have confirmation, right. Wow. What we also didn't know

656
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: was if Shelly also had a fringe bag. So because

657
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: we saw Shelly holding, y'all were just making assumptions and

658
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: then Julie's trying to cancel it. Maybe Shelly hasn't. Maybe

659
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: she doesn't. And that's when you were telling her how

660
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: to so you were posting up. Okay, So this is

661
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: what the whole point of all of that story is

662
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 1: to say that, Like, it's so funny to me whenever

663
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: you go out and you've had too much, you've been overserved,

664
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden something happens. I mean, we

665
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 1: have all been here where someone has to go into

666
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: mom mode or like damage control, or when I become

667
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: the godmother not the godfather she I said to you earlier.

668
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: It's like we need to come up with a name

669
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: that's like the Olivia Pope of being drunk, Like you're

670
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: like the fixer of that. I fill that role pretty well.

671
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: I think, well you do, ish, But when we were

672
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: just trying to backcheck through what happened, the story wasn't

673
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: fully making sense. And so like I'm wondering if your

674
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: logically in your head, it makes so much sense, and

675
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: you're like guys and like no one can get it,

676
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: But like, are you actually making that much sense? I

677
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 1: think I made sense, and it might be just because

678
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: I can. When I'm telling the story, I'm visualizing what happened.

679
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: You know, you know who we should have had on

680
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: as a guest today, as Courtney, because Courtney was there

681
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: and witnessed at all. But does anyone from that night

682
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: actually remember it accurately? I think so. I think I

683
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,280
Speaker 1: have a pretty clear memory of it. I think Julie

684
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: was the one who was like the most heightened because

685
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: she she had panic on top of it all, you know,

686
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: just gotten her phone the week before, so she hadn't

687
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 1: set it up on fine mind? How it always always

688
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,760
Speaker 1: like you lose something. I mean I definitely like said

689
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 1: like dumb, drunk things to them, but I was also

690
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: like they were being so unreasonable, Like I was just

691
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 1: trying to be like, they're just pissed you out of lesbian,

692
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, and they totally were mad at me, but

693
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: I just was trying to get them to like put

694
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: themselves in her shoes, right, you wanted some empathy, right,

695
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: and not only that, but like do you want to

696
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: be the bar that like it's blasted on the edge.

697
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: Well I was like, I cannot, I can't down is better,

698
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: But like, the thing is that you're telling this story

699
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: and I guarantee you people listening are like, yeah, well

700
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: the thing is like I was gonna say, do you

701
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: want to be the bar that has the attitude of like, well,

702
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: it happens all the time. I mean, it probably does

703
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: happen all the time, but keep run tape, you know,

704
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: like safe play that beautiful. I know it's like it's she,

705
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: it's she was at fault. Like I know how I

706
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: would be. I would never leave my phone laying on

707
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: a table, And if I were a woman that carried

708
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: a person, I would have it. I would be one

709
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: of those girls that like always has it between my boobs.

710
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: You know you're talking about like a crossbody. He's trying

711
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: to demonstrate that' why you guys couldn't hear him for

712
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: a second. You just try to demonstrate what a crossbody

713
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: looks like one of those girls who wears the purse

714
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 1: between her boobs. I gotta say, I think it's the

715
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 1: worst look. I hate that I do it every day.

716
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: Sorry that you feel that way. I don't well it's

717
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: because my boobs are small. Problem listen, I mean, I

718
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: hear you, but okay, I will say especially if you're

719
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: at a karaoke bar. I mean, I'm only saying this

720
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: too because I'm notorious for leaving my phone places. But

721
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: like if I got caught up to the stage and

722
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 1: I'm like ready to go, I ready to ride the

723
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 1: bull like I used to do, you know, like I'm

724
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: just leaving my ship, like I'm like bite because I

725
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: know my friends are there too, And so then it's

726
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: like you go back, maybe you're having another drink, maybe

727
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,919
Speaker 1: you're like dancing around and you just kind of lose

728
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: track and the Shelly picked it up. So it's like

729
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: it was like a multiple offense here. But I think

730
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: on part tend to not have pockets. I'm always wearing

731
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: jeans or something. We have pockets, But like the bulk

732
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: doesn't look right, it doesn't look as cute. Um yeah,

733
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: so well you're the fairy Godmother. Apparently the Fairy godmin changed.

734
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: It just felt right new T shirt alert. I just

735
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: think it's funny because like, literally, you know, everyone listening

736
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: right now is either that person or they have that friend.

737
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: I want to hear you guys stories, so email us

738
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: that at casual. We've got to change that at casual

739
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: at velvet See dot com for the time being. But

740
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 1: I want to hear the stories of being out drunk.

741
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: When you're drunk, friend takes charge, who goes into damage control?

742
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 1: Like is it you? Is it your friend? Or they're

743
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: funny stories of that. And what were the scenarios where

744
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: you guys at fault because probably so is be my assumption,

745
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: And I love that you're like taking it to the grave.

746
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: You're like, that was not our fault. They were dicks

747
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: that I drove by there the other day and that

748
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: door guy. I was sitting out there and I was like,

749
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: I wish I could throw an egg right at him

750
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 1: because the sun wasn't even down. It was like still

751
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 1: earlier the night. I was like, I just wanted to

752
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: ruin his night pegged. I'm like, they've got cameras on

753
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: the front of the building, you know that when he's

754
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 1: leaving the back door, you know where they're he doesn't

755
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: announce to the world. Hey, they should have been more cooperative.

756
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: They got a camera above the bar that doesn't work.

757
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: He just tossed his hair as he said that they

758
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: should have been more cooperative. It's a shame because I

759
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: actually like doing karaoke there. Well, I guess you'll have

760
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 1: to find a new haunt. We already have some other spots.

761
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: Why is that? Why is that not the lesbian bar?

762
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: Why have we never talked about? That's actually the wild

763
00:39:55,520 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: beaver when should be a lesbian God, that's how I

764
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: gonna start describing myself the wild beaver when I go

765
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 1: to the gun and where she's like, how are you on? Really? Well,

766
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: the wild beaver is hurting a little bit. She's a

767
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:17,919
Speaker 1: struggling Oh my god. Well thanks for sharing that story. Uh,

768
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,919
Speaker 1: send us your stories to act Casual at velvets sedge

769
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: dot com and we'll read them next week. And hold

770
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: on to your phone's people, I mean, ladies, let's get

771
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,720
Speaker 1: a little more responsible singing to myself first here. Okay,

772
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: So for the listener question this week, to give you

773
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: guys the update, because Billy or girl Billy three weeks

774
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: in a row, she's making an appearance. But like, I

775
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: gotta sum this up for you guys, because I got

776
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 1: an ending and I needed to share. So this is

777
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: from Billy. If you're new to this podcast or you

778
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: didn't listen to the the last two weeks. She should go

779
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 1: back and listen to her story. But Billy has been

780
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: in a relationship with a man who has two children

781
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 1: with an ex wife, and then he also has a

782
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: baby's mama, and he has one child with that baby mama.

783
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: We must say in the right it feels so wrong somehow,

784
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: it's baby mama. Okay, So anyway, the baby mama, baby's

785
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 1: mama technically is the baby's mama, but it's also the

786
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 1: baby mama. It's like if you're talking about it in

787
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: reference to her relationship with him or her relationship to

788
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: the oh, because it's the baby's mama, but it's baby mama. Okay, Well,

789
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: you guys get the gist of who this person is

790
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: in dis guy's life. Anyway, she's the jealous one, right,

791
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: Like the ex wife is apparently fine with Billy. They

792
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: have a great relationship, and Billy has been with this

793
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: guy a while, so much so that they were engaged

794
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: for a minute. He had proposed December of twenty nineteen.

795
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, there's ex wife, there's baby mama, and

796
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: there's Billy. So anyway, baby mama was so pissed about

797
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: him being with Billy that he didn't want to tell

798
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: her that he proposed to her, and so much so

799
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: that she even I think, tried to break them up

800
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: or threatened him seeing his own child if they didn't

801
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 1: break up and moved moved to a different state. So

802
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 1: there's all this drama. Billy was like, I'm feeling like

803
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: there's something more to this story, but he swears there's not,

804
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: and he swears he just doesn't want to rock the

805
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: boat and it's about the child. So you and I

806
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: have been back and forth a couple of weeks in

807
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: her nineteen right, and there's been no movement as far

808
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 1: as him telling her. So I started once I found

809
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: out the date. I was like, something I right, and

810
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: you were like, let's just give him the benefit of

811
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: the doubt. Let's see if he maybe if Billy contacts

812
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: the baby mama lays some like rules down with her,

813
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: like we're moving on. You know. You kind of were

814
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: like encouraging her to stand by her man like a

815
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 1: Tammy wy Nut song, and I was like, he's out

816
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: to that guy. Something ain't right. So this is what

817
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 1: Billy said this week update. I took chips advice and

818
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: just told him it was time to get it done

819
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: or we needed to figure out where to go from here.

820
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: Apparently he decided months ago, quote unquote, when I took

821
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: my off my ring, that we weren't engaged anymore, so

822
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: he didn't need to tell her anymore. Thanks for fucking

823
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: letting me know that. Now. I gave up my house,

824
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,240
Speaker 1: sold most of my stuff, and put the rest in storage.

825
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: He said, I changed since I'm not okay with him

826
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: dragging all this bullshit out for however long he sees necessary.

827
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: It's all good. I literally had nothing when I divorced

828
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: after twenty one years of marriage. I will get through

829
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: this too. Thanks to you both for your advice ripping

830
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: that band aid off. I'm so proud. Correct and this

831
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,720
Speaker 1: guy again, I think I said this last week sounds

832
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: like a douche Well, I mean, he quick to judge.

833
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: He just assumed that they weren't engaged anymore. So what

834
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: does that mean? First of all, wait, what is you

835
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: taking the ring off? Signify? Like? What does that mean?

836
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: Where do we stand for? Like? Exactly like communicate? And

837
00:43:55,920 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: then um also like she held on to that for

838
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 1: who knows why we get drawn to what we get

839
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: drawn to? That could be Childhood Wounds, you know, that's

840
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: another podcast that's the velvet side of things. I mean,

841
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: I've been in relationships where I'm like, oh, what the

842
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: funk with like a look back, and I'm like, what

843
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 1: was the hold on me? And it was something I

844
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: had to sort out of myself. It wasn't like the

845
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: guy was like some catch right, everyone was like, oh,

846
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: thank god you got out of that one. I mean,

847
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 1: isn't that like how most past relationship It's it's very

848
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: rare with it. It's like you're like, oh my god,

849
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: that was the one who got away. Yeah right. I've

850
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: had a guy tell me that one time. I had

851
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: a guy tell me that too. Did the guy that

852
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: told me that, though, I look at him and I'm like, well,

853
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 1: thank god, I gotta move from that guy. Now. For me,

854
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,919
Speaker 1: it's like it actually feels good because I actually really

855
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: liked the guy. I mean, now, it's always flattering. It's

856
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: totally flattering, and it makes you feel a little bit like, huh,

857
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: you saw it. It took you too long, but at

858
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: least you saw it because he treated me like ship.

859
00:44:53,520 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: So why is it so hard? I mean, is that

860
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 1: literal or emotion? That's me exhaling for this week. It's

861
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: all just so hard. Like I'm we're in quarantine and

862
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: I haven't had to deal with like any relationship. Yeah,

863
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: I just can't wait for you to get back on

864
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: the way bring. I'm almost vaccinated. Somebody asked me this

865
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: week I did like a question answer on my Instagram

866
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: on valvis Edge, and someone said one of the questions

867
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: was is Chip actually going to do slutter Pulza? And

868
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: I was like, dear God, I hope so, because if

869
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: I talk about it this much and you don't go

870
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: be slutty for a second, God, I'm just gonna have

871
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 1: to slut it on. The pressure is on. I mean,

872
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: fucking one person would be slutty for me. That's true.

873
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: That's true. If we have one story, we'll be like success,

874
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: we did it, Team, go team. But you know what

875
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 1: makes it hard for me to be slutty is that, Um,

876
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: I kind of want to fall in love with everybody,

877
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I have a hard

878
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: time loving him and leaving them. You know it sounds

879
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: like a song. Yeah, probably probably is. Um. Anyway, you

880
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: guys keep them assages coming. I think you all had

881
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: a lot of sex and dating questions. We were talking

882
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: about this before, so if those are still the things

883
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: that resonate with y'all, bring them on. Like we love

884
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: talking about relationships. This podcast is supposed to be edgy.

885
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: It's called The Edge, if you will, and so we're

886
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: open to talk about anything. There's nothing that's off the

887
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: table of anything and everything and more talked about all

888
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: this week. I talked about my vagina and my ovaries,

889
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: So I mean, I think we have them swabbed, we

890
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: got tested, We got all sorts of things happening this week.

891
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: So you guys join us, please make here. We still

892
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,280
Speaker 1: don't have a tagline for the What did I say earlier?

893
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: And I always remember we're still acting edge, just like

894
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 1: just the tips, just the edge. You guys help us

895
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: with that too. Do you have any fod You know

896
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: what you used to say to me all the time

897
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: for Velvet's Edge, You would go live in on the edge.

898
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: But we can't do that because that's actually it's a

899
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: it's it's a copyrighted kind of it's like living on

900
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: the edge by Arrowsmith, living on edch living on a veg.

901
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: Let's try to harm on us living on the bed

902
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: so bad, we're gonna have to get some auto tune pain.

903
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: If you can see us, we're like, our eyes are

904
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: like big, We're like, are we going to nail this?

905
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 1: Or what are you going up? Are you going to

906
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 1: have I don't even know how to say it right.

907
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, literally an auto tune ta pane of

908
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 1: like living on a veg like like got to slide.

909
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we've lost it. Okay, we have to go.

910
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: We're going to an art study today. I'm gonna post

911
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: about that on my Instagram to so you guys keep

912
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: us post on what you think of this art that

913
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm looking at with this house. Okay, that was very

914
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: vague and absolutely I had no context of what we

915
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: need to drink. I gotta go, Okay, living on the

916
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 1: see you guys by Yeah,