1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer, 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Kolena in Rosemont. 3 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: Klena writes, I had a consultation to get my breast implants, 4 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: to get breast implants, and my husband called and canceled 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: the appointment. He thinks I don't need the surgery. But 6 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: this is my body and I don't feel sexy for 7 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: him like I used to. It's my body? So should 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: I do what I want to do? 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 2: Well, Colinea, I'll tell you what I think. I think 10 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: Horatio has second thoughts about all this. 11 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 3: Uh huh. 12 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: You get the names like that right there, Colinea, Horatia, 13 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: and but you know, and I'll tell you what it 14 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 2: is with him. It has nothing to do with that. 15 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: It's money. It's money, darling, Really, it's it. That's it's 16 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: money with me. 17 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: Oh you don't think he's gonncerns that something might go wrong. 18 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 2: He's gonna use that it's money. What it's money? So 19 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: she wants and what now, Shirley, what type of she 20 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: getting a reduction? 21 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: No plan? 22 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's money. 23 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: Okay, well she didn't say. That's all she said. 24 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: And it's your body and you do get to vote 25 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 2: on your body, you have to say something. We got nothing. 26 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: That that's a whole nother story about. 27 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: The business rights and all that. That that's down a 28 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: whole nother path. 29 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: I'm one hundred percent behind whatever women want to do 30 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: with their body, however they want to do it. I 31 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: don't me and shouldn't even be voting on this right. 32 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 2: It's the most ridiculous thing that part America get on 33 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 2: my nerves. 34 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: Next question Shirley moving on to uh fiar fear in 35 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: all and he says, my boyfriend's friend Sierra, her name 36 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: is Siera in Albany. She says, my boyfriend's friend sent 37 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: me a picture of his manhood and I didn't say anything. 38 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: I texted him to see if he sent it to 39 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: me by mistake. He said it was a big mistake 40 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: and he apologized. I told my boyfriend and he said 41 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: I handled it wrong. I should have told him first. 42 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: Why is he mad at me and not at his 43 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: friend who sent it? 44 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: Well, he ain't dating his friend. He dating you, so 45 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: what and he was saying, and he has a right 46 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 2: to feel what he's feeling. But you you didn't do 47 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: anything technically wrong. No, but let me tell you where 48 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: the guy's coming from. So what it made it look 49 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 2: like for him for a moment is you was called 50 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: and to find out if you sent this to me 51 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: on purpose when the guy the guy sent it to. 52 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: You on purpose. 53 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 2: Understand that, yeah, he sent it to your on purpose. 54 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 2: If he was waiting on you to react when your 55 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 2: reaction was that, then he went sideways because he misread 56 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: you and thought you might want to see this. But 57 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 2: he misread you. And when you called him, wait, did 58 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 2: you send me this on accident? You you wouldn't say, 59 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 2: oh no, man, oh that was accident. No, no, no, 60 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: no bro. Right, So now your man is thinking you 61 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: gave him an option, a chance to react in a 62 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 2: certain way, and saying you should have bought. 63 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: It to me. Oh okay. So is the boyfriend still 64 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: gonna check his friend though? I mean, because all he's 65 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: doing right now is checking his girlfriend. Is he gonna 66 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: say anything to his friend about sending picture a lot? 67 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: That's fitna be a whole other. 68 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: Conversation, I mean, because so first she's just getting all 69 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: the heat. 70 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 2: Well, see she don't know because now see he got 71 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: to go to he got to go to He now 72 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: has to approach his friend a little bit different because 73 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 2: the girl then called the head of time. Had she 74 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: just went to him and said, your man sent me this, 75 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: your friend sent me this. Then he can go over 76 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 2: there wild buffalo bill chests out everything. But now since 77 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,559 Speaker 2: you called him first to ask you, you really see 78 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: now he's he got a statement prepared. 79 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: He see here. 80 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 2: He don't get to roll up on him straight necked 81 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: and busted. He got to roll up now with the 82 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:53,679 Speaker 2: hey man, hey look. And but your girl was asking 83 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: me like like really cool. She wasn't even like really mad. See, 84 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 2: he got to hear that. That's what the problem is. 85 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: That's why he mad. 86 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: And why does she have his number of her number 87 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: to send it to her in the first. 88 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 3: Here's what you gotta remember. She can't unsee what she saw. 89 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 3: And you don't sing that's wrong time little people, right 90 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 3: right right, you get that good angle you're saying. 91 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: Download, you're seeing the whole real rack out there called Yeah, 92 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 2: you shouldn't have slabbed. You don't see you don't seen 93 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: the real bone. You should the slaby. These ain't baby 94 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 2: bags called did you mean did. 95 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: You mean the seeing me this hemp? And it ain't delited. 96 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 3: I can assure you. 97 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:02,919 Speaker 1: And anybody is that why the boyfriends is really mad? 98 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: He tight? And then that picture he already knows boy loading, 99 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 2: He already know that they'd have been down to the gym, 100 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 2: he'd have came out to shower. And like when I 101 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: was in the ninth grade and Eric Green came out 102 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 2: to shop. We was all sitting there when Eric came 103 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 2: out to shower. What happened? Now? Were all in the 104 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: ninth grade were. 105 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: Speechless? 106 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 3: Who daddy is dish? 107 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: He came about that shop? I went love all right. 108 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: Moving on to Black in Nashville, Black writes, I was 109 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: vibing with this female until I found out that she 110 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: enjoys cigars more than I do, and she's well known 111 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: by the guys at the cigar bars that I go to. 112 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: I am uncomfortable with my girl being a star at 113 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: the cigar bar. Is this a real issue? Or am 114 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: I insecure? 115 00:06:58,480 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 3: Well? 116 00:06:58,760 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: Bro, you made it. 117 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 2: You met her at the cigar bob. She smoked cigar. 118 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 2: All the guys know she smoked cigar. You ain't the 119 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: only one thinks she fine, though, you ain't the only 120 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 2: one thing she fined. So are you insecure? Yeah? Okay, 121 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 2: very much So that's got insecurity wrote all over. I 122 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: don't want everybody knowing her well they do, they do. 123 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: All right, interesting CLO. You're listening, Steve Hardy Morning Show