WEBVTT - Rest, Rejuvenate, Recharge 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.000 Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeart 0:00:04.040 --> 0:00:04.880 radio podcast. 0:00:08.560 --> 0:00:10.280 Did it start? I can't don't make your. 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:18.160 Phone, you know, everybody we are scrubbing in grub I 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:22.200 took my headphones out on the plane to like watch 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:25.520 a movie, you know, because they have the original jack. 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.000 Yeah, what do they call it? A quarter inch? Eighth in? 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:29.639 Eight inch? 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.120 I got the eight inch, but I left in my 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:34.040 travel tote. 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:38.440 So I'm I'm about found raw dogging. 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:40.000 We have. 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:43.080 Okay, he's free. 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:43.800 It does. 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.000 It's exciting to be in solidarity. 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:47.280 It's up to you. 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:49.720 Go ahead and the east and I can whisper about 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.280 both of you. You know, have no idea what we're saying. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.720 Okay, we're in the same room. 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:54.640 Hear this. 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:00.760 Maybe I'll just keep on. And so you do have 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:01.360 a mask on? 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:02.480 Why do you have a mask on? 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:05.600 Because Tany is very sensitive right now and we spend 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:08.400 a lot of time in the studio together. Yesterday I 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.759 had a bit of a runny nose, stuffy, this little 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:11.840 stuffy I came to work. 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:12.760 You know, it was no big deal. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.680 She took very much offense at that and it was 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:18.560 kind of freaking out as well as Michael and some 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:19.759 other members of the staff, so. 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:22.440 There was multiples. It wasn't Mark likes to do this. 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:24.840 It was mostly it was mostly time. 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:26.560 No, no, we just sit closest. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:27.600 That's true. 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.520 So today I brought a mask so that nobody has 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.440 to freak out by just being near me, because it 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:33.360 got a lot of that yesterday. 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:34.520 No, no, don't come near me. 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:41.360 To be fair, it was Ryan, no, no, no, no, no. 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.800 I didn't even notice it until Ryan said something and 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:46.399 then I started seeing the cough drops going in his mouth, 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:48.120 and I was like, I had a. 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:49.760 Little cough too. I got it from my daughter. 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:53.720 Anyway, the thermometer sticking out of his mouth. 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:56.640 I'm wearing a mask today out of respect for my 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:58.840 co workers. But I feel great. I'm not sick. 0:01:58.880 --> 0:01:59.400 I'm fine. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:02.440 It's very mindful, very trying to. 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.360 Be demure and mindful, very demure. 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:06.200 I'm over that already, by the way. 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:11.760 Okay, moving on, not your sickness that from day I know. 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.160 It happened so fast and every caption had it, and 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:16.920 I was like, okay. 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:21.880 I don't want to be mindful, yeah demure. 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.799 Yeah, but I can just be. Don't need to tell 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:26.600 anyone about it. Let people see it actions. 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.040 It's demure mindful, Like I feel like that's not quite 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:34.440 the definition of demure. It's cutesie, it's it's it's reserved, 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:35.920 it's modest, it's shy. 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:37.399 Yeah, mindful. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:43.600 Okay, I'm very happy for the creator who like, what 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:46.720 a life changing words. 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:49.720 YEAHR very happy for. 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:51.799 Me, Brad. Summer is over. We need to be in there, 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:52.640 demure fault. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:54.560 Yeah, but well I saw a lot of people like 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:57.320 I'm I'm trying to be brat summer. But now y'all 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:58.799 switch to mindful DEMURR. 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:00.720 Can I just ha, you. 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.480 Can't keep up, You really can't. 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:06.160 You gotta be on your toes in the pop culture industry. 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:09.600 You can never stop scrolling or else you will miss out. 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:13.440 Yeah on the newest thing in two seconds. 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:17.200 Which leads me to get into why we're doing a 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:20.079 podcast on a Tuesday and not a Monday. And that's 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:23.840 because the Love Island reunion was last. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:24.480 Night, which was Monday. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:25.560 Maybe Love. 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:27.960 I'm so happy I don't have my headphones on. 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:37.240 It was good enough, just like this, and so you know, 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:40.520 I was like, Tanya, I know you've just been waiting 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:44.400 for this and crazy that we do a full week 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:47.920 of podcasts Monday and Thursday episode and we can't discuss 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:49.240 the reunion. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.440 This is a special edition Tuesday episode. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:55.440 I was surprised that that was your idea. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:57.280 Can I be honest? 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:01.240 I did not feel like on the podcast yesterday and 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:03.480 I felt how can I get this Tuesday? 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:04.520 Wow? 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:06.240 And I knew what my ticket was. 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:08.280 You know what's so funny that you say that? 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:10.040 Because so Becca brings it up? Should we do the 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:13.440 podcast tomorrow because of the Love islandaion? And I'm like yeah, 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:16.640 great and then say I'm later on like six hours later, 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:19.360 asks are you guys both going to watch the reunion back? 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:26.320 It's like, ah my, like I might tonight like live 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:28.799 id I was gonna watch it. 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:32.000 Because I was like, wait, I'm so confused by. 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:34.839 The sacrifice was okay, you can stay home on this Monday, 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:36.520 but you are going to have to watch the Love 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:37.680 Island reunion if this. 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:39.120 Is where you come in on Tuesday. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:42.359 I had to make some sacrifices here and there, but 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:43.960 all got accomplished. 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.360 Yeah, and Easton's here. You weren't going to be here yet. 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:47.520 I was not here yesterday. 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.160 I just wanted the gang back together. 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:50.600 You know, it felt right. 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:51.440 It felt right. 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:52.039 It feels good. 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:56.040 Yeah, I wasn't my gut. So we will get into that. 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:57.839 But a little bit, a little bit later, because you 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:58.880 just came back from a trip. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:01.920 Haley and I went to Hawaii. This is my favorite place. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:02.880 I really like. 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:05.880 I've gone to some married in Hawaii. 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:09.080 I love to get married in Hawaii to be an option. 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:10.640 I just love it. 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:12.440 Like every time I go on vacation, there's always that 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:15.400 feeling of like, oh, I'm excited to be Like I 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:17.640 can kind of trick myself into being excited to be 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:20.520 home and in bed, but when I'm in Hawaii, I 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:21.360 don't want to leave. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:23.080 That's so nice. 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:25.679 I know, I love it. It's just the people. 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:26.480 I mean, very. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:29.680 Chill girl, slow island time. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:31.480 Have you only you surfed it? 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:36.560 Like we At one point there was so the resort 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:40.320 we stayed at there was this like a floating mat 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:44.560 out in the no like it was a it looks 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:45.400 like a mattress. 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.040 Yeah, it was quite large. 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.120 And so the sun had basically set like it wasn't 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.560 like right outside, but it had that like orange strip 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.960 in the sky. And Haley was like, let's go just 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:57.920 swim and watch the rest of the sunset. On the 0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:00.920 mat and I was like, it's dark, Like I'm gonna 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:01.560 have to get in the water. 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.560 That's my biggest fear. So I got out to the. 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:06.400 Mat and then I was like okay, like I could 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.400 still kind of see a little bit. And then we 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:10.800 when we went to get off the mat, my I 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:12.440 literally was like, I'm about to be Joss. 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:15.040 It's gonna be Joss. I could hear the music. 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.840 Hailey's like it by the way, that far yeah, and 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.360 it's shallow, like your waist is deep. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.919 Basically, oh my gosh. 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:26.040 That can happen, by the way, And Haley's trying to 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.960 talk to me, and she's like laughing because I'm genuinely scared. 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.080 But she's like I'm right here, and I'm like, that 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:35.640 doesn't matter what it comes from this direction. She and 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.200 so her one of her favorite memories recapping the trip 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:41.039 was watching the sunset on the mat and I'm like, yeah, 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:41.800 I don't have that. 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:45.440 I don't have that memory. But it was so nice. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:49.840 We had such a relaxing time. I was barely on 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:52.919 my phone, just was on it when I wanted to 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:53.520 be on it. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:54.960 It was just I feel. 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.240 Really appreciated that. 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:00.640 Really I did it meant it made me feel so 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:01.600 seen and loved. 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:05.240 Oh my god, that makes me emotional because I was 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:06.040 actually mindful. 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:07.560 You were very mindful. 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:11.600 Yeah, I can't at it, very very demure about it, no, 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:15.240 because the only time I feel like I bothered you 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:17.080 was to send some like wedding dress. 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:18.840 But didn't bother me at all. But that's like really, 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.760 I was like, and that was important. That was like 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:21.720 there was purpose with that. 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:22.320 It was purpose. 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:27.160 Yeah, yeah, yeah, which, Wow, it's stunning Tanye is going 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:28.440 to be in I mean, we knew she's gonna be 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.280 a beautiful bride, but singer in a wedding dress. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:31.240 Two wedding dresses? 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:33.040 Wow, thank you. 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:34.200 You might need to get both of those. 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:37.000 We'll get into that. Okay, we'll get into that. 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.760 So yeah, we had a really, really wonderful trip. It 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.440 was so funny because I do have a theory about 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:47.720 like traveling when you have a traveling just with another person, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.840 whether it's a significant other or like a friend, where 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:54.320 there's a person who plans and a person who is 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:56.720 just there to chill and go along with the plan. Right, 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:01.000 Hayley's the planner. Obviously I am chiller and go along 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:05.520 with the plan. But I was thinking about you and Robbie. 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:08.360 It's interesting you wouldn't suspect, but what do you guess? 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:11.640 I find you both to be equally planners. 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.720 But you've been on vacation with me, and what do 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:15.280 I like to do? 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:16.440 Chill? 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:21.280 I think that's shocking to everybody, that is because the 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:22.200 control thing. 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:23.880 Yeah, you let go. 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:26.560 So uh. 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:28.320 It's like more of a little dance that we do 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.800 when we go on vacation because he likes to plan. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.199 He likes to have the things and the adventures, the adventures, 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.720 and I like to. I'm like, I want to. I 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:39.720 want to have time to just like chill. So it 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:41.760 depends on where the vacation is. But I feel like 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.000 he does all the planning and then all say I 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.199 need a day here, or like this is too much 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:47.880 in one day. 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:49.960 So I kind of like manage the plan. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:51.120 I groom the plan. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.160 Okay, So if you and I went on a trip. 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:56.480 You we would do nothing. 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:00.320 Who I would love that. 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:02.120 I feel like you'd be trying to like make me 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:03.640 get up and work out and stuff. 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.120 Oh yeah, well that's in there, okay. But I can 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:09.240 also work out on my own, like I can swim 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:11.640 in the ocean. That to me is a workout. Yes, 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:13.560 so you can lay and do nothing and I'll go 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:14.320 swim in the ocean. 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:16.400 Yeah. Haley would be like, all right, I'm really hot 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:17.320 and I'm like all. 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:18.600 Right, go get in the water. And she's like, but 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:20.480 it's so much. 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.840 Oh no, that would stress me out. 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:25.760 Oh no, we had a lot. It was. It was 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:27.160 just like the perfect vacation. 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:31.640 Although you know, we got into the only arguments that 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.920 got into was her trying to take photos for me, 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:35.440 which they're bad. 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:36.720 They're bad. 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:40.480 It's not her, it's not the photographer, it's me. It's like, 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:42.920 I don't like the way I look, But there's nothing 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:45.800 that Like if I'm taking a photo in a bikini, 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:51.120 there's no, there's not really anything that can change that. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:52.640 Yeah, there is. 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:53.840 I mean, like an angle. 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.000 Do you remember the contortions you used to do for 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.920 me when I was posting up my thirst track to 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:00.360 Forget the Wai Trip. 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.320 Oh yeah, yeah, we were doing some tricks. 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:06.520 I was basically doing like acrobatics on the tree. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:08.559 Move your lip, lift your arms. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:09.400 Put your hand there. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:13.439 No, but it is hard when you have someone who 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:14.160 like Haley. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:17.760 I will say, she makes me feel so beautiful that 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.120 when I do see a bad foot, because she's like 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.960 HIPing me up like crazy. She's like, babe, you're not 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:26.200 gonna believe this. You look and say, but I'm like 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:30.800 I'm done taking photos trip and she's like what. 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:34.520 She's like, you need to go to a mental institution. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:37.360 Too, like take up it. Oh my god, you know 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.320 you look so beautiful it, now take a do it. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:41.640 In portrait mode. I'm like, wow, I better look a man. 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.120 I got to look so amazing right now. I'll show 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.920 me the photo and I'm like, oh, that's what. 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:50.360 We've had this discussion before. Shouldn't the opinion of the 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.000 outsider be more valid than your opinion because you're all 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:56.640 too hard on yourself and have a very very specific 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:58.960 way you think you look good. But we the people 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:01.040 who love you. Like I said to my wife the 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:03.720 other morning, she was wearing something I thought like hot. 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:06.920 It wasn't anything she was. She like rolled her eyes 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:09.000 at me, like you're insane that you think this is hot. 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:10.679 She was on like a pajama top that was kind 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.040 off of her shoulder, and I was like, that's really hot. 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:15.320 And we got to like mask. 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:19.400 Well had a reason for the mask anyway that I 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:21.679 feel like that's the more valid opinion. If the person 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:23.800 observing you beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:26.120 I hear you, I hear you. 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.640 I want to you never. 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:32.079 Will, but you should. You should trust that I should. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:33.680 But I don't know. 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:37.679 So, yeah, that was tough. She was like, we were 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:39.360 out on that map at one point. 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:44.080 This is day so broad, daylight, vulnerable lighting, straight down. 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:47.040 Yeah, you know the kind not Golden hour. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:53.080 Gold That Golden hour could make Cyclops look like Cleopatra. 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:57.640 I tell you that magic hour, Golden Hour. 0:11:58.120 --> 0:11:59.760 Someone read the Cleopatrick book recently? 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:03.960 Did I tell you that Robbie bought it for me 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:09.600 for oka returned it. Oh, but she's fresh on my mind. 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:12.280 Yeah, she left him back small one. 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:18.560 But yeah, Golden hour is magic, yeah, but overhead sun tragic. 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:20.040 Yeah. 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:22.840 And so she was like, got the shot, took a ton. 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:31.080 I have never deleted so fast, not only deleted, recently deleted. 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:32.920 Yeah, those need to go. 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:35.960 So I see one of those. They're gone, all the 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:36.520 way gone. 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:41.560 No one left, not a single one, not from that session. Anyways, 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:42.800 she did get some. 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.199 Gorgeous silhouette where you can't really see do you just 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:46.920 see the back of me. 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:48.480 Nice, so we'll keep those. 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:52.560 But yeah, we had such a absolute lovely time, and 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.920 I'm so happy she's home. We got home immediately. Then 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:59.640 stay started organizing, and because you went to the same home, 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:01.600 we went to the same home as your home. 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:03.439 She's like, I don't know where any of my stuff is. 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:04.960 I don't know where it goes. She was panicking, and 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:07.560 I'm like, when have we had time? You got home, 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:10.840 we had stuff going on, then we went on a trip, 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.160 so let's do it today. So we organize it. And 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:16.160 all of a sudden, she's like, I feel so much better. 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.080 All right, great, I still can't believe you guys live together. 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:20.960 It's official. 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:21.800 It's official. 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:26.719 Yeah, and it's so far, so good. So it's been 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:29.120 what day do we get? Three days? 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:29.960 Nice? 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:30.880 Thank you so much? 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:31.439 Feel solid? 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:32.160 Yeah? Strong? 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:33.199 You can make you know what they say, if you 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:36.480 make it three days, you can make it three thousand 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:37.679 million days. 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.680 She was wearing her G necklace, which a lot of 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.080 people were like, cause that was really fresh off the 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.880 comments about me saying I got the matching rings, but 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:46.560 she won't wear the B. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.600 And the G is for girls like girls. But everyone 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:52.319 was like, so she'll wear a G but. 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:52.719 Not a V. 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:58.160 But you know, so she likes letters, obviously interesting letters. 0:13:58.520 --> 0:13:59.960 She's like, babe, why are you starting drama. 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:02.800 I'm like, I just was talking about it and then 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:04.680 you came home with a g's. 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:05.800 I can't help it. 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:10.800 It was like subterranean or what's the word. I don't know, subconscious. 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.719 It was just manifested, you know, whatever you want to 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:20.160 call it. But anyways, it was it was really really 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:22.360 fun when ziplining for the first time. 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:23.560 What island did you go to? 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:26.880 Went to Kona, which the big Island? Yeah, the Big 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:31.360 Island which we went before last when. 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.400 Was that like January? And we that was our first 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:37.840 time there. We went right before COVID shutdown for BRIT's birthday. 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:38.720 Tacona. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.800 Thought I was gonna be stuck there for the two 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:42.680 weeks that I felt that. 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.280 I was like, we could do this for two. 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:49.520 Weeks and then so we went back and had the 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:51.600 best time. But I think it's the island where like 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:55.160 if you want to just go and like be in 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:58.080 lay and swim in the ocean at the resort, it's great, 0:14:58.080 --> 0:14:59.920 but it's not like a ton of adventuring. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.880 I feel like, not a lot of activities. 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.560 Yeah, like I feel like Kawai, there's like waterfalls. Maybe 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:08.080 there was a waterfall. We zips lined over one cruise 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.920 right over it. So yeah, it was really fun. We 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:12.640 had a great time. Thanks for asking. 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:16.119 Do you feel recharge, rejuvenated, refreshed. 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:21.840 Yeah, but like my life's pretty recharged and rejuvenated and 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:22.720 refreshed mostly. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:25.360 I read this article that said eight days is like 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:29.440 the ideal time for a vacation. Like eight days is 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:30.320 like the sweet spot. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.760 What happens after the eight days? Are you too recharged? 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:33.600 It's like too much? 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:36.040 Yeah, that you start to maybe it becomes a habit 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:38.400 and you can't get into that habit of like vacation, 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:38.760 you know. 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.960 Oh yeah, that makes sense. I agree with that eight days. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.760 We always do two weeks in Wisconsin for the summer 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.200 and at Christmas, and that second week it's not the 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:48.760 same feeling as that first week. 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:50.680 Really, that's so interesting. 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:53.160 Because I've already got the scaries. We're going back. 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:54.960 I'm cutting off four more days though, three more days. 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.480 I gotta go back to work, right, But also it's 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.760 just this seems like left to do. It seems like 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.240 you've seen these people you're seeing them now for the 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:05.240 fifth time, sixth time. It's just it's too long. I 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.960 think it's too long. Yeah, eight days, eight days, stick 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:08.880 with me, kid, Okay. 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:11.840 It was interesting because we went on a Sunday and 0:16:11.840 --> 0:16:14.080 we came back on a Saturday, and I loved that 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.520 we still had the Sunday Oh that is. 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:18.520 There are two types of people in this world. 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:19.520 Tell me about that. 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:23.360 There are the people who scrimp every last minute of 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:24.960 their vacation, so if they have to go back to 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.160 work on Monday, they will fly in Sunday night at 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:28.840 nine pm or whatever, go to bed and go to 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:31.560 work next day. And then there are those people who 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.800 need the day to like go to the grocery store, 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:35.440 do laundry, et cetera, et cetera. 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:39.120 I am the latter, shockingly me too, which you would 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:40.240 think I'd be the scrimper. 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:45.080 Yeah, scrimping, Yeah, just scrimping away for every minute. No no, no. 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:47.960 Wow, Yeah that was nice. Do you all call with 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.360 Wisconsin the cheese state? Because I kept referring to as 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.000 a cheese state. 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.880 We get that America's dairy Land is the official oh 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:55.800 wow name or the Badger state. 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:56.560 But yes we are. 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:58.960 We are known for our cheese and we wear wedges 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:00.560